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Speaker 1: Good morning, Papa Team six. This is another episode afore

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Speaker 1: the dads we're recording. It's Friday, October seventeenth. Huskers played

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Speaker 1: at night.

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Speaker 2: So you see your boy Willy see rock in the

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Speaker 2: Huskers gear.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully by the time you hear my voice, we are

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Speaker 1: six in one right now, continuing to put out fires

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Speaker 1: with Matt Ruhle. Happy's October. I hope your trash is

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Speaker 1: taken out. You guys are just embracing the suck. We

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Speaker 1: got some good hats. We got some merchandise BWTV dot com.

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Speaker 1: That's where we can get all the PT six six,

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Speaker 1: Oh merch Come on.

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Speaker 2: Hand up? What lead from the front? Papa Team six? Here,

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Speaker 2: what happened?

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Speaker 1: I have failed to take out the trash two weeks

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Speaker 1: in a row.

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Speaker 3: Hey, hand up, you have a redemption arc. It is

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Speaker 3: trash Day on Fridays here at the office. And Derek

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Speaker 3: brought up a great point that we could take the

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Speaker 3: trash out today.

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Speaker 2: You and me, let's do it here to go all together.

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Speaker 1: Now the trash For those wondering the trash didn't still

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Speaker 1: sit at the house. Got it out, whether it's a

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Speaker 1: simple time stump sending away. Yeah, when I see people

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Speaker 1: and shout up Papa Team sixers out there that do

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Speaker 1: remind me it is trash, Yeah it is. But man,

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Speaker 1: I feel like just an absolute fraud when I think

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Speaker 1: of putting out the trash day tweet and I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: to myself, I didn't take out the fucking trash. We

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Speaker 1: enjoy having fun. We enjoy having some fun here. We

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Speaker 1: have for the dads. This is for dads. We talk wins, losses, ups, downs,

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Speaker 1: you know, our lives with our wives, the kiddos.

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Speaker 2: A lot of good stories.

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Speaker 1: We have a lot of fun comments that we read

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Speaker 1: that fans leave us at the PT sikos, the PT

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Speaker 1: sixers leave us on YouTube and social media continue to

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Speaker 1: do so. We love seeing all the engagement. It is

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Speaker 1: the utmost fun.

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Speaker 2: It is a lot of conversation starters, a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of conversation starters for this show. My wife was

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Speaker 1: on my ass the other day. I had to hit

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Speaker 1: up the group chat because we are If you are

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Speaker 1: listening on Spotify, Apple, all the podcast platforms we are

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Speaker 1: on YouTube, consider please and follow all of our channels.

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Speaker 1: You might think you are subscribed and you might not be.

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Speaker 1: Just double check for your boys. It's all we ask.

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Speaker 1: Everything is free.

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Speaker 3: Try trying to figure out how to get the Spotify

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Speaker 3: video because Spotify Video is partnering with Netflix and the

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Speaker 3: podcasts are about to be on Netflix. So we could

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Speaker 3: at the beginning of these episodes start saying, to make

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Speaker 3: sure you check us out on Netflix.

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Speaker 2: And make sure to check us out.

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Speaker 1: Could you imagine if we're on Netflix, I'll be crazy

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Speaker 1: And that's a big time.

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Speaker 2: Apparently it's a it's a thing.

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Speaker 3: It's going to become a thing, like it's a Spotify

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Speaker 3: video for podcasts. Are they are partnering with Netflix and

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Speaker 3: those are going to become available on Netflix O, which

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Speaker 3: is kind of crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so make sure you check out Netflix. Make sure

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Speaker 1: But yeah, my wife, she's a fan of listening to

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Speaker 1: us on Spotify. Yeah, she is somebody who likes to

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Speaker 1: scroll her podcasts and then also look at chapters. And

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Speaker 1: I want to say, the AI bullshit kind of was

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Speaker 1: messing up the algorithm or messing up something with us

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Speaker 1: last week to where we only had like five chapters

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Speaker 1: to what's being talked about. She's thinking Oh, this could

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Speaker 1: just us, you know, like partning the microphone or.

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Speaker 2: Did I want to brag?

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Speaker 3: I want to give flowers to Derek, and we did

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Speaker 3: so in our PT six group message. But to all

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Speaker 3: the listeners, both video and audio. Last week on Spotify,

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Speaker 3: thirty minutes of our two hour and seventeen minute long

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Speaker 3: episode got uploaded and only thirty minutes. Only thirty minutes,

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Speaker 3: and we're sitting there and we're going, what in the world.

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Speaker 3: I text Derek at like seven thirty ish whatever. It was, Hey,

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Speaker 3: what's going on here? We had our back end team

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Speaker 3: showboat looking at everything. It was like something with the website.

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Speaker 3: They had never seen that happen before. Like the audio

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Speaker 3: file was totally normal that we uploaded.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think the most comments we got, just to

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Speaker 4: bring it full circle war we actually don't want you

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Speaker 2: Your hour, Like what the hell is this situation?

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Speaker 4: But I think they're going to make a case study,

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Speaker 4: no explanation, but shout out to everyone that's waited for

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Speaker 4: it and been excited for the show. It is fully updated.

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Speaker 4: People send us some dms this morning saying it wasn't.

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Speaker 4: If you click play on that episode, it will update

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Speaker 4: to the two hour or hit us up on social.

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Speaker 4: I've been sending the link out and that link has

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Speaker 4: been working so last episode.

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Speaker 2: Apologies. We're improving every day.

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Speaker 3: Derek owes no apology because of just how much on

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Speaker 3: the front lines. If you guys go through the YouTube

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Speaker 3: comments and the Spotify comments from last week's episode, Derek's

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Speaker 2: Every single one that fires me up.

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Speaker 3: We're on it. Here's the link. This is how we

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Speaker 3: fix it. Make sure you refresh it. It actually does this.

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Speaker 3: I'm watching him in real time. I'm like, Derek is

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Speaker 3: so on it. So that fires me up. Shout out Derek,

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Speaker 3: Shout out Derek. Shout out the community too.

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Speaker 1: I like to think more benefit of the doubt, Like

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Speaker 1: everybody's optimistically trying to work together knowing that I know

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Speaker 1: there's more meat on them.

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Speaker 2: There's some mess ups here.

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Speaker 1: That was probably the system that's hurting our show right now,

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Speaker 1: and they're just wanting to let us know. Not in

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Speaker 1: like a hey, did you have any negative comments?

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Speaker 2: Not too many negative ones.

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Speaker 4: A lot of people were Hey, I don't know if

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Speaker 4: you guys saw or hey, just giving you an update.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 4: Really, the only negativity that came from it was people

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Speaker 4: excited for the episode of like, man, my commute this

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Speaker 4: morning sucked, and then after that got a.

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Speaker 1: Good Hey, you know how this mute sucked? Good podcast?

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Speaker 1: It only gave us thirty minutes of it even better good?

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Speaker 3: You know how all this got caught though, like how

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Speaker 3: I got put onto it. Our equipment manager, Legend Dalton

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Speaker 3: with throw with a little DM to old Shirve Dog.

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Speaker 3: I wake up and one of the first things that

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Speaker 3: oh more Arkansas gear. What's good you've had?

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Speaker 2: Hey? Sure?

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Speaker 3: Just want to let you know on Spotify and Apple

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Speaker 2: What a stud. Stud.

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Speaker 3: That's teamwork, man, truly, that's teamwork makes the dream work

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Speaker 3: six came through your clutch.

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Speaker 1: We have a new sponsor. We have a new sponsor

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Speaker 1: for Papa Team six. Now, Derek said it right before

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Speaker 1: the show started. OLLI popa Team six. We got Ollipop

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Speaker 1: as a sponsor Prebiotics. Listen, I'm not gonna sit here

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Speaker 1: and read the words on the can.

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Speaker 2: I love I love ollipop. It's good. I'm a massive

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Speaker 2: ollipop fan. Grape is my favorite.

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Speaker 1: If you followed me, if you have followed me on

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Speaker 1: X like, I want to say, a couple months ago,

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Speaker 1: right when the season started.

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Speaker 2: You know how Papa Willie Papa Seal. I like to.

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Speaker 2: I've shouted out on this show.

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Speaker 1: Dads like to when they get out of the house,

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Speaker 1: they might do bedtime any whatever it might be, and

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Speaker 1: they want to take a trip to the guest. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I just want to take a drive, some quiet time,

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Speaker 1: solo dad time, maybe listen to some classic rock, maybe

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Speaker 1: finish up on a podcast. I'm just gonna get a

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Speaker 1: little quick fifteen minutes driving to the gas station driving home,

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Speaker 1: because my wife knows I enjoy a little gas station trip.

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Speaker 2: Now they've your wife.

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Speaker 1: They're just so much smarter than you, and they just

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Speaker 1: outthink you to where Now she just has my favorite

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Speaker 1: drinks at the house. So I can't leave now as

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Speaker 1: you can't leave. Hey, you said you like the hollypop

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Speaker 2: That's the most jill move I've ever heard. Oh my god, how.

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Speaker 1: Beg sweet on, I'm gonna hit the gas station. I'm

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Speaker 2: That's bad.

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Speaker 1: That's some When we haven't played, we haven't played. We

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Speaker 1: haven't played for me in a while. But we caught

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Speaker 1: it dub the last time.

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Speaker 2: We did catch it dub the last time we played.

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Speaker 1: But that was always kind of the formula the nights

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Speaker 1: Papa Shirm, and it was always that little gas station trip.

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Speaker 1: But I would put out on Twitter, like you know,

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Speaker 1: I did it a couple of times, like my favorite drinks,

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Speaker 1: bored one night. Let me try some lollipop, Great, buddy,

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Speaker 1: Ollipop great.

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Speaker 3: I just love the thought of Will in a gas station.

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Speaker 3: I'm one of those guys I know exactly what I'm

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Speaker 2: She's staying in there.

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Speaker 1: Same guy at the cast Jugester, he already knows like

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Speaker 2: Good to see again, big dog now standing there, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna switch it up tonight.

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Speaker 3: Switch it just hey, just go wide stance.

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Speaker 2: Let me try that olli pop. What they say is

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Speaker 2: that lollipop puts it back now, No, I'll go back

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Speaker 3: I think it finally landed on the It landed on

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Speaker 3: what a flavor. Yeah, I want to try allipop grape.

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Speaker 1: Now another sleeper. No, this isn't it's not the vintage coal.

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Speaker 1: A vintage vintage coal is nice. Yeah, but the root beer. Ooh,

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Speaker 1: I haven't had the root beer.

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Speaker 3: I've had this SpongeBob Pineapple flavor and I've had the

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Speaker 3: vintage cola flavor.

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Speaker 2: Part of me I like both.

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Speaker 1: I haven't tried the the SpongeBob Pineapple Paradise yet.

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Speaker 2: Not a big pineapple guy.

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Speaker 1: As far as love me some pineapple love, just like

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Speaker 1: tasting pineapple, as far as like sodas and drinks, I

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Speaker 1: of scared to try the SpongeBob one because the can

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Speaker 1: looks phenomenal, but I don't want to not like it,

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Speaker 3: To be completely honest, the fact or the thing that

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Speaker 3: not taste like pineapple flavored soda. It's very juicy and

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Speaker 1: This is on YouTube. What's up Sherman Willie one shehelf.

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Speaker 1: I love the pot I've been watching since episode one.

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Speaker 1: I have a question for y'all. When did you guys

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Speaker 1: And then even though she said that and that kind

439
00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,920
Speaker 1: of means one thing to a guy, when that's being

440
00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:41,600
Speaker 1: said to you in a DM, it's like, that doesn't

441
00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:44,120
Speaker 1: mean we still can't be friends. She never hung out

442
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 1: with me for like the next eight nine months.

443
00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:47,560
Speaker 2: Like I'm trying.

444
00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:50,239
Speaker 1: We're having we're having conversations, she's making me last she's

445
00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:51,879
Speaker 1: one of the she was one of those girls where

446
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:55,240
Speaker 1: I would, uh, I'm like sitting in the parking lot

447
00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,760
Speaker 1: before I go into my apartment. I'm like spending forty

448
00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,280
Speaker 1: five extra minutes just sitting out there, messaging back and

449
00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:01,480
Speaker 1: forth or not wanting.

450
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 2: To go inside.

451
00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because I'm enjoying the conversation we're having, Like

452
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,040
Speaker 1: we're sending each other songs, like jokes, like all the

453
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:11,480
Speaker 1: different things. We eventually see each other, We eventually hang out,

454
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:12,800
Speaker 1: we eventually start dating.

455
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:15,320
Speaker 2: Now we're married with two kids. Let's go.

456
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:17,320
Speaker 1: And I say all that to know, it's hard for

457
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,680
Speaker 1: me to like pinpoint a moment where I'm like, this

458
00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 1: is my wife, because I will tell you, I feel

459
00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:29,160
Speaker 1: like that thought continues to ascend, like as high seer

460
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:32,160
Speaker 1: as my wife and a mom. Yes, Like the love

461
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:35,240
Speaker 1: gets that much stronger when you witness them being a mom,

462
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,720
Speaker 1: when you witness them being like your partner. Like there's

463
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 1: so many times where I'll just be driving home thinking

464
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:42,320
Speaker 1: like whenever we solve a problem, or she has my

465
00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,879
Speaker 1: back with something, or one of us is stressed and

466
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 1: we're helping each other out, to where when I do

467
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 1: reflect and have that gratitude. I'm thinking it gets so

468
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:52,919
Speaker 1: much more badass when you are married and you have

469
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:54,880
Speaker 1: kids and you are being partners and you're being good

470
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:57,120
Speaker 1: partners and you both care about each other so much,

471
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:00,960
Speaker 1: so much like the way Charles thinks about everything in

472
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 1: my world, and she's just a badass. Like it's a

473
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 1: love like she There's nobody else who's loved me the

474
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,960
Speaker 1: way Charles has loved me. That's opened me up to

475
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 1: like more love and more ideas and everything else. Like

476
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 1: I'm a homebody. I hate vacations. And if I think

477
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 1: of a core value of Charro, it is adventurous. She

478
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 1: loves again. We'll get to it. She's going to London

479
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: all next week. It's sad she's taken room with her.

480
00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:31,640
Speaker 2: So it's just gonna be me with.

481
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,199
Speaker 1: Scottie, the easiest kid. We're gonna have a lot of

482
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 1: free time. Okay, but she's going to London next week.

483
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,439
Speaker 1: She was wanting to go in the summertime. We couldn't

484
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,640
Speaker 1: make it happen. We're going to a Dermot Kennedy concert

485
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 1: here on Sunday. Like she loves doing stuff that She's

486
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,679
Speaker 1: really pulled me out of my comfort zone. She's like

487
00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:51,199
Speaker 1: introduced me to things that I didn't think that I

488
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 1: would be doing, like as an adult. She's a very ambitious,

489
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:58,439
Speaker 1: like working, career oriented woman. So I didn't think that

490
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,159
Speaker 1: I would marry, you know, doing all the things that

491
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,959
Speaker 1: I was doing. I thought I would have more of

492
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 1: like a stay at home mom, stay at hoole wife.

493
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's good, bad and different. I'm just thinking,

494
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 1: like how I grew up thinking about everything. Yes, she's

495
00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:14,639
Speaker 1: very different than what I had imagined. And so I

496
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 1: can't pinpoint an exact moment because we had a lot

497
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 1: of fun when we were younger.

498
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:19,920
Speaker 2: And that is a moment that sticks out.

499
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 1: It's like, Yo, that was the chick that I was

500
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 1: so just laser, you know what?

501
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 2: You know what.

502
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 1: We was talking with the pep Riley last year and

503
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: I was like, Yo, this this woman is stunning. And

504
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 1: it turns out the way the universe worked to bring

505
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 1: her back around for that day at that charity camp

506
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 1: and then to have the DM and then to find

507
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 1: out that she that that was the girl.

508
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 3: Oh. The only thing selfishly that I wish is that

509
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 3: you had dead one of those hey body, think fast

510
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 3: and just throw a football at her. Boyfriend that she

511
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 3: was there at the camp with. He just boom off

512
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 3: of his face. All right, right here, buddy, Yeah, you gotta.

513
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 1: Use your hands and then just stats one out of

514
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: the are one handed?

515
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 4: Well, if I can ask as a guy that just

516
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 4: genuinely doesn't know, is there no relationship between players and cheerleaders?

517
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,159
Speaker 2: Like how you went there was nout.

518
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: A big reason she wouldn't like hang out with me

519
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 1: is because she was still still on the cheerleading team,

520
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,120
Speaker 1: and that was like a massive no.

521
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 2: No for cheerleaders and players. It's kind of a.

522
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 1: What do they call it? It's like an unwritten rule,

523
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 1: but it's very it's like a double standard. Like the

524
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 1: cheerleaders were it was like hard press. They couldn't talk

525
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 1: to full players before. We're never told the like hey

526
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 1: you can't do anything with cheerleaders or you can't date cheerleaders.

527
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 2: Or anything like that.

528
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, So that was the reason why, like the first

529
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 1: time we did hang out is very sneaky, It was

530
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 1: very under under the wraps. She was very like weary

531
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:51,160
Speaker 1: because she she was like a captain of the cheerleading

532
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 1: squad and she took it. She she was that was

533
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 1: when she was a tax accountant for was it PBC

534
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 1: or p and C, p and C one of the

535
00:24:58,480 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 1: big ones.

536
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was also a cheerleader, so yeah she was.

537
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 3: She was crushing it. Yeah she was a captain as well.

538
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, man, that really I love that. Yeah a captain,

539
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 3: Willie c hang out with the cheer captain?

540
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:19,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, let's go.

541
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 1: I think of so many things in my head just

542
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 1: trying to answer my man's question too.

543
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 2: It's hard to like knowing.

544
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 1: It was more of like she just would make me

545
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,160
Speaker 1: uncomfortable in a way to where I would just always

546
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 1: have a different perspective about how life was going towards

547
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 1: like I'm adjusting on the fly in the discomfort, and

548
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 1: to me, that's when I kind of identify, like this

549
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: is the one I want to be with forever.

550
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 3: I love your description of how she made you feel

551
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 3: because that you're quite literally describing exactly how Jill.

552
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 2: Made me feel.

553
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 3: Uh, And I don't say that just agree with you

554
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 3: is the exact same thing. Like I had never encountered

555
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,919
Speaker 3: a relate, I had never had a relationship where I

556
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,440
Speaker 3: was being challenged but in a good way.

557
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, like you will said, yes.

558
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 3: It didn't feel like she was ever coming down on

559
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 3: me or anything like that. But it was like, a, wait,

560
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 3: you don't it's a Saturday. You don't want to go

561
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 3: on a hike? And then we can, you know, do

562
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 3: this and there's this art exhibit that I really want

563
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:19,640
Speaker 3: to go check out.

564
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 2: I'm but I don't.

565
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 3: I don't want to do that shit. And then I'm

566
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 3: doing that shit and I'm like, man, there's a lot

567
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 3: of fun. I want to keep on doing this, and

568
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 3: you're talking about it.

569
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 2: You're talking about the hikes too, like charl wanted to

570
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 2: do hikes.

571
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 1: I'm just thinking, like, bro, my legs, Like I'm just

572
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 1: I play football, Like I don't want to do extra

573
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 1: any extra exercise in what I already have to do. Yeah,

574
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 1: but you're right, like the whole challenging thing is what

575
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 1: it was like a slow process and then you just

576
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 1: realize how good it is for you and how happy

577
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: they make you to where that's when it's kind of

578
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: like that's the formulated moment.

579
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:56,719
Speaker 3: I guess, yeah, I uh with Jill to answer this question,

580
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 3: Jill and I met on a blind date. Kirk Cousin

581
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:01,640
Speaker 3: was dating my roommate.

582
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 2: They would both.

583
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,159
Speaker 3: Tell you this their relationship was coming to it and

584
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:10,719
Speaker 3: very fast, and her cousin had tried to set us

585
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 3: up multiple times, and she was like, sherman, I'm about

586
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 3: to break up with your roommates, so if you want

587
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 3: to meet my cousin, like, we need to make this

588
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 3: happen asap. And I was trying to play cool, like

589
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 3: I had seen pictures of Jill on Instagram that her

590
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,640
Speaker 3: cousin had shown me. I was like, oh, yeah, she's cute, Like, yeah,

591
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 3: we should do something, and then by me, I was like, yeah, no,

592
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,640
Speaker 3: we need to do that double date. Yeah, buddy, And

593
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 3: I ran out of contacts that week and I showed

594
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 3: up to Wabbi House in Fort Worth shout out, no

595
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:42,399
Speaker 3: free shout out, and I saw Jilly Bean across the

596
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 3: room and I said, fuck, I look like an idiot

597
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 3: my glasses And I took my glasses off instantly and

598
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 3: I put them on the back of my shirt because

599
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 3: I was like, this girl's way cuter that then even

600
00:27:53,920 --> 00:28:00,399
Speaker 3: her pictures lost my glasses. That night off to a

601
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 3: hot start. But on that night I had never kissed

602
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 3: a girl on a first date. And we kissed on

603
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,639
Speaker 3: a first date, and the conversation it was kind of funny,

604
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 3: that like it was a blind slash double date, and

605
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:18,679
Speaker 3: her cousin and my roommate were just like chomping at

606
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 3: the bit to break up with each other like that

607
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 3: whole week and they're like arguing on their side of

608
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 3: the booth. And it made Jill and I lock in

609
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 3: like that much more and we had a great first date.

610
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 3: But I do remember telling my mom after the first day,

611
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,919
Speaker 3: I said, I think I might be in trouble. I'm like,

612
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 3: I'm feeling it with this girl. But the moment that

613
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 3: I knew like, okay, I want Jill to be my

614
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 3: girlfriend or I guess, like yo, like this might be

615
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,479
Speaker 3: something more was we went to a Rangers game together

616
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 3: and the very first thing that she wanted to do

617
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 3: is she wanted to go get a hot dog and beer.

618
00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 3: And when we were ordering, she goes, is he is

619
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 3: it bad? Or like, is it okay if I get

620
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,719
Speaker 3: too hot dogs instead of just one hot dog? And

621
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, you can definitely get too hot dogs,

622
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 3: and she so fast turned and goes, I'll do a

623
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 3: mickelbe and two hot dogs to the person. And just

624
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 3: seeing her with like the little ketchup and mustard and

625
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 3: the hot dogs and like the beer and just her

626
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 3: not worried about like I need to look cute on

627
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 3: this date, but more so just enjoying the moment and

628
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 3: like what I love about baseball games is hot dogs

629
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 3: and beer, and I'm getting to enjoy this. I just

630
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 3: love that quality about her. I was like, she's so

631
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 3: unabashedly herself and that I just opened up to her.

632
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 3: I had a I was coming out two different relationships

633
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 3: that in college were like on and off, on and

634
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 3: off type stuff that I never felt confident in, if

635
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 3: that makes sense, Like you kind of left those relationships

636
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 3: going like who am I as a boyfriend?

637
00:29:58,280 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 7: Like?

638
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 2: Am I a good boyfriend? Do I have no clue?

639
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 1: Like these women like really like taming these men is

640
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 1: like taming a wild horse. Yeah, it's like taming a

641
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: wild horse.

642
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 2: Bro.

643
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 3: And then Jill kind of showing me like, hey you yeah,

644
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 3: you definitely suck, like like truly, like, hey yeah, you

645
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:18,959
Speaker 3: definitely suck in these areas.

646
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 1: But like and it's man, you don't know it no,

647
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 1: Like I remember when I didn't get Charles something on

648
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: like Valentine's Day because it wasn't like maybe it was

649
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 1: more of like the defining the relationship style thing, and

650
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 1: I just remember her having some like thoughts about it.

651
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: And that's when you know, too is a guy. Like

652
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: when your girlfriend is upset over something and it bothers you,

653
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 1: even though you might be upset with them in that moment,

654
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 1: but when you walk away and you're actually kind of

655
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 1: like I should have done X, Y and Z versus,

656
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 1: Like when you know that there's no future with the girl,

657
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 1: you're almost just staying mad about you, Like, God, this

658
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: is fucking I'm gonna have to deal with this.

659
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah blah blah.

660
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you find yourself kind of beating yourself up about it,

661
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: like all right, I got do. I do have to

662
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 1: kind of figure out a way to come around to

663
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: whatever said thing is. Like the first time I went

664
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 1: out and stayed with uh, like, stayed overnight with Charo,

665
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 1: super nervous, like awkward, and you know how it is too,

666
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 1: Like when you like, when you stay with a girl

667
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 1: or you do, like they stay over at your place

668
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 1: or something like that, and you kind of wake up

669
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: the next morning you're kind of like, I need to get.

670
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 2: Out of here.

671
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: They kind of need to get out of here. But

672
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 1: I was going out to spend the weekend or a

673
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: day with her in DC, like around her friends. And

674
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: I remember when I first went over to her house

675
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: and again your boy, no games, super nervous.

676
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 2: We're in the kitchen like making up a game. She like,

677
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 2: we like made it go ahead pre post veneers. No,

678
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 2: this is pre veneers.

679
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 1: I didn't give veneers until I was until I was

680
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: in Tennessee in twenty and eighteen, so I had the

681
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: this is the this is the old Willie chicklets thick neck,

682
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: come on, small teeth, looking like a zone dog through

683
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 1: my mouth that Charles got to know.

684
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 2: Twenty sixteen tenth toppest player in the NFL.

685
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: Sir, my smile, Yeah, don't show them teeth, alright, show

686
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: oh shit. But we like made up some game in

687
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 1: the kitchen and we're like throwing bottle caps, like basically

688
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 1: playing washers, but with like grocery bags and a bottle cap,

689
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: like having a good time.

690
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 2: We go out that night, have a lot of fun

691
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 2: with her friends. She gets me dancing.

692
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 1: I'm not a big dancing guy or PDA guy, but

693
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,719
Speaker 1: I'm sitting there, I'm belly rolling, I'm fucking you know.

694
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 2: It's kind of.

695
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: I was liquored up pretty good. Then you come back

696
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: home and read like I was like housing some oreos

697
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: late at night, kind of wake up the next morning,

698
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 1: she had to like go she had to go do

699
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 1: something for bar three. She was managing a studio out

700
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 1: there at the time in DC. And then that's where

701
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: I kind of slipping up. When she leaves and walks

702
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: that door, I'm kind of like leaning out of the bed,

703
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 1: kind of like wait a minute, and then I go

704
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: hit the bathroom.

705
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,479
Speaker 2: And just drop a monster, you know what I mean,

706
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 2: Because you're nervous.

707
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, I gotta fucking do something here, but

708
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: I can't do it in this apartment right now, which

709
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 1: her I gotta wait till she leaves. But it wasn't

710
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: awkward the next morning, like the next day, any of

711
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 1: that stuff to where she came back, We're watching Dead

712
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: pull together on the couch ordering Chinese food. So you

713
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: kind of know that something's there, like when you're talking

714
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 1: to the parents about it, when you're talking to your

715
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 1: boys about and everything else. But it gets even better,

716
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: in my opinion, like when you do get married and

717
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 1: you have kids and you're in you're in an actual partnership,

718
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: worrying about everything else. And don't get me wrong, I

719
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 1: still get fucking annoyed when I am getting challenged at

720
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 1: certain times or getting uncomfortable to do things to where

721
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: I'm just like.

722
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 2: Sweetheart, come on, we can't just kick it at the house. Yes, Like,

723
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 2: well you want, you go? You go?

724
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: Do you guys go have a great time. I hope

725
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: you have the greatest time in the world. I kind

726
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: of want to just stay home. The huskers are on

727
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 1: about us, are on. We spent a lot of time

728
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 1: on this, And yes, I did ask her.

729
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 2: I asked her. I called her dad and asked him

730
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 2: first before I propose.

731
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 3: Yes, And I took her mod She has a stepdad,

732
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 3: but I took her mom and her stepdad to dinner,

733
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 3: and I asked her permission. Uncle Julia's and.

734
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: Fort we love Uncle Julio's bro that table side, guawk

735
00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: so in the Pineapple and an Albania's.

736
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 3: I got it. I got a whole thing. Keep the

737
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 3: show under an hour. But they're not doing the Yellow

738
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 3: Caso anymore at the Nashville location here, and it's just

739
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 3: a whole thing. Heart's broken, honestly, Like I've been wanting

740
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 3: to tweet about it a lot. I love Uncle Julio's

741
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 3: too much. I've cut my mouth shut. No more caso,

742
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 3: no more yellow caso. They're only doing caso blanco and

743
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 3: no offense at caso blanco. But the yellow caso Uncle

744
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,839
Speaker 3: Julio's is what put you on the map. Sorry you

745
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,320
Speaker 3: go ahead, Cody Priest.

746
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 2: This is on Instagram.

747
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:33,400
Speaker 1: Our baby boy, Cooper James, was born on October second,

748
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five. Thank you so much for the podcast

749
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 1: every weekend Sure and what It's like to be a

750
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 1: great dead bullshream and will It was also a pleasure

751
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 1: to meet you Willie one showf at Benji's Bagels the

752
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,359
Speaker 1: other weekend shout out Cody, thank you for writing in

753
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: reporting for Dudy PT. Sico Priest, what a legend. Let's go, Cody,

754
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: Let's go Cooper. Congratulations to you guys too. I know

755
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 1: you guys are in it right now.

756
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 3: I have JT.

757
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 2: Clifton.

758
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 3: This is from Youtubov said seven am. I phoned a

759
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 3: new episode for the Dads the boys talking me. Oh shit,

760
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 3: I forgot to take the trash to the curb full

761
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 3: sprint can to the curb within five minutes to spare

762
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 3: w Ride Together, Die Together, PT. Six for life.

763
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 2: Great sign on.

764
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,839
Speaker 3: So you may have missed your trash day, but guess

765
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:23,919
Speaker 3: what you doing? This pod made him remember his trash day.

766
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:26,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's in there like damn it, willy See.

767
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, he probably heard this episode. He's like the urgency

768
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 3: he felt. Can't let the bet Sikos down. I've been

769
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 3: listening to this podcast week for the last three months,

770
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,240
Speaker 3: down not realizing that Willy See is a fake trash

771
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 3: day guy.

772
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 2: This will be the last episode I will listened to.

773
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 2: Can't hang a shelf, can't take out the trash? What

774
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 2: do you fucking do? Willy one show? I saw a.

775
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 3: Great comment of Willie one shelf. I saw one that

776
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 3: said Willie no Fox. I kind of like that. We'll

777
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 3: alster that one. Well, that's a good one. That's a

778
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 3: good clue.

779
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: This one's from Brandon Davis one nineteen on YouTube. What

780
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 1: up et six brothers got a five and three year

781
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,919
Speaker 1: old currently going through the food regression stage. They both

782
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:15,720
Speaker 1: love popsicles, Gonna try and gonna try the tickle monster

783
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 1: and see how that goes. They don't want to eat good.

784
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: That means Dad gets to bring out the tickle monster.

785
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: It's tough man. Five and three rules three. Right now,

786
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: I do feel like we have the dinner time routine

787
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 1: kind of down. Yeah, she starts to get a little

788
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 1: sassy about I don't want to eat this. I don't

789
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 1: want to eat that. Great, you don't have to That's

790
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 1: the great thing about this, sweetheart. You can make your

791
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 1: own decision. You don't want to eat, that's fine, Mom

792
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 1: and dad is gonna finish up here. But when we

793
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 1: get done eating, we're just gonna go straight up to

794
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 1: bed because it seems like you're tired, and you know,

795
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 1: if you don't eat, you're not gonna get all the

796
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:48,240
Speaker 1: things that you're thinking about.

797
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,399
Speaker 2: In your head. Yep. I won't even say that at first.

798
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 2: I should be like, great, you don't have to eat.

799
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: Then I'll just you'll just hear the play going. Mom

800
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 1: and I eating, and she'll be like, I get a cookie.

801
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:00,959
Speaker 1: You know the game, and the cookie in this world

802
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 1: can be the popsicle. Hey, you know the game. You're

803
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: not gonna get a cookie. You're not gonna get a popsicle.

804
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,800
Speaker 1: We've done this now, day in and day out. She's like,

805
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 1: but I'm tired. Hey, that's awesome, you don't have to eat. Well, wait,

806
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: for me to get done, and we'll go upstairs right

807
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 1: after this and we'll go to bed. Do you want

808
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: to go to bed now?

809
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:21,879
Speaker 5: No?

810
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 2: All right, I figure it out.

811
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 3: Quit asking, Quit asking your volume of eating, by the way,

812
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 3: I enjoy it, like you make some noise when you eat,

813
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 3: especially when you're hungry. And bro I am just laughing,

814
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 3: just hearing that fork and the plate and your bites

815
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:40,800
Speaker 3: and stuff.

816
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: And she's thinking about what else she can do, because

817
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 1: we might make like Scotty might be doing like you know,

818
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 1: she might be doing a thing where we're laughing.

819
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 2: We think it's cute and adorable.

820
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 1: And then Ruth tries to play with Scotty, And in

821
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: my brain, I'm thinking she's just playing with Scotty right

822
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 1: now to put off the fact that she doesn't.

823
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:00,360
Speaker 2: Have to eat her food. Uh huh.

824
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 1: Then Mom and I are both done. Scott, he's done.

825
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 1: She's starting to you know, hit the dang knock food off.

826
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: You get me sweet potatoes all Scotty, we can't get out.

827
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:13,360
Speaker 1: Ru's got to eat her chicken. Really, gotta eat your chicken.

828
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 2: I don't want to.

829
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:16,879
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, let's get up, let's go, let's go to bed.

830
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 3: I don't want to go to bed, eat your chicken.

831
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 2: Dad that doesn't love me.

832
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 3: I guess I got one from Cody Wilkerson on TikTok Boys.

833
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 3: I'm in the middle of chaos. My wife and I

834
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 3: are both middle school teachers in Alabama. She's at a

835
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 3: conference for until Saturday. I'm holding down the fort with

836
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 3: my two boys, ages two and four, until then. While

837
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 3: I was at work today, got the call from the

838
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 3: daycare that the youngest has handfoot mouth. I'm just gonna

839
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 3: say that I'm supposed to count to the oldest in

840
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 3: his soccer game tomorrow night.

841
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:50,720
Speaker 2: My wife.

842
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 3: My wife called and asked, Hey, how's everything going, And

843
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 3: I hit her with a.

844
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 1: Good handfoot mouth. We just got over both. We just

845
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 1: got over there with both the kiddos.

846
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, best of Cody, best of luck to you, dude.

847
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 3: Just keep on washing those hands, dude.

848
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, keep washing the hands. Keep being sad when you

849
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 1: just see the bumps that they get. It's just the

850
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 1: saddest thing in the world.

851
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:15,240
Speaker 2: And they can't eat right, like it hurts their mouths right. Fortunately, Yeah,

852
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:16,560
Speaker 2: that's how it was with Scotty.

853
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 1: Fortunately for Rue, like it was more of just she

854
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: had like the the bumps, the rash stuff like on

855
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 1: her feet and hands and and her butt that bothered her.

856
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 1: The stuff on the butt bothered It was in the crease.

857
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: It was in the crease right below her cheek to

858
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: where like bothered her the bathroom and that stuck because

859
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: she was like sad because it was painful for ya.

860
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 1: But she didn't have a fever, she didn't have the

861
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: sowords in the mouth. She wasn't getting like those symptoms

862
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 1: to where it was it was like you felt like

863
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 1: you had to keep her from doing everything, yeah, because

864
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 1: she was like actually sick, Scottie was she had the

865
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: sores in the mouth, wouldn't really drink her milk. She

866
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 1: had to drink like cold milk if she was going

867
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 1: to have her milk, which kids hate. I found that

868
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: out the hard way when Jill was out of town.

869
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 2: Cold milk.

870
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, just let the milk sit there for too long,

871
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:07,440
Speaker 3: and Scarlet's crying and crying as soon as like she

872
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 3: takes like two pools from it. She just I'm like,

873
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 3: this is your favorite thing in the world. I know

874
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 3: you're starving, Like why are you screaming? And then it

875
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 3: finally clicked after like the eighth time. Yeah, heated that

876
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 3: bottle up and after I and she's screaming the whole

877
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 3: time that I'm eating the bottle up. She's just sitting

878
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 3: there in my ear and I'm like, I know, I

879
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 3: know as soon as I got that hot bottle end.

880
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:33,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll tell you what, you hit a good one.

881
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: Like I want to say, Rue.

882
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:39,760
Speaker 2: It needed to be it needed to be hot.

883
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:41,919
Speaker 1: And I want to say Scottie at times will take

884
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,879
Speaker 1: it when it's cool down like some of them kids

885
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 1: are just sick os, bro. They don't care how they

886
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: just want it.

887
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:51,760
Speaker 2: And we've done cold milk. I've told me one.

888
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:56,760
Speaker 3: Easy. We've done cold milk before, like at the park.

889
00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 3: We took Scarlet to the park and we forgot are

890
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 3: the heat the portable heater? Yeah, and so we just

891
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 3: did it straight from a you know, distilled water bottle

892
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 3: or whatever, and she yugged it.

893
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 2: She had no problem, which is a massive win. Yeah.

894
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 2: I'm good on my comments.

895
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 3: You're good on your comments. I have one more boys, PT.

896
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 3: Sixer and Tier one.

897
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 2: Sticko, father of.

898
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 3: Three boys twelve thirteen months in seven months, also flag

899
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 3: football coach of the Red Wolves for the past few years.

900
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 3: Love it had to share a juiced up moment. We're

901
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,959
Speaker 3: up twelve to six. Nearing the end of the game,

902
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,959
Speaker 3: they go for one watch a kid moss my boy

903
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 3: and they take a one point lead with little time left.

904
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:50,439
Speaker 3: Defense holds and with proper clock management, we got one

905
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 3: more shot. First play, small game, second small game. Now

906
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,319
Speaker 3: was seconds left and only one play to go to

907
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:03,280
Speaker 3: the house for the win. Can't stop watching the clip

908
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 3: and I'm so amped for the rest of the season.

909
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: Let's go big win at the end of the game.

910
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:16,360
Speaker 1: Watching your boy get lost. It's tough for the pop. Yeah,

911
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 1: tough for the pop. Yeah, you know what I mean.

912
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:23,399
Speaker 2: Oh I do that is tough for the pop. Yeah.

913
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 3: I don't know how I would handle that as far

914
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 3: as with Scarlett, and I've talked with Jill about that.

915
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 3: Of like sporting events, I kind of understand now why

916
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 3: sometimes my dad would like watch my sporting events from

917
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 3: the car. I think it was nerves for him and

918
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 3: to me, I always thought, why is my dad not

919
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 3: in the stands for these track meets, Like he goes

920
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:48,919
Speaker 3: and he gets in the car, and like I wish

921
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 3: he was in the stands, And now me as a parent,

922
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 3: I'm like imagining myself watching Scarlet and I'm.

923
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 2: Like, I get why Dad was in the car. He nervous,

924
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 2: a little nervous.

925
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you feel like he would have been somebody that's

926
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 1: gotta be yelling, might have just put him stuff in

927
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: the car.

928
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 3: I think he was one of those that he he

929
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,479
Speaker 3: had nervous energy and didn't want to give that off

930
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 3: to me, especially for especially for track meets. I think

931
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,919
Speaker 3: he was just trying to be like, hey, Sherman does

932
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 3: a really good job of saying positive and clear mind, Like, uh,

933
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,359
Speaker 3: track was a sport that like I excel at, and

934
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 3: I think that he.

935
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 2: We're talking shot put, but now now.

936
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:36,880
Speaker 3: Hey we're talking, Uh what were you on the training stuff?

937
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 2: You talking about track and field? You putting on people?

938
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 2: What are we doing?

939
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 3: But yeah, he was just like, what was your what

940
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 3: were your events? Eight hundred four by four and four hundred?

941
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 3: Oh dude, that's a tough day. It was a tough

942
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 3: day at you. Yeah, it was a tough day. But uh,

943
00:43:55,200 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 3: back in the day, what was eight hundred? Pod was

944
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 3: not my race? I think I only broke I got

945
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 3: very close to like a minute flat. We meet on

946
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 3: the Utah in the four hundred we're talking two minutes.

947
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:18,399
Speaker 3: You got closer to two minutes. Okay, sorry, I got

948
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 3: very close to two minutes because I would go out

949
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 3: in the eight hundred and run my first leg like

950
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 3: a fifty six, and then I would.

951
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:26,440
Speaker 2: Kind of die out. So you were a stud at

952
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 2: the four hundred.

953
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:28,760
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I was more of a four hundred runner.

954
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,319
Speaker 3: Fifty three, fifty two. That's a strong that's a strong time,

955
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 3: white boy for a five seven white boy, five.

956
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 2: Seven white boy. Come on now, yeah, yeah, back in

957
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 2: the back in the back, day in the day, back

958
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 2: in the day.

959
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 3: But yeah, my dad even always well and he would

960
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 3: sorry to my dad. He would be in the stands too.

961
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 3: But I could just tell on some of those days

962
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:53,320
Speaker 3: he was. He talked, you've met my dad, he looked.

963
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 3: He talks a lot, very friendly, very open.

964
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 2: But he's in town.

965
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 3: He's in town. They're coming today. I can't wait to

966
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:01,800
Speaker 3: hug them. Yeah, they're coming today. They're very excited to

967
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 3: see Yeah. But uh yeah, he would claim up, he

968
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 3: claim up and track me so you.

969
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 2: Can get real you like this, that's good. He wanted it.

970
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 5: Any sports competition, but Dad would sit there. If I

971
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:13,800
Speaker 5: had a bad game.

972
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 2: I would see my dad, like pacing on the sideline.

973
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 2: I'll come and go. Where's Dad?

974
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 5: He goes, She's he's in the car. Sorry, dad, I'm

975
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:21,839
Speaker 5: totally outing.

976
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 2: But it was also he'd go to the car if

977
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:24,319
Speaker 2: you're having a bad game.

978
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 5: Really, I mean, this is like no, and he was

979
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 5: never mean, he never yelled or anything, but he couldn't.

980
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 5: He's probably listening through it now.

981
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:37,799
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, now that I think about it, he's going

982
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: to the car if I'm bad game. I kind of

983
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: when I needed him the most, he kind of he

984
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: shilled up once in the car.

985
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 3: I think about I kind of need to talk to you.

986
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:50,120
Speaker 2: I want to share this.

987
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 3: Hey, I know on a real sense, I think I

988
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 3: know where your dad's coming from. That he didn't want you.

989
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,280
Speaker 2: To see that he was crushed for you.

990
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel I never got the like, I never

991
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 5: got the like getting yelled at in the car going

992
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,399
Speaker 5: we love we love quiet.

993
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:10,879
Speaker 2: Right, how do you feel about that game? Yeah?

994
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 5: Just there, Like I don't think i'll play that good?

995
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 5: All right, we'll get it next time.

996
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,320
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Speaker 3: I also before we move on, because I know we

1053
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Speaker 3: need to move on by You've got to move on

1054
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 3: because comment I have to read this cop because it's

1055
00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 3: teasing something big. Okay, I just farted when I said teasing.

1056
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 3: That's how big it is. Connor Wonderley on YouTube said

1057
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Speaker 3: PT six are here, new to the area. Wife is

1058
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 3: asking for the best pumpkin patch slash fall festival place

1059
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 3: to take her and our eight month old Anny Rex

1060
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 3: in the Nashville Franklin area. Willie one shelf, would you

1061
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 3: like to take this question? Boo with the zoo, Boo

1062
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 3: with the zoo? What is that?

1063
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 2: That's where you're leading me? Right, yes, sir?

1064
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 1: What is b Boo with the Zoo our first PT

1065
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:38,320
Speaker 1: six meetup, Papa Team six meetup for for the dads.

1066
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: It'll be at Boo at the Zoo here in Nashville

1067
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 1: on October twenty eighth, at five thirty pm from five

1068
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:51,319
Speaker 1: thirty to seven. For the dads, the PT sixers right here,

1069
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 1: Derek Chef, your boys, best staff, really one shelf.

1070
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 2: We will be at Boo at the Zoo.

1071
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 1: We're bringing the kids, bringing the kiddos. The families will

1072
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:04,359
Speaker 1: be there first pop a Team six meetup. You might

1073
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 1: be thinking what to expect. I personally don't know, because

1074
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 1: part of me is like, you know, this isn't this

1075
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:12,840
Speaker 1: isn't gonna be like a.

1076
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 2: Like what like a like a meet and greet? Yeah,

1077
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 2: not so much meet and greet.

1078
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 1: We might bring like the meetings of the minds, meeting

1079
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 1: of the PT sixers. Here's what the vibe is gonna be.

1080
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 1: Here's what it has to be because we got the

1081
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: kids there. Ru's gonna wear her fairy costume, she's gonna dress,

1082
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 1: she's gonna wear, She's gonna be in astume.

1083
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 2: Yea we might we might as well.

1084
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 3: I might be intume.

1085
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:37,399
Speaker 2: Well, we're there to.

1086
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 1: Have good family time at the zoo, whether we do

1087
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Speaker 1: it with a crew or we all meet up at first,

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00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:47,880
Speaker 1: say a few words, some dads, maybe some quick selfies.

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Speaker 1: But the thing it can't turn into is a full

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Speaker 1: on like a meet and Greek thing. While our wives

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00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 1: and kids are standing there, just the dads are talking shop,

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00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,880
Speaker 1: talking stories and we just some dads. Yeah, we just

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00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 1: some dads were I have the same anxiety, like kind

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00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 1: of you know, I know, my wife's like, hey, so

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00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: what are we doing here?

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00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 2: Is this just? Is this just a photo shoot?

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00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 1: Are we gonna have some fun at the zoo with

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00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 1: the kiddos, with the fam We going to the girafts

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00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:11,359
Speaker 1: or what?

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00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, wish to see the line Oh Willie one

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00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:18,760
Speaker 2: pick maybe two and that's it. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But I will say the Nashville Zoo has done a

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00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 3: really good job with the boot the Zoo. It's decked

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00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:30,800
Speaker 3: to the nine with pumpkins, skeletons, all kinds of spooky stuff.

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00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 3: They encourage Halloween outfits. You do have to buy a ticket.

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Speaker 3: Those are available at Nashville Zoo dot org. That's Nashville

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00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 3: Zoo dot org. There are a thousand tickets available for

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00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 3: this event. That's outside of the PT six meetup. That's

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00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 3: just in general. For the five thirty slot, there are

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00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 3: a thousand tickets so ptsikos in the area make sure

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00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:01,280
Speaker 3: to go to Nashville dot org and get your tikies,

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00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 3: get your tikies.

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00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 1: What I'm envisioning is we all get there toy around

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00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 1: five point thirty, might give it to five forty five

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00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:12,879
Speaker 1: to where you'll see where we are.

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00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:17,880
Speaker 2: We'll have a little table. Will there be merch, Yes.

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00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 3: There will be merch, and we're looking to have a

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00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:25,720
Speaker 3: little game of uh what is it called scavenger hunt.

1119
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 3: We're gonna hide some little things throughout and we'll put

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00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 3: out a social media promo, but we're gonna hide some

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00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 3: little things in the park that if Papa or Mama

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00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 3: Team six find these little tokens and bring it back

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00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 3: to the Papa Team six table, they will get a

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00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:43,319
Speaker 3: free merch and a king sized candy bar.

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Speaker 5: PT six Nation. Sorry for the interruption. This is your

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00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:51,240
Speaker 5: producer Jack coming in here. As I'm ending the episode.

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00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 5: We have some changes to the bood at the Zoo

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Speaker 5: that I want to make aware to all of you.

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00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 5: We will not have a table. I'm so sorry. Don't

1130
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 5: blame me. Will ensure them like to run their mouths

1131
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 5: about stuff they don't know. But that's okay. We will

1132
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:09,320
Speaker 5: not have a table and then also scavenger hunt. Wise

1133
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:14,279
Speaker 5: schirm chairman Sherman, I'm talking to PT six nation right now.

1134
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 2: Are we gonna have a scavenger hunt? Oh? Yes, we're

1135
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,360
Speaker 2: going to have a scavenger Oh we're not.

1136
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 5: Having Wait we're not, see sherm and will love to

1137
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 5: run their mouth. They don't know what they're talking about.

1138
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 5: Are we are?

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00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 2: We aren't? Okay, we aren't. Is that correct, dude? I

1140
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 2: have no clue. I think that's it that we are not.

1141
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 2: I don't think we are either.

1142
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:41,240
Speaker 3: And it's the first twenty people that show up.

1143
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 2: Get we're handing out hat some shirts. Uh, first twenty

1144
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 2: you hear that. PG six nation. First twenty people who.

1145
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:54,840
Speaker 8: Show up, will we'll get a shirt also or hat

1146
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:58,919
Speaker 8: or hat whatever you like. But yes, that's all back

1147
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 8: to your regular schedule programming.

1148
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 2: King size only the King size candy bar. Oh buddy, one.

1149
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,799
Speaker 4: Thing I'll say is probably reshape the brain. You're right,

1150
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 4: it's not a meet and greet. This is a group

1151
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 4: dad brownie point event when we are setting something up.

1152
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,120
Speaker 4: So you can come, you can meet Lilli and Shurm,

1153
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:21,960
Speaker 4: but you are your honey. We're going to boot. You

1154
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 4: always want to go to Booth the Zoo. We're going

1155
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 4: to Booth the Zoo. We're going to boot the Browny

1156
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:25,800
Speaker 4: Point meetup.

1157
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 1: And in between that five thirty five forty five, when

1158
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 1: we're all there, like at the table, I think the

1159
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 1: best thing would just be get a group get a

1160
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 1: squad photo. Yeah of the PT sixers. Ooh, we get

1161
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: Damily's sick, and we just do a matt. We just

1162
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,719
Speaker 1: do a big group photo. From that group photo, you

1163
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:45,839
Speaker 1: can get merch. You can go on the scavenger and

1164
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 1: find tokens if you want to just enjoy the evening,

1165
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 1: enjoy at the zoo.

1166
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 2: Yes, and we'll see each other.

1167
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 3: PT six Hey, and the goal is wife goes, hey,

1168
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 3: isn't that the two assholes that you listen to on

1169
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:00,399
Speaker 3: YouTube over there? Center there and you go, oh, yeah,

1170
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:03,960
Speaker 3: that's weird. They're here too. I don't even know that's

1171
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 3: so weird.

1172
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 2: You can't. I don't think you can say that about

1173
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 2: the Milk Team sixers. Bro Oh.

1174
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:10,920
Speaker 3: I think Milk Tea sixers are brought in, They are

1175
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 3: bought in. They are bought in. That was a low blow.

1176
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:16,879
Speaker 1: Like you could see like whenever people will talk about

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00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:18,839
Speaker 1: for the dads, Like I'll get dads that come up

1178
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:21,399
Speaker 1: to me, families that'll come up and say, the wife

1179
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 1: might be like my husband, he loves listening to you

1180
00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 1: on for the dads And as he said there, he's like,

1181
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:27,200
Speaker 1: we watch you every week and stuff, and you just

1182
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:28,760
Speaker 1: kind of see that little smile from.

1183
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:29,919
Speaker 2: The muff from mom. You know what I mean.

1184
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 1: Oh, for dad loves watching them come on now, hey

1185
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:35,800
Speaker 1: for sure, Hey nobody Milk Team sixture.

1186
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1187
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 3: And the pictures that I get of I love the

1188
00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 3: dms from Mama Team six of their husband on the couch,

1189
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:49,479
Speaker 3: you know, with baby like they're watching they're all watching together. Yeah, dude,

1190
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:51,120
Speaker 3: they are the yeah Mama Team.

1191
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,440
Speaker 2: That was a low blow. And I do apologize to

1192
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 2: Mama Team six.

1193
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,080
Speaker 1: Yeah there there probably ain't many out there, but those

1194
00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 1: are the two assholes you listen to.

1195
00:55:59,000 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 3: But that was that.

1196
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:02,840
Speaker 2: We giggled. We did gig, We did giggle.

1197
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:04,640
Speaker 3: It was a giggle and we just have fun on it.

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00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:08,239
Speaker 1: The only time moments I would envision is if like say,

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Speaker 1: say you're new listening to the show and let's say

1200
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:13,640
Speaker 1: it was last week's episode or the week before that,

1201
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 1: and the first thing it's gonna said, Papadine's thinks, I

1202
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 1: hope your belly is full and your balls are empty.

1203
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:19,799
Speaker 2: And then the wife's like, this is what you've been

1204
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:29,799
Speaker 2: hearing about. This is your exemplement exemplament. You got it,

1205
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 2: you got it.

1206
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:33,759
Speaker 5: Jeff, I can't say the word I'm getting blinked, but

1207
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 5: I was gonna imitate and go, this is your father

1208
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:40,320
Speaker 5: podcast he listened to about being a good dad.

1209
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:45,200
Speaker 2: These guys, these guys, this dude calls himself to captain

1210
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:45,919
Speaker 2: a seaman team.

1211
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:52,919
Speaker 3: What is they just read the definition of boofing off

1212
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:54,320
Speaker 3: Urban Dictionary.

1213
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:57,279
Speaker 2: Oh, and that we call it. And here's adad hack.

1214
00:56:57,360 --> 00:57:02,080
Speaker 2: Make sure you love your daughter. Oh, here's your survival kit.

1215
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 3: Make sure you have an extra passe.

1216
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:08,440
Speaker 1: Let's get into some dad talk. Let's get into some

1217
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 1: dad talk. I've been going through a few different things.

1218
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 1: We'll go through again, wins and losses. We will crack

1219
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:15,840
Speaker 1: a collet, some survival kid dad act, some things that

1220
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 1: I've been experiencing over the last over the last week

1221
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:21,880
Speaker 1: or so, we have our Halloween costumes dialed in.

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00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 2: M I'm jealous.

1223
00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 3: I need to.

1224
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 1: I was hoping that we could be like a Star

1225
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 1: Wars crew like Roue could be Ray Skywalker.

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00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 2: We found this.

1227
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 1: I found this like dress, Uh, why am I blinking?

1228
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 2: Jed Jedi robe.

1229
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: There is this like robe that was like a dress

1230
00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 1: Jedi for Ray Skywalker to where she's got like the

1231
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 1: bubble the triple pony the little bubble ponytail going on.

1232
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 1: Loves the bubble ponytail like yo if she rips Ray Skywalker.

1233
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 1: I'm looking into full on Darth Vader costumes. You could

1234
00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:01,280
Speaker 1: put a great Vader, we could put We could put

1235
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 1: Charro beautiful hair, will get her as why am I

1236
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 1: ring a b Princess Leiah with the side buns.

1237
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 2: You get a little Scottie as Yoda.

1238
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 1: Find a little adorable Yoda costume with the little you know,

1239
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 1: the little netted or you'll see it on Etsy, the

1240
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:19,760
Speaker 1: little netted with the Yoda ears.

1241
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 2: That what we are doing. We were going to and

1242
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 2: I'm juiced up about it.

1243
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 3: I was about to say, if y'all did do that,

1244
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 3: then we could also do Star Wars as well and

1245
00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 3: be other characters, but also do so.

1246
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:38,280
Speaker 2: For Halloween, We're gonna be the inside out crew.

1247
00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:40,840
Speaker 3: That's a massive win.

1248
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 2: Love it? Oh you don't like it? I'd ask who

1249
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 2: I am?

1250
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 8: Oh?

1251
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I would have loved to have been Anger.

1252
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:54,800
Speaker 2: I'm fear.

1253
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:05,080
Speaker 3: That's funny. Was that Charles's idea? Yeah, Charo, way, that's

1254
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 3: off to Charo. That is funny. You got the glasses

1255
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 3: and the little wig and everything.

1256
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 1: Broa type in fear costume, fear costume inside out.

1257
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:19,840
Speaker 2: And charge is to be a what is it? A bingo?

1258
00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I was thinking of sadness. I was. I

1259
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 2: thought Chari was having you dress up as the blue One.

1260
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:29,439
Speaker 1: No, I think that's gonna be I think that's gonna

1261
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:31,600
Speaker 1: be scotty because her parents are also like, we're rounding

1262
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:32,280
Speaker 1: out the six.

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00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, yes, you're Fear with the bow tie and yeah.

1264
00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 1: Got this long headed costume thing that I'm just gonna

1265
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 1: be working.

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00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 2: I'm trying to be Darth Vader. I'm trying to force

1267
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 2: show people.

1268
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:49,440
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, we should do some like where

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00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 1: it's like DC Superheroes. I was gonna be Bane PUSCOTTI

1270
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 1: is Wolverine, but no, I gotta be Fear from inside out.

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Speaker 2: You look it up. We haven't pulled up. Well, I

1272
01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 2: think this is gonna look great on You're gonna look great.

1273
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 3: And he's got a little hounds tooth going in his vest.

1274
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 3: That looks awesome, Darth Vader bro would it? Would it

1275
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:19,400
Speaker 3: be salting the wound if then I did Star Wars?

1276
01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 2: Yeah? But that you guys just come decked out six

1277
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 2: Star Wars?

1278
01:00:26,480 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 3: Is that what you are wearing to Boo at the Zoo?

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01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 2: No, boot the Zoo. So Rue wants to be a fairy.

1280
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 2: She saw this dress. She wants to dress.

1281
01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 1: She's all about princesses and dresses, and she wants to

1282
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:40,760
Speaker 1: be a fairy. So Charro is we're thinking, like, all right,

1283
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:42,800
Speaker 1: for Halloween, we want this, you know, we want to

1284
01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 1: squad fit all inside out. Ruth's either gonna be like

1285
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,480
Speaker 1: Joy or's gonna be one of them, okay, okay, one

1286
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:54,200
Speaker 1: of the good ones. Yeah yeah, And she's like, here's

1287
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:56,600
Speaker 1: how we knock out the fairy costume. We'll let wear

1288
01:00:56,640 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 1: the fairy costume at Boo at the Zoo. So that

1289
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 1: way when it's allween time, Hey, you're gonna two costumes.

1290
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 1: We got Halloween boota Zoo. You're gonna wear the ferry

1291
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 1: and then for Halloween, you'll get to be one of

1292
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:11,080
Speaker 1: the characters of Inside Out. Yeah, Charles gets to be uh,

1293
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:15,440
Speaker 1: what is it? Bing Bong? Charles bing Bong? That's the

1294
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 1: inflated one. I wanted to be being bo. I was like,

1295
01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:22,000
Speaker 1: I'd be bing Bong. She's like, oh, you know the.

1296
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 2: Sizes I ordered it sizes. You would have been a

1297
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:29,920
Speaker 2: great I gotta be out of your fear.

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Speaker 3: So y'all don't have anything playing for Bed at the Zoo,

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Speaker 3: Not yet. I was getting too not yet, not yet,

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Speaker 3: not yet, come up with something. Yeah, I'm trying to

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Speaker 3: throw something together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we get something going.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but Boot the Zoo October twenty eighth, Tuesday, five thirty,

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Speaker 1: be there, be there.

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01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 3: I think I might do Fat Stafford. That might be

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01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 3: my my dress up. Get some shoulder pads going, little

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01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:58,520
Speaker 3: Matt Stafford jersey.

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Speaker 2: That could be good. That could be good. Maybe I

1309
01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:05,200
Speaker 2: could hit the world. Willie one shelf. You should be willy.

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Speaker 2: What do we think of? What are we talking about? Here?

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01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 2: Kind of got the costume we do?

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Speaker 1: I have a question for the audience, please, I have

1313
01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 1: a question for the parents out there. Rus three her

1314
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 1: personalities as big as ever. I see a lot of

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01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:22,959
Speaker 1: great signs of confidence and leadership, but she's also very

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01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:26,880
Speaker 1: sassy m And as a parent you're always trying to

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01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 1: figure out the balance between. Like, all right, they're kind

1318
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:33,040
Speaker 1: of talking crazy to me, right now? Do I stay

1319
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:36,000
Speaker 1: poised in the pocket like Baker Mayfield without any of

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01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:37,360
Speaker 1: his big targets?

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Speaker 2: What do I kind of snap back? Yeah? Her right?

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Speaker 1: So my question is, are sassy moments a sign of confidence?

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Speaker 2: Sorry? If you guys hear these honks there's outside, well

1324
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 2: we might have to go full pet Siko.

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Speaker 1: I think that you might just go out there and

1326
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Speaker 1: yell sorry if you guys heard the honks out there?

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Speaker 2: Are sassy moments a sign of the podcast? Who we

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01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 2: do it? Go check on it? Go check on it? Derek?

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01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 3: So is sassiness a hey we've done to fell money?

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01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 1: Our sassy moments a sign of confidence? Our sassy moments

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01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 1: a sign of confidence? Or they to test boundaries. I

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01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:37,240
Speaker 1: think that's a great question. I'm running through that in

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01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:37,920
Speaker 1: my mind.

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Speaker 2: Slash. I know what you're saying because I've seen you

1336
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:43,680
Speaker 2: deal with.

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01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:50,120
Speaker 3: Sassin with sassiness and attitude pretty like I think really, well.

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01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:52,680
Speaker 1: Okay, I was doing some like I was doing some

1339
01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:55,800
Speaker 1: research on this. I did come across like a parent sour.

1340
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: It's like a blog, it's like ways of spot of

1341
01:03:57,480 --> 01:04:02,320
Speaker 1: sassy little personality. And this this source describes sas as

1342
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 1: part of early experiments with identity, independence, autonomy, boldness, and

1343
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 1: it frames sas as a superpower. In a way, being

1344
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 1: sassy can mean that a child is learning to stand up,

1345
01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 1: testing what works socially, and seeing their voice as meaningful.

1346
01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:19,360
Speaker 1: Then I came across. I came across this metaphor like

1347
01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:22,840
Speaker 1: boundary railings. If the bridge has no railing, the toddler

1348
01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 1: crosses slowly, hesitantly, and insecurely. With boundaries, they cross with

1349
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:29,960
Speaker 1: more confidence. SaaS may emerge as part of the testing

1350
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:31,760
Speaker 1: phase until those.

1351
01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 2: Rails are in place.

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01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 1: So then I'm just thinking to myself, all right, what

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01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 1: are examples that I can hang on to where it's like,

1354
01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 1: all right, this is good, this is confidence here testing

1355
01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 1: about it. It's all encompassing, right, because it's always happening, like

1356
01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 1: when their brains are developed and they kind of like

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01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:47,520
Speaker 1: lose their minds. Yeah, and you're kind of in the

1358
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 1: pocket trying to figure out what to do. But when

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01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:52,480
Speaker 1: I'm thinking back on examples that we might have been

1360
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 1: trying to experiment with.

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01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 2: Or might have done.

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01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 1: I see, like it's like dinner time, she'll get she's

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01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:01,040
Speaker 1: been sassy around dinner time. But now that I feel

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01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 1: like she understands these boundaries of clean plate club, or

1365
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 1: you don't get what you're actually thinking about until this happens,

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01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:09,640
Speaker 1: it almost.

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01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 2: Takes away the.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I guess the reaction on my part

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01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 1: because now we know what the said boundaries are to

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Speaker 1: where I'm like, hey, yeah, you don't have to you

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01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 1: don't have to eat your food. You kind of know

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Speaker 1: what consequences come with that because I know what your

1373
01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 1: little brain's thinking about. You're thinking, how can I get

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01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:26,960
Speaker 1: out of eating dinner right now and still get the

1375
01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:28,800
Speaker 1: cookie at the same time, or how can I press

1376
01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 1: I'll eat two bites. Two bites don't really work anymore,

1377
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Speaker 1: Like you need to eat your food.

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Speaker 2: I need to.

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Speaker 1: Show that you had in a very respectable effort with

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Speaker 1: your plate. In my brain, I'm thinking, it doesn't have

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01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:44,000
Speaker 1: to be clean, but I need to know you're you're

1382
01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:46,760
Speaker 1: eating at your chicken, you're eating at your vegetables, You're

1383
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:50,840
Speaker 1: eating at whether it's potatoes, rice, whatever, it is like

1384
01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 1: if I know you're putting an effort and you'll you'll

1385
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: get your little half cookie here at the end of dinner.

1386
01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:57,200
Speaker 1: Like I know what that looks like, but I feel

1387
01:05:57,200 --> 01:06:00,479
Speaker 1: like that's a that's been something I think too about.

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01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:02,760
Speaker 1: All right, there's something that's like clear boundaries that are

1389
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:05,040
Speaker 1: set there now, like learning when I was doing when

1390
01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:06,920
Speaker 1: I was kind of breaking down the morning routine, like

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01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:10,560
Speaker 1: rude gets really sassy or whiny, you know what I mean,

1392
01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:12,920
Speaker 1: to where it's like, well, do why does why does.

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Speaker 2: The morning have to be such an issue right now? Bro?

1394
01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 1: Like we do this every morning, But I've identified to

1395
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 1: where it's like she does love her independence, she does

1396
01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 1: love to where she feels like she's in control, to

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01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 1: where like one morning or a couple of mornings now

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01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:31,040
Speaker 1: where it's like, hey, I got a challenge for you,

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01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 1: and I've kind of laid out a couple outfits because like,

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01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:35,480
Speaker 1: we're not going to go through this whole I don't want.

1401
01:06:35,320 --> 01:06:36,040
Speaker 2: To wear this outfit.

1402
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:38,000
Speaker 1: I'm wearing this one, and then it just becomes an

1403
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:40,280
Speaker 1: entire argument in negotiation. It's like, all right, I've laid

1404
01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:42,800
Speaker 1: out a couple options. Hey, here's your challenge you pick

1405
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:45,440
Speaker 1: out your outfit, you can put it on. First thing

1406
01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:47,120
Speaker 1: you gotta do is you gotta go body. We gotta

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01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 1: clean you up. You go body first.

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01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 2: But then I challenge you.

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01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 1: Dad is going to leave the room. I know you

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01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:53,280
Speaker 1: yell at mean, go downstairs. You want to do it

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01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:55,800
Speaker 1: by yourself. I recognize that you want to be independent

1412
01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:58,560
Speaker 1: in this situation. Yeah, so it's like, all right, I

1413
01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 1: trust you. You got to make you bet. You gotta

1414
01:07:01,520 --> 01:07:03,960
Speaker 1: pick out your outfit. Here's a couple I let out

1415
01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:07,120
Speaker 1: for you. You gotta make your bed, makes your room's tidied up.

1416
01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:09,320
Speaker 1: Like she loves to slide the door shut. She likes

1417
01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:11,160
Speaker 1: to do all the things. And then that mama come

1418
01:07:11,240 --> 01:07:12,280
Speaker 1: upstairs and see what I've done.

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01:07:12,440 --> 01:07:12,920
Speaker 2: Yea thing.

1420
01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna go downstairs and start making

1421
01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:18,200
Speaker 1: breakfast whenever you come downstairs, because I know you like

1422
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 1: to think about what you want for breakfast. Now, I'm

1423
01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:22,520
Speaker 1: not if I give her a couple officer, I don't

1424
01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:24,440
Speaker 1: know yet. It's like, all right, you think about it

1425
01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:27,040
Speaker 1: and you tell me yeah, But then when you come downstairs,

1426
01:07:27,040 --> 01:07:28,640
Speaker 1: you have you've thought about it. You let me know

1427
01:07:28,680 --> 01:07:31,040
Speaker 1: what you want for breakfast. Now that we kind of

1428
01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:33,040
Speaker 1: had some of those boundaries in place. When I'm rocking

1429
01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:35,440
Speaker 1: solo mission doing the morning routine. That's kind of the

1430
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 1: way I approach it because I'll get Scotti going. She's

1431
01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:39,520
Speaker 1: just a minute, she just wants to be down on

1432
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 1: the floor playing. I'll start making breakfast, get up the

1433
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:44,520
Speaker 1: barricade at the stairs. Rue, you can hang out by

1434
01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 1: yourself upstairs, do your morning routine by yourself, however you

1435
01:07:47,120 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 1: see fit. These are the things you gotta do. I've

1436
01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:53,800
Speaker 1: now seen that that has that that has been there

1437
01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 1: has been fruits that have came from that because she

1438
01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 1: has grown and understanding what the boundaries are dealing with

1439
01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 1: her her sassiness. Yeah, and then another one. I think

1440
01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:05,520
Speaker 1: that where I'm going through all this, I'm like, that

1441
01:08:05,640 --> 01:08:08,040
Speaker 1: is a good question or sassy moments the confidence or

1442
01:08:08,080 --> 01:08:10,200
Speaker 1: do they are they testing boundaries? And it's like it's

1443
01:08:10,200 --> 01:08:12,360
Speaker 1: probably the whole mix of both things, and am I

1444
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 1: getting do I again? Do I let her walk all

1445
01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 1: over me? Or it's like, hey, you're whining. You're not

1446
01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:19,640
Speaker 1: using your strong voice. You know, Dada doesn't like to

1447
01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 1: be talked to like that. Yeah, change your tone, or

1448
01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:24,640
Speaker 1: when I hear your strong voice, I will do what

1449
01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:27,080
Speaker 1: you are asking. Then I'm thinking, is she still getting

1450
01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:29,599
Speaker 1: her way by being sassy? I'm telling her the answer.

1451
01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 1: If she gives me the answer, she still gets it.

1452
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 1: Am I am? I kind of being the am I

1453
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:37,479
Speaker 1: being a push over there? Like these I'm always like

1454
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:39,840
Speaker 1: asking myself these things like as I'm trying to parent

1455
01:08:39,880 --> 01:08:41,760
Speaker 1: and trying to figure out ways for her to like

1456
01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:44,800
Speaker 1: develop and grow and be strong, and how she's like

1457
01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:47,320
Speaker 1: asking questions or like, hey, use your confident voice?

1458
01:08:47,400 --> 01:08:49,519
Speaker 3: Can I can I as a not a co host

1459
01:08:49,560 --> 01:08:52,840
Speaker 3: but more of a friend kind of just say my

1460
01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:56,760
Speaker 3: two cents on what I think of you as a

1461
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 3: dad in those situations.

1462
01:08:58,640 --> 01:09:01,320
Speaker 2: Not yet hold it? I have one more. The coupons

1463
01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:03,800
Speaker 2: we had the dad hack of using TV coupons.

1464
01:09:04,160 --> 01:09:07,559
Speaker 1: RU would always rue is always kind of in that

1465
01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:09,280
Speaker 1: you know, you're just in that spot.

1466
01:09:09,320 --> 01:09:11,080
Speaker 2: I want to watch this scene. I want to watch No,

1467
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:12,000
Speaker 2: I don't want it to be over.

1468
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:13,840
Speaker 1: And then she's crying and it's like you're sitting down

1469
01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:15,040
Speaker 1: with her on the couch. And then when we came

1470
01:09:15,080 --> 01:09:19,080
Speaker 1: across the TV coupons, once thirty minutes goes up, now

1471
01:09:19,120 --> 01:09:22,800
Speaker 1: she kind of knows that it's done. Yeah, that was

1472
01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:24,720
Speaker 1: my third example, Like, when I'm reading through all this

1473
01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:27,679
Speaker 1: stuff and trying to figure out am I doing this correctly?

1474
01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:30,400
Speaker 1: Am I going about this the right way? Here are

1475
01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:32,759
Speaker 1: some evidence that I can now pull from the word say, okay,

1476
01:09:32,800 --> 01:09:35,799
Speaker 1: these are boundaries that are in place whenever it's happening

1477
01:09:35,800 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 1: in other moments, find other boundaries to kind of put

1478
01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:41,080
Speaker 1: around there, to kind of like allow her to be

1479
01:09:41,240 --> 01:09:43,599
Speaker 1: her if she's having a moment. But then she also

1480
01:09:43,640 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 1: knows in the back of her mind these are what

1481
01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:47,960
Speaker 1: the boundaries are. Yeah, okay, now you can, now you can,

1482
01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 1: Now you can go. I just wanted to get that

1483
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:51,120
Speaker 1: third one out there.

1484
01:09:51,200 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 2: No, I love that. I love that. Do you have

1485
01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:54,240
Speaker 2: more on it?

1486
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:56,599
Speaker 3: I don't want to cut you off of any type

1487
01:09:56,600 --> 01:09:59,920
Speaker 3: of brain, like where where else is your mind going?

1488
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:00,120
Speaker 5: With?

1489
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:02,600
Speaker 1: My mind like goes through there because as I like,

1490
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 1: as I like pose that question to parents that might

1491
01:10:05,080 --> 01:10:07,040
Speaker 1: be like wondering the same stuff here have been my

1492
01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:09,600
Speaker 1: like highs and lows and how I've tried to like

1493
01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:13,760
Speaker 1: navigate those things on the whole boundaries issue. Yes, am

1494
01:10:13,760 --> 01:10:16,000
Speaker 1: I being a pushover? Do I need to be a

1495
01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:18,000
Speaker 1: little bit more snappy with her? It's hard to because

1496
01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 1: it's my daughter, and I'm softer with my daughter, but

1497
01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 1: also I want to, you know, mold a human being

1498
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:27,760
Speaker 1: that I see is fit within, like resilience and leadership

1499
01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:30,200
Speaker 1: and humility and like, hey, here's how you need to

1500
01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:32,840
Speaker 1: be talking to people. Am I allowing it a little

1501
01:10:32,880 --> 01:10:34,840
Speaker 1: too much? Am I doing a better job here? I'm

1502
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:38,200
Speaker 1: more so communicating things that I look to that I've

1503
01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:40,679
Speaker 1: done that are now I feel like evidence in my eyes,

1504
01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:42,400
Speaker 1: and things that kind of help me think about what

1505
01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:43,120
Speaker 1: that next.

1506
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:43,360
Speaker 2: Thing might be.

1507
01:10:43,479 --> 01:10:46,040
Speaker 1: To put boundaries around so I don't allow her to

1508
01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:48,720
Speaker 1: be out of hand in certain situations. So I'm more

1509
01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:51,320
Speaker 1: of like talking through this with the parents at home,

1510
01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:53,479
Speaker 1: through this out loud on Hey, here's some things this

1511
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:55,320
Speaker 1: works for me. Here's some things that I'm thinking about

1512
01:10:55,360 --> 01:10:58,040
Speaker 1: now where I can do better. Yeah.

1513
01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:02,880
Speaker 3: So that to I think it's the same thing as

1514
01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:06,840
Speaker 3: me being worried about being a good dad of before

1515
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:09,519
Speaker 3: Scarlett was ever here. And you said the fact that

1516
01:11:09,560 --> 01:11:12,400
Speaker 3: you're worried about it and asking questions is a great sign.

1517
01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:16,880
Speaker 3: I would say that about this of the sassiness issue,

1518
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:19,840
Speaker 3: the fact that you're worried about it, you're thinking about it,

1519
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:25,519
Speaker 3: you're adapting you're trying new techniques. Would this work? What

1520
01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:29,120
Speaker 3: if I gave her some more responsibility? What if I

1521
01:11:29,280 --> 01:11:33,840
Speaker 3: gave her some more places where Rue can make the

1522
01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:37,120
Speaker 3: right decision and put the ball on her court instead

1523
01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:40,679
Speaker 3: of reacting emotionally and trying to take the power from

1524
01:11:40,720 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 3: her in that situation. Like, I think you're doing a

1525
01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:49,439
Speaker 3: great job of just confronting the issue. Rather or not

1526
01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:53,800
Speaker 3: sassiness is the sad Yeah, they're gonna be sassy, and

1527
01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:55,960
Speaker 3: rather or not that's going to turn into a good

1528
01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:59,919
Speaker 3: character trait or a negative one where she's given attitude

1529
01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:03,439
Speaker 3: you know people at school or teachers or whatever. Like

1530
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:06,720
Speaker 3: that's besides the point. I think you're doing a good

1531
01:12:06,800 --> 01:12:11,479
Speaker 3: job of identifying it, navigating it, and trying to find

1532
01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:14,920
Speaker 3: a solution or a way to make this a good thing,

1533
01:12:15,400 --> 01:12:17,120
Speaker 3: make this a character trait, and to.

1534
01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:18,080
Speaker 2: Brag on Rue.

1535
01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 3: At the fall Fest, we're doing drawings, and Rue sat

1536
01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 3: there and did not say a word the entire time,

1537
01:12:27,200 --> 01:12:31,000
Speaker 3: but was very like peaceful as she's like coloring.

1538
01:12:31,320 --> 01:12:32,880
Speaker 2: She loves coloring love.

1539
01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:37,280
Speaker 3: She was locked in and JJ Jeremy's son is sitting

1540
01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 3: there with me drawing.

1541
01:12:38,560 --> 01:12:42,679
Speaker 2: Shreman, Hey, Hey, Sherman Sherman. Sherman, Hey Rue, Rue, Hey Rue,

1542
01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:44,439
Speaker 2: look Rue, Look look.

1543
01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:47,519
Speaker 3: Rue, And Rue is wanting no part of what's going

1544
01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:52,040
Speaker 3: on with Sherman and JJ. Yeah, but she was not

1545
01:12:52,160 --> 01:12:54,200
Speaker 3: rude about it at all. She was very quiet, and

1546
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:56,679
Speaker 3: she would slowly look up from her drawing and look

1547
01:12:56,720 --> 01:13:02,000
Speaker 3: at JJ's drawing and go and look back down and keep.

1548
01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:05,160
Speaker 2: Coloring, and like you could tell that in that moment

1549
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:06,600
Speaker 2: she was setting.

1550
01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:09,400
Speaker 3: A boundary for JJ and saying like, Hey, I'm not

1551
01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:13,760
Speaker 3: matching your energy right now. I'm locked in. I'm doing

1552
01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:17,320
Speaker 3: my thing, and like the most I'm gonna say is charm.

1553
01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:20,240
Speaker 3: Will you get me purple? And I gave her a

1554
01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:23,479
Speaker 3: purple and she said thank you and started doing her brother.

1555
01:13:23,520 --> 01:13:26,280
Speaker 3: That's so funny, Like she's doing a good job of

1556
01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:29,080
Speaker 3: setting You could tell she wasn't annoyed by JJ, but

1557
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:31,280
Speaker 3: she was like JJ.

1558
01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:33,160
Speaker 2: Got done with one because he was coloring the bats.

1559
01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:36,000
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and he was having like I want Rue

1560
01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:38,880
Speaker 1: to see the bass because Rue was going to color

1561
01:13:39,080 --> 01:13:41,000
Speaker 1: like her and Mom went to go color a Halloween

1562
01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:42,000
Speaker 1: bag or something like that.

1563
01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:44,280
Speaker 2: Yeah. I just remember walking over to the room and I'm like, hey, Rue,

1564
01:13:44,360 --> 01:13:45,519
Speaker 2: JJ really wants you.

1565
01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:49,599
Speaker 3: To see yeah, to see his color back going over

1566
01:13:49,640 --> 01:13:52,040
Speaker 3: to him. Yeah, yeah, which I love.

1567
01:13:52,120 --> 01:13:54,439
Speaker 1: That was all about it. JJ is a great ball

1568
01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:57,439
Speaker 1: of energy, bro. Yeah, his enthusiasm is off the charts.

1569
01:13:57,520 --> 01:13:58,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1570
01:13:58,200 --> 01:14:00,800
Speaker 1: And I'm like laughing because I and I'm like seeing

1571
01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:06,439
Speaker 1: Rue and Rue clearly hears him r and Clump's trying to, like,

1572
01:14:06,720 --> 01:14:08,280
Speaker 1: you know, tone him down, and I'm like, hey, I'll

1573
01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:10,080
Speaker 1: go try and get Rud in my head start like go,

1574
01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:12,960
Speaker 1: he wants to show you this color. It's just like

1575
01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:14,679
Speaker 1: when you run up to us and you're like, hey,

1576
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:16,320
Speaker 1: you just look at my drawing and we're like, oh

1577
01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:18,240
Speaker 1: my god. Like he wants to like go give him

1578
01:14:18,240 --> 01:14:20,760
Speaker 1: a little something. She goes over and she's like that's good.

1579
01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:25,519
Speaker 3: And I dude, I loved that moment of real I

1580
01:14:25,520 --> 01:14:27,800
Speaker 3: felt like I saw a lot of Rue's personality in

1581
01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:31,559
Speaker 3: that moment. I love that even though she wasn't matching

1582
01:14:31,560 --> 01:14:35,040
Speaker 3: his energy, like she was not mean to him. She

1583
01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:38,200
Speaker 3: didn't say leave me alone, da da dah, I'm doing

1584
01:14:38,240 --> 01:14:41,439
Speaker 3: that Like she was very calm and poised and so

1585
01:14:43,520 --> 01:14:46,240
Speaker 3: just wanted to brag on your daughter in that moment.

1586
01:14:46,520 --> 01:14:48,040
Speaker 2: I appreciate it. She could have lost her cool.

1587
01:14:48,080 --> 01:14:51,080
Speaker 1: Here's another one this morning, like this morning on Friday,

1588
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 1: She's like, hey, or one sleep until we go to

1589
01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:57,519
Speaker 1: the fan. You know, she's rattling off because we're like, oh,

1590
01:14:57,560 --> 01:14:59,759
Speaker 1: great job, and she's like she wants to tell everybody.

1591
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:02,160
Speaker 1: One sleep until we go to the Vanderbilt game. Two

1592
01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:05,840
Speaker 1: sleeps until we do until we go to uh uh,

1593
01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:08,120
Speaker 1: until we go to Grandpa's uh.

1594
01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:11,720
Speaker 2: Three sleeps until we go to London. I'm like, hey, sweetheart, bro,

1595
01:15:11,840 --> 01:15:13,800
Speaker 2: she got a weekend coming out.

1596
01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:16,639
Speaker 1: I'm my, hey, sweetheart, no sleeps? You know who plays

1597
01:15:16,680 --> 01:15:19,439
Speaker 1: football tonight? And she's like ooh, and I'm like the

1598
01:15:19,520 --> 01:15:20,880
Speaker 1: Nebraska corner.

1599
01:15:21,520 --> 01:15:22,960
Speaker 2: And she like kind I'm like holding her ind she

1600
01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:25,920
Speaker 2: kind of like and leans back and she's like she's

1601
01:15:25,960 --> 01:15:27,840
Speaker 2: like dead, you know who plays football tonight?

1602
01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:30,559
Speaker 1: And I'm like the Huskers And she's like no, She's

1603
01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:33,160
Speaker 1: like no, and she starts kind of getting sassy with me.

1604
01:15:33,240 --> 01:15:37,200
Speaker 1: She's like, no, I say who plays the night you

1605
01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:39,960
Speaker 1: you don't say Huskers, you don't say you don't say nothing,

1606
01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:42,960
Speaker 1: I tell you Huskers. Like all right, I'm on a

1607
01:15:43,000 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 1: knee down on her level and I'm like and again

1608
01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:46,240
Speaker 1: I'm having one of those ones.

1609
01:15:46,280 --> 01:15:47,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, you little girl.

1610
01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:50,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, let's do that. She's like and

1611
01:15:50,840 --> 01:15:52,599
Speaker 1: then she tells her voice. She's like dad who plays

1612
01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:54,879
Speaker 1: the night? And I'm like, and she's.

1613
01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:57,280
Speaker 2: Like the scers. I was like, oh, the Huskers. And

1614
01:15:57,320 --> 01:15:59,679
Speaker 2: I'm thinking of that moment, Like am I just letting

1615
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:03,880
Speaker 2: her walk all over me? You know, I think she

1616
01:16:04,640 --> 01:16:07,760
Speaker 2: has Uh. I don't know, you're not all that well,

1617
01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:09,360
Speaker 2: but you're gonna go through it.

1618
01:16:09,400 --> 01:16:11,920
Speaker 1: I'm just saying three is a different three is a

1619
01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:12,840
Speaker 1: different vibe.

1620
01:16:12,840 --> 01:16:17,080
Speaker 3: Bro. She she's wanting that independence in that uh control

1621
01:16:17,280 --> 01:16:21,400
Speaker 3: control and and uh yeah, dude, I think that's a

1622
01:16:21,520 --> 01:16:23,200
Speaker 3: cool thing that she wants that.

1623
01:16:23,600 --> 01:16:26,439
Speaker 1: She knows she's very much. She's like, she's like a boss.

1624
01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:29,160
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, we went, uh this is I'll just

1625
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:30,960
Speaker 1: go ahead and say this is a survival kit. And

1626
01:16:31,000 --> 01:16:33,200
Speaker 1: I apologize, like, I know, I'm sure you have some

1627
01:16:33,240 --> 01:16:37,920
Speaker 1: stories as well. We had to go to uhur Charlo

1628
01:16:38,040 --> 01:16:40,479
Speaker 1: takes her after swimming lesson on Tuesday, took her to

1629
01:16:40,520 --> 01:16:42,800
Speaker 1: Dick Sporting goes to get cones for soccer. She's got

1630
01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:46,160
Speaker 1: a soccer ball at home, you know. She goes, but

1631
01:16:46,240 --> 01:16:48,880
Speaker 1: she gets the cones and brings them home. She's got

1632
01:16:49,000 --> 01:16:53,000
Speaker 1: Charro out in the front yard running drills. She doesn't

1633
01:16:53,000 --> 01:16:55,040
Speaker 1: want to play soccer. She wants to be the coach

1634
01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:58,479
Speaker 1: that she's observed every time a soccer practice. And she's

1635
01:16:58,520 --> 01:17:02,200
Speaker 1: putting Charro through the drills. She's not the one doing soccer. Yeah,

1636
01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:03,920
Speaker 1: like dad, I can get my apple juice. She comes

1637
01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:05,920
Speaker 1: in Cyrol quick gets her apple juice, and I look

1638
01:17:05,960 --> 01:17:08,599
Speaker 1: out there and Charles, the one doing the drills while

1639
01:17:08,600 --> 01:17:11,639
Speaker 1: we're just we're just backing, watches her.

1640
01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:14,719
Speaker 3: No my my, no around around.

1641
01:17:14,800 --> 01:17:15,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, do it this way.

1642
01:17:15,680 --> 01:17:18,080
Speaker 1: No, the cone goes here the bible, kid, go get

1643
01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:19,599
Speaker 1: some cones. Kids love cones.

1644
01:17:22,400 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 3: Dude, I love that. It sounds like you got a

1645
01:17:24,960 --> 01:17:27,280
Speaker 3: commander in cheap, got a little commander in cheap.

1646
01:17:28,240 --> 01:17:30,760
Speaker 2: You got a little Mike linebacker, is what it sounds like?

1647
01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:33,760
Speaker 2: Green dot? You got a little green dot.

1648
01:17:34,400 --> 01:17:37,599
Speaker 3: Dude. I think it's cool. I think Real is setting

1649
01:17:37,600 --> 01:17:43,880
Speaker 3: herself up to be a very competent, independent, sure of

1650
01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:47,759
Speaker 3: herself and her decisions, and it will come out sideways. Dude,

1651
01:17:47,760 --> 01:17:51,200
Speaker 3: she's three. I'm not giving you advice. I'm just talking three.

1652
01:17:51,240 --> 01:17:53,519
Speaker 3: I feel you, I feel you, But I think I

1653
01:17:53,560 --> 01:17:54,680
Speaker 3: think that's badass.

1654
01:17:54,880 --> 01:17:56,640
Speaker 1: Someone like leaning on the parents out there that have

1655
01:17:56,760 --> 01:17:59,120
Speaker 1: had their three year older they're currently three, or maybe

1656
01:17:59,120 --> 01:18:01,200
Speaker 1: they're two, they can like, oh, what's the age of three,

1657
01:18:01,320 --> 01:18:05,479
Speaker 1: like like just buckle up. Oh we were at Italy's

1658
01:18:05,520 --> 01:18:08,160
Speaker 1: last night. Mac and cheese was too hot and it

1659
01:18:08,240 --> 01:18:12,400
Speaker 1: really wasn't that hot. Like shoot her, you gotta blow

1660
01:18:12,400 --> 01:18:14,280
Speaker 1: on and she's yelling, I mean no, don't blow on.

1661
01:18:14,320 --> 01:18:16,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, I'm trying to make your life easier

1662
01:18:16,920 --> 01:18:18,880
Speaker 1: and she doesn't want to. Where like you gotta sit

1663
01:18:18,920 --> 01:18:20,960
Speaker 1: and let it wait, like eat your chicken tenders or

1664
01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:23,760
Speaker 1: eat your chicken fingers until your mac and cheese cools down.

1665
01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:25,360
Speaker 2: She doesn't want to.

1666
01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:27,880
Speaker 1: She's crying, and you're like, you know, you're there as

1667
01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:30,640
Speaker 1: a parent, you're in public. They're having a moment, and

1668
01:18:30,680 --> 01:18:33,240
Speaker 1: you're like, you know, I'm like, fuck, like please stop

1669
01:18:33,280 --> 01:18:36,479
Speaker 1: being so loud and like yelling and crying and everything else.

1670
01:18:36,600 --> 01:18:39,360
Speaker 2: Do you feel like is it good for you though?

1671
01:18:39,400 --> 01:18:40,160
Speaker 2: Like do you feel like.

1672
01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:42,760
Speaker 3: There's a part of you that maybe needed some softening

1673
01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:46,479
Speaker 3: that like you feel like you're also kind of growing

1674
01:18:46,520 --> 01:18:48,600
Speaker 3: in this moment self control.

1675
01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:50,479
Speaker 1: Absolutely, because I know, like parents don't sit there and

1676
01:18:50,560 --> 01:18:52,599
Speaker 1: tell you like don't dude, don't stress about that stuff.

1677
01:18:52,640 --> 01:18:54,240
Speaker 1: Like we've all had kids and people who are like

1678
01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:55,559
Speaker 1: their assholes they don't have kids.

1679
01:18:55,600 --> 01:18:58,840
Speaker 2: Whatever. Yeah, something in that moment. I just gotta I

1680
01:18:58,880 --> 01:19:00,799
Speaker 2: gotta be cool having a moment.

1681
01:19:01,000 --> 01:19:03,120
Speaker 1: I really wish you would just listen because it's like, bro,

1682
01:19:03,160 --> 01:19:04,920
Speaker 1: I'm telling you number one, it's not that hot, Like

1683
01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:07,080
Speaker 1: let that dad blow on it, mix it around, blow

1684
01:19:07,160 --> 01:19:09,320
Speaker 1: on it, or hey, if you want to do yourself,

1685
01:19:09,360 --> 01:19:11,479
Speaker 1: you blow three on yourself. I show you all the time,

1686
01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:14,840
Speaker 1: Like get a fork, not a spoon, then try it.

1687
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:16,559
Speaker 1: If it's too hot, just eat the other.

1688
01:19:16,400 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 2: Thing on your plate.

1689
01:19:17,200 --> 01:19:19,000
Speaker 1: But she's having a moment to where it's happening for

1690
01:19:19,040 --> 01:19:20,519
Speaker 1: several minutes orre she's crying.

1691
01:19:21,160 --> 01:19:24,000
Speaker 2: She's like, no, don't talk to me. Don't talk to me, Mama,

1692
01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:25,960
Speaker 2: don't talk to me, like dad, ed, don't talk to me.

1693
01:19:26,360 --> 01:19:27,599
Speaker 1: John and I are both just kind of sitting there

1694
01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:28,920
Speaker 1: quality to the point to where it's like we can't

1695
01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:30,160
Speaker 1: even say, all right, we're not gonna talk to you.

1696
01:19:30,240 --> 01:19:32,519
Speaker 2: She's like no, no, and she's crying.

1697
01:19:32,560 --> 01:19:35,080
Speaker 1: She's got the mac and cheese, she's got it on

1698
01:19:35,160 --> 01:19:37,120
Speaker 1: a fork just in her hand, like she's like, you know,

1699
01:19:37,280 --> 01:19:40,320
Speaker 1: red crying doing things Tron and I just kind of

1700
01:19:40,320 --> 01:19:41,880
Speaker 1: sitting there. I'm kind of just looking over he Scotty.

1701
01:19:41,920 --> 01:19:43,599
Speaker 1: I'm like, Scott, to eat your eat your turkey.

1702
01:19:44,680 --> 01:19:48,400
Speaker 2: And then I hear Rue like she's not you know,

1703
01:19:48,439 --> 01:19:49,880
Speaker 2: she doesn't want us to tell her what to do.

1704
01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:51,960
Speaker 2: Uh huh. She doesn't want us to talk to her.

1705
01:19:52,520 --> 01:19:55,120
Speaker 2: Eventually it's gonna swing the other way.

1706
01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:56,800
Speaker 1: She's sitting there, she's trying to figure it out in

1707
01:19:56,800 --> 01:19:59,280
Speaker 1: her head as she's screaming. And then I just hear like,

1708
01:19:59,320 --> 01:20:04,720
Speaker 1: as I'm like, look at Scotty out here, she's like.

1709
01:20:04,760 --> 01:20:08,760
Speaker 7: Starting to blow on it, and I'm dude, I know

1710
01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:14,280
Speaker 7: she's looking at me, and I'm laughing, and you know,

1711
01:20:14,360 --> 01:20:16,000
Speaker 7: I got the quiet left going on to where.

1712
01:20:15,880 --> 01:20:19,559
Speaker 3: My shoulders are going on. I can't look at Jarrow

1713
01:20:19,960 --> 01:20:22,720
Speaker 3: like look up her. She sees me laughing through my

1714
01:20:22,760 --> 01:20:24,639
Speaker 3: get a little more more. I'm like, Scott, you, oh,

1715
01:20:24,680 --> 01:20:27,439
Speaker 3: you're so funny. Scott trying not look at room. But

1716
01:20:27,640 --> 01:20:30,479
Speaker 3: she's mid cry, trying to blow on the mac and cheese.

1717
01:20:31,280 --> 01:20:36,200
Speaker 2: Just the shakiest hands of all time. I I love it.

1718
01:20:36,640 --> 01:20:38,879
Speaker 2: Go ahead, Jim, I was gonna ask a question to Will.

1719
01:20:40,200 --> 01:20:42,840
Speaker 5: Listening this to someone who doesn't have kids at twenty three,

1720
01:20:44,560 --> 01:20:46,240
Speaker 5: if you, I guess the better way to put this

1721
01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:49,759
Speaker 5: like three years ago, will how would he have reacted

1722
01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:52,479
Speaker 5: to this situation compared to now?

1723
01:20:52,800 --> 01:20:53,240
Speaker 2: Do you think?

1724
01:20:53,320 --> 01:20:55,000
Speaker 5: Can you see that where you're like, oh, I've definitely

1725
01:20:55,000 --> 01:20:56,599
Speaker 5: grown because I'm sitting here going.

1726
01:20:58,479 --> 01:21:01,519
Speaker 2: I'm feeling for you. I don't have it they can.

1727
01:21:01,920 --> 01:21:07,200
Speaker 1: The way you're feeling me younger, or I'm just assuming

1728
01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:11,280
Speaker 1: because obviously being a parent kind of like hey, you

1729
01:21:11,320 --> 01:21:13,920
Speaker 1: have to grow and develop and kind of force yourself

1730
01:21:14,640 --> 01:21:17,120
Speaker 1: to like patients all these things that you learn when

1731
01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:22,400
Speaker 1: you do become a parent. But I fully think back

1732
01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:25,519
Speaker 1: to your question, I was feeling what you were thinking,

1733
01:21:25,560 --> 01:21:28,280
Speaker 1: like as you're listening, like you kind of just want

1734
01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:31,479
Speaker 1: to brow Hey, cut the shit. We can leave, Like

1735
01:21:31,560 --> 01:21:33,320
Speaker 1: get up, we can leave right now. And you're kind

1736
01:21:33,320 --> 01:21:34,840
Speaker 1: of making a scene as a parent, and really it's

1737
01:21:34,880 --> 01:21:36,000
Speaker 1: not the way to handle You're kind of.

1738
01:21:36,000 --> 01:21:37,760
Speaker 2: Just reacting and everything else.

1739
01:21:37,800 --> 01:21:40,320
Speaker 1: They're brain has so many things that's going on in

1740
01:21:40,360 --> 01:21:43,040
Speaker 1: their head that they're trying to like learn and develop.

1741
01:21:43,120 --> 01:21:45,519
Speaker 1: They wish they were in control, like little toddlers. They're

1742
01:21:45,520 --> 01:21:47,760
Speaker 1: always being told what to do, how to handle stuff. Hey,

1743
01:21:47,800 --> 01:21:50,400
Speaker 1: you need to blow on it, like use this, not that,

1744
01:21:50,720 --> 01:21:53,479
Speaker 1: wear this, not that, Go do x y and z.

1745
01:21:53,640 --> 01:21:55,519
Speaker 1: Here's the routine. Hey, we have to get going. No,

1746
01:21:55,640 --> 01:21:58,040
Speaker 1: we can't play right now, we have to do X

1747
01:21:58,200 --> 01:21:58,600
Speaker 1: y and z.

1748
01:21:59,080 --> 01:21:59,760
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah.

1749
01:21:59,800 --> 01:22:01,760
Speaker 1: They're always being told what to do, and they want

1750
01:22:01,800 --> 01:22:05,520
Speaker 1: their own independence and feel like when I'm reading about

1751
01:22:07,200 --> 01:22:10,479
Speaker 1: there learning to stand up, testing what works socially, seeing

1752
01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:13,439
Speaker 1: if their voice, they feel like they have a meaningful voice.

1753
01:22:13,439 --> 01:22:16,000
Speaker 1: They wanted to be heard. So you're like hearing, You're

1754
01:22:16,040 --> 01:22:18,479
Speaker 1: like all this stuff is happening in real time to

1755
01:22:18,479 --> 01:22:21,719
Speaker 1: where the development. As a parent, you're kind of challenging

1756
01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:23,880
Speaker 1: yourself for to kick in and stay poised, stay in

1757
01:22:23,880 --> 01:22:27,080
Speaker 1: the pocket, to not like lose yourself or lose control,

1758
01:22:27,240 --> 01:22:29,400
Speaker 1: because you have to empathize with what their little brain

1759
01:22:29,479 --> 01:22:33,320
Speaker 1: is going through all these big emotions and they want

1760
01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:35,080
Speaker 1: to be in control of their life too and not

1761
01:22:35,160 --> 01:22:37,559
Speaker 1: be told what to do from mom and dad all

1762
01:22:37,600 --> 01:22:40,800
Speaker 1: the time. So as you're listening, it's like, I very

1763
01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:44,479
Speaker 1: much have that young will like in my head as.

1764
01:22:44,439 --> 01:22:45,040
Speaker 2: It's going on.

1765
01:22:45,240 --> 01:22:47,760
Speaker 1: If I wasn't a parent, I would fully be what

1766
01:22:47,800 --> 01:22:50,800
Speaker 1: you were feeling because you think like this is how

1767
01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:52,680
Speaker 1: my old man would have handled it, And that's how

1768
01:22:52,680 --> 01:22:56,000
Speaker 1: my parents would have done it, right, Yes, And like

1769
01:22:56,120 --> 01:22:58,880
Speaker 1: as you were growing as parents and trying to challenge

1770
01:22:58,880 --> 01:23:01,040
Speaker 1: ourselves to like learn new things on how to be

1771
01:23:01,520 --> 01:23:05,160
Speaker 1: intentional and present and are we doing our best right now?

1772
01:23:05,200 --> 01:23:06,559
Speaker 2: We're trying to do our best.

1773
01:23:06,600 --> 01:23:09,439
Speaker 1: And it also makes you reflect on all the stuff

1774
01:23:09,479 --> 01:23:11,960
Speaker 1: that you had when you were a child and what

1775
01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:12,679
Speaker 1: your parents did.

1776
01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:15,840
Speaker 2: Well, what now you feel like you're learning as a parent.

1777
01:23:15,920 --> 01:23:19,360
Speaker 1: Like, man, my dad or my mom wasn't equipped in

1778
01:23:19,360 --> 01:23:21,280
Speaker 1: this way, I feel like now because I'm sure the

1779
01:23:21,360 --> 01:23:24,080
Speaker 1: generation before them handled them in a much different way.

1780
01:23:24,080 --> 01:23:27,720
Speaker 1: We have so many more resources and literature and things

1781
01:23:27,800 --> 01:23:31,599
Speaker 1: that we can source now and look to for guidance, advice,

1782
01:23:32,200 --> 01:23:35,120
Speaker 1: things to try that I don't feel like our parents

1783
01:23:35,240 --> 01:23:37,960
Speaker 1: had back then to where it was different for us.

1784
01:23:38,080 --> 01:23:40,960
Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, all those old ways of

1785
01:23:40,960 --> 01:23:43,320
Speaker 1: how we were. My dad would tan my ass if

1786
01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:46,439
Speaker 1: I'm making a scene in public and I might be older,

1787
01:23:46,880 --> 01:23:49,120
Speaker 1: maybe that's how I go when she's older. I'm just kidding,

1788
01:23:49,640 --> 01:23:51,000
Speaker 1: but you know what I'm saying.

1789
01:23:51,040 --> 01:23:53,679
Speaker 2: Does that make sense? One hundred percent? It's very profound.

1790
01:23:53,800 --> 01:23:57,280
Speaker 5: I'm going to make an edit of the The complete

1791
01:23:57,920 --> 01:24:00,680
Speaker 5: sides of will Compton from like he's talking about like

1792
01:24:00,760 --> 01:24:05,519
Speaker 5: the most mature and philosophical way of parenting, like these

1793
01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:07,200
Speaker 5: things that I'm like, man, that is so smart and

1794
01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:08,960
Speaker 5: I'm going to find you just farting.

1795
01:24:12,400 --> 01:24:14,559
Speaker 2: That will be in the pipeline, just all the guy

1796
01:24:14,680 --> 01:24:15,719
Speaker 2: humor that I love.

1797
01:24:15,640 --> 01:24:18,719
Speaker 3: The mini sides of William Coompton, William Earl, the third

1798
01:24:20,439 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 3: and two Chefs. I loved Chef's question because I was

1799
01:24:23,960 --> 01:24:27,599
Speaker 3: going to ask something similar and what I was going

1800
01:24:27,680 --> 01:24:30,799
Speaker 3: to say earlier that I forgot to say is knowing

1801
01:24:30,840 --> 01:24:34,240
Speaker 3: you and knowing that pool story where you ripped, where

1802
01:24:34,240 --> 01:24:36,559
Speaker 3: it got to a point where it was like, Okay, Rue,

1803
01:24:36,960 --> 01:24:39,639
Speaker 3: we're going home and you're not talking to your mom

1804
01:24:39,680 --> 01:24:42,519
Speaker 3: like that and blah blah blah, like in your brain

1805
01:24:42,800 --> 01:24:46,080
Speaker 3: with your upbringing and everything that's important to you morally,

1806
01:24:46,600 --> 01:24:47,360
Speaker 3: all that stuff.

1807
01:24:47,479 --> 01:24:50,920
Speaker 2: You are not going to raise a brat. You won't.

1808
01:24:51,240 --> 01:24:53,600
Speaker 3: You are not trying to raise a brat. You're not

1809
01:24:53,680 --> 01:24:55,479
Speaker 3: trying to raise a kid that's going to be off

1810
01:24:55,520 --> 01:24:59,559
Speaker 3: the rails like you are going to do a good

1811
01:24:59,640 --> 01:25:04,639
Speaker 3: job of trying to create those guardrails and aim Rue

1812
01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:05,599
Speaker 3: in the right direction.

1813
01:25:05,720 --> 01:25:08,200
Speaker 2: Of where she needs to head growing up.

1814
01:25:08,360 --> 01:25:14,639
Speaker 3: And I love where your head is at and your

1815
01:25:14,840 --> 01:25:18,440
Speaker 3: instincts and the strategy that you're taking on this situation.

1816
01:25:18,880 --> 01:25:19,840
Speaker 3: I just wanted you to hear it.

1817
01:25:19,880 --> 01:25:22,160
Speaker 1: I appreciate that, bro, that is ultimately the goal. I

1818
01:25:22,200 --> 01:25:24,120
Speaker 1: think every parent's like, man, you don't want to raise

1819
01:25:24,120 --> 01:25:26,479
Speaker 1: a brat. You don't want to raise you know, a

1820
01:25:26,520 --> 01:25:29,280
Speaker 1: sassy as kid. You don't want to raise an asshole.

1821
01:25:29,120 --> 01:25:32,360
Speaker 2: And you're not You're not being There's probably times that

1822
01:25:32,400 --> 01:25:35,679
Speaker 2: you are being too self whatever, like like your boy

1823
01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:36,320
Speaker 2: is soft. Now.

1824
01:25:37,040 --> 01:25:39,240
Speaker 3: We all make mistakes and we don't do the right

1825
01:25:39,240 --> 01:25:41,960
Speaker 3: thing and right situations. But it is good to know

1826
01:25:42,040 --> 01:25:46,000
Speaker 3: that you do have that place in your head of like,

1827
01:25:46,080 --> 01:25:49,120
Speaker 3: you know the limit of where it goes to you

1828
01:25:49,840 --> 01:25:52,400
Speaker 3: and you have the ability to nip it in the

1829
01:25:52,439 --> 01:25:57,280
Speaker 3: butt and be like, unacceptable, that's not happening. So what

1830
01:25:57,880 --> 01:25:59,519
Speaker 3: I'm not worried for you, I guess is what I'm

1831
01:25:59,520 --> 01:26:00,200
Speaker 3: trying to say.

1832
01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:03,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, more like more like creating a conversations, creating a dialogue.

1833
01:26:03,520 --> 01:26:06,080
Speaker 1: It's yeah, creating a dialogue with the with the PT sick,

1834
01:26:06,280 --> 01:26:08,160
Speaker 1: with the PT sick goes out there with the parents

1835
01:26:08,160 --> 01:26:10,320
Speaker 1: out there that could be going through the same stuff

1836
01:26:10,320 --> 01:26:13,160
Speaker 1: and thinking all the same things that could absolutely have

1837
01:26:13,200 --> 01:26:16,280
Speaker 1: all the same goals and same like practices and doubt

1838
01:26:16,360 --> 01:26:20,840
Speaker 1: in those moments to where we're sharing, we're sharing experiences. Yeah,

1839
01:26:20,840 --> 01:26:22,240
Speaker 1: you're giving feedback, you.

1840
01:26:22,200 --> 01:26:22,679
Speaker 2: Know what I mean?

1841
01:26:23,000 --> 01:26:26,640
Speaker 5: I would say that what the reason you raise that

1842
01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:28,960
Speaker 5: question and the reason you do this podcast is like

1843
01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:32,680
Speaker 5: the ultimate side of there's a true intentionality there, and

1844
01:26:32,760 --> 01:26:36,759
Speaker 5: that's something that I think probably that's the first step

1845
01:26:36,800 --> 01:26:39,040
Speaker 5: of like you're already probably beaten out a lot of people.

1846
01:26:39,080 --> 01:26:42,120
Speaker 5: I'm not saying it's a competition, but like the idea

1847
01:26:42,160 --> 01:26:44,840
Speaker 5: that it matters enough to you that you put that

1848
01:26:44,920 --> 01:26:47,640
Speaker 5: much thought into it and to really take time to

1849
01:26:47,640 --> 01:26:49,160
Speaker 5: think about it and take a big step back.

1850
01:26:49,280 --> 01:26:52,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, says a Ton. I hope it's all PT sixers

1851
01:26:52,080 --> 01:26:53,040
Speaker 2: out there, baby.

1852
01:26:52,840 --> 01:26:56,680
Speaker 3: Hey, and I I'm very excited to bring up my

1853
01:26:58,000 --> 01:27:02,040
Speaker 3: in the trenches Okay, I'm very excited to see the

1854
01:27:02,080 --> 01:27:06,080
Speaker 3: PT sixers in the comments and what they say about

1855
01:27:06,439 --> 01:27:11,320
Speaker 3: that question that you propose, because I put on Twitter

1856
01:27:11,560 --> 01:27:16,720
Speaker 3: my end the trenches is scar scars diaper situation. The

1857
01:27:16,800 --> 01:27:19,040
Speaker 3: size ones are too small, the size did so you

1858
01:27:19,040 --> 01:27:21,479
Speaker 3: put that out there, the size twos are too big.

1859
01:27:22,040 --> 01:27:24,040
Speaker 3: And I put out this tweet and it was one

1860
01:27:24,080 --> 01:27:26,200
Speaker 3: of my very first tweets that I went past the

1861
01:27:26,520 --> 01:27:30,680
Speaker 3: restricted amount of text. I wrote a book, and I

1862
01:27:30,760 --> 01:27:34,280
Speaker 3: was legitimately like, this is not for likes or comments, like,

1863
01:27:34,960 --> 01:27:37,080
Speaker 3: please tell me what people have done.

1864
01:27:36,960 --> 01:27:37,479
Speaker 2: And dude.

1865
01:27:37,760 --> 01:27:40,840
Speaker 3: PT six came in clunch there was like thirty replies,

1866
01:27:41,720 --> 01:27:45,559
Speaker 3: and so, first off, a huge shout out to PT six,

1867
01:27:45,640 --> 01:27:49,439
Speaker 3: And secondly, I came to Jill because of course Jill

1868
01:27:49,479 --> 01:27:52,000
Speaker 3: and I are having this conversation. That's why I put

1869
01:27:52,000 --> 01:27:54,840
Speaker 3: it on Twitter, because I'm like, Jill, we can't be

1870
01:27:55,439 --> 01:27:57,880
Speaker 3: we use codery. I was like, we can't be doubling

1871
01:27:57,960 --> 01:28:00,680
Speaker 3: up CODERI because one those diapers are all expensive and

1872
01:28:00,760 --> 01:28:03,879
Speaker 3: two now they're going twice as fast because we're doubling

1873
01:28:03,920 --> 01:28:07,040
Speaker 3: up coderies at nighttime. That can't be the solve, Like,

1874
01:28:07,040 --> 01:28:12,000
Speaker 3: there's got to be something else. Put out that question resounding, Hey,

1875
01:28:12,120 --> 01:28:15,800
Speaker 3: nighttime diapers, overnight diapers, overnight diapers, nighttime diapers, gotta do

1876
01:28:15,840 --> 01:28:19,400
Speaker 3: a m surm use this company, blah blah blah. I

1877
01:28:19,520 --> 01:28:22,320
Speaker 3: read those to Jill and it's already opening her mind

1878
01:28:22,320 --> 01:28:25,519
Speaker 3: a little bit of like, yeah, we could do that, huh.

1879
01:28:25,520 --> 01:28:27,840
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah. And I didn't say anything, but I

1880
01:28:27,840 --> 01:28:31,479
Speaker 3: saw on her story this morning, on her Instagram story,

1881
01:28:31,560 --> 01:28:35,240
Speaker 3: she had a looking to get some nighttime diapers? Does

1882
01:28:35,320 --> 01:28:41,200
Speaker 3: anyone have brand recommendation? So Empty six and PT six

1883
01:28:41,280 --> 01:28:45,320
Speaker 3: in my replies, thank you because you helped us like

1884
01:28:46,520 --> 01:28:50,280
Speaker 3: move in a direction. I can't wait to see it fixed,

1885
01:28:50,439 --> 01:28:54,280
Speaker 3: because I mean, Scarscar is sleeping great, but we're having

1886
01:28:54,360 --> 01:28:58,320
Speaker 3: to wash these merlins every single morning because they're just

1887
01:28:58,320 --> 01:29:02,400
Speaker 3: covered in bed. Yeah, she's wearing a diaper. How's this happening?

1888
01:29:02,439 --> 01:29:04,479
Speaker 1: Shoutout PAT six And by the way, BT six was

1889
01:29:04,520 --> 01:29:07,960
Speaker 1: ready last week after we talked about the hater coming

1890
01:29:08,000 --> 01:29:10,920
Speaker 1: after you? Yeah, yeah, yeah, honestly with the end within

1891
01:29:10,960 --> 01:29:13,120
Speaker 1: an hour or two the episode dropping, people like, hey,

1892
01:29:13,160 --> 01:29:14,559
Speaker 1: reporting for duty, where's he at?

1893
01:29:14,760 --> 01:29:18,000
Speaker 3: I found the comment. The guy's name was like David

1894
01:29:18,080 --> 01:29:22,040
Speaker 3: Wee or David Way. I found the comment and I

1895
01:29:22,080 --> 01:29:24,120
Speaker 3: wanted to do like a meme at it and stuff

1896
01:29:24,160 --> 01:29:24,360
Speaker 3: for it.

1897
01:29:24,439 --> 01:29:27,800
Speaker 2: I can't find it. Did he delete it? I looked

1898
01:29:27,800 --> 01:29:30,559
Speaker 2: at it. He deleted it. Oh, he deleted it. He

1899
01:29:30,640 --> 01:29:37,280
Speaker 2: deleted it before I could screenshot it. He backed off. Damn.

1900
01:29:38,120 --> 01:29:40,960
Speaker 2: You know what that says? Though? I don't know. I

1901
01:29:41,000 --> 01:29:41,240
Speaker 2: don't know.

1902
01:29:41,680 --> 01:29:44,000
Speaker 1: Were you guys able to go back to that comment

1903
01:29:44,040 --> 01:29:48,160
Speaker 1: whenever the podcast came out. My thought is people when

1904
01:29:48,200 --> 01:29:50,960
Speaker 1: they listened to the episode or watched the episode, was

1905
01:29:50,960 --> 01:29:51,400
Speaker 1: his comment?

1906
01:29:51,960 --> 01:29:55,599
Speaker 5: This is before the episode dropped? He deted, real, I

1907
01:29:55,680 --> 01:29:58,320
Speaker 5: remember I found the post. I'm like, this has the

1908
01:29:59,200 --> 01:30:00,559
Speaker 5: post to look through gone?

1909
01:30:01,360 --> 01:30:03,880
Speaker 4: Your comment's gone, his comments gone. And it happened before

1910
01:30:03,880 --> 01:30:07,479
Speaker 4: the episode dropped. So even after our conversation, oh mind

1911
01:30:07,520 --> 01:30:10,720
Speaker 4: it for the show gone either, he had a change

1912
01:30:10,760 --> 01:30:13,640
Speaker 4: of heart.

1913
01:30:15,080 --> 01:30:18,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm thinking if I responded to him, eventually

1914
01:30:18,840 --> 01:30:22,040
Speaker 1: other people would probably see it and go in and

1915
01:30:22,080 --> 01:30:23,800
Speaker 1: maybe he's going back and forth with a couple people

1916
01:30:23,840 --> 01:30:25,200
Speaker 1: to the point where it's like, I'm deleting this.

1917
01:30:25,520 --> 01:30:26,160
Speaker 2: I found it.

1918
01:30:26,240 --> 01:30:30,000
Speaker 3: I clicked on his profile and I too laughed because

1919
01:30:30,000 --> 01:30:32,679
Speaker 3: this was right after we recorded Chef Nailed on the Head.

1920
01:30:32,760 --> 01:30:36,760
Speaker 3: His bio was legit like, hey, spread positivity because you

1921
01:30:36,800 --> 01:30:38,920
Speaker 3: never know when your friend needs it the most, like

1922
01:30:38,960 --> 01:30:43,439
Speaker 3: something like that. And we had a mutual on Instagram.

1923
01:30:43,760 --> 01:30:46,640
Speaker 3: We had a mutual And it's a guy that I

1924
01:30:46,680 --> 01:30:48,040
Speaker 3: know pretty well, and I kind of want to reach

1925
01:30:48,080 --> 01:30:49,799
Speaker 3: out to him and be like, Yo, you know this guy.

1926
01:30:50,560 --> 01:30:53,439
Speaker 2: We need to put them on notice for he's sick

1927
01:30:53,520 --> 01:30:55,920
Speaker 2: salivating for a mission right now. This is your boy.

1928
01:30:56,240 --> 01:31:00,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he would tell me too because I'm buddies

1929
01:31:00,439 --> 01:31:03,680
Speaker 3: with them. It'd be funny. Yeah, I have a so

1930
01:31:03,720 --> 01:31:05,479
Speaker 3: it wasn't a burner is the actual guy?

1931
01:31:05,960 --> 01:31:08,559
Speaker 2: A I have a dad loss? My dad loss?

1932
01:31:08,920 --> 01:31:13,559
Speaker 1: Is this sitting in the pocket as a dad and

1933
01:31:13,560 --> 01:31:18,640
Speaker 1: your toddler. It's just all about want to know if

1934
01:31:18,640 --> 01:31:20,200
Speaker 1: it's mom's turn to put her to bed?

1935
01:31:21,600 --> 01:31:22,120
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

1936
01:31:22,160 --> 01:31:25,479
Speaker 1: You just take these hits, bro, where it's like, hey,

1937
01:31:26,000 --> 01:31:27,880
Speaker 1: in front of me, Mama, is you're turn to do

1938
01:31:27,920 --> 01:31:28,559
Speaker 1: bedtime tonight?

1939
01:31:28,840 --> 01:31:31,080
Speaker 2: It's dad sair night, but I want you to do bedtime.

1940
01:31:31,120 --> 01:31:33,280
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking, Yo, I'm standing right here.

1941
01:31:33,120 --> 01:31:37,280
Speaker 1: Bro, and to where it's like she has a couple

1942
01:31:37,320 --> 01:31:40,400
Speaker 1: more things that goes beyond dad Dad, Like no, I

1943
01:31:40,439 --> 01:31:41,160
Speaker 1: want Mama to do that.

1944
01:31:41,200 --> 01:31:42,120
Speaker 2: No, I want mama to do this.

1945
01:31:42,200 --> 01:31:44,840
Speaker 1: And I'm just like all right, and Charles sees it

1946
01:31:44,840 --> 01:31:47,160
Speaker 1: on my face like I'm not like wrecked in a

1947
01:31:47,160 --> 01:31:49,759
Speaker 1: certain way. I'm just like she knows. I'm thinking like, dude,

1948
01:31:49,800 --> 01:31:52,320
Speaker 1: come on, like give the old man some.

1949
01:31:52,360 --> 01:31:58,680
Speaker 3: Love, like your dad, like we're homees Bro, have you

1950
01:31:58,720 --> 01:32:01,040
Speaker 3: ever seen like I don't just don't just come home,

1951
01:32:01,280 --> 01:32:01,639
Speaker 3: you know.

1952
01:32:02,280 --> 01:32:04,640
Speaker 5: I actually because I this is the one thing I

1953
01:32:04,720 --> 01:32:06,679
Speaker 5: might have experience, And so I'm gonna jump in here.

1954
01:32:07,479 --> 01:32:10,439
Speaker 2: Little kids and toddlers say some mean stuff they did

1955
01:32:10,760 --> 01:32:11,320
Speaker 2: in front of you.

1956
01:32:11,439 --> 01:32:14,000
Speaker 5: I was a I worked an after school program through

1957
01:32:14,080 --> 01:32:16,800
Speaker 5: ymc A in Knoxville when I was in college, and

1958
01:32:16,840 --> 01:32:19,439
Speaker 5: so I went to Rocky Hill Elementary every year or

1959
01:32:19,479 --> 01:32:22,200
Speaker 5: every day when kids got out, for kids that parents

1960
01:32:22,240 --> 01:32:24,439
Speaker 5: couldn't pick them up, or bus bus routes didn't get

1961
01:32:24,479 --> 01:32:28,200
Speaker 5: to them, and man, not intentional, I would get little

1962
01:32:28,200 --> 01:32:29,960
Speaker 5: eleanor sitting there, she goes, have you always had a

1963
01:32:30,000 --> 01:32:30,679
Speaker 5: gap in your teeth?

1964
01:32:34,800 --> 01:32:38,760
Speaker 2: Well? Retainer? Thank you? Parents told me the same thing

1965
01:32:38,760 --> 01:32:39,400
Speaker 2: in seventh grade.

1966
01:32:40,520 --> 01:32:43,360
Speaker 5: But anyway, I want too bad.

1967
01:32:43,400 --> 01:32:46,160
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's just they don't even know it's

1968
01:32:46,160 --> 01:32:46,760
Speaker 2: a loss that a.

1969
01:32:46,880 --> 01:32:48,960
Speaker 1: Dad feels in their body when there, when they're when

1970
01:32:48,960 --> 01:32:50,600
Speaker 1: they're a little one, like you know, they have a

1971
01:32:50,600 --> 01:32:52,200
Speaker 1: strong relationship with them, and it's like, yo, is it

1972
01:32:52,240 --> 01:32:52,960
Speaker 1: Mom's turned to bed?

1973
01:32:52,960 --> 01:32:53,639
Speaker 2: They like I did.

1974
01:32:54,880 --> 01:32:56,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, Bro, it's you know, I'm sitting here, I'm looking

1975
01:32:56,800 --> 01:32:59,519
Speaker 1: at dad lost mom versus dad bedtime routines. Does your

1976
01:32:59,600 --> 01:33:03,160
Speaker 1: child spawn differently when dad puts them down or versus

1977
01:33:03,200 --> 01:33:03,960
Speaker 1: mom puts them down?

1978
01:33:04,000 --> 01:33:05,880
Speaker 2: Like this, mom and dad have different bedtime.

1979
01:33:05,560 --> 01:33:09,720
Speaker 1: Because I'm thinking, Bro, we rip at bedtime, like we

1980
01:33:09,800 --> 01:33:13,000
Speaker 1: have fun at bedtime Dad. Dad kind of sick with

1981
01:33:13,040 --> 01:33:18,120
Speaker 1: it with the bedtime. Yeah, that is nasty with bedtime routine.

1982
01:33:18,200 --> 01:33:20,439
Speaker 1: Like we'll play games. I mixed up games.

1983
01:33:20,439 --> 01:33:23,919
Speaker 3: Hey, let's race to the bathroom to brush our teeth sometimes,

1984
01:33:24,000 --> 01:33:26,520
Speaker 3: daddad lets you skip a couple things.

1985
01:33:27,240 --> 01:33:29,320
Speaker 2: Mom's out there listening right now, like what the oh

1986
01:33:29,479 --> 01:33:29,800
Speaker 2: this is.

1987
01:33:30,080 --> 01:33:32,160
Speaker 1: Why she brings up. Can I brush my teeth and

1988
01:33:32,200 --> 01:33:34,479
Speaker 1: brush my hair in the morning? Yeah, because Dad's like, oh,

1989
01:33:34,560 --> 01:33:36,479
Speaker 1: you want to go to you want to fall asleep, Like, hey,

1990
01:33:36,520 --> 01:33:38,240
Speaker 1: we gotta brush your hair and brush your teeth in

1991
01:33:38,240 --> 01:33:38,679
Speaker 1: the morning.

1992
01:33:38,720 --> 01:33:42,200
Speaker 3: Now, we're's been asking me to read eight books at night.

1993
01:33:42,400 --> 01:33:44,960
Speaker 2: H Yeah, this is something new we've been doing. I've

1994
01:33:44,960 --> 01:33:47,800
Speaker 2: been reading eight you know, I do.

1995
01:33:48,600 --> 01:33:51,120
Speaker 1: See I'll lock her into two. She got me on

1996
01:33:51,160 --> 01:33:55,160
Speaker 1: three the other night. But also, Bro, I get in

1997
01:33:55,240 --> 01:33:57,120
Speaker 1: and lay in bed with her every night, like when

1998
01:33:57,120 --> 01:33:59,560
Speaker 1: it's time, like when we hit the books on a

1999
01:33:59,600 --> 01:34:02,240
Speaker 1: regular where it's you know, we'll read one book, then

2000
01:34:02,280 --> 01:34:04,000
Speaker 1: brush your hair, brush your teeth. We'll get back in bed.

2001
01:34:04,040 --> 01:34:06,200
Speaker 1: We'll read another book. And then when it's time to

2002
01:34:06,200 --> 01:34:06,479
Speaker 1: come off.

2003
01:34:06,520 --> 01:34:08,599
Speaker 3: She knows this dadd dead as scratch my back, dadad

2004
01:34:08,600 --> 01:34:09,360
Speaker 3: give me a massage.

2005
01:34:09,360 --> 01:34:12,280
Speaker 1: Like I lay in bed with her every time I

2006
01:34:12,320 --> 01:34:16,679
Speaker 1: do bedtime. We switch every night and every time I'm

2007
01:34:16,720 --> 01:34:18,720
Speaker 1: in bed with her and I'm scratching her back and

2008
01:34:18,720 --> 01:34:21,040
Speaker 1: like rubbing her arm or giving her a massage every

2009
01:34:21,120 --> 01:34:23,160
Speaker 1: night until it's like, you know, she's like tired. I

2010
01:34:23,160 --> 01:34:25,720
Speaker 1: can tell, like rub her face and hair to her,

2011
01:34:25,760 --> 01:34:27,360
Speaker 1: she's like fall asleep, and I'm kind of like you know,

2012
01:34:27,439 --> 01:34:29,559
Speaker 1: giving her giving her the handstroke on the.

2013
01:34:29,560 --> 01:34:31,679
Speaker 2: Side of the head, and I'm like, all right, bedtime.

2014
01:34:31,680 --> 01:34:33,960
Speaker 1: She gives me a hug, kiss, three squeezes, one two, three,

2015
01:34:34,000 --> 01:34:35,639
Speaker 1: I love you, and she'll like keep her eyes closed

2016
01:34:35,640 --> 01:34:37,519
Speaker 1: through it, and she knows it's bedtime. She's asleep, she's

2017
01:34:37,560 --> 01:34:39,840
Speaker 1: passed out. And then when Mom does bedtime. At the

2018
01:34:39,920 --> 01:34:41,720
Speaker 1: end of every time Mom does bed it's like Dad

2019
01:34:41,720 --> 01:34:44,120
Speaker 1: has it's Dad has got to come upstairs and do

2020
01:34:44,280 --> 01:34:47,880
Speaker 1: the final put in the the last and fifter. I'm

2021
01:34:47,920 --> 01:34:52,200
Speaker 1: the closer, Yeah, I'm the scratch the back closer, like

2022
01:34:52,240 --> 01:34:54,400
Speaker 1: I'm scratching back every Now, I'm like, bro, we rip

2023
01:34:54,439 --> 01:34:56,840
Speaker 1: at bedtime? Why is it always like you act like

2024
01:34:56,880 --> 01:34:58,679
Speaker 1: I'm torturing you when I do bedtime?

2025
01:34:58,760 --> 01:35:01,880
Speaker 3: Now I know the answer. She wants both of y'all

2026
01:35:01,920 --> 01:35:06,360
Speaker 3: to do it. That's it. If you're going in there

2027
01:35:06,400 --> 01:35:10,240
Speaker 3: every night, no matter what. She likes it when Charle

2028
01:35:10,320 --> 01:35:14,720
Speaker 3: does it, because she's getting both parents. That's all it is.

2029
01:35:14,720 --> 01:35:15,519
Speaker 2: You might be right.

2030
01:35:16,439 --> 01:35:19,559
Speaker 3: It's not that you're she's not as good like because

2031
01:35:19,560 --> 01:35:19,800
Speaker 3: she does.

2032
01:35:20,000 --> 01:35:20,479
Speaker 2: That's the time.

2033
01:35:20,520 --> 01:35:23,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, I think in my head, like, bro, we

2034
01:35:23,160 --> 01:35:25,920
Speaker 1: have fun at bedtime? Why is it always gonna be

2035
01:35:25,920 --> 01:35:26,519
Speaker 1: Mama and you?

2036
01:35:26,600 --> 01:35:28,320
Speaker 2: Kind of her her mom have.

2037
01:35:28,360 --> 01:35:31,519
Speaker 1: Such a unique relationship to where it'll be like the

2038
01:35:31,520 --> 01:35:33,599
Speaker 1: whining and argue to where Charles like, I don't see

2039
01:35:33,640 --> 01:35:35,920
Speaker 1: why she's always wanting me to do bedtime all the time.

2040
01:35:36,120 --> 01:35:38,559
Speaker 1: She certain wines with me, and she makes it hard

2041
01:35:38,600 --> 01:35:41,240
Speaker 1: on me. All right, we might got it. We might

2042
01:35:41,280 --> 01:35:43,360
Speaker 1: have don't know, might have gotten cut off there for

2043
01:35:43,400 --> 01:35:47,360
Speaker 1: a second, soundboard crashed on us for a moment. All good, though,

2044
01:35:47,479 --> 01:35:51,040
Speaker 1: We're getting into our hot We're getting into our our hotline.

2045
01:35:51,080 --> 01:35:52,880
Speaker 1: Our voicemails this week six and one of the dads

2046
01:35:52,880 --> 01:35:54,160
Speaker 1: if you want to call in and be featured on

2047
01:35:54,200 --> 01:35:56,320
Speaker 1: the show. Yes, we do have a couple this week.

2048
01:35:56,360 --> 01:35:58,720
Speaker 1: We're gonna hit the We're gonna hit a couple of voicemails.

2049
01:35:58,720 --> 01:36:01,040
Speaker 1: Maybe read you an email and get on way. We

2050
01:36:01,080 --> 01:36:02,760
Speaker 1: gotta keep it under an hour. I think we're over now.

2051
01:36:02,800 --> 01:36:04,920
Speaker 1: We gotta figure out a way to get it going

2052
01:36:04,960 --> 01:36:07,000
Speaker 1: back under and we gotta yeah, we gotta get we

2053
01:36:07,040 --> 01:36:07,760
Speaker 1: gotta get it going.

2054
01:36:07,880 --> 01:36:09,880
Speaker 3: Gotta get it going six on one of the dad's

2055
01:36:09,920 --> 01:36:13,519
Speaker 3: at gmail dot com too for our international listeners. Uh,

2056
01:36:13,840 --> 01:36:17,200
Speaker 3: first comment or first sorry, call in.

2057
01:36:18,240 --> 01:36:27,559
Speaker 6: What a gentleman from Meansfield, Texas, Busfield, Texas.

2058
01:36:28,000 --> 01:36:32,200
Speaker 2: Uh not only eight months old?

2059
01:36:32,640 --> 01:36:33,920
Speaker 7: Are calling this week?

2060
01:36:35,280 --> 01:36:41,479
Speaker 6: But right before I'm making this, as I'm walking out

2061
01:36:41,520 --> 01:36:47,000
Speaker 6: the door to go to work, open the door, take

2062
01:36:47,040 --> 01:36:53,760
Speaker 6: a step outside, I hear the most beautiful thing olla.

2063
01:36:55,479 --> 01:36:55,880
Speaker 5: That was?

2064
01:36:59,040 --> 01:37:01,880
Speaker 2: And I was like, what like that?

2065
01:37:02,120 --> 01:37:11,040
Speaker 6: As I'm walking out the floor, first words and hunt.

2066
01:37:09,800 --> 01:37:13,760
Speaker 2: That gasses me up. Thank you guys and just for

2067
01:37:13,840 --> 01:37:16,960
Speaker 2: all all, oh.

2068
01:37:16,760 --> 01:37:20,919
Speaker 6: Ho uh and just all have a ton of success

2069
01:37:21,520 --> 01:37:24,479
Speaker 6: in doing this, and uh man, I'm forever grateful.

2070
01:37:27,040 --> 01:37:28,960
Speaker 2: They shut out Isaiah from Texas.

2071
01:37:29,320 --> 01:37:33,320
Speaker 3: Isaiah from Mansfield, Texas, Maysfield, Texas at that.

2072
01:37:34,200 --> 01:37:36,120
Speaker 2: Very close sol does Texas.

2073
01:37:36,360 --> 01:37:38,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all ever play them? You to beat dead ass

2074
01:37:38,960 --> 01:37:40,840
Speaker 3: just a little bit, just a little bit.

2075
01:37:41,040 --> 01:37:42,560
Speaker 2: We like to have fun on the show. We like

2076
01:37:42,640 --> 01:37:44,280
Speaker 2: have fun on the show. We beat your ass. But

2077
01:37:44,320 --> 01:37:45,040
Speaker 2: we're just kidding.

2078
01:37:45,200 --> 01:37:48,800
Speaker 3: We're hey, Isaiah, listen, I'm excited for the first words.

2079
01:37:49,479 --> 01:37:51,280
Speaker 3: But we did back in the day.

2080
01:37:51,720 --> 01:37:54,360
Speaker 2: I personally never played Mansfield, so I can't say I did.

2081
01:37:54,439 --> 01:37:59,000
Speaker 1: But Sherman, listen, did we go through this all the time?

2082
01:38:00,200 --> 01:38:04,559
Speaker 1: Stay patient, stay in it, stay present. But the moment

2083
01:38:04,640 --> 01:38:06,880
Speaker 1: you get the crawls, the moment you hear dead ad

2084
01:38:06,880 --> 01:38:09,360
Speaker 1: for the first time, it is a joy and love

2085
01:38:09,920 --> 01:38:13,080
Speaker 1: that is experienced where the whole parent's just telling people

2086
01:38:13,120 --> 01:38:16,000
Speaker 1: who don't have parents. It's like, man, just wait till

2087
01:38:16,000 --> 01:38:17,880
Speaker 1: you become a dad, or wait till you become a parent,

2088
01:38:17,960 --> 01:38:21,200
Speaker 1: or it's like indescribable the feeling that you have because

2089
01:38:21,240 --> 01:38:25,120
Speaker 1: you feel like you've you've you've tapped into like a

2090
01:38:25,280 --> 01:38:28,479
Speaker 1: new feeling, a new like a secret soft sauce that

2091
01:38:28,520 --> 01:38:33,240
Speaker 1: people can't experience until you experience it. Yeah, Like what

2092
01:38:33,479 --> 01:38:36,400
Speaker 1: makes parenthood great because people see the chaos and everything

2093
01:38:36,400 --> 01:38:39,280
Speaker 1: else and get the turn away from it, and it's

2094
01:38:39,320 --> 01:38:43,400
Speaker 1: just like, man, it's moments like that that just feel

2095
01:38:43,439 --> 01:38:48,639
Speaker 1: you with something different. They just can't describe. Shut Isaiah,

2096
01:38:48,640 --> 01:38:50,280
Speaker 1: thank you for the phone call, Bro, Thank.

2097
01:38:50,080 --> 01:38:50,800
Speaker 2: You for the phone call.

2098
01:38:50,880 --> 01:38:54,560
Speaker 3: Isaiah very excited for Scarlet's first words. That's going to

2099
01:38:54,600 --> 01:38:55,360
Speaker 3: be epic.

2100
01:38:56,200 --> 01:38:59,880
Speaker 2: Ask me Ruth's first words. What were Ru's first words? Dad?

2101
01:39:00,720 --> 01:39:04,360
Speaker 2: They asked me Scotty's first What were Scotty's first words? Dadda?

2102
01:39:05,120 --> 01:39:09,479
Speaker 2: As Scarlet's first words, what's Scarlet's first words? Yeah?

2103
01:39:09,760 --> 01:39:13,120
Speaker 1: Hopefully, yeah, hopeful, Hopefully it'll come. They say, the hard

2104
01:39:13,160 --> 01:39:15,559
Speaker 1: consonants are better or easier than the soft one.

2105
01:39:15,600 --> 01:39:18,840
Speaker 2: The tongue and the teeth come before the mama. Yeah. So,

2106
01:39:19,280 --> 01:39:20,519
Speaker 2: and then you're sitting there hitting a.

2107
01:39:22,680 --> 01:39:25,360
Speaker 3: Well, she's already kind of there because she spends most

2108
01:39:25,400 --> 01:39:27,160
Speaker 3: of the day with her, and then when dad comes

2109
01:39:27,160 --> 01:39:31,920
Speaker 3: home from word scarlets and that's it's a trust me.

2110
01:39:31,920 --> 01:39:34,280
Speaker 3: It's a tough gotta have the empathy. It's a tough

2111
01:39:34,400 --> 01:39:36,920
Speaker 3: l for mom. It's a tough l. Shells like she

2112
01:39:37,120 --> 01:39:39,240
Speaker 3: didn't do that all day for me because.

2113
01:39:39,000 --> 01:39:43,240
Speaker 2: They like we just we know that moms they go

2114
01:39:43,360 --> 01:39:45,800
Speaker 2: through it. They're in it a lot more than that.

2115
01:39:45,800 --> 01:39:47,960
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean the dads don't have their own gritty work,

2116
01:39:48,000 --> 01:39:51,519
Speaker 1: their own intention presence in the entire scheme of things.

2117
01:39:51,520 --> 01:39:55,320
Speaker 2: But it's a tough l for mom swallowing when dad,

2118
01:39:55,400 --> 01:39:57,000
Speaker 2: when dad, Dad gets the love.

2119
01:39:57,120 --> 01:39:58,840
Speaker 3: And so I'm soft on it. I know I'm not

2120
01:39:58,920 --> 01:40:01,960
Speaker 3: sitting there showboating doing anything when you know, I get

2121
01:40:01,960 --> 01:40:07,759
Speaker 3: the smile. Scarlett had her first laugh yesterday, by the way, Start.

2122
01:40:07,600 --> 01:40:09,799
Speaker 1: Getting on that changing table, start giving them the noises

2123
01:40:09,880 --> 01:40:13,800
Speaker 1: they're telling me the tickle's going on. Oh yeah, bro,

2124
01:40:14,000 --> 01:40:21,240
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, oh yeah, dude. The anticipation you create in

2125
01:40:21,280 --> 01:40:23,120
Speaker 1: those moments when you start kind of tossing up a

2126
01:40:23,160 --> 01:40:26,880
Speaker 1: little bit oh one, a two, just to kind of

2127
01:40:26,880 --> 01:40:28,400
Speaker 1: see their smile because they know three is coming.

2128
01:40:28,400 --> 01:40:29,840
Speaker 2: They're about to get tossed in the air.

2129
01:40:31,880 --> 01:40:35,879
Speaker 3: Scar and Jill. I will never toss Scarlet ever. No,

2130
01:40:36,200 --> 01:40:37,439
Speaker 3: never tossed the babies around.

2131
01:40:37,560 --> 01:40:42,280
Speaker 2: You tossed that little she already, Like when I lift here, yeah,

2132
01:40:42,439 --> 01:40:43,120
Speaker 2: we're getting there.

2133
01:40:43,240 --> 01:40:46,200
Speaker 1: Baby steps I tested out by instead of like throwing

2134
01:40:46,240 --> 01:40:47,360
Speaker 1: them in the air. It's just like I'll go a

2135
01:40:47,400 --> 01:40:50,639
Speaker 1: little faster, ascending in the air. Yeah yeah, But Scotty Versabik.

2136
01:40:52,080 --> 01:40:54,240
Speaker 1: All right, you're not ready for the show yet, You're

2137
01:40:54,240 --> 01:40:55,439
Speaker 1: not ready for prime time.

2138
01:40:59,120 --> 01:41:05,760
Speaker 3: Okay, you can't handle this yet. Oh my god, we

2139
01:41:05,840 --> 01:41:07,720
Speaker 3: have our second call in. Here we go.

2140
01:41:08,800 --> 01:41:12,040
Speaker 5: What's up, boys, I'm currently on the way to the

2141
01:41:12,080 --> 01:41:13,320
Speaker 5: hospital with my wife.

2142
01:41:13,400 --> 01:41:17,000
Speaker 2: Say hey, why, I think she's in the middle of

2143
01:41:17,000 --> 01:41:18,160
Speaker 2: a contraction right now.

2144
01:41:18,439 --> 01:41:24,040
Speaker 1: Thank you has prepared me for the trenches.

2145
01:41:24,320 --> 01:41:27,280
Speaker 3: I'm looking forward either way?

2146
01:41:28,000 --> 01:41:35,120
Speaker 2: Then from Alabama? Did from Alabama? I love? It's like, hey,

2147
01:41:35,160 --> 01:41:37,120
Speaker 2: she's going. I think she's.

2148
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Speaker 3: Having like something that they call like childbirth contractions. But

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01:41:40,840 --> 01:41:43,840
Speaker 3: I just like y'all to know I'm ready for my dad.

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01:41:44,320 --> 01:41:48,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, run away to the hospital right now,

2151
01:41:48,720 --> 01:41:50,800
Speaker 2: she said, we gotta go. I don't even know what

2152
01:41:50,840 --> 01:41:51,240
Speaker 2: to call it.

2153
01:41:51,320 --> 01:41:53,880
Speaker 1: She's having something, she's feeling something in her stomach called

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01:41:53,920 --> 01:41:55,599
Speaker 1: contractions or something like that.

2155
01:41:56,760 --> 01:42:00,880
Speaker 2: I'm built for these trenches. I'm waiting. You guys are

2156
01:42:00,920 --> 01:42:01,760
Speaker 2: the best dads ever.

2157
01:42:01,800 --> 01:42:03,840
Speaker 3: You gotta make me the best, Hey, honey, say hey,

2158
01:42:04,920 --> 01:42:08,360
Speaker 3: like truly, bro. The fact that she had a good

2159
01:42:08,360 --> 01:42:11,639
Speaker 3: attitude about that is electric. Yeah, we got a high

2160
01:42:11,680 --> 01:42:14,440
Speaker 3: from a mom in contractions.

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01:42:14,840 --> 01:42:17,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't sleep on that. Don't sleep on that been

2162
01:42:17,800 --> 01:42:21,240
Speaker 1: from Alabama. Role Tide, roll Tide. Maybe maybe it's.

2163
01:42:21,080 --> 01:42:27,680
Speaker 3: All wardamn war damn yeah, or a little rtr and

2164
01:42:27,840 --> 01:42:30,160
Speaker 3: I mean that as a compliment. But if he's not,

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01:42:31,960 --> 01:42:35,000
Speaker 3: then he's gonna be pissed. Yeah, but he just he

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01:42:35,040 --> 01:42:36,960
Speaker 3: seems like a little roll tide roll to me. I

2167
01:42:36,960 --> 01:42:37,280
Speaker 3: don't know.

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01:42:37,439 --> 01:42:40,080
Speaker 1: You keep saying, you keep doubling down, tripling down, you

2169
01:42:40,200 --> 01:42:42,519
Speaker 1: keep you could be insulting him.

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01:42:43,040 --> 01:42:43,720
Speaker 2: He seems like.

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01:42:43,640 --> 01:42:45,920
Speaker 3: A war even we'll cut this once he comments, but

2172
01:42:46,000 --> 01:42:48,680
Speaker 3: he seems like a wardamn Eagle guy. Yeah, that's what

2173
01:42:48,720 --> 01:42:49,479
Speaker 3: he seems like to me.

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01:42:49,760 --> 01:42:56,160
Speaker 1: Hey, I am roll damn sweet you want to say, Oh, dude, boys,

2175
01:42:56,200 --> 01:42:58,519
Speaker 1: just listening to the episode. We're still at the hospital. Wife,

2176
01:42:58,560 --> 01:43:02,920
Speaker 1: he's pushing right now. Sweet, are you want to say, Hey, it.

2177
01:43:02,880 --> 01:43:09,519
Speaker 9: Is off and she's screaming the road time, road time.

2178
01:43:10,240 --> 01:43:14,320
Speaker 9: She's screaming in the background. It is wrong, by the fucking.

2179
01:43:19,160 --> 01:43:19,919
Speaker 2: Brett. Sweetheart.

2180
01:43:20,080 --> 01:43:24,800
Speaker 3: Please please called that kid with the update. Let us

2181
01:43:24,840 --> 01:43:28,760
Speaker 3: know if you are for the Crimson Tide or you

2182
01:43:28,760 --> 01:43:30,320
Speaker 3: want to throw like a U A B and just

2183
01:43:30,400 --> 01:43:34,840
Speaker 3: run through the elevations. Yeah, yeah, go dragons, I mean whatever, dude, Wait,

2184
01:43:34,840 --> 01:43:35,559
Speaker 3: who's your team?

2185
01:43:35,680 --> 01:43:36,280
Speaker 2: We gotta know.

2186
01:43:36,760 --> 01:43:40,479
Speaker 3: Did we get a name in that one at the end. Oh,

2187
01:43:40,560 --> 01:43:43,680
Speaker 3: that's right, Ben from Alabama. That's right, Ben from Alabama.

2188
01:43:44,000 --> 01:43:47,439
Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, a few emails yes at six or

2189
01:43:47,560 --> 01:43:50,040
Speaker 1: not at six on one for the dads at gmail

2190
01:43:50,080 --> 01:43:56,360
Speaker 1: dot com and dads the dads. We threw a couple

2191
01:43:56,400 --> 01:43:58,840
Speaker 1: of emails hits a quote lesson topic. Get we're out

2192
01:43:58,840 --> 01:43:59,599
Speaker 1: of here under an hour.

2193
01:43:59,680 --> 01:44:02,960
Speaker 2: We're out. Sorry chef, Sorry chef, Sorry chef, sorry, chef.

2194
01:44:03,680 --> 01:44:07,240
Speaker 3: I got a first one real quick. This comes from

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01:44:07,320 --> 01:44:09,720
Speaker 3: Lexi Morris, hey will and sure and proud member of

2196
01:44:09,760 --> 01:44:12,200
Speaker 3: Milk Team six here. I just wanted to reach out

2197
01:44:12,240 --> 01:44:14,320
Speaker 3: and thank you for being a bright spot and mine

2198
01:44:14,360 --> 01:44:16,160
Speaker 3: and my husband's week every week.

2199
01:44:17,200 --> 01:44:18,040
Speaker 2: We found out in.

2200
01:44:18,040 --> 01:44:21,439
Speaker 3: June when our daughter was four months old that his

2201
01:44:21,600 --> 01:44:25,240
Speaker 3: cancer had transformed and he was going to need stem

2202
01:44:25,280 --> 01:44:28,639
Speaker 3: cell transplant. You guys have made us laugh and cry,

2203
01:44:29,000 --> 01:44:32,479
Speaker 3: were sensitive and cinem l two during his hospital stays

2204
01:44:32,520 --> 01:44:36,000
Speaker 3: for chemotherapy and on the drives to and from the appointments.

2205
01:44:36,439 --> 01:44:39,200
Speaker 3: He's been admitted for his stem cell transplant. So just

2206
01:44:39,200 --> 01:44:42,519
Speaker 3: have to shout out my husband, Michael. He's the proudest

2207
01:44:42,520 --> 01:44:45,519
Speaker 3: member of Papa Team six. A fellow girl dad, and

2208
01:44:45,560 --> 01:44:49,000
Speaker 3: he's our hero and human form. Time for him to

2209
01:44:49,080 --> 01:44:53,920
Speaker 3: kick cancer's ass. Good Purple heart, thanks again and can't

2210
01:44:53,920 --> 01:44:56,200
Speaker 3: wait to see the merch that Jill and Charro come

2211
01:44:56,280 --> 01:44:56,599
Speaker 3: up with.

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01:44:56,720 --> 01:45:01,320
Speaker 2: Winki face Lexi, M Lexi, thank you you. That's heavy.

2213
01:45:01,560 --> 01:45:02,240
Speaker 3: That's heavy.

2214
01:45:02,400 --> 01:45:04,240
Speaker 2: That's heavy. I'm sorry you guys are going through that.

2215
01:45:04,439 --> 01:45:06,800
Speaker 1: Seems like you guys are trying to handle it as

2216
01:45:06,800 --> 01:45:09,960
Speaker 1: well as you possibly can. Very much appreciate you taking

2217
01:45:09,960 --> 01:45:12,240
Speaker 1: the time to write that. Shutting out your husband. Oh yeah,

2218
01:45:12,360 --> 01:45:14,160
Speaker 1: sounds like your husband's trying to keep as good of

2219
01:45:14,160 --> 01:45:18,040
Speaker 1: an attitude as he possibly can, the whole good mentality.

2220
01:45:20,040 --> 01:45:21,439
Speaker 2: I can't imagine.

2221
01:45:21,040 --> 01:45:25,560
Speaker 3: Honored that we're even a small little sivil sliver semblance

2222
01:45:25,640 --> 01:45:30,880
Speaker 3: of y'all's experience of, you know, fighting cancer and coming

2223
01:45:30,920 --> 01:45:34,360
Speaker 3: together as a family. And it's we're honored that we

2224
01:45:34,439 --> 01:45:36,080
Speaker 3: even get to be a small little sliver of that.

2225
01:45:36,200 --> 01:45:36,679
Speaker 2: Thank you.

2226
01:45:36,800 --> 01:45:39,960
Speaker 1: That would be so hard to go through. Yeah, that'd

2227
01:45:40,000 --> 01:45:42,639
Speaker 1: be so hard to go through for the dads, the boys.

2228
01:45:42,720 --> 01:45:46,040
Speaker 1: We are all thinking about you guys. Absolutely, our heart

2229
01:45:46,040 --> 01:45:49,400
Speaker 1: goes out to you both. Keep fighting. I'm hoping it's

2230
01:45:49,439 --> 01:45:53,160
Speaker 1: all uphill. It's all optimism from here, but that is

2231
01:45:53,320 --> 01:45:53,960
Speaker 1: it is tough.

2232
01:45:54,040 --> 01:45:58,439
Speaker 3: They had it in quotations of time to kick cancer's ass.

2233
01:45:58,479 --> 01:46:00,519
Speaker 3: So maybe that's a little mantra that I got going.

2234
01:46:00,560 --> 01:46:03,519
Speaker 1: I'll time the kick cancers as come on, time the

2235
01:46:03,560 --> 01:46:06,639
Speaker 1: kick cancers as I got one to hear from Ben Warring,

2236
01:46:07,520 --> 01:46:12,639
Speaker 1: Ben Wearing Boys, longtime UK listener of Busting and day

2237
01:46:12,680 --> 01:46:16,439
Speaker 1: one for the dads over in Liverpool, England.

2238
01:46:16,680 --> 01:46:19,479
Speaker 2: Come on Liverpool, How sick is that?

2239
01:46:19,560 --> 01:46:19,760
Speaker 3: Bro?

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01:46:20,320 --> 01:46:26,040
Speaker 1: Liverpool, England? Day one for the Dads longtime listener Busting

2241
01:46:26,040 --> 01:46:29,120
Speaker 1: with the Boys where the batoos are from the bay Oos.

2242
01:46:29,479 --> 01:46:31,240
Speaker 1: Me and my wife have been trying to start a

2243
01:46:31,280 --> 01:46:34,679
Speaker 1: family for a while now without success. We got checked

2244
01:46:34,680 --> 01:46:36,800
Speaker 1: out a few years ago and realized that IVF was

2245
01:46:36,800 --> 01:46:37,680
Speaker 1: our path.

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01:46:37,479 --> 01:46:38,439
Speaker 2: To becoming a family.

2247
01:46:39,520 --> 01:46:42,519
Speaker 1: Our first round didn't work out, which left us at

2248
01:46:42,520 --> 01:46:45,439
Speaker 1: the lowest point in both of our lives. Our second

2249
01:46:45,520 --> 01:46:48,559
Speaker 1: round started the week before you released the IVF episode

2250
01:46:48,560 --> 01:46:52,160
Speaker 1: with Will and Charrow And for those wondering listening who

2251
01:46:52,280 --> 01:46:54,200
Speaker 1: might be taking that same route, My wife and I

2252
01:46:54,360 --> 01:46:57,439
Speaker 1: did a Busting with the Boys podcast around Mother's Day

2253
01:46:57,520 --> 01:46:58,880
Speaker 1: of this year. If you want to go back and

2254
01:46:58,920 --> 01:47:01,200
Speaker 1: listen to that, I made my wife listen to it

2255
01:47:01,200 --> 01:47:03,880
Speaker 1: and we both cried along together. Fast forward to now

2256
01:47:03,920 --> 01:47:06,360
Speaker 1: and we are currently expecting our little girl do on

2257
01:47:06,560 --> 01:47:10,240
Speaker 1: Super Bowls Sunday. My wife has taken the podcast as

2258
01:47:10,280 --> 01:47:12,320
Speaker 1: our lucky charm and we can't wait for Wednesday to

2259
01:47:12,400 --> 01:47:14,639
Speaker 1: roll around and we have another episode to listen.

2260
01:47:14,640 --> 01:47:15,840
Speaker 2: To keep up.

2261
01:47:15,720 --> 01:47:19,040
Speaker 1: The great work, keep crying, and keep taking out the trash.

2262
01:47:19,360 --> 01:47:24,120
Speaker 1: Trash cheers Ben dude. It fires me up that round

2263
01:47:24,120 --> 01:47:26,519
Speaker 1: two worked out. And then for those that do struggle

2264
01:47:26,520 --> 01:47:31,320
Speaker 1: with infertility and have used the the IVF method and

2265
01:47:31,360 --> 01:47:34,280
Speaker 1: it doesn't work out, there are you know you think

2266
01:47:34,280 --> 01:47:37,479
Speaker 1: about your story at times and how hard some of

2267
01:47:37,520 --> 01:47:40,479
Speaker 1: these moments are that you go through Because at the

2268
01:47:40,520 --> 01:47:43,000
Speaker 1: end of the day, all of our individual worst moments

2269
01:47:43,040 --> 01:47:45,400
Speaker 1: is are are? They are our worst moments. They what

2270
01:47:45,479 --> 01:47:49,559
Speaker 1: we have experienced the worst. When you begin to find

2271
01:47:49,640 --> 01:47:52,400
Speaker 1: perspective and hear other people's stories, there are friends in

2272
01:47:52,439 --> 01:47:55,439
Speaker 1: our circles, a friend in particular, who went through I

2273
01:47:55,479 --> 01:47:58,960
Speaker 1: want to stay around five rounds of IVF before they

2274
01:47:59,000 --> 01:48:02,240
Speaker 1: finally you know, struck lightning in a bottle and got lucky.

2275
01:48:02,680 --> 01:48:05,360
Speaker 1: But you know, I know Charo and I story in

2276
01:48:05,439 --> 01:48:09,040
Speaker 1: our journey and how challenging it was in our world

2277
01:48:09,120 --> 01:48:11,840
Speaker 1: and we were lucky enough to be successful on our

2278
01:48:11,880 --> 01:48:15,800
Speaker 1: first try after trying for a while on baby number two.

2279
01:48:15,960 --> 01:48:18,000
Speaker 1: But it fires me up the round two worked. I

2280
01:48:18,040 --> 01:48:21,360
Speaker 1: can't imagine, you know, trying to start a family for

2281
01:48:21,400 --> 01:48:24,200
Speaker 1: a while now to quote you without success. Got checked

2282
01:48:24,200 --> 01:48:26,240
Speaker 1: out a few years ago going the path of IVF.

2283
01:48:26,280 --> 01:48:28,479
Speaker 1: First round didn't work, which also at the lowest point

2284
01:48:28,479 --> 01:48:33,360
Speaker 1: of both of our lives mentally, I can only imagine

2285
01:48:33,400 --> 01:48:36,400
Speaker 1: how hard that was. But to see you guys, you know,

2286
01:48:36,520 --> 01:48:38,800
Speaker 1: strike on round two and have baby girl coming on

2287
01:48:38,920 --> 01:48:41,200
Speaker 1: Super Bowl Sunday, come on. Shout out to you both,

2288
01:48:41,240 --> 01:48:43,200
Speaker 1: Ben and thank you for being a Tier one on

2289
01:48:43,280 --> 01:48:45,320
Speaker 1: busting and being a Day one for the Dad's Listener.

2290
01:48:47,040 --> 01:48:49,320
Speaker 3: Thank you for writing in and thank you for sharing.

2291
01:48:49,360 --> 01:48:53,360
Speaker 3: I know that that's hard in five rounds let alone one.

2292
01:48:54,040 --> 01:48:56,000
Speaker 3: That's awesome, dude.

2293
01:48:56,000 --> 01:48:58,760
Speaker 1: It's so hard to when you think about it and

2294
01:48:58,760 --> 01:49:01,280
Speaker 1: you hear all the stories and have perspectives of everybody else,

2295
01:49:01,320 --> 01:49:03,240
Speaker 1: all the challenging things that people go through to have

2296
01:49:03,280 --> 01:49:05,840
Speaker 1: a child, and then you think, like man, because rue,

2297
01:49:06,040 --> 01:49:08,040
Speaker 1: it was like it was the first time and you

2298
01:49:08,080 --> 01:49:10,639
Speaker 1: don't know, you don't It's like you take it for granted,

2299
01:49:10,680 --> 01:49:13,160
Speaker 1: because then we try and having Scott and then we

2300
01:49:13,200 --> 01:49:15,160
Speaker 1: had to go through the IVF process and everything else.

2301
01:49:15,200 --> 01:49:16,720
Speaker 1: You kind of take for granted how lucky you are,

2302
01:49:16,760 --> 01:49:20,840
Speaker 1: because when you're growing up, you just think, oh, it's

2303
01:49:20,960 --> 01:49:23,760
Speaker 1: quite simple, how this process works. Yeah, one lear about

2304
01:49:23,840 --> 01:49:26,040
Speaker 1: equals one plus one equals to and then you hear

2305
01:49:26,080 --> 01:49:28,519
Speaker 1: all the stories and your friends going through stuff and

2306
01:49:28,760 --> 01:49:31,240
Speaker 1: everything else, and then you just realize, like, oh damn,

2307
01:49:31,320 --> 01:49:33,679
Speaker 1: like it is. It is tough to have a child

2308
01:49:33,760 --> 01:49:35,800
Speaker 1: these days. It's a miracle when you do have a

2309
01:49:35,840 --> 01:49:37,040
Speaker 1: when you do have a kid.

2310
01:49:37,160 --> 01:49:39,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got another one.

2311
01:49:39,720 --> 01:49:44,519
Speaker 3: Christian Mark Marquez wrote in Uh so, Christian said, I

2312
01:49:44,560 --> 01:49:47,880
Speaker 3: want to preface this by letting you know that, well,

2313
01:49:47,960 --> 01:49:51,960
Speaker 3: essentially he got the idea from the pod that he'll

2314
01:49:51,960 --> 01:49:57,280
Speaker 3: be sending emails to himself as like a journal. Yeah,

2315
01:49:57,360 --> 01:50:00,720
Speaker 3: it's a little bit. And so he to say thank

2316
01:50:00,720 --> 01:50:03,320
Speaker 3: you guys for the idea. And then this is one

2317
01:50:03,360 --> 01:50:05,840
Speaker 3: of his journal entries that he wanted to share with us.

2318
01:50:09,120 --> 01:50:11,320
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I want to preface this by letting you

2319
01:50:11,360 --> 01:50:13,519
Speaker 3: know that I got this Google account idea from a

2320
01:50:13,560 --> 01:50:17,760
Speaker 3: podcast I started listening to. Ironically a week before that

2321
01:50:17,880 --> 01:50:19,599
Speaker 3: I found out I was going to be a dad.

2322
01:50:20,160 --> 01:50:22,519
Speaker 3: The podcast is called for the dads, and they gave

2323
01:50:22,560 --> 01:50:25,400
Speaker 3: this dad hack to leave you emails and messages about

2324
01:50:25,400 --> 01:50:28,880
Speaker 3: the milestones you're going to experience in life. Shout out

2325
01:50:28,880 --> 01:50:32,400
Speaker 3: to Fat Stafford and Willie Wanshelf in parentheses. You won't

2326
01:50:32,400 --> 01:50:36,240
Speaker 3: get these references yet, but you will someday. Your mom

2327
01:50:36,360 --> 01:50:38,360
Speaker 3: was so very excited to tell me that you were

2328
01:50:38,400 --> 01:50:40,559
Speaker 3: coming into this world. I was coming home in the

2329
01:50:40,600 --> 01:50:44,240
Speaker 3: evening from running extra track practices for some extra money.

2330
01:50:44,600 --> 01:50:46,479
Speaker 3: She was sitting on the couch with a smile that

2331
01:50:46,520 --> 01:50:48,719
Speaker 3: filled the whole room, and I went in to kiss

2332
01:50:48,720 --> 01:50:50,679
Speaker 3: her and give her a hug. After a long day.

2333
01:50:51,160 --> 01:50:55,040
Speaker 3: I noticed a basket filled with a positive pregnancy test,

2334
01:50:55,439 --> 01:50:59,479
Speaker 3: a onesie that said newest recruit for Team Marquez, and

2335
01:50:59,760 --> 01:51:03,400
Speaker 3: an I Love You Dad children's book, as well as

2336
01:51:03,439 --> 01:51:07,320
Speaker 3: a dad hat. I was immediately excited. I knew from

2337
01:51:07,360 --> 01:51:10,280
Speaker 3: that moment on that this life I live is much

2338
01:51:10,320 --> 01:51:13,960
Speaker 3: bigger than myself. It opened my eyes to what truly matters,

2339
01:51:14,000 --> 01:51:17,559
Speaker 3: faith and family. I now realize that everything I do

2340
01:51:17,640 --> 01:51:20,479
Speaker 3: is for the greater good of our new found family.

2341
01:51:20,800 --> 01:51:23,120
Speaker 3: I promise to always do right by your mom and you.

2342
01:51:23,520 --> 01:51:26,080
Speaker 3: I have the privilege of being a father thanks to you.

2343
01:51:26,520 --> 01:51:29,200
Speaker 3: This is an honor I will not take lightly. I

2344
01:51:29,240 --> 01:51:32,880
Speaker 3: will raise you to withstand anything life throws your way

2345
01:51:33,280 --> 01:51:36,920
Speaker 3: with your chest out, head held high, and feet anchored

2346
01:51:36,960 --> 01:51:40,240
Speaker 3: in your disciplines. At that point, I didn't know you

2347
01:51:40,280 --> 01:51:42,200
Speaker 3: were going to be a boy or a girl, but

2348
01:51:42,280 --> 01:51:44,360
Speaker 3: I did note that you were going to be loved.

2349
01:51:44,720 --> 01:51:47,639
Speaker 3: The world is changing rapidly and will continue to do so.

2350
01:51:47,880 --> 01:51:49,559
Speaker 3: By the time you read this, in a world of

2351
01:51:49,600 --> 01:51:52,639
Speaker 3: constant changes, I know you will be sure of one thing.

2352
01:51:52,920 --> 01:51:56,040
Speaker 3: Mom and Dad love you. I can't wait until I

2353
01:51:56,080 --> 01:51:58,680
Speaker 3: see your face and hold your little hands. You were

2354
01:51:58,720 --> 01:52:02,400
Speaker 3: already are the biggest blessing in my life, second only

2355
01:52:02,560 --> 01:52:03,559
Speaker 3: to your beautiful mother.

2356
01:52:03,840 --> 01:52:07,519
Speaker 2: Love Dad. That's a teary eyed one. Yeah dude, that's good. Bro,

2357
01:52:07,680 --> 01:52:09,760
Speaker 2: that's good. Who is that? Who wrote that? That was

2358
01:52:09,760 --> 01:52:12,000
Speaker 2: from Christian Marquees Christian.

2359
01:52:14,160 --> 01:52:15,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, that's a good dad.

2360
01:52:15,600 --> 01:52:16,439
Speaker 2: That uses me up.

2361
01:52:16,479 --> 01:52:18,960
Speaker 3: I will not lie. I I read this before so

2362
01:52:19,120 --> 01:52:21,320
Speaker 3: I would not cry on the podcast.

2363
01:52:22,840 --> 01:52:25,080
Speaker 2: That phenomenal I turned up the first time I read it.

2364
01:52:25,120 --> 01:52:25,760
Speaker 2: That's really good.

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01:52:27,080 --> 01:52:30,000
Speaker 3: Fire shout out Christian, and I know that like it's

2366
01:52:30,280 --> 01:52:32,200
Speaker 3: fun for the new dads because there's a lot of

2367
01:52:32,200 --> 01:52:34,200
Speaker 3: stuff that I'm sure I tell stories and you're like,

2368
01:52:34,920 --> 01:52:37,800
Speaker 3: I've been there. I know what Sherman's feeling. But the

2369
01:52:38,000 --> 01:52:40,880
Speaker 3: thought of like holding the hands for the first time,

2370
01:52:42,320 --> 01:52:44,840
Speaker 3: and oh my god, it's just as good as like

2371
01:52:45,080 --> 01:52:47,400
Speaker 3: you think it's gonna be. Just Scarlet this morning we

2372
01:52:47,479 --> 01:52:50,080
Speaker 3: put her in her little king sized bed and she's

2373
01:52:50,120 --> 01:52:53,400
Speaker 3: just gripping my finger. Yeah, sitting there going you're real

2374
01:52:53,960 --> 01:52:57,960
Speaker 3: like you're here. Yeah, shout out you Christian, shout.

2375
01:52:57,640 --> 01:52:59,879
Speaker 2: Out you Christian. Just imagine one day when.

2376
01:53:01,479 --> 01:53:06,800
Speaker 1: The inevitable happens and they're an adult and they're reading.

2377
01:53:06,560 --> 01:53:10,600
Speaker 2: That, Oh, that's gonna be so sick. Yeah, that is

2378
01:53:10,640 --> 01:53:11,400
Speaker 2: really cool, man.

2379
01:53:12,360 --> 01:53:16,599
Speaker 1: I have one here from Logan Sullivan, Will Shurham chef

2380
01:53:16,640 --> 01:53:20,000
Speaker 1: Derek Logan from Texas Here. I've been at Tier one

2381
01:53:20,040 --> 01:53:22,240
Speaker 1: with Bust within the Boys for years now. Will and

2382
01:53:22,240 --> 01:53:24,880
Speaker 1: I's fatherhood journey has always followed the same timeline, and

2383
01:53:24,920 --> 01:53:26,240
Speaker 1: in April twenty twenty two.

2384
01:53:26,080 --> 01:53:28,639
Speaker 2: We had our first child, a perfect baby girl.

2385
01:53:29,680 --> 01:53:31,679
Speaker 1: Then two years later, my wife and I were expecting

2386
01:53:31,720 --> 01:53:34,840
Speaker 1: our second child in August of twenty twenty four, which

2387
01:53:34,840 --> 01:53:37,879
Speaker 1: I think is around the same time A Scottie sadly

2388
01:53:38,080 --> 01:53:41,880
Speaker 1: tragedy struck and our second beautiful daughter was still born.

2389
01:53:42,760 --> 01:53:52,360
Speaker 1: Oh fuck, it is a pain like I never thought

2390
01:53:52,439 --> 01:53:56,799
Speaker 1: was imaginable, leaving a gaping hole in our hearts that will.

2391
01:53:59,240 --> 01:53:59,760
Speaker 2: Buckle up.

2392
01:53:59,760 --> 01:54:04,040
Speaker 1: Fell listen, leap it a gaping hole in our hearts

2393
01:54:04,040 --> 01:54:06,200
Speaker 1: that will never be filled. And now, as I was

2394
01:54:06,240 --> 01:54:08,920
Speaker 1: listening to an episode a while back, Will brought up

2395
01:54:17,280 --> 01:54:23,080
Speaker 1: Will brought up ruse imaginary friend Nelly, which is the

2396
01:54:23,200 --> 01:54:26,400
Speaker 1: name of our second daughter who is now an angel.

2397
01:54:31,479 --> 01:54:34,440
Speaker 2: Man, and it broke me to the core.

2398
01:54:35,040 --> 01:54:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm a man of faith, and I think that God

2399
01:54:37,240 --> 01:54:40,160
Speaker 1: brings people into your life for a reason if they

2400
01:54:40,160 --> 01:54:42,480
Speaker 1: are at a distance and you watch them through a

2401
01:54:42,480 --> 01:54:54,760
Speaker 1: screen or listen to them on a podcast. Man, but

2402
01:54:54,840 --> 01:54:57,160
Speaker 1: we'll just know your daughter has our angel watching over.

2403
01:55:00,320 --> 01:55:03,000
Speaker 1: It's been along hard road, but my wife and I

2404
01:55:03,040 --> 01:55:05,920
Speaker 1: were just blessed with our third child in July this year.

2405
01:55:06,400 --> 01:55:08,480
Speaker 1: So I'm now dead of two girls and one boy.

2406
01:55:09,560 --> 01:55:11,680
Speaker 1: One just got to having a little sooner than we did.

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01:55:14,800 --> 01:55:15,120
Speaker 2: Boys.

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01:55:15,120 --> 01:55:17,840
Speaker 1: Don't ever let them moment slip by. In love with

2409
01:55:17,920 --> 01:55:20,200
Speaker 1: everything you have. I thank you so much for what

2410
01:55:20,280 --> 01:55:22,600
Speaker 1: you were doing with for the dads, and don't worry.

2411
01:55:22,440 --> 01:55:28,120
Speaker 2: I cry with you guys every week. Hashtag PD six

2412
01:55:31,240 --> 01:55:36,400
Speaker 2: Fuck man Logan. Thank you. That's a really sweet note

2413
01:55:36,440 --> 01:55:36,960
Speaker 2: from Logan.

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01:55:37,120 --> 01:55:46,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's uh, it's fascinating how the world works and

2415
01:55:46,200 --> 01:55:47,240
Speaker 1: just how the universe.

2416
01:55:47,280 --> 01:55:49,880
Speaker 2: It's like, you know, when he talks about being on

2417
01:55:49,920 --> 01:55:50,840
Speaker 2: a similar journey and.

2418
01:55:50,800 --> 01:55:52,680
Speaker 1: Having kids, who are you know, around the same age,

2419
01:55:52,680 --> 01:55:58,320
Speaker 1: And the second one came around when Scotty did, and

2420
01:55:56,640 --> 01:56:06,440
Speaker 1: I a pain like I never thought was imaginable. Yeah,

2421
01:56:06,840 --> 01:56:13,040
Speaker 1: I can't even you know, obviously we've experienced pain like

2422
01:56:13,960 --> 01:56:16,640
Speaker 1: visually on this pot before when I talk about my mom,

2423
01:56:17,240 --> 01:56:20,280
Speaker 1: and I know what that's like. And so it's like

2424
01:56:20,320 --> 01:56:22,360
Speaker 1: I sit here and empathize and try to put myselves

2425
01:56:22,360 --> 01:56:26,120
Speaker 1: in the shoes of a family that goes through something

2426
01:56:26,160 --> 01:56:28,440
Speaker 1: like that, Like I'm just imagining that with my wife, and.

2427
01:56:31,000 --> 01:56:32,000
Speaker 2: To think like you came.

2428
01:56:31,880 --> 01:56:38,120
Speaker 1: Across this podcast and just a story of the imaginary

2429
01:56:38,160 --> 01:56:44,000
Speaker 1: friend of Nelly and no matter what, no matter, it

2430
01:56:44,000 --> 01:56:46,920
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. But think in the universe is telling you

2431
01:56:47,000 --> 01:56:53,440
Speaker 1: something that it's that it brings that thought to you. Yeah,

2432
01:56:53,760 --> 01:56:58,080
Speaker 1: it is incredible, And I don't know, man, Logan, I

2433
01:56:58,160 --> 01:56:59,880
Speaker 1: love you, brother, and thank you for sending that email

2434
01:56:59,880 --> 01:57:04,440
Speaker 1: in and that was that was I was like reading

2435
01:57:04,440 --> 01:57:05,960
Speaker 1: ahead when I was getting to the moments where I

2436
01:57:06,000 --> 01:57:11,080
Speaker 1: was getting emotional, I'm like, god, I rarely read.

2437
01:57:10,880 --> 01:57:15,720
Speaker 3: The the stuff before the episodes, but Derek showed me

2438
01:57:16,400 --> 01:57:19,760
Speaker 3: that email and then that one before the episode, and

2439
01:57:19,840 --> 01:57:23,600
Speaker 3: so as you're reading it, my heart was just gripping

2440
01:57:23,680 --> 01:57:26,120
Speaker 3: because I was like, dude, that note from Logan was

2441
01:57:26,160 --> 01:57:30,320
Speaker 3: like truly just a such a sweet, sweet note, Dude,

2442
01:57:31,280 --> 01:57:31,879
Speaker 3: so much.

2443
01:57:32,200 --> 01:57:38,400
Speaker 2: Like love to them and their family because moments like

2444
01:57:38,400 --> 01:57:39,320
Speaker 2: that are special.

2445
01:57:39,560 --> 01:57:43,720
Speaker 3: And Jill had a friend pass away that she was

2446
01:57:43,840 --> 01:57:48,480
Speaker 3: very close with, and I forget the story with ladybugs,

2447
01:57:48,480 --> 01:57:51,160
Speaker 3: but there was some kind of moment with her and

2448
01:57:51,200 --> 01:57:55,560
Speaker 3: her friends with a ladybug and forever ladybugs are. Now

2449
01:57:55,680 --> 01:57:58,600
Speaker 3: that's in Jay, you know. And I'll even say it

2450
01:57:58,640 --> 01:58:01,360
Speaker 3: to Jill when like a late ladybug literally landed on

2451
01:58:01,400 --> 01:58:05,480
Speaker 3: our windshield earlier this week and I made that.

2452
01:58:07,000 --> 01:58:11,400
Speaker 2: I made that comment. And you know, it's like when

2453
01:58:11,400 --> 01:58:15,160
Speaker 2: you experience like pain and loss, like.

2454
01:58:18,080 --> 01:58:21,640
Speaker 1: You just feel like you look around for anything, yeah,

2455
01:58:21,680 --> 01:58:26,400
Speaker 1: that can help give you some closure, absolutely anything. Your

2456
01:58:26,400 --> 01:58:29,080
Speaker 1: faith gets challenged, your faith maybe gets better, maybe your

2457
01:58:29,120 --> 01:58:30,000
Speaker 1: faith gets worse.

2458
01:58:30,120 --> 01:58:32,120
Speaker 2: No matter what, you feel lost.

2459
01:58:32,320 --> 01:58:36,000
Speaker 1: And you're just looking for something and to think that

2460
01:58:37,360 --> 01:58:41,520
Speaker 1: just an episode of Imaginary Friend Nelly is something that

2461
01:58:42,600 --> 01:58:48,000
Speaker 1: we can latch onto for pretty much ever, Right, Yeah,

2462
01:58:48,360 --> 01:58:51,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's thank you for sharing, Logan. I'm

2463
01:58:51,560 --> 01:58:53,720
Speaker 1: sure it was probably hard just typing that stuff up.

2464
01:58:53,760 --> 01:59:00,520
Speaker 3: Man, We're very lucky the comments that we receive the show,

2465
01:59:00,720 --> 01:59:03,720
Speaker 3: or the dms that we receive, whatever the case may be.

2466
01:59:05,600 --> 01:59:08,080
Speaker 3: Just want to again, I know I've said this a

2467
01:59:08,080 --> 01:59:11,680
Speaker 3: thousand times, thank you for sharing everyone that has ever

2468
01:59:11,720 --> 01:59:15,000
Speaker 3: shared anything like that that hasn't been on the show.

2469
01:59:15,800 --> 01:59:18,360
Speaker 3: It just means the world that people are opening up

2470
01:59:18,440 --> 01:59:24,120
Speaker 3: like that and are sharing their deepest, you know, closest

2471
01:59:24,160 --> 01:59:25,680
Speaker 3: to the vest like emotions.

2472
01:59:25,720 --> 01:59:29,000
Speaker 2: It's it's probably therapeutic. It's probably therapeutic.

2473
01:59:29,160 --> 01:59:32,200
Speaker 3: I know, I myself, I don't feel worthy of it,

2474
01:59:33,200 --> 01:59:39,120
Speaker 3: but like I feel so blessed to read notes like that,

2475
01:59:39,320 --> 01:59:45,360
Speaker 3: and it's just it's crazy. Yeah, it's crazy cool. Sorry, Yeah,

2476
01:59:45,800 --> 01:59:48,280
Speaker 3: but love you guys. And also shout out Texas, Texas

2477
01:59:48,320 --> 01:59:50,800
Speaker 3: kind of representing this week on the Collins and the

2478
01:59:50,880 --> 01:59:51,600
Speaker 3: Ride ends.

2479
01:59:52,320 --> 01:59:57,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, quote topic lesson Yes, what mine was this

2480
01:59:57,760 --> 02:00:02,720
Speaker 1: week was essentially okay question for the audience, not necessarily

2481
02:00:02,800 --> 02:00:05,760
Speaker 1: a lesson or anything of that nature.

2482
02:00:06,280 --> 02:00:09,120
Speaker 2: Essentially a question something that I think about a lot.

2483
02:00:10,080 --> 02:00:14,120
Speaker 2: But what is a value as a parent?

2484
02:00:14,680 --> 02:00:16,320
Speaker 1: And if this is a clip right now, just know

2485
02:00:16,480 --> 02:00:18,839
Speaker 1: my eyes are red because we cried on this episode.

2486
02:00:19,600 --> 02:00:24,600
Speaker 1: What is a value that you What is a value

2487
02:00:24,680 --> 02:00:27,800
Speaker 1: that you would love your child to carry with them

2488
02:00:28,320 --> 02:00:29,200
Speaker 1: throughout their life?

2489
02:00:30,840 --> 02:00:35,000
Speaker 2: That would be my question for everybody.

2490
02:00:35,280 --> 02:00:39,960
Speaker 1: More more more of a I'll re see the question,

2491
02:00:40,040 --> 02:00:42,080
Speaker 1: what is a value that you would love your child

2492
02:00:42,160 --> 02:00:45,640
Speaker 1: to carry with them throughout their life? Uh? Because essentially

2493
02:00:45,680 --> 02:00:47,760
Speaker 1: it's like we have we we go through like core

2494
02:00:47,840 --> 02:00:50,880
Speaker 1: values with any team, any organization, any business. I know,

2495
02:00:50,960 --> 02:00:52,680
Speaker 1: my wife and I we've sat down and done core

2496
02:00:52,760 --> 02:00:54,960
Speaker 1: values with the family that I know we need to.

2497
02:00:56,160 --> 02:00:58,720
Speaker 2: We we've made them. We made the core values.

2498
02:00:59,080 --> 02:01:02,520
Speaker 1: Charle made them into the awesome like photos that we

2499
02:01:02,560 --> 02:01:04,200
Speaker 1: can hang on the wall and stuff like that. But

2500
02:01:04,200 --> 02:01:06,120
Speaker 1: it's nothing that we sit there and revisit and we

2501
02:01:06,200 --> 02:01:09,000
Speaker 1: both know that you know, she'll she'll throw it on me.

2502
02:01:09,200 --> 02:01:11,280
Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, there are things

2503
02:01:11,280 --> 02:01:13,760
Speaker 1: that you need to revisit because values are basically the

2504
02:01:13,800 --> 02:01:15,680
Speaker 1: foundation for how you show up to the world.

2505
02:01:16,000 --> 02:01:17,480
Speaker 2: And so I think about that all the time with

2506
02:01:17,520 --> 02:01:19,040
Speaker 2: like rue and like being a dad, And what.

2507
02:01:19,080 --> 02:01:20,880
Speaker 1: Values do I want to instill in my kids and

2508
02:01:20,920 --> 02:01:22,400
Speaker 1: how can I harness them in such a way to

2509
02:01:22,400 --> 02:01:25,280
Speaker 1: where it's like repeatable, Not like I'm always looking for

2510
02:01:25,600 --> 02:01:27,600
Speaker 1: new values. I'm always going to be and be curious

2511
02:01:27,640 --> 02:01:29,360
Speaker 1: of everything else. But what are a couple of values

2512
02:01:29,360 --> 02:01:33,120
Speaker 1: that I truly hope my kids represent throughout their life?

2513
02:01:33,160 --> 02:01:34,800
Speaker 1: So I wanted to share that as a question so

2514
02:01:34,840 --> 02:01:36,360
Speaker 1: that way we can all think on it. You guys

2515
02:01:36,400 --> 02:01:39,240
Speaker 1: can chime in the comments, write up something if you like.

2516
02:01:39,520 --> 02:01:41,520
Speaker 1: We'll read them on the episode. I would like to

2517
02:01:41,560 --> 02:01:45,320
Speaker 1: marinate on a couple and then we can go through them.

2518
02:01:45,360 --> 02:01:46,360
Speaker 1: We can go through them next week.

2519
02:01:47,160 --> 02:01:47,800
Speaker 2: Absolutely.

2520
02:01:48,280 --> 02:01:51,960
Speaker 3: I just wrote it down on a card because I

2521
02:01:51,960 --> 02:01:53,360
Speaker 3: I cannot wait for that.

2522
02:01:53,480 --> 02:01:54,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, just come with one or two.

2523
02:01:54,680 --> 02:01:56,960
Speaker 1: Obviously, there's there's gonna be a bunch that we hope

2524
02:01:56,960 --> 02:01:57,800
Speaker 1: our kids represent.

2525
02:01:57,960 --> 02:02:00,520
Speaker 3: Dude, that's gonna be sick because there's gonna be a

2526
02:02:00,560 --> 02:02:02,960
Speaker 3: lot of submissions on that. Like, that's gonna be a

2527
02:02:02,960 --> 02:02:08,520
Speaker 3: lot of fun to go through. I'm excited. I also

2528
02:02:08,680 --> 02:02:12,720
Speaker 3: have a lesson of the week that's quick. I can

2529
02:02:12,800 --> 02:02:17,480
Speaker 3: do it quick, bro. I wrote it in narrative form.

2530
02:02:17,760 --> 02:02:21,360
Speaker 3: I'll go ahead and just punch it out. This week's

2531
02:02:21,680 --> 02:02:25,200
Speaker 3: lesson of the Week from Sherman is block out the noise.

2532
02:02:26,640 --> 02:02:29,720
Speaker 3: I have two dogs at home. Wriggly ar CHIWEENI a

2533
02:02:30,080 --> 02:02:33,120
Speaker 3: wah wah wiener dog, and he is all but two

2534
02:02:33,160 --> 02:02:36,520
Speaker 3: inches off the ground. Our second is a little schnauzerdoodle

2535
02:02:36,600 --> 02:02:40,440
Speaker 3: named Goose. Wriggly needs a ramp in our house to

2536
02:02:41,080 --> 02:02:43,480
Speaker 3: go up and down our stairs to our master bedroom

2537
02:02:43,880 --> 02:02:46,080
Speaker 3: and then. Goose, on the other hand, has the speed

2538
02:02:46,080 --> 02:02:50,120
Speaker 3: of an Italian greyhound and the buddy the bunnies of

2539
02:02:50,400 --> 02:02:54,520
Speaker 3: Mac McClung. Shout out Mac McClung. He's one of the

2540
02:02:54,560 --> 02:02:57,000
Speaker 3: most athletic dogs I've ever seen, and I grew up

2541
02:02:57,080 --> 02:02:59,880
Speaker 3: around a lot of bird dogs, so I've seen some

2542
02:03:00,160 --> 02:03:03,240
Speaker 3: athletic dogs in my day. On walks when I let

2543
02:03:03,280 --> 02:03:05,640
Speaker 3: the dogs off their leash and a big grassy field,

2544
02:03:06,120 --> 02:03:09,760
Speaker 3: Wriggly loves to go into bully alpha mode on Goose.

2545
02:03:10,240 --> 02:03:12,360
Speaker 3: He goes up and barks right in his face, making

2546
02:03:12,400 --> 02:03:16,680
Speaker 3: Goose wither up and fold. To Wriggly's assertive dominance, Goose

2547
02:03:16,720 --> 02:03:18,800
Speaker 3: will try to run and have fun in the field

2548
02:03:18,840 --> 02:03:21,280
Speaker 3: and show off his speed and his quick turns, but

2549
02:03:21,480 --> 02:03:25,560
Speaker 3: slow little Wriggly will cut off goose Goose's tight turns

2550
02:03:25,640 --> 02:03:30,360
Speaker 3: and angrily barking Goose's face. Jealous of Goose's speed, Goose

2551
02:03:30,400 --> 02:03:34,160
Speaker 3: will immediately slow down again and hide and obey wriggly sparks.

2552
02:03:34,680 --> 02:03:37,240
Speaker 3: But after two or three times of this happening, Goose

2553
02:03:37,280 --> 02:03:40,480
Speaker 3: will suddenly remember that Wriggly is half his size and

2554
02:03:40,560 --> 02:03:43,800
Speaker 3: needs a ramp to go up three measly steps of stairs,

2555
02:03:44,360 --> 02:03:47,200
Speaker 3: and has triceratops elbows that don't allow him to go

2556
02:03:47,240 --> 02:03:50,000
Speaker 3: above the speed of five miles per hour. When that

2557
02:03:50,080 --> 02:03:53,400
Speaker 3: clicks in Goose's brain, he suddenly catches the second gear

2558
02:03:53,480 --> 02:03:56,320
Speaker 3: to his already cheetah like speeds, and he will take

2559
02:03:56,360 --> 02:03:59,680
Speaker 3: off like a bullet, running full speed for hundreds of yards,

2560
02:04:00,200 --> 02:04:03,080
Speaker 3: rolling in the grass, cutting tight turns, and coming up

2561
02:04:03,120 --> 02:04:06,600
Speaker 3: to his mom and dad, jumping almost to our shoulders

2562
02:04:06,680 --> 02:04:09,280
Speaker 3: just to say hello with a big smile. All the

2563
02:04:09,280 --> 02:04:12,280
Speaker 3: while Wrigley is left in the dust, barking and barking

2564
02:04:12,360 --> 02:04:16,240
Speaker 3: and barking from further and further and further away, his

2565
02:04:16,400 --> 02:04:19,160
Speaker 3: bark's growing more and more quiet. As the wind is

2566
02:04:19,280 --> 02:04:22,080
Speaker 3: ripping through Goose's ears, the sun is shining on his

2567
02:04:22,160 --> 02:04:24,879
Speaker 3: face and his mom and dad are shouting in the distance,

2568
02:04:24,960 --> 02:04:29,480
Speaker 3: good boy, goosey. So just a reminder of I know

2569
02:04:29,520 --> 02:04:33,680
Speaker 3: we brought up the comment the other day, which I

2570
02:04:33,960 --> 02:04:37,200
Speaker 3: didn't take offense to it, but I did think to myself,

2571
02:04:37,240 --> 02:04:39,680
Speaker 3: like that is a good reminder of like all the

2572
02:04:39,720 --> 02:04:42,560
Speaker 3: positive stuff on this show that we talked through and

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Speaker 3: how much fun we have. A comment really doesn't like

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Speaker 3: that doesn't affect me because I'm so in this moment

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Speaker 3: and this isn't me defending myself. This is more of

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Speaker 3: like I kind of want other people to feel this way,

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Speaker 3: Like I just feel so in this moment and this

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Speaker 3: off unity that was presented to me, and like what

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Speaker 3: incredible thing the show is that Like that comment doesn't

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Speaker 3: really like stick, And I feel like there's so much

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Speaker 3: power in like not letting the noise get to you

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Speaker 3: and like being able to press on and press forward

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Speaker 3: you and continue to be you.

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Speaker 1: So much power in having your own power, yeah power,

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Speaker 1: and like taking your power yes, or so you are

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02:05:28,960 --> 02:05:31,280
Speaker 1: caught up and it's just you know, hey, take back,

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Speaker 1: take back the power you have to block out, block

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Speaker 1: out the noise, yes.

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Speaker 3: Or allowing like just being in the mindset of like

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Speaker 3: even the like Fat Stafford comments, like I genuinely enjoy

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Speaker 3: those and like what a funny like fun thing that

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Speaker 3: has become. And I'm literally going to order a Rams

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Speaker 3: jersey probably later today and dress up as Fat Stafford

2594
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Speaker 3: at this Zoot thing.

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Speaker 1: Like you're right, though, there's such a there's such a

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Speaker 1: power in feeling comfortable in moments where you can easily

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Speaker 1: feel embarrassed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and just lean into what you excel at too,

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Speaker 3: Like there's no better thing than why I know, I

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Speaker 3: use the metaphor of my dogs, but like watching Goose

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Speaker 3: rip like that is truly a sight to see.

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Speaker 2: It's like, what do you do?

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Speaker 3: Like this little JOWEENI yap and he can't even touch you,

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Speaker 3: Goose when you get to your full speed, he's nothing.

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Speaker 2: Go rib dog like you got it.

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Speaker 3: So I just wanted the viewers to hear that and

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Speaker 3: like whatever noise is got you feeling like this, dude,

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Speaker 3: just shut it out and move forward and be you

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Speaker 3: and excel and have your moment in a big grassy,

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Speaker 3: open field with embrace the fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, embrace the fun for sure. Bro, Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how dad centric that is, but it

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Speaker 2: just kind of hit me, how could it be dad centric?

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Speaker 2: You are you writing that?

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Speaker 1: It shows how much you were in this certain moment

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Speaker 1: and how much it's like everything else didn't matter, but

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Speaker 1: you like watching your dogs and kind of writing that

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Speaker 1: stuff out. Or I feel like for dads or for parents,

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Speaker 1: there's so many stressors and things that go.

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Speaker 2: On outside of the house, and when you are.

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Speaker 1: At home, it's like being so present and in tune

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Speaker 1: that you have some descriptive kind of write up like

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Speaker 1: you just had, because you know, it kind of shows

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Speaker 1: that you are you are in that moment and whatever

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Speaker 1: the noise is was is not there. It doesn't matter. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like you being present in that moment is what it's about.

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Speaker 3: Dude, that's really good to you because I was not

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Speaker 3: coming from that either. Of like being able to shut

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Speaker 3: off other little parts of your life that might be

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Speaker 3: affecting you, but they're not there in that moment. That's

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Speaker 3: a dude, that's really good too, because I have struggled

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Speaker 3: with anxiety plenty of times. I mean that was a

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Speaker 3: crippling thing, like twenty seventeen, twenty eighteen, and yeah, just

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Speaker 3: being able to like tell yourself, like, hey that is

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Speaker 3: that's not what is pertinent right now, it's not important.

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Speaker 3: And ninety percent of the time that anxiety or thought

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Speaker 3: that you're having isn't even true.

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Speaker 2: It's like an imagination. It's fake. You're making it up.

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Speaker 3: It's an assumption, and you're stealing on it and reumigating

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Speaker 3: on it, and like.

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Speaker 2: Just let it go.

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Speaker 3: It's okay, Like you don't. That's a good job on that, dude.

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Speaker 3: Look around and embrace the beautiful. Whether we were having

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Speaker 3: a Nashville, Tennessee.

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Speaker 1: Right, god, I hope everybody else experience is experiencing some

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Speaker 1: good foliage.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I know Nashville, Tennessee is at the moment. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: Hey, take out your trash. We love you, We appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: Continue to engage and make sure you are subscribed. Just

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Speaker 1: double check for your boys. Consider subscribing if you are

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Speaker 1: not PT six homework for revement.

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Speaker 3: Don't forget your homework assignment value you want.

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Speaker 2: Yes value, come with some values in the comments. Yes,

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Speaker 2: love you guys. Take out the trash.