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Speaker 1: My girlfriend's furious I deleted intimate pictures of my ex

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Speaker 1: before showing her. My current girlfriend has pissed me because

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Speaker 1: I deleted old picks from an ex girlfriend from fourteen

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Speaker 1: years ago without letting her see them. Weird. While cleaning

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Speaker 1: out my closet, I recently found my old iPod Touch.

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Speaker 1: This thing's from twenty ten, and I absolutely loved it.

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Speaker 1: Stumbling upon it after all these years is like finding

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Speaker 1: a time capsule. So we excitedly hooked it up to

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Speaker 1: see what twenty ten to twenty thirteen meter was up

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Speaker 1: to while having a good time laughing at all the

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Speaker 1: tall teas, small bud and extremely fake but oh God

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Speaker 1: help me, and fitted caps I wore back. When we

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Speaker 1: were going through the pictures together, we stumbled across some

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Speaker 1: but naked picks from an old relationship. I forgot we're

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Speaker 1: on there, spicy Bix. That's dangerous going through photos.

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Speaker 2: I also think it's so funny that you have this

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Speaker 2: on an iPod toch I remember my iPod actually Touch.

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Speaker 2: I had a really old iPod.

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Speaker 1: I did an iPod Mini.

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Speaker 2: I have like you know, like the chunky like you

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Speaker 2: could just listen to music on it, a shuffle is, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think it was the iPod shuffle. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 2: like that really chunky one. I remember I had that.

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Speaker 1: There we Go throwback. By the way, this comes from

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Speaker 1: cyberdriver xxx on the Okay Storytime subreddit. So try not

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Speaker 1: to make a big deal of it. I said, oh crap,

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Speaker 1: and turn the iPod away from her and deleted the pictures,

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Speaker 1: which I thought she would understand. Was I wrong? First,

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Speaker 1: she playfully asked to see them. I told her no,

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Speaker 1: she knows that's messed up, and things quickly went very

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Speaker 1: south from there. Do you wanted to see them?

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Speaker 2: That's just really icky.

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Speaker 1: That isickey should be.

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Speaker 2: Showing anyone pictures like in any Yeah, Alyssa roxand says, no,

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Speaker 2: you can't show other nikey picks without the original center's knowledge.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was saying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that it doesn't seem like ohp intentionally

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Speaker 2: kept them. No, I think it was just like he

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Speaker 2: was like, I don't have this phone ony or yeah,

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Speaker 2: but you should never be showing intimate pictures with anyone

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Speaker 2: but the sunder exactly.

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Speaker 1: She started accusing me of hiding things, saying she just

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Speaker 1: wants to see what she looks like and that it's

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Speaker 1: no big deal, and eventually started crying. I told her

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Speaker 1: the pictures are from fourteen years ago, and if I

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Speaker 1: showed my ex's spicy picks to her, what's to stop

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Speaker 1: her from thinking I wouldn't show her spicy picks to

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Speaker 1: someone else if they, you know. Whined and moaned enough,

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Speaker 1: and now she accuses me of calling her a bee,

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Speaker 1: belittling her, and already thinking of the next woman. Things

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Speaker 1: are seriously snowballing, and I've never seen this weirly jealous

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Speaker 1: and nosy side of her before. We've been together for

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Speaker 1: about six months, but on and off again friends with

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Speaker 1: benefits for about two years. And she knows I don't

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Speaker 1: have patience for silly, childish crap like this, so I

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Speaker 1: kicked her out of my apartment. Oh my gosh. She

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Speaker 1: calls me an a hole and says she's gonna have

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Speaker 1: to think about our relationship. And I told her, if

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Speaker 1: she wants to break up over some nonsense like this,

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Speaker 1: and we shouldn't have gotten together in the first place. Okay, true,

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Speaker 1: but kind of stings to hear that.

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Speaker 2: It stings. But I honestly think that she's being wildly inappropriate.

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Speaker 2: And he's also not saying that I want to break

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Speaker 2: up with you. She's saying that, yeah, and he's like,

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Speaker 2: you know what, if this is your line in the sand,

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Speaker 2: then fine, I'm not showing you pictures.

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Speaker 1: I know I was right for not showing her the

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Speaker 1: pictures and the tears was a manipulation tactic, but I'm

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Speaker 1: absolutely stumped as to why she would try so hard

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Speaker 1: to see them, and figured maybe this sub could provide

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Speaker 1: some insight into this utter madness, which, by the way,

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Speaker 1: I mean maybe you're intrigued by like what that person

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Speaker 1: looked like.

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Speaker 2: You know, and like why the girlfriend is asking. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think there's probably some insecurity, definitely some insecurity, but

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Speaker 2: I think it's ridiculous. Yeah, I don't know, to be

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Speaker 2: insecure about a relationship that happened fourteen years ago, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: fourteen to be like you're hiding something like again, not

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Speaker 2: only is this this is old pictures, but we know

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Speaker 2: they are fourteen years old because they're on an iPod.

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Speaker 2: No one uses iPod, like the proof isn't.

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Speaker 1: That Oh my goodness, this just feels Yeah, some comments,

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Speaker 1: but Abaht said, you'd think she'd have more respect for

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Speaker 1: you for deleting the news and not sharing them and

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Speaker 1: deleting them in front of her so she knows they're gone. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and then Opie said, we're having a good time too,

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Speaker 1: mostly laughing at me, dressing like a clown and shiny

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Speaker 1: costume jewelry as was the style at the time. And

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Speaker 1: this was like a time capsule, you know, ancient and

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Speaker 1: legendary memes how do you wife, Hi do you kids?

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Speaker 1: Classic rick, rolling, Afro Ninja and cyber police convos with

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Speaker 1: friends long gone or grown up with the family Now.

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Speaker 1: I was really enjoying the nostalgia and then it all

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Speaker 1: went sideways for no reason. But hey, that's life, huh.

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Speaker 1: Another comment Riah last, I'm sorry, but she's not good

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Speaker 1: yet for an adult relationship, not the a whole up day.

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Speaker 1: Four days later, after not dogging for a couple days,

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Speaker 1: she finally texted me asking why I haven't called or

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Speaker 1: texted her, and I told her the truth. I've been

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Speaker 1: mad at her and trying to decide if I wanted

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Speaker 1: to continue the relationship. How the fact that we were

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Speaker 1: having a good time one minute and then the next

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Speaker 1: was pure madness reminded me of all the crap I

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Speaker 1: went through with my mom as a teen and how

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Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with that ever. Again. Oh

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Speaker 1: so it meant a lot more to him than what

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Speaker 1: we you know, the surface level. Yeah, I had a

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Speaker 1: very emotionally abusive mom that would constantly cause fights over

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Speaker 1: literally nothing, think DVDs, staple guns, tape measures, et cetera,

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Speaker 1: and then kick me out of the house in order

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Speaker 1: to show me whose goddamn house this is. So I

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Speaker 1: have an extremely low tolerance for people starting up and

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Speaker 1: coming at me over petty nonsense. Pop it all off.

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Speaker 1: My mom has since passed away, so that's another layer

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Speaker 1: of things. But I've never tried to make my issues

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Speaker 1: anyone else's problem. I've told her about my mother before,

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Speaker 1: so she knew all about this. You know. She told

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Speaker 1: me she didn't mean to make me feel that way,

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Speaker 1: but my flat out refusal to show her the pictures,

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Speaker 1: combined with me turning away from her when I was

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Speaker 1: deleting the spicy picks, made her feel like I was

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Speaker 1: hiding things and rejecting her. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I've had people like in my life accidentally be like,

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Speaker 2: oh h, you know.

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Speaker 3: It's sorry.

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Speaker 1: Fourteen years ago. Yeah, that could have just been a conversation.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't need to see the photos to be all

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Speaker 1: validated in her feelings. I immediately called BS because I

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Speaker 1: told her we were going to keep looking through the iPod.

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Speaker 1: I was just deleting my ex's spicy picks, and she

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Speaker 1: dann well knows it. And in the two plus years

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Speaker 1: we've known each other, I've never given her any reason

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Speaker 1: whatsoever to doubt me or think I'm a liar. I

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Speaker 1: eventually got tired of texting, so I try to call

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Speaker 1: her and she rejects the call, telling me she's not

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Speaker 1: ready to speak yet. I tell her I'm done texting,

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Speaker 1: so call me when she's ready to talk, and I

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Speaker 1: quit replying. She starts sending me angrier and angrier messages,

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Speaker 1: and when I wouldn't reply back, F you, this is controlling.

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Speaker 1: What the F's wrong with texting? Oh, Ef, you're red headed?

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Speaker 2: Be my lord?

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Speaker 1: My exend the pictures was a redhead and has been

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Speaker 1: out of my life for over a.

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Speaker 2: Ten years or She's like, oh, find her.

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Speaker 1: She then she goes and buys a red wig.

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Speaker 2: This is so embarrassing to be so jealous about a

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Speaker 2: relationship that is fourteen years old.

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Speaker 1: She'd be jealous. She then sends a picture of an

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Speaker 1: action figure of an action figure that's been broken apart,

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Speaker 1: and I immediately knew who it was, Prison Mike. It

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Speaker 1: was effing prison Mike. It was innocent in all of this,

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Speaker 1: you see, much like myself and a lot of you.

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Speaker 1: And she loves the office. So for her birthday this year,

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Speaker 1: I hunted down a three D printed prison Mic with

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Speaker 1: a one to twelve scalehead and little mug, combined it

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Speaker 1: with a two face figure's body, and spent a week

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Speaker 1: painting them bo.

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Speaker 2: Great gift.

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Speaker 1: I then printed out a backdrop of the conference room,

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Speaker 1: as well as pictures of the main cast except Andy

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Speaker 1: I hate Him, and made a diorama with standies of

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Speaker 1: them in it for the prison Mic figure. All combined.

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Speaker 1: The thing took about two weeks to make, but it

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Speaker 1: was fun and when I gave it to her, she

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Speaker 1: went nuts, hugging me, kissing me, calling me sweet. And

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Speaker 1: it's one of the most thoughtful things someone's ever given her.

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Speaker 1: And now she's apparently taking a hammer to it.

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Speaker 3: She needs to go.

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Speaker 2: She needs to go. He's gone too far. Not prison Mike.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we have some relevant comments mine forever wandering, said,

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Speaker 1: Prison Mike gave his life to save yours, dear PARSONIP

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Speaker 1: sixty eight oh two, block and move on. She's shown

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Speaker 1: you who she really is, oh p said, Oh, most definitely.

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Speaker 1: I refuse to be in one of those types of

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Speaker 1: relationships where you come home after a fight and your

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Speaker 1: closer cut up, or your car windows are busted, or

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Speaker 1: prison mikee is shattered, you know. And then personal Regular

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Speaker 1: five to six nine raise the boundary a bit higher, honey.

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Speaker 1: Refuse to be in a relationship with explosive fights, disagreeing

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Speaker 1: with your partners normal screaming, name calling, and being aggressive

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Speaker 1: or not. Your girlfriend had many red flags before she

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Speaker 1: took out Prison Mike. But a good therapist so low

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Speaker 1: for you can help you see these red flags before

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Speaker 1: you get in too deep. Be kind to yourself. You

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Speaker 1: deserve a soft life, full of love and a partner

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Speaker 1: who contributes meaningfully to it. You are worthy, and I'm

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Speaker 1: so sorry your mom was so crappy. You didn't deserve that.

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Speaker 1: Can this person write me a letter and make me

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Speaker 1: feel better about my life? Please? And then Thaddeus toad Esquire,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry to see how things panned out, but I'm

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Speaker 1: glad you're safely away from this person. If I may ask,

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Speaker 1: given all her unhinged behavior, do you think she would

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Speaker 1: have had used you showing the spicy picks if you

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Speaker 1: had against you later? I bet she would have whoo.

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Speaker 1: And Opie says, oh, hell yeah. That's almost always one

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Speaker 1: hundred percent a trap at worst and a test at best,

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Speaker 1: and they're both massive and unacceptable red flags. By the way,

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Speaker 1: you can join us live on YouTube every day at

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Speaker 1: three pm PST. Just tap our little profile. And Opie says,

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Speaker 1: I'm done. I don't know what the Hecker problem is,

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Speaker 1: and like Phil Collins, like op Elder Millennial, we know this.

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Speaker 1: And like Phil Collins, I don't care anymore. Property destruction,

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Speaker 1: whether hers or mine, for any reason, especially revenge, is

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Speaker 1: automatically game over for me. I'm shocked, annoyed, and confused,

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Speaker 1: but still thank you all for your interest and responses,

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Speaker 1: and please pour one out for prison Mike. He was

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Speaker 1: truly the belle of the ball.

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Speaker 3: Do Do Do Do Do Do Do Doo?

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, there's so many red flags. I mean, just

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Speaker 2: just the initial red flag, I was like, he should

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Speaker 2: get out of there. Her asking for the spicy picks, yikes,

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Speaker 2: that's really it's so appropriate. It's such an inappropriate question.

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Speaker 1: What do you guys think moss may or may not be?

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Speaker 1: Just like for a personal what about polaroids? Spicy picks

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Speaker 1: on polaroids? How do you dispose of those? Do you

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Speaker 2: I think the restaurant was his compromise. It wasn't that public,

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Speaker 2: I think it's just saying I'm not ready for that change,

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Speaker 1: And I think This is why a lot of people,

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Speaker 2: Oh, let's see if he's being nice about this nice action,

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think there is ways to offer advice

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But his brother told me that their mom, oh oh,

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Speaker 2: especially because I told him that I would want to

439
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Speaker 2: wait a couple more years. This is all stuff that

440
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Speaker 2: he has never mentioned to me. So, by the way,

441
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Speaker 2: you can join his live on YouTube every weekda at

442
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Speaker 2: three pm Pacific extended time. Just tap her profile and

443
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Speaker 2: there's a little bit more of the story. But pause.

444
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Speaker 2: He should have told her what's up with?

445
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Speaker 1: These couples are not telling each other like the really

446
00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:20,119
Speaker 1: important stuff.

447
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Speaker 2: Like obviously this is I mean, I think that is

448
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Speaker 2: somewhat of a valid you know, like.

449
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Speaker 1: With what that changed your mind?

450
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Speaker 2: But that's the thing. I feel like if he had

451
00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:30,520
Speaker 2: told her, it might have changed her mind. It might

452
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Speaker 2: have been like, Okay, we can do that, or we

453
00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:34,879
Speaker 2: can have like a ceremony or something and then maybe

454
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Speaker 2: postpone it. But we don't know because he didn't ask her,

455
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Speaker 2: and I think that was up to it, like absolutely

456
00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,160
Speaker 2: should have told her and then and then she could

457
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Speaker 2: have made the decision. Okay, yeah, I don't know. I

458
00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,160
Speaker 2: still think it's too soon or like, you know what, Yeah,

459
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Speaker 2: let's do that for your mom and we'll move forward.

460
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Speaker 2: It's the communication is just so lacking here.

461
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Speaker 1: I know that was kind of heartbreaking though, to hear

462
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Speaker 1: that he like texted his mom like it's a yes

463
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Speaker 1: and then be like, actually it's a no.

464
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Speaker 3: No.

465
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Speaker 2: That's heartbreaking, But it's his fault because he didn't communicate,

466
00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,320
Speaker 2: and it's so sad because it is a really off situation,

467
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Speaker 2: very to But there's a little bit more. I'm not

468
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Speaker 2: sure what I should do in this situation because I

469
00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,679
Speaker 2: don't want to get married yet. But if there's anyone

470
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Speaker 2: I want to marry, it's him. His mom will be

471
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Speaker 2: happy if we do it now. But I still can't

472
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Speaker 2: get over the fact that he never told me the

473
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Speaker 2: real reason he was proposing and spun it so that

474
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Speaker 2: I was completely at fault for what I did. We're

475
00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:27,400
Speaker 2: both not even remotely close to getting married anytime soon.

476
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Speaker 2: If there was an outside pressure like this, is it

477
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Speaker 2: as bad as I'm making it in my head. I

478
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Speaker 2: feel like he should want to marry me because he

479
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Speaker 2: wants to take the next steps with me, not because

480
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Speaker 2: his mom wants him to.

481
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Speaker 1: I'll be honest, I agree. Yeah, I agree because as

482
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Speaker 1: someone who, like I have older parents. You know, my

483
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Speaker 1: dad is fairly older than my mom and just old

484
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Speaker 1: in general for the parents of this generation, and I

485
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,399
Speaker 1: definitely worry that he might not be able to see me,

486
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Speaker 1: you know, get married if I get married. Heavy on

487
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:57,439
Speaker 1: me if I think that's just a reality we have

488
00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 1: to face, like our parents might not be there and

489
00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,480
Speaker 1: it's so hard rigging, especially if you have a good

490
00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:03,240
Speaker 1: relationship with them, is the reality?

491
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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't think that. Yeah, I don't think

492
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Speaker 2: that should be a reason to push yourself into something that.

493
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Speaker 1: You're not ready.

494
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Speaker 2: Here, Yeah, that's the end of that story. Wait, let's

495
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Speaker 2: read some comments though, before we close it out. Dragon

496
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 2: Mama says, yeah, you need to communicate better. Raluca Anka

497
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Speaker 2: says the mom dying isn't a reason for marriage though, Yeah. Yeah,

498
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 2: Duchess Casana says Anca, I agree. Maybe they can do

499
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Speaker 2: a ceremony for mom, but not actually get married, which

500
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Speaker 2: is kind of what I was saying yeah, I think

501
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Speaker 2: that would be the best idea ceremony.

502
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Speaker 1: I love yeah, but I.

503
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Speaker 2: Think it's like we could have figured out or they

504
00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:35,640
Speaker 2: could have figured it out an answer if you had

505
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 2: brought it up. Yeah.

506
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Speaker 1: I don't know why you wouldn't have that conversation and

507
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 1: just be like, Hey, proposing has been on my mind

508
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,880
Speaker 1: because obviously I love you, but also my mom's illness,

509
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 1: and I just want to know where you're at, yeah,

510
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:49,240
Speaker 1: and what we could potentially do to bring our families

511
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Speaker 1: together in this time.

512
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Speaker 2: And this time because I want her to see like

513
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Speaker 2: I want her to see me off, yeah, or like

514
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Speaker 2: you send me off on this stream. Yeah to the

515
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Speaker 2: communication is what I just communication, Matt. How to thank

516
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Speaker 2: you for the ten bout two. A friend of mine

517
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Speaker 2: was in the same situation as Opie and asked me

518
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Speaker 2: for advice. I'm gonna give the same advice as I

519
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 2: did for my friend. If you cannot see yourself waking

520
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 2: up every morning still madly in love with them, and

521
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 2: do not marry them, preach but you have That's the

522
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Speaker 2: end of that story and the end of that episode. Though.

523
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Speaker 2: If you love us, make sure to subscribe we love.

524
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Speaker 1: You and see it tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time

526
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Speaker 3: for okop relas. My husband asked for a threesome with

527
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Speaker 3: my best friend, but what he said next is way worse.

528
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Speaker 3: Can we have a foursome? Can it be? Yo? Daddy,

529
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Speaker 3: your mama? Can your mama? Whole family involved?

530
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Speaker 1: Girl?

531
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Speaker 3: Those are things that are worse. Girl. I want to

532
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:52,640
Speaker 3: sow my seed and every generation you got. Oh, good gravy, Hey, granny, hmm, granny, Granny,

533
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Speaker 3: you know what what doose gums do?

534
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Speaker 4: Girl?

535
00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 3: I'm trying to get some slappy toppy from the grandpoppy.

536
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 3: If you no dentures needed for this, right, take those

537
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 3: teeth out, man. I just want that sviv all up

538
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 3: in this thing. Hmm. I'll give you a Granny Smith

539
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,679
Speaker 3: apple after we're done. Good gravy if you can chew it.

540
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 3: I heard old people like extra salt in their food. Oh, gravy,

541
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:20,880
Speaker 3: salty snack. My husband of five years asked for threesome

542
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 3: with my best friend, and she agreed. I twenty six female,

543
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 3: met my husband thirty five male, seven years ago. We've

544
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Speaker 3: been married for five of those years. Wow. I love

545
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 3: my husband and all he has done for me, but

546
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 3: I fear that my marriage and my relationship with my

547
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 3: best friend might now be over. Oh god, not to mention,

548
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:41,640
Speaker 3: I just found out I'm pregnant and this only started

549
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 3: happening after I told my husband. He was very much

550
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 3: on board with having a child with me, and who's

551
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:49,439
Speaker 3: been trying for around six months. For context, my best friend,

552
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 3: twenty eight female, let's call her Mia, knew my husband

553
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 3: before me, and they were incredibly close, Oh, incredibly close

554
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,480
Speaker 3: before I even knew him. Let's just say they were

555
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 3: six to you know, four to ten inches. Oh close.

556
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 3: You know I'm being generous with this raid you are

557
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 3: you are given this man? Well, hey, you know, how

558
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 3: about how about one to ten one to ten inches?

559
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 3: All right? It was one to ten inches away before

560
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 3: I first met my husband. I suspected there was something

561
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,879
Speaker 3: going on between them, but they always denied it. However,

562
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 3: they admitted while they were drunk that they were indeed

563
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 3: sleeping together before I got with my husband. Oh, I

564
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,919
Speaker 3: mean that seems a little problem. This is yeah, this

565
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,639
Speaker 3: seems like an issue. Yeah, yeah, but maybe not, maybe not.

566
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 3: We'll see, we'll see. I'm sure this goes well. Yeah,

567
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 3: even though it's not important now, it still plays on

568
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 3: my mind, you know, especially considering what just happened. Anyways,

569
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 3: two weeks ago, my husband suggested a threesome for the

570
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Speaker 3: first time, and I was not on board with it. Dang.

571
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 3: I quickly said no and hoped he'd never bring it

572
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Speaker 3: up again. Two days after, he's aggested it again. What

573
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Speaker 3: you know when boy, hey, baby, you're no. How yesterday

574
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 3: you said you didn't want a threesome about not hey,

575
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 3: I know you want some of this, but do you

576
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:13,120
Speaker 3: want someone that ass over there, your friend to his company,

577
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 3: but threes a body?

578
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 4: Baby?

579
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,680
Speaker 3: Here's what I want to do with you? All right?

580
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,680
Speaker 3: And once the end declined, he asked again that night

581
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 3: after we had sex, and once again I said no,

582
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 3: bro is percise, Yeah, he wants that three stuff Like

583
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 3: all of a sudden, After that, he stopped asking, and

584
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 3: I thought that was the end of it. Girl, don't

585
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 3: you know it's not the no. However, three days ago

586
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 3: he asked me out to lunch, and I was excited,

587
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 3: considering he never takes me on dates anymore. Red flag.

588
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 3: If he ain't taken you on dates, he's taken someone

589
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,199
Speaker 3: else on a date. Let's just say that. I just

590
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 3: made like every person who hasn't been on a date

591
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 3: in a while. When we got to the restaurant, my

592
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 3: best friend was sitting there and was confused because he

593
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 3: never mentioned that she'd be there. I vibe was weird

594
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 3: from the start, to be honest, but I tried to

595
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,439
Speaker 3: think nothing of it. Halfway through the lunch, Oh, my

596
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 3: husband asked me again. He said, hey, you babe, be

597
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 3: I want to consider the idea of a threesome again.

598
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 3: I thought it would be a good idea if Meal

599
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 3: was involved. I didn't know what to say. We stand

600
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:21,359
Speaker 3: at an inclusive king. I'll just watch you ladies to

601
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 3: talk about it, you know, talk about all the things

602
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 3: you're gonna do to my thing. I asked Mia if

603
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,679
Speaker 3: she knew about this, and she said yes, and that

604
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 3: she known about his plans for over a month. Oh,

605
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,919
Speaker 3: he's known about this for over a month, and this

606
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,399
Speaker 3: is the best plan he can come up with. Pape,

607
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 3: Could I have a three someome? Pape could have a

608
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 3: three some? Pape could have a three some? Pape? Could

609
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 3: I have a threesome? She's here, he's here, so you

610
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 3: they don't know. I was devastated. I said no, like

611
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,119
Speaker 3: the fifth time, seriously, and paid for my meal and

612
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 3: left with my car. I feel so betrayed and hurt

613
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 3: right now, I have no word. This man is meant

614
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 3: to be the father of my child, but I can't

615
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 3: even look at him. I've been staying with my mom

616
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 3: and he's been vhoning me, calling me dramatically and that

617
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,440
Speaker 3: he says he'll just drop it. Mia has been spamming

618
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 3: me too, saying the same thing. It's almost like they're together.

619
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 3: I don't know what to do. Rob his ass. I know,

620
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 3: it's kind of like I'm in founding with the well,

621
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 3: you know, maybe we can't be too harsh because there's

622
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 3: a baby on the way. I say, squirt that baby out,

623
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 3: throw it out his face. Get that alimony, baby, alimony,

624
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 3: child support.

625
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 2: There you go.

626
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,719
Speaker 3: Oh well, I guess also alimony his husband double up.

627
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 3: There'll be an update. Oh no. They both agreed to

628
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 3: arrange to talk with me this morning to ask for

629
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:38,359
Speaker 3: another So we've been thinking about it. We think to

630
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 3: be really good. I think we explained things the right

631
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 3: way the previous four times. But let me just be clear,

632
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 3: it's freaking down you me me ya, and we're trying

633
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 3: to do three us. So we're trying to you know,

634
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,640
Speaker 3: like maybe if you two right next to each other,

635
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 3: me going in and out, one in and out, and

636
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 3: two you tall on top of each other. I go

637
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 3: the old elevator floor. I'm on four one, floor two one.

638
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 3: I'm on floor two. Bro, the old uh double licked

639
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 3: the popsicle thick? You know, the two sides? So many options.

640
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 3: Some would say because it's round, there's infinite sides. A

641
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 3: few more tongues in there. We all know where Sam's

642
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 3: mind is at.

643
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 4: So okay okop co host marries a thousand Wives.

644
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 3: I've always wanted a thousand wives. When I arrived, they

645
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 3: were sitting so close to each other it genuinely made

646
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 3: me feel sick. They are touching themselves underneath the table. Bro.

647
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 3: They didn't seem upset at all. They were just talking

648
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 3: like normal, even smiling, which is so gross to me,

649
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 3: seeing as they both know how upset I am right now. Anyways,

650
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:47,719
Speaker 3: when I sat down, I fought out asked them if

651
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 3: they had been seeing each other behind my back, and

652
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 3: everything I've been suspecting these last three days was confirmed. No,

653
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Speaker 3: they'd been sleeping with each other. I am so heartbroken.

654
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Speaker 3: I don't think I can carry this child. These past

655
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 3: few days have felt so unreal and I'm a complete

656
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 3: and utter wreck. Wow. I know that it's early to

657
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Speaker 3: decide this, but I do think an abortion is the

658
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 3: correct decision for me. What she's six months in? Did

659
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Speaker 3: she say they've been trying for about six months? Trying

660
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Speaker 3: for six months?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it seems like she just just found it seems

662
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Speaker 4: pretty recent.

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Speaker 3: I also asked him why he decided to tell me

664
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Speaker 3: now and not earlier or when I wasn't carrying his

665
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Speaker 3: literal child, bro, and he literally just shrugged, shook his head,

666
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Speaker 3: and then said, oh, as if that was a good

667
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Speaker 3: enough answer. Bro. Mio was mostly quiet the whole time,

668
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Speaker 3: but I don't think she feels even the slightest bit

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Speaker 3: of guilt, which I mean, it seems like the sexual

670
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Speaker 3: tension has been building their whole marriage, so they're probably

671
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Speaker 3: just happy to be fucking again. To everyone saying divorce,

672
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 3: that is most likely what will happen. Yep. I'm terrified,

673
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Speaker 3: as I've known him for most of my adult life

674
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Speaker 3: and he is the only man I've ever been with.

675
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Speaker 3: He using control of all our bills, are rent and

676
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Speaker 3: oversees the finances. I literally have no idea what I'm

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Speaker 3: doing Wow, I mean, okay, eighties and boys out here

678
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Speaker 3: who are in relationships. Yeah, let's do a thought experiment.

679
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Speaker 3: Let's let's experiment. Think of your significant other's closest opposite

680
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Speaker 3: sex friend for a moment. How long have they known her? Him?

681
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Speaker 3: How long have they known you? Who are they going

682
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Speaker 3: to decide? Is their sexual tension? Is it building? Are

683
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Speaker 3: they giggling? Do they have inside jokes? Whoa intimate? Is

684
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Speaker 3: there flirty text back and forth? Sub cutie, how you

685
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Speaker 3: doing if any of that is true? Caul R slash

686
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Speaker 3: okop show and tell us your fricking story so we

687
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Speaker 3: can diagnose whether she cheating with that longtime best friend,

688
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Speaker 3: because damn bro, I mean, there were so many red

689
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Speaker 3: flags before this happened. It seems like she maybe chose

690
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Speaker 3: to ignore. But this is a relationship O P should

691
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 3: definitely get out of because this guy sucks.

692
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 4: Both of them suck like it basically seems they're like,

693
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Speaker 4: oh now we can, but she's like, why not just

694
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Speaker 4: be together?

695
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Speaker 3: Leave? Man couldn't choose. He's a relationship. Want vanilla or chocolate?

696
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Speaker 3: I want a double scoop of bull. Then the guy

697
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Speaker 3: who shove an ice cream is like yo, you kind

698
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Speaker 3: of have to choose one because maybe, like the vanilla

699
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,479
Speaker 3: is okay with being the chocolate together, but you know

700
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 3: one of them is not okay with the other. Maybe

701
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 3: the vanilla is pregnant with a bean. Maybe he has

702
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Speaker 3: a little bean at the center. You know what I mean.

703
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Speaker 3: You never know, You never know. So if you want

704
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Speaker 3: a threesome, just make sure everyone's down wow, and just

705
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Speaker 3: Big stuff, Parents, Pawn, he's engagement ring and he goes ballistic. Okayop,

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Speaker 3: Parents pawn. He's engagement ring and he goes ballistic. Makes sense,

721
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Speaker 3: I'd be pretty peace, Yeah, pretty peace. So I cannot

722
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Speaker 3: sleep because my next door neighbor is yelling at his folks.

723
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Speaker 3: We will call him Old Yeller, Old Yeller, the old Yeller,

724
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Speaker 3: like the old They moved into his house temporarily because

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Speaker 3: a tree fell in their house. Uh, not a good movie.

726
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 3: Trees trees be attacking back, you know, they're tired of

727
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Speaker 3: us fricking cutting them down and cutting them down. So

728
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Speaker 3: they're like, I'm gonna fall in your house now the

729
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Speaker 3: lorax and we get the lorex. Yeller is helping them

730
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Speaker 3: pay for it, and we didn't hear about any trouble

731
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 3: with them for two weeks since they've been in the neighborhood. Apparently, though,

732
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 3: they are the type of people that think that buying

733
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 3: too many things makes you snobbish. Hmmm. They know, like

734
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 3: they're minimalists, minimal get aggressive minimalists. So they're like, how

735
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 3: dare you buy a tooth brush? Items? No, we live

736
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 3: in a society. That's my favorite quote. We live in

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Speaker 3: a society. Just that for what I can overhear, Yes,

738
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Speaker 3: I know I shouldn't be listening and eavesdropping, but I

739
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 3: can't sleep for gosh, Dara. They had been selling off

740
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 3: some of his stuff, so game and game consoles, watches, clothes,

741
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 3: I believe. Oh my, Apparently they were putting that money

742
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 3: towards groceries. So it sounds like they are not keeping

743
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 3: that money themselves. So basically, these parents come into his

744
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 3: house that after their house has been smashed by the

745
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 3: trees and are just selling all his crap. Oh, just

746
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 3: selling everything. Jeez. So they did this yesterday and today

747
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 3: and oh well, apparently Yeller old Yeller went out to

748
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 3: dinner with his girlfriend and was proposing to her, aw,

749
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Speaker 3: will you marry me? Only when he opened the ring box.

750
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 3: He opened it up and he found that there was

751
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 3: nothing inside. Oh my god. Apparently this is the story

752
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 3: that he's here. Apparently the parents took it and pawned

753
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:07,959
Speaker 3: it for gas money in cleaning supplies. How do you

754
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 3: pawn an engagement ring for gas money? And also like

755
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 3: as he was going to engage, I know all their

756
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 3: way to the proposal, like, hey, I think it's the

757
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 3: best time to take this ring. We need to hit

758
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 3: shell OPI's thinking, well, I don't think his parents are

759
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 3: staying there much longer. They even pulled out the your

760
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 3: stuff is our stuff card and called him spoiled and

761
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 3: that we birthed you and thus we own you and

762
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 3: all your belongings. No, no, that's not how freedom works.

763
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 3: I am hearing him yell at them to get out

764
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 3: of his house. Honestly, in what reality is it okay

765
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 3: to sell off your host stuff kid or not? Kid,

766
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 3: it's rotten, which I agree for real. I think they're

767
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 3: quieting down a bit, hopefully sleep now, but as we

768
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 3: know on Reddit, OPI will never sleep because there's an

769
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 3: update that's right cho update found out that he called

770
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 3: the cops on his folks. He's going to make them

771
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 3: sweat a bit until they agree to get his stuff

772
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 3: back or he will press charges. He needs that engagement ring, right,

773
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,720
Speaker 3: I mean, good for him, honestly, So I did ask.

774
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 3: I did ask about how he didn't notice that the

775
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 3: ring was gone until he proposed, And apparently it's because

776
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 3: he checked the box earlier in the morning and put

777
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 3: it in the jacket I was going to wear and

778
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 3: thought I didn't need to check again, which, honestly, like,

779
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 3: why would you you put it in your jacket pocket?

780
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 3: You checked the morning before and you're going to open

781
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 3: it later and night, you're assuming it's going to be

782
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 3: in there. Yeah. Like, also, just think of the implications

783
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 3: that means for the parents. That means the parents went

784
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 3: through his jacket pocket to search for things they could sell,

785
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 3: found this ring box with the ring in it, decided

786
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:02,240
Speaker 3: to take the ring out, sell it, and then put

787
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 3: the ring boks back in the jacket and not tell him,

788
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,320
Speaker 3: obviously not tell him. Wow, this is this is like

789
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 3: worst parent of the Year award right here. Terrible, terrible,

790
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 3: good God, But there is a positive update. I did

791
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,319
Speaker 3: ask how his girlfriend reacted, and she was upset as

792
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 3: he was, but they both concluded that the ring might

793
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 3: have just fallen out or slipped out. He didn't want

794
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 3: to think his parents had anything to do with it

795
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 3: right off the bat, and she said, yes, Hey, oh

796
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:36,760
Speaker 3: be getting memried well Opie for Opie's neighbors getting married,

797
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Speaker 3: getting married, invite us to the weddings. Yeah, for real, guys,

798
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Speaker 3: it's only the thing to do. We're telling your story.

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