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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am jaseebe Bryant.

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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for being here.

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Speaker 2: Yes, once again, Robin has one of the two piece guys.

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Speaker 2: She's looking very sporty.

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Speaker 1: Are you sporty, spice? I'm ready to get my workout on.

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Speaker 3: You are. Have you been working out?

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Speaker 1: No, I've been walking.

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Speaker 3: Okay, walking is good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I'll actually so the grocery store, the Giant

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Speaker 1: is like a mile away walking distance. Yeah, so I'll

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Speaker 1: like take a carry little bag with me and I'll

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Speaker 1: walk there and I'll go in the grocery store and

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Speaker 1: just grab, you know, get my little things that I

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Speaker 1: need and then walk home.

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Speaker 2: So that's two miles. Yeah, okay, you think you're doing something.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I just enjoy walking.

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Speaker 1: To the.

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Speaker 3: But you know it's hard to carry all the groceries.

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Speaker 1: That's the worst, right exactly. I'm so I go in

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Speaker 1: there when I'm like, okay, I'm just going to get

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Speaker 1: a couple of things. Yes, not good, it's not going

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Speaker 1: to be too heavy. And then I'm literally like walking

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Speaker 1: home and I'm like, oh, I'm like throwing it all

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Speaker 1: over my back like.

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Speaker 3: I would be ubering it. I'd be like uber calling one,

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Speaker 3: come get me.

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Speaker 2: When speaking of when is Corey going to be able

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Speaker 2: to get a learner's.

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Speaker 1: So, what is it? You have to be fifteen and

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Speaker 1: nine months?

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Speaker 2: Fifteen and nine or six?

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Speaker 1: So his birthday is in March? Okay?

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Speaker 3: First of all, does he care? Does he want it?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Oh he does? Okay, so he's on top of it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he wants it. Not that he's on top of it,

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Speaker 1: but he wants it.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So his birthday is in March. So if it's fifteen

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Speaker 1: and six months, then that would be in September. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: towards the end of September. If it's fifteen nine months,

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Speaker 1: and that would be December.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so I'm gonna yeah, so we need to

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Speaker 1: research that, okay and get into it because yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: going to need to drive himself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and they go him and Carter go the same school.

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Speaker 1: No, well, now they're going to separate school.

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Speaker 3: That's fine. He can drop his brother off and then

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Speaker 3: keep it pushing.

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Speaker 1: Well, his school starts earlier than Carter. I mean, Carter

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Speaker 1: would have to do like he before care yeah or whatever,

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Speaker 1: I want to do that to him. Okay, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, Corey just especially for that reason, will need

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Speaker 1: to be driving because I can't be doing that.

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Speaker 2: First, No, no one has time. No one has time

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Speaker 2: to be a mother's got time for that. Anyway, moving on,

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Speaker 2: do you have your reasonably shady moment?

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Speaker 3: I have a reasonably shady moment?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, you go first.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So there's this spot and I'm giving them a

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Speaker 2: shout out because it's been good. This spot called Carmen's

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Speaker 2: Italian Ice and it's in like the Rockville area. It's

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Speaker 2: kind of like off the beaten path whatever. Anyway, it's

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Speaker 2: very good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So it's kind of like Arita's, but they have so

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Speaker 2: they do the ice Icy's or whatever, and then you

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Speaker 2: can get the custard and they have different flavor of custard.

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, don't know.

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Speaker 2: Why they continue to run out of marshmallow custard, which

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Speaker 2: is their best, but whatever, that's not even my shady moment.

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Speaker 2: So Angel in particular loves this place. She wants to

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Speaker 2: call all the time, so we go all the time.

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Speaker 2: So they let you taste obviously the flavors, because they

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Speaker 2: could be like, I don't know twenty icy Flavorso oh,

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Speaker 2: this place is hardcore nice and you can get smoothies,

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Speaker 2: you can get just regular ice cream with your toppings.

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Speaker 2: You get all kinds of things. Okay.

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Speaker 3: So they had.

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Speaker 2: Vanilla custard and they had root beer icy. So I

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Speaker 2: was like, this is going to be like a root

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Speaker 3: I was so bomped. I was like, yes, I found

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Speaker 3: my flavors. I was like, can I taste the root beer?

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Speaker 3: It was like, yes, they let me taste it. I

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Speaker 3: was like, this is so good. Okay. So I made my.

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Speaker 2: Order okay, And for whatever reason, when I got the

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Speaker 2: root beer icy in the cup, it wasn't as strong

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Speaker 2: and potent, like it was more icy than root beer.

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Speaker 2: I think it was because in a little spoon it

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Speaker 2: tastes one way, but in the cup it just didn't.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't it wasn't hitting, it was not hitting. And

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Speaker 2: I was mad at them because I was like, they

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Speaker 2: catfished me.

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Speaker 3: This is a catfish moment. Carmens, Carmens catfish me. Stop

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Speaker 3: catfishing people. So I went but I did go back

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Speaker 3: and I said to them, so do you squirt all

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Speaker 3: the squirrel because I'm thinking it's like a syrup like

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Speaker 3: that they put in ice. I'm like, you know, do

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Speaker 3: you have to like re up the syrup situation on

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Speaker 3: the different flavors?

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Speaker 2: And they're like, I don't know. Sometimes I think it

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Speaker 2: was like a fifteen year old that was so they

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Speaker 2: didn't know. So anyway, I got.

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Speaker 3: It the second time, okay, and it was better.

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Speaker 1: Wasn't all the way there yet, but it was better. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So they were able to put more flavor in it.

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Speaker 3: I guess.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I guess, but like Karme's, I meany for you

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Speaker 2: to be consistent. Yes, it may and it might just

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Speaker 2: be rut beer because like they're they're cotton candy, because

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Speaker 2: I get that. Sometimes they're peanut colada, all those flavors,

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Speaker 2: they are on point.

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Speaker 3: Okay, But I was so pumped from my root beer float.

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Speaker 1: That sounds like Carter would like that.

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Speaker 3: Oh he would love it.

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Speaker 1: I don't like root beer, but Carter would really enjoy that.

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Speaker 1: He was good to know.

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Speaker 3: Yes, So do you consider their ices and custard better

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Speaker 3: than Rita's.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Rita's is Rita's, Okay, do you know that there's

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Speaker 2: several Rita's in Baltimore that were a drug front.

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Speaker 3: And that's not because I'm making that up. That's because

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Speaker 3: I was in the paper in the news.

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Speaker 2: Really, yes, oh really no, yeah, the one that I

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Speaker 2: used to go to all the time. Yeah, Baltimore, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that was drug front central.

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Speaker 1: Really.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Okay, I mean I unders man Robin's like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I got my weed there, I got my gummies.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: They just use it to clean the money, clean the money, yes,

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Speaker 2: for money laundry.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well this Carmen's.

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Speaker 2: I very very much that, and they like come up

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Speaker 2: with all kinds of different flavor concoctions that I really like.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm yeah, okay, I'll have to try it there.

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Speaker 3: Definitely check it out.

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Speaker 1: That's actually making me hungry or like craving some Rita's.

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Speaker 1: And there's actually a Rita's not too far from the house.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'll walk there.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Robinson, I'm gonna get my steps. Do you count

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Speaker 3: your steps? No? I don't have an Apple Watch. I

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Speaker 3: think Apple watches are stupid.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and so I've asked everyone that I know that

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Speaker 1: has an Apple Watch. I'm like, okay, what do you use

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Speaker 1: if you have your phone on you, it counts it

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Speaker 1: counts your steps too, Yes it does. And I have

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Speaker 1: my phone, Like, I have an armstrap that I put

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, I don't need an Apple app watches.

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Speaker 1: Well, the only thing is like, so one one walks

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Speaker 1: with me sometimes and so he doesn't bring his phone,

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Speaker 1: but you know, and he uses it of course, counting

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Speaker 1: steps and all that stuff. But he also can, like

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Speaker 1: you know, see his text messages or answer a phone

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Speaker 1: call and stuff like that. And so it's like, okay,

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Speaker 1: if you don't want the big phone with you, then

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Speaker 1: to see where it comes in.

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Speaker 2: But I don't have a big phone. I have a

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Speaker 2: small one. And you all know why because I will

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Speaker 2: not have carpal tunnel.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Oh do you have you will have?

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Speaker 1: Oh but I won't. Oh yeah, Okay. Do you have

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Speaker 1: a reason to be shady? Oh yes, yes, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Like it's not really shady, it's just Robin being Robin.

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Speaker 1: So I went out to lunch recently with some girlfriends.

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Speaker 1: It was like early dinner and I had on these

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Speaker 1: like really cute platform heel, like you know, yay high

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Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, my foot is a little unstable,

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Speaker 3: Did you face plants? Or did you fall on your

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Speaker 3: BOUTI I fell?

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Speaker 1: Which way did I fall? I fell down towards my left.

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Speaker 1: It was more like on my hip. Okay, so it's

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Speaker 1: kind of weird. So like I had literally I had

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Speaker 1: like my my palm was.

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Speaker 3: All are you by yourself or you with their girlfriends?

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Speaker 1: I was by myself.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: It was so embarrassing. But like, honestly, I feel like

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Speaker 1: nobody saw me.

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Speaker 3: Everyone saw you. We could do nothing. Everyone saw you.

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Speaker 3: I feel like nobody saw me. My hand was all

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Speaker 1: And then it was so crazy because I fall like

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Speaker 1: on my like towards the left, so like my left

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Speaker 1: hand braced itself on the ground and then I like

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Speaker 1: fell to the ground. But for whatever reason, my right

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Speaker 1: like days. It was just it was weird.

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Speaker 2: Did they have to is that the side that braced you?

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Speaker 2: Like did that have to like overcome and say?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but it was just so funny. When

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Speaker 1: I was about to go down, it literally was like

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Speaker 1: in slow motion. I was like, I was.

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Speaker 3: Like whoa and then you did you have to pick

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Speaker 3: yourself up? Did anybody help you?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: I literally I really think I was like by myself.

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Speaker 1: But I looked at like you know, it's like cars

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Speaker 1: like passing down and I'm like I was just laughing

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Speaker 1: to myself. So but I was like shook up. Like

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Speaker 1: so when I like walked into the restaurant, I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just busted my ASTs and I was just like

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Speaker 1: I was like out, Like that shit took me out?

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Speaker 3: Did it? Yes?

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Speaker 1: It was I can imagine, you know. I was just

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Speaker 1: like my I was just all off. So now I'm like,

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Speaker 1: what do I do about these shoes because they're really cute?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So Robin, those are the shoes that you wear

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Speaker 2: when when you're not going anywhere, like meaning like.

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Speaker 3: You're just going to like say you saw them. I

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Speaker 2: No, so just to this is just a side note, guys.

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Speaker 2: Of course Valentino, very cute. But her shoes were just

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Speaker 3: So and Teresa's probably a size nine. Right. She is

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Speaker 2: She said that Anti complimented her feet. Oh, I was like,

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Speaker 3: Where was the women's she said, at the reunion And

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 2: So I have a couple things to read. So Hi,

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Speaker 2: Giselle and Robin. This is from Heather. I'm a huge

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Speaker 2: I wanted to respond about today's conversation about falling in

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Speaker 3: True story.

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Speaker 2: One night watching Bravo, a promo for rhl P came on.

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Speaker 2: It was a scene with Giselle and I was like, wow,

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Speaker 2: those eyes. I have to check out the show, and

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Speaker 2: she said she's been a fan ever since. Oh yes, okay,

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Speaker 2: I need to ask for more money. Yes, I'm hypnotizing

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Speaker 3: My eyes and you're making them turn to Yes, she.

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Speaker 2: Said, I hope I had the opportunity to see you

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Speaker 2: Heather Sea.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank your Heather.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I mean, did you know I was hypnotizing people

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Speaker 1: No? I didn't know that.

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Speaker 3: How much more should you think I should ask? Since

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Speaker 3: negotiating Yes, when I negotiate for some more money.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I should bring this. People are saying, oh my gosh, yes,

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Speaker 3: I might not have a talent, but my eyes hypnotized.

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Speaker 1: People, that's a talent.

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Speaker 3: Talent. That is a gift, that's a gift from God.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, okay, Well I'm here to tell you that

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, So I do want to I know that

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Speaker 3: you hope that I do. Okay, So I want to

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Speaker 3: read about because you know we have Muhammed our friend.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, So for those of you all who are

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Speaker 2: friends of this podcast, y'all know that there's a guy

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Speaker 3: He's been to one or two of our live shows.

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Speaker 1: He came to the one in New York and then

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Speaker 2: He was Kan Yes at Bravo Khan. He loves us.

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Speaker 2: He's very shady. He's shady in a good way, shady

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Speaker 2: in support of justse Ellen Robin.

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Speaker 1: Yes love Mohammad.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and he in front of my children. He told

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: My best friend is getting married in the Dominican Republic

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Speaker 2: this year and I really want to go, but financially

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Speaker 2: it would be a burden. In June of this year,

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Speaker 1: Congrats Mohammad, congrats a big move.

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Speaker 3: Yep.

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Speaker 2: Earlier this year, I found out that I I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: she promised me that I would attend the bachelor at party,

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Speaker 3: Now that's hurtful, that's painful, that's sadie.

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Speaker 2: I'm torn because I really want to go out of

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Speaker 2: out and insecure. The final payment is due August twenty

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Speaker 3: M He had to put that in there, right, Okay, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't know for go. I don't think twenty seconds, I

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Speaker 2: I'm reaching out to two people who always have given

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Speaker 2: My best friend still tell me at parties. Giselle said

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Speaker 1: Did I say that to him?

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Speaker 3: I'm sure, I'm sure I did. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I love you all.

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Speaker 2: Muhammad from Toronto. Okay, so this is actually like a situation. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's a tough one. The part about the bachelorette party.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and he found out he was not invited on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Finding out that you weren't invited on Instagram, Yes, that's shady.

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Speaker 1: That would definitely that it's red flag. Red flag put

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldn't be doing anything with her, right.

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Speaker 1: And then so if your friends that know you are

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Speaker 1: You know, they're basing it off of something that they know. Yes, right,

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Speaker 2: I said, I say if if I'm not he wasn't

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Speaker 3: He found out off on Instagram. You're not invited to

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Speaker 2: If I'm not invited to the bridal part bridle shower,

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Speaker 1: Bridal shower. I understand because she's a female. And maybe

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Speaker 1: I think usually I don't know, but it depends. I mean,

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Speaker 1: Is he Yes, okay, yeah, okay, all right, fine, all right,

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Speaker 1: I take that back.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but but the bachelor party is definitely a party,

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Speaker 2: And if he wasn't, this ain't your friend, Muhammed.

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Speaker 1: Right, well, I definitely say you invite. I would say

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Speaker 2: Yes, and Mohammed, they're not your friends. Robin's being really nice.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm trying to work because the problem is going

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Speaker 1: don't go, Mama. If he doesn't go, he is going

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Speaker 1: I think he will listen because okay, okay, so his

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Speaker 3: Maybe, well, he was invited to the wedding. He's light

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Speaker 1: So he's questioning should he go to the wedding?

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Speaker 3: Right, they have been friends for sixteen years. If I'm

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Speaker 1: But a lot of people aren't invited to all the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but they are not as close as what he's

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Speaker 2: Robin says go. I just I just say it's hard.

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Speaker 3: If you're gonna have okay, this is good.

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Speaker 2: If you're gonna have fhoe mo, Mohammed, go right, But

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Speaker 2: and do not go, right, Yeah, do not go.

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Speaker 1: And also I think you have to question do you

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Speaker 2: If you don't want to continue the friendship, then definitely

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Speaker 2: don't go. But if you want to do what Giselle

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think you know what. Honestly, I think, knowing

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Speaker 1: like questioning it, so maybe better just not to go.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't put yourself in and just put it on

442
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Speaker 3: the money. No, no, no, no, blame it on the money.

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Speaker 1: Yeaheah, blame it on the money. If you tell you're

444
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Speaker 1: not tell your friend you're not going it is, just

445
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Speaker 1: tell her it's up your financial decision.

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Speaker 2: And this he had to make another deposit, so I've

447
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Speaker 2: assume he already made first deposit. Don't make the second

448
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Speaker 2: deposit and ask for the first deposit back.

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Speaker 1: All right, yeah, definitely get your money back.

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Speaker 2: Get your money back. Yes, so boom, we figured that

451
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Speaker 2: out for Muhammed. Okay, yes, but dang, what this is

452
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Speaker 2: is No.

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Speaker 3: It's August twenty second. Okay, all right, I'm like this

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Speaker 3: episode my air.

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Speaker 2: I don't know after we hope, we hope we get

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Speaker 2: in there before this airs. Okay, all right, this this

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Speaker 2: is Rachel says she has one question. Can you explain

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Speaker 2: what it means when you speak this.

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Speaker 3: Is this is a good question for you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, can you explain what it means when you speak

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Speaker 2: about gossip being in the blogs?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm from I'm from Dundee, Scotland, Scotland. I should

464
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Speaker 2: I should start this whole thing over again. I just

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Speaker 2: have one question question. Can you explain what it means

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Speaker 2: when you speak about gossip being in the blogs? Okay?

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Speaker 3: The blogs?

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Speaker 2: I'm from Dundee's, Scotland, and I've never heard anyone use

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Speaker 2: that phrase over here. When I think of a blog,

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Speaker 2: I am thrown back to two thousand and two, before

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Speaker 2: social media was a thing. Does it just mean the

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Speaker 2: info has been read in an online article of a

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Speaker 2: news website, or someone really out there typing shade under

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Speaker 2: fake user names or dodgy this is from Scotland, dodgy websites? Okay,

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Speaker 2: If it is the latter, where can I read it?

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Speaker 3: Anyway?

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to say I've watched seven different franchises

478
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Speaker 2: of Real Housewives, and Potomac is definitely the best. Woo

479
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 2: Before Potomac, I never particularly liked any of the housewives.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Kyle Richard's and nine Leak's she liked them.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I only I usually only watch for the shady moments,

482
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Speaker 2: but you two are the only ones who come across

483
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Speaker 2: as real and sound.

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Speaker 3: Girls.

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Speaker 2: Keep being yourselves all the best, Rachel, So thank you, Rachel.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So, I feel like the term blog is loosely

487
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Speaker 1: used to refer to like platforms that maybe have an

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Speaker 1: Instagram page where they report about gossip mainly, and I

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Speaker 1: think a lot of times they do link back to

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Speaker 1: a blog site, but most of their traffic is on Instagram, So.

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Speaker 2: A blog site would be what So give me an example.

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Speaker 2: Is a blog site like Queens of Bravo. So Queens

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Speaker 2: of Bravo. See that's hard. So Queens of Bravo is

494
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Speaker 2: really only an Instagram page. They don't actually have a

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Speaker 2: blog site.

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Speaker 3: But if I was referring to the blogs I put

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Speaker 3: them under that, you would.

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Speaker 1: Put them under there, right, That's what I'm saying. I

499
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Speaker 1: feel like it's a loose term that we use to

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Speaker 1: refer to just Instagram pages that.

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Speaker 3: Report Okay, okay, Jazz and Brand, that is a blog.

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Speaker 3: That's a blog.

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Speaker 2: Yes, jazzon Brand hasn't has a website, right, they have

504
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Speaker 2: an Instagram they have a Twitter and they report on

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Speaker 2: the latest and the greatest.

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Speaker 1: Right so on Jazzmine brand. They more so so like

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Speaker 1: Queens of Bravo is more like just opinion we like

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Speaker 1: by the way, yes we love Queens of Bravo.

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Speaker 3: What's up? You know?

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Speaker 1: They do like more memes, more opinion type stuff related

511
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Speaker 1: to Bravo stuff, which if you're not following them, go

512
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Speaker 1: follow them because they're like their sense of humor is great,

513
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Speaker 1: their perspective is great. Of course they love me, so

514
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Speaker 1: I can say, yes, you know, I love them back.

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Speaker 3: Okay, there we go.

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Speaker 1: So anyway back to an actual blog though, So an

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Speaker 1: actual blog actually more so started out with just the

518
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Speaker 1: website where they reported gossip news, and then as you know,

519
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Speaker 1: social media and stuff evolved, then they became more heavily

520
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Speaker 1: reliant on their Instagram page and stuff like that. But

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Speaker 1: they still will they'll tell you like the beginnings of

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Speaker 1: an article and then they'll say click the link in

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Speaker 1: bio to read the rest. So they still are trying

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Speaker 1: to direct people back to their website to read the

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Speaker 1: full story. So what is page six That is more

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Speaker 1: of a that's a news that's a newspaper outlet okay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. And would you say, would you consider TMZ a blog?

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't consider them a blog.

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Speaker 3: Well, actually they'd be like the blog of blogs.

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Speaker 1: Well, I would say they are an entertainment media website.

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Speaker 1: So really honestly a blog. I think any of these

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Speaker 1: you could say, any of these gossipye pages would be

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Speaker 1: considered an entertainment media website.

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, I just.

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Speaker 1: Wouldn't consider the larger ones. Say, you know, like you said,

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Speaker 1: a TMZ or I don't know, entertainment or whatever, a blog.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think shaver is a blog.

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Speaker 3: Would they be considered blog? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So that it's like I can't really define it exactly,

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Speaker 1: but it is a loose term when we refer to

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Speaker 1: any type of platform reports gossip.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, if you're reporting what's happening in people's lives,

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Speaker 2: that's you're going to be considered a.

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Speaker 1: Blog, right, yes, right, even if you're TMC or if

545
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Speaker 1: you're just some little sight that has two readers.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and sometimes the blogs get it right, yeah, Sometimes

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Speaker 2: they're nice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah sometimes yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes there are some my south, right, there's something

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Speaker 1: that that make an effort to have a balanced.

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Speaker 3: Yes situation, Yes, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Balance.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is really short. I know I said I

554
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Speaker 2: would let you go, but I'm not. Okay, so, oh

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Speaker 2: you took my power.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: First of all, this is from oh I'm sorry. This

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Speaker 3: is from shout out to Derek. Derek. Oh, hi Derek,

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Speaker 3: I didn't even read that part. Hi Derek.

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Speaker 2: How you doing. We haven't seen you in a while.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure you're like in the south of France or

562
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Speaker 2: you know, you know, him and his wife travel all

563
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Speaker 2: over the place. Yes, so enjoy your travels and his wife.

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Speaker 3: Yes. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So on my g timeline, I saw a situation where

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Speaker 2: husband and wife had a joint account. He found out

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Speaker 2: that over the years, she was taking money out of

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Speaker 2: the joint and putting it into a hidden account. By

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Speaker 2: the time he found out, she had amassed a little

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Speaker 2: over twenty two thousand dollars as a just in case

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Speaker 2: divorce fund. Put that in quotes. So here's my question.

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Speaker 2: Number one, how would you react?

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Speaker 3: Number two? Is that considered stealing? Number three? Is it wrong?

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Speaker 3: Number four? Is it reasonable? Or is it you Now

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Speaker 3: it's definitely shady, Yes, it's not. Actually it's reasonable.

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Speaker 1: Okay, No, if he does if she's doing that, yeah,

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Speaker 1: without her husband's knowledge.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's all types of wrong, shady. Is it wrong? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Is it really? Yes? I think they should have come

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Speaker 1: to an agreement that Okay, we have this money in

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Speaker 1: this joint account, and we each take x amount of

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Speaker 1: dollars and put it into our own personal saving.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but she's what we don't know is is she

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Speaker 2: contributing to the joint count, like if her salary and

585
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Speaker 2: if she's working and her salary is going in there too,

586
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Speaker 2: so they joint account, both moneys are going. What's wrong

587
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Speaker 2: with her taking money out and putting it somewhere else?

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00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 1: It's wrong if she doesn't tell him that is it.

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Speaker 1: It's actually reasonable for her to do it. It's it's

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Speaker 1: not if she it's reasonable.

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Speaker 2: Not to tell him why because it's shady if he cheats,

592
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Speaker 2: And it's reasonable if she needs money to get a divorce.

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Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I understand the logic behind it. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I understand the logic and her thought process and all

595
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Speaker 1: of that. And you know, as my grandmamat say, you know,

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Speaker 1: make sure you got your own money, yea, make sure

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Speaker 1: you cover all of that type of stuff. But it's

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Speaker 1: in the grand scheme of things. She's wrong.

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Speaker 2: Okay, do you consider her stealing? That's not stealing because

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Speaker 2: you and your husband she have.

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Speaker 1: I don't consider that steal.

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Speaker 3: You'll steal from your husband.

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00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 2: No, because y'all should be one or something. Is that

604
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 2: what the Bible says, y'all want something? Your money is

605
00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 2: my money, yes?

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Speaker 3: And my money is my money? Is that what you Yes? Yes,

607
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,400
Speaker 3: my money is my money. Your money is all my money.

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00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 1: Yes.

609
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 3: Okay, So it's not stealing.

610
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Speaker 1: It's not stealing, but it's being sneaky and I think,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I wonder now, okay, are they heading towards divorce?

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Speaker 1: Is that why he's finding this out?

613
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Speaker 3: Like that would really put this is actually, Derek, this

614
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 3: is not right.

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Speaker 2: He's like, this is what I say. It's like asking

616
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Speaker 2: for friends. But really, Derek, I understand you and your wife.

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Speaker 2: Your wife got a little secret stass, right.

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Speaker 1: But so if there weren't problems in the relationship and

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Speaker 1: the husband is just finding out the best, believe there's

620
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Speaker 1: probably problems in the relationship now.

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Speaker 3: Not necessarily.

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Speaker 2: Just never know it's a rainy day, you're just saving

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Speaker 2: for a rainy day. Listen, Okay, this is this is

624
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 2: where the problem lies.

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Speaker 1: I just think she should have disclosed it.

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Speaker 3: She should.

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00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 2: Okay, this is where the problem lies. If he's doing it.

628
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 2: If he's doing it, it's a problem.

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Speaker 1: See.

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Speaker 2: If she's doing it, it's not a problem because he

631
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Speaker 2: can not have a back account on the side. No,

632
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 2: you cannot, sir.

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00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 1: See, So why is it okay for her to do

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Speaker 1: it because without telling him that. I'm just when I

635
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,959
Speaker 1: was married, Yeah, we had a joint account I had,

636
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 1: and then and then Giselle had her own account. And

637
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: when I remember, he did not have his own account,

638
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: so his if he wanted to buy something, that came

639
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: from the joint account. Okay.

640
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 2: So whatever I put into my account was my business,

641
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Speaker 2: right the end of the story.

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Speaker 1: But you didn't You wouldn't sneak and do it without.

643
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Speaker 3: How do you know, I'll never tell Okay.

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00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: See, I think it's different. Right. It sounds like this

645
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: couple they probably had some sort of setup where it

646
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 1: was like the joint account was meant for them to,

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Speaker 1: you know, pay the bills, pay the bills, I say,

648
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 1: riy some stuff, right, save money, all of that. So

649
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Speaker 1: if the money that's in the joint account is allotted

650
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Speaker 1: for a purpose, whether it's to save, to pay the

651
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Speaker 1: bills whatever, and you're not telling me that you're using

652
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Speaker 1: it for another for one more purpose, which is to

653
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Speaker 1: fund your own account.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and that's a problem.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, yes, Robin, Yes, and leave it to beaver world. Yes,

656
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 2: we would all be honest with each other. But that's

657
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Speaker 2: just not how life works. Why is a secret because

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Speaker 2: you don't want him to know that you're taking some

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Speaker 2: money from the joint account and you're putting it in

660
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Speaker 2: because there's a rainy day.

661
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 1: Right, But I'm saying she should be able to put

662
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: money in her account, and then he should be able

663
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: to take that same amount of money and put in

664
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: in his account. True, he should, you know what I'm saying.

665
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 1: He should be able to do that. That's what I'm saying.

666
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 3: So now he wouldn't be my husband.

667
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: If you were to get married today, Yes, would you know?

668
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: Would I want have that same banking setup? I just

669
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 1: I don't so why and I never so? Well, we

670
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: had a joint joint we have joint account, okay, as

671
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 1: you should. And he has his accounts Yes, I have

672
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 1: my account.

673
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, yes, I would have it. Okay.

674
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 2: So Steve Harvey says, yeah, I saw this recently that

675
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 2: that's how it should be, like you should have actually

676
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 2: should have five accounts or something like you should have

677
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 2: a joint for paying the bills. You should have a

678
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 2: joint savings, and then you should have your individual accounts.

679
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 3: That'd before.

680
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 1: I don't know where it fits for the investment accounts.

681
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 2: Was yes, okay, so I think that's good. And this

682
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 2: this is the reason. Let's back up. I remember I

683
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 2: was dating this guy, okay, his name is Sherman, and

684
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 2: he said to me that when he was married, anytime

685
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 2: his wife bought him something, it was really like he

686
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 2: butt it for myself, right, because it was out of

687
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 2: the joint account, right, So for those purposes like and

688
00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 2: I think I did buy jamal things from my count right,

689
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 2: so that if it was his birthday or whatever, he

690
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 2: wouldn't necessarily be buying.

691
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 3: Himself access to transac. He can't see like how much

692
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 3: I paid for it. Yeah, not that he was.

693
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: He was not the.

694
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 3: The account police at all. You are, Robin Dixon is.

695
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 2: I just want everybody to know Robin knows where everything

696
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 2: goes and how much is spent on everything. If she

697
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 2: says she's not, she lying, Okay, Poor Wan Dixon because

698
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 2: one can't spend no money without Robin being like.

699
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 3: Excuse me, so you spend what on?

700
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: What?

701
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 3: Explain that to me? So and I'm not I'm in

702
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 3: the police either, like to like.

703
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 1: Ease up because I'm like, I can't justify what the.

704
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:51,280
Speaker 3: Things you spend money?

705
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: Yes?

706
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 2: So well okay, yes, So if I were to get

707
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 2: married tomorrow, yes, we would all have our own accounts

708
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 2: and houses. You have your house, I have mine. So

709
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 2: that is how that marriage will work. Oh my god, Okay, yeah,

710
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 2: we're not. We're not cohabitating.

711
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 3: Who does that? That's so like two thousand and four

712
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 3: fantastic idea?

713
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

714
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: I mean listen, if you were not cohabitating, your car

715
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 2: would be in the garage right right, that's a that's

716
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 2: very true.

717
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 3: You would not have to worry about the fan going

718
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 3: off in the middle of the night.

719
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: Very true.

720
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 3: You wouldn't have to worry about him just like screaming

721
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 3: your name. Yes, and then when you want to spend

722
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 3: time with him, he come over.

723
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah, then when he can, might I might

724
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: take you up on that.

725
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 3: I'm just saying I think it helps everyone. Look, you

726
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 3: see that little shed right in front of us, yes,

727
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 3: so that's the wine house.

728
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 2: That's the heat shed that she shed a heat shed.

729
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 2: So what's that called the bat the cave room, no,

730
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 2: man cave, Yeah, that could be the man cave. It

731
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 2: could be yeah yeah. Would he want to sleep in

732
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 2: the man cave if.

733
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 1: It was comfortable?

734
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, No.

735
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 1: He wants to be a fund of.

736
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 3: Me of course.

737
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 2: So it's just like, oh, go away anyway, I digress. Okay, So, Derek,

738
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 2: I hope we answered your question because we killed that

739
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 2: with like we beat that with a horse.

740
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 1: Oh no, okay, so let's see David.

741
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, hi, Dave.

742
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 1: Yes, David writes to us. He said, hey, ladies, so

743
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: I never listened to podcasts until I found yours. Yay,

744
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 1: thank you. I am from the DMV area, and I

745
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 1: am truly Jazel the little bit shady one, and I

746
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: just need to find my Robin.

747
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 3: Oh you'll find Robin or not.

748
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 1: Anyways, last week you discussed the video on TMZ, so

749
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,879
Speaker 1: this is from episodes a few weeks ago. I absolutely

750
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: do not want Jazelle in any drama and was taking

751
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 1: my non existence and earrings off and putting vaciline on

752
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 1: my face about to run to the spot to have

753
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 1: my girl's back, because honestly, until you spoke on it,

754
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 1: I thought it was just out. No, even with the

755
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: slow down version, it looks like her. So please don't

756
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: think everyone wants her in some mess because we don't.

757
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,360
Speaker 1: But from the video it did resemble her. All of

758
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 1: our apologies for mistaking her for some ghetto princess. Okay,

759
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,439
Speaker 1: I love you too, keep knowing you your biggest man. David, Hi, David,

760
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: thank you. Okay.

761
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 3: So, David, get your eyes checked. Number one, number two.

762
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: Okay.

763
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 2: So if people who don't really know we're talking about. So,

764
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 2: a couple of weeks ago, there was a brawl that

765
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 2: was shown on TMZ.

766
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 1: What was it?

767
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 2: A brawl shot on TMZ that had something to do

768
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 2: with The Real Housewives Potomac.

769
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,919
Speaker 3: So if you're bored, go look at it. Scroll down

770
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:50,879
Speaker 3: you'll see it. Okay.

771
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 2: So in that altercation, there was a woman who had

772
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 2: a blonde She did have a blond ponytail shown a

773
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:00,719
Speaker 2: bright color and I normally wear bright colors. She was

774
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 2: seen just kind of like jumping in and pulling one

775
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 2: of the girls down to the floor.

776
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 3: Okay.

777
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:07,919
Speaker 2: I was like taking aback because the girl looks nothing

778
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 2: like me, and so now Dave says, he thought it

779
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 2: was me.

780
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 1: He thought it was you, and he loves the podcast

781
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: and he loves you, and he is the Giselle and

782
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,479
Speaker 1: he needs to find his robbin and he was ready

783
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: to come fight.

784
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 3: Yes, help out, putt vasiline on his face. Yes, yeah, no,

785
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 3: that was not me.

786
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: So very interesting.

787
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 2: So yes, So maybe I need to not be so

788
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 2: angry with people's thinking that that was me for some

789
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 2: not all, Yeah, because I was just like, yeah, of

790
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 2: course that was Gazelle.

791
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 3: Of course she was jumping into a fight.

792
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: Right, what day?

793
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 3: Right?

794
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 1: Exactly? So for the people who were confused and thought

795
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: that that was Giselle and you were genuinely confused.

796
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 3: Yes, we apologize. Okay, all right, So moving on.

797
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 2: This is Susie, and she says, on your last podcast,

798
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 2: but it wasn't our last podcast.

799
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:52,879
Speaker 3: It was a while ago.

800
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:57,320
Speaker 2: You talked about hosting and food. Well, my cousin constantly

801
00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 2: invites us over her house at twelve pm.

802
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 3: Okay, that is lunch such.

803
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 2: But only drinks and snacks are providing. Is it shady

804
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 2: that my cousin never serves lunch at her parties?

805
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 3: She lives two hours.

806
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 2: Away, but about an hour for everyone else. We end

807
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 2: up leaving hungry all the time.

808
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, should we stop attending attend Yeah? Should

809
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 3: we stop attending her parties? Or just eat before or

810
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 3: after leaving?

811
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 1: Okay?

812
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 3: Okay, so it's your cousin. Yes, this was Oh yeah, Susie,

813
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:33,280
Speaker 3: I said, Susie.

814
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: So this is your cousin. So I feel like, as

815
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 1: your cousin, you should be able to say to her, yeah, hey,

816
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:43,320
Speaker 1: I love to be there. What's the food situation?

817
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm hungry, bitch?

818
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 1: Or what's the food situation? Should we bring something right?

819
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 3: Right?

820
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: Maybe your cousin is actually waiting for you. You all

821
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 1: to offer the chip in and bring something true? Right?

822
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 1: But yes, twelve o'clock it's lunchtime. You all need to

823
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,760
Speaker 1: be eating something more than just some snacks and drinks.

824
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 1: It's a part two hours away. It sounds like they're

825
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 1: like part they're hosting. So that's a party.

826
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 3: Okay. So yeah, and if it's a part, well, like,

827
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 3: why isn't there food at the party? It's a lunchtime.

828
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 3: It's a lunchtime party.

829
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: Right, So if it's starting at two, clearly it's not

830
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: ending until at least three. I don't know I'm starting

831
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: at twelve. I'm sorry, twelve. Yeah, that's what I'm gonna say.

832
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 1: If it's starting at twelve, it's clearly not ending any

833
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: earlier than three o'clock. No, so you want people to

834
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 1: get there and be just flat out starving and they

835
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: travel two hours?

836
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 3: What kind of parties are in the world? Yeah, this

837
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:33,800
Speaker 3: is terrible.

838
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:36,720
Speaker 2: Your cousin is the worst, and you should have nipped

839
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 2: this in the but a long time ago.

840
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think y'all need to just really I think

841
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: since your cousin, you should be able to have a

842
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:45,280
Speaker 1: conversation and be like, hey, what's the food situation? Should

843
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:48,399
Speaker 1: we chip in? Maybe you guys since she frequently hosts,

844
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 1: maybe people take turns.

845
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, or get there and just order uber eat. Yeah,

846
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 3: have that come or you bring you bring what you

847
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 3: want to eat and bring it up for everybody else.

848
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

849
00:38:58,480 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, but this is an easy fix.

850
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but no, that's since since you know the deal

851
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 1: at this point, Yeah, say something yes or don't go

852
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 1: right or yeah, or just say something. And if she's like, no,

853
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: I'm just serving grapes.

854
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:16,760
Speaker 3: And cheese, then be like, no, babe, I'm hungry.

855
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: Then then eat before you go. But if it's a

856
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 1: two hour drive or whatever.

857
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 2: Like what.

858
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:21,919
Speaker 1: Yes.

859
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 2: Just recently, when I discussed this with one of my friends,

860
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 2: she called me a piglet because I said that I

861
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 2: was hungry and she didn't have any food at her event.

862
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, just a piglet, just out. So I

863
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 2: won't tell y'all who that was. Let's just yes, yes,

864
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 2: the way she speaks, and I'm like, yeah, I'm greedy af.

865
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: But she doesn't want anyone to see her eat. That's

866
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 1: she doesn't because just because you don't eat, because you

867
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 1: be skinny and spelt and all, that don't mean we

868
00:39:54,520 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 1: want to be Listen people that you actually eat, that

869
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 1: you're a human.

870
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 3: Yeah. I liked my body, but I guess what I

871
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,840
Speaker 3: feed it. Okay, so listen. I'm forty two and I

872
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 3: have This is from Tiffany, and I have lived, so

873
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 3: you are not forty two. This from Tiffany, she said. Listen,

874
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 3: I'm forty two.

875
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 2: I have lived fairly independent life as a single mom

876
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 2: of one. Recently, my truck was repossessed and I called

877
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 2: three ex lovers slash friends that still hit me up

878
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 2: and asked for one thousand dollars from each.

879
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 3: I know that's right, Sis, it was crickets. Oh and

880
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 3: I then block them.

881
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 2: Nonetheless, I got my truck back with my money. I

882
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Speaker 2: would have gladly taken the OG's money, especially in hard times.

883
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: This was in response to this is a what is

884
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 1: the date of this email?

885
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 3: This is April?

886
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: Okay, okay. This is a response to remember the lady

887
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: that wrote in about the air conditioning or something her

888
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 1: roof for something? Yes, and the guy sent her money

889
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 1: and she didn't want to. Yes, that's what she's writing

890
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: a response.

891
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 3: Okay, right right.

892
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 1: She said she would have gladly taken that money. Yes,

893
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 1: because she hit up her three ex lovers.

894
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 2: Yes, well they were X after they they got for

895
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 2: the money. They were still lovers, but they became X

896
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 2: after they it was crickets when she asked them for mine,

897
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:27,839
Speaker 2: I got all three of us.

898
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 3: All three. You have one, right I could give you?

899
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 2: How about they give you half something? Yeah, like give

900
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,720
Speaker 2: you a tent, give you hit you with a hondo hundreds.

901
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 2: Now this is hilarious.

902
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 3: But she was proud and she.

903
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 2: Guys, I'm not saying her last name, but her last

904
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 2: name is on this. So she is loud and proud

905
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 2: about her three love us, and who says who even

906
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 2: writes lovers?

907
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 3: Lovers? Who writes that word? Right? Isn't that from like

908
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 3: the forties or the lover my eighties?

909
00:41:59,520 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 1: The eighties?

910
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 3: It's from the eighties, my.

911
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: Love, I'm like lovers because they should be giving you

912
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,320
Speaker 1: more than a thousand dollars.

913
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,720
Speaker 3: Well, they should have been like, I'll cover the whole.

914
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 2: How about this, lovers, Your truck shul never been repolled. Right,

915
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 2: they should have stopped it from being repolled.

916
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 3: Right. Yeah, you should have been like, hey, I'm a

917
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 3: couple months behind on my carpet.

918
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:21,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't refer to them as lovers?

919
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 3: What are they?

920
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: Curse? Boy?

921
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 3: Wait a minute, So I'm watching this show. I'm watching

922
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:31,800
Speaker 3: this show. So I didn't know.

923
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 2: I didn't know that was like a term that men

924
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 2: kind of like like to possess, Like guys that just

925
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 2: don't want like a relationship or whatever, don't like just

926
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 2: out here doing them.

927
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 3: They're like, yeah, I'm a boy. Really, Yeah, where do

928
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 3: you learn that? I was watching something?

929
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 2: Okay, And that's kind of like he didn't mind that really,

930
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:51,839
Speaker 2: Yeah he said I'm a man.

931
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 3: Oh wow, Okay.

932
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 1: I thought that terminology was more so used for guys

933
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 1: that like mooch off of guys and then and they're

934
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 1: like their do boy, you know.

935
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 3: The do boy.

936
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 2: Yes, but yeah, this is just the actual act. Okay, yes,

937
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 2: like like you just you're gonna hit it and quit it.

938
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 2: That's to be a better term, hit it and quit

939
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 2: it boys. Okay, yeah, and they're proud. I mean yeah,

940
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 2: I'm sure there's plenty of people, but but but in

941
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 2: this particular situation, the woman was like, I just want

942
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 2: you to be a hit it and quit it yeah,

943
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 2: And that that's what messed him up.

944
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 3: That he was like, oh, but I like you, okay,

945
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 3: don't do it every time. Every time. It's so predictable.

946
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 3: He's so predictable. I had to give that advice to

947
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 3: a female the other day.

948
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: Did you act like a dude? Oh? Yes?

949
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 3: Oh sure did No.

950
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,880
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, we're not going to say that

951
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 2: this person was, but this is a girl that catches feelings.

952
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 3: Yes, So this we need we need people to write in.

953
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 3: Are you a girl that catches feelings?

954
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:55,239
Speaker 1: Right? Or can you hit it and quit it?

955
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 3: Yes?

956
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 2: And me and Robin was like, girl, you better hit

957
00:43:58,000 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 2: it and quit it right as soon as it's over.

958
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 2: Throw them his clothing, kick him out, get out.

959
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:04,279
Speaker 1: Act like a dude. And I was just like and

960
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 1: so like, how do you do that? Is it just

961
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 1: got to act like a dude. Just take on the

962
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: mentality of a dude. You'll be good or not.

963
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 2: Just like tell him get the hell out, Like, do

964
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 2: not let him sleep there. She's like, Oh, I don't know,

965
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can do that.

966
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 3: Yes, you can. You're gonna do it today. You can

967
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:22,640
Speaker 3: find out what happened. Oh yeah, I will circle back. Yeah,

968
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 3: I think she's traveling, but I will a bit, but

969
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 3: I will be circling back on that. Okay. So anyway,

970
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 3: we're out of here. Oh my gosh, love y'all so much.

971
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 2: Thank y'all so much for being listeners from tuning in

972
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 2: every Monday. We totally appreciate it. Don't ever forget to

973
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 2: live your life. Either reasonable or shakee day or both.

974
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977
00:44:57,880 --> 00:44:59,440
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Speaker 3: Shows, and you can connect with us on social media

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