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Speaker 1: The determination and effort is massive. You cannot be overly

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Speaker 1: You have to get your rest. But this was my philosophy.

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Speaker 1: You know, you know it can happen like that. But

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Speaker 1: You know what time it is? Showtime? Man? You know

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show, Charley Strawberry calling for real mouth

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Speaker 1: junior man, Let's talk about this man. You know something

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Speaker 1: What amen? Amen? All right, thank you Steve for that.

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Speaker 1: Coming up. At thirty two minutes after the hour, Junior

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Speaker 1: How much in the account passed? That's it? That's it?

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Pastor Hayes to see Pastor Hayes.

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Speaker 1: How you doing this is? This is brother lin Lenna Thompson.

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Speaker 1: here's what I wanted to ask you, man, uh Pallas,

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Speaker 1: and through. I'd rather have a soft line of being

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Speaker 1: than a crunching lime of being. These ain't snappeas Now.

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Speaker 1: You got to know your grocery and love, you know.

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Speaker 1: And if you're gonna be country and we're gonna get married,

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Speaker 1: you can't be in here undercooking these lime of being

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Speaker 1: and the past the wife no better. Yeah, hell you

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Speaker 1: in the hairy folk, you should have just left him

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Speaker 1: own and came to church, cut him on low, and

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Speaker 1: leave him in their own simmer in the cid, and

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Speaker 1: then call home and tell somebody or ain't he or

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Speaker 1: somebody that don't go to church, go out there and

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Speaker 1: turn them beans off. But you gotta say it like that.

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Speaker 1: You better come on with. That's how they always go

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Speaker 1: in there and turn them beans off. They run over,

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Speaker 1: you know how they go because somebody at that street,

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Speaker 1: in their apartment across the street, got the key to

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Speaker 1: your house because you made friends with him. Y'all had

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Speaker 1: your own little watch committee, and you know, to send

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Speaker 1: them over to the house because they don't never go

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Speaker 1: to church and hurting them damn beans on. I got

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Speaker 1: a question lady that wrote the letter, is she white?

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Speaker 1: Because she says I'm dating a black man man see,

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Speaker 1: and now that I kind of thought that too. I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't gonna say that because I try to stay out

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Speaker 1: of hr when I can't see you don't give a

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Speaker 1: damn here I go. You're asking, No, y'all always running

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Speaker 1: stuff under hot water? Anyway, you got the ball them

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Speaker 1: damn lima beans and your pastor's wife don't know how

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Speaker 1: to cook. And I don't blame it, black ass for

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Speaker 1: saying nothing about it, because I'm not gonna be coming

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Speaker 1: over here these little white dinners and y'all under cooking

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Speaker 1: these damn vegetables and running these hot water across these

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Speaker 1: green beans and slicing up these almonds on them. I'm

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Speaker 1: not coming over here for this. And stop putting these

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Speaker 1: marshmallers on top of these yams who told y'all to

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Speaker 1: do that? And we like dressing and dressing and stovetop.

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Speaker 1: It's two different things entirely. I got coming to the

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Speaker 1: white church. No more coming up understatements and trending headline

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Speaker 1: news right after this. Thank you, Cello. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. House of the Dragon, the

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Speaker 1: Game of Throne spinoff, had the biggest premiere ever. Love

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Speaker 1: that Music. The show's debut episode was watched by ten

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Speaker 1: million viewers ten billion viewers. That is the largest audience

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Speaker 1: for any news show. HBO's History nhbo's history. House of

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Speaker 1: the Dragon, which takes place two hundred years before the

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Speaker 1: events of the original and Game of Thrones, chronicles the

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Speaker 1: rise and fall of the House Tagarion. Steve Toussaint, the

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Speaker 1: black British actor playing the role of a wealthy military commander.

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Speaker 1: I think his name is Lord Corless Valerio. Well, he's

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Speaker 1: been receiving racist remarks Steve from the Game of Throne fans.

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Speaker 1: The fans believe the casting doesn't match what is portrayed

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Speaker 1: in the book, but the author, George our Martin never

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Speaker 1: mentioned the character skin color and an interview with Men's

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Speaker 1: Health magazine, JASA talked about the fans of the show

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Speaker 1: and said they are happy with the dragon flying. They're

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Speaker 1: happy with white hair and violet colored colored eyes, but

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Speaker 1: a rich black guy that's beyond the pale. So now

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Speaker 1: you are mad at at a fictitious character being black.

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Speaker 1: But they're cool with the dragons and they're cool with Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but you can't be a rich black man dragon as

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Speaker 1: possible black guy. Come on, come on it just racism

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Speaker 1: is so damn ignorant to me, y'all makes me sick.

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Speaker 1: And you know I started to watch it. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to watch it. Yeah, yeah, but you know I gotta

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Speaker 1: wait till they get some more episodes, because I was

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Speaker 1: sitting there and I was about to press episode one,

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Speaker 1: but I saw ain't no more. You were just one.

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Speaker 1: I'm not fitting watching No one and then see I

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Speaker 1: need to fall asleep and wonder what happened and be

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Speaker 1: able to cut it back on and find out. I

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Speaker 1: can't wait the next Friday. I ain't the kind of light.

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Speaker 1: And now all y'all racists ask people that don't like

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Speaker 1: the black dude, and I don't watch the damn show.

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Speaker 1: If this show making you sick, lord, don't watch bridgeton

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Speaker 1: because you're gonna hell yourself. You're stupid red neck. He'll

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Speaker 1: bit it back with bigger than ass that. Let's just

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Speaker 1: go to hr. You don't believe a black man fits

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Speaker 1: the but the dragon is all right with the fire

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Speaker 1: coming out when white people on the back. Yeah, that's cool.

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Speaker 1: You're good. You're good with that. And the mama or

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Speaker 1: the dragon is a white lady. Yeah, but the dragons

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Speaker 1: with their big black ass. Wait wait a minute, oh,

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Speaker 1: the stone people. That were cool for the stone people.

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Speaker 1: And if he touches skin, gets little skin gets scared.

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Speaker 1: You was cool with that, all of that, all of that,

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Speaker 1: But you was cool with the white lady that walked

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Speaker 1: out the building completely on fire, and she walked out

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Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, this white woman was in

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Speaker 1: charge of all these black people. All that was wonderful

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Speaker 1: to you. I'm gonna take says you want to bring

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Speaker 1: up stuff I didn't get about Game of Throne, Our

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Speaker 1: damn show didn't get this little miss Lily White walks

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Speaker 1: out this building that's on fire. Now, all the black

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Speaker 1: people scared of her? What's wrong with just killing her?

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Speaker 1: Oh see see, I'm gonna do a whole show called

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Speaker 1: anti racism. Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna call it all

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Speaker 1: and all reverse racism. I'm gonna show you what it

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Speaker 1: would feel like if we told you what we didn't

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Speaker 1: like in your movies and your and that stought was

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Speaker 1: one of the biggest TV shows ever Friends, High to Hell.

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Speaker 1: You got a show in New York City. Nothing on

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Speaker 1: this show but white people. It's a lifelong question, right,

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Speaker 1: there wasn't a black ass but in nowhere called Dog.

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Speaker 1: They wasn't down at the office, They didn't walk in

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Speaker 1: the ball. What part of New York was this film? Friends? Anymore? Anymore?

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Speaker 1: Come to mind? Okay, just name one. I could any shower,

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Speaker 1: Andy Maybury and Griffin. You know I didn't. I wasn't

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Speaker 1: even race it day. Or one of my favorite shows

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Speaker 1: called the Bonnie Oh yeah, Barnie, Yeah, Bonnie and the

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Speaker 1: Dog going on a drunk dude Oldest Floyd down at

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Speaker 1: the barber shop. Boy, ain't all right? Ain't we always

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Speaker 1: look like she's fit to cry? Yeah? Yeah, that is funny.

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Speaker 1: What are you all right? We're gonna get to this

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Speaker 1: other entertainment, Newest when you finish? Oh you got it down?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh? Okay, you don't understand that was so doc.

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Speaker 1: That was my soul. You don't know what that meant

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Speaker 1: to me? Man, are you cheering up right now? No?

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Speaker 1: White boy going fishing with her daddy, ain't got no mama, No, no,

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Speaker 1: all right? And other entertainment news. Chris Rock. Chris Rock

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Speaker 1: briefly addressed the Oscar slap incident during a ninety minute

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Speaker 1: comedy set in Phoenix. Chris said the OSCARS invited him

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Speaker 1: to host next year's ceremony, and he declined. He also

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Speaker 1: told the crowd that he refused how he refused an

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Speaker 1: offer for a Super Bowl commercial. Rock referenced the murder

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Speaker 1: trial of O. J. Simpson while explaining his stands and

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Speaker 1: said that going back to the Oscars would be like

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Speaker 1: asking the late Nicole Brown Simpson to go back to

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Speaker 1: the restaurant where she left her glasses before being killed

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Speaker 1: back in nineteen ninety four. Chris, come on, I don't

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Speaker 1: see the funny in it. Okay, all right, We'll be

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Speaker 1: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to show. A state of emergency

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Speaker 1: has been declared in Jackson, Mississippi. What does the government

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Speaker 1: doing about it now? According to CNN today, there will

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Speaker 1: be several mega distribution sites with thirty six truckloads of

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Speaker 1: water available each day for the public. Jackson States had

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Speaker 1: football coach Down Sanders talked about how the water crisis

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Speaker 1: is affecting the football players at Jackson State. Take a listen.

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Speaker 1: So right now we're operating in a crisis mode. I

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Speaker 1: gotta get these kids off campus, the ones that live

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Speaker 1: on campus, the one that lives in the city of Jackson,

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Speaker 1: into a hotel and accommodate them so that they can

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Speaker 1: shower properly and take care their just need. Make sure

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Speaker 1: all our kids are fit and all our kids have

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Speaker 1: the necessities of life for the next several days until

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Speaker 1: this crisis resides. That's what we're operating right now. So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna find somewhere, the practice, find somewhere that can

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Speaker 1: accommodate every dirn thing that we need and desire to

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Speaker 1: be who we desire to be, and that's dominant. The

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Speaker 1: devil is a lot you're gonna get us to right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what I do. Appreciate them being proactive in this situation,

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Speaker 1: and you got some people that's drawing some real light

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Speaker 1: to this. Seems to be a little bit different response

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Speaker 1: than what happened in Flint. Oh. I think they just

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Speaker 1: didn't do enough. If Flint, I don't think they acted acquarterly.

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Speaker 1: We have the money in this country, so this type

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Speaker 1: of thing can be avoided. But we the first and

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Speaker 1: foremost thing of level of importance in this country is money.

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Speaker 1: Oh and to prove it on the money, it says

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Speaker 1: in God we trust. But they just put that on

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Speaker 1: their symbolism. They but they put that on their money.

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Speaker 1: Certainly started out that way. That was a dead giveaway

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Speaker 1: right there. You know, they got a constitution beween in

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Speaker 1: that hour. So and Steve, FEMA and the EPA are

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Speaker 1: helping to expedite the delivery of the equipment for emergency

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Speaker 1: repairs at the City of Jackson water treatment facility. So

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Speaker 1: they are trying to do something. Yeah, yeah, they really do. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Necessity for survival. Yeah, absolutely, you gotta drink it, use

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Speaker 1: it to wash, I mean, yeah, of course, for sure.

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Speaker 1: But at least you know they're on it. Like you said, Steve,

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Speaker 1: they're on it. Coming up. At thirty four minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour, it's voicemail time. It is time to check

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Speaker 1: your voicemail Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. If

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Speaker 1: you want to call and leave Steve a voicemail eight

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Speaker 1: seven seven twenty nine, Steve is the number. We'll check yours.

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Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to Harvey Morning All right, Steven,

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Speaker 1: it's time to check your voicemail and if you want

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Speaker 1: to leave Steve a message, call them eight seven seven

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Speaker 1: twenty nine, Steve, eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve. Operators

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Speaker 1: are standing by. I know they're note. I just wanted

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Speaker 1: to say that this is a caller as a voicemail.

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Speaker 1: It's a voicemail, right, it's a voicemail caller, Steve. This

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Speaker 1: caller left a message for us and to the Georgia voters.

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Speaker 1: For us and the Georgia voters. Good morning, Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: and the staff. I just want to ask you if

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Speaker 1: you could please start putting out about voting for the

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Speaker 1: mid term stake you. Abrams is behind and we need

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Speaker 1: to get her pumped up. If nothing else, invite her

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Speaker 1: to this show and that way that may help her

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Speaker 1: becoming the next government Georgia. We need her. Thank you

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Speaker 1: very much. It's a pleasant day. By bye. Stacy. Abrams

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Speaker 1: is always invited on this show. She has a standard invitation. Oh,

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Speaker 1: the producers of this show have reached out and we've

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Speaker 1: had several times. So she's coming and we will not

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Speaker 1: fail in the voting process. Sister. Don't even worry. Don't

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Speaker 1: even worry. But we know our people. Now we're talking

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Speaker 1: about because I know you probably can't listen to the

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Speaker 1: radio show all day, but we do give out the

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Speaker 1: voting website. Yes, we do talk about being aware of

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Speaker 1: the new changes, but we also know it's August and

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Speaker 1: we know how to reach the people that we reach,

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Speaker 1: so we know in September October, we're gonna crank it up. Well,

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Speaker 1: it's September one today, you know what I mean. See,

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Speaker 1: we can't you see, you can't go too early because

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Speaker 1: people they just they get tied a hitting and they

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Speaker 1: hit the same thing, so they tune it out. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna do that. I'm gonna do it. We got to

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Speaker 1: create a sense of urgency, so we have a timeline

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Speaker 1: where we start cranking it up. But there's a science

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Speaker 1: to this. Due to analytics we've learned over the years,

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Speaker 1: twenty years of doing this, we know when to start

635
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 1: making major announcements. We know how we got warn at

636
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: can ass off in last time. That's right, and when

637
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 1: we're running again. Yeah, thank you? All right. Another caller

638
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 1: from Canada loves your inspirational messages. Steve. Good morning, Steve,

639
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:19,280
Speaker 1: it's your girl. Yes, men from Toronto Canada, just calling

640
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,759
Speaker 1: in to say I love the show. I've been a

641
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: listener for years, and what I really appreciate is the

642
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: thought of the day. No matter where i'm at, I

643
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 1: literally run to the radio and everybody knows at that

644
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 1: time that I'm just focused. I listen and I take

645
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 1: you know, whatever you have said in and it really

646
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 1: really helps me, especially I've just lost my father and

647
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: my dad and I actually used to listen to you

648
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: on the radio. So I just want to say thank you, family,

649
00:41:56,920 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 1: thank you for everyone in a world that has so

650
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 1: much negativity. Thank you for bringing the positives. God bless you. Steve.

651
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 1: Keep doing what you're doing, and I just want to

652
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 1: say thank you. I heard it so far. Thank you. Yeah. Well,

653
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 1: you're absolutely welcome, and we try to do our best,

654
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: but we appreciate the encouragement because sometimes you don't know

655
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:24,359
Speaker 1: that you're reaching people because we're on the radio here.

656
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,760
Speaker 1: It's not like we get every day. We know exactly

657
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,840
Speaker 1: what we did, so we're just doing it now. On

658
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: a lighter note, when she tuned in and said, hey, Steve,

659
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,919
Speaker 1: this your girl. Ye ask me, I just like to say,

660
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: I don't have a girl named you asked me? In Cathain.

661
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,360
Speaker 1: So I just wanted to be clear out that. Ye

662
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 1: want to clear that up for the shade room, Yeah,

663
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: the black cold and right on all of that. Yeah,

664
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 1: I just want to clear that up for that kid

665
00:42:55,560 --> 00:43:01,879
Speaker 1: rolling down the here and yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

666
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:06,919
Speaker 1: Let me blow the snow off that ball. Yeah yeah,

667
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 1: I just wanted to say that. Thank you, all right,

668
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:12,320
Speaker 1: I don't thank you all right, last call, Steve. Let's

669
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 1: hear it, Hey, Steve in the game. This is Dennis

670
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: Tall and you something Lithonia where we put it on

671
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 1: you Georgia. This message is actually for Shirley and Carla.

672
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 1: Shirley and Carla never stopped laughing. You two have the

673
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: most inspectious laughs at radio. I got in my car

674
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: the other day and you were laughing and I just

675
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: thought of laughing. Didn't even know what you were laughing about.

676
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 1: But always keep that good, positive, wonderful energy in those lasts, Steve,

677
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 1: Tommy Junior, y'all need Jesus. That's all you need Jesus.

678
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 1: Yes mine too, but yeah we do need Gess. I

679
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 1: ain't gonna lae to you. I'm just going alone. Thank

680
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 1: you for all the calls. Coming up next, Junior, in

681
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 1: for the nephew with today's frank phone call. Right after this,

682
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the

683
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,359
Speaker 1: time of the hour. Right about four minutes after, it's

684
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 1: my Strawberry letter for today, the subject he called me

685
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 1: a call girl. We'll get into that in just a

686
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,760
Speaker 1: bit find out what that's all about. But right now,

687
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,879
Speaker 1: Junior is in for the nephew with today's praying phone call.

688
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 1: What you got for is Junior? You know what? Surely? Yeah.

689
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,319
Speaker 1: I think about these situations. People stand up, they come

690
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 1: to church and they just confess about what they need

691
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 1: in life and everything, and you know, and Tommy found

692
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 1: somebody like that, and here it is. You prayed for

693
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: a job. You prayed for a job. Hello, I'm trying

694
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: to reach a Carol and please hi Carol, and listen.

695
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 1: My name is Lawrence. Lawrence I actually go to the

696
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: same church you do. I saw you last Sunday where

697
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 1: you stood up in the church and I heard that

698
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 1: you were talking about you going through some bad times

699
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,759
Speaker 1: or your job supposedly got rid of the department that

700
00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:01,320
Speaker 1: you're in and you were now seeking a new type

701
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: of work. Am I right? Yes, just just just work.

702
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,360
Speaker 1: Period because you're looking for a new occupation and you

703
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 1: I was there when you asked everybody to pray for you.

704
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,799
Speaker 1: Have you Have you found anything yet? I haven't. An

705
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 1: I've been praying up. We prayed again today. I asked

706
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: for the churches pars again today. And the thing's gonna

707
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 1: work out because you know, he said you take one step,

708
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna take two. That's right. I'm trapping and I

709
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 1: know what's going to happen. I know, well, listen, I

710
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 1: think I may be able to be of some help

711
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: to you. I actually own my own company, and I'm

712
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 1: thinking that you could be the perfect person for a

713
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 1: position that I have available. Now, what what type of

714
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: work were you doing in the past. Give me some

715
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 1: of your job qualifications. I'm executive secretary, administrative assistance anything

716
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: like that ever was a minute. They even take the

717
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 1: old star shorthand do at all. You just said what

718
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:52,799
Speaker 1: you need, and I can do it. Take out your

719
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: executives to come through the office, anything that's needed, travel expenses,

720
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:02,360
Speaker 1: That's what I do. Okay. Two? What type of hours

721
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,240
Speaker 1: are you used to working nine to five from Sometimes

722
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: I'll come in at hey, I'll have a problem becoming

723
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:08,800
Speaker 1: at eight. I'm coming even earlier if you need me

724
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 1: be coming earlier. Are you opposed to working at night? No?

725
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 1: I don't have a working at night. I mean it

726
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: just it just appens, you know, right now burgers can't

727
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 1: be choosing I ask him, and have been given to me. Okay, well,

728
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: what kind of looking at I have a I have

729
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: a an offer for you that it would be Thursday,

730
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:28,399
Speaker 1: Friday and Saturday night. You will only be working three

731
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 1: days a week for me, okay, just from I was

732
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 1: looking for separately a female out of a female days

733
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 1: and he like full time. I have a family, well

734
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: a day right right, I understand, But listen, I think

735
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: the actual amount will suffice for that. Now, I'm going

736
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:47,479
Speaker 1: to offer you seven hundred and fifty dollars per night

737
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,719
Speaker 1: for three nights a week. That's that's two thousand, two

738
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:53,959
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars for for for those three days

739
00:46:54,000 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: for one week early und seven hundred fifty dollars a

740
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 1: night and around something you're making a week man, And

741
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:09,880
Speaker 1: if you do the math on that, that adds up

742
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:15,399
Speaker 1: to about nine thousand dollars four month. Good to be true,

743
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 1: But now I put rilling was in I turned it

744
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 1: earlier that we expectedly, I did it and in eachurn

745
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: on seven hundred fifty dollars A nine. Okay, I mean

746
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 1: I doing the books, you know, because I drive the

747
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 1: accountant too. Well, let me say this, and now the

748
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 1: reason why I say it's at night is because I

749
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 1: own a nightclub, and and you would be working at

750
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 1: the nightclub for me, and so you would put in

751
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: about four or five hours every night, and and for

752
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 1: three nights a week like I stayed at Thursday, Friday, Saturday.

753
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 1: And and of course i'll pay you seven hundred and

754
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 1: fifty mint of fact, I'll actually pay you your first

755
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 1: two weeks in advance. And I I'm sure you you

756
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 1: know you've you've launched your balance. You need to get

757
00:47:56,040 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 1: back on your feet and everything. Yes, yes, yes, okay, UM,

758
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:02,879
Speaker 1: so exactly little you know. I'll be doing it because

759
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 1: I'm sure like I can do office work. I'm good

760
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 1: like accounting. You tell me a clip front door, I

761
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 1: can keep your books going right? Well, no, not necessarily,

762
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 1: I don't need you to work the front door. Um,

763
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 1: I'm actually gonna have you in the club working, okay. So, um,

764
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 1: I mean how are you how's your physical condition? Are

765
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:24,919
Speaker 1: you able to get around and you don't get tired quick?

766
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 1: Do you? Now? Are you in good physical shape, very

767
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 1: good set, don't get tied quick at all. You need

768
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 1: to do something like be able to bartenders or something

769
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 1: to work to the bar to make sure the moneys

770
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,800
Speaker 1: here nobody's stilling money from your something. No, no, no,

771
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 1: you're not at the bar either. See, because what I'm

772
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:42,359
Speaker 1: gonna do now, have you ever done anything like, you know,

773
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:45,319
Speaker 1: anything close to dance or anything like that. Have you

774
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 1: done that in the past? I do live balat when

775
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 1: I was younger, Uh, trial squat cheering. I mean, do

776
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 1: you know, go wad ever want in a while? You know,

777
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 1: you do the dancing here and there? Okay, well the

778
00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 1: problem moving around? Okay, Well that's good because see what

779
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: what I wanted you to do is I want you

780
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 1: to do a little bit of dancing in the club.

781
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 1: You have something like ballroom dancing or something that you

782
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 1: need to teach you. I don't want to do the ballroom.

783
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 1: I can't work with nobody on this stuff like that. No,

784
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:17,240
Speaker 1: I'm not asking you to do any uh ballroom dancing

785
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 1: anything like that. What I need you to do it

786
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 1: I want you to dance on the pole. On the pole.

787
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 1: See I have a strip club. I want you to

788
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:31,240
Speaker 1: dance on the pole. Potter dancing my part? Well, actually

789
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: I own um the silk Stocking, which is a strip club.

790
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 1: I'm not a stilk stocking. Look that heaving me. You

791
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 1: don't want me dus. You must watch your mine. I

792
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 1: bring my poet to mother body that room name. But

793
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 1: don't you want to make this money? I got seven

794
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars a night for you. I don't

795
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 1: believe there's some money you write you're a polar bears.

796
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,800
Speaker 1: We can take that polar service up to be. You

797
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 1: have no business calling me about no birth and I'm

798
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 1: no pardon I leave government church. I'm trying to get

799
00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 1: you a job. Baby. They told me that you was

800
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 1: in need of a job, so I'm just trying to

801
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 1: need that. I'm not need return a job. I'm not

802
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 1: needing no jows. I'm taking off my bad I'm rowing

803
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:20,440
Speaker 1: some more. Buy a brought wind and birth on my day.

804
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 1: And Paulos want you Okay, what if I bumped up

805
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: to a thousand? I don't take two three ft five thousand.

806
00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 1: Now I'm taking my draws out the noo. I want

807
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: you on that pole. You know you ain't gonna see me.

808
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 1: You haven't church in church. I need three let's say

809
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: you need to be out of me talking about your guys.

810
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,360
Speaker 1: I not right here when I have to see you

811
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:44,800
Speaker 1: bad church next Sunday. Don't you coming to me? I

812
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:46,360
Speaker 1: say living to me, because if I see you in

813
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:49,879
Speaker 1: a bustling, I'm a coming as you and win Dale

814
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 1: where you get your butt on the pole? Man? Listen?

815
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:55,200
Speaker 1: Is that come? Guys? Weren't brod I'm a whip you. Well,

816
00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: let me say this to you. Are you listening to me?

817
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 1: I don't listen to me. I'm given the wait just

818
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:05,400
Speaker 1: a minute, Carol, I want to say this. This is

819
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:09,320
Speaker 1: Nephew timing from the ste Harvey Morning Show. You just

820
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: got pranked by your cousin, Ravenna, my cousin. I need

821
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 1: some money. We never see it's something wrong. Man. Really,

822
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 1: you can't like how he expect to get in. I

823
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 1: don't know how he's specting to get on him, Like

824
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 1: how is that aspectation? Like I'm just gonna walk up

825
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 1: to the gate and just hold my chests out and

826
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: I'm walking in. It's me o lord, yeah, oh my god,

827
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: prayed for a job, ladies, stands up and what's the job?

828
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 1: You call her talking about being an exotic dancing What

829
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 1: is ship? She didn't say what kind of job? Yeah,

830
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:08,799
Speaker 1: you pray for I got a job for you. Oh

831
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 1: my god, Oh my god, tell you what tonight though,

832
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:15,560
Speaker 1: got a job for me though I prayed for one?

833
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 1: Got it? Hunts Bill Alabama stand up Live Happening to night, Yeah,

834
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 1: to take it to come on from you have a

835
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: good time. It's it's that time, ignorance, foolery. Everything. I'm

836
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 1: telling you what you're gonna do. You could expect that

837
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 1: Chris rock slapped to be on this list. You got

838
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 1: to be expected about my family being on this list.

839
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:36,360
Speaker 1: Expect on this show, on this list, you can expect

840
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,919
Speaker 1: that you're about to see everything to night. Man, I'm

841
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 1: talking about I don't have and I've been locked up

842
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 1: in COVID. Oh man, come on, I got sport to

843
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 1: you want. This is what I do. I can't help

844
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 1: one of them. Christ is there? You be killed? Oh

845
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 1: he a minute, wait a minute, the last six or Christ?

846
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 1: I had got to tell you where that was at.

847
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:01,239
Speaker 1: We're coming, Junior. You know that we will be there.

848
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 1: L Come on, all right, Cosie Junior in Huntsville. Coming

849
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 1: up next, Strawberry Letter. The subject is he called me

850
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 1: a call girl. We'll get into it right after this.

851
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is

852
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you

853
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:29,760
Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, on work, on sex, on parenting,

854
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:34,840
Speaker 1: on dating, please please please submit your Strawberry Letter to

855
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 1: Steve HARVEYSM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We

856
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air, just

857
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 1: like we're gonna read this one right here, right now,

858
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:48,839
Speaker 1: and you never know it could be yours. Yeah, right, Shirley, Ladies,

859
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 1: gentlemen's time for the Strawberry Letter. Well, my good friend,

860
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:55,480
Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry, all right, thank you, my good friend Junior.

861
00:53:56,080 --> 00:54:01,720
Speaker 1: Subject subject he called me a call girl. Dear Stephen, Shirley.

862
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:04,719
Speaker 1: I'm a forty one year old entrepreneur and I own

863
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 1: a brokerage firm. I'm dating a four year old, forty

864
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:10,839
Speaker 1: year old former pro athlete and we met three years ago.

865
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: He's a coach and he owns a laundromat. I have

866
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: my own house and he has his own house. I

867
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: was driving a small sports car when I met him,

868
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 1: and he suggested I get an SUV for all of

869
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: my yard signs and stuff for my business. I was

870
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 1: fine driving my little BMW, but for my fortieth birthday,

871
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 1: he surprised me with a twenty twenty two SUV. He

872
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 1: loves giving gifts and I love getting them, but it's

873
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 1: the commentary after the gift that bothers me. I wasn't

874
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:45,240
Speaker 1: wearing designer labels before I met him, but he loves

875
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 1: to buy them for me, so I let him. He

876
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 1: has flurged on overpriced designer shoes and purses for me

877
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 1: since we met. He said, I have to look a

878
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 1: certain way to represent him properly. He loves to brag

879
00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 1: about whatever he spends money on. Over the weekend, he

880
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:05,800
Speaker 1: went too far with the bragging, and now we're not speaking.

881
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:08,799
Speaker 1: We were at a rooftop bar on Sunday with three

882
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 1: other couples, and the males moved away from the female

883
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: so they could smoke cigars. They were still an earshot

884
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:17,799
Speaker 1: of where we were sitting, and I overheard my man

885
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 1: say that I'm the black Julia Roberts from Pretty Woman,

886
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,279
Speaker 1: and he has spent a lot of money on me

887
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 1: so I can be as fly as he is. He

888
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:28,640
Speaker 1: said I was worth every bit of it because he

889
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 1: plans to marry me. I went over to him and

890
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 1: cursed him out. One of his boys told me that

891
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:37,240
Speaker 1: I'm focused on the wrong part of what my man said.

892
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: He told me to focus on the fact that my

893
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:42,359
Speaker 1: guy wants to marry me. But how can I when

894
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 1: he compared me to a prostitute from a movie. You

895
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 1: feel the way you feel. That's okay, your feelings are valid.

896
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,360
Speaker 1: But I really think that the anger you have towards

897
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 1: your man and what made you curse him out at

898
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: the party was a build up of all the things

899
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 1: that get on your nerves about him. You've got a

900
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 1: big bragger on your hands. He's someone that is generous,

901
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 1: and how he buys nice things for you, but selfish,

902
00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 1: and how he needs so much attention and credit for

903
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 1: doing that. When you do things for people, especially for

904
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 1: your mate, it should be from the heart because you

905
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 1: want to do it, and gratitude and appreciation should be

906
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: all the thanks you need. Although you love getting the gifts,

907
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 1: you're not even into all these expensive designer things. That

908
00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:33,399
Speaker 1: is what he wants you to wear because he wants

909
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 1: you to represent him in a certain way. So I

910
00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:38,800
Speaker 1: think you were just sick of all his bragging and

911
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:41,919
Speaker 1: saying you were the black Julie Roberts was the last

912
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:44,719
Speaker 1: straw for you, and you just let him have it.

913
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 1: I mean, clearly he's clueless because in the same sentence

914
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 1: he said he wanted to marry you. I really don't

915
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:54,360
Speaker 1: think he was knowingly saying you were a prostitute or

916
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:57,239
Speaker 1: anything like that. He was just bragging so much he

917
00:56:57,360 --> 00:57:00,919
Speaker 1: got caught up and says something real stupid at the time.

918
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 1: So tell him how you feel about his bragging. Tell

919
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:06,280
Speaker 1: him you don't like it and you want him to stop.

920
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 1: But but know that this is who he is before

921
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 1: you get married, and he'll only change if he wants

922
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:15,600
Speaker 1: to change for you. But you know know that you're

923
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 1: not the black Julie Roberts. You're not a prostitute, Okay,

924
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 1: And I don't think he really meant that. I really don't, Steve, Lady, relax,

925
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 1: you find the mess up. Listen to me, lady, you

926
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 1: find the mess up? You overheard No, I'll wait till

927
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,920
Speaker 1: I get there. You forty one, you're entrepreneur, you own

928
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 1: a broken form. You're dating a former pro athlete. Met

929
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 1: three years ago. He's a coach. He got a laundry man.

930
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:44,439
Speaker 1: You got your own house, He got his own house.

931
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 1: He was driving a small sports call when you met him.

932
00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 1: He suggests you get an SUV for all your yards,

933
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 1: signs and stuff for your business. Makes sense to me,

934
00:57:53,080 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 1: but I was fine driving my little BMW. See see

935
00:57:57,280 --> 00:58:00,080
Speaker 1: right here, Now here's where you. I don't want you

936
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 1: to miss what's happening. Your man actually has an interest

937
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:07,720
Speaker 1: in what you do for a living, unlike some people

938
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 1: who don't give it, dawn, what you do. They just

939
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: want what they want. But now he said, you are

940
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:15,240
Speaker 1: to get an suv, so when you're going around in

941
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 1: the Brokish firm, you can have your signs and stuff

942
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,480
Speaker 1: in the car. Oh, I was firing with my little

943
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 1: Yeah you was. But then guess what for your fortieth birthday?

944
00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 1: He surprised you with a twenty twenty two suv. He

945
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 1: bought you and fulfill the need that he saw his

946
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 1: woman needed. He loves giving gifts and I love getting them.

947
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: So far sound like we win it, But it's the

948
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 1: commentary after the gift that bothers me. I wasn't wearing

949
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 1: design of labels before I met him, but he loves

950
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: to buy them for me, so I let him. Yeah. See,

951
00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 1: you wasn't buying designer stuff, but now he buying it

952
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 1: for you. You weren't into that, but you let him.

953
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 1: You know why, because it looked good. You know why,

954
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: because it feel good. You know why because it makes

955
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 1: you look and feel a certain way when you got

956
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 1: it on. That's why you buy the stuff. He has

957
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 1: splurged on. Overpriced designer shoes. Listen to me, lady. They're

958
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 1: not overpriced. That's how much they cost. See, they're not

959
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:29,960
Speaker 1: overpriced for what they are. Pay Less exists, so you

960
00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: can pay less Nieman Mark because mono Oblonic, Christian Lubertan

961
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 1: they don't have that. But then pay less shoes don't

962
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:46,000
Speaker 1: look like Milano and Christian Lubertins. They don't look like that.

963
00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 1: Look if a damn what you do? Hang on, Steven bad? Now?

964
00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: What do you other? Like? What are you mad for her?

965
00:59:55,560 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 1: What for what? We'll have two of Steve's response coming

966
01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour. The topic

967
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter is the subject he called me

968
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:11,480
Speaker 1: a call girl. We'll get back into it. Right after

969
01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 1: this calm down, you're listening show. All right, come on, Steve,

970
01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 1: Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject he called me

971
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:25,439
Speaker 1: a call girl. All Shirley wants me to calm down

972
01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:29,040
Speaker 1: and not be angry in my response. So he is

973
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 1: less attempted. He is this woman that's an entrepreneur, how

974
01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 1: a homebroker, our drives a small BMW started dating a

975
01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 1: former athlete. He's a coach, got a laundry match. He's

976
01:00:41,560 --> 01:00:45,280
Speaker 1: an entrepreneur. He fought failed for this woman right away

977
01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 1: and started showing an interest in her and said, hey,

978
01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 1: you ought to get it by suv instead of driving

979
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 1: this little sports car round for your business. I was

980
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:56,360
Speaker 1: fine driving a sports car round, But on her fortieth

981
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:59,680
Speaker 1: birthday he's surprised it with a brand new twenty twenty

982
01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 1: two suv. Oh bow, She liked it. Man for the guy,

983
01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: so far, we're winning, as I said, uh. And then

984
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 1: he loves giving gifts and I love getting them. Okay,

985
01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 1: shut your mouth and keep taking the gifts. What's wrong?

986
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:18,720
Speaker 1: And then but it's the commentary after the gift that

987
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 1: bothers me. Everybody ain't perfect something come with everything? You know?

988
01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:27,920
Speaker 1: I don't I don't really care for being famous sometime,

989
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:30,920
Speaker 1: but when they hand me my check, I shut my

990
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 1: damn mouth and gonna gets back to being famous. Okay,

991
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 1: almost started, get loud again, Go back. I wasn't wearing

992
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 1: design of labels before I met him, but he loves

993
01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 1: to buy them for me, so I let him. Oh,

994
01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:52,920
Speaker 1: now you wants to wear the product the louis VATM.

995
01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 1: Now you like stuff up Berkins, and now you likes

996
01:01:57,800 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 1: the Christian Louberton's and the milanas and your life getting now,

997
01:02:01,920 --> 01:02:04,600
Speaker 1: don't you? And the Jimmy shoes, Yeah, you like it.

998
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:10,240
Speaker 1: He has splurged on overpriced design the shoes. Stop saying

999
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:16,120
Speaker 1: they're not overpriced. These is what these shoes cost, and

1000
01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 1: them is what them shoes cost. They not overpriced. That's

1001
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 1: just that's what them shoes over their cost. They charge

1002
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 1: that for a reason. Them is Shawaska crystals on that shoe.

1003
01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:40,280
Speaker 1: That's why they up there. That's real leather, that's crock

1004
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:43,840
Speaker 1: on the toil. That ain't the frick. Okay, come back

1005
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:48,560
Speaker 1: down and buys persons for me. Since we met, he said,

1006
01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 1: I have to look a certain way to represent him properly.

1007
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:55,120
Speaker 1: That's just a man being a little braggish. I'll admit that,

1008
01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:57,920
Speaker 1: but you know, I want you to be out there

1009
01:02:57,960 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 1: when you're out there with me. In other words, for

1010
01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:02,280
Speaker 1: he's saying is he want to make sure he looked

1011
01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 1: like the man he's supposed to look like by having

1012
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 1: the woman he got. And if he ain't taking care

1013
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:10,160
Speaker 1: of his business, he know his woman can't look like

1014
01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:13,439
Speaker 1: she taking care of her business because this man's job

1015
01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 1: to provide. That's what he leaning home. He loves to

1016
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 1: brag about whatever he spends money on. Over the weekend,

1017
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:21,240
Speaker 1: he went a little bit too far bragging and now

1018
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 1: we're not speaking. We had a rooftop ball on Sunday,

1019
01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:26,360
Speaker 1: three couples. He moved over to the female. They moved

1020
01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:28,720
Speaker 1: away from the female so they can smoke cigars. They

1021
01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:32,120
Speaker 1: were still an inshot. When sitting I overheard my man say,

1022
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 1: I'm the black Julia Roberts from Pretty Woman, and he

1023
01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:37,400
Speaker 1: has spent a lot of money on me so I

1024
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:39,840
Speaker 1: could be as flies he is. And he said it's

1025
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:42,160
Speaker 1: worth every bit of it because he plans to marry me.

1026
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:45,840
Speaker 1: I went over to him and cussed him out. What

1027
01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 1: First of all, I never saw pretty Woman. I don't

1028
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:55,960
Speaker 1: know What the hell you talking about? You never saw that?

1029
01:03:56,320 --> 01:04:01,800
Speaker 1: You see that? Yeah? Yeah, what's the Richard here? How

1030
01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:07,000
Speaker 1: has that changed your life? It made you believe in

1031
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:12,160
Speaker 1: fairy tales and romance again? Yes? Okay, well I didn't

1032
01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:15,000
Speaker 1: watch the movie, but she didn't went over and custom

1033
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:17,960
Speaker 1: out because he said that. Then one of his boys

1034
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:20,640
Speaker 1: tried to save it as he should and told me,

1035
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:23,439
Speaker 1: I'm focused on the wrong part of what my man says.

1036
01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:25,400
Speaker 1: He told me to focus on the fact that the

1037
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:29,560
Speaker 1: guy wants to marry me. The analogy is unimportant. He

1038
01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 1: don't even know what he realized. He probably don't even

1039
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:34,840
Speaker 1: realize what he said. You the black Julian Robert like,

1040
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:38,960
Speaker 1: he compared me to a prostitute from a movie. Black dude,

1041
01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:41,040
Speaker 1: don't even be knowing all that right there. All he

1042
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 1: know is you fine to him, and he's willing to

1043
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:48,640
Speaker 1: put everything he got into you because you're worth it

1044
01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:52,160
Speaker 1: and he wants to marry you. How to hell are

1045
01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:56,440
Speaker 1: you man? Ain't speaking to him? Damn, Julia Robinson, you're

1046
01:04:56,520 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 1: stupid ass man don't know movie analogy? What's her name,

1047
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:05,919
Speaker 1: Julia Roberts, He does no movie and analogy because that's

1048
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:08,520
Speaker 1: what he said, and that's what happened in the movie. Movie.

1049
01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 1: That's exactly what happened in the movie. He married her, Yeah,

1050
01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 1: and yeah they were together. They lead you to believe

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Speaker 1: that he just told him for men. She was a

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Speaker 1: prostitute in the movie. She was a prostitute in the

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Speaker 1: movie No Here to part y'all missing to him. She

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Speaker 1: was the pretty woman in the movie. That Robert, that's

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Speaker 1: what pretty woman in the movie was. Listen to me,

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Speaker 1: he mocked, Julia Roberts, My pretty woman, ain't no man.

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Speaker 1: If the man no prostitute. Richard Gear he white in white.

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Speaker 1: That's a man's driving force. And when we get around

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Speaker 1: each other, I definition what we do, who we are,

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Speaker 1: and how much we make. And he talking trash with

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Speaker 1: his boys. You was in ear shot. You overheard the

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Speaker 1: conversation between men, and all the men knew was man.

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Speaker 1: He feeling huff comments for you lose your man over

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Speaker 1: damn movie analogy because ain't nobody calling you know prostitute?

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Speaker 1: Damn Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey f Famine Instagram and as bmdud. Coming up at

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Speaker 1: forty six minutes after the hour, It's Sports Talk with Junior.

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Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It

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Speaker 1: is time now for junior and sports talk. What you

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Speaker 1: got junior? All right, Shirley, Well, let's get to it.

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Speaker 1: John Gruten, the former head coach for the Las Vegas Raiders,

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Speaker 1: is back in the news. He was. You know, he

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Speaker 1: had an email scandal. It happened last season when he

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Speaker 1: lost his job. Yeah, he fired him because of the

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Speaker 1: races and anti gay comments and the misogynistic stuff. He said. Right, well,

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Speaker 1: he says, he says, you know, I'm a good person,

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Speaker 1: and uh, I am a little bit shamed about the email,

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Speaker 1: but I am a good person, he says. I go

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Speaker 1: to church. I've been married thirty one years. I got

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Speaker 1: some great boys, and I still love football. And we

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Speaker 1: all need forgiveness. And who ain't made some mistakes in

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Speaker 1: this room? These you say when you get caught with emails? Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So he's hoping to be a head coach and get

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Speaker 1: in the NFL. I don't see it they're gonna do that,

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Speaker 1: you know, man. I liked John Gruben. I liked him

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Speaker 1: a lot. I was a big fan of his with

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Speaker 1: the Quarterback Club. He did all the stuff he did

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Speaker 1: on TV, and then you know the emails came out. Man,

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Speaker 1: you'd be stunned. How many people write like that when

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Speaker 1: they think they're impride right right him? Now, you know

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Speaker 1: he can't be the only one in the NFL. Then

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Speaker 1: said something like this, it's the NFL and we know that. Man.

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Speaker 1: You can read some of them owner email. Man, that'd

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Speaker 1: be something need to hit before hit the wire. Also, Man,

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Speaker 1: I got to give a shout out to Prime Man.

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Speaker 1: Then Sanders Man down to Jesson State Man. You know

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Speaker 1: Jan sitting some rules for the players that he's coaching.

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Speaker 1: He says, Hey, when we go to class, now we

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Speaker 1: ain't wearing no white beaters, don't put no slippers on.

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Speaker 1: I'm raising men, not boys. So that's the new rules

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Speaker 1: for the Jack State football team. They saying, like, is

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Speaker 1: that too far from prompt? To take it too far

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Speaker 1: for him that had say this to these No, no,

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Speaker 1: ain't he got sitting in front of the class dressed

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Speaker 1: like you going somewhere. Good. Yeah, don't sit them there

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Speaker 1: and look like you ain't going nowhere, like you ain't

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Speaker 1: serious about this. No more white beaters, are no more

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Speaker 1: flip flops. Yeah, we're going to school, man, he's trying

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Speaker 1: to do something to turn these people into exceptional people.

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Speaker 1: You got exceptional people do exceptional things, period. Now, if

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Speaker 1: you want to be regular, just do regular stuff. Now.

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Speaker 1: Up that with the sitting in front of the class

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Speaker 1: bother you up? Could you? You? Could you have done that? Up? No?

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Speaker 1: I can't. I can sit there, but you know, you know,

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Speaker 1: the professor. The professor gonna have to deal with it. Participation. Yea,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna sitting the front. I'm still not raising my

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01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 1: head and I'm still sleep I just played football. At

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Speaker 1: this point, my reaction to them graphs is gonna be

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Speaker 1: the Sime sleep man. I got closed my heart, my head.

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Speaker 1: I saw sports talk today. I just want to see

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Speaker 1: the clan. Yeah all right, junior, thank you. All right.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: discuss the dating scene how it is now Ladies, should

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Speaker 1: you ask a man for a financial help to support

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Speaker 1: your lifestyle? We'll talk about it right after this. What's

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01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:52,400
Speaker 1: wrong with that? You're listening to show? All right, So

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01:09:52,560 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 1: there's a topic circulating on social media. Uh, many of

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Speaker 1: us have experienced the dating scene. Okay, before we you

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Speaker 1: were married and all of that stuff and a lot

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Speaker 1: of women expect men to pay for the check, help

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Speaker 1: with their bills, their rent, their groceries, nails, hair bags,

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Speaker 1: cell phones, etc. And on the other hand, some men

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Speaker 1: feel like just because we're dating or in a relationship

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01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:23,280
Speaker 1: that they shouldn't have to help with your bills or

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Speaker 1: help you keep up with a certain lifestyle. We're in

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01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:29,080
Speaker 1: this together. I should get something from you and you

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01:10:29,120 --> 01:10:31,640
Speaker 1: should get something from me. So, Steve, we got to

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Speaker 1: ask you, as you are our chief love officer, well

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Speaker 1: what do you think about this? I mean it's different. Now,

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Speaker 1: it's a true statement that everybody should get something from

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Speaker 1: the relationship. Now, if the relationship has progressed and it

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01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:53,560
Speaker 1: looks like you are planning a future together, if you

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01:10:53,960 --> 01:10:58,960
Speaker 1: are having any talks are plans of having a future together,

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01:10:59,720 --> 01:11:04,240
Speaker 1: Why would you align yourself with someone who's not willing

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01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:07,720
Speaker 1: or looking forward to taking care of you. And that

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01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:12,280
Speaker 1: goes for both the man and the woman, because if

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Speaker 1: this is going to lead to something up the road,

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Speaker 1: like we're planning on a life together, then we should

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Speaker 1: be planning on the life where we become one and

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01:11:21,200 --> 01:11:25,919
Speaker 1: we take care of one another. Now, there's an antige

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01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:29,680
Speaker 1: that a coach once said, you play the game like

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01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:34,479
Speaker 1: you practice. If you've had no practice with taking care

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01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:39,080
Speaker 1: of one another, what makes you think after the wedding day,

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01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:42,960
Speaker 1: all of us sudden you're gonna want to take care

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Speaker 1: of each other. It doesn't make any sense because there

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01:11:46,920 --> 01:11:50,280
Speaker 1: would be plenty of opportunities during the dating process to

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Speaker 1: show your ability or your willingness to take care of

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Speaker 1: one another. So it is a two way street. But

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01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:07,000
Speaker 1: you can't expect something that you're not willing to give.

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01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:12,240
Speaker 1: I can't expect to get rich if I don't go

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Speaker 1: to work. I can't expect to make it across the

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Speaker 1: other end of that swimming pool unless I didn't took

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01:12:19,640 --> 01:12:24,080
Speaker 1: some swimming lessons. I can't expect to play golf and

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Speaker 1: part this hole if I ain't been out there practicing.

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01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 1: M You can't make eight out of ten free throws

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01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:36,120
Speaker 1: just by walking up to the line. Somebody got to

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01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:45,679
Speaker 1: practice making these free throws. So so how so, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you can get all of that if I can't get

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Speaker 1: what I need. Okay, So yeah, you're saying it's a

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Speaker 1: it's an even exchange or something. It's there. It has

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01:12:57,640 --> 01:13:02,600
Speaker 1: to be an exchange, and exchange is unreasonable and unfair

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01:13:03,040 --> 01:13:05,640
Speaker 1: to walk in thinking somebody just posted to take care

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01:13:05,640 --> 01:13:08,320
Speaker 1: of your hair, your nails and buy you bags. If

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Speaker 1: he wants you to look a certain way, how was

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01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 1: you looking before you met it? Just because y'all star

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01:13:14,360 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 1: dating doesn't mean that he has to come in and

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Speaker 1: take over all these responsibilities all of a sudden with

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Speaker 1: nothing in it for him. What you're saying over time

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Speaker 1: and we want different things men and women, right this

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01:13:27,360 --> 01:13:29,679
Speaker 1: this may be what women want. What do men want?

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01:13:29,800 --> 01:13:31,640
Speaker 1: You know you so you can take care of me?

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01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:40,040
Speaker 1: Walt support, Men won't loyalty and men won't respect m

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Speaker 1: Love ain't at the top of the list with us.

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Speaker 1: Where where does love fall? It's somewhere in the top folk, yea,

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Speaker 1: in the top four. But if you're loyal to us

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Speaker 1: and respect us, that's what that's what we consider love. Yeah,

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01:13:59,000 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 1: did you belong to us and we belong to you

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01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:06,080
Speaker 1: that you gonna respect us and you're gonna support us

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01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:09,280
Speaker 1: and be loyal to us, and you can help me

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Speaker 1: get the way I'm trying to get to in life.

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01:14:11,439 --> 01:14:15,120
Speaker 1: You must love me. But those are the things we're

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01:14:15,160 --> 01:14:17,719
Speaker 1: looking for. Love is not at the top of the list,

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01:14:19,200 --> 01:14:26,960
Speaker 1: all right in empty handed Okay, Hello, Rent is due, Okay,

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01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 1: all right, We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning

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01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:33,720
Speaker 1: Show coming up at about twenty minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, This Monday is a Labor Day. That's right.

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Speaker 1: Every year, on the first Monday of September, our nation

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Speaker 1: celebrates the contributions American workers have made to the strength, prosperity,

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Speaker 1: and well being of our country. Many Americans view Labor

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Speaker 1: Day as the unofficial end to summer. That is true,

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01:15:00,960 --> 01:15:04,200
Speaker 1: especially because we all in most cases get the day off.

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01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:09,120
Speaker 1: In most cases, uh, we celebrate cookouts, parades, or a

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01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:14,000
Speaker 1: weekend getaway. So enjoy your yeah, official end to the

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Speaker 1: summer because it is coming to a close and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna jump into fall. Steve, what does your Labor Day

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01:15:19,840 --> 01:15:22,960
Speaker 1: weekend look like? Here? Well, I'm celebrating this Labor Day

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01:15:22,960 --> 01:15:27,120
Speaker 1: with a golf tournament from my foundation in Nassau, Bahamas. Nice.

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01:15:27,360 --> 01:15:34,240
Speaker 1: All right, Happy Labor Day to you. Yeah, I'm gonna

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01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 1: be over there, Mama trying to turn it up. You've

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01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:48,479
Speaker 1: been practicing on your boy said coming oh wow with

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01:15:48,560 --> 01:15:53,960
Speaker 1: a cigarf Holly, lad yeah, I love them together and

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01:15:54,120 --> 01:15:58,360
Speaker 1: they got a casino over there. Uh huh, yes, already

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01:15:58,479 --> 01:16:08,240
Speaker 1: pulled girl, have fun. You don't even was the last

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01:16:08,240 --> 01:16:11,160
Speaker 1: time you instead hung out? Hung out? In a while?

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Speaker 1: We spend the time up together Prostate thing up in

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Speaker 1: New York with Robert Smith. Okay, all right, coming up

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Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play another

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01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:23,479
Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Right after this you're listening

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Speaker 1: to show time now for a round of would you rather?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather never ever celebrate your birthday again? Or

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01:16:34,560 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 1: only celebrate your birthday and no other holidays? Would you

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01:16:42,120 --> 01:16:47,080
Speaker 1: rather never celebrate your birthday ever again? Or would you

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01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:52,040
Speaker 1: rather only celebrate your birthday and no other holidays? Whoop?

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01:16:52,240 --> 01:16:55,920
Speaker 1: No you even celebrate your birthday? Or do that mean

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01:16:56,000 --> 01:17:02,639
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna hand them all birthday? No? No, I'm

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Speaker 1: killing you off. No, I'm not participating in this with you. Scared.

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01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:12,519
Speaker 1: I don't want to put the wrong thing in the universe.

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01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:16,880
Speaker 1: I'm celebrating everything. I don't give a damn be mad

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01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 1: at me. You ain't fair. You celebrating your birthday, Christmas,

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01:17:21,920 --> 01:17:26,800
Speaker 1: New Years all that? Yea, yea yeah, all right, moving on, Ben,

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01:17:26,960 --> 01:17:30,960
Speaker 1: would you rather be handcuffed or blindfolded by your partner.

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01:17:32,640 --> 01:17:38,280
Speaker 1: Maybe you can participate in that. The way the way

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01:17:38,400 --> 01:17:41,280
Speaker 1: everything going right now, handcuffs can't happen, way things going

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01:17:41,439 --> 01:17:44,640
Speaker 1: right now, I can't. I can't deal with handcuffs blindfold me.

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01:17:44,760 --> 01:17:47,479
Speaker 1: But blind folks can. Yeah, yeah, yeah, No. I don't

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01:17:47,520 --> 01:17:49,320
Speaker 1: like to feel it feels like I'm going back to jail.

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01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:53,320
Speaker 1: I don't won't do that in the bedroom with you.

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01:17:53,600 --> 01:17:55,800
Speaker 1: Even in the bed room, it's just trauma. It's a

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01:17:55,880 --> 01:17:57,800
Speaker 1: trigger for me. I can't do that. You don't trust

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01:17:57,960 --> 01:18:04,320
Speaker 1: you gotta trust that trust. No, I can't be hand caught. Yeah, okay,

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01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:09,040
Speaker 1: I'll take the blind fold. I could knock your ass

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01:18:09,120 --> 01:18:14,040
Speaker 1: off of me. Yeah, but I'm sitting been here, just holly.

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01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:21,519
Speaker 1: I can't grab nobody, no, no, no, no, I got

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01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:24,600
Speaker 1: to have my hands free. I got to push you

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01:18:24,720 --> 01:18:28,040
Speaker 1: off of me. Get that? What is that? Get that

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01:18:28,160 --> 01:18:35,280
Speaker 1: off of me? Would you rather have frequent bad sex

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01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:41,640
Speaker 1: or great sex only twice a year? Hey? A lot

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01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:45,800
Speaker 1: of bad? Ye? Man, you're gonna give it here. I'll

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01:18:45,840 --> 01:18:50,800
Speaker 1: live with it bad. Just bade good sex twice a

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01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:56,240
Speaker 1: year great or bad great great sex twice? Ye? Well,

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01:18:56,560 --> 01:19:05,840
Speaker 1: I pretended before so why not coach you up a

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01:19:05,920 --> 01:19:20,679
Speaker 1: little bit. You knocked that out the paw see you tomorrow,

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01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:28,920
Speaker 1: all right, I think we have time for we don't.

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Speaker 1: All right, listen, that's today's round of would you rather?

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Speaker 1: Coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour. It's

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Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and we'll have some

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Speaker 1: clothing from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show here we are, guys, our last

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Speaker 1: break of the day on this Thursday. Thank you lord.

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Speaker 1: We made it through. Yeah, it was a good day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah week, yep. It is kind of what I want

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Speaker 1: to try something. Okay. I want you all to think

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Speaker 1: of words, because I don't want to give away any

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Speaker 1: think of words that describe are going through something. I

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Speaker 1: want you to think of words that describe going through

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Speaker 1: something or something you've had to overcome. As you give

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Speaker 1: them to me, I want to show you what those

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Speaker 1: words have taught me. I don't know how this is

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Speaker 1: gonna go because we've never done this before anxious and exercise,

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Speaker 1: but that's what it is. I give an example. I

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Speaker 1: often found myself ended up as I've gotten older, of

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Speaker 1: taking all the bitter moments and turning it into sweet

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Speaker 1: moments of taking all my lemons and making lemons. Because

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Speaker 1: out of all of my hardships that I've had, what

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Speaker 1: those hardships did was it's solidified my relationship with God.

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Speaker 1: It forced me to understand more fully what I was

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Speaker 1: capable of. It made me understand what those scriptures were

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Speaker 1: really sane, and it taught me the power of prayer.

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Speaker 1: So hardship really changed my relationship with God. So as

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Speaker 1: the team presents me these words that presented challenge are

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Speaker 1: difficult to them, I would try to put it into

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Speaker 1: words that have changed my life. Junior, you want to start,

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Speaker 1: what's the word strong willed? Strong willed? Uh? I had

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Speaker 1: to become strong will because of weak moments. You know

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Speaker 1: that are weak moments that come in your life where

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Speaker 1: it's going to test you in the form of temptation

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Speaker 1: and you're gonna have some weak moments. But when you

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Speaker 1: have those weak moments, it's practiced for you to develop

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Speaker 1: a stronger will. You've got to develop a strong will

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Speaker 1: to overcome temptation. That everybody has temptation and everybody's not

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Speaker 1: gonna You're not gonna win the temptation battle all day,

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Speaker 1: all the time, you're just not gonna do it. You're human.

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Speaker 1: But it taught me a lot about strong will in

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Speaker 1: my weak moments. Anybody, Um, yeah, that's good. Hello fear. Fear,

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Speaker 1: Oh well, fear. We've often talked about this. Fear has

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Speaker 1: produced more bravery for me than anything because every time

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Speaker 1: I've mustered up the courage to face my fear, it

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Speaker 1: made me more a brave You know, if you're a

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Speaker 1: fear fearful person or a brave person, that's the direct opposite.

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Speaker 1: But you need to fear to bring out the bravery

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Speaker 1: in you. See, if you're not presented with the things

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Speaker 1: you are afraid of, you don't know what to be

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Speaker 1: brave toward. You follow what I'm saying. I needed to

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Speaker 1: have fearful moment because God needed to show me just

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Speaker 1: how brave I really was. By turning around and facing

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Speaker 1: those fears, it made me understand how brave I actually was.

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Speaker 1: See every descending moment, every adverse moment in your life

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Speaker 1: that has an opposite to it, you got to find it.

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Speaker 1: But you become more brave when you face more fears.

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Speaker 1: It's nothing wrong with being afraid. What cripples you is

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Speaker 1: when you don't address the fear when you run from it,

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Speaker 1: for when you turn around and face it, you find

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Speaker 1: out that what you were afraid or wasn't as big

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Speaker 1: as you thought it were. That fear has caused me

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Speaker 1: to discover the bravery in me. You better come on

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Speaker 1: Steve Ball Show. Let me say mountain, Steve mountain. Oh,

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Speaker 1: this is a good one for me. This is easy.

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Speaker 1: I often have to thank God for all the mountain

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Speaker 1: I've had to climb, because in climbing the mountain, it

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Speaker 1: gave me the strength and the wisdom. I understand that

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Speaker 1: with Christ, all things is possible. That they ain't a

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Speaker 1: mountain too high that he can't get me over. They

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Speaker 1: ain't an ocean too deep that he can't swim me

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Speaker 1: through that mountain. When I'm climbing mountains, it allows me

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Speaker 1: to understand the real power of God, because sometimes you're

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Speaker 1: standing there looking at that mountain and it just seems

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Speaker 1: so impossible, but you got to start to climb. And

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Speaker 1: every time I started to climb and I've reached the

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Speaker 1: top of one of the mountains, all I could do

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Speaker 1: is say, thank you Lord for giving me the strength

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Speaker 1: to hang in at or reach the top of this mountain.

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Speaker 1: Now that has some valleys too. Now, oh yeah, but

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Speaker 1: you don't get to get you don't. You don't get

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Speaker 1: to the mountaintop without going down in the valley. See what,

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Speaker 1: you can't have one without the other. That was very good.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that, y'all. You know, that's all some of

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Speaker 1: the things that I've learned in my life from adversity.

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Speaker 1: Everything that looks like a bad moment, if you look

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Speaker 1: at it the right way. Like I've always said, behind

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Speaker 1: every moment of adversity, there's a lesson and a blessing.

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Speaker 1: And I thank God that I've learned from all my adversity,

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Speaker 1: all the mountains, all the fear, all of the moments

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Speaker 1: where I needed bravery, all the times I needed to

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Speaker 1: have that strong will. He just kept showing up. I

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Speaker 1: just asked, the Lord shows up for you. It's just

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Speaker 1: we ain't always there for him. Amen to that, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Have a great weekend. Is it time to say that? Check? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you say it on Monday. Don't forget tough for God

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