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Speaker 1: First of all, you don't know me. We all about

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Speaker 1: that high school drama.

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Speaker 2: Girl drama girl, all about them.

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Speaker 3: High school queens. We'll take you for a ride, and

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Speaker 3: our comic girl shared for the right teams drama queens

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Speaker 3: up girl fashion, but your tough girl, you could sit

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Speaker 4: Girl Drama, Queens, Drama, Queens Drama, Queens Drama, John mc

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Speaker 2: Hello friends, Happy New Year, and we're so excited to

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Speaker 2: welcome a member of our family to the show this week.

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Speaker 2: She's been with us so much this year. She's such

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Speaker 2: an amazing friend and supporter, but we weren't able to

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Speaker 2: at all. So now we finally get to ask her

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Speaker 2: all of the questions. Friends, Tory DeVito's here today. Guys,

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Speaker 2: you are great. How are you.

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Speaker 1: I'm good.

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Speaker 5: We're so happy to have you on because we couldn't

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Speaker 5: we weren't allowed to talk about the one thing that

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 5: And of course our base can where your shower would be,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. I remember like this one time I

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Speaker 2: I also wonder if there's something too, you know, people

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Speaker 5: Like yeah, exactly, so easy to look you up and

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Speaker 2: You know, and like people come to conventions with us

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Speaker 2: and like, you know, even you and I getting to

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Speaker 2: like we you know, we have we have a bigger

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's so hard to get into it. Yeah, I

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Speaker 5: you're not living with it. You're not waiting in anticipation

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Speaker 5: for a week to find out what the hell is

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Speaker 5: going to happen. Yeah, you just answer your instant gratification

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Speaker 5: bad for everyone, everyone except you because now the fans

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Speaker 1: Real for all the villains out there, we've really thrived

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Speaker 2: Yeah, was it hard at all, like being in the

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Speaker 2: the death episode? Was it bitter sweet? Or was it

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Speaker 6: This is like a really cool way to go out.

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Speaker 2: And did you have to did you do research on

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Speaker 1: like finding that grounding of like why she's doing this

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Speaker 6: Even like I think I had to hold the revolver.

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Speaker 1: I was like, she's gonna look silly.

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Speaker 1: that I've had that and in a little bit, you

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, and now I'm like, where's.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, is there a Wormington?

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Speaker 1: What time will we be finished?

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Speaker 5: That's right? Well, speaking of Wilmington, tell us about your

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Speaker 5: experience in Wilming team because you came in in uh

440
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Speaker 5: was it the summer. I'm trying to remember the time

441
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,200
Speaker 5: in the season that you came in and like, yeah,

442
00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:58,840
Speaker 5: what was going on in your life when you got

443
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:00,800
Speaker 5: this job? Just give us away of the land.

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Speaker 6: So I definitely remember being hot the whole time I

445
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Speaker 6: was there. I loved Wilmington. I mean it is so charming.

446
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Speaker 6: It was the first time I had ever had kill One's.

447
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Speaker 1: Ice cream and I remember just like the hotel I

448
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,280
Speaker 1: was saying out was so close to it, and I

449
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 1: was like, this is amazing. Like I was like on

450
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:23,879
Speaker 1: the water every night, having ice cream every night. And

451
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Speaker 1: it was interesting because I moved. I moved to LA

452
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Speaker 1: when I was eighteen, and so being in Wilmington when

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Speaker 1: I was like twenty four was the first time I

454
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,239
Speaker 1: was back for a long period of time. I had

455
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Speaker 1: spent my formative years in high school. I mean in

456
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Speaker 1: high school. I spent my formative years in high school.

457
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 1: I spent my formative years in Florida, and so Florida's

458
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 1: weather is very similar to Wilmington. Yes, and my parents

459
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Speaker 1: split when I was nineteen and it was really really

460
00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:52,159
Speaker 1: difficult for me and my whole family dynamic changed.

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Speaker 6: And I remember I was in a rental car in

462
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 6: Wilmington and it has that those huge rain drops, like

463
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Speaker 6: that downpour that LA does not get.

464
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 1: You only get that like in the South.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, And I had an experience that since high school.

466
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,159
Speaker 6: And I remember I pulled over and just started sobbing

467
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:11,680
Speaker 6: because it felt like home but like letting go and.

468
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Speaker 1: All these things. And I had that moving in Wilmington.

469
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 1: So whenever I think of Wilmington now still, I just

470
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,919
Speaker 1: I always think of that moment, like it did so

471
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 1: much to heal a lot that I was going through,

472
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:26,639
Speaker 1: which was really beautiful. And then I also like I

473
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:28,640
Speaker 1: loved being there. I didn't want to leave. I found

474
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 1: this amazing Kwanti teacher that I would go see for

475
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: like private. She was so incredible. Like I just started

476
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:37,719
Speaker 1: being a vegetarian and I was like eating just potatoes

477
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 1: every day because back then, like in this it was

478
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 1: very difficult.

479
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 5: Matt Damon was farming potatoes on Mars and you were like,

480
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 5: that is a good idea.

481
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 1: That idea, so it was really special. It was really

482
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Speaker 1: And then I also feel really lucky because I know,

483
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 1: me and Mikayla McManus came on the show at the same.

484
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,959
Speaker 6: Time, and I just like fell in love with her.

485
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 6: She's so incredible and I loved that we.

486
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:07,919
Speaker 1: Were both like newbies at the same time, so I

487
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:09,919
Speaker 1: feel like we got to like kind of lean on

488
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 1: each other in that way. And I was like, oh,

489
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 1: what a better person to kind of have that experience

490
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 1: with because she was so lovely and wonderful.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, I remember having you guys over to my apartment.

492
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, pasta, you made us dinner.

493
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 5: I made dinner, that's right, you guys were Yeah, the

494
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 5: New Girls. That was fun. That was a really fun night.

495
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 5: It was nice to connect with you both. I remember

496
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 5: just how smart you both were, but I loved I

497
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:54,159
Speaker 5: felt like we had a really good table conversation and

498
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 5: it was so nice to just, I don't know, be

499
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,239
Speaker 5: in a space. I love that age when and you

500
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 5: really have nothing but time and you're just happy to

501
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 5: sit and get to know anybody and spend the time,

502
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:10,639
Speaker 5: and you can like I long for those days. I

503
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 5: long for being able to cut enough out of my

504
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 5: schedule so that I can just have anybody over for dinner,

505
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,120
Speaker 5: just sit and get to know you. I'm like, our

506
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:24,239
Speaker 5: curiosity starts to get overshadowed by all the things that

507
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 5: we have to just accomplish, and we don't have as

508
00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 5: much time to sit in that curiosity and miss those days.

509
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 2: It's interesting you talk about it that way. I feel

510
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 2: the same, Like it feels like we have so much

511
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 2: to manage and do, and days can go by where

512
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 2: you're just sort of taking off the to do list.

513
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,439
Speaker 2: And when I think about that time and you guys

514
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 2: both coming out, and what a just lovely injection of

515
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 2: spirit you both were to all of us because we've

516
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 2: been there for so long. I remember, like I just

517
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 2: I just think about the nights of you know, going

518
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 2: to circa or going to the brasserie and like getting

519
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,959
Speaker 2: a mac and cheese. I'm and in this moment, I'm like,

520
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,439
Speaker 2: isn't that so crazy? Because we were working, you know,

521
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 2: sixteen hours a day and still being like I want

522
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 2: to go to dinner. Yeah, yeah, And it does sort

523
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,120
Speaker 2: of feel like now we're in this time. Maybe it's

524
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 2: because we have smartphones and we're supposed to be on

525
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 2: an email like every second of the day, but we're

526
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,959
Speaker 2: we're just like slammed with work. And I miss that too.

527
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 2: I missed like the smell of Wilmington and all of

528
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 2: us wrapping and walking out to base camp and being like.

529
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Speaker 1: Should we go?

530
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 2: Are we gonna go to the beach or are we

531
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 2: gonna go downtown? Like where are we gonna get a table?

532
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 2: And gap? That was so nice?

533
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 5: Is that youth or is that the product of the

534
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 5: age that we're in, Like do you think the older

535
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 5: generation twenty years ago did have time to slow down

536
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,160
Speaker 5: or worth? Is it always you just the older you get,

537
00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:00,080
Speaker 5: the busier you get, and you just start steamrolling snowball

538
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,400
Speaker 5: into occupied.

539
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 1: I feel it's a combo.

540
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 2: I do too.

541
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,199
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a combo. I do think that

542
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: as you get older, like things like like, but I

543
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,959
Speaker 1: also think like this age with cell phones and like

544
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: like you just said, there's no cut off for your emails,

545
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: there's no cut off for phone calls, especially now. I mean, Joy,

546
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 1: you're on the East coast right, It's like, so we're

547
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:25,679
Speaker 1: three hours ahead of la or and uh and so

548
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 1: you know, if somebody's calling me at six pm there,

549
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 1: it's nine pm here, Like when do I when do

550
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 1: you at all? You know, and it's like when do

551
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,439
Speaker 1: we draw that line? And I find that to be

552
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 1: so hard with cell phones.

553
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, well for me too, it's the blessing and the

554
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 2: curse of being connected. You know, we're more connected than

555
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 2: we've ever been, but we're also more stressed out than

556
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 2: we've ever been. And you know, I think it's also

557
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 2: it's so incredible that so many people can have creative

558
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 2: careers now, and it means that everyone needs a job

559
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 2: and a side hustle. You know, we all have day

560
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 2: jobs and then we do this job and then we

561
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 2: do other jobs and we do It's like there's so

562
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 2: much available, but it also means that every moment of

563
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 2: your time is taken. Yeah, and you know are we

564
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 2: are we more connected than we ever have been.

565
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 5: Like I know the ease of functional like I guess

566
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 5: literal communication is easier.

567
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 2: And that's what I mean A little bit is like

568
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 2: what Tory was saying about if somebody from your office

569
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,400
Speaker 2: on the West Coast calls you at six, but it's

570
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 2: nine and you're at dinner with your parents but you're

571
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 2: trying to close I don't know a deal for a film,

572
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 2: like do you pick up the phone or not? How

573
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 2: do you set boundaries? We are expected to be connected

574
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 2: all the time. We do have more access to information,

575
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 2: but it also does create a sort of vacuum of

576
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 2: I think intimacy because in a way, you know, like today,

577
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 2: for whatever reason, I slept with my sliding door open

578
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 2: and the birds woke me up up at five, which

579
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 2: was so lovely. But yeah, like I was up at

580
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 2: five am and I was like, well, what am I

581
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 2: going to do with myself? It's five o'clock in the morning,

582
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 2: so it's pittering around the house and make coffee. And

583
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 2: then I started checking on everyone on Instagram because I

584
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 2: was like, what's everybody doing, and I knew we were

585
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 2: going to talk today, and I was like, is there

586
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 2: anything that's happened in Tory's life in the last couple

587
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 2: of weeks that I don't know about? So I'm scrolling

588
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 2: and then I was like, Oh, I just love that

589
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 2: pumpkin photo. And I'm like looking at this picture of

590
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 2: you with a pumpkin, and I'm and I'm like, she's

591
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 2: just so happy.

592
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 5: But she has no idea that you're well exactly in

593
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 5: the So it's this.

594
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 2: Really interesting thing right where we can kind of say, oh,

595
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 2: I miss this person, Oh I want to check on someone,

596
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 2: but are we really connecting? So again, I think it's

597
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 2: I think what happens is as these things expand, as

598
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 2: these avenues of connection and opportunity grow, in a way,

599
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 2: as they get wider, they get a little shallower because

600
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 2: you really can only hold so much. So you can

601
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,479
Speaker 2: hold columns that are narrow and deep, or you can

602
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 2: hold nine columns that are shallower and wider across. And

603
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 2: I don't know necessarily what's better, but I do think

604
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 2: it is the journey of our generation, certainly to try

605
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 2: to figure out how to bridge this divide.

606
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, because we're the only ones that remember what it

607
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 5: was like before and really fully embraced the current, even like, Yeah,

608
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 5: I was singing the other day about the fact that,

609
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 5: in you know, nineteen ninety five, we were all listening

610
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 5: to exactly the same songs in the radio and watching

611
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 5: exactly the same shows on TV because that's all anybody

612
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 5: had access to. Like every single person in the United

613
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 5: States was listening to Mariah Carey sing Hero on the

614
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 5: radio do you know what I mean? Or Nirvana, I

615
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 5: don't know when I should have a song list up

616
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 5: in front of me right.

617
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 2: Now, Nirvana, Tupac, Maria, all these these like change makers

618
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 2: of culture, and we all knew them.

619
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 5: We all were doing it at the exact same time,

620
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 5: like every yeah, like every kid was sinking Gangs's Paradise

621
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 5: with every Middle America because dangerous Minds came out and

622
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 5: we all were watching everything the same. And so even

623
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 5: though we weren't maybe connected talking about it all like

624
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 5: we knew that that's we were sharing this cultural sameness.

625
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 5: And now it's all so so so different for better

626
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 5: in a lot of ways. It's so nice to have

627
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 5: the variety and to be able to have access to

628
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 5: things that you wouldn't normally see in your current bubble.

629
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 5: But it is kind of weird to be like, oh,

630
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 5: there's just so many options now that we're not I think,

631
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 5: actually that's one of the things to type back to

632
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 5: our show, because our show was one of the last

633
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 5: of that breed where everybody everybody was watching it. Yeah,

634
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 5: it was right before all that all the options came out.

635
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 2: I mean it's wild to watch, you know, even to

636
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 2: be watching these episodes and all of our characters are

637
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 2: on flip phones. Like you couldn't text Novella's back and

638
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 2: forth between your friends. You had to get on the

639
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 2: phone because to type the word the took nineteen key

640
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 2: tags like on TEENNI. It was just different. And now

641
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 2: you know people like I have a friend who edited

642
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 2: a book they wrote on an iPhone, just like, oh yeah,

643
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 2: every time I was on a flight, I was editing

644
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 2: my chapters and you know is miming this the thumb

645
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 2: taps and I'm going, whoa we are from our grandparents

646
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 2: or our parents rather to our children. Like the shift

647
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 2: is so big, It's just so big.

648
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: Yeah.

649
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 2: We saw around the world in the sort of last

650
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 2: big political cycle what fake news did, but how it

651
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 2: looks like real news on all these social websites, on Facebook,

652
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 2: on X on everything, and you think about media literacy

653
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 2: and how we're starting to talk about we've got to

654
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 2: teach it to kids, not just college students in journalism class,

655
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 2: for example. But it's like, we can't forget that in

656
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 2: when was the first silent picture? I can't remember if

657
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 2: it was like nineteen twelve or nineteen twenty, but.

658
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 5: It was in that era twenty is I think?

659
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 2: Okay, So let's say nineteen twenty, nineteen twenty one. People

660
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 2: go to the first Silent movie. There was a shot

661
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 2: of a train coming toward camera, and you know, we

662
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 2: do stuff like that all the time. We put the

663
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 2: camera on the road and the car barrels toward us

664
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: and we watch and we're like, oh, why speed chase.

665
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:30,239
Speaker 2: But at the first Silent movie, when the train was

666
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 2: barreling toward the audience on screen, everyone got up and

667
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 2: ran out of the theater screaming.

668
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 5: They freaked out because people.

669
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 2: Didn't know that something they were seeing in front of

670
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 2: them was not going to leave the screen, because they'd

671
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 2: never seen something that wasn't three D before.

672
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 5: I think this is an eighteen ninety five, okay, short

673
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 5: film that you're talking about. Okay, obviously would have been

674
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 5: silent at that, yes, but still wow.

675
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 2: So let's call it just barely over one hundred years.

676
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 2: We ran out of theaters because we thought trains on film,

677
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 2: we're real, and now we're supposed to like know how

678
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 2: to do this.

679
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 5: Just over one hundred years. And then think about, just

680
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 5: on a very personal level, how long it takes for

681
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 5: personal change. We think about the people that we know

682
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 5: who are fifty sixty seventy, and people can change, I believe,

683
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:22,360
Speaker 5: throughout their course of their life, and they grow and

684
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 5: they evolve, but it doesn't happen overnight. So now you

685
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,839
Speaker 5: are going to apply that to an entire culture and

686
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 5: say everything's supposed to be different, boom within one hundred years.

687
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 5: It's not that much time.

688
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 1: Sometimes you can be sixty five and still working on

689
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 1: something that your parents did in your childhood.

690
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 5: Two hundred thousand percent.

691
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: Let alone this big massive shift, it's really hardy. It

692
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: honestly makes me more and more reclusive for lack of

693
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 1: a better word, because I still like connect with my

694
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,479
Speaker 1: family and friends and you.

695
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 6: Know, go and play on my tennis teams here and there,

696
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:54,879
Speaker 6: But like.

697
00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:00,399
Speaker 1: It's cut me like off like I've been and like

698
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 1: I get very I just don't want anything to do

699
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 1: with it. It freaks me out, and so I have

700
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 1: these like little tactics I'll do, like I don't I

701
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: try not to charge my phone. I'll charge my phone

702
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 1: in my car, but I won't charge it at night,

703
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: so hoping that it dies throughout the day and then

704
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 1: I don't have access to the charger now, like kind

705
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 1: of like let it die.

706
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,320
Speaker 5: What a funny subconscious game to play with yourself.

707
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 1: My fiance will like call me, so my my mom

708
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: and my sisters, they don't even call me anymore.

709
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 6: They just call my fance Jared because they're like.

710
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 1: Why did you call me there?

711
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 6: Because you never answer your photo, Like I can't. I

712
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 6: just there's got to be aligned sometimes, you know what

713
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 6: I mean.

714
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: But then on the flip side, sometimes I've realized that

715
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: lately it's been making it so I'm kind of like

716
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,800
Speaker 1: lacking in what's going on, and I like to know

717
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 1: what's going on. So it's like, how do you find

718
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 1: that balance? How do you connect with your friends while

719
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 1: also not being so like allowing that you know, well,

720
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: you didn't get back to me for a couple of

721
00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 1: days and.

722
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 6: It's like, oh, that's okay, that's okay, you know what

723
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 6: I mean.

724
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 2: It's like we need that.

725
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:07,240
Speaker 5: Balance different priorities. Yes, yeah, but everybody's living with different

726
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 5: realities in their life, different priorities that they have to

727
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:13,839
Speaker 5: set into place because everybody can't do everything, and all

728
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 5: the more reason why empathy is really important to be

729
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 5: able to, you know, recognize that everyone's growing at different paces.

730
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 5: Everybody has to prioritize different things. It's not going to

731
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 5: be a perfect process, you know.

732
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 6: But when you're just viewing things off on the internet,

733
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 6: like how you know, is that building empathy or is

734
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 6: that taking it away?

735
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 5: Like we're talking, Yeah, it's taken it away. But can

736
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 5: you have empathy for the person who's doing that understanding

737
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 5: that where they came from and the pace that they're

738
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 5: growing at is different than yours. And how do we

739
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 5: walk that fine line? Because it's really nuanced. It's not

740
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 5: an easy black and white like you get on this checklist,

741
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 5: you get on that checklist.

742
00:36:55,520 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: It's tough. Yeah. I actually remember this happening with the

743
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:05,879
Speaker 1: start of reality TV because I remember it was so new,

744
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: I mean, beyond the real world, like that was something

745
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:10,839
Speaker 1: we had all watched. But when they started doing these

746
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 1: and you saw everybody fighting and going at each other

747
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 1: and getting like smashed on TV in a way that

748
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,759
Speaker 1: you're like, ooh, that person clearly is hurting to be

749
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: doing this to their body repetitively. I remember my little

750
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: sister and I got into an argument because she wanted

751
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: to watch something while we were eating and I was like,

752
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 1: it was over the holidays, we were home for Christmas,

753
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,400
Speaker 1: and I was like, turn it off. It makes me uncomfortable.

754
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 1: And she's like, oh my god, get over it, and

755
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,399
Speaker 1: I was like, no, I think that it's putting this

756
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,760
Speaker 1: weird energy in the house and then it does something

757
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,839
Speaker 1: to our psyche, like I want nothing to do with it. Yeah,

758
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 1: now cut to like what fifteen years later or something.

759
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 6: I watched The Housewives all the time.

760
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: I have Reality on my care and there, you know,

761
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: shifted your window. It shifted my window. So it's like

762
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: my threshold went up for this. But it's definitely I

763
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 1: can say for me, I don't even think it's not

764
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: a good thing. I don't it's I know it's not

765
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:03,319
Speaker 1: a good thing, do you know what I mean?

766
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:18,839
Speaker 2: Like I don't like that, Okay, can I give you

767
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 2: guys a wreck. It's we're taking a left, but it

768
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:25,320
Speaker 2: is related. Stay with me here. I can't handle that stuff,

769
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 2: like so many and to each his own. Like, I

770
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,959
Speaker 2: know a lot of people love reality TV. I can't

771
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 2: do it. It stresses me out. It's bad for me emotionally.

772
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

773
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,320
Speaker 2: Also to be clear, like one of the things I

774
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 2: find the most stressful in the world, even though I

775
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 2: watch them because I think he's funny, or Adam Sandler movies,

776
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 2: because watching someone make mistakes for two hours and like

777
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 2: set their life on fire is so I have to

778
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 2: walk around the house, I have to take breaks. My

779
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 2: friends are like, are you okay? I like, no, I

780
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:54,280
Speaker 2: can't handle it, Like it gives me a full panic.

781
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,799
Speaker 2: This man, he just needs to tell people like so,

782
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 2: I understand that I am my own brad anxious human.

783
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 2: But the reality show Lane that I love, and you

784
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 2: have a farm, and we're all a little exhausted by

785
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 2: technology and would like to be disconnected. It's why you know.

786
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 2: I've had Instagram paralysis for at least six months. I

787
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 2: can't be there anymore. I don't know what to do

788
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 2: about it. I try to share a little news in

789
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 2: my stories every day and pretty much that's almost it.

790
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 2: My respite in reality TV is a show on the

791
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 2: History Channel called Alone. Have you watched it? No, you guys.

792
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 2: It is like it is a survivalist show about incredible

793
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 2: like hunters, outdoors men, environmental experts who know every herb

794
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 2: and leaf and mushroom in the forest, and they go

795
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 2: and they compete and they literally get dropped off in

796
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 2: the middle of nowhere alone and they have to be

797
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 2: their own camera crew and they get checked. I think

798
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:02,920
Speaker 2: it's like every ten days they come in and they

799
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 2: bring a medical team to make sure no one is

800
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 2: you know, emaciated and dying.

801
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 1: Because you have to.

802
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 2: Live off the land, you get to bring ten things

803
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 2: with you and then the gear that they give to

804
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 2: everyone that is the same and you just have to survive.

805
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 2: Oh wow, all isolation, I mean all.

806
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 5: Sorts of things practically, Not practically, I mean emotionally, because

807
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 5: you're saying this is your respite, Like, what are you

808
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 5: walking away with?

809
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 2: I just can't stop watching it. I'm fascinated by the

810
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 2: human spirit. I think one of the things I really

811
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 2: like about it is watching these people be in such

812
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 2: connection to nature, but that it always circles back to

813
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 2: why they love the people in their lives, Like it

814
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 2: really is human connection that we live for, and it's

815
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 2: our connection with nature. I think that enriches our life.

816
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:51,760
Speaker 2: And oh my god, you guys, it's just so good.

817
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: It is so good and you just learn all this

818
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 2: shit about Like I'm like, you know what, prior to

819
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 2: starting this show, I probably would have died in the

820
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 2: woods in three Now I think I can make it

821
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 2: a solid seven. Like I think I would last seven

822
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 2: days and then I might die. But like, I've really

823
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 2: learned a lot a whole week. Great, I'm telling you this.

824
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 2: We are not getting paid to advertise this show. I'm

825
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 2: just obsessed. I will never be able to go on

826
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:17,759
Speaker 2: it because I am not a trained survival expert, but

827
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:19,280
Speaker 2: I will watch it forever.

828
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:24,359
Speaker 1: Are you not so enious of this information that these

829
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: people have?

830
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 5: So much?

831
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 1: I just want to know all of it, Like I

832
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 1: think I am so bad at like gardening and all most.

833
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 2: I want to learn. If you want to start a

834
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 2: gardening club, I'm in. I have a plant club.

835
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 5: Here in Nashville. Great, we literally get together go dig

836
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:42,399
Speaker 5: up plants and talk about them.

837
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 1: My god, I would love that let's do it. Oh

838
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: my god, can we FaceTime in one hundred percent?

839
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 2: We can just we can group chat it. See, this

840
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 2: is where the cell phones are helpful. But like, we'll

841
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 2: get there. We'll be like, no, we're we're doing tech,

842
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 2: but we're doing it to get into the dirt and that's.

843
00:41:58,160 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 5: How we get How else are you going to get

844
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:02,399
Speaker 5: into all that information except by not being on your

845
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 5: email and not being on your phone and just going

846
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 5: out there and getting into it.

847
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 2: And it's good to do in community because when you

848
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 2: do it with your friends, then you're like, well, what

849
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 2: did you grow this week?

850
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 1: It's a dream, right, what'd you grow?

851
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't wait to talk to you

852
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:17,760
Speaker 2: guys after you both watch your first episode of Alone.

853
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 2: I'm vibrating.

854
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 5: I'm so excited to watch it.

855
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:20,760
Speaker 1: I can't wait.

856
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 2: It's so good. It's a perfect holiday show.

857
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 5: Let's all just grow mushrooms and become experts at those

858
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 5: I would love that. Okay, they're asking us to move

859
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 5: on to some question, producer, are ridiculous.

860
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 2: There are fan questions stop talking about surviving in the.

861
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 5: Woods, speaking of Nanny Carey in the Woods. The questions

862
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 5: are pretty funny here actually Oh, here's a really good one.

863
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 5: Speaking of Nanny Carey in the Woods from Jackie, how

864
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 5: did you deal with the roach cereal that you had

865
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 5: to feed? Dan?

866
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 1: You have to remember this. I definitely remember this. First

867
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 1: of all.

868
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 6: One of the most fascinating parts of.

869
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: This I remember is there is like I didn't know

870
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: there were certain different breeds of cockroach. Oh, the different breeds,

871
00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:15,240
Speaker 1: and they use a specific breed for film and TV

872
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: because they're more.

873
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 6: Trainable these ones. What That's what the guy told me.

874
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 1: Whether he was lying to me or not, I never

875
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 1: like fact checked him, but yeah, it was so crazy.

876
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,839
Speaker 6: It's so funny because right now, like if you were like, oh,

877
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 6: feed this cop.

878
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 1: You got it, I'd be like, oh, but I think

879
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 1: I was so in that Nanny Carey roll. I loved it.

880
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: I don't feel so bad for Paulo. I remember that

881
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 1: was the first time, like I looked at him and

882
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 1: I think I even said, I was like, who did

883
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 1: you piss off on this show? You're strapped in a

884
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 1: bed with a cockroach this close to your face. It

885
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 1: was so gross.

886
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,360
Speaker 5: How did he find it? Was he buggy? Was he

887
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 5: okay with the bugs? Or was he a lie? No?

888
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 1: No, I don't think he was particular.

889
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 5: Paul's okay with a lot of things, but I don't.

890
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:04,919
Speaker 1: Think it's hard.

891
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 2: You know, I don't like that one.

892
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,439
Speaker 1: No, So if I dropped it, it's on somebody else

893
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 1: to come over it because I'm sorry.

894
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 2: I also remember because later I don't know if this

895
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,879
Speaker 2: season or next season, but Lisa Goldstein and I had

896
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:21,720
Speaker 2: to do a big scene with a bunch of roaches,

897
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 2: and they are very strict about the fact that you

898
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:29,319
Speaker 2: can't touch them, squish them, hurt them, flick them. So

899
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 2: like your natural instinct with a bug to fling it

900
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:37,400
Speaker 2: off you, and these are like protected set animals, insects,

901
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,720
Speaker 2: and you are not allowed to put them at any

902
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 2: in any sort of risk. So like poor paul A

903
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 2: knows he can't, you know, throw it off of him

904
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,399
Speaker 2: if it falls on them, and be probably isn't even

905
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:51,760
Speaker 2: allowed to anyway. Disgusting, I cannot.

906
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:54,919
Speaker 5: Oh honestly, it kind of makes me feel better knowing

907
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:56,759
Speaker 5: that they're trained. It makes me feel a little bit

908
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 5: more like I care about them more. I could be like, Okay,

909
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 5: you serve a purpose. I guess I don't have to

910
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,399
Speaker 5: be so scared of you, right, I don't know, it's

911
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 5: all psychological.

912
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 1: I've gotten really far in your life, little roach, Like,

913
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to be the one to hurt you.

914
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: Very proud of where you've come, Sophia.

915
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 5: What do they want to what do they want to know?

916
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 1: For me?

917
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 5: This?

918
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 2: I actually think is really interesting because you were saying

919
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 2: this earlier about Jackson, like the moments where you were like,

920
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:26,879
Speaker 2: how is this child not traumatized?

921
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 1: Well?

922
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, were there ever days or moments where he was

923
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 2: afraid of you? Or did you guys gamify this stuff

924
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:37,959
Speaker 2: so much that he was having a good time?

925
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:38,799
Speaker 4: Yeah?

926
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 5: Good question.

927
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 6: I think he was pretty much having a good time.

928
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:46,240
Speaker 1: Because the scene where I kidnap him from the wedding

929
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:48,839
Speaker 1: and I take him to the hotel and that's where

930
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 1: Dan comes and finds me, and he like strangles me

931
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:52,359
Speaker 1: and puts me up, gets a long against him.

932
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 6: You would think for a kid that'd be trauma. They

933
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 6: gave him so much candy.

934
00:45:56,440 --> 00:46:00,080
Speaker 1: This okay, But I saw Jackson literally I watched it

935
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 1: with my own eyes. He ran around the room and

936
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 1: then he went oh because I think he was like

937
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: the sugar high, so hardcore. I was like, oh my god,

938
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: this kid get a pad that from Sugar.

939
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:13,959
Speaker 6: So he had a fantastic time.

940
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 5: I think that's great.

941
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: Oh good, But the corn Maze, I don't know. I

942
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 1: don't know. He may still have dreams about that. I

943
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 1: don't know.

944
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, we'll have to find out. Yeah, find out one day.

945
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,839
Speaker 5: Was it hard being on this one? That was from

946
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 5: Alexa And this last question is from Emma. She's saying,

947
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 5: what was it complicated being on the Vampire Diaries and

948
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:31,879
Speaker 5: Winter Hill at the same time.

949
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: I actually don't think I was. I was on Pretty

950
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:39,320
Speaker 1: Little Liars and Vampire Diurs at the same time alone.

951
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 1: Vampire didn't start yet when I was on One Tree

952
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: Hill with you, because yeah, because Paul and I were

953
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 1: together then, so I remember he started that after I

954
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 1: was done with that, that's right, because he was. I

955
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 1: remember the only episode I did watch. He was doing

956
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 1: Army Wives an episode and I went down there and

957
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 1: we watched the episode together. I totally forgot about that. That

958
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:08,399
Speaker 1: was the one I remember watching in the hotel room

959
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 1: and was like so excited. I think it was like my

960
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 1: first episode coming out. We're like, oh my god, it

961
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 1: was so great. But yeah, so no, I did pre

962
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 1: Little Liars and Vampiredires at the same time, and that

963
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:21,320
Speaker 1: was hard because I did Little Liars for seven years

964
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,319
Speaker 1: and I went so in and out of that show.

965
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 1: I mean I even did the finale while I was

966
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,720
Speaker 1: doing MED, so I was so used to doing everything

967
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 1: else that it wasn't cool.

968
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 5: Do you do you have anything else coming up that

969
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 5: everybody should be paying attention looking out for? What do

970
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 5: you want to talk about and plug?

971
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 1: No? Quite Truthfully, I'm like taking especially the top of

972
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 1: this year to kind of focus on myself and grow

973
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 1: my own little family. So not that I'm taking a break,

974
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 1: It's not like that. I'm just being a little pick

975
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 1: here and kind of waiting for something really special to

976
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:59,839
Speaker 1: take me out. And until then, I'm kind of like ruminating.

977
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 1: Are at home, focusing on a lot of writing things

978
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 1: I want to produce, and yeah, I feel like the

979
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 1: next acting thing that comes through, I just want it

980
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 1: to be something really really special. Because not that I

981
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 1: don't love everything we've done, I mean Montreal, Like, I'm

982
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: so grateful to have been a part of this show

983
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 1: that just keeps going on and on, and you know,

984
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 1: same with the whole like Chicago World and stuff. But

985
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 1: I've never actually watched something that I've done something that

986
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:31,399
Speaker 1: I would actually sit down and watch, So that's kind

987
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 1: of like my new goal for the future time. And

988
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 1: anytime I thought like I was doing a movie that

989
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: I would, I'm like, oh, I'm so excited, it's like

990
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 1: a cool Indie and then it just turned out not

991
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 1: to really like you know, So that's kind of my

992
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 1: goal with things next. But where that goes, I'm not

993
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: quite sure. I'm just kind of like enjoying the holidays

994
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 1: and taking it slow right now.

995
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 5: That's great?

996
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: Yeah?

997
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 5: Nice, Well, I loved having you. I'm so glad you

998
00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 5: came back. We finally got to talk about car.

999
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,839
Speaker 6: I know, I know, I love talking about her.

1000
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:05,879
Speaker 5: I love her.

1001
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 1: I love her.

1002
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,919
Speaker 5: Do you have a favorite Onset moment or Wilmington moment?

1003
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 5: I mean, I know you said the feeling the comfort

1004
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 5: of home from Florida, but anything on set, any fun

1005
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 5: anecdotes for the fans out there.

1006
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 1: Honestly, Joy my most favorite one. And I know I've

1007
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 1: told you this guy. I told you guys this already.

1008
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:28,760
Speaker 1: It was just that first dand Set. I was so nervous,

1009
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 1: but you just made me feel so comfortable and I

1010
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,399
Speaker 1: still have it. I told you you gave me that

1011
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: it had a little turtle on it and it was

1012
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 1: that letter opener. But you knew that I was going

1013
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:44,359
Speaker 1: to try to kind of break you in James up.

1014
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: So you said, like, this is for all the not

1015
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:48,959
Speaker 1: so nice meal you'll probably be getting. But you said

1016
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:50,840
Speaker 1: it and it made me laugh.

1017
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:54,320
Speaker 6: And you used to protect yourself too, Yeah, to protect yourself.

1018
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 1: You made me feel so comfortable, and so that was

1019
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 1: one of the memories. Did you always have that right,

1020
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 1: like you remember the people that really were like impactful

1021
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,319
Speaker 1: or gave you like the good piece of advice or

1022
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 1: really kind of showed up. Because we always talk about

1023
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: as actors it's so hard to go on other people's shows.

1024
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 1: At this point, you're in season five, you're all a

1025
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 1: bit exhausted. You've been doing this forever. You don't have

1026
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 1: to prep the same way somebody knew coming in. So

1027
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 1: when somebody stops and has that like moment of like kindness,

1028
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 1: because you were the first person I met, you were

1029
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: the only person who really worked with for a while.

1030
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 5: So well, that was also that was that was going

1031
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:31,399
Speaker 5: to I mean, that was up to me. I had

1032
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 5: to do that for you because not that I didn't

1033
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:35,879
Speaker 5: want to it's not in me, but like it is.

1034
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 5: But I did feel a way of the responsibility of

1035
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:40,800
Speaker 5: that because I knew you were coming in to exactly

1036
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 5: what you're saying, an established show and you were going

1037
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 5: to try and break up this couple, and like, I didn't.

1038
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 5: I just really didn't want you to think that it

1039
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 5: would like I didn't like you or that, you know,

1040
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 5: because it was just going to be us. Like that

1041
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 5: would have been so awkward for you to come into

1042
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 5: an environment where it was like, oh, God, is she

1043
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:58,440
Speaker 5: actually mad at me? I don't know.

1044
00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 2: Me?

1045
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 1: And then it was really great too because I got

1046
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 1: to reconnect with Daphne, who played my mom on my

1047
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 1: first show and fine, Yeah, we shared fine. So I

1048
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, so there was a lot of like that.

1049
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:17,360
Speaker 1: That show had so many firsts for me that it's like,

1050
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 1: I'll carry that with me for a long time.

1051
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 5: Do you remember going to Fondue with Daphne.

1052
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:28,359
Speaker 1: Daphne, remember she was like, he's never been to Pondu before,

1053
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:30,359
Speaker 1: been fond Wait, you.

1054
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 2: Guys, why was Fondue such a big deal in Wilmington?

1055
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 2: Like I just gave away the Fondue set that I

1056
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 2: bought there. I was like, I'm never going to do this.

1057
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 2: We used to go in Wilmington all the time. I

1058
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 2: don't make fun do at home, Like, who do I

1059
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 2: think I am? And I finally gave it to a friend.

1060
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:48,280
Speaker 2: Was it like a two thousand and six nationwide craze?

1061
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 1: Like it was kind of yes, because I remember in

1062
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: high school too and being very popular, like, oh.

1063
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 5: The rest of the fondue restaurants. Well, there was a

1064
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,440
Speaker 5: fond restaurant the Melting Pot, and we all sat around,

1065
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 5: we had dinner, and Daphne was kind of like she

1066
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 5: was game for it at first, like oh, interesting, okay, fun,

1067
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 5: you know, And we're sticking the raw meat on the

1068
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:11,839
Speaker 5: stick and cooking it over the flames. She's like, how

1069
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 5: long does this take? About an hour and a half

1070
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:17,360
Speaker 5: into the meal, the guy comes over and he's like, okay,

1071
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 5: so I'll clear your plates, can I can I get

1072
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:21,879
Speaker 5: you dessert? And Daphne looks at him and she goes,

1073
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:22,920
Speaker 5: do I have to cook it?

1074
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: I can't believe I remember. So she's like, I can't

1075
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,760
Speaker 1: believe I pay to cook my own food?

1076
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 2: Obsessed? Hey, guys, we should take her to we should

1077
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 2: take her to Korean barbecue in La just to just

1078
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 2: to make her laugh.

1079
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:42,880
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it'd be fun.

1080
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god.

1081
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 5: Well, it's great to see you, mama. You look great.

1082
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:49,320
Speaker 5: You seem so happy.

1083
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:53,360
Speaker 1: Always nice to talk with you. So good to see you. Guys.

1084
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 5: Hey, thanks for listening. Don't forget to leave us a review.

1085
00:52:56,880 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 2: You can also follow us on Instagram at Drama Queens oh.

1086
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 1: Or email us at Drama Queens at iHeartRadio dot com.

1087
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 1: See you next time.

1088
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:11,240
Speaker 3: We all about that high school drama Girl Drama Girl,

1089
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 3: all about them high school queens forever. We'll take you

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Speaker 3: for a ride and our comic girl cheering for the

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Speaker 3: right teams.

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Speaker 2: Drama Queens, raise my girl, rough girl fashion with your

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Speaker 2: tough girl.

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Speaker 1: You could sit with us.

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Speaker 4: Girl Drama Queens, Drama Queise Drama Queens, Drama Drama Queens,

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Speaker 4: Drama Queens