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Speaker 1: It's great to be back for some girl chat with you. Becca.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited to finally get started the Midwest girls.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna take on this thing. Oh hell yeah. Well

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Speaker 1: and speaking of it taking on by some Midwest girls, Michelle,

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Speaker 1: I was lucky enough to see you this past week.

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Speaker 1: You made a little surprise appearance certain Bachelor Live on stage,

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Speaker 1: and for everyone listening, I just have to say, the

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Speaker 1: It was a confidence booster. I don't know, I feel

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Speaker 1: like Minnesotans are just so like you have that Minnesotan pride, right,

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Speaker 1: Like I think most of the time that I've spent

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh. And if Nate comes out to the girls,

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Speaker 1: fun episode today. We have some incredible guests coming on

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Speaker 1: that y'all know and love. You saw them in Paradise,

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Speaker 1: catch us up because you and Nate recently took a

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Speaker 1: trip to Mexico and it looked incredible, But how was that?

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Speaker 1: It was just so much fun to be able to

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Bachelor Happy Hour. Abbey and Noah. We have

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Speaker 1: not just send up I hope your well message. It

429
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,399
Speaker 1: was a check. It was like, yeah, I'm sorry how

430
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,639
Speaker 1: that turned out. It I had my own reasons. It

431
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 1: still probably came off as a dick move, but obviously

432
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:24,199
Speaker 1: I still care for you. It was like, yeah, I

433
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 1: really find what he was trying to achieve. The text.

434
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:29,879
Speaker 1: It really was neutral. It wasn't like I want to

435
00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:32,159
Speaker 1: get bought together with you, But I also wasn't like

436
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 1: goodbye forever. Yeah, well, I feel like Noe and I

437
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,960
Speaker 1: were the same. I sent the text to Thomas in

438
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: the airport, probably a little bit more wordy, but I

439
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:43,880
Speaker 1: was like, I still want to leave the door open,

440
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,199
Speaker 1: but I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable or

441
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:49,119
Speaker 1: like disrespected for how things ended. So I kind of

442
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 1: just left the ball in his core. But but I

443
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 1: knew it wasn't over. I mean, you saw on the show.

444
00:23:57,040 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 1: It wasn't like an easy once I came to that decision,

445
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 1: here's what I'm gonna do. It wasn't an easy thing

446
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 1: for me. Um and obviously still cared for and I'm

447
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 1: not that mean of a guy. So it was kind

448
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 1: of like all those things into one. But I was like,

449
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,439
Speaker 1: I can't like hit on her. That's really messed up.

450
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,479
Speaker 1: I mean to break up with her. Then eight hours

451
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:19,399
Speaker 1: later hit on her. But I'm also not like saying

452
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 1: that was a great piece out, so it was kind

453
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 1: of like a neutral Then yeah, she said something. Yeah.

454
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: The first like fifteen texts were super sassy like whatever,

455
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okause they should be whatever. We're gonna

456
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:41,399
Speaker 1: get this out, um. And we talked and I was

457
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 1: in Utah, not working, like just golfing, writing my motorcycle chilling.

458
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 1: I was with Chris actually, who just got destroyed. Poor guys,

459
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 1: and we're both you know, going through heartbreak together, and

460
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:57,120
Speaker 1: U you know, Abigail is still in my mind. So

461
00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 1: we talked and then decided all right, no more, this

462
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,680
Speaker 1: isn't good for us. And I faced under like I said,

463
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: I need time to think or whatever I said. And

464
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 1: then I faced under like two days later, so I

465
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 1: didn't last that long. Um. And then she was done

466
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: being sassy. She sweetened up a little bit. I was like, okay,

467
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: all right, all right, I got here. Abigail did you

468
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: have any inkling after that breakup in those next couple

469
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:28,879
Speaker 1: of days that he was still yearning for you, that

470
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 1: he'd reach out, that there was still something there. Did

471
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 1: you think the door was closed? Um? So when he

472
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 1: sent me that text, yes, I thought the door was

473
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: still closed, just because there was a very neutral, kind

474
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: of apologetic text where I kind of just seemed like

475
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: a closure yah. Um. But then I think I was

476
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 1: like sassy for a few texts and then we hopped

477
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: on a phone call and just I think we talked

478
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,919
Speaker 1: for a couple of hours that night, and I was

479
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 1: like it was almost too friendly where I felt like

480
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 1: the door had to still open. It open at that

481
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 1: point because we were still kind of flirting, and um,

482
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,199
Speaker 1: I kind of just was like it was back to normal.

483
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,159
Speaker 1: So at the that phone call, I think that was

484
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: kind of like, I think the door is still open.

485
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 1: But it was a lot that we went through. I

486
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 1: think you know, when you come back from filming, it's

487
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: a huge adjustment. I mean, I loved Bird I think

488
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 1: less than a month, and like what happened in that

489
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 1: time span. I was like I literally met someone, fell

490
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,120
Speaker 1: in love, got broken up with, and now I'm back home.

491
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 1: I was just as back to life, trying to tell

492
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: my friends, like what happened. They were just like we

493
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,679
Speaker 1: all that happened in like three weeks and it's just

494
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 1: a huge adjustment. But no, I think I really loved Neodle.

495
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 1: At what point did you guys decide like, was it

496
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: abego that you're like, Okay, let's try this again, or

497
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,199
Speaker 1: know where you like, let's try this again, or was

498
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: it just like a feeling that you knew do you

499
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 1: have a conversation a specific conversation about it. I think

500
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 1: we were like when we were still in that separate location,

501
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 1: I think we were like, well, um let's get in,

502
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 1: like let's meet up in person and like talk about

503
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 1: it and like really see you know, is the connection

504
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: still there? Or was it because of the show, because,

505
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 1: like Becca says, sometimes you know on the show they're

506
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 1: kind of forced out those conversations, and so I think

507
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: we were trying to figure out, Okay, was our connection

508
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 1: there because of the show. Did we kind of bond

509
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 1: just because we had that in common? How much more

510
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 1: do we actually have in common? Um, let's actually meet

511
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: up in person? And so he flew out to Oregon,

512
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 1: and I mean it was just it wasn't awkward at all.

513
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 1: I mean it felt like I don't know, no, well,

514
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 1: I knew that we would like from the start. We

515
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: got along and it was like easy and goofy and fun,

516
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,679
Speaker 1: like I knew that wouldn't be a problem. I was

517
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: actually probably hate men be weird, but I might cook

518
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: dinner or something. Maybe let's snoozed it out and then

519
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 1: we'll get to talk. So I don't know if that

520
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: actually happened, but um, I was thinking, like if we

521
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 1: can move past all this and it's not like something

522
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,360
Speaker 1: that like you broke up with me, will you made

523
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 1: me do this? Like it's back and forth, and we

524
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 1: can move on from what happened and see if there's

525
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 1: still a connection and still dive deeper and like there's

526
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 1: no reason for me personally. I don't know if she

527
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: was thinking, but there's no reason for me to not,

528
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 1: you know, keep going with what this is because there's

529
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 1: a lot of good potential there. Right then, once those

530
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: things were done, I was like, oh, we're like this

531
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 1: is this is good. This is easy fun and moving

532
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 1: around pace. Yeah, And I will say because I've you know,

533
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 1: done the show a few times and I've done it

534
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 1: twice leaving it engaged. I did it once being like

535
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna leave with anybody. Obviously we saw me

536
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: break up with Thomas on Paradise. But I will say

537
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: there is something about the breakup, but like the rekindling

538
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: story and forming a relationship without the pressure of the

539
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 1: show to really see are we a fit for one

540
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 1: of another, away from the cameras, away from the producers,

541
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 1: away from you know, the glitz and the glam of

542
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 1: the show. And I will say I personally, just speaking

543
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: from experience, thinks I think it makes relationship stronger. I mean,

544
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 1: and we've seen it with you, We've now seen it

545
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 1: with Clayton and Susie. We've seen it in the past

546
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 1: with like Astrid and Kevin. They broke up in Paradise

547
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 1: and got together and now they're getting married and they

548
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: have a baby. So it's like, I think everyone you know,

549
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: moves at their own pace. They have to take the

550
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 1: show as they will and whether they want to get

551
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 1: engaged or not. But I think you did what was

552
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: best for both of you because and I want Abigail

553
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 1: to speak on this, because I know you were really

554
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: maybe I want to say more so in your head

555
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: about all of the cameras. You know, you felt like

556
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 1: very like you had no privacy, You felt very confined

557
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 1: with all of the cameras constantly in you. It was

558
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 1: a very tough environment for you to fully open up to. Noah,

559
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 1: what was that like? Oh my god, it was the worst.

560
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: I think just a thing for me was well, the

561
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: biggest thing was I always had the back of my

562
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 1: mind that my family was watching the shell, and so

563
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: it's hard to fully open up to somebody about, you know,

564
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: kind of private things when I know my mom, my dad,

565
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,479
Speaker 1: my grandparents are watching it. It's just not the best feeling.

566
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 1: And so when the cameras came around, because I felt

567
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 1: like all my parents are coming around sort of thing.

568
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 1: And then Pat the other thing too was for me,

569
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: I really do move at my own page. It takes

570
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 1: a lot for me to kind of gather my thoughts

571
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: and say, Okay, this is what I want to say

572
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 1: to him, build up that curs and I'm ready. I'm like, okay,

573
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 1: I built up all this curse. I'm ready to like

574
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 1: talk him how I'm feeling. And then I would go

575
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: up to him, and then something else would be happening

576
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: on the beach, so they say, Okay, you can't have

577
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 1: this conversation right now, you need to wait, and I'll

578
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 1: get still frustrate because I'm just like, well, I want

579
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: to talk to him now, like I couldn't come. I

580
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: don't know, a different feeling later so forth. I I

581
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: just could never get my timing. I Yeah, it was.

582
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:05,080
Speaker 1: It was not fun. It was so and I will

583
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: say that last day, like prom the I just remember

584
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 1: watching the cameras run back and forth after you, and

585
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,719
Speaker 1: I was like, this girl has no alone time like everyone.

586
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 1: She's going in the bathroom crying like she's not alone.

587
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: And it was so much I'm sure to take in,

588
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: especially going through the break up almost the worst because

589
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 1: he got pulled for a while and like I knew

590
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 1: something was going not cantine though you can just kind

591
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 1: of talk like those bets, like the mood changes a

592
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:32,719
Speaker 1: lot of camera and don like you just don't know

593
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: what's going on. And they started following me like to

594
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: the bathroom, to the bar stap. I was like, oh God,

595
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: like something happening. I don't know what. And yeah, I

596
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: just prom that was like a long like four hours

597
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 1: before like that. Meanwhile, it's really just me and Thomas

598
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: doing dirty dancing on the day. Oh, that was such

599
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: a long night for all of our listeners. Prom. I

600
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 1: mean we probably got there one at like ten pm

601
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: and its I don't think we made it back to

602
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 1: like four am the next Day's not real. It was

603
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: such a yeah. And then I was pissed at No.

604
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 1: I was like he had to break up with her

605
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 1: right now, like let us go home and sleep. Come on, man.

606
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 1: Once I was like, this is what I'm doing. That's

607
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: kind of how I am. I'm like all in, all out.

608
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: I'm like I'm not gonna sit there and I'm like,

609
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 1: if I'm making decision on something, this is what I'm doing.

610
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 1: And that's not just with relationships, that's that's general. So

611
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm either I don't want to stream

612
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: this out. It doesn't help anybody. I don't want to

613
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: have this conversation and go home my own bed and

614
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 1: drink water. That's man. I feel like everybody has like

615
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 1: when when when when someone says the word PROM, like

616
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: people either have wonderful like reaction or like I feel

617
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: like the majority of people are like it sucks, Like

618
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: I didn't go, I didn't get asked something, I got

619
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 1: woken up with. It was dramatic, like if I don't

620
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: know about job, because I remember they were asking me

621
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 1: like having to call at the interview before we last

622
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 1: we were like, so, like what's your experience prom? Like

623
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 1: do you like it? Do you not? And I was like, well, actually,

624
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 1: my only prom experience was I got I got stuck

625
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 1: in the elevator for like three hours and I messed

626
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 1: basically the whole prom. And so I'm going on about

627
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: that so much better. I'm going I'm calling it fun.

628
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 1: It's gonna be so much fun. Everybody. Oh no oh, no,

629
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: so good. Noah. You know, I knew something was off

630
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 1: that day because and I think I actually talked about

631
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 1: this on the podcast a while ago. But before we

632
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: all like went into the room where there was a

633
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 1: stage in the music and everything, you know how, they

634
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: like kept us in the holding room and one of

635
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: the producers was like, Okay, does anyone want to listen

636
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 1: to music on her cell phone? And she would play

637
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: just like her cell phone for everyone to sing and dance.

638
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 1: We started playing a song by Robin and Noah, you

639
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 1: are usually so energetic, so wild, the life of the party,

640
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 1: and you just kind of sat through the corner, and

641
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 1: I was like not having it. And I remember seeing

642
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: you being like, oh shit, something's about to happen tonight.

643
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: This isn't not good. That's why I told Thomas. I

644
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 1: was like, let's just go make out outside. I don't

645
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: want to deal with any of this other stuff right now.

646
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:29,359
Speaker 1: It was funny that you bring up that making out

647
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 1: at like key points. He shut after the final bro Okay,

648
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:42,320
Speaker 1: we did not know the camera was at that angle.

649
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 1: Usually it's like straight on to you too, and I

650
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: and you want what I said, because it was when

651
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 1: you were talking to you were ting you were talking

652
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 1: about Brandon, about the breakup and I and I told

653
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: Thomas I was like, never do this to me. And

654
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: then we started kissing and then yeah, I'm so sorry. No,

655
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 1: I no, honestly, really in the moment, I just I

656
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 1: just didn't want to let this moment fly to know

657
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 1: that like it is new and dullness say, when things

658
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: get awkward, I just like to make up. Some people

659
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:15,479
Speaker 1: like public places, some people like you know, whatever yours

660
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 1: is like in conflict, Yeah, yeah, I don't want to talk.

661
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 1: I just want to do something else to give my

662
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: mind off of it. But um, Okay, So overall, you know,

663
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 1: you did what you did in the moment for paradise.

664
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 1: Do either one of you have any regrets at all

665
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 1: for your time on the beach or anything that you

666
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 1: would have done differently. I feel like if I had

667
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: known we're gonna get back together, I would have at

668
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 1: least got a ring out of the deal and rock.

669
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 1: But that's about it. Hey, you know Neil Lene is

670
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: still around. It's never too late. Noah, Yeah, I was

671
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:49,959
Speaker 1: gonna say no. I mean, obviously, hindsight is twenty twenty

672
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: for everything. It's the same with when I was like

673
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: a little gremlin on the Bachelorette ever looked regretted, regretted.

674
00:35:56,600 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 1: I was like, I mean, I don't regret anything I

675
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 1: did there in the moment with what I was feeling,

676
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 1: with what was going on. But I could have definitely

677
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: been smoother around the edges for multiple instances. So but

678
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 1: I wouldn't see, you know, paradise or anything else regret.

679
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: I'm just like, I probably could have handled that a

680
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 1: little better. Looking back, Yeah, we all could have. Yeah.

681
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I think watching it back, it's you know,

682
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 1: watching it back after we got back together, I think

683
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: I did kind of catch myself feeling like, oh, I

684
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 1: wish I could would have just like embraced, I had

685
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 1: the process more and really just been more vulnerable with

686
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: him from the get go. But I also think too,

687
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: in like hindsight, it's like part of our love story.

688
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,360
Speaker 1: Like I think it's as weird and the ups and

689
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 1: downs we had with it. I think ultimately it got

690
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 1: to where we are today. So which is anything of that?

691
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 1: I love it? Well. It seems like you guys are

692
00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 1: stronger now than ever. I do want to know, um.

693
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 1: I mean we touched on you both are living together

694
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 1: now in California and your stint Noah is up, you know,

695
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: in a few weeks. But after that, do you plan

696
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: to still live together or are you gonna go back

697
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 1: to Oklahoma, Abigailbil you go back to Oregon? Or what

698
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 1: does the future look like for you too? I think

699
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 1: it's not as far as many terms. We are in

700
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: a predicament where we have a lot of options, which

701
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 1: is not a bad place to be. So I'm not

702
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 1: mad about that, um, But nothing's solidified obviously, regardless. I'm

703
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: gonna We're gonna try to be in the same location

704
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,120
Speaker 1: or as close to each other as we can, so

705
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: working around that, but there's still a few different moving pieces. Okay,

706
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 1: I have one more question about you guys living together,

707
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: because this is one thing that you know Nate and

708
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: I may be approaching, but Abigail and now, what is

709
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 1: one thing that you've learned about each other? Like, what's

710
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: the biggest thing that you've learned about each other since

711
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 1: moving it? Because there's something weird, like does no one

712
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:11,879
Speaker 1: do something really odd or like someone like really weird?

713
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 1: Notice it's like a gosh unking on your parking see. Okay,

714
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: so I'll say two things no they're not saying. One

715
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 1: is we definitely have Her difference is um. Like she said,

716
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,919
Speaker 1: she likes to get her what she wants to say

717
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: in a bullet pold point format probably an Excel spreadsheet,

718
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 1: and how she wants to say it, um, time frame,

719
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: everything like that, get the courage say it. I'm like, no,

720
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 1: let's just talk, Let's just do it right now. I'll

721
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,839
Speaker 1: say it right now, let's just talk about it whatever.

722
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, let's do it. Boom, We're done. Where she

723
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: likes more concise, you know, a way of going about it.

724
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, even if I don't know exactly what I

725
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 1: want to say. I know we want to say something,

726
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 1: so let's just talk right. Um. So we definitely have

727
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 1: our differences with that, and it's still completely makes no

728
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 1: sense to me, and I hope any guy's listening to

729
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 1: this that girls apparently put hair on the shower doesn't

730
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 1: make sense. You don't go the drains put it on.

731
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: I don't hear you. Guys justify the fact that hair

732
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:41,839
Speaker 1: sticks up there for also getting all over the bathroom. Yeah,

733
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: I know your hair. I've never even seen like that,

734
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 1: So I want to know that that all girls do

735
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: all counter and say. I'd always stand why guys she

736
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: their beards or their mustaches over the sink and they

737
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 1: leave it in sink. Yes, I can answer this for men.

738
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: It's first off, I've tried about a shaver that has

739
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 1: a vacuum in it. It works pretty well, but something

740
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 1: to invest in, but um, let's wipe up. Uh. The

741
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 1: other thing is you start to shave and then next

742
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 1: thing you know, there's a hundred pieces of hair and

743
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: you're like, I'll get eighty the other twenty. I'm not

744
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 1: going on a scavenger hunt. I'm like, that's good plus

745
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 1: great thing for hair being on my side of the

746
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 1: sink is it's my side of the sink, so that's

747
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 1: fantastic for your side of the sink. That's clean. Great, guys,

748
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:45,800
Speaker 1: think abigil I have to. I'm on Abigail's side. I like,

749
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 1: Thomas will get it. But then there's sprinkles of hair. Thomas,

750
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 1: there's sprinkles of hair all around the side of the thing.

751
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, why didn't you just brush that shit in down?

752
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 1: We try? Okay, such a thing. Wait, I need to ask. Okay,

753
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 1: when we were all together in San Diego, Noah, you

754
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:11,760
Speaker 1: had a big issue with Abigail's like her makeup, blatter,

755
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 1: her sponge. Oh, has she's been getting new ones? The

756
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 1: blender beauty blender absolutely was pretty okay. I need to

757
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys do this, fill me

758
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 1: in because I'm very right. I work in the ice

759
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 1: you trauma surgical. I see nasty stuff all the time,

760
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 1: not bothered by bears. I smelled something funky. I was, no,

761
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 1: it was, and I'm like, Okay, there's no black mole

762
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:46,479
Speaker 1: in the mouse, Like, what's going on? I'm like, maybe

763
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:50,919
Speaker 1: Thomas denizations and there's some sort of something that went wrong.

764
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 1: I don't know. So I'm like the dead most in

765
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,439
Speaker 1: the wall the corner of the room. So I walk

766
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:58,879
Speaker 1: over there and find this beauty blender that I've seen

767
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 1: her use a million times death this thing. I'm like,

768
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 1: there's no way. Every time that's because she got used

769
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 1: to it. She burned all the paces in her nose.

770
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 1: It was disgusting and I like lost it. So I'm like,

771
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 1: there's no way you put this on your face, girl,

772
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 1: like good complexion. You guys have all your your one

773
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:26,359
Speaker 1: hundred different creams and everything to look gorgeous, but then

774
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 1: you're blotting it on with rotten, rotten pizza. That's when

775
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 1: my face smelt like. And he was like, I put

776
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 1: it together because that was like the beauty. I just

777
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 1: thought that was her scent for like a week. I'm like, like,

778
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 1: her own, you know, natural sent me all her own,

779
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 1: and I just that's just maybe I've been wrong. I

780
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 1: don't know. But then I smelled that thing. I'm like, no,

781
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: I feel like I did wash it. I put that

782
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 1: thing out forever. Should get sponsored by beauty blender now,

783
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: just to get them, you know, in the cycle of

784
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: fresh ones. Oh, I just remember that you asked me

785
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 1: You're like, Becka, do you use one? And how often

786
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 1: do you like? Clean it? And I don't use one.

787
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:21,959
Speaker 1: I was, I was fuddled. I was. I was so good. Okay,

788
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:23,919
Speaker 1: I want to I want to ask one more question

789
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 1: about California because recently we saw something some beef, I

790
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 1: will say, some beef on Instagram between you and a

791
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 1: mister Blake Moy's, and it seems like all of all

792
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 1: of your bat Nation boys chimed in. Give us the

793
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: background on that. Canadians. Man, Well, I was asleep because

794
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: I was going in the ship and I'd gotten off

795
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 1: or whatever. So Abby was going to the beach to

796
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:59,879
Speaker 1: meet up with a few people, and I'm friends with Blake.

797
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: So I saw a picture and I actually screenshot it

798
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,359
Speaker 1: and zoomed down on his hand, and I was gonna

799
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 1: send it to him and be like, send me your addressed,

800
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: like I was gonna go. I got busy and I'm

801
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 1: like whatever. Then I see him post it. I'm like, oh,

802
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 1: here we go, Yeah, wait for all this time? Yeah

803
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,839
Speaker 1: only at at like my name, no caption, pretty funny,

804
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. But I was like, here we go,

805
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:28,760
Speaker 1: here's the people that are gonna die. Yeah, he actually

806
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 1: texted me too, and I was like, hey, I just

807
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 1: want you to know him joking, and I was like,

808
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,920
Speaker 1: gonna try to act man, but I was like, okay,

809
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 1: well it's so funny though, because all a VAT nation

810
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 1: gets so hypedron then we all knew no, it's a joke, right,

811
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: Like we know how people act and if your friends

812
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 1: with somebody, But sometimes the fans take it too far.

813
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 1: And I'm sure everyone was like, oh my god, no one,

814
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 1: Abigail broke up. She's now seen Blake. Like, what was

815
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 1: the reaction in your dms? I would be a pretty

816
00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:04,320
Speaker 1: wild way ti about that their reaction. I had dms

817
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 1: that were like, um, hey, king, let me know where

818
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: we can take Blake out, or let me know if

819
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 1: we can slash his tires likening like that, but nothing.

820
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 1: I don't think you know, listen, I'll throw one more

821
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,240
Speaker 1: jab at Blake. If Abby wanted to downgrade, then that's fine.

822
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 1: You know that's her chould. I love Blake. I thought

823
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 1: it was fun. Um if that we're going to get

824
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 1: him back. At one point, if I know, made a

825
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,720
Speaker 1: little Instagram post that was like, oh yeah, cute beach picture,

826
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: but she's putting my hair in a bun and I'm

827
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:42,360
Speaker 1: unplugging her her battery here I have fun, but no,

828
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 1: I was like, I want to be excluded. Yeah you guys, yeah,

829
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: I will say nation. You know how crazy the fans get.

830
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 1: There's something tempting about it, just sprinkling, a little drama,

831
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:04,320
Speaker 1: messing with them, trying to block out. It does creep

832
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:12,280
Speaker 1: around on the just stirs upon a little bit. Abigail

833
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: is in the midst of all of this all the time,

834
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 1: the sweetest person. Every time you like wanting to like

835
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 1: sprinkle here and that I was like, don't do it. Yeah,

836
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 1: um okay, Well, Abigail, speaking of you and fun things

837
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 1: on social media. I don't know how you get yourself

838
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 1: into these positions all the time. But a while back

839
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: you did a live Instagram with some of your girlfriends

840
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:49,840
Speaker 1: from your season and you were actually crashed by a

841
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 1: surprise guest. It showed up that it was supposed to

842
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 1: be Serena p right, but it was actually a flasher.

843
00:46:56,800 --> 00:47:01,240
Speaker 1: It was supposed to be Serena. See to see what happened.

844
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 1: But I guess we weren't the first people. That he

845
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 1: had done it too. He get it to and that

846
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: our influenced a few weeks ago, because there must be

847
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:11,760
Speaker 1: a way you can change the name or something, so granted,

848
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 1: and Chelsea and I were like, Jakie a little bay,

849
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 1: so like our judgment wasn't all there. She left this

850
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 1: person in and I'm still traumatized it atop yeah, yeah,

851
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 1: And I was just I don't know how many people

852
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 1: we had on the Life, and like so many people

853
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:35,840
Speaker 1: were on I was just like those poor people. But

854
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 1: the reaction was so funny from you girls, though I

855
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 1: know she actually just message to me. She was like,

856
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 1: do you want to do another Life next week? Like

857
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:45,879
Speaker 1: I been a while, and I was like, I think

858
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 1: I need more time, Like I'm I still haven't recovered.

859
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 1: What did you even do? Because I'm not hearing about this,

860
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 1: but what do you not Chelsea? Because I think it's

861
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: only the person that UM hosts a live can control

862
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 1: who comes standing, who goes out. And we're like, Chelsea,

863
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:07,320
Speaker 1: get him off. I mean you were stuned, but like

864
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:10,400
Speaker 1: the first I think I was just like Jawstad, like

865
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:12,959
Speaker 1: the first five seconds, so we got a Chelsea game,

866
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,320
Speaker 1: so I think he was on there for like fifteen

867
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 1: twenty seconds. I'll try to find that guy, Blake. I

868
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:24,319
Speaker 1: love Blake, so I won't come after him. To that guy,

869
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 1: I I'm gonna find why are we good to jump

870
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 1: into the game? Always play games here. I'm actually really

871
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 1: excited for this because I feel like you guys are

872
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 1: gonna have good answers. We might get a little juice

873
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:41,359
Speaker 1: on both of you. So okay, So we're gonna give

874
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 1: you a prompt about your significant other and you have

875
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 1: to finish this sentence right, So no, what we're gonna

876
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: start with you? Are you ready? Soccer? Once? Get it ready?

877
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,959
Speaker 1: Because I think she gotta get her bullet points ready,

878
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: right he said her time? Okay, all right, here we go.

879
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 1: What is one word to describe Abigail? Quick? Beautiful, so simple,

880
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 1: so simple? I love this so Abby, You're up. What

881
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 1: is something quirky that Noah does? Russian mustache? I just

882
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 1: saw the musta person, all right. What is the best

883
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 1: thing that Abagail cooks? This one's not quick because she

884
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 1: just started getting into cooking like hardcore. I'd say the

885
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 1: best thing is traded Joe's no holdless relationship. No he does.

886
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 1: He's trying a lot of recipes. Best thing I'd say

887
00:49:56,160 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 1: is like this not rocket fire. I'm stumbling. She does

888
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 1: like this vegetable medley with Samon. That's bomb oh, like

889
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 1: a stir fry. Yeah sounds good. Okay, Abigail. What is

890
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 1: something that always makes you think of Noah? Noah? I

891
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 1: don't get a rabbit fire space right now? Why is

892
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 1: this so that the hairs on the sink the beard

893
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 1: hairs on the sink. This is getting really awkward. I

894
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 1: don't this is what he needs. We like structure of

895
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:44,799
Speaker 1: like time to think out what I'm going to say,

896
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 1: because I just I'm like a gear at the headlights.

897
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:59,320
Speaker 1: We'll give you some time thing, Okay, all right, Noah,

898
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:04,479
Speaker 1: Abigail looks the most beautiful when I think you're getting

899
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 1: easier on Oh, I think just fresh out of bad

900
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:15,279
Speaker 1: cozy sweats a hoodie. That's a good answer. That's a

901
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 1: good a. I love that it's like the song like sweatpants.

902
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: I hope that you don't take it wrong for all

903
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 1: the all the guys out there. If she's pretty in

904
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 1: the morning, take note of that. Okay. Oh god, I

905
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:38,480
Speaker 1: don't want to ask Thomas when he thinks I was

906
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 1: thinking the morning shit. Okay, Abigail. The theme song to

907
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:51,279
Speaker 1: Noah's Life is what the theme's life theme song of

908
00:51:51,520 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: theme songs. Uh, kids don't lie basically, but I'm like

909
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 1: things onto your life. I feel like happy days. It's

910
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: like coming to my mind. I don't know what. I

911
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 1: don't even watch the show, but just like a happy

912
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 1: like all I be like trying to do something serious

913
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:20,279
Speaker 1: and he's just like happy, go lucky all the time. Yes,

914
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 1: that's okay, that happy day all right? Noah. What is

915
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 1: the easiest way to make Abigail laugh? Anything? Um, easiest way.

916
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 1: We have a lot of weird jokes that like, I

917
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: don't know if you can't really explain, yeah, like the

918
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:51,839
Speaker 1: why there's like a lot of weird ones that if

919
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 1: I tried to explain them, you're like, that's not really funny.

920
00:52:55,640 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 1: But inside jokes, yeah jokes. Yeah, okay, we're at you.

921
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: That's understandable. Very cute. That's cute. I love it, okay, Abigail.

922
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:09,839
Speaker 1: What is Noah's best physical feature? Mustache? That I knew

923
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 1: I was gonna like forely liked it. No, I've always

924
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 1: liked it. Oh, I scratch you when he kisses you,

925
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:25,400
Speaker 1: tired condition your oil and that baby, So the mustache.

926
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 1: But if we're gonna get checking all your ass. Okay,

927
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 1: I don't even know what Kyla rises Noah have. They're

928
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:47,279
Speaker 1: only bad shot is what they're like. Sometimes. Yeah, they

929
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 1: change a lot. Actually, Okay, okay, okay, Abeil, you are

930
00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:03,359
Speaker 1: most grateful for Noah because how do I start? Um?

931
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm most grateful of how patia he

932
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:11,920
Speaker 1: is because I don't know. It takes a lot, I

933
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 1: think sometimes to pull stuff out of me conversations and whatnot.

934
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 1: He's very patient. Oh, I like it. I like it

935
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:25,320
Speaker 1: all right. What is the thing that you look the

936
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 1: most forward to with the future with Abigail? Um? I

937
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 1: think quite a few rental properties, some land and sailboat

938
00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:48,920
Speaker 1: the Caribbean, I think, um, But I don't know. I

939
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 1: think just being more you know, a little bit more

940
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 1: established with you know, career and finances, um, and being

941
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 1: able to do more of what we want and travel more.

942
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:06,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I actually easy answers everything. That's the easy answer.

943
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, just a little bit a little bit more established. Yeah,

944
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 1: and the lights that gets with that. I love that. Okay,

945
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: before we let you go, no, I'm sure you're very

946
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 1: exhausted after working and now talking for an hour with us,

947
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: So we're gonna just ask you all. Michelle, you're included

948
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:27,319
Speaker 1: in this. We are going to get to the rose

949
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 1: and the thorn. So basically, throughout the past week, what

950
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 1: was your highlight and low light? So I'll start it

951
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 1: off just to make it easy. My rose is going

952
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 1: to be being on tour for the first week and

953
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:42,200
Speaker 1: being able to see the country and just see fans

954
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:45,080
Speaker 1: and get Bachelive on stage up and running again. It's

955
00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:48,440
Speaker 1: been such an absolute blast. My thorn is probably the

956
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 1: fact that I think I broke a toe and my

957
00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 1: feet kill me every night. But that's okay because the

958
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:58,919
Speaker 1: show was gone and that's that broken toe. Huh. Yeah,

959
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 1: it's weird that I'll take this one night. How we

960
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,760
Speaker 1: washes my feet every night, is that where the broken

961
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 1: toe came in? No, my feet just hurts every broken toe, right, yeah? Always.

962
00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:21,759
Speaker 1: Oh I hate when my feet are dirty. That's like

963
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:24,919
Speaker 1: my thing. I can't have dirty feet, Okay, Michelle, your

964
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:30,800
Speaker 1: rose would probably be definitely would be going to Mexico,

965
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 1: back where Nate and I got engaged. We got to

966
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 1: spend a little time together. It was really cool. It

967
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:38,279
Speaker 1: was really weird showing up there at first because it's

968
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 1: like you tap back into that show anxiety, you know,

969
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 1: walking through where you had like the rose ceremonies and things.

970
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: But once we got settled in, it was just so

971
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 1: much fun. The thorn would be coming back to Minnesota

972
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 1: where it is. I'm currently looking at my window right

973
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 1: now and is like flurries snowing. It's cold, cold, and

974
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 1: it's March, soot hey, hey, got a way to go?

975
00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:14,520
Speaker 1: All right, Abigail and Noah, what is yours? My rose is, well,

976
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 1: we've got a long weekend together, so it's more like

977
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 1: looking forward to the long weekend because he has it off.

978
00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 1: Then might the wine would be you talking about all

979
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 1: my nea never saved Abigail again, my rose is gonna

980
00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 1: be so with whatever my job, I stack my schedule

981
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 1: so I'll work just a ton of hours in a row,

982
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 1: and then you know, the time off. I have a

983
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:54,520
Speaker 1: good amount of time off, so that's gonna be both

984
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 1: of them. You know, we got some upcoming fun little

985
00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 1: day trips kind of thing. Um, and I'm not working.

986
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 1: We're time with Abbi. You get to see some people,

987
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 1: and then my Thorn's going to be me during like

988
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 1: eighty hours coming back and I just look like this,

989
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:17,919
Speaker 1: so you'll look great. You'll look great. Well, Abigail and Noah,

990
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 1: we will let you go. I'm sure you have a

991
00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:22,400
Speaker 1: lot of sleeping to catch up on or just time

992
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 1: to be with one another, so go enjoy it. Thank

993
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 1: you for being I'm bachelor happy Hour. We absolutely love

994
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:31,360
Speaker 1: you and glad to be back. Well, well not be

995
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: as am I a. Thanks for having us. The only

996
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 1: other thing is, Michelle, I could definitely touch the teacher.

997
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 1: You have a very soothing teacher's voice. Oh hey, I'm

998
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:47,520
Speaker 1: a freak. That good. That means that I to Yeah,

999
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 1: well I look forward to happen. Yeah, no need to

1000
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 1: raise your hand, so we don't do hand raising here.

1001
00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 1: But Abigail, it's so nice actually see your face. I

1002
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 1: know that I'm going to a little bit so I

1003
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 1: miss you. We'll get together and Noah getting you in

1004
00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 1: Nate and you know, getting the whole crew back together.

1005
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 1: I would love to do that. All right, you guys,

1006
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:14,400
Speaker 1: take care, I love you. I'll see you soon. Bye

1007
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 1: bye bye. All right, Michelle, that was such a fun

1008
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: interview with Abigail and Noah. I love them both. They're

1009
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 1: such a blast and they're so different, but they balance

1010
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 1: each other out so well, and so I'm glad that

1011
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 1: we were able to finally have them on Happy Hour.

1012
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 1: People have been asking since Paradise to have them on,

1013
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 1: so you know asking and shall receive people. But Michelle,

1014
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 1: thank you for being here with me. I can't wait

1015
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 1: to keep on doing Happy Hour with you. It's going

1016
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:42,680
Speaker 1: to be a great podcast with you. And a huge

1017
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 1: thank you to both Abigail and Noah for joining, and

1018
00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 1: also to all of our Bachelor Happy Hour listeners. We

1019
00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 1: couldn't be here without you. And as a reminder, we

1020
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 1: are casting for both The Bachelor and the Bachelorette, so

1021
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:56,840
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1022
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1023
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1024
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1025
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1026
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1029
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Speaker 1: Thank you everyone, and we will see you on Bachelor

1030
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Speaker 1: Happy Hour next week.