1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 2: Bryce is on the phone today for a first date 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Tessa. 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see 6 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 2: if cha tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe 7 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Bryce, how long has 8 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 2: this been since you heard from Tessa? 9 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 3: Hey? Uh, yeah, it's been about nine days, I guess. 10 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, it's definite ghosting. 11 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, not that I'm counting or anything. 12 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 2: But I don't sound callous about that. 13 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:36,519 Speaker 4: But even if you are counting, I get it, I 14 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 4: would feel the same way. Did you try to reach 15 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 4: out to her? 16 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've tried a couple of times. I called her, like, 17 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 3: you know, a couple of days after our date and 18 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 3: getting her back, and like I texted her a couple 19 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:51,520 Speaker 3: of times since then, just casual kind of stuff, trying 20 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 3: to you know, reach out. 21 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, tell us about the date. 22 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, So, I mean we went to this really cool 23 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 3: little diner pop up that only serves pickle themed dishes. Yeah, 24 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 3: everything had pickles in it, and like it had all 25 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 3: different kinds of things, like they pickled lots of different 26 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 3: stuff too. It was really cool dirt, Yeah, it was. 27 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 3: It was super fun. Like even the dessert had like 28 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 3: elements of pickle in it. And I thought, and she, 29 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 3: you know, I thought I figured she would be into 30 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 3: it because in her profile it said, you know, adventurous 31 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 3: with food, and I thought, like, let's just you know, 32 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 3: I want not go full send on this one. 33 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 4: So yeah, yeah, it went really well. 34 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 3: I think, you know, we had a lot of fun too. 35 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 3: I mean like we spent just hours laughing. She's hilarious. 36 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 3: She's like one of these girls who's sarcastic, but in 37 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 3: that way if you're not sure if she's roasting you 38 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 3: or flirting or a little bit of both, maybe and 39 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 3: then it just works, you know what I mean. She's yeah, 40 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 3: not quite you know what I mean, but like you 41 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 3: had a little bit of a fun edge to her, 42 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 3: and uh and I like that. I need that, you know, 43 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 3: it's good for me. And she's just she's gorgeous. I mean, 44 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 3: like she made eating a deep fried pickle looked like 45 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 3: a runway moment, if you know what I mean. Like, yeah, 46 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 3: Paris and Milan with pickles. It was amazing, you know, 47 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 3: like we did, like the we did the whole milkshaped 48 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 3: to straws, you know, like the old school brom combine. 49 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 3: It was it was adorable until it wasn't. 50 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 2: So yeah, so what happened? 51 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 3: Uh So personally we had like a super intense debate 52 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 3: about whether pickles should be considered a personality trait, and 53 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 3: somehow it got like really deep and like, I you know, 54 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 3: I I think I felt like she was just somebody 55 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 3: who got my weirdness, which she called me, literally called 56 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 3: me refreshingly weird, and that to me is like the 57 00:02:55,120 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 3: best compliment and it's ever given me. Yeah. Yeah, But 58 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 3: there was one moment and I might have been trying 59 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 3: to impress her a little too much. I did, you know, 60 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 3: like the pickle tossed trick where you flick a pickle 61 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 3: slice into your mouth, okay, like you kind of flick 62 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 3: it like a coin, like and it flips into your mouth. 63 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 3: It's I don't know, Okay, Yeah, I think she would 64 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 3: have been two if it worked. And that did not 65 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 3: go Yeah, that did not go great. It did not. 66 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 3: So Like I tried the thing and the pickle hit 67 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 3: this like went behind me over my shoulder, hit this 68 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 3: older lady right in the eye, and yeah, it was 69 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 3: not great. I apologized like a million times. Doesna laughed 70 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 3: really hard, like she she thought it was hysterical. She 71 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 3: was laughing. But I'm worried like maybe she thought I 72 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 3: was a little immature or reckless or I don't know. 73 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 4: It's definitely an embarrassing moment. I mean, but she laughs, 74 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 4: so that's kind of a good sign. 75 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 3: Right it was again, though I don't know if she's 76 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 3: laughing at me or with me. Walks the line. 77 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 2: How did everything end with her? 78 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 3: I mean, I thought it went ended well. I thought 79 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 3: we were gonna hang out after she seemed like it 80 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 3: was good, and then just kind of haven't heard from 81 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 3: our stuff. 82 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well we'll see if we can figure 83 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 2: it out for you. We'll play a song, come back 84 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 2: and call her and see if she'll tell us why 85 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 2: she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. 86 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 3: Okay, all right, sounds good. 87 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 2: All right, we'll get your first day follow up, next. 88 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 1: First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 89 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. 90 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up, 91 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 2: Bryce is on the phone and Bryce is a pickle flipper, 92 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 2: but he's getting ghosted by a girl named Tessa, and 93 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: we're about to call her and see if she'll tell 94 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a 95 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 2: second date. But first, Bryce, why don't you recap your 96 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 2: date real quick for us? 97 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. So we went to a pickle themed pop up 98 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 3: for dinner, and I thought it was really great. We 99 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 3: seemed to be having a good time until I tried 100 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 3: to pickle flip, try to flip a pickle into my mouth, 101 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 3: and I missed and I hit an old lady in 102 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 3: the face. 103 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:21,600 Speaker 2: That's rough. 104 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 3: I don't think that was good. So yes, maybe that 105 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 3: might be why. 106 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 2: All right, well, see if hitting an old lady in 107 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 2: the face with your pickle is the reason that we're 108 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 2: getting ghosted, I couldn't help it. We'll see if that 109 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 2: is the reason. Are you ready for us to call her? Yeah, 110 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 2: all right, here we go. Huh, Hi, man, I speak 111 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 2: to Tessa please, isn't she hey? Tessa? How are you? 112 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 2: This is adeo show. It's called the Jewbil Show. Hi, Testa, 113 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 2: I'm Nina. Hi and Victoria. Hi, my name is Jewble 114 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 2: And how you doing today? 115 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 3: Yeah? Uh, I'm I'm Okay, how are you good? 116 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 2: Thank you for asking? You ever listen to the show. 117 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 3: I'm not sure? 118 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 2: Okay? So yeah, Well we do a segment on the show. 119 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 2: It's called the first Date follow Up. What that is 120 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 2: is if you go on a date and you get ghosted, 121 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 2: you can email us and we'll call the person that's 122 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 2: ghosting you to ask why they're ghosting. Sore you ghosting somebody? 123 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 3: Oh my god, this is so did Brice, Yes, it's brace. 124 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 2: We talked to him. He told us a little bit 125 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 2: about your date. He said he really liked you, you thought 126 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 2: you were awesome, but he's wondering why you're ghosting him. 127 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 2: Would you have a minute to tell us that? 128 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, sure, it's because he's a toe shoe guy. 129 00:06:57,440 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 2: I toash you. 130 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 3: You know those shoes, the shoes were the individual toe 131 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 3: pocket one. Yeah, wear how shoe guy he wears on 132 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 3: a date, on a date? Not ironically, It wasn't ironic. 133 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 3: He called them a tickle hunting shoes. I can't, I 134 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 3: just can't. I can't. You guys on a minute, now, 135 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 3: wait a minute, listen. Those are high performance minimalist shoes. Okay, 136 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 3: like they promote natural foot posture. 137 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, Tessa. That's Bryce. He's on the phone listening. 138 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 3: I don't shoes. 139 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 5: They promote you said it again, They promote natural football. 140 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, they promote looking like a swamp goblin. 141 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 2: Kind of ugly. 142 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 3: You said you likes unique guys. I don't. 143 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah said I unique guys that didn't sail it, 144 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 5: guys who like live in a forest barefoot. 145 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 3: I thought you laughed about the pickle tossed. I thought 146 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 3: I didn't. What is my footwear? 147 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 5: I laughed at it before I saw your shoes, and 148 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 5: that your toes were like waving at me. 149 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 2: And did you use your toes to flick the pickle? 150 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 3: Wow? So this isn't about the pickle incident at all, 151 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 3: right you you go to me over, yes, yes, exactly, huh, yes. 152 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 4: Nice. 153 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 5: It was a lot of toe. It was an aggressive 154 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 5: amount of toe all the time, Like it wasn't. 155 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 3: I didn't even think you were looking at my seat. Honestly, 156 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 3: I'm surprised I wasn't. I told you. At the end, 157 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 3: they just like they reared their five ugly heads just 158 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 3: staring at my looking just for the record, locause my 159 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 3: feet are not ugly. I didn't see I mean, I 160 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 3: didn't your feet. It was what the feet were in. 161 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 3: But you, I mean. 162 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:07,079 Speaker 5: I was gonna say, obviously you get it, but I'm 163 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 5: just scared that you do. 164 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 4: Wait, but do people wear these out in public? I 165 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 4: thought people just like wear them in the water, And 166 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 4: I've seen people. 167 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 2: Every once in a while, I've seen, I've seen, but 168 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 2: most of the time I thought it was just you know, 169 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 2: for running or Yeah, of. 170 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 3: Course people wear them in public. They're actually better for 171 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 3: you than regular shoes, like your foot Your foothealth is 172 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 3: actually like a huge part of your overall health, and 173 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 3: these shoes are super beneficial, Like they're really good for you. 174 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 3: You know. They say the stomach is the second brain, Well, 175 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 3: but I believe your feet are like your third brain, 176 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 3: third brain. 177 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 2: Take care of the. 178 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, your meters should not be making your dating decisions, 179 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:51,199 Speaker 5: then how is it working for you? 180 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 3: Let me ask you something, TESA, you've dated other guys before, right, 181 00:09:56,160 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 3: mm hmmm, how nice were they? I don't know. 182 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 5: I try not to see someone on's feet on the 183 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 5: first date as a rule. 184 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 3: Okay, not on a first date, but answer the question. 185 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 3: I know that most guys don't take care of their 186 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 3: feet properly. 187 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 2: It's true. It's a good question. 188 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 189 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 5: I mean, look, I might ask for some statistics and 190 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 5: fasts and figures, so I'm not gonna You're not wrong, 191 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 5: You're not You got me. 192 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 3: Well, think about this, all right. You liked me, you 193 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 3: thought I was a nice guy. And I also take 194 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:37,199 Speaker 3: really good care of my feet. They're manicured, they're in 195 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 3: good health. You never have to worry about getting athletes 196 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 3: from me. I feel like, you know this my third 197 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 3: and fourth print. I feel like I have a step 198 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 3: up on the competition. 199 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:49,680 Speaker 2: I feel like selling it. I mean, clean feet are tesla. 200 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 2: Would you like to go on another day with Bryce? 201 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 5: I would be open if he doesn't kill me anymore 202 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:57,199 Speaker 5: of his films. 203 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 4: Maybe maybe no athletes, but really getting you, huh? 204 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 5: It is a p You know, most aren't the best, 205 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 5: so I guess it now that I'm thinking about it, it 206 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 5: is kind of a plus. Do you have any other 207 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:14,560 Speaker 5: view where I don't want to see your toes like 208 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 5: anything vans converse? I'm going I'll take you literally any 209 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 5: of it anything else? 210 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 3: Yes, I have other footwear, and I promise I won't 211 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 3: wear the toe shoes on a date with you again? 212 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 2: Is that yes, Tessa? I you know what. 213 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess, so I'll give it another shot, but 214 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 5: one toe out of line and I'm out of there. 215 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 3: All right, great, thank you. I promise you will not 216 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 3: regret it. I will not show you my toes until 217 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 3: the proper time. You will first date fall up.