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Speaker 1: girl's not giving you the attention, you need to just

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Speaker 1: shoulder checker a little bit, let her know that you're

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Speaker 1: in the building, and then you're sure to strike up

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Speaker 1: a conversation or get assault charges. It could go either way.

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Speaker 1: And that's how Mark got the girl's attention that he

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Speaker 1: wants to call today. Her name is Rebecca, and apparently

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Speaker 1: that's Mark's thing. He'll walk up next to a girl

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Speaker 1: and just like throw a shoulder on a real hard

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Speaker 1: and then he starts up a conversation. Is that how

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Speaker 1: it works? Mark? Uh? Yeah, yeah, I guess so that's

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Speaker 1: how it works. I thought he was being sarcastic. I

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Speaker 1: sarcastic guy. His email said that he bumped into her

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Speaker 1: real hard to try to get her attention. So tell

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Speaker 1: us how that happened, Mark, Well, not real hard. So anyway, Yes, Rebecca,

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Speaker 1: I met her at a club. She absolutely stunning. I

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Speaker 1: noticed her right when she walked in, and so I

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Speaker 1: immediately started figuring out ways of trying to talk to her.

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Speaker 1: So I ended up going over to her and kind

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Speaker 1: of dancing there and purposely bumping into her, Like why

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Speaker 1: did you bump into me? She was like, Hey, you

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Speaker 1: bumped into me, and so that's actually pretty smooth. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I didn't think it was too offensive. So see, I

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Speaker 1: was picturing it totally different. I was picturing like you

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Speaker 1: guys were playing hockey and she had a drink in

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Speaker 1: her hand. He just slammed her up against the wall

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Speaker 1: and the drink went everywhere. Yeah, so obviously it worked

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Speaker 1: Like I said, man, she was absolutely stunning, slightly out

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Speaker 1: We chatted up at the club the rest of the night.

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Speaker 1: I asked her for a number and she would want

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Speaker 1: gotta be honest. I was worried that she was going

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Speaker 1: to give me the Loser Line segment that we do

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Speaker 1: on seven ten and nine ten on Monday mornings, the

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Speaker 1: Loser Line phone number. But we didn't hear your voicemail

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Speaker 1: on that, so obviously it was a real number. That's nice, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was great. Man, I was excited. Did you put

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Speaker 1: a lot of thought into what you guys were going

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Speaker 1: to do on your date? You know? I actually just

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Speaker 1: kind of wanted to keep it casual, just kind of

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Speaker 1: started off with dinner and just kind of see where

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Speaker 1: it led from there and how did it lead? Was good? Well,

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Speaker 1: when I first pulled up to her house, and when

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Speaker 1: out the people and expected you, And it was just well,

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Speaker 1: if he said he was going to be there at

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Speaker 1: was a wonderful surprise. I mean, it got me pretty

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Speaker 1: going to say, did she not tell you about that beforehand? No? No,

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Speaker 1: After she said she had plans, she actually had me

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Speaker 1: getting out, I just was like, can I call you again?

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Speaker 1: And she just yelled sure, and have you called her?

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be calling you guys if I didn't. And

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Speaker 1: how many times have you tried to call her? Probably

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Speaker 1: more than I should have. But I mean, I definitely

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Speaker 1: And if you know I did do something wrong, I

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Speaker 1: I can fix it or you know, if it turns

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Speaker 1: out she's just not attracted to you. Are you gonna

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Speaker 1: have hurt feelings? Ah? No, that's fine, that's you know,

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Speaker 1: people's preference. It's you know, it's what it is. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And you said she was out of your league anyway,

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Speaker 1: heard from her. Yeah, So, I mean, alien abduction ever

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Speaker 1: think she was abducted by all. Okay, well we'll play

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Speaker 1: a song, come back, call her and get your second

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Speaker 1: date update. Then all right, thanks guys, brooking jubil in

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Speaker 1: the morning, right in the middle of a second date

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Speaker 1: update and Mark is on the phone with us. Mark

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Speaker 1: went out on a date with a girl named Rebecca.

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Speaker 1: After the date, she said she had plans and he

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Speaker 1: and she disappeared, and he hasn't heard from her since. Now.

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Speaker 1: Mark just thinks she's not calling him back. But experts

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Speaker 1: say that she was abducted by aliens, and that expert

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Speaker 1: would be me. I'm almost positive that when we dial

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Speaker 1: phone to find out what went wrong on the date,

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Speaker 1: nobody will answer because she's currently in space being examined

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Speaker 1: by aliens. Mark, on the other hand, does not agree

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Speaker 1: with me. But Mark, we're gonna call the number either

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Speaker 1: be wrong, buddy. I don't know. I guess I did

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Speaker 1: Starting to put it all together, You're you're slowly changing

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Speaker 1: my mind. I didn't feel really weird to drop a

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Speaker 1: to sure meeting her friends, her friends from a far

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Speaker 1: wrong in her date. Okay, awesome? Hello, Hi is Rebecca there? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is her Rebecca. How are you. This is Jewil

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Speaker 1: from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Oh, okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: calling because you recently went out on a date with

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Speaker 1: if we could get you on the phone. His name

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Speaker 1: is Mark. Oh, and you met Mark out at a

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Speaker 1: club and then you guys went to dinner, and ever

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Speaker 1: her and find out what went wrong? This is really bizarre.

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Speaker 1: So why did you do that? What was so bad

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Speaker 1: kind of just waiting, you know, for him to kind

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Speaker 1: first impression. He just didn't really do it right. What

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Speaker 1: a hug sounds pretty good to me. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I just think like like when a gentleman comes to

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Speaker 1: like a little token of his appreciation, like flowers or

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Speaker 1: maybe a stuck animal or something. It doesn't have anything,

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Speaker 1: you know, expensive, but just something to say hi, and

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Speaker 1: you know, I appreciate you taking the time to go

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Speaker 1: out with me. Tony, he didn't bring you, essentially a gift,

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Speaker 1: and that upset you. Yeah. Wait, do most men okay,

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Speaker 1: hold on, do most men bring you a gift when

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Speaker 1: encountered it. I mean, not every time, but I mean

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Speaker 1: the ones that don't bring me a gift don't really

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Speaker 1: see me ever again. And the ones that do, I,

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Speaker 1: you know, am willing to take the next step or

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Speaker 1: maybe a second date. And I know a lot of

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Speaker 1: people will call me old fashioned. I feel like you

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Speaker 1: you know, maybe you're not. People just do things differently

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Speaker 1: so well, how is everything else? How is everything else

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