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Speaker 1: It is time. Yeah to ask the clo our chief

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Speaker 1: love Officer, Steve Harvey. All right, clo, here we go.

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Speaker 1: Regina in Phoenix rites, I have hot flashes and mood swings,

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Speaker 1: and my husband thinks it's cool to make jokes about

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Speaker 1: me around his male friends. I'm twelve years older than

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Speaker 1: my husband, and the jokes often crossed the line. Why

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Speaker 1: does he think it's so funny to talk about me?

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Speaker 2: Well, you could make him stops some jokes about him.

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Speaker 1: To in front of her girlfriends or his friends.

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Speaker 3: In front of his friends, he's not gonna be like

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Speaker 3: what he Well might be hot, but it ain't causing

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Speaker 3: nothing you did.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're going in for the kill. Clap bag.

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Speaker 3: I like it. I like it. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: What you don't do is back up off me.

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Speaker 1: Uh. His boys would be.

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Speaker 3: Follow over right with let Oh there'd be hollid. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I like it.

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Speaker 1: Cut them back, all right, Regina. Moving on to Alice

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Speaker 1: in Wilmington, Alice writes, I'm almost sixty years old and

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Speaker 1: I'm still sexually active, but that's all these old men

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Speaker 1: think about. I would love to go on a few

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Speaker 1: dates before we jump in bed. I would also love

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Speaker 1: to get married again. Where do I go to meet

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Speaker 1: my future husband? Steve? That's ucl I can't tell you

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Speaker 1: that a direct question.

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Speaker 2: You're almost sixty, I'm still sexually active.

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Speaker 3: That ain't no news.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of people anybody, anybody gave up at

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Speaker 2: fifty eight and then all they and all these old

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Speaker 2: men won't is that they almost out of time.

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Speaker 1: So get it in, they push.

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Speaker 2: I don't know where you go meet date people, but

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Speaker 2: I do know this, Uh huh you still have to

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Speaker 2: have standards and uh and uh you know requirements. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you still have to have that regardless, you just haven't

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Speaker 2: met the right person. What circle of people are you?

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Speaker 2: What is your pool that you're selecting from? What does

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Speaker 2: that look like? Are you in the same place looking

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Speaker 2: for them? You know? And then maybe maybe hunting isn't

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Speaker 2: your thing? You know, maybe just maybe that's not it.

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Speaker 3: So listen.

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Speaker 2: A recommendation of well, I can't find where do I

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Speaker 2: find you?

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Speaker 1: Don't find you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've very rarely seen a woman go outsid man I.

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Speaker 1: Meet, Yeah, she just wants to go somewhere.

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Speaker 2: I think what you need is to be set up

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Speaker 2: by one of your friends who has an older gentleman

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Speaker 2: who thinks you will be you would be best on

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Speaker 2: the set up date ocause you're not good at picking

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Speaker 2: block is ticking.

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Speaker 1: Well, She says, she just wants to go on a

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Speaker 1: few dates before she jumps in bed with these guys.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's on you. You know that's on you. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it is.

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Speaker 2: I don't I don't know why women don't think you

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Speaker 2: don't have control of that?

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Speaker 1: Right exactly, that's what I want to do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, she's almost sixty A weekly Golden Corral.

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Speaker 3: We got to get it in. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: She just wants to go at least to Golden Corral

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Speaker 1: first before they do all of that. Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Charlotte in Valdosta, Charlotte writes, I was

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Speaker 1: sitting in my car putting on make up for a

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Speaker 1: date when I saw my preacher creeping with a young woman.

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Speaker 1: I've been trying to get my granddaughter into the church daycare,

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Speaker 1: but it's full Is it wrong to use this as

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Speaker 1: leverage to secure her spotmail?

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Speaker 2: Come on, clo, so let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 2: You think after spotting your past to creep.

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Speaker 1: It with a young woman.

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Speaker 2: And your granddaughter can't get in there churches daycare, church

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Speaker 2: church daycare? You think this would be a good way

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Speaker 2: to use as blackmail? I think you have a deeper issue.

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Speaker 1: What's her issue?

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Speaker 2: Is this the type of shepherd you want to follow?

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Speaker 2: So now, how good is that daycare? How good as

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Speaker 2: a church under that leadership? If you'dne already busted him?

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Speaker 2: What you don't think is more behind the scenes than that.

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Speaker 2: That's the part you busted him off. Ain't not telling

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Speaker 2: what else is going on? So if I were you,

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't even be a consideration of mine. Don't worry

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Speaker 2: about your granddaughter getting into daycare? Why are you at

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Speaker 2: the church?

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Speaker 3: Okay? All right?

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Speaker 1: At the top you're saying, yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm just so understanding why.

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Speaker 2: You you just skipped over all the other stuff just

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Speaker 2: to get your baby in the daycare. That don't make

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Speaker 2: no sense. He out here just running these tricks. Let

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Speaker 2: me get this baby in the daycare. You know, your

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Speaker 2: trick running past her?

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Speaker 1: Who is she gonna tell? Though? Yeah, who's she gonna

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Speaker 1: tell him?

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Speaker 2: And then he's gonna yeah, she gonna go up to

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Speaker 2: him and go, hay, past I saw you creeping. And

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep this to myself, but you need to

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Speaker 2: put my grandbaby in this daycare?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know it's full uh playing wow, And.

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Speaker 2: Then you know you need to let me get the

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Speaker 2: rest of his makeup on and tell me what you

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Speaker 2: think about me.

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Speaker 3: How whoa. There's a whole lot of levels to this.

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Speaker 3: You went there with it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know, once again, we live in this

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Speaker 2: world where all these crazy things has happened that people

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Speaker 2: just normalize. I saw my pastor creeping try to get

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Speaker 2: my grand baby in the daycare. You think I could

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Speaker 2: use that to bribe him to get him a baby

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Speaker 2: in take care? What way you skipped all of that?

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Speaker 3: She did? She did?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but she said that's wrong to use this as leverage.

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Speaker 3: Is it wrong? What do you mean? Is it wrong?

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Speaker 2: You even you considering it, but you're not looking at

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Speaker 2: the rest of it.

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Speaker 3: That's your pastor you saw creeping.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know that's wrong.

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Speaker 3: So all right, No, lady, I don't care.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, last one, last one, Steve. This is from Jones

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Speaker 1: and Syracuse. Jones writes, my wife's twenty four year old

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Speaker 1: son is about to catch these hands. He takes my

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Speaker 1: tools without asking, and he's always borrowing my wife's car.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday I was working in the garage and I needed

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Speaker 1: my fan. It's at his house. How do I get

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Speaker 1: this to stop?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's real simple.

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Speaker 2: You got to pull him to the side and say, hey, listen, man,

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Speaker 2: you can't touch my stuff without asking me.

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Speaker 3: Period.

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Speaker 2: These ain't your mama's tools, none of this hip. You

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Speaker 2: got to anything in this house. You got to come

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Speaker 2: to me as a man and ask me for it.

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Speaker 2: Don't just walk out of here with nothing else or else.

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Speaker 2: All right, that's a want, that's your warning.

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Speaker 1: That's the thank you, Celo. You're listening. Steve Hardy Morning

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