Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the.
Speaker 3: Jubile Show, Laura is on the phone today for to
Speaker 3: Catch a Cheater and she thinks that her husband of
Speaker 3: four years named Cam might be sleeping around. So hopefully
Speaker 3: he isn't, but we'll see if we can help you out, Laura,
Speaker 3: why don't you tell us what's going on?
Speaker 1: So, Kim my husband of like four years, and we've
Speaker 1: been through a lot that I would say mostly are
Speaker 1: mostly good.
Speaker 4: I mean, we don't really fight much, but when we do,
Speaker 4: it tends to always be kind of the same topic.
Speaker 1: So you're trying to have like this.
Speaker 4: Former life, like a whole different side of Cam. And
Speaker 4: he even actually refers to it as like the time
Speaker 4: before we met and he was just like a completely
Speaker 4: completely different person, like different career, different friends. But there's
Speaker 4: like this one friend that he has, but I don't
Speaker 4: know just from like day one, I have not been
Speaker 4: able to get past, Like.
Speaker 5: So who is the friend? Like is it a guy
Speaker 5: friend that gets him into trouble? Is it a girlfriend
Speaker 5: you don't want him to time with? So it's with
Speaker 5: a girl named Holly.
Speaker 4: And through the years, like he's told me all these
Speaker 4: stories about he and Holly's to like party really hard,
Speaker 4: and they'd be like closing the bars and they'd like
Speaker 4: even go to rays and they'd even you know, almost
Speaker 4: got arrested several times, and like just like complete opposite
Speaker 4: of how he is now.
Speaker 1: He's stayed friends with Holly this whole time, and you know,
Speaker 1: to be honest, I haven't I haven't been thrilled about that.
Speaker 4: But but it's like things have totally taken a turn,
Speaker 4: and I feel like he's hiding something about Holly.
Speaker 1: I can tell. I can tell when he's been.
Speaker 4: Like communicating with her, and he's like started to like
Speaker 4: leave the room when she called.
Speaker 1: And the first even like.
Speaker 4: One night where he was just texting like really late
Speaker 4: and like kind of left the room and then like
Speaker 4: would go out and then.
Speaker 1: Come back in and texting. And I did ask him
Speaker 1: about it, and he.
Speaker 4: Said something like she just needed advice from him, and
Speaker 4: and then he and like he didn't he didn't even
Speaker 4: go any further than that, just like she needs some advice.
Speaker 4: He never said that they like anything happened between them.
Speaker 4: I get this like weird feeling.
Speaker 1: Before us that maybe something's happening.
Speaker 4: I mean, he kind of somewhat hinted at it, but
Speaker 4: never said like there was anything between them.
Speaker 1: So my last traw, I got an.
Speaker 4: Email from our cell phone company and it said that
Speaker 4: there's been a phone added and it was in all
Speaker 4: his name and yeah, and it's like a nice, nice
Speaker 4: new phone, and so you know, I saw this, and
Speaker 4: I'm just like, so basically, that's why I'm calling you guys,
Speaker 4: because I like that that's just my radar antenna or
Speaker 4: whatever have been up.
Speaker 1: And this was kind of this is like the last straw.
Speaker 2: Would you add him one to your phone plan?
Speaker 1: That's so obvious.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it feels kind of sloppy. But also if he
Speaker 5: doesn't think that she's seeing the phone staff, maybe it's like, well,
Speaker 5: why don't you give your side piece like a burner
Speaker 5: phone aither own that your wife could see.
Speaker 2: Yeah, unless it's like hiding in plain sight.
Speaker 1: Right, like wants to be taught.
Speaker 5: Is he acting different outside of the way that he
Speaker 5: communicates with Holly?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 5: Is he still good with you? Or is he just
Speaker 5: kind of more stand off fish?
Speaker 1: No, things actually don't seem different with us.
Speaker 4: I guess I've been a bit more like stressed out
Speaker 4: and like suspicious and more.
Speaker 1: Just like he's he's not pulling away.
Speaker 5: From me any but you just feel like there's a
Speaker 5: third person in your relationship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Mean the phone thing is strange. Yeah. And what did
Speaker 2: he say about it?
Speaker 1: Well, he didn't say about the phone.
Speaker 4: He when I, you know, was asking him why he
Speaker 4: was like talking to her so much, he said he
Speaker 4: was just like giving her advice.
Speaker 1: And he didn't really go into any details of like
Speaker 1: what advice that would be.
Speaker 3: And did you ask him about adding her on the phone? No, Oh,
Speaker 3: you didn't. Okay, okay, okay, so he doesn't know that
Speaker 3: you know that. No, Well, we'll see if we can
Speaker 3: figure out. You already told us what grocery store you
Speaker 3: guys are Awards card member at. So we'll call and
Speaker 3: pretend to be from the grocery store and say that
Speaker 3: every single month, we choose one Rewards card member at
Speaker 3: random who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department.
Speaker 3: We'll see if he sends those to you or to
Speaker 3: someone else or her right, Okay, hopefully not, but we'll see.
Speaker 3: We'll play a song come back and get your to
Speaker 3: catch a cheater.
Speaker 1: Next, it's time to catch a cheater only on.
Speaker 3: The tuble show if you're just joining us for today's
Speaker 3: to Catch a Cheater. Laura is on the phone and
Speaker 3: she thinks that her husband Cam of four years might
Speaker 3: be cheating. So we're about to call and pretend to
Speaker 3: be from the grocery store that the Rewards Card members
Speaker 3: at and say that he's the lucky winner. Every single month,
Speaker 3: we choose one Rewards Card member who gets free flowers
Speaker 3: delivered from our floral department. We'll see if he sends
Speaker 3: those flowers to Laura or to somebody else. But before
Speaker 3: we do that, Laura, why don't you refresh everybody's memory
Speaker 3: on your situation.
Speaker 1: So Cam has this like longtime friend from before we were.
Speaker 4: Embre together and Holly, and she just has been texting
Speaker 4: her a lot, and I don't know, like walking away texting.
Speaker 4: And basically I found out from our phone company that
Speaker 4: he's added her a phone on our plans.
Speaker 2: So weird. Yeah, that is weird. Yeah, and you haven't
Speaker 2: asked him about that.
Speaker 1: No, that's why I called you, guys.
Speaker 4: I just I didn't know what, you know, if he
Speaker 4: made it a lie or something like, how I would
Speaker 4: deal with it.
Speaker 1: So I figured you guys could get.
Speaker 6: To the bottom of this.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and she's not an ex, but she's somebody that
Speaker 5: you think he may have had a thing with at
Speaker 5: some point.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, cool, Okay, are you ready for us to
Speaker 2: call him?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Thanks, here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello.
Speaker 3: Hi, my name is Jordan. I'm calling from I was
Speaker 3: looking for our rewards card member named Cam.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Cam, please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 2: marketing phone call.
Speaker 3: I'm actually calling a safe thank thank you very much
Speaker 3: for shopping with us, and congratulations here this month's big winner.
Speaker 6: Oh so, what's going on?
Speaker 3: Every single month, we choose one Rewards card member at
Speaker 3: random who gets free flowers delivered to anybody that they
Speaker 3: want from our floral department. It's our way of saying
Speaker 3: thank you very much for shopping. You've just won thirty
Speaker 3: six long stim red roses, a box of candy, your chocolates,
Speaker 3: and a card to be delivered to anybody that you
Speaker 3: want with in the United into the fifty United States.
Speaker 1: Well that's cool.
Speaker 6: Yeah I didn't know you guys did this.
Speaker 3: Well we do, and you are this month's lucky winner.
Speaker 3: So I will first need the first and last name
Speaker 3: of the person you'd like to send them to.
Speaker 1: It's a Holly would you like to put anything in
Speaker 1: a card? Yeah, I'm always here for you.
Speaker 2: Love camp.
Speaker 3: And now I will inform you that this is not
Speaker 3: the grocery store at all. My name is Jewbell and
Speaker 3: this is a radio show. It's called the Jebel Show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hi, camer're all here.
Speaker 1: My name is Nina.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm Victoria. And your wife Laura is actually
Speaker 3: on the phone. What we do a segon on the
Speaker 3: show called to Catch a Cheater, and then we try
Speaker 3: to see if people are cheating based on here some
Speaker 3: flowers too, And I suspected you might be sleeping around.
Speaker 3: And I'm sure she's got some questions for you.
Speaker 1: Great, that's that's all. That's all you have? Is great? Really,
Speaker 1: what is this?
Speaker 6: What are you? What are you doing?
Speaker 1: Like you had to you went, you had.
Speaker 6: To go through his length to kind of just talk
Speaker 6: to me about this.
Speaker 2: What are you doing?
Speaker 1: What am I doing? What are you doing? My God?
Speaker 6: Like, yeah, this is this is a ridiculous way of
Speaker 6: going about things.
Speaker 2: Are you cheating?
Speaker 1: I feel like we just need to ask, like.
Speaker 6: No, no, I'm not cheating.
Speaker 4: Oh oh really, how do you explain You're sending flowers
Speaker 4: to Hollie and you add her to our phone land
Speaker 4: like what what?
Speaker 6: Oh my god, Yeah, I'm so good. Obviously I know
Speaker 6: you don't like her, that's it's just not a secret.
Speaker 6: And she and I have been friends for a long
Speaker 6: time and her boyfriend of five years left her. He
Speaker 6: was like the main breadwinner. He was cheating on her.
Speaker 1: She caught him.
Speaker 6: I know this is ironic considering the situation. He took everything,
Speaker 6: TV everything, She has nothing. So I was just trying
Speaker 6: to help her out, Like she's going through a really
Speaker 6: difficult time right now. So I you know, she was
Speaker 6: on his phone bill, so I added her to mine
Speaker 6: just so she can have a phone for a few months,
Speaker 6: so she gets her own.
Speaker 1: And that's that.
Speaker 6: And that's that.
Speaker 2: Why wouldn't you tell your wife.
Speaker 6: Like she of course she's going to misconstrued things. You know,
Speaker 6: she's gonna look deeper into like I think it's worse
Speaker 6: than it is.
Speaker 3: I mean, has your wife, has Laura your wife cam
Speaker 3: been unreasonable about your friendship with Holly.
Speaker 6: No, but I mean I can tell she it bothers her.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well that's not exactly a very compassionate way to
Speaker 3: deal with somebody that you care about with something bothering them.
Speaker 2: You could address it with her.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I know, I know how sounds and I know
Speaker 6: how it looks. But yeah, that's that's that's all. There is, not.
Speaker 5: Really making a compelling argument, and I know I'm kind
Speaker 5: of waiting for the I love you, baby. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 5: This is such a misunderstanding, Laura. Are you believe are
Speaker 5: you believing this? How are you feeling?
Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm so confused.
Speaker 4: Knowing Cam's heart, it sounds like something he would do,
Speaker 4: but like the mistrust of me to like to not
Speaker 4: be able to like tell your own wife that you're
Speaker 4: doing this like that, there's just such a like a
Speaker 4: lack of trust in me. And I'm so confused. I honestly,
Speaker 4: I don't know what to think.
Speaker 6: Like, I'm sorry, I really am. I just I just
Speaker 6: didn't want there to be any more resentment did you
Speaker 6: have towards her? Like I already know, like at least
Speaker 6: it makes you uncomfortable. I didn't. I figured me doing
Speaker 6: this stuff for her would make you even more uncomfortable,
Speaker 6: resent her even more, so you know, keep quiet about it.
Speaker 6: I don't want to like add more stress to Holly's
Speaker 6: life either. Not cheating on you, and all I love
Speaker 6: you is just like I I just was scared.
Speaker 1: To tell you because I didn't.
Speaker 6: You know, I want you to freak out or get
Speaker 6: a set about it, and I want you to read
Speaker 6: more into it than what it was.
Speaker 1: You can see how this looks though, like, oh, I
Speaker 1: know it looks hard.
Speaker 6: I know I'm being defriendsive. I'm also like really caught
Speaker 6: off guard by everything. But yeah, I mean, I just
Speaker 6: I just don't tell you. I know, I'm sorry, and like,
Speaker 6: I just I'm just trying to help out a friend,
Speaker 6: you know, like this whole her boyfriend.
Speaker 2: Leaving her was totally abrupt, and you.
Speaker 6: Know she's kind of a mess about it. So who's
Speaker 6: just trying to help her?
Speaker 4: But but you said love cam on your flowers, like
Speaker 4: you know.
Speaker 6: I said, I said it to her before. You know,
Speaker 6: it's like she's my friend.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, okay, you promise, Katers did nothing.
Speaker 6: Like I promise, I promise. There's nothing going.
Speaker 5: On that sounds like you need to sit down, and.
Speaker 1: Just like I think that's a great idea.
Speaker 4: I think we should sit down with Holly, because you
Speaker 4: know what, this is so important. You know, I'm not
Speaker 4: I'm not cruel, Like, if she's really in need, we're
Speaker 4: a team and we both need to be there for her.
Speaker 1: And I think that is a great idea. No more secrets.
Speaker 1: I just this is.
Speaker 4: This has been like the scariest time I've gone through.
Speaker 6: And to you too, we sat down and I think
Speaker 6: if you saw Holly, you would you know, understand there's
Speaker 6: nothing else going on.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah, let's let's do that. I think I
Speaker 1: think we all need need that right now.
Speaker 2: I need that right now.
Speaker 1: I want to go. I want to see it for
Speaker 1: myself too.
Speaker 2: Well.
Speaker 3: I know you guys obviously have stuff to talk about.
Speaker 3: Cam sounds sincere to me, though, like he does sound
Speaker 3: that way, and I.
Speaker 5: Actually kind of respect the fact that he's looking out
Speaker 5: for his friend that way.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Just communication, Yeah right.
Speaker 3: I know you didn't want to tell your wife that
Speaker 3: you were helping your friend out like that because you
Speaker 3: were concerned she might think something. But by you not
Speaker 3: telling her, it actually looks worse than if you did
Speaker 3: tell her.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Oh, I know, Okay, good luck.
Speaker 3: And good luck you know, talk it out and hopefully
Speaker 3: you guys can all get together and and work things out. O.
Speaker 1: Thank you guys.
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