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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: So Hot Hormonal, Welcome back, christ I'm hot and hormonal

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Speaker 2: and this is wind down. How you feeling, KB, You're

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Speaker 2: a You're You're no more baby in the belly. I'm

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Speaker 2: out of the house. How's it feel to be out

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Speaker 2: of the house. It feels good. I've actually got you

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Speaker 2: into botox.

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Speaker 3: I've gone to hair, I've gone to nails, all the things.

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Speaker 3: I'm feeling good.

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Speaker 2: Did you see Eric at Nails, Spring Nails? I did

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Speaker 2: see Eric at Spring Nails.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, sweet sweet man and his wife Lily shout out,

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Speaker 3: shout out to Spring Nails.

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Speaker 1: Spring.

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Speaker 3: The problem with Eric and Lily is that they're married

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Speaker 3: and then when they go on vacation for six weeks,

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Speaker 3: they got to.

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Speaker 2: Get Sylvia too. I'm like Sylvia, She's like, I'm going

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Speaker 2: to Korea for three months, and I'm like, oh, I

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Speaker 2: mean she takes Johnny and then we're all up the creek.

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 3: I actually ran into them at an airport. I remember

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Speaker 3: seeing Johnny. He goes hi, and I'm.

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Speaker 2: Like Hi, but it took me a second ago. Where

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Speaker 2: do I know you from? And I was like Johnny.

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Speaker 3: And then Sylvia came over and I was like wow,

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Speaker 3: and I didn't know what to say. Wow.

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Speaker 2: So I was so like, you know, because it's like

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Speaker 2: what do you talk about?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, my nails still look really good.

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Speaker 2: I was like I just need to stop.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Wow. It was like, this is like you know your people.

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Speaker 3: It's like seeing your characters out of Disneyland or something.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like did I see them there? We wouldn't

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Speaker 2: know because the characters, because I'm only Mickey at the

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Speaker 2: grocery store. It's like it's so.

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Speaker 3: Weird that I've only seen them at Spring. I've never

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Speaker 3: seen them anywhere else because they go anywhere. I'm sure

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Speaker 3: they do. I've just I never sit down and it

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Speaker 3: is different settings. That's why I was just like, wow,

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Speaker 3: look at you in the wild.

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Speaker 2: Johnny at BNA. This is crazy. Everyone hates us?

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Speaker 3: Okay is it?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: The gang gets back together? Okay, you girls, it's just

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Speaker 2: this over zoom and it is. Do you want to

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Speaker 2: tell everybody about the email that you're crafting right now?

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Speaker 2: Or do you want to put a pin in that

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Speaker 2: we have few pins? We have a lot of pins. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I started to text you something the other day and

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Speaker 3: I was like, actually, pin this, but I don't remember

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Speaker 3: what it is.

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Speaker 2: Are you serious? Good? Pin? Go to notes?

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Speaker 3: No, I'll just I'm going to go to code word

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Speaker 3: pin in my conversations and see where we were, and

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Speaker 3: I'll probably remember.

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Speaker 2: And scrolls gotta you gotta like read.

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Speaker 3: I can't scroll back to where you and I have

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Speaker 3: been because we've been a lot of places.

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Speaker 2: I really texted much friend, because you've been so busy. Oh,

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Speaker 2: washing of the paint? Yes, no idea, what's happening?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: Wait, how did this?

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Speaker 3: Okay? So okay, what happened was? You're going to get

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Speaker 3: in a little text. Let's see, easy, easy grammer.

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Speaker 2: I know, I know, remember that one thing you said

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Speaker 2: the day? Okay, it's fine. I feel just as left

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Speaker 2: out as you guys do. I said, how was therapy? Yes?

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Speaker 2: She was so so, so good. I want to read

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Speaker 2: along with you because I'm nervous. I would like to edit. Oh, Amy,

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Speaker 2: take all my money. I was going to leave that

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Speaker 2: one out. I need her to.

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Speaker 3: And then she sends me a photo of this. I

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Speaker 3: don't know if you guys don't see it, but it's her.

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Speaker 3: Well you'all can't see it unless you're watching this or now.

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Speaker 3: But the hand with it looks like a it's a

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Speaker 3: cross with I thought maybe they were. I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 3: that's either either a cross or it's like a knife,

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Speaker 3: you know, or not a knife, but what a sword?

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Speaker 2: You see the sword too? Because because she says she

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Speaker 2: gave me war paint. Has she told you about the

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Speaker 2: washing of the paint. It's incredible? And I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: she hasn't she was, And then that's when you said pinned, pinned.

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Speaker 2: She was released in person because he will love text

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Speaker 2: me do it justice?

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Speaker 3: I go, ah, okay, so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah we can unpin.

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Speaker 3: I hope I do it justice because it's really special

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Speaker 3: and when I super sentimental. But if it doesn't hit

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Speaker 3: with you guys and we're just you're gonna hear this cool,

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Speaker 3: it takes some pressure off. So I you know, the

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Speaker 3: last year two years have really just been extra heavy. Huh.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so.

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Speaker 3: Lost the five people in eleven months, one being my dad.

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Speaker 3: Today is actually two years since he passed away. So

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Speaker 3: what do you say that he's a sorry, No, I

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Speaker 3: think we just moved just or just like yeah, it's

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Speaker 3: not funny. That was probably a good response like, no,

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Speaker 3: I really feel like it's fine. Like if I think

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Speaker 3: if I gave you a dramatic pause, you could and

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Speaker 3: I feel good.

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Speaker 2: Just don't give a dramatic pause. What I think I

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Speaker 2: would do normally, I'd be like, do you want to

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Speaker 2: talk about it? Or are we just? Are we good? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we're pushing, We're pushing, we feel good about we're soldiering. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: war paint.

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Speaker 3: So I go to Amy and I'm telling her about

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Speaker 3: the delivery, and m also.

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Speaker 2: And I have nothing to say that.

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Speaker 3: And at the end, she goes, have you ever heard

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Speaker 3: of this tribe of Native Americans? And I'm going, I

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Speaker 3: don't remember the name? She said so quick and also

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Speaker 3: forgive me for no sleep, but I can dig and

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Speaker 3: find this because she'll send me everything. But she says,

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Speaker 3: there's this tribe that most tribes when they come back

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Speaker 3: from war, they wash off their war paint, and there's

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Speaker 3: one tribe that really like soaks in the sacredness of

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Speaker 3: the war paint and they don't wash the paint so

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Speaker 3: that everyone in the village can see that they've been

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Speaker 3: through something and that they have gone through something hard.

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Speaker 3: And so she was like, as she's telling me this

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Speaker 3: She's got out her red paint and she's like, I

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Speaker 3: need your arms, and she's painting. She was, I want

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Speaker 3: you to know that I see you, and that you've

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Speaker 3: been through something hard, and that you've been through these

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Speaker 3: battles and that you're doing a great job. And I

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Speaker 3: want this to just wash off as slowly as you

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Speaker 3: want to wash it off, but to note so that

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Speaker 3: you know, I see that you've been through war.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: And then you I'm sure you were sobbing, sobbing, yeah,

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Speaker 3: and it was just to be acknowledged. Is like the

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Speaker 3: and when you feel so unseen.

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Speaker 2: Yes, then that's like I remember.

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Speaker 3: Going through the miscarriage and wishing that I could just

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Speaker 3: wear like a shirt that was like just be fragile,

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Speaker 3: you know, like handle with care. And she said, that's

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Speaker 3: essentially that that's what this is. And I just thought

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Speaker 3: it was so beautiful and also like just what a

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Speaker 3: special thing to even consider. You know, how long did

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Speaker 3: you wear it for? For as long as I as

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Speaker 3: long as it wouldn't wash off. I do think it's

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Speaker 3: probably like hunting paint or something, so it kind of

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Speaker 2: So I wore it for a few days. Did he

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Speaker 2: ask about it?

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Speaker 3: He did, Okay, hmmm, no he did. He was like,

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Speaker 3: what's that? And I said, well, this is explained and

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Speaker 3: he was like this is a real artist comment. He goes,

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Speaker 3: that's something I would do. I wouldn't wash off my

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Speaker 3: war paint. And I was like, okay, right, But.

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Speaker 2: For different it was like the hard life of Look.

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Speaker 2: I was like, you wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: You wouldn't wash off your war paying because you wouldn't

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Speaker 3: want everyone to know what you've.

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Speaker 2: Been out to, not because because you don't want to

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Speaker 2: do an interview about it. Okay, it's fine.

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Speaker 3: I was like, okay, I think we're missing something. But

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Speaker 3: that was before I was spray tanning, and so there

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Speaker 3: was a lot going on. I was like, I have

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Speaker 3: war paint, you have spray tan We just need to

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Speaker 3: keep moving this forward. It's sentimental as this moment really is.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad you got to have that moment. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was. Actually I just thought it was really beautiful

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Speaker 2: because it's sometimes again just you just need one person

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Speaker 2: to see you, one person to say I'm sorry that

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Speaker 2: you went through that. Sometimes it's almost stronger than the

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Speaker 2: person that might have hurt you. Saying sorry is what

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Speaker 2: the experience that I've had.

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Speaker 3: I think you're right, and it just was so she

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Speaker 3: was like, you know, birth and becoming a mother, even

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Speaker 3: if it is your eighteenth time, is still something that

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Speaker 2: So I don't know why I'm just having visions right now.

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Speaker 3: I'm cathered just putting black underneath your eyes in your

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Speaker 2: Team, right. I feel it's interesting though, because I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I see that hitting for you, but I don't see

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Speaker 2: that hitting for you. I don't know if that would

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Speaker 2: would that work for you in therapy?

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Speaker 6: I don't know that you want to wear the paint. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: I probably wouldn't want to wear a paint. That's yeah,

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Speaker 6: I probably wouldn't want to wear the paint, But like

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Speaker 6: the acknowledging it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it probably would, sure, But then you put on

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Speaker 3: you It's almost like how like she demonstrates it, we

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Speaker 3: might demonstrate differently. You're like I just need to talk

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Speaker 6: And then move on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, where it's like we almost like I have to

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Speaker 2: Rocks and throwing, and I did not scrub the arms.

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Speaker 2: I'd let it go lost. Quiet makes zero?

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Speaker 3: Is there a long sleeve I can purchase before I

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Speaker 3: head out of the building, some sort of therapy merch

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Speaker 3: one can wear.

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Speaker 2: It's funny. How are you feeling? Uh? I don't want

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Speaker 2: to get into it. Okay. I just ordered something that

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Speaker 2: will hold my varicose veins up.

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Speaker 6: I was gonna Actually I was talking to my friend

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Speaker 6: and she was like she should probably get something that

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Speaker 6: was like, I'll tell you earlier.

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Speaker 3: It's like like a sling for your vagina, like literally

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Speaker 3: and like it holds up my Oh you're in it's

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Speaker 3: like my vagina basically because I've got the vericos veins

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Speaker 3: just coming out of my vagina. This happened to a

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Speaker 3: girlfriend of mine. Painful, she said, wildly painful, wildly painful.

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Speaker 3: And so I'm god, I'm like, it's is really depressing.

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Speaker 3: And Alan's at the this you know, the scan with me,

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Speaker 3: and you know, she's like the ultrasoumily. She's like, you

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Speaker 3: should really get these things for called vul vulver, uh vulver,

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Speaker 3: something where the veins it's like vulvar what's the veins.

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Speaker 3: I'm talking about various space, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: But it's down there, so I'm a googling it and

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Speaker 6: I would love to so what it is, but i'd

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Speaker 2: About Miranda yuh ohh. So let's pin that.

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Speaker 3: Let's pin it and then take a selfie and then

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Speaker 2: Too soon, too soon. So we have Tamra Judge that's

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Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I'm good, feeling pretty good. Okay, So break it

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Speaker 6: Were on Housewives of Orange County and still is the

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Speaker 6: And do you know why you got fired or no?

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Speaker 1: It's like going back to a boyfriend like that you

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Speaker 2: And just like an old boyfriend, they knew that, and

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Speaker 1: Isn't it? Yeah, as soon as you put it out

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm like what the way she said?

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Speaker 2: I like, I get I do not like that.

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Speaker 3: I don't like getting it from my ex husband Like

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh god, what did I do with Tom?

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Speaker 1: they have this idea about, you know, recapping housewives and

438
00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:20,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, okay, and she's like, you know, can

439
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,560
Speaker 1: you talk to iHeart? And I said, okay, so talk

440
00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,280
Speaker 1: to iHeart. And they're like, why don't we just do

441
00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:28,240
Speaker 1: a trial basis like one month and see how it goes.

442
00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,160
Speaker 1: And it's been almost two years now.

443
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you guys are killing it too because we

444
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,879
Speaker 2: share the same producers and they're just like, they're your y'alls.

445
00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,359
Speaker 2: Is one of the best shows and just always have

446
00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:41,560
Speaker 2: the best things to say about you girls. But I

447
00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,400
Speaker 2: I'm curious too when you say like you just don't

448
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:47,000
Speaker 2: care like this, I feel like it'd be a lot

449
00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:49,640
Speaker 2: funner now to go back and just because you don't

450
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,440
Speaker 2: have the filter because a lot of times, like even

451
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:54,240
Speaker 2: on this show, I feel like, oh, I gotta be careful.

452
00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:55,480
Speaker 2: I can't say that, or that's going to hurt this

453
00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 2: person or and then it's like, man, if I could

454
00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:02,560
Speaker 2: just have the most uncensored opinion without the fear of losing,

455
00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,080
Speaker 2: you know, not being able to support my children and

456
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:07,479
Speaker 2: being canceled or X, Y and Z, how freeing that

457
00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:07,879
Speaker 2: would be.

458
00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:10,680
Speaker 1: Well, you know, being canceled is a whole other thing.

459
00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 1: And it's just it's hard to be in this industry,

460
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 1: on a podcast, on a reality show, as you know,

461
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,399
Speaker 1: because anything you say, and God forbid you slip and

462
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:23,399
Speaker 1: say something that's not you know, politically correct, you know,

463
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,360
Speaker 1: you're canceled. Like, people make mistakes.

464
00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 2: We're all human.

465
00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:32,000
Speaker 1: But say with saying that, I did go back and

466
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:37,480
Speaker 1: I was uncensored, and I didn't really care too much

467
00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:42,760
Speaker 1: what I said, Like I wasn't trying to blatantly be

468
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:44,840
Speaker 1: mean or anything like that. But I didn't hold back,

469
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 1: I guess is what I'm trying to say. I didn't

470
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 1: hold back. I just said what I felt. I went

471
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:51,600
Speaker 1: into a situation where, you know, wh when I got

472
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:55,119
Speaker 1: let go, a lot of people said a lot of things.

473
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 1: You know, Shanna stopped talking to me, Heather de Brouh

474
00:21:58,280 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 1: went on her podcast and said there was no place

475
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 1: for me on the show anymore because I'm now a blogger,

476
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 1: which I'm not a blogger, I'm podcaster with the same

477
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 1: thing she is. Emily said she danced on my grave

478
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 1: when I left, and you know, there was a lot

479
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 1: of things said. So yeah, so all these things were said,

480
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,280
Speaker 1: and then it got to a playbor I. I started

481
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:21,679
Speaker 1: doing interviews afterwards, and I felt like, you know, I

482
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:24,119
Speaker 1: only did probably five percent of the interviews that I

483
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 1: was asked to do. I was asked non stop to

484
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,640
Speaker 1: do them, and I spoke my mind in those as well,

485
00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 1: and then that pissed them off. And then it became

486
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 1: like with me and Channon, a pissing match in the press.

487
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 1: So when I went back, I wasn't sure who was

488
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,719
Speaker 1: my friend and where I stood and what's going on.

489
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 1: And I went into it and then everybody was nice

490
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 1: to me, and then I called bullshit on that, like, wait,

491
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:49,640
Speaker 1: you were so happy I was gone, but I come

492
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 1: back and you're so also nice to me.

493
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Speaker 3: This is bullshit.

494
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 1: So I, you know, I literally take the time to

495
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 1: call everybody out on.

496
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 2: That, so we get to see that, Yeah, yeah, good

497
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 2: for you that.

498
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:06,199
Speaker 1: I mean, Shannon and I made up pretty quick. But

499
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 1: you know, Heather and I we start off pretty well

500
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,720
Speaker 1: and then it gets a little rocky, and then it

501
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 1: gets a lot rocky towards the end.

502
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 3: Do you feel now like after being back with everybody,

503
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 3: do you feel like you have a good sense of

504
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:23,359
Speaker 3: like who's actually in your corner and who's shoving you in?

505
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:23,679
Speaker 3: I do?

506
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 1: I do, I think I do. I mean, right now,

507
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 1: the cast is pretty cohesive and they we all get along,

508
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,600
Speaker 1: we all care about each other, and it's not one

509
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,640
Speaker 1: of those things like I want to destroy your life

510
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 1: or you know, we've had people on this cast before

511
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 1: that just want to ruin your marriage, you know, destroy

512
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 1: your kids. And I think you know who I'm talking

513
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 1: about and all these things, and that's a very difficult

514
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: situation to be in and one that I would not

515
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:54,399
Speaker 1: want to be in. But now everybody, they're they're they're nice.

516
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 1: Everyone's generally nice people on the show.

517
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 2: Right now, Megan's back, isn't she king?

518
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:00,399
Speaker 1: No, she's not.

519
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 2: No, Oh, my thought she was. I saw something on

520
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:08,120
Speaker 2: her Instagram like she's back to filming. I thought maybe

521
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:09,880
Speaker 2: it's some former show and.

522
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: Maybe something different. I know she was on Watch What

523
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 1: Happens Live, and she's always doing something. She's very she's

524
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 1: a hustler.

525
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, she totally is. So it was your husband,

526
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 2: was he Is he fine with this reality world or

527
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 2: is he kind of like wants to stay a little

528
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 2: bit more separate from it.

529
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 1: This is actually the first season that he's a little

530
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 1: bit into it.

531
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 2: Okay.

532
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 1: I mean when I say into it, it's not like,

533
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,159
Speaker 1: you know, he wants to be a housewife or anything,

534
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 1: but he didn't. You know, every time in the past,

535
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, we're going to film today, and he's.

536
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 2: Like, oh, really do I have to?

537
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,440
Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, you can have to. And this time,

538
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 1: you know, I thought for sure because if he said no,

539
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 1: I didn't, I don't want to go back, then I'd

540
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: be like, Okay, that's cool, We're not going back then.

541
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: So I told him. And I think a lot had

542
00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: to do with the fact that it is a good

543
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 1: we don't have people trying to destroy careers and marriages

544
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 1: on here anymore. So he's like, yeah, you know, let's

545
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,920
Speaker 1: seem like everybody's chill, let's go back. So he's been

546
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 1: He's funny because he's he's got a few scenes coming

547
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,679
Speaker 1: up where he's a little I don't know if he's

548
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 1: tipsy or if he's on mushrooms, but we'll find out.

549
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 3: I can't how many kids do you have? I have four, okay?

550
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:24,959
Speaker 3: And how did they feel about all? I mean how

551
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,919
Speaker 3: did they because they grew up kind of on the

552
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:28,959
Speaker 3: show like you're saying they were aty bitty pretty much

553
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 3: when you see they were little.

554
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 1: My son Spencer is not really into filming. He's kind

555
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 1: of shy overall. And Sophia just is just hering eighteen

556
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 1: and September so she will be able to film. She's

557
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: really the only one that wants to film. My older

558
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: son Ryan, it's not his thing at all, and he

559
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 1: just gets bashed anyways.

560
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 2: So he's like, he's.

561
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 1: Like, Mom, really want to go on there? And then

562
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,120
Speaker 1: they'll just be like, oh, you're a loser, You're a lost,

563
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 1: You're that. He's like, I don't, I don't want to

564
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,399
Speaker 1: do it. So he did film a little bit this season,

565
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 1: but not much. I think you probably won't see him again.

566
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 3: What has worked with this marriage that you think you

567
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 3: didn't have with the others?

568
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 5: Oh?

569
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 1: Boy, I think like we just love each other and

570
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 1: we like each other too, and we have fun together

571
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 1: and we do pretty much everything together. But I'm not

572
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,159
Speaker 1: dependent on him and he's not dependent on me like

573
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:24,439
Speaker 1: he can be like, hey, like a couple of weeks ago,

574
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: I'm going to Montana for a dirt biking trip with

575
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 1: a bunch of guys. I'm like, okay, he's out have fun.

576
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,639
Speaker 1: Like the marriage I was in before is like what

577
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 1: do you mean?

578
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:32,479
Speaker 2: Where you going?

579
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: Where are you staying? What are you doing? No, I don't,

580
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 1: you know. It was always like you can't do that.

581
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:38,159
Speaker 1: And he never tells me I can't do anything, and

582
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: I never tell him he can't do anything. So it's

583
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: just I don't know, out of respect and love and caring.

584
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: And also we didn't, you know, we didn't have kids together,

585
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 1: and I feel like that's kind of hard sometimes when

586
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:53,680
Speaker 1: you're raising kids and you don't have maybe the same beliefs,

587
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 1: or you don't like the way the other person's parenting,

588
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 1: and you're under a lot of stress like I was,

589
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:02,160
Speaker 1: kind of. He came into this relationship and I had

590
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 1: four kids, but three at home and the youngest was four,

591
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 1: so you know, he he knows that they have a father,

592
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:11,199
Speaker 1: and he never really tried to act like he was

593
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 1: their father. But also he does require them to respect him. Sure,

594
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 1: so he's just I don't know, it just works.

595
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 2: How did that work with the co parenting of the

596
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 2: young age going into that relationship? Like, are you guys

597
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 2: was it? Did it take you a couple of years

598
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 2: or is it?

599
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 1: I would be lying if I said it was just

600
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 1: so seamless and easy, because it's not. You know, as

601
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: a stepparent, you don't know where your boundaries are, and

602
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 1: as you know, for the child, they're already going through

603
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: so much, and God forbid, they you know, could get

604
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 1: disciplined by the step parent and it suddenly is like

605
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 1: you're not my dad or you're not my mom or

606
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:49,719
Speaker 1: something like that. So we had some growing pains, but

607
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: nothing too bad.

608
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 2: But with the X and stuff like he's been, y'all

609
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 2: have been okay, No, I know it's so hard. I know,

610
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 2: I know. I'm like, tell me a great story. Tell me.

611
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:04,239
Speaker 1: He tried to destroy my life. He basically said, you

612
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 1: destroyed my life by leaving me, and I'm going to

613
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 1: destroy yours. So he tried to take the kids away

614
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 1: from me. He tried to brainwash them. He you know,

615
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: he did one one of my children, He did get

616
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,439
Speaker 1: to them. He got to all of them at one point,

617
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: and then slowly but surely, you know, like Spencer's like, MOhm,

618
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: I got to talk to you. I got to tell

619
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,439
Speaker 1: you what's been happening. I feel horrible. I can't live

620
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:26,159
Speaker 1: with him anymore. And Spencer came to live with me

621
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: at full time at fourteen. Sophia started living with me

622
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:34,200
Speaker 1: full time at about I don't know, it's been about

623
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 1: three years now, so about fifteen years old. And then

624
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: my daughter, my oldest daughter, went to go live with

625
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 1: her dad full time at fifteen, so you know, he

626
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: really it just really destroys the family and the children mostly.

627
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 2: The parent alienation thing is one of I'm just it

628
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 2: makes me so angry. As much as I don't like questions,

629
00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 2: I don't like this is I didn't I don't love

630
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 2: the things I happened in my marriage. I would never

631
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 2: speak bad words into my kids ever about their dad,

632
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 2: and I hope that he wouldn't because I've seen the

633
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 2: effects of other people who are speaking bad into their

634
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 2: their children and it just creates so much anxiety for

635
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 2: them and stress, and like it's just not fair because

636
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 2: I'm like the stuff that I've heard that this one

637
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 2: person was like trying to you know, do saying mean things.

638
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's not even true, and they're just trying

639
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 2: to be hurtful just because they're jealous or they want

640
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 2: to control, and like that's not okay.

641
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean mine was a severe situation and I

642
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 1: wouldn't wish it on anybody. I always say, like, you

643
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 1: have to love your children more than you hate your

644
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: ex husband spouse, and when you are talking badly about them,

645
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 1: it the other parent. It's only hurting the children. Yeah,

646
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: that's the only person that's hurting as a child at

647
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 1: that time, and it destroys them and it's a long

648
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:55,959
Speaker 1: term pain too.

649
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's not it's not it's not fair to you.

650
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 2: It's it's not fair to anybody and the kids. I'm

651
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 2: just like, come on, like, think about the kids, and

652
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 2: there's so many things that I would love to say,

653
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 2: you know, and when they get older too, sure, but

654
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 2: I don't want to do that because it's not like, no,

655
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 2: it's just not fair. It's just they don't need to

656
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,959
Speaker 2: know that stuff like that was behind closed door, Like

657
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 2: that's just they.

658
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 3: Don't need to know, right, So is that the current situation?

659
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 3: Do you all feel that, I mean, do you still

660
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 3: feel that way about him?

661
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 2: Now? The co parenting is just hard with him. Is

662
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 2: there any co parenting all?

663
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:31,239
Speaker 1: No, We've never co parented at all. He you know,

664
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: it's been a really bad relationship between the two of us.

665
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 1: And then a couple of years ago, he got stage

666
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 1: three throat cancer and I really kind of dropped everything

667
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: and wanted to let my kids know that I can

668
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: still show up for him even if he's sick, and

669
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: so we would go over. Sophia moved in full time

670
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: with me at that time because he couldn't take care

671
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: of her. And you know, he only lived around the corner.

672
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 1: So we'd bring him waters and he can only eat

673
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 1: certain foods, and we would bring the food over. And

674
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 1: he had a girlfriend that was helping him at the time,

675
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: and it was hard. It was really hard, and we

676
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: got really close at that time, and I thought, oh

677
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: my god, this is so cool. It's going to be great.

678
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: And then when he went into remission, it was back

679
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 1: to the same old thing.

680
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 2: That's unfortunate. It's an immaturity for sure.

681
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's finally when I went, I'm done. Yeah, I'm done, well,

682
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: go bye.

683
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 2: That was where the boundary then needed to be set

684
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 2: for sure.

685
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 3: But you showed up in a way too that I

686
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 3: think is a prime example for your kids, which yeah, yeah,

687
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 3: they need.

688
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 1: This day to this day, they'll say to me like, Mom,

689
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: don't don't even answer his emails, don't do anything because

690
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 1: he'll like he always threatened to sue or threaten to

691
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 1: do this or threaten, always threatening. And uh and now

692
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,719
Speaker 1: I get the email. I don't even open it. Delete.

693
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 2: I don't even good for you.

694
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 4: Nope.

695
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 1: And like my kid, like I say, my kids are like, Mom,

696
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 1: don't let him control you anymore. It took a long time.

697
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 1: When you're controlled like that by a narcissist, it's really hard.

698
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 1: Like when I met Eddie, I really thought that he

699
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: didn't love me because he didn't try to control me.

700
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 1: He let me do whatever I want. I had to

701
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: reprogram my mind to be in this relationship.

702
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 2: So I feel you on that friend same, I was like, No,

703
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 2: this isn't he loves and respects me, This isn't. This

704
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 2: isn't gonna happen. This is a joke.

705
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 6: What a concept?

706
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 5: Right?

707
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 3: Put this chip in my neck because he loves and

708
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 3: respects me. Yeah right, it's crazy man girl. Okay, So

709
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 3: then then what's next are you Are you guys done

710
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 3: filming now or yeah, we're all done.

711
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 1: We're airing right now. We are on I don't know

712
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 1: episode six or seven, and I think we have a

713
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: total of like sixteen seventeen episodes. I'm not positive on that,

714
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 1: and reunion probably in the next couple of months, and

715
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: who knows, almost our filming again.

716
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

717
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 3: A final thing that you can that you kind of

718
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 3: say to yourself when I know you say you don't

719
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 3: care about the headlines or this, that and the other,

720
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 3: but is there something where you hold on to that

721
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 3: other people could to take into their day too and

722
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 3: not let things weigh heavy on them from what people

723
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 3: say about them.

724
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 2: I think that.

725
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: You know, it's hard because, especially being in the public eye,

726
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 1: you get attacked by everybody left and right on social

727
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 1: media and in the press and things like that. And

728
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: it took me a long time to to not let

729
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: it bother me. I will say, if it's about my children,

730
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: it will always bother me. Of course, it will always.

731
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 1: And you know, there has been situations where certain cast

732
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: members or some have gone after me or my kids

733
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: or whatever. But overall, I just my mindset is.

734
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 2: Who these people don't know me.

735
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 1: They're not affecting my life. If I do not turn

736
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 1: on my phone and look at Instagram and see negative

737
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 1: things about me, it's never gonna it's not gonna affect

738
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: me at all. So why am I affected when I

739
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 1: see it? I don't know them, you know, I don't

740
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: know who they are, so they can they can f

741
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 1: off for all I care. And most of the time,

742
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: these people they just want to be heard. And if

743
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 1: they say something really nasty to you and you'll be like, oh,

744
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 1: you know, I'm really sorry. I didn't mean that, they're like,

745
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: oh my god, I knew you could be my favorite.

746
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 4: You know that.

747
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:14,359
Speaker 1: They just want to be heard, and I normally don't

748
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 1: give the time anymore. Like before I would be like

749
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: answering to all negative people. Now I'm like, no, I

750
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 1: don't care. I'm living my life. Whatever you're saying is

751
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: your point of view, doesn't affect me. Bye bye.

752
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 2: Yeah love that. Good for you. Well girl, thank you

753
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 2: so much for coming on the podcast. We appreciate it,

754
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,399
Speaker 2: and we'll make sure everyone listens to your podcast as well.

755
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,800
Speaker 2: Since we are all in the iHeart family.

756
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 1: Yes, yes to teas in a pod. Well, thank you

757
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 1: so much. It was great being on your podcast. Thanks girl,

758
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 1: appreciate you.

759
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 2: Ye sister, bye bye bye. I remember one time I

760
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 2: gotta When I responded back to someone, They're like, oh

761
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 2: my god, Jennifer Aison never replies, I love you. I'm

762
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 2: just so sorry. I was having a bad day. It's negative.

763
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,839
Speaker 2: It's just like them. It's like children. Yeah, they need

764
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 2: a SANSI.

765
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:58,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, let's take a break.

766
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 2: I need a water before I try heave began, and

767
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 2: then let's go on stage and talk about Miranda.

768
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 4: Hey, guys, it's.

769
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 5: Joe Anserina hear from Bachelor Happy Hour.

770
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 4: We have a really exciting episode dropping on Wednesday. We

771
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 4: will be the one and only podcast talking to the

772
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 4: new Golden Bachelor, Gary.

773
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 5: I know you've seen the teasers for it, and you've

774
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,799
Speaker 5: probably heard about the show for ages, but now it's

775
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 5: happening and the Golden Bachelor has been revealed.

776
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 4: We are talking to Gary about how he's getting ready

777
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 4: for his journey, what his friends and family think about

778
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 4: all this, and what he is most excited and nervous

779
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 4: about in taking on the role of the first Golden Bachelor.

780
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 5: Plus he is revealing exactly what kind of woman he's

781
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:53,720
Speaker 5: hoping to meet only to us in an exclusive interview

782
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 5: with Bacheler Happy Hours.

783
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 4: I mean, after talking to him, I personally I think

784
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,879
Speaker 4: he's gonna fall in love with multiple women, you think, Oh, yeah,

785
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:01,360
Speaker 4: for sure.

786
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 5: I think Gary is such a star. I feel like

787
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 5: the women are going to be head over heels for him,

788
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 5: and the audience is going to love him as well.

789
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 4: I think it's a star. I think he's a confident man,

790
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 4: but I just don't think he knows what he's getting into.

791
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,400
Speaker 4: He's about the date a multitude of women.

792
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 5: I mean, I think the experience will be amazing for

793
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,760
Speaker 5: him and just as amazing for us to follow along.

794
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 4: Oh I agree, So Bachelor Nation, make sure to tune

795
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:27,240
Speaker 4: in to Bachelor Happy Hour on Wednesday, just like Gary.

796
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 4: We promise it will be worth the.

797
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 5: Way, and don't forget to subscribe.

798
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 2: Did you guys see them Miranda Thing?

799
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 4: Yeah?

800
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 2: I did, Okay, So I have thoughts and I've watched

801
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:44,839
Speaker 2: a few things. Basically, she was on stage singing and

802
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 2: she called out two girls that were taking a selfie.

803
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 2: She was in her Vegas Residency Vegas Regancy. Yes, yeah,

804
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:53,720
Speaker 2: which does.

805
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 3: I don't know why. That's a little different to me.

806
00:36:55,600 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 3: It feels a little different. Okay, Okay, I have I have,

807
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 3: I have stances. Okay, I'm interested to know your stance

808
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 3: because you're a performer.

809
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:06,800
Speaker 6: So she called them out in the middle of the concert,

810
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 6: stopped the song. Stopped the song. They were taking a selfie.

811
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 3: They were taking a selfie background right, because I don't

812
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 3: know that. I don't know if they were just too

813
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 3: taking a selfie. Like, I can pull the video if

814
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 3: you want, I can show you the picture is not

815
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 3: a selfie. It's the girls and they have Miranda in

816
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 3: the background. It's like five women in their age thirty

817
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 3: to sixty, So these.

818
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 6: Are so they were getting a whether it's a selfie

819
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 6: or not. They were taking a photo with Miranda in

820
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:33,240
Speaker 6: the background on stage.

821
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 2: Yes, with a flash. Okay, okay, Miranda, don't stop the show,

822
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 2: stop the show, stop singing. She's like, are you really

823
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 2: taking a selfie? I don't know the exact quote, but

824
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:46,760
Speaker 2: it was like, I'm here to sing some damn country music.

825
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 2: Can we just do that?

826
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: I'll clearly know more about this than well.

827
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 2: I can pull up the video.

828
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:55,799
Speaker 3: It wasn't just like a stop. It was more like

829
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 3: a can you believe this is happening? I'm trying to

830
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:00,880
Speaker 3: sing this song. She called them out on stage and

831
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 3: these girls are taking a selfie.

832
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, these girls are worried about selfie and.

833
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 4: Not listening to.

834
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 3: I have three thoughts. I've called out a guy at

835
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,280
Speaker 3: a show for watching.

836
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 2: At wine down. He was watching sports, so as a joke,

837
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 2: to be a part of the shtick, I'm like, what's

838
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 2: the score? Thank you?

839
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

840
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 2: I was like, I was like, buddy, what's the score?

841
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 2: Tell me what the score is?

842
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,399
Speaker 3: Because I thought it was funny, you know what I mean. Yeah,

843
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,760
Speaker 3: so I called out in a funny way. Everyone's laughing.

844
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 2: Again. That's the vibe of like wind down. Very different,

845
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 2: very different in my mind. There's only in my mind

846
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 2: again my opinion. Everyone's opinions are different. In my opinion,

847
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 2: when someone is taking a selfie, like we're you know

848
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 2: when we say I love When someone's taking some off,

849
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, I'm like I'm going to go in

850
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 2: and like cheese, because that's a part of them remembering

851
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 2: the concert and having fun and you know, wanting me

852
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 2: to be a part of it, and or even if

853
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:15,919
Speaker 2: it was just them, I'd be like, take as many

854
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,360
Speaker 2: million selfies as you want, like you're at my concert

855
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 2: having so much fun, like and personally like the selfie

856
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 2: point part at the end of our shows, and like

857
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 2: my shows are my favorite because I'm just like I

858
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:28,240
Speaker 2: get to be like hey, and like I've seen Adele

859
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 2: do it. I mean, so many classy artists are, you know,

860
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 2: taking selfies with people or whatever. I get the other

861
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 2: side of it where it's like, okay, you know, I'm

862
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 2: here to listen to music, but it's also it's a concert,

863
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 2: like don't you like in my mind, I'm like, wouldn't

864
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 2: you want people having fun? And the only way that

865
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 2: I can see someone calling out somebody else is if

866
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 2: they were being inappropriate or if they're being super loud

867
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 2: or disrupting the show for other people. That's the only

868
00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 2: part that I would say, hey, can you this your

869
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 2: kind of just because we've had the drunkies where it's

870
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 2: just like it's a little too much, and then I

871
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 2: kind of motioned to someone else to be like where

872
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 2: they're just like screaming talking during like yeah, you know

873
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 2: that's that's a different story. But this seem this seems

874
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 2: like a respectful situation where they were just wanting to

875
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 2: take a photo, and in my mind, I thought that

876
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 2: was kind of rude. Okay, I also agree. I couldn't.

877
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 6: I think it's the sill I think it's the silliest

878
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 6: thing I've ever seen. I'll just be honest.

879
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,919
Speaker 2: I just I feel like they paid.

880
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 3: And I know I've seen a lot of people say

881
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 3: it doesn't matter how much they paid. Some people are

882
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,399
Speaker 3: like people have lost concert etiquette, blah blah blah. These

883
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 3: tickets for the Vegas Residency. That's why I mentioned that,

884
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 3: because the tickets for the Vegas Residency. I think I

885
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 3: could be wrong, but I believe I read somewhere that

886
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,800
Speaker 3: their tickets specifically were in like the seven hundreds.

887
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:53,720
Speaker 2: Say they're not cheap each.

888
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, so these women and they're dressed to the nines,

889
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 3: like you could tell. And I'm not I'm just saying

890
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 3: like it was to them a very respectful event. This

891
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 3: wasn't like they just rolled in, We're being drunk goes

892
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 3: they like, and they documented it with Miranda in their picture,

893
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 3: Like to them, it was like a girl's night I think.

894
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 3: So that's why I felt, I get nervous to get

895
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 3: everybody canceled. But it just feels a little bully like

896
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 3: when you have the microphone and you can say that

897
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 3: and you're and you're doing that to women that the

898
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 3: woman has spoke out since.

899
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 2: Oh she she did what she said.

900
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 3: She basically said it wasn't you know, we just wanted

901
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 3: to document and she wasn't. She said that she probably

902
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:36,919
Speaker 3: she'll never stop listening to Miranda's music and she still

903
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 3: loves it, but she probably won't go to a concert.

904
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 3: I think it was her to a Miranda concert.

905
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:43,839
Speaker 2: Again. I think it's a different story when it's like, hey,

906
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 2: if you don't want phones or people taking selfies, Like

907
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 2: we say no phones during the first part of our

908
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 2: line because we don't want people hearing those things, not

909
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 2: because we don't want them videoing or whatever. But if

910
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 2: you don't want phones or people taking videos or selfies

911
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 2: or whatever, say it's a no phone policy, Well you

912
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 2: can you can have that. You can choose that. Especially

913
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 2: at comedy shows you take their phones, or.

914
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 6: If you're like at like a listening room or something,

915
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 6: if you're at the Bluebird or if you're at like

916
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 6: something like that, and it is purely about just listening

917
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,879
Speaker 6: to the music. Say take the phones. No, phones, don't

918
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 6: do it. I get that. But a situation like this,

919
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,719
Speaker 6: I don't understand. I think she took advantage of the situation.

920
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:25,320
Speaker 6: They've paid a lot of money, and if someone called

921
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 6: me out in the middle of a concert, I felt

922
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 6: that thing wrong. That was I paid seven hundred dollars.

923
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:32,800
Speaker 6: I would never support that artist again.

924
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 3: It's crazy because I would, I think because I'm married

925
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 3: to an artist. Like I've seen my husband legit pull

926
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 3: those people up on stage and me like, girl, get

927
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 3: up here and get a real picture.

928
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like facetiming people on stage. And then I

929
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 2: know I'm not the best singer. Like Miranda is an

930
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 2: amazing artist, and she's an amazing singer and like an

931
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,640
Speaker 2: insane vocalist. I know I'm just a monkey show. I

932
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 2: get that. So I'm going to make a giche just

933
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 2: saying like I get my stick right. So it's like

934
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:58,240
Speaker 2: but even so, like if I'm at a Sam Smith

935
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:00,879
Speaker 2: or Chris Stapleton, I'm going to take selfie because how

936
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 2: cool is this? Even if I was an a Miranda concert,

937
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 2: I would take a selfie, And like with Maria like

938
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 2: her in the background because I respect her and like

939
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:09,399
Speaker 2: her as an artist, But if I was to get

940
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 2: called out from her, I'd feel so embarrassed.

941
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 3: Well that's that's how it feels in that too, because

942
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 3: it wasn't like, hang on a second, I got some

943
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 3: real hot girls over there taking a selfie.

944
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 6: No, it's she literally said, I'm pissed.

945
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't.

946
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:23,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm sorry, I don't. I know I'm a little

947
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 6: blunt with it, but I just don't think. No, it

948
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 6: just also not how it's became this big thing. It's

949
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 6: like she made it a big thing that it's just

950
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 6: should we shouldn't. It should never be a thing. It

951
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 6: shouldn't have been a thing.

952
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:37,320
Speaker 2: I think. I think honestly, she just doesn't like the phones,

953
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 2: which again, you know she wants people just to be

954
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 2: present and not be on the phones. I get it.

955
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 3: I'm on my phone all the time, so I can

956
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,560
Speaker 3: have I could see her backlash and be like, Janny,

957
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 3: you're on your phone all the time, like you can't

958
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 3: even put your phone down like I Again, I get that.

959
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 3: I like to document cool concerts.

960
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 2: I like to go back. I'm like, oh that's clean,

961
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 2: doon like having that video with like that was. I

962
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 2: go back to it all the time. Yeah, it such

963
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:03,439
Speaker 2: a good thing. But like she had also stopped back

964
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,919
Speaker 2: in twenty nineteen. I believe it was someone was taking

965
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 2: a selfie during the House That Built Me, and she goes,

966
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 2: you're really taking a selfie in the middle of the

967
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 2: house that built Me. So I think she just wants

968
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 2: to have a concert where it's just the presence of

969
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 2: like people, and that's totally in her right. Just take

970
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:20,399
Speaker 2: away people's phones and don't call them out.

971
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 6: I think two things with that. A. I think it

972
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 6: would be pretty easy to do that, especially at the

973
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 6: Vegas Residency.

974
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:27,760
Speaker 2: Easy no phones.

975
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,399
Speaker 6: Other side of that, she probably knows people aren't gonna

976
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,840
Speaker 6: she won't have as much ticket sales. I don't like

977
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:36,240
Speaker 6: it when they take my phone at his comedy shows.

978
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 2: We'ved kids anxiety. I'm like, what if my kids need me?

979
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 6: Had I realized that the last one we went to,

980
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,879
Speaker 6: I probably wouldn't have gone. So I think that there's

981
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:46,800
Speaker 6: a part of her that knows if she puts that

982
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 6: policy in place, she's not going to sell I mean,

983
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 6: there's too many people there that have to be reachable. Yeah,

984
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:54,720
Speaker 6: when they're gone, you know so.

985
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:57,360
Speaker 2: And disclaimer, this isn't me like hating house that built me.

986
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 2: By the way, is one of my favorite Oh like

987
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 2: love her. I mean we're not like friends, but I

988
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 2: still respect her as an artist. I think she's amazing.

989
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 2: I just personally, as a fan, would not like to

990
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 2: be called out that way.

991
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 6: Yeah I wouldn't either, And I don't mean to be

992
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 6: so blunt about it, but I just I wouldn't like it.

993
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 3: They just weren't disrespectful. That's the hard part for me.

994
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,399
Speaker 3: Like she is such a level, She's in a level

995
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 3: in my brain, a very high level performance to me.

996
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 3: So I understand the wanting people to like be in

997
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 3: your music and like a listening room vibe right at

998
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 3: a show.

999
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 2: Like I totally understand that.

1000
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 3: I just I really, I just like her so much

1001
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 3: that I really tried to like get on her page,

1002
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:38,799
Speaker 3: but it kind of bugged me because I thought, these

1003
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:40,879
Speaker 3: girls are just having a really good night out.

1004
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just again, seven hundred dollars fifty dollars, it's

1005
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 6: a lot to spend. It doesn't matter how much you spend.

1006
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 6: Concert tickets are extra when it comes to you these

1007
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 6: you know, everyone's income you spend money to have a night.

1008
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 6: I just think something like.

1009
00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 2: That, Like, also they need to see her.

1010
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 6: And to be you know, after you've spent money. I

1011
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 6: just I don't love that.

1012
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 2: Come it felt like these are sticky watching it, I

1013
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 2: was like, Oh, that's yeah. And then I'm like, well,

1014
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 2: maybe they were super drunk, or maybe like it was,

1015
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 2: they were causing a scene, or maybe they had like

1016
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,760
Speaker 2: flash flash flash flash flash by because that becomes annoying.

1017
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 2: They during the shash.

1018
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 3: Well, but I mean one flash is fine too, you know,

1019
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,879
Speaker 3: but if it's like a they're constantly like that would

1020
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 3: be annoying.

1021
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.

1022
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 3: So it's like, you don't know what. Having said all that,

1023
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 3: I am living through people's videos of the Taylor Swift concert.

1024
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 3: Watch all of them because I'm like, I couldn't afford

1025
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 3: a ticket once they all got right.

1026
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 6: But did you see her all out the security guard.

1027
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 2: Oh that's such a pretty photo of everyone.

1028
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 6: Sorry, did you see I would have taken that photo

1029
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 6: all day long. Did you see Taylor Swift call out

1030
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:51,359
Speaker 6: in the middle of her concert and start singing call

1031
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 6: out the security guard?

1032
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 2: No, it happened. Who was heckling?

1033
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 6: A fan was like and she was like, you stop,

1034
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 6: She's fine, and like some security guard was like, I

1035
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 6: don't know if this fan. I didn't read all about it,

1036
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 6: but I don't know if this fan was just maybe

1037
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 6: was drunk and was doing some stuff. The security guard

1038
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 6: didn't like the security She called out the security guard.

1039
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:11,800
Speaker 2: And told him to stop.

1040
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 6: Wow in the middle of the that. I understand her

1041
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 6: fan spent a lot of money for that sure concert.

1042
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,280
Speaker 2: Well, that's kind of where I'm at with Miranda. I'm like, girl,

1043
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 2: they paid a lot of money to come see you,

1044
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 2: and this photo is like very classy, That's what I'm saying.

1045
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,279
Speaker 3: It's not a and not I don't know. I just

1046
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 3: I think too because I we pay our bills by

1047
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 3: fan money, Like if no one likes us, we don't

1048
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 3: have a house to live in kind of seeing of

1049
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 3: houses the built up I mean.

1050
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:39,919
Speaker 2: So I'm like, if.

1051
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 3: They're there, they're there because they love you and they

1052
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 3: want to watch you and they want to document you.

1053
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 3: Like you're there, Jessica Simpson, I didn't have the moment.

1054
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 2: You know, And again I think it's just like respectful,

1055
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 2: like the people of the throwing things, like you don't

1056
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 2: throw things on stage. That's a reason to stop thing.

1057
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 2: You know, that's a reason. Like that's like this, No,

1058
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 2: you know, don't be the let when the artist is talking.

1059
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 2: Don't be screaming at them while because that, again, is

1060
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 2: so distracting. Let's think you're taking a million trillion you know,

1061
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 2: flash flash back. That's distracting. But it's like this, just

1062
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 2: one little photo, like yeah, anyways for them, g n

1063
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 2: O is all they were trying to have. Guys. I

1064
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 2: was like, guya, well we are in the mode all right, guys,

1065
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:24,720
Speaker 2: fun to have. Oh can we just do this again?

1066
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 2: Can you get us together? I need it.

1067
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 3: I'm just always afraid to misspeak because I'm not sleeping

1068
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 3: and my hormones are crazy.

1069
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 2: Well, girlfriend, get on board with me. Two peas in

1070
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 2: a pod. Uh okay. I love you guys, I love you.

1071
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 1: Bye,