WEBVTT - | Ep 49 | Can You Pay My Bills? 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:04.360 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:17.120 Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode 0:00:17.120 --> 0:00:20.880 of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant. So what's up 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:24.759 my people. This is Robin Dixon, so happy to talk 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:27.640 to you once again. Thank you for being here with us. Yes, 0:00:28.480 --> 0:00:32.600 and this is like officially Pride month. It sure is, yes, Yes, 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:36.360 so happy Pride, Happy pride to everybody. It came up 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:41.600 on us. How fast is this? You're flying like this? Okay, 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:44.199 so we're in June? Yes? How is it June already? 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:47.800 I don't know? Why? Is life a blur? And it's like, 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:49.960 don't you think about when you were a kid, and 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:55.600 it's just like time, just like tick. That never happened 0:00:55.640 --> 0:00:58.080 to me. Tom didn't go slow when you were a kid, 0:00:58.160 --> 0:01:00.520 I don't think so, Oh my gosh, remember because it 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:03.200 was like you always had the anticipation of like, oh 0:01:03.240 --> 0:01:07.800 my birthday, Christmas and summer, and it just felt like 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:10.240 none of that could get here fast enough. Okay, that's true. 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:11.640 When I was waiting for my birthday, it was a 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:16.400 countdown right yes days. But now it just feels like 0:01:17.319 --> 0:01:20.080 your birthday, You're like, we're like going around on a 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:28.280 race track, not the sad effects. Yes, this is so crazy, okay, 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:37.640 reasonably shady. Moment of the week Robin Dixon. Okay, y'all know, 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:40.280 I'm like, you know, moving to my house. Yes, I 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:42.759 love that. Thank you guys. The house looks really good. 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:47.240 It's coming along, it's coming along. I'm almost there. Um. 0:01:47.280 --> 0:01:51.240 So I was waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting for Ian's for 0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:56.320 my drapes in my family room and in my breakfast 0:01:56.400 --> 0:01:59.600 room and dining room, in my office, my bedroom, all 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:01.760 that stuff. So the ones I was like really waiting 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:03.280 for were the ones in my family room and my 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:07.800 breakfast room. Those were ordered like probably I don't remember 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:10.120 people coming out like to take measurements. Actually, I think 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:13.520 it was like the three different companies came to take measurements, 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:17.079 give us quotes on the fabric and stuff. Probably you 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:21.000 know August September time, right, so last year. Yeah, last year. 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:24.919 It's June now, right. So finally it was like, oh, 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:27.760 the guys coming to install the drapes, and I was 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:30.079 so excited because okay, but we gotta tell the people 0:02:30.080 --> 0:02:32.280 they're like super custom because they're like ceiling to floor 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:35.200 and there. So I have like a double for double 0:02:35.440 --> 0:02:38.920 what is it double? Two story four? Your there, we 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:41.600 go there, we got two stories. Yes, so these are 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:45.560 huge night for your two story family room. Yes. Yes, 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:51.280 so they are literally what you know, from ceiling to floor. Okay, 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:52.880 you know, I'm just really excited because it's going to 0:02:52.919 --> 0:02:55.640 like pull the room together, right, beautiful. Yes, So they 0:02:55.680 --> 0:02:58.359 put him up. The guy came and it's got a 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:03.080 long ladder and so so. So, first of all, the 0:03:03.120 --> 0:03:05.920 drapes took forever to be made and to come in. 0:03:06.320 --> 0:03:08.640 Then it took forever to find like to get the 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:10.960 guy to get us on our on his schedule to 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:14.320 actually install the drapes. Okay, yeah, so we put them 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:17.760 up and we look and we're like, yeah, those things 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:21.040 around ten inches off of the floor. No way, so 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:25.200 they're like high water drapes. Like okay, wait, do they 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:31.320 have um extra fabrics? Not enough? Nope, not enough right, 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:34.400 And it was like, okay, we could probably like move 0:03:34.520 --> 0:03:36.760 the bar down the ride down like closer to the 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:39.440 window to bring them down like they would still be 0:03:39.520 --> 0:03:42.320 if we if we took the extra fabric from the 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:44.960 bottom and move the rod as close as possible to 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:47.720 the top of the windows. It still would have been 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:51.920 like five inches off the floor, and yeah, that was 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:55.200 That's not a good look. So now I'm like waiting, 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:58.760 So still, whose fault is this? Because these drapes costs, 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:02.520 so who's paying this? Yeah, so I'm waiting. I'm my designer. 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:04.200 I'm waiting to figure out what the solution is. So 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:08.720 the solution will either be definitely the people who took 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:11.600 the measurements screwed up. And I don't know if they 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:14.520 took I don't know if the measurements were wrong or 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:17.920 if they cut them wrong. So I don't know who 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:21.600 messed up there. Okay, so the solution, there's like one 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:24.520 or two solutions. One is to do have the Drapery 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:27.120 company make them again and make them right. I don't 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:29.919 know how long that's going to take. And we're literally 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:32.760 trying to get this done like a sap, like like 0:04:33.080 --> 0:04:35.760 my designer, Like, no designer wants to have a client 0:04:35.800 --> 0:04:40.200 for almost a year. You well, no, I mean I'm 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:42.800 like I've pretty much like paid for everything except for 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:44.880 like you know, I just whatever you you have, like 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:47.719 a final installation payment, which is not that much. Like 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:50.159 so I've like she's gotten most of her money. Okay, 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:52.360 and like so this is just like stuff that's like 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:56.680 hanging over her head that she wants done because and 0:04:56.720 --> 0:04:58.840 you want that so that she can like, you know, 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:02.039 to sha in this here. So I mean that is 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:05.039 the shadiness. So the other solution would be to add 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:07.680 like a different color fact, like to do little color 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:10.800 blocking into like sew some fabric on the bottom so 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:12.800 you know, give it. So I don't know, so we'll 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:16.440 see what the solutionists. But that's the shady moment, the 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:19.039 damn doce that I've been waiting half my life for 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:23.159 ten inches off the floor they high waters. Okay, so 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:26.359 the person that did the measurements is the shady person. 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:29.360 I'm going to guess that. Yeah, okay, all right, I'm 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:32.080 for that. Yeah, okay, So my shady moment is actually 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:40.479 similar because way fair is shady. M what they do. Okay, Robbie, 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:42.440 you looking at me like I did something. I bet 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:48.400 you did so in April. This is June. This is June, right, 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:51.640 made you maybe before it might have been marched. I 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:53.960 ordered Okay, so I have double doors in front of 0:05:53.960 --> 0:05:56.600 my house, and I ordered two planters for the side 0:05:56.600 --> 0:06:01.080 of my double doors. I've been waiting twelve weeks or 0:06:01.120 --> 0:06:06.240 something like that. Something crazy. Um way Fair delivered one 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:11.120 one planter, to the point where I was like, well 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:13.400 did I order one? Because I can't remember if I 0:06:13.520 --> 0:06:15.680 ordered one too. I'm like, I'm sure I ordered two. 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:18.159 Was I drunk that day? What did I do wrong? 0:06:18.720 --> 0:06:21.520 God help me? Please? Way Fair. So I go on 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:24.799 my little you know, order, and I look and I 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:28.520 did order to to and they said the other one's coming, 0:06:29.200 --> 0:06:30.919 and they didn't give me a date. If I have 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:33.600 to wait another twelve weeks for the other damn planter, 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:37.159 it's gonna be a problem, shady. And I'm at least 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:38.760 like the one that they sent. I have the one 0:06:38.760 --> 0:06:40.400 that they said, have one. Do you like it? I 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:42.400 like it? But you have one planter? No? No, no, 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:44.920 right of course, now my house looks sideways. So they 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:47.320 didn't even say, like, your order is partially shipped. They 0:06:47.360 --> 0:06:49.760 just said, okay. So when I went back to the online, 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:52.920 it's partially shipped, but I don't have a shipment date 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:56.160 for the next one. So I'm just sitting around one planter. 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:59.320 It's just just this is sad. That is just horrible. 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:02.839 So if I'm waiting, well, so you waiting for the drapes. 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:05.320 I'm waiting for my plans. This is a mess. It's 0:07:05.400 --> 0:07:08.480 never ending. It's never a freaking ending. And I haven't 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:11.280 even done my basement yet, y'all. I'm like, oh yeah, 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:13.480 my basement is still raggedy, but you know it's all good. 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:16.600 I don't even care. Listen. Okay, so you guys have 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:19.640 actually given us some like wonderful reviews out here in 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:23.920 these streets. For whatever you y'all love us. I want 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:25.320 to read a couple because I want you all to 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:29.240 get inspired to continue to give us great review Yes. 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I love the show, Ladies. 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:47.560 I love you guys on The Housewife Show and recently 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:50.160 started listening to your podcast now that I'm working from home. 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:53.080 It really does make you feel like I am in 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:55.800 the room having girl talk with you. When Gizelle says 0:08:55.960 --> 0:08:59.959 what as her response to stuff, it literally cracks me up. 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:02.880 I am actually new to the podcast app and you 0:09:02.960 --> 0:09:06.480 guys were my first show. Oh thank you, thank you, 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:10.280 oh Lyle. We appreciate you for listening and getting your 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:16.880 podcast Cherry pops. Yes, okay, I'm gonna be shady okay yea, 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:20.800 because I don't really talk about people's children because it's 0:09:20.840 --> 0:09:22.679 just like you can't really do that. That's like me, right, 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:24.640 you don't really talk about people's kids because you don't 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:28.400 want to talk about your kids. Yeah, but you've already had. 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:30.360 So my thing is like in the past, i usaid 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:32.000 not want to talk about kids because I'm like, if 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:34.320 I didn't have kids, Like, so what if my kids 0:09:34.360 --> 0:09:37.440 came out and acting, I'll come now and I'm like, 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:39.960 and you and your kids are great, by the way, 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:45.199 and I have kids. Mine are really sweet and nice. Today. Um, 0:09:45.280 --> 0:09:47.840 by the way, it's summertime in my house, in the 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:50.000 Brian house, and the girls are just like home because 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:52.400 they haven't started working yet. Oh school is done. School's 0:09:52.400 --> 0:09:55.560 done their home and they're looking at me like feed me. 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:59.440 Oh my god. And all three of them are going 0:09:59.480 --> 0:10:01.160 to be working. Yeah, all three of them are gonna 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:02.560 be working in a couple of weeks. They're gonna start 0:10:02.559 --> 0:10:06.320 a camp like they're the counselors. But right currently they're 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:09.280 looking at me like feed me. Yeah, what do you do? 0:10:09.480 --> 0:10:11.880 So do your kids just order stuff off a door 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:15.480 dash from their phone? So no, because I haven't set 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:17.160 that up on their phone. They want me to order 0:10:17.200 --> 0:10:20.200 it and then okay, for the record, I hate door Dash, 0:10:20.240 --> 0:10:22.680 I hate door Dash and Uber Eats. Can I say 0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:27.400 that last week I ordered some nachos. I ordered a 0:10:27.400 --> 0:10:29.720 bunch of stuff, but in the bag was the chips 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:32.880 with the nachos, the nacho cheese. Of course, the cheese 0:10:32.880 --> 0:10:35.200 didn't come right. Yeah, of course, of course, of course 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:38.120 the cheese. Of course. Like what I mean, Do I 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:40.040 think they do it on purpose? They always leave one 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:42.400 thing out something. Did I tell you the story about 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:46.440 the people that got my order? Yes, down the street right, Yes, 0:10:46.520 --> 0:10:48.320 I told the story on the podcast. I think so 0:10:48.480 --> 0:10:51.400 because I told you maybe we just talked off right 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:53.839 all we can't keep up with what we talked about. Now, 0:10:53.920 --> 0:10:56.360 I told you my neighbors got my food and it 0:10:56.440 --> 0:11:00.760 freaking ate it right right, yes, And so the people 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:02.320 down the street got my food and they ate mine. 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:04.679 They said, I don't know if I saw this on 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:07.640 the pipe. Okay, they said they waited. They said they 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:11.200 Facebook messaged me, and I'm not on Facebook. They looked 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:14.000 me at they you know, they they knew who I was, 0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:17.840 Like word in the neighborhood was liked in the neighborhood, right, 0:11:18.160 --> 0:11:22.840 So these people around the corner kept getting my deliveries 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:26.080 and stuff and so they Facebook messaged me and she 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:28.880 said like, they waited two hours and I didn't respond. 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:31.600 And after that they put they ate your food. They 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:33.360 ate our food. They put it in the air fryer 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:38.520 and they Okay, So my neighborhood, I literally can look 0:11:38.520 --> 0:11:40.160 out my front door to the left, I mean to 0:11:40.200 --> 0:11:42.120 the right, and I see them they have because so 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:45.400 you know, they take a picture of your food. So 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:48.680 the picture was a yellow door. I don't have a 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:51.000 yellow door. So I was like, oh, my neighbors have 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:53.640 a yellow door. I'll just go get it. It took 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:56.280 me some time to go get it. So by the 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:58.640 time we got there, it was going. Food was going. 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:02.000 I'm not gonna let's send they ate the food if 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:04.480 they enjoyed it. But I would never eat anybody's food, 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:08.280 I know, but I might actually, I would never eat 0:12:08.320 --> 0:12:11.760 anybody's food if it came in like a nice closed 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:14.600 up bag with your name not on it. Yeah, I 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:17.199 mean if somebody else's name, You'll be like, oh, let 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:19.760 me try something new. I've never had this before. You know, 0:12:20.000 --> 0:12:23.280 you didn't order. There's no food ferry. There's nobody dropping 0:12:23.320 --> 0:12:25.280 off food that you didn't order. The time has passed 0:12:25.320 --> 0:12:28.000 because what I you know, you know when that happens, 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:30.440 do you like go into the app and say, you know, 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:33.040 so I almost missing and they, oh, no, I didn't 0:12:33.080 --> 0:12:35.400 do that. For the for the cheese that I didn't get, No, 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:38.040 but for the whole order that I didn't get because 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:40.080 my neighbors ate it. I called the restaurant and I 0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:42.480 was like, y'all delivered it to somebody else. I didn't 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:44.640 ride out my neighbors, and so they made a whole 0:12:44.679 --> 0:12:47.560 new order and brought it over. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah. 0:12:47.559 --> 0:12:49.600 So on door Dash, I have multiple times had to 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:53.120 go in that little help section and you say, you know, 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:55.320 something was missing or I didn't get my order, and 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:59.120 they'll either credit your account or they'll send the order 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:02.400 again okay, or they'll do like both. I don't know. 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:04.280 I've had something where like I had to order sent 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:06.880 and they gave me a credit for my inconvenience. Oh 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:12.240 that's nice. I always scream never again. Never. It's so frustrating. 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:14.840 I feel like they always leave out like dessert, Like 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:17.240 if you order like a cookie or something like an 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:20.240 extra thing, it's not like what they're normally putting in 0:13:20.280 --> 0:13:23.080 the bag. So I'd like stop ordering the extra things. 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:26.920 I'm saying, Grace to go pick up stuff. Okay, but 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:28.640 that's not what we're talking about, Robin. We're talking about 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:31.600 kids right now. I know. But but but I recently 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:33.680 did make Corey download the door Dash app and so 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:36.640 he orders door Dash himself, because I'm like, Okay, that's good. 0:13:36.800 --> 0:13:39.000 Do not wait for me, like, just you just do it. 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:42.520 Don't wait for me to, you know, order your food 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:47.840 when we're away filming or whatever. You know, ask your 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:54.720 father one a bright Antonio, get the boys some food, right, 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:57.319 But since you don't want to do that, then just 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:00.520 use the freaking app and leave me alone. So I agree. 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:03.920 You know, I am, I know I am. And the 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:14.560 kids are old enough and they're responsible. Okay, So speaking 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:19.800 of children, I was watching the Queens. You believe Queen 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:23.720 Elizabeth got her name. She has been on the crown 0:14:23.840 --> 0:14:27.360 for seventy years. She kind of came to something she 0:14:27.440 --> 0:14:29.280 kind of didn't, but nobody cared. You know why no 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:34.400 one cared because Kate and William's children, Oh my god, 0:14:34.760 --> 0:14:36.920 we're the worst behaved children I've ever seen in my 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:40.360 entire life. Yes, I'm saying it. Okay, what Carol Carley 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:42.080 look up the kids names because we need to, we 0:14:42.120 --> 0:14:45.560 need to refer to them by name their oldest child. 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:48.400 I did see a clip of the one like what 0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:50.800 is this call when you put the like nanny Nani 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:53.400 boo boo. Yeah, he did like the nanny Nanni boo 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:56.880 boo and stuck his tongue out and his mother, okay, mother. 0:14:57.000 --> 0:14:59.520 First of all, she I get okay. I don't know 0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:06.080 her disciplinary style. If that was me in that moment, 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:08.840 because of the setting, it would have taken all of 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:12.560 me to keep my composure. Well. First of all, he 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:17.040 swung at her like to try to like hit her mouth, right, 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:20.680 that's number one. Number two. Then he stuck his tongue 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:22.760 out and did like the whole man nanny boo boo thing. 0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:24.880 And she's trying to hold his hands and trying to 0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:28.240 control him. The world is watching, so this is like 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:33.040 an embarrassment on several levels. At one point, little Prince 0:15:33.080 --> 0:15:36.040 Louis seemed fed up with his mom and put his 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:39.560 hand over her mouth to keep her from talking. He 0:15:39.840 --> 0:15:44.440 flailed around and did the classic thumb on the nosy 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:50.880 you you tell why you keep that up, young man? 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:55.680 And no sticky toffee kidney pie for you, you're a terror, 0:15:56.400 --> 0:15:58.960 Like there's no way you can be king one day 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:01.480 because that it is going to be a problem. That 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:04.040 was funny, though, I mean it is kind of like, wow, 0:16:04.080 --> 0:16:06.000 what is going on in their house? What's going on 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:08.560 in their house? Why are you ever sticking your tongue 0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:10.640 out at your mother? My kids have never done that 0:16:10.760 --> 0:16:13.120 to me, And I kind of want to say, I'm 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:16.000 about to say it, this clearly is not a black 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:21.200 child because black mama's but black mamma's. We don't play 0:16:21.200 --> 0:16:24.280 that Like that child would know that's what I said, SmackDown. 0:16:24.360 --> 0:16:27.480 It would have taken all of me to keep my composure, 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:30.640 considering like there's you know, all eyes and cameras and 0:16:30.880 --> 0:16:32.920 like that is like a heart. How do you how 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:35.320 do you deal with that? Because on one hand, you 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:38.440 have the kid that is like acting up, acting a 0:16:38.520 --> 0:16:41.360 fool and and being embarrassing, and on the other hand, 0:16:41.360 --> 0:16:43.160 as the parent, you're like, Okay, I really want to 0:16:43.200 --> 0:16:46.480 snatch him up and do something, but I don't want 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:48.520 to draw attention to it and make it even work. 0:16:48.800 --> 0:16:51.520 So right before they came out to sit in front 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:54.840 the world, you get snatched up. Then you get snatched 0:16:54.880 --> 0:16:56.880 up in the back. You many times I've snatched my 0:16:56.960 --> 0:17:00.240 kids up before we went out in public. But and 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:02.840 you get a stern talking to, right, and I'm sure 0:17:02.840 --> 0:17:05.240 he probably was acting a fool before they came out. 0:17:05.320 --> 0:17:07.840 He's been acting the full since I was born. Okay, 0:17:07.920 --> 0:17:11.800 because this is not new behavior, this is horrible behavior. 0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:14.960 I was so appalled as a mother, I was like, 0:17:15.080 --> 0:17:18.119 please someone get that chow. And especially as like a 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:21.600 public figure, they really should have him under like under control, 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:25.920 you know, like I'm embarrassed. I'm embarrassed for Kate. Kate, 0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:31.040 get it together. That was that was I did. Chuckle, chuckle. 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:35.480 Oh gosh. Okay, So I can I tell you what 0:17:35.480 --> 0:17:38.760 happened last weekend? No you cannot. Okay. So last weekend 0:17:39.000 --> 0:17:41.760 I wanted to take my kids out for a brunch, right, 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:44.560 and um, there's you know, we like to try new restaurants. 0:17:44.560 --> 0:17:46.480 I have been looking up a restaurant and they so 0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:50.199 served crabs, uh and we haven't had crabs all season. 0:17:50.600 --> 0:17:52.119 So I was like, oh, we're going to the the spot. 0:17:52.640 --> 0:17:55.960 So we get there and it is a full fledged 0:17:56.440 --> 0:18:01.800 drag brunch like I saw that in your stories. Okay, 0:18:01.440 --> 0:18:04.639 that was serving crabs and it was like they you know, 0:18:04.640 --> 0:18:06.359 it was a full menu, so they had like shramp 0:18:06.440 --> 0:18:11.639 and a stumbled upon a straight up drag brunch and 0:18:12.080 --> 0:18:18.320 like music of Pride, Pride Music's blasting. I was like, well, 0:18:18.320 --> 0:18:21.119 maybe we can sneak out of here, no because and 0:18:21.160 --> 0:18:22.800 I was like, oh, no, one knows who I am here, 0:18:23.000 --> 0:18:25.840 so I can sneak out. Yeah, I was confused. Like 0:18:29.920 --> 0:18:32.679 the drag queens came out, they welcomed me with open arms. 0:18:33.000 --> 0:18:35.919 So and the only thing that made me want to 0:18:36.000 --> 0:18:38.600 leave was that everybody was so drunk and I just 0:18:38.600 --> 0:18:41.160 didn't want my kids for your kids around like all 0:18:41.160 --> 0:18:46.360 that drunkenness. But those drag queens did the damn fun. 0:18:46.440 --> 0:18:49.800 Drag bunches are fun, yes, okay, but Robin, you didn't 0:18:49.840 --> 0:18:54.080 know that drag queen's lip sync well right, so okay, No, 0:18:54.240 --> 0:18:56.720 not that I didn't know that they lip sync like 0:18:56.800 --> 0:18:59.480 a drag brunch. Yes, I understand that you lip sync 0:18:59.680 --> 0:19:03.280 right brunch, but at um that event we went to 0:19:04.080 --> 0:19:07.600 last week when I don't know, I just thought like 0:19:07.640 --> 0:19:11.119 when they were like the Marquee performer, that they actually 0:19:11.160 --> 0:19:14.000 were like singing, singing, like when you're like going to 0:19:14.040 --> 0:19:17.240 watch them in a nightclub. I thought they would actually sing. Okay, 0:19:17.800 --> 0:19:20.080 but but I've been to drag brunch before. Okay, this 0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:22.119 is my first drag brunch and I shared it with 0:19:22.240 --> 0:19:24.720 my children. They were like, wow, this is a whole 0:19:24.760 --> 0:19:27.280 lot going on, but they truly enjoyed it. So shout 0:19:27.320 --> 0:19:31.600 out to absolutely drag Delicious Brunch and went out to them. 0:19:31.960 --> 0:19:34.560 So it was a Hello Betty, which is new in 0:19:34.640 --> 0:19:39.280 Pike and Roll. So it wasn't like Rockville. Yes, that's 0:19:39.359 --> 0:19:41.040 very different. I thought you were gonna say you were 0:19:41.080 --> 0:19:44.560 in d C. No, I was in Rockville and they did. 0:19:44.680 --> 0:19:46.560 When I say, the damn thing, they did the damn thing. 0:19:46.680 --> 0:19:48.840 They changed their clothes and you know what. The other 0:19:48.920 --> 0:19:50.840 thing with that drag performer we went to before, like 0:19:50.960 --> 0:19:56.560 she wasn't she wasn't in costume enough. Okay, so you 0:19:56.600 --> 0:19:57.920 know what I mean. You wanted her to you want 0:19:57.960 --> 0:20:01.520 to see spandex and glitter. Yeah, yeah, I think that's 0:20:01.560 --> 0:20:03.359 why I was confused. Yeah, she just had on a 0:20:03.720 --> 0:20:06.680 so one drag with the drag show that Robin's referring to. 0:20:07.160 --> 0:20:09.480 The drag queen just had on like a pant suit. Yeah, 0:20:09.520 --> 0:20:12.040 it was like a red satin pantsuit and like a 0:20:12.119 --> 0:20:13.919 bob and she was like, I think she was being 0:20:13.960 --> 0:20:17.080 Patti Labe. But you can be Patti LaBelle and be 0:20:17.240 --> 0:20:20.640 all like you can get the big hair, the big 0:20:21.000 --> 0:20:24.560 you know, big curly bush hair, put on some like 0:20:24.680 --> 0:20:27.280 crazy makeup. She didn't have any of that. That's why 0:20:27.280 --> 0:20:30.040 I was confused, I think because I was like expecting, 0:20:30.960 --> 0:20:34.520 you know more more right this drag brunch that I 0:20:34.600 --> 0:20:37.320 went to, they had on okay, so she sat down 0:20:37.680 --> 0:20:40.080 next to me. Oh, by the way, in the performance, 0:20:40.119 --> 0:20:41.639 she came over to my table and ate my food 0:20:42.520 --> 0:20:44.560 a b that was wrong, but whatever, we love you. 0:20:45.119 --> 0:20:47.920 She sat down and chatted with me, and she had 0:20:48.000 --> 0:20:54.119 on maybe about seventeen different color eyes shadows, like the 0:20:54.240 --> 0:20:58.480 eyeshadow was out of control. But I loved every second 0:20:58.520 --> 0:20:59.919 of it. So I was like just she came down, 0:21:00.040 --> 0:21:02.760 she sits and she was like, so darling, you're beautiful. 0:21:03.080 --> 0:21:05.080 And I was like, oh my gosh, thank you. She 0:21:05.280 --> 0:21:07.600 was like that's when you're supposed to say, so are you. 0:21:08.760 --> 0:21:11.320 I was like, oh, I'm sorry. She was like yes, 0:21:11.400 --> 0:21:14.960 bitch bye. It was so funny, like they are amazing. 0:21:15.480 --> 0:21:18.760 So shout out to them. That was and and thank 0:21:18.840 --> 0:21:24.560 you for popping my direct my kids drag queen cherry. Yes, yes, 0:21:24.680 --> 0:21:26.440 but now I figured out why I was confused the 0:21:26.480 --> 0:21:29.680 other night. Yeah, because I did. It wasn't over the time, 0:21:29.760 --> 0:21:32.200 it wasn't over the top. Okay, So can we talk 0:21:32.240 --> 0:21:34.639 about um? Okay? So the only reason when I talk 0:21:34.640 --> 0:21:35.960 I want to talk about this is because we talked 0:21:35.960 --> 0:21:37.360 about it a couple of weeks ago when I said 0:21:37.600 --> 0:21:42.880