WEBVTT - Bryce & Tessa - Pickle Pop Up

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<v Speaker 1>First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 1>online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Bryce is on the phone today for a first date

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<v Speaker 2>follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Tessa.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see

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<v Speaker 2>if cha tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>get him another date. But first, Bryce, how long has

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<v Speaker 2>this been since you heard from Tessa?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey? Uh, yeah, it's been about nine days, I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, it's definite ghosting.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, not that I'm counting or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't sound callous about that.

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<v Speaker 4>But even if you are counting, I get it, I

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<v Speaker 4>would feel the same way. Did you try to reach

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<v Speaker 4>out to her?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've tried a couple of times. I called her, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, a couple of days after our date and

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<v Speaker 3>getting her back, and like I texted her a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of times since then, just casual kind of stuff, trying

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<v Speaker 3>to you know, reach out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, tell us about the date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So, I mean we went to this really cool

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<v Speaker 3>little diner pop up that only serves pickle themed dishes. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>everything had pickles in it, and like it had all

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<v Speaker 3>different kinds of things, like they pickled lots of different

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<v Speaker 3>stuff too. It was really cool dirt, Yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was super fun. Like even the dessert had like

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<v Speaker 3>elements of pickle in it. And I thought, and she,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I thought I figured she would be into

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<v Speaker 3>it because in her profile it said, you know, adventurous

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<v Speaker 3>with food, and I thought, like, let's just you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I want not go full send on this one.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, yeah, it went really well.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, you know, we had a lot of fun too.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean like we spent just hours laughing. She's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like one of these girls who's sarcastic, but in

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<v Speaker 3>that way if you're not sure if she's roasting you

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<v Speaker 3>or flirting or a little bit of both, maybe and

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<v Speaker 3>then it just works, you know what I mean. She's yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>not quite you know what I mean, but like you

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<v Speaker 3>had a little bit of a fun edge to her,

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<v Speaker 3>and uh and I like that. I need that, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's good for me. And she's just she's gorgeous. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>like she made eating a deep fried pickle looked like

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<v Speaker 3>a runway moment, if you know what I mean. Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Paris and Milan with pickles. It was amazing, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like we did, like the we did the whole milkshaped

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<v Speaker 3>to straws, you know, like the old school brom combine.

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<v Speaker 3>It was it was adorable until it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, so what happened?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh So personally we had like a super intense debate

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<v Speaker 3>about whether pickles should be considered a personality trait, and

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<v Speaker 3>somehow it got like really deep and like, I you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I I think I felt like she was just somebody

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<v Speaker 3>who got my weirdness, which she called me, literally called

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<v Speaker 3>me refreshingly weird, and that to me is like the

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<v Speaker 3>best compliment and it's ever given me. Yeah. Yeah, But

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<v Speaker 3>there was one moment and I might have been trying

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<v Speaker 3>to impress her a little too much. I did, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like the pickle tossed trick where you flick a pickle

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<v Speaker 3>slice into your mouth, okay, like you kind of flick

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<v Speaker 3>it like a coin, like and it flips into your mouth.

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<v Speaker 3>It's I don't know, Okay, Yeah, I think she would

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<v Speaker 3>have been two if it worked. And that did not

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<v Speaker 3>go Yeah, that did not go great. It did not.

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<v Speaker 3>So Like I tried the thing and the pickle hit

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<v Speaker 3>this like went behind me over my shoulder, hit this

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<v Speaker 3>older lady right in the eye, and yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 3>not great. I apologized like a million times. Doesna laughed

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<v Speaker 3>really hard, like she she thought it was hysterical. She

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<v Speaker 3>was laughing. But I'm worried like maybe she thought I

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<v Speaker 3>was a little immature or reckless or I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>It's definitely an embarrassing moment. I mean, but she laughs,

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<v Speaker 4>so that's kind of a good sign.

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<v Speaker 3>Right it was again, though I don't know if she's

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<v Speaker 3>laughing at me or with me. Walks the line.

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<v Speaker 2>How did everything end with her?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I thought it went ended well. I thought

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<v Speaker 3>we were gonna hang out after she seemed like it

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<v Speaker 3>was good, and then just kind of haven't heard from

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<v Speaker 3>our stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, Well we'll see if we can figure

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<v Speaker 2>it out for you. We'll play a song, come back

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<v Speaker 2>and call her and see if she'll tell us why

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<v Speaker 2>she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, sounds good.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we'll get your first day follow up, next.

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<v Speaker 1>First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 2>If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up,

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<v Speaker 2>Bryce is on the phone and Bryce is a pickle flipper,

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<v Speaker 2>but he's getting ghosted by a girl named Tessa, and

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<v Speaker 2>we're about to call her and see if she'll tell

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<v Speaker 2>us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a

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<v Speaker 2>second date. But first, Bryce, why don't you recap your

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<v Speaker 2>date real quick for us?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. So we went to a pickle themed pop up

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<v Speaker 3>for dinner, and I thought it was really great. We

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<v Speaker 3>seemed to be having a good time until I tried

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<v Speaker 3>to pickle flip, try to flip a pickle into my mouth,

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<v Speaker 3>and I missed and I hit an old lady in

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<v Speaker 3>the face.

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<v Speaker 2>That's rough.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that was good. So yes, maybe that

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<v Speaker 3>might be why.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, well, see if hitting an old lady in

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<v Speaker 2>the face with your pickle is the reason that we're

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<v Speaker 2>getting ghosted, I couldn't help it. We'll see if that

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<v Speaker 2>is the reason. Are you ready for us to call her? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, here we go. Huh, Hi, man, I speak

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<v Speaker 2>to Tessa please, isn't she hey? Tessa? How are you?

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<v Speaker 2>This is adeo show. It's called the Jewbil Show. Hi, Testa,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Nina. Hi and Victoria. Hi, my name is Jewble

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<v Speaker 2>And how you doing today?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Uh, I'm I'm Okay, how are you good?

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for asking? You ever listen to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? So yeah, Well we do a segment on the show.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called the first Date follow Up. What that is

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<v Speaker 2>is if you go on a date and you get ghosted,

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<v Speaker 2>you can email us and we'll call the person that's

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<v Speaker 2>ghosting you to ask why they're ghosting. Sore you ghosting somebody?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, this is so did Brice, Yes, it's brace.

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<v Speaker 2>We talked to him. He told us a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>about your date. He said he really liked you, you thought

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<v Speaker 2>you were awesome, but he's wondering why you're ghosting him.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you have a minute to tell us that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Yeah, sure, it's because he's a toe shoe guy.

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<v Speaker 2>I toash you.

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<v Speaker 3>You know those shoes, the shoes were the individual toe

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<v Speaker 3>pocket one. Yeah, wear how shoe guy he wears on

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<v Speaker 3>a date, on a date? Not ironically, It wasn't ironic.

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<v Speaker 3>He called them a tickle hunting shoes. I can't, I

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<v Speaker 3>just can't. I can't. You guys on a minute, now,

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<v Speaker 3>wait a minute, listen. Those are high performance minimalist shoes. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>like they promote natural foot posture.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Tessa. That's Bryce. He's on the phone listening.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't shoes.

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<v Speaker 5>They promote you said it again, They promote natural football.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, they promote looking like a swamp goblin.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of ugly.

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<v Speaker 3>You said you likes unique guys. I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah said I unique guys that didn't sail it,

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<v Speaker 5>guys who like live in a forest barefoot.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you laughed about the pickle tossed. I thought

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't. What is my footwear?

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<v Speaker 5>I laughed at it before I saw your shoes, and

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<v Speaker 5>that your toes were like waving at me.

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<v Speaker 2>And did you use your toes to flick the pickle?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow? So this isn't about the pickle incident at all,

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<v Speaker 3>right you you go to me over, yes, yes, exactly, huh, yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Nice.

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<v Speaker 5>It was a lot of toe. It was an aggressive

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<v Speaker 5>amount of toe all the time, Like it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even think you were looking at my seat. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm surprised I wasn't. I told you. At the end,

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<v Speaker 3>they just like they reared their five ugly heads just

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<v Speaker 3>staring at my looking just for the record, locause my

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<v Speaker 3>feet are not ugly. I didn't see I mean, I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't your feet. It was what the feet were in.

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<v Speaker 3>But you, I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>I was gonna say, obviously you get it, but I'm

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<v Speaker 5>just scared that you do.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, but do people wear these out in public? I

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<v Speaker 4>thought people just like wear them in the water, And

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<v Speaker 4>I've seen people.

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<v Speaker 2>Every once in a while, I've seen, I've seen, but

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<v Speaker 2>most of the time I thought it was just you know,

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<v Speaker 2>for running or Yeah, of.

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<v Speaker 3>Course people wear them in public. They're actually better for

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<v Speaker 3>you than regular shoes, like your foot Your foothealth is

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<v Speaker 3>actually like a huge part of your overall health, and

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<v Speaker 3>these shoes are super beneficial, Like they're really good for you.

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<v Speaker 3>You know. They say the stomach is the second brain, Well,

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<v Speaker 3>but I believe your feet are like your third brain,

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<v Speaker 3>third brain.

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<v Speaker 2>Take care of the.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, your meters should not be making your dating decisions,

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<v Speaker 5>then how is it working for you?

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<v Speaker 3>Let me ask you something, TESA, you've dated other guys before, right,

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<v Speaker 3>mm hmmm, how nice were they? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I try not to see someone on's feet on the

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<v Speaker 5>first date as a rule.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, not on a first date, but answer the question.

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<v Speaker 3>I know that most guys don't take care of their

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<v Speaker 3>feet properly.

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<v Speaker 2>It's true. It's a good question.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, look, I might ask for some statistics and

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<v Speaker 5>fasts and figures, so I'm not gonna You're not wrong,

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<v Speaker 5>You're not You got me.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, think about this, all right. You liked me, you

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<v Speaker 3>thought I was a nice guy. And I also take

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<v Speaker 3>really good care of my feet. They're manicured, they're in

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<v Speaker 3>good health. You never have to worry about getting athletes

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<v Speaker 3>from me. I feel like, you know this my third

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<v Speaker 3>and fourth print. I feel like I have a step

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<v Speaker 3>up on the competition.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like selling it. I mean, clean feet are tesla.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you like to go on another day with Bryce?

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<v Speaker 5>I would be open if he doesn't kill me anymore

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<v Speaker 5>of his films.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe maybe no athletes, but really getting you, huh?

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<v Speaker 5>It is a p You know, most aren't the best,

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<v Speaker 5>so I guess it now that I'm thinking about it, it

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<v Speaker 5>is kind of a plus. Do you have any other

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<v Speaker 5>view where I don't want to see your toes like

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<v Speaker 5>anything vans converse? I'm going I'll take you literally any

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<v Speaker 5>of it anything else?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I have other footwear, and I promise I won't

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<v Speaker 3>wear the toe shoes on a date with you again?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that yes, Tessa? I you know what.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I guess, so I'll give it another shot, but

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<v Speaker 5>one toe out of line and I'm out of there.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, great, thank you. I promise you will not

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<v Speaker 3>regret it. I will not show you my toes until

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<v Speaker 3>the proper time. You will first date fall up.