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This your girl Mandy b 28 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: a k A full Court Pumps a K A pet 29 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: a k A debt bitch, and I am Wheezy a 30 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: k A mrs. Can I pet that dog? That is 31 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: the name of this week's episode because it's my favorite 32 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: fucking video online. And when Vincent wrote in, I was like, 33 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: oh my god, I could say the whole episode. We 34 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 1: have three guests with us today, one one dumb guest, 35 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: I will say, just because you're in the middle and 36 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: you've got the mic, so we'll use your mouth the most. 37 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: Can you always introduce yourselves? Yeah, So I'm Vincent um Pop, 38 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 1: and I'm Dan and we're we're dating. Yes, And yeah, Cody, 39 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: I'm the friend. I don't participate in this ship. We're 40 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: the affirmative. He's the negative. So wait, Dan, I heard 41 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: a little something there. Where are y'all from? Well, I'm 42 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: not from Oklahoma, uh more Ohio regions, so I've got 43 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: the Midwestern thing going on for me. But you guys 44 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:38,839 Speaker 1: are located in Oklahoma. Yeah, we're all in Norman, Oklahoma. Now, 45 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,399 Speaker 1: I just want to tell y'all night to day Beyonce fan. 46 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: I don't know if they live there, but this is 47 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: our first Caucasian Midwestern episode. Let's clap it up for 48 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 1: that Caucasian. I'm I'm hearing Oklahoma and I went straight 49 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 1: to Tiger King, So I don't know which one. Yes, God, 50 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: I just finished that. Y'all have your teeth bow come on? Yeah, right, 51 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: we haven't taken in the math yet. That's next week. Well, uh, 52 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: speaking of Oklahoma, I um, I really loved, you know, 53 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: Tiger Kings for highlighting gays in the Midwest or whatever 54 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: you wanna call Oklahoma. Yeah, Like, I mean, I feel like, 55 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: you know, that ship is always so foreboding, you know 56 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like Godford, no for sure, Bible Belt, 57 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,679 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, and you guys are barking like a 58 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 1: dog literally. So I want to start this episode off 59 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: just by preliminary asking. So how you identify age? And 60 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: uh yeah, you're pronouns Um, he him his for me. 61 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: Uh gay and yeah, gay as fuck, gay as fuck? Yeah, no, 62 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: for sure, no pussy at all. Dan. Have you ever 63 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 1: dabbled in in the in the in the Tiger Kitty, 64 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: in the kitties? No, okay, it's well yes, in the past, 65 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: I have dabbled around, but no today it we are 66 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: gay all the way about today. So yesterday, yesterday, in 67 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: like years ago, okay, got you? And look I want 68 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,280 Speaker 1: to say brown, sure, but no, Um, what about your 69 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: your friend the third that doesn't play with y'all? What 70 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: about you? Um? I mainly identify a straight. I've kind 71 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: of played in the water, so I'm not really scared 72 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: of it. It's just kind of like whatever comes my way, 73 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: I'll take whatever way. It's like, whatever it's gonna come, 74 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:52,840 Speaker 1: it's gonna come. So it's gonna come. So for our 75 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 1: vanilla ship this week, Mandy's actually going to be bringing 76 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: in Michelle Hope. A little bit later, you guys will 77 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 1: hear about it. But it's an article from the New 78 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: York Times. Um, and it's about the COVID crisis with 79 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: domestic abuse. We've seen a lot of tweets about this, 80 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 1: a lot of hotlines opening up. But UM, there's a 81 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 1: lot of movement restrictions aimed to stop the spread of 82 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 1: coronavirus within the homes and violence and being locked down 83 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 1: and all of the issues that people probably had before 84 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,479 Speaker 1: but are now super heightened because we're in each other's space. 85 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: But this is totally a public health crisis. UM. It's 86 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: taken on a toll with rising numbers. UM, as well 87 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 1: as with children too. I was reading not just within adults. UM. 88 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 1: I've seen a few different articles. I don't know if 89 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: this one specifies that. I believe this one's more geared 90 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: towards couples, but you know, kids that are in unsafe 91 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: homes with their parents and things like that. UM. But 92 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 1: there's a sociologist who studies of refusive relationships and says 93 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 1: that d V goes up whenever families are spending more 94 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 1: time together, especially during the holidays, Christmas, summer vacations, and 95 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 1: now with the lockdowns worldwide, hotlines are lighting up with 96 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 1: abuse reports. UM. They're urging all governments to put women's 97 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 1: safety first as they respond to the pandemic. UM. But 98 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: we've failed largely, UM and preparing for this public health 99 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: crisis and for being able to help victims. Um, the 100 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: abusers now have so much access because police are not 101 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 1: putting DV calls as a priority. UM. But luckily we're 102 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 1: gonna have Michelle tell you guys about how she's helping, 103 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: what how you can help UM as a volunteer, just 104 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 1: someone sitting at home, and what we can all do 105 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 1: to help our brothers and sisters. Yeah, I'm excited. Before 106 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 1: I give um Michelle a call, I did want to 107 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 1: go ahead and share with you guys just some status 108 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: going on. UM of black women specifically will experience domestic 109 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 1: violence in their lifetime, and black women are two point 110 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 1: five times more likely to be murdered by men than 111 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: white women. I know our audience, we do have a 112 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: large UM of course black women listenership. And so during 113 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,359 Speaker 1: this time being that we are, you know, subject to 114 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: work from home, to be to still be working mothers 115 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 1: and take care of the household and now being in 116 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 1: our significant other spaces. UM. Yes, unfortunately, domestic violence is 117 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: seeing an uprise in numbers, and so we just want 118 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 1: everyone to be safe out there. And so UM, I'm 119 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: gonna go ahead and give Michelle a call now, and 120 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: we are going to talk to her about what she 121 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: is doing to make a difference during the crisis. Hello, 122 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: hey Michelle, Hey, manage, what's good? What's going on? How 123 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 1: are you holding up trying to stay in this time? 124 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:48,559 Speaker 1: I already know. So our vanilla ship for this week 125 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: UM mentioned the rise in domestic violence. UM doing some 126 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: things involving yourself with giving back to the community during 127 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: this time. So I wanted you to tell our listeners 128 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 1: what you have going on. UM. Yeah, So you know, 129 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: it's interesting that you would bring that up, because the 130 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 1: idea of being stay at home or shelter in place 131 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 1: and social distancing is yes, one faith for our communities. Uh. 132 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: So we can stop the spread of COVID nineteen. But 133 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: for individuals who are an intimate partner relationships that are 134 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: abusive or are in family dynamic that is abusive, sheltering 135 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:28,559 Speaker 1: in and stay at home orders actually create a lot 136 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: of of anxiety and danger. For example, did you know 137 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: that every minute, almost twenty people will experience some type 138 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: of physical violence from a partner And yeah, and when 139 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:47,559 Speaker 1: you think about that in times like this, it becomes 140 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 1: this quiet storm almost that brews. And oftentimes when people 141 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 1: are in an abusive relationships, what happens is is that 142 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 1: it builds and everything might be okay for a while, 143 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: and then it'll mount, and it'll build, an attentional build, 144 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 1: and then there'll be a violent episode and then there'll 145 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: be some sort of suite making up. Now, sometimes when 146 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 1: we work at stay under these stay at home orders, 147 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: people could leave for a little bit, or a partner 148 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: may go to work, which would allow them to de escalate. 149 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:23,319 Speaker 1: But intimate terrorism is another way, another term we use 150 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: in this space, becomes heightened when you were at home 151 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: for a long time, so like holiday's Christmas thing. But 152 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 1: that so we really have to be aware of that 153 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 1: one and to recognize that it comes in all forms economic. 154 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 1: So what I did was I um started a go 155 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 1: fund Me page to be able to give micro grants 156 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 1: to individuals who are either in an abusive relationship right now, 157 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: have come out of an abusive relationship, but are not 158 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: financially stable because maybe they've lost their job or they're 159 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 1: in housing that's not very stable. So if you donate 160 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:01,199 Speaker 1: to the go fund me page, UM the those donations 161 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: go directly to individuals who identify survivors, and I give 162 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: micro grants of a hundred and fifty up to two 163 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,439 Speaker 1: hundred dollars because although that's not going to fix the 164 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:14,199 Speaker 1: underlying issues, it could keep a cell phone on, it 165 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: could pay a light though, it could get somebody a 166 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 1: hotel for the night, or a bus ticket or a 167 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 1: train ticket to get somewhere saxes. So I want to 168 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 1: let you guys know that the information will be in 169 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: the description of this bio UM. Basically, I wanted this 170 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 1: to be mentioned on the podcast because Michelle is taking 171 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:35,080 Speaker 1: donations for this, so the link will be in there. 172 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 1: So if you have it UM in your account and 173 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: you feel like you want to give back, definitely go 174 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:46,719 Speaker 1: ahead and donate UM in the lincoln that's in our 175 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 1: bio and Michelle is taking UM tweets, d m s, 176 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:54,439 Speaker 1: especially because this could be a sensitive matter UM, and 177 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 1: she is going ahead and giving once again a hundred 178 00:10:57,520 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: and fifty to two hundred dollars to those in need. So, 179 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: whether you're on the giving end or the receiving end, UM, 180 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: I think that this is a great cause, Michelle, and 181 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 1: I think that you're doing amazing UM, So thank you 182 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: for starting then, thank you for starting this, and once 183 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: again that information will be in the bio UM the description. 184 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 1: I'm sorry of this episode and I guess Michelle, for 185 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: those who may not know you, can you go ahead 186 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 1: and drop your social media handles as well? Absolutely, Mandy, um, 187 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 1: thanks for allowing me to talk about this important topic. 188 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 1: So you guys can follow me at m H sex Perked, 189 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: m H sexpers Um and on all social media. You know, 190 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 1: it's not always this heavy and dark sometimes, you know, 191 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: like Mandy, I got to I like to get nasty, 192 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:51,199 Speaker 1: don't like Mandy, You absolutely definitely like to. Well, Michelle. Michelle, 193 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 1: thank you so much for what you're doing and I 194 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 1: hope that you're staying safe and and thank you again 195 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 1: for um again giving back to those in need during 196 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 1: this time. Sorr, I a pre shit it anytime. You 197 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 1: love you by again. I want to thank Michelle for 198 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 1: for for joining us on this week's episode and our 199 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:15,959 Speaker 1: vanilla ship. All right now for the hoarders, I really 200 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: love this one because there's a clip going on around Twitter. 201 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys saw it with the 202 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 1: Amazon guy saying dial does are not an essential priority? 203 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 1: Have you seen that? I have not, but I need 204 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 1: to Unless he is a gay man, I want to 205 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 1: know who he is to judge the essential matter of 206 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: a goddamn deal, dup, I can't agree. If we're telling 207 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 1: people to stay in the house. It is the delivery guy, 208 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 1: like he why is he looking inside my box? Maybe 209 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: he knows from the weight. Just sounds like I think 210 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 1: there ain't no no, no, no no. He on the order. 211 00:12:57,520 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 1: Maybe he sees who it comes like the house. I 212 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 1: meant it was vibrating, That's what it was vibrating, because 213 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 1: I'll tell you now, I have King Noir's dildo. You 214 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: don't think it's a goddamn chair that's heavier there. I 215 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't wonder how they know the way, 216 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 1: but I mean, I guess it's from the merchant and 217 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: or I think it has to do with the weight. 218 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: I think they shake it around there like this is 219 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 1: a dick. Yeah for sure, it's like Christmas. They're like 220 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: what am I getting today? Yeah? Maybe he's just mad. 221 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 1: I would want to take like a little peek at 222 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: least into the home, like let's say you deliver the dildough. 223 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, As someone answered, are you okay? Granny? 224 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:50,679 Speaker 1: Just like peeking like oh hey, like going on, what's 225 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:52,680 Speaker 1: going on? What's up in here? My shift in until 226 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: you know nothing is going on in here, which is 227 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 1: why you need this. But the horror or for this 228 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: week is a great tip. I actually, um didn't know 229 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: much about this before, but the tip is for people 230 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 1: buying sex toys where a lot of us are masturbating 231 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:08,839 Speaker 1: right now. It actually advises not to buy them off 232 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 1: of Amazon or unverified online retailers because they're not FDA 233 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:16,559 Speaker 1: approved and non FDA approved sex toys. Sex toys have 234 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 1: been linked to causing cancer and infertility. Sex toys made 235 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: with jelly, like plastic sheets are made with phil athelite. 236 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 1: I don't know those nasty chemicals whatever the fun they're 237 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 1: talking about in some water bottles, and you don't want 238 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 1: them eventually to seep into your system. Um. So I've 239 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 1: heard this thing with jelly for a long time not 240 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 1: being a safe sex toy to use because so much 241 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: bacteria sticks onto it and it's not as easy to clean, 242 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 1: and then even when you do clean it, a lot 243 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: of ship gets stuck onto it. Um. So yeah, please 244 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 1: just make sure that you are looking up what's in 245 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 1: those sex toys. I think like I'm the type of 246 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 1: person that's I sort by price low too high, and 247 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: that is how I shot. So if your post is 248 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: gonna get cancer and not be able to make babies, 249 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: I'm just saying you might want to think about it. 250 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: Just look into the stuff that you're getting from online. 251 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 1: Um yeah, I mean I never even thought about that. 252 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 1: I mean even try you can try also just different um, 253 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 1: I guess materials. So I got a I have a 254 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 1: double sided glass dildough and I've been told that those 255 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 1: are actually really fun but also safe to use. Um, 256 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 1: they're easy to clean, but also there's um, you're able 257 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 1: to add temperatures to them. They take to temperature really well. 258 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: Something that you can put in your fridge or your 259 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 1: freezer and you can kind of make it cold to 260 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: give you a cold. I haven't done this. And the 261 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 1: ice cube thing are Our guest last week said that 262 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 1: she actually masturbated with ice cubes, so um yeah, like 263 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 1: actually adding those and and also if you even know 264 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 1: a lot of the condoms will tell you that they 265 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: have like warm sensations like adding different it's the sex 266 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 1: actually does. The glass though, is a big one, because 267 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: that's where people really like when they get it hot. 268 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 1: Like I've noticed that likes and the good ones are 269 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 1: actual pyrex and so it's like medical grade. Yeah, silicone, 270 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 1: they say, is how you know you're getting the most 271 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: high grade sex toy, which is generally like the Womanizer 272 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 1: of the rabbit Ship like that. Um, but metal is 273 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 1: also on the list. I'm serious. But you got to 274 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 1: think about it like nipple rings, like metal will be fine. 275 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 1: I feel like metal will be more safer than glass classic. 276 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: I mean, we talked about, um, what what was it called. 277 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: I can't remember even the name of it, but I 278 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: talked about it when we had Lover's Coy Lover's Quarrel 279 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 1: on with Michelle Hope. Actually, um, it's where they were 280 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 1: sounding sounding six metal pieces down the p hole and 281 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 1: it's the past. Have any of you guys done sounding 282 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:06,200 Speaker 1: that was my middle school years? I haven't done since 283 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 1: middle school that you were Wait, both of y'all were 284 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: sounding in middle school. I was in middle school. I 285 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 1: don't know how soon you started high school high school? 286 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 1: See y'all like talk about like your first experience or 287 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 1: how you went about starting sounding that young. I'm not 288 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:24,639 Speaker 1: gonna lie. I thought this was like an older thing 289 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 1: to know. Um, I don't know, because like I first 290 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 1: got into like porn in middle schools eighth grade. The 291 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: sounding is too, by the way, vincent sounding is where 292 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 1: you insert something into your uretha. So, um, I didn't 293 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,119 Speaker 1: really get a pleasure out of it. It was just 294 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 1: something I was like, Oh, I want to try, but 295 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 1: I didn't have the proper tools. So it was a 296 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 1: DS stylis. So stylis is kind of thick, isn't it. No, 297 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 1: not not a DS stylist. Okay, came in my s 298 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: from I mean, it's fine, you know this wasn't the 299 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 1: one I used. If you guys are just as like 300 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't. I was like, what the is 301 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 1: the stylist? So stylus actually y l us like from 302 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 1: a black I don't. I don't care about how you 303 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: spell it. But it's actually like what you used to, like, 304 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 1: um write, like on an iPad or umpire. For sure, 305 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 1: you stuck one of those in your God damn your threat, 306 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: your psycho. It was. It was. It was an experience, 307 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 1: not even clean though you clean it middle school middle 308 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:53,120 Speaker 1: school clean. But to til the tail, Dan, what did 309 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 1: you put in what you put in your dick? I 310 00:18:57,280 --> 00:19:00,639 Speaker 1: actually wins and God sounds uh through the powers of 311 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 1: the internet. Okay, you classed it up and so really 312 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 1: did you did you do the sounding or did you receive? Yeah, 313 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 1: this this was solo. It was so low. So me 314 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 1: to myself, did you enjoy something that you also saw 315 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 1: in porn? It is porn? Was how I learned about 316 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:27,920 Speaker 1: it and found out it's a thing. And I mean, 317 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: it was definitely an interesting sensation. And really that's a 318 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 1: lot of from what I from discussing it with other 319 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:38,920 Speaker 1: people into it. Yeah, there, it's just to get a 320 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:44,000 Speaker 1: different sensation. And really, you once it's in, you let 321 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:50,920 Speaker 1: it fall in. There's lube, there's lub because well that 322 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 1: would hurt. I didn't know, so you did it without 323 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 1: loub correct. So it's like like I was gonna like 324 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 1: he's a he says, it was like an interesting sensation. 325 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 1: I was like, damn, it burned for me. Like, let 326 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: me just tell you what's so funny. You're talking about 327 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:10,159 Speaker 1: a Nintendo DS style, is right? Yes, for those of 328 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 1: you who can't see, and obviously none because I on zoom. 329 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 1: There's a bunch of video games attached to his wall 330 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 1: and some in the corner, and I'm just like, oh 331 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: my god. The next time someone tells me there into 332 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:24,399 Speaker 1: me in the game and I'll be like, wow, you 333 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: stuck your style. Oh gosh, that was great. Actually that 334 00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 1: was hilarious, not as interesting. Um, So I found two 335 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:41,400 Speaker 1: that I really like because we're all stuck in the house, 336 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 1: so like, fucking um. The average person has sex a 337 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 1: hundred and three times a year, and I'm curious to know. 338 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 1: That's a statistic from the Woman's Day survey in two 339 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 1: thousand eleven. Um, they hadn't had like one with a 340 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 1: larger survey group since. But then it says Americans spend 341 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 1: fifty seven minutes per week having sex from direks and 342 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 1: that's fourteen minutes below the global average. I cannot wait 343 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: to see how this goes up when this is over 344 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:12,920 Speaker 1: afterwards too. Oh my god, God, there were be bitches 345 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 1: out here named Corvid like no, okay, there's a baby 346 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:25,400 Speaker 1: in in India. I think twins, twins, Yeah, I think 347 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 1: I think this is interesting. I mean yeah, I mean 348 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:35,719 Speaker 1: if we're including masturbation, then yeah. If masturbation is in there, 349 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 1: then absolutely. Um. I can see this going up because 350 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 1: it takes me about seventeen minutes to orgasm when I 351 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,199 Speaker 1: do it. Although I skipped a day the other day 352 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: because I realized I was getting a little numb. Okay, 353 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:49,680 Speaker 1: my toy is not working. So I was I self 354 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 1: discipline myself and decided not to play with myself for 355 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 1: one night, and so the next day I did add 356 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 1: I was like, bitch, you're not gonna masturbate. You're just 357 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 1: gonna go to sleep. So I made sure I was 358 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:08,920 Speaker 1: watching TV until I started crying to like to know 359 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:10,919 Speaker 1: that I was really really tired, like you know when 360 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 1: your eyes get water and yeah, I was like okay. 361 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, bitch, this is gonna be easier 362 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 1: for you to fall asleep because you're really tired. Um. 363 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 1: But the next day that I masturbated, because I like 364 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 1: held out the day before, I was able to come 365 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 1: in like two minutes and fifty two seconds. And you 366 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 1: know the reason I know that that's how long the 367 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 1: video I literally, well, well, normally, I um I filter 368 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:44,920 Speaker 1: because I want ten minutes plus. In the porns that 369 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 1: I watched, I don't like short videos, but this specific 370 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,199 Speaker 1: one looked really good and so it was less than 371 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:53,280 Speaker 1: three minutes and that's literally I only had to watch 372 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 1: it once and I came and it was just a 373 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 1: really good video. I even saved it in my notes. No, 374 00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: for sure, there are those videos out there. I have 375 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 1: this book I even save in my notes, Mandy, is 376 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: there not a bookmark option on your phone? Not a book? 377 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 1: I'm not a book marking the porn. So I literally 378 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,639 Speaker 1: have like a ton of different notes in in my 379 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,120 Speaker 1: notes section on my phone that literally just has mad 380 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 1: porn links. And those are really good ones that actually, 381 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 1: you know, you know, you know, maybe I'll share with 382 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 1: you guys. Um. I actually found a lot of pegging 383 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 1: videos and they're actually and specifically for for our listeners. 384 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:34,120 Speaker 1: They are with black men and it's just so good. 385 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:38,360 Speaker 1: There's actually one um that agreed to come on our 386 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:42,440 Speaker 1: show once this coronavirus is over. I posted it on 387 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 1: my page. He has a pegging video with a whole 388 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 1: bunch of sprinkles on the desk. But his name is 389 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 1: Mr Carlyle. I'm gonna post them on Patreon. Oh my god. 390 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 1: He's like he has dreads, he's tatted, he looks super masculine, 391 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 1: and he'd be been in overtaking. So good. It's he's 392 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:02,360 Speaker 1: not taken Dick. He's taken strap. He's taken the dick 393 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,680 Speaker 1: strap whole, same bitch. He's taking it good, So why 394 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:09,720 Speaker 1: I can't call it a dick. I'll be telling niggas 395 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 1: you're gonna take this dick. I talked to them like 396 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 1: that with my strap, like you got it's my dick. 397 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 1: You like how big my dick? You shape? Take this cube. 398 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 1: I do want to ask you guys, as just while 399 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,760 Speaker 1: we're getting into this public, can you, guys, everyone in 400 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: the room and it's five of us, talk about the 401 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 1: last orgasm that we had. So Mandy just said hers 402 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 1: just two minutes and fifty three seconds. That was from 403 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 1: what was that? The Sprinkle No, the s the sprinkle video? 404 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,960 Speaker 1: Mr sle what'd you come to if it was a 405 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 1: person or yourself? What'd you come to if you used 406 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 1: a porn? Oh? No, it was a it was a 407 00:24:56,240 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 1: trans video, so it was it was a guy. It 408 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:06,160 Speaker 1: was a guy in a trance a woman. I mean, 409 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 1: of course you gotta finish it, Mandy. I mean, okay, 410 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 1: I guess, um yeah trans woman. Um. And I did 411 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,840 Speaker 1: that just because like with watching the pegging videos, the 412 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 1: women aren't as they don't look like they're stroking as good, 413 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: like like there's a whole rhythm to fucking, and I 414 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:27,200 Speaker 1: don't think that so like many people can strap very well. 415 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 1: So I enjoyed watching trans women because they've had dicks 416 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 1: their whole lives. They know how to work. Trap it 417 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 1: too heavy for some of them, and like because a 418 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 1: lot of them are always holding the base of it, 419 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 1: I think they're not getting the right side or or 420 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,680 Speaker 1: also like I think it's very important just to have 421 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:51,520 Speaker 1: the right harness, Like the harness is very import having 422 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 1: it attached is really the important part. So if you 423 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 1: have a cheap harness, it's not gonna hold well. Um. 424 00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 1: And so yeah, it kind of takes away from me 425 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 1: when I don't feel like she's really dicking the nigger down. 426 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 1: So I mean, like all right, let me, let me, 427 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,680 Speaker 1: let me move over to the real thing. Um. So 428 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 1: that's kind of what I've been watching actually lately. What's 429 00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:16,959 Speaker 1: the last Oh my last orgasm was to Abella Danger. 430 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,879 Speaker 1: It's like this, and I hate like incess porn, but 431 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's just the best video that she has 432 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 1: is fucking her step sister. I'm air quoting, y'all, And 433 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,200 Speaker 1: it's like under this dinner table, but like you could 434 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 1: just tell she's really gay and she actually has a 435 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: girlfriend in real life, And I just I love lesbian 436 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 1: porn with bitches that like like fucking bitches when you 437 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 1: can tell um. But I also was getting fucked while 438 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,200 Speaker 1: watching it, and I know I just maybe complained last week. 439 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:46,880 Speaker 1: I don't know if it was our Patreon or here, 440 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 1: but I've been like losing it and like starting fights 441 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 1: about nothing so that we could have makeup sex. So 442 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 1: we were I suggested watching porn, and then he was 443 00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 1: looking at the porn screen too long and I was like, nah, 444 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 1: I'm here, look at me right, So I started this 445 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 1: whole fight and then he came in the room and 446 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,120 Speaker 1: the ship on me. I was like, okay, we gotta 447 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 1: fight again. I was like, let's put on lesbian porn, 448 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 1: and then I started watching it and hopes that he 449 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:16,119 Speaker 1: would get piste off and no, that didn't happen, because okay, 450 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 1: is everything good over there? You're good? He was like, nah, 451 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: let's keep doing it. He is the last time you 452 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 1: guys came together or tell us about that. There was 453 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 1: the last time that we fucked, But I know I've 454 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,360 Speaker 1: jacked off before that since then? What was the last 455 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:42,199 Speaker 1: thing you watched? Dan? First, let's go from left to right. 456 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 1: See I think actually one of the last videos I 457 00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:52,520 Speaker 1: watched it, it was pups fucking So yeah, this is 458 00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 1: really a ship. What about you, Vincent? Oh he's nervous. 459 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 1: I'm sorry hearing this Zac. Actually no, I'm not sorry. 460 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 1: Um it was piss play, so okay, I'm curious were 461 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:13,159 Speaker 1: they like swallowing? Is it like for like full on drinking. 462 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 1: It's called drinking from the tap? So oh, it's because 463 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 1: that's what I actually we played a game. Um this 464 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,360 Speaker 1: is when ms Corey B was on and we talked 465 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,399 Speaker 1: about what we've done that we would never do again. 466 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:31,359 Speaker 1: And Golden Showers is definitely my Like, I'm good if 467 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 1: I'd never do that again in life. Um no, for sure, 468 00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 1: I'm totally dead for everyone. It's it's for me. What 469 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 1: is its? It's just I don't know, it's just I 470 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 1: like being like, yeah, I do like a sub. I 471 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 1: know you said like the dom in the middle, but like, no, 472 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:52,239 Speaker 1: I'm generally a sub. I mean, what's more submissive than 473 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 1: being a toilet me? Just like you know what we're 474 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 1: ending this podcast right now? Like it's no. I mean 475 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,480 Speaker 1: I think that's great though, because I have a few 476 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 1: gay male friends that are more open to piss play. 477 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 1: I feel like than women, and I feel like that's 478 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: generally something I hear, but the gays do little. You 479 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,880 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I think because too much test hospital. 480 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 1: Let's just keep getting nastier. So Dan and Vincent, you 481 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:26,479 Speaker 1: guys do piss play together? We have not not yet yet? Really, 482 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:33,720 Speaker 1: what are you waiting for a hotel? But probably get missy? Yeah? 483 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,480 Speaker 1: What about you? Is it? What about you? Is it 484 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 1: code easy? What's the last thing that's right? What were 485 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 1: you watching? I mean, it wasn't like a very exciting video. 486 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,720 Speaker 1: I was like kind of in a time crunch. Sounds 487 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: kind of weird, kind of a time crunch, but I 488 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 1: think it was actually with my favorite point star, Riley Reid. 489 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys know who she is. Yeah, 490 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,600 Speaker 1: she's the white girl that made a video saying nigger, nigger. 491 00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 1: I did not know that. I probably watched that afternoon. 492 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 1: I don't support that. Every person right now, everyone's so now. 493 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: I did not know that. I wanted. I used to 494 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 1: come to Riley read too, and then like I talked 495 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,400 Speaker 1: about her on Twitter and they dragged me and like 496 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 1: kept uploading the video. Well, I talked about it until 497 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 1: you just drugged me on this so whatever. I hate 498 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 1: When like my face disappointed me, I was like, I 499 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:27,080 Speaker 1: look so she said it are we forgiving her? And 500 00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:28,720 Speaker 1: then I went to a few of my gay male 501 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,200 Speaker 1: friends Twitter to see how they felt about the situation 502 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 1: before I became problematic. I'm like, well, if they're hypocrites too, 503 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 1: it's fine. But the thing is, like it's to me 504 00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 1: and like it was more forgiving, but now I'm like, 505 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 1: it's you fucking know, like what you can and can't do, 506 00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:45,160 Speaker 1: Like if you do it, you're fucking idiot if you're 507 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:48,680 Speaker 1: doing it to be stupid, like, so no forgiveness here 508 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 1: for that kind of shift. I'm like, you're just being 509 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, problematic. Next week, tell us who you 510 00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 1: come to well do alright to find her like on 511 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 1: social media, like you bitch. So let's get into it 512 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 1: for the horrible decision this week, cannot pet that dog. 513 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 1: We are going to talk about puppy play. Um, so 514 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 1: we've all heard of Blue Choo. This episode is sponsored 515 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 1: by them this week, and I think we can all 516 00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 1: remember the days when we were super ready to go, 517 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:19,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like when you were actually 518 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 1: outside and you got to look at people in person 519 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 1: and get super excited. 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But ladies, gentlemen, um, anyone 537 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,960 Speaker 1: that wants to buy this for their partner or buy 538 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 1: it for yourself, I would definitely do it. It's made 539 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: in the us and they are prepared to ship direct 540 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,520 Speaker 1: and it's way cheaper than a pharmacy and best of all, 541 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,680 Speaker 1: no more awkwardness, Cheaper, faster, and a better choice. Let's 542 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 1: get on with the show. So you guys are here 543 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,920 Speaker 1: because you sent us an email. Vincent, why did you 544 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:36,760 Speaker 1: send me this email? Okay, So I've been listening to 545 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 1: you guys. My brother first introduced me to y'all, um, 546 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 1: and he was like, there's this raunchy s podcast, these 547 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,280 Speaker 1: two bitches talking about sex, and I was like, I'm down. Um, 548 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 1: So I listened to y'all on SoundCloud first until I 549 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 1: found you on Spotify and then I don't know, I've 550 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,840 Speaker 1: been listening ever since, and you guys are always like, oh, 551 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:57,320 Speaker 1: like hotel like just came out and so yeah, we 552 00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,880 Speaker 1: were drinking, me and Cody, and I was just like, 553 00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:02,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell them about my puppy shit, I'm gonna 554 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,960 Speaker 1: do it, And so I emailed you. We were trying 555 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,440 Speaker 1: to come up with a way to like get on 556 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: the show. We were like, we don't want to be 557 00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 1: those basic as bitches that are right and be like, oh, 558 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,959 Speaker 1: we want to be on the show. Why because we're crazy, 559 00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 1: Like no, we're not going to do that. That's the word. 560 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 1: And so it was just like this and so this 561 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 1: is my and I was just like puppy ship, like 562 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this, and so I emailed it and 563 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,680 Speaker 1: then within the hour, like y'all emailed back, and I 564 00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,280 Speaker 1: was just like, Cody, oh my god, just so you know, 565 00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 1: we downed, like we downed like four shots. Like right 566 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 1: after you said that, we were like fun guess like 567 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 1: and I was like, I signed now, I signed Dan 568 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:34,640 Speaker 1: up fore. I was like, hey, by the way, we're 569 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 1: gonna be on a podcast, Like I'm just gonna let 570 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 1: you know right now. And I was like, hopefully you're 571 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:42,200 Speaker 1: okay with work out to us. I mean, Mandy and 572 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 1: I really spend a lot of time trying to figure 573 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 1: out who would be a good guest and and it's 574 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 1: hard to find people that are super into Kings, at 575 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 1: least I think even before, we've had so many people 576 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,960 Speaker 1: contact us, but like they're not in the area and 577 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,600 Speaker 1: we want them in New York. But this is perfect, right, 578 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 1: and you've got a mic and you guys are actually nasty, 579 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 1: So I guess I guess. I mean, you said you 580 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,880 Speaker 1: said pupp and puppies and I just gott a fucking cat. 581 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:08,879 Speaker 1: Can we let people know that we're not talking about 582 00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:12,760 Speaker 1: bality here and that you're not literally fucking puppies? Correct, 583 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:17,520 Speaker 1: because that would correct it is not that on who's 584 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:21,720 Speaker 1: sucking puppies? Um, so, can you explain what pup means? 585 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 1: And and yeah, what is puppy play? Play? This is 586 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:33,759 Speaker 1: you have a better explanation, And I usually to really 587 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:39,800 Speaker 1: reiterate the difference between play and best reality. Uh I, 588 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 1: I personally don't call it puppy play because to me, 589 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:44,959 Speaker 1: if you keep it at pup, you it's a nice 590 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:51,879 Speaker 1: clean distinction. But no, pup play in general is really 591 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:57,680 Speaker 1: just a and an escape from the human mindset, being 592 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,759 Speaker 1: able to break free from that. And I mean, we've 593 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,959 Speaker 1: all seen dogs play in the park backyard and they're 594 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,319 Speaker 1: just so free and full of life, and it's it's 595 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,040 Speaker 1: a different human version of that of being able to 596 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:14,960 Speaker 1: just wait, wait, wait, wait, I haven't definitely so y'all, 597 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,960 Speaker 1: y'all get on all each other and sniff each other's 598 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:25,520 Speaker 1: butts and literally wait, also you'll actually dogs and then yeah, 599 00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:39,560 Speaker 1: we're sacrificedness. Yeah, nuzzle, let's hear your best bark Well, 600 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:45,960 Speaker 1: he's a howler. Yeah. So for me, it's do you 601 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:52,480 Speaker 1: have do you have puppy names? Mine is Maddix McCloud, doggy, 602 00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:56,879 Speaker 1: leather mask, put it on, put it on, and then 603 00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:59,120 Speaker 1: he has his own hood too. They're called hoods. Yeah, 604 00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 1: we've heard that term. Okay, so these are so this 605 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:11,000 Speaker 1: is some white babils. So do you guys Do you 606 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 1: guys have attachable tails as well? Or is it just 607 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:18,359 Speaker 1: the hoods? I have a tail. I mean it's it's 608 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,080 Speaker 1: it's like an anal plug. But and I've got one 609 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:26,439 Speaker 1: now too, well, I mean I think that makes more sense. Well, 610 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:32,279 Speaker 1: and it does. Also it's it's more stimulus also, Yeah, 611 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:38,880 Speaker 1: just because it's around my question as to if you 612 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,440 Speaker 1: guys are shipping and smelling each other's ship. That's not 613 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:45,480 Speaker 1: like there's no scat play involved in this, is there? Okay? Okay, 614 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 1: no no no, no, no no no no, it's like 615 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 1: and the thing you can combine it. We're just not 616 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:57,200 Speaker 1: people do that. I'm sure somewhere in the Internet somebody's 617 00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:00,360 Speaker 1: doing two girls, one cup. Are you guys into play 618 00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:04,960 Speaker 1: before you met? Is that how you met? Yeah? A 619 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 1: little bit, And I mean I've only had my hood 620 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:11,320 Speaker 1: for a year. I got it last July. Um, but 621 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,000 Speaker 1: like I know, I've been watching videos and I was 622 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:15,680 Speaker 1: just like, oh, this is really cool, Like I think 623 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 1: it's cute. It is kind of cute. Put play is this? 624 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,160 Speaker 1: Is there a category? Like if anyone was interested in 625 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 1: watching this on like porn Hub or any of the websites, 626 00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 1: can you type in put play is it? Is it 627 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:30,319 Speaker 1: a it's an actual category. Yet the patrons, I guess, 628 00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:35,799 Speaker 1: all search for play video. Um, well no, you guys 629 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,239 Speaker 1: got to send us your favorite ship. That's what you 630 00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:42,239 Speaker 1: gotta do. Send us the all the premium put play 631 00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,360 Speaker 1: like this is how you want us to see your culture. 632 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:53,560 Speaker 1: Okay the white sure, we got got me somebody black 633 00:37:54,600 --> 00:38:00,320 Speaker 1: right now? There dating site that, um, someone work familiar 634 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:03,360 Speaker 1: with fat life, But for maybe people who are interested 635 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,040 Speaker 1: in finding pups, there's someone who's interested in it. Do 636 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,440 Speaker 1: you know if there's an actual specific dating site for 637 00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 1: for put play, not for pups specifically? There is recon, 638 00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,799 Speaker 1: which is not as common in the US, and that's 639 00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 1: a really fetish and kink in general. And of course 640 00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:29,200 Speaker 1: that one's that one is on the gay side. Have 641 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:33,920 Speaker 1: you guys been to any parties for put play. I haven't. 642 00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 1: One of my friends who is a pope has been 643 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:40,800 Speaker 1: trying to drag us out to some meetups and some mashes. 644 00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:46,040 Speaker 1: They go to actual international house of pancakes. Yeah, yeah, 645 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:48,960 Speaker 1: they go and they just talk about the community events. 646 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 1: And I mean this is in street clothes. There's no yeah, 647 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,880 Speaker 1: there's no fucking in the middle. There's like a community board. 648 00:38:56,160 --> 00:39:00,200 Speaker 1: But do they wear their like hoods? I was like, sure, 649 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:07,080 Speaker 1: I'm not like a big gas table of like. So, 650 00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,880 Speaker 1: the textbook definition that I'm seeing on puppy play dot 651 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,720 Speaker 1: info or pup play dot info is a involving fetish 652 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:14,960 Speaker 1: where people have an interest in role plays canines and 653 00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,560 Speaker 1: their associated handlers. Um so, who out of the two 654 00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:21,600 Speaker 1: of you, Dan Vincent is considered the sir or handler 655 00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:27,400 Speaker 1: or mr. So I guess I'm more of like the 656 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:31,719 Speaker 1: alpha pup. Yeah, I was about handling the woods and 657 00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:36,360 Speaker 1: the tail. You're both acting as as pups. You're actually 658 00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,400 Speaker 1: not doing the corner and the pup. You guys are 659 00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,160 Speaker 1: just doing two pups playing in the park. I guess 660 00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,320 Speaker 1: what other types of what? What other types of role play? Like? 661 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,839 Speaker 1: Where else do pups play like? If you guys think 662 00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,560 Speaker 1: of a scene. Where else have you guys played other 663 00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 1: than a park? I mean, I mean, really, it's just 664 00:39:58,200 --> 00:39:59,680 Speaker 1: what you want to make of it. It's more of 665 00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 1: a headspace that m do you guys do play while 666 00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 1: your roommate at home. We are we are very considerate 667 00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:16,400 Speaker 1: and he is very thankful for that that he does not. 668 00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,040 Speaker 1: I mean, luckily we have a two story house, so 669 00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,239 Speaker 1: I'm on the bottom floor and then they live upstairs. No, 670 00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:28,840 Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's not like it's not like I 671 00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,640 Speaker 1: own it. I rented. I lived down the street from ou. 672 00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:35,480 Speaker 1: It's fine, but no, for sure. I mean there have 673 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,839 Speaker 1: been times where, like, you know, I've heard him come 674 00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:39,960 Speaker 1: home and like I would text and be like, hey, 675 00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:41,480 Speaker 1: can you keep down, I'm trying to take a dick 676 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:45,880 Speaker 1: up the gass and so you know, and then that's 677 00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 1: when I hear him up stuff. Yeah, So I'm curious. 678 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:53,120 Speaker 1: Like on this website, there's a pup play flag and 679 00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:55,680 Speaker 1: it's like a hand reaching out to like someone in 680 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,480 Speaker 1: a hood. And then there's pictures of a little girl 681 00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:02,319 Speaker 1: in a wheelchair at a parade and just someone handing 682 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 1: your flowers and playing with her. And it says that 683 00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:08,919 Speaker 1: there's a social aspect to this, and people are trying 684 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,280 Speaker 1: to rate if their style of put play is purely 685 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:16,759 Speaker 1: sexual or purely social respectivity. Um, it can be both 686 00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,920 Speaker 1: because I mean, think of it. Who doesn't like puppies? Right, 687 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:28,440 Speaker 1: So it's like like fuzzy little dog, and it's like 688 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:32,799 Speaker 1: it's you're a character, you are another, you're something else 689 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:39,360 Speaker 1: other than yourself. Yes, you can think about that that way. So, 690 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:43,880 Speaker 1: and it's merging the both the mental headspace with the 691 00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 1: physical appearance. Something I'm reading as well, and that put 692 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:50,680 Speaker 1: play is not humiliation, Um that they don't like putting 693 00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:53,800 Speaker 1: tops in cages, etcetera. Can you guys talk about that, 694 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:58,920 Speaker 1: like how does your would you agree to that? I know, like, um, 695 00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:02,640 Speaker 1: I mean there are some pups that do like that, 696 00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,000 Speaker 1: but obviously it's not something that's common like obviously in 697 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:07,800 Speaker 1: b D s M if you're talking about like fulsome 698 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:11,759 Speaker 1: street San Francisco, they do that. But other than that, 699 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:16,320 Speaker 1: it's not necessarily common. And there there is crossover between 700 00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,880 Speaker 1: the b D s M community and pups. They're not 701 00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:23,360 Speaker 1: mutual exclusive nor they you can be kinky and not 702 00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:24,800 Speaker 1: a pub, or you can be a pub and not 703 00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:28,560 Speaker 1: really people put in their bios on dating apps, like, 704 00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:31,560 Speaker 1: would you identify yourself as a pup? Like? I know, 705 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,680 Speaker 1: like you know it's specifically even in b D s M. 706 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:37,439 Speaker 1: You identify if you're a sub, if you're a dom, 707 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,040 Speaker 1: if you're into masochism, like like a lot of people 708 00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:44,520 Speaker 1: do label themselves and you know, as certain things specifically 709 00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,040 Speaker 1: in in b D s M. Is this something where 710 00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:50,799 Speaker 1: you guys identify outside as pups or is this something 711 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,080 Speaker 1: that you keep specifically in the bedroom with your partners? 712 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 1: I think I did because on my Grinder profile I 713 00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:06,480 Speaker 1: did have my puppy mask on and I definitely did. Yeah. 714 00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:13,160 Speaker 1: How long have you guys been doing um? So? Yeah, 715 00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,919 Speaker 1: we met up first in mid December. Feet real date 716 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,800 Speaker 1: was on New Year's Eve, made an official January nineteen. 717 00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,400 Speaker 1: One of the things that we do, like often when 718 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:26,120 Speaker 1: we have someone mentioned a kink, is we like to 719 00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:29,080 Speaker 1: kind of have the conversation with how did you introduce 720 00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:32,280 Speaker 1: this to your partner? How did you guys have the conversation? 721 00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:36,839 Speaker 1: Were there any boundaries or guidelines set before entering the play? 722 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,320 Speaker 1: How did the conversation go? Now? Now, Dan, you just 723 00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:42,319 Speaker 1: saw him in the mask um and it did pique 724 00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:44,720 Speaker 1: your interest, but how did you guys have that initial 725 00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:51,719 Speaker 1: conversation before you got into play? If I remember, I 726 00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:55,839 Speaker 1: actually asked, you know, so I knew they had the hood. 727 00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,200 Speaker 1: But then it's so do you are you actually fully 728 00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:01,680 Speaker 1: into pub play or is it more is it the 729 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:05,280 Speaker 1: sexual side or is it just the true costplay side, 730 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,840 Speaker 1: And because that's just it of some people may do. 731 00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:12,799 Speaker 1: It's so say you're in a parade and you can 732 00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,440 Speaker 1: be the cute puppy given the girl flowers like that 733 00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,320 Speaker 1: that can be. I mean, you get to see the 734 00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:20,800 Speaker 1: smile on their face, you're you feel good doing it. 735 00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:25,320 Speaker 1: But some people you need to know. He was about 736 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 1: this life. Yeah, so I told him was just like, hey, 737 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,200 Speaker 1: I just had my hood for like a couple of months. 738 00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:35,560 Speaker 1: Yetta gotta um And it started off as like a 739 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:41,200 Speaker 1: hook up, so we did things backwards what he yeah? Um? 740 00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:44,200 Speaker 1: And also he has a bike, so a motorcycle, and 741 00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,840 Speaker 1: so he has a full on like leather bikes. Your 742 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:52,880 Speaker 1: family now no that this this is really in my 743 00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:58,440 Speaker 1: private life mine does? My siblings are there about but 744 00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:01,080 Speaker 1: I know, I mean, well I posted the picture. It 745 00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,279 Speaker 1: was my profile picture on Twitter, and then I post 746 00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:04,880 Speaker 1: the picture of me in my hood being like, oh, 747 00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:07,640 Speaker 1: I'm living my best life or something like that on Facebook, 748 00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:09,600 Speaker 1: and I was just like, I don't care, Like this 749 00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:15,840 Speaker 1: is me in my hood. Yeah, it's fine. Yeah. People 750 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,000 Speaker 1: from church that I grew up with, they sigh and 751 00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,200 Speaker 1: like my district manager sag. And she was like, oh, 752 00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:23,480 Speaker 1: that's cute until she found out and then and then 753 00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:25,120 Speaker 1: she was just like, I don't want any part of 754 00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,359 Speaker 1: your ship. But I told her. I was just like, listen, 755 00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 1: I'm about to be on horrible decisions. I'm sending this podcast. 756 00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:31,480 Speaker 1: She was like, I don't want I don't want this. 757 00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:35,839 Speaker 1: Who I am? Okay, I'm living my best life, living 758 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:39,640 Speaker 1: my truth. Honestly, I think it's so easy to judge though, 759 00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,600 Speaker 1: with like kinks and and we all don't know. For 760 00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 1: someone thinks pegging's nasty, someone thinks my book copye ship 761 00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,480 Speaker 1: and being on Alicia's nasty, someone thinks nasty. It's like 762 00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:53,640 Speaker 1: we always judge until, like we you know, until you 763 00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:56,719 Speaker 1: experience it. Then you realize I'm kind of into it 764 00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,160 Speaker 1: on Twitter and I reposted it and all of the 765 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,480 Speaker 1: followers that saw it were like, no, no, sis, I'm 766 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:06,040 Speaker 1: kink shaming. This guy was fucking a low top air 767 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 1: Force one, um and it'said day fifty nine of quarantine 768 00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:13,080 Speaker 1: and he was literally fucking his shoe and I was 769 00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:15,040 Speaker 1: just like, yeah, but we had that guy on the 770 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:18,239 Speaker 1: episode about jacking in front of shoes. This man was 771 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:20,840 Speaker 1: literally using his air Force one as a fleshlight, and 772 00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:24,719 Speaker 1: I was just like, I think he uh, well, I 773 00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,759 Speaker 1: think it goes back to what you said earlier of 774 00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:29,480 Speaker 1: after a while, you got to spice it up, you know, 775 00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:33,400 Speaker 1: the norm just doesn't it's gonna be like, damn that 776 00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 1: lampy looking sexy. It was like, damn, my air Force 777 00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 1: one was looking kind of thick. I'm like, no, it's 778 00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:47,000 Speaker 1: not looking thick. It wasn't how like you know they say, 779 00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:49,680 Speaker 1: like no creases in your sneakers, Like, nah, you put 780 00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:58,239 Speaker 1: that motherfucker in it. Shit, he's moisturizing the weather. I mean, 781 00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,480 Speaker 1: I'm into like a lot of ships, but like there's 782 00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:03,239 Speaker 1: some things out there that I would never shame someone 783 00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:04,600 Speaker 1: for what they do. Like do what you want to do, 784 00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:08,240 Speaker 1: but like I actually wanted to ask that he owns 785 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:11,120 Speaker 1: a motorcycle. And looking at these hoods, you guys can't 786 00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:14,080 Speaker 1: see them because we don't have video, but they're actually 787 00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:19,800 Speaker 1: leather hoods and you mentioning him having the motorcycle. Is 788 00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,239 Speaker 1: there a part of leather fetishism as well that goes 789 00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:28,560 Speaker 1: into this play at all for either of you? So, 790 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,440 Speaker 1: I mean, in general, there is I mean, there is 791 00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:35,400 Speaker 1: a crossover. H I honestly believe that a lot of 792 00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:37,880 Speaker 1: people who are in a pub play it started as 793 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:43,480 Speaker 1: a gear fetish and evolved. Um, it doesn't have to, 794 00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,200 Speaker 1: but there is a lot of crossover. Um. I know 795 00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:50,960 Speaker 1: with us, the motorcycle and the gear definitely, uh got 796 00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:59,240 Speaker 1: Ben's going a little bit. He's like, and he's proud 797 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:03,320 Speaker 1: it was, Yeah, for sure. I mean, I've got a 798 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:09,080 Speaker 1: there's there's actually a guy out in California who makes 799 00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:15,399 Speaker 1: full leather motorcycle track suits and people. I mean they're 800 00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:20,920 Speaker 1: not They're not only used in the kink world. People 801 00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:24,480 Speaker 1: use these actually for racing. One of the features that 802 00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:33,440 Speaker 1: his have is a and I mean the we may 803 00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:37,600 Speaker 1: we utilize the front door for and and I mean 804 00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:41,040 Speaker 1: they're primarily marketed for if you're at the track all day, 805 00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:44,400 Speaker 1: you're going to have to pee eventually. These things aren't 806 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:50,479 Speaker 1: exactly the easiest to take on someone with someone fuck 807 00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:54,000 Speaker 1: someone you know, with the mood strikes. I just bought 808 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:57,719 Speaker 1: a onesie and it has like a flat and I 809 00:48:57,920 --> 00:48:59,320 Speaker 1: peed through it the other day and I was like, 810 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:01,680 Speaker 1: you know, I'm chin it. I'm reaching peak levels of 811 00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:07,200 Speaker 1: like bumshit, like like ultimate convenience, honestly, Like it's not 812 00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,080 Speaker 1: like I'm out at the club. I have time to 813 00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:15,120 Speaker 1: pull this down. What the fuck again? Quarantine is destroyed. 814 00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:17,839 Speaker 1: I want to get into our home mail because it's 815 00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:19,880 Speaker 1: really freaky, and I think that you guys would be 816 00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:23,200 Speaker 1: great for this. Um, Mandy, I got this and I, 817 00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,279 Speaker 1: by the way, please send your emails, UM, and your 818 00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:29,320 Speaker 1: homemails to Horrible Decisions dot com and Gmail. This was 819 00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,400 Speaker 1: on Twitter and I normally never see it, but it 820 00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:35,680 Speaker 1: came as an email. UM. So, my boyfriend and I 821 00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,399 Speaker 1: just disclosed our fetishes to each other, and I really 822 00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:41,680 Speaker 1: want to fulfill his. He told me he loved watching 823 00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:45,040 Speaker 1: girls being sucked by machines and porn. He said he 824 00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,080 Speaker 1: loves something about their faces to the point where they 825 00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:50,719 Speaker 1: can't take it anymore. He also mentioned being bounded when 826 00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:53,680 Speaker 1: they're taking it. How can I go about fulfilling his fantasy? 827 00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:56,640 Speaker 1: These machines are expensive, aren't they. I've also mentioned being 828 00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:59,120 Speaker 1: tied up and bounded before, something I really wanted to try, 829 00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:01,719 Speaker 1: but he's never taking the initiative to do anything about it. 830 00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:04,359 Speaker 1: Where can I start to ease him into these things 831 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,040 Speaker 1: and let him know that I'm down with it. He 832 00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:09,000 Speaker 1: just seems so shy when it comes to wanting to 833 00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:12,120 Speaker 1: express his fetishes and I'm just down for whatever. I 834 00:50:12,239 --> 00:50:14,120 Speaker 1: just really want to please him and make him comfortable 835 00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:16,360 Speaker 1: with me in bed, which will hopefully open more doors. 836 00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,200 Speaker 1: Even him telling me his fetish is a big step. 837 00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:23,640 Speaker 1: How do I get it going? I mean coming from 838 00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:26,360 Speaker 1: someone who like I can't agree with her boyfriend, Like 839 00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,520 Speaker 1: I kind of like that stuff, so I mean, if 840 00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,520 Speaker 1: it's expensive, I mean, you gotta do what you gotta do. 841 00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:33,840 Speaker 1: So maybe just asking him, like what can we do 842 00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:37,319 Speaker 1: to like get that started, because it can. It doesn't 843 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:38,840 Speaker 1: have to be like a machine. It can start with 844 00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,600 Speaker 1: the bounding and like tying you up and all that stuff. 845 00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:44,040 Speaker 1: It's more of like a I guess for me, I 846 00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:45,520 Speaker 1: don't know what it is for his brain, but like 847 00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:48,240 Speaker 1: watching someone with like a machine, they're usually like can't 848 00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:51,960 Speaker 1: stop it and someone is controlling it. So it's more 849 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,160 Speaker 1: of like it's more of just like knowing that you 850 00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:57,680 Speaker 1: can't like you can't take it, but like you're also 851 00:50:57,880 --> 00:50:59,879 Speaker 1: just like you don't want it to stop. Yeah. Yeah, 852 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,120 Speaker 1: So tying her up to where she can't really like 853 00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:09,160 Speaker 1: sounds when I explain what I mean, you can't like, Yeah, 854 00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:11,960 Speaker 1: I mean, she's totally contentful for it, so like it's 855 00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:14,200 Speaker 1: you know, it's cool for her just like tie your 856 00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:15,600 Speaker 1: stuff up so you can't really move a lot and 857 00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:17,480 Speaker 1: just be like what you want to do. I mean 858 00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:20,680 Speaker 1: that that was like for me, um, when I did 859 00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:25,040 Speaker 1: the pegging, and you know, we sucked ten times at night, 860 00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:27,320 Speaker 1: but what was fun for me was actually both of 861 00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:31,279 Speaker 1: us going to the sex store together and picking out 862 00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:34,279 Speaker 1: you know, the toy and the strap thing he felt 863 00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,600 Speaker 1: comfortable taking. And I think that that could be the 864 00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:40,200 Speaker 1: same approach with this, where maybe because we're quarantine, you 865 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:42,879 Speaker 1: guys go online and both of you guys looked through 866 00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:52,680 Speaker 1: the toys together and see, you know, thet both of 867 00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:55,480 Speaker 1: you guys have searched together, and if they are expensive 868 00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,480 Speaker 1: and maybe you can't have a promo code. This could 869 00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:00,239 Speaker 1: be something to where maybe the two of you start 870 00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,719 Speaker 1: a piggy bank together and look forward to this. So 871 00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:04,680 Speaker 1: it's something that you plan it's something that both of 872 00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:08,600 Speaker 1: you guys saved towards and and you make this make 873 00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:11,040 Speaker 1: a wish list like um, and you know, once you 874 00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:13,440 Speaker 1: reach the goal of the money that you guys saved 875 00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:15,960 Speaker 1: for it, you purchase it and make a whole night 876 00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:19,719 Speaker 1: out of it. I just googled it. By the way, 877 00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:24,560 Speaker 1: I really think that that the communication aspect, especially when 878 00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:28,960 Speaker 1: you're talking about any bondage, is paramount because, like Cody 879 00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:32,800 Speaker 1: kind of mentioned it, it very much. If it hasn't 880 00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:36,919 Speaker 1: been discussed and it isn't agreed upon, it does start 881 00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:40,320 Speaker 1: crossing that line. And I mean, not only is it 882 00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:42,920 Speaker 1: going to help the night go better, but I think 883 00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:47,719 Speaker 1: communication within the I feel crazy watching So I did 884 00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:51,120 Speaker 1: go down a rabbit hole, and so everyone knows that 885 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:54,320 Speaker 1: I watched gate Point and I'll put it on Patreon 886 00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:56,320 Speaker 1: because I think I saved it in my notes. But 887 00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:59,200 Speaker 1: it was a little like it was. It was a 888 00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:00,840 Speaker 1: little bit of a lie to me. So he was 889 00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,759 Speaker 1: kind of like in a I don't want to say guillotine, 890 00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:07,440 Speaker 1: guillotine whatever it is. Yeah, he was in that like 891 00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:11,160 Speaker 1: he was his hands were locked and he there was 892 00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:15,200 Speaker 1: a huge like like dildo toy that was like fucking 893 00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:19,840 Speaker 1: his asshole and I was just like, holy sh it, 894 00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:21,840 Speaker 1: and he couldn't move and it was like done by. 895 00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:24,600 Speaker 1: I thought it was really hot though, um, but I 896 00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:30,440 Speaker 1: also felt weird watching it, so you're like to go 897 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:34,040 Speaker 1: to church afterwards? Actually not that um, but I was 898 00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:37,520 Speaker 1: like ship something happy on Netflix right now or something 899 00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:44,000 Speaker 1: ships I felt. I felt I was going to suggest 900 00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:47,280 Speaker 1: a cheap like, um way to get around the machine 901 00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 1: right now? Is getting one of those things that stick 902 00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:58,600 Speaker 1: to the wall jelly, like the suction guy. Yeah, you already, 903 00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:03,440 Speaker 1: if you already have fidildo. Yeah, you're like the non 904 00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:06,040 Speaker 1: restraint person's gonna their arms are gonna get tired eventually, 905 00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:09,879 Speaker 1: but more likely than not, you can go longer. It's 906 00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:14,120 Speaker 1: like a hands free thing traditional yeah, because it's loss 907 00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,520 Speaker 1: of control that it seems like they're I think asking 908 00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:19,560 Speaker 1: the question too, if it's real or if it's for example, 909 00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:21,520 Speaker 1: like I love BUKACKI, but I don't want it done 910 00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:24,440 Speaker 1: to me, so like is this something you want us 911 00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,919 Speaker 1: to do together or is this just your fetish for porn? 912 00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:30,040 Speaker 1: Like I think that the two could be differential, you 913 00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:32,080 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Is it an idea or do 914 00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:34,680 Speaker 1: you want it to be like real, Oh thats because 915 00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:37,200 Speaker 1: some people can't handle this ship that they're watching in porn. 916 00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,000 Speaker 1: I mean, at least for mine. The only one that 917 00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:40,840 Speaker 1: I think I watched in porn that I could definitely 918 00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:43,000 Speaker 1: do one day is like an MMF threesome when I 919 00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:46,560 Speaker 1: get ready for it one day. But yeah, I mean 920 00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:49,799 Speaker 1: for right ideally like no, like I watch FISTI porn, 921 00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:54,680 Speaker 1: but it's just like that I don't want you don't 922 00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,640 Speaker 1: want it. I've tried. Yeah, I mean I can watch 923 00:54:57,719 --> 00:54:59,680 Speaker 1: and be like, okay, cool, that's hot, but it's just 924 00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:02,520 Speaker 1: like then towards him, I don't know. Sometimes they just 925 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:07,680 Speaker 1: be fisting. They just be fisting like assholes, and I'm like, assholes, 926 00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:10,919 Speaker 1: like the nastiest ship to me. I can't. I can't 927 00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:13,920 Speaker 1: fucking do it. I can't. Like I'm just like walking 928 00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:16,040 Speaker 1: and I'm like, say, you guys need to take over 929 00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:18,680 Speaker 1: the show because every time we say something noting, he's like, 930 00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:26,520 Speaker 1: I could do it. I don't give me a pen, 931 00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:28,680 Speaker 1: I'll be fine, Like I know I couldn't. I mean, 932 00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,520 Speaker 1: I like the rose bed is the rosebud is hot. Sorry, 933 00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:35,600 Speaker 1: Zach is over here cringing. It gives me anxiety I 934 00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:37,799 Speaker 1: don't know why. It just looks it makes me feel 935 00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:42,279 Speaker 1: like I'm looking too deep into someone's ass. Soule, that's 936 00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,960 Speaker 1: what it is. That's what it's an asshole. You see 937 00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:49,080 Speaker 1: the soul, That's what it is. I can't like. I'm like, 938 00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:51,359 Speaker 1: if you're into that, do it. But like I, damn, 939 00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:55,840 Speaker 1: that's a great T shirt. Assholes. You should really you 940 00:55:55,840 --> 00:56:01,879 Speaker 1: should really look into my should I love it well, 941 00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:03,880 Speaker 1: and then there'll be a rose, There'll be like a 942 00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:08,200 Speaker 1: little decorative here we got graphic. Does that make this ship? 943 00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:15,200 Speaker 1: If you're bored um any social media handles that you 944 00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:17,200 Speaker 1: want to share, do you have something specific for your 945 00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:20,400 Speaker 1: pup ship or what? Yeah, let us know. I do 946 00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:22,759 Speaker 1: have a pup Twitter, but I haven't touched it like 947 00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:24,800 Speaker 1: I made a specific Okay, So I started following like 948 00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:27,279 Speaker 1: all this like gay ship on Twitter didn't even hold you? 949 00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:31,879 Speaker 1: And it was like, full on, who I'm following on Twitter? There, 950 00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:35,560 Speaker 1: I'm going to be judged. I'm following nothing but like 951 00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:39,960 Speaker 1: only fan motherfucker's that show their dicks and jack off. 952 00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:46,600 Speaker 1: I'm following starts like second Preview. I am so because 953 00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:49,279 Speaker 1: late at night for whatever reason, they don't post. But 954 00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:51,320 Speaker 1: it's like literally mid day at one o'clock when I 955 00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:53,399 Speaker 1: just want to see the news on my timeline, that's 956 00:56:53,440 --> 00:56:55,320 Speaker 1: when I see all the dicks and I'm just like, 957 00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:57,600 Speaker 1: what type of time. I don't know what type of 958 00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:00,759 Speaker 1: times are on or if one o'clock for the peak time, 959 00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:03,320 Speaker 1: but I literally just I just want to see the 960 00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:06,320 Speaker 1: news and I have to pass all these dicks. I'm like, 961 00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:08,799 Speaker 1: I want you guys for late night and they don't 962 00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:13,399 Speaker 1: like nine and I don't understand why. No, for sure, 963 00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:15,800 Speaker 1: Like I like followed all this gay ship and like 964 00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:18,520 Speaker 1: anything you like, I didn't know this, but it sends 965 00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:21,120 Speaker 1: like a notification. She follows like oh Vincent like this, 966 00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:26,440 Speaker 1: I liked it. My neighbor like texted me, she's my 967 00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:28,400 Speaker 1: best friend and she was just like, what the funk 968 00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:30,840 Speaker 1: are you following on Twitter? And she like sent me 969 00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:32,640 Speaker 1: a screenshot of like the gay ship that I liked. 970 00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:33,960 Speaker 1: And then I was like, oh my god, my mom 971 00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:40,600 Speaker 1: and Twitter, if you like a tweet that like, don't 972 00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:44,200 Speaker 1: like ship, who's following you? There's so many pastors that 973 00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:49,560 Speaker 1: got expanded like that. I'm like anymore, but I do 974 00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:59,120 Speaker 1: bookmark on Twitter, bookmark market or later. I mean, I definitely. 975 00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:00,760 Speaker 1: I did not know that was a thank So he 976 00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,440 Speaker 1: was telling me that because I know his his neighbors, 977 00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,960 Speaker 1: like his old roommate. They're doing each other forever. But 978 00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:07,760 Speaker 1: like he was telling that story and I was like, 979 00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:09,640 Speaker 1: oh my god, that's why all that ship was popping 980 00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:12,280 Speaker 1: up on my feet. I didn't know what was I wasn't, 981 00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:19,800 Speaker 1: like I said, like, I was not looking for rally read. 982 00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:23,840 Speaker 1: First of all, I stop driving me about but no, 983 00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:25,800 Speaker 1: So I was like, that makes sense that you're sucking 984 00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:27,760 Speaker 1: liking all this ship, and I was like, who the funk? 985 00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:29,520 Speaker 1: Like why is this? Like I was like, Twitter's like 986 00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:31,680 Speaker 1: targeting me for something, Like I don't even know what 987 00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:34,480 Speaker 1: the is going on. I like the liking feature just 988 00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:37,680 Speaker 1: sometimes I follow that people with similar views, but I 989 00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,040 Speaker 1: don't like being exposed. Like you know what I'm saying. 990 00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:43,640 Speaker 1: I just feel, um god, it felt naked. I thought 991 00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:47,000 Speaker 1: it was safe. That was really getting me through the days. 992 00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:49,160 Speaker 1: Like I was talking to one of my friends about 993 00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:51,680 Speaker 1: how I think, well, Mandy made me think of it. 994 00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:54,520 Speaker 1: She has a girlfriend, um, Stephanie Santiago, who doesn't get 995 00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:56,640 Speaker 1: naked but still makes hell of money on all my fans. 996 00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:59,040 Speaker 1: And one of my friends shout out to Venus Act 997 00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:01,440 Speaker 1: she's a DJ. I was, bro, You've already made your 998 00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:04,120 Speaker 1: mark globally as a DJ without having to be sexy. 999 00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:06,400 Speaker 1: Make it only fans and just do it in your 1000 00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:09,720 Speaker 1: bron panties now, like DJ and your brin panties. I 1001 00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:12,520 Speaker 1: want to like read the news and my bron panties. 1002 00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:15,160 Speaker 1: Like I would love to do some ship, but I 1003 00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:18,680 Speaker 1: don't know. I think the only fans people that succeed 1004 00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:24,000 Speaker 1: are so just their content looks next level, like next level, 1005 00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:26,880 Speaker 1: like miss be nasty. Um. I think that your boy Frisco, 1006 00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:31,000 Speaker 1: like he'll go outside, he'll get lights and ship and costumes, 1007 00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:33,439 Speaker 1: like you could tell there's effort into their nasty ship, 1008 00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:36,439 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And I feel bad because 1009 00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:38,480 Speaker 1: there's so many people that need some extra cash right 1010 00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:41,080 Speaker 1: now and they're just like sucking their ass on a 1011 00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:44,600 Speaker 1: you know, iPhone camera and it's kind of dusty. If 1012 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:46,920 Speaker 1: there's a time to get an only fans, yeah, like 1013 00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:50,720 Speaker 1: I will support it. I'm gonna try to start a 1014 00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:55,480 Speaker 1: Patreon thread if anyone like has people that are actually 1015 00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:57,440 Speaker 1: just started an only fans, so I'm gonna have to 1016 00:59:57,440 --> 01:00:02,360 Speaker 1: ask her, right, But there's still nothing more disappointing than 1017 01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:05,600 Speaker 1: like going and liking one and like they're like, I 1018 01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:08,240 Speaker 1: don't know marketing for themselves. They're like I'm so nasty 1019 01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:09,800 Speaker 1: to get on there, and it's like there's not one 1020 01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:12,920 Speaker 1: motherfucking vagina out here, There's not one freaking penis, Like 1021 01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:14,800 Speaker 1: I don't care about you and your boxer's like, what 1022 01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:21,080 Speaker 1: the hell, I'm not paying anyone sending pictures of like 1023 01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:24,160 Speaker 1: Dick Prince or like in their boxers or like, bro, 1024 01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:26,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to see your polyester nigga, like I 1025 01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:30,680 Speaker 1: want to see send me like we're not in high school. 1026 01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:32,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to see dick print dick picks sent 1027 01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:35,480 Speaker 1: on my phone. But you know you said lingerie picks. 1028 01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:39,240 Speaker 1: Uh no, I put lingerie pick, bitch. No, if I'm sitting. 1029 01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 1: First off, my pictures go on Instagram, I'm not taking 1030 01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:48,240 Speaker 1: just like they see my pictures to niggas, they see 1031 01:00:48,280 --> 01:00:51,120 Speaker 1: in his titty, puts a hole in his buota hole. Goddamnit, 1032 01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:54,840 Speaker 1: I ain't a child. I don't even send them now, 1033 01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:59,240 Speaker 1: literally sent you a picture this morning, really to anybody, 1034 01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:01,520 Speaker 1: because I can't. I've said this a long time, like, 1035 01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:03,600 Speaker 1: don't even send me your dick unless I can get 1036 01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:06,120 Speaker 1: your dick within the following twenty four hours. And because 1037 01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,560 Speaker 1: that's not an option, let me just stick to my 1038 01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:11,160 Speaker 1: Twitter timeline and porn hub. I don't really care to 1039 01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:14,800 Speaker 1: see dicks that I can't even get, So you don't 1040 01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:17,840 Speaker 1: self care discipline. You gotta know what you need around 1041 01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:24,240 Speaker 1: this time. Self discipline. This is the word. Well, yeah, 1042 01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:31,040 Speaker 1: I know, because you're talking about fascination is self discipline. 1043 01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:33,360 Speaker 1: Like self discipline would be like okay, I'm still I'm 1044 01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:36,600 Speaker 1: like abstaining from you, but it's like, okay, I'm abstaining 1045 01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:41,880 Speaker 1: from my like like you're one short step away from 1046 01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:45,080 Speaker 1: tries today, and that's a whole different episode. This was 1047 01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:47,680 Speaker 1: reminding me of a shout out to my girl Rashida. 1048 01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:50,440 Speaker 1: She got me a reekie session reckue session, sorry whatever, 1049 01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:52,960 Speaker 1: how do you say recue session for my birthday? And 1050 01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,960 Speaker 1: so I did it um yesterday over face time and 1051 01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:59,240 Speaker 1: the lady was talking about showing gratitude and she's like, yeah, 1052 01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:01,520 Speaker 1: the next time time that you know, you're in the morning, 1053 01:02:01,560 --> 01:02:03,680 Speaker 1: if you want to do a small meditation, get put 1054 01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,040 Speaker 1: your coffee in a beautiful mug and sit there for 1055 01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:08,440 Speaker 1: ten minutes. No distractions and hold it and talk about 1056 01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:11,800 Speaker 1: how good it taste. And I got horny and was 1057 01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:18,880 Speaker 1: like coffe. You were just like, oh yeah, smell that coffee. 1058 01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:25,000 Speaker 1: She was like, you're going to save her. I thought 1059 01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:29,200 Speaker 1: you were talking about the coffee from the coffee. Yeah yeah, 1060 01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:37,240 Speaker 1: I was like, damn, what was that? Folders appreciating smaller 1061 01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:39,360 Speaker 1: moments so that it's not the same. So the next 1062 01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:40,840 Speaker 1: time I suck a dick, I'm going to keep it 1063 01:02:40,880 --> 01:02:42,480 Speaker 1: in my mouth for a few seconds and be like, 1064 01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:45,760 Speaker 1: I feel feeling up all the grooves. I feel it 1065 01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:48,080 Speaker 1: on the roof of whatever. You're gonna be like tell 1066 01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:58,200 Speaker 1: me a story. A um oh yeah, drop your and 1067 01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:02,160 Speaker 1: find you. We would love to know him ship. So 1068 01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:06,280 Speaker 1: Cody's is hang on, it's c J car I changed it, No, 1069 01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:09,640 Speaker 1: I changed okay, Well mine is be convinced um, so 1070 01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:16,840 Speaker 1: it's be underscore convinced Vicent. Thank you. Also, if you 1071 01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:21,320 Speaker 1: want my Skype, it's invincible spelled with Vince Um. I 1072 01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:26,720 Speaker 1: definitely did so. Then Cody's is Cody Underscore. Carter and 1073 01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:34,720 Speaker 1: I actually very rarely use social media, especially to post anymore. 1074 01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:38,960 Speaker 1: He was like, here's my zenga. This is I have 1075 01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:42,960 Speaker 1: the only act of my Space account. I want to 1076 01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:45,360 Speaker 1: thank you guys um for joining us. This is fun. 1077 01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:48,400 Speaker 1: I hope a lot of you guys learned some new things. Again, 1078 01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:51,400 Speaker 1: we brought back talking about sounding you guys can look 1079 01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:53,960 Speaker 1: that up if you guys are patriots. Again, we want 1080 01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:57,920 Speaker 1: to thank everyone who supports us UM on Patreon, and 1081 01:03:58,000 --> 01:03:59,880 Speaker 1: we are going to post some of those porn links, 1082 01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:02,360 Speaker 1: so check us out there. But also if you're all 1083 01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:06,520 Speaker 1: caught up with horrible decisions, we drop three bonus episodes 1084 01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:09,760 Speaker 1: a month and COVID nineteen ain't stopping that plus the 1085 01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:13,800 Speaker 1: whole so y'all got mad motherfucking content over there on Patreon, 1086 01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:18,400 Speaker 1: there's over sixty episodes um of bonus content, So that's 1087 01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:22,600 Speaker 1: over sixty hours of of new episodes and old episodes 1088 01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:25,080 Speaker 1: that you guys can go back and listen to again. 1089 01:04:25,360 --> 01:04:30,160 Speaker 1: Join us on Patreon at patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions. 1090 01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:31,880 Speaker 1: You do have to type it in because we do 1091 01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:35,160 Speaker 1: have an eighteen and up platform over there, because we 1092 01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:37,560 Speaker 1: do have you know, some kind of raunchy ship we post. 1093 01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:40,640 Speaker 1: But again that's Patreon dot com back slash horrible Decisions. 1094 01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:43,080 Speaker 1: We're gonna leave you guys, with a five minute bonus 1095 01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:45,240 Speaker 1: clip so that you guys can see kind of what 1096 01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:47,600 Speaker 1: the content over there sounds like. And once again we 1097 01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:50,080 Speaker 1: want to thank you for tuning into yet another episode 1098 01:04:50,240 --> 01:05:01,200 Speaker 1: of horrible decisions by these guys. You're fun you um 1099 01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:04,360 Speaker 1: our hole facts, UM. This one I found and I 1100 01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:07,240 Speaker 1: thought it was interesting, UM whole facts. We didn't know 1101 01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:09,160 Speaker 1: of another name for it, but I wanted to. We 1102 01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:11,800 Speaker 1: wanted to start sharing sex facts with you guys, UM, 1103 01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:14,560 Speaker 1: and this one was very interesting. UM. I brought it 1104 01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:17,680 Speaker 1: up recently and I can't remember if it was the 1105 01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:22,720 Speaker 1: Houston Show or or what show it was, UM, but 1106 01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:26,600 Speaker 1: it is from Women's Health magazine and this is one 1107 01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:29,600 Speaker 1: for the ladies. UM. So, ladies, if y'all have not 1108 01:05:29,840 --> 01:05:33,880 Speaker 1: experienced an orgasm, UM, one of these sex facts that 1109 01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:38,040 Speaker 1: I found was lube makes it easier to orgasm. If 1110 01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:40,520 Speaker 1: you're having trouble getting off, all your problems might be 1111 01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:44,800 Speaker 1: resolved with one simple addition to the bedroom loube. Nearly 1112 01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:47,560 Speaker 1: fifty of men and women who use lubs said it 1113 01:05:47,600 --> 01:05:49,600 Speaker 1: made it easier to have an orgasm, according to a 1114 01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:53,280 Speaker 1: study out of Indiana University's Center for Sexual Health. UM. 1115 01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:56,160 Speaker 1: I wanted to bring this up because I think as women, 1116 01:05:56,480 --> 01:06:01,120 Speaker 1: we have kind of this um insecurity. If our pussy 1117 01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:05,200 Speaker 1: is not linking, if we're not super wet, if you know, 1118 01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:08,360 Speaker 1: we we even start questioning our arousal to the man 1119 01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:11,320 Speaker 1: or is it me? Or am I not healthy? Should 1120 01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:13,280 Speaker 1: I have drunken more water? Um? So I think that 1121 01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:16,280 Speaker 1: there's kind of the big mom there's the stigma that 1122 01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:20,600 Speaker 1: we've like attached to needing lube as if something is 1123 01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:23,800 Speaker 1: wrong with us. Um. And so if you guys, for 1124 01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:29,840 Speaker 1: whatever reason, are you know, lacking lubrication and sex, that 1125 01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:33,200 Speaker 1: could be a reason why you aren't able to achieve orgasm. 1126 01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:36,200 Speaker 1: So I just want to let you guys know that. UM. 1127 01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:38,960 Speaker 1: I think it can be fun to incorporate it into 1128 01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:41,680 Speaker 1: your lifestyle, have it by the side of your bed, 1129 01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:45,360 Speaker 1: get someone's there's some weird thing about young people grabbing lube. 1130 01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:47,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, we all, I think have that like, 1131 01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:50,960 Speaker 1: oh my god, if I need lube, like bitch, you 1132 01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:53,240 Speaker 1: didn't fail, you know what I mean? Like we just 1133 01:06:53,320 --> 01:06:54,960 Speaker 1: talked about it. I think at Our Lives show was 1134 01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:56,200 Speaker 1: that where we talk about Yeah, I think it was 1135 01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:59,120 Speaker 1: Mandy was like, oh, I've pulled out like I have 1136 01:06:59,280 --> 01:07:03,120 Speaker 1: to yeah, but I also think that you know, obviously, 1137 01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:05,880 Speaker 1: I know we have a sex podcast. I think we're 1138 01:07:05,920 --> 01:07:10,040 Speaker 1: probably we have a lot less shame around doing certain 1139 01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:13,840 Speaker 1: things than I would say the average person. But that's 1140 01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:15,880 Speaker 1: the whole reason you're listening to this show, you know 1141 01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:18,000 Speaker 1: what I mean. It's like normalizing ship that we do. 1142 01:07:18,720 --> 01:07:22,280 Speaker 1: Lube is for someone at any fucking age. I know. 1143 01:07:22,440 --> 01:07:25,080 Speaker 1: I believe that too. And it's funny because when Canadian 1144 01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:27,880 Speaker 1: Bay was over, his dick is massive, and I think 1145 01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:30,080 Speaker 1: I shared that story to where I like we went 1146 01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:32,160 Speaker 1: to a sex club the night before and I didn't 1147 01:07:32,160 --> 01:07:36,320 Speaker 1: even want it because had literally just obliterated my insides 1148 01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:40,400 Speaker 1: um and so I like literally just wanted a pause 1149 01:07:40,720 --> 01:07:44,480 Speaker 1: on fucking him. And when he finally came um over 1150 01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:47,040 Speaker 1: and spent the weekend with me, like literally I kept 1151 01:07:47,240 --> 01:07:49,600 Speaker 1: lube on the side of the bed, and right before 1152 01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:52,560 Speaker 1: I knew we were going to fuck, I like leaned over, 1153 01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:55,600 Speaker 1: put it in my hand, rubbed myself a little bit. 1154 01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:58,840 Speaker 1: Just also just when you're fucking, like you said, he 1155 01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:00,880 Speaker 1: can't remember he came to stay for the weekend or whatever. 1156 01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:03,760 Speaker 1: I think, in my opinion, like when I was just 1157 01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:06,800 Speaker 1: having one off sex, I was way more wet when 1158 01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:09,200 Speaker 1: I get frequent, like if we're sucking the whole weekend, 1159 01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:12,720 Speaker 1: well and we weren't working the whole weekend. But also 1160 01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:15,720 Speaker 1: just the use of condoms, so like the like the 1161 01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:17,920 Speaker 1: use of condoms, like and those were working all over 1162 01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:20,880 Speaker 1: the floor, but the use of condoms to like lead 1163 01:08:20,960 --> 01:08:24,880 Speaker 1: to it to be dry or irritated or fuck, like 1164 01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:27,000 Speaker 1: he has to put it on. So I think in 1165 01:08:27,120 --> 01:08:29,600 Speaker 1: the time that maybe he's putting on the condom. You 1166 01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:33,000 Speaker 1: can be making sure not only you're looved with your 1167 01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:38,920 Speaker 1: own like secretions, but also to go ahead and just applyn. 1168 01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:42,720 Speaker 1: I forgot that I get existed. Yeah, he's been out 1169 01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:45,559 Speaker 1: the pictures since October and it's that's five months. That's 1170 01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:48,519 Speaker 1: a long time. Wow, that's a long time. I think. 1171 01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:52,599 Speaker 1: I think he's like, yeah, I don't miss them. It's 1172 01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:56,800 Speaker 1: that's a wrap. You know. It's crazy when like I 1173 01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:58,880 Speaker 1: feel like when we would do this podcast and you 1174 01:08:58,920 --> 01:09:01,400 Speaker 1: would talk about him, I feel like I would see 1175 01:09:01,439 --> 01:09:02,679 Speaker 1: him more, you know what I mean, Like I feel 1176 01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:04,120 Speaker 1: like you pop up somewhere. I would just see her. 1177 01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:07,040 Speaker 1: It was more noticeable. And it's it's like when something 1178 01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:08,840 Speaker 1: is right here on your mind, like you ever, like 1179 01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:12,080 Speaker 1: your periods of day light, suddenly you start seeing mad babies, 1180 01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:15,360 Speaker 1: you see anti abortion ats. It's like it's everywhere. Right, 1181 01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:20,599 Speaker 1: I really forgot that Nick existed. Yeah, I'm one of them. 1182 01:09:21,120 --> 01:09:23,200 Speaker 1: That's good though, Box Dick gotta go.