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Speaker 1: We've got you covered. It is the official Second Day podcast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah back, okay, because on it today I love it.

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Speaker 1: All Right, we're gonna get to that, but we do

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Speaker 1: have you know, just just so you know, we have

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Speaker 1: best of compilation on Saturdays. Yeah. So if you do

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Speaker 1: at Brook and Jeffy. Yeah, and not just second dates,

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Speaker 1: it's all of our content.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think today is Old Alan phone taps.

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Speaker 1: If you don't know who Old Alan is, he wants

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Speaker 1: to know you. I'll tell you that. Okay again YouTube

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Speaker 1: at Brooke and Jeffrey. But first comments before we get

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Speaker 1: to these classics. Yeah, Aaron said, I've been away on

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Speaker 1: my honeymoon and didn't listen to any podcasts while we

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Speaker 1: were away. But I'm back now and I love that

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Speaker 1: I have a stockpile. I can binge again. Happy marriage, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you didn't listen to us on your honeymoon.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's get to it starts right now.

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Speaker 4: As a guy, I can tell you a lot of

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Speaker 4: men feel this pressure when approaching a woman to say

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Speaker 4: something funny or clever, something jeff like right off the bat.

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Speaker 4: That's how they're describing it, to catch the girl's attention

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Speaker 1: Because we know your success rate has been.

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Speaker 4: See Brooks talking to me right now? Whatever I just said,

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Speaker 4: I don't even know so jeff like. Unfortunately, though, that

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Speaker 4: even the chillist of Brosy to the point they just

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Speaker 4: don't even try to attempt it anymore. Okay, but one

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Speaker 4: of our listeners found a sweet little hack where you

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Speaker 4: to each other, and women seem to really like it.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna hear how he was able to exchange digits,

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Speaker 4: get a date, zero word spoken in your brand new

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Speaker 5: Next brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates.

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Speaker 4: We've been seeing studies lately, and we've talked about this

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Speaker 4: anybody in person because I'm a shy boy. Shy boy

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Speaker 1: Actually Jeff's real personality as everyone knows, don't tell them.

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Speaker 4: Just like Jeff Goldbloom said in Jurassic Park, life finds away,

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Speaker 4: and so did our listener Connor, because in his email

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Speaker 4: to us, he said he's trying something new to meet

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Speaker 4: people more organically these days, and watching TikTok to find

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Speaker 2: I'm doing all right, brother, How you doing? Hey?

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Speaker 1: There's nothing more organic than following TikTok trends.

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Speaker 4: My friend, Hey, yeah, I am a little bit shy

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Speaker 4: just to talk to you and ask, but what did

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Speaker 4: you find on TikTok that helped your dating life?

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Speaker 2: I came across this trend where apparently these girls are

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Speaker 2: see a guy they like, they give them a bracelet.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait real quick, I'm picturing like the tailor friendship.

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Speaker 1: That's what, Yeah it is. Why do you know so quickly? TikTok.

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Speaker 4: I could see the merit in it because then you

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Speaker 4: and if this guy doesn't call you, then you're like, cool,

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Speaker 4: I just gave him a gift and he's got a

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Speaker 1: Free brace Yeah, he's totally gonna wear that way.

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Speaker 4: Connor, how did that help you?

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Speaker 2: I had this random thought, right, I was like, girls

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Speaker 1: Oh that's right, my friend, make your friendship bracelets.

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Speaker 4: Alright, so you you did some arts and crafts for yourself.

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Speaker 2: Actually, I got one of my lady friends to help

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Speaker 1: To streak some beads.

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, it feels like it would work better

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, a little kookie maybe, But is this something

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Speaker 1: I imagined him having the bracelets in his pocket and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like you always have them on deck, That's what

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Speaker 2: To be honest with you, this is new to me, right,

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, okay, So how many bracelets total did you

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Speaker 1: Okay, not too many, a lot. How many call backs

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Speaker 2: One of them just texting me back, said, unsubscribed.

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Speaker 4: That's funny, got a funny but yeah, that's.

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Speaker 1: That's funny, you know, with her friends doing it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, And so I'm assuming that's the girl that we're

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Speaker 2: No, no, not that.

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Speaker 1: He followed the rules. He really did, unsubscriber.

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Speaker 2: I hit it off with this girl named Ainsley.

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Speaker 4: Ainsley, Okay, I mean you've given out so many bracelets

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Speaker 2: To be honest, at first, I didn't.

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Speaker 4: Of faces, I'm guessing that's probably remember you. She's like

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Speaker 4: five guys gave me bracelets last week.

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Speaker 1: Was there a day, Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 2: We got some lunch.

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Speaker 4: You got lunch.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that makes sense, like random guy and hands bracelet.

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Speaker 4: What was it like meeting her a second time?

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Speaker 2: She was still wearing her bracelet. I guess that's a

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Speaker 2: good thing. Yeah. And I actually brought her matching homemade necklace.

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Speaker 4: It's kind of corny, but to match her bracelet. Okay.

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Speaker 4: And I'm assuming your lady friend helped you make that

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Speaker 1: I bet he figured it out by then. You just

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Speaker 1: need a longer string. That's all the necklace takes.

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Speaker 4: I've always got customer rings with their name onto.

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Speaker 1: I got the whole set you right on the necklace,

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Speaker 4: Security number on this one.

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Speaker 2: No, I just you know, I put a little note

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Speaker 4: Did she like the necklace because.

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Speaker 2: Apparently it reminded her of the show called Love Island.

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Speaker 1: Wow, but I don't know where this is the show.

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Speaker 4: I don't work all the gen Z things, Friendship, bracelets, Taylor,

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Speaker 1: Maybe she's just trying to make covers.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so you guys talked about Love Island.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you know what, I'm kind of a fan

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Speaker 1: It's like everyone's guilty pleasure.

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Speaker 4: I just saw a video of someone's boyfriend going nuts

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Speaker 2: But we hung out for over an hour and it's good.

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Speaker 1: That sounds good. I mean that's all inappropriate ending for

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Speaker 1: a lunch date, right, And have you talked at all?

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Speaker 2: She really does like likes my text or I see

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Speaker 4: You feel me, she's maybe saying the same thing because

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Speaker 4: I'm so glad I found a guy who's into it. Right,

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Speaker 4: let's call her and find out. Man, we're gonna come back.

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Speaker 4: We'll reach out to Ainslie for you.

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Speaker 1: Wait, what do we do, like, I don't I haven't

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Speaker 1: like we have to meet at the fire pets. Okay,

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Speaker 4: No, I'm gonna hop on Amazon. We're gonna order a

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Speaker 4: and do your second date update Love Island Style right

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Speaker 4: after this. Thank you, all right, man, hold.

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Speaker 5: On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates.

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Speaker 4: We just learned the hot new way to meet women,

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Speaker 4: and that's friendship bracelets with your phone number on the Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it's an idea our listener Connor found on TikTok,

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Speaker 4: where women are doing this to meet guys now, so

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Speaker 4: he thought, why can't a cool, confident man do it too?

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Speaker 1: It works, it works multiple times for.

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Speaker 4: Get sure did, and that's how he met Ainsley.

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Speaker 1: It's really cute.

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Speaker 4: The two of them met up for a date, talked

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Speaker 4: she hasn't been responding to him very much, and Connor

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Speaker 4: off of her Love Island. Connor, how you feeling, man?

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm good. I might still have some options.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you got wait, you got a backup plan? Then?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: No, I got, I got, I got a few other options.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, well we can call all of your options

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Speaker 4: when we're done with this first option, Ainsleys bracelets.

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Speaker 1: I got to know if you've got backup bracelets for

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Speaker 1: next week years this doesn't work out? Like, how many

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Speaker 1: extras did you make that you haven't been passed around?

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Speaker 2: Well? I don't think I needed much extras. I mean

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Speaker 2: I'm not a bad looking guy, all right?

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Speaker 1: With the confidence you say, like three out of twelve texas, well.

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Speaker 4: Still that's a high that's a high success rate for

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Speaker 4: a man. So let's keep that confidence going. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: dial in Lee's number right now. Hopefully she picks up.

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Speaker 2: Sounds good, All right, here we go.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with Ainsley.

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Speaker 6: This is her who's calling.

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Speaker 4: Uh, we're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 4: in the Morning. Offended that you don't recognize us by

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Speaker 4: our voices alone, makes sense?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, Like, what's going on? Did I win something?

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Speaker 4: No, you clearly haven't listened to the radio in a

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Speaker 4: very long time. We don't give away.

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Speaker 1: Anything, have no budget.

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Speaker 4: We may ask for money by the end of this.

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Speaker 4: Actually get your venmo ready. But what we're doing is

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Speaker 4: a segment here. It's called a second Date Update Okay, okay,

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Speaker 4: And that's something where we reach out to people who've

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Speaker 4: gone out with somebody before. That person is not calling

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Speaker 4: our listener back, and we're trying to figure out why.

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Speaker 6: Oh that's awkward.

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Speaker 4: Totally, which is why we put it on for entertainment purposes.

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Speaker 6: Perfect.

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Speaker 1: It could be fun though. It could be somebody that

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Speaker 1: you really like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and in this case, it's a guy named Connor.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I.

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Speaker 6: Think I think I would like to maybe go out

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Speaker 1: Oh, oh, you would easy. I feel like I feel

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Speaker 7: I mean, it's just that the thing is, like, there's

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Speaker 7: I'm trying to be fair and like figure out what's

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Speaker 7: going on because I like both.

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Speaker 4: Oh, okay, another person in the picture.

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Speaker 1: Okay, who's a competition? What are you working with here against?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 7: I mean he's a really nice guy. Listen, they're both

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Speaker 6: So that I can actually make a choice.

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Speaker 1: So you are going to call Connor back and go

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Speaker 4: Because Connor is the one who gave you a bracelet

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Speaker 4: if you remember.

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Speaker 6: I do remember. I still have it.

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Speaker 4: It was really yeah that the other guy didn't give

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Speaker 4: you any handmade jewelry, and no.

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Speaker 7: You're right, I don't have any other handmade Jory, and

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Speaker 4: That's a few points that Connor already has up.

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Speaker 7: On this other I like this That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 7: Like they're both really sweet, and it's like everybody can

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Speaker 7: be sweet on the first date, Like let's yeah, let's

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Speaker 7: see what this is like after a couple.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to burn a bridge.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but but you're burning a bridge right now by

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Speaker 1: not responding to him. All you're doing is liking his text.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, oh yeah.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I just don't want to lead anyone on,

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Speaker 7: the right way. So it's like, yes, I'm definitely still

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Speaker 7: interested in Connor, but I also don't want him to

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Speaker 1: I think you are going eighty steps ahead of yourself here.

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Speaker 1: You guys have had one lunch date. You know. I

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Speaker 1: think if you were just honest with him and told

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Speaker 1: him you liked him, would make Wouldn't that make you

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Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, why I'm willing to go out with him.

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Speaker 7: I mean, everything you're saying makes sense, So I guess

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Speaker 7: it'll make me think about this a little bit differently.

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Speaker 4: Well, I think Connor would feel very reassured if you

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Speaker 4: actually relayed that message to him, because he's in the

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Speaker 4: middle right now, unsure of where your head is at

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Speaker 4: voting for Connor.

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Speaker 3: Text.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's fair, oh texting your vote text Connor. Well,

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Speaker 4: I think there's a very good opportunity. I don't think

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Speaker 4: I don't think we need any of that, because there's

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Speaker 4: a good chance for you to tell him those feelings directly,

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Speaker 4: since he is already on the phone right now waiting

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Speaker 4: to speak with you.

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Speaker 6: Oh well, that's awkward.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Like I said, that's what we enjoy about this segment.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, Brook and Jeffrey Island. Connor, are you there?

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Speaker 4: Do you want to say hi to Ainsley?

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Speaker 2: I didn't know you were hanging out with somebody else,

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Speaker 2: but I guess that's cool.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Okay, So like it, Like it wouldn't bother you

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Speaker 7: if I'm kind of just seeing you both for a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if it bothers me, but I

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Speaker 2: think it's a little weird.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Like, what does that mean?

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Speaker 4: Connor? Don't blow this you You had a yes when

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Speaker 4: I was talking to her that she already wanted to

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Speaker 4: see you, but suddenly you came on. You say one

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Speaker 4: thing and it's flipped to and I don't know, stick

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Speaker 4: up for yourself.

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Speaker 1: No, wait, why are you being defended like I'm confused, Connor,

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Speaker 1: because you told us you had other options too. I mean,

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Speaker 1: isn't that what dating is?

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Speaker 2: Listen, don't tell her that. I mean that was between

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Speaker 2: you and me, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Birk, what are you doing? You're trying to submarine

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Speaker 4: him options?

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Speaker 1: She has options, he has. Everyone who's single happens. You

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Speaker 1: know what it is.

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Speaker 4: It's something that we all acknowledge, but we don't actually

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Speaker 4: talk about book. It's a secret.

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Speaker 1: Well that's the problem. It doesn't need to be a secret, Connor.

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Speaker 1: You don't need to like feign like you're upset about it.

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Speaker 1: You can't be said about it. If you're doing the same.

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Speaker 4: Thing, you don't have to have anybody tell you how

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Speaker 4: to feel about how to live your life. Connor, It's okay.

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Speaker 4: Just talk to AINSLEI.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I'm not upset about it, right, I'm just a

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Speaker 2: move with surprise. I thought you and me were really

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Speaker 2: trying to work this out. You just seem like a dope,

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Speaker 2: awesome person. I kind of feel like we're a good match.

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Speaker 7: That is so cute, Ainsley, Listen, Connor, I honestly, it's

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Speaker 7: really sweet, and I really do appreciate how genuine you are,

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Speaker 7: and you seem like a really good guy.

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Speaker 6: So I mean, yeah, I mean I do think we

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Speaker 6: could probably go out again. Yeah, just see what happens.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we're Connor, well done.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing to hear. I just kind of want to

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Speaker 2: be on the same page with you. So you're going

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Speaker 2: to pass on this next guy, right, because we're chilling,

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Speaker 2: we're getting to know each other, what you know. I'm

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Speaker 2: just trying to figure this out, right, So are you

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Speaker 2: saying you want to see me? Or are you want

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Speaker 2: to still see him? Or like what's going on?

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Speaker 6: Wow?

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Speaker 7: Okay, so like now you're giving off some pretty serious

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Speaker 7: jealous vibes. Then I'm really not into that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that that's the case. I mean, Connor,

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Speaker 1: you would be doing the same thing, right, like you

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Speaker 1: would be only.

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Speaker 2: Skin her, Like, yeah, that's exactly what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 2: I'm not seeing anybody.

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Speaker 7: You literally just said you had other options, Like, maybe

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Speaker 7: it's a better idea we don't go out.

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Speaker 1: Wait what again, Ainsley. Here's the thing, like, how do

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Speaker 1: you He's just saying, let's really actually try this instead

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Speaker 1: of not.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Connor, remind her of the good times that you

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Speaker 4: two had together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we bonded over Love Island, I gave you the

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Speaker 2: friendship bracelet and in this netlist.

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Speaker 6: Yeah okay, I did like that. Maybe maybe we should

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Speaker 6: hang out then?

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Speaker 4: Okay, well it's at this point I cautioned Connor to

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Speaker 4: not say any other words whatsoever, because anything that you

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Speaker 4: say could have a detrimental impact on Ainsley's decision here

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Speaker 4: for a second date.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they should just go to a movie so they

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just gonna officially ask now, now that she

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Speaker 4: seems to be on board again, Connor, you still cool

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Speaker 4: with this? Do you want to hang out with Ainsley?

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Speaker 2: Honestly?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I don't know, Connor, dude, all you have. All

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Speaker 4: you had to say is yes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you know, but I I just don't know if

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Speaker 2: we should.

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Speaker 1: This is why just make a choice.

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Speaker 4: So now, Connor, you don't want to go out with Oh.

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Speaker 2: My god, Okay, listen, I really thought I liked you.

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Speaker 2: I thought you liked me with other guys, that's that's cool,

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Speaker 2: that's fine. But listen, I do have another girl, okay,

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Speaker 2: and I think she's a little more sure about what

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Speaker 4: You guys just sleep around that we've come to an agreement.

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Speaker 4: They both have other options that they want to explore first,

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Speaker 4: and if those don't work out, they'll come back to

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Speaker 1: This is why people give up on so Ainsley.

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Speaker 4: It looks like officially it's a no and a yes

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Speaker 6: So, yeah, this was a lot.

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Speaker 7: Thanks for calling and ruiney my day a little bit,

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Speaker 7: I get.

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Speaker 1: But we also made it better at the same time, right, yeah,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, at least I know Connor is no longer an option,

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Speaker 6: are you.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, Connor, we're hanging up and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 5: the morning, Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: That was so frustrating to be a part of. I'm

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Speaker 4: so glad it's over.

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Speaker 1: It's awful.

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Speaker 4: And I thought Brooke brought up a really good point

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Speaker 4: wants to commit to anything at all anymore.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I get it. It's like going to a

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Speaker 1: restaurant like the Cheesecake Factory, and the menu's too big

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Speaker 1: and you can never make up your mind. Yes, many

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Speaker 4: You just got to come back once every day, get

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Speaker 4: one thing off the menu too, you've gone through the

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Speaker 1: You just stick to the one thing you like.

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Speaker 4: Maybe, Yeah, it is. It's funny that these two were

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Speaker 4: their options and waffling back and forth, except in the

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Speaker 4: end they voted each other off. So yeah, the good

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Speaker 4: news is, we don't vote anybody off the Brook and

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Speaker 4: Jeffrey Island. Just go to our podcast, have a drink,

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Speaker 4: stay awhile, take your pants off. Listen to all of

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Speaker 4: our second dates online wherever you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 1: I bet a lot of people do have their pants off.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and we support that. Okay, you find them online

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Speaker 4: at Brook and Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 5: In the morning.

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Speaker 4: When you go out to dinner, it's okay to make

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Speaker 4: certain requests from the restaurant, Okay, reasonable ones like asking

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Speaker 4: if your salad dressing can be on the side, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 4: your eye life. No, nobody wants to see uggos while

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Speaker 4: you're eating your lobster tack.

443
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Speaker 1: Why they always put me.

444
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Speaker 4: By the bathroom, like, oh, really pretty section through this door.

445
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Speaker 4: Wait a minute, but one of our listeners made a

446
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Speaker 4: different kind of request from his server after they got

447
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Speaker 4: to dinner, and a lot of people in this room

448
00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:16,080
Speaker 4: thought it crossed the line a lot of the people

449
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Speaker 4: who would be seated in the section. But the restaurant

450
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Speaker 4: did grant his request, and you'll hear it see if

451
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Speaker 4: you agree in your second date update.

452
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Speaker 5: Next Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second date Updates.

453
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Speaker 4: Isn't it annoying when you're on the dating apps and

454
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Speaker 4: you match with somebody and you can just talk to

455
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Speaker 4: them right away.

456
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Speaker 1: What isn't that what you want to know?

457
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Speaker 4: It never happened, Thank you. I want to work for it.

458
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Speaker 4: That's why I'm glad. On Bumble they added multiple steps

459
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Speaker 4: in hoops you have to jump through first, where if

460
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Speaker 4: you're a guy and you match with a girl first,

461
00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:56,120
Speaker 4: the woman sends you a prompt question that the guy

462
00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:59,400
Speaker 4: has to answer, and if she doesn't like your response

463
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Speaker 4: to that, you could just ditch you right away without

464
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Speaker 4: ever speaking a word.

465
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Speaker 1: Do you I feel like you have to fill out

466
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Speaker 1: full essay questions like you're back in high school English

467
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Speaker 1: class all over again to get a date.

468
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Speaker 4: We're not there yet, but I hope it gets to

469
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Speaker 4: that person.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, because I love writing essays' thesis. See, if she

471
00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,680
Speaker 8: does like your answer, then she can approve and give

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Speaker 8: the green light to actually message her.

473
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Speaker 4: So if you get that prompt, then you're halfway there.

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Speaker 4: And one of our listeners apparently got it recently. His

475
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Speaker 4: name is Card with a K. So Card, congratulations. You

476
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Speaker 4: got to answer a pre selected question. That must feel

477
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Speaker 4: pretty good.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, you did it, buddy.

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Speaker 1: Is it too much details to know what her pre

480
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Speaker 1: selected question was about? Yeah?

481
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Speaker 4: What was the question?

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Speaker 9: So it was what's the best piece of advice you've

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Speaker 9: ever received?

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Speaker 1: Oh gosh, Oh for sure, she was going to ask

485
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Speaker 1: for your favorite pizza topic. That's what I would.

486
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Speaker 4: It is tricky how you answer that, because if you're

487
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Speaker 4: just sincere without being fun, then you're gonna look very

488
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 4: boring and stiff. Yeah, But at the same time, if

489
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Speaker 4: you're too fun and too silly. Then it seems like

490
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Speaker 4: you're not taking this serious. You're not get a call back.

491
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Speaker 1: I would take my grandmother's vice, live and learn, die

492
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Speaker 1: and forget it.

493
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Speaker 4: All boring, okay, get boring and a little bit morbid.

494
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Speaker 4: If a card, what did you answer to the prompt?

495
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Speaker 4: What's the best advice you ever got?

496
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Speaker 9: So? I really thought about it, and I came up

497
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Speaker 9: with three options because this girl is really cute and

498
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Speaker 9: I didn't want to blow it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, that's good.

500
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Speaker 1: What'd you do?

501
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Speaker 4: Give us the other two before you tell us the winner?

502
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Speaker 1: We're going deep.

503
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Speaker 4: I want to know what the three options are so

504
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Speaker 4: we can make sure you chose.

505
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Speaker 1: So we're just writing down life advice for yourself. Is

506
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Speaker 1: that what you're doing?

507
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Speaker 4: We might all here there.

508
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Speaker 9: My runner up put the cart back. People are watching.

509
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Speaker 1: That's pretty good.

510
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:58,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay.

511
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Speaker 9: My next one was always be yourself unless you can

512
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Speaker 9: be Beyonce.

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Speaker 1: That's definitely what it was like people put on.

514
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Speaker 4: You didn't like that one?

515
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Speaker 9: No, I was like, maybe that's too silly and not

516
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Speaker 9: answering it, so I wasn't sure.

517
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Speaker 1: Okay, so what was the winner?

518
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Speaker 4: Yeah?

519
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 9: So the one I went with was never date someone

520
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Speaker 9: who claps when the plane lands.

521
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Speaker 1: I think she must have liked it, right, kay?

522
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Speaker 9: She said she was going to update her profile and

523
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 9: put it on hers and she did.

524
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Speaker 8: Oh bro, that's extra, that's like personalizing her own.

525
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Speaker 9: Thing for I was flattered. But the best part was,

526
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Speaker 9: you know, it led to a date.

527
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Speaker 4: So there you go. Okay, you made it over all

528
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 4: the hurdles, through the obstacles and you got actual meet

529
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Speaker 4: up with her. What did you do for your date?

530
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Speaker 1: I was going to clap right there.

531
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Speaker 4: Oh well, he's not going to talk to you if

532
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 4: you did that, bro, What did you do for your date?

533
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 1: Well?

534
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 9: Because of things beyond my control, I couldn't e until

535
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Speaker 9: super late, so I booked as a dinner reservation at

536
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Speaker 9: nine point thirty nine thirty. She initially asked if I

537
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Speaker 9: could go earlier, but I told her I couldn't. But

538
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Speaker 9: I really wanted to buy her dinner and spend time

539
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Speaker 9: with her and that one or over.

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Speaker 4: Okay, oh okay, Yeah it went well.

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Speaker 9: We were there for a long time past midnight.

542
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Speaker 4: Oh wow, whoa You must have really clicked for two

543
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Speaker 4: and a half hours at dinner. What time does the

544
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Speaker 4: restaurant even close? That's a long dinner. It's really long.

545
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Speaker 9: It was supposed to close at eleven, but we asked

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Speaker 9: if we could hang there while they like shut stuff down,

547
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Speaker 9: and they let us.

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Speaker 4: That's actually like, that's actually a rude fit.

549
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Speaker 1: It's so bad.

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Speaker 4: I thought I would take that as a compliment if

551
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Speaker 4: I worked in the restaurant, to be like, well, they

552
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Speaker 4: love us so much they want to stick around beyond sure,

553
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Speaker 4: I stay here for you.

554
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Speaker 1: Oh goodness.

555
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Speaker 9: I don't think they were too bothered by it, because

556
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Speaker 9: they still had the clean up and stuff, and.

557
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Speaker 4: They're rolling silverware, they're sweeping.

558
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Speaker 1: You haven't worked any you better have tipped?

559
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Speaker 9: Well, yeah, of course I did.

560
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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, restaurant aside, like, it sounds like it was

561
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Speaker 1: going great with her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah you know, so how did the night end?

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Speaker 9: It was a good night. I walked her to her

564
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Speaker 9: car because we drove separately, and it was a quick kiss,

565
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Speaker 9: not a long one.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, So.

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Speaker 9: I'm seeing if I can take her out again. I

568
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Speaker 9: even joked over text that we could do a normal time.

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Speaker 4: I'll put it up to eight thirty.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, but not responding, so she's just not responded.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's interesting. I mean it seems like she was

572
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Speaker 1: so invested. Just all of the hoops you had to

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Speaker 1: jump through to even get the date. It feels like

574
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Speaker 1: she would have been all in.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I would think, but no dice, no dice.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, don't sound so dejected on the phone right now, Car.

577
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Speaker 4: We haven't even called her and got the answer. There

578
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Speaker 4: might be a total misunderstanding here.

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Speaker 9: That's what I'm worried about. When you guys call people

580
00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 9: normally doesn't go well.

581
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: We're always the last resort, you know, and.

582
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Speaker 4: Really air the craziest, worst one. So don't worry. Is

583
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:09,640
Speaker 4: this hits the air actually a bad thing? Yeah, this

584
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,959
Speaker 4: is star boring. We never even put it on our

585
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 4: actual show. That's the goal. We'll see what happens when

586
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 4: we call Amy. We're gonna come back and try and

587
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Speaker 4: get you a second date update super boring edition right

588
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Speaker 4: after this.

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Speaker 5: Okay, hold on man Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Second date update.

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Speaker 4: In the story of Cinderella, you know her date with

592
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 4: the Prince is going well because she stays out with

593
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Speaker 4: him till midnight. Yeah, not's not a girl. But in

594
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Speaker 4: this situation, our listener card with a K took his

595
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 4: date Amy to a late dinner and they stayed past midnight.

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Speaker 1: Despite the restaurant being closed.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, U on a date, you're like dancing? Yeah yeah,

598
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 4: but it is a good sign that they were out

599
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 4: together for so long. Now, is it possible her date

600
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 4: accidentally left her glass stiletto behind and ended up bibbity

601
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 4: bopping the waiter?

602
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 8: That's how alec azooa mecha.

603
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 2: I get it.

604
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 1: We don't change things what happened.

605
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,160
Speaker 4: But no matter what, I am interested to hear how

606
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 4: this modern day fairy tale ends. We're gonna find out.

607
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 4: I mean, maybe we could just ask Card, Card, did

608
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 4: you have a hot waiter?

609
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 9: H not exceptionally?

610
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 4: All right, Okay, that's good. That is good.

611
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: You start intimidated by whoever your staff was.

612
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 4: Was a pumpkin?

613
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: That's a good question.

614
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 4: He said that they drove separately. I didn't need an answer. No,

615
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:56,719
Speaker 4: it's not. We're checking off. Okay. Let's just call this

616
00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 4: lovely lady Amy. Okay, and hopefully she picks up and

617
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 4: we get some answers out of her. You ready to

618
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 4: do this? I was saying that to myself. I'm ready.

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Speaker 4: Let's do it. Jeff, here we go. Hello, Hey, is

620
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Speaker 4: this Amy? Yeah, Hey, this is a radio show called

621
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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi, Amy By Wait

622
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,919
Speaker 4: what do you mean? Yeah, radio still exists. I know

623
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 4: it's shocking, but we do a show. It's called Brook

624
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 4: and Jeffrey. I think I already said that. And uh,

625
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,439
Speaker 4: this is a segment called second Date Update.

626
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm not shilling groups, but why are you

627
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 3: calling me a great question?

628
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's part of that segment, the second Date thing,

629
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Speaker 4: cause we're trying to help out one of our listeners

630
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Speaker 4: that you went out with recently, a guy named Card.

631
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Speaker 6: Oh my god, what.

632
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 9: K a Card?

633
00:28:58,160 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: Did I just hear you go in?

634
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 3: Yeah?

635
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 6: All right, that's my honest reaction.

636
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh well it's okay interesting.

637
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,719
Speaker 4: If you feel that way, that's fine. It's just Card

638
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 4: has reached out to our show because he's a little

639
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 4: bit confused. Why after your date you're not responding to

640
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 4: any of his texts or messages?

641
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 3: Okay, oh you're laughing.

642
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 1: Does that mean you think he should know?

643
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, sure, okay, let's go.

644
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll just tell you a few things that we

645
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 4: know about your date is that it started pretty late.

646
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 4: You were at a restaurant for like two and a

647
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 4: half hours till like way past it even closed. He

648
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 4: felt like the vibes were pretty good.

649
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: So we wait. There was even a cute little kiss,

650
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: he said at the end, Yeah, a.

651
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 4: Little quick one.

652
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, okay, is that all accurate?

653
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 9: Yes?

654
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 6: Those are well?

655
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 1: Okay, so where did it go wrong?

656
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 4: Yeah? Well maybe just tell us how did you feel

657
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 4: about the date?

658
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 6: Okay?

659
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 3: Well, first of all, we get there at nine point thirty.

660
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Speaker 3: I'm hungry. I've been waiting to eat, you know.

661
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh you didn't have free dinner.

662
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 3: I mean I had, but I was fully expecting to

663
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 3: eat when we got there, totally. The waiter kept coming

664
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Speaker 3: over to take our order, and he kept telling him

665
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 3: we weren't ready yet, and I'm like, visibly hungry.

666
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Speaker 1: You're you're hungry?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, So we didn't actually even get our food

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Speaker 3: till like ten thirty.

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Speaker 1: What Oh my god, I wouldn't even be able to

670
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Speaker 1: see straight if I was just sitting at that table. Yeah.

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00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, now around eleven, where are the last ones in

672
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Speaker 3: the restaurant? And I'm like, it is time that Okay.

673
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 3: So I I used to work in a restaurant, okay,

674
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 3: I have been a server and it is absolutely mortifyingly

675
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Speaker 3: embarrassing to me. If I'm with somebody who does not

676
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Speaker 3: respect the fact that these people have their own lives,

677
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Speaker 3: we need to go home.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, okay, Amy, We totally sympathized with that.

679
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Speaker 4: That was not made clear to us from what we

680
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 4: heard from Card. He felt like you were okay with

681
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 4: staying later, and it was almost like the vibe was

682
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 4: so good. The date just kept going and going.

683
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Speaker 9: He said, it was good.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

685
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 3: When people are asking you to leave the restaurant.

686
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Speaker 4: Oh, because it's such a romantic scene. They're like, oh,

687
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Speaker 4: I can't look at this beautiful couple and the chef

688
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Speaker 4: divorce and he's a yeah.

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Speaker 1: Saying the way, it sounds like Card is maybe not

690
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Speaker 1: very good at reading the room.

691
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 3: He kept going, I looked beyond Beyonce. It looked beyond Beyonce. Oh,

692
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 3: if you stay on beyond one more time.

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Speaker 6: I swear that in.

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Speaker 4: His defense, though maybe he just liked you spend more

695
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Speaker 4: time with you.

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Speaker 3: Now, there's something weird about it, because around like eleven

697
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 3: fifty five, they finally were like you have to leave,

698
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 3: and no uncertain terms. They weren't trying to be nice

699
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 3: about it anymore. And this man looks at the server

700
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 3: and looks at the bill, and he goes, I'm so

701
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 3: looking over the bill.

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00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 8: Financially responsible man, No way when I tell you I

703
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 8: wanted to die.

704
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 3: So at the midnight we finally left, and it just

705
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 3: seems really weird because we could have gone to another place.

706
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 4: Okay, it sounds like it sounds like you have a

707
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 4: lot of questions about why he was doing this and

708
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 4: what was going on. The good news is we could

709
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 4: just ask him directly because card is, on the other

710
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 4: hand right now wanting to talk to you, very patient

711
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,719
Speaker 4: if you can't still have the car.

712
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Speaker 6: Are you hearing?

713
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Speaker 9: But is it a bad thing that I liked the.

714
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: Turn music off of the lights on? Okay?

715
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Speaker 3: You know what, I'm sorry. If I'd known that you

716
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 3: were listening this whole time, I probably would have been

717
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 3: a little nicer, But you know what, they were closing

718
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 3: and you wouldn't leave, and it was weird and I was.

719
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 9: Young one to stay there and enjoy it with you.

720
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Speaker 4: I know, where's the os from the room? Okay.

721
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 3: They brought us the bill before eleven, and you kept

722
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 3: insisting on waiting more and more, and they were very

723
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 3: clear they needed and you just you just kept finding

724
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 3: reasons to I mean, what was going on? Because it

725
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 3: was really I don't know, it was really strange.

726
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, Amy, I think you've said your your piece,

727
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 4: so Car do you have anything that you want to

728
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 4: say to Amy in response to that? And I was a.

729
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 9: Little low on funds. The cell phone company I worked

730
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 9: for doesn't pay me till midnight on Friday. I used

731
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 9: my debit card for the meal, and I wouldn't have

732
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 9: gone through if I had paid earlier.

733
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 4: Look, you feel bad for that you didn't have money,

734
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 4: he needed a way to take her out.

735
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 3: I don't feel bad.

736
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 4: That's the dumbest I've ever heard you talking about.

737
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 3: Why didn't you just schedule it for later date?

738
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 1: What is wrong?

739
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 3: What?

740
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 4: I'm okay? You didn't have the money in your account

741
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 4: to pay the bill, so you're trying to stall until I.

742
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 1: Know, right when our patick comes through to feel okay?

743
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,720
Speaker 4: But like, well, okay, we understand that if you're paying

744
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,879
Speaker 4: like directly out of your account with a debit card,

745
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 4: but like, why don't you do it on a credit

746
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 4: card and then pay it later?

747
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 9: I don't have a credit card.

748
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:31,879
Speaker 4: You don't have a credit card.

749
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,959
Speaker 9: No, I don't trust myself carry one.

750
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:36,759
Speaker 2: That's good, I.

751
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 4: Honestly, but they pre approve you for credit cards.

752
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 1: Even that is such a privileged thing. You know you're

753
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 1: doing right. That's a good financial choice, right, Amy, I

754
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 1: mean that's responsible, girl.

755
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 4: Card. You're not really saying a lot here. Is there

756
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:03,799
Speaker 4: any defense you want to make or anything you want

757
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 4: to say to Amy?

758
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 9: I mean, what else can I say? I told you

759
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 9: guys what the deal was. I just tried to fall

760
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 9: a little bit. I mean, at this point, I feel

761
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,320
Speaker 9: like it set as Cinderella. I got one of the

762
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 9: wicked step Sisters.

763
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't come at her.

764
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:22,759
Speaker 4: You know the Stepsisters are freaky though, Oh yeah they Okay.

765
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 1: I feel like Amy, you should give him another chance.

766
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:29,320
Speaker 1: I've always dated low fund guys at least, and if Brooke.

767
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 4: Is willing to give a break to a poor man,

768
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 4: then you should be willing to do it too. That's

769
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 4: very out of character for her. So what do you think, Amy?

770
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 4: One more chance? And look, we'll take all the credit

771
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 4: cards off the table, will pay for.

772
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 2: The date.

773
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 1: Us girl Card needs to eat. You need to say

774
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: yes to.

775
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:51,880
Speaker 3: This, Amy, all right, Listen between the lack of considerations.

776
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 6: For the wait Josh, that not just think.

777
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 3: And the bad and the note these red flags just waving.

778
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 4: Man.

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00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 3: No, I thank you very much, guys, but no, thank you.

780
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 4: Oh I thought she was leading to it yes week.

781
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,919
Speaker 1: I thought, okay, I thought she was going to run

782
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:11,799
Speaker 1: past the red flag.

783
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 4: All right, well, all right, that gives you.

784
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: Something to work towards, you know, like a little more

785
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:17,800
Speaker 1: financial stability.

786
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 9: I touched a bullet. I'm glad.

787
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Speaker 5: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

788
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Speaker 4: Brook, What I mean, come on, I know you felt

789
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:32,919
Speaker 4: sorry for the guy.

790
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:34,720
Speaker 1: I felt terrible for him.

791
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 4: But be honest with yourself. There is no way you

792
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 4: would go on a date with the guy who is

793
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 4: so bad with money he doesn't even trust himself with

794
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 4: a credit card.

795
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: Oh yes, absolutely I would. I had a first date

796
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,879
Speaker 1: with a boyfriend who we would do a burger joint

797
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: because he had a free burger coupon.

798
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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm not talking about your free and easy early

799
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 4: twenties where you would tip the grocery baggers with a

800
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 4: new oolaroid. Yeah, I mean, these are adults looking.

801
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 1: At you look so cute in filorides.

802
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 4: It's just that I know that the perfect lighting in

803
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 4: those But remember, these are adults looking to lock down

804
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 4: a healthy relationship with a stable guy.

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Speaker 1: Dude, A guy who is willing to not get a

806
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,919
Speaker 1: credit card to avoid going into debt is a stable guy,

807
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: and I really absolutely I stand by that.

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00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 4: I thought Alexis had a good point where this guy

809
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:31,839
Speaker 4: would thro all this trouble because he still wanted to pay. Said, hey,

810
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 4: have you just loan this I can venmo you in

811
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 4: two hours. He's like, no, yes, I want to bring

812
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 4: us down both into debt and then you can help

813
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 4: pay us out of it. Sorry, I forgot what romance

814
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 4: looks like.

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Speaker 1: They said, the guy has never dealt with overdraft fees.

816
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Speaker 4: I don't know. We can agree to disagree on this one.

817
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 4: You've gotten under draft fees. Yeah, I have too much

818
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 4: money in that account. It is a burden, but you

819
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 4: know what, we weren't able to make it work for

820
00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:00,359
Speaker 4: a card. But doesn't mean we can't help you out.

821
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 4: You can always email the show. We'll call that person

822
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 4: who's not calling you back, and go check out all

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