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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 2: Ivy is on the phone today for to Catch a

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Speaker 2: Cheater and she's been dating her boyfriend Travis for two

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Speaker 2: years now, but she thinks something might be going on,

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Speaker 2: so and see if we can help her out. Ivy,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry to hear that, but what's going on? Why

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Speaker 2: do you think Travis is cheating?

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Speaker 3: Thank you? Yeah, So I've just been like, so, I

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Speaker 3: live with Travis and we didn't share everything, but we

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Speaker 3: do share some like bills and things. And one of

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Speaker 3: the things that he gave me was the pin for

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Speaker 3: his credit card account for emergencies and that kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: So I ordered some stuff to the house and it

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Speaker 3: hadn't turn up yet, so he was like, you know,

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Speaker 3: check my account to see if it's been charged. And

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Speaker 3: when I did, there were like other charges that I

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Speaker 3: didn't recognize or understand that we're on there.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So he's got like these department stores and like stores

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Speaker 3: that he and I never go to. They were like

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Speaker 3: cash withdrawals and like your cash advances and just all

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Speaker 3: of these different places that we never shot at and

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Speaker 3: I've never seen this stuff. So he's buying all this

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Speaker 3: stuff and it's not in our house. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: Like I just feel like if he was loaning people money,

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Speaker 3: he would say something to me about it, right, Is.

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Speaker 1: That what he said that he was doing?

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Speaker 4: When did you ask him about this?

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Speaker 3: So I haven't asked him about it, right? So I

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Speaker 3: just because part of it is like I was sort

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Speaker 3: he just he gave me that for emergencies, and so

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Speaker 3: I happened to look across it while I was checking

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Speaker 3: the one purchase, and so I didn't want to like

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Speaker 3: bring that off. But I kind of think that it

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Speaker 3: is a cheating thing because he's also got this girl

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Speaker 3: at the office that is bothering me.

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Speaker 1: Oh why is she bothering you?

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Speaker 3: First of all, like any time that I go to

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Speaker 3: him at work or whatever, like she always is looking

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Speaker 3: at him some kind of way, Like she's always like

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Speaker 3: laughing at his jokes. She's always like, you know, just

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Speaker 3: then there was a time that I went to see

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Speaker 3: him at his office and his door was closed, and

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Speaker 3: alone in there. Oh yeah, and she just takes off

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Speaker 3: and she doesn't say a word to me. She just leaves,

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Speaker 3: like she said, excuse me to grow out the door.

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Speaker 3: And that's it.

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Speaker 1: That's shady, Yeah it is.

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Speaker 4: I mean, clearly she's got a thing for your man.

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Speaker 4: But how does he react when she's around closed doors?

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Speaker 4: We don't love that, but how does he act around her?

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Speaker 3: So, like he hasn't said much about it, and I

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Speaker 3: of these things, but like mostly it's the bank account, right,

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Speaker 3: Like I'm worried about saying something. I'm worried that this

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Speaker 3: first time that I have been cheated on, and I'm

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Speaker 3: just worried it's got turned into this whole other thing.

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Speaker 3: Like I was divorced before I met him, and that

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Speaker 1: And does he know that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: He does, Yeah, yeah, And if he knows that, he should,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I just I guess I'm just afraid to

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Speaker 3: like find out exactly what it is. And it's like

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Speaker 3: I was cheated on for years before and it was

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Speaker 3: like I just don't want that to go on and

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Speaker 3: on and on for years again this time around. So

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to like build my case to confront it

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Speaker 3: early as opposed to just mentioned a suspicion. He's like,

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Speaker 3: oh no, no, no, and then I believe him for

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Speaker 4: Do that?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, you already told us what grocery store he's

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Speaker 2: a rewards card member at. So we'll play a song

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Speaker 2: come Back, and then call him and pretend to be

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Speaker 2: from the grocery store and say that he's this month's

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Speaker 2: lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our Florida department,

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Speaker 2: and we'll see if he sends those to you or

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Speaker 2: somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, well play a song

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Speaker 2: come back.

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Speaker 1: You can get your to Catch Acheter next if you're

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Speaker 1: just joining us for today's To Catch Acheeter.

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Speaker 2: Ivy is on the phone and she thinks that her

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Speaker 2: boyfriend Travis of two years might be messing around. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call him and pretend to be from

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Speaker 2: the grocery store that he's a rewards card member at

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Speaker 2: and say that every single month, we choose one lucky

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Speaker 2: rewards member who gets free flowers delivered from our Florida department,

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Speaker 2: and will see he sends those to IVY or to

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Speaker 2: somebody else before we do that, Ivy, why don't you

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Speaker 2: catch us up on your situation?

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Speaker 3: Basically, Travis gave me the pin for his credit card account,

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Speaker 3: and when I went to check a purchase, I saw

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Speaker 3: that he had purchased a whole bunch of things that

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Speaker 3: aren't in our house and that I've never seen in

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Speaker 3: our stores. We never go to and cash advances, and

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Speaker 3: just like a lot of money was coming out of discount.

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Speaker 3: I don't know where it's going or who it's going to.

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Speaker 3: And I'm suspecting this girl that's at his office who

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Speaker 1: What's the girl at his office's name? Patricia? Okay, hell,

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Speaker 1: I hope it's not. Hope it's not. But let's see here.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready?

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Speaker 3: I'm ready?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, this is corrible calling for So I was

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Speaker 2: looking for a rewards card member named Travis.

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Speaker 1: Uh yeah, this Pee, Travis. How you doing.

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Speaker 2: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually calling you with good news. Congratulations, you're this

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Speaker 2: month's big winner. Thank you very much for shopping with us.

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Speaker 2: We're all happy and clap before you overhear, I was

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Speaker 2: informing you that you're this month's big winner of free

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Speaker 2: flowers deliver for a floor department. Every single month we

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Speaker 2: choose one Lucky Rewards Card member and it's you this month.

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Speaker 2: And You've just won thirty six long stem red roses, candy,

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Speaker 2: your chocolates, and a card to be delivered to anybody

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Speaker 2: that you want within the fifty United States of America.

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Speaker 2: It's a three hundred and sixteen dollars value. Congratulations.

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Speaker 1: Wow, okay, thanks well, thank you for shopping with us.

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Speaker 5: I had no idea this is the thing you guys did.

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Speaker 5: But all right, awesome.

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Speaker 2: So, first thing, I will need to be the first

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Speaker 2: and last name of the person you'd like to send

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Speaker 2: them to. Yeah, Jenjen, And is there anything you'd like

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Speaker 2: to put on a card to Gen?

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Speaker 3: Sure?

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Speaker 5: Hey, kid, really proud of the how far you've gotten, Keep.

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Speaker 1: It up and the ending on that una? Is it

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Speaker 1: a love regards, love Travis.

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Speaker 2: Sure, And now I'll just let you know that this

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Speaker 2: is not the grocery store. This is actually the Jewbill Show.

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Speaker 2: It's a radio show. My name's Jewbel.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Hi, I'm Nina.

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Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: And this is a segment we do call to Catch

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Speaker 2: a Cheater, where if you think your significant other might

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Speaker 2: be messing around, you see who they send flowers to,

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Speaker 2: and your girlfriend Ivy is actually on the phone.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Hi, Hi, Hi, So.

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Speaker 3: Like, what's up? What's your sister? Can you can you

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Speaker 3: talk to me about that? Like? Why are you buying

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Speaker 3: your sister flowers? Why are you not getting money flowers?

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Speaker 3: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Wait? So Jenna is your sister?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Ivy? Wait a second, what's happening? Why why are

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Speaker 5: you calling a radio station? And what would be wrong

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Speaker 5: with me giving gen flowers?

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Speaker 3: I'm calling them because I look. I look on the

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Speaker 3: bank statement and the charges on your card makes no sense.

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Speaker 3: There's large, large charges on your card and there's something

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Speaker 3: up and you're not telling me. And I need to

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Speaker 3: know what's going on because it makes no sense where

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Speaker 3: you're spending money. It makes no sense how much you're

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Speaker 3: spending money, and something is up and you're not telling me.

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Speaker 3: And this is how I'm finding out.

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Speaker 5: I gave you that card for immersiency purchases IVY like

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Speaker 5: stuff for us and stuff that you might need. Why

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Speaker 5: are you looking through the statements? That's not your business.

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Speaker 3: Okay, You're making yourself look worse.

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Speaker 5: Right now, I'm meeting myself what you called a radio

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Speaker 5: station because you're like a cheating on you. What do

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Speaker 3: Are you giving me evidence to that effect? What are

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Speaker 3: you like? You've not given me any evidence to the opposite?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Okay, she says, where Why aren't you spending so much

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Speaker 3: in like all these places last week the week before?

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Speaker 3: Like what's been going on? Wow?

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Speaker 5: I didn't think I was going to get h interrogated

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Speaker 3: Not that this is public information.

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Speaker 5: But Jen's been having a hard time. She lost her

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Speaker 5: job and she's needed a little help, okay, and I'm

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Speaker 5: a brother and I helped her out. Samantha also needed

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Speaker 3: What am I gonna do?

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Speaker 2: Say?

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Speaker 4: No, Okay, well you probably could have told iv that.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you know her history. So you did the

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Speaker 4: right thing by taking care of your family, no doubt.

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Speaker 4: But your girlfriend, who you love right has a history

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Speaker 5: She also has a history of like looking up a

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Speaker 5: credit card statements.

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Speaker 4: I get that she don't love that, but that's the

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Speaker 4: conversation for another day.

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Speaker 1: Right now.

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Speaker 4: Right now, we're just trying to find out if you're cheating,

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Speaker 4: and it's looking like you're not.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm not cheating. No. I you know, it's really

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Speaker 5: messed up because you know, she didn't even come to me.

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Speaker 5: My mother came to me and was like, you need

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Speaker 5: to help your sister, and she I had to like

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Speaker 5: beg her to take the money because she wouldn't take it.

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Speaker 3: Why the hell are you even helping her though? Like,

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Speaker 3: it doesn't make sense. She can't shut anything. But she

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Speaker 3: never knew anything for you. She has She never talks

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Speaker 3: about you, she never mentioned you, she's never spent time

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Speaker 3: with you. You guys don't hang out. She's done nothing

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Speaker 3: for you. Let's why are you helping her? It makes

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Speaker 5: She's blood, we grew up together, she's my younger sister.

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Speaker 5: We don't hang in the same crowds.

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Speaker 3: But doesn't you know of her.

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Speaker 1: So are you upset that he's helping a sister?

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Speaker 3: I'm upset because he helps people who just take stuff

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Speaker 3: lets people roll over him and use his money instead

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Speaker 3: of getting off their apps and getting a job. And

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Speaker 3: all they do is ask him for handouts, and he's

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Speaker 3: like more than happy to give away his money to

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Speaker 1: And should have.

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Speaker 5: She had two jobs, she got fired from one of them.

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Speaker 5: What am I supposed to do?

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Speaker 4: We are we supposed to just be happy that he's

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Speaker 5: He's trying to manage my money, Like what is this?

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Speaker 3: This is my money? Like I could do the Like

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Speaker 3: I'm still not sold on that. Okay, maybe he's helping

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Speaker 3: a sissor, which he shouldn't found without talking to me

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Speaker 3: about robout A proven that he's lying, which makes no sense.

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Speaker 3: So we've already got that. So what is what else

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Speaker 3: is he lying about? Because I still think that Patricia's

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Speaker 3: in the mix. But what are you coughing about about? Ivy?

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Speaker 3: But is married, has two children and I'm friend with

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Speaker 5: What are you doing?

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Speaker 3: You don't you do not you have a single woman

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Speaker 3: to wreck your home like you can be wrecking her

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Speaker 1: Would Ivy.

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Speaker 2: I've realized you've got some trust issues, but you also

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Speaker 2: if you're gonna be in a relationship, have to be

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Speaker 1: If nothing, like, you need to look at the situation.

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Speaker 2: Is it is it really shady or is it you

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Speaker 2: making up understandable stories about things that could be happening.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's the one that is lying, spending his money

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Speaker 1: I think you guys.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys definitely need to have a much bigger conversation.

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Speaker 2: And Ivy and Travis. Sorry to say this, but Ivy,

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Speaker 2: I honestly straight up feel like you may not ready

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Speaker 1: I know you've been in one for two years.

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Speaker 5: But no, like I didn't know fine print.

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Speaker 3: No, he's the one that's trying to like two things

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Speaker 3: behind my back.

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Speaker 4: I really hope you guys talk before you really decide

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Speaker 4: on what you're gonna do.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, good luck, good luck finding someone who takes all

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Speaker 5: of your ship and they both hung up.

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Speaker 4: So that turned into a lot more than cheating. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: maybe almost worse. Jebill had a really good point though, that.

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Speaker 2: She needs to be able to trust. If she's got

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Speaker 2: trust issues, you gotta work through that first. And also,

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Speaker 2: if you're with someone will trust issues over, communication is key.

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Speaker 2: So if you didn't want that to happen, maybe just

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Speaker 2: share with her the thing about the sister so that

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Speaker 2: she doesn't have to find out about it after the fact,

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Speaker 2: because that's always worse with someone will trust issues.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely. Yeah, either way, well.

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Speaker 2: I hope they figure out something that's better for them,

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Speaker 2: and communication is everything.

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Speaker 3: The Jewel shows to catch at cheater.