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<v Speaker 1>best way to get a girl's attention is to just

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<v Speaker 1>elbow or real hard, you know, just like if your

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<v Speaker 1>girl's not giving you the attention, you need to just

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<v Speaker 1>shoulder checker a little bit, let her know that you're

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<v Speaker 1>in the building, and then you're sure to strike up

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation or get assault charges. It could go either way.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how Mark got the girl's attention that he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to call today. Her name is Rebecca, and apparently

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<v Speaker 1>that's Mark's thing. He'll walk up next to a girl

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<v Speaker 1>and just like throw a shoulder on a real hard

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<v Speaker 1>and then he starts up a conversation. Is that how

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<v Speaker 1>it works? Mark? Uh? Yeah, yeah, I guess so that's

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<v Speaker 1>how it works. I thought he was being sarcastic. I

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<v Speaker 1>think he still is. Yeah, I am being a little

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<v Speaker 1>sarcastic guy. His email said that he bumped into her

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<v Speaker 1>real hard to try to get her attention. So tell

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<v Speaker 1>us how that happened, Mark, Well, not real hard. So anyway, Yes, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>I met her at a club. She absolutely stunning. I

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<v Speaker 1>noticed her right when she walked in, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>immediately started figuring out ways of trying to talk to her.

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<v Speaker 1>So I ended up going over to her and kind

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<v Speaker 1>of dancing there and purposely bumping into her, Like why

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<v Speaker 1>did you bump into me? She was like, Hey, you

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<v Speaker 1>bumped into me, and so that's actually pretty smooth. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think it was too offensive. So see, I

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<v Speaker 1>was picturing it totally different. I was picturing like you

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<v Speaker 1>guys were playing hockey and she had a drink in

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<v Speaker 1>her hand. He just slammed her up against the wall

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<v Speaker 1>and the drink went everywhere. Yeah, so obviously it worked

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<v Speaker 1>out for you since you got a date with her. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, man, she was absolutely stunning, slightly out

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<v Speaker 1>of my league, but you know, I mean it worked.

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<v Speaker 1>We chatted up at the club the rest of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked her for a number and she would want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out sometime. She gave it to me. You

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be honest. I was worried that she was going

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<v Speaker 1>to give me the Loser Line segment that we do

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<v Speaker 1>on seven ten and nine ten on Monday mornings, the

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<v Speaker 1>Loser Line phone number. But we didn't hear your voicemail

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<v Speaker 1>on that, so obviously it was a real number. That's nice, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it really was, And so we set it up and

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<v Speaker 1>it was great. Man, I was excited. Did you put

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of thought into what you guys were going

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<v Speaker 1>to do on your date? You know? I actually just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of wanted to keep it casual, just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>started off with dinner and just kind of see where

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<v Speaker 1>it led from there and how did it lead? Was good? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>when I first pulled up to her house, and when

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<v Speaker 1>I walked up to the doors, she had actually opened

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<v Speaker 1>the door before I even knocked, like she was looking

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<v Speaker 1>out the people and expected you, And it was just well,

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<v Speaker 1>if he said he was going to be there at

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<v Speaker 1>a certain time, why wouldn't she. Yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>do that if somebody's coming over to my house, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>look out the windows see if they're there. But I

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<v Speaker 1>never opened the door before they're there. Act like I

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<v Speaker 1>just woke from the knock and be like, oh, there

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<v Speaker 1>you are. It's kind of weird to just be like

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<v Speaker 1>I was sitting right here next to the door and

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<v Speaker 1>open it up. No, it was just for me. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a wonderful surprise. I mean, it got me pretty

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<v Speaker 1>excited that she it seemed like she was that excited. Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a great side. I think it's awesome. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I thought. Then I gave her a hug and

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<v Speaker 1>said we should get out of here, and I made

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<v Speaker 1>some dinner reservations and I go to my car and

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<v Speaker 1>turned around and realized she just was still standing there

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<v Speaker 1>in the doorway, just stood there in the door. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't move. Maybe she was stunned by your good looks.

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<v Speaker 1>What was she doing in the doorway. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what she was doing in there. I didn't know, if

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the club light hit me right that night

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<v Speaker 1>and daylight it wasn't so good or I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>so she seemed stunned. Yeah, I don't know. She just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of stared at me with this weird look, and

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<v Speaker 1>I stared back and just kind of that we should go,

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, she kind of stepped into it

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<v Speaker 1>and got in the car. Maybe she was expecting you

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<v Speaker 1>to carry her to the car. Be a gentleman. Everything

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<v Speaker 1>about that man. She was that hot enough that I

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<v Speaker 1>would have done it if she had give her a

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<v Speaker 1>piggyback ride to your car door. Was that the only

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<v Speaker 1>strange thing that happened on your date? Um? Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>sort of you know. Dinner was good, conversation was relatively smooth.

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of was offended that she actually had set

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<v Speaker 1>up something for after our date, which I thought was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of weird. Not knowing that the date was ending

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<v Speaker 1>after dinner, you know, I didn't know if she was

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<v Speaker 1>lying or just making excuses. At that point, I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to say, did she not tell you about that beforehand? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>no she didn't. I will say, even if she wasn't lying,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of times, going into a date, a girl

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<v Speaker 1>will set something up just in case as her out

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<v Speaker 1>or as a way to stop herself from going home

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<v Speaker 1>with you that night. Yeah, thanks for trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>nice to him. That doesn't so how did everything in? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>After she said she had plans, she actually had me

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<v Speaker 1>drop her off a few blocks away on a different

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<v Speaker 1>street corner and yeah it was. And as she was

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<v Speaker 1>getting out, I just was like, can I call you again?

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<v Speaker 1>And she just yelled sure, and have you called her?

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be calling you guys if I didn't. And

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<v Speaker 1>how many times have you tried to call her? Probably

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<v Speaker 1>more than I should have. But I mean, I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>want to let her know. I want to go out again.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you know I did do something wrong, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I definitely want to know and see if

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<v Speaker 1>I can fix it or you know, if it turns

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<v Speaker 1>out she's just not attracted to you. Are you gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have hurt feelings? Ah? No, that's fine, that's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>people's preference. It's you know, it's what it is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And you said she was out of your league anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>so you should hard that might happen. So you dropped

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<v Speaker 1>her off on the street corner. He dropped off on

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<v Speaker 1>the street corner, and that's the last you've seen her,

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<v Speaker 1>heard from her. Yeah, So, I mean, alien abduction ever

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<v Speaker 1>crossed your mind? It happened so much, there's TV shows

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<v Speaker 1>about it that happens all the time. I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>think she was abducted by all. Okay, well we'll play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Then all right, thanks guys, brooking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, right in the middle of a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update and Mark is on the phone with us. Mark

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<v Speaker 1>went out on a date with a girl named Rebecca.

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<v Speaker 1>After the date, she said she had plans and he

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<v Speaker 1>dropped her off on a street corner a few blocks away,

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<v Speaker 1>and she disappeared, and he hasn't heard from her since. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Mark just thinks she's not calling him back. But experts

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<v Speaker 1>say that she was abducted by aliens, and that expert

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<v Speaker 1>would be me. I'm almost positive that when we dial

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<v Speaker 1>her phone number to try to get her on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone to find out what went wrong on the date,

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<v Speaker 1>nobody will answer because she's currently in space being examined

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<v Speaker 1>by aliens. Mark, on the other hand, does not agree

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<v Speaker 1>with me. But Mark, we're gonna call the number either

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<v Speaker 1>way and see who's right. I hope you're ready to

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<v Speaker 1>be wrong, buddy. I don't know. I guess I did

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<v Speaker 1>see a strange light that night out in my window.

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<v Speaker 1>Starting to put it all together, You're you're slowly changing

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<v Speaker 1>my mind. I didn't feel really weird to drop a

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<v Speaker 1>girl off after dinner on a dark street corner and

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<v Speaker 1>her like want that to happen. I'm in a dark

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<v Speaker 1>street corner. It was the well lit street that she

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<v Speaker 1>was meeting her friends. I was just I just really

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<v Speaker 1>wanted the date to keep going. I didn't want it

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<v Speaker 1>to sure meeting her friends, her friends from a far

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<v Speaker 1>off galaxy who would beam her up into space, never

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<v Speaker 1>to be heard from again. All right, I'm gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>the phone of her right now, see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>get her on the phone and fight out what went

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<v Speaker 1>wrong in her date. Okay, awesome? Hello, Hi is Rebecca there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is her Rebecca. How are you. This is Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Oh, okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling because you recently went out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners and he emailed us to see

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<v Speaker 1>if we could get you on the phone. His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Mark. Oh, and you met Mark out at a

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<v Speaker 1>club and then you guys went to dinner, and ever

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<v Speaker 1>since your date you haven't responded to any of his

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<v Speaker 1>phone calls or text messages. So he emailed us and

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<v Speaker 1>was like, can you guys see if you can call

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<v Speaker 1>her and find out what went wrong? This is really bizarre.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us how you guys went out and then

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<v Speaker 1>you said you had to meet up with some friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Was the friends thing an excuse? To get out of

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<v Speaker 1>the date. I mean, I mean he was you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he was nice. You still haven't answered my question, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>did you make up the fact that you were meeting

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<v Speaker 1>up with your friends later as an excuse to get

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<v Speaker 1>out of your date with him? I mean, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to take that as a yes. Yeah, just take that.

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<v Speaker 1>So why did you do that? What was so bad

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<v Speaker 1>about the date? For me? I'm more like old fashioned

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to dating and stuff, and I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>believe that a gentleman should act a certain way, and

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of feel like he fell short of my expectations.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mean was he not opening doors? And I

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<v Speaker 1>mean when we first met up, when he came to

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<v Speaker 1>my house to pick me up, you know, I was

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for him at the door, and I just felt like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he came to greet me and that was fine,

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<v Speaker 1>and he gave me a hug, and then I was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of just waiting, you know, for him to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of set the tone of the date, especially with the

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<v Speaker 1>first impression. He just didn't really do it right. What

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<v Speaker 1>did you want him to do to do? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>a hug sounds pretty good to me. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think like like when a gentleman comes to

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<v Speaker 1>pick up a lady, you know, he should bring her

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<v Speaker 1>like a little token of his appreciation, like flowers or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a stuck animal or something. It doesn't have anything,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, expensive, but just something to say hi, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I appreciate you taking the time to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with me. Tony, he didn't bring you, essentially a gift,

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<v Speaker 1>and that upset you. Yeah. Wait, do most men okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, do most men bring you a gift when

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<v Speaker 1>you go out on a first date? Because I've never

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<v Speaker 1>encountered it. I mean, not every time, but I mean

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<v Speaker 1>the ones that don't bring me a gift don't really

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<v Speaker 1>see me ever again. And the ones that do, I,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, am willing to take the next step or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a second date. And I know a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people will call me old fashioned. I feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of feel that way, and maybe I am, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, maybe you're not. People just do things differently

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<v Speaker 1>and talk, you know, standards and stuff. Okay, so that

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<v Speaker 1>so well, how is everything else? How is everything else

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<v Speaker 1>on the date? Other than the fact that he did

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<v Speaker 1>not bring you a gift? Um, he seemed genuinely nice

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just it did start off a little sour,

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<v Speaker 1>and when it kind of starts off that way, it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to really get like the butterfly's going and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that. He said when you picked you up that

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<v Speaker 1>there was a moment where you just stood at the door. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought that he was going out to get

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<v Speaker 1>the gift after he came up empty handed picking up

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<v Speaker 1>on what was happening. So you assumed that he was

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<v Speaker 1>going back to his car to grab you whatever it was. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I thought he had forgotten it in this car.

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<v Speaker 1>So you knew in that moment when when you were

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<v Speaker 1>at the door and he had nothing for you, that

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<v Speaker 1>you would never go out on a date with him. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know at that moment. I thought, Baby, somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>down the line, there'd be like a surprise or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a gift waiting, like on the seat in the car

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<v Speaker 1>or at the restaurant or something like that. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>then when I realized, it kind of just fizzled out

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<v Speaker 1>for me. So he took you out the whole time

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<v Speaker 1>and no gift, right, no gift. You know what, I

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<v Speaker 1>think he should realize that he needs me more of

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<v Speaker 1>a gentleman. We should tell him that go for it.

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<v Speaker 1>How about you tell him because he's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>line listing right now. Oh my god, I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>you were there. Yeah, listen, I'm I Rebecca. I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really sorry. I had no clue what your expectation was

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<v Speaker 1>for our day. Um, you know, I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's too much of an expectation for a girl

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<v Speaker 1>to feel like excited, and I appreciated the first time

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<v Speaker 1>she goes out, and you know, it just didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>live up to what I thought you were gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>when you showed up without like a gift or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is I don't have time to teach

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<v Speaker 1>a guy how I'm really romantic. You're I You're right.

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<v Speaker 1>I I completely agree with you. I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know where my head was. I definitely should have

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<v Speaker 1>you know, brought something. Are you serious right now? Mark?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? Mark. I do appreciate you saying that. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, people have their ways, and she's absolutely beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>and she knows it and she deserves to be treated

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<v Speaker 1>from the very beginning just like that. You know, she's

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<v Speaker 1>like putting like all the emphasis on material things, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say like material things I mean, I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>He could have read me a poem at my door,

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<v Speaker 1>and that would have been something. It doesn't have to

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<v Speaker 1>be something that costs money, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>just a gesture. You actually want a man to stop

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<v Speaker 1>and read you poetry when he picks you up. She's

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<v Speaker 1>a fashion broke. That's just awkward. I mean, what's awkward

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<v Speaker 1>about a guy who's trying to actually woo a girl

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, be old fashioned and be romantic. If

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<v Speaker 1>you don't like romance, I mean, that's on you. But

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to feel something when I meet someone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes you want a guy to show up and read

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<v Speaker 1>you a sonnet. It's like a Shakespeare type experience. But

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, it could have been anything. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not expecting diamonds. It's just a thought that goes

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<v Speaker 1>into something like that. And a guy who knows how

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<v Speaker 1>to treat a woman. Listen, I totally understand what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely should have been way more of a gentleman

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<v Speaker 1>and much more attentitive to your needs. You know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really sorry I didn't get you a gift. Hey, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>if you think about it right now, this is sort

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<v Speaker 1>of a gift. Yeah, Hey, he went through all this

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<v Speaker 1>effort to try to get a second date with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like to go on a second date with him?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it, and RecA, I promise I

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<v Speaker 1>will get you two gifts, one to make up for

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<v Speaker 1>the last time and one for this time. You hear that, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>this could work out in your favor. Two gifts. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I really appreciate the effort, and you know, if you

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<v Speaker 1>are willing to do that, I I'd give you a

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<v Speaker 1>second chance, even though I really Shouldn't you know a

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<v Speaker 1>real man, We just know, but you know you have

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<v Speaker 1>gone through all these great names, and I'd say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I promise you won't be disappointed. There you go, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>you should know. A real man should already know. But

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes a lady needs to teach a man how to act.

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<v Speaker 1>And so maybe Mark just learned right now how to

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<v Speaker 1>treat you. I think we've made progress here today, so

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<v Speaker 1>I will pay for a seconday for you guys. But Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>you're you get the gifts yourself. Okay, that's that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, So that's a yes from both of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys go out again? Yes on their date? Congratulations you two.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this is a start of something really good.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I started something good. I mean the start

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<v Speaker 1>of Mark being bankrupt. In the morning text at seven

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<v Speaker 1>eighty five to nine two says it's not called being materialistic,

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<v Speaker 1>It's called old fashioned. Yay. Talking about today's second at

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<v Speaker 1>update if you missed it, Rebecca wasn't calling this dude

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<v Speaker 1>Mark back because she said he didn't meet her old

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<v Speaker 1>fashioned standards, and by that she means he failed to

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<v Speaker 1>show up to the date with a gift for her.

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<v Speaker 1>She said he wasn't a real gentleman because a real

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<v Speaker 1>gentleman would not to bring her a token before the date.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she's on tender for the stuff you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>for the guys, I believe it or not. Mark actually

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<v Speaker 1>agreed that he was wrong and even apologized for it

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<v Speaker 1>and offered to bring her two gifts if she would

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<v Speaker 1>go out on another date with him, and surprisingly, or

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<v Speaker 1>not surprisingly at all, she took him up on the

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<v Speaker 1>offer and said yes to a second day because yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>youre getting double the free stuff. Why not? Remember if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do a second day update, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to do is email the show and we will call

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<v Speaker 1>the person who didn't call you back.