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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 2: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: Sicity and her smart watcher.

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Speaker 1: Here my smart watch. Not even gonna say. My shacket

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Speaker 1: is everywhere. It's my you know, it's a shacket. That's

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Speaker 1: what you call these. It's like a shirt jacket.

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Speaker 4: Oh I thought it was a not so nice jacket.

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Speaker 4: You called a jacket shocket. I've never heard of a jacket.

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Speaker 4: Is a jacket something that is new and on trend?

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Speaker 4: Or is it something I should look for in the

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Speaker 4: new year.

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Speaker 1: I think I kind of became a thing this this

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Speaker 1: past year.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm in my sweatshirt stretcher swisshirt, in my sweatshirt.

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Speaker 5: I'm in my uniform too.

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Speaker 3: I'm at my hoodie. Right, it's Friday.

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Speaker 1: It's comfy Friday.

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Speaker 3: It's sweatshirt hoodie Friday.

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Speaker 4: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: Show anyway, last night.

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Speaker 5: Oh before I went to sleep.

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Speaker 4: Mm hmmm, this great idea to go caroling? No you

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Speaker 4: did not this holiday?

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Speaker 5: Yes I did, Okay, so you haven't done.

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Speaker 1: It's this idea from.

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Speaker 4: It dawned on me that I heard somebody somewhere talking

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Speaker 4: about going caroling.

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Speaker 1: Now, what a good idea?

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Speaker 6: You had, Ryan, Yeah, are you going to pass out

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Speaker 6: gluten free cookies?

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Speaker 7: Too?

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Speaker 3: Took it to another level? Okay, uh huh was it

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Speaker 3: you Tania talking about going caroling?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: And we're gonna pass out gluten free cookies and we're

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Speaker 6: gonna wear matching sweaters.

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Speaker 4: That's you Wi, not me. We you wi us we

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Speaker 4: that's you correct, I'm not doing that. Yes, So went

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Speaker 4: on Amazon last night and started searching for Christmas Caroler costumes.

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Speaker 3: Are you dressing up in old costumes?

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Speaker 5: No, we're gonna wear ugly sweaters.

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Speaker 3: We're doing well. I might. I'm probably gonna dress up

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Speaker 3: in something from you know.

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Speaker 1: Either year, like you and like the old time you

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Speaker 1: like back in the UK.

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Speaker 6: Yes, before there was electricity, silent night.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna grab a beard.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna put on a fake beard, a top hat

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Speaker 4: and something plaid. And so here's what's gonna happen about

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Speaker 4: five o'clock on December twenty third.

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Speaker 5: Oh, you're this is actually happening.

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Speaker 4: Do you think I'm going through all of this and

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Speaker 4: playing the background music, because it's not. So I've got

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Speaker 4: to come up with my Christmas caroling name mm hmm.

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Speaker 4: And then I'm gonna have a Christmas Carol book. I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna have a candle, candles my top hat, and I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna sing we wish you a merry Christmas and to.

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Speaker 3: My little niece, but she won't know it's me, right, candle.

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Speaker 4: Just like cute.

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Speaker 1: That's very cute.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna take candles. That's a good idea.

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Speaker 4: When I get inside, because obviously the family won't invite.

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Speaker 3: The carolers in.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 4: We'll see how long it takes your to realize it's

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Speaker 4: Uncle Rye Rock.

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Speaker 1: I love that idea.

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Speaker 3: Is that great?

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Speaker 1: I think that's really cute.

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Speaker 8: You know, I gotta go run an errand Flora, Mom, Dad,

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Speaker 8: everybody gotta go get some more batteries for the equipment

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Speaker 8: and things, and.

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Speaker 3: I'll see you guys soon.

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Speaker 1: Well done.

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Speaker 5: What a production.

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Speaker 3: I like it?

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Speaker 4: But you know, the costumes on Amazon I'm not thrilled about.

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Speaker 4: But a Carol if you if you I didn't google,

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Speaker 4: I Amazon search.

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Speaker 1: You can find everything there was Christmas.

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Speaker 4: Carol costumes of yither ye see either?

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Speaker 1: How to smell that either? Okay, so what do you like?

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Speaker 4: I mean, there's there are some nice gowns and some

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Speaker 4: pants and top hats.

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Speaker 5: With the plant clad like green and red like.

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Speaker 3: A top, and you could see the funk rolling up

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Speaker 1: Do something like this, This is not bad.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Yeah, exactly, she's showing us Charles Dickens costumes.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, with that, that's.

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Speaker 4: And I guess Tanya, you should take credit for this

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Speaker 4: because it wouldn't have been in my subconscious if you

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Speaker 4: didn't bring it up that you and your team were.

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Speaker 3: Going to do it.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 6: Nothing makes me happier than to inspire thee Well either.

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Speaker 5: Me, they're me either you. The candles are cute, though,

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Speaker 5: I'm going to bring that to my group.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you can't find out Amazon, then just

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Speaker 1: go go through like a costume store.

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Speaker 4: We hark if we harketh. All right, so we do

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Speaker 4: your horoscopes. Now, how is your day gonna look today?

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Speaker 3: Let's start it off.

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Speaker 6: Aries, examine your budget and look for areas that you

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Speaker 6: can trim.

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Speaker 1: The fact Taurus, your head is full of clever ideas.

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Speaker 5: Gemini, you will deliver a persuasive pitch.

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Speaker 1: Cancer, mute your inner critic Leo today.

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Speaker 5: You will cocoon in your.

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Speaker 1: Casa Virgo brain dump today and let the words flow freely.

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Speaker 5: Libra, make plans with friends for tonight.

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Speaker 1: Scorpio, order in and enjoy a mellow knight.

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Speaker 6: Sagittarius, pop into an an indie store, and support a

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Speaker 6: small business.

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Speaker 1: Capricorn, someone's feeling flirtatious and vivacious. Aquarius. Today is the

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Speaker 1: day to make a bold move and five ses Today

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Speaker 1: is the day to finish that to do list.

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Speaker 3: So, Chania, you had a ping pong revelation.

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Speaker 6: Yes, okay, I don't know if Sissy and I told

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Speaker 6: you about this ping pong tournament that we were in

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Speaker 6: with the Dodgers.

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Speaker 4: It's Clayton Kershaw's, like you may have mentioned that in passing.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So he.

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Speaker 6: Does this annual ping pong tournament and we played in it,

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Speaker 6: and my my boyfriend and my best friend Becca are

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Speaker 6: berry into ping pong and they always play each other,

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Speaker 6: like when we have taco Tuesdays and stuff. But I've

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Speaker 6: this Kershaw challenge, I've been like I discovered I'm actually

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Speaker 6: into it as a couple. We're kind of like playing

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Speaker 6: ping pong all the time, and we're gonna have a

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Speaker 6: ping pong tournament, and we're gonna get other friends that

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Speaker 6: are like really good at ping pong, and we're gonna

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Speaker 6: do like a whole time, and I'm gonna make shorts.

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Speaker 3: How's your serf?

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Speaker 6: That's the only thing I'm not great at. I'm just

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Speaker 6: I'm a consistent player. The revelation that I had at

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Speaker 6: this ping pong tournament? Do you know who Zach King is?

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Speaker 3: Not Zach King of the Mighty Mighty ping Pongers.

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Speaker 6: No, So he's like a very famous he makes these

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Speaker 6: like really cool videos on TikTok and Instagram.

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Speaker 5: They're like kind of like magic.

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Speaker 3: Not the Mighty Mighty boss Tones, not that guy.

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Speaker 5: Oh no.

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Speaker 6: But he was like really really into the game, like

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Speaker 6: he was pushing me and wanted me to practice really hard,

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Speaker 6: and I was kind of annoyed at first. I was

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Speaker 6: like I just don't to have some fun, right, But

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Speaker 6: it made me a better player, Like I wanted to

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Speaker 6: and sweet and encouraging about it. And so it made

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Speaker 6: me realize, like that's how I want to be as

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Speaker 6: a partner in life, Like I want to be that

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Speaker 4: Well, that now there's a lot of great to this

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Speaker 4: ping pong tournament. Yeah, I understand that, and it's fun.

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Speaker 4: When I was a kid, we used to play a

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Speaker 4: lot more of it than I do now. But when

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Speaker 4: you google the videos of like pro pingpongers, I mean,

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Speaker 4: it's insane to watch them, how fast they go, I know.

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Speaker 5: But it's more than ping pong.

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Speaker 6: It was like this life revelation of like, I'm a

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Speaker 6: better player because my partner is encouraging me and pushing me,

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Speaker 6: my gosh, I want to be that for my partner

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Speaker 6: in life. And I feel like I'm not quite there yet.

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Speaker 3: But you're getting there.

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Speaker 5: I hope to get there, all right.

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Speaker 4: What we're saying is eventually we make it together for

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Speaker 4: a ping pong tourney.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys know it sounds like you only want

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Speaker 1: people that are good.

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Speaker 5: You know that's true.

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Speaker 1: You said that, you said other friends who are good

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Speaker 1: at ping ponger I like to play.

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Speaker 4: I like to play, yeah, and I'd be up for that.

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Speaker 3: I'm not so sure. I don't know how good Robbie is.

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Speaker 1: I'm average, Yeah, I'm a good like out in the

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Speaker 4: I can't get my Sometimes I can ase my serve.

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Speaker 4: I mean I can get my serf pretty tight against

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Speaker 1: I didn't stand a chance at the Kershaw Challenge. I

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Speaker 1: played against like two Laker players. They were like their swings.

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Speaker 3: Across the table.

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Speaker 5: I've lent hard people too. We want first round.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I'm terrified of performing sports in front of people

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Speaker 4: for anything like friends, Fine, but I would really I

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Speaker 4: get butterflies singing up playing in like a some of

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Speaker 4: these tournaments.

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Speaker 1: But it was so fun because it was like Will

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Speaker 1: Ferrell was there and Ashton Kutcher was there, and it

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Speaker 1: was everybody was just.

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Speaker 3: Brad Pitt.

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Speaker 4: Coming up in a second your morning hack. Three things

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Speaker 4: you can say today to make people happy? Are you

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Speaker 4: spreading joy?

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Speaker 3: Siciny?

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Speaker 1: I try to sprinkle it as much as I can.

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Speaker 4: I just packaged up y'all's gifts. Made me joyful to

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Speaker 4: be giving you something from the heart this year. Last

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Speaker 4: year for not so much from the heart. They were

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Speaker 4: gift cards. This is not a gift card. It's definitely

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Speaker 4: more me for you, for me, for you me you

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Speaker 4: you know, and something that's taken a long time to

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Speaker 4: get to. It's this stage for you. It's been years,

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Speaker 4: in some cases ten years.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I have ideas.

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Speaker 5: I'm going to google something really quick.

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Speaker 3: What are you going to google?

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Speaker 9: Ten?

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Speaker 5: Your anniversary gift?

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Speaker 10: No?

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Speaker 5: Like wooden?

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Speaker 3: Are you guys would ten? I'm packing.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to home depot where the doers get it done,

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Speaker 4: and I'm getting some two by four and I'm painting

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Speaker 4: your name more aluminum.

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Speaker 5: That's the decade long anniversary gift tradition.

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Speaker 1: It's not tenure.

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Speaker 3: What are you going to do with the wood this year?

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm doing?

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Speaker 3: Oh not ten? Sorry? What are you gonna do with

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Speaker 3: the ten?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's our ten year anniversary.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean look right, jot these down in your

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Speaker 3: Was a history major. Oh it's great now you really

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Speaker 3: Absolutely changed my life? Oh so thanks, come on, that's

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Speaker 5: How does it feel?

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Speaker 9: It was great?

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Speaker 4: Today's quote most people need love and acceptance much more

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Speaker 3: Shut in and hug it.

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Speaker 4: If you just got here, It's time for another kiss,

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Speaker 4: Thank you for sending us this email about your sister.

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Speaker 9: Hi.

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Speaker 4: So I was thinking we'll call her now, we'll surprise

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Speaker 4: So Eddie Sanchez here of Bellflower, nominating Diana of Compton,

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Speaker 3: Okay, here we go, Eddie. Okay, Hello, Hi is Diana there?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 12: Yes, this is her.

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Speaker 3: Hi Diana.

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Speaker 4: It's Ryan Seacrest calling from one of two point seven

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Speaker 3: How are are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm fine?

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Speaker 9: Thank you great.

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Speaker 4: We're just calling everybody that we think is listening and

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Speaker 1: So merry Christmas, Yay, Merry Christmas Holidays.

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Speaker 3: All right, you have a great day.

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Speaker 1: Wait, wait, don't hang up.

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Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on, there's more.

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Speaker 4: So I've got Eddie, your brother, on the line.

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Speaker 7: Oh, let me tell you.

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Speaker 4: Eddie sent me an email. I'm going to read it

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Speaker 4: to you, he says. Dear Ryan, Sistey and Tanya, my sister.

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Speaker 3: That's you. Diana is the most selfless person I know.

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Speaker 4: She has always been so supportive, especially when I came

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Speaker 4: Despite having six kids of her own, she has never

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Speaker 3: And you're Hi. Hi there. You're a family of eight,

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Speaker 3: Is that right?

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Groceries must be an enormous bill.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my teenagers say they eat a lot.

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Speaker 4: So how about one thousand dollars to spend at grocery outlet,

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Speaker 12: That would be awesome.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we're going to set that up.

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Speaker 4: We're also going to send you eight tickets to six

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Speaker 3: How's Isaiah? How's Isaiah doing? How old is he?

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Speaker 1: He's fourteen.

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Speaker 4: There's no bigger Kendrick Lamar fan than Isaiah.

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Speaker 3: Oh I heard he loves.

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Speaker 4: So you gotta do me a favor. I'm going to

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Speaker 4: give you four tickets to see Kendrick Lamar. You got

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Speaker 12: Oh he's gonna go ahead, sane.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, then there's the younger kids.

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Speaker 4: So I got five hundred bucks to spend at Pixie

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Speaker 4: I'm also thinking about just keeping them busy and sending

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Speaker 3: If that's cool with you too.

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Speaker 4: Oh oh oh no, man, I mean eight people in

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Speaker 3: You need a break. You need a break.

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Speaker 4: You need a weekend at the Terranea resortant spat in

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Speaker 4: Rancho Palace Verdus.

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Speaker 9: I've been there.

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Speaker 1: It's that place is like a dream.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you need that weekend. I'm gonna give that to

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna look it up. You're gonna look it up.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna love it.

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Speaker 4: Oh oh, and look click on the spot because I'm

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Speaker 3: To Oh man, So I think Eddie, did we miss anything?

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Speaker 12: I think you got it all. Say that's something.

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Speaker 13: More than you knows so much.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's a celebration of the love you guys have.

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Speaker 4: And just to close it out in case I forgot something,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna send a thousand dollars in cash to you on.

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Speaker 3: Top of it.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, I'm going to help you out a lot things.

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Speaker 4: Well, Eddie, we love you, and Diana, we love it,

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Speaker 3: Merry Christmas, thank you so much.

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Speaker 7: Likewise, all right.

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Speaker 3: Go tell the kids about all the good stuff coming.

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Speaker 12: I'm gonna tell when they get old.

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Speaker 1: Ye wait till Christmas.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't wait to tell Isaiah about the Kendrick.

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Speaker 1: Na did she could wrap up a little thing in

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Speaker 13: Oh my gosh, come on, Oh yeah, it's be like

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Speaker 3: Big hugs to you and Merry Christmas edding, Diana, thank you.

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Speaker 5: Thanks very Christmas.

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Speaker 4: So we just had Eddie and Diana, and she's got

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Speaker 4: There could be chaos with one. I want to do

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Speaker 4: I's reaching out for some help here. So Maya says

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Speaker 1: Do you like read too much?

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Speaker 3: Well, I read the part you're.

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Speaker 4: And then I got Then I got nervous to speak

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Speaker 1: It happens.

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Speaker 6: I got asked to read at temple last weekend, and

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Speaker 13: Calling, good morning, thanks for having me pleasure.

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Speaker 4: So all right, you meet a church, you see each

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 13: Yeah, we just want out for coffee one.

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Speaker 13: So yeah, we both go to church, you know, in

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Speaker 13: And so finally on Wednesday, I texted him and I said,

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Speaker 13: you know, I had a great time on Sunday, like

456
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Speaker 13: maybe we could get some lunch after the service this weekend,

457
00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:08,560
Speaker 13: and he said, sorry, I don't think that's going to work.

458
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Speaker 13: Thank you. Though there was like no, you know, maybe

459
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Speaker 13: next Sunday or you know, I would have I would

460
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Speaker 13: love to, but I can't. Like nothing, it was just like, nope,

461
00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 13: not it's gonna happen.

462
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Speaker 4: Plus, you guys are going to see Teller inevitably at church,

463
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Speaker 4: so it's a little strange that he would shut it

464
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Speaker 4: down so rigidly. And there's nothing that strikes you.

465
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Speaker 3: That was at the coffee that was like a weird moment.

466
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Speaker 13: No, no, I everything seemed to be going really well.

467
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Speaker 13: But now I feel like I can't go to my church.

468
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Speaker 13: So I've been going to Little Brown Church in Studio City.

469
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Speaker 1: Oh I love that.

470
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Speaker 3: So you moved your you move locations.

471
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Speaker 13: They're they're affiliated, so it's not like but yeah, I've

472
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Speaker 13: been going to a different location because I'm nervous, like

473
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Speaker 13: I don't know what it. Yeah, I'm like I don't

474
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Speaker 13: want to run into him and it'd be awkward until

475
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:05,440
Speaker 13: I know, like what's going on.

476
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Speaker 4: Well, listen, do you want us to get into Maybe

477
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,720
Speaker 4: the Lord is involved here. Maybe the Lord does not

478
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Speaker 4: want you guys to run into each other.

479
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Speaker 13: You know, I just I feel like we hit it

480
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Speaker 13: off so well and like and we go to the

481
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Speaker 13: same church and it's like, you know, like it just

482
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,800
Speaker 13: seemed so perfect.

483
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Speaker 1: Like it could be a big misunderstanding and then we

484
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Speaker 1: could be helping.

485
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Speaker 3: Well, let's try and clear it up.

486
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Speaker 4: Right, I'm just saying, if there's another power at work here,

487
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,399
Speaker 4: we're going to get involved with your permission.

488
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Speaker 1: Right, please, A little brown are just so cute. Maybe

489
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Speaker 1: you're just meant to be there.

490
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Speaker 4: But again, sometimes you're driven down the path because the

491
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Speaker 4: universe wants you to be down that path and not

492
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Speaker 4: cross paths with somebody. But we'll we'll meddle my hang

493
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Speaker 4: on one second. This guy's name is Ashton, So find

494
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Speaker 4: out if we can get Ashton on the line. See

495
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Speaker 4: why Ashton blew off Maya and I might as going

496
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Speaker 4: to another.

497
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Speaker 2: Church on a on air with Ryan Seacrest On Air

498
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Speaker 2: with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 4: We got him. So we're in the middle of a

500
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Speaker 4: second date update. Maya met Ashton at church. They mingled

501
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:25,399
Speaker 4: in the lobby post the eleven o'clock service, I think,

502
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:30,920
Speaker 4: and they went out for coffee afterwards. Good conversation, she said.

503
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Speaker 4: The conversation went well and she liked him. They exchanged numbers,

504
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Speaker 4: and now he doesn't want to hang out with her again,

505
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 4: kind of like shut her down. So she's actually going

506
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Speaker 4: to a different location to go to church for the

507
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Speaker 4: moment because she doesn't want the awkwardness of running into him.

508
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Speaker 4: And she doesn't know why she got pushed away by

509
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 4: him when everything seemed to be going well. So maya

510
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Speaker 4: have him on the line. You very quiet, don't say anything.

511
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Speaker 4: We're going to try and find out what's going on. Okay, Ashton,

512
00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 4: thanks for holding on, bro.

513
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Speaker 3: I appreciate you coming on.

514
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 4: Just so you're aware your voice is being broadcast on

515
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 4: the radio right now. I've got Sisney and Tanya with

516
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 4: me here, and we're calling about a woman named Maya

517
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:09,680
Speaker 4: that you met at church.

518
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:15,439
Speaker 3: Does that sound familiar? Oh yeah, fantastic. How tell me

519
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 3: about Maya? So what's she like.

520
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Speaker 12: Maya? Is it? Okay?

521
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Speaker 9: Yeah?

522
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 12: So Maya's a very sweet girl. We go to the

523
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Speaker 12: same church, well, kind of friends from far and we

524
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 12: went on a date recently. How'd that go, it went

525
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 12: really well. We had a lovely time. I really think

526
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Speaker 12: she's wonderful. She's got these amazing eyes, just beautiful.

527
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Speaker 10: Laugh.

528
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Speaker 12: I had a great time with her.

529
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Speaker 4: Yeah, nice, Well, forgive our prying here. But so if

530
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 4: things went well and you had a great time with her,

531
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Speaker 4: do you have plans to see her anymore?

532
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Speaker 12: I mean, I'm sure I'll run into her at church, but.

533
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Speaker 1: Yeah, are you making an effort to see her again?

534
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Speaker 12: Are you? Are you asking on her behalf?

535
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 3: Yes?

536
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Speaker 12: Okay, I have to say, well, it's none of my business,

537
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 12: but I don't think we're a good match.

538
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 3: Why is that on her behalf?

539
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 12: She has a bit of a checkered past?

540
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Speaker 5: What does that mean?

541
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Speaker 3: What does that mean?

542
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Speaker 12: You know, that's her business. It's not my place to

543
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Speaker 12: expose her on the radio.

544
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:50,359
Speaker 4: Understood that, okay? But so there's something about her past

545
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 4: that made you feel uncomfortable. Yeah, and you didn't know

546
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Speaker 4: about this. But by the way, if it's in her past,

547
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Speaker 4: what's the big deal?

548
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 1: So what she just like some bad things?

549
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Speaker 9: Yeah?

550
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Speaker 12: Like I googled her, you know, uh, and so came

551
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 12: up black.

552
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Speaker 4: Okay, well, hold on for a second, as we have

553
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Speaker 4: Maya on the phone here, may Are you listening to

554
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 4: this here? Can you hear Ashton?

555
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:22,640
Speaker 12: Yes? I can.

556
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,640
Speaker 4: We don't want you to say anything that makes you uncomfortable.

557
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 4: But you just heard Ashton comment about I don't know

558
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Speaker 4: what it is in your past that he's referring to,

559
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Speaker 4: but something made him uneasy.

560
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Speaker 12: Uh yeah, I.

561
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Speaker 13: Mean he must have done more than just google me.

562
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Speaker 4: Oh but is there anything you want to share with

563
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Speaker 4: us about what we're talking about?

564
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 3: Oh?

565
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Speaker 12: Yeah, I use one of those background check sites. I

566
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Speaker 12: use it quite a bit.

567
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Speaker 4: What happened in your past that he's so concerned about

568
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Speaker 4: and can't get over?

569
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Speaker 1: I mean he can.

570
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Speaker 13: You can go ahead and say, oh, okay, so you

571
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 13: were arrested. I was, Yeah, public intoxication in college and

572
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:14,119
Speaker 13: we got the charges dropped, but apparently it still shows

573
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Speaker 13: up on those.

574
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Speaker 12: Types of sites. Okay, and you were also evicted.

575
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Speaker 14: Yeah, I was.

576
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Speaker 13: It was around the same time, and in fact, that's

577
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Speaker 13: actually one of the reasons why I go to church

578
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Speaker 13: every weekend. You know, I turned my life around, and

579
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Speaker 13: I was in a really dark place in twenty seventeen

580
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Speaker 13: and I don't want to go back there.

581
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Speaker 4: So a while ago, and sounds like she's moved on

582
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Speaker 4: and how about forgiveness.

583
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I feel like all of this she probably

584
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Speaker 1: would have just told you if you would have asked

585
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Speaker 1: her about her past.

586
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Speaker 3: Right, And it sounds like she's in a totally different space.

587
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Speaker 12: Brou Yeah, Yeah, I know I should have asked, and

588
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:56,719
Speaker 12: I know I should have brought this up. I just

589
00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:01,159
Speaker 12: it felt strange to do that, to admit that I

590
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 12: looked you up.

591
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Speaker 1: So maybe stop looking people up. This is going to start.

592
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 1: You know, you don't keep doing this with everybody.

593
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Speaker 12: Okay, I've been How do I say I've been burned before?

594
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 12: You know, to protect you.

595
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Speaker 4: But look, Maya's making real effort to it sounds like

596
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 4: make this something that was completely in the past and

597
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 4: will always be in the past, and grow as a

598
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 4: person today and in the future. And that's where you met.

599
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 4: You met at the place where she's trying to be

600
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 4: a better person, right, You met at a church service.

601
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 4: And so I I mean, I'm not going to tell

602
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 4: you what you should do because it's your dating life,

603
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 4: but you now have a full picture of what Maya

604
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 4: did and where she is now. Is there any interest

605
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 4: there or is this something you can't get past?

606
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Speaker 3: Ashton?

607
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 9: No?

608
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Speaker 12: I mean, yeah, I think that would be cool to

609
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 12: go out again.

610
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Speaker 3: I'm going to need them in.

611
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 13: Yeah, I think I'm going to need a minute on that.

612
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 9: You.

613
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Speaker 12: I don't really love.

614
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Speaker 13: The background thing, and I don't love the judging us

615
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:10,719
Speaker 13: about my past. Yeah, you know, knowing me where I

616
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 13: am now, it's just like, you know, maybe we can

617
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 13: talk on Sunday.

618
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Speaker 3: I want to be around and judge.

619
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm with you, ma'am.

620
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Speaker 3: All right, our work is done, Ashton Maya.

621
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Speaker 4: Thank you very much for both being candid with us,

622
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 4: and I wish you guys the best of luck.

623
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Speaker 1: Ashton, lay off the background checks. It's like, just start

624
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 1: having conversations with these women, Like, don't you don't need

625
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: to jump into the background check stuff. Maybe do that

626
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 1: once you maybe see red flags, but have conversations with

627
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: them first.

628
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Speaker 12: That's a good point.

629
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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, guys, thank you very much for coming on.

630
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 3: Good luck. I feel like she's going to be uncomfortable

631
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 3: no matter Yeah, because.

632
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 1: She doesn't trust him A feeling judged.

633
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 4: Feel judge. It's like, once you feel that, it's hard

634
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 4: to go back to not feeling. So that was not great.

635
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 4: All right, one A two point seven kiss FM. See

636
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 4: christ with you that's called a second date update. We

637
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 4: do those every once in a while, no telling how

638
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 4: they're going to turn out something. All right, let me

639
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 4: grab Isabelle. Here Isabelle. How you doing in Norwalk?

640
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 14: I'm doing well.

641
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 3: How are you, Isabelle?

642
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 4: We're doing well too. Thank you for asking. So there's

643
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 4: an issue with the guy you're seeing.

644
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 14: Yeah, So I started seeing this guy about three months

645
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 14: ago and everything's been good. But about two months in

646
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 14: he did tell me that he loved me, and I

647
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 14: don't know, personally, I felt like that was too soon

648
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 14: and I just didn't want to say it back.

649
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Speaker 3: And so I run out it.

650
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 4: All we want to do in this world is be loved.

651
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 4: Yet the second we meet someone that says it too

652
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 4: fast or totally turned.

653
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 1: Off, No, it doesn't have to be that way.

654
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Speaker 4: But I see what you mean is about because I

655
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 4: have been on different sides of this. I've said it

656
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 4: like because it felt like the thing to say in

657
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 4: a moment, and then I've said it and you know,

658
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 4: I meant it but didn't mean it. But John, I

659
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 4: used to when I was younger. It was so deliberate,

660
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 4: and then as time goes on, you kind of use

661
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 4: it more loosely. I'm just telling it.

662
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 5: I should be backwards.

663
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 3: Sorry, you don't live in these shoes.

664
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 4: But you use it a little more loosely than you

665
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,959
Speaker 4: did because it was so precious at the beginning, and

666
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 4: it was so first time at the beginning.

667
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: It's still precious every time.

668
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Speaker 3: It's precious.

669
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Speaker 4: But you under said, I'm saying like when you're like

670
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 4: for me, I've been unmarried, so I've fallen in love

671
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 4: multiple times, and I feel like you say it sooner

672
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 4: as those times go by. Is about why is it

673
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 4: that you aren't saying it back?

674
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Speaker 12: I honestly, I don't know.

675
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Speaker 14: I think it's just kind of I haven't felt it

676
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 14: and I don't want to say it if I'm not ready, right,

677
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 14: But that's okay.

678
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 3: He don't you totally okay? Unless it made you? Did

679
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 3: it did? What's the right word? Did it turn you off?

680
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 14: I kind of did, not entirely, but it did kind of,

681
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 14: I guess scare me.

682
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 4: Did it make you feel like, oh gosh, maybe I

683
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 4: shouldn't be so open, Maybe I shouldn't be so comfortable.

684
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 4: Maybe I should I'm going to hold back a little bit, yeah, just.

685
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 14: A bit, because I do kind of have that guard.

686
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 14: So it did.

687
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 1: It did kind of make me.

688
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 14: Put my guard up and make me a little scared

689
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 14: to just open up and be be that.

690
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 4: Like, just open with him, And do you feel comfortable

691
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 4: that he said it to you, and you can keep

692
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 4: your guard up for a little bit to see if

693
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 4: it is, yes, exact same for you at some point,

694
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 4: because I think it's it's totally fine for you to

695
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 4: feel that way, and if it continues to feel more

696
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 4: that way than the other way, you know it's not

697
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 4: a match.

698
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 14: Yeah, I get I'm a little nervous that he is

699
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 14: going to resent me for not saying it back.

700
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 3: Well, don't say it because you're worried about him resenting.

701
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not going to I said I love you

702
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 6: to my boyfriend a month before he said it to me.

703
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 1: I said it after the first date.

704
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, drunk, So speaking of using it loosely and

705
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 4: right away. So it's about I think this is okay,

706
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 4: and this happens. This happens more often than not, where

707
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 4: one person says and the other person's like, oh I'm

708
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 4: not sure yet. Yeah, So take your time with it,

709
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 4: don't worry about him resenting. And again, if those things happen,

710
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 4: this is not the guy for you. It nets itself out,

711
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 4: it will It is about we love you.

712
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 3: So thank you for calling you. Take good care? All right?

713
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:00,239
Speaker 7: Up?

714
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 3: So how long did it take Robbie to say it

715
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 3: after you said it?

716
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 5: About a month? What's on brand for our relationship though?

717
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 2: If I'm being honest, My God on air with Ryan Seacrest.

718
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:25,280
Speaker 4: All right, so I've never heard of Christmas treat syndrome,

719
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 4: but Sicany's walking around saying, hey, do you have a stuff?

720
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 4: He knows, Hey, are you sneezing? Like no, but my

721
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 4: dog is my dog Christmas tree.

722
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 5: That's the whole thing, right.

723
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:39,400
Speaker 4: George's got the sneezes right now? So what is Christmas

724
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 4: treat syndrome? And is it different than being allergic to

725
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 4: pine or something like that exactly?

726
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 1: So maybe it could just be a fancy name that

727
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 1: decided to make up this year just so we can

728
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: all be at the edge of our stools. But either way,

729
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 1: it's these invisible allergens that lurk inside of our real

730
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 1: or fake Christmas trees.

731
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 5: So yay, it's the.

732
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 1: Most wonderful time of the year.

733
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 3: Don't you have a fake flocked one? Or is it

734
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 3: a real flocked one.

735
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:12,720
Speaker 1: It's a real flocked tree. I have a real silver

736
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: tip tree, and I don't necessarily I'm experiencing any of this,

737
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 1: so okay, but maybe some people do. And it's if

738
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 1: you're having watery eyes, sneezing coffee, or itchy skin. Even

739
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 1: it's like, man, I can affect your skin or feel

740
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: like asthma is aggravated. So if you already have asthma

741
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 1: and it's now aggravated or intensified around this time of

742
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,439
Speaker 1: year and you're like, why is it, it could be

743
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: because of the Christmas tree.

744
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 3: Okay, so now you have it out.

745
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 1: They're saying dust, insect droppings, pesticide, mold, and varying types

746
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 1: of pollen might be to blame. So that's where I

747
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: think the fake Christmas tree comes into play. Because it's

748
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: stored away all year.

749
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,839
Speaker 4: The fake seems more dangerous to me that catch all

750
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 4: kinds of crun over the course of the air where

751
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 4: they get a freshy in there.

752
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It's like who knows where you're

753
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 1: storing that puppy, and then you have a little who

754
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 1: knows what being built up in little crevices of that

755
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 1: fake Christmas.

756
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 4: I got to call you Scrooge the rest of the morning.

757
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 4: Thanks for that report to haunt us?

758
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,840
Speaker 1: What that is? A PSA? You should thank me. So

759
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 1: maybe take question clorox wipe and just dab your fake

760
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 1: tree and get some of that dust off of that.

761
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 4: Who was the person that did the bed bug story here?

762
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 4: Because I have a bone to pick. Who did the

763
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 4: bed bug story in hotels?

764
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: I believe that a writer, a journalist wrote the story.

765
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 3: Who delivered it?

766
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:37,399
Speaker 1: I found it?

767
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 4: So that's your fault. Okay, your fault too, Scrooge. And

768
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 4: then the bed bugs I cannot tell you.

769
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 3: I was in Salt Lake City.

770
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 4: I would go to bed, I get into my bedwear,

771
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 4: which isn't much, and all I could think about was

772
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,120
Speaker 4: the bedbug story that you put it, you put inside

773
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 4: my head, and all I could think about was that

774
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 4: I got a little itch on my kneecap.

775
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 1: I don't know.

776
00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 4: All of the sudden I thought, oh gosh, turn on

777
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 4: the lights, which couldn't find turn on the lights and

778
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 4: I'm looking, and didn't you tell me I've got to

779
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 4: peel up like the comforter and go under and look.

780
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, I couldn't do it. Why couldn't do it. I

781
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 3: don't want to.

782
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:13,320
Speaker 1: Did you put your suitcases in the bathtub?

783
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 3: I didn't do that, but I've put my clothes on,

784
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 3: went back to bed.

785
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 1: I don't know why. When you say bedwear, I picture

786
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:21,800
Speaker 1: you like Pinocchio's dad in a long nighty.

787
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:23,720
Speaker 3: No, it's not a long nighty.

788
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 9: Now.

789
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:28,359
Speaker 4: Actually I started in sweatpants to sort of like decompress,

790
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 4: and then when it's time to go to bed, those

791
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 4: are removed and it's just a v neck very thin

792
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 4: tea because it got cold.

793
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 1: No, I can very much picture it remember some reason.

794
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 1: I still.

795
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 3: It's not sure. It's not that long. The point is,

796
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:44,720
Speaker 3: you're in my head with that bedbug story.

797
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 1: Does this just information that you can choose to remember.

798
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 4: I choose not to listen to not remember it. But

799
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,319
Speaker 4: if you missed it, you could listen to it again

800
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:53,840
Speaker 4: on the podcast.

801
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: The good news here is that it's mild. It's not

802
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: life threatening.

803
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 4: Zach and Sherman Oaks. How are you, Zach good? How

804
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 4: are you doing well? So tell me what's going on

805
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 4: with your daughter?

806
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 9: So, honestly, I just don't know how to handle the situation.

807
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 9: But she had a sleepover recently. She wanted one, so

808
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 9: I should should have no problems, you know, call some

809
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 9: of your friends that kind of thing. She invited them five girls, Okay,

810
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 9: two of them said yes and the other three said no.

811
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 3: Who said yes?

812
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:27,880
Speaker 9: Oh?

813
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:29,799
Speaker 3: And so she's dealing with the rejection of why they

814
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 3: said no, they can't come?

815
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 1: Or is it like a scheduling thing?

816
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 9: Honestly, it's I thought that initially, but I think it's

817
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 9: simply because I'm a guy. I'm a solo parent and

818
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:40,759
Speaker 9: there's no mom here.

819
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 3: Oh and the parents didn't give them permission.

820
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 9: Yeah, I don't. I don't think they feel comfortable with

821
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 9: their their daughters spending the night at the house because

822
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 9: I'm a single dad.

823
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 12: How old are daughter nine?

824
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 3: And why do you think they feel uncomfortable?

825
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 9: I heard it through the grapevine, But it's because I'm

826
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 9: a guy, And I can only assume that it's because

827
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 9: I'm a guy and there's you know, tex girls, you know,

828
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 9: I mean, and they're young. I don't really know. I'm

829
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 9: I'm just kind of I feel absulted. I'm a little

830
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 9: bit upset about it.

831
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 1: I could hear it in your voice. That's so I

832
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: could just give me chills, Like that's so sad that

833
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 1: that's what you're dealing with.

834
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:24,800
Speaker 9: Yeah, I don't. I just want her to have maybe

835
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 9: a normal childhood when it comes to these types of things,

836
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:30,120
Speaker 9: so me being you know, soul custody type things. She

837
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 9: still sees her mom, but when it comes to these

838
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 9: types of things that I think she's going to be

839
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:37,720
Speaker 9: doing it primarily at my house. So I don't want

840
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:38,760
Speaker 9: this to be weird.

841
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 3: What do you say?

842
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 1: Okay, is there any female charactering you, a person in

843
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 1: your life, like I don't know, like a sister of

844
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:49,439
Speaker 1: yours or that could come over and also be there

845
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 1: like that there is another.

846
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 9: Yeah, actually I could probably do that. My sister is

847
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 9: similar ads.

848
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 1: So I mean, I don't know what that makes the parents,

849
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 1: I don't even know who you had that conversation. That's

850
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 1: so awkward.

851
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,360
Speaker 5: You have to have the conversation head on with the

852
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 5: other parents.

853
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, And I don't know how to do that.

854
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:10,879
Speaker 9: I feel like it needs to be done. And if

855
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 9: it does, how uncomfortable is that going to be?

856
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 1: I mean, you just do it. You just be like, hey,

857
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 1: I I heard through the grape vine people were talking

858
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 1: or whatever that you guys have. You guys are feeling

859
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 1: a way that you know, I'm a single dad, and

860
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,280
Speaker 1: I can assure you everything's going to be safe and whatever.

861
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 1: But if you, guys, if it makes you feel more comfortable,

862
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,399
Speaker 1: my sister will be here as well. She will spend

863
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: the night and be in the room with the girls

864
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 1: or like or whatever. They'll sleep in the living room,

865
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: like whatever you like will make the parents feel more comfortable.

866
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:39,879
Speaker 6: And say what you just said to us, you don't

867
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,280
Speaker 6: want your daughter to miss out on the experience.

868
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 3: For you being a single parent.

869
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, And then the other thing is move ahead with

870
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:48,839
Speaker 4: the ones that can come and make it the most

871
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:49,919
Speaker 4: amazing fun night.

872
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:52,280
Speaker 3: That's true because that word.

873
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 1: The word will get around exactly.

874
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 3: You mentioned that.

875
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 4: Clearly, there's a grape vine, so word will get around

876
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 4: that it was a great sleepover. And you can only

877
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 4: control You can't control them, those other parents.

878
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 3: True, you can't control.

879
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,280
Speaker 9: It doesn't bother you at all though that they're talking

880
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 9: about it, people talk.

881
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I of course it would bother. Of course

882
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 4: it would bother. You're trying to do something great. You're

883
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 4: probably I don't know, maybe even trying to overcompensate in

884
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 4: a way, right, you want to make it better in

885
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 4: a way because it is just you and these are

886
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 4: the things that are in your on your mind, and

887
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:28,839
Speaker 4: when you hear them, it reinforces wanting to do even more,

888
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:32,839
Speaker 4: which is also not great. Yeah, so your number one

889
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 4: priority is your daughter, and there are a couple of

890
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,399
Speaker 4: girls that want to come enjoy it. Make it fantastic,

891
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 4: don't take it personally. Be aware, but don't take it personally,

892
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 4: which is hard to do and hard. Focus on the

893
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:51,359
Speaker 4: focus on the fund that you can create for them.

894
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 4: But Zack, thanks for calling. I really appreciate your openness.

895
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 9: You know.

896
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 4: I think it's a hard I think it's a hard

897
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,359
Speaker 4: call to have publicly a little bit.

898
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 9: Yeah, listen, I really appreciate that. I think that's what I'm.

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Speaker 3: Gonna do, all right, exactly, take care the thanks guys.

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Speaker 4: All right, boy, is it when when anybody says to anyone,

901
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:13,840
Speaker 4: don't take it personally, it's the hardest thing in the world.

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Speaker 1: Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: Carter, good morning, good morning, Thanks for having me. It's

904
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Speaker 3: a pleasure to have you on.

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Speaker 4: So your fiance missed your friends giving and you think

906
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 4: she did it on purpose?

907
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 11: Yeah, like definitely, man.

908
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 3: What makes you think that?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, So last weekend I hosted a friend giving in

910
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 11: my new place, and it's we just moved in together,

911
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 11: me and my fiance, and it was like their significant

912
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 11: others and it was honestly like a great time. It

913
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Speaker 11: was fun catching up, good food, good hang like a

914
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Speaker 11: really good time. But the issue with my fiance is

915
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Speaker 11: that she had to work that day and couldn't be there,

916
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Speaker 11: which like by itself, had me kind of upset. Like

917
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Speaker 11: on the weekend, she works at Target to make some

918
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Speaker 11: extra money and play support her for doing that, told

919
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Speaker 11: me to get it. She wouldn't get her ship covered

920
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,839
Speaker 11: to be at my friends giving, and I'm pretty sure

921
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Speaker 11: she could have, like her friends ower some like shifts

922
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,320
Speaker 11: and some favors, so it felt like she was just

923
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 11: blowing me off. And then the real kicker was after

924
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,880
Speaker 11: her shift, she ended up going out with her coworkers

925
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Speaker 11: instead of heading home, so she like completely missed my

926
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 11: friends and like everybody I invited, She came home and

927
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Speaker 11: I was just cleaning up all the like the aftermath.

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Speaker 4: Basically, So, if all that's true, you're about to marry

929
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Speaker 4: this person and she's blowing you off, doesn't this feel strange?

930
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Speaker 11: It so like we So that's the thing so he

931
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Speaker 11: talked about it and hashed it out, but she just

932
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Speaker 11: keeps like making up excuses. But like, I'm the most

933
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,839
Speaker 11: upset I am is because I think she did this

934
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Speaker 11: on purpose to miss my friends giving, because she like

935
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Speaker 11: doesn't like my college friends and doesn't want anything to

936
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Speaker 11: do with them.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I get that that might be fair, But he's

938
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Speaker 4: not doing this on purpose because she wants to back

939
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Speaker 4: out of the marriage, is she?

940
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Speaker 11: Well, I didn't think so, Like like I was talking about,

941
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Speaker 11: like like she doesn't like my college friends, but she's

942
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Speaker 11: blowing them off, But it's still important.

943
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Speaker 10: To me because you know, at least that's interesting. I mean,

944
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 10: the conversation of compromise may need to happen before you

945
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Speaker 10: guys get married, because if you're into that and she's

946
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Speaker 10: not into that, it's important to you.

947
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Speaker 4: It's a holiday that you want to spend with those people.

948
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Speaker 4: Then she needs to I guess, understand that in some

949
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Speaker 4: way or work through it. But this is a red

950
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Speaker 4: flag a little bit.

951
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Speaker 1: Do you think you're in your head a little bit

952
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Speaker 1: too much? Like it might have just been an oversight,

953
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Speaker 1: Like I don't think do you think she would really

954
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Speaker 1: go that far?

955
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Speaker 11: But like, like she knew it was my friends giving,

956
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Speaker 11: she knew all my friends were there. It's our first

957
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,720
Speaker 11: friends giving in our house. Like we just got engaged,

958
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Speaker 11: we're about to get married, and she goes off to

959
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Speaker 11: have get drunk with her friends instead of even like

960
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Speaker 11: say high to mine.

961
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Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

962
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Speaker 4: Well, maybe she's, you know, need to blow off steam,

963
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 4: she's busy, she's worried, whatever, But I think Carter, it's

964
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Speaker 4: important to you. It's important to your relationship. Do you

965
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Speaker 4: guys understand what the issues are. If she doesn't like

966
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Speaker 4: your friends, at least you'll know. And if she was

967
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 4: overwhelmed or busy or just needed a minute, you'll know.

968
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Speaker 4: But you got to talk through this one. Otherwise I'm

969
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Speaker 4: afraid that if you get married, stuff like this keeps

970
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Speaker 4: coming up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to talk it through. And as you're

972
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Speaker 1: one too many Tequila's.

973
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Speaker 4: Marriage counselor I just want to say those things, Carter,

974
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Speaker 4: good luck to you.

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Speaker 11: No, no, no, I think you're right.

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Speaker 7: Guys.

977
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Speaker 11: We got to like really hatch it out because she

978
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Speaker 11: just needs making up excuses.

979
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Speaker 12: And like and like telling lines.

980
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Speaker 11: It feels like, man, so I just got to be

981
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Speaker 11: playing plank, Like ay, do you not like my friends

982
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Speaker 11: and do.

983
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Speaker 12: You even want to be with me?

984
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Speaker 9: Like?

985
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Speaker 11: This is what it's going to have to be.

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Speaker 4: We got to communicate, Okay, bro well, good luck, good

987
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Speaker 4: come to beltimate them.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if that's the way to say it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, that was intense.

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Speaker 3: But or is she backing out?

991
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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 6: I think maybe she doesn't like the college friends she

993
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Speaker 6: called them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she doesn't have college friends and trying to make

995
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Speaker 1: her friends. No, she doesn't like the college friends. And

996
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Speaker 1: then she went out with her girlfriends and then they

997
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Speaker 1: were drinking and she was probably venting to them, and

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Speaker 1: then they just got too drunk and they and she

999
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Speaker 1: made a mistake and she needs to apologize for that,

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Speaker 1: and they do need to talk about the whole college

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Speaker 1: friends situation.

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Speaker 3: I would postpone the wedding for a year.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't need to be postponed.

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Speaker 3: That's what I would do.

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Speaker 5: Guess what.

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Speaker 1: The college friends are not going to be there forever.

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Speaker 1: They need to figure it out.

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Speaker 3: On air on.

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Speaker 2: Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: One of two point seven Guess FM, let's go do

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Speaker 3: it for us.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna roll out. I have a great weekend. I'll

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Speaker 4: talk to you this weekend on American Top forty, we'll

1014
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Speaker 4: count down the forty bag songs of the USA as

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Speaker 4: we do Saturday and Sunday, and then Monday, we're back

1016
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Speaker 4: next hour here on Kiss FM.

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