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Speaker 1: I've ever been a lot of waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Adriana, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Can weg We're doing great? What's going on? Waiting by

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Speaker 1: the phone, of course, is what this is called. We're

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out if you may have been ghosted

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Speaker 1: by a guy named Paul. So how did you meet Paul?

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Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates that you've been on, and

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Speaker 1: then where things are now.

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Speaker 3: I met Paul, like I think it was like maybe

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Speaker 3: like a week or two ago.

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Speaker 4: On the engine.

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Speaker 3: You know, It's like good chatting, you know, pretty comfortable,

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Speaker 3: and then we decided, you know, we set up a date.

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Speaker 3: So we went out and I thought it was really cute.

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Speaker 3: You know, the person's all good and it was really fun,

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Speaker 3: had a nice time, and we said, you know, like yeah,

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Speaker 3: we'll keep in touch and I let you do this again.

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Speaker 3: And but since then, I don't know, I haven't heard him.

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Speaker 3: I'm hearing from him.

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Speaker 5: So.

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Speaker 6: Okay, it's yeah, weird, this might really make sense to me.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you thought this day went really well, and

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Speaker 1: you know, you left to as many people who call

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone do, thinking that you'd hear from

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Speaker 1: this guy again for another day. You even talked about it,

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Speaker 1: and have you reached out to him or are you

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Speaker 1: just waiting for him to call.

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Speaker 6: I texted him and I didn't hear back from him,

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Speaker 6: but I just figured he was. You know, it's like

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Speaker 6: birth week, he's getting back to it, so like stuff's

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Speaker 6: going on.

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Speaker 2: I guess, yeah, but I haven't.

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Speaker 6: I haven't tried calling him yet. I mean he's kind

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Speaker 6: to that point yet.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean, you want to be pursued by this guy.

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Speaker 1: If he's interested, he'll reach out. So and he has it,

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Speaker 1: so we're gonna call him. You'll be on the phone

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Speaker 1: at the same time. We'll see if we can get

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Speaker 1: Paul on. And you know, the hope here is that

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Speaker 1: we can you know, maybe he's been busy or something's

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Speaker 1: going on and we get straightened out. And if that's

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Speaker 1: the case, then we'll set you guys up on another

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Speaker 1: date and pay for it. Sound good, Adriana, Yeah, let's

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Speaker 1: see what's up? Part two. Waiting on the phone right

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Speaker 1: after Sabrina carpt it back in two minutes.

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Speaker 2: It's the Frend Show.

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Speaker 1: It's Friday, Sabrina Carpenter, The Frend Show, is on. Hey, Adriana, Hi,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's call this guy Paul. You met on

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Speaker 1: one of the dating apps, think it was Hinge said,

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Speaker 1: and you went on a date that you thought went

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Speaker 1: really well. You talked about going on another one, but

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Speaker 1: you have not heard from this man since the date,

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Speaker 1: and he's also left you on red because you texted

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Speaker 1: Paul this guy as well, and he has not responded,

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Speaker 1: and you want to know what's going on.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, basically, I don't know. We left things on

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Speaker 6: such a good note. It seems like there'd be no

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Speaker 6: reason why we shouldn't go out again.

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Speaker 1: No, let's see if he feels the same way. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna call him now.

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Speaker 2: Good luck. Adriana thinks, Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Paul, Hey Paul, good morning. My name

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Speaker 1: is Fred. I'm calling for the Fred's Show. It's the

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Speaker 1: morning radio show. I do have to tell you that

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Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now, and I would

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Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the calls. That okay,

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Speaker 1: if we chatt for just a second, I give. I'll

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Speaker 1: take that as a yes. I know it's kind of strange,

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Speaker 1: but I'll get right to it. We're calling on behalf

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Speaker 1: of a woman named Adriana who says that you guys

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Speaker 1: met on one of the dating apps and you recently

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Speaker 1: went on a date. Do you remember meeting her?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I remember her.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what happened because she reached out to us,

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Speaker 1: said that she enjoyed chatting with you before the date,

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Speaker 1: thought the date went well. Says that you guys talked

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Speaker 1: about going out again, uh, and that you would reach out.

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Speaker 1: I guess you haven't. And then you also haven't responded

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Speaker 1: to her. So what is your side? I mean, I

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Speaker 1: want nothing to do.

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Speaker 4: With that, Jack Man?

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Speaker 2: Why man?

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Speaker 1: Okay? So date was going fine.

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Speaker 5: We're just kind of talking about like how crazy the

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Speaker 5: world is, right like, yeah, you know, it's crazy, and

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Speaker 5: then we kind of got talking to him like something

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Speaker 5: like she just like blurts out like oh and don't

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Speaker 5: get me started on these people taking meds for mental health.

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Speaker 5: Just be an adult and handle your.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, what I mean, that is a

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Speaker 1: random thing to just blurt out, like blurt to blurt out,

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Speaker 1: to blurt out, that's that's a random thing to say.

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Speaker 1: Like and by the way, in your medicine, I mean,

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Speaker 1: really is her that this is like the hill.

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Speaker 5: That she's choosing a die On'm like what Okay, first of.

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Speaker 3: All, I'm on medication.

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Speaker 5: I know a lot of people that are on medication.

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Speaker 5: It's helped them tremendously, So she doesn't bother to ask

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Speaker 5: like are you on medication? Like how does it?

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Speaker 2: See?

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Speaker 5: How do you feel about this thing? Like it just

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Speaker 5: was super insensitive.

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Speaker 1: And like ough, no, I mean not everybody who's taking

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Speaker 1: different meds is doing it too, because they're not big,

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Speaker 1: big boys and girls and grown ups and can't handle

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Speaker 1: their stuff right. Yeah, like some of this is chemical

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Speaker 1: and physiological and people need it and I don't know this.

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Speaker 1: I didn't remember her saying she as a doctor, and

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Speaker 1: that is just a very specific thing to have a

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Speaker 1: very strong opinion about. Let's Adriana is here the unmedicated Adriana.

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Speaker 1: I assume you're unmedicated. I forgot to mention that you

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Speaker 1: must not take anything right because only psychos do that

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Speaker 1: or people who can handle their stuff.

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Speaker 6: Adriana, I didn't say that, like, you know, everyone who

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Speaker 6: takes meds not an adult. I'm just saying that, like

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Speaker 6: you know, so many people I know not. I feel

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Speaker 6: like everyone's like, oh I have eight age, do you

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Speaker 4: And it just doesn't make any sense, like.

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Speaker 6: Where are all these people twenty years ago?

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, but why do you care so much? Like

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's that kind of like an individual prerogative.

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Speaker 6: No, I don't care them.

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Speaker 2: It's the thing.

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Speaker 6: It's like that was like one part of our conversation.

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Speaker 4: We were talking for hours, and he's just picking this

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Speaker 1: I guess now, okay, but no, it's like it's something

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Speaker 1: that applies to him though, and like apparently whatever you

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Speaker 1: you know, it was kind of an un to him,

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Speaker 1: and Paul, you can correct me if I'm wrong, but

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Speaker 1: it sort of sounds like whatever comment you made seemed

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Speaker 1: a little bit insensitive or uneducated because like, for example,

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Speaker 4: No, I'm you know, that's that's fine, you know whatever,

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Speaker 4: if he's dealing with that right now. But it's like,

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Speaker 4: you know, I just happened to run into people you

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Speaker 4: know at my work and you know, my friends and stuff,

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Speaker 4: and it's just like it's a lot of excuses. Honestly,

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Speaker 4: it's not. You know, it's so much like think I

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Speaker 4: might be autoustic, and.

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Speaker 1: I've never heard someone say that to me. I think

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Speaker 1: I might be anyway, Doctor Kekey, what are your thoughts

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Speaker 6: I mean, is there treatment for what she's dealing with?

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Speaker 6: This is not regular?

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Speaker 3: Like, girl, when's the last time you've been to a doctor?

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Speaker 6: I'm in perfect health? Actually, So, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: She's an adult.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I suppose you know, you're you can

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Speaker 1: have an opinion about whatever you want, people are taking

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Speaker 1: too much medicine or whatever. But it just so happens

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Speaker 1: that you're talking to somebody in Paul who you know,

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Speaker 1: he feels a certain kind of way about it and

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Speaker 1: it applies to him, and maybe not in the way

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Speaker 1: that you said. So, I don't know. I mean, Paul,

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Speaker 1: you've heard her explanation. Does it make you feel any better?

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Speaker 1: Do you think has she explained herself?

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Speaker 3: No, it wasn't.

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Speaker 5: An apology, it was an explanation.

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Speaker 2: It was yeah, she did kind of.

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Speaker 5: Like you're allowed to ask for help. It's just super toxic,

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Speaker 5: like that type of thought process.

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Speaker 2: Like oh, well, where were these people twenty years ago?

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Speaker 3: Like I don't know why you were ill, they need help.

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Speaker 1: We are there people abusing it, probably, But are there

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Speaker 1: people who are listening right now who, for the very

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Speaker 1: relief or anything because they were afraid of the generalization? Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think I think. I feel like you're speaking from

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Speaker 1: a kind of an ignorant place, Adrian, Like if people

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Speaker 1: need medical help, they should get it whatever it is, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean you say like that, Yeah, of course people

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Speaker 4: should yet help that they need.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying that, Like I.

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Speaker 4: Think of it now is like people use it as

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Speaker 4: an excuse never.

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Speaker 6: They are being lazy.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, it was getting better, but now it's not, so

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Speaker 1: it actually got worse. So so, Paul, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I'll ask the question rhetorical. But you want to go

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Speaker 1: out with her again, We'll pay for it, and I'll

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Speaker 1: pay for all the medicine that you'll need to be

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Speaker 1: able to deal with it. Okay, No, I don't boy, Adrian.

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Speaker 1: I'd love to sit and ask her her opinion about

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Speaker 1: a lot of different things. I'm saying she probably got some,

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Speaker 1: he probably got some wild takes girl. He is not

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Speaker 1: interested though, in going out again. I'm sorry. It's not

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Speaker 1: gonna work out, Adriana, so Paul, thank you for your time,

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Speaker 1: and best of luck to both of you.