1 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: Good morning, keeps, and welcome to ook f Daily with 2 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 1: Meet your Girl Danielle Moody recording from the home Bunker. Folks. 3 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: Oh my fucking god, there is good news to report 4 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: and it couldn't come soon enough. This week was election 5 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: week in America and on the ballot our rights as 6 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: per usual, since the dawn of MAGA in Ohio, in Kentucky, 7 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: in Virginia, the voters had their voices heard. In Ohio, 8 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: they have now enshrined abortion protection into the constitution. After 9 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: the Republicans spent twenty eight million dollars to try and 10 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: deny this right to Ohioans, they fought back and now 11 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 1: abortion and abortion access will be the law of the land. 12 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: Over in Kentucky, Governor Andy Basheer, Democrat, won handedly against 13 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 1: the Trump backed and supported Daniel Cameron. You may remember 14 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:28,400 Speaker 1: Daniel Cameron because he was the ag who, you know, 15 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: just kind of didn't do his job when Breonna Taylor 16 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 1: was killed in her fucking sleep because of a no 17 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: knock warrant that was issued for the wrong address and 18 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: it cost her her life, Daniel Cameron didn't really give 19 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: a fuck because you know what, folks, just a reminder 20 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: not all skin folk are kinfolk. I think most surprisingly 21 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: and most excitingly is what took place in the state 22 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 1: of Virginia. Glenn Youngkin, the Republican in a vest, basically 23 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: Trump and a vest, thought that he was going to 24 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: be able to win back the Republican state legislature so 25 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 1: that he could push through a fifteen week abortion ban 26 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: in Virginia. And once again, the voters said hell no. 27 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: Not only did the Democrats hold on to the state Senate, 28 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 1: they also flipped the House blue. So Glenn Younkin can 29 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: hang his hopes nowhere because the people of Virginia spoke out. 30 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: So what does this say to us, folks? What can 31 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 1: we understand and know from this moment? And I think 32 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: it's this. It's the fact that when the people understand 33 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:57,839 Speaker 1: what is at stake, when the message is clear, when 34 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: the messengers, the representatives that are voting for, are quality 35 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 1: candidates who care about them, who care about democracy, they 36 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 1: show out and they show up. Now Republican and now 37 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: talking head Rick Santorum said the quiet part out loud 38 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: when he said, oh, first of all, this motherfucker referred 39 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:33,519 Speaker 1: to abortion as a quote unquote sexy issue. So make 40 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: that make sense? But on top of which, he also 41 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 1: suggested that this is why what happened in Ohio means 42 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: that democracy doesn't work, meaning that allowing people to vote 43 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: right on the issues that affect their day to day 44 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: life don't work because what Republicans want, and what they 45 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: are saying very clearly is a theocracy layered with fascism, 46 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: because nothing that the Republican Party is offering to the 47 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:19,839 Speaker 1: American people is popular or wanted by the majority, which 48 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: is why they want to anoint Donald Trump their king, 49 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: so that he can weaponize the Department of Justice, he 50 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 1: can weaponize the military against the American people, and they 51 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: can by force have their way. That's what Rick Santorum said. 52 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 1: That's what all of the Republican candidates that are vying 53 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 1: quote unquote for the presidency when we all know that 54 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: they're really vying to be Donald Trump's vice president. That's 55 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: what they are saying right now. We have somebody that 56 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: is sitting two heartbeats away from the presidency, who believes 57 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 1: in a national abortion van, who believes in a national 58 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: divorce ban, who believes that gay people should be beaten 59 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: and shocked out of their gatum. They are telling us 60 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: with each candidate with each vote, with each person who 61 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 1: they are, believe them. Coming up next today we welcome 62 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: back to the show on gidridadis, the author of The Persuaders, 63 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: to talk to us about democratic messaging, to talk to 64 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 1: us about the moment that we are in where we 65 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: need to find hope in and how we continue to 66 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:42,600 Speaker 1: fight for justice and equity. That conversation is coming up next, folks. 67 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: I am very happy to welcome back to wok F 68 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: Daily author writer thinker on On Gidatas, who has been 69 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:57,479 Speaker 1: on this show before. When your book, which is now out, 70 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 1: has been out in paperback, The Persuaders at the front 71 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: lines of the fight for hearts, minds and democracy. I 72 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 1: can think of no better book, no better timing than yours. 73 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 1: And I just want to start off with how I've 74 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: been starting off most conversations, which is asking people how 75 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: they are and how you are managing through what has 76 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 1: become and every day, multiple day alerts on our phones 77 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: about whether it's a mass shooting, whether it's war, whether 78 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: it's someone being pushed on a subway. There's just violence, 79 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 1: anger and rage everywhere. So how are you managing? 80 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 2: I mean, aside from the state of the world and 81 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 2: then great, you know, the world, the world complicates that. 82 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:55,039 Speaker 2: Right now, it's just such an awful time, and I 83 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 2: think it's you know, we've lived through a lot, not 84 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 2: just right now but in the last decade or two. 85 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 2: But I think this time feels really heavy. 86 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 3: And kind of. 87 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 2: You know, pushing the limits of like whether we can 88 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 2: all live together to the kind of edge, you know. 89 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 2: And I use that phrase carefully because that's basically the 90 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 2: question of democracy, you know, can we live together? Democracy 91 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 2: is a fancy Greek word for can we live together? 92 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 2: Or can we not live together? Can we live together 93 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 2: and choose things together? And you know, here there, everywhere. 94 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 2: I think it is more of an open question right 95 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 2: now of whether. 96 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 3: We can. 97 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 1: You know, and that's that is actually a really good question. 98 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: Can we all live together? Can we and not just 99 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 1: live together in a way that ignores each other's differences? Right? 100 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: Like I think that you and I broke both probably 101 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: grew up in age where it was about people being 102 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: quote unquote tolerant, right, and then we watched as that 103 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: move from tolerance of other people moved into acceptance. Right. 104 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: We never quite got to the place of celebration. I 105 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: don't think you know, I think that we we kind 106 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: of stopped right at that door and then backslid, And 107 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: so I wonder, you know, if this has all been 108 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 1: a project, which it's been, right, a project of figuring 109 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: out how to live together, how to bring more people 110 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 1: to the table, how to open up more conversations, and 111 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: the place that we find ourselves in. If we're looking 112 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: at it as in a house that all the doors 113 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 1: are slowly shutting one by one, what does it look 114 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: like then, for for people to put themselves in that 115 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 1: doorway to say no, don't close this one, right? You know, 116 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: what what does that look and what does that feel like? 117 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? And first of all, let me say this, and 118 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 2: this may I don't know sound people may disagree with this, 119 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 2: but you know, we all casually, many of us kind 120 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 2: of revere our ancestors and speak well of our ancestors 121 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 2: in all communities. But the truth is around the world, 122 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 2: if you go back far enough into your ancestry, wherever 123 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 2: you're from, I'm going to bet that your ancestors were 124 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 2: pretty intolerant people. Right, if you go back beyond the 125 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 2: twentieth century, I don't care what community or what place 126 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 2: it was not great to be gay in basically anywhere. 127 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 2: It was not great to be trands in a whole 128 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 2: bunch of places. Right, Most of our ancestors had not 129 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:52,200 Speaker 2: met people in their lifetimes who didn't look like them, 130 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 2: who didn't participate in the same religion, go to the 131 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 2: same sub denomination of the same religion, didn't eat the 132 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 2: same kind of you know, cast food in India, who 133 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 2: didn't you know, farm this, do the same kind of work. 134 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 2: So our ancestors were able to live together because they 135 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 2: didn't very often. I mean, there's some exceptions, there's places 136 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 2: Istanbul where people have been living together and you know, 137 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 2: for a very long time. But for most of our 138 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 2: ancestors everywhere, they were able to live together because they 139 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 2: live with people who were exactly like them, and small 140 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 2: numbers of people controlled everything. Right, That was like some 141 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 2: level one video game of living together. 142 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 3: Right. 143 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:38,959 Speaker 2: If you look at what we are trying to do 144 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 2: in the United States now, in much of the modern 145 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 2: world today, we are trying to do something completely running. 146 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 3: Laps around what our ancestors try to do. 147 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 2: We're trying to live with all kinds of different people 148 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 2: who share no basic code of how to be, who 149 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:02,439 Speaker 2: were raised differently, who have all kinds of historical beefs 150 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:05,839 Speaker 2: and conflicts with each other, who have different religions, who 151 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 2: have a different idea of what freedom means, of what 152 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 2: safety means, of what love means, of what having each 153 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 2: other's back means. Particularly in America, we're trying to do 154 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 2: something that is gravity defying, That is law of physics defying, 155 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:28,559 Speaker 2: you know. And I always like to set the table 156 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 2: with that because I think it's important to remember that 157 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 2: the that the like seeming disaster of our politics right 158 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 2: now is occurring in a context. 159 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:40,959 Speaker 3: It is a very high class. 160 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 2: Fail, right, Like we are failing at doing something super 161 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 2: super hard, you know, which is really different than failing 162 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 2: at doing something super easy. Right, We're actually engaged in 163 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 2: a very worthy project to see if you look at 164 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 2: the United States and focus on that if three million, 165 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 2: three fifty million people who look really really different from 166 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 2: each other and don't share a lot of foundational things 167 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 2: can live together and do so through everybody participating in 168 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,200 Speaker 2: the conversation about how they should live, instead of like 169 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 2: giving it to a king. And so I think I, 170 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 2: you know, at the heart of the persuaders' idea of like, 171 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 2: let's start with a little mercy for ourselves about how 172 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 2: hard the project is, right, and remember what the project is, 173 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 2: because it's really easy to just ask one guy to 174 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 2: decide everything. We're not doing that. It's really easy to 175 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 2: be Norway and just have like a bunch of blonde 176 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 2: people you know, who look alike redistributing resources to each other. 177 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 2: Congratulations on your strong safety net, right, but kind of easy, 178 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 2: kind of easy. Yeah, we're trying to do something hard, 179 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 2: and the persuaders is in many ways about I think, 180 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 2: starting from that recognition and then thinking about people who 181 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 2: I profound the book, who are figuring out ways of 182 00:12:57,120 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 2: doing that hard thing and enlarging people sense of willingness 183 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:06,679 Speaker 2: to live together, you know. 184 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: And I love the fact that what you are, how 185 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:14,200 Speaker 1: you were setting this table is honestly from a place 186 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: of grace. Right to give ourselves some grace in this 187 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 1: idea that what we're trying to do has never been 188 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: done right, and it is this exceptional feat to say 189 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 1: that I'm going to look past whatever has come up 190 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: for me epigenetically, whatever traumas have plagued our histories, whatever issues, 191 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 1: and are working to try and live side by side, 192 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 1: to try and live with one another in a way 193 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: that has never been done, and I do I think 194 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 1: that maybe to that point, we haven't talked about how 195 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 1: difficult it is. We've just kind of pushed past and said, 196 00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 1: why isn't it happening and why isn't it happening fast 197 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: enough when we have these extraordinary backslides, because where we 198 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: are in is in an extraordinary backslide. But I think 199 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 1: that we weren't moving forward with the intentionality that you 200 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 1: just laid out, which is that we're doing something that 201 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 1: no one else in the world is doing because everywhere 202 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: else that you look, the people still majority look like 203 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 1: each other, pray like each other. You know, what have you? 204 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: The United States is really this hodgepodge. 205 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 2: And I travel a bunch. I travel around the world 206 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 2: for my work, and it's a really meaningful difference that 207 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 2: we should that we should own and be proud of. 208 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 2: You know, China fantastic country. China is not a country 209 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 2: made of people from around the world. China is a 210 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 2: country of Chinese people. India is not a country made 211 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 2: of people from all around the world, country of Indian people. 212 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 2: Right Europe, they have, you know, minority populations, but it's 213 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 2: it's not the size and level of ours. It's very 214 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 2: carefully managed. It's a lot of guest workers. You don't 215 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 2: even have natural birth citizenship in a lot of those countries. Right. 216 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 2: We make a million or so citizens a year in 217 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 2: this country. Even when Trump was president, that didn't stop. Right, 218 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 2: So we are engaged in a project of attempting to 219 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 2: build a kind of country that is an awesome pursuit, 220 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 2: a country made of the world. And this is not 221 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 2: just something happening in a handful of elite spaces in 222 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 2: Brooklyn and Berkeley. Right, I travel to the length and 223 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 2: breadth of this country. I'm just in North Carolina. I'm 224 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 2: not like rural North Carolina. You go to rooms, you 225 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 2: go to companies, you go to restaurants. Look around. This 226 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 2: is where our ancestors would have been, like what are 227 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 2: all these people doing in a restaurant together? 228 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 1: Right? 229 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 2: Like what happens? Is this the beginning of a joke? 230 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 2: Like like why? Like why is this happening? Right? I 231 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 2: just start from that. I'm still amazed by it, even 232 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 2: though it's the only thing I've ever known in a 233 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 2: deep way, like this country is trying a hard thing 234 00:15:56,120 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 2: and an unintuitive thing. And then the second point, which 235 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 2: relates to what you were just saying about. The backsliding 236 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 2: is when we have this attitude of like, ah, everything 237 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 2: is so terrible, Why is it all so terrible? Why 238 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 2: is this happening? It's often asked in this way of 239 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 2: like this shouldn't be happening. There's no there's no logical 240 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 2: reason that we're having, you know, a kind of handmaid's 241 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 2: tail political backlash, or there's no logical reason why, you know, 242 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 2: white people are gravitating to authoritarian movements. And I actually 243 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 2: think this is a very dangerous logic, Like it's an 244 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 2: emotional reaction, right, It's it's just an anger. I mean, 245 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 2: everybody who I ever meet, who's watched me in MSNBC, 246 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 2: like this is why they're watching MSNBC eight hours day. 247 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 2: They just want to have this like therapeutic thing of 248 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 2: like it's so outrageous that anybody would be behaving like this. 249 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 2: And I kind of have a different view, which is 250 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 2: when I look at most of what I see happening 251 00:16:54,040 --> 00:17:00,040 Speaker 2: to me, these are very logical, predictable, almost inevitable results 252 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 2: of the kinds of conditions we are living through. So 253 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 2: if you are as we are have been in the 254 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 2: last fifty sixty years. I would say changing the status 255 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 2: of women more in the last fifty sixty years than 256 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:21,879 Speaker 2: we probably did in the previous five thousand. Is it 257 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:28,439 Speaker 2: so weird that a significant fraction of men who were 258 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 2: raised in the old way and who have anxiety status, 259 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 2: anxiety about who they're going to be and how they're 260 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:40,160 Speaker 2: going to fit and what their sources of esteem are 261 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:43,360 Speaker 2: going to be, and whether their wife will still respect them, 262 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 2: whether their kids all of that. Is it really that 263 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 2: weird that that would become a constituency that can be 264 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:54,880 Speaker 2: weaponized to try to put women in their place. None 265 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 2: of this is saying it's right. On the other hand, 266 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 2: if someone hold you in nineteen fifty, all right, here's 267 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 2: what we're going to do to the status of women, 268 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:06,359 Speaker 2: and we're gonna do it at like one hundred x 269 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 2: the pace of normal human change, and we're gonna see 270 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 2: what happens. And then you were to ask follow up 271 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 2: questions like and do we have a plan for like 272 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 2: managing men down. 273 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 3: From privileged psychologically? 274 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 2: Like do we have a plan for helping men see 275 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:21,640 Speaker 2: who they're going to be on the other side of change? 276 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:24,920 Speaker 2: Like what happens when men like no longer are breadwinners 277 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:28,400 Speaker 2: in families, like do they will there be replacement sources 278 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:30,160 Speaker 2: of value and esteem for them that we will help 279 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:33,720 Speaker 2: teach them. And you're like, now, we'll just we'll just see, 280 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 2: like we'll play it by ear. You know, if you 281 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 2: told me that in nineteen fifty, I'd be like, Okay, cool, 282 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 2: you can get some backsliding around like twenty twenty three, 283 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:48,399 Speaker 2: like you're gonna you know, you know, you're gonna have 284 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:51,120 Speaker 2: some demagogic movements. And by the way, it's not even 285 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 2: necessarily a majority of men. It's just like enough men 286 00:18:56,800 --> 00:19:00,400 Speaker 2: have no idea. It's pain, right that that fame phrase, 287 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 2: I forget who said it. Anger is what pain looks 288 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 2: like in public, right, It's they're just like people who 289 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,679 Speaker 2: honestly don't know who they're going to be on the 290 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:11,479 Speaker 2: far side of change. I'm focusing on men for a second, 291 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,639 Speaker 2: but you can then make the same one about white people. 292 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:17,239 Speaker 2: Right again, A lot of folks that you and I 293 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 2: know probably are more focused on how much more we 294 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 2: need to change. But let's be honest, we have changed 295 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 2: a ton, a ton, and we disrespect the people who 296 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 2: achieve those victories by kind of minimizing the fact that 297 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 2: like they achieved a lot over the next over the 298 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 2: last thirty forty fifty sixty seventy years, a lot, right, 299 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 2: a lot in making this country truer to what it 300 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 2: promised it would be on race and other things. And 301 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 2: if you were to look at that and say, and 302 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 2: by the way, do we've planned for white people like 303 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 2: it's it's a pretty different psychological experience to have completely 304 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:00,920 Speaker 2: unearned privilege that guides and un or girds your life 305 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 2: and then to kind of slowly have that not be 306 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 2: the thing anymore in one institution after another and start 307 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,919 Speaker 2: to try to have a more fair society. Do we 308 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:12,879 Speaker 2: have a plan for that? Are going to help educate 309 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 2: people to like, not good with that, to actually realize 310 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,880 Speaker 2: now we're just gonna it's less a fair we have done. 311 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:21,160 Speaker 2: I am so obsessed with this topic. You can tell 312 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 2: my passion. Like we have. You know, we talk about 313 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:25,919 Speaker 2: less a fair economics, just like let people do like 314 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 2: good luck, We have done less a fair psychology on 315 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:36,359 Speaker 2: all of the kind of social transitions involved in moving 316 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:40,399 Speaker 2: towards justice, greater justice right, in moving towards a gender 317 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 2: equal future, and moving towards rethinking what gender even means 318 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 2: it's happening right now, in moving towards racial progress, in 319 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 2: moving towards giving immigrants, to the right state, all these 320 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 2: things that I support one hundred and eighty five percent, 321 00:20:55,480 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 2: we've kind of just been like, hope everybody are yeah, right. 322 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 2: And to me, I say all that to say that, 323 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 2: I look at everything happening now, all the backlashes, the 324 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,879 Speaker 2: things that make me as mad as anybody listening to this, 325 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 2: and I think not weird, not random, not outrageous, logical, 326 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:24,880 Speaker 2: predictable symptoms erupting over our body politic given what we've 327 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 2: been doing, what we've been putting in our body, what 328 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:32,160 Speaker 2: we have been going through, And that, to me actually 329 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 2: opens up the conversation about how should we be guiding 330 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:38,480 Speaker 2: people through this era. What kinds of meaning making and 331 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:43,119 Speaker 2: organizing and storytelling could there be, Because if you just say, 332 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 2: like there are some outrageous people doing outrageous things in 333 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 2: our politics, there's nothing you can do. 334 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: You just have to think, right, because you've just it's 335 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 1: just a statement, right, It's not a solution. It's not 336 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:58,120 Speaker 1: oriented and really in understanding. My question though for you, 337 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:02,880 Speaker 1: is that if there were to be and you are 338 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:08,399 Speaker 1: one of those guides, with the books, conversations, and work 339 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,480 Speaker 1: that you put out into the universe to try and 340 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 1: alter how people think and how they examine this moment. 341 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 1: On one side, you would say that progressives and folks on 342 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: the left would say, well, why do we have to 343 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 1: handhold them? We've been handholding them, We've been catering to men, 344 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 1: we've been handholding white people and telling them that their 345 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 1: tears are okay and collectively holding them right like, I'm done, 346 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:38,160 Speaker 1: I'm exhausted, I'm over it, so honestly, because those are 347 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 1: more so likely the people that are listening to this 348 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:45,439 Speaker 1: show right now, what's your response to that versus we 349 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:49,800 Speaker 1: know what the opposition, we know where the true opposition 350 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 1: to that is. But what about those folks that are 351 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,160 Speaker 1: just like I'm tired, I don't want to hold your hand. 352 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 2: I think you just as you always do, Like you 353 00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 2: just perfectly encounterated I think the idea that is behind 354 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 2: why we don't do the thing I was describing earlier, 355 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 2: And I think you perfectly encapsulated what I think is 356 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 2: in some ways the biggest progressive mistake of the era. Right, 357 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 2: And so let me start with like a mantra of mine, 358 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 2: which is that I think the burden of citizenship is 359 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:34,200 Speaker 2: accepting that what is not your fault is sometimes your problem. Whooh, Okay, 360 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 2: a lot of things are not any of our fault, 361 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 2: but they are our problem. Okay, if you're nineteen, climate 362 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,959 Speaker 2: change is definitely not your fault. It's unfortunately your problem. 363 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:47,639 Speaker 2: You can't just say it's a problem with people who 364 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,640 Speaker 2: were like, lived longest and polluted the longest. Right part 365 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 2: of citizenship, it is not your fault, is your problem. 366 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 2: I think the real I one hundred percent get the 367 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 2: emotion behind what you just said. 368 00:23:58,600 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 3: And I hear it a lot. 369 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:06,600 Speaker 2: But I think we have to separate the fact that 370 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:10,680 Speaker 2: the opposition to some of these changes is not correct. 371 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:11,399 Speaker 3: It's wrong. 372 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 2: Wanting to cling to white privilege and supremacy is wrong. 373 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 2: It's substantively a wrong position. It's a wrong thing to 374 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 2: cling to. It's a thing that can't be abolished fast enough. 375 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 2: Wanting to cling to patriarchy and the ability to slap 376 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 2: your secretary on the butt at work with impunity is wrong. 377 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 2: And like, as fast as we can dismantle that, the better. Okay, 378 00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 2: So that's like point number one, point number two is that, 379 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 2: and it's a more morally neutral point. Managing human beings 380 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 2: from one state of being to another is very hard, okay, 381 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,399 Speaker 2: and people can seldom do it alone. And doing one 382 00:24:55,480 --> 00:25:00,200 Speaker 2: hundred million people at the same time is like a 383 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 2: social tsunami. Right, And someone I talked to for the 384 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:10,320 Speaker 2: persuader has made this very clear, Like people get a 385 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 2: heart attack, okay, and you and that doctor will say 386 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 2: to them, okay, like you can't eat this anymore, You 387 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 2: can't eat that anymore, Like it will die within a 388 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 2: year if you don't listen to these four rules of 389 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,879 Speaker 2: what you can and can I eat, right, and I 390 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 2: forget the number, but like the overwhelming majority of people 391 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 2: cannot comply with it. Don't compete, okay, I need you 392 00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:45,960 Speaker 2: to change what you eat to stay alive. Yes, welcome 393 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,440 Speaker 2: to who we are. Most of us are like, ah, 394 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 2: it's a lot, okay. So now think about an entire 395 00:25:54,240 --> 00:26:00,199 Speaker 2: country built on certain ideas of race, white domination. Who 396 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 2: gets to decide getting to be mediocre but still run 397 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:09,200 Speaker 2: the company, et cetera. On the gender side, like an 398 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:15,639 Speaker 2: entire elaborate structure of respect, esteem rewards for men for women, 399 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 2: different ideas, roles. You want to get all rid of 400 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:23,640 Speaker 2: all of that rightfully in a five to six seven 401 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 2: decade period, right, And you think it'd be easier than 402 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:35,199 Speaker 2: just like people have so much less motivation to make 403 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:38,199 Speaker 2: those changes than they do to stop eating bacon to 404 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 2: stay alive. If people cannot stop eating bacon to stay alive, 405 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 2: if people often, through their choices, choose death over diet alteration, 406 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 2: how are we expecting large numbers of white people, of men, 407 00:26:54,080 --> 00:27:02,120 Speaker 2: of whoever to change unilaterally themselves, change how they are 408 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,720 Speaker 2: to live in this different way? Right? Like, this is hard. 409 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,160 Speaker 2: I am not saying this to say to slow walk 410 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:12,400 Speaker 2: to I am as in favor of doing these changes 411 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 2: as fast and as in as far going away as anybody. 412 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 2: But I think there's this huge blind spot around thinking 413 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 2: that people are not going to need help getting there. Yeah, 414 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:27,479 Speaker 2: and so this is not about holding people's hands. And 415 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 2: I understand like you're saying, we've got to fuss over 416 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,480 Speaker 2: these people, Like the whole last four hundred years was 417 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 2: fussing over these people. Is this just the replacement of 418 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 2: like one fussing with another. I think this leads us 419 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 2: to a very dark place because those people will get 420 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 2: fussed over. Okay, the people who feel kind of homeless 421 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 2: between the old ways and the new ways, between the 422 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,520 Speaker 2: old ideas of gender and the new ones, between the 423 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 2: old ideas of privilege and power and race and the 424 00:27:55,440 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 2: new ones. Like they will get catered to, but they're 425 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 2: a market that they're like a hungry market that will 426 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:10,159 Speaker 2: be fed. Okay, that is not optional. What is the 427 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 2: choice is who feeds them? Okay? Do you want Donald 428 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 2: Trump talking them through? So if you are a man 429 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 2: who feels like you can't be like your daddy was, 430 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:24,640 Speaker 2: and then your son's coming home acting in all these 431 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 2: new ways that seem to you effeminate and weird and 432 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 2: or just makes you feel like you don't understand the world, 433 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 2: and you're caught literally between your daddy and your son, 434 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 2: which I think you know a lot of fifty year 435 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 2: old men in this country would feel. Donald Trump's very 436 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 2: happy to talk you through those feelings. And if you 437 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,120 Speaker 2: actually look at what Donald Trump's saying, it's not a 438 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 2: policy and this and that he's actually trying in many 439 00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,480 Speaker 2: ways to talk you through those feelings. They don't want 440 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:53,959 Speaker 2: you to being a man anymore or just the way 441 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 2: he performs, right, He's actually he actually recognizes that that's 442 00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 2: a feel you have and he's trying to resolve that. 443 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 3: Sense of homelessness or alienation. Right. 444 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 2: I would much rather Joe Biden help talk that man 445 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 2: through the era, or AOC talk that man through the era, 446 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 2: or activists or organizers. I'd rather door knockers are going 447 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 2: and talking to them. Like I think, if we get 448 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 2: into this notion that people don't need to be helped 449 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 2: with their psychological transitions in an era of extraordinary power shifts, 450 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 2: we're not like righteously avoiding emotional labor that we shouldn't 451 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 2: have to do. We're just handing people to fascists who 452 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 2: are very happy to talk people through psychological displacement. 453 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 1: I mean, god, damn, yeah, you have just once again 454 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:59,600 Speaker 1: convinced me that that you know, it isn't about the 455 00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 1: emotion labor of the thing. It is who who do 456 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 1: we want them to be educated through and educated by? 457 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 1: Because they will be right? And I think that that, 458 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: to me, that's the perfect place for us to land today. 459 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:20,400 Speaker 1: But that is that is the question. And I think 460 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 1: that your book and every everything is about that people 461 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 1: are stuck and you just you just this was so succinct, 462 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 1: and thank you so much. It was so succinct because 463 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,360 Speaker 1: people are stuck, and it's like, how do we want 464 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:39,720 Speaker 1: to get them unstuck? Is is truly the question, folks, 465 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 1: if you have not gotten it yet, the book is 466 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 1: the persuaders at the front lines of the fight for 467 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 1: hearts and minds, hearts, minds and democracy, which is everything 468 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 1: of where we are. Thank you so much, thank you, 469 00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 1: thank you for talking to you. I mean I could 470 00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,000 Speaker 1: talk to you for like literally, I need you to 471 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 1: talk me through life. We'll do a series, but thank you. 472 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:16,320 Speaker 1: That is it for me today, dear friends, on woke 473 00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: a app as always power to the people and to 474 00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:23,480 Speaker 1: all the people. Power, get woke and stay woke as fuck.