1 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached 2 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheekys podcast. I'm here 3 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: to give you a device on anything and everything you 4 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: need help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or 5 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: having issues with your family, or maybe you have a 6 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I 7 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts 8 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious 9 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional. 10 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at 11 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: the sound of the beab. 12 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 2: Him Cheeky's. I just wanted to see what your point 13 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: of view out of this was. So. I was previously 14 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 2: married for kick teen years. We got two beautiful kids 15 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 2: out of that relationship. We've had a very good co 16 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 2: parenting up until recently. He started a relationship was like 17 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 2: expected to happen, Like I told him, I wanted him 18 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 2: to be happy like regardless with anybody he was with. 19 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 2: But the person that he's with now doesn't want him 20 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 2: to have a relationship with his kids or anything. And 21 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 2: he sent a message to my son's cell phone saying 22 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 2: that he wanted to give me more custody. Should I 23 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 2: just do it? Or what do you think I should do? 24 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:43,320 Speaker 2: What should I recommend me to do? I'm like lost 25 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 2: right now. I don't know what to do, like going 26 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 2: back and forth. I feel bad. I feel sad for 27 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 2: my kids because they're fifteen and sixteen. Now I know 28 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 2: they're older, they understand more, but like, I feel like 29 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 2: it's hard because their dad's always been in their life 30 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 2: and for him to just walk out for another girl, 31 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 2: Like I mean, I feel like that's where I can't 32 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 2: put my head around it. Like it's just very awkward. 33 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 2: Now there's like no coe parentee, no nothing since he 34 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 2: started this relationship, so it's kind of hard. I don't know. 35 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:24,359 Speaker 2: Please tell me your thoughts. 36 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 1: I gotta take a deep breath because I'm very upset. 37 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: But the look, I know it's hard and it hurts 38 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: you for your children. But excuse my language, fuck this 39 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: guy because I'm sorry, what an idiot And I usually 40 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: don't speak this way, especially because I don't know this person, 41 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 1: But I'm sorry if he's texting his son and saying 42 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 1: that he basically wants to give up custody and wants 43 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: nothing to do with his kids say, what are you thinking? 44 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 1: And I always say this, and I have such a 45 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: problem with women that come into men's lives and they 46 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: try to conquer and divide, Like how how can he 47 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: even think this is a good woman to be with 48 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:11,119 Speaker 1: if she doesn't want him to be close to his kids? 49 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? This is a disaster waiting to happen. 50 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: I think you need to get full custody. Get your 51 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: children far away from this guy. If he doesn't want 52 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: to be in their lives right now, fine, goodbye, good riddance. 53 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:29,239 Speaker 1: Get them baybi in Save your children and their hearts. 54 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: It's going to hurt. Put them into therapy, give them 55 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: lots of love, be there for them, be the mother 56 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: and the father. That's what my mother was, and SAVISKI. 57 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: For a long time, I was completely fine, and I'm 58 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: still fine to this point, to this day. I was 59 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: fine because I had such a great mother who was 60 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: my mother and my father. You know, she was tough, 61 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: but I didn't miss my dad. So especially if he 62 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: doesn't want to be in their lives, fine, bye, he 63 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: will come back. He will come crawling back. And then 64 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: that's bridge that you'll cry when you get there and 65 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: it'll be your children's decision, but he'll have to deal 66 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: with it with the consequences, and he is going to 67 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: miss out. So if I were you, I would say, Okay, 68 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you what you want. God bless you 69 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: take his ass to court if you do want full custody. 70 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: But he still needs to be responsible in some way financially. 71 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 3: I don't know. 72 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: That's a whole other story. But ooh, this man pissed 73 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: me off. Oh my gosh, Sorry, guys, it's just breathe, Patty. 74 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 1: I am sending you and your children a big hug. 75 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: It's okay. It's gonna be fine. They have a great mother. 76 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 1: They're not even gonna miss your dad. Maybe for a 77 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: little bit. It's gonna be tough, but it's gonna be fine. 78 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 1: All right, guys, let's move on to the next question, 79 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: comes from Karina. 80 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 3: Hey, Cheeky's I am really excited to be doing this. 81 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 4: I am. 82 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 3: First of all, I'm a huge fan. I love you. 83 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 3: You're such an inspiration to latinas and I love what 84 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 3: you sand for. I love everything about you. You're such 85 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 3: a wonderful person. But I need your help. I wanted 86 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 3: to see your input in work relationships. Unfortunately I want 87 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 3: to say it, but yes, I am going to attend 88 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:13,359 Speaker 3: your relationship and I found some one at work that 89 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 3: I really like. But I'm wanting to get your input. 90 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 3: Do you think work relationship is just a passive thing 91 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 3: or do you think that it could actually grow into something? 92 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 3: And when do you think it will be like the 93 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 3: right time to like separate myself from my current relationship 94 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 3: or when do you think you it will be a 95 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 3: time where I could be like, Okay, I know what 96 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 3: I want your honest opinion. 97 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: Okay, Karina, First of all, thank you for all the 98 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: beautiful things you said, thank you for your support, thank 99 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,840 Speaker 1: you for sending me your question, and you did say 100 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: you wanted my honest opinion, so I'm going to be honest. 101 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: You're playing with fire, Karina. If you are in a 102 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: ten year relationship and you are happy, I don't know. 103 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 1: You didn't tell me all that. If you're happy, it's 104 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: not worth it for a little fling, because if you 105 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 1: guys are working together, that's going to get very sticky 106 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,920 Speaker 1: and very boring very quickly. You and this other person, right, 107 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: because working with the person, living with the person, being 108 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,359 Speaker 1: with the person is just that's just too much. You 109 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: guys need some type of like breather in space. So 110 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 1: it might be fun and exciting right now, especially when 111 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:27,720 Speaker 1: something is forbidden, it's more exciting, right People get a 112 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: kick out of that, and I think that's probably what 113 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:31,840 Speaker 1: you're feeling right now. But I don't think it's the 114 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: right decision, especially if you are in a relationship already. 115 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 1: You're starting this off, you would start it off on 116 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 1: the wrong foot. And anything that starts off on the 117 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: wrong foot will end on the wrong foot. Trust me, 118 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 1: I know, been there, done that. If you are not 119 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 1: happy in your current relationship, then you need to end 120 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 1: that first, and not end it because you want to 121 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:53,840 Speaker 1: be with someone else. End it because you're not happy 122 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: because it's not working out, because of whatever the reasons 123 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 1: may be. But you really need to weigh things out. 124 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,480 Speaker 1: You need to put things on scale because it might 125 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: be something that you can regret very quickly. This other 126 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: person might seem exciting and it's something new and this 127 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 1: and that like that only goes so far. So you 128 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: got to really think and pray about this one, babe, 129 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: because in my opinion, your playing with fired and you 130 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: got to be careful with that. Because you will get burned. 131 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 1: And that's my honest opinion, and I hope it helps, 132 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: and I hope you make the right decision for yourself 133 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: and also of course for your partner. Just end that 134 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: before you start something. 135 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 3: New, babe. 136 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, guys, oh wow, our next question comes from 137 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: it says your secret admirer. 138 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 4: Okay, let's see, Hey, beautiful, I know that you're recently married, 139 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 4: but I was wondering if you've ever thought about marrying 140 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 4: a woman before. Love you bad damn girl. 141 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: You guys, this episode is hot. Okay, well, secret admire 142 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 1: I will be honest. Yeah, if you would ask me 143 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: this question ten years ago, probably i'd be like, yeah, 144 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: I definitely want to be with the girl. I see 145 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: myself with the girl. I'd be happy with the girl. 146 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: Wouldn't mind marrying a girl. And yes, I am recently 147 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 1: married and I'm very happily married, thank god. And I've 148 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: said this on the podcast a lot, guys. I was 149 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 1: like fifteen percent, twenty percent, you know, lesbian, gay, whatever, 150 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 1: and it's gone away. I feel I know that sounds funny, 151 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 1: but I feel like I don't know. I'm happy in 152 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 1: my relationship. I'm satisfied, and I'm good. I've always been 153 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 1: honest with the media. He's from the very beginning. I said, 154 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be so freaking honest with him about everything 155 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 1: good to the bad, the ugly, and he knows all 156 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: of this. But yeah, I mean I thought about it 157 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: once in my life. So yeah, thank you for your question, 158 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: my secret admire I hope you are doing well. I'm 159 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 1: sending you a big hug. Okay, guys, last question comes 160 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: from vat. 161 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 5: Hi Cheeky's how are you? I would like some advice 162 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 5: regarding making peace with the past version of yourself and 163 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:18,439 Speaker 5: just giving yourself grace and compassion. So a little bit 164 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 5: about my situation. I am twenty four years old and 165 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 5: I've struggled with my mental health for many years now. 166 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 5: I actually had one of the worst years of my 167 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 5: life last years, and it got so bad that I 168 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 5: even had considered taking my own life away, but nevertheless, 169 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 5: I decided to invest at all and just do the 170 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 5: work I was healing. I was going to therapy, getting medicated, 171 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 5: reading the Bible, really getting in tune with myself. But 172 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 5: in that process, I've been alone. Prior to me doing 173 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 5: the work, I just have lost a lot of friends 174 00:09:57,280 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 5: and lost a very important relationship in my life. So 175 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 5: I just can't help but feel that I'm paying some 176 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 5: type of karma and I feel like I'm not worthy 177 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:11,079 Speaker 5: of the change moving forward. And I just want to 178 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 5: get out of that mindset and mentality because I know 179 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 5: that I have much more to give. But yeah, I 180 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 5: just feel like my past I've been a people pleaser, 181 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 5: so I'm just stuck in that mindset of I did 182 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 5: something wrong to them, and I just don't deserve to 183 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 5: be happy. So if you have any advice, I would 184 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 5: appreciate it a lot. Thank you. 185 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, bed First of all, I'm so proud 186 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: of you, so proud of you for being so young 187 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 1: and doing the work, because you would be surprised. There 188 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 1: are people that are a lot older than you that 189 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 1: don't have the willpower to do it and you have. 190 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: And you should be proud of yourself, and you should 191 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: give yourself a pat on the back. And one thing 192 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 1: that you will learn right now. You're young, but you 193 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 1: seem to be like a very mature and wise young 194 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 1: lady from hearing you out. But one thing that you 195 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 1: will see is that there are seasons in our lives, 196 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 1: and we're meant to evolve and to grow and to 197 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: become the best versions of ourselves, especially when you are 198 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 1: seeking it the way you are. And with that also 199 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: comes shedding and people that were in your life with 200 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 1: the last version of yourself, maybe the unhealthier version of yourself. 201 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 1: Let's say, right, those people will stay there and they 202 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: are not meant to come with you on this new 203 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 1: and brighter and happier journey of becoming who you're meant 204 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 1: to become. So don't look at it like you are 205 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: losing these people and you are not worthy of love, 206 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 1: because you absolutely are. What you're doing is you're creating 207 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:56,439 Speaker 1: space for new people for this new season of your life, 208 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: for people that are going to be on the same 209 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: energy level, the same frequency as you are, the same wavelength, 210 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 1: all those things. Like you have to know right now 211 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 1: it might feel a little lonely, but you're never alone 212 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 1: and you have to know that and just be patient 213 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 1: the right people will come into your life. Just know 214 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 1: that those people are probably not meant to come with 215 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: you on this next cycle, in this next chapter of 216 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: your life. And I just talked about this on one 217 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 1: of my episodes on Cheeky's and chill about being okay 218 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 1: with losing the right people. It hurts and it's uncomfortable. 219 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 1: But if they were happy for you, if they loved 220 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: you and were supporting one hundred percent of who you 221 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:43,199 Speaker 1: want to become, because you're happier than they would stay. 222 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 1: If they don't, it's because they're not the right people 223 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 1: for you. So you got to be okay with that. 224 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: And you're young, and I get it. But keep going 225 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:54,320 Speaker 1: to church, keep healing yourself, and you will see little 226 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 1: by little. You don't want a lot of people. You 227 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: want the right people in your life, even if it's 228 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: two or three people, but as long as you know 229 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:04,559 Speaker 1: they're the right people. So be proud, be proud of 230 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 1: yourself because you're definitely doing hard work, work that people 231 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: go their whole lifetime not able to do or they 232 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:17,079 Speaker 1: don't have the willpower, and you're doing it. So I'm 233 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 1: very proud of you. 234 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 4: Vity And. 235 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 1: Just be patient, be patient to give yourself grace and 236 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 1: everything will be okay. All right, guys. Well, this concludes 237 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: our episode, this episode of Dear Cheeky's. Thank you guys 238 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: for listening. I hope that even if it isn't your 239 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:35,440 Speaker 1: question that I'm answering, that you can learn something and 240 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: grow from some of the device that I'm giving and 241 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:40,680 Speaker 1: the questions that people are asking, And if you have 242 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 1: a question, definitely leave it. 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