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Speaker 1: All right, hey, hey, hey guys, and we're busy. How's

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Speaker 2: Oh, weekend was good. Actually, I finally, after like five

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Speaker 2: years of saying I wanted to go see Book of Mormon,

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Speaker 2: I finally went to go see Book of Mormon. Okay,

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Speaker 2: that show. Have you ever seen it before?

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not really it's a Broadway show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, anything not Disney. It's not really my style.

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Speaker 2: No, this is like Okay, first of all, it's a musical.

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Speaker 2: It's hilarious. It was created and written by the creators

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Speaker 2: of South Park, so it's raunchy, like raunchy, af do

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Speaker 2: not bring your parents. We were sitting wait, I got

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Speaker 2: really good seeds. And first of all, it's taken me

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Speaker 2: so long because five years ago, Book of Mormon was

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Speaker 2: the Hamilton Broadway where you could not get tickets, and

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Speaker 2: I five years ago was earning like way less than

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Speaker 2: There were four hundred dollars. But I feel like I

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Speaker 2: have to say thank you to Hamilton because now that

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Speaker 2: tickets are actually not bad and we were able to go,

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Speaker 2: but yeah, it's hilarious. And we were sitting next to

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Speaker 2: the whole premise of it is about Mormon missionaries who

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Speaker 2: or baptizing this Ugandan village, and just hilarity ensues, and

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Speaker 2: like it is not if you, you know, if anything

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Speaker 2: Larry Wilmore said in his White House correspondence to Inner

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Speaker 2: Speech offended you, then you don't want to see Book

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Speaker 2: of Mormon. But it was it was like just like

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Speaker 2: and it was really cute seeing them. Like are we

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Speaker 2: allowed to laugh at that? It's like, yes, you can

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Speaker 2: to joke about the devil and me like, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: that was some fun. And you know, that's a nice

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Speaker 2: way to spend a Sunday. It was nasty yesterday.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it was, which is so random because Saturday it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I frolicked. I was a little bit. I had

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Speaker 2: a girls night Friday and I had, you know, a

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Speaker 2: and so I was not feeling one hundred on Saturday,

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Speaker 2: but I forced myself to leave the house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Saturday really nice. I spent like most of my

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Speaker 1: day outside. I was doing some taping of testimonials for

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Speaker 1: the Budget Nista. So we were in the Bronx. We

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Speaker 1: taped in New Brunswick, we taped in with Stars, we

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Speaker 1: crazy to see people living at different walks of life,

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Speaker 1: like in their actual environment, and it's just interesting to

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Speaker 3: Actually, that was cool.

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Speaker 2: What are you gonna get the Budget Nista mobile? I know, right,

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Speaker 2: like a giant like mad I'm not the big giant placard.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, then I'll never get any peace. I already

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Speaker 1: go to the supermarket like in my town, in my

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Speaker 1: like quick question right, bunch anisa credit, which actually I

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Speaker 1: don't mind. I kind of like that because it's like,

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Speaker 1: you know, normally this is someone who might not otherwise

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Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah, you should host your own little

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Speaker 3: At the tomatoes.

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Speaker 2: Conversations and the produce Atyle.

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Speaker 1: So some Morca news a Missy Copeland and this barbie.

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Speaker 3: How do you feel about it?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I love it. I saw that. I just saw it

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Speaker 2: on GMA. I posted it. I think it's awesome. I

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Speaker 3: I know, right, like I could get it.

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Speaker 1: You know, what I love about the barbie is that

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Speaker 1: it's like clearly more muscular and like built like her you.

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Speaker 2: Know calves though those calves. Yes, I heard I read

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Speaker 2: that she was really involved. I'm sure she was like

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Speaker 2: doing modeling for them, like no, this is what my

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Speaker 1: And even on GMA was cute because Ramin from GMA,

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Speaker 1: who was interviewing her, was telling like the people like,

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Speaker 1: you know, Missy was actually making sure that the barbie

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Speaker 1: I thought that was so cute. She was like, no,

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Speaker 2: She would know exactly I feel like. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: I always could get the one brown barbie because they

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Speaker 2: but I always went for, like, you know, the racially

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Speaker 2: a kick ass career. She wasn't an athlete or a director.

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Speaker 1: She was like a mermaid, racially ambiguous mermaid Barbie.

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Speaker 3: That's awthful.

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Speaker 2: Oh man. So one other headline I wanted to talk

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Speaker 2: about this, which you know, one of my really close

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Speaker 2: and she, like so many other moms, were super pissed off.

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Speaker 2: There's this woman who wrote a novel called Me Maternity,

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Speaker 2: which is like maternity leave but for single women with

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Speaker 2: a fictionalized story, but it was based on her own

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Speaker 2: just like blew up. I mean, the New York posted

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Speaker 2: this woman put herself on that. Why would you do that?

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Speaker 2: It was just like some.

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Speaker 1: People do anything for fame, because she had to know

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Speaker 1: that that's the stupidest thing you've ever heard, Like maternity

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Speaker 1: to leave is not a vacation. Like I babysit my

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I was so agreed, I so agreed. I was choking.

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Speaker 1: So I babysitd my nephew on Tuesdays and Thursday mornings

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Speaker 3: That I she had a baby. It was hard for

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Speaker 1: But her mother in law babysits him mostly when they're gone,

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Speaker 1: And she asked if I would, and I was like, sure, easy, peasy.

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Speaker 1: What From the moment I walk in, Roman that's his name,

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Speaker 3: You're not gonna do is any work.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna go to the bathroom because as soon

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Speaker 1: as you put me down, I'm going to scream bloody murder.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna know why I'm crying. If I need

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Speaker 3: Leave me alone.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it is so much work. I can't even

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Speaker 1: and I'm single and I don't have any kids, so yeah,

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Speaker 1: It is egg exhausting and just the fact that I mean,

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Speaker 2: She's like just she's like jen X. Sorry, she's yeah,

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Speaker 3: We don't want her like I want to. I want

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Speaker 3: to draft her, get drafted in the age draft.

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Speaker 2: Listen. This is the part of her whole, her whole

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Speaker 2: thesis that drives me nuts, she says. As I watch

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Speaker 2: their jobs gave them a whole new lens through which

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Speaker 2: you don't work and feed your kids, they will die, like.

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Speaker 1: And if you want to break, that's what vacation is for.

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Speaker 1: Save your vacations on time, and you know, take three

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Speaker 2: If you all have kids, you have maternity time, maternity

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Speaker 3: Exactly. It's called coming home, fool.

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Speaker 2: Coming home and doing whatever the hell you want to do.

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Speaker 2: I am enjoying thirty almost thirty years of maternity time myself,

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Speaker 2: and this is just bogus. Did you And also what's

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Speaker 2: she bailed. Really yeah, she toly let them hanging, like

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Speaker 1: Right, women who have kids, women who.

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Speaker 2: Are yes, either have kids or you know, their home

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she was like, you know what, actually, I'm not

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Speaker 3: getting paid enough for this. But that was dumb.

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Speaker 1: You had to know that that was gonna happen, because

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Speaker 1: I justay, no.

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Speaker 2: I was just gonna say. In the concept, she talks

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Speaker 2: about people who have three months time off, Well that's

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Speaker 2: not the norm. America is one of the only developed

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Speaker 2: nations that does not guarantee paid family leave time. You

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Speaker 2: going to get paid for it. If you are, you

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Speaker 2: may even get paid half what you were getting paid

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Speaker 2: at a normal time. So it's just it's just bs,

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Speaker 2: and it's from someone who clearly does not understand the

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Speaker 2: way that maternity leave works.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, does she not know anybody with children? Like

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Speaker 1: had a baby, you just see just how struck. I

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Speaker 1: remember within the first three months, I always would visit my

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Speaker 2: Because she looks like, hell, you're a human boob.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Literally, She's just like I just sit here and

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm lactose intolerant. I got really crampyge just

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Speaker 3: I really she's gonna take a year off.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but a year off, which I didn't do until

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Speaker 1: I think that's a good idea because I'm sure it's

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Speaker 2: Well has already been interning on like if she's taken

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Speaker 2: her summer internships with like HBO on The Girls Show,

436
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Speaker 2: and there's one of the show she worked on. I

437
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Speaker 2: think it could be cool. I mean with you could

438
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Speaker 2: because I didn't realize you can for up to a year.

439
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Speaker 2: You can defer your freshman year of college. So you

440
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Speaker 2: get the idea is you get admitted, you accept, and

441
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Speaker 2: then you write a letter or some schools are organized

442
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Speaker 2: and they actually have a specific form and you defer

443
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Speaker 2: for a year and you say, okay, I'll you know,

444
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Speaker 2: enter next fall, and like you can do there's like

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Speaker 2: whole organizations. There's a there's a group called the American

446
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Speaker 2: Gap Association which has they actually review in a credit

447
00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:32,320
Speaker 2: different gap year programs. There's internship programs. There's volunteering ones

448
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Speaker 2: where you go to different countries, or there's a lot

449
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Speaker 2: of like in like American based domestic ones. You can

450
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Speaker 2: do AmeriCorps. There's another one called oh crap, I'm forgetting

451
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Speaker 2: the name of it, but American Gap Association is like

452
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Speaker 2: a really good resource for that. But it's not like

453
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Speaker 2: a like time for you to like hang out on

454
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Speaker 2: the couch and catch up on your real housewives. Yeah.

455
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Speaker 3: I can't see Malia doing all that.

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Speaker 2: Do you think Michelle would allow that?

457
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Speaker 1: I know, Miselle's like, what that's all we've been through?

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Speaker 3: Are you better get up? Let's move.

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Speaker 2: Oh let's see what you did there. Congrats Malia.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then congratitude one last one. Congratitude to the national

462
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Speaker 1: the Detroit girls chess team. They won like a national championship.

463
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Speaker 1: I thought that was dope.

464
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Speaker 2: Oh that could have been a win. Okay, Oh that's right.

465
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Speaker 3: One of these are supposed to be my win.

466
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Speaker 2: Darn it wasted your way?

467
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Speaker 3: What am I.

468
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Speaker 1: Gonna do now?

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Speaker 3: Okay, that was supposed to be my win. I was wondering.

470
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Speaker 3: I'm like, why is it separate?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, that's fine.

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Speaker 3: All right. So it is time for a brown break

473
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Speaker 3: or brown boost? So are you breaking or boosting?

474
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna do a boost boost today because I'm super

475
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Speaker 2: proud of my online shopping skills and I don't think

476
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Speaker 2: i've ever I mean, you probably have heard of these,

477
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Speaker 2: but I don't think i've ever shared my favorite three

478
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Speaker 2: tools I use when I save money online and I

479
00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:02,240
Speaker 2: was just stocking up on some really cute summer dresses

480
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 2: and I was super proud of myself. I found like

481
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Speaker 2: a twenty percent off coupon. But I didn't have to

482
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Speaker 2: even do anything because I have my web browser set

483
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Speaker 2: up with these things called extensions, and you install them

484
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 2: and they just like pop up and they tell you

485
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Speaker 2: exactly what deals you have going on. So there's two

486
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Speaker 2: main ones that I use that I love. One of

487
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Speaker 2: course is e baits, which pops up immediately and it

488
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Speaker 2: says activate, you know, and it always tells you there's

489
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Speaker 2: no you used to have to like go to e

490
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Speaker 2: baits dot com and type in the place to see

491
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Speaker 2: if there is a cash back thing. But if you

492
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Speaker 2: install the extension just Google like Ebates browser extension for

493
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Speaker 2: whatever browser you have, then it just pops up whenever

494
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Speaker 2: you go to website whre Tho's cash back and you

495
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Speaker 2: hit the button and you activated. And the second one

496
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Speaker 2: I use is called price Blink, and price Blink is

497
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Speaker 2: like a little yellow bar that pops up and it

498
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Speaker 2: tells you what coupons are available, but like not just

499
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Speaker 2: what coupons are available. What I like is I don't

500
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Speaker 2: really buy gadgets a lot, but when I do, if

501
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 2: you have the price Blink attachment or extension installed, it'll

502
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 2: tell you, oh, you want this HGTV. Well, I found

503
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Speaker 2: it for this much less at best buy dot com,

504
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 2: Amazon dot com, Hhgreg, like all the different websites. So

505
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Speaker 2: this saved me like fifty bucks when I was trying

506
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Speaker 2: to get back. It totally works. Like when my sister

507
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Speaker 2: and I were buying my MoMA one of those Ninja

508
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Speaker 2: blender thingies for Christmas, okay, and I was on like

509
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Speaker 2: I don't know, Target dot com somewhere because I had

510
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Speaker 2: a coupon, and it alerted me that the same exact

511
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Speaker 2: blender was on sale for like fifty dollars less at

512
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Speaker 2: some random website I'd never really heard of. Like it

513
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Speaker 2: was like, that's the one where you I'm forgetting now,

514
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Speaker 2: but it ended up being it was like a home

515
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Speaker 2: goods website that I hadn't heard of before, and I

516
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Speaker 2: never would have known if not for price Blink.

517
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Speaker 1: So oh price, I'm gonna get that one because I

518
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Speaker 1: use honey that you put me onto. Honey, Yeah, of

519
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Speaker 1: course e baits, but price Blink.

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Speaker 3: That's a new one. Ooh, nice one.

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Speaker 2: Honey, is a little one I like, and I use

522
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Speaker 2: that too, especially if I'm on a site like Sephora

523
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Speaker 2: where there's tons and does of coupons, because Honey will

524
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Speaker 2: when you're ready to check out Honey, you can click

525
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Speaker 2: the Honey button and it will pull up all the

526
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Speaker 2: promo car codes it has for that website, and it'll

527
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Speaker 2: just try them for you. But what I found with

528
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Speaker 2: Honey is sometimes if there's multiple promo codes and one

529
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Speaker 2: of them works, it'll keep trying them and then that

530
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Speaker 2: one will disappear, and then another one will get added.

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Speaker 2: And it's kind of not as like I think price

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Speaker 2: blank is a little bit easier.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna try price blank for sure. Like literally,

534
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna hang up and be like, because I have

535
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Speaker 1: e baits online and I do have Honey.

536
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Speaker 3: Of course I like retail me not. But you can

537
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Speaker 3: never save enough.

538
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Speaker 2: Never, Yeah, and there's no I mean sometimes I'll double

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Speaker 2: check retail me not. But really with price blank and

540
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Speaker 2: ebaits and ebaits now too is adding they I think

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Speaker 2: to compete. They started doing coupons too. If you click

542
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Speaker 2: on the little ebaits button once you have the extension installed,

543
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,479
Speaker 2: you'll have a little button that has an E and

544
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 2: when you click on that, it'll also give you the

545
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Speaker 2: deals in store. Like I'm on Lulu's one of my

546
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Speaker 2: favorite upside to luluse dot com right now, and it's

547
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,119
Speaker 2: like two point five percent cash back, and then I

548
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 2: click down on ebates and it's like free shipping over

549
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Speaker 2: fifty dollars, thirty percent off on this type of outfit,

550
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Speaker 2: on these shoes, et cetera, et cetera. Okay, so pro tips.

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna take a brown break again this week,

552
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,400
Speaker 1: and I'm taking a brown break from my locks. I'm

553
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,000
Speaker 1: so tired of him. So, I mean, they're really.

554
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Speaker 2: How do you take a break from those?

555
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Speaker 3: I don't know.

556
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Speaker 1: I'm just taking a break from thinking about it because

557
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Speaker 1: I'm not really a girly girl, so I don't.

558
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 3: Really know how to style them.

559
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 1: And they're so long now, Mandy, they're like mid back

560
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 1: way to you see me, they're mid back, and I'm like,

561
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, Like I don't know what to do

562
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 1: with them. I feel like, you know, there's like long

563
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 1: hair and then there's like freakishly long hair. I'm borderline freakishly.

564
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,360
Speaker 1: We were like, oh, what religious sect are you from?

565
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Speaker 3: Longness.

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Speaker 1: Really, Yeah, they've gotten so long and I don't know

567
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Speaker 1: what to do with them. So any of you are

568
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: listening and you are like really stylish with your locks,

569
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Speaker 1: have a great YouTube channel or something like that, definitely

570
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Speaker 1: tweet me, tweet us at the BA podcast or tweet

571
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 1: me at the budget me stuff. Because I'm side of

572
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 1: these locks. I just always put them in like a

573
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Speaker 1: messy bun or like that's about it.

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Speaker 2: I would suggest Pinterest. Pinterest. I've been pinning like all

575
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Speaker 2: my natural hairstyles. I've been like going to Pinterest and

576
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 2: just listening for a dinner. But do you and also

577
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Speaker 2: do you follow the Cipriana twins.

578
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Speaker 3: Oh yes, but no, but I don't. Their locks are

579
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Speaker 3: not like I don't.

580
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Speaker 2: Know, I know they're much different. But I was just

581
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Speaker 2: saying locks are beautiful.

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Speaker 1: No, No, I mean I think so, honestly, I think,

583
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 1: and honestly mine are. Really they're beautiful, they're well kept.

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Speaker 1: It's just that I'm so I don't know how to

585
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Speaker 1: style them. So I always feel like it's such all

586
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 1: this wasted beauty because they're really long, they're clean, they're slim,

587
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 1: they're all the same size, and you know, everywhere every

588
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 1: time I go somewhere, someone will say, oh, your locks

589
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: are so nice. But I'm like, I wish I see

590
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 1: these women and their hair is so beautifully styled, and

591
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Speaker 1: here I am with the ponytail like I'm five.

592
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Speaker 3: So I'm like, I need help.

593
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,159
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, I finally have big girl underwear,

594
00:25:58,200 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 1: I need big girl hair.

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Speaker 2: YouTube and Pinterest, Yeah, I just.

596
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, Pinterest is hard because I need someone to step

597
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 1: by step to show me, like with a twist and turn,

598
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 1: and I just there's to me, there's a thin line

599
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 1: in overly styled blocks. I don't like for myself anyway,

600
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,679
Speaker 1: Like overly style where it's like a twist and a

601
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 1: curl and a curl and a twist and a turn.

602
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: I like more classically styled. So yeah, So if anybody

603
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Speaker 1: has any suggestions, because until then, I'm taking a break

604
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Speaker 1: from these things, I'm tired of them kind of looking

605
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Speaker 1: like my same old self.

606
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Speaker 2: How to take a break from something attached to your head?

607
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Speaker 1: Ah, well, if a break from trying to style.

608
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 2: Them it least would you ever cut them?

609
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 3: I would?

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Speaker 1: And actually I was considering getting them layered, like maybe

611
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 1: taking a few inches off the bottom and then like

612
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Speaker 1: layering the front so that way when I do wear

613
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Speaker 1: them out, they look styled. That's like I'm like the

614
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Speaker 1: queen of how do I look like I did them

615
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 1: but didn't do them? And so I was thinking that

616
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Speaker 1: and I think that I might do that this week. Actually,

617
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Speaker 1: Like a friend of mine cuts flocks and she said

618
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Speaker 1: she do that from me. But I'm nervous because I'm like,

619
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Speaker 1: what if he looks crazy new hair?

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Speaker 2: Knew you, I know, just ask her for referrals.

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Speaker 1: No, well, I've seen her, like, you know, like her

622
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Speaker 1: what she's done before. But I'm like, what if I

623
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:12,880
Speaker 1: just don't like it on me? But I'm like, it's

624
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 1: heyre it'll grow.

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Speaker 2: Back, it will grow back.

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Speaker 3: So we had a question this week, don't we.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we have a question, And if you guys want

628
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Speaker 2: to send a question, you can email us at Brown

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Speaker 2: Ambition Podcast at gmail dot com. W fa HAA, Okay,

630
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 2: here's a question this week from anonymous. So here's a

631
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Speaker 2: little background, and this one's an interesting question. I wish

632
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 2: I had this problem. She says. I'm twenty three years old,

633
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 2: living in New York City with a full time job.

634
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Speaker 2: I graduated in twenty fifteen with no debts or loans

635
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Speaker 2: due to a full ride scholarship I received during my

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Speaker 2: time in undergrad. My mother passed away and because of that,

637
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 2: I received a significant inheritance. It's divided among savings and

638
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 2: investment accounts and some real estate. So here's your question.

639
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Speaker 2: I'm planning to get my MBA part time in twenty seventeen.

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00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,199
Speaker 2: Should I use money for my inheritance to pay for

641
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 2: school in full? Or should I consider other methods such

642
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 2: as my own income which wouldn't be much, loans, credit cards,

643
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,880
Speaker 2: et cetera, to pay for school. Should I not pay

644
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 2: such a large chunk of money outright? She also adds

645
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: this MBA scholarships are hard to come by, especially for

646
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 2: part time students. Well, I'm very sorry about your mom

647
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: passing away.

648
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 3: Yes I am as well.

649
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 2: But how nice that she was able to give you

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Speaker 2: something for you know, your future.

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00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 3: No, that is that's like, it's a beautiful gift that

652
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Speaker 3: she gave you. So that's awesome.

653
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Speaker 1: And then the fact that you don't have any debt

654
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Speaker 1: moving forward is doubly awesome.

655
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Speaker 3: Huh.

656
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: Well, my initial knee jerk reaction is to say not

657
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 1: to use credit cards to put yourself through school I

658
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: feel like that'd be a step back, you know, totally.

659
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Speaker 3: And I mean I can.

660
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Speaker 1: Understand her hesitancy and like using a lump sum of

661
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Speaker 1: money for school, but it's to me, it's better than

662
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 1: putting yourself back in debt. I feel like she needs

663
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: to sit down and just like, are you gonna.

664
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Speaker 3: Sell real estate to go to school?

665
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: You know, like some of it, Like is that what's

666
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: gonna happen or I just don't know, like what specifically

667
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 1: some of her her money is tied up in, and

668
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 1: just being mindful of making sure the places that you're

669
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 1: going to get the money from is probably the best

670
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 1: place to take it from. Meaning like if you have

671
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: like rental property and it's giving you a ton of

672
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: money a month, or maybe there's ways to shift and

673
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 1: adjust where some of your investments are so that with

674
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: the investment yields more income and you can use that

675
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: income like dividends you know, from stocks and stuff to

676
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 1: pay for your MBA. Just being creative, like maybe a

677
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: mix between what you make at work and then you know,

678
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 1: some of the stuff that your mom left you, but

679
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: not all of it, but definitely not new debt if

680
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 1: you can avoid it.

681
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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I definitely. I mean, I am a fan

682
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 2: of Okay, so you have this inheritance, and it's obviously

683
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 2: education is an amazing way to use it. I mean

684
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 2: the fact that you're even considering that is just it

685
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 2: shows you have pretty good judgment already. And the fact

686
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,239
Speaker 2: that your mom went out of her way to make

687
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Speaker 2: sure you had this in a mix of savings and

688
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 2: investment accounts in real estate, like she set you up

689
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 2: for success. But I would say, first thing is you

690
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 2: want to set aside money so you have an emergency fund,

691
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 2: just basics, So don't blow through your entire cash savings

692
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 2: on education and then have nothing left when you know

693
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 2: something could go wrong and you might need some money.

694
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Speaker 2: So I would set aside like the standard three six

695
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Speaker 2: months amount of income you need on the side. And

696
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Speaker 2: I don't see a problem personally, I don't. I don't

697
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 2: think there's any problem with taking that money and using

698
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 2: it for school. I think it's especially if you're going

699
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 2: to pay use them, like spend the money anyway. All

700
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 2: you're going to do, and especially with MBA is like

701
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 2: that's usually that means private loans, and private loans me

702
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 2: high interest rates because usually you max out your federal

703
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 2: and your federal student loan allowance pretty quickly with your MBA.

704
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 2: But I say, keep your job, use the inheritance to

705
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 2: pay for your MBA. I mean, it's great if it

706
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 2: can pay for all of it, but doesn't really give

707
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 2: that much detail. It may seem like it's crazy to

708
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 2: put that much money down right up front, but people

709
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 2: do it. I mean, and and you'd be doing it anyway.

710
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 2: If you take out loans, you're still putting down a

711
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 2: huge lumps on a cash exactly.

712
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 3: So you're going to pay for one way or the other.

713
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I and you have the investment accounts, don't

714
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 2: touch those. And you have the real estate in real estate.

715
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 2: It's a great long term investment, or it can be.

716
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 2: But that's the kind of thing you you know, you

717
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: want to hold on to, especially if it's New York

718
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 2: real estate. Hang on to that exactly, especially right now.

719
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 2: But it sounds like you got a good head on

720
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Speaker 2: your shoulders.

721
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Speaker 3: Yeah. I was like, Wow, that's good.

722
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: I wish. I mean, I feel like my father has

723
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: I mean, he's still alive, thankfully, and I feel like

724
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: that he has made financial choices that will make sure

725
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: that my mom's okay. And we're all grown now, but

726
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: that he has set up his finances in a way

727
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 1: that will be you know, that they'll be something left

728
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: over to put toward generational wealth, just because that's just

729
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 1: the kind of person he is. And that's like some

730
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 1: of the stuff that he's shown us. I'm like, wow,

731
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 1: you do have money. He's like, yes, what do you

732
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Speaker 1: think I'd been.

733
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Speaker 3: Doing all the side?

734
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Speaker 2: That is my dream man. When I was talking about

735
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 2: I was talking to my coworker earlier about how much

736
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 2: he spends on his kids, just childcare. I mean, he

737
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 2: showed me a bill. I don't want to put his

738
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 2: business out there, but it was several thousand dollars for

739
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 2: his like toddler's childcare and he and then he was like,

740
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 2: oh yeah, and he has another kid who's in kindergarten.

741
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 2: And even that doesn't really help, you know, because they're

742
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 2: not it's not that they're paying for all day daycare now.

743
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 2: But then I have to pay for after school daycare

744
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 2: because school lets out at three and they work till

745
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 2: like five or six, and then summertime is coming up.

746
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 2: And he was telling me how much summer school costs

747
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 2: or not a summer camp costs and I was thinking like,

748
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 2: and we were going back and forth, like, yeah, man,

749
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 2: when we were kids, our parents didn't have the money

750
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 2: or didn't even know about those kinds of opportunities. But

751
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 2: I would be so happy to be able to give

752
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 2: my kids those kind of like opportunities. Like it sounds

753
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 2: like the worst, thousands of dollars for childcare, thousands of

754
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 2: dollars for college tuition, but like I feel like that's

755
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 2: my goal is to be sure that you know, like

756
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 2: your dad, I do all the work, all the hard

757
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 2: work now and the and the make the tough decisions,

758
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 2: you know, to save money now so that we can

759
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 2: can do things like that for our kids later on.

760
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 2: The kids I don't even know yet, but you know,

761
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 2: and if they're breads, I'll just take it off from

762
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:35,960
Speaker 2: myself exactly.

763
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: Like, see, you were gonna have a great life, but

764
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 1: you decided now.

765
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 3: No.

766
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: But I think that yeah, So I mean I think

767
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 1: that's our advice for you is to, you know, do

768
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: a mix of maybe some of the things that you're

769
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: working with, Like Mandy said, put aside money for emergency fund.

770
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 1: I wouldn't sell real estate, but there's nothing wrong with

771
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: using some of the money that your mom gave you

772
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: and left you for education. It's because of education, if

773
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: done right, will help put more money in your pocket.

774
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 3: So it's a win win.

775
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 2: Maybe he's a teeny tiny amount to have some fun. Yes,

776
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:12,720
Speaker 2: I believe in that, maybe like five percent. I believe

777
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 2: do something your mom. Maybe take a gap year between

778
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 2: or take a trip between you know your your uh

779
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 2: you're you graduate in twenty fifteen, take a little time

780
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 2: and got some new time.

781
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's always a good idea. And I don't

782
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 1: like I took a while between, did you? When I

783
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 1: got my master's I took I don't even know. I

784
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: think it was like four or five years because I

785
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure this is what I wanted to do.

786
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 1: I feel like your undergrad degree is a degree that

787
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 1: you're just like, I guess, and your master's degree is like, okay,

788
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 1: you know what. I'm pretty sure this is how I

789
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: want to spend like my career.

790
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because you have to be so focused. I

791
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 2: don't know, I'm I would love to go back because

792
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 2: I'd love to teach one day. Oh really yeah, I

793
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 2: always think about that, But I have to have a master's.

794
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 2: Like most cases, you have to have a master's yeah,

795
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 2: unless you're like, I don't know, Christiane, I'm on poor

796
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 2: but of course I'm sure she has like ten degrees.

797
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 2: But yeah, and I would go back for that, but

798
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 2: not until I'm sure, because.

799
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: It's exactly it's expensive to be unsure with your.

800
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 2: Masters, and it hasn't hurt me yet. So anyway, all right,

801
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 2: Well that wraps up the tips for today. Again, if

802
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 2: you don't want to, email us or email us Brown

803
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 2: Ambition Podcast at gmail dot com dot com. Where's that from?

804
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:25,879
Speaker 1: That's like Travelosity, isn't it Media.

805
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:28,800
Speaker 3: Expedia.

806
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 2: We're gonna get sued for like I don't know.

807
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: Travels is like really, all this money we spent and

808
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:39,320
Speaker 1: you can't even get it right? So it's tad for Winds.

809
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,439
Speaker 1: All I do is Wayne wa wain No matter what?

810
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 3: Do you have any wins this week?

811
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 2: Money? Oh, mama wins this week? Well, yes, I have

812
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 2: a win I want. Well, it's a win. I wanted

813
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 2: to talk about this during Buzzworthy, but I decided to

814
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 2: make it a win because it's like a win and

815
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 2: a let's have an educated conversation about this. So Larry

816
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 2: Wilmore hosted The White House Correspondence dinner on what was

817
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 2: it Saturday night? And first of all, President Obama. I

818
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 2: guess the win of this is that President Obama's speech

819
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 2: was like the best twenty minutes ever. Did he get

820
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 2: a chance to watch it? No, but I will spoiler

821
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 2: at the end spoiler alert, he just like takes the

822
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 2: mic and drops it.

823
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 3: Yes, I heard that, drops mic.

824
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:26,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, bad assery from start to finish. So

825
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 2: Larry Wilmore came on aut I didn't watch the whole

826
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 2: thing as it happened. I watched like Sunday morning, because

827
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 2: you can go to c C span dot org or

828
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Speaker 2: whatever the website is and watch it yourself. But I

829
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 2: thought Larry Wilmore it was like really funny, and you know,

830
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 2: we haven't had a black host of the White House

831
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 2: correspondent cinner and like I don't know how long, but

832
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 2: one of the things he said at the end was

833
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 2: kind of controversial. Was he used, well, there, I only

834
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 2: heard one thing. He made a joke about the word jigaboo, jigaboo,

835
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 2: which was like a very old timey derogatory term for

836
00:36:58,960 --> 00:36:59,520
Speaker 2: a black person.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, and at.

838
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 2: The very end of his speech he was saying, I

839
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 2: forget what it was like the punchline of some joke.

840
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 2: But he's like, yo, bear, you did it my n word. Yeah,

841
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 2: And Obama didn't seem to like phase by it. But

842
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 2: of course the media it's all over it, and yes,

843
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 2: thought pieces and tweets and like people are it's always

844
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 2: like this, you know, and I'm just wondering, is that

845
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 2: a win or is that a miss? Like I personally,

846
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 2: I don't know. To me, it's like a like maybe

847
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 2: they know each other like that, or I don't know,

848
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 2: I don't know how to feel about it.

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00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: You know, it's so crazy because to me it's it's

850
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,880
Speaker 1: it's like a typical like you know whatever Superman and

851
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 1: his boys, you know, like you like, yeah, my nick

852
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 1: you know, and so it's not a but I guess

853
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: because of like where it was, like I'm president, Obama

854
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 1: probably didn't feel any kind of way because with his

855
00:37:56,440 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 1: you know, black friends, college, growing up, whatever, it's a

856
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 1: big deal to.

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00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:01,919
Speaker 3: Say that to each other.

858
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: Like but like it just it's rare in like such

859
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 1: open company that you.

860
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:09,399
Speaker 3: Use words like that.

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00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 1: You know. There's definitely stuff that I say with my

862
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: girlfriends that I would not ever say, you know, and

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00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 1: like public public we might just say, like, you know,

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00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,919
Speaker 1: with each other. So that's probably where he wasn't based

865
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 1: because it wasn't like He's not going to take a fence.

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00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 1: President Obama's like, you know, whatever, what's up? But like, yikes,

867
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Speaker 1: the whole world is watching, so they're like, you.

868
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 2: Know, so audience, I know, so they were like, oh

869
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 2: my god, but I mean awards.

870
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just exactly if there had been the BET Awards,

871
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:43,919
Speaker 1: nobody would have better than that. So I can see

872
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 1: both sides for sure, And I don't know that it's

873
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:48,880
Speaker 1: a win or loss. I'm kind of like neutral on it.

874
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like, well, you know, it's just normal,

875
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: you know, black guy camaraderie conversation. But at the same time,

876
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: I don't know that the world is ready to see

877
00:38:58,200 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: all that.

878
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 2: It's like it just made me think about code switching

879
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,399
Speaker 2: and how we kind of turn it on and off. Yes,

880
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 2: I never grew up saying that word. I'm never comfortable

881
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:08,360
Speaker 2: saying it's I don't have a code to switch. I

882
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 2: just don't turn that code on. I just don't say it.

883
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 2: But I have friends, obviously, friends who do family my

884
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 2: dad like, and it's just it's natural for me. To

885
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 2: hear that kind of thing. But yeah, it's sort of

886
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 2: for me, it's a win in that. Larry was like,

887
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 2: I'm not going to turn the switch, like for this moment,

888
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 2: Like in this moment, you are my brother, like we

889
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 2: and what you signify is so huge for not just

890
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 2: black men but all of black you know, America, And

891
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 2: can we just take a second and acknowledge how fucking

892
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 2: cool this is?

893
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean, I think you know

894
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 1: what it's so I think, like I like that the

895
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: way you phrase that. You're right, it was like we

896
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 1: all cold switch. It's like, honestly, it's not a word

897
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: that I use typically. I don't think too many, like

898
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: I mean, none of my girlfriends. It's not like a

899
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 1: hey girl, Like that's not a normal greeting, Like it's

900
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 1: mostly usually a normal greeting among men of color, not

901
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 1: necessarily women of color. So that's not something I normally

902
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say unless I was just trying to be

903
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 1: really funny with a girlfriend of mine, you know, or

904
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: even if I'm talking to a guy friend maybe to

905
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 1: be funny with him. But but yeah, it was that

906
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 1: is definitely like kind of like a win in that,

907
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 1: like you know it. Normally I would code switch, but

908
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: today I will not, and you will deal.

909
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:20,320
Speaker 2: I don't think he's listening to sleep over it, honestly.

910
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 3: I think both of them.

911
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 1: President Obama's like, honestly, yeah, so elections are happening in November.

912
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,800
Speaker 2: I don't care. It's been like rever, you know, the Rev.

913
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 2: Al Sharpton is speaking out about it, and I'm just like, yeah,

914
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 2: I doubt Larry is worried exactly at all. So I'm

915
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 2: going to make it a win, A win for you, Larry,

916
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 2: a win for Obama. It was his last White House

917
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 2: correspondence dinner. He gave it hilarious speech, so I go

918
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 2: check it out. Like President, whoever wins the next leg

919
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 2: election is not going to have a swag like swag

920
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 2: like Obama. He just they just won't like Hillary whoever.

921
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 2: It just it's never going to be the same. Like

922
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,240
Speaker 2: I'm going to miss him. I miss him already.

923
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,240
Speaker 3: I know that's so crazy.

924
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 2: Oh eight years he was the first president I ever

925
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 2: voted for?

926
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: Real?

927
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 3: Is that really? Wow?

928
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think who was the first person I

929
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: ever voted for it, and it's Clinton.

930
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 3: I think Clinton.

931
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 1: Let's sae my wind so my wind was supposed to

932
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: be the Detroit Girls, and I totally forgot to put

933
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:19,320
Speaker 1: w byer.

934
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 2: Well, you didn't like go into detail if you want

935
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 2: to talk about it exactly what happened.

936
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 1: Well, I didn't exactly have exact detail. I was just like, oh,

937
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 1: I just thought it was so great because you know,

938
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 1: so many things. Detroit just holds like a little deer

939
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 1: place in my heart for me, because it's like Newark,

940
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,439
Speaker 1: you know, where I live, and everyone always has something

941
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 1: to say about Detroit. Everyone always has something negatives to

942
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: say about Newark or Oakland or you know, places like

943
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:48,240
Speaker 1: that that people have written off as like lost cities

944
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 1: or like cities that can never come back. And so

945
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 1: when something like this happens, and chess is not traditionally

946
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 1: seen as something that people of African American descent excel at,

947
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: and so to see these group of brown, beautiful girls win,

948
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 1: you know, the national championship for chess nationally, and so

949
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 1: that just really warmed our heart to say, you know,

950
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 1: like Detroit, it's not just the water issue. Detroit is

951
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 1: not just a broken city. You know, Detroit has things.

952
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: You know, I always think whenever people talk about cities

953
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,719
Speaker 1: like that, I'm like, someone's living there, you know. It's

954
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 1: not like it's like a it's like you know, like

955
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 1: Battle warn and it's like everything is like broken down

956
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 1: buildings and it's all empty. No people live there. Don't

957
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 1: just write off places that people live, you know. And

958
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 1: so it was just nice to see something other than

959
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 1: what we normally see about the city like Detroit.

960
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 3: And I just want to say congratulations ladies.

961
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:45,439
Speaker 2: And they were like they were busies thirteen thirteen years old.

962
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:46,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, so cute.

963
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:47,879
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, look at them and they're all

964
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: like we won. I just thought that was great, and

965
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: I'm just like, yes, I want to see more. I

966
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 1: wish there was more balanced news about places like Detroit

967
00:42:57,600 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 1: and you know, in Newark and Oakland and places like that,

968
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 1: because they are good things that are happening here and

969
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,760
Speaker 1: that you know, if you only focus on the negative,

970
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:08,399
Speaker 1: then sometimes to me, you just bring more negativity about

971
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,720
Speaker 1: because what you think about you bring about I really believe,

972
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 1: and so yeah, I'd love that.

973
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 3: So that was just really nice to see something good

974
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 3: like that.

975
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 2: Two of the girls were twins and their names were

976
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 2: Jayden and Jada. That's just mean, I'm just going to

977
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:23,280
Speaker 2: confuse everybody.

978
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 1: First of all, there's social security stuff, all that stuff.

979
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: It's gonna be so jacked up when they getting older,

980
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 1: because you know how like it's already what because my boyfriend,

981
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:36,280
Speaker 1: his name is it's a J and his.

982
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 3: His twin, he has a twin.

983
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 1: His name starts with the T, but it's like the

984
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 1: same like ending, you know, and so what happens with

985
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 1: them all the time?

986
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 3: And he was like if they they always.

987
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,240
Speaker 1: Are mixing records, you know, like his stuff and his brothers,

988
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 1: and so you just gotta be careful with names like that.

989
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 3: But yeah, that is a little.

990
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: Bit like come on now, Jada, JJ you hey you.

991
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 2: I feel all this affirmation right now because I was

992
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 2: in the academic team when I was in school, which

993
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 2: is like the nerdy club where you just answer like

994
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:09,839
Speaker 2: trivia questions about everything. This makes me feel better about

995
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 2: that you're.

996
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 3: Not a nerd or were you not?

997
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 2: I got teased, Oh I did. It wasn't just about

998
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 2: my hair. People also found time to tease me for

999
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 2: my nerdy club affiliations.

1000
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 1: Oh well, I was always well see, people were very

1001
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 1: careful about teasing me because although I was a super geek.

1002
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:31,239
Speaker 1: My best friend, oddly enough, was not. She was like

1003
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 1: super cute, super cool. Everybody loved Veronica. And also Veronica

1004
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 1: was a really good fighter, which came in handy for

1005
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 1: super geek like me. So one thing you didn't do

1006
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: was mess with tifty, not because I was. I mean,

1007
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 1: there was plenty of fodder, so Therefrey people tried to

1008
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 1: sneak it in, but then I'd be like, let me

1009
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 1: go give Veronica and quickly.

1010
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 3: I literally it isn't so funny.

1011
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,879
Speaker 1: But oh, Veronica, if you're listening, I love you because

1012
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 1: you were like the best in high school.

1013
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 3: She kept me like just out of the trash cans

1014
00:44:59,040 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 3: and out.

1015
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 2: Of my locker, like your bodyguard.

1016
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 1: What. Meanwhile, Vernica is like five to five and I'm like,

1017
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:06,839
Speaker 1: by thee not even five five, probably like five four.

1018
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 1: She's so little fatigue, but that girl can fight. I've

1019
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: actually had guys who would tease me come up to

1020
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: me later and say, Hey, Tiffany, I just want to

1021
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: apologize to you about what I said yesterday.

1022
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 3: And I'm like what, And then I'm like, did Veronica

1023
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:19,360
Speaker 3: talk to you?

1024
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 1: They're like, uh so, I just want to apologize to them,

1025
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 1: but yeah, shout out to her, but shout out to

1026
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 1: all the girls out there and guys out there who

1027
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: protect their friends even if their friends are not on

1028
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 1: the same level as cool as them. Because Ronica made

1029
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 1: sure I had a very smooth high school experience. She's

1030
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: still the same way now, Like if I call her, now,

1031
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 1: who did it?

1032
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 3: Do?

1033
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 1: I need to come down there? Let me get my vasseline.

1034
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, Veronica, we're thirty six now, I'm okay. But yeah,

1035
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:53,439
Speaker 1: so that's probably in too, just Veronica having friends who

1036
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 1: will have your back. I mean, she rarely had to fight.

1037
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 1: People were just naturally afraid. I don't know why. I

1038
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 1: think she just had persona that seemed like this is

1039
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 1: to the death and like.

1040
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 2: The seven girlfriends to back you up. I'm sure these

1041
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 2: I'm sure these chess girls real deep.

1042
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:17,240
Speaker 3: Exactly like what next move man? Yes, that's awesome.

1043
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 1: All right.

1044
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:21,880
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1045
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