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Speaker 1: lives and understanding and realizing how you are your greatest
Speaker 1: ass act. You know what I was thinking. I was wondering,
Speaker 1: at what point do people give up on their dreams?
Speaker 1: Like when does it happen? I just look around a
Speaker 1: lot of people that I grew up with and who
Speaker 1: we talked about having dreams and aspirations, and then looking
Speaker 1: at who's still in pursuit and those who have transition
Speaker 1: shouldn't or kind of just relinquished it. And I guess
Speaker 1: this conversation brings upon because I was talking to a
Speaker 1: friend from college. I want to say, former Judy, we're
Speaker 1: we don't talk right now, We're not cool. But you know,
Speaker 1: when you know somebody long enough, you love them. And
Speaker 1: they said you gotta be vulnerable. So I was telling
Speaker 1: l J, my nephew. I was telling l J about
Speaker 1: this today actually before I got into the studio, and
Speaker 1: I was telling how disturbed I wasn't how it really
Speaker 1: hurt my feelings because we met in college and I
Speaker 1: met him with his love of production. I see, I'm
Speaker 1: a nineties kind of girl. If you know me, if
Speaker 1: you met me in person and you know my persona,
Speaker 1: you know I love me some nineties music. That's where
Speaker 1: I resighed. And one of the producers behind of several
Speaker 1: nineties tracks that I loved in the nineties and thousands
Speaker 1: is Rowdy Jerkins, a k A. Dark Child who's also
Speaker 1: his favorite music producer. And in college, this man was
Speaker 1: skip class in his room, not be as he was
Speaker 1: out partying, because he was out there producing on his
Speaker 1: MPC machine track for I mean going into zones like
Speaker 1: we're going on trips. So summer vacation. No, he's in
Speaker 1: New York at Clive Davids Music School. So anyway, I
Speaker 1: hate him up. Even though we're not talking, I still
Speaker 1: got love for you because I saw on Instagram Why
Speaker 1: I Need Jerkins is partnering up with this company called
Speaker 1: Protege or Protege, and I guess they're all from the opportunity.
Speaker 1: You submit a project and then you have two studio
Speaker 1: sessions with him. So immediately I saw this hit and
Speaker 1: send it to him. He's like, oh my gosh, he's
Speaker 1: like the legend. In fact, I'm about to read you
Speaker 1: exactly because I'm still in shock. Let me scroll down. Okay,
Speaker 1: he says, the legend incredible talent, and he said, um,
Speaker 1: but I'm too old now, I'll leave that to the
Speaker 1: little babies. What I guess I was a shock because
Speaker 1: I'm like, here's an opportunity of somebody that you've always
Speaker 1: dreamt about, that you've always desired, and your excuses that
Speaker 1: you say that you're too old? How do we how
Speaker 1: do we forget how to dream? Like? Have you? Have
Speaker 1: you gotten to that point? And I told l J.
Speaker 1: I said, please, don't ever be like that, don't ever
Speaker 1: give up on yourself. I had to reply. I said, remember,
Speaker 1: it's about your experience, and it never hurts to try.
Speaker 1: I think you're worth taking a chance. You can't say
Speaker 1: that you're old, too older, that's too late, because you're
Speaker 1: not dead. It ain't no such thing as being too dead,
Speaker 1: because once you're dad get dead and gone. So I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, how about we just start to live while
Speaker 1: we're still alive. I'm not saying functioning. I'm saying living,
Speaker 1: and that is being and that is doing. Huh what
Speaker 1: do you say to that? How does that make you feel?
Speaker 1: Does that make you feel uncomfortable? Are you thinking about
Speaker 1: something that you try to put out to the wayside
Speaker 1: because you felt maybe you weren't ready and you weren't prepared.
Speaker 1: You don't have enough knowledge, You're not in the right place,
Speaker 1: you don't have the death experience. I don't know what
Speaker 1: it is. I just know that you better go after
Speaker 1: it because you can't escape it. It's gonna come back
Speaker 1: on you. Huh. So I figured, why don't you chase
Speaker 1: it before he chases you? Get right with me and
Speaker 1: get excited about Hello, how you doing? What's up doing?
Speaker 1: Day is here? You know what time? It is um,
Speaker 1: we are diving into the Vitamin D advice letter back. Yes,
Speaker 1: you know that time we all write me in with
Speaker 1: some issues about relationships, about love, about life, about your career,
Speaker 1: about whatever you're feeling, and you're like doing I want
Speaker 1: some advice, and I'm like, y'all, I'm here for it,
Speaker 1: but understand that I'm gonna keep a g with you.
Speaker 1: So I come really when I read these letters, and
Speaker 1: I want you to know that when you come into
Speaker 1: Vitamin D, we all about shedding the light, and we
Speaker 1: shed the light is on the good in the bed.
Speaker 1: Because what do I say? If you want to be
Speaker 1: better and you want to do better, it got to
Speaker 1: be able to see better. So I keep sit real
Speaker 1: with you. Okay, so let's dive in. Here we go. Subject.
Speaker 1: Am I a fool for staying after he lied? You
Speaker 1: got your popcorn, you got your dright, Okay, here we go. Hi, Dawn,
Speaker 1: I am a twenty seven year old woman living in
Speaker 1: the d m V area and I need some relationship advice.
Speaker 1: I recently started dating this man. He has a stable job,
Speaker 1: he knows how to take care of himself, and the
Speaker 1: sex is amazing. He's got the bare minimum requirements I
Speaker 1: look for in the man, but wait, I gotta be
Speaker 1: a bare minimum. Anyway, when we met, he told me
Speaker 1: he had two kids from two different women. One of
Speaker 1: the kids is seventeen and the other is about ten.
Speaker 1: I normally don't date men with kids because of possible
Speaker 1: baby mama drama. But from what I have heard, his
Speaker 1: relationship with the women he has kids with isn't crazy.
Speaker 1: All in all, I know what I'm getting into, or
Speaker 1: so I thought. My best friend is an amazing investigator.
Speaker 1: She could eat easily be an FBI agent. So I'm
Speaker 1: relaxing at home this past week and my best friend
Speaker 1: texts me and says that she needs to show me something.
Speaker 1: She sends me a Facebook link and when I open it,
Speaker 1: it brings me to the profile of this random woman.
Speaker 1: I check out our page and I come across the post.
Speaker 1: This post has my man in it. Not only does
Speaker 1: it have my man in it, but there is a
Speaker 1: newborn in the photo with him and this woman. The
Speaker 1: baby is his because the capture of the photo says
Speaker 1: we're parents now. I did not know about this baby, Dawn.
Speaker 1: This post is from about six months ago. I have
Speaker 1: been dating this man for three months. Now. I confronted
Speaker 1: him about it, and he explained he was scared that
Speaker 1: I would leave him and apologize for keeping this third
Speaker 1: child of secret. I love the way he makes me feel,
Speaker 1: but this just made it hard to trust him. Should
Speaker 1: I end things with him? What a man? What a man?
Speaker 1: What a man? Is he? A mighty good man? Child?
Speaker 1: They say, let's sleeping dogs? Lie? They said, once a
Speaker 1: lie is always a lie. But you know a butterfly
Speaker 1: was once a caterpillar. Hey, catch it. People do have
Speaker 1: the ability to change. But I don't know, Sis, can
Speaker 1: we be real about it? How would you ever know
Speaker 1: you can trust him? You know, this is when you
Speaker 1: need some Kiana in here, because you know, this is
Speaker 1: what we talk about, showing up to the table and
Speaker 1: knowing what you're getting from the table. What I mean
Speaker 1: by that is that this is the foundation that you
Speaker 1: start in this relationship on. You didn't even know that
Speaker 1: he had a child. What else is it that you
Speaker 1: did not know? Mm hmm. And I think oftentimes we're
Speaker 1: stepping these relationships are we're working on building things together
Speaker 1: and we don't even know what it is that we
Speaker 1: have the tools to be building. When because people are
Speaker 1: showing up people are not showing up who it is
Speaker 1: that they are. And that's what I think. It's unfair
Speaker 1: because now you find yourself in a situation with someone
Speaker 1: without having a choice. You don't have the choice because
Speaker 1: you don't know what it is that you've signed up for.
Speaker 1: Especially if you're somebody who's communicating, you think that it's
Speaker 1: one thing and it really isn't has to someone. Don't
Speaker 1: think people do this to be malicious. I just think
Speaker 1: people have some healing to do that they haven't taken
Speaker 1: time to do that. So you say, hey, darn, should
Speaker 1: I end things with him? Well? I have to ask
Speaker 1: you what is it that you want and what is
Speaker 1: it that you value? What is important to you? How
Speaker 1: important is communication with you? Are you a believer in?
Speaker 1: How you do anything? Is how you'll do everything? Well?
Speaker 1: This affect how much you trust him? Does this affect
Speaker 1: how you feel about yourself? I'm just wondering. You know,
Speaker 1: three months is definitely still a budding part of the relationship.
Speaker 1: But why is it that when we talk about showing
Speaker 1: up in relationships and we talk about creating a safe space,
Speaker 1: what are you building wen It wasn't about the fact
Speaker 1: that he wanted to lie to you because he wanted
Speaker 1: to cheat, he says, and let me um, let me
Speaker 1: read what he says. He says he was scared that
Speaker 1: I would leave him and apologize from keeping the third child.
Speaker 1: The secret relationship is all about creating a safe space.
Speaker 1: You know. I was just saying before, people like, don
Speaker 1: what you're looking for? And first I will always say
Speaker 1: I'm looking for a relationship, and it's like, no, I'm
Speaker 1: looking for somebody that I can be vulnerable with, that
Speaker 1: I can be myself with, that I can be honest with.
Speaker 1: And I think that's something that you got to think
Speaker 1: about too. What is it that you're seeking with this relationship?
Speaker 1: Is not only about what it is that you want,
Speaker 1: but what kind of space do you want to make
Speaker 1: room for the person who's entering this relationship with you.
Speaker 1: I don't know about you, but I want you to
Speaker 1: funk with me where you feel comfortable. I want you
Speaker 1: to be able to tell me things that you may
Speaker 1: be scared to tell other people, because that's the connection
Speaker 1: we have. But I think when we come into relationships
Speaker 1: oftentimes we got so much of the ego on trying
Speaker 1: to protect ourselves from getting hurt. Well, how are we
Speaker 1: relating if you got everything on and a relation. For me,
Speaker 1: it's about taking things off. And I know you say, oh,
Speaker 1: this feels so good, but I gotta say, how you
Speaker 1: do anything, it's how you'll do everything. I don't think
Speaker 1: that it's not about whether or not he can change.
Speaker 1: I think that's a possibility. But what I think more
Speaker 1: important and what I hear overall, is the fact that
Speaker 1: there's a lack of comfortability, lack of vulnerability. And you know,
Speaker 1: as Kiana when she was talking about when talking about
Speaker 1: passionate communication, you gotta have love, you gotta have trust,
Speaker 1: you gotta have respect, and you have to feel safe.
Speaker 1: Oftentimes we don't. We're not honest because we don't feel safe.
Speaker 1: And if we don't feel safe, how are we to trust?
Speaker 1: How can you trust those that you don't love? Mhmm.
Speaker 1: These are just things to think about. So it's easy
Speaker 1: for me to say yes. But I know she I
Speaker 1: was talking to somebody for a month and my assles
Speaker 1: and thralled, and your ass did three months, damn, And
Speaker 1: that ain't even a long time. But I'm just saying
Speaker 1: I can imagine what emotions you have invested. But the
Speaker 1: fact that he was fearing that she was gonna leave it.
Speaker 1: I say this, y'all gotta talk about it and trust
Speaker 1: your gut because I'm gonna look on the outside. I
Speaker 1: don't know about him. I don't know the dynamics. I
Speaker 1: don't know what kind of space did you make room
Speaker 1: for that? And that's not your responsibility. Your responsibility to
Speaker 1: show up. And then whether or not you organically or
Speaker 1: that space is created is creative. But overall, it's like,
Speaker 1: you gotta be comfortable and being honest about what it
Speaker 1: is you want and who you are so that I
Speaker 1: can see who you are. And right now he got
Speaker 1: a lot on holding seen since he said, oh, I
Speaker 1: thought you was gonna leave me, so what so? So
Speaker 1: what does that mean? So the next time that you
Speaker 1: come into a situation that you think you might I
Speaker 1: might leave you, does that not mean you're gonna be honest?
Speaker 1: One thing I was realized and I was checking out
Speaker 1: this video, um hell, I had Anton People's on there,
Speaker 1: and I said, what does it mean to live? And
Speaker 1: he was talking about love and to live is to
Speaker 1: be free. Love is free, It doesn't control, it doesn't
Speaker 1: hold you back. And I'm assuming that you in this
Speaker 1: relationship that you are hoping or you are moving towards
Speaker 1: a direction working blossom and love or what are you
Speaker 1: building on. I don't want nobody that's gonna have allowed
Speaker 1: me to try to hold me hostage. Let me be
Speaker 1: free and let me choose you. That's another thing too.
Speaker 1: So now he's gonna not tell you the truth or
Speaker 1: withhold information out of fear he might lose you. Right,
Speaker 1: what's the student, mate? How is that to support what
Speaker 1: you guys are doing and what you guys are going after?
Speaker 1: M hmm. Love is not gonna try to hold you bad.
Speaker 1: Love is not gonna tell you what you can do.
Speaker 1: In fact, love will encourage you all the things that
Speaker 1: you can do. Side this has been at the bel
Speaker 1: callaway peace. What's up everybody? This is trade change and
Speaker 1: you are listening to violent with down day. I want
Speaker 1: you to be more free, want you to be more
Speaker 1: wants you to be your best man. I saw we
Speaker 1: have to be mindful when we say what it is
Speaker 1: that we want. It's good to have a relationship or
Speaker 1: having relations with all kinds of things, but how about
Speaker 1: one the space of vulnerability a space to be safe,
Speaker 1: and that should be in every aspect because it shouldn't
Speaker 1: always be in the intimate it should be in the
Speaker 1: potnic relationships as well, because what do I say, how
Speaker 1: you do anything is how you'll do everything. So when
Speaker 1: you ask me, hey, Dawn, should I end things with him? Well,
Speaker 1: I have to ask you this. Do you have an
Speaker 1: area or a space where you can guys can feel
Speaker 1: comfortable talking because right now, if we walk away with
Speaker 1: the whole notion of he's scared that you may leave
Speaker 1: him for something, get the hell out of Doge. It's
Speaker 1: time to go right down, because then I gotta ask
Speaker 1: you if he ever gets in a panic space, or
Speaker 1: if you ever feel so upset and you're like, you
Speaker 1: know what, I don't want to do this anymore. Let's
Speaker 1: just say his name is Roger. Roger, you're telling the truth, baby,
Speaker 1: I'm telling true. What hell? You just threaten that you
Speaker 1: was gonna leave him? So what else are you gonna
Speaker 1: keep from? E boo? But like I said, a butterfly
Speaker 1: was once a caterpillar. So people have the ability to change,
Speaker 1: and your communication is to express how that made you feel.
Speaker 1: That's another thing. When we're getting these conversations with people
Speaker 1: and these relationships, be mindful how you're communicating. Don't just
Speaker 1: be out there blaming people, pulling the figure you did this,
Speaker 1: you did That's how about we come to the point
Speaker 1: of how somebody feels, you know, because when you love,
Speaker 1: when you care about somebody, when you chair somebody, when
Speaker 1: you support somebody, when you hold somebody near and dear
Speaker 1: to you, you're more concerned with how they felt. So, um,
Speaker 1: missfool or you questioning? If you a fool for staying
Speaker 1: after he lied? What that's up to you? Bo? Are
Speaker 1: you opening for the communication now? If you say doing,
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about it anymore. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: just stay and see how things work out. Y'all. I
Speaker 1: think you're a fool and I think you should end it.
Speaker 1: But if you can create a space where you guys
Speaker 1: can have an open dialogue to see where he's coming from,
Speaker 1: it's something to entertain. But as a right now, it's
Speaker 1: not looking too good because you know something is to
Speaker 1: be said. People operate out of fear. Hell, you know,
Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking about today. I think there's
Speaker 1: one thing to think about people who are evil, but
Speaker 1: it's something else. When people who are fearful, insecure, I
Speaker 1: think they might be more dangerous because they show up
Speaker 1: as people that can get more close to you, and
Speaker 1: you know, the closer people aren't you, the more effect
Speaker 1: they can have on you. And oftentimes when people look
Speaker 1: at you and disdain out of jealousy, out of hurt,
Speaker 1: out of resentment, it's like that wound goes a little deeper,
Speaker 1: it hits you a little differently. And I just wouldn't
Speaker 1: want you to be in a situation that has you
Speaker 1: bound to somebody who operates out of fear of trying
Speaker 1: to hold you down, trying to hold you back, because
Speaker 1: you know what that sounds like. That sounds like some
Speaker 1: other fucking manipulation about to go down. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, if you really read it, because it wasn't
Speaker 1: because I didn't feel secure about who I am. It
Speaker 1: was because your actions of that, you might leave well
Speaker 1: very well. If somebody isn't being honest with you and
Speaker 1: you damn just had a baby a couple of months ago,
Speaker 1: it won't like the baby just by the and then
Speaker 1: you up in the here, hold on, let's go back.
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody, ain't ain't nobody wondering why I says we're
Speaker 1: parents now? With a heart, I don't even tell you
Speaker 1: it had a heart. Is it still a relationship going on?
Speaker 1: How offen has he been? All for this new thing?
Speaker 1: You think? And further of all, okay, change it up.
Speaker 1: I think I'll change my answer. I think you might
Speaker 1: shall leave him. You might shall leave him because what
Speaker 1: what what? What? What? What? What are you trying to
Speaker 1: build with this man? Because now I just had to
Speaker 1: really think about things. I just had to really think
Speaker 1: about things. And the fact that this man has a
Speaker 1: six month old child. You've been dating him for three months.
Speaker 1: Who the hell been taking care of the baby the
Speaker 1: other three months? Who? Because if he was with you,
Speaker 1: who was with the baby? Why wasn't he concerned? Who
Speaker 1: was the baby? Why isn't he there feeding the baby,
Speaker 1: changing diaper? You didn't notice his absence, You didn't notice
Speaker 1: he lacks of sleep, He wasn't looking a little tired
Speaker 1: to you. He didn't have any priorities to go to
Speaker 1: a doctor's appointment. Those are just things to think about
Speaker 1: and it can't be like, oh I forgot I didn't
Speaker 1: want to burning you know, that should have been your
Speaker 1: priority because you just brought a new life. So I
Speaker 1: had to think about it. But the answer has changed. Yes,
Speaker 1: I would in thinks of them. Yeah, because we ain't
Speaker 1: talking about of you know, we're not talking about something
Speaker 1: that's a variable, like something that can change. It's your child.
Speaker 1: So wait a minute, hell yeah, because wait, had you
Speaker 1: not seen the picture, would you have found out? Oh?
Speaker 1: Oh hell oh? Now yeah, you gotte. I had to
Speaker 1: really digest that. I'm glad I did take him into
Speaker 1: that that was organic because usually I take the letter
Speaker 1: I'll read to write a response, but I read. I
Speaker 1: told Jeremy. I was like, come on, well, let's go
Speaker 1: ahead and do this, and then I just digested it
Speaker 1: some more. Uh. You know, we'll be asking for discernment, right,
Speaker 1: we'll be asking for the signs like how did I
Speaker 1: get myself in this mess? And I think these are
Speaker 1: the signs that we need to look at, Like this
Speaker 1: is a huge retch flag And it's not so much
Speaker 1: it is everything because he lied, but it's the context.
Speaker 1: It's everything that's layered into that lie, because let's face it,
Speaker 1: we all lie. No. No, I'll be the first one. Look,
Speaker 1: I've had said some lives here in there. I mean,
Speaker 1: a lie is a lot of mom means to say.
Speaker 1: First of all, we weren't even supposed to say lie.
Speaker 1: We only could say the telling the story. Um, but
Speaker 1: about your child? Why are you lying about your children?
Speaker 1: That's weird, that's a little crazy. I don't like that word.
Speaker 1: I'm judging. I am judging. Um. Yeah, that's all. I
Speaker 1: got what you're saying. What do you think? Do you
Speaker 1: see your leaving? Right? I mean? Who does that? And
Speaker 1: more so, it's about what it is that you're accepting,
Speaker 1: and I think that's that needs to be evaluated. How
Speaker 1: do you feel about yourself? Do you want children? Could
Speaker 1: you see him as the father of your child? All right?
Speaker 1: That's it? Um. I hope that answered you, or at
Speaker 1: least giving you some inside of a different perspective. I
Speaker 1: like it because I was able to walk through it
Speaker 1: with you about to ask like, oh my gosh, it's
Speaker 1: a lie, but oh we love him. Oh he's scared that,
Speaker 1: I said the way to damn man, at you don't
Speaker 1: have to somebody be giving you some information or somebody
Speaker 1: coming and say something give me like up, That's what
Speaker 1: just happened to me. I said, wait a minute, this
Speaker 1: maybe here for six months. I've been diad you for
Speaker 1: three what's you've been doing? Who can take your hair
Speaker 1: to baby, So it'd be like that and shout out
Speaker 1: to you. Tell everybody in the d n V. I said,
Speaker 1: what I though, I'm thinking about coming out there, um
Speaker 1: for home coming this year, y'all, I said, doing it
Speaker 1: might be time to come back to hours. So, um,
Speaker 1: you didn't give me your name, but if you see
Speaker 1: me outside, I side with up though. All right, um, okay,
Speaker 1: that's that's the advice letter. So I want to encourage you.
Speaker 1: Do you need some advice, go ahead and email us
Speaker 1: Vitamin D at Dawn Day Speaks dot com. If I
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Speaker 1: act like I got some sense. I hope you do
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Speaker 1: in a car where you at find a mirror, look
Speaker 1: at the window, look at the reflection and say you dope,
Speaker 1: it's hell. In fact, look and I want you to
Speaker 1: do what I'll be doing. This is what I do
Speaker 1: when I get at the house before I go work out,
Speaker 1: I go for my Walker song. I'm like, you're fine,
Speaker 1: You're so damn fine, and then I'll just be on
Speaker 1: my day. So say something to yourself to make you
Speaker 1: feel good and be good to somebody. All right, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm hearing out the studio. You don't always say, I'm
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Speaker 1: damn sure ain't gonna forget about mind. So until next time,
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