Speaker 1: Second date up date.
Speaker 2: We've got a guy on the phone for a second
Speaker 2: date update today. His name is Kurt, and Kurt's request
Speaker 2: is kind of weird because normally when people write into
Speaker 2: the show for help, there was an actual date that happened.
Speaker 2: But Kurt hasn't really been out with this woman yet.
Speaker 3: Why are we even talking that?
Speaker 4: It doesn't count so many people that request these I'm sorry,
Speaker 4: why are we wasting time with people that aren't following?
Speaker 2: Well, it's kind of like, you know, middle school rules
Speaker 2: where Kurt wants us to ask her friend to go
Speaker 2: ask her if she likes him, and then she'll tell
Speaker 2: her friend to come back to us, and then we'll
Speaker 2: report it back to Kurt, like do you like I
Speaker 2: like them? Like like like circle yes no? Or maybe
Speaker 2: on this crumpled up piece.
Speaker 3: Of paper an adult these days?
Speaker 2: No, I don't know, Kurt? Can you all right?
Speaker 1: I have been extremely misrepresented already that Jeff I am
Speaker 1: an adult. I've asked her out, We've actually shared and
Speaker 1: finger food, so we kind of happened on a day.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, well maybe your email just confused me. Why
Speaker 2: don't you tell us a little bit more about her?
Speaker 1: I'll break it down for you so that you can
Speaker 1: understand a little better.
Speaker 2: Oh, thank you so much.
Speaker 3: Like you obviously listened to the show. You need to
Speaker 3: talk slow.
Speaker 1: I know how to handle you, guys.
Speaker 2: So what's her name?
Speaker 4: Her name is Cassie, Cassie, and how'd you meet her.
Speaker 1: I'm actually a server for a catering company, and so
Speaker 1: I actually get hit on by women a lot of
Speaker 1: these parties, but they're usually much older than me and
Speaker 1: the kind of like cougars who have had fu too
Speaker 1: many champagne flutes.
Speaker 4: I was going to comment on how hot I think
Speaker 4: men with food are, but now I'm not going to
Speaker 4: after you finish that sentence.
Speaker 3: No, I'm very young and hip.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so is Cassie one of the cougars.
Speaker 1: No, I finally met a nice, beautiful lady who is
Speaker 1: in my age range.
Speaker 3: That's exciting.
Speaker 4: And I mean, did you did you notice her first
Speaker 4: or did she notice you?
Speaker 1: I mean I definitely noticed her. I don't know when
Speaker 1: she noticed me, but she was with her little group
Speaker 1: of friends, and she was wearing this very sexy little
Speaker 1: black dress. And I'm very observant, and I have to
Speaker 1: be especially observant when I noticed a gorgeous young woman.
Speaker 1: If I noticed that she likes this particular little finger
Speaker 1: food that we were serving at these mashed sweet potato
Speaker 1: avocado bites.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, women in their avocados, they can't resist, it doesn't.
Speaker 1: Matter what they actually are really good. So I noticed
Speaker 1: that she was like really digging the so a buddy
Speaker 1: of mine, I was like, yo, dude, let me get
Speaker 1: that tray. So I switched the trays and then I
Speaker 1: was like circling back to her little group of friends
Speaker 1: as much as possible, just so I could like interact
Speaker 1: with her and just kind of get a feel for
Speaker 1: you know what she was all about.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like sprinting all the way around the outside of
Speaker 2: the party and coming right back to her.
Speaker 4: And now I'm realizing, see why all the uggos at
Speaker 4: these parties are always carrying the crappy ass because the
Speaker 4: hot guys took the good You got.
Speaker 2: To trade up for the best food.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you guys would be surprised. That's really actually
Speaker 1: very accurate. I know.
Speaker 2: I love getting this insight into the catering world. All right,
Speaker 2: So you were talking with Cassie a lot. How did
Speaker 2: that go?
Speaker 1: It was great? I mean, she was really flirty. She's
Speaker 1: really funny, like she's witty and cool. And then at
Speaker 1: one point, like I was like, whoa, she's into me
Speaker 1: because she said to me, she was like, do you
Speaker 1: have an extra Naprican because sometimes I'm kind of a
Speaker 1: dirty girl.
Speaker 4: Oh.
Speaker 1: I was like, whoa.
Speaker 2: I'd be like, no, I don't because I'm a dirty boy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, She's like no, Actually, it's why I'm wearing a
Speaker 4: black dress. I tend to stay in everything that I own.
Speaker 1: She was definitely just like being funny. It was cute.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's a good sign.
Speaker 4: Right, and then you're thinking it's on. I mean, it
Speaker 4: was your turn to make a move.
Speaker 3: What'd you do?
Speaker 1: I fully put my trade down and I just started
Speaker 1: having a full conversation with her. Eventually my boss came
Speaker 1: over and was like, yo, got to get that to work.
Speaker 3: But oh, it's a catering bad boy.
Speaker 4: I see.
Speaker 2: So you told us that you didn't go on an
Speaker 2: official date with her, So how did this end.
Speaker 1: At the end of the night, I was like, we
Speaker 1: should hang out and she was like, yeah, it's really fun,
Speaker 1: and we exchanged numbers and we started texting and after
Speaker 1: what she was doing on Friday, and I got no response.
Speaker 1: I texted her again and I was like, yeah, did
Speaker 1: you get my text? And I never heard anything from her.
Speaker 1: So it's been like almost a week. Like, maybe she
Speaker 1: has a boyfriend. Maybe she was drunk and I didn't
Speaker 1: actually like me. I don't know.
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe you're not as sexy without tray of avocados
Speaker 2: in your hand.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. Maybe she only likes me when
Speaker 1: she can get free little finger foods from part.
Speaker 4: Of your You were the gateway to the sweet potatoes.
Speaker 4: So what what's your instinct? What is your instinct telling you?
Speaker 1: Maybe she's turned off by me being a caterwaiter. I
Speaker 1: don't know. But she gained her number, So.
Speaker 2: It is a good sign, though that she took the
Speaker 2: time to flirt with you and gave you her number.
Speaker 2: I mean those are all signs that she probably he
Speaker 2: is single, or she's a terrible girlfriend. I don't know exactly.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean she was with like what seemed
Speaker 1: like all the best friends. So I feel like if
Speaker 1: she was burried, you were like had a boyfriend, she
Speaker 1: wouldn't be openly flirring with some guy.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think that this sounds hopeful. I think we can
Speaker 4: get you a date.
Speaker 2: So let's play a song. We'll come back and we'll
Speaker 2: call your Sweet Potato Princess and we'll try and get
Speaker 2: you a second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, bro, all right, let's do it.
Speaker 2: All right, hold on, we all know there's certain things
Speaker 2: a woman just can't resist, like a man with a guitar,
Speaker 2: a man in a freshly pressed uniform hello, or a
Speaker 2: man carrying a tray of sweet potato avocado bites.
Speaker 3: Get over here, big boy.
Speaker 2: She'll definitely be whispering I want you in my mouth,
Speaker 2: even if she's only talking to those avocado bites.
Speaker 1: You guys need to be locked up.
Speaker 2: That's one of our listeners, Kurt, who emailed us for
Speaker 2: a second ate update. He was carrying a tray of
Speaker 2: delicious appetizers when he met a woman named Cassie at
Speaker 2: a party because he was working the event as part
Speaker 2: of a catering team and actually traded dishes with another
Speaker 2: server because he noticed Cassie like that particular food so
Speaker 2: much and she seemed to be flirting with him, and
Speaker 2: at the end of the night she even said I'd
Speaker 2: be down to hang out. But she hasn't responded to
Speaker 2: any of his texts since.
Speaker 1: Then that's pretty much the story, Kurt.
Speaker 2: I just really hope it's not one of those situations
Speaker 2: where it's like, oh, I don't want to date the
Speaker 2: hired help. You know, I'll flirt with them, maybe fool
Speaker 2: around in a coat closet really quick, but not date them. Ugh,
Speaker 2: it's below me.
Speaker 1: I mean, hey, that's the truth. I want to know
Speaker 1: it so I can move on. But I don't think
Speaker 1: she's like that.
Speaker 4: I don't think so either, because she wouldn't have given
Speaker 4: you her phone number if she thought that way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. Well, let's call Cassie and find out.
Speaker 2: You ready to do this, Kurt, Yep, let's do this.
Speaker 2: Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Cassie?
Speaker 2: Please speaking? Hi Cassie. My name is Jeffrey from the
Speaker 2: radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. You have
Speaker 2: a moment to talk with us.
Speaker 5: What is this about?
Speaker 2: This is about a segment we do on our show
Speaker 2: called a second Date Update. Have you ever heard of
Speaker 2: that before?
Speaker 5: I might have, I don't know.
Speaker 2: Well. The way it works is if you go out
Speaker 2: on a date with someone and afterwards they're not calling
Speaker 2: you back, you can email our show and we'll reach
Speaker 2: out to that person for you to figure out the
Speaker 2: reason why.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, yeah.
Speaker 2: And so we got an email about you recently from
Speaker 2: a guy you met named Kurt.
Speaker 5: Oh, technically I never went on a date with him,
Speaker 5: so I don't know if I'm really supposed to be
Speaker 5: like talking about all this.
Speaker 2: Well, okay, let's let's forget the date stuff, whether it
Speaker 2: was a date or not, Like, did you like him?
Speaker 2: Did you feel connection? Because he definitely felt one with you.
Speaker 2: He said that you even told him that you'd be
Speaker 2: down to hang out with him sometime.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I would just maybe like in a group setting,
Speaker 5: you know, like nothing romantically. And I don't really know
Speaker 5: how to tell him that.
Speaker 3: Are you not single?
Speaker 5: No, I'm not in a relationship. It's just like he's
Speaker 5: off limits.
Speaker 2: I don't understand why is he off limits? If you're
Speaker 2: single and you think he's cute and you like him,
Speaker 2: what's the problem you your parent's not letting you date yet?
Speaker 5: Oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 5: To be one hundred percent honest, one of my friends
Speaker 5: called DIBs on him that night, and I was like, okay,
Speaker 5: so I yeah, but you.
Speaker 4: Can't call DIBs on someone if they're not interested in you,
Speaker 4: Like she could call Dibbs if he gave her his
Speaker 4: phone number. She doesn't get to call Dibbs if he
Speaker 4: gave you his phone number.
Speaker 5: Well, it doesn't really work that way, because, like, I
Speaker 5: have a big group of friends and it was like,
Speaker 5: literally my friend Rebecca's turn to call DIBs on whoever
Speaker 5: she wanted to do that night. And you know, we
Speaker 5: just kind of like respect this kind of thing in
Speaker 5: my group of friends going on.
Speaker 4: But why can't you talk to Rebecca about Dibbs because
Speaker 4: it doesn't make any sense?
Speaker 2: Did you hear her? Respect?
Speaker 5: I did talk to her about it, and honestly, I
Speaker 5: don't want any drama, guys. I just really want to
Speaker 5: avoid that at all costs. And when I spoke to her,
Speaker 5: she was just like, no, like I called Dibbs and
Speaker 5: that means something. So, but how is Rebecca ever.
Speaker 4: Even gonna find Kurt again? Rebecca doesn't have Kurt's phone number,
Speaker 4: or does she? Maybe Kurt gave out his phone number
Speaker 4: to multiple women.
Speaker 5: No, Like, I literally was just gonna like text him
Speaker 5: and see how I kind of like hooked them up together.
Speaker 1: I feel, yeah.
Speaker 3: You were going to be the wing woman there, Dude,
Speaker 3: what can.
Speaker 4: I mean, it's the same, like you you call that dude,
Speaker 4: and like nobody else gets to hit on him that
Speaker 4: night so that there's no drama later.
Speaker 3: Right. Cassie followed me on this one.
Speaker 5: Hundred percent, So basically she saw him first. She said, Hey,
Speaker 5: I called DIBs on him, and everyone else is to
Speaker 5: just kind of fall back and we just respected. It's cold,
Speaker 5: you know, that whole sisters before Mister's kind of thing.
Speaker 2: Huhs makes sense. I just I mean, it kind of
Speaker 2: makes sense. But I wonder if it makes sense to Kurt.
Speaker 2: What I forgot to tell you, Cassie that Kurt's been
Speaker 2: on the other line listening. Oh my god, Yeah, no,
Speaker 2: I'm serious.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, this is so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: Hey, Cassie, long time your talk. Hi.
Speaker 5: Hi, I'm I'm I'm all right. You know, it's like
Speaker 5: a weird situation and you're definitely my type. I just
Speaker 5: want to put that out there, And I mean, I
Speaker 5: don't know how much you heard, but like basically, Rebecca,
Speaker 5: my blonde friend, the one that was with us, and
Speaker 5: like the distress. Yeah, she called Dibbs and there's really nothing.
Speaker 1: I can do, all right, Why don't you give me
Speaker 1: Rebecca's number. I'll call her up. We can work this out.
Speaker 4: WHOA, So you're going to negotiate, Kurt, or are you
Speaker 4: just gonna date her?
Speaker 1: I'm going to negotiate. I don't have an interest in
Speaker 1: dating her. I'm clearly into Cassie. And if her friend
Speaker 1: is holding her back from like seeing a guy that
Speaker 1: she's into, like that's not being a friend.
Speaker 5: That's a very good point, Kurt, you know what, that's
Speaker 5: so nice of you to say. But I don't want
Speaker 5: that kind of drama. I'll lose a friendship over it.
Speaker 5: And it's really too much, you know what.
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 5: She's a really nice person, but like she gets pissed off.
Speaker 5: She's very vindictive.
Speaker 3: A way, Cassy. I mean, she sounds like a kind
Speaker 3: of terrible friend.
Speaker 2: I'm not a totally sweet girl, but I will effing
Speaker 2: kill you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, if that girl is that much drama, why
Speaker 4: do you even want in your life anyway?
Speaker 5: No, we've just been friends for forever.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 5: It's just the kind of person who kind of like
Speaker 5: has your back and all of that, and it's just
Speaker 5: like always available. But you put her off in one
Speaker 5: of these kind of ways, she'll just like go nuts. Like,
Speaker 5: we have another friend in our group who ended up
Speaker 5: puking up with our brother, and Rebecca's so pissed off
Speaker 5: she had this girl's card stowed.
Speaker 4: Okay, wow, that is very vindictive. I mean, but a
Speaker 4: brother hookup situation is different than this guy doesn't like you,
Speaker 4: Rebecca and he likes me.
Speaker 5: Sorry, right, that seems even worse.
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1: All right, let's let me ask Kathy this. What if
Speaker 1: I go on one fake date with your friend Rebecca. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll be like a total pig. I'll like have terrible manners,
Speaker 1: like I won't put on deodorant that night, and then
Speaker 1: afterwards it's like the dib has been given up, undibbed.
Speaker 5: I don't think it works that way. That's really really
Speaker 5: sweet of you to try.
Speaker 1: I mean, so you're afraid of losing a friendship, but
Speaker 1: aren't you afraid of losing true love? Jesse and I.
Speaker 4: Even am true to the dib okay rule.
Speaker 3: Yes, I back.
Speaker 2: My heart is melting right now from every word that
Speaker 2: comes out of Kurt's mouth.
Speaker 1: Give me one date, and if it's horrible and you
Speaker 1: don't want to see me again, then Rebecca or whatever
Speaker 1: her name is doesn't even to know about it.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, what do you say?
Speaker 5: Ridiculous? I feel I so pressured right now.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, don't feel pressured. Just go out with
Speaker 2: him while everybody is listening, and we will offer to
Speaker 2: pay for that date.
Speaker 5: Yeah, question grouping? Would you be open to that? Will
Speaker 5: hang out like in a group.
Speaker 1: And see like with Rebecca.
Speaker 3: No, that is a dumb idea Cassie fight you.
Speaker 2: Bet in front of him.
Speaker 5: Guys, there's just like a girl's code. I just can't
Speaker 5: do it.
Speaker 2: I know girl's code was meant to be broken.
Speaker 4: Come on, if she's a good friend, she'll understand, and
Speaker 4: if not, she'll make me suffer.
Speaker 2: Brooke is signing off as a female that it's okay
Speaker 2: to break girl code on this one.
Speaker 4: Yes, well, because her girl code is entering into ridiculous code.
Speaker 3: Like you know, you can only take it so.
Speaker 4: Far and always your friend's happiness should be at the
Speaker 4: forefront of every decision, and that is not true for Rebecca.
Speaker 5: Guys, I'm really so sorry, but my decision is final.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, dude, you're gonna regret this.
Speaker 1: Okay, listen, I'm gonna get one of my buddies set
Speaker 1: up with Rebecca, someone hotter than me, that she can like,
Speaker 1: she can put off her energies on and not worry
Speaker 1: about what her friend does.
Speaker 4: Oh.
Speaker 1: I like that, Kathy. I'm not giving up on you,
Speaker 1: but I'm just letting you know what's what's going on
Speaker 1: over here.
Speaker 3: Oh, you guys are the cutest.
Speaker 2: That's bro code right there.
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: I guess no second date for the moment, but yeah,
Speaker 2: I feel like this could possibly change. Will you guys
Speaker 2: keep us updated on what happens between you two.
Speaker 1: I'll let you guys know.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, upgrade Rebecca and go for Kurt. Cassie,
Speaker 4: I'm so excited brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: We heard that about four months ago, and it was
Speaker 2: one of our most popular second dates ever, I.
Speaker 3: Think because they stand so cute together.
Speaker 1: I know, this was so good.
Speaker 3: I know, and then she says, Okay, continue, I know.
Speaker 2: Everybody, it was a really good one. People have been
Speaker 2: asking on our text board for months and on our
Speaker 2: social media. You did Cassie break girl code? Did they
Speaker 2: go out again?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Well we have them on the phone. They're on with
Speaker 2: us once more. Cassie and Kurt welcome back.
Speaker 3: Oh oh they sound happy, happy couple colleagues.
Speaker 4: Are you guys in the same room or you in
Speaker 4: different places?
Speaker 2: Okay, but they spoke at the exact same time. It's
Speaker 2: like they're syncd up. So, Kurt, what happened? Did you
Speaker 2: end up finding a friend to date Cassie's friend?
Speaker 1: Yes, I found a buddy who was down. I showed
Speaker 1: him a few pictures of her friend, and we did
Speaker 1: a double date.
Speaker 3: Shut delegated.
Speaker 5: Oh that's idea, and as wonderful as it was for us,
Speaker 5: it was actually even better for our friends. Really.
Speaker 3: Oh, so your girlfriend wasn't mad at you for dating,
Speaker 3: not at all?
Speaker 5: Like they hit it off. Wow, they hit it off
Speaker 5: so well, guys that they have a wedding next month.
Speaker 2: Wait, you cooked your friend up and now she's getting married.
Speaker 3: Like in a six month period.
Speaker 5: No, it's only been a couple of months. Ye who
Speaker 5: what they wanted?
Speaker 1: She's also pregnant. I should probably mention, or maybe I
Speaker 1: shouldn't mention.
Speaker 3: Are you serious, oh Cassie's friend? Oh my god, I
Speaker 3: thought Cassie was pregnant.
Speaker 5: I got what are you doing? You're not even suppout
Speaker 5: to say that?
Speaker 1: You know that, don't know, but I'm sorry wait, you guys,
Speaker 1: ignore that. It's my bad.
Speaker 2: Forget it.
Speaker 3: It's fine.
Speaker 2: Don't happened. Back to you two again. How are you
Speaker 2: guys doing. Are you still together?
Speaker 5: Yeah, well we are dating. We'll just take it slow,
Speaker 5: but we're really happy and it's a very incredible it's
Speaker 5: all worked out.
Speaker 3: It's so cute.
Speaker 1: The first time we accident helped multiple people and marriage.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh yeah, sorry, I mean, no dregnancy.
Speaker 4: Here's the saying, Cassie, if you ever get knocked up,
Speaker 4: don't tell Kurt for a while.
Speaker 5: Yeah, seriously, right, I probably want to broadcast it.
Speaker 2: You keep us updated on your situation.
Speaker 3: That's so cute. Send pictures from the Lendings.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: We will tell your friends.
Speaker 2: We say congrats to.
Speaker 1: Them as well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely, oh we will. Y, thanks for being on
Speaker 2: with us. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: I love love Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.