WEBVTT - | Ep 102 | Hit It & Quit It

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am jaseebe Bryant.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for being here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, once again, Robin has one of the two piece guys.

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<v Speaker 2>She's looking very sporty.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sporty, spice? I'm ready to get my workout on.

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<v Speaker 3>You are. Have you been working out?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I've been walking.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, walking is good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So I'll actually so the grocery store, the Giant

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<v Speaker 1>is like a mile away walking distance. Yeah, so I'll

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<v Speaker 1>like take a carry little bag with me and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>walk there and I'll go in the grocery store and

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<v Speaker 1>just grab, you know, get my little things that I

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<v Speaker 1>need and then walk home.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's two miles. Yeah, okay, you think you're doing something.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I just enjoy walking.

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<v Speaker 1>To the.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know it's hard to carry all the groceries.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the worst, right exactly. I'm so I go in

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<v Speaker 1>there when I'm like, okay, I'm just going to get

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of things. Yes, not good, it's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be too heavy. And then I'm literally like walking

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<v Speaker 1>home and I'm like, oh, I'm like throwing it all

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<v Speaker 1>over my back like.

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<v Speaker 3>I would be ubering it. I'd be like uber calling one,

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<v Speaker 3>come get me.

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<v Speaker 2>When speaking of when is Corey going to be able

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<v Speaker 2>to get a learner's.

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<v Speaker 1>So, what is it? You have to be fifteen and

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<v Speaker 1>nine months?

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<v Speaker 2>Fifteen and nine or six?

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<v Speaker 1>So his birthday is in March? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>First of all, does he care? Does he want it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? Oh he does? Okay, so he's on top of it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he wants it. Not that he's on top of it,

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<v Speaker 1>but he wants it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So his birthday is in March. So if it's fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>and six months, then that would be in September. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>towards the end of September. If it's fifteen nine months,

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<v Speaker 1>and that would be December.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, so I'm gonna yeah, so we need to

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<v Speaker 1>research that, okay and get into it because yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>going to need to drive himself.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and they go him and Carter go the same school.

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<v Speaker 1>No, well, now they're going to separate school.

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<v Speaker 3>That's fine. He can drop his brother off and then

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<v Speaker 3>keep it pushing.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, his school starts earlier than Carter. I mean, Carter

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<v Speaker 1>would have to do like he before care yeah or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do that to him. Okay, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, Corey just especially for that reason, will need

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<v Speaker 1>to be driving because I can't be doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>First, No, no one has time. No one has time

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<v Speaker 2>to be a mother's got time for that. Anyway, moving on,

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<v Speaker 2>do you have your reasonably shady moment?

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<v Speaker 3>I have a reasonably shady moment?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, okay, you go first.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So there's this spot and I'm giving them a

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<v Speaker 2>shout out because it's been good. This spot called Carmen's

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<v Speaker 2>Italian Ice and it's in like the Rockville area. It's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like off the beaten path whatever. Anyway, it's

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<v Speaker 2>very good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's kind of like Arita's, but they have so

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<v Speaker 2>they do the ice Icy's or whatever, and then you

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<v Speaker 2>can get the custard and they have different flavor of custard.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, okay, don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Why they continue to run out of marshmallow custard, which

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<v Speaker 2>is their best, but whatever, that's not even my shady moment.

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<v Speaker 2>So Angel in particular loves this place. She wants to

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<v Speaker 2>call all the time, so we go all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>So they let you taste obviously the flavors, because they

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<v Speaker 2>could be like, I don't know twenty icy Flavorso oh,

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<v Speaker 2>this place is hardcore nice and you can get smoothies,

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<v Speaker 2>you can get just regular ice cream with your toppings.

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<v Speaker 2>You get all kinds of things. Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So they had.

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<v Speaker 2>Vanilla custard and they had root beer icy. So I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, this is going to be like a root

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<v Speaker 2>beer float.

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<v Speaker 3>I was so bomped. I was like, yes, I found

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<v Speaker 3>my flavors. I was like, can I taste the root beer?

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<v Speaker 3>It was like, yes, they let me taste it. I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, this is so good. Okay. So I made my.

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<v Speaker 2>Order okay, And for whatever reason, when I got the

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<v Speaker 2>root beer icy in the cup, it wasn't as strong

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<v Speaker 2>and potent, like it was more icy than root beer.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was because in a little spoon it

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<v Speaker 2>tastes one way, but in the cup it just didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't it wasn't hitting, it was not hitting. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was mad at them because I was like, they

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<v Speaker 2>catfished me.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a catfish moment. Carmens, Carmens catfish me. Stop

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<v Speaker 3>catfishing people. So I went but I did go back

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<v Speaker 3>and I said to them, so do you squirt all

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<v Speaker 3>the squirrel because I'm thinking it's like a syrup like

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<v Speaker 3>that they put in ice. I'm like, you know, do

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<v Speaker 3>you have to like re up the syrup situation on

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<v Speaker 3>the different flavors?

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<v Speaker 2>And they're like, I don't know. Sometimes I think it

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<v Speaker 2>was like a fifteen year old that was so they

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know. So anyway, I got.

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<v Speaker 3>It the second time, okay, and it was better.

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<v Speaker 1>Wasn't all the way there yet, but it was better. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So they were able to put more flavor in it.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I guess, but like Karme's, I meany for you

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<v Speaker 2>to be consistent. Yes, it may and it might just

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<v Speaker 2>be rut beer because like they're they're cotton candy, because

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<v Speaker 2>I get that. Sometimes they're peanut colada, all those flavors,

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<v Speaker 2>they are on point.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, But I was so pumped from my root beer float.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds like Carter would like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh he would love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like root beer, but Carter would really enjoy that.

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<v Speaker 1>He was good to know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, So do you consider their ices and custard better

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<v Speaker 3>than Rita's.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Rita's is Rita's, Okay, do you know that there's

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<v Speaker 2>several Rita's in Baltimore that were a drug front.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's not because I'm making that up. That's because

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<v Speaker 3>I was in the paper in the news.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, yes, oh really no, yeah, the one that I

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<v Speaker 2>used to go to all the time. Yeah, Baltimore, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that was drug front central.

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<v Speaker 1>Really.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Okay, I mean I unders man Robin's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I got my weed there, I got my gummies.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 2>They just use it to clean the money, clean the money, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>for money laundry.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well this Carmen's.

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<v Speaker 2>I very very much that, and they like come up

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<v Speaker 2>with all kinds of different flavor concoctions that I really like.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm yeah, okay, I'll have to try it there.

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely check it out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's actually making me hungry or like craving some Rita's.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's actually a Rita's not too far from the house.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'll walk there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Robinson, I'm gonna get my steps. Do you count

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<v Speaker 3>your steps? No? I don't have an Apple Watch. I

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<v Speaker 3>think Apple watches are stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and so I've asked everyone that I know that

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<v Speaker 1>has an Apple Watch. I'm like, okay, what do you use

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<v Speaker 1>it for? And they're all like, oh, to count my

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<v Speaker 1>steps and to close my rings. And I'm like, but

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<v Speaker 1>if you have your phone on you, it counts it

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<v Speaker 1>counts your steps too, Yes it does. And I have

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<v Speaker 1>my phone, Like, I have an armstrap that I put

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<v Speaker 1>my phone in, so my phone is with me when

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<v Speaker 1>I walk.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm like, I don't need an Apple app watches.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the only thing is like, so one one walks

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<v Speaker 1>with me sometimes and so he doesn't bring his phone,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, and he uses it of course, counting

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<v Speaker 1>steps and all that stuff. But he also can, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, see his text messages or answer a phone

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<v Speaker 1>call and stuff like that. And so it's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't want the big phone with you, then

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<v Speaker 1>to see where it comes in.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't have a big phone. I have a

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<v Speaker 2>small one. And you all know why because I will

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<v Speaker 2>not have carpal tunnel.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Oh do you have you will have?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh but I won't. Oh yeah, Okay. Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>a reason to be shady? Oh yes, yes, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's not really shady, it's just Robin being Robin.

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<v Speaker 1>So I went out to lunch recently with some girlfriends.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like early dinner and I had on these

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<v Speaker 1>like really cute platform heel, like you know, yay high

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<v Speaker 1>six cel high six inches high platform And I parked

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<v Speaker 1>my car and I'm walking down the sidewalk, yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>then all of a sudden, my foot is a little unstable,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, whoo, who.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you face plants? Or did you fall on your

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<v Speaker 3>BOUTI I fell?

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<v Speaker 1>Which way did I fall? I fell down towards my left.

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<v Speaker 1>It was more like on my hip. Okay, so it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of weird. So like I had literally I had

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<v Speaker 1>like my my palm was.

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<v Speaker 3>All are you by yourself or you with their girlfriends?

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<v Speaker 1>I was by myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, it's embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so embarrassing. But like, honestly, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>nobody saw me.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone saw you. We could do nothing. Everyone saw you.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like nobody saw me. My hand was all

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<v Speaker 3>scraped up.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it was so crazy because I fall like

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<v Speaker 1>on my like towards the left, so like my left

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<v Speaker 1>hand braced itself on the ground and then I like

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<v Speaker 1>fell to the ground. But for whatever reason, my right

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<v Speaker 1>arm and right shoulder was like pain and pain for

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<v Speaker 1>like days. It was just it was weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Did they have to is that the side that braced you?

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<v Speaker 2>Like did that have to like overcome and say?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but it was just so funny. When

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<v Speaker 1>I was about to go down, it literally was like

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<v Speaker 1>in slow motion. I was like, I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Like whoa and then you did you have to pick

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<v Speaker 3>yourself up? Did anybody help you?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I literally I really think I was like by myself.

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<v Speaker 1>But I looked at like you know, it's like cars

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<v Speaker 1>like passing down and I'm like I was just laughing

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<v Speaker 1>to myself. So but I was like shook up. Like

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<v Speaker 1>so when I like walked into the restaurant, I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just busted my ASTs and I was just like

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<v Speaker 1>I was like out, Like that shit took me out?

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<v Speaker 3>Did it? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>It was I can imagine, you know. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>like my I was just all off. So now I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>what do I do about these shoes because they're really cute?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So Robin, those are the shoes that you wear

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<v Speaker 2>when when you're not going anywhere, like meaning like.

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<v Speaker 3>You're just going to like say you saw them. I

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<v Speaker 3>wore them the last night.

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<v Speaker 1>The last they're gold.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Yes, they're super cute. So like let's say we're

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<v Speaker 2>doing the Sherry Shepherd show. Right, then you wear them

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<v Speaker 2>for that because you're sitting there, but my.

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<v Speaker 1>Ass ship the Sherry Shepherd. So you had to walk

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<v Speaker 1>from the back.

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<v Speaker 3>That's true to Cane.

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<v Speaker 1>If I fell, Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Has anybody ever done that? I don't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's embarrassing. Okay, so Date Night with Wine, Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 2>it would catch you your fa his ass was.

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<v Speaker 3>Dying, laughing, dying, dying, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, it's more right. It's like you have to

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<v Speaker 1>literally valet because I ended up there was no where

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<v Speaker 1>we went. We were in I don't know, like Northeast DC,

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<v Speaker 1>a part of DC, there was no valet. So I

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<v Speaker 1>literally had to like park down the street. And I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know that I was going to have to do

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<v Speaker 1>this until I had to do it. So yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>it has to be a situation where you valet and

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<v Speaker 1>you walk right in and you're boom and boom, you're done.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then after dinner you take them off.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but there's yeah, there's no way I'm walking.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, more than carry your flats by the way.

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<v Speaker 2>Series the other night had some shoes on that were

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<v Speaker 2>they probably eight inches, like they were platform on top

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<v Speaker 2>of platform.

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<v Speaker 3>On top of the platform.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and she was like, So when I saw them,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Wow, that's gonna be interesting. I wonder

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<v Speaker 2>how long those last? Yeah, And she's like and then

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<v Speaker 2>she had hurt her toe. So she was like, oh man,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, my toe is sticking out. I can't walk.

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<v Speaker 2>And when we were walking out of that restaurant, she

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<v Speaker 2>literally her toe. Something happened with her toe. It couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>fit into the straps.

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<v Speaker 3>Craziness.

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<v Speaker 2>No, so just to this is just a side note, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>So she took the shoes off. Next thing I know,

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<v Speaker 2>I look down. She has on flats matching her purse.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course Valentino, very cute. But her shoes were just

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<v Speaker 2>like in the car, Mia puts the shoe on.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>MIA's foot is a size forty five hundred, right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>Mia wears the biggest.

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<v Speaker 3>Mia literally is a size twelve.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>So and Teresa's probably a size nine. Right. She is

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<v Speaker 3>proud of her big feet, Yes, she very much is.

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<v Speaker 3>She said.

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<v Speaker 2>She said that Anti complimented her feet. Oh, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I missed that.

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<v Speaker 3>Where was the women's she said, at the reunion And

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<v Speaker 3>he told me I have nice feet, I said me,

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<v Speaker 3>I was there the entire time.

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<v Speaker 2>He never said that. He never said that, But anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>moving on.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right.

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<v Speaker 2>So I have a couple things to read. So Hi,

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<v Speaker 2>Giselle and Robin. This is from Heather. I'm a huge

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<v Speaker 2>fan and love to listen to your podcast on my

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<v Speaker 2>way to work. It's the perfect way to start a Monday.

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to respond about today's conversation about falling in

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<v Speaker 2>love through the eyes. Oh don't remember when we had

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<v Speaker 2>this conversation, but okay, she said, My answer is yes.

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<v Speaker 3>True story.

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<v Speaker 2>One night watching Bravo, a promo for rhl P came on.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a scene with Giselle and I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>those eyes. I have to check out the show, and

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<v Speaker 2>she said she's been a fan ever since. Oh yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I need to ask for more money. Yes, I'm hypnotizing

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<v Speaker 2>people with.

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<v Speaker 3>My eyes and you're making them turn to Yes, she.

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<v Speaker 2>Said, I hope I had the opportunity to see you

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<v Speaker 2>at a lot I show love my Green Eyed Bandits

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<v Speaker 2>Heather Sea.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, thank your Heather.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I mean, did you know I was hypnotizing people

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<v Speaker 3>with my eyes?

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<v Speaker 1>No? I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 3>How much more should you think I should ask? Since

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<v Speaker 3>since this is confirmed, I should bring this to my

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<v Speaker 3>negotiating Yes, when I negotiate for some more money.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I should bring this. People are saying, oh my gosh, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>look at her eyes right, let me watch.

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<v Speaker 3>I might not have a talent, but my eyes hypnotized.

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<v Speaker 1>People, that's a talent.

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<v Speaker 3>Talent. That is a gift, that's a gift from God.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, okay, Well I'm here to tell you that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to use this and when I negotiate for

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<v Speaker 2>more money.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Okay, So I do want to I know that

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<v Speaker 3>you hope that I do. Okay, So I want to

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<v Speaker 3>read about because you know we have Muhammed our friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, So for those of you all who are

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<v Speaker 2>friends of this podcast, y'all know that there's a guy

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<v Speaker 2>named Mohammad lives in Toronto and he's he comes to her.

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<v Speaker 3>He's been to one or two of our live shows.

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<v Speaker 1>He came to the one in New York and then

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<v Speaker 1>he was at Brow.

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<v Speaker 2>He was Kan Yes at Bravo Khan. He loves us.

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<v Speaker 2>He's very shady. He's shady in a good way, shady

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<v Speaker 2>in support of justse Ellen Robin.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes love Mohammad.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and he in front of my children. He told

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<v Speaker 2>me in front of Jason that I need to see

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<v Speaker 2>Jason with his shirt off in front of me. He

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<v Speaker 2>said that in front of my children. That was embarrassing Mohammed. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>moving on, he says, Hi, Jizellen Robin, it's your favorite

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<v Speaker 2>shady person from Toronto, Mohammad, and I need y'all's advice.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>My best friend is getting married in the Dominican Republic

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<v Speaker 2>this year and I really want to go, but financially

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<v Speaker 2>it would be a burden. In June of this year,

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<v Speaker 2>I officially moved out on my own and I have

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<v Speaker 2>my own place, space and independence.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's been tough financially.

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<v Speaker 1>Congrats Mohammad, congrats a big move.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep.

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<v Speaker 2>Earlier this year, I found out that I I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>be a part of my best friend's bridal party, but

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<v Speaker 2>she promised me that I would attend the bachelor at party,

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<v Speaker 2>which I found out I wasn't invited to on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>Now that's hurtful, that's painful, that's sadie.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm torn because I really want to go out of

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<v Speaker 2>loyalty and respect of our sixteen year friendship. Plus I

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<v Speaker 2>know that if I don't go, I'll regret it. However,

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<v Speaker 2>on the flip side, my other friend groups have said

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<v Speaker 2>if I do go, I'll regret it as they don't

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<v Speaker 2>think I'll have a good time and I'll feel left

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<v Speaker 2>out and insecure. The final payment is due August twenty

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<v Speaker 2>third and his birthday is August twenty second.

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<v Speaker 3>M He had to put that in there, right, Okay, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't know for go. I don't think twenty seconds, I

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<v Speaker 2>was not an guess. I don't know what to do now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm reaching out to two people who always have given

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<v Speaker 2>good advice, and I give it to him straight, he said.

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<v Speaker 2>My best friend still tell me at parties. Giselle said

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<v Speaker 2>turn it down eight notch.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I say that to him?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure, I'm sure I did. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you all.

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<v Speaker 2>Muhammad from Toronto. Okay, so this is actually like a situation. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a tough one. The part about the bachelorette party.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and he found out he was not invited on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>Finding out that you weren't invited on Instagram, Yes, that's shady.

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<v Speaker 1>That would definitely that it's red flag. Red flag put

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<v Speaker 1>a sour taste in my mouth.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I wouldn't be doing anything with her, right.

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<v Speaker 1>And then so if your friends that know you are

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<v Speaker 1>saying you're going to feel left out, you're gonna feel insecure.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they're basing it off of something that they know. Yes, right,

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<v Speaker 1>ooh money is I say?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I say if if I'm not he wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>invited to the bridal shower, but he was gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>invited to the bachelorette party, which he wasn't invited to.

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<v Speaker 3>He found out off on Instagram. You're not invited to

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<v Speaker 3>either one, So why are you going to the wedding? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>If I'm not invited to the bridal part bridle shower,

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<v Speaker 2>this is we've been friends for sixteen years, you'll invite

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<v Speaker 2>me to the bridal party.

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<v Speaker 1>Bridal shower. I understand because she's a female. And maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like you know whatever, her sisters and herky,

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<v Speaker 1>her mom and stuff like that, like the bridal shower.

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<v Speaker 1>I think usually I don't know, but it depends. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if if this is like your your close guy friend,

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<v Speaker 1>then maybe I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>So that so the dynamic if I got Mary call

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<v Speaker 3>is invited to my bridle shower?

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<v Speaker 1>Is he Yes, okay, yeah, okay, all right, fine, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I take that back.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but but the bachelor party is definitely a party,

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<v Speaker 2>right right, so so definitely he should be invited to that.

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<v Speaker 2>And if he wasn't, this ain't your friend, Muhammed.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, well, I definitely say you invite. I would say

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<v Speaker 1>not like the people at the bridle shower can be

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<v Speaker 1>different from the people at the bachelorette party. Yes, right, correct, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>because a lot of times Rodershower is like your old

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<v Speaker 1>aunts and stuff like that, you know what I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>to your grandma, Like, but they're not going to be

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<v Speaker 1>at the bachelorette party. So the bacheltte party, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>should be able to have a room for more friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and Mohammed, they're not your friends. Robin's being really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm trying to work because the problem is going

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<v Speaker 1>to come is if we tell him not to go,

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<v Speaker 1>don't go, Mama. If he doesn't go, he is going

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<v Speaker 1>to have fomo. He is going, She's gonna have fomo.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he will listen because okay, okay, so his

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<v Speaker 1>reasons for not going are money, Yeah, and he wasn't invited.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe, well, he was invited to the wedding. He's light

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<v Speaker 3>to the wedding, but he wasn't invited to the other things, right.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's questioning should he go to the wedding?

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<v Speaker 3>Right, they have been friends for sixteen years. If I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not invited to all these other things, don't invite me

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<v Speaker 3>to the wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>But a lot of people aren't invited to all the

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<v Speaker 1>all those other things.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but they are not as close as what he's

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<v Speaker 2>saying to this girl. So Mohammed, I say, don't go.

0:18:56.040 --> 0:19:00.359
<v Speaker 2>Robin says go. I just I just say it's hard.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're gonna have okay, this is good.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're gonna have fhoe mo, Mohammed, go right, But

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<v Speaker 2>if you don't give two shits, save your money, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and do not go, right, Yeah, do not go.

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<v Speaker 1>And also I think you have to question do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to continue the friendship? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't want to continue the friendship, then definitely

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<v Speaker 2>don't go. But if you want to do what Giselle

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<v Speaker 2>would do, she would not be going.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I think you know what. Honestly, I think, knowing

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<v Speaker 1>Mohammad's personality, I think he'll be in his feelings about

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<v Speaker 1>not being invited to the other parties. And so when

0:19:33.720 --> 0:19:35.800
<v Speaker 1>he gets to the wedding, then yes, he will be

0:19:35.840 --> 0:19:39.360
<v Speaker 1>feeling probably a little more insecure. He'll probably overanalyze everything,

0:19:40.280 --> 0:19:43.040
<v Speaker 1>probably be feeling maybe a little needy, wanting a little

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<v Speaker 1>more attention, you know, or if he doesn't get it,

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<v Speaker 1>like questioning it, so maybe better just not to go.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, don't put yourself in and just put it on

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<v Speaker 3>the money. No, no, no, no, blame it on the money.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeaheah, blame it on the money. If you tell you're

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<v Speaker 1>not tell your friend you're not going it is, just

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<v Speaker 1>tell her it's up your financial decision.

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<v Speaker 2>And this he had to make another deposit, so I've

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<v Speaker 2>assume he already made first deposit. Don't make the second

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<v Speaker 2>deposit and ask for the first deposit back.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, yeah, definitely get your money back.

0:20:09.840 --> 0:20:12.520
<v Speaker 2>Get your money back. Yes, so boom, we figured that

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<v Speaker 2>out for Muhammed. Okay, yes, but dang, what this is

0:20:18.680 --> 0:20:19.120
<v Speaker 2>is No.

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<v Speaker 3>It's August twenty second. Okay, all right, I'm like this

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<v Speaker 3>episode my air.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know after we hope, we hope we get

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<v Speaker 2>in there before this airs. Okay, all right, this this

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<v Speaker 2>is Rachel says she has one question. Can you explain

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<v Speaker 2>what it means when you speak this.

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<v Speaker 3>Is this is a good question for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, can you explain what it means when you speak

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<v Speaker 2>about gossip being in the blogs?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm from I'm from Dundee, Scotland, Scotland. I should

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<v Speaker 2>I should start this whole thing over again. I just

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<v Speaker 2>have one question question. Can you explain what it means

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<v Speaker 2>when you speak about gossip being in the blogs? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>The blogs?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm from Dundee's, Scotland, and I've never heard anyone use

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<v Speaker 2>that phrase over here. When I think of a blog,

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<v Speaker 2>I am thrown back to two thousand and two, before

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<v Speaker 2>social media was a thing. Does it just mean the

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<v Speaker 2>info has been read in an online article of a

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<v Speaker 2>news website, or someone really out there typing shade under

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<v Speaker 2>fake user names or dodgy this is from Scotland, dodgy websites? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>If it is the latter, where can I read it?

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway?

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to say I've watched seven different franchises

0:21:35.119 --> 0:21:38.640
<v Speaker 2>of Real Housewives, and Potomac is definitely the best. Woo

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<v Speaker 2>Before Potomac, I never particularly liked any of the housewives.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Kyle Richard's and nine Leak's she liked them.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I only I usually only watch for the shady moments,

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<v Speaker 2>but you two are the only ones who come across

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<v Speaker 2>as real and sound.

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<v Speaker 3>Girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Keep being yourselves all the best, Rachel, So thank you, Rachel.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, So, I feel like the term blog is loosely

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<v Speaker 1>used to refer to like platforms that maybe have an

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram page where they report about gossip mainly, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think a lot of times they do link back to

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<v Speaker 1>a blog site, but most of their traffic is on Instagram, So.

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<v Speaker 2>A blog site would be what So give me an example.

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<v Speaker 2>Is a blog site like Queens of Bravo. So Queens

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<v Speaker 2>of Bravo. See that's hard. So Queens of Bravo is

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<v Speaker 2>really only an Instagram page. They don't actually have a

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<v Speaker 2>blog site.

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<v Speaker 3>But if I was referring to the blogs I put

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<v Speaker 3>them under that, you would.

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<v Speaker 1>Put them under there, right, That's what I'm saying. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it's a loose term that we use to

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<v Speaker 1>refer to just Instagram pages that.

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<v Speaker 3>Report Okay, okay, Jazz and Brand, that is a blog.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a blog.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, jazzon Brand hasn't has a website, right, they have

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<v Speaker 2>an Instagram they have a Twitter and they report on

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<v Speaker 2>the latest and the greatest.

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<v Speaker 1>Right so on Jazzmine brand. They more so so like

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<v Speaker 1>Queens of Bravo is more like just opinion we like

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, yes we love Queens of Bravo.

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<v Speaker 3>What's up? You know?

0:23:10.160 --> 0:23:13.399
<v Speaker 1>They do like more memes, more opinion type stuff related

0:23:13.440 --> 0:23:16.720
<v Speaker 1>to Bravo stuff, which if you're not following them, go

0:23:16.840 --> 0:23:19.920
<v Speaker 1>follow them because they're like their sense of humor is great,

0:23:20.000 --> 0:23:23.000
<v Speaker 1>their perspective is great. Of course they love me, so

0:23:23.119 --> 0:23:24.920
<v Speaker 1>I can say, yes, you know, I love them back.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, there we go.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway back to an actual blog though, So an

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<v Speaker 1>actual blog actually more so started out with just the

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<v Speaker 1>website where they reported gossip news, and then as you know,

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<v Speaker 1>social media and stuff evolved, then they became more heavily

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<v Speaker 1>reliant on their Instagram page and stuff like that. But

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<v Speaker 1>they still will they'll tell you like the beginnings of

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<v Speaker 1>an article and then they'll say click the link in

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<v Speaker 1>bio to read the rest. So they still are trying

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<v Speaker 1>to direct people back to their website to read the

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<v Speaker 1>full story. So what is page six That is more

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<v Speaker 1>of a that's a news that's a newspaper outlet okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. And would you say, would you consider TMZ a blog?

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't consider them a blog.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, actually they'd be like the blog of blogs.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I would say they are an entertainment media website.

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<v Speaker 1>So really honestly a blog. I think any of these

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<v Speaker 1>you could say, any of these gossipye pages would be

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<v Speaker 1>considered an entertainment media website.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, okay, I just.

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<v Speaker 1>Wouldn't consider the larger ones. Say, you know, like you said,

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<v Speaker 1>a TMZ or I don't know, entertainment or whatever, a blog.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think shaver is a blog.

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<v Speaker 3>Would they be considered blog? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So that it's like I can't really define it exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>but it is a loose term when we refer to

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<v Speaker 1>any type of platform reports gossip.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, if you're reporting what's happening in people's lives,

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<v Speaker 2>that's you're going to be considered a.

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<v Speaker 1>Blog, right, yes, right, even if you're TMC or if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just some little sight that has two readers.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and sometimes the blogs get it right, yeah, Sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>they're nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah sometimes yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sometimes there are some my south, right, there's something

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<v Speaker 1>that that make an effort to have a balanced.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes situation, Yes, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Balance.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, this is really short. I know I said I

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<v Speaker 2>would let you go, but I'm not. Okay, so, oh

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<v Speaker 2>you took my power.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>First of all, this is from oh I'm sorry. This

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<v Speaker 3>is from shout out to Derek. Derek. Oh, hi Derek,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even read that part. Hi Derek.

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing. We haven't seen you in a while.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure you're like in the south of France or

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you know, him and his wife travel all

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<v Speaker 2>over the place. Yes, so enjoy your travels and his wife.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So on my g timeline, I saw a situation where

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<v Speaker 2>husband and wife had a joint account. He found out

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<v Speaker 2>that over the years, she was taking money out of

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<v Speaker 2>the joint and putting it into a hidden account. By

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<v Speaker 2>the time he found out, she had amassed a little

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<v Speaker 2>over twenty two thousand dollars as a just in case

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<v Speaker 2>divorce fund. Put that in quotes. So here's my question.

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<v Speaker 2>Number one, how would you react?

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<v Speaker 3>Number two? Is that considered stealing? Number three? Is it wrong?

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<v Speaker 3>Number four? Is it reasonable? Or is it you Now

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<v Speaker 3>it's definitely shady, Yes, it's not. Actually it's reasonable.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, No, if he does if she's doing that, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>without her husband's knowledge.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's all types of wrong, shady. Is it wrong? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it really? Yes? I think they should have come

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<v Speaker 1>to an agreement that Okay, we have this money in

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<v Speaker 1>this joint account, and we each take x amount of

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<v Speaker 1>dollars and put it into our own personal saving.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but she's what we don't know is is she

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<v Speaker 2>contributing to the joint count, like if her salary and

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<v Speaker 2>if she's working and her salary is going in there too,

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<v Speaker 2>so they joint account, both moneys are going. What's wrong

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<v Speaker 2>with her taking money out and putting it somewhere else?

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<v Speaker 1>It's wrong if she doesn't tell him that is it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually reasonable for her to do it. It's it's

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<v Speaker 1>not if she it's reasonable.

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<v Speaker 2>Not to tell him why because it's shady if he cheats,

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<v Speaker 2>And it's reasonable if she needs money to get a divorce.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, I understand the logic behind it. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand the logic and her thought process and all

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<v Speaker 1>of that. And you know, as my grandmamat say, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>make sure you got your own money, yea, make sure

0:27:39.440 --> 0:27:42.760
<v Speaker 1>you cover all of that type of stuff. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>in the grand scheme of things. She's wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, do you consider her stealing? That's not stealing because

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<v Speaker 2>you and your husband she have.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't consider that steal.

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<v Speaker 3>You'll steal from your husband.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because y'all should be one or something. Is that

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<v Speaker 2>what the Bible says, y'all want something? Your money is

0:27:57.600 --> 0:27:58.560
<v Speaker 2>my money, yes?

0:27:58.800 --> 0:28:01.320
<v Speaker 3>And my money is my money? Is that what you Yes? Yes,

0:28:01.440 --> 0:28:04.400
<v Speaker 3>my money is my money. Your money is all my money.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So it's not stealing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not stealing, but it's being sneaky and I think,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I wonder now, okay, are they heading towards divorce?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that why he's finding this out?

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<v Speaker 3>Like that would really put this is actually, Derek, this

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<v Speaker 3>is not right.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, this is what I say. It's like asking

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<v Speaker 2>for friends. But really, Derek, I understand you and your wife.

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<v Speaker 2>Your wife got a little secret stass, right.

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<v Speaker 1>But so if there weren't problems in the relationship and

0:28:34.000 --> 0:28:36.280
<v Speaker 1>the husband is just finding out the best, believe there's

0:28:36.280 --> 0:28:38.080
<v Speaker 1>probably problems in the relationship now.

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<v Speaker 3>Not necessarily.

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<v Speaker 2>Just never know it's a rainy day, you're just saving

0:28:41.320 --> 0:28:45.040
<v Speaker 2>for a rainy day. Listen, Okay, this is this is

0:28:45.040 --> 0:28:46.080
<v Speaker 2>where the problem lies.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think she should have disclosed it.

0:28:48.840 --> 0:28:49.280
<v Speaker 3>She should.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, this is where the problem lies. If he's doing it.

0:28:52.680 --> 0:28:54.240
<v Speaker 2>If he's doing it, it's a problem.

0:28:54.360 --> 0:28:54.600
<v Speaker 1>See.

0:28:54.840 --> 0:28:59.600
<v Speaker 2>If she's doing it, it's not a problem because he

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<v Speaker 2>can not have a back account on the side. No,

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<v Speaker 2>you cannot, sir.

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<v Speaker 1>See, So why is it okay for her to do

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<v Speaker 1>it because without telling him that. I'm just when I

0:29:12.240 --> 0:29:14.959
<v Speaker 1>was married, Yeah, we had a joint account I had,

0:29:15.000 --> 0:29:18.960
<v Speaker 1>and then and then Giselle had her own account. And

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<v Speaker 1>when I remember, he did not have his own account,

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<v Speaker 1>so his if he wanted to buy something, that came

0:29:27.600 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 1>from the joint account. Okay.

0:29:29.520 --> 0:29:33.840
<v Speaker 2>So whatever I put into my account was my business,

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<v Speaker 2>right the end of the story.

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<v Speaker 1>But you didn't You wouldn't sneak and do it without.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you know, I'll never tell Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>See, I think it's different. Right. It sounds like this

0:29:48.720 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 1>couple they probably had some sort of setup where it

0:29:52.720 --> 0:29:56.200
<v Speaker 1>was like the joint account was meant for them to,

0:29:56.920 --> 0:29:59.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, pay the bills, pay the bills, I say,

0:30:00.120 --> 0:30:03.000
<v Speaker 1>riy some stuff, right, save money, all of that. So

0:30:03.840 --> 0:30:06.400
<v Speaker 1>if the money that's in the joint account is allotted

0:30:06.440 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 1>for a purpose, whether it's to save, to pay the

0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:12.120
<v Speaker 1>bills whatever, and you're not telling me that you're using

0:30:12.160 --> 0:30:14.840
<v Speaker 1>it for another for one more purpose, which is to

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<v Speaker 1>fund your own account.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and that's a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, yes, Robin, Yes, and leave it to beaver world. Yes,

0:30:23.040 --> 0:30:26.720
<v Speaker 2>we would all be honest with each other. But that's

0:30:26.760 --> 0:30:30.760
<v Speaker 2>just not how life works. Why is a secret because

0:30:30.800 --> 0:30:34.239
<v Speaker 2>you don't want him to know that you're taking some

0:30:34.320 --> 0:30:36.120
<v Speaker 2>money from the joint account and you're putting it in

0:30:36.400 --> 0:30:37.440
<v Speaker 2>because there's a rainy day.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, But I'm saying she should be able to put

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<v Speaker 1>money in her account, and then he should be able

0:30:41.240 --> 0:30:43.520
<v Speaker 1>to take that same amount of money and put in

0:30:43.520 --> 0:30:45.560
<v Speaker 1>in his account. True, he should, you know what I'm saying.

0:30:45.640 --> 0:30:47.440
<v Speaker 1>He should be able to do that. That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>So now he wouldn't be my husband.

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<v Speaker 1>If you were to get married today, Yes, would you know?

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<v Speaker 1>Would I want have that same banking setup? I just

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<v Speaker 1>I don't so why and I never so? Well, we

0:31:06.320 --> 0:31:09.800
<v Speaker 1>had a joint joint we have joint account, okay, as

0:31:09.840 --> 0:31:12.600
<v Speaker 1>you should. And he has his accounts Yes, I have

0:31:12.680 --> 0:31:13.480
<v Speaker 1>my account.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, yes, yes, I would have it. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So Steve Harvey says, yeah, I saw this recently that

0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:22.800
<v Speaker 2>that's how it should be, like you should have actually

0:31:22.840 --> 0:31:24.400
<v Speaker 2>should have five accounts or something like you should have

0:31:24.440 --> 0:31:27.560
<v Speaker 2>a joint for paying the bills. You should have a

0:31:27.680 --> 0:31:31.320
<v Speaker 2>joint savings, and then you should have your individual accounts.

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<v Speaker 3>That'd before.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know where it fits for the investment accounts.

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<v Speaker 2>Was yes, okay, so I think that's good. And this

0:31:36.720 --> 0:31:38.760
<v Speaker 2>this is the reason. Let's back up. I remember I

0:31:38.840 --> 0:31:42.120
<v Speaker 2>was dating this guy, okay, his name is Sherman, and

0:31:42.840 --> 0:31:46.560
<v Speaker 2>he said to me that when he was married, anytime

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<v Speaker 2>his wife bought him something, it was really like he

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<v Speaker 2>butt it for myself, right, because it was out of

0:31:52.240 --> 0:31:56.800
<v Speaker 2>the joint account, right, So for those purposes like and

0:31:56.920 --> 0:32:01.200
<v Speaker 2>I think I did buy jamal things from my count right,

0:32:01.320 --> 0:32:03.160
<v Speaker 2>so that if it was his birthday or whatever, he

0:32:03.160 --> 0:32:05.240
<v Speaker 2>wouldn't necessarily be buying.

0:32:05.760 --> 0:32:08.920
<v Speaker 3>Himself access to transac. He can't see like how much

0:32:08.960 --> 0:32:11.840
<v Speaker 3>I paid for it. Yeah, not that he was.

0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:13.000
<v Speaker 1>He was not the.

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<v Speaker 3>The account police at all. You are, Robin Dixon is.

0:32:19.280 --> 0:32:23.280
<v Speaker 2>I just want everybody to know Robin knows where everything

0:32:23.400 --> 0:32:26.640
<v Speaker 2>goes and how much is spent on everything. If she

0:32:26.720 --> 0:32:30.640
<v Speaker 2>says she's not, she lying, Okay, Poor Wan Dixon because

0:32:31.720 --> 0:32:34.440
<v Speaker 2>one can't spend no money without Robin being like.

0:32:34.440 --> 0:32:38.400
<v Speaker 3>Excuse me, so you spend what on?

0:32:38.600 --> 0:32:38.640
<v Speaker 1>What?

0:32:39.640 --> 0:32:45.440
<v Speaker 3>Explain that to me? So and I'm not I'm in

0:32:45.520 --> 0:32:46.920
<v Speaker 3>the police either, like to like.

0:32:47.560 --> 0:32:50.480
<v Speaker 1>Ease up because I'm like, I can't justify what the.

0:32:50.520 --> 0:32:51.280
<v Speaker 3>Things you spend money?

0:32:51.640 --> 0:32:51.840
<v Speaker 1>Yes?

0:32:52.880 --> 0:32:55.440
<v Speaker 2>So well okay, yes, So if I were to get

0:32:55.440 --> 0:32:58.040
<v Speaker 2>married tomorrow, yes, we would all have our own accounts

0:32:58.600 --> 0:33:02.360
<v Speaker 2>and houses. You have your house, I have mine. So

0:33:03.000 --> 0:33:08.480
<v Speaker 2>that is how that marriage will work. Oh my god, Okay, yeah,

0:33:08.560 --> 0:33:10.440
<v Speaker 2>we're not. We're not cohabitating.

0:33:10.760 --> 0:33:13.920
<v Speaker 3>Who does that? That's so like two thousand and four

0:33:15.080 --> 0:33:16.360
<v Speaker 3>fantastic idea?

0:33:16.800 --> 0:33:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

0:33:17.920 --> 0:33:21.320
<v Speaker 2>I mean listen, if you were not cohabitating, your car

0:33:21.360 --> 0:33:24.480
<v Speaker 2>would be in the garage right right, that's a that's

0:33:24.640 --> 0:33:25.080
<v Speaker 2>very true.

0:33:25.960 --> 0:33:28.400
<v Speaker 3>You would not have to worry about the fan going

0:33:28.440 --> 0:33:29.400
<v Speaker 3>off in the middle of the night.

0:33:29.640 --> 0:33:30.080
<v Speaker 1>Very true.

0:33:30.160 --> 0:33:33.320
<v Speaker 3>You wouldn't have to worry about him just like screaming

0:33:33.400 --> 0:33:36.520
<v Speaker 3>your name. Yes, and then when you want to spend

0:33:36.560 --> 0:33:37.920
<v Speaker 3>time with him, he come over.

0:33:38.120 --> 0:33:40.520
<v Speaker 1>That's true. Yeah, then when he can, might I might

0:33:40.600 --> 0:33:41.160
<v Speaker 1>take you up on that.

0:33:41.520 --> 0:33:45.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying I think it helps everyone. Look, you

0:33:45.040 --> 0:33:47.720
<v Speaker 3>see that little shed right in front of us, yes,

0:33:48.120 --> 0:33:49.000
<v Speaker 3>so that's the wine house.

0:33:49.680 --> 0:33:52.680
<v Speaker 2>That's the heat shed that she shed a heat shed.

0:33:53.000 --> 0:33:55.040
<v Speaker 2>So what's that called the bat the cave room, no,

0:33:56.280 --> 0:33:59.040
<v Speaker 2>man cave, Yeah, that could be the man cave. It

0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:01.520
<v Speaker 2>could be yeah yeah. Would he want to sleep in

0:34:01.560 --> 0:34:03.760
<v Speaker 2>the man cave if.

0:34:03.680 --> 0:34:04.320
<v Speaker 1>It was comfortable?

0:34:04.880 --> 0:34:05.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, No.

0:34:05.440 --> 0:34:06.320
<v Speaker 1>He wants to be a fund of.

0:34:06.320 --> 0:34:07.280
<v Speaker 3>Me of course.

0:34:07.960 --> 0:34:14.319
<v Speaker 2>So it's just like, oh, go away anyway, I digress. Okay, So, Derek,

0:34:14.360 --> 0:34:16.880
<v Speaker 2>I hope we answered your question because we killed that

0:34:17.040 --> 0:34:18.960
<v Speaker 2>with like we beat that with a horse.

0:34:19.080 --> 0:34:28.360
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, okay, so let's see David.

0:34:28.800 --> 0:34:29.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, hi, Dave.

0:34:29.760 --> 0:34:33.680
<v Speaker 1>Yes, David writes to us. He said, hey, ladies, so

0:34:33.800 --> 0:34:36.520
<v Speaker 1>I never listened to podcasts until I found yours. Yay,

0:34:36.719 --> 0:34:39.200
<v Speaker 1>thank you. I am from the DMV area, and I

0:34:39.320 --> 0:34:42.640
<v Speaker 1>am truly Jazel the little bit shady one, and I

0:34:42.960 --> 0:34:44.160
<v Speaker 1>just need to find my Robin.

0:34:44.400 --> 0:34:47.320
<v Speaker 3>Oh you'll find Robin or not.

0:34:49.800 --> 0:34:52.680
<v Speaker 1>Anyways, last week you discussed the video on TMZ, so

0:34:52.760 --> 0:34:55.879
<v Speaker 1>this is from episodes a few weeks ago. I absolutely

0:34:56.040 --> 0:34:58.920
<v Speaker 1>do not want Jazelle in any drama and was taking

0:34:59.040 --> 0:35:02.120
<v Speaker 1>my non existence and earrings off and putting vaciline on

0:35:02.160 --> 0:35:04.120
<v Speaker 1>my face about to run to the spot to have

0:35:04.280 --> 0:35:07.279
<v Speaker 1>my girl's back, because honestly, until you spoke on it,

0:35:07.880 --> 0:35:11.880
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was just out. No, even with the

0:35:12.040 --> 0:35:15.319
<v Speaker 1>slow down version, it looks like her. So please don't

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:18.440
<v Speaker 1>think everyone wants her in some mess because we don't.

0:35:18.760 --> 0:35:21.360
<v Speaker 1>But from the video it did resemble her. All of

0:35:21.600 --> 0:35:26.719
<v Speaker 1>our apologies for mistaking her for some ghetto princess. Okay,

0:35:26.719 --> 0:35:29.439
<v Speaker 1>I love you too, keep knowing you your biggest man. David, Hi, David,

0:35:29.480 --> 0:35:30.080
<v Speaker 1>thank you. Okay.

0:35:30.320 --> 0:35:33.920
<v Speaker 3>So, David, get your eyes checked. Number one, number two.

0:35:34.080 --> 0:35:34.319
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:35:34.400 --> 0:35:36.200
<v Speaker 2>So if people who don't really know we're talking about. So,

0:35:36.239 --> 0:35:39.880
<v Speaker 2>a couple of weeks ago, there was a brawl that

0:35:40.120 --> 0:35:41.040
<v Speaker 2>was shown on TMZ.

0:35:41.360 --> 0:35:41.759
<v Speaker 1>What was it?

0:35:41.960 --> 0:35:45.960
<v Speaker 2>A brawl shot on TMZ that had something to do

0:35:46.040 --> 0:35:47.320
<v Speaker 2>with The Real Housewives Potomac.

0:35:47.440 --> 0:35:49.919
<v Speaker 3>So if you're bored, go look at it. Scroll down

0:35:50.040 --> 0:35:50.879
<v Speaker 3>you'll see it. Okay.

0:35:51.160 --> 0:35:54.880
<v Speaker 2>So in that altercation, there was a woman who had

0:35:54.920 --> 0:35:57.520
<v Speaker 2>a blonde She did have a blond ponytail shown a

0:35:57.560 --> 0:36:00.719
<v Speaker 2>bright color and I normally wear bright colors. She was

0:36:00.800 --> 0:36:03.279
<v Speaker 2>seen just kind of like jumping in and pulling one

0:36:03.320 --> 0:36:04.400
<v Speaker 2>of the girls down to the floor.

0:36:04.560 --> 0:36:04.799
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:36:05.560 --> 0:36:07.919
<v Speaker 2>I was like taking aback because the girl looks nothing

0:36:08.040 --> 0:36:12.120
<v Speaker 2>like me, and so now Dave says, he thought it

0:36:12.200 --> 0:36:12.440
<v Speaker 2>was me.

0:36:12.600 --> 0:36:15.000
<v Speaker 1>He thought it was you, and he loves the podcast

0:36:15.080 --> 0:36:17.200
<v Speaker 1>and he loves you, and he is the Giselle and

0:36:17.239 --> 0:36:19.479
<v Speaker 1>he needs to find his robbin and he was ready

0:36:19.520 --> 0:36:20.160
<v Speaker 1>to come fight.

0:36:20.480 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 3>Yes, help out, putt vasiline on his face. Yes, yeah, no,

0:36:23.880 --> 0:36:24.400
<v Speaker 3>that was not me.

0:36:24.600 --> 0:36:25.480
<v Speaker 1>So very interesting.

0:36:25.680 --> 0:36:28.279
<v Speaker 2>So yes, So maybe I need to not be so

0:36:28.400 --> 0:36:31.160
<v Speaker 2>angry with people's thinking that that was me for some

0:36:31.480 --> 0:36:33.480
<v Speaker 2>not all, Yeah, because I was just like, yeah, of

0:36:33.560 --> 0:36:34.560
<v Speaker 2>course that was Gazelle.

0:36:34.680 --> 0:36:36.440
<v Speaker 3>Of course she was jumping into a fight.

0:36:36.560 --> 0:36:37.200
<v Speaker 1>Right, what day?

0:36:37.400 --> 0:36:37.520
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:36:37.640 --> 0:36:40.560
<v Speaker 1>Exactly? So for the people who were confused and thought

0:36:40.600 --> 0:36:44.719
<v Speaker 1>that that was Giselle and you were genuinely confused.

0:36:44.360 --> 0:36:47.440
<v Speaker 3>Yes, we apologize. Okay, all right, So moving on.

0:36:47.960 --> 0:36:50.600
<v Speaker 2>This is Susie, and she says, on your last podcast,

0:36:50.640 --> 0:36:52.160
<v Speaker 2>but it wasn't our last podcast.

0:36:52.200 --> 0:36:52.879
<v Speaker 3>It was a while ago.

0:36:53.280 --> 0:36:57.320
<v Speaker 2>You talked about hosting and food. Well, my cousin constantly

0:36:57.360 --> 0:37:00.360
<v Speaker 2>invites us over her house at twelve pm.

0:37:00.960 --> 0:37:04.040
<v Speaker 3>Okay, that is lunch such.

0:37:04.960 --> 0:37:10.160
<v Speaker 2>But only drinks and snacks are providing. Is it shady

0:37:10.239 --> 0:37:12.840
<v Speaker 2>that my cousin never serves lunch at her parties?

0:37:13.360 --> 0:37:14.680
<v Speaker 3>She lives two hours.

0:37:14.440 --> 0:37:18.360
<v Speaker 2>Away, but about an hour for everyone else. We end

0:37:18.440 --> 0:37:19.759
<v Speaker 2>up leaving hungry all the time.

0:37:19.800 --> 0:37:24.040
<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, should we stop attending attend Yeah? Should

0:37:24.040 --> 0:37:26.759
<v Speaker 3>we stop attending her parties? Or just eat before or

0:37:26.840 --> 0:37:27.440
<v Speaker 3>after leaving?

0:37:27.719 --> 0:37:28.080
<v Speaker 1>Okay?

0:37:28.280 --> 0:37:32.640
<v Speaker 3>Okay, so it's your cousin. Yes, this was Oh yeah, Susie,

0:37:32.680 --> 0:37:33.280
<v Speaker 3>I said, Susie.

0:37:33.520 --> 0:37:35.640
<v Speaker 1>So this is your cousin. So I feel like, as

0:37:35.960 --> 0:37:39.680
<v Speaker 1>your cousin, you should be able to say to her, yeah, hey,

0:37:40.560 --> 0:37:43.320
<v Speaker 1>I love to be there. What's the food situation?

0:37:43.640 --> 0:37:44.799
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I'm hungry, bitch?

0:37:45.160 --> 0:37:49.239
<v Speaker 1>Or what's the food situation? Should we bring something right?

0:37:49.400 --> 0:37:49.520
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:37:49.760 --> 0:37:52.520
<v Speaker 1>Maybe your cousin is actually waiting for you. You all

0:37:52.920 --> 0:37:55.440
<v Speaker 1>to offer the chip in and bring something true? Right?

0:37:56.680 --> 0:37:59.279
<v Speaker 1>But yes, twelve o'clock it's lunchtime. You all need to

0:37:59.360 --> 0:38:01.760
<v Speaker 1>be eating something more than just some snacks and drinks.

0:38:01.760 --> 0:38:03.799
<v Speaker 1>It's a part two hours away. It sounds like they're

0:38:03.840 --> 0:38:05.560
<v Speaker 1>like part they're hosting. So that's a party.

0:38:05.640 --> 0:38:07.680
<v Speaker 3>Okay. So yeah, and if it's a part, well, like,

0:38:07.760 --> 0:38:09.960
<v Speaker 3>why isn't there food at the party? It's a lunchtime.

0:38:10.320 --> 0:38:12.239
<v Speaker 3>It's a lunchtime party.

0:38:12.160 --> 0:38:14.560
<v Speaker 1>Right, So if it's starting at two, clearly it's not

0:38:14.680 --> 0:38:17.120
<v Speaker 1>ending until at least three. I don't know I'm starting

0:38:17.160 --> 0:38:19.680
<v Speaker 1>at twelve. I'm sorry, twelve. Yeah, that's what I'm gonna say.

0:38:19.719 --> 0:38:22.799
<v Speaker 1>If it's starting at twelve, it's clearly not ending any

0:38:22.840 --> 0:38:25.480
<v Speaker 1>earlier than three o'clock. No, so you want people to

0:38:25.560 --> 0:38:28.719
<v Speaker 1>get there and be just flat out starving and they

0:38:28.800 --> 0:38:29.560
<v Speaker 1>travel two hours?

0:38:29.640 --> 0:38:33.080
<v Speaker 3>What kind of parties are in the world? Yeah, this

0:38:33.280 --> 0:38:33.800
<v Speaker 3>is terrible.

0:38:33.920 --> 0:38:36.720
<v Speaker 2>Your cousin is the worst, and you should have nipped

0:38:36.719 --> 0:38:37.719
<v Speaker 2>this in the but a long time ago.

0:38:37.880 --> 0:38:39.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think y'all need to just really I think

0:38:39.760 --> 0:38:41.160
<v Speaker 1>since your cousin, you should be able to have a

0:38:41.160 --> 0:38:45.280
<v Speaker 1>conversation and be like, hey, what's the food situation? Should

0:38:45.280 --> 0:38:48.399
<v Speaker 1>we chip in? Maybe you guys since she frequently hosts,

0:38:48.440 --> 0:38:49.680
<v Speaker 1>maybe people take turns.

0:38:49.800 --> 0:38:52.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, or get there and just order uber eat. Yeah,

0:38:52.719 --> 0:38:55.880
<v Speaker 3>have that come or you bring you bring what you

0:38:55.960 --> 0:38:57.759
<v Speaker 3>want to eat and bring it up for everybody else.

0:38:58.000 --> 0:38:58.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:38:58.480 --> 0:38:59.799
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but this is an easy fix.

0:39:00.120 --> 0:39:02.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but no, that's since since you know the deal

0:39:02.760 --> 0:39:06.080
<v Speaker 1>at this point, Yeah, say something yes or don't go

0:39:06.520 --> 0:39:10.040
<v Speaker 1>right or yeah, or just say something. And if she's like, no,

0:39:10.280 --> 0:39:12.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm just serving grapes.

0:39:11.680 --> 0:39:16.760
<v Speaker 3>And cheese, then be like, no, babe, I'm hungry.

0:39:17.040 --> 0:39:18.880
<v Speaker 1>Then then eat before you go. But if it's a

0:39:18.920 --> 0:39:20.440
<v Speaker 1>two hour drive or whatever.

0:39:20.360 --> 0:39:21.120
<v Speaker 2>Like what.

0:39:21.719 --> 0:39:21.919
<v Speaker 1>Yes.

0:39:22.960 --> 0:39:25.600
<v Speaker 2>Just recently, when I discussed this with one of my friends,

0:39:25.920 --> 0:39:28.640
<v Speaker 2>she called me a piglet because I said that I

0:39:28.840 --> 0:39:31.560
<v Speaker 2>was hungry and she didn't have any food at her event.

0:39:31.920 --> 0:39:34.480
<v Speaker 2>She's like, oh, just a piglet, just out. So I

0:39:34.520 --> 0:39:38.040
<v Speaker 2>won't tell y'all who that was. Let's just yes, yes,

0:39:38.520 --> 0:39:43.120
<v Speaker 2>the way she speaks, and I'm like, yeah, I'm greedy af.

0:39:44.239 --> 0:39:47.520
<v Speaker 1>But she doesn't want anyone to see her eat. That's

0:39:47.840 --> 0:39:50.480
<v Speaker 1>she doesn't because just because you don't eat, because you

0:39:51.440 --> 0:39:54.360
<v Speaker 1>be skinny and spelt and all, that don't mean we

0:39:54.520 --> 0:40:00.200
<v Speaker 1>want to be Listen people that you actually eat, that

0:40:00.280 --> 0:40:00.840
<v Speaker 1>you're a human.

0:40:01.040 --> 0:40:03.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I liked my body, but I guess what I

0:40:03.760 --> 0:40:06.840
<v Speaker 3>feed it. Okay, so listen. I'm forty two and I

0:40:07.440 --> 0:40:09.440
<v Speaker 3>have This is from Tiffany, and I have lived, so

0:40:09.560 --> 0:40:13.719
<v Speaker 3>you are not forty two. This from Tiffany, she said. Listen,

0:40:13.760 --> 0:40:14.319
<v Speaker 3>I'm forty two.

0:40:14.320 --> 0:40:16.600
<v Speaker 2>I have lived fairly independent life as a single mom

0:40:16.719 --> 0:40:22.160
<v Speaker 2>of one. Recently, my truck was repossessed and I called

0:40:22.800 --> 0:40:31.440
<v Speaker 2>three ex lovers slash friends that still hit me up

0:40:31.960 --> 0:40:34.279
<v Speaker 2>and asked for one thousand dollars from each.

0:40:35.480 --> 0:40:39.640
<v Speaker 3>I know that's right, Sis, it was crickets. Oh and

0:40:39.840 --> 0:40:41.160
<v Speaker 3>I then block them.

0:40:43.040 --> 0:40:48.800
<v Speaker 2>Nonetheless, I got my truck back with my money. I

0:40:48.920 --> 0:40:53.320
<v Speaker 2>would have gladly taken the OG's money, especially in hard times.

0:40:55.400 --> 0:40:57.920
<v Speaker 1>This was in response to this is a what is

0:40:58.000 --> 0:40:58.960
<v Speaker 1>the date of this email?

0:40:59.680 --> 0:41:00.560
<v Speaker 3>This is April?

0:41:00.719 --> 0:41:03.200
<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay. This is a response to remember the lady

0:41:03.239 --> 0:41:05.920
<v Speaker 1>that wrote in about the air conditioning or something her

0:41:06.000 --> 0:41:09.680
<v Speaker 1>roof for something? Yes, and the guy sent her money

0:41:09.840 --> 0:41:12.120
<v Speaker 1>and she didn't want to. Yes, that's what she's writing

0:41:12.160 --> 0:41:12.600
<v Speaker 1>a response.

0:41:12.640 --> 0:41:13.719
<v Speaker 3>Okay, right right.

0:41:13.880 --> 0:41:16.000
<v Speaker 1>She said she would have gladly taken that money. Yes,

0:41:16.080 --> 0:41:17.920
<v Speaker 1>because she hit up her three ex lovers.

0:41:18.080 --> 0:41:21.200
<v Speaker 2>Yes, well they were X after they they got for

0:41:21.280 --> 0:41:24.040
<v Speaker 2>the money. They were still lovers, but they became X

0:41:24.200 --> 0:41:26.600
<v Speaker 2>after they it was crickets when she asked them for mine,

0:41:26.640 --> 0:41:27.839
<v Speaker 2>I got all three of us.

0:41:28.000 --> 0:41:30.200
<v Speaker 3>All three. You have one, right I could give you?

0:41:30.440 --> 0:41:34.640
<v Speaker 2>How about they give you half something? Yeah, like give

0:41:34.680 --> 0:41:37.720
<v Speaker 2>you a tent, give you hit you with a hondo hundreds.

0:41:39.000 --> 0:41:39.960
<v Speaker 2>Now this is hilarious.

0:41:40.160 --> 0:41:41.920
<v Speaker 3>But she was proud and she.

0:41:42.280 --> 0:41:44.279
<v Speaker 2>Guys, I'm not saying her last name, but her last

0:41:44.360 --> 0:41:47.080
<v Speaker 2>name is on this. So she is loud and proud

0:41:47.160 --> 0:41:51.000
<v Speaker 2>about her three love us, and who says who even

0:41:51.080 --> 0:41:51.920
<v Speaker 2>writes lovers?

0:41:52.400 --> 0:41:55.440
<v Speaker 3>Lovers? Who writes that word? Right? Isn't that from like

0:41:56.200 --> 0:41:59.480
<v Speaker 3>the forties or the lover my eighties?

0:41:59.520 --> 0:41:59.920
<v Speaker 1>The eighties?

0:42:00.080 --> 0:42:01.360
<v Speaker 3>It's from the eighties, my.

0:42:01.520 --> 0:42:05.160
<v Speaker 1>Love, I'm like lovers because they should be giving you

0:42:05.200 --> 0:42:06.320
<v Speaker 1>more than a thousand dollars.

0:42:06.640 --> 0:42:08.720
<v Speaker 3>Well, they should have been like, I'll cover the whole.

0:42:08.719 --> 0:42:13.480
<v Speaker 2>How about this, lovers, Your truck shul never been repolled. Right,

0:42:14.040 --> 0:42:15.960
<v Speaker 2>they should have stopped it from being repolled.

0:42:16.239 --> 0:42:18.160
<v Speaker 3>Right. Yeah, you should have been like, hey, I'm a

0:42:18.200 --> 0:42:19.640
<v Speaker 3>couple months behind on my carpet.

0:42:19.760 --> 0:42:21.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you can't refer to them as lovers?

0:42:21.480 --> 0:42:22.120
<v Speaker 3>What are they?

0:42:22.719 --> 0:42:24.920
<v Speaker 1>Curse? Boy?

0:42:27.480 --> 0:42:30.680
<v Speaker 3>Wait a minute, So I'm watching this show. I'm watching

0:42:30.719 --> 0:42:31.800
<v Speaker 3>this show. So I didn't know.

0:42:32.120 --> 0:42:35.080
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that was like a term that men

0:42:35.360 --> 0:42:38.239
<v Speaker 2>kind of like like to possess, Like guys that just

0:42:38.400 --> 0:42:41.080
<v Speaker 2>don't want like a relationship or whatever, don't like just

0:42:41.239 --> 0:42:42.000
<v Speaker 2>out here doing them.

0:42:42.280 --> 0:42:45.200
<v Speaker 3>They're like, yeah, I'm a boy. Really, Yeah, where do

0:42:45.239 --> 0:42:47.600
<v Speaker 3>you learn that? I was watching something?

0:42:47.680 --> 0:42:50.560
<v Speaker 2>Okay, And that's kind of like he didn't mind that really,

0:42:50.680 --> 0:42:51.839
<v Speaker 2>Yeah he said I'm a man.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that terminology was more so used for guys

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<v Speaker 1>that like mooch off of guys and then and they're

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<v Speaker 1>like their do boy, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>The do boy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but yeah, this is just the actual act. Okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>like like you just you're gonna hit it and quit it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's to be a better term, hit it and quit

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<v Speaker 2>it boys. Okay, yeah, and they're proud. I mean yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure there's plenty of people, but but but in

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<v Speaker 2>this particular situation, the woman was like, I just want

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<v Speaker 2>you to be a hit it and quit it yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And that that's what messed him up.

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<v Speaker 3>That he was like, oh, but I like you, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>don't do it every time. Every time. It's so predictable.

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<v Speaker 3>He's so predictable. I had to give that advice to

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<v Speaker 3>a female the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you act like a dude? Oh? Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh sure did No.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, we're not going to say that

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<v Speaker 2>this person was, but this is a girl that catches feelings.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, So this we need we need people to write in.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you a girl that catches feelings?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? Or can you hit it and quit it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>And me and Robin was like, girl, you better hit

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<v Speaker 2>it and quit it right as soon as it's over.

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<v Speaker 2>Throw them his clothing, kick him out, get out.

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<v Speaker 1>Act like a dude. And I was just like and

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<v Speaker 1>so like, how do you do that? Is it just

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<v Speaker 1>got to act like a dude. Just take on the

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<v Speaker 1>mentality of a dude. You'll be good or not.

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<v Speaker 2>Just like tell him get the hell out, Like, do

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<v Speaker 2>not let him sleep there. She's like, Oh, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I can do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, you can. You're gonna do it today. You can

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<v Speaker 3>find out what happened. Oh yeah, I will circle back. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I think she's traveling, but I will a bit, but

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<v Speaker 3>I will be circling back on that. Okay. So anyway,

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