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Speaker 1: And I'm annoyed because I don't care if he has cancer.

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Speaker 1: I'm not paying for his meal. And here's why. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's see tell me why I will. I will. Here

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Speaker 1: we go. So normally I don't share private business and

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Speaker 1: social media, but this dame, I'm gotta do it. Op

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Speaker 1: lay it down. So, my female twenty eight fiance, Jack

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Speaker 1: male thirty has a friend, Steve male thirty three, who

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Speaker 1: had cancer but now is doing better. That's good. Good

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Speaker 1: that Steve is doing better. He's one of Jack's closest

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Speaker 1: friends and Jack was there for him all the way

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Speaker 1: to the end of treatment. Steve started going out and

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Speaker 1: socializing again, which is great. However, whenever we go out,

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Speaker 1: Jack will expect me to pay for Steve's meals and drinks.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me using the excuse he had cancer. Show some empathy,

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Speaker 1: pay for a shit. Why don't you show some empathy.

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Speaker 1: Then we went to an electronics shop once and Jack

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Speaker 1: told me to pay for Steve's purchases because he's had cancer.

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Speaker 1: I secked it up once or twice. He's like buying

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Speaker 1: like like three xboxes and PS three like I secked up. Yeah, okay, uh,

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Speaker 1: laptops the MacBook pro bro. I secked it up once

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Speaker 1: or twice, but then I told him I couldn't anymore.

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Speaker 1: And he emphasized the fact that Steve had cancer and

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Speaker 1: reminded me of how his financial status was affected, and

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Speaker 1: so we should help him from time to time. Yo,

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Speaker 1: just because Steve had cancer and his financial situation is affected,

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Speaker 1: doesn't mean my financial situation has to be affected because

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Speaker 1: Steve had cancer.

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Speaker 2: Literally, how about let's how about we let it affect

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Speaker 2: your financial situation?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Steve, how your cancer? Its politude? Oh god, no, no.

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Speaker 2: No, Opie's boyfriend, Opie's boyfriend. But because Opie's boyfriend isn't

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Speaker 2: paying for.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know. That's what's weird. It's you're crazy.

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Speaker 1: It's funny. How and now he's do it How I'm

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Speaker 1: always the one paying foot in the bill. So yesterday

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Speaker 1: Jack and I were at a restaurant for lunch. Steve

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Speaker 1: somehow showed up and sat with us. We hate lunch, Steve,

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Speaker 1: Steve's just crash. We hait lunch and chattered and then

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Speaker 1: before we left, and as soon as I was about

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Speaker 1: to pay the bill, Jack gestured for me to pay

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Speaker 1: for Steve's meal too, bro. I played dumb and said,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but why should I pay for his meal?

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Speaker 1: Jack obviously didn't want to say because he has cancer

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Speaker 1: and is struggling out loud in front of Steve, so

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Speaker 1: he asked me to step outside so we could talk.

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Speaker 1: I refused and said that there was nothing to say.

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Speaker 1: That Steve had cancer, which was unfortunate at all, but

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Speaker 1: that in no way makes him entitled to my money.

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Speaker 1: Steve looks stunned. He glanced at Jack, and Jack was fuming.

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Speaker 1: He told me to just pay this time, Just pay

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Speaker 1: this time, honey. But I only paid for our lunch

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Speaker 1: and then got up and made my way out. I

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Speaker 1: like how she still pays for her boyfriend. Yeah too,

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Speaker 1: It's like I would have if I'm making that statement.

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Speaker 1: I'm only paying for myself. Come try to get your

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Speaker 1: own money, fam. Literally, I heard him repeatedly apologize to

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Speaker 1: Steve as I was walking out. What does he apologizing

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Speaker 1: for us? Like, Steve, I'm so sorry my fiance do

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Speaker 1: to pay for your food? Like, I know you have

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Speaker 1: cancer at all, and you gotta have everything paid for.

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Speaker 1: And I'm really gonna I'm gonna work hard to make

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Speaker 1: sure she pays for everything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna make sure she is opening her wallet

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Speaker 2: for you have an open wall policy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for me, but for her. Yeah. I'm gonna keep

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Speaker 1: all my money, but my wife, my wife, she can share.

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Speaker 1: Lay it down. Jack didn't come home, but left four

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Speaker 1: nasty texts, calling me unhinged, petty, selfish, and short sighted,

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Speaker 1: as well as unsympathetic to what his friend was going through.

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Speaker 1: I texted back, and I said, although his friend has

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Speaker 1: unfortunate circumstances, they are not my responsibility nor my fault.

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Speaker 1: It's true. He said that I'd lose nothing if I

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Speaker 1: just paid for his lunch. Bitch with the money bro

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Speaker 1: and the walking out on him was nasty, beyond comprehension.

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Speaker 1: I told him he could have paid for him if

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Speaker 1: he felt so strongly about it facts. He responded by

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Speaker 1: saying that I was being willingly ignorant because I know

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Speaker 1: he's been out of a job, and said that this

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Speaker 1: small act of kindness could have gotten me a long

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Speaker 1: way where got you a long way to broke? But

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Speaker 1: I made about myself, my money and jeopardized his friendship

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Speaker 1: for no reason. There is a problem if Steve is

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Speaker 2: Like honestly, like why has that's the question. Why isn't

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Speaker 2: Steve spokeing to be like hey, like I appreciate it,

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Speaker 2: but you know it's it's all good, Like you have

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Speaker 2: to pay for me, Like imagine one of your friends

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Speaker 2: like paying for you every your friend's significant other is

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Speaker 2: paying for your every time you like a booch.

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Speaker 1: Right, he's still mad, saying he won't speak to me

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Speaker 1: until I make it up to him and Steve by

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Speaker 1: paying for moreshit. If I the a hole for walking

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Speaker 1: and refusing to pay, Okay, so here's what I'll say. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Tom definitely not the a hole. But I do think

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Speaker 1: I get she's frustrated. That's a very frustrating thing.

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Speaker 2: But I would bring it up beforehand. I would have

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Speaker 2: just yeah, the way that she went about it.

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Speaker 1: And just be like because it doesn't sound like she

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Speaker 1: with it before, like or at least it sounds like

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Speaker 1: she had a problem with it, but she like bring

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Speaker 1: up the problem before until this outburst. Yeah, like that

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Speaker 1: that is I would say. It does.

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Speaker 2: It does feel a bit a holy, but yeah, like

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Speaker 2: at the end of the day, it's like, why is

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Speaker 2: the boyfriend asking her to pay it when he.

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Speaker 1: Could just do it himself. Exactly. I think everyone's the

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Speaker 1: a hole here, honestly, a little bit just because of

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Speaker 1: how she reacted, Like I feel like she should have

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Speaker 1: talked to him and say, like, oh, I guess she

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Speaker 1: did talk to him. Actually, yeah she did.

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Speaker 2: It's still I would say she went a bit hard

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Speaker 2: on her delivery. You know, she went a little hard

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Speaker 1: Delivery, but like, uh, yeah, I think she she maybe

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Speaker 1: beforehand she's like like that this time, yeah, before you eat. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm not paying for him. You don't ask me, yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: or just be like but then he like, I guess

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Speaker 1: he showed up randomly. That's true. That's true. That's true.

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Speaker 1: I think. I mean, I understand that she's sped up.

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Speaker 1: I think she's gonna be like, hey, I'm not I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'm not pa.

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Speaker 2: She kind of did say that, but it also seems

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Speaker 2: like she she kind of made a scene out of it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe a little bit. Man. It's just I think

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Speaker 1: actually the husband or her her soon to be husband,

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Speaker 1: is more of the a hole than her.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, he's absolutely more than I think Steve questionably. I

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Speaker 2: think even Steve is actually he deserves. I don't know

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Speaker 2: if he's more of the A hole, but like, I

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Speaker 2: think he's more of the a Yeah, he wants to

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Speaker 2: take your tongue.

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Speaker 1: You can send some shit and be like yo, I'm good, yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you, but you've done enough. You don't have to,

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Speaker 1: you know, keep going.

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Speaker 2: And it's also it's not like, oh my gosh, like

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Speaker 2: he needs to cover them, like if they were talking

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Speaker 2: about medical bills, are like, oh, like, let's don't intern

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Speaker 2: them out.

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Speaker 1: That at least makes a lot xbox from an electronics store.

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Speaker 2: Literally, he's like and he's clearly going intending to purchase

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Speaker 2: it himself going into the electronic store.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think Steve's a little bit of

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Speaker 1: a mooch Yes, sounds like and the fiance is enabling

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Speaker 1: the moochiness. Case closed, case closed, boom,