WEBVTT - There will always be emails

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's

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<v Speaker 1>tip is that there will always be emails, so don't

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<v Speaker 1>spend all your time dealing with emails or clearing the

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<v Speaker 1>decks in general. Instead, set your sales and get going

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<v Speaker 1>in the direction of your goals, regardless of what still

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<v Speaker 1>theoretically needs to get done. Today's tip, like another this week,

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<v Speaker 1>comes from Oliver Berkman, who is the author of four

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<v Speaker 1>Thousand Weeks. Berkman was a guest on Laurie Santos's podcast

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<v Speaker 1>The Happiness Lab, where he noted that we are never

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<v Speaker 1>going to be able to do things as perfectly as

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<v Speaker 1>we can imagine them, always going to be too much

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<v Speaker 1>to do. Perhaps it might be wise to admit that, and,

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<v Speaker 1>as he put it, develop the willingness to act and

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<v Speaker 1>to really do the stuff that matters. Berkman points out

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<v Speaker 1>that there is always more that feels like it needs

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<v Speaker 1>to be done than we can do, an observation that's

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<v Speaker 1>not new to anyone listening to this podcast, but Berkman's

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<v Speaker 1>insight is what comes next. He says that if you

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<v Speaker 1>assume you're going to deal with all the things you

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<v Speaker 1>think you need to do first and then get to

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<v Speaker 1>the good stuff. You are going to end up spending

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<v Speaker 1>your whole life clearing the decks and never getting there.

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<v Speaker 1>He continues. The skill we're trying to develop is the

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<v Speaker 1>willingness to act on the most important things now, even

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<v Speaker 1>though the decks are not clear. The underlying point here,

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<v Speaker 1>he says, is there isn't this moment coming later when

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to have all the time for the things

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<v Speaker 1>that matter, and so on some level, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>claim that time in the present instead. I think this

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<v Speaker 1>is wise. I have long advised against clearing the decks

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<v Speaker 1>before you get to your real work. Fundamentally, the decks

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<v Speaker 1>will never be clear. Instead, you can choose to get

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<v Speaker 1>to your real work now. So if you find yourself

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<v Speaker 1>perpetually drawn into email, slack teams, texts, the news, and

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<v Speaker 1>the administrative work that we feel we have to get

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<v Speaker 1>done to keep everything running, check your assumptions. Don't assume

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<v Speaker 1>that you need to clear the decks, or that doing

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<v Speaker 1>so is even possible. Do what matters most now. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>even while the decks aren't completely clear, there will always

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<v Speaker 1>be emails. Could be a helpful phrase to say to

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<v Speaker 1>yourself whenever you think that you don't have time to

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to that new client because your inbox is

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<v Speaker 1>a mess. Or write that novel because your inbox is

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<v Speaker 1>a mess. Or be present with a loved one, or

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<v Speaker 1>look at the sunset. Remind yourself that there will always

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<v Speaker 1>be emails. There will be emails if you don't look

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<v Speaker 1>at the sunset, and there will be emails if you do.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably you will be happier if you take a moment

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<v Speaker 1>to take the world in. When we embrace this truth,

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<v Speaker 1>we stop trying to clear the decks for some illusory

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<v Speaker 1>time in the future. Life won't be calm next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Possibly it won't be calm next year. If there is

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<v Speaker 1>something you would like to do, best to get going

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<v Speaker 1>in the meantime. This is Laura. Thanks for listening, and

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<v Speaker 1>here's to making the most of our time. Thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>listening to Before Breakfast. If you've got questions, ideas, or feedback,

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<v Speaker 1>you can reach me at Laura at Laura vandercam dot com.

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