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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Landon and Birmingham. Landon says,

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Speaker 1: I've been dating a woman for five months. She never

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Speaker 1: told me that she's homeless and staying with a friend.

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Speaker 1: The friend says that this girl is dating me because

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Speaker 1: I have a house. How do I tell if she

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Speaker 1: really likes me or if she's just really needs a house?

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Speaker 1: She needs house?

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Speaker 2: Well, just speaking as a homeless person who needed a

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Speaker 2: house former homes. Yeah, dated several people who had apartments.

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Speaker 2: As a matter of fact, anybody I talked who had

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Speaker 2: an apartment, very experienced at time, was in love with

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Speaker 2: each one of them too, fell in love deeply, madly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh, oh my god, you have a key, Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: a wonderful thing. Oh you know, bro, of course that's

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Speaker 2: going to have something to do with it. But why

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Speaker 2: don't you just take your time, let us stay over

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Speaker 2: there at her friend's house, you know, and just work

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Speaker 2: through some time and get to know the persons could

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Speaker 2: have just fell on some hard times and you know,

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Speaker 2: need to, you know, some uplift. Just make sure that

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Speaker 2: when you ride in on this white horse that you're

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Speaker 2: on right.

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Speaker 4: Now and to rescue the damsel in distress.

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Speaker 2: That the damsel in distress really wants you.

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Speaker 4: Now, she does want some help. That's a need.

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Speaker 2: I mean, come on, man, when you out and you

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Speaker 2: see some help coming, it could be a people look

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Speaker 2: at that as a blessing from God.

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Speaker 4: So just got to get to know her better. But

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Speaker 4: leave over that. Don't move in right away. Don't do that.

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Speaker 4: Don't don't do that.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, celo, what are some of

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Speaker 1: the signs that she's just in it for his house?

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Speaker 2: Well, when she come over, she keeps touching stuff. You

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Speaker 2: see that lot of she rubbing her hands on it. Judge,

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Speaker 2: tell me who this dies?

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Speaker 4: You know where you get this from?

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Speaker 3: You?

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Speaker 4: Comfort like this?

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Speaker 2: You know here you know, spranging on the bed with

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Speaker 2: her hands for she sitting on it. You know, stuff

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Speaker 2: like that, you know, checking thefrigerator to see if the

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Speaker 2: do't make noise when it open, and stuff like that,

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Speaker 2: you know, counting the steps.

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Speaker 4: And all this here tall and stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: Watch out for that landing, all right, Moving on to Angie, are.

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Speaker 4: Some nice windows.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: You gotta watch stuff like that when you get the

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Speaker 2: curtains from whom you're doing all that, ye throw rugs

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Speaker 2: if she's impressed by a lot of little simple stuff,

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Speaker 2: Like anybody never came over your house and said as

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Speaker 2: trays you know who art of it?

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Speaker 4: You know? All right?

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Speaker 1: Just wanted to know those signs are when.

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Speaker 4: All your chairs go back like this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Angie in Hyttesville, Angie writes, I have

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Speaker 1: a twenty five minute commute to work and my tire

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Speaker 1: was flat. Yesterday. My neighbor was headed out and offered

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Speaker 1: me a ride. His wife called me midday telling me

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Speaker 1: that I should have asked her first. Her husband offered

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Speaker 1: So is that on him or on me?

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Speaker 2: Well, it's on them, because see they don't have a

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Speaker 2: real understanding. The wife is dumping it on you, but

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Speaker 2: she really need to be a He gonna go out

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Speaker 2: there and take this next old neighbor to work. He

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Speaker 2: should have walked back in that house and when they's sweetie,

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Speaker 2: I went outside. Her neighbor flat, I'm gonna ask her

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Speaker 2: does she need ride to work? Is that cool with you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? That's what I like that.

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Speaker 3: Every man knows what will be a problem for his lady.

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Speaker 3: Every man knows helping another lady.

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Speaker 2: Gon be a dad number one across the street at

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Speaker 2: the grocery store. Chick, you know all this here bag

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Speaker 2: grow grocery fall out on hand. Why you breaking all

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Speaker 2: this up when you when when you the bag boy

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Speaker 2: down in the grocery stuff.

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Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, so the wife should have taken this

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Speaker 1: up with her husband. You're saying, absolutely all right. Moving

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Speaker 1: on to Carrie and Tulsa, Carrie writes, my husband and

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Speaker 1: I used to do the switch.

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Speaker 4: Let's just say what I'm thinking.

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Speaker 2: What the lady should say is to the lady, look,

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Speaker 2: I apologize.

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Speaker 4: I didn't. I didn't think anything of it. I thought

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Speaker 4: he had cleared it with you. Yeah, and then you

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Speaker 4: out of it. But it definitely won't happen again.

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Speaker 1: Shareda What Sharita though, because.

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Speaker 4: Name in then a.

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Speaker 1: You know if your name ends an A.

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Speaker 4: Yes, carlove, yes, carl yeah, yeah, yeah, what I said

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Speaker 4: surely different, that's right.

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Speaker 1: She act like I ate sometimes, don't put that on me, Carrie, Carrie,

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Speaker 1: and like that.

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Speaker 3: I don't mean it like that you want to do

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Speaker 3: over No, no, that long, go ahead. I didn't mean

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Speaker 3: it like great radio. She acts like I okay.

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Speaker 1: The one I know what you meant, though, Carrie, Carrie,

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Speaker 1: and tells. He says, my husband and I used to

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Speaker 1: do the switcheroo with a white couple. The guy is

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Speaker 1: turning sixty soon and wants to celebrate with a swingers party.

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Speaker 1: My husband is all for it, but I'm not that

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Speaker 1: girl anymore. Do I owe it to my husband to

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Speaker 1: attend the party or not.

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Speaker 4: Get on in?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 4: Let me tell you something. If you go in there,

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Speaker 4: it ain't gonna be the same.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 4: Now, oh wait, how does she say.

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Speaker 1: The were he's turning sixty soon.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody in that swing gonna look different now, everybody

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Speaker 2: in that swinging and look like they done swung.

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Speaker 4: Just know that.

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Speaker 2: All this what you did at thirty, it looked different

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Speaker 2: at sixty.

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Speaker 4: I'm just telling you.

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Speaker 2: And he thinks he want to go in there, but

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Speaker 2: he don't know though, or you're gonna get in there

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Speaker 2: and be surprised.

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Speaker 1: So does she owe it to her husband to go

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Speaker 1: or should she? No?

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Speaker 4: Just let me ask y'all something. Have y'all seen the

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Speaker 4: people y'all went to school with reunions and stuff?

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Speaker 1: Reunions? Yeah, on the Facebook, as we say, yes, ain't

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Speaker 1: you the one always going?

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Speaker 3: I was at a reunion and swore I was talking,

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Speaker 3: talking to the teacher.

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Speaker 4: We come out and eighty five together.

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Speaker 1: That's thought, what man thos gonna be a little different

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Speaker 1: At sixty.

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Speaker 2: I talked to a dude for seven minutes, no idea

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Speaker 2: who this man was, Rogerick.

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Speaker 4: I'm so glad you remembered me, I said, Broderick from

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Speaker 4: high school.

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Speaker 1: Thank you feel