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Speaker 1: Second date up dated. Occasionally on this segment we get

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Speaker 1: return callers who come back multiple times seeking our help

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Speaker 1: and dare I say our wisdom?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Who?

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Speaker 2: What do they say about people who are psycho and

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Speaker 2: they try the same thing over and over again expecting

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Speaker 2: a different result.

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Speaker 1: That's saying it's too wise for me.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Funny thing is today's return listener only knows about us

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Speaker 1: because we called him for a second date. Update.

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Speaker 2: What the heck did you go out with him?

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Speaker 4: Jeff?

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Speaker 2: And now he's not calling you back? Is that what's

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Speaker 2: going on?

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Speaker 1: No? I mean he was on a second date where

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Speaker 1: we reached out to him. Oh yeah, he was on

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Speaker 1: the receiving end of the call, and not surprisingly, he

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Speaker 1: instantly fell in love with us.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I thought we were desperate.

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Speaker 1: Secondary going hey, have you been on any new dates?

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Speaker 1: His name is Chase, and I don't know if you'll

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Speaker 1: remember him, but he was the guy who kept postponing

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Speaker 1: his dates because he said he was really really focus

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Speaker 1: on self care and not overstressing.

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Speaker 2: Wait, this is a bathtub guy, right, bathtub yup?

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Speaker 1: He was having too good of a time in the

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Speaker 1: bath and decided, you know what, I'm gonna stay in

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Speaker 1: here and skip my gate.

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Speaker 2: And I will say I love a man who just

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Speaker 2: has discovered the magic of a bath chase.

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Speaker 1: We respect you and your self care. Welcome back to

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Speaker 1: the show Man.

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Speaker 3: Thanks go. Good to be back in a bubble bath

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Speaker 3: right now, bro.

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Speaker 6: I'm not thinking a bath right now.

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Speaker 1: So you reached out to us this time because apparently

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Speaker 1: you went out with a different girl than the last time.

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Speaker 1: Or is this the same one?

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Speaker 4: No, this is a different girl.

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Speaker 6: This girl's name is Kathy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, where'd you meet her.

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Speaker 6: Online?

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Speaker 1: Okay? I thought I was gonna say in the bathtub

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Speaker 1: when I was so okay, she just popped up and

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, well guess what now? You just

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Speaker 1: come from up the storm dream?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: Cool? You met her online? What do you guys do?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, honestly we talked at first, and then eventually we

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Speaker 6: found the time we were both free, and we went

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Speaker 6: out to a restaurant.

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Speaker 2: Okay, sounds pretty so far.

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Speaker 1: And did you actually make it to this restaurant or

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Speaker 1: was self care getting in the way.

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Speaker 3: Now, we made it to the restaurant.

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Speaker 6: Believe it or not. You can take care of yourself

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Speaker 6: and still make time.

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Speaker 2: You learning lessons from your time on the show, Last

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Speaker 2: Time so much.

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Speaker 1: Okay, how did the rest? How did the restaurant go?

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Speaker 1: With Cassie?

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Speaker 3: I thought we had a good time.

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Speaker 6: We did that thing where you're looking at random strangers

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Speaker 6: and you're like making up crazy backstories about them.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so I love that.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Yeah, Like we we talked about her job.

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Speaker 3: She's a nurse, which is really cool.

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Speaker 6: So when we were telling backstories, we would come up

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Speaker 6: with like crazy scenarios of er injuries. Oh that's at

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Speaker 3: What you do?

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Speaker 1: Oh? This definitely sounds like a very romantic topic of conversation.

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Speaker 1: You didn't spend all of your time on er horror stories.

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Speaker 3: Of course, we talked about other things.

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Speaker 6: Like one of my favorite questions to ask on a

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Speaker 2: That's a great question.

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Speaker 6: That's a hard.

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Speaker 2: Question, dude.

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Speaker 6: If you say Looney Tunes, maybe you have a silly,

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Speaker 2: Oh, you like use it to judge people's personality. If

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Speaker 2: you say SpongeBob, you're what was your answer?

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Speaker 3: Well, funny enough, you just said it. Mine was funge

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Speaker 3: Bob I'm un him as a human.

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Speaker 1: Being, all right, Okay, Team SpongeBob Brooks's Animaniacs. Does that

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Speaker 2: No, it's that I know all the capitals of the

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Speaker 2: United States do not listen to Wacko's song.

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Speaker 1: Clearly, No, that's epic song. Okay. Did she have a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, her favorite was Scooby Doobe, like you know, true

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Speaker 3: crime shows.

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Speaker 2: Like Transfer into Adulthood.

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Speaker 1: Or there seemed to be serial Killers. But that's probably

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Speaker 1: not Shaggy, that's true. Okay, well this okay, Now, now

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Speaker 1: the conversation sounds like it's more fun. How did the

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Speaker 3: Well, you know how we were having a really great time.

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Speaker 3: I thought I was gonna get a kiss.

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Speaker 1: Maybe happening, I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: Is that because you didn't make the move or what?

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Speaker 3: You know? I leaned in and she didn't reciprocate, and

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Speaker 2: Farther gentleman way to do it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, So I just got in my Honda Civic and

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Speaker 6: drove home.

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Speaker 2: You slink away, you feel like crap.

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Speaker 1: I've been there, bro.

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Speaker 3: I.

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Speaker 2: Met making all of his car.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you have pride in your car.

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Speaker 2: Sure.

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Speaker 1: So what's happened since that date? Have you been able

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Speaker 1: to stay in touch with Cassie.

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Speaker 6: I've tried to make another date. The problem is, I

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Speaker 6: just I'm busy a lot with my company, so it's

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Speaker 6: been hard to find the time that worked. And now

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Speaker 6: I just kind of feel like she's ignoring me.

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Speaker 1: So you're super busy, but you will make.

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Speaker 6: Time for her, Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, we can tell her that.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 2: But it's always like kind of a turn off when

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Speaker 2: like that feels like maybe she thinks you don't like her, honestly, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because that always feels like an excuse.

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Speaker 1: In times like these, I tend to ask myself what

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Speaker 1: would SpongeBob do? And what he would do is he

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Speaker 1: radio and try and get you a second date.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you go jellyfish hunting.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, SpongeBob things at once. We're going to attempt

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Speaker 1: a few of them.

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Speaker 5: We come back.

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Speaker 1: Gotta know about that we're gonna do with your second date?

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Speaker 1: Update right after this second date update. It's kind of

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Speaker 1: interesting the question our listener Chase asks women on every

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Speaker 1: first date. He likes to ask, what's your favorite childhood cartoon?

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Speaker 2: I love that question.

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Speaker 1: I think everybody loves that question.

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Speaker 2: I actually want to know yours.

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Speaker 1: Jeff, you're never going to know that from me. We

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Speaker 1: don't know each other that well. I dare you ask

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Speaker 2: You know what it's gonna be, deftails. It's got to

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Speaker 2: be about a rich uncle. There's no way.

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Speaker 1: It's Arthur if you have to know the introverted.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, with the really sassy sister.

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Speaker 1: Now, Chase says he can tell a lot about a

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Speaker 1: person based on their cartoon answer, and his date, Cassie

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Speaker 1: said Scooby Doo, which is a sign that she could

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Speaker 1: be into true crime, whereas he's a SpongeBob fan who's

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Speaker 1: opposites do attract sometimes, and Chase wants to see if

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Speaker 1: we can make that happen for him today. Brook, what's

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Speaker 2: I really think that she thinks that you don't like her, because,

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Speaker 2: like he says, I mean, didn't you say Chase like

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Speaker 2: you kept telling her, God, I'm so busy, but I'll

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I get that. It's just it's not what I

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying it's a bad thing. I just think

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Speaker 2: back from it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And if it turns out that we can't get

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Speaker 1: you a second date at the end of this, is

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Speaker 1: it okay if we blame it on those meddling kids.

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Speaker 6: Too, if need be, I suppose that'd be okay.

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Speaker 2: Masks, are you wearing to take off after this?

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call that plan B. But for now, let's

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Speaker 1: just dial Cassie see if she picks up and try

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Speaker 1: to get this second date done. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: we're looking to talk with Cassie. Hey Cassie. My name

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Speaker 1: is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the Morning.

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Speaker 5: Hey Cassie, Yeah, thank you, but I'm not interested in

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Speaker 1: Oh well, we're not trying to tell you anything. We

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Speaker 1: were asked to call you by one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: that went on a date with you recently.

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Speaker 5: What what is this? I don't get it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, this is a segment we do call the Second

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Speaker 1: Date Update, and we're trying to help him figure out

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Speaker 1: if something went wrong on your first meetup and hopefully

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Speaker 2: It sounds like a pretty normal date.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it wasn't that normal, Brooke. They were making

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Speaker 1: as a nurse in the er.

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Speaker 5: Oh oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you're talking about Chase. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So the reason that we're doing this call is because

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Speaker 1: Chase told us this whole story, said he had a

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Speaker 1: great time with you. Now he's a little bit confused

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Speaker 1: about there hasn't been a second meet up, because if

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Speaker 1: we're being honest, he says, he feels like you're ignoring him.

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Speaker 5: No, I mean I just kind of well, I just

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Speaker 5: kind of felt like I was kind of booch by

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Speaker 5: this guy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. That's interesting because we've had Chase on

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Speaker 2: the show before and he just seems like such a humble,

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Speaker 5: Well yeah, I mean he is humble and nice, but

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Speaker 5: like when we like connected and I called him, he

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Speaker 5: said he was golfing at this golf course and I

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Speaker 5: looked it up and it's like a really nice private course.

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Speaker 5: You have to be a member.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, looked it up.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, Well, I mean it's it's nice to have

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Speaker 5: someone that's financially established.

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Speaker 2: You know. I mean, don't guys go golfing if they're

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Speaker 2: not financially was a private.

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Speaker 1: Court, okay, this particular one really impressed you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 5: Another time we were texting to meet up and he

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Speaker 5: said he was at this auction and I'm like, auction

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Speaker 5: buying stuff, Like poor people don't go to auction if

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Speaker 5: he's buying art, Like come on, yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't know auctions.

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Speaker 2: Did you wait, did you just say a Honda Civic.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. I mean I got the impressions that he had

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Speaker 3: You didn't.

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Speaker 2: That's not fair. You did not get the impression. You

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Speaker 1: Cassie, did he tell you that he's well off with

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Speaker 5: I mean, I guess I assumed it, because if it.

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Speaker 2: Was based on the conversations, it sounds like based on

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Speaker 1: I know many many different personal assistants who attend art

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Speaker 1: auctions on behalf of my family and my parents, and

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Speaker 1: they are not off.

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Speaker 2: I tell you're joking. Did your family really do that?

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Speaker 1: Why am I being grilled? Cassie is the one that

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Speaker 1: can't get so Cassie, do you feel like maybe you

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm just I'm not interested in beating a low

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Speaker 5: values guy and to trick me.

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Speaker 2: Agree that.

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Speaker 1: You should get him on the phone and ask him

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Speaker 1: he is listening to this call on the other line

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 2: What he could chase?

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Speaker 1: Are you there? And are you a low value man?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 6: I mean apparently I am. According to her, you're.

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Speaker 2: A good value man chase, that's what you say.

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Speaker 1: Well, why don't you have a discussion with Cassie about this,

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Speaker 1: because clearly she feels like you were giving her the

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Speaker 6: No, I mean, sadly, my plan worked.

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Speaker 2: Plan?

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Speaker 5: What plan? Though? What are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: Playing games?

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Speaker 6: I actually am a member of that golf clubs and

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Speaker 6: I did attend the art auctions for myself. It was art.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, you're rich rich, then I'm comfortable. That means

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Speaker 2: you're wealthy.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you got off my parents paywalling

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I own a tech company and sometimes when girls

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Speaker 6: hear that, they just end up wanting to date me

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Speaker 6: for my money.

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Speaker 3: So I purposely took you to a chain restaurant.

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Speaker 6: To see how you would react.

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Speaker 2: Oh and you liked her. Still, that's so sad.

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Speaker 5: And then she no, no, no, I didn't hate it. Look,

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Speaker 5: I didn't hate it. I never.

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Speaker 2: Hear that you failed to text personally.

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Speaker 5: I think that's very very smart.

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Speaker 1: I think you.

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Speaker 2: Should try to do that.

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Speaker 5: Your void when seriously.

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Speaker 2: Cassie, now you're super interested in him and you think

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Speaker 2: that he is awesome weirdly, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean, I don't know what you guys here referring, but seriously,

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Speaker 5: I've always been interested.

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Speaker 2: You know, we record these phone calls. We can play

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Speaker 2: him back.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean you might have missed that first part

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Speaker 5: because I said, if this is him testing me, then

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Speaker 5: you know he's really smart and I respect that, I

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Speaker 5: really do.

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Speaker 2: I think I think I think she tried to say that.

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Speaker 2: Right after he said, oh, it's just a test. She's like,

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Speaker 2: that's really smart.

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Speaker 1: Are you buying it? Chase?

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Speaker 6: Look, I can buy anything I have.

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Speaker 1: That's funny. That's not what I meant. But do you

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Speaker 4: I always want to think the best of people. So okay,

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Speaker 4: I wants to send me a few picks?

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Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, you say if she wants to send you.

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Speaker 4: What if she wants to send me a few picks

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Speaker 4: to so sorry, then.

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Speaker 2: That's so wrong. I mean, I want to a stereotype.

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Speaker 2: He was a Chase, you own this company, But now

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Speaker 2: I am god.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, you're so funny.

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Speaker 3: I'll show you on our day.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, Okay, this past here, so.

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Speaker 2: How quickly he dropped his morals too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, want to hang out. I have to see if

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Speaker 1: because yes, from you, she said, yes, it's a big

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Speaker 5: You did, you did misunderstood me. I told you, guys,

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Speaker 5: I was shocked. I was a little surprised, but I

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Speaker 2: She actually did say the restaurant was Okay, Okay, I

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Speaker 2: got that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, alright, So Chase, are you guys going to go

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Speaker 1: out again? Because if you do, you're probably gonna have

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Speaker 1: to drop the Ichmobile Honda Civic. It's not it's not approved.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean that new stuff has been presented on this date.

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Speaker 3: So I'm definitely yes, definitely, yes, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I hate both of you somehow, I think we're jealous

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Speaker 1: of both of the Yeah, okay, well congratulations did Why

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Speaker 1: do we feel bad?

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It feels wrong that there's some law that we just broke.

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Speaker 2: What you do?

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Speaker 6: Have fun, all right?

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Speaker 1: The money if you're bored, bro Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I think with dates nowadays, if you have a certain expectation,

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Speaker 1: like you want a guy who's well often established, like Cassie.

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Speaker 1: Did you just need to put the survey in front

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Speaker 1: of them at the table. Do you make this amount,

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Speaker 1: this amount or this amount. Circle it and we can

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Speaker 1: be done with it.

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Speaker 6: And it starts.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like that song on TikTok. Right, I want

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Speaker 2: a guy in finance exactly.

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Speaker 1: Let's just figure out who you really are. That way

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Speaker 1: we can avoid simple misunderstandings like this one. Non test them.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think what is funny is that

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Speaker 2: they both ended up kind of meant for each other. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: both of them are a little sleazy at the end.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like, well, you know, fine, I'll forgive you, you

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Speaker 1: forgive me. Let's just hang out. But we need to

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Speaker 1: own our part of the misunderstanding because we totally misheard her.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I think we did.

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Speaker 1: When she said you about the Honda Civic, she didn't

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Speaker 1: mean the cars grocery man, cute, it's a cute car.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She also heard said ick h Well, I'm sure we

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Speaker 1: misunderstood that one too. We don't make enough money to

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Speaker 1: understand her. I feel bad forever doubting her and if

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Speaker 1: you want to hear any of our second dates, you

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Speaker 1: can go to wherever you get your podcasts. They're up

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Speaker 1: right now at Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning