WEBVTT - Episode 341: Revenge Tastes like C*m (Feat. ChellaH) 0:00:02.320 --> 0:00:04.680 What's up it slip service. I'm Antila Yee, I'm g 0:00:04.800 --> 0:00:09.080 g McGuire, I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm Laura Mora, and I'm Chella. 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:16.240 That's good straight from Chicago. Thank you for joining us anytime. Anytime. 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:18.960 We was laughing because we were looking at your Twitter 0:00:18.960 --> 0:00:21.759 page and you say some of the funniest stuff on it. Yes, yeah, 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:24.880 I'm and I was just telling you I was just 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:28.760 in Chicago. So I was in Boxville. I guess they 0:00:28.760 --> 0:00:31.880 have all these stores, but they're shipping containers right on 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:34.400 forty seven. Yeah, So that was actually dope. I've never 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:37.640 seen anything like that before. It's like small businesses. A 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:40.400 lot of them are black owned businesses. So I was 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:42.440 doing some stuff with sur Rock, That's why I was there, 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:44.519 but I saw that it was like right down the 0:00:44.560 --> 0:00:46.320 street from what my store was at before it got 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:50.680 burnt down. Oh damn, it's okay, what kind of still 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:53.559 with it? A gift shop like a custom shop? Are? 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:55.120 You were doing custom T shirts and all of that 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:58.320 T shirts and personalize gifts and stuff like that. And 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:03.360 Bassville is in Branville, right, Okay, So Yester was in Bronsville, Okay, 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:05.679 And then where how did I go? I went to 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:10.520 um Fleet Club. Shout out to the boom. Yeah, I 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:14.080 know everybody. Okay, you went to Issues when my sister, Yes, 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:18.440 I went to Issues. Shout out to made. Let me 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:20.680 tell you something. We were talking about lip service. When 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:23.479 we did the tour, Chicago was like the wildest stop 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:29.880 on the whole tour. Chicago that was my favorite show. Absolutely. 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:31.520 I don't know if we were excited to be or not. 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:32.880 We home because it was our last It was the 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:35.400 last time and we were dead. That was That was 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:38.760 what was crazy. That was crazy about amazing that was 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:42.040 with us. I know that's your girl was it was 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:45.440 literally our last stop. We were all tired of sweatpants. 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:48.240 All of us even got dressed up from most of 0:01:48.320 --> 0:01:51.520 our styles and even you were comfortable that night. But 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:55.160 it was just something in Chicago. Was in Atlanta was 0:01:55.200 --> 0:01:58.240 good to the Atlanta was Yes, I feel like Chicago 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:01.760 was one. What do you it's about Chicago? It's just 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:04.360 Chicago is like the greatest city in the world. I 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:06.760 ain't just saying that because I'm from there, but from 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:10.200 the food, we got the best food, we got the 0:02:10.200 --> 0:02:13.760 best people. Why can't It's like a balance of that. Um, 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:15.920 the weather, I mean, it'd be cold, but then the 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:20.760 summer is beautiful, Downtown is beautiful. People compare New York 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:23.720 to Chicago. It's like a cleaner New York exactly. I 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:25.320 like the way you put that. I say that all 0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:29.320 the time. It's like a cleaner New York and um, colder. 0:02:29.800 --> 0:02:32.800 Oh yeah, it's colder. It's colder. But it's been called 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:36.040 down here too, like not recently, yea, but not Chicago 0:02:36.040 --> 0:02:38.800 always cold dirt. I'm not saying it's not cold here too, 0:02:38.840 --> 0:02:40.560 but yeah. Then let me ask you this, do you 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:44.639 prefer guys from Chicago or from other cities? Well, at 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:48.160 this point in my life, I like guys from other cities. 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:49.880 You know what I'm saying, because it's like I've been 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:52.520 in Chicago. I didn't pretty much fun to all. I'm 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:57.040 gonna be fucking and just meeting different niggas from different states. 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:59.000 You know, give them a different name, and you know, 0:02:59.000 --> 0:03:01.160 ain't no telling. You can live see what out of 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:04.360 sound guys, you can have a whole another identity until 0:03:04.360 --> 0:03:07.200 they find out, until I tell them I got no Instagram. 0:03:07.280 --> 0:03:09.919 Now come up and they explorer. So do you ever 0:03:10.040 --> 0:03:12.239 lie about things? Like if somebody, let's just say, you 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:15.480 start dating somebody new and he likes that you ever, like, 0:03:15.760 --> 0:03:18.359 how many guys would you say you would you tell 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:21.320 the truth or would you lie? No? Definitely, ain't gonna 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:30.840 tell the truth. Always tell the truth, but don't tell 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:37.440 the truth. I feel like when it comes to body count, No, 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:41.240 don't nobody really asked me that. So what about if 0:03:41.240 --> 0:03:44.880 he asked you, like, have you ever done anal or 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:47.120 something like that? Would you tell the truth about that? 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:50.560 For the most part, but not that body count. That's 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:54.160 that's between me and God. Didn't matter to you if 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:57.760 a guy suked a lot of girls? No, because ship 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:01.720 I didn't slipped on quite a you dix myself, So yes, 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:10.760 you did? You did? I did. I don't have personally 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:14.600 the song. How do you? All right? So let's talk 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:17.640 about that because we all accidentally slipped on the dick before. 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:20.279 I didn't mean to do it, you know, So tell 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:23.200 us why you wrote that song. What was happening? Well, 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:25.400 like when I first made slipped on it, it was 0:04:25.440 --> 0:04:28.680 just like a lot of ships that be happening. Bit 0:04:28.800 --> 0:04:30.960 just be capping, you know what I'm saying. So I 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:34.799 just like to make real ship, and sometimes it happened, 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:38.440 like for example, when it comes to gas and they homeboys, 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:42.240 I feel like it's not fair how they just present us. 0:04:42.320 --> 0:04:44.440 You gotta pick one, right, you know, you get a 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:46.160 group of niggas and you don't know who you won't 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:47.960 you funk the first thing, they go funk with them. 0:04:48.240 --> 0:04:50.320 Next thing, you know, the second one you off limits too. 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:53.360 It's like, hey, it ain't my bad. Shout homies, y'all 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:56.240 rock that ship out. Meanwhile, home I'm double back and 0:04:56.360 --> 0:04:57.880 do it. They're gonna try to talk to you anyway. 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:01.320 The friends they is, yeah, they don't they care because 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:03.279 guys try to act like there's some type of code. 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:06.640 But I do feel like guys really like a girl. 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:09.280 When they see their their homeboy with them with the girl, 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:13.480 they kind of be like a little yeah they do 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:19.080 like they do. That's just because they'll act like they 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:22.200 got a problem with it, you know, but God's felling 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:25.919 love who they absolutely you do. It's like when we 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:28.040 were just talking about when you was saying, when you 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:29.880 meet a meeter group of guy and it's like the 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:33.160 one guy try to like claim you from the back, 0:05:33.240 --> 0:05:35.080 Like hold up, bro, I ain't say I want you. 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:38.120 I may want your friend, like, don't claim me from 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:40.640 Like the girls do that too, Like if you're with 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:43.279 your home girls and one person like a guy, but 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:45.159 it ain't like she with him. It kind of feels 0:05:45.200 --> 0:05:47.360 like now I can't try to talk to him because 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:51.280 she already claimed it even though nothing happened. Yeah, know, 0:05:51.440 --> 0:05:55.479 that'd be the code with girls, I feel like, and 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:57.280 then they get mad when he tries to talk to 0:05:57.320 --> 0:06:04.719 you and he's your boyfriend. Yes, yeah, my thing is listening. 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:06.120 At the end of the day, I'm not gonna stop 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:08.840 nobody happiness. You don't want me, that's fine, you won't. 0:06:08.920 --> 0:06:11.040 That may work out even better than us, Like that's 0:06:11.080 --> 0:06:13.360 God telling me not that this ain't for you. Let 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:15.520 her have him, right, then she'll be crying over like 0:06:15.520 --> 0:06:20.040 who get him? But it's so what do you do? 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:24.000 Right if let's just say you like somebody and then 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:26.039 your home girl has already been like now I'm gonna 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:28.440 get him one day, Like I'm gonna get him? Is 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:31.080 he off limits? I would talk to my friend first. 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:33.320 I keep it real with it, like, bitch, look, you 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:35.200 don't know what to do with this nigga, let me go. 0:06:35.240 --> 0:06:38.160 Don't do what I do, and that's what it is. 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:41.120 But I didn't have doesn't happened to me before. So 0:06:41.200 --> 0:06:43.200 most of my girls they know how I am, so 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:45.560 they'll be like, all right, but I haven't had a 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:48.160 bitch that just was bitter and just like you ain't 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:50.359 you gonna let the bed go anyway with the nigga, 0:06:50.400 --> 0:06:53.440 so you know, so it's a sticky situation, right, we 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:55.839 don't let him healse for my personal experience once my 0:06:55.920 --> 0:06:58.280 girls like on the guy and like they kind of 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:00.280 like hitting it. I kind of it turns me off 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:02.680 off that guy, kind of like I don't look at 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:05.200 him the same you know what I'm saying, Like even 0:07:05.240 --> 0:07:07.120 if I looked at him, we both met him at 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:09.120 the same time. I was feeling him, but I'm seeing that, 0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:11.440 you know, she's going harder than me. I'm gonna love 0:07:11.440 --> 0:07:13.440 her to her do that and if it'll work out, 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:16.240 Like I don't see them like that anymore, Like I 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:19.480 don't want him anymore because you're ready, But well if 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:22.840 he ain't paid herd no attention and she just dehydrated, 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:28.240 thirsty steady trying to audition for the nigga's like I'm 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:31.360 gonna let some time passed yeah, that's because I don't 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:33.840 trust man either, Like she'll be going hard, but he 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.679 really trying to get me. But then because I'm not really, 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:38.560 he's probably like low key trying to do that. But 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:40.760 then back door and go back to her because that 0:07:40.880 --> 0:07:42.480 was the easiest. You know what's funny. I was just 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:44.240 thinking about it just now. I had a situation where 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:46.880 this guy tried to talk to me, and so he 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:48.800 wanted to go to like after the club. He was like, 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:50.640 you know, he hit me like let's go out to eat, 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:52.720 and I was like, no, it was too late. But 0:07:52.760 --> 0:07:55.040 the next day and one of my friends kept being like, yo, 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:57.200 hit him back, hit him back, And so the next 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:59.240 day I was like, yo, we're at this bar whatever 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:01.800 having drinks, right, And so he came to meet us 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:03.440 at the bar. We were in Miami. He came to 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:05.800 meet us at the bar, and she, when I tell you, 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:08.760 she was going so hard for him, and I was like, 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:11.320 did she really make me call this guy back? She 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:14.480 called him back for you? When I tell you, she 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:16.800 was in his face like doing all kinds of stuff. 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:18.840 So I just let it go, like all right, girl, 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:20.480 you got it. Like it was weird to me because 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:22.240 you saw he really was trying to talk to me. 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:24.800 And so then later on that day he had hit 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:26.680 me up because I left and you know, we all 0:08:26.760 --> 0:08:28.600 left or whatever, and I think I was going back 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:30.120 to New York. He called me. I was in the airport. 0:08:30.160 --> 0:08:32.400 He was like, yeah, your girl was going real hard, 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:36.280 Like what's up with that? I mean, you could not 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:38.520 notice she was doing the most. I was actually a 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:41.120 little embarrassed. But then I was also like, he wasn't 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:43.400 my guy and nothing. I just met him at a party, 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:45.800 So I was like, all right, that's you could have that, 0:08:45.840 --> 0:08:47.320 but I just thought it was weird to do that. 0:08:47.600 --> 0:08:50.719 So what happened. Did she end up with him? Um? 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:52.080 I don't know, because I don't know if she would 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:54.760 tell me that she did, but I don't think so. Yeah. 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:57.160 I mean the way he called you and said definitely, 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:01.520 And that's what That's what I'm saying. They'll come to us, 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:03.640 but then you never know, once they see, okay, well 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:06.600 she still ain't buying something. Might as well go back 0:09:06.640 --> 0:09:09.440 and you know, do what I do with her. First, 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:10.840 I was said in Miami. It wasn't like I was 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:13.400 gonna talk to him for real. It wasn't I didn't 0:09:13.440 --> 0:09:14.959 know him like that, But it also made me look 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:17.600 at her a little different. I mean, there is a 0:09:17.600 --> 0:09:19.960 lot of thirsty stuff in Miami, so I get it. 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:22.080 So when you talk about slipping on the dick, right, 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:24.040 have you ever slipped on the dick but then actually 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:28.240 ended up liking somebody? Um? Because you know how at 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:30.040 first she like, I went, I wouldn't talk to him, 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:32.839 he too this, he to that, he not my type. 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:35.080 And the next thing, you know, you all in. You 0:09:35.160 --> 0:09:40.280 know what, I gotta like everybody who dick I slip on, 0:09:41.360 --> 0:09:44.200 unless it's just like just keeping the real unless it's 0:09:44.240 --> 0:09:46.600 just like I look at it as a job. You 0:09:46.640 --> 0:09:49.679 know what I'm saying, Like job, Well, some niggas you 0:09:49.720 --> 0:09:53.840 look at his job right, explain that. I mean it 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:57.200 could be like, Okay, this nigga you know, got a bag, 0:09:57.320 --> 0:10:01.200 I want a portion or you know, so it'd be 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:03.600 like that sometimes, Yeah, it is look at him as 0:10:03.600 --> 0:10:05.880 a job. But you could do that with somebody you 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:11.559 didn't even weren't attracted to. Yeah, she attracted to what's 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:14.280 gonna come up there? I have? And it may be 0:10:14.360 --> 0:10:17.000 excused the price, And I think a lot of that 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:19.360 came from how I grew up. You know, I left 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:23.280 home early, you know, so for me, different niggas was 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:26.880 just like, this is what's going on, and it's town. 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:29.360 I'm gonna eat and I need a car ship, so 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:31.800 you know, it ain't nothing to brag about, but it's 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:34.520 the truth. I've been there. Yeah, So I think we've 0:10:34.559 --> 0:10:37.800 all been in some capacity, but just be capping my things. Yeah, 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:41.080 I feel like girls who left the house young, Like 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:43.520 you can't say that there wasn't a man who was 0:10:43.720 --> 0:10:46.640 not influencing you and helping you out and taking your 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:50.360 shopping and showing you're a different life away from home 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:53.160 that mag you want to leave. But you had a 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:57.880 baby at a young age, pregnant early teams, Okay, so 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:01.680 what was that situation? Like, Well, me and my son 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.800 like super super best friends. We grew up together. I 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:07.240 keep it low key because of course I live in Chicago. 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:09.040 I don't keep it low key, but like I don't 0:11:09.080 --> 0:11:11.320 post my son a life, but everybody who know me 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:15.480 knows and we're like super close. So I was pregnant early. 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:20.160 I never had a father, so my mom always got 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:22.000 half shout out to my mama, love how she's been 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:28.160 cleaning twenty eight years. So when I had my son, 0:11:28.760 --> 0:11:32.600 it was rough. But instead of me just worrying about 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:35.960 how rough it is, I changed everything. Like I changed 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:38.200 the way that I wanted to be a mother. For example, 0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:41.560 I put my son at all kind of programs that 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:44.560 I was never being, all kind of schools. His my 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:48.120 baby daddy rest in peace. It was well, you know 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:50.400 what I'm saying. My brother wasn't well, but he lived 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:52.800 the street life. So I wanted to just like find 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:56.120 different type of men. And I tell women all the time, 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:59.960 when you're raising these boys, your whole mad frame gotta change, 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:02.679 like you gotta find a different life. So that's what 0:12:02.720 --> 0:12:07.120 I did. Like kept them in basketball. Basketball saves laughs 0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:10.559 with boys, keep them busy, a a you all that 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:13.240 type of ships. So it was cool, Like you know, 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:16.720 I moved out early. Um, I was homeless for a minute, 0:12:16.880 --> 0:12:19.199 went to a shelter for about two months. That give 0:12:19.240 --> 0:12:21.840 you, you you know, different programs you can find, you can 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:27.120 get help, you know what with you. So um, from there, 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:30.040 we've been good. Like he'd been good when he was six. 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:33.360 I lost his daddy and my brother in the same week. 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:37.520 That's crazy. So that's that's hard, you know, So I 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:40.600 think by that happening so early for me, it kind 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:44.360 of made me learned to deal with the reality of 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:48.240 life early on, you know what I'm saying. So I 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:51.200 put it in my head like okay, because I have 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:53.439 a lot of people that die after that, especially being 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:56.400 in Chicago, it's like it happened so often. But I 0:12:56.440 --> 0:12:59.960 put it in my head early, like, Okay, it's life 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:02.520 and it's death. We all go live and we go that. 0:13:02.720 --> 0:13:05.920 Some go down early, So just celebrate and live your 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:07.760 best life. That's why I just be doing what the 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:11.079 funk I wanted. Like people be like all of tight 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:13.520 and these you know morals and ship is cool with 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:16.640 certain ships you don't do. But you gotta enjoy life 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:20.200 about what people think about you. Gotta live. You gotta 0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:22.120 live your life for yourself and for your purpose and 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:24.719 for your happiness because still be a good person. You 0:13:24.800 --> 0:13:27.000 do a lot of passive things in the community. So 0:13:27.480 --> 0:13:30.000 I think that's great too, for showing not one thing 0:13:30.080 --> 0:13:33.280 about me. I'm a solid ass bitch. Everybody know that. 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:36.720 Any of the rabbitches from Chicago, they can tell you. 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:40.160 It ain't like I've done from just period in the 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:43.160 community to people. I'm just not a cutthroat, a's bitch 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:45.360 in no type of way. You know what I'm saying. 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:48.559 Character is very important to me. You can be a 0:13:49.120 --> 0:13:51.200 bitch that gap this and got that, but if you 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:53.880 are a snake ass bitch, I don't want your roum, 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:56.160 you know, And you know that's how I was thinking 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:58.480 about two. For a woman having a child at a 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:02.040 young age and having a rare and music, that's not 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:04.920 an easy balance because that requires you to travel. It 0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:07.480 doesn't have to be in the studio late nights, really 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:10.720 being dedicated. How did you balance that? Okay, So basically 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:13.079 when that was one on with my son, I fell off. 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:15.960 I fell off in music because it was like, bitch, 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:18.640 you gotta be four times. You ain't got no baby daddy. 0:14:18.760 --> 0:14:21.480 You gotta be at these a AU games. You gotta 0:14:21.560 --> 0:14:24.600 fan schools and programs. So I wasn't as spocused as 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:28.080 I was like I needed to be for music. But 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:30.600 what was more important to me was my son and 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:32.840 it still is. And when he got to the age 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:35.680 where he was just like all right, he understood. So 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:38.520 anything I put out even slipped on the dick or 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:41.520 if I'm talking about any type of whole ship or 0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:45.400 kind of prepare him for that. I let him know, 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:47.080 and he know how I am. He just be like, 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:50.800 you want the crazy text me all day, Like that's 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:53.440 just how it is. He understands the business, you know 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:56.320 what I'm saying. So it's just like we're good. And 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:58.640 as long as he good. I never really gave a 0:14:58.640 --> 0:15:01.840 funk about with nobody else, because it's like, bitch, my 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:04.520 son and ship. I'm the ship. We jammed here and 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:07.240 gang banging. He hain't got no babies. He doing what 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:08.640 he needs to do. And race in the Son of 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:12.720 Chicago was very difficult. It's so easy for them to 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:15.080 get caught up. Caught up, and my son listened, like 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:17.880 I showed him examples. Look, so and So they got 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:20.640 life in jail. So and So got his weed rod. 0:15:21.000 --> 0:15:24.080 He craziest hell for the rest of his life. You don't, 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:27.440 you wrote your mother Pope is not of that ship. 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:29.680 So and you're realistic, You're like, you're not like, don't 0:15:29.720 --> 0:15:34.240 smoke weed you like look and he listened. So that's 0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:36.680 a blessing. And it let's be cool for him to 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:39.440 have you as a mom. Still, it's it's well now 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:42.080 it is, you know, But I'm sure he's dealt with like, 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:44.960 oh going to high school game because he went to 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:46.960 a real popular school and it was just like, oh, 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:49.240 that's your mama, that's your mama. So I won't go 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:51.240 in there address. You know, I would try to be 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:54.600 on my mode, but it's like the soccer mom mode. Yeah, 0:15:54.640 --> 0:15:56.760 but it's still like, oh your mama. So I'm sure 0:15:56.760 --> 0:15:59.600 he's dealt with that, but it's time went on. I 0:15:59.640 --> 0:16:02.520 think understands now. You know what I'm saying is he 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:05.280 gotting older and ship so it's up and down. He 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:09.480 got a lot of cloud off it too. And you 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:12.440 know so and then you had options to be like that. 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:15.440 The readings that you did with you and cash out, 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:17.840 they've all been up here on Lift Service too. By 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:21.880 the way, shout out to training. That's my bull comment. 0:16:22.120 --> 0:16:24.640 Oh yeah, what's that. It's called pussing in your face? 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:34.200 You know we actually got about it's just about you know, 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:37.480 seeing the nigga mouth that look comfortable, and it's like, 0:16:37.640 --> 0:16:42.480 damn like it looked comfortable. Comfortable mouth. A comfortable mouth 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:44.520 to me is just one that looks like it just 0:16:44.680 --> 0:16:48.600 fits the lips, the mouth, the structure. It gives you 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:55.680 beak to see your face that guy. I feel like 0:16:55.760 --> 0:17:00.520 nice celestious lips. I do too, Yeah, because it works. 0:17:00.560 --> 0:17:05.120 Is when they got like, you know a little thing, yeah, 0:17:05.480 --> 0:17:08.760 but you never know. But I am got a tongue. 0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:11.399 I was gonna say, I can't have no lips and 0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:13.520 a little skinny thing you got and they got to 0:17:13.520 --> 0:17:14.879 know how to use the tongue. You can't be like 0:17:14.880 --> 0:17:19.520 a lizard. And if they got some money, it just 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:24.080 balanced it out. Have you ever checked on anybody? Have 0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:28.520 you ever been the one like gave a guy money? Never? Okay, 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:32.560 So I practiced this thing called reverse by ecology, right, 0:17:32.720 --> 0:17:37.679 vers reverse by ecology. So I invest a little like 0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:39.840 I go back. I got this thing. It's like future 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:42.479 with the ap s. Okay. I got this thing with 0:17:42.520 --> 0:17:48.560 these drewelry boxes. Right, it's from this store called Things. Remember, okay, 0:17:49.440 --> 0:17:51.879 you had it that with your customization sturing things. Oh no, 0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:54.439 you had something like that though, right, idea miss was 0:17:54.480 --> 0:17:57.679 more images so with things. Remember they got this wooden 0:17:57.760 --> 0:18:01.199 jewelry box coming different side and sometimes is coming up 0:18:01.640 --> 0:18:04.640 telling I'm telling y'all, y'all get these niggas. I'm telling 0:18:04.680 --> 0:18:07.560 you how they love me when I get them these boxes, 0:18:07.600 --> 0:18:09.639 I get gifts every and they don't care if I 0:18:09.760 --> 0:18:11.399 busted out of ship because they love me. They know 0:18:11.400 --> 0:18:15.720 I'm how ump. But it's different sasses, small, medium and 0:18:15.880 --> 0:18:18.919 large and on the inside you engraved their name. So 0:18:19.000 --> 0:18:21.480 I always get that nigga that drewry Box early on 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:25.000 and they'd be so impressed. They never had a girl, 0:18:25.000 --> 0:18:28.480 but I mean nothing before, especially with they name in it. 0:18:29.359 --> 0:18:32.679 And that that reversed by ecology is how you guarantee 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:35.240 a gift for the rest of your life. Oh damn. 0:18:36.359 --> 0:18:37.960 So you get them something little, but you get it 0:18:38.000 --> 0:18:42.800 early on first, yep, and then it's guaranteed a bigger comeback. Now, 0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:46.560 let's just say, do you know sometimes guys have nicknames 0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:48.719 and real names. When you get it, ingravee, which name 0:18:48.760 --> 0:18:53.359 do you put in? It depends on the nigga. Like um, 0:18:53.400 --> 0:18:56.160 I usually get their name to make them feel like, bitch, 0:18:56.200 --> 0:18:59.560 I know your real name, right, But I didn't had 0:18:59.560 --> 0:19:01.960 a nigga who they might go about a little nick 0:19:02.080 --> 0:19:04.600 a little sad name. So it depends on the person 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:06.880 of the person. Have you ever been in a monogamous 0:19:06.920 --> 0:19:09.600 relationship or do you think that you always got side dudes? 0:19:10.560 --> 0:19:14.560 Oh my god? Oh um? She like, I don't want 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:19.159 to say ifship, I ain't a relationship right now. But 0:19:19.240 --> 0:19:22.480 the last relationship I was in, I was faithful. That 0:19:22.600 --> 0:19:26.040 was my first time in my life. I've always had 0:19:26.119 --> 0:19:29.800 some type of sad niggas or niggas who I got, 0:19:29.880 --> 0:19:32.040 niggas who I've been dealing with a fifteen years that 0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:35.600 excuse me every night and then could come back and 0:19:35.600 --> 0:19:38.240 they just might have this thing. Was like, well yeah, 0:19:38.280 --> 0:19:40.960 and it was like small, like a job for me. 0:19:41.680 --> 0:19:45.240 But that last relationship I was in, I've been single 0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:47.320 for like the past year and half. It's so fun. 0:19:47.880 --> 0:19:51.800 Okay during the pandemic too, Yeah, it was fun for me. Like, 0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:56.679 so how did that go for you? Being faithful? Being faithful? Okay, 0:19:56.680 --> 0:19:59.600 so just being honest. This the thing, right, I was 0:19:59.720 --> 0:20:03.240 fa food. But he a lot of times when I 0:20:03.320 --> 0:20:06.239 funk with other niggas is because I need ship. So 0:20:06.320 --> 0:20:09.560 he had enough. But I ain't need ship, so when 0:20:09.600 --> 0:20:13.720 I'm going fucking somebody fuck, So it was cold, like 0:20:13.840 --> 0:20:17.359 I ain't cheated nothing, And then it was it was 0:20:17.400 --> 0:20:19.640 the opposite. He was like the biggest cheat that I've 0:20:19.680 --> 0:20:24.000 ever had. Period. So towards the end when I was 0:20:24.040 --> 0:20:27.080 just like, you know, what what the fund is you doing? Bitch? God, 0:20:27.320 --> 0:20:30.399