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Speaker 1: Sure, Grand romantic gestures after you've broken up. Still good,

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Speaker 2: It depends on the breakup.

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Speaker 1: I guess that's true. Today, I'd like to give our

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Speaker 1: listeners grand romantic gesture the Goldilocks treatment. We'll hear it

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Speaker 1: and decide was it too hot, too cold, or just

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Speaker 1: right when we go through it in a brand news

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Speaker 1: say yes to the X that's coming up right after this.

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Speaker 1: It's broken Jeffrey in the morning. And you don't meet

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Speaker 1: a lot of guys anymore who are true romantics, except

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Speaker 1: for maybe Bezos.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, d.

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Speaker 1: He bought an entire island in Italy, forced all of

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Speaker 4: Is that a romantic or is that just a narcissistic

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Speaker 1: Bezos would go to the ends of the earth for

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Speaker 1: earth and displace all of those people too.

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Speaker 2: He's just surprised that she came back on that spaceship. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You know, even though our listener today may not have

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Speaker 1: of a trillionaire, and I feel like his romantic story

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Speaker 1: another edition of Say Yes to the X. So let's

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Speaker 1: talk to him. I hope this is right. It's is

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Speaker 1: it Barrick with a brick?

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Speaker 2: Are you there?

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Speaker 5: Yes? Yes, I'm here.

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Speaker 4: Okay, did you displace people out of their home in

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Speaker 4: the name of love?

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Speaker 5: No? I mean maybe if I had the money. Everyone.

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Speaker 1: So, he doesn't have the means of a billionaire, but

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Speaker 1: has the same heart. So tell us about your ex

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Speaker 1: that you're hoping to reunite with. What's her name?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Absolutely, her name is Jenna.

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Speaker 2: Jenna. Just even how you say it, you can tell

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Speaker 2: you miss her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. We broke up a couple of months ago.

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Speaker 2: Actually, okay, it's been hard on you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's putting it lightly.

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Speaker 1: How long were you guys together?

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Speaker 5: We did it for gosh, probably five and forty nine days.

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Speaker 2: Probably and a half am I doing it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? A year and a half.

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Speaker 2: Nobody's counting though.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I mean sounds like it doesn't remember.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, okay, can we ask why you broke up.

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Speaker 5: She felt like I wasn't putting enough effort into the relationship,

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Speaker 5: which I don't know. I feel like all I did

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Speaker 3: All right, Sometimes the effort you're putting in is a

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like those love language things and they don't

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Speaker 1: But it sounds like you were pretty blindsided by the breakup.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, it flored me. Guys.

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Speaker 4: Oh, okay, I'm guessing you haven't dated anyone else.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what's happened in the last two months since you,

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Speaker 5: Yeah? When we broke up, I really wanted to prove

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Speaker 5: it to her and proved what my effort like, how

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Speaker 5: how far I would go for her?

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Speaker 1: Oh you were hoping?

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Speaker 2: Okay, you were post breakup. That's okay, I get it.

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Speaker 1: How did you try to prove that you were willing

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Speaker 5: Well, I knew she was going on a girl's trip

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Speaker 5: at because she planned it while we were still together. Huh, Okay,

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Speaker 5: I booked a ticket.

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Speaker 3: You didn't buy a plane ticket to a surpriser, did you?

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Speaker 4: Oh god, yeah, you show you showed up to her

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Speaker 5: No, you got to understand, like, I've seen this in

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Speaker 1: Oh god, Okay, can we get more support from the

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Speaker 2: He says, I've seen it in movies. It's never gonna end.

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Speaker 1: Well, brother, this.

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Speaker 3: Is what she meant. You're putting in a lot of work,

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Speaker 1: We can't judge it until we know how it actually went.

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Speaker 2: Were how fun? What was her reaction when you showed up?

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Speaker 5: Well? After I waited in the lobby for about five hours,

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Speaker 5: she and her friends they came through, and they were

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Speaker 5: And I had a bouquet of flowers in my hand,

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Speaker 5: and I shouted across the hotel lobby, is this enough

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Speaker 5: effort forio?

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Speaker 1: I like it? I like it? Did she.

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Speaker 5: Did?

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Speaker 1: She swoon right there?

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Speaker 5: Everyone was shocked. It was awesome.

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Speaker 3: I guess right.

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Speaker 5: So I took her aside and I told her, like Jenna,

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Speaker 5: don't understand this because she didn't see it that way

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Speaker 1: What are you kidding me? What is wrong with this woman?

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Speaker 1: I mean, she says she wants effort. Here you are

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Speaker 1: doesn't appreciate it. God women, right, Brook?

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Speaker 4: No, I just really think you misread her boundaries like this.

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Speaker 5: Well, she never told me not to come to Mexico,

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Speaker 5: which that's on her Brook.

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Speaker 4: When she wrote when she broke up with you, that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys supposed to read between the lines and

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Speaker 1: figure that out. Killing. Also, the girl's trip, it's called

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Speaker 3: That alone should have stopped you from going.

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Speaker 1: She should have put that in the rule book somewhere.

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Speaker 1: That was the case. No, we don't know that. What

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Speaker 5: Lobby, Yeah, she told me I shouldn't have done it?

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Speaker 1: Is it like, oh my god, you shouldn't.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So she left with her friends and you left.

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Speaker 5: I waited in the lobby for like another four hours,

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Speaker 1: For her to come back from dinner, obviously, so she

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Speaker 2: Did you see her again?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean she came back from dinner this time.

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Speaker 5: I don't say anything to her. I want to give

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Speaker 3: Different.

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Speaker 5: She never said we were over for good. She said

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Speaker 5: the problem was effort. So this is my last shot.

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Speaker 5: So after this, I just I give up.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well that's good.

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Speaker 1: Well this is going to be the end.

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Speaker 4: Get her on the phone, let him just move on.

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Speaker 2: We again.

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Speaker 1: Remember we don't have to get her on the phone.

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Speaker 1: She is already on the other line. She's just waiting

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Speaker 2: She's going to be so mad, she's.

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Speaker 1: Going to be so excited. She wanted effort, and here

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Speaker 1: is the maximum effort. We're gonna come back and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna let you talk to your ex. Jenna and everybody

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Speaker 1: in the room is going to support you one hundred

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Speaker 2: I'm going to be there.

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Speaker 5: I want the world to know how much I love her.

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Speaker 1: Oh, We're gonna do it coming up right after this

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Speaker 1: Hold on man, I'm a little bit surprised. But during

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Speaker 1: the break, right after part one, Brooke came to me

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Speaker 1: and she said she actually endorses this segment.

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Speaker 2: I did not say that.

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Speaker 1: Pure live, not in those exact words, but she said

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Speaker 1: that she's a fighter for love and she believes Brek

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Speaker 4: I don't, and I wish you would drop the sarcasm

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Speaker 4: right now, because I think it's really Brook.

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Speaker 1: It would be really nice if you would say yes

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Speaker 1: to the Jeff at some point during this segment, because

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Speaker 1: Jeff is over here fighting for life.

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Speaker 2: Now they're talking about yourself a third person. What is

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Speaker 2: happening segment? Did your brain short circuit?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Cook? My question to you is if the roles

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Speaker 4: That is exactly what you need right now, my man,

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Speaker 4: you do not need your ex. You need to go

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Speaker 4: find somebody else just to help you get over this.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is a big, like a three sixty turn

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Speaker 1: from what you were saying to me out in the hallway,

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Speaker 1: one person Barrick in this case, has told us he

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Speaker 2: And then Barrick made a decision.

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Speaker 1: To put in the effort and flew down to Mexico

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Speaker 4: You forgot surprise her during her girl's trip to Mexico.

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Speaker 1: Those are just words.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we stayed at the hotel after she said she

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wild what's your what's your point that you do

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Speaker 1: crazy things for love? I agree? Yeah, So now that

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Speaker 1: this he's going to give up for us.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and is that true, Barrick, You're going to give

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Speaker 2: up if this doesn't work. You get your word on that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think I've made that decision.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think you will.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Bro, I mean honestly though, Barrick, like, give it

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Speaker 1: Sure, but see that's the commitment to love.

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Speaker 2: That there doesn't work out, you really do have to

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Speaker 1: And just like all of these segments, Jenna is waiting

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Speaker 2: She has no idea why she's on the phone.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if she thinks this is a contest

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Speaker 2: Do we have to say her name?

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Speaker 1: We're doing a segment called Say Yes to the X.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, are you serious right now?

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Speaker 2: Do you know who we're talking about already?

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about your ex, Barrick. Yeah, he's actually on

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Speaker 5: Hi, sugar bear.

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Speaker 1: Cock, you're doing great. Talk to her.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry to surprise you like this. You know again,

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Speaker 6: Do you even understand why we broke up?

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, that was just in general. The emotional support

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Speaker 5: What is that? Wait? I don't I don't understand. You said,

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Speaker 6: There a thumbs up emoji is not supporting me.

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Speaker 6: I don't know, Eric, you you are not You're not

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Speaker 5: But but you never even got to see half of

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Speaker 5: I had T shirts made for us that said Signor

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Speaker 4: Oh god, you wandered to wear matching T shirts in

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Speaker 5: I still have the T shirts.

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Speaker 5: You like it.

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Speaker 6: You took the picture of my face and you pasted

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Speaker 5: I'm just trying to do what you said and put

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Speaker 6: Not the effort that I had in mind, Derek.

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Speaker 2: I think you need to be as clear as possible

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry. You're a good guy and you have a

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Speaker 1: Just to translated no, okay, hard, no, sore. Barrick got

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Speaker 5: I mean, I appreciate you hearing me out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you put your heart out there, and that

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Speaker 4: It won't be like she said. It won't be this

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Speaker 4: You just need to go eat some ice cream, do

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Speaker 2: Yeah, take yourself on a vacation.

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Speaker 1: There was somebody with Sophia Vergara's body that is just

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Speaker 4: Yes, for every man, there's yes.

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Speaker 5: At this point, I would appreciate it if I could

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Speaker 2: Oh you want it back?

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Speaker 1: And okay, well it looks like another trip down to

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Speaker 5: You know, can I just say something here, just one

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Speaker 3: I highly doubt that they.

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Speaker 2: But don't keep in touch with Jenna. Remember that's the point.

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Speaker 1: So real quick. Just wanted to thank Barrek for bravely

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Speaker 4: Okay, when everybody telling you it's literally the person you

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Speaker 3: This is like just the big difference between what you

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Speaker 3: if you have not spoken to her, if it's a.

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Speaker 1: Hollywood should be a shame for putting that sort of

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Speaker 1: I'm going to need my Vikings costume photo back from

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Speaker 1: If you ever need some help in your love life,

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