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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. Meg is on the phone

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Speaker 1: today for a first date follow up, and she's getting

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Speaker 1: ghosted by a guy named James. So in a few minutes,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna call him and see if he tell us

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Speaker 1: why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 1: But first, Meg, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 1: heard from James.

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Speaker 2: Here's the deal.

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Speaker 3: We live in the same building. So I actually saw him. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I know, so I see him in the elevator all

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Speaker 3: the time. So I actually saw him like this morning,

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Speaker 3: and uh, it's a little bit awkward just because of

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Speaker 3: all of this. So but I haven't heard, like, he

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Speaker 3: hasn't kind of followed up by a text or phone,

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Speaker 3: which is what I was kind of waiting for, you

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Speaker 3: know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So, did you reach out to him other than

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Speaker 4: seeing him in the elevator. No.

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Speaker 3: Well, here's so at the end of our date, which

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Speaker 3: went really well, by the way, so that's yeah, so

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Speaker 3: I was sort of expecting a call, and then this

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Speaker 3: morning when I saw him, I just kind of was like,

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Speaker 3: I have to say some things I haven't heard from him,

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Speaker 3: So I just said like, hey, you know, do you

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Speaker 3: want to go for dinner sometime, and he basically said

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Speaker 3: I'll get back to you, which I feel like is

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Speaker 3: a bad sign.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, probably not the best.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly right.

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Speaker 3: But it was so great, Like we went to this

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Speaker 3: trivia night that he had been telling me about because

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Speaker 3: you know, I had seen him in the elevator. We'd

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Speaker 3: make small chat all the time. I actually have a

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Speaker 3: tiny confession that I would kind of plan to be

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Speaker 3: in the elevator when he was there. But yeah, I

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Speaker 3: was like, oh, if I keep running into this guy,

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Speaker 3: so yeah, so I like running into him and we

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Speaker 3: were chatting and he had told me what this trivia night,

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Speaker 3: and then finally he asked me out, which I was

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Speaker 3: really psyched about.

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Speaker 2: And we just like had this great night.

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Speaker 3: We even went back to his place afterwards and we

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Speaker 3: had a great night cap and I don't want to

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Speaker 3: be not PG thirteen, but we had a pretty great

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Speaker 3: kis at the.

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Speaker 2: End of it.

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Speaker 3: So so anyway, I got why I was totally expecting

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Speaker 2: So I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Well, did something happen, did anything actually go down on

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Speaker 4: the date that may have made it a little bit

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Speaker 4: awkward or that you felt like was a turning point.

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Speaker 3: Well, here's obviously I have been analyzing this for days

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Speaker 3: because it's all I can even give, sir.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, so the only thing.

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Speaker 3: So I started to go, Okay, maybe it was this

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Speaker 3: because like my sister, she's going through a bit of

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Speaker 3: a dad kind of breakup right now. She's a single mom,

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Speaker 3: so she's having a hard time. She did call me

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Speaker 3: a couple of times. Oh, it might've move been like

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Speaker 3: three or four times when we were on the date,

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Speaker 3: and I did answer because I just knew, you know,

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Speaker 3: I've got to answer. It's my sister, you know, she

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Speaker 3: needs me. But I'm kind of wondering did that kill

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Speaker 3: if he did that to me, yeah, would I be

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Speaker 3: a little pissed. So I'm wondering if that's it, did.

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Speaker 1: He say anything about it, or did he seem annoyed

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Speaker 2: Okay, full disclosure.

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Speaker 3: One of them may have come when we were kind

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Speaker 3: of making out a little bit, so I guess he

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Speaker 3: seemed a little annoyed when that got cut off, but

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Speaker 3: he didn't say anything. It was just kind of I

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Speaker 3: but he didn't say anything about it, Like he just

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Speaker 4: Did he know who you were talking to? Like, did

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Speaker 3: I mean, I told him that it was, But now

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking, like, did he believe me? Does he think that,

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Speaker 3: you know, I was, you know, screwing away to talk

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Speaker 3: to some other guy, Like does he think I'm in

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Speaker 3: a relationship or something like? Now, I'm not sure because

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Speaker 3: that's what I told him, But I don't know. Would

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Speaker 1: So, what was the last thing you texted him?

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Speaker 2: The last thing? Oh, the last So the last thing

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Speaker 2: I texted.

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Speaker 3: Him was had a great time, you know, thanks, thanks

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Speaker 3: for the thanks for the night, because of course he

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Speaker 3: paid for dinner and you know everything.

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Speaker 2: So I said thank you, like hope to see you again.

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Speaker 2: And then that was after.

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Speaker 3: I left, and then I didn't hear anything back from that,

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Speaker 3: and then saw him in the elevator this morning.

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Speaker 2: So that's where we're at.

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Speaker 1: That's awkward. That's an awkward elevator, right, all right, we'll

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Speaker 1: see if we can figure it out for you. Then

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Speaker 1: we'll play a song come Back, and then call him

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Speaker 1: and see if he'll tell us why is ghosting you

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Speaker 1: and maybe get you another date?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, thanks guys.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll play a song come back, give your first

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Speaker 1: day follow up next. If you're just joining us for

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Speaker 1: today's first Day follow up. Meg is on the phone

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Speaker 1: and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James. So

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Speaker 1: we're about to call him and see if he'll tell

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Speaker 1: us why is ghostinger and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 1: But before we do that, Meg, why don't you catch

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Speaker 1: everybody up on your situation?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I went out with this amazing guy, James,

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Speaker 3: who lives in my building. I see him all the

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Speaker 3: time in the elevator. He finally asked me out. We

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Speaker 3: had a great time. There was even some makeouts.

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Speaker 2: But it's been like, oh my god, it's been weeks now.

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Speaker 3: He has not responded to my last text, and I've

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Speaker 3: recently seen him in the elevator and.

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Speaker 2: Basically said hey, do you want to go for dinner sometime?

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Speaker 3: And he basically said I'll get back to you, which

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Speaker 3: doesn't feel positive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, And the reason you think you might

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Speaker 1: be getting ghosted is because you kept answering your phone, right,

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Speaker 1: I did.

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Speaker 3: My sister kept calling during the date and she's having

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Speaker 3: a tough time, so I did keep answering my phone.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, to be honest.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, all right, Well are you ready for us

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Speaker 1: to call him and see if I'll tell us why?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Good?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I'm ready. I'm nervous, but I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hi, I'm asking the James please. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is James, James. How are you doing? Man? My

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Speaker 1: name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show. It's

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Speaker 1: called The Jewbil Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, James, the show's here too. I'm Nina, Hi, and

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Speaker 4: I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 5: Hey? I'm good? What's up?

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Speaker 1: Not much? Have you heard the show before ever?

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Speaker 5: Something to do with like first dates or something?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Actually, it does it. Yeah, we do a segment

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Speaker 1: on the show it's called the first Day follow Up

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Speaker 1: to where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 1: somebody and you up ghosting them, they can email us

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Speaker 1: to get you on the phone and ask why. So,

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Speaker 1: we got an email about you from somebody. That's why

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Speaker 1: we're calling.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I actually have before. Oh my god,

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we got an email about you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, are somebody?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? You have any idea who?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, honestly, I'm pretty sure I know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, who do you think it is?

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Speaker 5: Meg? Yes? It is Meg.

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Speaker 1: She also told us she saw you this morning in

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Speaker 1: the elevator. That's awkward, man.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yep, we did. We're in each other

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Speaker 5: it's kind of hard not to sometimes.

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Speaker 1: Can you tell us why you're ghosting her? She said

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Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, here's the story. So, I mean, yeah, honestly,

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Speaker 5: and this might sound look like a small thing, but

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Speaker 4: Do you have a dog?

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Speaker 5: No, I don't have a dog. Right now, we're not

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Speaker 5: on buying a house someday and I definitely am getting

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Speaker 4: I wonder what she would say, though, if you were like,

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Speaker 4: I need to have dogs.

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Speaker 6: But what did she say? Like you say, like she

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Speaker 5: Well, she was complaining about one of her friend's bogs

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Speaker 5: But then like let it get to the point of like,

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Speaker 1: That's it's not for me, man, So that's it just

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Speaker 1: that she doesn't like dogs that honestly, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: It's a huge deal breaker for me. Like you like,

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Speaker 5: sure you could, you can tolerate dogs, but I got

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Speaker 5: to have a dog. And I can't foresee myself having

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Speaker 4: Everybody's got their thing. I've never met anybody that doesn't

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I haven't either, But also I would do want

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Speaker 6: to say, like Devil's Advocate, like it could be maybe

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Speaker 6: her friend just really is bad take like not great at.

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Speaker 4: Taking care of for dog.

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Speaker 2: Is that like bad to say?

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Speaker 5: I could see that, but you know, then you then

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Speaker 5: you like you got to feel some pity for that

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Speaker 5: dog and not just complain about it. You talk to

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Speaker 1: Maybe you should just ask her because she is on

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Speaker 1: the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, hijanes, Hey yeah, hey, I forgot about this

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Speaker 7: part I got I can't believe this, Like my god,

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Speaker 7: and if I had like a hundred guesses, I would

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Speaker 7: never guess this is why you're ghosting me.

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Speaker 5: Listen. It's just like it's this is why I didn't

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Speaker 5: want to bring it up. It feels like a little

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Speaker 5: thing to a lot of people, but it's a big

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Speaker 5: thing to me. It's a big part of my life.

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Speaker 5: And you know, I really did feel like we had

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Speaker 5: some chemistry and you know, and but just it's a

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Speaker 5: hard no for me that it's a real deal breaker.

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Speaker 2: But oh my god, we did. Listen, I agree.

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Speaker 3: I think we had like amazing chemistry, including on that night,

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Speaker 3: like the build up to our first date all that stuff.

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Speaker 3: And I guess I'm just like, okay, what if it

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Speaker 3: was like I'm okay, I could learn to be okay

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Speaker 3: around dogs, like I just wouldn't like kept them as

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Speaker 3: if I was.

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Speaker 2: Around a dog, I could be okay with dogs.

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Speaker 7: If not that.

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Speaker 3: I think they're evil. I just don't like them. They're

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Speaker 3: like they I do think they're messy and there's always

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Speaker 3: dog hare everywhere and like whatever. But I mean, does

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Speaker 3: that change.

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm talking about. This is this is what

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Speaker 5: I'm talking about. This is a no for me, absolutely

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Speaker 5: not Like you can't even get for a sentence without

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Speaker 5: saying something negative.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess, but like it could be worse.

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Speaker 3: I just feel like there's so many worse things, Like

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Speaker 3: it's not like I'm like a murderer or like a stalker,

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Speaker 3: like and I would like those are real reasons to

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Speaker 3: not be with somebody.

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Speaker 5: I just feel like I don't know someone who doesn't

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Speaker 5: like that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I just feel like this is such I mean,

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Speaker 3: is that a thing like where you like, don't trust

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Speaker 3: people who don't like people say that, and I'm like,

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Speaker 3: what does that even mean?

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Speaker 2: Like you don't trust people who don't like dogs, like or.

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Speaker 5: You absolutely don't trust people who don't like dogs. That

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Speaker 5: is a hard line. Absolutely don't try. You know, I

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Speaker 5: was thinking it might have been fun for a one

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Speaker 5: night stand, which is why I let it get as

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Speaker 5: far as it did. But I'm kind of done at

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Speaker 5: this point. It's a hard note for me.

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Speaker 3: Wow, okay, And now knowing that you were just like

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Speaker 3: hanging on for one night stand starts to make it

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Speaker 3: feel like a no for me too.

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Speaker 2: So that was a little a little much to hear.

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Speaker 3: So what do I and now if this is great

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Speaker 3: we live in like, what am I supposed to do

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Speaker 3: when I see you in the elevator?

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Speaker 2: We can ignore all of this?

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Speaker 5: And well, I don't know you know what time I

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Speaker 5: ride the elevator every day. Maybe you can avoid getting

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Speaker 5: in the elevator with James.

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Speaker 1: Would you like to go on another day with Meg?

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Speaker 1: Will pay for it?

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Speaker 5: No? Thank you?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I mean I thought yeah, if I mean we

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Speaker 3: could get together and talk it out in person and.

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Speaker 5: Not like this.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 5: Thanks, I do not want to be murdered.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well I guess you got your answer. Meg

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Speaker 1: and James. Thank you, thank you for telling us.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 5: I really do like the show.

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Speaker 1: Thanks, thank you.

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Speaker 5: First day follow up