1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:02,000 Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you. 2 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us. 3 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 2: Ever since we were talking about pizza, my stomach is growling. 5 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm getting hungry, camean. 6 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 2: Look, you know I also do this. 7 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 3: Sometimes I'll pick up I'll be traveling, I'll pick up 8 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:20,240 Speaker 3: a food magazine and I can't look at the food 9 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 3: without needing it, like wanting. It's like you're trying to 10 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 3: intermitt it fast. You're trying not to, you know, have some. 11 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 3: But then you look at that picture and it's like, 12 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 3: my stomach can't help itself. But speak to me out loud. 13 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like torture. 14 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 3: I know that's good for you sometimes. All right, let's 15 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 3: get to Kyle Kyle and Los Angeles. Kyle, good morning, Hi, Ryan, 16 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:43,200 Speaker 3: how you doing? 17 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 4: You know, not too well? I need some advice. 18 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 3: Okay, and this is in the dating department. About your 19 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 3: girlfriend's family. Tell us what's happening. 20 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, so, I just so we've been dating for about 21 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 4: a year now and things going great between us, but 22 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:05,400 Speaker 4: her families just really mean, Like, as I've been spending 23 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 4: more time with them, they make a lot of snide 24 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 4: little comments and you know, bigger comments sometimes and she 25 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 4: says it's fine and she's used to it, but you know, 26 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 4: I'm wondering if it's overstepping my bounds if I step in? 27 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 2: What they what do they do? 28 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 3: What do they give us an example of what's happening 29 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 3: that you're noticing, Like, you. 30 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 4: Know, when we're out to eat for like a family 31 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 4: lunch or something, someone like her mom or something will 32 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 4: say like, oh, are you sure you want to get that? 33 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 4: Like you know, it's really it's like it's really you know, 34 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 4: comments about her body weight and body and stuff, and 35 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 4: it's just kind of like it's it's it's not cool, 36 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 4: but you know it. 37 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 2: It's not cool at all. 38 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 3: Sometimes though, it's a I got what you're questioning, because 39 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 3: like sometimes families or people close to each other have 40 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 3: a certain way that they do speak to each other 41 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 3: m or certain things that they say, Like I've heard 42 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 3: really close friends call close friends crazy words, but they 43 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:13,639 Speaker 3: mean him in terms of endearment, right, you know what 44 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 3: I'm saying. I like, if you were to say that 45 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 3: to somebody, like what But yet like I call each 46 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 3: other that M So it it's not yeah, looking in 47 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 3: it's not a good it's not a good situation. But 48 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 3: I don't know how you get involved. 49 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 5: Have you talked to your girlfriend to like say, does 50 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 5: it bother her? Does she tell you it bothers her? 51 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 4: I mean, she says it doesn't bother her, But sometimes 52 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 4: when they say that, she just kind of like it 53 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 4: takes the wind out of her sales. She she just 54 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 4: kind of starts looking down then gets quiet. So I 55 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 4: can tell it bothers It's just I don't know what 56 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 4: to say about it. 57 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: I know it's so. 58 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 5: Tough because it's like I don't know that it's your 59 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 5: place to step in and like change the way that 60 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 5: her family. 61 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 3: I might say this too, and again, this is probably 62 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 3: not the best way to do it, but I might 63 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 3: say this to that family member as in aside, like 64 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 3: not at the table, I might say, you know, I 65 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 3: don't want to step on any toes here, but I 66 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 3: just want to know that does make sometimes she feels 67 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 3: bad like. 68 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 2: Somebody, she feels bad when she hears that. I just 69 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 2: want you to know that. 70 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 3: And she would never say it to you, But I 71 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 3: wanted you to know that's a good thing. That's not 72 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 3: a bad way to approach it, right, And she would 73 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 3: never say it to you. I just wanted you to 74 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 3: know that sometimes she feels bad about that and then 75 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 3: get out, like don't let it linger, like get out 76 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 3: and use that sort of like inflection your voice. 77 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 5: And I think kind of starting it off by saying 78 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 5: like I don't want to step on any toes like. 79 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 3: And she would never want to say it, but I 80 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:40,839 Speaker 3: just want you to know, like sometimes she feels bad 81 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 3: and then boot move on. 82 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 2: That might be an effective way to do it. 83 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 6: Or you can encourage her to stand up for herself. 84 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, so that way it's coming from her, and you 85 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 7: just kind of give her to like encourage her to say, 86 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 7: you know, if you don't really don't like it, they 87 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 7: may not realize it's bothering you. 88 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 6: You should say something. 89 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I can get some good advice. 90 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 2: So I think you have a plan. Kyle. 91 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 3: Good luck and thank you for coln. It's really thoughtful 92 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 3: of you to think that way for someone you love. 93 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 4: All right, thank you you taking care so much. 94 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 2: Bye too. 95 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 3: It's always that thing in life where like do I 96 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 3: get involved, do I not get involved? 97 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 2: Do I open up this and do it? 98 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 3: But it it's like if it's if it's bothering the 99 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,039 Speaker 3: person he loves and it's bothering him. There might be 100 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 3: a way to finesse it so that there can be progress. 101 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 3: Raina is in Culver City, Raina, how are you doing 102 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:32,679 Speaker 3: this morning? 103 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 8: I'm good? 104 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 9: How are you super good? 105 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 3: Thank you for listening to us. So you're moving in 106 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 3: six months? Where and there's an issue with your boyfriend? 107 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 10: Yes? 108 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 11: So I'm moving to Nashville in six months for work. 109 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 11: I'm really excited. 110 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 10: Uh. 111 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 11: And the guy I'm seeing, he's I really like him. 112 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 11: You know, it's been going well, but he has no idea. 113 00:04:58,680 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 2: He doesn't know you're moving. 114 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 10: No, he has no clue. 115 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 3: Oh oh okay. 116 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:11,040 Speaker 11: And yeah, and honestly, I know this sounds terrible, but 117 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 11: like you know, I really don't have any interest in 118 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:19,359 Speaker 11: continuing the relationship like once I move, Like I'm just 119 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 11: not ready to do long distance, Like I really just 120 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 11: want to keep things light and fun with him. 121 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 3: So are you calling us to call him to tell 122 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 3: him you want us to do it? 123 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 12: Like? 124 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 2: What can we help? 125 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 11: So I'm just wondering, Like really I just need advice, 126 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 11: Like can I like, do you think it's okay? Like 127 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,839 Speaker 11: if I wait closer to tell him like that, I'm 128 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 11: going to leave, Like I don't want. 129 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 10: To mess it up. 130 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:49,799 Speaker 3: No, No, I think Look, if you're being so strategic 131 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 3: as to hold back the information, I think that could 132 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 3: have a bad outcome. I do believe you should be 133 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 3: transparent with him now, But do you want to date 134 00:05:58,200 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 3: him long distance but date other people? 135 00:05:59,720 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 9: Like? 136 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 2: What do you want? 137 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 11: I mean, I really, I really don't want this to 138 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 11: become something big, Like I really just wanted to keep 139 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 11: it like kind of casual and light and fine, like 140 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 11: I'm not I'm not looking. 141 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,919 Speaker 2: It's not going to work out anyway. A long distance so. 142 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 3: Very slim, so you might want to just play it 143 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 3: out and it might dissolve itself anyway. 144 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 5: First of all, it's in six months, so your relationship 145 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 5: with him could develop even further emotionally and all that stuff. 146 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 2: I definitely wouldn't hold it back. Hold don't hold it back. 147 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 5: Be honest, but don't give up hope that the long 148 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 5: distance is not going to work, because you could do 149 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 5: six months to a year long distance and then he 150 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 5: could move out to Nashville. 151 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: You never know. 152 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 11: Do you think I should just be upfront with us? 153 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 11: I can just lay all ours down on the table 154 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 11: and just see how they. 155 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 1: Fall that what are you scared of that. 156 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 5: He's gonna be like, I can't do this, I'm just 157 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:52,919 Speaker 5: gonna rip the band it off now I. 158 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:56,039 Speaker 11: Feel yeah, I feel like he's going to say, why 159 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 11: even waste our time? 160 00:06:58,040 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 12: You know? 161 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 1: Then he's not the dude for you, that's really what 162 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: he does. 163 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 2: Oh now I've changed my opinion. Maybe you don't tell 164 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 2: him everything yet. 165 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 3: I'm not great relationships sometimes, so uh may I good luck? 166 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 2: Maybe waita beat? 167 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: A week? 168 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 2: A beat beat? 169 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: What is a week? 170 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 9: Beat? 171 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 3: And I'm telling you, no matter what, once you move, 172 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 3: it's going to dissolve. Oh my god, Yeah, I've done this. 173 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 3: I know it's going to dissolve itself. It really isn't 174 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 3: because you know, it doesn't sound like you're going to 175 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 3: be in it for sure. You got me a new 176 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 3: place you don't want to explore so minutes and seventeen seconds. 177 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. 178 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 2: I wouldn't like you supposed to. I really want to 179 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 2: know what you decide to do. 180 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 11: Okay, yeah, well definitely, thank you so much for you right. 181 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 11: It helped me a lot to just talk to somebody else. 182 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 3: And doesn't it help when we give advice and we 183 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 3: flip flop our opinion? I mean, doesn't that so helpful? 184 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,559 Speaker 3: It happens all the time, make a good point, random, 185 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 3: all right, thank you for listening to it. I find 186 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 3: long distance relationships are just very, very difficult, and she's 187 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 3: like going for this new thing for you. Yeah, well 188 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 3: for me, and there are other people. Tell you where 189 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 3: they It's tough to not see somebody all the time. 190 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 6: Some people and some people love it. 191 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 2: Keith Urban, Oh, I don't know how they did well. 192 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, yeahs Danny, thank you for coming on. 193 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 2: Tell us what happened. 194 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 9: So it's all a bunch of nonsense. But basically, I 195 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 9: found out through Instagram that my best friend has been 196 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 9: going out with my ex. And honestly, I don't know 197 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 9: how to feel about this. 198 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 3: Your best friend has been going out with your ex. 199 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 3: I mean, how close is this friend? How often do 200 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 3: you speak? How could this happen behind your back? 201 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 13: So that's why I'm wondering, because we've been friends since 202 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 13: high school, We've been through sick and thin. I've bailed 203 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,559 Speaker 13: this dude out of jail when we got coffee from 204 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 13: not Sense, you know, and this whole thing is going 205 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 13: down behind my back and I have no idea how 206 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 13: this happened. 207 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 2: How did you find out on Instagram? 208 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 9: Yeah, so I'm I'm on Instagram. 209 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 13: I'm doom to scrolling. 210 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 9: One night, you know, and I look up my boys 211 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 9: page and there he is on vacation with photos of 212 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 9: him and my ex together. Oh he had told me 213 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,559 Speaker 9: he was going on vacation, but I realized he was 214 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:31,319 Speaker 9: going with her. 215 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 5: Huh, all right, Well he doesn't sound like a good friend. 216 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 217 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 3: I was gonna say, I don't know that there's anything 218 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 3: you can do but edit this guy out of your life. Bro, 219 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:44,959 Speaker 3: He's not a best friend for sure. I think getting 220 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:47,080 Speaker 3: upset about it is only going to be toxic for 221 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 3: you. You got to get past it, and you got to 222 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 3: take this person out of your life, and you got 223 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 3: to not look at their Instagram. 224 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 1: That's true, cold, tricky. 225 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 3: I mean, it's shocking to me how many times I 226 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 3: have heard this story of best friends hooking up with 227 00:09:58,280 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 3: people's exes. 228 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 5: Is it? 229 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: Do we not have bigger circles in life? Like, there's 230 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 1: so many more people out there. 231 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 3: I was reading stories about the famous people who went 232 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 3: through something looking up with the x's right. 233 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 1: Yes, I think I know how you're talking about. 234 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 2: We're talking about they have a podcast. 235 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 5: Yes, they used to be the news anchors and then 236 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 5: they swapped, and then now that. 237 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 3: They're dating everybody, now they're dating each other's excess. Anyway, Danny, 238 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 3: I think here's the deal. This is full focus. This 239 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 3: guy's not good for you, needs to be out of 240 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 3: your life. Do not look at Instagram. It will be 241 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 3: toxic and move on. Thanks Danny for listening. 242 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: Danny, good luck. 243 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 3: So white sneakers. It's such a bummer. I love white sneakers, 244 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 3: but they look so cool when they're clean. When they 245 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 3: get all scuffed up and dirty, it ruins your day. 246 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 3: But it's not that they're old, they're just dirty. So 247 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 3: how do you clean them? I have put them in 248 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 3: the washing machine before, but not for me. 249 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:52,439 Speaker 2: So here's what you do. Take them to a self 250 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 2: served car washer pressure washer. 251 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 1: I need you to elaborate for me. 252 00:10:57,320 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, I know when you put your car in and 253 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 5: get So you're saying to go to these those car 254 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 5: washes and just without a car and be like, I'm 255 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 5: going to just wash my sneakers. 256 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 3: Yes, well you can wash your car at the same time, 257 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:12,959 Speaker 3: but bring your sneakers along you get your car. Huh, 258 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 3: we're talking, no, not that kind the con where you 259 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 3: go you can you drive in and you get out 260 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 3: and you take the pressure wash and wash your own 261 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:21,199 Speaker 3: car self serve. 262 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 2: God, it takes you on the track. 263 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 7: Okay, So I like your idea, Ryan, But have you 264 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 7: heard of a magic eraser? 265 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 6: I have, so I just used one on my shoes. 266 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:34,439 Speaker 6: How white these babies are. 267 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: You're showing us the soul? 268 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 10: I know. 269 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 6: Hold on, hold, it's very hard to put your feet 270 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 6: up that flexible. 271 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 3: Okay, great, well that's fine too. If you get your 272 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:43,079 Speaker 3: morning hack, then give it. 273 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 2: Wow. 274 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 6: I just was so excited. 275 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 2: I did it over the weekend, gave it for the podcast. 276 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 1: So it's a power washer. 277 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 2: It's a power washer. Yeah, got the self served car work? 278 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:53,439 Speaker 1: Got it? 279 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 2: Got it fine? Guys, room, anybody want to. 280 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: Me off with the car wash? I thought we had 281 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: to go through the track. 282 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 3: It was not a hit in this room. Tany was 283 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 3: fell out of her chair trying to show me your shoe. 284 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 6: Because the magic eraser works really good too. 285 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: Okay, today's quote, that's what the commercial says. Really, have 286 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 1: you heard it? 287 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 6: No? 288 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a magic eraser, He's like, and you can 289 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 1: even use it on your shoes. 290 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 2: He's so right, be looking that up later we can 291 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 2: find it. 292 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 3: Today's quote be the things you loved most about the 293 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 3: people who are gone? 294 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 2: You like that? Either there's gonna be more too. These 295 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 2: are really not so optimism? 296 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 3: Are the things you love most about the people who 297 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 3: are gone? On Air with a Ryan Seacrest, I've not 298 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 3: greeted the back room yet. Good morning, Who have Ruby, 299 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 3: Michayla Sierra back there to Yes, welcome back to the 300 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 3: morning show Backward. Nice to see you. What brings you 301 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 3: in so early to the back room? This is a 302 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 3: reunion of sorts. 303 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:05,679 Speaker 6: I was no, I'm here. 304 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 14: I'm just usually behind my computer, you know. 305 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 2: Can it's Jen back there? High Jen? 306 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, Gens bar down. 307 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 6: I took Gen. 308 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,679 Speaker 3: I honestly want the back room to do a show. 309 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 3: I want the back Room to be a podcast, just 310 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,199 Speaker 3: the back room and what it would be is them 311 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 3: talking about us while we're talking about stuff. 312 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 1: It would happen in live. It would happen as the show. 313 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 3: Is happening exactly so they and if they had to 314 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 3: take a call or Greek Kate Hudson, that's part of 315 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 3: the show. 316 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 1: People would love to listen to. 317 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:34,559 Speaker 2: That might actually beat us. 318 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 3: It actually probably would mark. It's not a terrible idea 319 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 3: behind the scenes. Yeah right, it's like it then to 320 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 3: be the whole time. Maybe it's like for an hour. 321 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 3: I know Marian and collotd I already have talked about 322 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 3: doing a podcast from the back room, So I think 323 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 3: this is great. 324 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 2: But during the show, yeah, great, until it frustrates us. 325 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: I was just going to say, until you're trying to 326 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 1: get a hold of them, or. 327 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 6: You're going to question and you're gonna be like, where's 328 00:13:58,760 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 6: my call? 329 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 2: I sound like that in your head? Is this how 330 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:05,680 Speaker 2: I talk? Because I don't really recall myself sound like that? Ever? 331 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, could you imagine if you did? 332 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 7: I actually apologize that was quite the bad impression, but 333 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 7: I didn't know how to else to do it. 334 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 5: Okay, everybody does that voice for everybody, even he dies. 335 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 2: Or girls, Well, let me do your husband's for. 336 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: Everyone does that. 337 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 3: Early day Okay. 338 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 1: Everyone just does that voice like. 339 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 2: A default, your fiance's voice, Tanya. 340 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 6: He'd be like, babe, how many times you watch? 341 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 2: Going to watch that video? All sound exactly why everyone does? 342 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, how do you imitate us? If you're talking? 343 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 5: You have to Oh my gosh, what Sisney said today? 344 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 2: I'm going to imitate you guys off the air. How 345 00:14:58,720 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 2: behind your back? 346 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 5: Oh my god, yes you do do rest asshured. 347 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 2: I do not discuss us once it's over, once we're 348 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 2: done with us. 349 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 5: It's not really And when you do, you say you 350 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 5: get frustrated because you're like, I already spend four hours 351 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 5: with you guys, and now I'm home talking about you. 352 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 3: I don't ever impersonate you. I really don't ask my sister. 353 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 3: I am going to ask around. 354 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, ask around. 355 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 2: So I need. 356 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 3: I don't understand something and maybe Tanya, you can take 357 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 3: it to one of your doctors. 358 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 2: Therapist. 359 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 3: She lights them up experts. Whenever we got I mean, 360 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 3: she got podcasts and she does a lot of this stuff. 361 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 6: She wrote a book, that's right. 362 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 3: Why do some days my armpit sweat and other days 363 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 3: they don't. Like when we were watching the football game 364 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 3: on Sunday, my armpits were sweating a little bit. 365 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 2: I don't know if is it food? 366 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 5: And it's got to be food induce right, because I say, like, 367 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 5: garlic makes you sweat more or something like that. 368 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 3: I love And I was having garlic oil on my pizza. 369 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:59,119 Speaker 3: I love garlic like I can do like a presentation 370 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 3: or be in front of a lot. 371 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 2: Of people and pittstel and sweat. 372 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 3: Other times they just get really wet. 373 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 1: Even go quite the predicament. 374 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, so I didn't think that's right for my therapist, but. 375 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 2: It could be because what if I was having, like. 376 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 3: Watching football, I was associating that with my old days 377 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 3: of playing football and the fear of going to practice, 378 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 3: and that made me sweat could have been Yeah. 379 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 6: I think it's more of a clinical issue. 380 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 1: No, I understand what he's saying. It could be mental. 381 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 2: It could be mental. 382 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 3: It could be trigged by the fact that I'm watching 383 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 3: football players and I spent all my life. You know, 384 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 3: it could be triggering. I'll send turmeric that morning, so 385 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 3: maybe turmeric makes you sweat. 386 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 1: I do believe it's probably food and CIA. 387 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 2: Since you're here, let me feature you this morning. 388 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 4: Hi. 389 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 2: I can't even believe going to say it your husband? 390 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 2: I know, yes, right, he was. You didn't always have husband, 391 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 2: So that's why I say, how long's been married? 392 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 6: Now, we've been married forever twenty nineteen. 393 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 2: That's not forever. 394 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, fifty pretty long time. 395 00:16:57,680 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 6: Twenty twenty four. 396 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:01,239 Speaker 2: Anyway, you had to get him switched to your deodorant. 397 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 14: I wanted him to use your natural gyodorant. 398 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 2: Oh I got it. 399 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 14: I gave him to him for Christmas, which you know, 400 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 14: he was not excited about your now dogging stocking stuffer. 401 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 6: He lasted one day. 402 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 14: So does it get better? 403 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, it gets better. The problem is you have to 404 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 3: go through the rash phase. Yeah, it's the rash phase 405 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 3: of a natural deodorant. 406 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 6: How many days? 407 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:22,399 Speaker 14: How many days? 408 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:25,680 Speaker 3: It was a month for me, Yeah, like a mon Yeah, 409 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 3: and it could come back to but it's well worth it, 410 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 3: I think, doesn't seem like it. 411 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 7: No, you have to detox from your your armpits, get 412 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 7: used to the. 413 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 3: The old stuff with all the chemicals and chemicals. By 414 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:38,200 Speaker 3: the way, I cannot wait for marriage. What an exciting holiday. 415 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,880 Speaker 3: He got natural deodorant. It's a stocking stuffer. 416 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 1: I'm just looking out for him. 417 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 14: He was using like the old school, like gel like 418 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:47,400 Speaker 14: full of chemicals like Gellette. 419 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:48,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I know. 420 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 3: I used to use that stuff. The move, Well, you 421 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 3: just got to sit. You gotta fight through it. You 422 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 3: gotta hang in there. 423 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 1: Okay, a month is not that reassured. There's other brands. 424 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 10: I know. 425 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:00,919 Speaker 1: Michael uses another one. That's kind of like all natural, 426 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: but it doesn't give them a rash. Okay, hit me 427 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 1: with the wing, I will. 428 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 2: Hit me with the what link link? She said, hit 429 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,160 Speaker 2: me with the wing. I'm like, I don't know that term, 430 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:11,479 Speaker 2: and I want to. I want to use that. Hit 431 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 2: me with the wing, bro. 432 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:14,879 Speaker 3: I don't know if you consider this big news, but 433 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 3: it did catch my attention. Subway adds a foot long 434 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 3: cinnabon churo and an anti as pretzel to their menu, 435 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 3: both a foot long. 436 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 1: Who knew that I needed that? 437 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:27,119 Speaker 2: But I guess at pretzel. 438 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:31,919 Speaker 1: I'm not Michael Is, but I guess pretzel. 439 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:33,359 Speaker 3: And if you can give me a pretzel butt and 440 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 3: a burger, forget like, I won't even speak. I love 441 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 3: a a pretzel bun. What's your favorite bun and a burger? 442 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:41,880 Speaker 3: The pretzel bun does it for me? If I can 443 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 3: find one, I love it. 444 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 5: I'm not really like a bun enthusiast. 445 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 1: I mean, get whatever bun you know the chef recommends. 446 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 2: Well, if you are a bun enthusiast, this workout might 447 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:53,120 Speaker 2: be for you. 448 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 1: This would work your bun. 449 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, this is so, this is a this is a 450 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 3: could be a bun's workout. This is a thing that's 451 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 3: not so new, but it's become trendy again. 452 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 2: What is it? 453 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's working out by walking backwards or it's 454 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 5: like the backwards walk on the treadmill or the elliptical, 455 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 5: and they of course gave it a cute name retro walks, 456 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,160 Speaker 5: and it's all the rage is proving to be super 457 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 5: beneficial to your overall health. And they've done, of course 458 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 5: a few studies, so they're saying thirty minutes a day 459 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,880 Speaker 5: will increase your balance and walking pace. 460 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 2: I don't know about you. 461 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: I don't know if I can do thirty minutes walking 462 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 1: backwards on the treadmill. 463 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 2: I feel like I fu get bored. It was a 464 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 2: boring thing from there. 465 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,920 Speaker 5: I mean sure, because you can hold your phone maybe, 466 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 5: but I just feel like that's so much pressure. Yeah, 467 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 5: I have to work myself up to that. Maybe I 468 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 5: start with five minutes and then the next day if I'm. 469 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 2: Ready to look like that in the gym. I don't 470 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 2: know that I've. 471 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:46,439 Speaker 1: Seen these people. 472 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, and they but I feel like it's always so quick, 473 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 5: like they'll be doing the stairs and you do it, 474 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 5: and then all sud they turn around and then do 475 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:52,439 Speaker 5: it for a second and. 476 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 1: Then come back. 477 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 2: There's always not one guy that's doing the side to 478 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 2: side things. 479 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:59,239 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, bro, all right, I got you. 480 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:00,399 Speaker 2: I see you, We see you. 481 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 5: But I guess, like when you break down the sign 482 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:05,720 Speaker 5: the science behind it, when you walk normal or when 483 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:09,159 Speaker 5: you run normal, that's hamstring dominant movements. So then if 484 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 5: you're doing this backwards, it's like role reversal. And so 485 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 5: it's working all these muscles that your body's not used 486 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:14,920 Speaker 5: to work. 487 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:15,919 Speaker 2: Because we only go one direction. 488 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, and that's what Like it burns double and makes 489 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:20,200 Speaker 5: you that much more about it. 490 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 2: I got to think about it, which burns more calories. 491 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 5: You're working those different muscles and so you're gaining strength 492 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:27,680 Speaker 5: and that's what's benefiting you with this retro. 493 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 3: What So, if you're a confident person today, get on 494 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 3: the treadmill at the gym or right now, if you're 495 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:34,880 Speaker 3: listening to it, turn around right now. 496 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:36,879 Speaker 2: What if two of you turned around right now, that 497 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,120 Speaker 2: means two of you are listening. Thank you. Uh, turn 498 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:39,880 Speaker 2: around the treadmill. 499 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 3: Make your brain work more, make your body work more, 500 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 3: and get more out of it. 501 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:43,800 Speaker 2: It's not for me. 502 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:45,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, do you know about this as nay Tania went 503 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 3: off on somebody at her yoga gym, and now she 504 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 3: needs to find another place because it's uncomfortable to go back. 505 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do know about this, and it's like, Tanya, 506 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 1: you can't do this. 507 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 2: We would do the same thing in your situation. 508 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 1: I've learned. I am not a to hold back my comments. 509 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 2: I do not do this either. 510 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:04,439 Speaker 1: Yeah confront first of all, neither do I. 511 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:08,400 Speaker 7: Well, you did, clearly, I know. I know I snicked out. 512 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:10,520 Speaker 7: No no, no, I wasn't kicked out, but I can 513 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,120 Speaker 7: never show my face. It's like the embarrassment, Yeah happened. 514 00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 7: So this is my This was my second time at 515 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 7: this specific yoga gym, and it's like hot. It's not 516 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 7: like eighty degrees heated. It's one hundred and twenty degrees heated. 517 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 7: So it is majorly hot. And we're getting like packed 518 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 7: in this room and I'm two inches away from the 519 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 7: people next to me, Like it is so packed, and 520 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,120 Speaker 7: I'm already starting to get like a little frustrated because 521 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 7: it's like so full, and then they keep opening the 522 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,440 Speaker 7: door and like bringing in more people and more people 523 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:40,679 Speaker 7: and having people. At this point, the person behind me, 524 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 7: her mat was on top of mine. Whew, I'm doing 525 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:48,399 Speaker 7: my yoga. My foot, my sweaty foot knocks over the 526 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 7: girl behind me, Stanley Cup. So my foot is like 527 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 7: on her straw that she's sucking out of it, and 528 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,359 Speaker 7: I felt bad for her. I looked back and I 529 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 7: was like, I'm so sorry. I'm like, I'm so uncomfortable. 530 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 7: Then Robbie's like, cooed up, babe, so you don't knock 531 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 7: over her water bottle. So then I'm in front and 532 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 7: the person in front of me sweaty foot is in 533 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 7: my face. 534 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 6: So I'm like panicking. 535 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,439 Speaker 7: I'm like panicking, and I'm just like getting more and 536 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 7: more worked up as the class is going, and this. 537 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 3: Is not the point of exactly the outcome to be 538 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 3: during a yoga sh exactly. 539 00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:21,680 Speaker 7: And Robbie looks at me and that he can tell 540 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,120 Speaker 7: that I'm like spooling, and he's like, do you want 541 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:24,640 Speaker 7: to leave, babe? And I was like, no, we're here. 542 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 7: I want to get a work I was like, we're here, 543 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 7: I want to get a workout. Whatever. So I'm going 544 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 7: to spare you all the details. But like everybody in 545 00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 7: there too, I felt like was getting rattled like me. 546 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 7: You know, they kept looking at me. 547 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 1: Like this is so crazy. 548 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 6: So he finished the. 549 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,520 Speaker 7: Class and I walk out and I like asked the guy, 550 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 7: and I'm thinking they're gonna be apologetic, like, no, we 551 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 7: accidentally oversold, Like this isn't you know how it normally is. 552 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,360 Speaker 7: He kind of like laughed at me and he was like, yeah, 553 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 7: that's how it is. It's you know, Saturday morning. And 554 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:55,680 Speaker 7: I just like snapped and I was like that because 555 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 7: I was like, that is not hygienic. I said, that 556 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,199 Speaker 7: is un highgic, that is unacceptable. I was like we 557 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 7: were on top of each other and we were we 558 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 7: are never coming back here. 559 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 2: Oh well you really. 560 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:09,120 Speaker 1: Put the nail neck off. 561 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 2: It's what's the name of the place. We'll get them 562 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:11,680 Speaker 2: a nice clot. 563 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 7: So then I like go into the car and Robbie's like, 564 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 7: whoa you were such like I've never seen you be 565 00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 7: like that? What a Karen you were? And I was like, 566 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:21,680 Speaker 7: oh my gosh. So then I start like feeling bad 567 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 7: about it. 568 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, then the guilt sets 569 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 3: in that you did something. It's going to make them 570 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:27,239 Speaker 3: feel bad, and then do you want to go back 571 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 3: and apologize? 572 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 7: So then I did so then so then I start calling, 573 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 7: and I'm like, I want to apologize because I should 574 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 7: have approached it in a different way and just said 575 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:36,760 Speaker 7: that's not for me. Do you have any classes with 576 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 7: less people. I'll come at a different time. 577 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 2: And did you were successful? 578 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 3: No? 579 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 7: I think they blocked my number because they were not answering. 580 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 7: I called multiple Then I called on Robbie's phone. I 581 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 7: start six to seven. I blocked my number. Oh no, 582 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,479 Speaker 7: but then I discovered that I was calling the wrong number. 583 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 2: So you did not make. 584 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 1: So did you apologize? 585 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 6: I never made amends. 586 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,920 Speaker 3: Well, what's interesting is that, like, if you do say 587 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,400 Speaker 3: something that might be intense or might be critical, are 588 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:03,159 Speaker 3: you the person that feels guilty afterwards or not? 589 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 2: I would feel so much guilt. 590 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:06,919 Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, I still feel it out. Like I 591 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:09,359 Speaker 7: literally was like, okay, they're apologize to them now. I 592 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 7: was like, if they're not answering my call, maybe I'll 593 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,120 Speaker 7: show up and I'll bring some cookies and just say 594 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 7: like I'm sorry. 595 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 9: I like. 596 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 3: The thing is when anybody uses the word unacceptable, that's harsh, 597 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 3: Like that word I'm fighting words there. 598 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,639 Speaker 7: I know, And Robbie looks, I mean, he's like some 599 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 7: people love that like that's why some people come to 600 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,120 Speaker 7: this class unsanitary. 601 00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 2: What yeous sweaty? You do crowded sweaty workouts all the 602 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 2: time on the treadmills. 603 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 7: No, but like I don't know, it's different when it's 604 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 7: one hundred and twenty degrees and it's like when you're 605 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 7: doing jumping jacks and people sweat is flopping on you. 606 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 6: Like it's just a different type of. 607 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 2: This gym is. 608 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:51,120 Speaker 3: Now they've incorporated a new move to the yoga routine, 609 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 3: and that is the spiraling. Tanya, take a deep breath, 610 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:55,199 Speaker 3: Let's do the spiraling time. 611 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 7: I've never snapped, that's never, I've never been acceptable. 612 00:24:58,240 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 2: It's a harsh word. You gotta be careful that word. 613 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,439 Speaker 2: That's where you need not for around lightly And it 614 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 2: was yo, go on a Saturday, lighting up around. 615 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,280 Speaker 1: Locked out and never gone back. 616 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 2: You know, we need bigger tracks. 617 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 1: What are you dropping over there? 618 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 2: We need bigger trash. You've seen the floor looks like 619 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 2: leaves of. 620 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:20,680 Speaker 3: Fallen it's your area. But yes, and I was rolling 621 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:22,919 Speaker 3: my stool around here. My wheels were on top of 622 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:24,640 Speaker 3: my pace. You can't have your wheels of your chair 623 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 3: on top of your papers. What a disaster and I'm 624 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 3: a neat free not in here. 625 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 2: So you never interesting. Actually put a pin in it, 626 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 2: take it to your therapist, whatever you want to do. 627 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, you very like very organized and in your professional 628 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,160 Speaker 7: world or no, disorganized, let me think about it. 629 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, welcome back to me. I'm here all morning. 630 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 2: I know what you mean. 631 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,920 Speaker 3: I'm crazy organized and everything must be in the right 632 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 3: place always except for in here. 633 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,480 Speaker 7: Yeah, but you like to create a mess in a 634 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 7: weird way. 635 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is my Candi. 636 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 6: You can't irreverend anywhere else. 637 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,560 Speaker 2: And I can get paint stains all over my shirt 638 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:05,359 Speaker 2: right right? 639 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 6: Interesting? 640 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 3: Uh wow, all right, so much listen back room? Is 641 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 3: this the ride share call Colleen? Is that what we 642 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 3: want here? 643 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:12,160 Speaker 9: Yes? 644 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 1: I need to know what who? 645 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,880 Speaker 2: I need to know more if yous ay? So come 646 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:18,439 Speaker 2: more often. 647 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 3: Because we did a second date update trying to find 648 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,679 Speaker 3: out what happened rides your driver hooked up with passenger 649 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 3: and then he got blown off. Then we got her 650 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,120 Speaker 3: on and she was like, I don't think so anyway, 651 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,199 Speaker 3: he charmed her into another date and they're going out, 652 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:34,360 Speaker 3: which is fantastic. 653 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,199 Speaker 5: The ultimate thing he said was I can't stop thinking 654 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:38,000 Speaker 5: about you and. 655 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 2: I could have gone either way exactly. 656 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 1: It was kind of silent. And then she went, well, 657 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 1: when you put it like that, yeah, so cute. 658 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 3: So I said, anybody out there hooked up with their driver, 659 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:51,160 Speaker 3: rights your driver. Colleen's on the line, Colleen, good morning 660 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 3: and the good in the gal Well, aren't you happy 661 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 3: every morning waking up there? 662 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 10: Oh yeah, I think I'm Actually it is beautiful over here. 663 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,199 Speaker 3: Well good, thank you for listening to us in Orange County. 664 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 3: So tell me your daughter wasn't driver and then what. 665 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 10: So when she was going to school, she was a 666 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,200 Speaker 10: driver on the side, and so she went and picked 667 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 10: up the sky and as he was walking out of 668 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,199 Speaker 10: his house, she's like, oh, this guy is not going 669 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 10: to fit into my car. And because he's this really 670 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 10: big muscular guy, and so, uh they had to move 671 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:26,239 Speaker 10: the speed up and everything for him. And uh so 672 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,200 Speaker 10: then they just started talking to let me tell you 673 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 10: the story about that part. 674 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:31,560 Speaker 2: Well, I want to know what kind of car she 675 00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 2: was in, because I'm picturing it now. 676 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:38,640 Speaker 10: Yeah, she's in a little It was a Ford Focus. 677 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 3: Okay, we know it. Thanks to Ford. We know what 678 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,920 Speaker 3: a Ford focus looks like. And it was a professional 679 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,680 Speaker 3: baseball player. What team Angels, Dodgers. 680 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 10: I'm not well. She didn't know this yet, so because 681 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,439 Speaker 10: they started talking and he said, what do you do? 682 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:53,199 Speaker 10: And she told him that she goes to school and 683 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 10: he said, oh, I play baseball for them, and she 684 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 10: still didn't, you know, pick up on it. And anyways, 685 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 10: they get to and she said he goes always play 686 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 10: baseball there, and she said, oh, my little brother's a 687 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,160 Speaker 10: baseball player. He's going to be famous and she said 688 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 10: his name. 689 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 13: Remember him. 690 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 10: She said, maybe you'll be famous one day, and he's like, well, 691 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,480 Speaker 10: I don't know. Anyway, So they get to their the 692 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:15,479 Speaker 10: restaurant and as he was getting out, he asked her, 693 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:17,440 Speaker 10: can I get your phone numbers so you can come 694 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,159 Speaker 10: back and pick me up or us up? And she's like, oh, 695 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:21,679 Speaker 10: I don't think it works like that, kind of like 696 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 10: the story that I heard the other day on your show. 697 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,639 Speaker 10: But so he anyways, she goes, but here it is 698 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 10: just in case, and so she gave him and he 699 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:33,440 Speaker 10: immediately texted her and says that, uh, I didn't want 700 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:34,880 Speaker 10: you to pick me up. I just wanted to get 701 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,679 Speaker 10: to know you better. Anyway, So long story short, she 702 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 10: was they were texting back and forth and he still 703 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 10: didn't tell her who he was or anything. It just 704 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 10: she knew his first name, and you know, she knew 705 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 10: what city that she picked him up in and he 706 00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,640 Speaker 10: played what college you played for. So anyways, I looked 707 00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 10: him up and I knew exactly who he was because 708 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 10: he was my one of my very very favorite baseball players. 709 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,720 Speaker 10: I don't think I should tell. 710 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,600 Speaker 3: You what happened. 711 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 2: Did they did what they do? 712 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 10: Yes, well they so then they would like FaceTime and 713 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 10: talk and talk, and so she's still you know, she didn't. 714 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 9: It was kind of. 715 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 10: Cute like they would face someone. He'd be practicing and 716 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 10: he would show the field and she would just be 717 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 10: like she still didn't pick up or she acted like 718 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 10: she didn't, And so I said, you need to let 719 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 10: him know that you know who he is. I mean, 720 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 10: this year looks really like a ding dong because he's 721 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 10: on the field literally. But then then they finally she 722 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 10: finally told him because she goes, my brother told me 723 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 10: I was a dummy that I didn't know who you were. 724 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 10: But so they went out on a date and that's 725 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:38,720 Speaker 10: when you know, she saw evidence that he was with 726 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 10: seeing somebody, so oh yeah, she she called. 727 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 2: Them and went home, So did they not? They did 728 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 2: not know. 729 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: She didn't know that he was dating somebody, so they didn't. 730 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 2: They didn't hang out. I didn't hang out. 731 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 10: Well, they hung out. They went out for. 732 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 12: No. 733 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 10: No, they didn't do that hang out. 734 00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 2: How about that? 735 00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:58,520 Speaker 3: You know? 736 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,160 Speaker 10: They did good hangout. 737 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,600 Speaker 3: This is really great that you called in to tell 738 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 3: us this story. However, it does have a sad sort 739 00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 3: of middle of it, doesn't it. It does have like 740 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 3: a bummer middle part. 741 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 9: I know. 742 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 10: And she was pretty bummed out too, because I mean, yeah, 743 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 10: he's just yeah, he's amazing, makes all player. But it's okay, 744 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 10: everything works up. It was a fun story, and it 745 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 10: was it's a really fun story. 746 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 2: And well, thank you for listening. Tell your daughter we 747 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 2: said hi, and keep us on. You have a great day. 748 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 3: Beat Okay, thanks for calling bye mom talking about her 749 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,880 Speaker 3: daughter and who she's hanging out with that whole I 750 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:39,000 Speaker 3: thought she was needed, Like they hung out hung out, right, 751 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 3: But that was about a ride chair driver hooking up 752 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 3: with the passenger who's well known. 753 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 7: Isn't dating such a crazy concept when you wind it down, 754 00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 7: it's like you're just meeting strangers everywhere and engaging with them. 755 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 2: Like vinegar and a wound is better. Yeah, is it 756 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 2: over now? 757 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 12: Sarah? 758 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 2: Good morning? 759 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:57,880 Speaker 4: How are you good? 760 00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 12: How are you guys? 761 00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 2: Super good? So you're calling about your neighborhood book club? 762 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 2: I see, I am so my husband's. 763 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 1: Happened. 764 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 12: It is very nice. I didn't know either. My husband 765 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 12: and I just moved to a new neighborhood and I 766 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 12: was invited by one of the women here that he 767 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 12: started it, and he does it with other women on 768 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 12: the block and some of her friends, and I thought 769 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 12: it was super nice. Obviously a great way to meet 770 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,719 Speaker 12: neighbors and some new people because we're new to the area. 771 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,480 Speaker 12: So I went a couple of times, but I haven't 772 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 12: been able to go back just because of my schedule, 773 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 12: and I don't think I'm going to be able to 774 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 12: go back. And what I'm trying to ask is just 775 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:45,239 Speaker 12: like a good way to kind of back out of 776 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 12: the book club instead of continuously declining her invite. And 777 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 12: I'll give you some background. So I'm in grad school 778 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,920 Speaker 12: right now and working, so my time is really consumed. 779 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 12: If I'm not at work, i'm studying or doing work 780 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 12: for school. And I really thought I could swing, like 781 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 12: you know, doing like the book club and and adding 782 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:11,240 Speaker 12: in like some fun books, I just can't. And so, 783 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 12: like one of the last times that I went, they 784 00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 12: really want everyone to participate. I really just thought it 785 00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,240 Speaker 12: was going to be like a space to like meet 786 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 12: people and make friends. But they were like when they 787 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 12: asked me a question I didn't know the answer, they 788 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 12: were like annoyed and making snippy. 789 00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 2: Commentsious about it. 790 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 3: I mean, some fun just a social So what was 791 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 3: the last book that you were supposed to read? 792 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,440 Speaker 12: Oh my gosh, honestly, I'm so far behind. I can't 793 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:42,120 Speaker 12: even tell you. I've I've missed like two books now, 794 00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 12: and they keep sending me the titles that I keep. 795 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 3: This is something that we all go through. It's like 796 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 3: we overcome it. We kicked the can to telling people 797 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:50,960 Speaker 3: we can't do it. We eventually need to just say 798 00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 3: we can't do it because and we are commit our 799 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,000 Speaker 3: kids sometimes too, with too many activities, which ever commits 800 00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 3: us to deliver them to all the places. 801 00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:02,120 Speaker 2: So, Sarah, here's my you. 802 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 3: Do what you just did with us, like what you 803 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 3: just told us with sincerity, like you said it to us. 804 00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:12,000 Speaker 3: It is the reality. It's a burden. This thing should 805 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:14,440 Speaker 3: not be a burden. It should be a pleasure not 806 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 3: and so therefore you need to not kick the can 807 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 3: on this and just be up front and honest that 808 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,920 Speaker 3: you have too much on your plate, and maybe you 809 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 3: could revisit it at that's always another great as that's perfect. 810 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,480 Speaker 3: Revisit at another time, And I. 811 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 5: Like that too much on my plate right now, grad 812 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:30,920 Speaker 5: school and everything after focus. 813 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 3: Going to grad school make the world a better place. 814 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:35,840 Speaker 3: Who's gonna it's gonna throw a flag. 815 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 1: At So maybe later we can revisit it. That's really good. 816 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:39,160 Speaker 2: Revisits always. 817 00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I like that. 818 00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 12: To revisit is a good one, that's perfect. 819 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 6: This is a good bye. This is a goodbye. 820 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 2: Anybody that wants to get out of something use the 821 00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 2: word revisit. 822 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 1: Whenever you use that with me. 823 00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:53,960 Speaker 2: Well, you might forget by that. Yeah, you guys won't forget. 824 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 6: You've definitely used that on this. 825 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 826 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,080 Speaker 1: Now I'm like trying to think back. How many times 827 00:33:58,120 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 1: do you use that with me? 828 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 3: What's a synonym for that? I'll use that next time, Sarah. 829 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 3: I appreciate your schedule. I appreciate you just being like 830 00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,280 Speaker 3: a go getter. I love that you're out there making 831 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:13,560 Speaker 3: things happen. Good luck with your pursuits and let's edit 832 00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:17,240 Speaker 3: this very stressful two series book club out grad school 833 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 3: is major. 834 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 12: Yeah all right, yeah, thank you guys so much. 835 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:21,719 Speaker 2: Thank you, bye bye. 836 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,799 Speaker 3: You know it's funny, like you ever have friends they're like, well, 837 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:26,279 Speaker 3: tell me what books top three books you're. 838 00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 2: Reading right now? Like, hey, I'm not reading three books. 839 00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, let me see what my audible credits are. 840 00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:34,840 Speaker 2: I always go back to like the same book for 841 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 2: ten years. 842 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:36,799 Speaker 6: But I get what she's saying. 843 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 7: I got invited to a book club and I really 844 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 7: wanted to be a part of it because like it 845 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,239 Speaker 7: was like cute friends, but the book was like seven 846 00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:42,960 Speaker 7: hundred pages. 847 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 3: Let's let's you know, time, let's recess, let's reassess. So, Jenna, 848 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,160 Speaker 3: thank you for calling. What we know is that you're 849 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 3: going on a work conference and you have an issue. 850 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:54,400 Speaker 3: What's the issue. 851 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:59,279 Speaker 15: My issue is that I interviewed with a company that's 852 00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,400 Speaker 15: going to be at the friends and obviously, when you're interviewing, 853 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:06,040 Speaker 15: you don't tell your current boss or current company. And 854 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 15: unbeknownst to me, the company I interviewed with asked for 855 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 15: a meeting with my current boss that I have to attend. 856 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,760 Speaker 15: So I'm basically coming face to face with a person 857 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 15: who interviewed me, and I'm not sure what to do. 858 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:26,319 Speaker 3: Can someone explained to me one more time? The dynamic here. 859 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:32,040 Speaker 3: So you're interviewing with another company and you're going to 860 00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,839 Speaker 3: be in a meeting with your boss and that yeah, 861 00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:37,759 Speaker 3: and your interviewer, Yes, what's that meeting about. 862 00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,759 Speaker 8: They're trying to sell us some kind of service and 863 00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 8: I didn't end up getting the job with the person 864 00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,280 Speaker 8: I interviewed with, so it's going to be a very 865 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:48,600 Speaker 8: awkward dynamic. 866 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 3: Is that person going to say nice to see you again, sorry, 867 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 3: didn't get the job, and you were. 868 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:54,600 Speaker 5: Like, well, maybe you can shoot them a quick email 869 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 5: before the meeting to be like, hey, I would really 870 00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,440 Speaker 5: appreciate it if you just didn't mention that seems. 871 00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:00,799 Speaker 6: But you're not going to mention it. They're not going 872 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 6: to do that to you. 873 00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:03,600 Speaker 3: One day, say nice to see you again, sorry it 874 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 3: didn't work out, and then you're gonna be put in 875 00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:05,640 Speaker 3: a bad position. 876 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:06,880 Speaker 2: Is that what you're thinking, Try. 877 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 1: And nip it in the bud before. 878 00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:14,279 Speaker 2: Right, or just forming with your current boss. 879 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,720 Speaker 1: This boss, yeah, imagine you can't. 880 00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 2: Say, look, I was looking at other opportunities. 881 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:21,880 Speaker 1: You know I should have put her foot in the 882 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:22,719 Speaker 1: mouth if she doesn't. 883 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,320 Speaker 2: Have to get in front of it. 884 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 7: Du how would you feel if one of us did 885 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:30,240 Speaker 7: that to you then he would always hold that grudge forever. 886 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:31,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, you wouldn't like that. 887 00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:34,239 Speaker 1: I don't want to try you. 888 00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:39,400 Speaker 3: Uh oh, this makes my tummy go upside down, Jenna. 889 00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 5: I think you just shoot him a quick email before 890 00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:44,600 Speaker 5: the meeting the other guy, the other guy and just 891 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 5: say like, hey, you know, in the off chance that 892 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:48,480 Speaker 5: that gets brought up, just please. 893 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 3: Really appreciate it if we just move on. Yeah, maybe 894 00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:52,400 Speaker 3: the only way to handle it. 895 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,760 Speaker 7: I think they're going to I think you are making 896 00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:57,359 Speaker 7: it up. You're preparing for the worst. But I don't 897 00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:59,319 Speaker 7: think somebody that didn't give you a job is gonna 898 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:00,600 Speaker 7: say hey, sorry didn't work out. 899 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 1: No, I don't think they say them. But maybe it's 900 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:04,200 Speaker 1: just a quick like I don't know. 901 00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:05,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think, Jenna. 902 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,919 Speaker 8: I think I'm going to send a quick email that's 903 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 8: a great plan and just say I'm looking forward to 904 00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,520 Speaker 8: seeing you and then maybe see how they react from that. Yeah, 905 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:19,239 Speaker 8: because I don't know. 906 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:23,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that that's I think you made that 907 00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:24,880 Speaker 3: big of an impression where they actually are going to 908 00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:25,960 Speaker 3: remember you. 909 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 15: No offense I no, no, no offense taken. 910 00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:31,960 Speaker 8: I do because I was in the final round of interviews, 911 00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:33,920 Speaker 8: so it was between me and one other person, So 912 00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,840 Speaker 8: they're definitely going to know me, and they know the 913 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:38,960 Speaker 8: company I work for, so I'm kind of surprised they 914 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:39,840 Speaker 8: asked for this meeting. 915 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,160 Speaker 3: But all right, well, good luck with this. It's a 916 00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:47,719 Speaker 3: big decision. You'll make the right one. Take care. Uh 917 00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,400 Speaker 3: great advice? Right, Well, I mean there's only two paths 918 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,319 Speaker 3: we can go in circles. Either she avoids it or 919 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:54,400 Speaker 3: she addressed it with the email. 920 00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:55,319 Speaker 1: Are you yelling at me? 921 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:57,120 Speaker 2: Got to make a choice because you guys went by 922 00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,360 Speaker 2: my back and apply for a job. Apparently they're not 923 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 2: all right. 924 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,480 Speaker 3: So they did one hundred thousand people in this survey 925 00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:06,320 Speaker 3: and they asked questions about cheating and here are the results. 926 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:15,800 Speaker 3: They asked, who engages in sexual infidelity more men or women? 927 00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:20,919 Speaker 1: And the answer is men? 928 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 13: Yes? 929 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:22,040 Speaker 10: Men? 930 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:22,799 Speaker 2: I would say men. 931 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 3: The answer is men, okay, And they also said the 932 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:38,680 Speaker 3: survey who engages in emotional infidelity more men are women. 933 00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,120 Speaker 1: I'm going to guess women because maybe they're oblivious. And 934 00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:45,000 Speaker 1: I don't think they're doing it. 935 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:46,920 Speaker 6: Gon go men. 936 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 2: Women? 937 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 3: Oh, they asked in the infidelity survey who is more 938 00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:02,040 Speaker 3: likely to cheat with someone online? 939 00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:04,520 Speaker 2: Back room? Anybody went in on this one? 940 00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:05,080 Speaker 8: Men? 941 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:09,320 Speaker 6: Men really women? 942 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:10,880 Speaker 2: Women? 943 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:15,440 Speaker 3: Tanya is correct. Silence everywhere here because there's not any 944 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:20,919 Speaker 3: guys around. All right, there's no dudes here, so silence. 945 00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,080 Speaker 5: Feel like more guys are like gamers and then they're 946 00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:24,880 Speaker 5: like cheating, like like playing games. 947 00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:32,920 Speaker 2: Okay works the cheating playing games, I don't know. 948 00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:35,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, you meet people in these like Xbox community. 949 00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:41,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like innocent, but it's not fresh. Infidelity survey here, 950 00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:45,920 Speaker 3: who is more likely to cheat with someone their spouse 951 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:47,719 Speaker 3: knows personally? 952 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:49,600 Speaker 2: Men or women? 953 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:50,439 Speaker 10: Men? 954 00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:56,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go scandabal and say men, Tanya, women. 955 00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:06,319 Speaker 3: Tanya's correct, women women, Okay, one more bad girls? Who 956 00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:12,760 Speaker 3: is more likely to cheat more than once? Men or women? 957 00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:14,399 Speaker 5: Men? 958 00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:19,120 Speaker 3: And this Tiffany thing, stop it, just take it away. 959 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:22,440 Speaker 3: I think men men were likely to cheat more than once. 960 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:33,520 Speaker 3: Tanya men, back room men women m wrong, Ruby man. 961 00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:39,000 Speaker 3: We'll get to this in a second, but I guess 962 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:41,400 Speaker 3: an email will send out company wide here about the 963 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,400 Speaker 3: dress code at iHeartRadio. 964 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:45,960 Speaker 1: I was surprised about that, so. 965 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:46,920 Speaker 2: We'll get into that. 966 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,759 Speaker 3: But a lot of bosses around southern California is saying 967 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,160 Speaker 3: their employees don't know how to behave anymore in the office. 968 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,759 Speaker 3: Is this because of being out of the office during 969 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,480 Speaker 3: some of the lockdown and having to come back in 970 00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:57,640 Speaker 3: and they don't want to. 971 00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,640 Speaker 5: I think this has a few layers to it, so yes, 972 00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,880 Speaker 5: I feel like working from home during the pandemic has 973 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,719 Speaker 5: a lot to maybe blame for this, and also maybe 974 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,480 Speaker 5: the difference in generations. I think times have just changed 975 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 5: in general with our dress code overall, maybe not even 976 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:14,359 Speaker 5: in the office, but just think about like how people 977 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,000 Speaker 5: used to dress when they boarded a flight back in. 978 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:18,520 Speaker 2: The day, peop we should dress right. 979 00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,960 Speaker 3: I used to actually when I would go visit once 980 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:23,200 Speaker 3: a year and fly to visit my grandparents wherever my 981 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:25,640 Speaker 3: grandfather was stationed in the army and that we moved 982 00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,640 Speaker 3: all the time. I would take my dad samsonite briefcase 983 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:30,239 Speaker 3: with me when I was nine to make it look 984 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:31,240 Speaker 3: like I was a business dresser. 985 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,200 Speaker 2: That's so cute, hard briefcase. 986 00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:35,319 Speaker 5: But yeah, I feel like everyone would dress up more 987 00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,239 Speaker 5: and it was like this. I don't know what whether 988 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,160 Speaker 5: call it etiquette. Fine, but apparently workers are a little 989 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:44,759 Speaker 5: rusty now in person with all things, like even just 990 00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,840 Speaker 5: the way they treat the kitchen with a common area. 991 00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:48,640 Speaker 1: They'll leave that. 992 00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:50,480 Speaker 3: Happens here, the kitchen here is a disaster, and that 993 00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,359 Speaker 3: little bathroom around the corner smells like. 994 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:53,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, squirreled. 995 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:58,480 Speaker 5: Other employees are too loud or they're on their phones 996 00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 5: during in person meetings now because they were just so 997 00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:02,600 Speaker 5: used to being able to do their own thing on 998 00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:04,560 Speaker 5: zooms where you didn't really notice what they were doing. 999 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:07,080 Speaker 5: Maybe they had their cameras off, but it's And I 1000 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,200 Speaker 5: just was in a meeting yesterday with like maybe eight 1001 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 5: or nine people, and yeah, like people just have their 1002 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,319 Speaker 5: phones with a text message will come in, we'll check 1003 00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:15,480 Speaker 5: it in the middle of like the meeting, like it's I. 1004 00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:17,040 Speaker 3: But have you been in a meeting where you're holding it? 1005 00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:18,680 Speaker 3: It's like, wow, I mean, how long is this going 1006 00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:18,920 Speaker 3: to go? 1007 00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 1: Exactly? 1008 00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:22,480 Speaker 5: But I guess it comes down like shaking hands and 1009 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:26,680 Speaker 5: small talking at network events and things are just awkward now. 1010 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,759 Speaker 5: So some bosses and some companies are sending their employees 1011 00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:32,279 Speaker 5: to etiquette school and this is a real thing, Like 1012 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:35,160 Speaker 5: these schools exist I had no idea about them. And 1013 00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,279 Speaker 5: the people that run these schools say, yeah, we've seen 1014 00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,759 Speaker 5: a spike before. We used to have like maybe two 1015 00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 5: companies hit us up, and now it's like three four 1016 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:45,200 Speaker 5: a month. Like it's just it's really skyrocketed with people 1017 00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:49,319 Speaker 5: like to be I guess retrained on how to be professional. 1018 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:54,680 Speaker 3: I am interested in Etiqutte school. I think etiquette school 1019 00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:56,040 Speaker 3: might benefit all of us. 1020 00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:58,280 Speaker 1: I think psychecheck school. 1021 00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:01,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I I guess there's a few courses and 1022 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:05,040 Speaker 5: the last course ends with like a business lunch and 1023 00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:07,360 Speaker 5: how to be etiquette when you eat at a restaurant 1024 00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:07,920 Speaker 5: and things like that. 1025 00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,319 Speaker 1: Those are all things things that anybody which should learn. 1026 00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:14,160 Speaker 3: So get to what the management here sent about dress 1027 00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:15,560 Speaker 3: code to iHeart staff. 1028 00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:18,600 Speaker 5: So I guess the tiement is that some of the 1029 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:24,280 Speaker 5: salespeople were coming into the office more in like comfortable attire, 1030 00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:25,600 Speaker 5: called it sweats. 1031 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:27,799 Speaker 2: What are you guys wearing? 1032 00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,680 Speaker 1: Right, Listen, I don't think that that no applied to us. 1033 00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:31,080 Speaker 1: They don't. 1034 00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:32,080 Speaker 2: Well that's what fair. 1035 00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:33,960 Speaker 1: Well, we're not coming in here, like. 1036 00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:37,600 Speaker 2: Listen, we're all coming to the same place, we're the 1037 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:38,320 Speaker 2: same people. 1038 00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:39,280 Speaker 1: But we're not meeting. 1039 00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:40,240 Speaker 2: We're not meeting. 1040 00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:43,360 Speaker 5: We're not doing business meetings like how with the outside, 1041 00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:44,319 Speaker 5: with how they are. 1042 00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:45,839 Speaker 2: I think outside we. 1043 00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:49,359 Speaker 5: Come in, we come into our little cocoon, yes, and 1044 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:52,600 Speaker 5: then we go off about our day. 1045 00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,920 Speaker 1: But I know they basically said, there's a dress code. 1046 00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:58,759 Speaker 5: No more of this, no more of that, please coach, 1047 00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:00,200 Speaker 5: and like whatever it is I. 1048 00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:03,000 Speaker 2: Want you to know, they say, Or wearing matching sweatsuit. 1049 00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:07,399 Speaker 6: Now, let me tell you something. Let me tell you something. 1050 00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:09,960 Speaker 7: A matching sweatsuit can be so chic if you throw 1051 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:13,960 Speaker 7: a long coat over it with your cool. 1052 00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:17,440 Speaker 6: Jacket over it, I tell you it can be classy. 1053 00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 3: Well, you don't go meet forward outside these walls, Ryan 1054 00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:22,200 Speaker 3: and that they're saying. 1055 00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:24,000 Speaker 5: If I had a meeting with a client or with 1056 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:27,120 Speaker 5: the potential whatever I do, dress differently. 1057 00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:28,440 Speaker 1: I wouldn't wear this sweat. 1058 00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,719 Speaker 3: I think if if I were the advertiser and you 1059 00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:32,640 Speaker 3: were coming to meeting, I'd want you dressed like that. 1060 00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:34,360 Speaker 2: That's very cool. I'd want to know I'm advertising with 1061 00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:35,200 Speaker 2: somebody pretty cool. 1062 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:35,680 Speaker 7: Me too. 1063 00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:38,920 Speaker 5: I wouldn't want to adize something screw But my normal 1064 00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:40,160 Speaker 5: clothes is cool too. 1065 00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:40,680 Speaker 1: I'm not. 1066 00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:44,919 Speaker 2: And like I don't I care, but not so much. 1067 00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,319 Speaker 3: Well, I guess that's why I want to that's who 1068 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:48,520 Speaker 3: I want to read my commercials. 1069 00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:52,200 Speaker 5: I think the next memo might be, uh, the kitchen etiquette, 1070 00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:54,160 Speaker 5: because there's a post it on the microwave right now 1071 00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,560 Speaker 5: that says please no fish. No, it actually doesn't say please, 1072 00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:58,480 Speaker 5: it just says no fish, no broccoli. 1073 00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,359 Speaker 2: So we'll talk ab you have to fish. I can 1074 00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 2: live with. But I am bringing broccoli fish. 1075 00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,160 Speaker 1: Who heats the fish at work? 1076 00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:06,200 Speaker 6: I'm sure I've done that. 1077 00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:07,239 Speaker 2: Patty probably did it. 1078 00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:08,839 Speaker 6: Yeah, for Surety. 1079 00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:12,200 Speaker 2: Patty used to bring in pie the day after. 1080 00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, she heat it up everything. 1081 00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:17,080 Speaker 2: I loved it. I loved it all right. That's it 1082 00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:17,799 Speaker 2: is that the whole show. 1083 00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:18,400 Speaker 1: Wow did it? 1084 00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,200 Speaker 2: Guys? We did it. I was ready for more. 1085 00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:21,399 Speaker 8: Me too. 1086 00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:23,319 Speaker 6: We'll come back tomorrow, all. 1087 00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:24,799 Speaker 2: Right, So let me look at we're gonna do tomorrow. 1088 00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:25,480 Speaker 2: That's Yan roses. 1089 00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:30,040 Speaker 3: It's probably only one know Ryan's roses. Tomorrow, backroom, Thank you, 1090 00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:31,160 Speaker 3: let's get through Wednesday. 1091 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,160 Speaker 2: Yes, bye bye you guys hit the post show meeting. 1092 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 2: No you won't kiss FM. Thanks for listening to On 1093 00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:42,920 Speaker 2: Air with Ryan Seacrest. 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