WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Corn Dog 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:02.600 It's gonna be interesting to see how many fans this 0:00:02.640 --> 0:00:05.360 guy has. From our brand new Second Date update today, 0:00:06.120 --> 0:00:08.119 definitely let us know what you think of the comments. 0:00:08.160 --> 0:00:09.880 It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning because we love 0:00:09.920 --> 0:00:12.639 reading those comments. And before we get to our brand 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:14.280 new episode, what do you got Alexis? 0:00:14.320 --> 0:00:16.600 This was from last week on the Brook breaks you up. 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:19.159 But it's still a funny comment. So if you missed it, 0:00:19.200 --> 0:00:22.680 Brooke helped break a couple up here well unsuccessfully, but 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:25.200 so listen. But if you did, then you'll know. Mareki 0:00:25.239 --> 0:00:27.160 said this inspired me to break it off with someone 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:29.240 I was dating, and I did. 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:29.960 So, thank you. 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:33.320 Longest twenty six minutes of my life, and I wish 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:35.360 Brooke did it for me next time. 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:37.640 I guessquest. 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:41.160 Oh, I feel like twenty six minutes is pretty short. 0:00:41.479 --> 0:00:44.400 I had to break up conversations that went on for hours. 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:46.720 Oh yeah, but by the end you're like, oh my god, 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:47.560 just leave. 0:00:47.840 --> 0:00:49.920 Yeah, now I see why people just do this you text. 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:53.400 Yeah, all right, Hey, thanks for letting us in on 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:54.560 your personal life. We love that. 0:00:54.720 --> 0:00:56.200 Now they are maybe. 0:00:55.960 --> 0:00:59.360 We'll hear you for a Second Date update. Go full circle. 0:00:59.680 --> 0:01:01.880 All right, your brand new episode starts right now. 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:04.800 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates. 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:08.120 We've heard from a lot of people on this show 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:12.360 who've moved cities and started over that it's not easy. 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:14.959 No, I mean, what a challenging thing to do, but 0:01:15.000 --> 0:01:17.880 so rewarding. Yeah, so awesome, good for you, but a 0:01:17.880 --> 0:01:18.720 lot of stress. 0:01:18.760 --> 0:01:22.039 You gotta get a whole new driver's license, memorize a 0:01:22.080 --> 0:01:23.360 whole new address. 0:01:23.560 --> 0:01:26.200 That's what you're worried about. Not like making new friends 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:28.240 and having a community. 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:31.400 No, that's easy, but changing your favorite inflatable store location 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:33.560 on your app. I mean, where are you going to 0:01:33.680 --> 0:01:36.840 find your inflatables now? And will they be as sturdy 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:37.840 as the previous ones? 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:38.240 Yeah? 0:01:38.600 --> 0:01:43.360 Blow us is that it don't get here? Brook, Now 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:45.000 you're out. He knows where you're. 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:47.039 Going to blow up and you didn't realize you're going to. 0:01:47.040 --> 0:01:49.800 Spend time with lots of headaches and roadblocks when you move. 0:01:50.280 --> 0:01:53.160 No one knows that better than our listener, Eric, who 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:55.080 has requested our help today. 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:57.080 Eric, Welcome to the show Man. 0:01:57.120 --> 0:01:59.760 We appreciate you listening to us in both cities, your 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:01.000 old want and your new one. 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:02.640 Good Thanks for having me guy. 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:05.080 What was the reason behind the mover. Is it a 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:07.480 work thing, a criminal pass that you're trying to outrun? 0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:08.239 What are we working with? 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:11.480 X an EXX is always a good reason to move cities. 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:15.680 I mean I did recently change jobs, and okay, I 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:17.640 work in an office with a lot more people that 0:02:17.680 --> 0:02:19.720 are my age now, and I think it's older people, 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:22.280 but it's nice people that are my age now. 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:23.160 Yeah. 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:24.959 I wish we could have that here, but Brooke just 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:27.320 keeps on coming back. I don't know how it happened. 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:29.720 I know we're all like, geez, I am not that 0:02:29.800 --> 0:02:33.640 much older than you. You were also getting older, Jeffrey. 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:34.360 It's how it works. 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:36.640 No, I enjoy having your presence. It's like a nice, 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:38.320 warm visdom sort of thing. 0:02:38.639 --> 0:02:41.040 So were you nervous moving to the new place or 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:42.399 did you know anyone there? 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:45.680 I didn't know anyone at the time. I mean I'm 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:48.359 pretty friendly. I can get to know people. I mean, 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:52.359 there's actually this one girl, Anna and Uh we've been 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:55.320 friendly at the office and we actually just have like 0:02:55.360 --> 0:02:56.960 a naturally good vibe together. 0:02:57.520 --> 0:02:59.679 Oh okay, that's a little bit dangerous. 0:02:59.760 --> 0:03:04.639 Terror tour dude, Right when you come in somewhere, were 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:07.480 you thinking, like romantically immediately with this woman. 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:09.560 No, not at all. 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:10.840 I just like her vibe. 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:13.520 And it was her birthday the other day, actually, so 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:17.240 I wanted to do something special for her, so I 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:19.920 got a birthday cake. But I also got this coffee 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:21.440 mug with a dog on it because she said that 0:03:21.480 --> 0:03:22.640 she really loves dogs. 0:03:24.040 --> 0:03:26.079 I'm confused, is this. Did you go on a date 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:26.360 with her? 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:28.800 Did you hang out outside of the office. 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:32.520 Well, she really liked the mug that I got her. 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:34.720 She came to my desk and thanked me, and I 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:36.960 was like, you know, we should grab dinner sometime for work, 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:38.840 and she was like, all right, yeah, it sounds great. 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:41.160 And so after work we had it over to this restaurant. 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:43.640 It wasn't anything too fancy, just like a diner, and 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:47.440 I got to know her some more and I realized 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:50.040 that I really enjoyed her energy, and wow, we kind 0:03:50.040 --> 0:03:52.840 of had a funny little moment. We ordered corn dogs 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:55.839 and we interlocked our arms like when you would drink 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:58.720 champagne to eat them. So it was kind of funat Yeah, 0:03:58.760 --> 0:03:59.600 you know, like when. 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:02.080 You do a big fancy toast with your new bride 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:04.120 or whatever, new interlock art. 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:06.080 Yeah, but with corn dogs, it's a little bit of 0:04:06.120 --> 0:04:10.080 a different You mean it's classier. Yeah, I feel like 0:04:10.120 --> 0:04:12.000 you must have been getting a lot of looks from 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:15.720 other people in the restaurant seeing the corn dog interlock thing. 0:04:16.279 --> 0:04:17.839 I thought we were just having fun and we were 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:20.080 just in our own world. And at the end of 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:22.040 the night, I walked her back to her car and 0:04:22.160 --> 0:04:23.760 I asked she wanted to go on a hike sometime, 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:26.360 and she seemed really into that. And now she's just 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:28.680 being super cold to me at the office and I'm 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:29.520 not really sure why. 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:33.800 Okay, So, at any point was it established that I mean, 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:37.240 it sounds like you were feeling romantic vibes from her, 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:40.440 But did you ever clearly state I think this. 0:04:40.360 --> 0:04:42.200 Is a date and like you know, she's single. 0:04:42.720 --> 0:04:47.039 Yeah, you talk about anything romantic, and I never we 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:49.599 never brought anything up where I thought we were having fun. 0:04:49.880 --> 0:04:51.760 Yeah, But Brooke, it still doesn't change the fact that 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:54.800 she's acting cold towards him now at the office, because 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:56.800 it seemed like for the most part they were getting along. 0:04:57.000 --> 0:04:59.280 You don't think that that's just because she got freaked out. 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:03.040 He thought it was a friend situation. And then there 0:05:03.160 --> 0:05:05.440 was a moment maybe it was with the corn dogs 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:07.680 where she's like, oh, whoa, this guy thinks that. 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:10.400 We need to be dating far down the corn dogs. 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:13.880 Yeah, his idea was the corn dog arm interlocked. 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:15.400 He brought that up. 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:16.839 It kind of just happened. 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:20.640 I don't how does that just happen? I love it 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:21.960 just seems so unnatural. 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:26.400 Well, for the record, we toasted the corn dogs and then. 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:29.000 Oh no, you touched corn dogs that could be unsand 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:29.400 because they. 0:05:29.440 --> 0:05:31.680 Touched hims and then they interlocked. I love this. I 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:32.839 want to do this with somebody. 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:35.200 So is there any awkward moments that stand out to 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:38.039 where you're like, whoa, Maybe we're not on the same page. 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:40.800 Not in my mind, I thought we were having fun. 0:05:40.839 --> 0:05:41.680 I thought we had a good time. 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:44.760 It was a natural, genuine I will say I did 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:47.359 buy coffee mugs for some of my friends here at 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:51.200 the office, and I have been reamed endlessly about how 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:52.760 horrible the logshog. 0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:54.200 Started a fire in my home. 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:55.279 I can't wash it. 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:57.919 But the thought behind it that was pretty nice. And 0:05:58.000 --> 0:06:00.159 yet you are all obsessed with oh and I'm. 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:01.920 Infernal. 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:04.560 You stood at an ABC wall of mugs and then 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:06.440 picked on our first initiative, the first that. 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:09.880 I remembered what your names start with? Should say wonders 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:11.680 about how much I care about each. 0:06:11.560 --> 0:06:13.800 And every morning in the anthropology to buy those that. 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:16.719 Okay, wait, wait, I want to know is there any 0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:19.400 office gossip that you've heard of, because somebody's got to 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:21.560 be talking like, oh, did you hear the new guy 0:06:21.720 --> 0:06:22.839 went out to dinner? 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:25.640 I mean, I'm not a gossip myself. I try to 0:06:25.680 --> 0:06:28.000 focus on my work and I'm still friendly with people. 0:06:28.000 --> 0:06:31.000 But I haven't heard any nastiness. No one's tried to 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:33.320 like pull a prank on mere or anything. And maybe 0:06:33.320 --> 0:06:35.440 should I be looking over my shoulder. I don't know. 0:06:36.200 --> 0:06:38.560 I just she doesn't know anybody yet to hear the tea, 0:06:39.640 --> 0:06:40.479 That's what I realized. 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:42.440 I mean, in the few minutes that we've spoken to, 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:45.000 you seem like a really nice, pleasant guy. But who knows, 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:46.560 we could be totally wrong and you might be a 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:49.760 total nightmare. So let's find out you might be the 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:51.240 worst person we've ever spoken to. 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:53.400 So wait, we're going to call someone that's in his 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:54.440 office with him. 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:56.240 I mean, is that what you want here? 0:06:56.640 --> 0:06:59.080 I would like to find some answers why she's being 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:00.960 cold to man now? Because I was nothing but a gentleman, 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:02.720 I thought so extension. 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:05.159 Yeah, we'll figure it out when reach out to Anna, 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:07.680 hopefully find out if you're the best or the worst 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:09.640 guy to work with when we come back and do 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:11.720 your second date update right after this. 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:12.760 Thank you. 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:16.200 Yeah, we will help you. 0:07:16.640 --> 0:07:17.880 We'll try hold on. 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:21.040 Broke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates. 0:07:22.040 --> 0:07:26.480 We've had definitely like tense second date calls before where 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:29.560 things get surly between people, but this could be a 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:32.600 first where we're calling a woman who went out with 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:36.160 a guy from the same office. Our listener, a guy 0:07:36.240 --> 0:07:40.360 named Eric, and our producer has asked Eric if he 0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:44.240 would stand up above his cubicle and look across the 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:48.920 office down into the cubicle as we make this phone, 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:52.960 just to make it even more juicy and traumatic, and 0:07:53.240 --> 0:07:55.800 Eric has selfishly. 0:07:55.200 --> 0:08:01.480 Refused to do. Not much of a team playing are there. 0:08:02.240 --> 0:08:04.440 It would be a little weird and I might get 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:05.480 fired or something like that. 0:08:05.800 --> 0:08:08.160 I mean, I thought you'd want to alienate everyone in 0:08:08.200 --> 0:08:10.880 your office space before you know you really got to 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:11.280 know them. 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:12.880 Yeah, is that not how it works? 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:15.960 I mean it works for us on our show. I 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:18.000 don't know if it would work for him in his career. 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:22.240 But just to recap real quick, Eric just moved to 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:25.040 a brand new city. He was liking the vibe he 0:08:25.120 --> 0:08:27.760 was getting from his coworker Anna while they were working together. 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:31.800 There's even presence exchange. Yes, well not exchange. He gave 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:33.760 one way. 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.280 For her birthday, so he took her out to dinner. 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:39.360 They toasted corn dogs, interlocked arms while eating them. 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:43.120 And now all of a sudden, it's weird. Not sure 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:45.760 how that's possible. What you mean is they were having fun, 0:08:45.840 --> 0:08:46.400 Like he thought. 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:49.280 It was a genuine thing. We've worked together for over 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:51.280 ten years. Has any of it been fun? 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:54.280 No? No, that's why this is so strange. 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:56.920 We actually have a lot of fun when you were 0:08:56.920 --> 0:08:57.760 in the other room. 0:08:57.840 --> 0:09:04.079 Yeah, when I'm doing all the work. Yes, you guys. 0:09:04.400 --> 0:09:05.640 Let's continue to do. 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:08.560 Our work and call Anna here. Hopefully she picks up 0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:09.840 the phone and we can get some answers. 0:09:10.720 --> 0:09:13.559 This is your fun. Huh yeah, this is the only fun. 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:20.280 Is all I get? All right, I'm gonna die. Anna, 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:29.480 maybe she could be my friend. Here we go. Hello, Hi, 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:30.440 we're looking to speak with. 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:33.319 Anna mass who's calling. 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:35.640 Yes, you may you're so polite. 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:37.320 It's a business call. 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:39.240 Jeff, Oh, yeah, I forgot. 0:09:40.080 --> 0:09:42.640 We're a morning radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey 0:09:42.640 --> 0:09:43.120 in the Morning. 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:46.280 Okay, let's keep a. 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:50.120 Casual over here and do a segment, you know, not 0:09:50.240 --> 0:09:51.120 the business stuff. 0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:53.839 Sorry, so weird. 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:56.800 This is why we don't let him out of his room. 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.920 Okay, I'm just saying, sorry to interrupt your day, but 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:02.320 we're doing something. It's called a second Date update, and 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:04.200 we're trying to help out one of our listeners that 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:06.880 you went out to dinner with recently, a guy named 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:09.160 Eric that you work with. 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:14.600 Yeah, no, thanks, I wish I hadn't gone out with 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:15.040 that guy. 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:18.600 Oh wait, okay, so there's a regret there. 0:10:18.679 --> 0:10:20.360 Oh yeah, that's a. 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:24.760 Little bit unexpected, honestly, because we talked to Eric and 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:27.600 from what we heard about your hangout, it sounded like 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:29.240 it was a really fun time. 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:37.000 I mean it's kind of awkward. Yeah, but yeah, this 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:41.640 guy Eric, he puts out this like really nice guy energy. 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:46.360 But he's involved with a lot of other people that 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:47.560 I didn't know about. 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:50.080 Wait wait, wait, wait, what do you mean Like you're 0:10:50.120 --> 0:10:51.960 saying he has other girlfriends? 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:54.679 Well, I know he has one girlfriend? 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:57.680 Oh oh wait just one? 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:00.920 Wait? How you know that? Like I thought he was 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:03.120 brand new to the city. How could he already. 0:11:03.120 --> 0:11:05.959 Well, for one, like one of the girls in my office, 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:07.640 he flirts with her all the time. 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:10.600 Okay, okay, are you sure he's not just being friendly? 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:15.960 No, he asked her out too. Oh, he asked her out. Yeah, 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:19.880 and luckily she didn't go out with him. But we 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:23.120 looked into this guy. We did some research on him, 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:27.080 and we found out that he has an actual girlfriend 0:11:27.720 --> 0:11:29.760 that's not someone in our office. 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:30.559 Wait. 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:34.679 Really, so he's asking out multiple women in your office 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:36.679 while being in a relationship like a. 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:39.360 Distance relationship, mayby or something distance. 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:41.720 No, I mean, I don't know if it's long distance 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:42.679 or what it is. 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:44.200 Well kind of, I'm sorry. 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:46.439 It's just so weird always to have like a cheater 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:50.000 like that call in to a very public radio station 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:53.120 and okay, risked outing himself, like what. 0:11:53.240 --> 0:11:55.640 A alleged cheater? Well, that's what I don't know. 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:56.080 Like, what. 0:11:57.640 --> 0:12:00.520 What did you see? Did you see something online? He said, 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:01.520 I have a girlfriend. 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:05.800 Yeah. I found his Instagram and trust me, it just 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:06.840 shows everything. 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:10.079 Okay, Well, people can say anything on Instagram. It doesn't 0:12:10.120 --> 0:12:13.520 mean it's true. It could put about themselves on their own. 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:19.520 Yeah, it might just be like you know, for cloud 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:21.400 for looks, it might not be real. 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:25.160 He doesn't get Yeah, but I should say this. 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:28.640 A better argument would be it could be old photos 0:12:28.960 --> 0:12:32.120 from an x right, like maybe he hasn't taken that 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:32.760 stuff down. 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:36.200 The last one that he posted was like three or 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:38.240 four days ago together. 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:42.880 Isn't that like the same timeframe of when you to dinner? 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:45.640 Yeah, I went out with him like five days ago. 0:12:45.840 --> 0:12:48.800 Oh wow, this is going to be awkward for not 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:49.640 the reasons I thought. 0:12:50.320 --> 0:12:54.439 Yeah, so clearly you're not into guys who already have girlfriends, 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:56.079 which goods. 0:12:57.600 --> 0:12:59.000 I'm saying, good, good for her. 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:02.080 But we didn't know about a girlfriend or anything like 0:13:02.120 --> 0:13:04.840 that when we talked to Eric. And you should probably 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:06.440 talk to him too, because he's on the other line 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:07.679 right now waiting to. 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:10.800 Speak to you. He's probably actually across the office too. 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:12.440 But it'd be more fun if we could hear the 0:13:12.440 --> 0:13:13.240 phone conversation. 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:18.240 I'm confused because I don't understand what the issue is here. 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:23.280 I you don't see the issue Eric, you already have 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:24.120 a girlfriend. 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:28.120 I never said that I didn't have a girl. 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:31.480 Oh you took me on a date. 0:13:32.440 --> 0:13:35.200 No, it was not a date. It was dinner so 0:13:35.200 --> 0:13:36.760 that you would actual become better friends. 0:13:37.000 --> 0:13:41.480 Now you're backtracking way, It was totally a date. 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:43.040 This is a second date updates. 0:13:43.720 --> 0:13:45.839 You call it that. I didn't call it a date. 0:13:45.880 --> 0:13:46.680 It was a dinner. 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:49.640 So what were you wanting to do? Just be friends 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:49.959 with her? 0:13:50.280 --> 0:13:50.360 Like? 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:52.480 This whole thing is a big misunderstanding. Is that what 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:53.440 you're trying to claim. 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:56.320 Look, here's what happened. My girlfriend and I were talking 0:13:56.320 --> 0:13:58.880 about how my new job, I don't know anyone, and 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:01.720 so she suggested. My girlfriend suggests that you try and 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:04.520 make more friends, and she's supportive of that. So then 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:07.840 I go to work after our hangout and You've been 0:14:07.880 --> 0:14:10.400 treating me so cold. I've been just doing what my 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:12.400 girlfriend gold to do, is to make friends. 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:13.000 Wow. 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:16.880 Yeah, Well, I mean, Eric, I'm treating you cold because 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:22.560 you're also hitting on another coworker and flirting with everybody, And. 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:25.480 That's a little suspicious flirting with anybody. I'm being nice, 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:28.560 not hitting on anybody. I'm just being friendly and playful. 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:31.560 Well, you're only being friendly to the attractive single women 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:32.480 in the office. 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:35.160 Those are the people I vibe the best with, Truman. 0:14:36.240 --> 0:14:37.160 They are friendly and fun. 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:41.320 So you say that your girlfriend is supportive of you 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:44.960 meeting new people and making new friendships at work. Does 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:47.760 she know the full extent that you're like asking these 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:49.360 women out to dinner with you? 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:52.040 She knows that I'm going out with people from work. 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:54.920 She doesn't need to know specifically how they look, or 0:14:54.920 --> 0:14:57.600 they're attractedness level, or what we with our foods. 0:14:57.840 --> 0:15:00.880 Does she go, you're writing into radio stations for dating, 0:15:00.920 --> 0:15:03.920 said you have a girlfriend at all? 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:05.440 He says he's not. 0:15:05.640 --> 0:15:05.920 He's not. 0:15:06.000 --> 0:15:07.239 After that, I guess. 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:09.920 I think that Eric is just trying to completely spin 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:12.240 this because he was definitely into me. 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:16.560 Yeah, I'm sorry. I think you're flattering yourself a little bit. 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:19.560 So now you can play though I have a. 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:23.480 Yeah, she wasn't even my type anyway. 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:27.000 Well that should be reassuring Anna. He's not attracted you. 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:28.280 Even if you wanted him, you couldn't. 0:15:28.360 --> 0:15:32.760 Yeah, I mean, this is a new work environment for you. 0:15:32.880 --> 0:15:33.760 What are you doing? 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:36.240 Well, I'm sorry you got the wrong impression. That's what 0:15:36.320 --> 0:15:36.600 I will. 0:15:38.160 --> 0:15:39.440 I will say. 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:42.880 Brook tries to buy me dinner all the time, and 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:45.200 it is a huge turn off to me. 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:47.320 She's always like, Jeff, can I get you lunch? Jeff, 0:15:47.320 --> 0:15:49.320 can I buy you meals erect. 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:51.640 She says, I'm attracted to you, Jeff, I know the 0:15:51.720 --> 0:15:52.960 only turnoff. 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:54.920 The only turnoff is when I asked you to pay 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:55.360 me back. 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:58.120 Yeah, okay, so you want this to be a date, 0:15:58.160 --> 0:16:03.840 then you want to go Everybody saying brook your husband 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:04.560 listens to this? 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:05.520 Will you? 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:08.560 Guys sound just as dysfunctional as this situation has been. 0:16:08.640 --> 0:16:12.360 You're really making it worse. And I want you to 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:14.600 know that I do still like you as a friend 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:17.520 and if you are interested, I would hang out with 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:20.240 you again in a non romantic way. 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:23.640 So this whole time, all you wanted to do was 0:16:23.720 --> 0:16:24.520 to be friends with me. 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:28.320 Yes, I mean it's something around the corner. Maybe we 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:33.880 can go bikini shopping sometime, right my tree joke? 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:38.120 Are you joking? 0:16:37.400 --> 0:16:38.920 But for his bikini? 0:16:41.120 --> 0:16:42.000 Well that's better. 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:46.720 I'm being serious. That's what friends do. They go shopping together, 0:16:46.800 --> 0:16:49.080 they have laughed, they give each other their opinions on 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:50.280 their bikinis on. 0:16:54.360 --> 0:16:57.120 I was skeptical at first, but I'm fully come around 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:02.400 on Eric and his desire deep passionate friendship with you, Anna, 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:04.440 And if you agree to see him one more time, 0:17:04.720 --> 0:17:09.080 we would pay for your hangouts, your non romantic bikini hangouts. 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:11.520 I'm starting to understand why Eric had to move cities. 0:17:12.800 --> 0:17:15.920 You don't know that, Anna, What do you think about 0:17:15.920 --> 0:17:17.240 giving Eric one more shot? 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:21.000 I think I'm going to pass on Eric at the office. 0:17:21.240 --> 0:17:25.560 Oh yeah, I just say, try not to get yourself 0:17:25.600 --> 0:17:26.480 reported over there. 0:17:26.600 --> 0:17:29.720 Eric, exactly, that's the last time I make friends in 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:30.199