Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2: Bryce is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Tessa.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see
Speaker 2: if cha tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe
Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Bryce, how long has
Speaker 2: this been since you heard from Tessa?
Speaker 3: Hey? Uh, yeah, it's been about nine days, I guess.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, it's definite ghosting.
Speaker 3: Yeah, not that I'm counting or anything.
Speaker 2: But I don't sound callous about that.
Speaker 4: But even if you are counting, I get it, I
Speaker 4: would feel the same way. Did you try to reach
Speaker 4: out to her?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've tried a couple of times. I called her, like,
Speaker 3: you know, a couple of days after our date and
Speaker 3: getting her back, and like I texted her a couple
Speaker 3: of times since then, just casual kind of stuff, trying
Speaker 3: to you know, reach out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, tell us about the date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So, I mean we went to this really cool
Speaker 3: little diner pop up that only serves pickle themed dishes. Yeah,
Speaker 3: everything had pickles in it, and like it had all
Speaker 3: different kinds of things, like they pickled lots of different
Speaker 3: stuff too. It was really cool dirt, Yeah, it was.
Speaker 3: It was super fun. Like even the dessert had like
Speaker 3: elements of pickle in it. And I thought, and she,
Speaker 3: you know, I thought I figured she would be into
Speaker 3: it because in her profile it said, you know, adventurous
Speaker 3: with food, and I thought, like, let's just you know,
Speaker 3: I want not go full send on this one.
Speaker 4: So yeah, yeah, it went really well.
Speaker 3: I think, you know, we had a lot of fun too.
Speaker 3: I mean like we spent just hours laughing. She's hilarious.
Speaker 3: She's like one of these girls who's sarcastic, but in
Speaker 3: that way if you're not sure if she's roasting you
Speaker 3: or flirting or a little bit of both, maybe and
Speaker 3: then it just works, you know what I mean. She's yeah,
Speaker 3: not quite you know what I mean, but like you
Speaker 3: had a little bit of a fun edge to her,
Speaker 3: and uh and I like that. I need that, you know,
Speaker 3: it's good for me. And she's just she's gorgeous. I mean,
Speaker 3: like she made eating a deep fried pickle looked like
Speaker 3: a runway moment, if you know what I mean. Like, yeah,
Speaker 3: Paris and Milan with pickles. It was amazing, you know,
Speaker 3: like we did, like the we did the whole milkshaped
Speaker 3: to straws, you know, like the old school brom combine.
Speaker 3: It was it was adorable until it wasn't.
Speaker 2: So yeah, so what happened?
Speaker 3: Uh So personally we had like a super intense debate
Speaker 3: about whether pickles should be considered a personality trait, and
Speaker 3: somehow it got like really deep and like, I you know,
Speaker 3: I I think I felt like she was just somebody
Speaker 3: who got my weirdness, which she called me, literally called
Speaker 3: me refreshingly weird, and that to me is like the
Speaker 3: best compliment and it's ever given me. Yeah. Yeah, But
Speaker 3: there was one moment and I might have been trying
Speaker 3: to impress her a little too much. I did, you know,
Speaker 3: like the pickle tossed trick where you flick a pickle
Speaker 3: slice into your mouth, okay, like you kind of flick
Speaker 3: it like a coin, like and it flips into your mouth.
Speaker 3: It's I don't know, Okay, Yeah, I think she would
Speaker 3: have been two if it worked. And that did not
Speaker 3: go Yeah, that did not go great. It did not.
Speaker 3: So Like I tried the thing and the pickle hit
Speaker 3: this like went behind me over my shoulder, hit this
Speaker 3: older lady right in the eye, and yeah, it was
Speaker 3: not great. I apologized like a million times. Doesna laughed
Speaker 3: really hard, like she she thought it was hysterical. She
Speaker 3: was laughing. But I'm worried like maybe she thought I
Speaker 3: was a little immature or reckless or I don't know.
Speaker 4: It's definitely an embarrassing moment. I mean, but she laughs,
Speaker 4: so that's kind of a good sign.
Speaker 3: Right it was again, though I don't know if she's
Speaker 3: laughing at me or with me. Walks the line.
Speaker 2: How did everything end with her?
Speaker 3: I mean, I thought it went ended well. I thought
Speaker 3: we were gonna hang out after she seemed like it
Speaker 3: was good, and then just kind of haven't heard from
Speaker 3: our stuff.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well we'll see if we can figure
Speaker 2: it out for you. We'll play a song, come back
Speaker 2: and call her and see if she'll tell us why
Speaker 2: she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, sounds good.
Speaker 2: All right, we'll get your first day follow up, next.
Speaker 1: First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up,
Speaker 2: Bryce is on the phone and Bryce is a pickle flipper,
Speaker 2: but he's getting ghosted by a girl named Tessa, and
Speaker 2: we're about to call her and see if she'll tell
Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a
Speaker 2: second date. But first, Bryce, why don't you recap your
Speaker 2: date real quick for us?
Speaker 3: Yeah. So we went to a pickle themed pop up
Speaker 3: for dinner, and I thought it was really great. We
Speaker 3: seemed to be having a good time until I tried
Speaker 3: to pickle flip, try to flip a pickle into my mouth,
Speaker 3: and I missed and I hit an old lady in
Speaker 3: the face.
Speaker 2: That's rough.
Speaker 3: I don't think that was good. So yes, maybe that
Speaker 3: might be why.
Speaker 2: All right, well, see if hitting an old lady in
Speaker 2: the face with your pickle is the reason that we're
Speaker 2: getting ghosted, I couldn't help it. We'll see if that
Speaker 2: is the reason. Are you ready for us to call her? Yeah,
Speaker 2: all right, here we go. Huh, Hi, man, I speak
Speaker 2: to Tessa please, isn't she hey? Tessa? How are you?
Speaker 2: This is adeo show. It's called the Jewbil Show. Hi, Testa,
Speaker 2: I'm Nina. Hi and Victoria. Hi, my name is Jewble
Speaker 2: And how you doing today?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Uh, I'm I'm Okay, how are you good?
Speaker 2: Thank you for asking? You ever listen to the show.
Speaker 3: I'm not sure?
Speaker 2: Okay? So yeah, Well we do a segment on the show.
Speaker 2: It's called the first Date follow Up. What that is
Speaker 2: is if you go on a date and you get ghosted,
Speaker 2: you can email us and we'll call the person that's
Speaker 2: ghosting you to ask why they're ghosting. Sore you ghosting somebody?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, this is so did Brice, Yes, it's brace.
Speaker 2: We talked to him. He told us a little bit
Speaker 2: about your date. He said he really liked you, you thought
Speaker 2: you were awesome, but he's wondering why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 2: Would you have a minute to tell us that?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, sure, it's because he's a toe shoe guy.
Speaker 2: I toash you.
Speaker 3: You know those shoes, the shoes were the individual toe
Speaker 3: pocket one. Yeah, wear how shoe guy he wears on
Speaker 3: a date, on a date? Not ironically, It wasn't ironic.
Speaker 3: He called them a tickle hunting shoes. I can't, I
Speaker 3: just can't. I can't. You guys on a minute, now,
Speaker 3: wait a minute, listen. Those are high performance minimalist shoes. Okay,
Speaker 3: like they promote natural foot posture.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Tessa. That's Bryce. He's on the phone listening.
Speaker 3: I don't shoes.
Speaker 5: They promote you said it again, They promote natural football.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, they promote looking like a swamp goblin.
Speaker 2: Kind of ugly.
Speaker 3: You said you likes unique guys. I don't.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah said I unique guys that didn't sail it,
Speaker 5: guys who like live in a forest barefoot.
Speaker 3: I thought you laughed about the pickle tossed. I thought
Speaker 3: I didn't. What is my footwear?
Speaker 5: I laughed at it before I saw your shoes, and
Speaker 5: that your toes were like waving at me.
Speaker 2: And did you use your toes to flick the pickle?
Speaker 3: Wow? So this isn't about the pickle incident at all,
Speaker 3: right you you go to me over, yes, yes, exactly, huh, yes.
Speaker 4: Nice.
Speaker 5: It was a lot of toe. It was an aggressive
Speaker 5: amount of toe all the time, Like it wasn't.
Speaker 3: I didn't even think you were looking at my seat. Honestly,
Speaker 3: I'm surprised I wasn't. I told you. At the end,
Speaker 3: they just like they reared their five ugly heads just
Speaker 3: staring at my looking just for the record, locause my
Speaker 3: feet are not ugly. I didn't see I mean, I
Speaker 3: didn't your feet. It was what the feet were in.
Speaker 3: But you, I mean.
Speaker 5: I was gonna say, obviously you get it, but I'm
Speaker 5: just scared that you do.
Speaker 4: Wait, but do people wear these out in public? I
Speaker 4: thought people just like wear them in the water, And
Speaker 4: I've seen people.
Speaker 2: Every once in a while, I've seen, I've seen, but
Speaker 2: most of the time I thought it was just you know,
Speaker 2: for running or Yeah, of.
Speaker 3: Course people wear them in public. They're actually better for
Speaker 3: you than regular shoes, like your foot Your foothealth is
Speaker 3: actually like a huge part of your overall health, and
Speaker 3: these shoes are super beneficial, Like they're really good for you.
Speaker 3: You know. They say the stomach is the second brain, Well,
Speaker 3: but I believe your feet are like your third brain,
Speaker 3: third brain.
Speaker 2: Take care of the.
Speaker 5: Yeah, your meters should not be making your dating decisions,
Speaker 5: then how is it working for you?
Speaker 3: Let me ask you something, TESA, you've dated other guys before, right,
Speaker 3: mm hmmm, how nice were they? I don't know.
Speaker 5: I try not to see someone on's feet on the
Speaker 5: first date as a rule.
Speaker 3: Okay, not on a first date, but answer the question.
Speaker 3: I know that most guys don't take care of their
Speaker 3: feet properly.
Speaker 2: It's true. It's a good question.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I mean, look, I might ask for some statistics and
Speaker 5: fasts and figures, so I'm not gonna You're not wrong,
Speaker 5: You're not You got me.
Speaker 3: Well, think about this, all right. You liked me, you
Speaker 3: thought I was a nice guy. And I also take
Speaker 3: really good care of my feet. They're manicured, they're in
Speaker 3: good health. You never have to worry about getting athletes
Speaker 3: from me. I feel like, you know this my third
Speaker 3: and fourth print. I feel like I have a step
Speaker 3: up on the competition.
Speaker 2: I feel like selling it. I mean, clean feet are tesla.
Speaker 2: Would you like to go on another day with Bryce?
Speaker 5: I would be open if he doesn't kill me anymore
Speaker 5: of his films.
Speaker 4: Maybe maybe no athletes, but really getting you, huh?
Speaker 5: It is a p You know, most aren't the best,
Speaker 5: so I guess it now that I'm thinking about it, it
Speaker 5: is kind of a plus. Do you have any other
Speaker 5: view where I don't want to see your toes like
Speaker 5: anything vans converse? I'm going I'll take you literally any
Speaker 5: of it anything else?
Speaker 3: Yes, I have other footwear, and I promise I won't
Speaker 3: wear the toe shoes on a date with you again?
Speaker 2: Is that yes, Tessa? I you know what.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess, so I'll give it another shot, but
Speaker 5: one toe out of line and I'm out of there.
Speaker 3: All right, great, thank you. I promise you will not
Speaker 3: regret it. I will not show you my toes until
Speaker 3: the proper time. You will first date fall up.