1 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I am Dramas And this is the Street 2 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 1: Stoic Podcast, bringing you your daily dose a timeless stoke 3 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: philosophy remix for the hip hop generation. We are combining 4 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: ancient stoic philosophy with lyrics and quote from something the 5 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: greatest who ever grace the microphone. Now, with that in mind, 6 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: let's get things started with your daily shot of inspiration. 7 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: Now today we are going to be focusing around the 8 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 1: stoic idea of practicing resilience. And I'm gonna pull a 9 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: quote from from Man, one of the greats, Most Death. 10 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: This is actually from the book Book of Rhymes The 11 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: Poetics of Hip Hop, and in it, Most says hip 12 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 1: hop is a beautiful culture. It's inspirational because it's a 13 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: culture of survivors. You can create beauty out of nothingness. 14 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: And I love that last line as I'm reading it, 15 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 1: It's just kind of like stuck out to me. You 16 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 1: can create beauty out of nothingness. And if that doesn't 17 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:25,400 Speaker 1: kind of get you, I don't know, inspired and worked 18 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 1: up a bit, I don't. I don't know what will. 19 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: Because he is talking about Man, this culture of people 20 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: who many of whom came from very dire circumstances and 21 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 1: turn that into triumph. Right. Like, you know, when you 22 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: think about the idea of art, you know, it's oftentimes 23 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:47,040 Speaker 1: the people you know who who have created some of 24 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: life's most beautiful art. Like they did so by building 25 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: from the ashes of tragedy and pain. And of course, 26 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: nobody wants to have to suffer in this life. Right 27 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: if we could avoid it, we we I'm sure we 28 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: all would. But there is some sort of like beautiful 29 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: synergy in people who have been able to turn that 30 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: pain into beautiful works that last the test of time, 31 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: you know. And I think this kind of like lends 32 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: itself perfectly into a stoic quote, right, And this quote 33 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: comes from Marcus Aurelius, and he says, adapt yourself to 34 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 1: the life you have been given, and truly love the 35 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: people with whom destiny has surrounded you. Right, And I 36 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 1: think that this lends itself to what great artists have 37 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: always known, that rather than complaining about your circumstances, instead 38 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 1: find a way to use it as the fuel for 39 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 1: your expression. Right. Like you think about why is as 40 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: has hip hop become this global thing? Right, It's no 41 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: longer just the genre of music, but instead it's a 42 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: way of life, you know, And and partially it's because 43 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: it was a voice and it still is a voice 44 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 1: for people who grew up in similar circumstances to those artists, right, 45 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: And then you know, for others, the mass appeal of 46 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: it is that it's given people a window into a 47 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: life they would have never been able to experience had 48 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: it not have been for the art, right, Like, you 49 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: realize that the trials and tribulations like they've now given 50 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: you a story to tell them. I think that's the 51 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: beauty in particular of a genre of like hip hop, 52 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: where it is sort of autobiographical, like this has given 53 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 1: you something to talk about. And again, there's a lot 54 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: of pain, there's a lot of loss, there's a lot 55 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: of tragedy in these stories that we hear, you know, 56 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: throughout the decades of great music that has come out, 57 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: but it's also you know, from those those tough times 58 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: that some of the greatest art has been created and 59 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: ones that have impacted myself. And I'm sure anybody listening 60 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: to this right now, you know, we all can point 61 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: to a song or an artist that has had a 62 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: profound impact on our lives, and much of it I'm 63 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: sure is that we share in some sort of experience 64 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: that they went through or a feeling that they're sharing, 65 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,040 Speaker 1: you know. And and for me, it's something that I 66 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: tried to adapt into all that I do. You know, 67 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: I relate to this on a pretty grand level, you know, 68 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 1: where I've definitely over the last couple of years, I've 69 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: gotten far more comfortable talking about my struggles with with 70 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: mental health, you know, and it's allowed me to connect 71 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: with people on a bigger scale than I could have 72 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: ever imagined, you know, because I've I've now been able 73 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: to help people and to you know, give them a 74 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: voice and an acknowledgement that they're not alone, you know. 75 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: And even on a more personal level, my parents, you know, 76 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 1: they now open up to me about things that they 77 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: struggled with, you know, because they relate to what I'm saying, right, 78 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: and our relationship has gotten stronger as a result. I've 79 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 1: given them a safe space to share their their own 80 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 1: stories because I've been unafraid to share mine. I see 81 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:48,799 Speaker 1: them as as people just trying to do their best. 82 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: You know. There's been so much healing just from us 83 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 1: coming together and being able to have a safe space 84 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: to share you know, like all of that love and 85 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: all of that understanding, it's coming from from me just 86 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: sharing my story, right, which is such a beautiful thing. 87 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 1: My bouts with the pressure anxiety are of course difficult 88 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: at times, but I also, you know, now view them 89 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:16,600 Speaker 1: as as something that has empowered me, you know, and 90 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: for that I'm forever grateful, you know, to have practiced 91 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: that sort of resilience, you know, through through some tough times. 92 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 1: And I think that's the whole notion, the whole idea 93 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get out with today's show. Now, you've 94 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: heard from man one of the greats most death. We 95 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 1: have heard from Marcus Aurelius. You have heard from myself 96 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: my own story how I relate to this. Now let's 97 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: talk about you and how you can make it your 98 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 1: mantra for today. But first let's take a quick break 99 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 1: and then we'll be right back. All right, So we 100 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 1: have heard from most Deaf, we have heard from Marcus Aurelius. 101 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 1: I've talked a bit about how the idea of practicing 102 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: resilience has been applied to my life. Now let's talk 103 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 1: about how you can make it your mantra for today. Now, 104 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: I don't have some sort of easy, black and white 105 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 1: textbook type of answer to give you of how to 106 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 1: handle the tough moments in your life. Right, I think 107 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: all I can try and do here is invite you 108 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: to look at things a different way. And again, we're 109 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: all going through different shit. I can't tell you how 110 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: to mourn, how to get over it, you know what 111 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 1: it is that you're going through. But I would would 112 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,479 Speaker 1: invite you to ask yourself, how can I make something 113 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 1: of this pain? And I look at it even beyond 114 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: just like an artist, because we're talking about you know, 115 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: rappers and artists in general, you know, making something out 116 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 1: of their pain, making a creative work. Like even when 117 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: we look at some of the tragedies that have gone 118 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: on in this world, the people who have been taken 119 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:01,599 Speaker 1: from us due to violence far too early or at 120 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 1: the hands of police violence that's been something far more 121 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 1: recent in the news. You know, you oftentimes see the 122 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: family members or those closest to them using it as 123 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: a means to fight back and try and make sure 124 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: something like this never happens to someone else again. Right, 125 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 1: that's often a quote we hear. I mean, that's something 126 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: that the mother of Tyree Nichols the young man who 127 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: is brutally just beat up and killed by police officers 128 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 1: in Memphis. That's something his mother was saying, that she's 129 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: now viewing this as his death was so that he 130 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: can be a vehicle for change, right, that his story 131 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: can be a vehicle for change, and that her mission 132 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: is to now try and make sure that this never 133 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: happens to anyone else again, to make sure that a 134 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: mother never has to mourn in this way again because 135 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: of a senseless police killing. Right. I think that that's heavy, 136 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: but it's also a real world example of people using 137 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: their pain for good and using it as fuel, right, 138 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 1: using all of the pent up energy, the anger that 139 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 1: is inside of them, and then figuring out a positive 140 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: way to release it, a positive way to impact the world, 141 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: so that this tragedy at least has some sort of meaning. 142 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 1: And of course, I'm sure all the people were speaking 143 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 1: of would rather have their love one with them, But 144 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: this being the reality that we're faced with, right, and 145 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: that you have no choice but to practice resilience in 146 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 1: the face of this. How can I make something positive 147 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 1: of it? How can I make something of this pain? 148 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 1: And I think that's just a question we all need 149 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 1: to try to ask ourselves during those those tough moments, 150 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,439 Speaker 1: and of course it's not an answer, it's not an 151 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: antidote for it. But at least we can always look at, 152 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: you know, the situation at hand, and know that we 153 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: are doing the best with man the cards that we 154 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: were dealt. Right now, to summarize man, I again love 155 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 1: this quote from from Most Deaf and that as line 156 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: always gets me. You can create beauty out of nothingness, right, 157 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: It's it's the idea of the people who are the 158 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: they have not figuring out a way to empower themselves 159 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: and using their situation, um, not as an excuse for 160 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: not being able to make their dreams come true, but 161 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 1: instead using it as as a means to get them 162 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:26,079 Speaker 1: into the position that they want. And then Marcus Aurelius, 163 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 1: you know, talking about adapting yourself to the life that 164 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 1: you've been given, right, not not sitting here longing for 165 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: a better situation, not longing for that negative thing to 166 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: not have happened, but instead just constantly adapting yourself to 167 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 1: whatever has been thrown in front of you. And then 168 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: I think, with my journey, you know the fact of 169 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 1: me understanding the power in my story as difficult as 170 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: it is, you know, um as difficult as the experience 171 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 1: of battling mental health issues at times can be, understanding 172 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 1: that there's also power within that and that I've been 173 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 1: dealt this hand and I'm going to adapt in the 174 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 1: most positive way possible. Right again, I really just point 175 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 1: to that that quote from from Most Deaf talking about 176 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: hip hop. You know, it's a culture of survivors. You 177 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: can create beauty out of nothingness, and I think that's 178 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: we all have to keep in mind as we go 179 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 1: through life and things inevitably happen, you know, asking ourselves, 180 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: how can I make something of this pain? If you 181 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: want to get some more personal content, if you're inspired 182 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: by some of the things I've said, I just put 183 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 1: out a book called Just Be Just b dot NYC 184 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 1: is the website. You can go check that out, and 185 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 1: you know it's a deeper, I think understanding of all 186 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: things that I talk about, particularly if we're speaking about 187 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: mental health and talking about some of the darker points 188 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 1: and in life. I definitely suggest checking that out. Now. 189 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:47,839 Speaker 1: With that said, thank y'all so much for checking out 190 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 1: the Street Stoke podcast. Do your best to apply these 191 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: concepts that we discussed Today it's yea everyday life. Then 192 00:10:53,640 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 1: I'll catch you next time. The Street Stoke Podcast is 193 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 1: a production of iheart's Michael Pura podcast Network