Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect
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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am jaseebe Bryant.
Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you
Speaker 1: for being here.
Speaker 2: Yes, once again, Robin has one of the two piece guys.
Speaker 2: She's looking very sporty.
Speaker 1: Are you sporty, spice? I'm ready to get my workout on.
Speaker 3: You are. Have you been working out?
Speaker 1: No, I've been walking.
Speaker 3: Okay, walking is good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I'll actually so the grocery store, the Giant
Speaker 1: is like a mile away walking distance. Yeah, so I'll
Speaker 1: like take a carry little bag with me and I'll
Speaker 1: walk there and I'll go in the grocery store and
Speaker 1: just grab, you know, get my little things that I
Speaker 1: need and then walk home.
Speaker 2: So that's two miles. Yeah, okay, you think you're doing something.
Speaker 2: I mean, I just enjoy walking.
Speaker 1: To the.
Speaker 3: But you know it's hard to carry all the groceries.
Speaker 1: That's the worst, right exactly. I'm so I go in
Speaker 1: there when I'm like, okay, I'm just going to get
Speaker 1: a couple of things. Yes, not good, it's not going
Speaker 1: to be too heavy. And then I'm literally like walking
Speaker 1: home and I'm like, oh, I'm like throwing it all
Speaker 1: over my back like.
Speaker 3: I would be ubering it. I'd be like uber calling one,
Speaker 3: come get me.
Speaker 2: When speaking of when is Corey going to be able
Speaker 2: to get a learner's.
Speaker 1: So, what is it? You have to be fifteen and
Speaker 1: nine months?
Speaker 2: Fifteen and nine or six?
Speaker 1: So his birthday is in March? Okay?
Speaker 3: First of all, does he care? Does he want it?
Speaker 1: Yes? Oh he does? Okay, so he's on top of it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he wants it. Not that he's on top of it,
Speaker 1: but he wants it.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: So his birthday is in March. So if it's fifteen
Speaker 1: and six months, then that would be in September. Yeah,
Speaker 1: towards the end of September. If it's fifteen nine months,
Speaker 1: and that would be December.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: So yeah, so I'm gonna yeah, so we need to
Speaker 1: research that, okay and get into it because yeah, he's
Speaker 1: going to need to drive himself.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and they go him and Carter go the same school.
Speaker 1: No, well, now they're going to separate school.
Speaker 3: That's fine. He can drop his brother off and then
Speaker 3: keep it pushing.
Speaker 1: Well, his school starts earlier than Carter. I mean, Carter
Speaker 1: would have to do like he before care yeah or whatever,
Speaker 1: I want to do that to him. Okay, but yeah,
Speaker 1: so yeah, Corey just especially for that reason, will need
Speaker 1: to be driving because I can't be doing that.
Speaker 2: First, No, no one has time. No one has time
Speaker 2: to be a mother's got time for that. Anyway, moving on,
Speaker 2: do you have your reasonably shady moment?
Speaker 3: I have a reasonably shady moment?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, you go first.
Speaker 2: Okay, So there's this spot and I'm giving them a
Speaker 2: shout out because it's been good. This spot called Carmen's
Speaker 2: Italian Ice and it's in like the Rockville area. It's
Speaker 2: kind of like off the beaten path whatever. Anyway, it's
Speaker 2: very good.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So it's kind of like Arita's, but they have so
Speaker 2: they do the ice Icy's or whatever, and then you
Speaker 2: can get the custard and they have different flavor of custard.
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, don't know.
Speaker 2: Why they continue to run out of marshmallow custard, which
Speaker 2: is their best, but whatever, that's not even my shady moment.
Speaker 2: So Angel in particular loves this place. She wants to
Speaker 2: call all the time, so we go all the time.
Speaker 2: So they let you taste obviously the flavors, because they
Speaker 2: could be like, I don't know twenty icy Flavorso oh,
Speaker 2: this place is hardcore nice and you can get smoothies,
Speaker 2: you can get just regular ice cream with your toppings.
Speaker 2: You get all kinds of things. Okay.
Speaker 3: So they had.
Speaker 2: Vanilla custard and they had root beer icy. So I
Speaker 2: was like, this is going to be like a root
Speaker 2: beer float.
Speaker 3: I was so bomped. I was like, yes, I found
Speaker 3: my flavors. I was like, can I taste the root beer?
Speaker 3: It was like, yes, they let me taste it. I
Speaker 3: was like, this is so good. Okay. So I made my.
Speaker 2: Order okay, And for whatever reason, when I got the
Speaker 2: root beer icy in the cup, it wasn't as strong
Speaker 2: and potent, like it was more icy than root beer.
Speaker 2: I think it was because in a little spoon it
Speaker 2: tastes one way, but in the cup it just didn't.
Speaker 2: It wasn't it wasn't hitting, it was not hitting. And
Speaker 2: I was mad at them because I was like, they
Speaker 2: catfished me.
Speaker 3: This is a catfish moment. Carmens, Carmens catfish me. Stop
Speaker 3: catfishing people. So I went but I did go back
Speaker 3: and I said to them, so do you squirt all
Speaker 3: the squirrel because I'm thinking it's like a syrup like
Speaker 3: that they put in ice. I'm like, you know, do
Speaker 3: you have to like re up the syrup situation on
Speaker 3: the different flavors?
Speaker 2: And they're like, I don't know. Sometimes I think it
Speaker 2: was like a fifteen year old that was so they
Speaker 2: didn't know. So anyway, I got.
Speaker 3: It the second time, okay, and it was better.
Speaker 1: Wasn't all the way there yet, but it was better. Okay,
Speaker 1: So they were able to put more flavor in it.
Speaker 3: I guess.
Speaker 2: Okay, I guess, but like Karme's, I meany for you
Speaker 2: to be consistent. Yes, it may and it might just
Speaker 2: be rut beer because like they're they're cotton candy, because
Speaker 2: I get that. Sometimes they're peanut colada, all those flavors,
Speaker 2: they are on point.
Speaker 3: Okay, But I was so pumped from my root beer float.
Speaker 1: That sounds like Carter would like that.
Speaker 3: Oh he would love it.
Speaker 1: I don't like root beer, but Carter would really enjoy that.
Speaker 1: He was good to know.
Speaker 3: Yes, So do you consider their ices and custard better
Speaker 3: than Rita's.
Speaker 2: Yes, Rita's is Rita's, Okay, do you know that there's
Speaker 2: several Rita's in Baltimore that were a drug front.
Speaker 3: And that's not because I'm making that up. That's because
Speaker 3: I was in the paper in the news.
Speaker 2: Really, yes, oh really no, yeah, the one that I
Speaker 2: used to go to all the time. Yeah, Baltimore, Yeah,
Speaker 2: that was drug front central.
Speaker 1: Really.
Speaker 3: Yes, Okay, I mean I unders man Robin's like, yeah,
Speaker 3: I got my weed there, I got my gummies.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: They just use it to clean the money, clean the money, yes,
Speaker 2: for money laundry.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well this Carmen's.
Speaker 2: I very very much that, and they like come up
Speaker 2: with all kinds of different flavor concoctions that I really like.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm yeah, okay, I'll have to try it there.
Speaker 3: Definitely check it out.
Speaker 1: That's actually making me hungry or like craving some Rita's.
Speaker 1: And there's actually a Rita's not too far from the house.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'll walk there.
Speaker 3: Yes, Robinson, I'm gonna get my steps. Do you count
Speaker 3: your steps? No? I don't have an Apple Watch. I
Speaker 3: think Apple watches are stupid.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so I've asked everyone that I know that
Speaker 1: has an Apple Watch. I'm like, okay, what do you use
Speaker 1: it for? And they're all like, oh, to count my
Speaker 1: steps and to close my rings. And I'm like, but
Speaker 1: if you have your phone on you, it counts it
Speaker 1: counts your steps too, Yes it does. And I have
Speaker 1: my phone, Like, I have an armstrap that I put
Speaker 1: my phone in, so my phone is with me when
Speaker 1: I walk.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, I don't need an Apple app watches.
Speaker 1: Well, the only thing is like, so one one walks
Speaker 1: with me sometimes and so he doesn't bring his phone,
Speaker 1: but you know, and he uses it of course, counting
Speaker 1: steps and all that stuff. But he also can, like
Speaker 1: you know, see his text messages or answer a phone
Speaker 1: call and stuff like that. And so it's like, okay,
Speaker 1: if you don't want the big phone with you, then
Speaker 1: to see where it comes in.
Speaker 2: But I don't have a big phone. I have a
Speaker 2: small one. And you all know why because I will
Speaker 2: not have carpal tunnel.
Speaker 3: Okay, Oh do you have you will have?
Speaker 1: Oh but I won't. Oh yeah, Okay. Do you have
Speaker 1: a reason to be shady? Oh yes, yes, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Like it's not really shady, it's just Robin being Robin.
Speaker 1: So I went out to lunch recently with some girlfriends.
Speaker 1: It was like early dinner and I had on these
Speaker 1: like really cute platform heel, like you know, yay high
Speaker 1: six cel high six inches high platform And I parked
Speaker 1: my car and I'm walking down the sidewalk, yes, and
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, my foot is a little unstable,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, whoo, who.
Speaker 3: Did you face plants? Or did you fall on your
Speaker 3: BOUTI I fell?
Speaker 1: Which way did I fall? I fell down towards my left.
Speaker 1: It was more like on my hip. Okay, so it's
Speaker 1: kind of weird. So like I had literally I had
Speaker 1: like my my palm was.
Speaker 3: All are you by yourself or you with their girlfriends?
Speaker 1: I was by myself.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's embarrassing.
Speaker 1: It was so embarrassing. But like, honestly, I feel like
Speaker 1: nobody saw me.
Speaker 3: Everyone saw you. We could do nothing. Everyone saw you.
Speaker 3: I feel like nobody saw me. My hand was all
Speaker 3: scraped up.
Speaker 1: And then it was so crazy because I fall like
Speaker 1: on my like towards the left, so like my left
Speaker 1: hand braced itself on the ground and then I like
Speaker 1: fell to the ground. But for whatever reason, my right
Speaker 1: arm and right shoulder was like pain and pain for
Speaker 1: like days. It was just it was weird.
Speaker 2: Did they have to is that the side that braced you?
Speaker 2: Like did that have to like overcome and say?
Speaker 1: I don't know, but it was just so funny. When
Speaker 1: I was about to go down, it literally was like
Speaker 1: in slow motion. I was like, I was.
Speaker 3: Like whoa and then you did you have to pick
Speaker 3: yourself up? Did anybody help you?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: I literally I really think I was like by myself.
Speaker 1: But I looked at like you know, it's like cars
Speaker 1: like passing down and I'm like I was just laughing
Speaker 1: to myself. So but I was like shook up. Like
Speaker 1: so when I like walked into the restaurant, I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I just busted my ASTs and I was just like
Speaker 1: I was like out, Like that shit took me out?
Speaker 3: Did it? Yes?
Speaker 1: It was I can imagine, you know. I was just
Speaker 1: like my I was just all off. So now I'm like,
Speaker 1: what do I do about these shoes because they're really cute?
Speaker 2: Okay, So Robin, those are the shoes that you wear
Speaker 2: when when you're not going anywhere, like meaning like.
Speaker 3: You're just going to like say you saw them. I
Speaker 3: wore them the last night.
Speaker 1: The last they're gold.
Speaker 2: Right, Yes, they're super cute. So like let's say we're
Speaker 2: doing the Sherry Shepherd show. Right, then you wear them
Speaker 2: for that because you're sitting there, but my.
Speaker 1: Ass ship the Sherry Shepherd. So you had to walk
Speaker 1: from the back.
Speaker 3: That's true to Cane.
Speaker 1: If I fell, Oh.
Speaker 3: Has anybody ever done that? I don't know that.
Speaker 2: That's embarrassing. Okay, so Date Night with Wine, Yeah, because
Speaker 2: it would catch you your fa his ass was.
Speaker 3: Dying, laughing, dying, dying, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's more right. It's like you have to
Speaker 1: literally valet because I ended up there was no where
Speaker 1: we went. We were in I don't know, like Northeast DC,
Speaker 1: a part of DC, there was no valet. So I
Speaker 1: literally had to like park down the street. And I
Speaker 1: didn't know that I was going to have to do
Speaker 1: this until I had to do it. So yeah, So
Speaker 1: it has to be a situation where you valet and
Speaker 1: you walk right in and you're boom and boom, you're done.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then after dinner you take them off.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but there's yeah, there's no way I'm walking.
Speaker 3: Yeah, more than carry your flats by the way.
Speaker 2: Series the other night had some shoes on that were
Speaker 2: they probably eight inches, like they were platform on top
Speaker 2: of platform.
Speaker 3: On top of the platform.
Speaker 2: Yes, and she was like, So when I saw them,
Speaker 2: I was like, Wow, that's gonna be interesting. I wonder
Speaker 2: how long those last? Yeah, And she's like and then
Speaker 2: she had hurt her toe. So she was like, oh man,
Speaker 2: you know, my toe is sticking out. I can't walk.
Speaker 2: And when we were walking out of that restaurant, she
Speaker 2: literally her toe. Something happened with her toe. It couldn't
Speaker 2: fit into the straps.
Speaker 3: Craziness.
Speaker 2: No, so just to this is just a side note, guys.
Speaker 2: So she took the shoes off. Next thing I know,
Speaker 2: I look down. She has on flats matching her purse.
Speaker 2: Of course Valentino, very cute. But her shoes were just
Speaker 2: like in the car, Mia puts the shoe on.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 2: MIA's foot is a size forty five hundred, right, Okay,
Speaker 2: Mia wears the biggest.
Speaker 3: Mia literally is a size twelve.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: So and Teresa's probably a size nine. Right. She is
Speaker 3: proud of her big feet, Yes, she very much is.
Speaker 3: She said.
Speaker 2: She said that Anti complimented her feet. Oh, I was like,
Speaker 2: I missed that.
Speaker 3: Where was the women's she said, at the reunion And
Speaker 3: he told me I have nice feet, I said me,
Speaker 3: I was there the entire time.
Speaker 2: He never said that. He never said that, But anyway,
Speaker 2: moving on.
Speaker 3: That's right.
Speaker 2: So I have a couple things to read. So Hi,
Speaker 2: Giselle and Robin. This is from Heather. I'm a huge
Speaker 2: fan and love to listen to your podcast on my
Speaker 2: way to work. It's the perfect way to start a Monday.
Speaker 2: I wanted to respond about today's conversation about falling in
Speaker 2: love through the eyes. Oh don't remember when we had
Speaker 2: this conversation, but okay, she said, My answer is yes.
Speaker 3: True story.
Speaker 2: One night watching Bravo, a promo for rhl P came on.
Speaker 2: It was a scene with Giselle and I was like, wow,
Speaker 2: those eyes. I have to check out the show, and
Speaker 2: she said she's been a fan ever since. Oh yes, okay,
Speaker 2: I need to ask for more money. Yes, I'm hypnotizing
Speaker 2: people with.
Speaker 3: My eyes and you're making them turn to Yes, she.
Speaker 2: Said, I hope I had the opportunity to see you
Speaker 2: at a lot I show love my Green Eyed Bandits
Speaker 2: Heather Sea.
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank your Heather.
Speaker 3: Yes, I mean, did you know I was hypnotizing people
Speaker 3: with my eyes?
Speaker 1: No? I didn't know that.
Speaker 3: How much more should you think I should ask? Since
Speaker 3: since this is confirmed, I should bring this to my
Speaker 3: negotiating Yes, when I negotiate for some more money.
Speaker 1: Yes, I should bring this. People are saying, oh my gosh, yes,
Speaker 1: look at her eyes right, let me watch.
Speaker 3: I might not have a talent, but my eyes hypnotized.
Speaker 1: People, that's a talent.
Speaker 3: Talent. That is a gift, that's a gift from God.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, okay, Well I'm here to tell you that
Speaker 2: I'm going to use this and when I negotiate for
Speaker 2: more money.
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, So I do want to I know that
Speaker 3: you hope that I do. Okay, So I want to
Speaker 3: read about because you know we have Muhammed our friend.
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, So for those of you all who are
Speaker 2: friends of this podcast, y'all know that there's a guy
Speaker 2: named Mohammad lives in Toronto and he's he comes to her.
Speaker 3: He's been to one or two of our live shows.
Speaker 1: He came to the one in New York and then
Speaker 1: he was at Brow.
Speaker 2: He was Kan Yes at Bravo Khan. He loves us.
Speaker 2: He's very shady. He's shady in a good way, shady
Speaker 2: in support of justse Ellen Robin.
Speaker 1: Yes love Mohammad.
Speaker 2: Yes, and he in front of my children. He told
Speaker 2: me in front of Jason that I need to see
Speaker 2: Jason with his shirt off in front of me. He
Speaker 2: said that in front of my children. That was embarrassing Mohammed. Anyway,
Speaker 2: moving on, he says, Hi, Jizellen Robin, it's your favorite
Speaker 2: shady person from Toronto, Mohammad, and I need y'all's advice.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: My best friend is getting married in the Dominican Republic
Speaker 2: this year and I really want to go, but financially
Speaker 2: it would be a burden. In June of this year,
Speaker 2: I officially moved out on my own and I have
Speaker 2: my own place, space and independence.
Speaker 3: But it's been tough financially.
Speaker 1: Congrats Mohammad, congrats a big move.
Speaker 3: Yep.
Speaker 2: Earlier this year, I found out that I I wouldn't
Speaker 2: be a part of my best friend's bridal party, but
Speaker 2: she promised me that I would attend the bachelor at party,
Speaker 2: which I found out I wasn't invited to on Instagram.
Speaker 3: Now that's hurtful, that's painful, that's sadie.
Speaker 2: I'm torn because I really want to go out of
Speaker 2: loyalty and respect of our sixteen year friendship. Plus I
Speaker 2: know that if I don't go, I'll regret it. However,
Speaker 2: on the flip side, my other friend groups have said
Speaker 2: if I do go, I'll regret it as they don't
Speaker 2: think I'll have a good time and I'll feel left
Speaker 2: out and insecure. The final payment is due August twenty
Speaker 2: third and his birthday is August twenty second.
Speaker 3: M He had to put that in there, right, Okay, I.
Speaker 2: Don't know for go. I don't think twenty seconds, I
Speaker 2: was not an guess. I don't know what to do now.
Speaker 2: I'm reaching out to two people who always have given
Speaker 2: good advice, and I give it to him straight, he said.
Speaker 2: My best friend still tell me at parties. Giselle said
Speaker 2: turn it down eight notch.
Speaker 1: Did I say that to him?
Speaker 3: I'm sure, I'm sure I did. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I love you all.
Speaker 2: Muhammad from Toronto. Okay, so this is actually like a situation. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's a tough one. The part about the bachelorette party.
Speaker 3: Yes, and he found out he was not invited on Instagram.
Speaker 1: Finding out that you weren't invited on Instagram, Yes, that's shady.
Speaker 1: That would definitely that it's red flag. Red flag put
Speaker 1: a sour taste in my mouth.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldn't be doing anything with her, right.
Speaker 1: And then so if your friends that know you are
Speaker 1: saying you're going to feel left out, you're gonna feel insecure.
Speaker 1: You know, they're basing it off of something that they know. Yes, right,
Speaker 1: ooh money is I say?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: I said, I say if if I'm not he wasn't
Speaker 2: invited to the bridal shower, but he was gonna be
Speaker 2: invited to the bachelorette party, which he wasn't invited to.
Speaker 3: He found out off on Instagram. You're not invited to
Speaker 3: either one, So why are you going to the wedding? Right?
Speaker 2: If I'm not invited to the bridal part bridle shower,
Speaker 2: this is we've been friends for sixteen years, you'll invite
Speaker 2: me to the bridal party.
Speaker 1: Bridal shower. I understand because she's a female. And maybe
Speaker 1: it's just like you know whatever, her sisters and herky,
Speaker 1: her mom and stuff like that, like the bridal shower.
Speaker 1: I think usually I don't know, but it depends. I mean,
Speaker 1: if if this is like your your close guy friend,
Speaker 1: then maybe I don't know.
Speaker 3: So that so the dynamic if I got Mary call
Speaker 3: is invited to my bridle shower?
Speaker 1: Is he Yes, okay, yeah, okay, all right, fine, all right,
Speaker 1: I take that back.
Speaker 2: Okay, but but the bachelor party is definitely a party,
Speaker 2: right right, so so definitely he should be invited to that.
Speaker 2: And if he wasn't, this ain't your friend, Muhammed.
Speaker 1: Right, well, I definitely say you invite. I would say
Speaker 1: not like the people at the bridle shower can be
Speaker 1: different from the people at the bachelorette party. Yes, right, correct, Oh,
Speaker 1: because a lot of times Rodershower is like your old
Speaker 1: aunts and stuff like that, you know what I'm saying
Speaker 1: to your grandma, Like, but they're not going to be
Speaker 1: at the bachelorette party. So the bacheltte party, yeah, you
Speaker 1: should be able to have a room for more friends.
Speaker 2: Yes, and Mohammed, they're not your friends. Robin's being really nice.
Speaker 1: No, I'm trying to work because the problem is going
Speaker 1: to come is if we tell him not to go,
Speaker 1: don't go, Mama. If he doesn't go, he is going
Speaker 1: to have fomo. He is going, She's gonna have fomo.
Speaker 1: I think he will listen because okay, okay, so his
Speaker 1: reasons for not going are money, Yeah, and he wasn't invited.
Speaker 3: Maybe, well, he was invited to the wedding. He's light
Speaker 3: to the wedding, but he wasn't invited to the other things, right.
Speaker 1: So he's questioning should he go to the wedding?
Speaker 3: Right, they have been friends for sixteen years. If I'm
Speaker 3: not invited to all these other things, don't invite me
Speaker 3: to the wedding.
Speaker 1: But a lot of people aren't invited to all the
Speaker 1: all those other things.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but they are not as close as what he's
Speaker 2: saying to this girl. So Mohammed, I say, don't go.
Speaker 2: Robin says go. I just I just say it's hard.
Speaker 3: If you're gonna have okay, this is good.
Speaker 2: If you're gonna have fhoe mo, Mohammed, go right, But
Speaker 2: if you don't give two shits, save your money, yes,
Speaker 2: and do not go, right, Yeah, do not go.
Speaker 1: And also I think you have to question do you
Speaker 1: want to continue the friendship? Right?
Speaker 2: If you don't want to continue the friendship, then definitely
Speaker 2: don't go. But if you want to do what Giselle
Speaker 2: would do, she would not be going.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think you know what. Honestly, I think, knowing
Speaker 1: Mohammad's personality, I think he'll be in his feelings about
Speaker 1: not being invited to the other parties. And so when
Speaker 1: he gets to the wedding, then yes, he will be
Speaker 1: feeling probably a little more insecure. He'll probably overanalyze everything,
Speaker 1: probably be feeling maybe a little needy, wanting a little
Speaker 1: more attention, you know, or if he doesn't get it,
Speaker 1: like questioning it, so maybe better just not to go.
Speaker 3: Yeah, don't put yourself in and just put it on
Speaker 3: the money. No, no, no, no, blame it on the money.
Speaker 1: Yeaheah, blame it on the money. If you tell you're
Speaker 1: not tell your friend you're not going it is, just
Speaker 1: tell her it's up your financial decision.
Speaker 2: And this he had to make another deposit, so I've
Speaker 2: assume he already made first deposit. Don't make the second
Speaker 2: deposit and ask for the first deposit back.
Speaker 1: All right, yeah, definitely get your money back.
Speaker 2: Get your money back. Yes, so boom, we figured that
Speaker 2: out for Muhammed. Okay, yes, but dang, what this is
Speaker 2: is No.
Speaker 3: It's August twenty second. Okay, all right, I'm like this
Speaker 3: episode my air.
Speaker 2: I don't know after we hope, we hope we get
Speaker 2: in there before this airs. Okay, all right, this this
Speaker 2: is Rachel says she has one question. Can you explain
Speaker 2: what it means when you speak this.
Speaker 3: Is this is a good question for you.
Speaker 2: Okay, can you explain what it means when you speak
Speaker 2: about gossip being in the blogs?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm from I'm from Dundee, Scotland, Scotland. I should
Speaker 2: I should start this whole thing over again. I just
Speaker 2: have one question question. Can you explain what it means
Speaker 2: when you speak about gossip being in the blogs? Okay?
Speaker 3: The blogs?
Speaker 2: I'm from Dundee's, Scotland, and I've never heard anyone use
Speaker 2: that phrase over here. When I think of a blog,
Speaker 2: I am thrown back to two thousand and two, before
Speaker 2: social media was a thing. Does it just mean the
Speaker 2: info has been read in an online article of a
Speaker 2: news website, or someone really out there typing shade under
Speaker 2: fake user names or dodgy this is from Scotland, dodgy websites? Okay,
Speaker 2: If it is the latter, where can I read it?
Speaker 3: Anyway?
Speaker 2: I just wanted to say I've watched seven different franchises
Speaker 2: of Real Housewives, and Potomac is definitely the best. Woo
Speaker 2: Before Potomac, I never particularly liked any of the housewives.
Speaker 3: Okay, Kyle Richard's and nine Leak's she liked them.
Speaker 2: Okay, I only I usually only watch for the shady moments,
Speaker 2: but you two are the only ones who come across
Speaker 2: as real and sound.
Speaker 3: Girls.
Speaker 2: Keep being yourselves all the best, Rachel, So thank you, Rachel.
Speaker 1: Yes, So, I feel like the term blog is loosely
Speaker 1: used to refer to like platforms that maybe have an
Speaker 1: Instagram page where they report about gossip mainly, and I
Speaker 1: think a lot of times they do link back to
Speaker 1: a blog site, but most of their traffic is on Instagram, So.
Speaker 2: A blog site would be what So give me an example.
Speaker 2: Is a blog site like Queens of Bravo. So Queens
Speaker 2: of Bravo. See that's hard. So Queens of Bravo is
Speaker 2: really only an Instagram page. They don't actually have a
Speaker 2: blog site.
Speaker 3: But if I was referring to the blogs I put
Speaker 3: them under that, you would.
Speaker 1: Put them under there, right, That's what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: feel like it's a loose term that we use to
Speaker 1: refer to just Instagram pages that.
Speaker 3: Report Okay, okay, Jazz and Brand, that is a blog.
Speaker 3: That's a blog.
Speaker 2: Yes, jazzon Brand hasn't has a website, right, they have
Speaker 2: an Instagram they have a Twitter and they report on
Speaker 2: the latest and the greatest.
Speaker 1: Right so on Jazzmine brand. They more so so like
Speaker 1: Queens of Bravo is more like just opinion we like
Speaker 1: by the way, yes we love Queens of Bravo.
Speaker 3: What's up? You know?
Speaker 1: They do like more memes, more opinion type stuff related
Speaker 1: to Bravo stuff, which if you're not following them, go
Speaker 1: follow them because they're like their sense of humor is great,
Speaker 1: their perspective is great. Of course they love me, so
Speaker 1: I can say, yes, you know, I love them back.
Speaker 3: Okay, there we go.
Speaker 1: So anyway back to an actual blog though, So an
Speaker 1: actual blog actually more so started out with just the
Speaker 1: website where they reported gossip news, and then as you know,
Speaker 1: social media and stuff evolved, then they became more heavily
Speaker 1: reliant on their Instagram page and stuff like that. But
Speaker 1: they still will they'll tell you like the beginnings of
Speaker 1: an article and then they'll say click the link in
Speaker 1: bio to read the rest. So they still are trying
Speaker 1: to direct people back to their website to read the
Speaker 1: full story. So what is page six That is more
Speaker 1: of a that's a news that's a newspaper outlet okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah. And would you say, would you consider TMZ a blog?
Speaker 1: I wouldn't consider them a blog.
Speaker 3: Well, actually they'd be like the blog of blogs.
Speaker 1: Well, I would say they are an entertainment media website.
Speaker 1: So really honestly a blog. I think any of these
Speaker 1: you could say, any of these gossipye pages would be
Speaker 1: considered an entertainment media website.
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, I just.
Speaker 1: Wouldn't consider the larger ones. Say, you know, like you said,
Speaker 1: a TMZ or I don't know, entertainment or whatever, a blog.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think shaver is a blog.
Speaker 3: Would they be considered blog? I don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So that it's like I can't really define it exactly,
Speaker 1: but it is a loose term when we refer to
Speaker 1: any type of platform reports gossip.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, if you're reporting what's happening in people's lives,
Speaker 2: that's you're going to be considered a.
Speaker 1: Blog, right, yes, right, even if you're TMC or if
Speaker 1: you're just some little sight that has two readers.
Speaker 2: Yes, and sometimes the blogs get it right, yeah, Sometimes
Speaker 2: they're nice.
Speaker 3: Yeah sometimes yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes there are some my south, right, there's something
Speaker 1: that that make an effort to have a balanced.
Speaker 3: Yes situation, Yes, yeah.
Speaker 1: Balance.
Speaker 2: Okay, this is really short. I know I said I
Speaker 2: would let you go, but I'm not. Okay, so, oh
Speaker 2: you took my power.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: First of all, this is from oh I'm sorry. This
Speaker 3: is from shout out to Derek. Derek. Oh, hi Derek,
Speaker 3: I didn't even read that part. Hi Derek.
Speaker 2: How you doing. We haven't seen you in a while.
Speaker 2: I'm sure you're like in the south of France or
Speaker 2: you know, you know, him and his wife travel all
Speaker 2: over the place. Yes, so enjoy your travels and his wife.
Speaker 3: Yes. Okay.
Speaker 2: So on my g timeline, I saw a situation where
Speaker 2: husband and wife had a joint account. He found out
Speaker 2: that over the years, she was taking money out of
Speaker 2: the joint and putting it into a hidden account. By
Speaker 2: the time he found out, she had amassed a little
Speaker 2: over twenty two thousand dollars as a just in case
Speaker 2: divorce fund. Put that in quotes. So here's my question.
Speaker 2: Number one, how would you react?
Speaker 3: Number two? Is that considered stealing? Number three? Is it wrong?
Speaker 3: Number four? Is it reasonable? Or is it you Now
Speaker 3: it's definitely shady, Yes, it's not. Actually it's reasonable.
Speaker 1: Okay, No, if he does if she's doing that, yeah,
Speaker 1: without her husband's knowledge.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's all types of wrong, shady. Is it wrong? Yes?
Speaker 1: Is it really? Yes? I think they should have come
Speaker 1: to an agreement that Okay, we have this money in
Speaker 1: this joint account, and we each take x amount of
Speaker 1: dollars and put it into our own personal saving.
Speaker 2: Okay, but she's what we don't know is is she
Speaker 2: contributing to the joint count, like if her salary and
Speaker 2: if she's working and her salary is going in there too,
Speaker 2: so they joint account, both moneys are going. What's wrong
Speaker 2: with her taking money out and putting it somewhere else?
Speaker 1: It's wrong if she doesn't tell him that is it.
Speaker 1: It's actually reasonable for her to do it. It's it's
Speaker 1: not if she it's reasonable.
Speaker 2: Not to tell him why because it's shady if he cheats,
Speaker 2: And it's reasonable if she needs money to get a divorce.
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I understand the logic behind it. Yes,
Speaker 1: I understand the logic and her thought process and all
Speaker 1: of that. And you know, as my grandmamat say, you know,
Speaker 1: make sure you got your own money, yea, make sure
Speaker 1: you cover all of that type of stuff. But it's
Speaker 1: in the grand scheme of things. She's wrong.
Speaker 2: Okay, do you consider her stealing? That's not stealing because
Speaker 2: you and your husband she have.
Speaker 1: I don't consider that steal.
Speaker 3: You'll steal from your husband.
Speaker 2: No, because y'all should be one or something. Is that
Speaker 2: what the Bible says, y'all want something? Your money is
Speaker 2: my money, yes?
Speaker 3: And my money is my money? Is that what you Yes? Yes,
Speaker 3: my money is my money. Your money is all my money.
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 3: Okay, So it's not stealing.
Speaker 1: It's not stealing, but it's being sneaky and I think,
Speaker 1: I mean, I wonder now, okay, are they heading towards divorce?
Speaker 1: Is that why he's finding this out?
Speaker 3: Like that would really put this is actually, Derek, this
Speaker 3: is not right.
Speaker 2: He's like, this is what I say. It's like asking
Speaker 2: for friends. But really, Derek, I understand you and your wife.
Speaker 2: Your wife got a little secret stass, right.
Speaker 1: But so if there weren't problems in the relationship and
Speaker 1: the husband is just finding out the best, believe there's
Speaker 1: probably problems in the relationship now.
Speaker 3: Not necessarily.
Speaker 2: Just never know it's a rainy day, you're just saving
Speaker 2: for a rainy day. Listen, Okay, this is this is
Speaker 2: where the problem lies.
Speaker 1: I just think she should have disclosed it.
Speaker 3: She should.
Speaker 2: Okay, this is where the problem lies. If he's doing it.
Speaker 2: If he's doing it, it's a problem.
Speaker 1: See.
Speaker 2: If she's doing it, it's not a problem because he
Speaker 2: can not have a back account on the side. No,
Speaker 2: you cannot, sir.
Speaker 1: See, So why is it okay for her to do
Speaker 1: it because without telling him that. I'm just when I
Speaker 1: was married, Yeah, we had a joint account I had,
Speaker 1: and then and then Giselle had her own account. And
Speaker 1: when I remember, he did not have his own account,
Speaker 1: so his if he wanted to buy something, that came
Speaker 1: from the joint account. Okay.
Speaker 2: So whatever I put into my account was my business,
Speaker 2: right the end of the story.
Speaker 1: But you didn't You wouldn't sneak and do it without.
Speaker 3: How do you know, I'll never tell Okay.
Speaker 1: See, I think it's different. Right. It sounds like this
Speaker 1: couple they probably had some sort of setup where it
Speaker 1: was like the joint account was meant for them to,
Speaker 1: you know, pay the bills, pay the bills, I say,
Speaker 1: riy some stuff, right, save money, all of that. So
Speaker 1: if the money that's in the joint account is allotted
Speaker 1: for a purpose, whether it's to save, to pay the
Speaker 1: bills whatever, and you're not telling me that you're using
Speaker 1: it for another for one more purpose, which is to
Speaker 1: fund your own account.
Speaker 3: Yes, and that's a problem.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, yes, Robin, Yes, and leave it to beaver world. Yes,
Speaker 2: we would all be honest with each other. But that's
Speaker 2: just not how life works. Why is a secret because
Speaker 2: you don't want him to know that you're taking some
Speaker 2: money from the joint account and you're putting it in
Speaker 2: because there's a rainy day.
Speaker 1: Right, But I'm saying she should be able to put
Speaker 1: money in her account, and then he should be able
Speaker 1: to take that same amount of money and put in
Speaker 1: in his account. True, he should, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: He should be able to do that. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: So now he wouldn't be my husband.
Speaker 1: If you were to get married today, Yes, would you know?
Speaker 1: Would I want have that same banking setup? I just
Speaker 1: I don't so why and I never so? Well, we
Speaker 1: had a joint joint we have joint account, okay, as
Speaker 1: you should. And he has his accounts Yes, I have
Speaker 1: my account.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, yes, I would have it. Okay.
Speaker 2: So Steve Harvey says, yeah, I saw this recently that
Speaker 2: that's how it should be, like you should have actually
Speaker 2: should have five accounts or something like you should have
Speaker 2: a joint for paying the bills. You should have a
Speaker 2: joint savings, and then you should have your individual accounts.
Speaker 3: That'd before.
Speaker 1: I don't know where it fits for the investment accounts.
Speaker 2: Was yes, okay, so I think that's good. And this
Speaker 2: this is the reason. Let's back up. I remember I
Speaker 2: was dating this guy, okay, his name is Sherman, and
Speaker 2: he said to me that when he was married, anytime
Speaker 2: his wife bought him something, it was really like he
Speaker 2: butt it for myself, right, because it was out of
Speaker 2: the joint account, right, So for those purposes like and
Speaker 2: I think I did buy jamal things from my count right,
Speaker 2: so that if it was his birthday or whatever, he
Speaker 2: wouldn't necessarily be buying.
Speaker 3: Himself access to transac. He can't see like how much
Speaker 3: I paid for it. Yeah, not that he was.
Speaker 1: He was not the.
Speaker 3: The account police at all. You are, Robin Dixon is.
Speaker 2: I just want everybody to know Robin knows where everything
Speaker 2: goes and how much is spent on everything. If she
Speaker 2: says she's not, she lying, Okay, Poor Wan Dixon because
Speaker 2: one can't spend no money without Robin being like.
Speaker 3: Excuse me, so you spend what on?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 3: Explain that to me? So and I'm not I'm in
Speaker 3: the police either, like to like.
Speaker 1: Ease up because I'm like, I can't justify what the.
Speaker 3: Things you spend money?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 2: So well okay, yes, So if I were to get
Speaker 2: married tomorrow, yes, we would all have our own accounts
Speaker 2: and houses. You have your house, I have mine. So
Speaker 2: that is how that marriage will work. Oh my god, Okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: we're not. We're not cohabitating.
Speaker 3: Who does that? That's so like two thousand and four
Speaker 3: fantastic idea?
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: I mean listen, if you were not cohabitating, your car
Speaker 2: would be in the garage right right, that's a that's
Speaker 2: very true.
Speaker 3: You would not have to worry about the fan going
Speaker 3: off in the middle of the night.
Speaker 1: Very true.
Speaker 3: You wouldn't have to worry about him just like screaming
Speaker 3: your name. Yes, and then when you want to spend
Speaker 3: time with him, he come over.
Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah, then when he can, might I might
Speaker 1: take you up on that.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying I think it helps everyone. Look, you
Speaker 3: see that little shed right in front of us, yes,
Speaker 3: so that's the wine house.
Speaker 2: That's the heat shed that she shed a heat shed.
Speaker 2: So what's that called the bat the cave room, no,
Speaker 2: man cave, Yeah, that could be the man cave. It
Speaker 2: could be yeah yeah. Would he want to sleep in
Speaker 2: the man cave if.
Speaker 1: It was comfortable?
Speaker 3: Yeah, No.
Speaker 1: He wants to be a fund of.
Speaker 3: Me of course.
Speaker 2: So it's just like, oh, go away anyway, I digress. Okay, So, Derek,
Speaker 2: I hope we answered your question because we killed that
Speaker 2: with like we beat that with a horse.
Speaker 1: Oh no, okay, so let's see David.
Speaker 3: Yeah, hi, Dave.
Speaker 1: Yes, David writes to us. He said, hey, ladies, so
Speaker 1: I never listened to podcasts until I found yours. Yay,
Speaker 1: thank you. I am from the DMV area, and I
Speaker 1: am truly Jazel the little bit shady one, and I
Speaker 1: just need to find my Robin.
Speaker 3: Oh you'll find Robin or not.
Speaker 1: Anyways, last week you discussed the video on TMZ, so
Speaker 1: this is from episodes a few weeks ago. I absolutely
Speaker 1: do not want Jazelle in any drama and was taking
Speaker 1: my non existence and earrings off and putting vaciline on
Speaker 1: my face about to run to the spot to have
Speaker 1: my girl's back, because honestly, until you spoke on it,
Speaker 1: I thought it was just out. No, even with the
Speaker 1: slow down version, it looks like her. So please don't
Speaker 1: think everyone wants her in some mess because we don't.
Speaker 1: But from the video it did resemble her. All of
Speaker 1: our apologies for mistaking her for some ghetto princess. Okay,
Speaker 1: I love you too, keep knowing you your biggest man. David, Hi, David,
Speaker 1: thank you. Okay.
Speaker 3: So, David, get your eyes checked. Number one, number two.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So if people who don't really know we're talking about. So,
Speaker 2: a couple of weeks ago, there was a brawl that
Speaker 2: was shown on TMZ.
Speaker 1: What was it?
Speaker 2: A brawl shot on TMZ that had something to do
Speaker 2: with The Real Housewives Potomac.
Speaker 3: So if you're bored, go look at it. Scroll down
Speaker 3: you'll see it. Okay.
Speaker 2: So in that altercation, there was a woman who had
Speaker 2: a blonde She did have a blond ponytail shown a
Speaker 2: bright color and I normally wear bright colors. She was
Speaker 2: seen just kind of like jumping in and pulling one
Speaker 2: of the girls down to the floor.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: I was like taking aback because the girl looks nothing
Speaker 2: like me, and so now Dave says, he thought it
Speaker 2: was me.
Speaker 1: He thought it was you, and he loves the podcast
Speaker 1: and he loves you, and he is the Giselle and
Speaker 1: he needs to find his robbin and he was ready
Speaker 1: to come fight.
Speaker 3: Yes, help out, putt vasiline on his face. Yes, yeah, no,
Speaker 3: that was not me.
Speaker 1: So very interesting.
Speaker 2: So yes, So maybe I need to not be so
Speaker 2: angry with people's thinking that that was me for some
Speaker 2: not all, Yeah, because I was just like, yeah, of
Speaker 2: course that was Gazelle.
Speaker 3: Of course she was jumping into a fight.
Speaker 1: Right, what day?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 1: Exactly? So for the people who were confused and thought
Speaker 1: that that was Giselle and you were genuinely confused.
Speaker 3: Yes, we apologize. Okay, all right, So moving on.
Speaker 2: This is Susie, and she says, on your last podcast,
Speaker 2: but it wasn't our last podcast.
Speaker 3: It was a while ago.
Speaker 2: You talked about hosting and food. Well, my cousin constantly
Speaker 2: invites us over her house at twelve pm.
Speaker 3: Okay, that is lunch such.
Speaker 2: But only drinks and snacks are providing. Is it shady
Speaker 2: that my cousin never serves lunch at her parties?
Speaker 3: She lives two hours.
Speaker 2: Away, but about an hour for everyone else. We end
Speaker 2: up leaving hungry all the time.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, should we stop attending attend Yeah? Should
Speaker 3: we stop attending her parties? Or just eat before or
Speaker 3: after leaving?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 3: Okay, so it's your cousin. Yes, this was Oh yeah, Susie,
Speaker 3: I said, Susie.
Speaker 1: So this is your cousin. So I feel like, as
Speaker 1: your cousin, you should be able to say to her, yeah, hey,
Speaker 1: I love to be there. What's the food situation?
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm hungry, bitch?
Speaker 1: Or what's the food situation? Should we bring something right?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 1: Maybe your cousin is actually waiting for you. You all
Speaker 1: to offer the chip in and bring something true? Right?
Speaker 1: But yes, twelve o'clock it's lunchtime. You all need to
Speaker 1: be eating something more than just some snacks and drinks.
Speaker 1: It's a part two hours away. It sounds like they're
Speaker 1: like part they're hosting. So that's a party.
Speaker 3: Okay. So yeah, and if it's a part, well, like,
Speaker 3: why isn't there food at the party? It's a lunchtime.
Speaker 3: It's a lunchtime party.
Speaker 1: Right, So if it's starting at two, clearly it's not
Speaker 1: ending until at least three. I don't know I'm starting
Speaker 1: at twelve. I'm sorry, twelve. Yeah, that's what I'm gonna say.
Speaker 1: If it's starting at twelve, it's clearly not ending any
Speaker 1: earlier than three o'clock. No, so you want people to
Speaker 1: get there and be just flat out starving and they
Speaker 1: travel two hours?
Speaker 3: What kind of parties are in the world? Yeah, this
Speaker 3: is terrible.
Speaker 2: Your cousin is the worst, and you should have nipped
Speaker 2: this in the but a long time ago.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think y'all need to just really I think
Speaker 1: since your cousin, you should be able to have a
Speaker 1: conversation and be like, hey, what's the food situation? Should
Speaker 1: we chip in? Maybe you guys since she frequently hosts,
Speaker 1: maybe people take turns.
Speaker 3: Yeah, or get there and just order uber eat. Yeah,
Speaker 3: have that come or you bring you bring what you
Speaker 3: want to eat and bring it up for everybody else.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but this is an easy fix.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but no, that's since since you know the deal
Speaker 1: at this point, Yeah, say something yes or don't go
Speaker 1: right or yeah, or just say something. And if she's like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm just serving grapes.
Speaker 3: And cheese, then be like, no, babe, I'm hungry.
Speaker 1: Then then eat before you go. But if it's a
Speaker 1: two hour drive or whatever.
Speaker 2: Like what.
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 2: Just recently, when I discussed this with one of my friends,
Speaker 2: she called me a piglet because I said that I
Speaker 2: was hungry and she didn't have any food at her event.
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, just a piglet, just out. So I
Speaker 2: won't tell y'all who that was. Let's just yes, yes,
Speaker 2: the way she speaks, and I'm like, yeah, I'm greedy af.
Speaker 1: But she doesn't want anyone to see her eat. That's
Speaker 1: she doesn't because just because you don't eat, because you
Speaker 1: be skinny and spelt and all, that don't mean we
Speaker 1: want to be Listen people that you actually eat, that
Speaker 1: you're a human.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I liked my body, but I guess what I
Speaker 3: feed it. Okay, so listen. I'm forty two and I
Speaker 3: have This is from Tiffany, and I have lived, so
Speaker 3: you are not forty two. This from Tiffany, she said. Listen,
Speaker 3: I'm forty two.
Speaker 2: I have lived fairly independent life as a single mom
Speaker 2: of one. Recently, my truck was repossessed and I called
Speaker 2: three ex lovers slash friends that still hit me up
Speaker 2: and asked for one thousand dollars from each.
Speaker 3: I know that's right, Sis, it was crickets. Oh and
Speaker 3: I then block them.
Speaker 2: Nonetheless, I got my truck back with my money. I
Speaker 2: would have gladly taken the OG's money, especially in hard times.
Speaker 1: This was in response to this is a what is
Speaker 1: the date of this email?
Speaker 3: This is April?
Speaker 1: Okay, okay. This is a response to remember the lady
Speaker 1: that wrote in about the air conditioning or something her
Speaker 1: roof for something? Yes, and the guy sent her money
Speaker 1: and she didn't want to. Yes, that's what she's writing
Speaker 1: a response.
Speaker 3: Okay, right right.
Speaker 1: She said she would have gladly taken that money. Yes,
Speaker 1: because she hit up her three ex lovers.
Speaker 2: Yes, well they were X after they they got for
Speaker 2: the money. They were still lovers, but they became X
Speaker 2: after they it was crickets when she asked them for mine,
Speaker 2: I got all three of us.
Speaker 3: All three. You have one, right I could give you?
Speaker 2: How about they give you half something? Yeah, like give
Speaker 2: you a tent, give you hit you with a hondo hundreds.
Speaker 2: Now this is hilarious.
Speaker 3: But she was proud and she.
Speaker 2: Guys, I'm not saying her last name, but her last
Speaker 2: name is on this. So she is loud and proud
Speaker 2: about her three love us, and who says who even
Speaker 2: writes lovers?
Speaker 3: Lovers? Who writes that word? Right? Isn't that from like
Speaker 3: the forties or the lover my eighties?
Speaker 1: The eighties?
Speaker 3: It's from the eighties, my.
Speaker 1: Love, I'm like lovers because they should be giving you
Speaker 1: more than a thousand dollars.
Speaker 3: Well, they should have been like, I'll cover the whole.
Speaker 2: How about this, lovers, Your truck shul never been repolled. Right,
Speaker 2: they should have stopped it from being repolled.
Speaker 3: Right. Yeah, you should have been like, hey, I'm a
Speaker 3: couple months behind on my carpet.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't refer to them as lovers?
Speaker 3: What are they?
Speaker 1: Curse? Boy?
Speaker 3: Wait a minute, So I'm watching this show. I'm watching
Speaker 3: this show. So I didn't know.
Speaker 2: I didn't know that was like a term that men
Speaker 2: kind of like like to possess, Like guys that just
Speaker 2: don't want like a relationship or whatever, don't like just
Speaker 2: out here doing them.
Speaker 3: They're like, yeah, I'm a boy. Really, Yeah, where do
Speaker 3: you learn that? I was watching something?
Speaker 2: Okay, And that's kind of like he didn't mind that really,
Speaker 2: Yeah he said I'm a man.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, Okay.
Speaker 1: I thought that terminology was more so used for guys
Speaker 1: that like mooch off of guys and then and they're
Speaker 1: like their do boy, you know.
Speaker 3: The do boy.
Speaker 2: Yes, but yeah, this is just the actual act. Okay, yes,
Speaker 2: like like you just you're gonna hit it and quit it.
Speaker 2: That's to be a better term, hit it and quit
Speaker 2: it boys. Okay, yeah, and they're proud. I mean yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm sure there's plenty of people, but but but in
Speaker 2: this particular situation, the woman was like, I just want
Speaker 2: you to be a hit it and quit it yeah,
Speaker 2: And that that's what messed him up.
Speaker 3: That he was like, oh, but I like you, okay,
Speaker 3: don't do it every time. Every time. It's so predictable.
Speaker 3: He's so predictable. I had to give that advice to
Speaker 3: a female the other day.
Speaker 1: Did you act like a dude? Oh? Yes?
Speaker 3: Oh sure did No.
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, we're not going to say that
Speaker 2: this person was, but this is a girl that catches feelings.
Speaker 3: Yes, So this we need we need people to write in.
Speaker 3: Are you a girl that catches feelings?
Speaker 1: Right? Or can you hit it and quit it?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 2: And me and Robin was like, girl, you better hit
Speaker 2: it and quit it right as soon as it's over.
Speaker 2: Throw them his clothing, kick him out, get out.
Speaker 1: Act like a dude. And I was just like and
Speaker 1: so like, how do you do that? Is it just
Speaker 1: got to act like a dude. Just take on the
Speaker 1: mentality of a dude. You'll be good or not.
Speaker 2: Just like tell him get the hell out, Like, do
Speaker 2: not let him sleep there. She's like, Oh, I don't know,
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can do that.
Speaker 3: Yes, you can. You're gonna do it today. You can
Speaker 3: find out what happened. Oh yeah, I will circle back. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I think she's traveling, but I will a bit, but
Speaker 3: I will be circling back on that. Okay. So anyway,
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