WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Adventures In Catering

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up date.

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<v Speaker 2>We've got a guy on the phone for a second

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<v Speaker 2>date update today. His name is Kurt, and Kurt's request

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<v Speaker 2>is kind of weird because normally when people write into

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<v Speaker 2>the show for help, there was an actual date that happened.

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<v Speaker 2>But Kurt hasn't really been out with this woman yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Why are we even talking that?

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<v Speaker 4>It doesn't count so many people that request these I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 4>why are we wasting time with people that aren't following?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's kind of like, you know, middle school rules

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<v Speaker 2>where Kurt wants us to ask her friend to go

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<v Speaker 2>ask her if she likes him, and then she'll tell

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<v Speaker 2>her friend to come back to us, and then we'll

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<v Speaker 2>report it back to Kurt, like do you like I

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<v Speaker 2>like them? Like like like circle yes no? Or maybe

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<v Speaker 2>on this crumpled up piece.

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<v Speaker 3>Of paper an adult these days?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't know, Kurt? Can you all right?

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<v Speaker 1>I have been extremely misrepresented already that Jeff I am

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<v Speaker 1>an adult. I've asked her out, We've actually shared and

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<v Speaker 1>finger food, so we kind of happened on a day.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, well maybe your email just confused me. Why

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<v Speaker 2>don't you tell us a little bit more about her?

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<v Speaker 1>I'll break it down for you so that you can

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<v Speaker 1>understand a little better.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Like you obviously listened to the show. You need to

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<v Speaker 3>talk slow.

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<v Speaker 1>I know how to handle you, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>So what's her name?

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<v Speaker 4>Her name is Cassie, Cassie, and how'd you meet her.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually a server for a catering company, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I actually get hit on by women a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>these parties, but they're usually much older than me and

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of like cougars who have had fu too

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<v Speaker 1>many champagne flutes.

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<v Speaker 4>I was going to comment on how hot I think

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<v Speaker 4>men with food are, but now I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 4>after you finish that sentence.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm very young and hip.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, so is Cassie one of the cougars.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I finally met a nice, beautiful lady who is

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<v Speaker 1>in my age range.

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<v Speaker 3>That's exciting.

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<v Speaker 4>And I mean, did you did you notice her first

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<v Speaker 4>or did she notice you?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I definitely noticed her. I don't know when

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<v Speaker 1>she noticed me, but she was with her little group

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<v Speaker 1>of friends, and she was wearing this very sexy little

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<v Speaker 1>black dress. And I'm very observant, and I have to

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<v Speaker 1>be especially observant when I noticed a gorgeous young woman.

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<v Speaker 1>If I noticed that she likes this particular little finger

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<v Speaker 1>food that we were serving at these mashed sweet potato

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<v Speaker 1>avocado bites.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, women in their avocados, they can't resist, it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Matter what they actually are really good. So I noticed

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<v Speaker 1>that she was like really digging the so a buddy

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<v Speaker 1>of mine, I was like, yo, dude, let me get

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<v Speaker 1>that tray. So I switched the trays and then I

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<v Speaker 1>was like circling back to her little group of friends

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<v Speaker 1>as much as possible, just so I could like interact

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<v Speaker 1>with her and just kind of get a feel for

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<v Speaker 1>you know what she was all about.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like sprinting all the way around the outside of

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<v Speaker 2>the party and coming right back to her.

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<v Speaker 4>And now I'm realizing, see why all the uggos at

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<v Speaker 4>these parties are always carrying the crappy ass because the

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<v Speaker 4>hot guys took the good You got.

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<v Speaker 2>To trade up for the best food.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, you guys would be surprised. That's really actually

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<v Speaker 1>very accurate. I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I love getting this insight into the catering world. All right,

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<v Speaker 2>So you were talking with Cassie a lot. How did

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<v Speaker 2>that go?

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<v Speaker 1>It was great? I mean, she was really flirty. She's

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<v Speaker 1>really funny, like she's witty and cool. And then at

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<v Speaker 1>one point, like I was like, whoa, she's into me

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<v Speaker 1>because she said to me, she was like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>have an extra Naprican because sometimes I'm kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>dirty girl.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, whoa.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, no, I don't because I'm a dirty boy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, She's like no, Actually, it's why I'm wearing a

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<v Speaker 4>black dress. I tend to stay in everything that I own.

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<v Speaker 1>She was definitely just like being funny. It was cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well that's a good sign.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, and then you're thinking it's on. I mean, it

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<v Speaker 4>was your turn to make a move.

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<v Speaker 3>What'd you do?

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<v Speaker 1>I fully put my trade down and I just started

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<v Speaker 1>having a full conversation with her. Eventually my boss came

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<v Speaker 1>over and was like, yo, got to get that to work.

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<v Speaker 3>But oh, it's a catering bad boy.

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<v Speaker 4>I see.

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<v Speaker 2>So you told us that you didn't go on an

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<v Speaker 2>official date with her, So how did this end.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of the night, I was like, we

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<v Speaker 1>should hang out and she was like, yeah, it's really fun,

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<v Speaker 1>and we exchanged numbers and we started texting and after

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<v Speaker 1>what she was doing on Friday, and I got no response.

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<v Speaker 1>I texted her again and I was like, yeah, did

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<v Speaker 1>you get my text? And I never heard anything from her.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's been like almost a week. Like, maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>has a boyfriend. Maybe she was drunk and I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>actually like me. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe you're not as sexy without tray of avocados

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<v Speaker 2>in your hand.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know. Maybe she only likes me when

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<v Speaker 1>she can get free little finger foods from part.

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<v Speaker 4>Of your You were the gateway to the sweet potatoes.

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<v Speaker 4>So what what's your instinct? What is your instinct telling you?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she's turned off by me being a caterwaiter. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. But she gained her number, So.

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<v Speaker 2>It is a good sign, though that she took the

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<v Speaker 2>time to flirt with you and gave you her number.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean those are all signs that she probably he

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<v Speaker 2>is single, or she's a terrible girlfriend. I don't know exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I mean she was with like what seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like all the best friends. So I feel like if

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<v Speaker 1>she was burried, you were like had a boyfriend, she

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be openly flirring with some guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that this sounds hopeful. I think we can

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<v Speaker 4>get you a date.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's play a song. We'll come back and we'll

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<v Speaker 2>call your Sweet Potato Princess and we'll try and get

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<v Speaker 2>you a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, bro, all right, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, hold on, we all know there's certain things

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<v Speaker 2>a woman just can't resist, like a man with a guitar,

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<v Speaker 2>a man in a freshly pressed uniform hello, or a

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<v Speaker 2>man carrying a tray of sweet potato avocado bites.

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<v Speaker 3>Get over here, big boy.

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<v Speaker 2>She'll definitely be whispering I want you in my mouth,

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<v Speaker 2>even if she's only talking to those avocado bites.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys need to be locked up.

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<v Speaker 2>That's one of our listeners, Kurt, who emailed us for

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<v Speaker 2>a second ate update. He was carrying a tray of

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<v Speaker 2>delicious appetizers when he met a woman named Cassie at

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<v Speaker 2>a party because he was working the event as part

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<v Speaker 2>of a catering team and actually traded dishes with another

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<v Speaker 2>server because he noticed Cassie like that particular food so

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<v Speaker 2>much and she seemed to be flirting with him, and

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<v Speaker 2>at the end of the night she even said I'd

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<v Speaker 2>be down to hang out. But she hasn't responded to

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<v Speaker 2>any of his texts since.

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<v Speaker 1>Then that's pretty much the story, Kurt.

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<v Speaker 2>I just really hope it's not one of those situations

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<v Speaker 2>where it's like, oh, I don't want to date the

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<v Speaker 2>hired help. You know, I'll flirt with them, maybe fool

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<v Speaker 2>around in a coat closet really quick, but not date them. Ugh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's below me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, hey, that's the truth. I want to know

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<v Speaker 1>it so I can move on. But I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>she's like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think so either, because she wouldn't have given

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<v Speaker 4>you her phone number if she thought that way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's true. Well, let's call Cassie and find out.

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<v Speaker 2>You ready to do this, Kurt, Yep, let's do this.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Cassie?

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<v Speaker 2>Please speaking? Hi Cassie. My name is Jeffrey from the

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<v Speaker 2>radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. You have

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<v Speaker 2>a moment to talk with us.

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<v Speaker 5>What is this about?

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<v Speaker 2>This is about a segment we do on our show

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<v Speaker 2>called a second Date Update. Have you ever heard of

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<v Speaker 2>that before?

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<v Speaker 5>I might have, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Well. The way it works is if you go out

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<v Speaker 2>on a date with someone and afterwards they're not calling

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<v Speaker 2>you back, you can email our show and we'll reach

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<v Speaker 2>out to that person for you to figure out the

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<v Speaker 2>reason why.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And so we got an email about you recently from

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<v Speaker 2>a guy you met named Kurt.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, technically I never went on a date with him,

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<v Speaker 5>so I don't know if I'm really supposed to be

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<v Speaker 5>like talking about all this.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, okay, let's let's forget the date stuff, whether it

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<v Speaker 2>was a date or not, Like, did you like him?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you feel connection? Because he definitely felt one with you.

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<v Speaker 2>He said that you even told him that you'd be

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<v Speaker 2>down to hang out with him sometime.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I would just maybe like in a group setting,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, like nothing romantically. And I don't really know

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<v Speaker 5>how to tell him that.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you not single?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I'm not in a relationship. It's just like he's

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<v Speaker 5>off limits.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't understand why is he off limits? If you're

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<v Speaker 2>single and you think he's cute and you like him,

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<v Speaker 2>what's the problem you your parent's not letting you date yet?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>No.

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<v Speaker 5>To be one hundred percent honest, one of my friends

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<v Speaker 5>called DIBs on him that night, and I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>so I yeah, but you.

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<v Speaker 4>Can't call DIBs on someone if they're not interested in you,

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<v Speaker 4>Like she could call Dibbs if he gave her his

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<v Speaker 4>phone number. She doesn't get to call Dibbs if he

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<v Speaker 4>gave you his phone number.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it doesn't really work that way, because, like, I

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<v Speaker 5>have a big group of friends and it was like,

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<v Speaker 5>literally my friend Rebecca's turn to call DIBs on whoever

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<v Speaker 5>she wanted to do that night. And you know, we

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<v Speaker 5>just kind of like respect this kind of thing in

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<v Speaker 5>my group of friends going on.

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<v Speaker 4>But why can't you talk to Rebecca about Dibbs because

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<v Speaker 4>it doesn't make any sense?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you hear her? Respect?

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<v Speaker 5>I did talk to her about it, and honestly, I

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<v Speaker 5>don't want any drama, guys. I just really want to

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<v Speaker 5>avoid that at all costs. And when I spoke to her,

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<v Speaker 5>she was just like, no, like I called Dibbs and

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<v Speaker 5>that means something. So, but how is Rebecca ever.

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<v Speaker 4>Even gonna find Kurt again? Rebecca doesn't have Kurt's phone number,

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<v Speaker 4>or does she? Maybe Kurt gave out his phone number

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<v Speaker 4>to multiple women.

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<v Speaker 5>No, Like, I literally was just gonna like text him

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<v Speaker 5>and see how I kind of like hooked them up together.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>You were going to be the wing woman there, Dude,

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<v Speaker 3>what can.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's the same, like you you call that dude,

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<v Speaker 4>and like nobody else gets to hit on him that

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<v Speaker 4>night so that there's no drama later.

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<v Speaker 3>Right. Cassie followed me on this one.

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<v Speaker 5>Hundred percent, So basically she saw him first. She said, Hey,

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<v Speaker 5>I called DIBs on him, and everyone else is to

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<v Speaker 5>just kind of fall back and we just respected. It's cold,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, that whole sisters before Mister's kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Huhs makes sense. I just I mean, it kind of

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<v Speaker 2>makes sense. But I wonder if it makes sense to Kurt.

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<v Speaker 2>What I forgot to tell you, Cassie that Kurt's been

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<v Speaker 2>on the other line listening. Oh my god, Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm serious.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, this is so uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Cassie, long time your talk. Hi.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, I'm I'm I'm all right. You know, it's like

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<v Speaker 5>a weird situation and you're definitely my type. I just

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<v Speaker 5>want to put that out there, And I mean, I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know how much you heard, but like basically, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 5>my blonde friend, the one that was with us, and

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<v Speaker 5>like the distress. Yeah, she called Dibbs and there's really nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>I can do, all right, Why don't you give me

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca's number. I'll call her up. We can work this out.

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<v Speaker 4>WHOA, So you're going to negotiate, Kurt, or are you

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<v Speaker 4>just gonna date her?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to negotiate. I don't have an interest in

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<v Speaker 1>dating her. I'm clearly into Cassie. And if her friend

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<v Speaker 1>is holding her back from like seeing a guy that

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<v Speaker 1>she's into, like that's not being a friend.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a very good point, Kurt, you know what, that's

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<v Speaker 5>so nice of you to say. But I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>that kind of drama. I'll lose a friendship over it.

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<v Speaker 5>And it's really too much, you know what.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>She's a really nice person, but like she gets pissed off.

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<v Speaker 5>She's very vindictive.

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<v Speaker 3>A way, Cassy. I mean, she sounds like a kind

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<v Speaker 3>of terrible friend.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not a totally sweet girl, but I will effing

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<v Speaker 2>kill you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like, if that girl is that much drama, why

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<v Speaker 4>do you even want in your life anyway?

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<v Speaker 5>No, we've just been friends for forever.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just the kind of person who kind of like

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<v Speaker 5>has your back and all of that, and it's just

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<v Speaker 5>like always available. But you put her off in one

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<v Speaker 5>of these kind of ways, she'll just like go nuts. Like,

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<v Speaker 5>we have another friend in our group who ended up

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<v Speaker 5>puking up with our brother, and Rebecca's so pissed off

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<v Speaker 5>she had this girl's card stowed.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, wow, that is very vindictive. I mean, but a

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<v Speaker 4>brother hookup situation is different than this guy doesn't like you,

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<v Speaker 4>Rebecca and he likes me.

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry, right, that seems even worse.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's let me ask Kathy this. What if

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<v Speaker 1>I go on one fake date with your friend Rebecca. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be like a total pig. I'll like have terrible manners,

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<v Speaker 1>like I won't put on deodorant that night, and then

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<v Speaker 1>afterwards it's like the dib has been given up, undibbed.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think it works that way. That's really really

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<v Speaker 5>sweet of you to try.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so you're afraid of losing a friendship, but

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<v Speaker 1>aren't you afraid of losing true love? Jesse and I.

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<v Speaker 4>Even am true to the dib okay rule.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I back.

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<v Speaker 2>My heart is melting right now from every word that

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<v Speaker 2>comes out of Kurt's mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>Give me one date, and if it's horrible and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to see me again, then Rebecca or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>her name is doesn't even to know about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, what do you say?

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<v Speaker 5>Ridiculous? I feel I so pressured right now.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, don't feel pressured. Just go out with

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<v Speaker 2>him while everybody is listening, and we will offer to

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<v Speaker 2>pay for that date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, question grouping? Would you be open to that? Will

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<v Speaker 5>hang out like in a group.

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<v Speaker 1>And see like with Rebecca.

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<v Speaker 3>No, that is a dumb idea Cassie fight you.

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<v Speaker 2>Bet in front of him.

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<v Speaker 5>Guys, there's just like a girl's code. I just can't

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<v Speaker 5>do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I know girl's code was meant to be broken.

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<v Speaker 4>Come on, if she's a good friend, she'll understand, and

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<v Speaker 4>if not, she'll make me suffer.

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<v Speaker 2>Brooke is signing off as a female that it's okay

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<v Speaker 2>to break girl code on this one.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, well, because her girl code is entering into ridiculous code.

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<v Speaker 3>Like you know, you can only take it so.

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<v Speaker 4>Far and always your friend's happiness should be at the

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<v Speaker 4>forefront of every decision, and that is not true for Rebecca.

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<v Speaker 5>Guys, I'm really so sorry, but my decision is final.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, dude, you're gonna regret this.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, listen, I'm gonna get one of my buddies set

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<v Speaker 1>up with Rebecca, someone hotter than me, that she can like,

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<v Speaker 1>she can put off her energies on and not worry

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<v Speaker 1>about what her friend does.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that, Kathy. I'm not giving up on you,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm just letting you know what's what's going on

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<v Speaker 1>over here.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you guys are the cutest.

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<v Speaker 2>That's bro code right there.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess no second date for the moment, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like this could possibly change. Will you guys

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<v Speaker 2>keep us updated on what happens between you two.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll let you guys know.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, upgrade Rebecca and go for Kurt. Cassie,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so excited brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>We heard that about four months ago, and it was

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<v Speaker 2>one of our most popular second dates ever, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Think because they stand so cute together.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, this was so good.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, and then she says, Okay, continue, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody, it was a really good one. People have been

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<v Speaker 2>asking on our text board for months and on our

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<v Speaker 2>social media. You did Cassie break girl code? Did they

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<v Speaker 2>go out again?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Well we have them on the phone. They're on with

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<v Speaker 2>us once more. Cassie and Kurt welcome back.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh oh they sound happy, happy couple colleagues.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you guys in the same room or you in

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<v Speaker 4>different places?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but they spoke at the exact same time. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like they're syncd up. So, Kurt, what happened? Did you

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<v Speaker 2>end up finding a friend to date Cassie's friend?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I found a buddy who was down. I showed

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<v Speaker 1>him a few pictures of her friend, and we did

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<v Speaker 1>a double date.

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<v Speaker 3>Shut delegated.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's idea, and as wonderful as it was for us,

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<v Speaker 5>it was actually even better for our friends. Really.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, so your girlfriend wasn't mad at you for dating,

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<v Speaker 3>not at all?

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<v Speaker 5>Like they hit it off. Wow, they hit it off

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<v Speaker 5>so well, guys that they have a wedding next month.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, you cooked your friend up and now she's getting married.

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<v Speaker 3>Like in a six month period.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it's only been a couple of months. Ye who

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<v Speaker 5>what they wanted?

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<v Speaker 1>She's also pregnant. I should probably mention, or maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't mention.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you serious, oh Cassie's friend? Oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 3>thought Cassie was pregnant.

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<v Speaker 5>I got what are you doing? You're not even suppout

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<v Speaker 5>to say that?

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<v Speaker 1>You know that, don't know, but I'm sorry wait, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>ignore that. It's my bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Forget it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't happened. Back to you two again. How are you

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<v Speaker 2>guys doing. Are you still together?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well we are dating. We'll just take it slow,

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<v Speaker 5>but we're really happy and it's a very incredible it's

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<v Speaker 5>all worked out.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>The first time we accident helped multiple people and marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Oh yeah, sorry, I mean, no dregnancy.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's the saying, Cassie, if you ever get knocked up,

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<v Speaker 4>don't tell Kurt for a while.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, seriously, right, I probably want to broadcast it.

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<v Speaker 2>You keep us updated on your situation.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so cute. Send pictures from the Lendings.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>We will tell your friends.

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<v Speaker 2>We say congrats to.

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<v Speaker 1>Them as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, definitely, oh we will. Y, thanks for being on

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<v Speaker 2>with us. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>I love love Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.