1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting and more, 3 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:11,480 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVIFM dot com by 4 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: clicking submit Strawberry Letter, and we could be reading your 5 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, could be yours. 7 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 2: Never know, you never know, Buckele loven hold on type 8 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry. 9 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: Letter, thanking of your subject. There's something he needs to know, 10 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm engaged to a man that has 11 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: four boys by four different women, and I'm pregnant by 12 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 1: him right now. He would like for me to have 13 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: at least three more children because he came from a 14 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: family of eight children. What he doesn't know is I 15 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:50,599 Speaker 1: already have two more children. I have eighteen year old 16 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: fraternal twins that were raised by my older sister. The 17 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: girls are a big part of my life and my 18 00:00:56,960 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: fiance loves them. The only problem is that he thinks 19 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: they're my nieces. I had a long talk with the 20 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:05,479 Speaker 1: girls when they were adolescents, and I let them know 21 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,759 Speaker 1: I was their mother. And I was only sixteen when 22 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: I had them. The girls were understanding and appreciative for 23 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: me giving them to my sister and not putting them 24 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: up for adoption. When I met the man that I'm 25 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:21,199 Speaker 1: planning to marry, they asked me not to tell him 26 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: our big family secret, so I didn't. My mother also 27 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: advised me not to tell our business to a man 28 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 1: that may or may not be around long. When my 29 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: fiance and I started getting serious, I circled back to 30 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: my girls and told them they might be getting a stepdaddy. 31 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 1: This made them furious and they stopped talking to me 32 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: after they told me that he would never be their 33 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: stepdaddy because I'm not really their mom. I had to 34 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: accept how they felt, but it hurt, like heck, I'm 35 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: the auntie and that's that. My mom is still telling 36 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: me not to tell my fiance that I have twins 37 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: because he has a slew of baby mamas to deal with. 38 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: I don't see what one thing has to do with 39 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: the other, and I think that my man needs to 40 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: know this. This is my secret to tell, and the 41 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: twins will have to understand. My fiance would never judge me, 42 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: despite what my mom says. After four years of dating. 43 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: Will my fiance be hurt that I'm just now telling 44 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: him that I have twins? What should I do? Okay, 45 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: there's a little something I don't understand about this letter. 46 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: I think there's something you left out because I don't 47 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: know why the kids would be mad now. I mean, yes, 48 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: there are certainly things you should take to your grave, 49 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: but I don't think kids fall into that category. And anyway, 50 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 1: your daughters knew you might marry this man. We know 51 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: you left the fact that you had two grown twins out. 52 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: The question is why why would you keep your kids 53 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,679 Speaker 1: a secret from your man all this time? You guys 54 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: have been together for four years. I mean, didn't you 55 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: know he would find out eventually? You know all about 56 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: his kids, you know all about his baby mamas, I'm sure, 57 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 1: and you seem to be okay with it. Plus you're 58 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: pregnant right now and considering having a few more kids 59 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: like three, right. Didn't you say the twins were a 60 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: big part of your life and your fiance loves them, 61 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 1: So why won't you tell him if you're concerned that 62 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 1: he might judge you? He certainly is in no position 63 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: to judge. He's not He's got a lot of kids, 64 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: a lot of baby mamas, so I'm sure he can 65 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: take it. The main reason to tell him is so 66 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 1: he won't find out from anyone else. If you guys 67 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 1: are planning on getting married and everything, your whole family 68 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: knows you have nothing to be ashamed of. You did 69 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 1: what you had to do when you were sixteen, and 70 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 1: your twins thank you for not giving them up for adoption. 71 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: I'm not sure why they're so mad right now, but 72 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: that shouldn't stop you from telling your fiance, Steve. 73 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 3: I'm trying to make sense of it, and I can't. 74 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 3: There's something he needs to know, really, now this lady's 75 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 3: engaged to him. Man has got faux boys by full 76 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 3: different women. I'm pregnant by him now, you woman number five. 77 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 3: He would like for me to have at least three 78 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 3: more children because he came from a family of eight children. 79 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 3: See the reasoning for why these all these people make decisions. 80 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 2: Be a little off to me. So he got four. 81 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 3: Boys by four different women. You pregnant now, that's number five. 82 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 3: He wants you to have three more because he come 83 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 3: from a family of eight. The hell that got to 84 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 3: do with y'all? So damn what you came from a 85 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 3: family of eight. You don't saw a TV show eight 86 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 3: is enough. They didn't do that show twice. I'm telling 87 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 3: you right now, I got something. I mean, don't go, 88 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 3: don't come over here. This ain't what you want. This 89 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 3: ain't what you want. Your phone rang. 90 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 2: All the damn time. 91 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,599 Speaker 3: Everybody got what the problem you and you started to 92 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 3: look like the solution. And you got an eighteen year 93 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 3: old fraternal twins that were raised by my older sisters. 94 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 3: The girls are a big part of my life, and 95 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 3: my fiance loves them. 96 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 2: Okay, but then you say the only problem is he 97 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 2: thinks they my nieces. I be damn, I be damn. 98 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 3: So I'm trying to figure out why you didn't tell 99 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 3: him those were your children. Well you ready for this reason. 100 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 3: I had a long talk with the girls when they 101 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 3: were adolescent. Hell, they still adding lessons, ain't they eighteen eighteen? 102 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 2: Now? I don't want to. 103 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 3: I guess that's something else. I had long talk when 104 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 3: they were adolescent. I let them know I was their 105 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 3: mother and I was only sixteen when I had them. Okay, 106 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 3: sixteen or eighteen. This woman thirty four years old, right, Okay, 107 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 3: so that makes her thirty four, and the girls were 108 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,599 Speaker 3: understanding and appreciative from me, from giving them to my sister, 109 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 3: not putting them up for adoption. Ooh boy, we could 110 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 3: have been at foster care, all kinds of stuff. Mom, 111 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:12,159 Speaker 3: she'll appreciate that. 112 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 2: Well. 113 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 3: When I met the man that I'm planning to marry, 114 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 3: they asked me not to tell. 115 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 2: Him my big family secret, so I didn't. 116 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 3: Why why Now you met the man. 117 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: How many years ago? 118 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: Four years? 119 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 2: Four years ago? So four years ago? 120 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 3: They were fourteen, and they asked you to keep their 121 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 3: big secret, and you did for what? 122 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 2: Don't get it? All right? 123 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, we'll have part two of your strawberry letter, 124 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 1: responds at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's subject, 125 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: there's something he needs to know. We'll get back into 126 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening hard morning show. All right, 127 00:06:56,560 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. There's something 128 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: he needs to know. 129 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 3: This letter is just one massive piece of confusion by 130 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 3: people making decisions based on all of the wrong facts. 131 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 3: You're dating a man that you've been with for four years, 132 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 3: who has four boys by four different women. You are 133 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 3: now pregnant with this man's child, which is gonna make 134 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 3: you woman number five. He wants you to have three 135 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 3: more children that'll make a total of eight. Guess why 136 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 3: because he grew up in a family of eight children 137 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 3: and he want a big family too. 138 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 2: What is your ordering up more kids? You ain't even married. 139 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 3: Okay, then you got eighteen year old fraternal twins that 140 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 3: were raised by your older sister. The girls are a 141 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 3: big part of my life and my fiance loves them. Okay, 142 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 3: sounds like a happy story so far, but then she say, 143 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 3: the only problem is he thinks they my nieces. I 144 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 3: had a long talk with the girls when they were adolescents, 145 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 3: and I let them know I was their mother when 146 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 3: I was only having them as their mother when I 147 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 3: was sixteen. And the girls will understand and appreciative of me, 148 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 3: not giving forgiving them to my sister, not putting them 149 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 3: up for adoption. For when I met the man that 150 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 3: I'm playing in the marriage, they asked me not to 151 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 3: tell him my big family secrets. So I didn't. Why 152 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 3: why you're planning on marrying the man but you're not. 153 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 3: You're gonna keep him in the dark. How many secrets 154 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 3: do you need? Because now you got secrets that, don't 155 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 3: you know? 156 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 2: And I'm all fussy and life. 157 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 3: I ain't got no problem with a secret or lies. 158 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 3: I ain't got no problem. I have no problem with it. 159 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 3: But damn, all of my secrets and lies are unessssariate 160 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 3: for the overall wealthying and happiness of everybody I touch. 161 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 3: Everybody don't need to know everything. But this was not 162 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 3: one of those things. Then she said, my mother also 163 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 3: advised me not to tell our business to a man 164 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 3: that may or may not be around long. Well, now 165 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 3: y'all talking about getting married, so you planned on being 166 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 3: around a long time. 167 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 2: Let me stop you right here. What do your mama 168 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:06,080 Speaker 2: have to do with this? 169 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 3: First of all, you let some kids tell you not 170 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 3: to tell the family secret. 171 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 2: Now your mama done jumped in? What does she got 172 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 2: to do with this? 173 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 3: When my fiance and I started getting serious, I circle 174 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 3: back to my girls and told them they might be 175 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 3: getting a stepdaddy. This made them furious and they stopped 176 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 3: talking to me. Why y'all got a really dysfunctional bunch 177 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 3: over here. Ain't nobody happy for nobody else? 178 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 2: In your dad friend? You didn't want the girls, You 179 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 2: gave it to your sister. 180 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 3: They was appreciative of it because they wasn't even foster 181 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 3: care and got put up for adoption. The great thing 182 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 3: your sister did and all this help. Now they have 183 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 3: a great relationship with stable family home. Now they don't 184 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 3: want you to get married. They mad because you finn 185 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:59,319 Speaker 3: to be happy they and this made them furious and 186 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 3: they stopped talking talking to me. You got some stupid 187 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 3: ass kids, and you listening to it. You listening to 188 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 3: a bunch of dumb ass kids. But it don't stop there. 189 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 3: Then they told me that they would never be he 190 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 3: would never be their stepdaddy because I'm not really they mom, 191 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:22,079 Speaker 3: you little ungrateful help. You know a minute ago you 192 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 3: thinking now you're telling me I'm really not your mom. Well, 193 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 3: I had you and made you. It wasn't for me, 194 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:30,199 Speaker 3: you wouldn't be here. Then I had to accept how 195 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 3: they felt, but it hurt, like heck, I am the 196 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 3: auntie and that's that now your mom. But you really 197 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 3: the mama though, But now your mama is still telling 198 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 3: me not to tell my fiance that I have twins 199 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 3: because he has a slewer baby mamas to deal with. 200 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 3: So you still gonna have the baby mamas to deal with. 201 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 3: He finn to be your baby daddy in a minute. 202 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 3: What difference do it make? Y'all keep acting like can't 203 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 3: nobody else take no more? Now you're gonna keep another 204 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 3: damn secret. I don't see what one thing has to 205 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 3: do with the other. And I think that my man 206 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 3: needs to notice he does. This is my secret to 207 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:12,719 Speaker 3: tell Let me tell you home one more time. How 208 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 3: many secrets do you need? And now I'm finna tain 209 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 3: you the whole problem with this letter. And this is 210 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 3: my secret to and the twins will have to understand 211 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 3: so what they ain't speaking to you? 212 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 2: And you know it kills me when my kids got 213 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 2: nerved and I speak to me. 214 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:32,199 Speaker 3: Your raggedy ass wouldn't have nothing without me, Your raggedy 215 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 3: ass sitting up here talking about you, mad at me? 216 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:39,199 Speaker 3: You mad at me? Gave you everything I could. You 217 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 3: don't even know. But see, I'll be telling them all 218 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 3: the time. 219 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 2: What do you have kids? You gonna see, you gonna see, 220 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 2: stupid ass. 221 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 3: My fiance would never judge me, despite what my mom says. 222 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 3: After four years a day, will my fiance be hurt 223 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 3: that I'm now telling him that I have twins? Hell, 224 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 3: you ain't gonna be hurt. He gonna be shocked. He 225 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 3: don't want to know why you are. Ain't tell him 226 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 3: in the beginning. Y'all, y'all won't face the monster. But 227 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 3: the monster ain't that big. What should I do? You 228 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 3: should tell this man the damn truth. You can't go 229 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 3: into this marriage and don't tell this man that. And 230 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 3: then let me tell you what's really wrong with you. 231 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 3: You need a lot of permission from a lot of 232 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 3: people to do you. Your mama don't know. Your damn 233 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 3: kids don't know. You're done lied about them being your kids. 234 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 3: You got the man thinking they're your nieces. He love 235 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 3: them anyway. Why would he stop loving them if he 236 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 3: know they your nieces or your children? 237 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 2: What kind of man is this? Lady? 238 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:39,079 Speaker 3: You need to just start out and that this is 239 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 3: gonna bother me to say this. You need to start. 240 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 2: Telling the truth what I be. I can't believe I 241 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:54,320 Speaker 2: said hold a line. Your ass needs to start telling 242 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,560 Speaker 2: the truth. Your ass don't even know how that. 243 00:12:59,440 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 3: What up? 244 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 1: I don't believe what I just heard. 245 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 2: Leave your comments on. 246 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter at Instagram, Steve Harvey at them, and 247 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: check us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand 248 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: on the free iHeartRadio app. Now coming up next to 249 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 1: his Junior and sports talk. Right after this, you're listening 250 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:24,080 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.