WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Hearts & Crafts + One More Refill 

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you're here for it. Back to back classics.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got you covered. It is the official Second Day podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah back, okay, because on it today I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, we're gonna get to that, but we do

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<v Speaker 1>have you know, just just so you know, we have

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<v Speaker 1>been putting up videos in studio, videos of these second

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<v Speaker 1>dates up on our YouTube at Brook and Jeffrey. And

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<v Speaker 1>then we're also starting kicking off where we're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>best of compilation on Saturdays. Yeah. So if you do

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<v Speaker 1>like the longer versions every Saturday, we're going to have

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<v Speaker 1>a real long one on our YouTube, which is also

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<v Speaker 1>at Brook and Jeffy. Yeah, and not just second dates,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all of our content.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I think today is Old Alan phone taps.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't know who Old Alan is, he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to know you. I'll tell you that. Okay again YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>at Brooke and Jeffrey. But first comments before we get

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<v Speaker 1>to these classics. Yeah, Aaron said, I've been away on

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<v Speaker 1>my honeymoon and didn't listen to any podcasts while we

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<v Speaker 1>were away. But I'm back now and I love that

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<v Speaker 1>I have a stockpile. I can binge again. Happy marriage, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you didn't listen to us on your honeymoon.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't offend it. Who else did you have to

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<v Speaker 1>pay attention to?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? What?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get to it starts right now.

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<v Speaker 4>As a guy, I can tell you a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>men feel this pressure when approaching a woman to say

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<v Speaker 4>something funny or clever, something jeff like right off the bat.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff like.

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<v Speaker 4>That's how they're describing it, to catch the girl's attention

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<v Speaker 4>and get positive momentum.

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<v Speaker 1>Because we know your success rate has been.

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<v Speaker 4>See Brooks talking to me right now? Whatever I just said,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even know so jeff like. Unfortunately, though, that

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<v Speaker 4>pressure can feel so intense it breaks the will of

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<v Speaker 4>even the chillist of Brosy to the point they just

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<v Speaker 4>don't even try to attempt it anymore. Okay, but one

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<v Speaker 4>of our listeners found a sweet little hack where you

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<v Speaker 4>can exchange numbers in person without uttering a single word

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<v Speaker 4>to each other, and women seem to really like it.

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<v Speaker 4>You're gonna hear how he was able to exchange digits,

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<v Speaker 4>get a date, zero word spoken in your brand new

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<v Speaker 4>second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Next brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates.

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<v Speaker 4>We've been seeing studies lately, and we've talked about this

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<v Speaker 4>on the show, where more and more men, especially jen

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<v Speaker 4>Z guys are scared to approach women in person and

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<v Speaker 4>try to strike up a conversation. Very scary that gender

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<v Speaker 4>you're intimidating, which is different than me, who doesn't approach

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<v Speaker 4>anybody in person because I'm a shy boy. Shy boy

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<v Speaker 4>gets nervous. But like Jeff, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually Jeff's real personality as everyone knows, don't tell them.

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<v Speaker 4>Just like Jeff Goldbloom said in Jurassic Park, life finds away,

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<v Speaker 4>and so did our listener Connor, because in his email

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<v Speaker 4>to us, he said he's trying something new to meet

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<v Speaker 4>people more organically these days, and watching TikTok to find

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<v Speaker 4>creative ways to do that. So Connor, welcome to the

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<v Speaker 4>show man. How you doing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing all right, brother, How you doing? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>There's nothing more organic than following TikTok trends.

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<v Speaker 4>My friend, Hey, yeah, I am a little bit shy

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<v Speaker 4>just to talk to you and ask, but what did

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<v Speaker 4>you find on TikTok that helped your dating life?

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<v Speaker 2>I came across this trend where apparently these girls are

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<v Speaker 2>putting their phone numbers on these bracelets. Right, and they

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<v Speaker 2>see a guy they like, they give them a bracelet.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, wait real quick, I'm picturing like the tailor friendship.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what, Yeah it is. Why do you know so quickly? TikTok.

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<v Speaker 4>I could see the merit in it because then you

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<v Speaker 4>don't have to like say words to each other. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and if this guy doesn't call you, then you're like, cool,

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<v Speaker 4>I just gave him a gift and he's got a

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<v Speaker 4>nice little.

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<v Speaker 1>Free brace Yeah, he's totally gonna wear that way.

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<v Speaker 4>Connor, how did that help you?

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<v Speaker 2>I had this random thought, right, I was like, girls

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<v Speaker 2>could do it, we should be able to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's right, my friend, make your friendship bracelets.

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<v Speaker 4>Alright, so you you did some arts and crafts for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I got one of my lady friends to help

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<v Speaker 2>me to make this smart.

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<v Speaker 1>To streak some beads.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we'd be lost.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, it feels like it would work better

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<v Speaker 1>the reverse. The way you're doing it. It's funny if

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<v Speaker 1>it's bad and clunky rather than it's like cute, a

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<v Speaker 1>woman would really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, a little kookie maybe, But is this something

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<v Speaker 4>that you put on just for when you're going out

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<v Speaker 4>for the night, or do you wear the bracelets all

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<v Speaker 4>the time, even at work, just in case you meet someone.

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<v Speaker 1>I imagined him having the bracelets in his pocket and

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<v Speaker 1>then pulling them out and giving them to someone.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like you always have them on deck, That's what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm saying. Twenty four to seven? Are they on you?

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<v Speaker 2>To be honest with you, this is new to me, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So I kind of wanted to just try it out

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<v Speaker 2>for just a full week.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, okay, So how many bracelets total did you

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<v Speaker 4>give out in that week?

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<v Speaker 2>Probably like a dozen.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, not too many, a lot. How many call backs

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<v Speaker 1>did you get?

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<v Speaker 2>So? I got three?

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<v Speaker 4>Big okay, that's twenty five one and four? Yeah, one about.

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<v Speaker 2>One of them just texting me back, said, unsubscribed.

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<v Speaker 4>That's funny, got a funny but yeah, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny, you know, with her friends doing it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, And so I'm assuming that's the girl that we're

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<v Speaker 4>calling then today.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, not that.

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<v Speaker 1>He followed the rules. He really did, unsubscriber.

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<v Speaker 2>I hit it off with this girl named Ainsley.

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<v Speaker 4>Ainsley, Okay, I mean you've given out so many bracelets

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<v Speaker 4>throughout the whole week. Did you remember which girl Ainsley was.

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<v Speaker 2>To be honest, at first, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's all right. You didn't tell her that, did you?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't. But we we did a picture of exchange,

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<v Speaker 2>so I knew who I was.

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<v Speaker 4>Of faces, I'm guessing that's probably remember you. She's like

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<v Speaker 4>five guys gave me bracelets last week.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there a day, Yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 2>We got some lunch.

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<v Speaker 4>You got lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that makes sense, like random guy and hands bracelet.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do daytime.

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<v Speaker 4>What was it like meeting her a second time?

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<v Speaker 2>She was still wearing her bracelet. I guess that's a

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<v Speaker 2>good thing. Yeah. And I actually brought her matching homemade necklace.

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<v Speaker 4>It's kind of corny, but to match her bracelet. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm assuming your lady friend helped you make that

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<v Speaker 4>one too, but we won't tell him.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet he figured it out by then. You just

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<v Speaker 1>need a longer string. That's all the necklace takes.

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<v Speaker 4>I've always got customer rings with their name onto.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I got the whole set you right on the necklace,

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<v Speaker 1>because you'd already put your phone number on the bracelet, social.

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<v Speaker 4>Security number on this one.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I just you know, I put a little note

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<v Speaker 2>like your special cute.

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<v Speaker 4>Did she like the necklace because.

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<v Speaker 2>Apparently it reminded her of the show called Love Island.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, but I don't know where this is the show.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't work all the gen Z things, Friendship, bracelets, Taylor,

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<v Speaker 4>Love Island.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she's just trying to make covers.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, so you guys talked about Love Island.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, you know what, I'm kind of a fan

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<v Speaker 2>of love Love Island, just a little bit, bro.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like everyone's guilty pleasure.

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<v Speaker 4>I just saw a video of someone's boyfriend going nuts

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<v Speaker 4>over it. Yeah, it's everywhere, right anyway, It's a lot

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<v Speaker 4>going on.

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<v Speaker 2>But we hung out for over an hour and it's good.

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<v Speaker 2>I expected a little more, but we hugged and it

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<v Speaker 2>was a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds good. I mean that's all inappropriate ending for

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<v Speaker 1>a lunch date, right, And have you talked at all?

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<v Speaker 6>You know all?

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<v Speaker 2>She really does like likes my text or I see

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<v Speaker 2>that she reads them. I'm kind of left on red,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, but I think it's worth reaching out again

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<v Speaker 2>and just kind of seeing what's going on because I

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<v Speaker 2>thought we really connected, and even the Love Island thing

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<v Speaker 2>was so nice to have somebody else to be a

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<v Speaker 2>fan of that show. So we're kind of on the

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<v Speaker 2>same frequency.

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<v Speaker 4>You feel me, she's maybe saying the same thing because

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<v Speaker 4>it's you know, like you would think she's saying, Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so glad I found a guy who's into it. Right,

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<v Speaker 4>let's call her and find out. Man, we're gonna come back.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll reach out to Ainslie for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, what do we do, like, I don't I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>watched a show to welcome into the villa or something

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<v Speaker 1>like we have to meet at the fire pets. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go Bombshell could come in and throw it off.

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<v Speaker 1>I happen to just the simple rose on these shows.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm gonna hop on Amazon. We're gonna order a

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<v Speaker 4>portable fire pit, throw on our bikinis, and come back

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<v Speaker 4>and do your second date update Love Island Style right

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<v Speaker 4>after this. Thank you, all right, man, hold.

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<v Speaker 5>On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 4>We just learned the hot new way to meet women,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's friendship bracelets with your phone number on the Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, it's an idea our listener Connor found on TikTok,

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<v Speaker 4>where women are doing this to meet guys now, so

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<v Speaker 4>he thought, why can't a cool, confident man do it too?

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<v Speaker 1>It works, it works multiple times for.

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<v Speaker 4>Get sure did, and that's how he met Ainsley.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really cute.

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<v Speaker 4>The two of them met up for a date, talked

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<v Speaker 4>a lot about the show Love Island, but since then

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<v Speaker 4>she hasn't been responding to him very much, and Connor

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<v Speaker 4>is now starting to wonder if he just got voted

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<v Speaker 4>off of her Love Island. Connor, how you feeling, man?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm good. I might still have some options.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you got wait, you got a backup plan? Then?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I got, I got, I got a few other options.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, well we can call all of your options

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<v Speaker 4>when we're done with this first option, Ainsleys bracelets.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to know if you've got backup bracelets for

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<v Speaker 1>next week years this doesn't work out? Like, how many

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<v Speaker 1>extras did you make that you haven't been passed around?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? I don't think I needed much extras. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not a bad looking guy, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>With the confidence you say, like three out of twelve texas, well.

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<v Speaker 4>Still that's a high that's a high success rate for

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<v Speaker 4>a man. So let's keep that confidence going. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 4>dial in Lee's number right now. Hopefully she picks up.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds good, All right, here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with Ainsley.

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<v Speaker 6>This is her who's calling.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, we're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 4>in the Morning. Offended that you don't recognize us by

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<v Speaker 4>our voices alone, makes sense?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, okay, Like, what's going on? Did I win something?

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<v Speaker 4>No, you clearly haven't listened to the radio in a

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<v Speaker 4>very long time. We don't give away.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything, have no budget.

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<v Speaker 4>We may ask for money by the end of this.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually get your venmo ready. But what we're doing is

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<v Speaker 4>a segment here. It's called a second Date Update Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>And that's something where we reach out to people who've

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<v Speaker 4>gone out with somebody before. That person is not calling

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<v Speaker 4>our listener back, and we're trying to figure out why.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh that's awkward.

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<v Speaker 4>Totally, which is why we put it on for entertainment purposes.

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<v Speaker 6>Perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be fun though. It could be somebody that

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<v Speaker 1>you really like.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and in this case, it's a guy named Connor.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Think I think I would like to maybe go out

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<v Speaker 6>with him again. He was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, oh, you would easy. I feel like I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you've auditioned for a reality show before.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, it's just that the thing is, like, there's

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<v Speaker 7>this other guy who's also pursuing me, and I just

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<v Speaker 7>I'm trying to be fair and like figure out what's

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<v Speaker 7>going on because I like both.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, okay, another person in the picture.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, who's a competition? What are you working with here against?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean he's a really nice guy. Listen, they're both

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<v Speaker 7>nice that I don't really want to lead either one

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<v Speaker 7>of them on because it's kind of early, so I

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<v Speaker 7>just kind of want to see how it progresses. They

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<v Speaker 7>date each one one of them a couple of times

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<v Speaker 7>and kind of get to know them.

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<v Speaker 6>So that I can actually make a choice.

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<v Speaker 1>So you are going to call Connor back and go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again too.

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<v Speaker 4>Because Connor is the one who gave you a bracelet

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<v Speaker 4>if you remember.

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<v Speaker 6>I do remember. I still have it.

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<v Speaker 4>It was really yeah that the other guy didn't give

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<v Speaker 4>you any handmade jewelry, and no.

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<v Speaker 7>You're right, I don't have any other handmade Jory, and

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<v Speaker 7>it was super cute.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a few points that Connor already has up.

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<v Speaker 7>On this other I like this That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 7>Like they're both really sweet, and it's like everybody can

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<v Speaker 7>be sweet on the first date, Like let's yeah, let's

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<v Speaker 7>see what this is like after a couple.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to burn a bridge.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but but you're burning a bridge right now by

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<v Speaker 1>not responding to him. All you're doing is liking his text.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I just don't want to lead anyone on,

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<v Speaker 7>and I don't know, maybe I'm not going about it

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<v Speaker 7>the right way. So it's like, yes, I'm definitely still

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<v Speaker 7>interested in Connor, but I also don't want him to

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<v Speaker 7>think that I'm like both feet in gun ho right

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<v Speaker 7>out the gate and then him like, oh this doesn't

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<v Speaker 7>work out and then like be like really crushing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you are going eighty steps ahead of yourself here.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys have had one lunch date. You know. I

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<v Speaker 1>think if you were just honest with him and told

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<v Speaker 1>him you liked him, would make Wouldn't that make you

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<v Speaker 1>feel good as a guy?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, yeah, why I'm willing to go out with him.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, everything you're saying makes sense, So I guess

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<v Speaker 7>it'll make me think about this a little bit differently.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I think Connor would feel very reassured if you

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<v Speaker 4>actually relayed that message to him, because he's in the

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<v Speaker 4>middle right now, unsure of where your head is at

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<v Speaker 4>voting for Connor.

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<v Speaker 3>Text.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's fair, oh texting your vote text Connor. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>I think there's a very good opportunity. I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think we need any of that, because there's

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<v Speaker 4>a good chance for you to tell him those feelings directly,

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<v Speaker 4>since he is already on the phone right now waiting

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<v Speaker 4>to speak with you.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh well, that's awkward.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Like I said, that's what we enjoy about this segment.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, Brook and Jeffrey Island. Connor, are you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you want to say hi to Ainsley?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know you were hanging out with somebody else,

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<v Speaker 2>but I guess that's cool.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, Okay, So like it, Like it wouldn't bother you

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<v Speaker 7>if I'm kind of just seeing you both for a

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<v Speaker 7>couple of weeks and seeing who I really connect with.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know if it bothers me, but I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's a little weird.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, Like, what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Connor? Don't blow this you You had a yes when

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<v Speaker 4>I was talking to her that she already wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>see you, but suddenly you came on. You say one

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<v Speaker 4>thing and it's flipped to and I don't know, stick

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<v Speaker 4>up for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>No, wait, why are you being defended like I'm confused, Connor,

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<v Speaker 1>because you told us you had other options too. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't that what dating is?

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, don't tell her that. I mean that was between

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<v Speaker 2>you and me, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Birk, what are you doing? You're trying to submarine

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<v Speaker 4>him options?

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<v Speaker 1>She has options, he has. Everyone who's single happens. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is.

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<v Speaker 4>It's something that we all acknowledge, but we don't actually

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<v Speaker 4>talk about book. It's a secret.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's the problem. It doesn't need to be a secret, Connor.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't need to like feign like you're upset about it.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't be said about it. If you're doing the same.

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<v Speaker 4>Thing, you don't have to have anybody tell you how

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<v Speaker 4>to feel about how to live your life. Connor, It's okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Just talk to AINSLEI.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I'm not upset about it, right, I'm just a

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<v Speaker 2>move with surprise. I thought you and me were really

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<v Speaker 2>trying to work this out. You just seem like a dope,

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<v Speaker 2>awesome person. I kind of feel like we're a good match.

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<v Speaker 7>That is so cute, Ainsley, Listen, Connor, I honestly, it's

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<v Speaker 7>really sweet, and I really do appreciate how genuine you are,

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<v Speaker 7>and you seem like a really good guy.

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<v Speaker 6>So I mean, yeah, I mean I do think we

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<v Speaker 6>could probably go out again. Yeah, just see what happens.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, we're Connor, well done.

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<v Speaker 2>That's amazing to hear. I just kind of want to

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<v Speaker 2>be on the same page with you. So you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to pass on this next guy, right, because we're chilling,

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<v Speaker 2>we're getting to know each other, what you know. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just trying to figure this out, right, So are you

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<v Speaker 2>saying you want to see me? Or are you want

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<v Speaker 2>to still see him? Or like what's going on?

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<v Speaker 6>Wow?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, so like now you're giving off some pretty serious

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<v Speaker 7>jealous vibes. Then I'm really not into that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that that's the case. I mean, Connor,

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<v Speaker 1>you would be doing the same thing, right, like you

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<v Speaker 1>would be only.

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<v Speaker 2>Skin her, Like, yeah, that's exactly what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not seeing anybody.

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<v Speaker 7>You literally just said you had other options, Like, maybe

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<v Speaker 7>it's a better idea we don't go out.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what again, Ainsley. Here's the thing, like, how do

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<v Speaker 1>you He's just saying, let's really actually try this instead

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<v Speaker 1>of not.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Connor, remind her of the good times that you

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<v Speaker 4>two had together.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we bonded over Love Island, I gave you the

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<v Speaker 2>friendship bracelet and in this netlist.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah okay, I did like that. Maybe maybe we should

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<v Speaker 6>hang out then?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well it's at this point I cautioned Connor to

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<v Speaker 4>not say any other words whatsoever, because anything that you

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<v Speaker 4>say could have a detrimental impact on Ainsley's decision here

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<v Speaker 4>for a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe they should just go to a movie so they

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm just gonna officially ask now, now that she

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<v Speaker 4>seems to be on board again, Connor, you still cool

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<v Speaker 4>with this? Do you want to hang out with Ainsley?

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I don't know, Connor, dude, all you have. All

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<v Speaker 4>you had to say is yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah you know, but I I just don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>we should.

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<v Speaker 1>This is why just make a choice.

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<v Speaker 4>So now, Connor, you don't want to go out with Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>My god, Okay, listen, I really thought I liked you.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you liked me with other guys, that's that's cool,

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<v Speaker 2>that's fine. But listen, I do have another girl, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think she's a little more sure about what

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<v Speaker 2>you want.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys just sleep around that we've come to an agreement.

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<v Speaker 4>They both have other options that they want to explore first,

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<v Speaker 4>and if those don't work out, they'll come back to

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<v Speaker 4>each other.

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<v Speaker 1>This is why people give up on so Ainsley.

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<v Speaker 4>It looks like officially it's a no and a yes

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<v Speaker 4>and another no and then yes and yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>So, yeah, this was a lot.

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<v Speaker 7>Thanks for calling and ruiney my day a little bit,

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<v Speaker 7>I get.

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<v Speaker 1>But we also made it better at the same time, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, at least I know Connor is no longer an option,

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<v Speaker 6>are you.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, Connor, we're hanging up and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 5>the morning, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>That was so frustrating to be a part of. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>so glad it's over.

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<v Speaker 1>It's awful.

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<v Speaker 4>And I thought Brooke brought up a really good point

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<v Speaker 4>about how was It was like the perfect snapshot of

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<v Speaker 4>what modern dating is and how uncertain everybody is. Nobody

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<v Speaker 4>wants to commit to anything at all anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I get it. It's like going to a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant like the Cheesecake Factory, and the menu's too big

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<v Speaker 1>and you can never make up your mind. Yes, many

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<v Speaker 1>flavors out there.

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<v Speaker 4>You just got to come back once every day, get

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<v Speaker 4>one thing off the menu too, you've gone through the

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<v Speaker 4>whole thing, or.

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<v Speaker 1>You just stick to the one thing you like.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe, Yeah, it is. It's funny that these two were

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<v Speaker 4>kind of like a real couple on Love Island, weighing

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<v Speaker 4>their options and waffling back and forth, except in the

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<v Speaker 4>end they voted each other off. So yeah, the good

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<v Speaker 4>news is, we don't vote anybody off the Brook and

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<v Speaker 4>Jeffrey Island. Just go to our podcast, have a drink,

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<v Speaker 4>stay awhile, take your pants off. Listen to all of

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<v Speaker 4>our second dates online wherever you get your podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet a lot of people do have their pants off.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and we support that. Okay, you find them online

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<v Speaker 4>at Brook and Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 5>In the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>When you go out to dinner, it's okay to make

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<v Speaker 4>certain requests from the restaurant, Okay, reasonable ones like asking

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<v Speaker 4>if your salad dressing can be on the side, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>or asking for a bottle of champagne to be waiting

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<v Speaker 4>at the table when you arrive, or even asking to

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<v Speaker 4>be seated in an area with more attractive people in

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<v Speaker 4>your eye life. No, nobody wants to see uggos while

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<v Speaker 4>you're eating your lobster tack.

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<v Speaker 1>Why they always put me.

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<v Speaker 4>By the bathroom, like, oh, really pretty section through this door.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait a minute, but one of our listeners made a

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<v Speaker 4>different kind of request from his server after they got

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<v Speaker 4>to dinner, and a lot of people in this room

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<v Speaker 4>thought it crossed the line a lot of the people

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<v Speaker 4>who would be seated in the section. But the restaurant

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<v Speaker 4>did grant his request, and you'll hear it see if

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<v Speaker 4>you agree in your second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Next Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second date Updates.

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<v Speaker 4>Isn't it annoying when you're on the dating apps and

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<v Speaker 4>you match with somebody and you can just talk to

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<v Speaker 4>them right away.

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<v Speaker 1>What isn't that what you want to know?

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<v Speaker 4>It never happened, Thank you. I want to work for it.

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<v Speaker 4>That's why I'm glad. On Bumble they added multiple steps

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<v Speaker 4>in hoops you have to jump through first, where if

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<v Speaker 4>you're a guy and you match with a girl first,

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<v Speaker 4>the woman sends you a prompt question that the guy

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<v Speaker 4>has to answer, and if she doesn't like your response

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<v Speaker 4>to that, you could just ditch you right away without

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<v Speaker 4>ever speaking a word.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you I feel like you have to fill out

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<v Speaker 1>full essay questions like you're back in high school English

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<v Speaker 1>class all over again to get a date.

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<v Speaker 4>We're not there yet, but I hope it gets to

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<v Speaker 4>that person.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, because I love writing essays' thesis. See, if she

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<v Speaker 8>does like your answer, then she can approve and give

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<v Speaker 8>the green light to actually message her.

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<v Speaker 4>So if you get that prompt, then you're halfway there.

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<v Speaker 4>And one of our listeners apparently got it recently. His

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<v Speaker 4>name is Card with a K. So Card, congratulations. You

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<v Speaker 4>got to answer a pre selected question. That must feel

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<v Speaker 4>pretty good.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, you did it, buddy.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it too much details to know what her pre

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<v Speaker 1>selected question was about? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>What was the question?

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<v Speaker 9>So it was what's the best piece of advice you've

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<v Speaker 9>ever received?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh gosh, Oh for sure, she was going to ask

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<v Speaker 1>for your favorite pizza topic. That's what I would.

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<v Speaker 4>It is tricky how you answer that, because if you're

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<v Speaker 4>just sincere without being fun, then you're gonna look very

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<v Speaker 4>boring and stiff. Yeah, But at the same time, if

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<v Speaker 4>you're too fun and too silly. Then it seems like

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<v Speaker 4>you're not taking this serious. You're not get a call back.

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<v Speaker 1>I would take my grandmother's vice, live and learn, die

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<v Speaker 1>and forget it.

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<v Speaker 4>All boring, okay, get boring and a little bit morbid.

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<v Speaker 4>If a card, what did you answer to the prompt?

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<v Speaker 4>What's the best advice you ever got?

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<v Speaker 9>So? I really thought about it, and I came up

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<v Speaker 9>with three options because this girl is really cute and

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<v Speaker 9>I didn't want to blow it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>What'd you do?

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<v Speaker 4>Give us the other two before you tell us the winner?

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<v Speaker 1>We're going deep.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to know what the three options are so

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<v Speaker 4>we can make sure you chose.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're just writing down life advice for yourself. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that what you're doing?

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<v Speaker 4>We might all here there.

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<v Speaker 9>My runner up put the cart back. People are watching.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 9>My next one was always be yourself unless you can

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<v Speaker 9>be Beyonce.

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<v Speaker 1>That's definitely what it was like people put on.

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<v Speaker 4>You didn't like that one?

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<v Speaker 9>No, I was like, maybe that's too silly and not

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<v Speaker 9>answering it, so I wasn't sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so what was the winner?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 9>So the one I went with was never date someone

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<v Speaker 9>who claps when the plane lands.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she must have liked it, right, kay?

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<v Speaker 9>She said she was going to update her profile and

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<v Speaker 9>put it on hers and she did.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh bro, that's extra, that's like personalizing her own.

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<v Speaker 9>Thing for I was flattered. But the best part was,

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<v Speaker 9>you know, it led to a date.

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<v Speaker 4>So there you go. Okay, you made it over all

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<v Speaker 4>the hurdles, through the obstacles and you got actual meet

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<v Speaker 4>up with her. What did you do for your date?

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to clap right there.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh well, he's not going to talk to you if

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<v Speaker 4>you did that, bro, What did you do for your date?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 9>Because of things beyond my control, I couldn't e until

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<v Speaker 9>super late, so I booked as a dinner reservation at

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<v Speaker 9>nine point thirty nine thirty. She initially asked if I

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<v Speaker 9>could go earlier, but I told her I couldn't. But

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<v Speaker 9>I really wanted to buy her dinner and spend time

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<v Speaker 9>with her and that one or over.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, oh okay, Yeah it went well.

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<v Speaker 9>We were there for a long time past midnight.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, whoa You must have really clicked for two

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<v Speaker 4>and a half hours at dinner. What time does the

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<v Speaker 4>restaurant even close? That's a long dinner. It's really long.

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<v Speaker 9>It was supposed to close at eleven, but we asked

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<v Speaker 9>if we could hang there while they like shut stuff down,

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<v Speaker 9>and they let us.

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<v Speaker 4>That's actually like, that's actually a rude fit.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so bad.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought I would take that as a compliment if

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<v Speaker 4>I worked in the restaurant, to be like, well, they

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<v Speaker 4>love us so much they want to stick around beyond sure,

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<v Speaker 4>I stay here for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh goodness.

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<v Speaker 9>I don't think they were too bothered by it, because

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<v Speaker 9>they still had the clean up and stuff, and.

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<v Speaker 4>They're rolling silverware, they're sweeping.

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<v Speaker 1>You haven't worked any you better have tipped?

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<v Speaker 9>Well, yeah, of course I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, restaurant aside, like, it sounds like it was

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<v Speaker 1>going great with her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah you know, so how did the night end?

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<v Speaker 9>It was a good night. I walked her to her

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<v Speaker 9>car because we drove separately, and it was a quick kiss,

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<v Speaker 9>not a long one.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, all right, So.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm seeing if I can take her out again. I

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<v Speaker 9>even joked over text that we could do a normal time.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll put it up to eight thirty.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, but not responding, so she's just not responded.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's interesting. I mean it seems like she was

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<v Speaker 1>so invested. Just all of the hoops you had to

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<v Speaker 1>jump through to even get the date. It feels like

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<v Speaker 1>she would have been all in.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, I would think, but no dice, no dice.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, don't sound so dejected on the phone right now, Car.

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<v Speaker 4>We haven't even called her and got the answer. There

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<v Speaker 4>might be a total misunderstanding here.

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<v Speaker 9>That's what I'm worried about. When you guys call people

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<v Speaker 9>normally doesn't go well.

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<v Speaker 1>We're always the last resort, you know, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Really air the craziest, worst one. So don't worry. Is

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<v Speaker 4>this hits the air actually a bad thing? Yeah, this

0:26:09.680 --> 0:26:11.959
<v Speaker 4>is star boring. We never even put it on our

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<v Speaker 4>actual show. That's the goal. We'll see what happens when

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<v Speaker 4>we call Amy. We're gonna come back and try and

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<v Speaker 4>get you a second date update super boring edition right

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<v Speaker 4>after this.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, hold on man Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>In the story of Cinderella, you know her date with

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<v Speaker 4>the Prince is going well because she stays out with

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<v Speaker 4>him till midnight. Yeah, not's not a girl. But in

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<v Speaker 4>this situation, our listener card with a K took his

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<v Speaker 4>date Amy to a late dinner and they stayed past midnight.

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<v Speaker 1>Despite the restaurant being closed.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, U on a date, you're like dancing? Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>but it is a good sign that they were out

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<v Speaker 4>together for so long. Now, is it possible her date

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<v Speaker 4>accidentally left her glass stiletto behind and ended up bibbity

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<v Speaker 4>bopping the waiter?

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<v Speaker 8>That's how alec azooa mecha.

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<v Speaker 2>I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't change things what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>But no matter what, I am interested to hear how

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<v Speaker 4>this modern day fairy tale ends. We're gonna find out.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, maybe we could just ask Card, Card, did

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<v Speaker 4>you have a hot waiter?

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<v Speaker 9>H not exceptionally?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Okay, that's good. That is good.

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<v Speaker 1>You start intimidated by whoever your staff was.

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<v Speaker 4>Was a pumpkin?

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good question.

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<v Speaker 4>He said that they drove separately. I didn't need an answer. No,

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<v Speaker 4>it's not. We're checking off. Okay. Let's just call this

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<v Speaker 4>lovely lady Amy. Okay, and hopefully she picks up and

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<v Speaker 4>we get some answers out of her. You ready to

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<v Speaker 4>do this? I was saying that to myself. I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's do it. Jeff, here we go. Hello, Hey, is

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<v Speaker 4>this Amy? Yeah, Hey, this is a radio show called

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<v Speaker 4>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi, Amy By Wait

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<v Speaker 4>what do you mean? Yeah, radio still exists. I know

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<v Speaker 4>it's shocking, but we do a show. It's called Brook

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<v Speaker 4>and Jeffrey. I think I already said that. And uh,

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<v Speaker 4>this is a segment called second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, I'm not shilling groups, but why are you

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<v Speaker 3>calling me a great question?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's part of that segment, the second Date thing,

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<v Speaker 4>cause we're trying to help out one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 4>that you went out with recently, a guy named Card.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, what.

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<v Speaker 9>K a Card?

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<v Speaker 1>Did I just hear you go in?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>All right, that's my honest reaction.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, oh well it's okay interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>If you feel that way, that's fine. It's just Card

0:29:09.920 --> 0:29:12.200
<v Speaker 4>has reached out to our show because he's a little

0:29:12.200 --> 0:29:16.440
<v Speaker 4>bit confused. Why after your date you're not responding to

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<v Speaker 4>any of his texts or messages?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, oh you're laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that mean you think he should know?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, sure, okay, let's go.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'll just tell you a few things that we

0:29:32.080 --> 0:29:34.520
<v Speaker 4>know about your date is that it started pretty late.

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<v Speaker 4>You were at a restaurant for like two and a

0:29:36.120 --> 0:29:39.880
<v Speaker 4>half hours till like way past it even closed. He

0:29:39.960 --> 0:29:41.760
<v Speaker 4>felt like the vibes were pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>So we wait. There was even a cute little kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>he said at the end, Yeah, a.

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<v Speaker 4>Little quick one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, okay, is that all accurate?

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<v Speaker 9>Yes?

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<v Speaker 6>Those are well?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so where did it go wrong?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Well maybe just tell us how did you feel

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<v Speaker 4>about the date?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, first of all, we get there at nine point thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm hungry. I've been waiting to eat, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, oh you didn't have free dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I had, but I was fully expecting to

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<v Speaker 3>eat when we got there, totally. The waiter kept coming

0:30:12.040 --> 0:30:13.880
<v Speaker 3>over to take our order, and he kept telling him

0:30:13.880 --> 0:30:18.120
<v Speaker 3>we weren't ready yet, and I'm like, visibly hungry.

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<v Speaker 1>You're you're hungry?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, So we didn't actually even get our food

0:30:23.720 --> 0:30:25.000
<v Speaker 3>till like ten thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>What Oh my god, I wouldn't even be able to

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<v Speaker 1>see straight if I was just sitting at that table. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, now around eleven, where are the last ones in

0:30:38.000 --> 0:30:40.000
<v Speaker 3>the restaurant? And I'm like, it is time that Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So I I used to work in a restaurant, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I have been a server and it is absolutely mortifyingly

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<v Speaker 3>embarrassing to me. If I'm with somebody who does not

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<v Speaker 3>respect the fact that these people have their own lives,

0:30:52.400 --> 0:30:53.240
<v Speaker 3>we need to go home.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, okay, Amy, We totally sympathized with that.

0:30:58.320 --> 0:31:00.600
<v Speaker 4>That was not made clear to us from what we

0:31:00.640 --> 0:31:03.720
<v Speaker 4>heard from Card. He felt like you were okay with

0:31:03.880 --> 0:31:06.320
<v Speaker 4>staying later, and it was almost like the vibe was

0:31:06.360 --> 0:31:08.720
<v Speaker 4>so good. The date just kept going and going.

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<v Speaker 9>He said, it was good.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

0:31:12.560 --> 0:31:16.080
<v Speaker 3>When people are asking you to leave the restaurant.

0:31:15.680 --> 0:31:21.000
<v Speaker 4>Oh, because it's such a romantic scene. They're like, oh,

0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:24.520
<v Speaker 4>I can't look at this beautiful couple and the chef

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<v Speaker 4>divorce and he's a yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying the way, it sounds like Card is maybe not

0:31:30.440 --> 0:31:31.520
<v Speaker 1>very good at reading the room.

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<v Speaker 3>He kept going, I looked beyond Beyonce. It looked beyond Beyonce. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>if you stay on beyond one more time.

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<v Speaker 6>I swear that in.

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<v Speaker 4>His defense, though maybe he just liked you spend more

0:31:42.760 --> 0:31:43.560
<v Speaker 4>time with you.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, there's something weird about it, because around like eleven

0:31:47.400 --> 0:31:50.560
<v Speaker 3>fifty five, they finally were like you have to leave,

0:31:50.600 --> 0:31:52.720
<v Speaker 3>and no uncertain terms. They weren't trying to be nice

0:31:52.720 --> 0:31:57.120
<v Speaker 3>about it anymore. And this man looks at the server

0:31:57.320 --> 0:31:59.880
<v Speaker 3>and looks at the bill, and he goes, I'm so

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<v Speaker 3>looking over the bill.

0:32:04.200 --> 0:32:09.160
<v Speaker 8>Financially responsible man, No way when I tell you I

0:32:09.240 --> 0:32:10.080
<v Speaker 8>wanted to die.

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<v Speaker 3>So at the midnight we finally left, and it just

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<v Speaker 3>seems really weird because we could have gone to another place.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, it sounds like it sounds like you have a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of questions about why he was doing this and

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<v Speaker 4>what was going on. The good news is we could

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<v Speaker 4>just ask him directly because card is, on the other

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<v Speaker 4>hand right now wanting to talk to you, very patient

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<v Speaker 4>if you can't still have the car.

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<v Speaker 6>Are you hearing?

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<v Speaker 9>But is it a bad thing that I liked the.

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<v Speaker 1>Turn music off of the lights on? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what, I'm sorry. If I'd known that you

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<v Speaker 3>were listening this whole time, I probably would have been

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<v Speaker 3>a little nicer, But you know what, they were closing

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<v Speaker 3>and you wouldn't leave, and it was weird and I was.

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<v Speaker 9>Young one to stay there and enjoy it with you.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, where's the os from the room? Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>They brought us the bill before eleven, and you kept

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<v Speaker 3>insisting on waiting more and more, and they were very

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<v Speaker 3>clear they needed and you just you just kept finding

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<v Speaker 3>reasons to I mean, what was going on? Because it

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<v Speaker 3>was really I don't know, it was really strange.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Okay, Amy, I think you've said your your piece,

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<v Speaker 4>so Car do you have anything that you want to

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<v Speaker 4>say to Amy in response to that? And I was a.

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<v Speaker 9>Little low on funds. The cell phone company I worked

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<v Speaker 9>for doesn't pay me till midnight on Friday. I used

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<v Speaker 9>my debit card for the meal, and I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 9>gone through if I had paid earlier.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, you feel bad for that you didn't have money,

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<v Speaker 4>he needed a way to take her out.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't feel bad.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the dumbest I've ever heard you talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>Why didn't you just schedule it for later date?

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<v Speaker 1>What is wrong?

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm okay? You didn't have the money in your account

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<v Speaker 4>to pay the bill, so you're trying to stall until I.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, right when our patick comes through to feel okay?

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<v Speaker 4>But like, well, okay, we understand that if you're paying

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<v Speaker 4>like directly out of your account with a debit card,

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<v Speaker 4>but like, why don't you do it on a credit

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<v Speaker 4>card and then pay it later?

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<v Speaker 9>I don't have a credit card.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't have a credit card.

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<v Speaker 9>No, I don't trust myself carry one.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, but they pre approve you for credit cards.

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<v Speaker 1>Even that is such a privileged thing. You know you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing right. That's a good financial choice, right, Amy, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's responsible, girl.

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<v Speaker 4>Card. You're not really saying a lot here. Is there

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<v Speaker 4>any defense you want to make or anything you want

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<v Speaker 4>to say to Amy?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean, what else can I say? I told you

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<v Speaker 9>guys what the deal was. I just tried to fall

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<v Speaker 9>a little bit. I mean, at this point, I feel

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<v Speaker 9>like it set as Cinderella. I got one of the

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<v Speaker 9>wicked step Sisters.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, don't come at her.

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<v Speaker 4>You know the Stepsisters are freaky though, Oh yeah they Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like Amy, you should give him another chance.

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<v Speaker 1>I've always dated low fund guys at least, and if Brooke.

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<v Speaker 4>Is willing to give a break to a poor man,

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<v Speaker 4>then you should be willing to do it too. That's

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<v Speaker 4>very out of character for her. So what do you think, Amy?

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<v Speaker 4>One more chance? And look, we'll take all the credit

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<v Speaker 4>cards off the table, will pay for.

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<v Speaker 2>The date.

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<v Speaker 1>Us girl Card needs to eat. You need to say

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<v Speaker 1>yes to.

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<v Speaker 3>This, Amy, all right, Listen between the lack of considerations.

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<v Speaker 6>For the wait Josh, that not just think.

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<v Speaker 3>And the bad and the note these red flags just waving.

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<v Speaker 4>Man.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I thank you very much, guys, but no, thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I thought she was leading to it yes week.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, okay, I thought she was going to run

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<v Speaker 1>past the red flag.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, well, all right, that gives you.

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<v Speaker 1>Something to work towards, you know, like a little more

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<v Speaker 1>financial stability.

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<v Speaker 9>I touched a bullet. I'm glad.

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<v Speaker 5>Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Brook, What I mean, come on, I know you felt

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<v Speaker 4>sorry for the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt terrible for him.

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<v Speaker 4>But be honest with yourself. There is no way you

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<v Speaker 4>would go on a date with the guy who is

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<v Speaker 4>so bad with money he doesn't even trust himself with

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<v Speaker 4>a credit card.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, absolutely I would. I had a first date

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<v Speaker 1>with a boyfriend who we would do a burger joint

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<v Speaker 1>because he had a free burger coupon.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I'm not talking about your free and easy early

0:36:57.040 --> 0:36:59.640
<v Speaker 4>twenties where you would tip the grocery baggers with a

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<v Speaker 4>new oolaroid. Yeah, I mean, these are adults looking.

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<v Speaker 1>At you look so cute in filorides.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just that I know that the perfect lighting in

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<v Speaker 4>those But remember, these are adults looking to lock down

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<v Speaker 4>a healthy relationship with a stable guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, A guy who is willing to not get a

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<v Speaker 1>credit card to avoid going into debt is a stable guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I really absolutely I stand by that.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought Alexis had a good point where this guy

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<v Speaker 4>would thro all this trouble because he still wanted to pay. Said, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>have you just loan this I can venmo you in

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<v Speaker 4>two hours. He's like, no, yes, I want to bring

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<v Speaker 4>us down both into debt and then you can help

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<v Speaker 4>pay us out of it. Sorry, I forgot what romance

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<v Speaker 4>looks like.

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<v Speaker 1>They said, the guy has never dealt with overdraft fees.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. We can agree to disagree on this one.

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<v Speaker 4>You've gotten under draft fees. Yeah, I have too much

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<v Speaker 4>money in that account. It is a burden, but you

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<v Speaker 4>know what, we weren't able to make it work for

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<v Speaker 4>a card. But doesn't mean we can't help you out.

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<v Speaker 4>You can always email the show. We'll call that person

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