1 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: This is Gavin Newsom and tune in for more with 2 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 1: Doctor Phil. Well, look, I appreciate everything you said, but 3 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: I also appreciate the spirit, uh that that behind it, 4 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:25,159 Speaker 1: and I think, look, it's one of the reasons we 5 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: started this podcast, and it's been really interesting, doctor Phil. 6 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: It's really underscored the nature and you've talked a lot 7 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 1: about cancel culture and this incapacity to to to be 8 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: willing to engage people you may disagree with and and 9 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 1: as you say, focus on the things we have in common. 10 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:45,919 Speaker 1: But it's interesting how quick people are to judge, and 11 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: how quickly we are all judged. I imagine just the 12 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: response you got coming out of that Madison Square Garden rally. 13 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: I imagine just now you're sort of foray with ice 14 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: and maybe just a little bit more into the political realm, 15 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: how quick people are to judge. And so I think 16 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 1: it's incredibly important because divorce is not an option. We're 17 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 1: all in this together, and you know, it's becoming more 18 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 1: and more exhausting, and as you have rightfully highlighted you 19 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: did it in your book. We've got issues the nature 20 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: of social media and algorithms and what's going on in 21 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: terms of how things have become weaponized, and how we 22 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: are increasingly feeling out of control, isolated, disconnected from a 23 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: larger sense of purpose, Meaning all the things you've been 24 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,839 Speaker 1: talking about in your show and the work you've been doing, 25 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: and so just on that, what more can we be doing, 26 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: What can we be doing to soften the edges of 27 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: this discourse and begin the process of being repairs proverbially 28 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: the breach. 29 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 2: Do you think freedom of speech is under attack? 30 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: I think it is. And I've made this point. One 31 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: of the reasons I have long admired Bill Maher and 32 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: gone on a show a dozen times since my mayor 33 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: days is I didn't like the way he was being 34 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: attacked the freedom of speech, his expression was being attacked 35 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: in my own UC campuses. I've watched cancel culture, never 36 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: been a champion of cancel culture. Of course, I've seen 37 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 1: it on all sides. We saw with bud Light, we 38 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: saw it with Target last year. You know, it occurs. 39 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: You know there's boycotts all the time, coming from both 40 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,079 Speaker 1: prisms and the political parties. But I think I think 41 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: it's out of control, and I think it's something we 42 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: need to push back again. So we need to own 43 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: up to. 44 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems to be worse in California than you know. 45 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 2: I've moved back to Texas, and you know, no place 46 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 2: is perfect. But I see things like, what was it 47 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 2: Berkeley where Ann Coulter got canceled? They said it was 48 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 2: for security concerns. You can always have security. 49 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: But that my litt guy, I can't remember his name. 50 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: I remember sort of the peak of that cancer culture. 51 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 2: You know, why do you think that is? When I 52 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 2: went to school a long time ago, but we always 53 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 2: if somebody was coming that we disagreed with, I always 54 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 2: wanted to go here what they had to say, so 55 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 2: I had ammunition to debate them with or their positions with. 56 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 2: And you never grow until you disprove yourself, until you 57 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 2: find something wrong with the way you look at it. 58 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 2: But it seems like in California we've got the Heckler's veto. 59 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 2: It's like boo them down or block them from coming. 60 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 2: And I see it at Berkeley, U C, L a 61 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 2: USC and it just seems like, how are we ever 62 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 2: going to broaden our perspectives? If we don't get out 63 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 2: of the bubble and at least listen to the other side, 64 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 2: you may find out that's exactly why I don't agree 65 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 2: with that, sob exactly how to hear them to do it. 66 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: I couldn't agree with you. More needs to be called out. 67 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: I've been trying to do what I can on that. 68 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 2: I mean, be candidate. 69 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: That's why I've been calling out all these book bands. 70 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 1: Two hundred and forty books and titles were banned last 71 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 1: year in this country. I mean, we're censoring, you know, 72 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 1: speech in the boardroom, not just in the classroom. You've 73 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: got folks are rewriting history. You've talked a lot about that, 74 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 1: but on both sides of the aisle. I mean they 75 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: were trying to One textbook in Florida tried to take 76 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:33,480 Speaker 1: out Rosa Park's race and said, oh no, she was 77 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: just a woman who wanted to move, needed to move 78 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: her seat. So I think we have to own up 79 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: to this. And I think again, there's plenty of plenty 80 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 1: of fingers point or at least twenty people that we 81 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 1: can point to, but all of us need to look 82 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 1: in the mirror on this issue. 83 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 2: I agree with you as California taking a position on 84 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 2: transgender athletes. I hadn't seen what the latest. 85 00:04:56,360 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: Well it did in twenty and thirteen ind Team Governor 86 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 1: Brown signed a bill allowing for people to participate. As 87 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: you know, that issue is very raw and emotional, and 88 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 1: it's obviously very pointed this moment because of some state championships. 89 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: There was two bills in the California legislature, doctor Phil 90 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: just a few weeks ago. Neither got out of the 91 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 1: committee to change that rule, so it currently is law 92 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 1: in the state of California and cif that that does 93 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 1: the innercollegiate founded, you know, does all the sports. They're 94 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: trying to find some accommodation that addresses the legitimate concerns 95 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 1: around fairness and I say legitimate concerns about fairness and 96 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 1: make sure that those that may have been displaced because 97 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: they were outperformed by a transgender athlete I have the 98 00:05:56,600 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 1: opportunity to still participate and be recognized for that participation. 99 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,840 Speaker 1: We're also just trying to balance some grace, some humility, 100 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 1: some humanity, particularly with transgender youth that just want to 101 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 1: survive and don't want to be belittled and demeaned at 102 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: the same time. So a very tough issue, and I 103 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: know you've tackled that issue. I think you've done it 104 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,799 Speaker 1: reasonably thoughtfully. I think you've tried to find the nuances here, 105 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: but it's incredibly difficult issue. And I say this as 106 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: someone who's been an advocate for trans writes, but I 107 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: do not think it's fair these athletic competitions, and I've 108 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:39,239 Speaker 1: made that point of view very very public Well. 109 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 2: This is one of the things where I say that 110 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 2: I believe that activists are pushing an agenda. And I've 111 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 2: had so many transgender individuals on the show over the 112 00:06:56,200 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 2: last twenty five years, and I can tell you that 113 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 2: they have said to me on the air and off 114 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 2: mostly off the air, that they'd wish those people would 115 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 2: shut up. These shrill activists that are pushing these extreme positions. 116 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 2: They're not speaking for us, they're not speaking for the 117 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 2: community at large. And they say, look, we're living our 118 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 2: lives and there are enough challenges as it is without 119 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 2: them pushing these extreme controversial issues that we don't particularly 120 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 2: ascribe to. They're not helping us. That's something that they 121 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 2: are just trying to rewrite biology on or they're trying 122 00:07:53,880 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 2: to make a battleground, and they do it effectively. I 123 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 2: had Professor Carol Hooven on from university at Harvard University 124 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 2: and She didn't even do the research. She was just reporting. 125 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 2: Did a meta analysis on I think it was fifty 126 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 2: plus studies of others that had looked at the biological 127 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 2: markers to see whether or not you could balance the 128 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 2: playing field among elit athletes. And she looked at if 129 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 2: you have testosterone blockers, if you have hormone suppression therapy, 130 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 2: and for the required two years before and after poverty, 131 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 2: looked puberty, looked at every possible way, and the meta 132 00:08:53,080 --> 00:09:01,319 Speaker 2: conclusion for good methodology, with good in right number of subjects, 133 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 2: and they concluded you just can't get there. You, I mean, 134 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:12,319 Speaker 2: even if it's ten percent difference in swimming competition among 135 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 2: the lead athletes as you know everything, they measure that 136 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 2: by hundreds of a second off a fingernail touching the wall. Uh, 137 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 2: and in a four lap race ten percent. They can 138 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 2: be down there kicking off the wall and they're standing 139 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 2: there with their arms crossed waiting for him to make 140 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 2: the last lamp. 141 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: Now, it wasn't one of the what wasn't, And forgive me, 142 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: it wasn't. She admonished by the administration over there as 143 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:41,199 Speaker 1: well for just concluding. 144 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 2: Those completely driven down of the university. Yeah, they're transphobic, Yeah, 145 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 2: spawning hate speech. 146 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, we had well, doctor, I trust me, I know 147 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: a thing or two about this. I expressed my point 148 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: of view. I lost a few. I don't need to 149 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: went on the public therapy session here, but I lost 150 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: some good friends. I mean they're just then won't talk 151 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: to me. They're done, And you know, I appreciate they 152 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: felt hurt. They felt that point of view was, you know, 153 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: somehow diminishing. I I someone has been an advocate that 154 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: I put up against any other elected official. I mean, 155 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 1: I have a very strong record, as you know. I 156 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 1: think the first time I was on your show, it 157 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:23,559 Speaker 1: was was on the issue of lgbt rights, and I've 158 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 1: been an advocate for decades and decades, but on the 159 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: issue of sports and and what you just you know, 160 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 1: you laid out as it relates to many different factors 161 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 1: that are unique and regardless of puberty blockers. I just 162 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: think this issue we have to address and h and 163 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,319 Speaker 1: to not address, we are in denial. 164 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:45,680 Speaker 2: Well that's a good point, because I remember when you 165 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 2: were there and you and I agreed on that we 166 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 2: were both advocates for LGBTQ rights. But this is this 167 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 2: is a bridge too far. This is you have these 168 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 2: these elite athletes. These are kids that get up oftentimes 169 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 2: an hour or two before school. I mean they're up 170 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: at four and five o'clock in the morning working out 171 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 2: before school four years oh yeah, and then all of 172 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 2: a sudden somebody steps in and bumps them out of 173 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 2: the competition, and it's I hate to see that. Yeah. 174 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:27,199 Speaker 1: Well, which I got four young kids, all athletes, wife 175 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:31,079 Speaker 1: who has played for the junior national soccer team. I 176 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: got into college, only got into a four year college 177 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 1: because of sports. And it's many ways the reason I'm here. 178 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:44,319 Speaker 1: So I deeply appreciate how resident this issue and passionate 179 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: this issue is. At the same time, you know, it's 180 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 1: I humbly submit doctor that I think it's been weaponized 181 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 1: by some groups. I'm not suggesting by any stretch you have. 182 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 1: I think I've listened to you on this topic, and 183 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:59,679 Speaker 1: I think you've tried to be very thoughtful on it. 184 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 1: Other though, are a little less thoughtful and have used 185 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: this in a way that I don't think advanced the 186 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 1: larger call that I think you and I are calling for. 187 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: Just that's just finding our common humanity and try to 188 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: unify with as you suggest common sense. 189 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, And the sad thing is, I think you've it's 190 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 2: kind of identity politics. If you don't agree with everything, 191 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 2: you're immediately labeled transphobic. And I think they lose some 192 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 2: very strong advocates by throwing out the baby with the bathwater. 193 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:36,319 Speaker 1: Well, and I'd be in that category. And anyone who 194 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 1: suggests that that is they don't know who I am, 195 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: what I've done, And so I'm very sensitive the point 196 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 1: you just made, and I certainly appreciate it, just on 197 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 1: the issues of broader issues that I think just in 198 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: the spirit of this conversation, you know, when you wrote 199 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:02,199 Speaker 1: this book, We've Got issues, what was was this was 200 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: this sort of the gateway to the new media a company? 201 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: Was this sort of the transition book? What I mean, 202 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:15,319 Speaker 1: you haven't transitioned on your passion for family as sort 203 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: of the core unit. Uh and and faith as well, 204 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:23,439 Speaker 1: which I appreciate your commitment to faith, including your new 205 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: role under the Trump administration. Just tell us a little 206 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 1: bit more in the spirit of of of that book, 207 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 1: what we what we were trying to achieve. 208 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 2: You know, I I've I've always thought, you know, it's 209 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 2: funny they they talk about the general category of talk show, 210 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 2: and it's it's really interesting that it's if you're going 211 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:54,199 Speaker 2: to be successful, they really should probably call it listening show, 212 00:13:54,920 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 2: because if you don't listen to your audience and let 213 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 2: them tell you what you need to focus on, you're 214 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:08,199 Speaker 2: not going to last very long. And we always refer 215 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 2: to Hollywood is a thirteen week town, and if you 216 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 2: get thirteenth weeks in Hollywood, you're lucky. And you know, 217 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 2: I was on for twenty one years, and they wanted 218 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 2: me to renew for three more. When I said no, 219 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 2: I'm going to go do my own thing, and there 220 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 2: was a difference because a cross those twenty one years. 221 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 2: Very unusually, I owned my own show, which is you 222 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 2: probably know that's very rare in Hollywood. The network likes 223 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 2: to own the show. But I owned my own show. 224 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 2: So I did thirty eight hundred shows and I owned 225 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 2: them lock Stock and Beryl, so that whole library is 226 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 2: something I own, and most of those shows are pretty 227 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 2: evergreen and across time. I had a great staff, and 228 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 2: for the whole twenty one years, I had one executive producer. 229 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 2: I had you know, five supervising producers that were there 230 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 2: pretty much the whole time. I had the same seven 231 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 2: cameramen for twenty one years. For god, I've had the 232 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 2: same secretary or they changed what they call them across 233 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 2: the years. She's been with me forty five years, So 234 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 2: I mean I've had the same team around me. I'm 235 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 2: so blessed to have them. And things change, Governor, think 236 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 2: about this. I started in two and the first text 237 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 2: message had never been sent when I started. And think 238 00:15:57,240 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 2: how much things have changed in like nine is when 239 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 2: they started dropping smartphones on all of us. And I 240 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 2: think that's the biggest change in our civilization since the 241 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 2: Industrial Revolution. And I know there were kind of four 242 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 2: industrial revolutions kind of jammed together there, but I think 243 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 2: this was the biggest change since mechanization. 244 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: And by the way, just speaking of jam together, I 245 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: remember being jammed together right there at the Moscone Center 246 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: in San Francisco in January of two thousand and seven 247 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 1: when Steve Jobs comes out with some damn device. Little 248 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 1: did we know, but what hit I'll never forget. It 249 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 1: wasn't the device. It was that damn app store in 250 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 1: July of two thousand and eight, that, to your point, 251 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 1: changed everything in more ways. 252 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 2: On more days, well, you know, kids were going through 253 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 2: life like this, and then all of a sudden, they 254 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 2: were going through like this. 255 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: And. 256 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 2: I and we listen, and for example, the words cyber 257 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:08,359 Speaker 2: and bully had never been used together in the same 258 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:11,680 Speaker 2: sentence because there was no such thing. And then all 259 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:14,920 Speaker 2: of a sudden, I had to start dealing with cyber bullying. 260 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 2: And in fact, I went to Capitol Hill. They asked 261 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 2: me to come testify on reauthorization of the Elementary and 262 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:28,719 Speaker 2: Secondary Education Act, and a lot of my testimony was about, 263 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:33,919 Speaker 2: you have to start allocating some funds to dealing with 264 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 2: cyber bullying because it's become Bullies used to be in 265 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:41,959 Speaker 2: the lunch room or the gym or the bus docks, 266 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 2: but now these bullies follow the children home. They can't 267 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:51,440 Speaker 2: get away from it. And we have to start educating 268 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:57,360 Speaker 2: our teachers and start making preparations to deal with this 269 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:02,879 Speaker 2: because kids are killing themselves and online predators are getting 270 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 2: to our children. And so, you know, it started evolving 271 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:09,959 Speaker 2: and changing, and and I had to evolve and change 272 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 2: with it. And I remember the first interview I ever 273 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 2: gave about the doctor phil Show, Roger King, who was, 274 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 2: you know, the biggest force in syndication. He asked me 275 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 2: one day, without giving me any warning, he's going to 276 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 2: make a sizzle reel to go out and sell the show. 277 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 2: And he said, okay, Doc, what's the show going to 278 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:38,239 Speaker 2: be about? And I'm like a little caught short. And 279 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 2: I remember saying, I'm going to talk about things that 280 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 2: matter to people who care. And I wanted to deliver 281 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:54,679 Speaker 2: common sense, usable information to people's homes every day for free. 282 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 2: And ir'd argue with that, if that doesn't work, then 283 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 2: I was busy when you when you called me, you know, 284 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 2: I have and and I followed that formula all along, 285 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 2: and when I got when I sat down to write 286 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:23,359 Speaker 2: We've Got Issues, it was in reaction to hearing my 287 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 2: audience move. I think that's my eleventh book or tenth book. 288 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 2: I said I was going to write another book, and 289 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 2: then I wrote that one, and it was from listening 290 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 2: to them, and they were becoming much more socially conscious. 291 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 2: Whereas you know, early on I was focusing on marriage 292 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 2: and family and individual psychological functioning and all of those 293 00:19:52,960 --> 00:20:00,040 Speaker 2: sorts of individual issues. But I saw it changed to 294 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:04,440 Speaker 2: start to include things like cyberbullying and predators and online 295 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 2: scams and things like that. And then of late I 296 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:13,400 Speaker 2: saw him start to really become much more socially conscious 297 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:17,400 Speaker 2: about psychosocial issues. And I think it's because they were 298 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:20,919 Speaker 2: on the internet all the time. They were reading things that, 299 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 2: you know, eight nine years earlier, they just weren't available 300 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 2: to read. And that's when I say, I started being 301 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 2: aware that like some let's say you had some crazy 302 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:40,199 Speaker 2: conspiracy theories some guy in Omaha or something, well, that 303 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:43,119 Speaker 2: wouldn't spread very far because he didn't have the ability 304 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 2: to reach anyone. But it's estimated right now that there 305 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 2: are between five and ten thousand cults acting in the 306 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 2: United States of America because they operate online, they solicit 307 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:02,239 Speaker 2: money online, they get follows online. Then they might have 308 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 2: an annual meeting and recruit people in the real world 309 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 2: to come to some compound or whatever. And so I 310 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 2: started seeing how people were concerned about what was going 311 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:21,959 Speaker 2: on at school and what was being taught at school. 312 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 2: Was critical race theory being taught, should it be taught, 313 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:32,119 Speaker 2: Should parents be notified if their children were wanting to 314 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:37,439 Speaker 2: change their pronouns? And there were pros and cons about that. 315 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 2: I think parents know their kids the best and deserve 316 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 2: to know what's going on with them. But people react 317 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 2: to that, like there's this massive movement in the schools 318 00:21:53,920 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 2: to recruit people children into transgenderism. That's just not true. 319 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:09,199 Speaker 2: It is a minuscule number of cases in which is happening, 320 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 2: and they talk like there's this huge recruitment. It isn't true. 321 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 2: I do think parents should be involved, and those on 322 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 2: the other side of the issue say, well, there are 323 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:28,159 Speaker 2: a lot of parents who don't react well to that, 324 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:32,520 Speaker 2: and so the kids can get kicked to the curb 325 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 2: or whatever if they take that home. Well, that's why 326 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 2: we have the Department of Child and Family Services, That's 327 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 2: why we have these social services to support that if 328 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 2: they got some mouth breather parent who doesn't stand by 329 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 2: their child or whatever. So there are two sides to 330 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:59,200 Speaker 2: the issue. I get that. But they weren't talking about 331 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 2: these things before for and now they were, and that's 332 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 2: that's what moved me to us. We've got issues. We've 333 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,880 Speaker 2: got issues and what's going on in the school. We've 334 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 2: got issues regarding our economy, and people talk about we 335 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 2: have this inequality of income. I think the problem is 336 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 2: we have a quality of income. If you look at 337 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 2: all the giveaway programs and I hear people talking about 338 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 2: they want a quality of outcome, the quality of opportunity. 339 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:35,920 Speaker 1: Yeah no, those are things that found me out on 340 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 1: the outcome side. Yeah No, it's about the opportunity. We 341 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,359 Speaker 1: can talk about some of the tax breaks as well, 342 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: some of the carried interest is on those subsidies as well. Look, 343 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:55,639 Speaker 1: there's so much doctor to talk about, and I appreciate 344 00:23:55,720 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 1: the spirit to which you've engaged with me in our eyes. 345 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 1: And one of the things I loved about your book, 346 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 1: which I did have a chance to read. But more importantly, 347 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 1: there's a lot of good life lessons in there. And 348 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 1: one of the one of those statements that you made 349 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:13,639 Speaker 1: in the book that sort of spoke to me is 350 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:17,360 Speaker 1: be who you are on purpose, which is a good 351 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 1: way to describe you, this notion of intentionality. But I 352 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 1: think that's an important life lesson is to be authentic, 353 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 1: learn from don't follow others, have some humility and grace, 354 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 1: but stand on your ground, but also recognize we need 355 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,359 Speaker 1: to find common ground. And I hope we found a 356 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 1: little bit today and I appreciate your efforts to try 357 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,919 Speaker 1: to find more of that with Merritt Street Media. 358 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 2: Well, I appreciate having the opportunity to talk about these things. 359 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:52,439 Speaker 2: I think, like I say, you and I might be 360 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 2: on the different side of certain issues and the same 361 00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 2: side on certain issues, but I think if people could 362 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,360 Speaker 2: sit down and have civil conversations like this, I mean, 363 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 2: that's what it's all about. To me. I think it's 364 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 2: important to do and I'm I'm glad you're doing this podcast. 365 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,880 Speaker 2: I think people get to hear from you and get 366 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 2: to know you better, and I think it's I think 367 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,199 Speaker 2: people are interested in doing that and in knowing you, 368 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 2: and I think it's a courageous thing to do, because 369 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 2: when you open up an unscripted conversation like this, that's 370 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,639 Speaker 2: a that's a courageous thing to do. It's not campaign speak, 371 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 2: it's it's just it's just letting people get to know you. 372 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:39,040 Speaker 2: And you dodged my question. Are you going to run 373 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:39,720 Speaker 2: in twenty. 374 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 1: Eight that's face will determine that. But we'll see doctor. 375 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:50,919 Speaker 1: I'mse you know better than anybody as a former California residence. 376 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 1: I got my hand full in the next year and 377 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 1: a half couple of years. 378 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,680 Speaker 2: You're not ruling it out, I don't. 379 00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,640 Speaker 1: I mean, you're not rolling anything out out about your 380 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 1: future either, So we'll leave it at that. I appreciate 381 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,440 Speaker 1: you spend any time and UH, and I'm very grateful, 382 00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:13,119 Speaker 1: particularly uh, particularly considering where the heck you are, UH 383 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: and all the other folks that are there that are 384 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 1: buying for your time and attention. So thank you. 385 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 2: Anytime, anytime I can spend time with you, I'm I'm 386 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 2: proud to do it, on here to do it and UH. 387 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 2: I'll be inviting you to be on my podcast soon 388 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 2: and we'll talk about that and UH and have you 389 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 2: weigh in on some uh some big issues. And I 390 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 2: hope we can do I hope we can do this 391 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:38,360 Speaker 2: again and do it soon. 392 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 1: I look forward to it. 393 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:48,200 Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Governor, Thank you best to you