1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all at all, so don't given them. 4 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 2: Back a million bu bu boozy. 5 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 4: Listening to. 6 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 5: To I want to join. 7 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 2: Yah yah joy, you want to do that? 8 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 6: You love your. 9 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 4: Turn gona turn. 10 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 3: Okay to turn the mouth the turn you probably got 11 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 3: to turn mouth. 12 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: Turn out, turn a wad, then up looking me. 13 00:01:55,840 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 2: Come come on, you'll think, uh huh, I sure will. 14 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 2: Good morning, everybody. 15 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 7: Excuse me, you all listening to the voice, come on 16 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 7: dig me now, one and only Steeve Harvey got a 17 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 7: radio show, man o man or man something going on 18 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 7: real good today. 19 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 8: You ought to feel blessed today. The fact that God 20 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 8: woke you up and gave you another opportunity. You know, 21 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 8: every day you wake up, it's another chance. It's a 22 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,079 Speaker 8: chance for all of us to get better, to get 23 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 8: it right, to get on the right path, to stop 24 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 8: heading the wrong way. Every day you wake up, that's 25 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 8: your opportunity. See, because he's gonna keep waking you up 26 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:42,239 Speaker 8: because he has a plan for you. You know, I 27 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 8: don't know, uh you know, I don't. 28 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: I don't. 29 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 8: I don't know when he makes his call and you 30 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,079 Speaker 8: know who gets called home when I can't explain it, 31 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 8: I don't have that answer. I'm not him, I'm not God. 32 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:57,079 Speaker 8: I don't claim to be. 33 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 2: I don't. 34 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 8: I don't understand it all sometimes, but God has an 35 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 8: amazing way. But as long as he's waking you up. 36 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 2: I do know this. 37 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 8: God ain't through with you yet. God has a plan 38 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 8: for you. Your job is to identify identify the plan. 39 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 8: You know, that's clearly what I need for you to do. 40 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 8: You know, oftentimes the thing that you're looking for, it's 41 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,239 Speaker 8: right there inside of you. 42 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 4: You know. 43 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 8: I can't tell you how many people I meet mister Harvey, 44 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 8: Mister Harvey, can't speak to you for many Yeah, Man, 45 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 8: what's up with you? 46 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 2: Man? I was just wondering. 47 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 8: Man, I've been trying to and I want to know, Man, 48 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 8: can you give me a good agent? Can you give 49 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 8: me a good lawyer? Can you give me a good Now? Look, 50 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 8: if you got some legal problems, I understand you're gonna 51 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 8: need some help right there. But the majority of questions 52 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 8: I get asked is about their future, about their place 53 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 8: in this world, about their mission, about what they're trying 54 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 8: to do, how they trying to figure out and then 55 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 8: the how to go about doing it. But the answer 56 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 8: I must remind all of you is always within yourself. 57 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 8: It starts right there. See a lot of people burn 58 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 8: up a lot of time looking around trying to find someone. 59 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 8: If I could just meet them, if I could just 60 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 8: get on her show. Man, if all, if I could 61 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 8: just get to his show, I beat and made it. 62 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 8: That's not necessarily the case. Because See, just like every 63 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 8: time you put your put your faith in a person 64 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 8: or an event or currence or some type of thing 65 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 8: that you imagine yourself being in there and that'll do 66 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 8: it for you. Imagine of all the people who've made 67 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 8: it without you know, I look at everybody. Tell me, Man, 68 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 8: if I could get on so and so show, that'll 69 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 8: do it for me. Man, somebody else got on that 70 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 8: show and they blew up. Man, if I could just 71 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 8: make it to that show, do you know how many 72 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 8: people have made it without that? So see, when you 73 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 8: start focusing in on what your idea of how to 74 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 8: make it is, and your idea of how to make 75 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 8: it does not include your relationship with God, you spinning 76 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 8: your wheels. Man, It's a vicious cycle you in now, 77 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 8: and I'm asking everybody to get out of that cycle. 78 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 8: Get out of looking for someone and something. The answer 79 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 8: is within you. God resides in you. That burning thing 80 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 8: that you have that you just can't get out your head. 81 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,919 Speaker 8: That's a seed. God plant that there. That's a seed. 82 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: It needs watering, nurturing, fertilizing, and that's what it needs. 83 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,280 Speaker 2: It didn't it. Don't ever say, man, I need that 84 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 2: other person right there now. 85 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 8: There are people you will meet that will compliment you, 86 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 8: and I can assure you that God will put you 87 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 8: in the right place at the right time. I'm almost 88 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 8: certain that God will introduce you to everybody you need 89 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 8: to be introduced to to make it to wherever it is. 90 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 8: You all are trying to get to him talking about 91 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 8: you and God now, But the moment you take it 92 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 8: into your own hands and you make the decision as 93 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 8: to who you got to get to, You've just cloudy 94 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 8: and muddy the waters. See God's plan for you don't 95 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 8: really need your help. Oh, it needs your attention, it 96 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 8: needs your focus, it needs your faith, and it needs 97 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 8: your hard work. But He needs you to listen. He 98 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 8: needs you to listen more than anything. Listen, keep the faith, 99 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 8: and be willing to work your tail off. I don't 100 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 8: know how you think it can happen any other way, 101 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:32,040 Speaker 8: But then again I do because I try to make 102 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 8: it another way. So I had to come to the conclusion, 103 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 8: Hey man, listen here, dog just ain't working for you. 104 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 8: You got to get some more God here, man, listen 105 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 8: to me. 106 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 2: The answer was. 107 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 8: Always within me, the moment I sat down with myself 108 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 8: and told myself the truth that aint partner. You ain't 109 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 8: really all that. He ain't partner, regardless as to what 110 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 8: people are seeing and stuff. You ain't happy, Hey Pardner, 111 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 8: this really ain't about you. Hey Pardner, you really ain't 112 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 8: all that good at this. God is keeping you for 113 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 8: a reason. Okay, hold up, Steve, quit tripping. 114 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 2: What I need to do. 115 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 8: I just started talking to myself and then I heard 116 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 8: Bishop Jakes say a couple of things. 117 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 2: Then I was watching TV. I heard Joel Oldstein. 118 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 8: Say a couple of things and I went, wow, man, okay, cool, 119 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 8: that's pretty slick. 120 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 2: I'm gonna try that. And when I did it, it 121 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 2: changed my life. 122 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 8: I am telling you, man, it has been God this 123 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 8: whole time, and the God has been residing inside of me, 124 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 8: just like the God resides on the inside of you. 125 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 2: That's him talking to you, telling you, man, you ought 126 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 2: to get it together. Man making you feel bad. 127 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 8: It's sending you on guilt trips, you knowing you wrong, 128 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 8: and you out there wrong and something telling you you 129 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 8: are not do it. 130 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 2: Here's how you know. It's God. 131 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 8: And Bishop Alma taught me this in his book He's 132 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 8: Got I can't think the name of it right now, 133 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 8: but it's a really good book. 134 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 2: But it says in that man. 135 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 8: Bishop Olmo was talking in this book and he was saying, 136 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 8: the way you know is not God's voice is if 137 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 8: it ain't no sin in it. See how many times 138 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 8: have you made up in your mind, I'm gonna show 139 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 8: this person or I'm gonna show that person, or I'm 140 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 8: gonna get this person back. You hurt me, I'm gonna 141 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 8: hurt you. You know the Lord don't like ugly. I'll 142 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 8: show you well, the Lord don't like ugly. But no 143 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 8: way in that does it's safe for you to go 144 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 8: show them. It doesn't say that. See, so when you 145 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 8: strike out on that mission, you know the God knows 146 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 8: in my heart I loved you, but I got to 147 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 8: do this because you did me. Who wah, whoa whoah, 148 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 8: ain't got nothing to do? With God right there, you 149 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 8: can take him out of it. If it's God, has 150 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:54,959 Speaker 8: no sin in it. So anytime somebody come to me 151 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 8: talking about the Lord told me to do this to you, 152 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:00,439 Speaker 8: and that's the only reason I'm doing. You need to 153 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 8: get yourself right with God. I had all them threats 154 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 8: right there. That ain't God talking to me through you. 155 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:09,719 Speaker 8: What are you crazy? If it's God, it has no 156 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 8: sin in it. So you got to be careful man, 157 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 8: when you talking to people. If we're gonna go down 158 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:15,959 Speaker 8: here and we're gonna do this because this is the 159 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 8: right thing to do. If it has something wrong going on, 160 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 8: then it can't be the right thing to do. It 161 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 8: took me a minute to learn that one. But please 162 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 8: get that through your head so you can quit spending 163 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 8: yourself around and remember everything you're looking for is within you. 164 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 8: It's all right there. Quit wasting your time looking around 165 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 8: all the time. Go to your God, man, talk to him. 166 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 8: Go to that spirit that's on the inside of you 167 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 8: that's calling you. Stop letting people shake your tree. At 168 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 8: the end of the day, somebody gonna be right, somebody 169 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 8: gonna be wrong. All right, y'all, we're gonna have to 170 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 8: go in the day tripping a little bit, going through something. 171 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 2: Show ladies and gentlemen, it is here another great tape. 172 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 9: Man. 173 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 8: Oh man, Man, I'm excited. He just keep on doing it. 174 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 8: He just keeps on showing up. Man, Thank you Heavening Father. 175 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 2: Y'all. 176 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 8: I'm telling you no better way to start your data 177 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 8: than to be grateful. It just opens up the windows 178 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 8: of heaven, makes room for you, and the angels rejoice 179 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 8: when you show gratitude. It's just an amazing thing. And 180 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:30,959 Speaker 8: it just it minimizes the things that's going on in 181 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:34,079 Speaker 8: your life that's not of the positive nature. And it 182 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 8: just helps you realize, man, that God is still on 183 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 8: the throne, still in the blessing business. 184 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 4: Hah. 185 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 8: Shirley Strawberry, Colin Parrell, Mouth of South Junior nephew, Tommy. Yeah, 186 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 8: all us help you up here telling you what's on 187 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:49,719 Speaker 8: your mind. 188 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:52,319 Speaker 10: Let me ask you this man, you did it all now, 189 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 10: I mean you have to tie and then just if 190 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:56,959 Speaker 10: anybody in any biding, uncle, what's your motivation? 191 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 6: What's your wine? 192 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 2: Now? 193 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 8: Well, you gotta have your purpose has changed often in life, 194 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 8: and you got to be conscious of it. 195 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 2: You got to rearrange it all the time. First, it 196 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:07,439 Speaker 2: was about me. 197 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 8: I needed to be successful because I thought I could 198 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 8: help more people that way. But I found out along 199 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 8: the way that your mission is always to help others. 200 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 8: Even on your climb to the top, you have to 201 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:26,199 Speaker 8: extend your hand to help others. I was listening to 202 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:28,559 Speaker 8: Joel Oldstein over the weekend and he was pointing that 203 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:31,719 Speaker 8: out that whenever you need something, don't forget the other 204 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 8: people who need something too, because part of your blessing, 205 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 8: and a huge part of your blessing, comes when you 206 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 8: do something for other people. God blesses you to become 207 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 8: a blessing, and the more of a blessing you are 208 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:45,719 Speaker 8: the other people, the more he'll bless you with. So 209 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 8: you continue to be an even bigger blessing, you see. 210 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:53,079 Speaker 8: And so you've got to make your motivation. It cannot 211 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:56,959 Speaker 8: always be about you. I understand the human side of 212 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:59,680 Speaker 8: it because I suffered from that oftentimes myself. 213 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 2: But the reality of the matter is, it's not about me. 214 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 8: The motivation for me now is purely I would have 215 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 8: to say, the motivation for me now is eighty percent 216 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 8: my family. Eighty percent is my family, you know twenty 217 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 8: you know, of course I'm human. I won't recognition for 218 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 8: my work. You know, that's the human side of it. 219 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 8: But if I don't get the recognition, that's fine because 220 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:32,079 Speaker 8: I changed my want in life anyway I used to 221 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:36,839 Speaker 8: want I used to want rewards, I mean awards. I 222 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 8: changed it from awards to I just want the reward now. 223 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:44,959 Speaker 8: But I just my life now is more into the 224 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 8: awards than the into the rewards as opposed to the awards, 225 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 8: because I thought that's what it was all about. Man, 226 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 8: I got invited to the show, I got a camera seat, 227 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 8: I got to go, I got to go. No, man, 228 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 8: I don't have to do that, because I found out 229 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 8: what God wanted me for is much bigger than that anyway. 230 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 8: So your focus will change about what it is you 231 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 8: want out of life. But as long as you make 232 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 8: it about others and someone else other than you, the 233 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 8: greater your. 234 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 9: Chances of achieving it. I mean, I take that seat 235 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 9: through if you don't want to see seat being empty, 236 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:26,439 Speaker 9: I mean, somebody. 237 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 1: Need to sit there, all right. 238 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 11: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll 239 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 11: hear from the nephew yet again with. 240 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: The prank phone call. Is he runs the prank back right. 241 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 11: After this you're listening Morning show, all right, and it's 242 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 11: time now to start your morning off with the nephew 243 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 11: and run that prank back. 244 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 6: What you got for his neph Your husband's prescripture? 245 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, husband's you always prescript these people. 246 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 2: We got to listen. 247 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 6: Listen, listen, listen, Linda. 248 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:04,559 Speaker 9: People need a prescription. Okay, I'm just calling it, That's 249 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 9: all I'm doing. I'm just calling it. And the man 250 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 9: got ailment or something. So we got to get the 251 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 9: man's of medicine. 252 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 2: Now let's go husband's prescription. 253 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 4: Come on, hello, hello, how you doing? This is pharmacy. 254 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 4: My name is Brian on the tech. Here is mister Donovan. Donovan? 255 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 4: Is he available? Now? 256 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 5: What can I help you with? 257 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 4: Well, he dropped his prescription off about an hour ago. 258 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 4: I wanted to we wanted to call let you guys 259 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 4: know that the prescription is ready, prescription full. Wait, well, 260 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 4: he dropped off a prescription. I'm assuming he must have 261 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 4: looked like the doctor just wrote this prescription today, so 262 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 4: I'm assuming he seems like he would probably need this 263 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 4: pretty soon. So I wanted to let you guys know 264 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 4: it's ready. 265 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 12: Okay, and what exactly did he get a prescription for him. 266 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 4: It's a mox Sicilian, a moxa cilian, a max Oficilian. 267 00:14:56,880 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 4: We've got him at least fifteen tablets. He could take 268 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 4: two tablets today. 269 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 12: Sorry, Brian, right. 270 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 4: My name is Brian. Yes, I'm the technician here at 271 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 4: the pharmacy. 272 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 12: Okay, well let me okay, Donald, that's my husband. Let 273 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 12: me make sure you have the right down of them, 274 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 12: because well let me can we check the birthdays? Are 275 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 12: you allowed to do that with me? 276 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 4: Definitely? Definitely it's seventy four? Is that correct? 277 00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 13: Yes? 278 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 12: Okay? And so what exactly is the mons sicilian for a. 279 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 4: Monticilians an antibiotic man So any type of small infections 280 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 4: of some sort, diseases or whatever, it pretty much cures it. 281 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 12: So you're telling me this nasty? Then got something? Winning 282 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 12: got it on my first off. He want to seem 283 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 12: the doctor and got a prescription under my interest. Just 284 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 12: try and he want to got something you know what? 285 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 12: You know what that Brian, I'm coming down there. I'll 286 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 12: pick up the medicine. I'll get it and if people 287 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 12: want that medicine, he'll check in with me at my 288 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 12: counter because I got a check and he done wrote 289 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 12: that his not cast. I'm gonna beat the hell off this. 290 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 12: He not know, he does not even you know what. 291 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 5: We brought it an year. 292 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, you're you're uh miss what? What? 293 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 4: What can I call you about? Your first name? What's 294 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 4: your name? 295 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 12: No communist? That's fine, just communist? No communist? 296 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 4: Okay? Uh. First of all, I want to apologize. I 297 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 4: had no idea that you were not aware of the 298 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 4: actual prescription that he's that we've just filled for him, 299 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 4: you know, just just on a personal note, I'm just curious, 300 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 4: is there a possibility maybe maybe you could have given 301 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 4: it to him? 302 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 12: Brian Noble, you did you the lost some of my Now, 303 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 12: First off, you don't call my phone. First off, no you. 304 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 12: I'm glad you called my phone to tell me it's 305 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 12: my interns, that's why. And then you excuse me, given 306 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 12: that n something are you going him? Don't you ever 307 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 12: in your life call somebody's fault? And this is a 308 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 12: courty to call this none of your business? What's going 309 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:55,760 Speaker 12: on in my okay, none of your business? You don't 310 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 12: get out of my way. That ain't none of your business. 311 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:00,160 Speaker 12: And now I didn't get it. Nothing to ask you 312 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 12: a questions. I've got something for yo and he want 313 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:04,959 Speaker 12: to come home with STDs and you want to ask 314 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 12: me if I gave him a CD? Oh, okay, was 315 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 12: the manager? Let me speak to your managers, ma'am. 316 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 4: I was just I was, uh, you know, I'm not 317 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 4: trying to be unprofessional. I was just asking a personal question. 318 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 4: I should not have asked you something like that, and 319 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:22,479 Speaker 4: I do apologize. I should we expect someone to pick 320 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:23,119 Speaker 4: up the description. 321 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:25,679 Speaker 12: I just told you, I'm gonna be picking up up. 322 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 12: I'm gonna coming up. You know what, blind, You'll know 323 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:29,920 Speaker 12: who I am because I got I got a couple 324 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 12: of words for y'all, and I still want to speak 325 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 12: to your manager. You did you were very unprofessional and 326 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 12: I don't appreciate you. I'm coming at means I'm going 327 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 12: to eat you. Me telling me he didn't gotten you 328 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:41,440 Speaker 12: a s CD, didn't ask me? Did I give it 329 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:43,439 Speaker 12: a help? And you all of them between mountains. 330 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 4: No, I'm not trying to get all in between your legs, ma'am. 331 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 4: Apparently that's not the place to be considering you guys. 332 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 4: Ne A MAXI Zilla, you know. 333 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 12: But you getting me in loss shop. He's like, you 334 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 12: know what, Brian, I still got some stuf like a 335 00:17:57,720 --> 00:17:59,360 Speaker 12: left from the first and guess what I'm a life 336 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 12: of from yo. You don't play games with me. You 337 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:02,920 Speaker 12: do not even know. 338 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 1: You do not know me. 339 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 12: You don't know who I am. You don't know who 340 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 12: I know and what I got. I got something for y'all. 341 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 12: What is this prescription as? Because I know it's nothing. 342 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 1: Want to buy a house? 343 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 12: I know it's not. What did he take his twice? 344 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:16,640 Speaker 4: Where'd you asked? 345 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 12: Because I'm on my way here? 346 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 13: Uh uh? 347 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 4: Would you like my managers here? Would you like to 348 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:21,400 Speaker 4: speak with him? 349 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 2: Man? 350 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 12: Yeah, put the manager on. Put your manager on. I 351 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:27,640 Speaker 12: want to speak to him now, an say, uh huh 352 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:33,359 Speaker 12: uh hello, hello, Yes, get the manager. 353 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 4: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. 354 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:41,639 Speaker 4: When you just got prayed by your husband, Donovan. 355 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 12: I'm gonna share him and you. What's plays all? 356 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 4: I mean? 357 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 12: He needs to be out looking for the job to 358 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:53,160 Speaker 12: staying worse than three months? 359 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 4: Go play with me like that? 360 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 5: Got my blood press right? 361 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 12: Oh no, I'm coming down now. I'm still coming to 362 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 12: get you. 363 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 4: I'm not a baby. You can't t get me. 364 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 12: You's gotter be glad. 365 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 9: I love your show. 366 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 4: Oh my god, oh my my wife. Don't tolerate no cheating. 367 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 12: You know, you know crazy, you ain't white, you won't. 368 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 4: I got one more thing to ask. You know, what 369 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,640 Speaker 4: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show. 370 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 12: In the late Steve By Morning Show. 371 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 2: Stupid enough? 372 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 6: Wow? 373 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 5: Huh? 374 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:34,679 Speaker 1: Always is that? Geniusly? 375 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:36,639 Speaker 2: Stupid enough? And all I can say. 376 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 1: That's saint too much. 377 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 6: You went too far. Apparently that's not the place to be, since. 378 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 2: That ain't where I want to be there, I said. 379 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 6: It's crazy. Go hard in the paint, baby, That's how 380 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 6: you do it. You go hard in the paint. 381 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 9: New York City, New York, New York, Big city of dreams. 382 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 9: Get ready, baby, February to third, and nephew was coming 383 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:08,640 Speaker 9: to the n y C the City Winery. 384 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 2: You heard what I said. 385 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 9: Tickets are on sale right now, February third, Saturday night, 386 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 9: New York City. If you can make it New York, 387 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 9: you can make it anywhere. Tickets on sale right now. 388 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:18,440 Speaker 1: Thank you for you. 389 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 11: Coming up next, it is asked the CLO or Chief 390 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 11: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building. 391 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,680 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening. 392 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 11: Steve Harvey Morning Show time Now to ask the CLO 393 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:34,680 Speaker 11: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This one is from Billy 394 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 11: in Ohio. Steve Billy right, but listen to this, Billy Wrights. 395 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 11: I'm tied up in an affair with a woman that 396 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:46,439 Speaker 11: loved to have sex on the back seat of her 397 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:51,200 Speaker 11: Chevy Tahoe. This past Sunday, I was at church with 398 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 11: my wife and she pulled up to the church and 399 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:56,159 Speaker 11: texted me to come outside. 400 00:20:56,760 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 1: I left church and went to the back seat of 401 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:01,280 Speaker 1: the tahoe. 402 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 11: Afterwards, I nodded that the parking lot got guard and 403 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 11: I went. When I'm back in church the next Sunday, 404 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 11: the security guard told me that my secret was safe 405 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 11: with him. Should I trust him or not? 406 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:19,360 Speaker 8: You got to first of all, dog, First of all, 407 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 8: first of all, should I trust him or not? Let's 408 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 8: start with you stupid, Please, that's a dog. 409 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 2: Crazy. 410 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:33,359 Speaker 8: He's the security guard. You had to climb in the 411 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 8: back seat or y'all had to go into the back seat. 412 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 8: Either way, you went in the back door or you 413 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 8: climbed over the sea. He saw it, and he tells you, hey, man, 414 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 8: your secret safe with me. Should I trust him? Okay, 415 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:48,640 Speaker 8: let's say you don't trust him? What's your next move? 416 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:53,320 Speaker 8: I ain't nothing a hold of hold let me let 417 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 8: me guess you're gonna have him killed? 418 00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 9: Dog? 419 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 2: What the hell can you possibly do? Can you trust him? 420 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 4: No? 421 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 2: You're stupid, man. We ain't answering that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 422 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,640 Speaker 2: you could trust him. Why did you go out there 423 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 2: and get. 424 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 1: In that contact? I can't get past that. It's not 425 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 1: a church church, right? 426 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 4: The church? What? 427 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:18,640 Speaker 2: All right? 428 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 1: Billy, You're on your own, so says the colo. All right. 429 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 11: This one is from new Mommy in Monroe, Louisiana. She says, 430 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,439 Speaker 11: I'm a twenty four year old mother of a two 431 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 11: year old boy, and I'm engaged. 432 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 1: To a man that is not my child's dad. 433 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 11: He's planning to adopt my son and he's already talking 434 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 11: about how he's going to discipline him. My son is 435 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 11: at the age where he says no to everything, and 436 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 11: he thinks it's cute. My fiance says it needs to 437 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:49,399 Speaker 11: stop now, and he needs something better than the swat 438 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 11: on his butt that I gave him. He says he 439 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,399 Speaker 11: needs a leather strap on his butt. But that's a 440 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 11: bit harsh for a. 441 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 1: Two year old. How can I defend my baby from this. 442 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:00,720 Speaker 8: Well, I think that's a little harsh for two years, 443 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 8: and I grew up getting the spanks, but not at two. Brother, 444 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 8: you need to pull up and you need to talk 445 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 8: to you, to your to your future husband about it, 446 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,959 Speaker 8: because obviously he has no children. Anybody talking about striking 447 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:23,200 Speaker 8: the baby at two. I'm just gonna say, you need more. 448 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 8: You need a strap on a two year? Are you 449 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 8: kidding me? 450 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 4: Now? 451 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,640 Speaker 2: You can traumatize this, but you need to sit down 452 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 2: and have a talk with him. 453 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:34,159 Speaker 8: And I would suggest y'all probably need to go to 454 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 8: some type of counseling about child wearing because there's so 455 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,159 Speaker 8: many other ways to raise children now. 456 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 2: But I cannot. 457 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,160 Speaker 8: Condone a guy coming in and talking about he needs 458 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,080 Speaker 8: something harder than a little smat on the butt. 459 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 2: I think I think that's dangerous. That's dangerous conversation. Is 460 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 2: this a science ting? 461 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 8: You need to pull up till you get a real 462 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 8: understanding because you can't move this man in his house 463 00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:59,119 Speaker 8: and he talking about the house severe he needed. 464 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,439 Speaker 1: It's a two year and he's going to adopt this point. 465 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:02,680 Speaker 4: No. 466 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,119 Speaker 8: I mean, I appreciate you loving him, but he's got 467 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 8: the wrong idea of discipline. 468 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,399 Speaker 2: And definitely the wrong time. Two at a belt. Are 469 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 2: you crazy? 470 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:13,360 Speaker 1: What two year old doesn't say? 471 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 6: No, that's a terrible it's. 472 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 1: A terrible tune. 473 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, you hey, listen to me. You should buy him 474 00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 2: those books. I forgot the name of it. 475 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 8: Everybody used to give it out to pregnant women to 476 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 8: show you the stages of development and a child and 477 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 8: what to look for. 478 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 479 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:31,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, and you know, like by two they should be 480 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:36,240 Speaker 8: doing this. Everybody tell you. The first they learn no 481 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 8: in the tubes and they're starting to shape themselves about 482 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:44,120 Speaker 8: likes and digslikes and so no, it is a scientist 483 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 8: say that, I have a problem with. 484 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 2: What you're saying. It's not being contraary. 485 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,119 Speaker 11: They just all say no, that's their first little taste 486 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:53,200 Speaker 11: of independence. 487 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it, that's all it is. 488 00:24:55,760 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 8: Yeah, they can walk through. H How he messing your 489 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 8: day up because he just said, no issue beyond me. 490 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 1: He told me, no, he's not a good candidate to 491 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 1: me for a husband or a daddy. 492 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 2: Out of the question, Man. 493 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 11: Mickey and Teenack New Jersey says, my sister hooked me 494 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 11: up with one of her coworkers and we went out 495 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,680 Speaker 11: on a blind date. The date was great, and she 496 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 11: offered to cook for our second day. I got to 497 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 11: her house ready to eat good, and instead I was 498 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 11: shocked by what I walked into. Her shoes were all 499 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 11: over the entrance to her place, and cat hair was 500 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 11: all on her kitchen seat cushions. I could see her 501 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 11: laundry room from the kitchen and it was full of 502 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 11: piles of dirty underwear. I told her I'd lost to 503 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 11: my appetite and left. Now she's giving my sister grief 504 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 11: at work, and my sister is mad at me. 505 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,199 Speaker 1: How is this my fault? Please help me. 506 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:50,200 Speaker 2: It ain't. 507 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 8: I'm not dating a trifle woman. No, you nasty food 508 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 8: all over your house? Cat hairl the thing. We all 509 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 8: want your damn food, nop. I like eating in clean plates. 510 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 8: Now you knew I was coming, You invited me over, 511 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,399 Speaker 8: and this is how your house looked. This is knowing 512 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 8: you coming. What's going to happen when she get comfortable 513 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 8: with you coming? 514 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:12,679 Speaker 6: Just pop up? 515 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,920 Speaker 2: So people normally put their best foot forward. 516 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 8: If this is the best foot, I don't want see 517 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 8: the other foot, and I don't give damn my sister 518 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:21,040 Speaker 8: mad at me? 519 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 2: You date a NaSTA head? 520 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 11: Yeah, all right, Destiny and Orlando, says, a guy I've 521 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 11: been dating for three years thinks he's a relationship counselor 522 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,359 Speaker 11: because he posts videos of his life experiences and girls 523 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 11: flock to his posts for advice. He responds to their 524 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 11: comments and flirts with them. He says, it's all part 525 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 11: of gaining trust, so the women will pay to see 526 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 11: him speak. His first paid event is in two weeks 527 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:45,879 Speaker 11: in Vegas, and he hasn't invited me. 528 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 1: Do I trust the process and let him go? Or 529 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 1: should I buy my own ticket to Vegas? 530 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 4: No? 531 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:57,320 Speaker 8: Look, he's your boyfriend. You didn't get invited. Secondly, why 532 00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 8: would you buy a ticket to his event? Thirdly, why 533 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:05,399 Speaker 8: would he not invite you? And fourthly, why are you 534 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:07,600 Speaker 8: trying to hang on to something that don't want to 535 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 8: be held on? 536 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 2: Two three years? 537 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 8: He a dating expert, he'd be flirting. He finna go 538 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 8: to Vegas and flirting? 539 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 11: All right? 540 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 2: You up in that. 541 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 6: Blocking you're listening. 542 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 1: Morning show ladies and gentlemen, sister Odell. 543 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 2: Day, Oh me bye rap a bar? 544 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:41,440 Speaker 12: Well? 545 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,960 Speaker 2: Well, well, good morning is everywhere? 546 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 4: You know. 547 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,440 Speaker 14: It's my favorite holiday. It just puts me in such 548 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 14: good chill with everyone and everything. 549 00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 11: Holly, hey, sister, Odell, Happy holidays. 550 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,159 Speaker 2: How you doing today, Shirley? 551 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 11: I am doing well, sister Odell. I love the holidays. 552 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 11: Merry Christmas to you. 553 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 2: Go me too. And that's real sweeties. Hey boy with 554 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:13,440 Speaker 2: that high boys. 555 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,200 Speaker 1: Hi junior mon is this Dowdare? 556 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 15: Stand up there? 557 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:20,120 Speaker 4: Yeah? 558 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 2: Steal up there, real high boys? You got there? Well, 559 00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:26,119 Speaker 2: might as well say hi to the happiest one on 560 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 2: the show for Christmas. 561 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 6: Hey, Loia, Hello, good morning, good morning. 562 00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 2: Morning, morning mornings to everyone. So what can I do 563 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 2: for y'all today? What did you want? 564 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 14: Any special requests? I mean the giving holiday spirit to 565 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 14: move well? 566 00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 1: Since Odell, First of all, I know you have. 567 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:54,040 Speaker 11: Some holiday traditions, like you know, when you open your 568 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,920 Speaker 11: gifts son Christmas? Or what do you do Christmas Eve? 569 00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 11: Putting up your tree, things like that, you know what, Yeah, 570 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 11: what's your Christmas like? And then you know, if we 571 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 11: have time, and I hope we did, you. 572 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 14: Know most well, you know, Sweeten, most of my family separated, 573 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 14: you know, going their own ways, and they hair chills 574 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 14: and everything. So if I tried to see all of them, 575 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 14: I'll just be on the plane all day. So some 576 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 14: of us come over and you know, some time with me. 577 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 2: I put my tree up right after Thanksgiving though. 578 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 1: Oh yes, yes, ma'am, yes, ma'am. 579 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 2: So I don't actually put it up myself. I has peoples. 580 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 6: Oh okay, really wow, I didn't know that. Well, when 581 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 6: you get people, when I can see has people that 582 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 6: helps me? 583 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:46,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, she might need a little help. 584 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 14: I has people that helps me, you know, like you 585 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,000 Speaker 14: and you the last person need to ask about who 586 00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 14: got people? 587 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,080 Speaker 2: Where Santa Claus gets you from. 588 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 4: Elf? 589 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 1: Well, do you cook anything special, sister Odell? Like a favorite? 590 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 2: I cooked? 591 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 14: You know, I'm really good at dressing in yams. I 592 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 14: love dressing and yams. And I buys my turkey now 593 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 14: already cook from honey bake. That way, I ain't got 594 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 14: to be in there watching it. You know honey bake 595 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 14: do it? 596 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 11: Uh huh okay, okay, all right, Well you want to 597 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 11: bless us with the song since you're here? 598 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I know you love Christmas songs. Love you 599 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 1: couldn't finish I see it all. 600 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:07,160 Speaker 2: Jeez? 601 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 1: Did you like jingle bells? Cis Jo Dell? 602 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 14: Well, you know the original version. They changed it when 603 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 14: white people started singing it. 604 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,920 Speaker 1: What do you mean? What do you mean like jingle bells? 605 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 1: Jingle bells. 606 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 11: That's nothing. 607 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 2: Used to be jingle bells. 608 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 14: Used to go like this, jangle all, jangle all, jangle. 609 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 1: All, jangle, jingle. 610 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:45,959 Speaker 14: Lord, jangle bells, jingle bells, jangle bells, jingle all away. 611 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 14: God said, jangle bells, jangle bells, jangle all the way. 612 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 2: Then, you know, white folks couldn't do it, so they 613 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,480 Speaker 2: had to simplify, you know, to what. 614 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, what's your version of the bell don't like you? 615 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 2: You know, okay, we're just white. 616 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:15,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, just kill a show. You know that was off 617 00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 1: the red nose. 618 00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's a good. 619 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 1: Well, you know. 620 00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:27,280 Speaker 14: That's really not a Christmas song because you know, every 621 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,560 Speaker 14: don knows rain Deer really can't fly. 622 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,400 Speaker 1: You know, don't tell me. 623 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 2: You can't fly, No Rainer. 624 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,760 Speaker 1: Well, y'all the one lying to the kids. 625 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 2: But what if you want me to do? 626 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,520 Speaker 1: We have children learning you can't. 627 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. 628 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:47,040 Speaker 1: I was devastated. 629 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 4: Well you know. 630 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:50,720 Speaker 2: It has they seen him fly? 631 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 1: Have a heart, sister, Odell. 632 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 2: Now, come on, this is for the kids. 633 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 1: What about like I have a okay for the kids. 634 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:07,040 Speaker 2: Okay, so then listen to me for the kids. Just listening. 635 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 2: This is what's happening. 636 00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 14: There's a white man that puts on the suit and 637 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,000 Speaker 14: gets in the sledg with twelve reindeer, and they put 638 00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 14: him all across the hood and he slams on people's 639 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:21,360 Speaker 14: roof and theyver being shot, and comes down the chimney 640 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 14: and it fetched down everybody's chimney. 641 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,200 Speaker 2: Now, if you ain't got the chimney, he comes through 642 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 2: the windows or. 643 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 14: Under the door, and then he loves all the presents, 644 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 14: the stuff you don't want, and that's what he is. 645 00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 14: He's just sand across and if you ain't ever got 646 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 14: what you wanted, that pretty much explains. 647 00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 4: Well. 648 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 1: All I can say to that is thank you, sister Odell. 649 00:33:53,120 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: Shit the snow hawks open you coming up next to. 650 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:04,960 Speaker 4: Laugh. 651 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show, all right, Steve, please do the honors. 652 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 11: Uh. 653 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,920 Speaker 8: It warms my heart, it does it now to give 654 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 8: you that it does because it's always it never disappoints 655 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,520 Speaker 8: me in general. We're about to hear from the one 656 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:29,319 Speaker 8: and only Jay Rap. Jay Rap is an acronyms. Uh 657 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:34,880 Speaker 8: huh stands for Junior's raggedy Ass poems ahead. 658 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:38,799 Speaker 10: Thank you you know it is Christmas time, Shirley, uh huh, 659 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:42,799 Speaker 10: call you know. There's a story it's called the poem, 660 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 10: is called a Christmas story. And you know this is 661 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 10: something that parents do pretty much on Christmas Eve, and 662 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 10: here it is go to bed. I'm talking at least 663 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,560 Speaker 10: a royal Fred. You heard exactly what I said. I 664 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,879 Speaker 10: ain't gonna tell you no more, go to bed. Sanna 665 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:06,240 Speaker 10: ain't coming by here. Don't cry, no, no, wipe your tears. 666 00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:09,400 Speaker 10: Y'all heard what I said. Now what did I tell you? 667 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 1: Kids? 668 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 15: You told us to go to bed? 669 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 10: Okay, Then now if I come up to them stairs, 670 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,720 Speaker 10: don't get scared because y'all know why I'm. 671 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:19,799 Speaker 1: Wooping, asked. Then you go to bed at d n. 672 00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:30,960 Speaker 8: What there's no Christmas a love of any traumatie I've 673 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 8: ever heard in my life that Christmas Eve. 674 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:35,839 Speaker 2: Go to bed. 675 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:39,879 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Sanna ain't coming. 676 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:44,400 Speaker 15: You know you can't stay up and see Sam. Kids 677 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 15: know they can't stay up. 678 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:52,120 Speaker 2: They always I don't even want to live there, Miss 679 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,400 Speaker 2: will miss nothing. No, that's the story I. 680 00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 15: Got every Christmas Eve. I never go to bed. 681 00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:58,680 Speaker 10: I don't want to see Sam. Hell you mean, who 682 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:00,319 Speaker 10: don't want to see the man? I said on left, 683 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,239 Speaker 10: he said he coming by the house. What I'm gonna 684 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:06,520 Speaker 10: go to bed. You know what's going on down there? 685 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,399 Speaker 10: Why did you have traumatized? You ain't never been told 686 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 10: to go to bed on Christy, We are not traumatized. 687 00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,440 Speaker 10: It's the kids were concerned about kids? 688 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 1: Are they yelling? And that's what all they was saying. 689 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 1: All they're yelling, Junior, hey, to bed? 690 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 2: When I wake up and come downstairs the next day? 691 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:33,720 Speaker 8: Would want where is the broad about the Christmas carols 692 00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 8: and the egg nog and what is that ers and 693 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:38,560 Speaker 8: Santa Claus coming down. 694 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:40,120 Speaker 2: That what happened? 695 00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:40,879 Speaker 3: Yeah? 696 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:42,840 Speaker 1: I ain't none of that in here. This is what 697 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 1: I wrote. 698 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 15: What's the wonder about how Christmas is threshed? 699 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,400 Speaker 2: Trying to get your ass beating? 700 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 4: Now? 701 00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:55,560 Speaker 1: That's that's it there. You gotta Junior, I am traumatized, right. 702 00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 15: What you don't think that's gonna be saying on Crissy bad. 703 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 2: Case? 704 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's why I did. 705 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:10,799 Speaker 15: The kid's gonna be Steve, you can't sit up all 706 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:11,359 Speaker 15: night long? 707 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:14,160 Speaker 2: You know why? And go away? 708 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,479 Speaker 1: You're listening morning show? 709 00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 6: All right? 710 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:22,359 Speaker 1: Steve introduced him. 711 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:22,799 Speaker 4: He's here. 712 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 1: Well that's wrong. 713 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:29,040 Speaker 2: You don't feel like being into Christmas? 714 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 4: Bid is no? No, I don't. 715 00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 2: I don't write happy Christmas songs, because there's enough of those. 716 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 16: Happy, happy Christmas songs get lost in the shuffle all 717 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,360 Speaker 16: and dector halls. 718 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 2: Who the hell want to hear that? 719 00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:49,200 Speaker 1: Over and Lord oversat your head? 720 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 2: Right for the sad and downtrock. 721 00:37:54,640 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 1: Grinch off the way hit it. Hello, it's Christmas time. 722 00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:09,520 Speaker 1: I'm again. 723 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:18,680 Speaker 17: I can't believe it's same Man of Soul on Chrisple. 724 00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:29,239 Speaker 18: The time, just pastly bad skinning catching from a Halloween. 725 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:33,440 Speaker 18: But I have a ticket part a. 726 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:35,480 Speaker 1: Damn it's Christmas. 727 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:49,480 Speaker 19: Also prod crity people said, say, I'd ratherless week on 728 00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:50,080 Speaker 19: the show. 729 00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,719 Speaker 1: Lady please, no boy. 730 00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:01,840 Speaker 18: My father to Monday and can't even. 731 00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 17: My wallet just says no way, damn It's Christmas, Shine, Christmas, long, 732 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 17: fun Christmas, happy, pro Christmas. 733 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:31,600 Speaker 1: No hose house. You're a mean one, mister jer. 734 00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:34,640 Speaker 16: Singing to somebody. 735 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:39,600 Speaker 2: Somebody refuse if you're hearing some notes. 736 00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,440 Speaker 1: Too many happy Christmas songs out there. 737 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:49,239 Speaker 16: Every year, somebody got a Christmas album. Is happy that 738 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 16: I'm in a I'm in the lane all by myself. 739 00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 2: Here you are. 740 00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:53,799 Speaker 3: I don't want to be. 741 00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 2: Got a tree up je no. 742 00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:00,640 Speaker 1: Insult. 743 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,520 Speaker 2: I can't imagine my house. Ain't no cheat. 744 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 6: Especially grandchildren. 745 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 16: You a great well that they want to see. Treat 746 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:19,520 Speaker 16: go to the other granddaddy house because. 747 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:24,839 Speaker 1: One you buy them gifts. Okay, please tell me that, Yeah, 748 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:25,480 Speaker 1: buy gifts. 749 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 2: I bet it gives. 750 00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,200 Speaker 1: It ain't you don't put a happy you don't put 751 00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:32,880 Speaker 1: it under the tree though that it's just sitting up 752 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:33,400 Speaker 1: on the coppet. 753 00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,880 Speaker 2: They're just sitting up on the competit. It ain't wrap. 754 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:40,919 Speaker 6: Got ay. 755 00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 2: That laptop over there, that yours. That's how j passed. 756 00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,720 Speaker 1: That gives kill in the bag Jay with a receipt. 757 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:51,160 Speaker 2: They want to take it back. You never know, you know, 758 00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:57,680 Speaker 2: one iPhone all keep myself so sad. 759 00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:01,800 Speaker 15: Hey, that bike over there, that's yours. The man, no 760 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:02,760 Speaker 15: guessing nothing. 761 00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:05,560 Speaker 1: You you have to do better. We're gonna we're gonna 762 00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:06,600 Speaker 1: have to help you working on. 763 00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:08,719 Speaker 8: Yeah, celebrate christ I'm gonna tell you right now, I 764 00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:10,400 Speaker 8: have known him way along and than all y'all you 765 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:10,959 Speaker 8: can stop. 766 00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:13,040 Speaker 2: It's deep in it. 767 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,520 Speaker 1: Have you have you ever invited him over to your 768 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 1: house Steve for Christmas? 769 00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:21,320 Speaker 4: Maybe? I don't know. 770 00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:29,120 Speaker 8: Not having his unhappy ass that's my damn holiday. I'm 771 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:32,920 Speaker 8: trying to ship his old hit ass by himself. 772 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,480 Speaker 1: Steve, where is he gonna eat and stuff Christmas? 773 00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:37,439 Speaker 8: That's why he needs to be by his damn self, 774 00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:40,480 Speaker 8: no matter more, your unhappy ass at day house. 775 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 1: You gotta eat Christmas dinner, Steve. 776 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:52,239 Speaker 2: He don't have a Christmas tree, sad, and he got diabetes. 777 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 2: I'm not saying. 778 00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:56,600 Speaker 6: Because you know he can't eat them. 779 00:41:57,040 --> 00:42:01,160 Speaker 2: You know that he over here sad week ain't had Okay. 780 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:06,279 Speaker 6: It's too much, all right. 781 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:10,279 Speaker 1: Coming up next is the nephew. He's got the prank 782 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:15,560 Speaker 1: phone call. Right after this, you're listening morning show. 783 00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,560 Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about 784 00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:22,040 Speaker 11: four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today, and 785 00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:26,600 Speaker 11: the subject is his ex wife got a real Christmas tree. 786 00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:30,240 Speaker 1: Oh hell, we'll talk about. 787 00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:30,960 Speaker 16: That in a few. 788 00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,440 Speaker 11: Welcome into that in just a few, because right now 789 00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,160 Speaker 11: the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. What 790 00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,120 Speaker 11: you got for us today, nephew. 791 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,760 Speaker 2: Let's see, let's see, let's see. We're gonna go deep into. 792 00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 6: Archives. 793 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:51,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm looking through my little folders and files. Oki, 794 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,800 Speaker 2: my prank index, my prank index. Alight. 795 00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:06,239 Speaker 9: Right here is your wife doctor, your wife's doctor. Yeah, 796 00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:09,879 Speaker 9: your wife doctor, cat dog. 797 00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:14,400 Speaker 4: If you would Hello, Hello, I'm trying to get Andrea. Please. 798 00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:19,520 Speaker 4: Who's calling? This is doctor Hendricks. Oh yeah, yeah, God, 799 00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 4: how you doing? 800 00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:20,359 Speaker 2: Doctor? 801 00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:21,080 Speaker 4: Are you doing? 802 00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:23,880 Speaker 5: I'm all right, she's not she's not in right now. 803 00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:25,520 Speaker 5: I want to leave a message something. 804 00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:29,440 Speaker 4: Uh yeah, Libra messages that you know, she came in. 805 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:33,680 Speaker 4: She had an appointment this morning, right right right, right right? Anything? Okay, 806 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,239 Speaker 4: everything's good, everything's good. You know I've been Andrew's gone 807 00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:39,799 Speaker 4: to collegist for quite some time now, so yeah, yeah, 808 00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:43,279 Speaker 4: I know, right right right, okay, Well, listen, can see 809 00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,279 Speaker 4: if she's able to get back in tomorrow. I need 810 00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:46,200 Speaker 4: to get one more. 811 00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:48,600 Speaker 5: Good look at her, one one that looks everything. 812 00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:51,120 Speaker 4: Okay. I just want to check a few things, you know. 813 00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,120 Speaker 4: If I get one more good look, a good look 814 00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:54,240 Speaker 4: at her, I think I'll be fine. 815 00:43:55,080 --> 00:44:00,600 Speaker 5: What don't y'all do this like once or twice a 816 00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,759 Speaker 5: year and you wanted to come right back? 817 00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:04,360 Speaker 4: Is everything? Okay? 818 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:06,160 Speaker 5: Now you can tell me nice everything I ain't with 819 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:06,640 Speaker 5: my wife? 820 00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:10,400 Speaker 4: Uh yeah, we greg right, yeah, what's up? 821 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:11,120 Speaker 2: Talk to me? 822 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,640 Speaker 4: You know, I'm not I'm not proud to tell tell 823 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,239 Speaker 4: anyone what's going on with her. And there's nothing really 824 00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:19,399 Speaker 4: serious going on Okay, so you can relax on that part. 825 00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:21,480 Speaker 4: But I just want to get one more good look 826 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,040 Speaker 4: at her, just to be sure, one more good looks 827 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:24,640 Speaker 4: for what doctor? 828 00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 5: If nothing serious going on? 829 00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:32,160 Speaker 4: Well I think uh, I think what, Well, she'll be fine, 830 00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:35,759 Speaker 4: she'll be fine, She'll be fine. Greg, Hey, man, awful 831 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,400 Speaker 4: with the record. I tell you something, man that H 832 00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:40,719 Speaker 4: and I don't really you know, talk like this. But 833 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:42,960 Speaker 4: off the record, man, you you and I? Man, we 834 00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,560 Speaker 4: be Uh we're the only ones, aren't we? 835 00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:45,960 Speaker 11: What? 836 00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:48,960 Speaker 4: What? You and I? We're the only ones? Aren't we 837 00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:50,040 Speaker 4: the only ones? 838 00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:51,640 Speaker 5: What are you talking about? 839 00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:53,920 Speaker 4: What are you saying? Well, you know we're the only 840 00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:54,920 Speaker 4: one that's seen it? You know? 841 00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,200 Speaker 5: Oh what what are you saying? 842 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:01,320 Speaker 4: Uh? Uh? Just just say that, you know, off the record, 843 00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:04,440 Speaker 4: you and I are worthy. We're the only ones. We know, 844 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:06,600 Speaker 4: were the only ones? What? What do you? 845 00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:06,920 Speaker 5: What do you? 846 00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:07,640 Speaker 4: What are you saying? 847 00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:09,160 Speaker 5: I'm not understanding you. 848 00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:09,759 Speaker 4: What are you saying? 849 00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:11,200 Speaker 5: We are the only ones? 850 00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:11,480 Speaker 4: What? 851 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:12,480 Speaker 5: Well? 852 00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,800 Speaker 4: Well, we have you and I have something in common? 853 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:16,439 Speaker 4: I mean you and I are the only one that's 854 00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:20,160 Speaker 4: that's uh, you know, basically seeing Andrea? 855 00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:23,800 Speaker 5: What do you wait a minute, that's not a topic 856 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:24,480 Speaker 5: of discussion. 857 00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,399 Speaker 4: Doc. What what are you trying to say? 858 00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:27,920 Speaker 5: What are you saying about my wife? 859 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:30,439 Speaker 4: I mean she's amazing, man, I mean, uh. 860 00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:34,200 Speaker 5: Whoa, whoa, whoa? Why don't need you to tell me 861 00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:37,879 Speaker 5: about my wife being amazing? Doc? You lost your damn man. 862 00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,360 Speaker 4: Well, I'm just saying she looks she looks amazing. 863 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:41,360 Speaker 5: She looks amazing. 864 00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:42,840 Speaker 4: I don't mean any hard about what. 865 00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:45,160 Speaker 5: Whoa, whoa, whoa. You ain't supposed to be looking at 866 00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:46,240 Speaker 5: her in that type fashion? 867 00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:46,480 Speaker 2: Doc? 868 00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:48,080 Speaker 4: What the hell is wrong with you? 869 00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:50,000 Speaker 5: What type of I'm professional? 870 00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 4: Is this here? 871 00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:54,160 Speaker 5: You telling my wife is amazing? You lost your damn man. 872 00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,680 Speaker 5: I can't believe I'm getting a phone call like this. 873 00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:01,960 Speaker 4: This the most unprofessionally I've ever heard. But let's keep 874 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:04,239 Speaker 4: in mind, Greg, I wasn't really calling you. 875 00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,280 Speaker 5: I was calling her, you know, like you ain't talking 876 00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,560 Speaker 5: to her, You talking to me, And you're gonna bring 877 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:10,160 Speaker 5: that type on the phone to me? 878 00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:11,839 Speaker 15: Have you lost your mind? 879 00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:13,839 Speaker 5: You told me a professional list. 880 00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:18,279 Speaker 4: Is there a way you can pass the message that, oh. 881 00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 5: I ain't passing nothing to her? 882 00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:20,839 Speaker 14: Do you know what I mean? 883 00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:23,200 Speaker 5: It's gonna make me do something crazy to you. I 884 00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:25,640 Speaker 5: believe you called me with that type talking about my wife. 885 00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:28,480 Speaker 5: Will you and I got something in common? She's amazing? 886 00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:30,040 Speaker 5: Have you lost your damn mind? 887 00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:32,520 Speaker 4: Sir? I didn't mean that. I didn't think what you 888 00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:36,680 Speaker 4: did you did don't no, no, no, I was saying 889 00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:38,480 Speaker 4: a little playful with you. I didn't think that was good. 890 00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:41,000 Speaker 5: This ain't no because they don't play. What's wrong with you? 891 00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:45,200 Speaker 5: We're playing? I'm not playing, don't you ever? Matter of fact, Doc, 892 00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:47,360 Speaker 5: I need to see you. I need I need to 893 00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,239 Speaker 5: see it. Have a session with you. We can talk 894 00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:51,640 Speaker 5: about this year. I lost your dog on man talking 895 00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:55,840 Speaker 5: about my wife amazing to you, you're the most unprofessional. 896 00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 4: I can't even go to you all these years. Was 897 00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:00,960 Speaker 4: there anyone you can get her to come in so 898 00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 4: I can get one good look. 899 00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:03,879 Speaker 5: At her to moll Hey, oh no, she ain't coming 900 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:06,680 Speaker 5: down to that little rated I'm coming down there. When 901 00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:09,040 Speaker 5: I come down there, we oh, no, matter of fact, 902 00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:11,120 Speaker 5: I'm on my way down there. How long you're gonna 903 00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:11,359 Speaker 5: be there? 904 00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,720 Speaker 4: We can straighten out. I've left the office for today. 905 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:16,279 Speaker 4: I just wanted to call and see if I could 906 00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:17,759 Speaker 4: get one good look at her for the moro. 907 00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:21,040 Speaker 5: No, you're gonna here with that? Wasn't more good gonna look. No, no, 908 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:23,640 Speaker 5: let me tell you one thing. She ain't coming at 909 00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:26,759 Speaker 5: you no more, no more, no more? Is she coming 910 00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:27,440 Speaker 5: back to see me? 911 00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,440 Speaker 4: Wait? I don't want to lose a customer, not not 912 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:31,440 Speaker 4: like you. 913 00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:34,120 Speaker 5: Ain't gonna lose a customer. I'm coming there to mam, 914 00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:36,680 Speaker 5: make me an appointment. You can check my out tomorrow. 915 00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:37,880 Speaker 5: You see how you like that? 916 00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:42,440 Speaker 4: Sir? What that's not possible? Okay, I'm definitely gonna We 917 00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:44,839 Speaker 4: don't want to lose her. If you like it, it's 918 00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,520 Speaker 4: gonna hurt me if I lose her as a client. 919 00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:48,480 Speaker 4: I don't want to miss seeing her. Don't hurt you. 920 00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,040 Speaker 5: It ain't gonna hurt you that you lose her. It's 921 00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:51,160 Speaker 5: gonna hurt you when I get there. 922 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:54,879 Speaker 4: Don't you worry about her, Greg, You've got to calm 923 00:47:54,960 --> 00:48:00,480 Speaker 4: down being I was being playful and I that's done that. 924 00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:04,640 Speaker 5: We too, we always be playful play I'm seeing you 925 00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:06,439 Speaker 5: in the morning, first thing in the morning. 926 00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:11,200 Speaker 4: Okay, what time you ten o'clock? Can I ask you something? Greg? 927 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:12,760 Speaker 4: Do you have a brother named Tyron? 928 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:14,680 Speaker 5: What they got to do with anything? What they got 929 00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:16,120 Speaker 5: to do with over my brother? What they got to 930 00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:16,440 Speaker 5: do with you? 931 00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,080 Speaker 4: Okay. What I wanted to tell you is this is 932 00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:22,160 Speaker 4: not doctor Hendrix. This is nephew Timmy from the Steve 933 00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:25,440 Speaker 4: Allby Morning Show. Your brother Tyrann got me. The prank 934 00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:28,680 Speaker 4: phone called you. I don't give a fool you. 935 00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:30,160 Speaker 5: I'm coming to see you. 936 00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:33,680 Speaker 4: What what? What? 937 00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:35,319 Speaker 12: Hey? 938 00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,960 Speaker 4: Hey? Greg? Greg, Greg, pull up? Take this out. 939 00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:39,720 Speaker 2: Your brother Tyren. 940 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:41,960 Speaker 4: Got this is This is nephew timy man from the 941 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,360 Speaker 4: Steve Hallby Morning Show. Your brother Tyron got me. The 942 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:45,680 Speaker 4: prank phone called you. 943 00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:48,799 Speaker 5: That's what I thought you said. Man, hold on, man, 944 00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:50,960 Speaker 5: old man, let me sit out for a minute. Man, 945 00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,640 Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, boy, you lost your dad. 946 00:48:56,360 --> 00:49:00,719 Speaker 4: Hold on, you don't do it. Don't like that. 947 00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:04,399 Speaker 5: Manet my wife, y'all. What my brother telling? 948 00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:06,320 Speaker 4: You're gonna see tiring tomorrow. 949 00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,320 Speaker 5: I will see him first date in the morning. 950 00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:11,960 Speaker 4: In the morning. I'm by. 951 00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:12,600 Speaker 5: Hell. 952 00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:17,000 Speaker 4: Hey, I gotta ask you, man, what's the baddest radio 953 00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:22,880 Speaker 4: show in the lanes? The see Go? Man? You're crazy 954 00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:25,440 Speaker 4: to say playing I got time today? 955 00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:28,040 Speaker 2: You're just I got time today? 956 00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:28,919 Speaker 6: What you play? 957 00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:29,440 Speaker 2: Too far? 958 00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:30,480 Speaker 1: That was too far? 959 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:31,680 Speaker 5: That was too far? 960 00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:33,520 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, well that's. 961 00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:34,840 Speaker 6: What thank you. 962 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:36,759 Speaker 9: That's all I want you to say. That's all I 963 00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,560 Speaker 9: wanted you to say that Raccord far High a piece 964 00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:41,160 Speaker 9: of Nate. Happy birthday. Call it there you go. 965 00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:41,719 Speaker 2: Take that. 966 00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:45,799 Speaker 9: You did. 967 00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:47,279 Speaker 2: That was thank you. 968 00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:51,360 Speaker 9: Thank you New York, New York, Big city of dreams. 969 00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:54,439 Speaker 9: Get ready baby. February the third, the nephew was coming 970 00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,239 Speaker 9: to the n y C The City Winery. You heard 971 00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:59,879 Speaker 9: what I said. Tickets are on sale right now, February third, 972 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,040 Speaker 9: Saturday Night, New York City. If you can make it 973 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:04,880 Speaker 9: New York, you can make it anywhere. Tickets on sale 974 00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:05,440 Speaker 9: right now. 975 00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:07,239 Speaker 1: All right, nephew coming up next. 976 00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:07,600 Speaker 4: Thank you. 977 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:11,319 Speaker 11: Strawberry letter subject his ex wife got a real Christmas tree. 978 00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:15,000 Speaker 11: We'll get into that right after this. You're listening Steve 979 00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:19,719 Speaker 11: Harvey Morning Show, and it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter. 980 00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:23,640 Speaker 11: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, works, sex, parenting, 981 00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:26,960 Speaker 11: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM 982 00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:30,719 Speaker 11: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 983 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:33,359 Speaker 11: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 984 00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:35,920 Speaker 11: going to read this one right here right now. You 985 00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:37,160 Speaker 11: never know, it could be yours. 986 00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:38,319 Speaker 2: M hm. 987 00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:42,480 Speaker 10: All right, everybody buck up and hold on tight. It's 988 00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:45,920 Speaker 10: time for the strawberry Little my friend Shirlie Straupberry. 989 00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:45,920 Speaker 4: Thank you. 990 00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:52,000 Speaker 11: My friend Junior's subject, what happened his ex wife got 991 00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:55,160 Speaker 11: a real Christmas tree is the subject of this letter 992 00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:59,520 Speaker 11: for today. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm on my second marriage 993 00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,440 Speaker 11: and there's a issue in my marriage. My husband was 994 00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,239 Speaker 11: married for eighteen years and he's got two daughters and 995 00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:06,640 Speaker 11: joint custody of them. 996 00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:09,800 Speaker 1: I have a daughter that lives with us. We've blended 997 00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:11,120 Speaker 1: the family nicely. 998 00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,880 Speaker 11: And his daughters are sweet to my daughter, but they 999 00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:17,120 Speaker 11: like to remind her that their father is not her father. 1000 00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:20,279 Speaker 11: My husband is not good at setting boundaries for his 1001 00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:23,640 Speaker 11: ex wife. When we started dating, he let me know 1002 00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:26,279 Speaker 11: that he and his ex are friends and whatever he 1003 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:29,759 Speaker 11: does for her is for his daughters. I can accept that, 1004 00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,320 Speaker 11: but when it gets to be too much, I step 1005 00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:35,719 Speaker 11: in to help him set boundaries. The other day, he 1006 00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:38,760 Speaker 11: told me that since his ex wife and the girls 1007 00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:41,120 Speaker 11: moved into a new house, he wanted to buy his 1008 00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:45,360 Speaker 11: daughters a nice Christmas tree. I was against it, but 1009 00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:49,960 Speaker 11: then I realized his daughter's feelings. Then I considered his 1010 00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,759 Speaker 11: daughter's feelings and I agree to it. We got a 1011 00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:55,759 Speaker 11: little seven foot artificial tree out of the storage room 1012 00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:59,680 Speaker 11: and I went and bought new ornaments. Saturday, he told 1013 00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,120 Speaker 11: me he was picking up his daughters to get a tree, 1014 00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 11: and he took my daughter with them. I wasn't invited. 1015 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:09,440 Speaker 11: Two hours after they left, my daughter posted a video 1016 00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:12,759 Speaker 11: in her Instagram story and they were shopping for a 1017 00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:17,439 Speaker 11: real tree. They picked a giant, beautiful, real, fluffy tree. 1018 00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:20,319 Speaker 11: I had assumed they would go to Walmart and buy 1019 00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:23,399 Speaker 11: an artificial tree. My daughter said they took the tree 1020 00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:26,120 Speaker 11: to his ex wife's house and he set it up 1021 00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:27,680 Speaker 11: for them. He set it up for them and they 1022 00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:31,520 Speaker 11: decorated it together. I was crushed because I decorated our 1023 00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:35,320 Speaker 11: fake tree alone while they were gone. My husband always 1024 00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:38,880 Speaker 11: justifies things by saying that his daughter shouldn't suffer because 1025 00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:39,960 Speaker 11: he left their mother. 1026 00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:42,719 Speaker 1: Does he do it out of guilt? Will his ex 1027 00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:46,080 Speaker 1: wife be forever a part of our family? 1028 00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:46,480 Speaker 3: Well? 1029 00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, in a sense. 1030 00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:51,200 Speaker 11: She may not be a part of your family, okay, 1031 00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:54,400 Speaker 11: but she is the mother of your husband's daughters, and 1032 00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:58,480 Speaker 11: those are your stepdaughters. So the ex will always be 1033 00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,440 Speaker 11: in your life somehow, Okay, as long as you know 1034 00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:06,280 Speaker 11: she's got the daughters and everything. You know, my issue 1035 00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:08,480 Speaker 11: is with you though, really, I mean, this is kind 1036 00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:11,600 Speaker 11: of petty. You're worried about a Christmas tree here. I 1037 00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:14,120 Speaker 11: think you're saying it's about that, but what it really 1038 00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:16,279 Speaker 11: is is that you don't want your man over there, 1039 00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:18,560 Speaker 11: and you don't want him over there doing stuff for 1040 00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:21,440 Speaker 11: them like putting up the tree. As a family. I 1041 00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:25,839 Speaker 11: think you're jealous when where this is concerned. But I'm 1042 00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:28,640 Speaker 11: telling you don't be insecure. Because he still wants to 1043 00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:32,200 Speaker 11: spend time with his daughters. That means he's a good dad. Okay, 1044 00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:35,920 Speaker 11: He's right. He left their mom, not his kids, so 1045 00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:38,479 Speaker 11: he wants to continue to show up in their life 1046 00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:40,360 Speaker 11: for them as their father. 1047 00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:43,160 Speaker 1: He and the ex don't have anything going on. 1048 00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,520 Speaker 11: I mean, if you guys can afford it, why don't 1049 00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,279 Speaker 11: you You know, if there's something wrong with your tree, 1050 00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:51,880 Speaker 11: why don't you and your husband and the girls go 1051 00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:54,000 Speaker 11: out and get a tree. You didn't have to stay 1052 00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:56,440 Speaker 11: there and decorate the tree by yourself. You could have 1053 00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,920 Speaker 11: waited until they came home and you guys could have 1054 00:53:59,000 --> 00:53:59,640 Speaker 11: done it together. 1055 00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:03,040 Speaker 1: You know, he just went with the girls to get 1056 00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:03,680 Speaker 1: a new tree. 1057 00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:05,680 Speaker 11: You need to talk to him if you have a 1058 00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:08,320 Speaker 11: problem with how he's moving right now, but he sounds 1059 00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,160 Speaker 11: like a father who's just trying to do the right 1060 00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:14,239 Speaker 11: thing to me. As crazy as that all seems, it sounds. Yeah, 1061 00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:15,960 Speaker 11: I don't have a problem with this, Steve. 1062 00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:21,560 Speaker 2: Well, it's a twofold situation. In my eyes. 1063 00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:25,440 Speaker 8: He's being a good dad and he's being punished for that. 1064 00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:28,560 Speaker 8: But he's doing it, and he's making a couple of 1065 00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:33,960 Speaker 8: mistakes the way he's doing it. You know, first of all, 1066 00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:38,080 Speaker 8: when y'all this is both of y'all second marriage, he 1067 00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:40,120 Speaker 8: set this whole thing up by. 1068 00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:46,920 Speaker 2: Telling you that, you know, look, but I'm gonna do stuff. 1069 00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:50,600 Speaker 8: With a daughter, and I'm gonna do stuff for my daughter, 1070 00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,719 Speaker 8: and I'm gonna do stuff for her, but the reason 1071 00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,320 Speaker 8: I'm doing it for her is for my daughter. He 1072 00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:57,440 Speaker 8: set all of this up with you in the beginning 1073 00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:01,239 Speaker 8: because he's active in their life, as he should be. 1074 00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:04,200 Speaker 8: Now you all say, you all have blended the family 1075 00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,719 Speaker 8: together nicely, But the daughters are sweet to your daughter, 1076 00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:08,680 Speaker 8: but they always remind her that ain't your daddy. 1077 00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:11,800 Speaker 2: They do that. Kids gonna be kids, They gonna jockey 1078 00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:12,440 Speaker 2: for position. 1079 00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:16,759 Speaker 8: Your husband is not good with setting boundaries for his 1080 00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:22,080 Speaker 8: ex wife and his ex wife is flexing because she 1081 00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:27,560 Speaker 8: has two kids with him, and she's taking advantage of it. Now, 1082 00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:29,759 Speaker 8: let's get to the whole thing about what this letter 1083 00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:33,960 Speaker 8: is about. His ex got a real Christmas tree. First 1084 00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:37,480 Speaker 8: of all, when he picked up the daughter, when he 1085 00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:41,320 Speaker 8: picked up his two daughters, and he took your daughter. 1086 00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:46,960 Speaker 8: He took your daughter, which is his daughter, which is 1087 00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:51,640 Speaker 8: to with his biological daughters, because he wanted to get 1088 00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:57,000 Speaker 8: them a tree because they had moved into a new house. Well, 1089 00:55:57,239 --> 00:56:01,480 Speaker 8: now here the problem you made though when you took 1090 00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:07,040 Speaker 8: your daughter from your new wife with you, and she 1091 00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:11,160 Speaker 8: posted it on a story. So I'm assuming that these 1092 00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:15,160 Speaker 8: might these might be teenage kids if they can post 1093 00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:16,400 Speaker 8: on stories and stuff. 1094 00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:19,719 Speaker 11: Wait a minute, what did you say? Wait, say that 1095 00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:26,239 Speaker 11: one more time, Steve, about the daughters. What just I 1096 00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:27,400 Speaker 11: just wanted you to say. 1097 00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:27,839 Speaker 1: That one more time? 1098 00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,560 Speaker 11: What you said about the daughters. He has two daughters 1099 00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:33,200 Speaker 11: with his ex. He has two daughters with his ex, 1100 00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:35,520 Speaker 11: and then the wife had a daughter. The new wife 1101 00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:37,080 Speaker 11: has a second wife has a daughter. 1102 00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:41,839 Speaker 8: Okay, but see, and that's his daughter. Oh he has 1103 00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:45,840 Speaker 8: three daughters. Now, yeah, right right, separate them. If you 1104 00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:47,640 Speaker 8: separate them, they will help. 1105 00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:50,480 Speaker 2: You separate that. Yes, yeah, maybe that's what the deal is. 1106 00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:52,400 Speaker 8: When I come back, I'm gonna tell you the mistake 1107 00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:55,120 Speaker 8: he's making with this. He's a great dad, but he's 1108 00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:55,920 Speaker 8: making a mistakes. 1109 00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:56,719 Speaker 6: All Right. 1110 00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:59,680 Speaker 11: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at 1111 00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:03,600 Speaker 11: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject 1112 00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:06,560 Speaker 11: is his ex wife got a real Christmas tree. We'll 1113 00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:10,839 Speaker 11: get back into it right after this. You're listening hard 1114 00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:14,080 Speaker 11: Morning show. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's 1115 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,919 Speaker 11: Strawberry letter. The subject his ex wife got a real 1116 00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:17,880 Speaker 11: Christmas tree. 1117 00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:20,400 Speaker 2: Okay, So on the break, I read this letter again. 1118 00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:21,320 Speaker 2: This marriage. 1119 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:23,600 Speaker 8: This man was married to this woman for eighteen years 1120 00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:26,280 Speaker 8: and they got two daughters. His ex wife was married 1121 00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:28,400 Speaker 8: eighteen years and they got two daughters. So I'm going 1122 00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:31,680 Speaker 8: to assume that these two daughters are teenager, yeah, because 1123 00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:33,800 Speaker 8: they got Instagram and they posted stories. 1124 00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:34,960 Speaker 4: You. 1125 00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:38,720 Speaker 8: She the woman he's married to now, who's writing this letter. 1126 00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,840 Speaker 8: She has a daughter from her previous marriage. I don't 1127 00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:46,960 Speaker 8: know how she is, but they treat her nicely, but 1128 00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:50,640 Speaker 8: they do remind her that he's not your real daddy. 1129 00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:53,840 Speaker 8: That's our real daddy. But they treat her nicely, and 1130 00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:56,000 Speaker 8: you all have been and they're sweet to the girl. 1131 00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:58,040 Speaker 2: Okay. Cool, So we got that out the way. 1132 00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:02,120 Speaker 8: Now the man's this up by telling you, listen, I'm 1133 00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:04,640 Speaker 8: gonna do some things for my wife, my ex wife, 1134 00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:07,680 Speaker 8: because we're friends, but everything I do first because of 1135 00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:11,080 Speaker 8: the daughters. You're okay with that. Now let's get to 1136 00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:15,240 Speaker 8: what the problem is. It's a Christmas tree. He the 1137 00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:18,120 Speaker 8: ex wife and the two daughters that moved into a 1138 00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:21,120 Speaker 8: new house. He wants to get them a nice tree 1139 00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:26,960 Speaker 8: for their house for Christmas. Okay, So he takes your daughter, 1140 00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:32,640 Speaker 8: which is his daughter from this marriage, Christmas tree shopping 1141 00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:36,840 Speaker 8: with his daughters from his previous marriage, and he goes 1142 00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:41,959 Speaker 8: and buys them a real Christmas tree, big old fluffy tree. 1143 00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:45,000 Speaker 8: You'd have went to the storage room and went out 1144 00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:48,520 Speaker 8: there and got that little ragged ass Sears tree seven 1145 00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:53,560 Speaker 8: feet call in the box, man, that's in the box. 1146 00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:57,960 Speaker 2: That you've been putting up for years. And so now. 1147 00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:04,400 Speaker 8: You bought some ornaments for the treat, some new ornaments. 1148 00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:09,880 Speaker 8: They went tree shopping. You look on Instagram, your daughter 1149 00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:13,959 Speaker 8: that posted they bought a tree. They take the tree 1150 00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:17,760 Speaker 8: to his ex wife's house where his daughters live. They 1151 00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:21,280 Speaker 8: set the tree up and they all decorated. Now, you 1152 00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:26,360 Speaker 8: said earlier they went Christmas tree shopping and you weren't invited. Okay, 1153 00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:28,160 Speaker 8: it was just him and the girls. So that's cool 1154 00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:31,960 Speaker 8: because the tree is for the girls. But it's at 1155 00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:34,479 Speaker 8: the ex wife's house. I mean, that's what he said. 1156 00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:39,440 Speaker 8: So in a way, this would be cool. Here's the 1157 00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:45,640 Speaker 8: mistake he's making. You got to not make them kids 1158 00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:52,720 Speaker 8: feel and see a difference. You've got to go above 1159 00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:57,080 Speaker 8: and beyond in treating them the same. And even this 1160 00:59:57,240 --> 01:00:01,280 Speaker 8: is not your stepdaughter, this is your daughter. If the 1161 01:00:01,800 --> 01:00:05,840 Speaker 8: daughters get a real tree, everybody get a real tree. See, 1162 01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:08,160 Speaker 8: he should have bought two real trees, is what he 1163 01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:13,240 Speaker 8: should have did. Because you can't make the quote unquote 1164 01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:16,880 Speaker 8: step daughter feel step See. 1165 01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:18,600 Speaker 2: The reason we never used the word. 1166 01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:22,320 Speaker 8: Step in our family was because when you say step child, 1167 01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:27,920 Speaker 8: it's usually like a step down, and it's like a 1168 01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:30,760 Speaker 8: step down from the level that the regular children on. 1169 01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:33,400 Speaker 8: That's why we never used that term. So now, but 1170 01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:37,000 Speaker 8: you can't let them see or feel the difference. Now, 1171 01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:40,080 Speaker 8: if his daughter's got a big fluffy Christmas tree, he 1172 01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,280 Speaker 8: should have got a big Christmas tree at his house too. 1173 01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:47,640 Speaker 8: That's the mistake he made. Yes, that would that that 1174 01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:50,680 Speaker 8: would have cleared this whole thing up. And bruh, that's 1175 01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:53,600 Speaker 8: all you got to do. Everybody got to get equal 1176 01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:58,440 Speaker 8: and like treatment period. And you can't have your new 1177 01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:00,880 Speaker 8: wife feeling some kind of way because you're doing all 1178 01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:03,520 Speaker 8: this extra stuff for your ex wife, because that's how 1179 01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:06,080 Speaker 8: she looking at that too. Oh, she got a tree, 1180 01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:09,240 Speaker 8: and y'all all decorate the tree together. I didn't know 1181 01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:10,680 Speaker 8: you was gonna go over there and put it up 1182 01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:13,400 Speaker 8: and decorate it together. I wanted to surprise y'all when 1183 01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:16,440 Speaker 8: you came home. Y'all come home late. I done decorated 1184 01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:19,560 Speaker 8: the tree by myself, and y'all ass was over there 1185 01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:20,560 Speaker 8: having family time. 1186 01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:21,200 Speaker 4: Right. 1187 01:01:22,520 --> 01:01:24,880 Speaker 8: You see why she said? You see now she gonna 1188 01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:27,120 Speaker 8: be upset about that dog. And this is your mom 1189 01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:30,360 Speaker 8: because you gotta do everything equal. If you're over there 1190 01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:32,880 Speaker 8: having hot chocolate, you got to come home have hot chold. 1191 01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:39,960 Speaker 8: You'd bought the Voka pound cake from Nama Marcus over there, 1192 01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:41,960 Speaker 8: you got to come in your house with the Voka 1193 01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:46,360 Speaker 8: pound cake. Okay, you know see that's what you gotta 1194 01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:50,560 Speaker 8: do now, bro, that's the mistake you make and you've 1195 01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:52,720 Speaker 8: got to sit your husband down and say, hey, listen, 1196 01:01:53,520 --> 01:01:58,320 Speaker 8: we can't feel like with second class citizens when it 1197 01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:02,800 Speaker 8: comes to special events, while your ex and your biological 1198 01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:07,120 Speaker 8: children get all the perpse. So I think that's unfair. 1199 01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:09,200 Speaker 8: So you can do whatever you want to do for them. 1200 01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:11,920 Speaker 8: I'm not stopping you, but you needed to start doing 1201 01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:14,800 Speaker 8: the same thing over here. See that real big fluffy 1202 01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:16,960 Speaker 8: treat that was beautiful, but that would look good in 1203 01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:17,720 Speaker 8: this house too. 1204 01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:20,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, they should get one, you see. 1205 01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:22,520 Speaker 2: Because they had a new house. He feels like they 1206 01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:25,000 Speaker 2: should get a new treat. Well. Well, well, and you 1207 01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:26,600 Speaker 2: got to get to everybody else a new tree. 1208 01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:29,440 Speaker 11: Though, something a thought came to my head because a 1209 01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:31,080 Speaker 11: lot of mothers have mom guilt. 1210 01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:34,800 Speaker 1: Do dads have dad guilt as well? Is that what 1211 01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:37,040 Speaker 1: he's dealing with? Dad guilt as well? 1212 01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:42,760 Speaker 8: Yeah, because he said in the letter they can't pay 1213 01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:43,880 Speaker 8: because I left their. 1214 01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:47,840 Speaker 1: Mother right right, left their mother, not them. 1215 01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:53,280 Speaker 2: See. But then also now the you gotta be careful 1216 01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:54,800 Speaker 2: of the Disney dad. 1217 01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:56,680 Speaker 1: Syndrome too, Yeah, exactly. 1218 01:02:56,880 --> 01:02:57,560 Speaker 2: See when you do. 1219 01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:00,640 Speaker 8: See the kids, you can't be Disney Dad. And then 1220 01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:02,840 Speaker 8: all of a sudden you go home to your family 1221 01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:06,880 Speaker 8: ain't no Disney, right, it's just the old tree. 1222 01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:12,400 Speaker 2: You got Disney dad mode all the way round board, bro. 1223 01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:13,440 Speaker 1: Yeah all right. 1224 01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:16,520 Speaker 11: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve HARBFM 1225 01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:19,840 Speaker 11: on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter 1226 01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:22,520 Speaker 11: podcast on demand you're listening. 1227 01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:24,280 Speaker 1: Hard Morning show. 1228 01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:28,200 Speaker 11: According to new research, one in five Americans are planning 1229 01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:31,720 Speaker 11: on giving someone a take the hint gift this year. 1230 01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:35,080 Speaker 11: A new survey of two thousand Americans found that hint 1231 01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:38,960 Speaker 11: gifts are a pretty common practice, with one in three 1232 01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:42,840 Speaker 11: respondents saying they've given at least one in the past 1233 01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:46,160 Speaker 11: year or so or in the past period. And who 1234 01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:48,400 Speaker 11: is a person in our life most likely to give 1235 01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:51,440 Speaker 11: us one of these hint gifts? Well, research shows it's 1236 01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:53,040 Speaker 11: our own partner. 1237 01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:57,880 Speaker 2: So we'll calling you. 1238 01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:05,000 Speaker 1: Tosh for running shows. 1239 01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:08,440 Speaker 2: But you know what, don't call it. 1240 01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:11,800 Speaker 8: I think it's cool though, because dudes, we different. You know, 1241 01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:14,240 Speaker 8: if that's what we won't, then I think it's cool. 1242 01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:18,760 Speaker 1: I mean, Tasha is real cool. You know, he's real 1243 01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:19,240 Speaker 1: laid back. 1244 01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:21,920 Speaker 11: He'sai how baking him some running shoes and you know, 1245 01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:23,600 Speaker 11: get in here do your wifely duties. 1246 01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:29,520 Speaker 1: He'll say something like yeah, well, I mean yeah, like 1247 01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:30,080 Speaker 1: in the. 1248 01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:32,760 Speaker 8: Hood when you just see them shoes hanging over the 1249 01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:34,320 Speaker 8: over the telephone fire. 1250 01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:38,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I didn't want to. 1251 01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:42,800 Speaker 11: The most popular hit gift Americans give is deodorant what 1252 01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:45,760 Speaker 11: or cologne? 1253 01:04:46,480 --> 01:04:46,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1254 01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:53,600 Speaker 1: Self help books Yeah, wows more than take a hand. 1255 01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:59,640 Speaker 11: The most popular most popular gift is self help books. 1256 01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:09,400 Speaker 20: They ord real high. Also on the list were cookbooks. No, 1257 01:05:09,680 --> 01:05:11,480 Speaker 20: I did not don't get one this year. 1258 01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:20,280 Speaker 11: Society equipment Carla at Socise Equipments, and biker I know, razors, toothpaste, 1259 01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:22,520 Speaker 11: cleaning supplies, and even breath mints. 1260 01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:26,840 Speaker 1: Yes, all right, So Steven and h Junior and Tommy. 1261 01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:28,920 Speaker 11: If you guys had to give someone to take a 1262 01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:31,280 Speaker 11: hit gift, who would it be and what would it be? 1263 01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:34,400 Speaker 10: Like my sister getting every job application pamp it I 1264 01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:38,440 Speaker 10: can find, Oh it just got since she can't talk 1265 01:05:38,440 --> 01:05:40,520 Speaker 10: about they can't find the world I see now hid 1266 01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:41,480 Speaker 10: every day I will. 1267 01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:47,240 Speaker 8: Think, I think we just saw the best take a 1268 01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:49,840 Speaker 8: hit gift. If I pick you up to go shopping 1269 01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:52,400 Speaker 8: and I put your ass in the back seat because 1270 01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:55,120 Speaker 8: my I got another fine chicken in the front, that's 1271 01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:56,320 Speaker 8: about a bigger. 1272 01:05:57,040 --> 01:05:58,320 Speaker 2: Hit gift you can get. 1273 01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:06,280 Speaker 6: What about you now, my auntie. 1274 01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:08,840 Speaker 1: Is she listening? 1275 01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:10,280 Speaker 2: I don't think she listening. 1276 01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:13,800 Speaker 6: I heard a nice perm box, a nice perm. 1277 01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:21,280 Speaker 2: Damn it. Let this sit for at least twenty minutes. 1278 01:06:22,720 --> 01:06:25,920 Speaker 6: All right, lookyboy, can't win natural hair? Aybody can't do that. 1279 01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:28,040 Speaker 2: More something that they can. 1280 01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:32,280 Speaker 11: I'm sorry, more ignorant. More Shenanigan's coming up right after this. 1281 01:06:33,120 --> 01:06:40,200 Speaker 11: You're listening hard morning show Time now for Comedy Roulette, 1282 01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:43,400 Speaker 11: And let me just apologize to the one parent out 1283 01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:45,880 Speaker 11: there that's upset with me. It has something to do 1284 01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:49,640 Speaker 11: with Santa Claus and our last comedy Roulette. That's all 1285 01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:51,640 Speaker 11: I'm gonna say. So I won't get in more trouble, 1286 01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:53,120 Speaker 11: but sorry about that. 1287 01:06:53,720 --> 01:06:55,600 Speaker 2: It's not your fault. It's not your fault. 1288 01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:57,400 Speaker 1: It's your fault. Jay, You wrote it. 1289 01:06:57,520 --> 01:06:58,440 Speaker 6: So let's move. 1290 01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:04,680 Speaker 1: Bring it because I wanted to apologize. Yeah, and I 1291 01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:06,440 Speaker 1: knew it when I said it, when it came out 1292 01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:06,959 Speaker 1: of my mouth. 1293 01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:07,920 Speaker 6: All right, here we go. 1294 01:07:08,840 --> 01:07:12,520 Speaker 16: Today started again because now they're going, what about Santa Claus. 1295 01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:22,480 Speaker 1: Didn't make it worse. I didn't make it worse. Yeah, 1296 01:07:23,040 --> 01:07:25,760 Speaker 1: you guys, just pay attention. Today's categories are. 1297 01:07:30,760 --> 01:07:31,120 Speaker 2: Attention. 1298 01:07:33,080 --> 01:07:36,520 Speaker 1: Things you say to stay pat your attention. We went 1299 01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:40,160 Speaker 1: to school, surely, Oh there's that. 1300 01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:42,200 Speaker 2: All right. 1301 01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:46,240 Speaker 1: Things you say, things you say to stay. 1302 01:07:46,080 --> 01:07:51,120 Speaker 11: Out of an argument. That's why jacked up directions people 1303 01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:51,520 Speaker 11: give you. 1304 01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:54,560 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, a lot. 1305 01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:57,440 Speaker 11: Of those, right, And then stupid conversations people come up 1306 01:07:57,520 --> 01:07:59,760 Speaker 11: with to keep you on the phone. 1307 01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:04,040 Speaker 1: All right, let's spin the wheel. 1308 01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:06,360 Speaker 2: Spun it spunny, spun it around? 1309 01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:16,920 Speaker 1: Which one landed on? What guys in landed on? 1310 01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,720 Speaker 11: Stupid conversations people come up with to keep you on 1311 01:08:19,840 --> 01:08:20,439 Speaker 11: the phone. 1312 01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:25,799 Speaker 16: Let go comedy, Yeah, it was a comedy roulette. Stupid 1313 01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:28,439 Speaker 16: conversations people come up with to keep you on the phone. 1314 01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:31,080 Speaker 16: Before you go, Did I tell you big Mama's win 1315 01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:31,880 Speaker 16: an eyepatch? 1316 01:08:32,040 --> 01:08:32,160 Speaker 4: Now? 1317 01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:32,600 Speaker 2: Did I? 1318 01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:34,639 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1319 01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:36,800 Speaker 5: You had to say that. 1320 01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:44,320 Speaker 10: Stupid stupid conversations people say to keep you on the phone. 1321 01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:46,920 Speaker 15: When you heard off the grid had a spleen removed, 1322 01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:48,400 Speaker 15: he going vegan? Now did I tell you that? 1323 01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:50,240 Speaker 4: What? 1324 01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:53,200 Speaker 1: What is the world? 1325 01:08:54,000 --> 01:08:56,400 Speaker 15: It is this splee and going vegan? Got to do anything? 1326 01:08:56,960 --> 01:08:57,200 Speaker 11: Yeah? 1327 01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:02,920 Speaker 9: Now you know, Uh, stupid conversations people come up with 1328 01:09:03,040 --> 01:09:06,120 Speaker 9: to keep you on the phone. Now you know Gary's 1329 01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:09,519 Speaker 9: sister's husband's niece's boyfriend went to. 1330 01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:11,720 Speaker 2: Jail for stealing money out of the collection. 1331 01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:12,160 Speaker 6: Play at the church. 1332 01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:13,120 Speaker 2: You know that, don't. 1333 01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:18,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, Gary's sister's husbands boyfriend. 1334 01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:22,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's another thirty minutes, right, Yeah, you got to 1335 01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:23,360 Speaker 1: figure out who that is. 1336 01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:27,800 Speaker 11: Yeah, I see stupid conversations people come up with to 1337 01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:29,320 Speaker 11: keep you on the phone. 1338 01:09:30,280 --> 01:09:31,040 Speaker 2: I gotta go down. 1339 01:09:31,280 --> 01:09:39,519 Speaker 8: Well, no, about a leaf blow the other day, don't huh, 1340 01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:48,720 Speaker 8: I'll tell you. You want to hear it now, hold 1341 01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:49,200 Speaker 8: on right. 1342 01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:50,080 Speaker 2: There, let me go kid it. 1343 01:09:55,720 --> 01:10:00,000 Speaker 16: Yeah, people come up with to keep you on the phone. 1344 01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:02,680 Speaker 16: You know, I'm looking at the window right now, and 1345 01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:05,880 Speaker 16: my right tire is out of air. I'm gonna have 1346 01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:10,080 Speaker 16: to go out there and put it air, right tire, 1347 01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:12,040 Speaker 16: it's going flat. 1348 01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:13,600 Speaker 6: You got their. 1349 01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:20,439 Speaker 10: Stupid conversation people say to keep you on the phone. Hey, 1350 01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:22,599 Speaker 10: before you go listen, did I tell you my plants 1351 01:10:22,640 --> 01:10:23,880 Speaker 10: were stolen? They were dead? 1352 01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:25,439 Speaker 1: Yestere that they't going this morning. 1353 01:10:25,600 --> 01:10:28,440 Speaker 15: I don't even know who's taking plants out the neighborhood. 1354 01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:32,639 Speaker 1: That's fifteen more minutes right there. 1355 01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:35,280 Speaker 9: Stupid conversations people come up with to keep you on 1356 01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:37,960 Speaker 9: the phone. Hey, you go listen. You know, then white 1357 01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:42,519 Speaker 9: folks come out here looking for you. Yesterday I'm gonna 1358 01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:44,560 Speaker 9: deal with some kind of investigation. I just want to 1359 01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:46,200 Speaker 9: let you know, folks, get out of the phone. 1360 01:10:46,479 --> 01:10:50,000 Speaker 1: That's a good hour right there. Yeah, yeah, all right, 1361 01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:53,000 Speaker 1: Steve closed it out. Stupid conversations people come up with 1362 01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:54,880 Speaker 1: to keep you on the phone. 1363 01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:56,640 Speaker 5: You know. 1364 01:10:58,240 --> 01:10:58,280 Speaker 4: What. 1365 01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:04,320 Speaker 8: When I was little, my mamah made me learn the 1366 01:11:04,439 --> 01:11:09,000 Speaker 8: ABC's backward. Can you do it now? 1367 01:11:09,200 --> 01:11:09,439 Speaker 4: Try? 1368 01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:13,920 Speaker 2: Go ahead, me go ahead, try a right. 1369 01:11:14,160 --> 01:11:17,760 Speaker 11: Coming up trending stories on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1370 01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:19,720 Speaker 1: We'll be back in twenty minutes after the hour. Right 1371 01:11:19,800 --> 01:11:23,639 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Hardy Morning Show. 1372 01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:26,120 Speaker 6: All right. 1373 01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:28,599 Speaker 11: So, along with fastening your seat belt and placing your 1374 01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:31,800 Speaker 11: seat in an upright position, flight crews always ask us 1375 01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:35,639 Speaker 11: to put our cell phones in airplane mode before takeoff. Well, 1376 01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:38,599 Speaker 11: come to find out, only forty percent of passengers actually 1377 01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:41,960 Speaker 11: do it. The FAA believes that cell phones may interfere 1378 01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:45,320 Speaker 11: with the cockpit take off, during takeoff and landing, but 1379 01:11:45,400 --> 01:11:45,760 Speaker 11: there are no. 1380 01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:47,960 Speaker 1: Real studies to prove if this is true or not. 1381 01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:50,240 Speaker 11: So Steve, I got to ask you, do you do 1382 01:11:50,360 --> 01:11:53,800 Speaker 11: you put your cell phone in airplane mode on your jet? 1383 01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:54,519 Speaker 4: Do you do that? 1384 01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:54,840 Speaker 11: No? 1385 01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:58,360 Speaker 8: No, I don't put my phone on airplane mode on 1386 01:11:58,560 --> 01:11:59,400 Speaker 8: commercial flight. 1387 01:12:01,560 --> 01:12:03,000 Speaker 2: I'm part of the problem. 1388 01:12:03,160 --> 01:12:05,360 Speaker 6: You are part of the problem. 1389 01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:09,200 Speaker 2: Why not let everybody else put theirs on airplane mode? 1390 01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:12,519 Speaker 1: And they did and we do, and. 1391 01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:19,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, something that is happening. I got to be able 1392 01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:21,040 Speaker 2: to call somebody. 1393 01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:28,280 Speaker 8: Yeah no, you know, seriously, like Okay, for example, let's 1394 01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:31,479 Speaker 8: say an incident breaks out on the plane. Let's say 1395 01:12:31,560 --> 01:12:34,880 Speaker 8: somebody is up there doing something illegal. I need to 1396 01:12:34,920 --> 01:12:36,120 Speaker 8: call the police, somebody. 1397 01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:39,760 Speaker 2: You ain't got no service up there. Boy, you can't see. 1398 01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:43,240 Speaker 2: You can't come from up well. 1399 01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:58,640 Speaker 21: Private different private private jet five guh all right, all right, 1400 01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:01,800 Speaker 21: rule breakers, Steve uh coming up. 1401 01:13:01,880 --> 01:13:04,960 Speaker 11: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 1402 01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:10,120 Speaker 11: after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, 1403 01:13:10,200 --> 01:13:11,360 Speaker 11: please do the honors. 1404 01:13:15,080 --> 01:13:15,160 Speaker 4: Uh. 1405 01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:18,639 Speaker 8: It warms my heart, it does it now to give 1406 01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:21,960 Speaker 8: you this. It does because it's always It never disappoints me. 1407 01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:23,000 Speaker 11: General. 1408 01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:25,320 Speaker 8: We're about to hear from the one and only Jay Rap. 1409 01:13:26,120 --> 01:13:30,679 Speaker 8: Jay Rap is a aqunym uh huh. Stairs for Junior's 1410 01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:35,400 Speaker 8: Raggedy Ass Poems ahead, thank you. 1411 01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:38,639 Speaker 15: You know it is Christmas time, Shirley, Uh huh. 1412 01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:39,479 Speaker 2: Tom called. 1413 01:13:39,920 --> 01:13:42,840 Speaker 10: You know there's a story it's called the poem, is 1414 01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:46,840 Speaker 10: called a Christmas story. And you know this is something 1415 01:13:46,880 --> 01:13:50,519 Speaker 10: that parents do pretty much on Christmas Eve, and here it. 1416 01:13:50,680 --> 01:13:53,200 Speaker 18: Is go to bed. 1417 01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:57,519 Speaker 10: I'm talking at least a royal friend. I heard exactly 1418 01:13:57,600 --> 01:13:59,720 Speaker 10: what I said. I ain't gonna tell you no more. 1419 01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:00,920 Speaker 1: Go to bed. 1420 01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:05,639 Speaker 10: Santa ain't coming by here. Don't cry, no, no, wipe 1421 01:14:05,680 --> 01:14:08,880 Speaker 10: your tears. Don't heard what I said? Now, what did 1422 01:14:08,920 --> 01:14:09,439 Speaker 10: I tell you? 1423 01:14:09,920 --> 01:14:10,240 Speaker 18: Kids? 1424 01:14:10,680 --> 01:14:12,200 Speaker 15: You told us to go to bed? 1425 01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:15,000 Speaker 10: Okay, Then now if I come up to them stairs, 1426 01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:18,360 Speaker 10: don't get scared because y'all know why I'm wooping, asked. 1427 01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:19,920 Speaker 1: Then you go to bed at the end. 1428 01:14:23,040 --> 01:14:31,160 Speaker 8: What there's no Christmas a love of any traumatie I've 1429 01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:32,840 Speaker 8: ever heard in my life. 1430 01:14:33,240 --> 01:14:34,960 Speaker 1: That's Christmas Eve. 1431 01:14:35,520 --> 01:14:36,080 Speaker 3: Go to bed. 1432 01:14:38,160 --> 01:14:40,120 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Santa ain't coming. 1433 01:14:40,240 --> 01:14:44,679 Speaker 15: You know you can't stay up to see Santa. Kids 1434 01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:45,920 Speaker 15: know they can't stay up. 1435 01:14:46,400 --> 01:14:52,080 Speaker 10: They always I don't even want to live there. We 1436 01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:54,920 Speaker 10: miss we miss nothing. No, that's the story I got 1437 01:14:55,000 --> 01:14:55,720 Speaker 10: every Christmas Eve. 1438 01:14:55,760 --> 01:14:56,400 Speaker 1: I never go to it. 1439 01:14:56,520 --> 01:14:59,080 Speaker 10: I don't want to see Sam. Hell, you mean, who 1440 01:14:59,120 --> 01:15:00,720 Speaker 10: don't want to see the man? I said on the left, 1441 01:15:00,720 --> 01:15:02,280 Speaker 10: he said he's coming by the house. What I'm what, 1442 01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:06,400 Speaker 10: I'm gonna go to bed? You know what's going on 1443 01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:09,439 Speaker 10: down there? Why did you have traumatized? You ain't never 1444 01:15:09,520 --> 01:15:10,799 Speaker 10: been told to go to bed on Cristzi. 1445 01:15:11,520 --> 01:15:15,080 Speaker 2: We are not traumatized. It's the kids were concerned about. 1446 01:15:15,439 --> 01:15:20,080 Speaker 13: The kids are yelling and that's what all they was saying. 1447 01:15:20,320 --> 01:15:25,719 Speaker 13: All they yelling, Junior, Hey, hey, go to bed. 1448 01:15:28,000 --> 01:15:30,720 Speaker 2: When I wake up and come downstairs the next day. 1449 01:15:31,400 --> 01:15:34,439 Speaker 8: Where is the broyhim about the Christmas carols and. 1450 01:15:34,520 --> 01:15:36,360 Speaker 1: The egg dog and what is that? 1451 01:15:36,720 --> 01:15:40,759 Speaker 2: Rains and Santa Claus coming down? That that what happened. 1452 01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:42,920 Speaker 15: I ain't none of that in here. 1453 01:15:43,080 --> 01:15:44,120 Speaker 1: This is what I wrote. 1454 01:15:45,760 --> 01:15:47,719 Speaker 15: That's the wonder about how Christmas is threshing? 1455 01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:49,320 Speaker 2: Run to get your ass beat down. 1456 01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:55,960 Speaker 1: That's that's it. There, You got them, Junior, I am traumatized. 1457 01:15:56,360 --> 01:16:09,719 Speaker 10: What you gonna think that's gonna be saying? On criticized castle. Yeah, Steve, 1458 01:16:10,400 --> 01:16:12,240 Speaker 10: you know you can't sit up all night long? 1459 01:16:12,560 --> 01:16:15,040 Speaker 2: You know why? And go away? 1460 01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:18,280 Speaker 1: All right? 1461 01:16:18,400 --> 01:16:20,720 Speaker 11: Coming up our last break of the day and some 1462 01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:24,519 Speaker 11: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey. 1463 01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:28,200 Speaker 1: Right after this, we'll be back at forty nine after you're. 1464 01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:32,040 Speaker 11: Listening Harvey Morning Show all right, here we are our 1465 01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:33,360 Speaker 11: last break of the day. 1466 01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:36,960 Speaker 1: It's been a good day. Huh good day. Yeah, yeah day, Yeah, 1467 01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:37,800 Speaker 1: good day. 1468 01:16:38,360 --> 01:16:40,880 Speaker 11: And the only thing that will make it better is you. 1469 01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:43,600 Speaker 11: Steve Harvey with some closing remarks, what do you have 1470 01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:44,320 Speaker 11: for us today? 1471 01:16:45,240 --> 01:16:48,080 Speaker 8: Well, you know, I kind of wanted to share something 1472 01:16:48,120 --> 01:16:51,120 Speaker 8: with you all that I was doing my meditation. I 1473 01:16:51,280 --> 01:16:56,519 Speaker 8: was reading this morning and it hit me because I've 1474 01:16:56,600 --> 01:16:59,560 Speaker 8: often said, you know, after show or something, I was 1475 01:17:00,880 --> 01:17:03,120 Speaker 8: just you know, sometimes I just try to say some 1476 01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:05,720 Speaker 8: positive people. And one time I was talking after the 1477 01:17:05,800 --> 01:17:08,880 Speaker 8: show and I told people, I said, you know, there's 1478 01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:13,040 Speaker 8: a scripture that quotes something to this effect that God 1479 01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:16,240 Speaker 8: comes to give you life and give you life more abundantly. 1480 01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:18,599 Speaker 2: And so I said, that's what began. 1481 01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:22,599 Speaker 8: The process of me asking for my abundance was because 1482 01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:25,960 Speaker 8: of this scripture. And I just don't think this is 1483 01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:29,439 Speaker 8: just my walk with him, that as a Christian or 1484 01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:33,719 Speaker 8: a believer or a person of faith, that you should 1485 01:17:33,760 --> 01:17:37,320 Speaker 8: have to struggle through everything. You're going to have challenges, 1486 01:17:37,640 --> 01:17:40,479 Speaker 8: You're going to have struggles, but in every aspect of 1487 01:17:40,560 --> 01:17:43,000 Speaker 8: your life. I mean, come on, something has to change 1488 01:17:43,080 --> 01:17:46,200 Speaker 8: for you. And so in this scripture, it was saying 1489 01:17:46,240 --> 01:17:48,439 Speaker 8: that he comes to give you life and give you 1490 01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:53,080 Speaker 8: life more abundantly. I always thought that the abundance that 1491 01:17:53,240 --> 01:18:01,600 Speaker 8: he was talking about was material things, financial, blessings, you know, 1492 01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:06,880 Speaker 8: things of that nature. But I've learned recently through my 1493 01:18:07,040 --> 01:18:11,479 Speaker 8: studies that he comes to give you abundant life does 1494 01:18:11,600 --> 01:18:16,720 Speaker 8: not just mean things. It means peace of mind. It 1495 01:18:16,920 --> 01:18:19,519 Speaker 8: means awareness of all his goodness. 1496 01:18:20,400 --> 01:18:21,320 Speaker 2: It means not. 1497 01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:26,559 Speaker 8: Worrying about tomorrow or having regrets about the past, which 1498 01:18:26,680 --> 01:18:31,360 Speaker 8: issues out a lot of a lot of wasted energy. 1499 01:18:32,760 --> 01:18:38,439 Speaker 8: It means things like that that he's present in your life, 1500 01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:41,760 Speaker 8: that you're aware of all the good things, that your 1501 01:18:41,880 --> 01:18:45,040 Speaker 8: eyes are open to all he's done for you. And 1502 01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:49,000 Speaker 8: the big part of it is that he gives you 1503 01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:52,760 Speaker 8: your daily bread, that today is a very very special day, 1504 01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:57,000 Speaker 8: and because it's unlike any other day you've ever had, 1505 01:18:57,600 --> 01:19:01,519 Speaker 8: and He's given you a new day. So when it 1506 01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:04,479 Speaker 8: comes to talking about an abundant life, I had to 1507 01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:07,120 Speaker 8: stop thinking that it was just talking about things or 1508 01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:11,320 Speaker 8: money and objects, innate objects, that really he's talking about 1509 01:19:11,320 --> 01:19:15,240 Speaker 8: an abundant life through having a peace of mind, to 1510 01:19:15,400 --> 01:19:18,680 Speaker 8: having a realization that you have a companion who is 1511 01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:22,800 Speaker 8: not only your friend, but he's also your king, you know, 1512 01:19:22,960 --> 01:19:27,519 Speaker 8: your sovereign lord. That's what he means by abundant life, 1513 01:19:27,880 --> 01:19:30,120 Speaker 8: that you come to the realization. 1514 01:19:29,640 --> 01:19:31,599 Speaker 2: That you're not alone in this matter. 1515 01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:35,640 Speaker 8: You come to the understanding that you have a very 1516 01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:38,880 Speaker 8: present help if you just invited me in that can 1517 01:19:38,960 --> 01:19:44,000 Speaker 8: help you deal, cope, handle, and understand anything that happens 1518 01:19:44,080 --> 01:19:47,960 Speaker 8: in your life. That's what I came to the conclusion 1519 01:19:48,320 --> 01:19:53,040 Speaker 8: that having a life and having life more abundantly stood for. 1520 01:19:53,520 --> 01:19:56,360 Speaker 8: And once I came to this realization, it opened up 1521 01:19:56,360 --> 01:19:59,800 Speaker 8: a whole nother way of thinking for me, because it's 1522 01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:03,280 Speaker 8: it's just an amazing thing when you understand that you 1523 01:20:03,520 --> 01:20:07,120 Speaker 8: can have a say so in today and all you 1524 01:20:07,240 --> 01:20:09,639 Speaker 8: have to do is worry about today. I mean, concern 1525 01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:13,960 Speaker 8: yourself with today's matters and don't worry about tomorrow, and 1526 01:20:14,120 --> 01:20:17,320 Speaker 8: don't show no regrets for the past, and you can 1527 01:20:17,400 --> 01:20:19,760 Speaker 8: have a life of abundance because you will now be 1528 01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:22,920 Speaker 8: living in the moment, in the presence, and you'll have 1529 01:20:23,080 --> 01:20:26,080 Speaker 8: his presence because you invited it me in even closer. 1530 01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:29,439 Speaker 8: That's what I learned about the abundant life, that it 1531 01:20:29,600 --> 01:20:34,519 Speaker 8: doesn't just mean monetary or physical things that it actually 1532 01:20:34,680 --> 01:20:39,560 Speaker 8: means peace of mind, presence, a very present help in 1533 01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:44,160 Speaker 8: the time of trouble, a relationship, someone who gets it, 1534 01:20:44,240 --> 01:20:48,000 Speaker 8: who's always there. That's what that means. And that's what 1535 01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:51,040 Speaker 8: I wanted you all to think about today. So when 1536 01:20:51,080 --> 01:20:53,519 Speaker 8: you ask God to give you life and he promised 1537 01:20:53,560 --> 01:20:55,680 Speaker 8: to give you life and give it to you more abundantly, 1538 01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:58,880 Speaker 8: think about what the whole abundant thing is really about. 1539 01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:01,920 Speaker 8: Sent a lot of time thinking it was just a 1540 01:21:02,040 --> 01:21:07,360 Speaker 8: reference to finances or money or you know, it's not. 1541 01:21:08,320 --> 01:21:12,360 Speaker 8: It's so much more. And today I had an abundant 1542 01:21:12,439 --> 01:21:17,080 Speaker 8: life because today I didn't worry about tomorrow and today, 1543 01:21:17,400 --> 01:21:20,240 Speaker 8: because that's burdening yourself with something you can't do nothing about. 1544 01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:22,920 Speaker 2: And I didn't wear half only no regrets for my 1545 01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:25,160 Speaker 2: former life, Tada. 1546 01:21:25,680 --> 01:21:29,720 Speaker 8: I had an abundant day today and it caused me 1547 01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:32,599 Speaker 8: to realize, really, man, you bless you got an abundant life. 1548 01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:35,080 Speaker 2: That's what I wanted to share with you. Those my 1549 01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:38,120 Speaker 2: clothing remarks today. Wow, See I got a little time 1550 01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:39,720 Speaker 2: on the back end, but that's what I realized. I 1551 01:21:39,800 --> 01:21:40,640 Speaker 2: just wanted to share that with you. 1552 01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:41,600 Speaker 1: Thank you for that. 1553 01:21:41,880 --> 01:21:45,120 Speaker 11: Yeah, great, because when you do. When I first heard it, 1554 01:21:45,200 --> 01:21:47,439 Speaker 11: I thought the same thing with you're you know me too? 1555 01:21:47,720 --> 01:21:49,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I really did. 1556 01:21:50,080 --> 01:21:52,160 Speaker 8: I was convinced that what it was. But I was 1557 01:21:52,240 --> 01:21:55,000 Speaker 8: doing my meditation this morning and I was reading this 1558 01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:58,599 Speaker 8: section that explains a lot of stuff, and I said, 1559 01:21:58,600 --> 01:22:02,320 Speaker 8: wait a minute, minute, No, abundant life is. He gives 1560 01:22:02,360 --> 01:22:05,439 Speaker 8: you a peace of mind for today. He gives you 1561 01:22:05,520 --> 01:22:09,439 Speaker 8: awareness of His presence for today, and therefore it gives 1562 01:22:09,479 --> 01:22:11,960 Speaker 8: you a total and then it causes you to be 1563 01:22:12,080 --> 01:22:14,840 Speaker 8: grateful for what you have today, and it opens up 1564 01:22:14,840 --> 01:22:17,519 Speaker 8: your eyes to everything that's happening in your world right now. 1565 01:22:18,240 --> 01:22:23,320 Speaker 8: Because by worrying, I watch this, surely, Luke twelve and 1566 01:22:23,880 --> 01:22:29,160 Speaker 8: twenty five. What by worrying, Luke twelve and twenty five, 1567 01:22:29,439 --> 01:22:32,920 Speaker 8: by worrying, you cannot add one hour to you? 1568 01:22:34,640 --> 01:22:36,640 Speaker 2: So by not being able to do that? 1569 01:22:36,880 --> 01:22:43,120 Speaker 6: Yes, all right, to be with Kanye and go ahead. 1570 01:22:46,720 --> 01:22:49,120 Speaker 1: I don't know about that ministry. 1571 01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:50,560 Speaker 2: I love it. 1572 01:22:53,040 --> 01:22:55,280 Speaker 15: Hey, you know what, how much height do you get 1573 01:22:55,320 --> 01:22:56,760 Speaker 15: with a thirteen thousand dollars tree? 1574 01:22:56,840 --> 01:22:57,519 Speaker 1: How big is that? 1575 01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:03,679 Speaker 2: Twenty twenty feet? Easy boy, you gotta have you gotta 1576 01:23:03,720 --> 01:23:04,960 Speaker 2: have really tall seals. 1577 01:23:05,360 --> 01:23:06,560 Speaker 1: Take us out, Steve. 1578 01:23:07,960 --> 01:23:10,280 Speaker 2: And gentlemen, Oh my god, love you bye. 1579 01:23:25,760 --> 01:23:29,240 Speaker 11: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void were prohibited. 1580 01:23:29,280 --> 01:23:32,800 Speaker 11: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1581 01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:36,679 Speaker 11: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1582 01:23:36,920 --> 01:23:40,840 Speaker 11: FM dot com. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show