1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. 2 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 2: Hey Victoria, good morning, good morning, welcome to the show, 3 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 2: and waiting by the phone. We're trying to figure out 4 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 2: if you've been ghosted and why so, can you tell 5 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 2: us how you met this dude Damien at about any 6 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 2: dates you've been on and where things are now. 7 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I actually imagine this guy on bumble and 8 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 3: you know, I was a little hesitant, but you know, 9 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 3: we I took a chance and we talked to the 10 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 3: app for a little bit and it was like I'd 11 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 3: known him like my whole life. It was really great. 12 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 3: So we kept talking. We moved into like text messages, 13 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 3: We did a couple of really good face times, Like 14 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 3: we talked for like over an hour for both of them. 15 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 3: So we finally get to like, okay, he asked me, 16 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 3: I'm on the date we we go. He was a 17 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 3: little quiet at the date, but I'm thinking like okay first, 18 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 3: you know, and then after that he just he just 19 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 3: ghost to me. 20 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. 21 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 3: Like everything was going great, so well, yeah, I'm I'm confused. 22 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 2: Yeah right, it's frustrating, right, I mean I say it 23 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 2: every time you meet someone you're into them, you think 24 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 2: it's gonna go somewhere. You can't wait to see him again, 25 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 2: and then you feel like that person doesn't have the 26 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 2: same reaction, and you're like, what. 27 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: The hell exactly? No, I'm just I'm with you. 28 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 2: What never happened to you, hasn't He's like, I can't relate. 29 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 2: I can't relate, you know what. Don't listen to her, Victoria. 30 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 2: We're gonna was going on with this. We're gonna call 31 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 2: this guy Damien. H just the second will ask this 32 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 2: question to me on the phone. At some point, You're 33 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 2: welcome to jump in and the whole that we can 34 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 2: string this up and set you guys up on another 35 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 2: date and pay for it. 36 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: Okay, I would love that. You've got to. 37 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 2: Hear what happens next Part two of Waiting Metaphony and 38 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 2: two Men's After You're on the Fred Show. The frend 39 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:04,559 Speaker 2: Show is on the radio, and the iHeart app any 40 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 2: time search for the Fred Show on demand. Hey, Victoria, Hey, okay, 41 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 2: let's call this guy Damien. You guys met, you went 42 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 2: on a date. You thought everything went really well, all 43 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 2: the pre date stuff, you know, all that communication was good, 44 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 2: and then you had what you thought was a great date, 45 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 2: except you have not heard from this guy since the date, 46 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 2: and you want to know why because your impression was good. 47 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 3: Yes, very good. I was already planning our lives together. 48 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 1: Oh well, I mean that's aggressive. 49 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 2: But okay, let's no, let's let's call him now and 50 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 2: see what's going on. 51 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: I'm a little bit scared. Good luck, Victoria. 52 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 3: Thanks? Hi? 53 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 2: Is this Damien? Oh hey, Damien, good morning. My name 54 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 2: is Fred. I'm calling for the Fred Show, the morning 55 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 2: radio show, and I have to tell you that we 56 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 2: are on the radio right now and I do need 57 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:56,359 Speaker 2: your permission to continue with the call. Can which after 58 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 2: just a second, would you mind? 59 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: Okay? Well, thank you. 60 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 2: We're calling on behalf of a woman named Victoria's that 61 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 2: she recently went on a date with you. 62 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 1: Do you remember meeting her? Oh? Yeah, I remember her. Okay, 63 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 1: So that was that was a reaction. So what happened? 64 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 2: Because she called us and told us that she really 65 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 2: enjoyed meeting you and going out with you and was 66 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 2: hoping to see you again. I mean, she really liked it, 67 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 2: and you know, she's surprised that you haven't reached out. 68 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: So what's going on? I mean, honestly, she just had 69 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: the biggest cold store I've ever scene. I'm just really 70 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: not trying to catch that ship. Oh my god. Wow, 71 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm a little taken. Aback. I this is 72 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: a new one for me. I have not heard it. 73 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 2: Okay, So you go on, you go on a date 74 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 2: with her, and you're like, because she said you were 75 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 2: a little quiet, is because you were vicated on on that? 76 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? That's it's It was really nasty. She can't help that. 77 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 2: I mean, these things happen, right, I mean I think 78 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:04,119 Speaker 2: they We don't know what it means exactly, and it's 79 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 2: not her fault. I mean some people deal with that. 80 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: What I have nothing to say. But what's his name? 81 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 3: Me a wrong? 82 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 2: What's going on with you? 83 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 1: His his name is Damien. He's not wrong. I mean 84 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 1: you don't want it, just some a brief and mom 85 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 1: move on. I mean, but I understand he doesn't want it, 86 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:34,359 Speaker 1: but it is it is hard. Don't her control? 87 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 3: Right? 88 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:35,359 Speaker 1: Don't can it? 89 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 3: Right? 90 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 1: Now? Then? 91 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 3: Right? 92 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 1: Girl? You should have rescheduled the date. That's wrong. Well, 93 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 1: let mean I gotta bring Victoria Damien. I'm sorry, Yeah, 94 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 1: he's here. I forgot to mention it I'm very forgetful, Victoria. 95 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: You heard the man. 96 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 2: You've been on the phone, Damien, She's been on the 97 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 2: phone the whole time. This is a very unfortunate coincidence, right. 98 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:01,799 Speaker 1: Yes, because look they're very common. 99 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 3: It wasn't something where I was contagious or anything, and 100 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 3: those who were very I mean it was it could 101 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 3: have been just like a little pimple and plas we 102 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 3: face timed, so you saw my face. 103 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:18,039 Speaker 1: What does she bit her lip or something that happened? Right, 104 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 1: it's literally. 105 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 3: I mean I'm okayth. 106 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: Google cold sore the first thing that came up. It 107 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: is called by the her. 108 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 3: So there's different strains, Yes, there's different strains. 109 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: So sometimes it's not the same. We need to make 110 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 1: sure that people we need, Yes, thank you. 111 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 3: I mean. 112 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 2: I don't want you to reready misinformation now, it doesn't 113 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 2: mean it doesn't necessary. We don't have to jump to 114 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 2: conclusions over here. You know, maybe it's a temporary thing, 115 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 2: it goes away and then it's not. So anyway, you're 116 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 2: really not going to go out with her again because 117 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 2: of this? Like everything was fine except for that. 118 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, fine, okay, I mean I'm just looking at you 119 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: because I don't even know what to do with you 120 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 1: right now. 121 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 3: But if she didn't have one, then he would keep 122 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 3: going out with her and all would be fine. 123 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: And it's gonna be fine like in a few days. 124 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 2: Ye fine, now que are now, I'm not even to me. 125 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 2: We are standing up for you because you know what 126 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 2: this is. In these things happen, and so Damien is 127 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 2: not interested. Someone just dropped the phone. I don't I 128 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:41,359 Speaker 2: don't know what happened. Okay, okay, look you know what, 129 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 2: I know you don't want you know what, Damien? All right, 130 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 2: so he doesn't want to go out with you, and whatever, right, 131 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 2: I guess Damian. I appreciate you answering the phone. Hey, Victoria, 132 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 2: look you hang in there. It's just it'll be fine. 133 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 2: This guy, I find this very close minded. 134 00:06:58,440 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: He did. 135 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 2: And here's the thing at the concern. He doesn't know 136 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 2: what he's talking about fully though, because he's not asked. 137 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 2: You were gotten to know, you were understood, so we 138 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 2: didn't care enough. 139 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 3: To know true, And you know what, I appreciate this 140 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 3: gives me a lot of clarity. 141 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: He was not this big of a jerk when we 142 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: were talking. 143 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 3: So I'm glad I can see it now. 144 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, you dodged a bullet. Yeah, next time, just rescheduled 145 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: a day. 146 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 3: Girl, They go away, don't They's true? 147 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: All right, Resident doctor, Yeah right exactly. Don't you get 148 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 1: that thing on YouTube or so? Where did you get 149 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 1: this degree from? 150 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 3: Oh? 151 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 2: I got all right, Jamien. Thank you for your time, Victoria. 152 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: Good luck to you. Four point fifties. She'll be selling 153 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 2: in the Showdown and the Entertainment Report Bolt next back 154 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 2: in two minutes on the frend Show.