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Speaker 1: best way to get a girl's attention is to just
Speaker 1: elbow or real hard, you know, just like if your
Speaker 1: girl's not giving you the attention, you need to just
Speaker 1: shoulder checker a little bit, let her know that you're
Speaker 1: in the building, and then you're sure to strike up
Speaker 1: a conversation or get assault charges. It could go either way.
Speaker 1: And that's how Mark got the girl's attention that he
Speaker 1: wants to call today. Her name is Rebecca, and apparently
Speaker 1: that's Mark's thing. He'll walk up next to a girl
Speaker 1: and just like throw a shoulder on a real hard
Speaker 1: and then he starts up a conversation. Is that how
Speaker 1: it works? Mark? Uh? Yeah, yeah, I guess so that's
Speaker 1: how it works. I thought he was being sarcastic. I
Speaker 1: think he still is. Yeah, I am being a little
Speaker 1: sarcastic guy. His email said that he bumped into her
Speaker 1: real hard to try to get her attention. So tell
Speaker 1: us how that happened, Mark, Well, not real hard. So anyway, Yes, Rebecca,
Speaker 1: I met her at a club. She absolutely stunning. I
Speaker 1: noticed her right when she walked in, and so I
Speaker 1: immediately started figuring out ways of trying to talk to her.
Speaker 1: So I ended up going over to her and kind
Speaker 1: of dancing there and purposely bumping into her, Like why
Speaker 1: did you bump into me? She was like, Hey, you
Speaker 1: bumped into me, and so that's actually pretty smooth. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I didn't think it was too offensive. So see, I
Speaker 1: was picturing it totally different. I was picturing like you
Speaker 1: guys were playing hockey and she had a drink in
Speaker 1: her hand. He just slammed her up against the wall
Speaker 1: and the drink went everywhere. Yeah, so obviously it worked
Speaker 1: out for you since you got a date with her. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Like I said, man, she was absolutely stunning, slightly out
Speaker 1: of my league, but you know, I mean it worked.
Speaker 1: We chatted up at the club the rest of the night.
Speaker 1: I asked her for a number and she would want
Speaker 1: to go out sometime. She gave it to me. You
Speaker 1: gotta be honest. I was worried that she was going
Speaker 1: to give me the Loser Line segment that we do
Speaker 1: on seven ten and nine ten on Monday mornings, the
Speaker 1: Loser Line phone number. But we didn't hear your voicemail
Speaker 1: on that, so obviously it was a real number. That's nice, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it really was, And so we set it up and
Speaker 1: it was great. Man, I was excited. Did you put
Speaker 1: a lot of thought into what you guys were going
Speaker 1: to do on your date? You know? I actually just
Speaker 1: kind of wanted to keep it casual, just kind of
Speaker 1: started off with dinner and just kind of see where
Speaker 1: it led from there and how did it lead? Was good? Well,
Speaker 1: when I first pulled up to her house, and when
Speaker 1: I walked up to the doors, she had actually opened
Speaker 1: the door before I even knocked, like she was looking
Speaker 1: out the people and expected you, And it was just well,
Speaker 1: if he said he was going to be there at
Speaker 1: a certain time, why wouldn't she. Yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: do that if somebody's coming over to my house, I'll
Speaker 1: look out the windows see if they're there. But I
Speaker 1: never opened the door before they're there. Act like I
Speaker 1: just woke from the knock and be like, oh, there
Speaker 1: you are. It's kind of weird to just be like
Speaker 1: I was sitting right here next to the door and
Speaker 1: open it up. No, it was just for me. It
Speaker 1: was a wonderful surprise. I mean, it got me pretty
Speaker 1: excited that she it seemed like she was that excited. Yeah, totally.
Speaker 1: It's a great side. I think it's awesome. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: what I thought. Then I gave her a hug and
Speaker 1: said we should get out of here, and I made
Speaker 1: some dinner reservations and I go to my car and
Speaker 1: turned around and realized she just was still standing there
Speaker 1: in the doorway, just stood there in the door. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't move. Maybe she was stunned by your good looks.
Speaker 1: What was she doing in the doorway. I don't know
Speaker 1: what she was doing in there. I didn't know, if
Speaker 1: you know, the club light hit me right that night
Speaker 1: and daylight it wasn't so good or I don't know,
Speaker 1: so she seemed stunned. Yeah, I don't know. She just
Speaker 1: kind of stared at me with this weird look, and
Speaker 1: I stared back and just kind of that we should go,
Speaker 1: And I don't know, she kind of stepped into it
Speaker 1: and got in the car. Maybe she was expecting you
Speaker 1: to carry her to the car. Be a gentleman. Everything
Speaker 1: about that man. She was that hot enough that I
Speaker 1: would have done it if she had give her a
Speaker 1: piggyback ride to your car door. Was that the only
Speaker 1: strange thing that happened on your date? Um? Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: sort of you know. Dinner was good, conversation was relatively smooth.
Speaker 1: I kind of was offended that she actually had set
Speaker 1: up something for after our date, which I thought was
Speaker 1: kind of weird. Not knowing that the date was ending
Speaker 1: after dinner, you know, I didn't know if she was
Speaker 1: lying or just making excuses. At that point, I was
Speaker 1: going to say, did she not tell you about that beforehand? No? No,
Speaker 1: no she didn't. I will say, even if she wasn't lying,
Speaker 1: a lot of times, going into a date, a girl
Speaker 1: will set something up just in case as her out
Speaker 1: or as a way to stop herself from going home
Speaker 1: with you that night. Yeah, thanks for trying to be
Speaker 1: nice to him. That doesn't so how did everything in? Then?
Speaker 1: After she said she had plans, she actually had me
Speaker 1: drop her off a few blocks away on a different
Speaker 1: street corner and yeah it was. And as she was
Speaker 1: getting out, I just was like, can I call you again?
Speaker 1: And she just yelled sure, and have you called her?
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be calling you guys if I didn't. And
Speaker 1: how many times have you tried to call her? Probably
Speaker 1: more than I should have. But I mean, I definitely
Speaker 1: want to let her know. I want to go out again.
Speaker 1: And if you know I did do something wrong, I
Speaker 1: don't know, I definitely want to know and see if
Speaker 1: I can fix it or you know, if it turns
Speaker 1: out she's just not attracted to you. Are you gonna
Speaker 1: have hurt feelings? Ah? No, that's fine, that's you know,
Speaker 1: people's preference. It's you know, it's what it is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And you said she was out of your league anyway,
Speaker 1: so you should hard that might happen. So you dropped
Speaker 1: her off on the street corner. He dropped off on
Speaker 1: the street corner, and that's the last you've seen her,
Speaker 1: heard from her. Yeah, So, I mean, alien abduction ever
Speaker 1: crossed your mind? It happened so much, there's TV shows
Speaker 1: about it that happens all the time. I really don't
Speaker 1: think she was abducted by all. Okay, well we'll play
Speaker 1: a song, come back, call her and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. Then all right, thanks guys, brooking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning, right in the middle of a second date
Speaker 1: update and Mark is on the phone with us. Mark
Speaker 1: went out on a date with a girl named Rebecca.
Speaker 1: After the date, she said she had plans and he
Speaker 1: dropped her off on a street corner a few blocks away,
Speaker 1: and she disappeared, and he hasn't heard from her since. Now.
Speaker 1: Mark just thinks she's not calling him back. But experts
Speaker 1: say that she was abducted by aliens, and that expert
Speaker 1: would be me. I'm almost positive that when we dial
Speaker 1: her phone number to try to get her on the
Speaker 1: phone to find out what went wrong on the date,
Speaker 1: nobody will answer because she's currently in space being examined
Speaker 1: by aliens. Mark, on the other hand, does not agree
Speaker 1: with me. But Mark, we're gonna call the number either
Speaker 1: way and see who's right. I hope you're ready to
Speaker 1: be wrong, buddy. I don't know. I guess I did
Speaker 1: see a strange light that night out in my window.
Speaker 1: Starting to put it all together, You're you're slowly changing
Speaker 1: my mind. I didn't feel really weird to drop a
Speaker 1: girl off after dinner on a dark street corner and
Speaker 1: her like want that to happen. I'm in a dark
Speaker 1: street corner. It was the well lit street that she
Speaker 1: was meeting her friends. I was just I just really
Speaker 1: wanted the date to keep going. I didn't want it
Speaker 1: to sure meeting her friends, her friends from a far
Speaker 1: off galaxy who would beam her up into space, never
Speaker 1: to be heard from again. All right, I'm gonna do
Speaker 1: the phone of her right now, see if we can
Speaker 1: get her on the phone and fight out what went
Speaker 1: wrong in her date. Okay, awesome? Hello, Hi is Rebecca there? Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is her Rebecca. How are you. This is Jewil
Speaker 1: from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Oh, okay, I'm
Speaker 1: calling because you recently went out on a date with
Speaker 1: one of our listeners and he emailed us to see
Speaker 1: if we could get you on the phone. His name
Speaker 1: is Mark. Oh, and you met Mark out at a
Speaker 1: club and then you guys went to dinner, and ever
Speaker 1: since your date you haven't responded to any of his
Speaker 1: phone calls or text messages. So he emailed us and
Speaker 1: was like, can you guys see if you can call
Speaker 1: her and find out what went wrong? This is really bizarre.
Speaker 1: He told us how you guys went out and then
Speaker 1: you said you had to meet up with some friends.
Speaker 1: Was the friends thing an excuse? To get out of
Speaker 1: the date. I mean, I mean he was you know,
Speaker 1: he was nice. You still haven't answered my question, Rebecca,
Speaker 1: did you make up the fact that you were meeting
Speaker 1: up with your friends later as an excuse to get
Speaker 1: out of your date with him? I mean, I'm going
Speaker 1: to take that as a yes. Yeah, just take that.
Speaker 1: So why did you do that? What was so bad
Speaker 1: about the date? For me? I'm more like old fashioned
Speaker 1: when it comes to dating and stuff, and I definitely
Speaker 1: believe that a gentleman should act a certain way, and
Speaker 1: I kind of feel like he fell short of my expectations.
Speaker 1: Do you mean was he not opening doors? And I
Speaker 1: mean when we first met up, when he came to
Speaker 1: my house to pick me up, you know, I was
Speaker 1: waiting for him at the door, and I just felt like,
Speaker 1: you know, he came to greet me and that was fine,
Speaker 1: and he gave me a hug, and then I was
Speaker 1: kind of just waiting, you know, for him to kind
Speaker 1: of set the tone of the date, especially with the
Speaker 1: first impression. He just didn't really do it right. What
Speaker 1: did you want him to do to do? I mean,
Speaker 1: a hug sounds pretty good to me. I don't know,
Speaker 1: I just think like like when a gentleman comes to
Speaker 1: pick up a lady, you know, he should bring her
Speaker 1: like a little token of his appreciation, like flowers or
Speaker 1: maybe a stuck animal or something. It doesn't have anything,
Speaker 1: you know, expensive, but just something to say hi, and
Speaker 1: you know, I appreciate you taking the time to go
Speaker 1: out with me. Tony, he didn't bring you, essentially a gift,
Speaker 1: and that upset you. Yeah. Wait, do most men okay,
Speaker 1: hold on, do most men bring you a gift when
Speaker 1: you go out on a first date? Because I've never
Speaker 1: encountered it. I mean, not every time, but I mean
Speaker 1: the ones that don't bring me a gift don't really
Speaker 1: see me ever again. And the ones that do, I,
Speaker 1: you know, am willing to take the next step or
Speaker 1: maybe a second date. And I know a lot of
Speaker 1: people will call me old fashioned. I feel like you
Speaker 1: kind of feel that way, and maybe I am, and
Speaker 1: you know, maybe you're not. People just do things differently
Speaker 1: and talk, you know, standards and stuff. Okay, so that
Speaker 1: so well, how is everything else? How is everything else
Speaker 1: on the date? Other than the fact that he did
Speaker 1: not bring you a gift? Um, he seemed genuinely nice
Speaker 1: and it's just it did start off a little sour,
Speaker 1: and when it kind of starts off that way, it's
Speaker 1: hard to really get like the butterfly's going and stuff
Speaker 1: like that. He said when you picked you up that
Speaker 1: there was a moment where you just stood at the door. Well,
Speaker 1: I just thought that he was going out to get
Speaker 1: the gift after he came up empty handed picking up
Speaker 1: on what was happening. So you assumed that he was
Speaker 1: going back to his car to grab you whatever it was. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like I thought he had forgotten it in this car.
Speaker 1: So you knew in that moment when when you were
Speaker 1: at the door and he had nothing for you, that
Speaker 1: you would never go out on a date with him. Again,
Speaker 1: I didn't know at that moment. I thought, Baby, somewhere
Speaker 1: down the line, there'd be like a surprise or maybe
Speaker 1: a gift waiting, like on the seat in the car
Speaker 1: or at the restaurant or something like that. But yeah,
Speaker 1: then when I realized, it kind of just fizzled out
Speaker 1: for me. So he took you out the whole time
Speaker 1: and no gift, right, no gift. You know what, I
Speaker 1: think he should realize that he needs me more of
Speaker 1: a gentleman. We should tell him that go for it.
Speaker 1: How about you tell him because he's actually on the
Speaker 1: line listing right now. Oh my god, I didn't know
Speaker 1: you were there. Yeah, listen, I'm I Rebecca. I'm I'm
Speaker 1: really sorry. I had no clue what your expectation was
Speaker 1: for our day. Um, you know, I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: think it's too much of an expectation for a girl
Speaker 1: to feel like excited, and I appreciated the first time
Speaker 1: she goes out, and you know, it just didn't really
Speaker 1: live up to what I thought you were gonna be
Speaker 1: when you showed up without like a gift or something.
Speaker 1: I mean, this is I don't have time to teach
Speaker 1: a guy how I'm really romantic. You're I You're right.
Speaker 1: I I completely agree with you. I don't know, I
Speaker 1: don't know where my head was. I definitely should have
Speaker 1: you know, brought something. Are you serious right now? Mark?
Speaker 1: Thank you? Mark. I do appreciate you saying that. No.
Speaker 1: I mean, people have their ways, and she's absolutely beautiful
Speaker 1: and she knows it and she deserves to be treated
Speaker 1: from the very beginning just like that. You know, she's
Speaker 1: like putting like all the emphasis on material things, right,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say like material things I mean, I don't care.
Speaker 1: He could have read me a poem at my door,
Speaker 1: and that would have been something. It doesn't have to
Speaker 1: be something that costs money, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: just a gesture. You actually want a man to stop
Speaker 1: and read you poetry when he picks you up. She's
Speaker 1: a fashion broke. That's just awkward. I mean, what's awkward
Speaker 1: about a guy who's trying to actually woo a girl
Speaker 1: and you know, be old fashioned and be romantic. If
Speaker 1: you don't like romance, I mean, that's on you. But
Speaker 1: I would like to feel something when I meet someone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: sometimes you want a guy to show up and read
Speaker 1: you a sonnet. It's like a Shakespeare type experience. But
Speaker 1: like I said, it could have been anything. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not expecting diamonds. It's just a thought that goes
Speaker 1: into something like that. And a guy who knows how
Speaker 1: to treat a woman. Listen, I totally understand what you're saying.
Speaker 1: I definitely should have been way more of a gentleman
Speaker 1: and much more attentitive to your needs. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: really sorry I didn't get you a gift. Hey, Rebecca,
Speaker 1: if you think about it right now, this is sort
Speaker 1: of a gift. Yeah, Hey, he went through all this
Speaker 1: effort to try to get a second date with you.
Speaker 1: Would you like to go on a second date with him?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it, and RecA, I promise I
Speaker 1: will get you two gifts, one to make up for
Speaker 1: the last time and one for this time. You hear that, Rebecca,
Speaker 1: this could work out in your favor. Two gifts. I mean,
Speaker 1: I really appreciate the effort, and you know, if you
Speaker 1: are willing to do that, I I'd give you a
Speaker 1: second chance, even though I really Shouldn't you know a
Speaker 1: real man, We just know, but you know you have
Speaker 1: gone through all these great names, and I'd say, Okay,
Speaker 1: I promise you won't be disappointed. There you go, Rebecca,
Speaker 1: you should know. A real man should already know. But
Speaker 1: sometimes a lady needs to teach a man how to act.
Speaker 1: And so maybe Mark just learned right now how to
Speaker 1: treat you. I think we've made progress here today, so
Speaker 1: I will pay for a seconday for you guys. But Mark,
Speaker 1: you're you get the gifts yourself. Okay, that's that's awesome.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, So that's a yes from both of you.
Speaker 1: Guys go out again? Yes on their date? Congratulations you two.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is a start of something really good.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I started something good. I mean the start
Speaker 1: of Mark being bankrupt. In the morning text at seven
Speaker 1: eighty five to nine two says it's not called being materialistic,
Speaker 1: It's called old fashioned. Yay. Talking about today's second at
Speaker 1: update if you missed it, Rebecca wasn't calling this dude
Speaker 1: Mark back because she said he didn't meet her old
Speaker 1: fashioned standards, and by that she means he failed to
Speaker 1: show up to the date with a gift for her.
Speaker 1: She said he wasn't a real gentleman because a real
Speaker 1: gentleman would not to bring her a token before the date.
Speaker 1: You know, she's on tender for the stuff you guys,
Speaker 1: for the guys, I believe it or not. Mark actually
Speaker 1: agreed that he was wrong and even apologized for it
Speaker 1: and offered to bring her two gifts if she would
Speaker 1: go out on another date with him, and surprisingly, or
Speaker 1: not surprisingly at all, she took him up on the
Speaker 1: offer and said yes to a second day because yeah,
Speaker 1: youre getting double the free stuff. Why not? Remember if
Speaker 1: you want to do a second day update, I have
Speaker 1: to do is email the show and we will call
Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back.