1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,719 Speaker 1: All right. See this one's from Marcella's in high Point. 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: He says, I have three daughters, and I have clothes 3 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: for them to wear when they are at my house. 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 1: They are fifteen, twelve, and ten. I don't like any 5 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: of the clothes my ex wife lets them wear. Everything 6 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: is short, tight, and cheap. My girls have sweats, dresses, jeans, 7 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: and everything else at my house. My ex wife said, 8 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: I'm too closed minded when it comes to raising our girls. 9 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 1: I just don't want my girls objectified and cheap clothes 10 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: that aren't complimentary to their growing bodies. My girls don't 11 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: seem to mind. But do I owe them an explanation? 12 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: That's what he wants to know. 13 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 2: Marcelle, Yeah, I think you do. I think it's important 14 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 2: for a father to tell a girl how men perceive them, 15 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 2: how men think of them, how men use them, how 16 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 2: men take advantage of them, what all boys want. You 17 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 2: gotta have this conversation with your daughters, and that has 18 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 2: been missing in the world for a lot of young 19 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 2: girls who grow up without their dad and wind up 20 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 2: looking for little in the wrong places and not knowing 21 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 2: what true love looks like and how to value theyself 22 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 2: because they've never seen a man value him before. So you, 23 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,119 Speaker 2: as a father, is your job and obligation to show 24 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 2: your daughters the real value. And the best way to 25 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 2: do it is how you treat their mother. You know, now, 26 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 2: you and your ex wife ain't together, but it wasn't 27 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 2: cause you abused her. You know, y'all just wasn't good together. 28 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 2: But you love your daughters and you don't want them 29 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 2: being objects of men's They and they're young. Man ten 30 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 2: twelve fifteen. 31 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: Man, Yeah, bruh, don't. 32 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 2: Give up the fight. Keep talking to him. Keep talking 33 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 2: to him. Now, they gonna make some mistakes, but just 34 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 2: keep talking to him. That's all right, that's all right. 35 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 1: Great advice to great advice. 36 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:51,639 Speaker 2: Because I've had had this conversation with all of them. Yeah, 37 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 2: I got what's in style, I got what they wearing 38 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 2: out here. But let me tell you how men look 39 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 2: at y'all. All men look at y'all this way. 40 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,919 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I love it. This one's from Tyra 41 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: and Saint Louis. She says, I got a call from 42 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: a female that said, my husband is messing with her sister. 43 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: I told her what's done in the dark will come 44 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: out in the light, and she hung up on me. 45 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: She texted me yesterday to tell me that her sister 46 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 1: was out with my husband again, but my husband was 47 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 1: on the couch sleep. How do I find out who's 48 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: playing on my phone? Is this something I should investigate 49 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: or should I ignore the woman? 50 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 2: Well, listen, if first of all, you need to block her, 51 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 2: and then if she talked about your husband doing this, 52 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 2: but your husband and on the couch, so she's lying, right, 53 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 2: So now, don't let nobody get a wedge in your 54 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 2: Massit ain't there, and whatever her motive is, don't let 55 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 2: it affect you. You can investigate it a lot of ways. 56 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 2: I'm not going to tell it to you on the air, 57 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 2: but there's so many things you can do. That's cybersecurity 58 00:02:58,000 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 2: stuff out there that's amazing. 59 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: Yes, I had a wrong damn number, you know. 60 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 2: The wrong person all person, lady, don't don't don't get 61 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 2: caught up in that. Block her, ignore that, you know. 62 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: Yeah that's easy, yeah, yeah, because this is terrible. You know, 63 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: she's trying to break this family up. I don't like that. 64 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 1: Get that Life three sixty app you'll know where he is. 65 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: Uhhh okay, Like. 66 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 2: Like I just saw that on forty eight hours. 67 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: Your favorite show man. 68 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 2: They got this dude called up because father said, my 69 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 2: son did not hurt anybody. He said, we got this 70 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 2: three sixty app, and that app tells you where your 71 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 2: vehicle is, Yes, how fast it was going, the route 72 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 2: it took, Yes, if it stops, how long it stopped. Everything. 73 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna tell you feel. 74 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: That it does all that. 75 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a team driver, so you know. Yeah, fellas, 76 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to tell you, fellas, don't get on 77 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 2: that app though you have to explain everything. 78 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: See. 79 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 2: The beautiful thing about that app with me is I 80 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 2: don't drive, so. 81 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: Oh so you don't really? Yeah? Can I feel if 82 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: you have the app and you don't drive and you're 83 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 1: in the car, it can still do a report on it, sir. 84 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: Oh stick with me. All right, thanks guys. 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