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Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: We are so excited to welcome Deanna to our podcast

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Speaker 2: today and for this podcast, we're going to chat all

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Speaker 2: about Charity's Men Tell all which uh Deanna and I

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Speaker 2: were lucky enough to be there for. That was so

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Speaker 2: much fun to see you and Doz obviously, but I

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Speaker 2: just I love our catch up sessions.

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Speaker 3: So I feel like it's always like a hard yes

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Speaker 3: anytime they asked me to come and record, because I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I get to see my best friends, right right.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm just happy that they brought that they

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Speaker 4: brought back. I mean because Christa and I have talked

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Speaker 4: about this a bunch. She's always like, they never asked

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Speaker 4: me to come back. It's like, you know, so I'm

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Speaker 4: just really glad they brought you both back with Doz.

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Speaker 5: I think that's awesome.

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Speaker 2: I know we were having this conversation because you know

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Speaker 2: we obviously, Bob, you know this.

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Speaker 3: We get there all day, we hang out, we have drinks,

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Speaker 3: we get ready whatever. And they were as soon as

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Speaker 3: I walked in, I was the first one there and

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Speaker 3: they were.

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Speaker 2: Like, okay, this is your room. This one's Trista's room.

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Speaker 2: And then this one's Desiree's room. I'm like, we're all

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Speaker 2: going to be in the same room all day may right,

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Speaker 2: that is.

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Speaker 1: Exactly what we did.

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Speaker 3: We hung out all day long because we haven't seen

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Speaker 3: each other and sometimes so we all literally sat in

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Speaker 3: day long. So it was like, I mean, for me,

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Speaker 3: I was like, I would have done it for free.

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Speaker 3: But you know she will tell them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so much fun. So welcome to the podcast. I'm

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Speaker 2: so excited to have you see you, at least see

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Speaker 2: you on the screen. And it was so much fun.

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Speaker 2: I don't know about you, but I just adore Charity, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's super sweet, really seems really sweet.

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Speaker 3: I haven't watched I'm not the best Bachelorette fan in

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Speaker 3: the world because I do not spend my Monday nights

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Speaker 3: watching the show and I am not in several seasons,

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Speaker 3: so I was definitely playing catch up. But I just

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Speaker 3: thought she's just so sweet, and I would say after

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Speaker 3: meeting her in person, she is a true testament to

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Speaker 3: like who she was on television versus the same person

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Speaker 3: in person.

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Speaker 2: She's just so tiny, so tiny, she is tiny. I

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Speaker 2: feel like everyone always says that because they see you

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Speaker 2: on television, and especially for me, they're always like, whoa,

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Speaker 2: I just thought you were so much taller.

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Speaker 3: Actually, every time I showed my friends pictures of me

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Speaker 3: and you, they're like, oh my gosh, Trista is so

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Speaker 3: much shorter than you.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, well, she's tiny too.

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Speaker 2: But yes, it was like, as Bob said, I have

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Speaker 2: mentioned it so many times on the podcast that I'm like,

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Speaker 2: did I do something wrong to somebody like executive producer, whatever?

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Speaker 2: And because I felt like they never asked me back,

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Speaker 2: and you know, usually it's like to give advice and listen,

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Speaker 2: I get it. The world has changed a whole lot

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Speaker 2: after almost twenty years of marriage. So I was really

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Speaker 2: thankful that they asked me back, and just so thankful

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Speaker 2: that they had you and does too, because they do

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Speaker 2: feel like, you know, on our little bachelorette group chat

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Speaker 2: kind of the the ogs that are part of that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess who was before you? Obviously Meredith

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Speaker 2: and Jen. So that billion you were the first. No,

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Speaker 2: Gillian was after me. I wasn't so you were the first,

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Speaker 2: and that it was, so it is you and then me.

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Speaker 2: So where they are legit the old gals, like the

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Speaker 2: old gus, original guys.

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Speaker 3: We are before they started forking out a lot of

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Speaker 1: Like we went to Cabo y'all.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, hey, that would have been exotic for me.

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Speaker 4: I mean I always say, like we got on my

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Speaker 4: We went to Anchorage, Alaska, and then we did get

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Speaker 3: Days a lot too, though, because the second I start

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Speaker 4: And I was on a hot tub at the base

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Speaker 4: Oh really, no bubbles but no heat, Like it wasn't

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Speaker 4: even a real hot tub. They fancied it out of

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Speaker 3: Say this all the time because you guys know this.

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Speaker 3: On the show, a lot of people are always like,

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Speaker 1: Blah blah blahlah blah.

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Speaker 3: And I always remember when I was the bachelorette, I

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Speaker 3: course like asked about prior people. And again, because I

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Speaker 3: There was this one guy who was like the myth

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Speaker 3: How outgoing he was, and also about how they used

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Speaker 4: I don't know why Grandma was doing that. Oh I

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Speaker 1: No, no, he's a solid dude.

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Speaker 2: No, Bob, we're referring to you in the metaphorical sense

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Speaker 2: that you you've got a pretty good, uh pretty good

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Speaker 5: I don't I don't know if that's entirely true.

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Speaker 4: I think some of those details have gotten way better

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Speaker 2: So I did kissing. He was the kissing bandit.

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Speaker 4: But I do think some of that stuff has become

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Speaker 2: I'm like, we're that old, We're that old that we true,

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Speaker 3: I'm no longer married. But children, you're doing the whole

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, well, it's always weird to

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Speaker 2: to sound like you're bragging, but you also know they

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Speaker 1: And I was like, how do we not know each other?

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Speaker 3: And she was like, yeah, I only worked on one season.

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh, which season? And she goes Brad

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Speaker 3: So I literally she's like Google a photo and I

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Speaker 2: And she was like, oh, I was there. I thought

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Speaker 4: Why it shows you how much production truly cares about us, right,

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Speaker 3: She was like, that's great photo of you somewhere on

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Speaker 2: Wait, okay, so let's talk about mentell All. We were there,

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Speaker 2: but I have to say we were having so much fun,

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Speaker 2: We were backstage just having fun with Batman and some

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Speaker 2: of the producers, and so we didn't see anything. But

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Speaker 2: you've watched since, right, d well.

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Speaker 3: I in my defense, I did do a crash course

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Speaker 3: while I was getting ready to leave that day. I

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Speaker 2: At least, But have you seen the mentel All. I

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Speaker 2: did the same thing today and fast forwarded through some

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Speaker 2: of the pieces. But in my defense, I was also like,

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Speaker 2: which ones are hot, which ones are going to be

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Speaker 2: there to, which ones.

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Speaker 1: Are going to go on?

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Speaker 3: How many roses will I receive tonight? You know what,

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Speaker 3: how this gonna work out for me totally?

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Speaker 2: So I just wanted to make sure because I'm pretty

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Speaker 2: sure Bob has not watched, So I'm just laying the groundwork.

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Speaker 2: I've watched mentel all. A couple of the things that

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Speaker 2: stood out were Xavier. So did you watch the Exavier part?

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Speaker 2: Xavier is the one who said he had been unfaced

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, See, we have to figure out.

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Speaker 3: I'm one of those people that keep people in my

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Ryan Suter. This is this is how we have

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Speaker 2: Okay, Xavier, I did watch, I did watch his bit. Yeah, okay, good.

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Speaker 2: So it was just frustrating to me that Xavier told

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Speaker 2: that people make mistakes and he realizes that now he

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Speaker 2: But whatever, hindsight's twenty twenty. So I mean, people make mistakes,

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Speaker 3: I was just like, I want my devil's advocate. And

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Speaker 3: it'll be interesting hearing Bob's mail perspective on this too,

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: And again, I'm all for Charity and the way she's

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Speaker 1: And about her.

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Speaker 3: I was twenty four when I went on The Bachelor. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: had the wherewithal to know that you don't go on

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Speaker 3: away from that, right, No, I get that. Then you

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Speaker 2: It's not no, he had well, he had a one

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Speaker 2: He had way more time than that. He had way more.

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Speaker 1: Faithful, Like I don't. I don't think.

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Speaker 2: That. I think it's all in the delivery. And he

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Speaker 2: like you can say so in Fiji. Did you see

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Speaker 2: the way that he delivered it too? I did so

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Speaker 2: Over five days, he cheated multiple times and then he

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Speaker 2: it happened. I know it's going to be hard for

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Speaker 2: me to not do that again. He didn't say I

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Speaker 2: the end, he was like, it's going to be really

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Speaker 2: the card, and he was like, well, I need to

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Speaker 2: just to see if they would laugh, and it ends

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Speaker 2: up in the mentell all he says like, I didn't

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Speaker 2: he clarified it, and he was like, it wasn't about

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Speaker 2: so she was like, I'm sorry, but you want me

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Speaker 3: I think he did say that if he chose to

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Speaker 3: and all of those things. You have to want those

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Speaker 3: a piece of that totally, Like the production company is

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Speaker 3: not make sure that they're all, you know, mentally stable

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Speaker 2: No, it wasn't mentally stable. It wasn't about being mentally stable.

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Speaker 2: It was about how do I be in a committed

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Speaker 2: problem with. It wasn't about like having a problem like

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Speaker 2: there are multiple other people. So if you had this

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Speaker 2: and you know that this is a really important thing

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Speaker 2: if you didn't do anything, then then maybe don't Maybe

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Speaker 2: don't like admit to that or something, or talk about

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Speaker 2: instead of like fessing up to it and being like,

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Speaker 2: I am so sorry that I did this to this woman.

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Speaker 2: I'm so remorseful. I want to be better. I want

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Speaker 2: to be committed to you. I am falling in love

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Speaker 2: with you. He was like, no, we're I really think

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Speaker 2: didn't justify that. He just wanted time alone with her,

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Speaker 2: not to just have sex, do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like it was all about the delivery.

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Speaker 5: I've got something to say. Do you want to get

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Speaker 2: Yes? Please?

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Speaker 1: So I kind of.

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Speaker 4: Agree with both of you actually in that I think

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Speaker 4: agree with. This part of it is a lot of

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Speaker 4: people don't necessarily go on to the show realizing that

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Speaker 4: they're going to fall in love, right, so I think

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Speaker 4: I don't think you ever know the timeline of when

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Speaker 5: Time could have been a month.

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Speaker 4: Right, yeah, so he could have had this relationship split

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Speaker 4: But I was going to say, too, Trisy, You're right.

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Speaker 4: She did bring up that, you know, being faithful in

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Speaker 4: did have a couple opportunities, especially that date in Fiji

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Speaker 4: brought it up right.

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Speaker 5: He could have been like, look, I.

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Speaker 4: Got a kind of a complicated dating history or a

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Speaker 4: complicated relationship past. This happened in my relationship, and I

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Speaker 4: he would have probably not ended up on the Fantasy suite.

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Speaker 5: And you know, but.

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Speaker 4: But then again another thing to think about too, And

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Speaker 4: I mean, you can I'd love to take this out

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Speaker 5: It's a competition show.

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Speaker 4: And I know that I know that it's not, you know,

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Speaker 4: when we think about it, the grand scheme of things,

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Speaker 3: You hear your perspective coming from a male's perspective, because

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Speaker 3: what I was the Christ was as a woman, Right,

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Speaker 3: I had the same train of thought when I went

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Speaker 1: It was not about a competition. To me, it wasn't

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Speaker 1: about any other things other than the fact.

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Speaker 3: That, like, maybe I will truly meet the person that

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Speaker 3: I'm meant to be with, get engaged and.

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Speaker 1: Live happily in for after.

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Speaker 2: But I would in the defense, and maybe Bob can

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Speaker 2: speak to this, I wouldn't say that most men go

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Speaker 2: that most men are like, oh my god, see mom,

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Speaker 2: I'm about to meet my bride. Like, I don't think

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Speaker 5: You know, it's funny that you say that.

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Speaker 4: Twenty years ago it was different. I mean the show

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Speaker 4: is different. I mean, you hear about some of these guys,

439
00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,119
Speaker 4: which we'll get to you later down the road, you know,

440
00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 4: talking about endorsements before they're every event on the show. Right,

441
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,760
Speaker 4: it's like in their Instagram set for their tooth whitening

442
00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:45,520
Speaker 4: kits or whenever they're gonna be puddling everyone.

443
00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:47,520
Speaker 5: So I mean, you know you hear about that. But yeah,

444
00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:49,240
Speaker 5: like when I remember when I went on the show,

445
00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:51,359
Speaker 5: I was open to falling in love.

446
00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,120
Speaker 4: I was open to, you know, meeting Tristan, and thankfully

447
00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 4: I did, you know, and we fell in love.

448
00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 5: And we're selling me.

449
00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:58,840
Speaker 1: That's how the two of you know each other.

450
00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:00,480
Speaker 2: Yes, no, But.

451
00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:03,080
Speaker 5: It's so funny because when I went on a show,

452
00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 5: it was like, you know, we went on.

453
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 4: With the mindset of you know, I was like, well,

454
00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,199
Speaker 4: I think she's really hot. I can't wait to meet her,

455
00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:11,359
Speaker 4: you know that, I mean her, I'm like, she's super cool.

456
00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:12,160
Speaker 5: I really like her.

457
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:14,920
Speaker 4: But it was like our vibe and I trust to

458
00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 4: Will attest to this because we talked.

459
00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,000
Speaker 5: About it for the last hundred years now.

460
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,879
Speaker 4: Our vibe was always just like really great friendship vibe.

461
00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:23,639
Speaker 4: Like it wasn't a romantic vibe. And as much as

462
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,800
Speaker 4: I care about her and did that and do now,

463
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,240
Speaker 4: you know, I mean, I love her, but we didn't

464
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 4: fall in love in that relationship way.

465
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 5: And I think that you go on a show like that.

466
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,040
Speaker 4: I didn't go on there with the attention of not

467
00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:35,720
Speaker 4: falling in love, but I didn't go on there with

468
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:37,960
Speaker 4: the like I wasn't sitting at home just pining for

469
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:39,239
Speaker 4: the weeks leading up to it, going oh my god,

470
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 4: I can't wait to get the show and fall in month.

471
00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:42,119
Speaker 5: You know, I was more like, I don't know what

472
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:42,959
Speaker 5: the hell's going on.

473
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:44,480
Speaker 4: I'm going to show up and have a good time

474
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 4: and hopefully this girl's gonna be awesome, and thankfully she

475
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:48,760
Speaker 4: was and has become a dear friend of me. So

476
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 4: I think that the guys nowadays, and I can only

477
00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:56,520
Speaker 4: judge this from the ones that I've met, I think

478
00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 4: they might go on there with a different mindset than

479
00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:01,320
Speaker 4: even what we had back then, which was a lot more.

480
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:03,919
Speaker 2: You have to say, I totally agree with that. But

481
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 2: at the same time, he was going to tell he

482
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 2: told her when she walked her to the car, when

483
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 2: when she walked him to the car, that he was

484
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 2: in love with her. So he was already there, like yeah,

485
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 2: I totally get that, Like, wait, you know, you're you're

486
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 2: trying to gauge whether or not you even like this person,

487
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 2: if you're if you want to stick around, if you

488
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,680
Speaker 2: think it's worth it to bring this up in front

489
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 2: of America, in front of the crew, like admit your deepest,

490
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:34,360
Speaker 2: darkest secrets. Totally understand that. But he was there, he

491
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 2: was at the point where he was in love with her,

492
00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 2: and I just feel like it's a big conversation. What

493
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:45,880
Speaker 2: really was I don't know, but he said it when

494
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:49,440
Speaker 2: he when he went to the car. I don't know

495
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,639
Speaker 2: if he was or not. I mean, obviously he was

496
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 2: heartbroken on the mentel all like he was. He was

497
00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:58,880
Speaker 2: visibly upset.

498
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely.

499
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 3: I pride myself on my brutal honesty, and it doesn't

500
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:05,919
Speaker 3: always rub people the right way, but I like for

501
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,719
Speaker 3: there to be no reading in between the lines. Right

502
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,199
Speaker 3: when I left, when I was on The Bachelor, I

503
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 3: was so confused about what Brad had done to me

504
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 3: because he wasn't honest about the situation. So right on

505
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 3: my brutal honesty. So would I have handled it the

506
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 3: same way. Absolutely not. I just I'm just trying to

507
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 3: play devil's advocate and give him a little bit of

508
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:29,359
Speaker 3: grace because we we the three of us here, have

509
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:30,360
Speaker 3: been in that situation.

510
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,679
Speaker 1: We know how hard it be, we know what a

511
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: mind fuck it can totally be.

512
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 4: There.

513
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 2: No, I agree, I love as being like the maternal

514
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:44,159
Speaker 2: person for this show. I obviously I don't. I'm not

515
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:48,439
Speaker 2: beating him down saying you are so wrong and you like,

516
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 2: I feel like he was really remorseful at the Mental Hall.

517
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 2: He apologized. It seemed very heartfelt. You could tell that

518
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 2: he was so somber that entire time. Even when we

519
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 2: were on stage, he was just kind of like, take

520
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 2: me out of here. He was not laughing and joking around. No,

521
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 2: not at all vibe for him.

522
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 3: And I would imagine to like sitting on that stage

523
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,439
Speaker 3: and sitting with Charity and having to explain where he

524
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:17,120
Speaker 3: was at, there was probably a deep sense of regret, y'all, Like, right,

525
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 3: you probably realized And again, at the end of the day,

526
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 3: is this going to be the end of his story?

527
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 1: No, He's likely going to do a lot. Oh no,

528
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 1: of course not.

529
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 2: He's going to make someone a very wonderful husband and

530
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 2: fall in love and be really happy, we hope. And

531
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 2: I think he learned his lesson through this show. I

532
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,959
Speaker 2: think he realized because he did say, you know, I

533
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 2: got a therapist, I want to I want to talk

534
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 2: through this with someone. And I think he actually matured

535
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 2: a lot because of the show. I'm not beating him down.

536
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 2: We're just discussing the like what I feel like should

537
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,919
Speaker 2: have happened earlier, because it I do I really wish

538
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 2: that more people and hopefully in the future they will

539
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 2: will take it seriously like this. Yes, of course people

540
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 2: are going to come on and they're gonna want be influencers,

541
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,639
Speaker 2: and they're going to want to be you know, gaining

542
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 2: hundreds of thousands of followers, whatever. But I just feel

543
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 2: like it is a show. Ultimately. I still believe this

544
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 2: about love and finding the person that you're meant to

545
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,239
Speaker 2: be with it. Maybe there's a few that are in

546
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 2: there because they want to get famous, whatever that's going

547
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 2: to happen because that's the day and age that we

548
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 2: live in. But I really would love for people, especially

549
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 2: for the people who do go farther like, just to

550
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 2: be honest, like you're saying, like, just be honest with

551
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 2: who you are, and if you're falling for this person,

552
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 2: then tell them the things that you feel like are

553
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 2: going to be important in a relationship. And if they

554
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,400
Speaker 2: have deal breakers, bring them up, like.

555
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 3: Have that get the testament as to who you are

556
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 3: as a person, like I would do.

557
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 2: I had a guy on my season who waited.

558
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 3: Until after the show was done to let me know

559
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 3: that he had a girlfriend up until hometown.

560
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 2: Dates, So like, yeah, I'm all with you, like, let's

561
00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:57,120
Speaker 2: all be.

562
00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 3: Honest, let's all just like put it out home, stay

563
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 3: role all be hoes and decent human beings.

564
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, what everybody thinks

565
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,360
Speaker 2: like us well, and and like you said, like show

566
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 2: him some grace. He's young, But like I said, I

567
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 2: think that he learned his lesson and I know he will,

568
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 2: he will find someone, he'll be happy. I loved him

569
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 2: throughout the show. I just I totally agree.

570
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 5: The people can make good people can make that decisions.

571
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 3: Also, maybe there are a few narcissest who walk into

572
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,159
Speaker 3: a situation like that and they're like, oh, I can't.

573
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 1: Wait to hurt this person.

574
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:33,800
Speaker 2: But he doesn't mean that.

575
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 3: I mean, I can't imagine he spent those five days

576
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 3: being like, well, I can't wait to screw her over.

577
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 3: You know, he probably just made some bad choices. And

578
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, the truth of the

579
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 3: matter is the relationship that he was in was probably

580
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 3: done anyway, if he was that tempted to be with

581
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 3: another human being anyway.

582
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 2: I'm okay, So let's talk about our experience. So we

583
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 2: went out on the on stage. Is so much fun.

584
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 2: I loved being able to share kind of our our

585
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 2: wisdom and even see the packages that they put up

586
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 2: for each of our families. It's always so fun to

587
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:11,919
Speaker 2: see our kids kids.

588
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 1: What they didn't even show my kids.

589
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,719
Speaker 2: They showed you what they did and desires, but they

590
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 2: didn't show No, they showed old clips of when I

591
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 2: was the bachelorette.

592
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 3: So when we were on stage, they showed my pictures,

593
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Oh, yes, episode air, they

594
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 3: actually didn't show me with my kids. They showed old

595
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 3: clips of when I was a bachelorette and talking about

596
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 3: how it didn't work out for me.

597
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: And I was like, what is happening right now?

598
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:34,960
Speaker 5: Because oh they did.

599
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 2: They didn't show my ladies that what was happening right now.

600
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 2: They did the same thing for me. They showed the

601
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,159
Speaker 2: clip of the wedding and then they showed just a

602
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 2: picture of our family. Same thing.

603
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:49,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, they didn't show any pictures of my family.

604
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 5: Oh they didn't.

605
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 2: Oh I thought they did.

606
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 3: They did on stage, Trista, That's what I'm saying. They

607
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 3: did on stage, but it did not make the cut

608
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 3: for the show.

609
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 1: That's why I'm.

610
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 2: As does now I get to me as a failed

611
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 2: back threat? Oh it does take me a while old

612
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:11,199
Speaker 2: gal right here anyway. So so after the show, you know,

613
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 2: after we're on stage, we come out and Gary comes on,

614
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 2: who we both freaking love. I love, I hate this, Bob,

615
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 2: let me just show you this right here. I was

616
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 2: willing to talk to new picture the attention that night.

617
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 3: I was like, all fine, specimen of men, look at

618
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 3: all these men, and then Gary here comes Garrety Trista

619
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 3: got the worst photo of me and Gary.

620
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 4: Oh my god, you look at what are you talking about?

621
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 2: You looked cute and I was about how you look.

622
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 2: It was totally a moment captured that he was laughing

623
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 2: hysterically because of something that you said. You were cracking

624
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 2: him up.

625
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 5: Yes you are, I know.

626
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 2: So No, I thought.

627
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 5: It was that looks like.

628
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 1: He's pretty good looking.

629
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 3: He's pretty good looking, looks like he has spent some

630
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 3: of his off time in Florida, so like his coloring

631
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 3: was off and he really blonde. But he was, like

632
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 3: he Bob, honestly interested will tell you the same thing.

633
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 3: He was the nicest guy, like he was so joyful

634
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 3: to be there. And if you see the mental episode

635
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 3: his segment, he totally is.

636
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: Just like a nice guy, like he's.

637
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 2: Out there jollie gee.

638
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 5: Guys like.

639
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 3: The cute and I waked. I'm blatantly flirting with him

640
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 3: in front of everybody.

641
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 1: And I was.

642
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 2: Like, yes, Gary, let me know what time to be there.

643
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 2: I'll see you soon. I walked into the here and

644
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 2: makeup room and he was sitting there and I hadn't

645
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 2: met him yet, and I was like, Hi, Gary, how

646
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 2: are you? And I'm like, so, how is social media going?

647
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 2: Because as he's talked about like he doesn't know anything

648
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 2: about social media and he like totally over his head.

649
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 2: And I was like, how's it going? And he was like, oh,

650
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 2: it's fine. Are you from the social media crew? But

651
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 2: he had no clue who any of us were. He

652
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 2: literally was like, who are you? This is my show?

653
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: So I was like, no, I I was actually the

654
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 2: first bachelorette. And he jumped out of the hair and

655
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 2: makeup chair and came and gave me, gave me the

656
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 2: biggest hug. He was so freaking.

657
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 5: Jerry.

658
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 2: It is Gary. It's spelled Jerry, but it's pronounced Gary.

659
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, Okay, he looks good.

660
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 4: He does.

661
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 2: And you know what seventy one or something seventy one?

662
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 2: He like my word for him is wholesome. After meeting him,

663
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 2: and he's just so grounded, and I ended up going

664
00:30:55,600 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 2: and doing a date with him. Oh I just got back.

665
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 2: That's why I'm so tan. I went in spray tand

666
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 2: before I went, so, I flew to la on Friday

667
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 2: and flew back on Sunday and I was there for

668
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 2: a pickleball date with.

669
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 5: All the ladies.

670
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:18,479
Speaker 2: It was so much fun and I got to like

671
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 2: have some time with him and just talk to him

672
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 2: about how he's feeling and everything. But I just my

673
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 2: word for him is wholesome. He is the grandpa that

674
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 2: everyone is going to be rooting for. And I have

675
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 2: said this, I'm sure I've said this on the show Bob,

676
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 2: on this podcast. I have always felt like they need

677
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 2: to pluck someone out of obscurity that we all can

678
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 2: fall in love with communally together as Bachelor Nation. And

679
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 2: thank goodness they're doing it with him because his story

680
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 2: is just so heartbreaking and I mean how he lost

681
00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 2: his wife. And I just hope that everyone rallies around

682
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 2: this this season because he is so wholesome and so

683
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 2: everyone's deserving, but he's so deserving of a second chance

684
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 2: at love and just to share by somebody.

685
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:14,719
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

686
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 3: He's like West guy, Like he's like super nice and

687
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 3: you could tell he just sits around on eats cheese

688
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 3: curds and like lives.

689
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 5: As best.

690
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. He's all around like great

691
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: nice guy and that came off.

692
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 3: That came off like the second you spoke to him,

693
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 3: like or was in his presence, like you could just

694
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 3: tell he was just as happy as can be, you

695
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 3: know what I mean. I see him people sit on

696
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 3: two different fences. Because I've been asking around if people

697
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 3: planning on watching the Golden Bachelor, you know what I mean,

698
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 3: because I'm super stoked for it. I would really love

699
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 3: to see the show go back to some of those

700
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 3: early days of the goodness genuine conversation where people were

701
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 3: for a social media following or or to not have

702
00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 3: a real job in.

703
00:32:58,320 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: Life, you know what I mean.

704
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 3: So it's funny because I kind of got like a

705
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 3: fifty to fifty opinion from people, Like some people were

706
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 3: like no, heck no, I'm not really where's the drama

707
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 3: going to be? And also these how old are these

708
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 3: women going to be?

709
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

710
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 3: And then the other portion, which were a lot of

711
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 3: people who have watched the show from you know, day one,

712
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 3: from Trista's days, or I don't remember the other guy's name,

713
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 3: but that we're saying like they were super excited to

714
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 3: see the show go back to its roots. That has

715
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 3: so off course, literally, you know, since Chris Harrison left

716
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 3: and some of these other I'm telling you, the older

717
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 3: I get, the younger they get, and it's becoming a

718
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 3: larger gap between me and any of these people on

719
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 3: the show.

720
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 2: But a lot of people were.

721
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 3: Excited to see the show go back to hopefully some

722
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 3: of the basics, which was that there wasn't drama, but

723
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 3: just to see more wholesome content, more genuine connections between

724
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 3: people and not be so centered around like who's there

725
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 3: for the right reasons?

726
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 1: Right to sell T shirts? You know, just rap, you

727
00:33:58,120 --> 00:33:58,479
Speaker 1: know what I mean.

728
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 3: I've never seen the shows on it, so like it's

729
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 3: not like I'm moved home and like paparazzi were hanging

730
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 3: out in my bushes and noon and Georgia, like I

731
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 3: just are legit sometimes a little stupid saying I went

732
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 3: on the show for the right reasons, Like as stupid

733
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 3: as it sounds, a legit went on for the opportunity

734
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:15,800
Speaker 3: to meet someone.

735
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:16,359
Speaker 2: Yep.

736
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 4: I don't think that's not stupid at all. That's what

737
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 4: the show is about, you know. So it's like I

738
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 4: think that's that's awesome. I mean, I think that takes

739
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 4: it back. And I think with Gary, I got I

740
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 4: wanted to say Jerry so bad, But with Gary, I

741
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 4: think it is going to be one of those things.

742
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 4: And especially now with the feedback you guys are getting,

743
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 4: you know, so, so we're all excited. We figure all

744
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 4: excite from the Golden bashlud. But I have to hear

745
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 4: because I wasn't there with you all about Braiden.

746
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 5: I got to hear about Braiden. Yeah, that's a feather

747
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 5: aaring guy. Like, what was your impression? Was he putting

748
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,360
Speaker 5: on his best front with you guys? Was he flirting

749
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 5: with you?

750
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 4: Like I could just see that dude like you guys walking,

751
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,399
Speaker 4: He's like hello eighties, Like I get you to see

752
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:55,879
Speaker 4: it in my.

753
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 2: Life because Trista and Desiree were like, all these boys

754
00:34:58,520 --> 00:34:59,839
Speaker 2: are flirting with you and I was like, I think

755
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 2: I'm must be blind as a bat because I'm not

756
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 2: seeing it, Like I'm not sitting there with my cocktail

757
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 2: and my beef chest suit, and I'm all like, hello, handsome,

758
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:09,839
Speaker 2: Hello handsome, do you need to know how to spell

759
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 2: my first and last name? You're cute, You're nice and tall?

760
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 2: Like I literally was like just eating it up. But yeah,

761
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:21,399
Speaker 2: he was sly learning and it was awesome. No, So

762
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 2: we were backstage just hanging out with you know, the

763
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 2: directors and producers and stuff, just kind of catching up

764
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 2: with people we haven't seen in a while. And the

765
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,280
Speaker 2: show ends, the guys come out, and I do remember

766
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 2: Brandon was the first guy that came up to us,

767
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 2: And had I not ever seen him on any show,

768
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 2: I would say that guy is so sweet and he

769
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 2: was just very friendly and very respectful, like there was

770
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 2: there would have been no inclination about any kind of drama. None.

771
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,080
Speaker 1: Right, I feel like I'm a pretty such aster.

772
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 5: Tore up on the show.

773
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: Yes.

774
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

775
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 3: The difference being Bob is like we didn't watch the show.

776
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 3: We literally were like three girls in our green room

777
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 3: just catching up about life and talking about our kids

778
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 3: and sharing pictures and just you know, being the friends

779
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 3: that we are. So when we went on stage, we

780
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 3: actually did not have the opportunity on stage to interact

781
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 3: with the guys.

782
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: Whatsoever.

783
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:24,359
Speaker 3: They sat off to our left, and you know, because

784
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,799
Speaker 3: we're cheated looking at Jesse, we really didn't. You don't

785
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,919
Speaker 3: even see them there, to be honest, So it wasn't

786
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 3: until afterwards when they all came out. And because I

787
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 3: watched the episode, I have an appreciation for him because

788
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 3: I have this skill to be so very honest. And

789
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 3: I actually thought, even when I watched the episode of

790
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 3: the Mental All, that he did a really good job

791
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 3: of explaining himself. Now, I think there were pieces of

792
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 3: the show where he likely got caught up. When you're

793
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 3: watching the season, he came off as a little bit

794
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 3: of a d bag, bragging about his all kinds of stuff,

795
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 3: and nobody likes a guy who kisses and tells. Just

796
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 3: so we're all on the same way, yeah, no one

797
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 3: likes that. Don't brag about how far you got. Don't

798
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 3: brag about how long. No one wants to hear that. Like,

799
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 3: be an adult about it, be an adult, a man,

800
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 3: a grown man. But I do think that when he

801
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 3: was on stage and discussing his persona and his personality

802
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 3: and who he is, I did a really good job

803
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 3: on stage of being like, hey, I didn't handle this

804
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 3: the best way. But like, I am me to my core,

805
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 3: and Tristan knows this because she's been walking alongside me

806
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 3: for several years now as I've gone through what has

807
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 3: been the most difficult time of my entire life. And

808
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 3: in the day, I am me to my core, and

809
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 3: I shouldn't apologize for that. We are meant in life

810
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 3: to have relationships, to refine us, to help us grow

811
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 3: to be better, we hope, right. But like, at the

812
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 3: end of the day, I can't apologize for being an

813
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:58,439
Speaker 3: incredibly human being, right And I'm not a glass half

814
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 3: full kind of person. And it's not because I don't

815
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 3: want to beat It's because I was never given that opportunity.

816
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,720
Speaker 3: I've had a very difficult life getting to this point.

817
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 3: But I am loyal and loyal to a fault to myself,

818
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 3: and I am kind and I am honest, and I

819
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 3: am willing to walk through the hard shit as deep

820
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,919
Speaker 3: as it gets to drag him. Ever, I have to

821
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 3: to get out on the other side, and I will

822
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:23,919
Speaker 3: not apologize for that. So there is this huge piece

823
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 3: of my heart that appreciated that even though he really

824
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 3: was getting beat down on stage, I'm already carrying him

825
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 3: apart down to his scarf ashrings, to his personality, to

826
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 3: everything that. I thought he did a really good job

827
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 3: of standing firm and who he is, and I appreciate

828
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 3: that one hundred.

829
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 2: I totally agree with everything you said. I think that

830
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 2: another person could have very well, gotten really frustrated and

831
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 2: gotten mad and was towarded, you know, and said mean

832
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,800
Speaker 2: things back to the guys. But he was so calm,

833
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 2: cool and collected and not in a way that it

834
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 2: felt like it was disingenuous. It just felt like he's like,

835
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm not going to be able to

836
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 2: change these guys' minds. I'm sorry for the way that

837
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 2: I treated Charity. I could have handled that better, and

838
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 2: you know, we're moving on and that's that. And he

839
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 2: even apologized to Charity you know too, like they're during

840
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 2: their conversation. I thought, actually the more disrespectful one was

841
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 2: when Sean was like, can I come up there? And

842
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, I get it. But if he had

843
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 2: something that he was like, I want to give you

844
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 2: a hug, or he didn't do anything like that, he

845
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 2: just wanted to be up there. That felt more disingenuine

846
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:42,360
Speaker 2: to me. And he was further on in the show

847
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 2: that felt more disingenuine to me than some of the

848
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 2: other guys who really respectfully sat in their chairs and

849
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 2: owned up to some of their pieces on the show.

850
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 2: And maybe they're disrespected how they handled certain situations that

851
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 2: felt more disingenuine to me. And I'm not saying he

852
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 2: was trying to be. It just felt that way to me.

853
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 4: And I was gonna ask you about that, because you know,

854
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 4: you need to the note of the way the.

855
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 5: Show went, and it's like he's got the most to say,

856
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:09,439
Speaker 5: like you're not invited, Braden. It's like, but you don't

857
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 5: make the guest list, right, It's like everything I was

858
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 5: reading about it, I'm like, who is Sean?

859
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 2: You know?

860
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 4: So I had to go back and actually figure out

861
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 4: who he was. So I was going to ask you

862
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 4: about him. So, so you guys felt like he kind

863
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 4: of just inserted himself to.

864
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 2: Get a streams watching the show back are interacting with him.

865
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 2: I think he was one of the ones that came

866
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 2: up and said hi after when you were back.

867
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:31,800
Speaker 3: That I was going to say was I'm a pretty

868
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 3: good judge of character, Like off the bat, I just

869
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 3: really can read people well. And Trista to your to

870
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 3: your sentiment. I think the same thing. When he walked up,

871
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:42,280
Speaker 3: you get a really good vibe from him. He feels

872
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 3: very genuine. He the guys were being weird, Bob, I'm

873
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 3: joking around aout how much I was sporting with them.

874
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 1: But they were all.

875
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:54,360
Speaker 2: Respectful to their elders. None of them were weird or

876
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 2: rude in any way, none of them or inappropriate. Like

877
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 2: they all you could just tell, like if they didn't

878
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 2: know who we were, they knew then, and they were

879
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 2: all very kind in the way that they addressed us,

880
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:06,880
Speaker 2: hugged us, said hello, that it was a pleasure to

881
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 2: the kids, told us we were beautiful. You know what

882
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 2: a bunch of three older women want to hear.

883
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,359
Speaker 3: You know what I mean, Like, he was the first

884
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 3: one out of the gate, and I just thought he

885
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 3: seems like a warm outside of this, like a really

886
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 3: warm and genuine human being.

887
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 2: I got a really you mean Brandon, Yeah, I agree.

888
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 2: And then I also I want to say, Adam, I

889
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 2: don't remember him. I don't remember him walking up to me,

890
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 2: I don't remember hugging him. I don't remember him to

891
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 2: anybody else. So I know you do you remember. But

892
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 2: before I get to that, I want to say, Michael,

893
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 2: who's the yacht captain? He had like a gray a

894
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 2: green uh like over sports code on. He came up

895
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 2: to me and I don't know if he if he

896
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 2: came up to you too. He gave me the biggest hug,

897
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 2: but it like kind of took my breath away because

898
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 2: it was so strong. I was like, I mean, I

899
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 2: have not had any like physical in a very long time.

900
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: So I was like taking all the hugs. I'm like,

901
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 1: possibly he too.

902
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 2: I'm like Christa is a lot smaller than me.

903
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: She's cropful, you know.

904
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 3: Like I was looking for a good bear hug to

905
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 3: just make sure I can remember what it feels like

906
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:13,799
Speaker 3: a man.

907
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 5: Those guys, those captains.

908
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 2: So one of them came up to us and he

909
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 2: was talking to us, and it ended up being the firefighter.

910
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 2: I was talking to him a little bit about how

911
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 2: Ryan was a firefighter, and there was one guy on

912
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 2: my seat. Who's the firefighter? Guy, Bob, you can tell

913
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 2: me did I let go the first night? Oh? Oh yeah?

914
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 5: Hang on.

915
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 4: He's a guy I met in at the Dirty.

916
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 2: Or something, right. I was trying to remember his name.

917
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 5: Billy Billy Bill, Billy Billy.

918
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 2: Polta, so I couldn't remember his name, and I feel

919
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 2: like they might have been at the same station at

920
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 2: one point. But anyway, so we were talking about that

921
00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 2: and then he went and he brought roses for each

922
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 2: of us. He was handing all of us roses. But

923
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 2: I have a feeling I think this is the one

924
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 2: that and I even I think you said it earlier,

925
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 2: the hottie. I only remember the hottie that's what wearing

926
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 2: all white, and he had the he had I don't

927
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 2: want to call it audacity, but he had the uh

928
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,360
Speaker 2: guts to like, like, the three of us haven't received

929
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 2: enough roses, and.

930
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 1: Could you be original, but also give me your phone number.

931
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 4: He did.

932
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 2: Bobby totally went and found three red roses and started

933
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 2: handing them out to the three of us and we

934
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 2: were like, oh cute, but we've got a few things, Matt,

935
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:43,359
Speaker 2: and then he ran away like a scared child.

936
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:44,919
Speaker 1: He was like, okay, by I see you all later.

937
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 4: Had this original idea.

938
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, if there's if there's any if there's any

939
00:43:55,560 --> 00:44:00,800
Speaker 2: guy from the mentel all that, I feel like maybe

940
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 2: Gianna had a little a little uh vibe vibe wit.

941
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 2: It was definitely Aaron, though I was trying to make

942
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:11,280
Speaker 2: eye contact. I was trying to look in his direction.

943
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 2: Scared scared him, He scared. He cannot handle this forty

944
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 2: one year old grown ass woman. He's what has not happened?

945
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 2: I'm not getting any of them sliding into my DM.

946
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 2: So I clearly made a big impression.

947
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 4: I want to thank you, guys. I feel like I

948
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 4: was at the episode with you. I feel like I

949
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 4: was there writing at a little bird's idea of what

950
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 4: it was like. First of all, I'm so glad they

951
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 4: brought you both back. I mean and as three of

952
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:40,359
Speaker 4: my favorites of all time obviously from this show, but

953
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 4: I think in general two just three perfect personalities have

954
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 4: on that show and kind of help Charity a little bit.

955
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 5: So great job, ladies.

956
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 2: Thank you yeah tomorrow, Trista. But let's do it again tomorrow.

957
00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 2: I know, right every week, because I would love just

958
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:00,279
Speaker 2: I don't know about you, guys, but it's it's just

959
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 2: good energy. I love the energy. When I returned to

960
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 2: the show, you know, it's it's just.

961
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 3: I was literally pitching everything because Ryan and Trista have

962
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 3: their twenty year anniversary coming up, and I'm all to

963
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 3: like Rob Mills, I'm like, listen, can you please do

964
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 3: like a vowel renewal so that we can all get

965
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:18,880
Speaker 3: together again and have so much fun.

966
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:22,760
Speaker 2: Core memories of fun weddings.

967
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 3: Of people where you all just get to be together

968
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 3: and have the best time ever. So I literally was

969
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 3: like pitching Tristan Ryan's vow renewal to be taped by ABC,

970
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 3: and I'm like, we really just need a good excuse

971
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:32,839
Speaker 3: to like get together.

972
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: On an island, somewhere.

973
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 2: On an island, please ago, We're trying to go next

974
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 2: Trista some tropical island, Like, just just send me there,

975
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:53,280
Speaker 2: pay for my flight whatever, I'll be there. Okay, thank

976
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 2: you for being here today and recapping the men tell all,

977
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 2: it was just such a pleasure to see you in

978
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 2: person obviously, always always makes me happy, and we do

979
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 2: get to have you for another episode, so I know,

980
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 2: two for one part two. Thanks everybody for tuning in

981
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 2: to Almost Famous Ogs with Me, Trista.

982
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:24,760
Speaker 5: Setter and Me, Bob Getty and today with Jan Stage

983
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 5: as well. Okay,