1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: It's gonna be interesting to see how many fans this 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: guy has. From our brand new Second Date update today, 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: definitely let us know what you think of the comments. 4 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:09,880 Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning because we love 5 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 1: reading those comments. And before we get to our brand 6 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: new episode, what do you got Alexis? 7 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 2: This was from last week on the Brook breaks you up. 8 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:19,159 Speaker 2: But it's still a funny comment. So if you missed it, 9 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 2: Brooke helped break a couple up here well unsuccessfully, but 10 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 2: so listen. But if you did, then you'll know. Mareki 11 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 2: said this inspired me to break it off with someone 12 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 2: I was dating, and I did. 13 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 3: So, thank you. 14 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 2: Longest twenty six minutes of my life, and I wish 15 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: Brooke did it for me next time. 16 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 4: I guessquest. 17 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 1: Oh, I feel like twenty six minutes is pretty short. 18 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: I had to break up conversations that went on for hours. 19 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but by the end you're like, oh my god, 20 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 3: just leave. 21 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, now I see why people just do this you text. 22 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, Hey, thanks for letting us in on 23 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 3: your personal life. We love that. 24 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 5: Now they are maybe. 25 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 3: We'll hear you for a Second Date update. Go full circle. 26 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 3: All right, your brand new episode starts right now. 27 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates. 28 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 6: We've heard from a lot of people on this show 29 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 6: who've moved cities and started over that it's not easy. 30 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 3: No, I mean, what a challenging thing to do, but 31 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 3: so rewarding. Yeah, so awesome, good for you, but a 32 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 3: lot of stress. 33 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 6: You gotta get a whole new driver's license, memorize a 34 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 6: whole new address. 35 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 3: That's what you're worried about. Not like making new friends 36 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 3: and having a community. 37 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 6: No, that's easy, but changing your favorite inflatable store location 38 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 6: on your app. I mean, where are you going to 39 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 6: find your inflatables now? And will they be as sturdy 40 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 6: as the previous ones? 41 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 3: Yeah? 42 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 4: Blow us is that it don't get here? Brook, Now 43 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 4: you're out. He knows where you're. 44 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 3: Going to blow up and you didn't realize you're going to. 45 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 6: Spend time with lots of headaches and roadblocks when you move. 46 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 6: No one knows that better than our listener, Eric, who 47 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 6: has requested our help today. 48 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 4: Eric, Welcome to the show Man. 49 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 6: We appreciate you listening to us in both cities, your 50 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 6: old want and your new one. 51 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 7: Good Thanks for having me guy. 52 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 6: What was the reason behind the mover. Is it a 53 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 6: work thing, a criminal pass that you're trying to outrun? 54 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:08,239 Speaker 4: What are we working with? 55 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: X an EXX is always a good reason to move cities. 56 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 7: I mean I did recently change jobs, and okay, I 57 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 7: work in an office with a lot more people that 58 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 7: are my age now, and I think it's older people, 59 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 7: but it's nice people that are my age now. 60 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 4: Yeah. 61 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:24,959 Speaker 6: I wish we could have that here, but Brooke just 62 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 6: keeps on coming back. I don't know how it happened. 63 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 3: I know we're all like, geez, I am not that 64 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 3: much older than you. You were also getting older, Jeffrey. 65 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 3: It's how it works. 66 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 4: No, I enjoy having your presence. It's like a nice, 67 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 4: warm visdom sort of thing. 68 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: So were you nervous moving to the new place or 69 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:42,399 Speaker 1: did you know anyone there? 70 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 7: I didn't know anyone at the time. I mean I'm 71 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 7: pretty friendly. I can get to know people. I mean, 72 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:52,359 Speaker 7: there's actually this one girl, Anna and Uh we've been 73 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 7: friendly at the office and we actually just have like 74 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 7: a naturally good vibe together. 75 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,679 Speaker 4: Oh okay, that's a little bit dangerous. 76 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:04,639 Speaker 3: Terror tour dude, Right when you come in somewhere, were 77 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 3: you thinking, like romantically immediately with this woman. 78 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 7: No, not at all. 79 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 4: I just like her vibe. 80 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 7: And it was her birthday the other day, actually, so 81 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 7: I wanted to do something special for her, so I 82 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 7: got a birthday cake. But I also got this coffee 83 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 7: mug with a dog on it because she said that 84 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 7: she really loves dogs. 85 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 3: I'm confused, is this. Did you go on a date 86 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 3: with her? 87 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 4: Did you hang out outside of the office. 88 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 7: Well, she really liked the mug that I got her. 89 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 7: She came to my desk and thanked me, and I 90 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 7: was like, you know, we should grab dinner sometime for work, 91 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 7: and she was like, all right, yeah, it sounds great. 92 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 7: And so after work we had it over to this restaurant. 93 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 7: It wasn't anything too fancy, just like a diner, and 94 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 7: I got to know her some more and I realized 95 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 7: that I really enjoyed her energy, and wow, we kind 96 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 7: of had a funny little moment. We ordered corn dogs 97 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,839 Speaker 7: and we interlocked our arms like when you would drink 98 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 7: champagne to eat them. So it was kind of funat Yeah, 99 00:03:58,760 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 7: you know, like when. 100 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: You do a big fancy toast with your new bride 101 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 1: or whatever, new interlock art. 102 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, but with corn dogs, it's a little bit of 103 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 6: a different You mean it's classier. Yeah, I feel like 104 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 6: you must have been getting a lot of looks from 105 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 6: other people in the restaurant seeing the corn dog interlock thing. 106 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 7: I thought we were just having fun and we were 107 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 7: just in our own world. And at the end of 108 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 7: the night, I walked her back to her car and 109 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 7: I asked she wanted to go on a hike sometime, 110 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 7: and she seemed really into that. And now she's just 111 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 7: being super cold to me at the office and I'm 112 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 7: not really sure why. 113 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: Okay, So, at any point was it established that I mean, 114 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: it sounds like you were feeling romantic vibes from her, 115 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: But did you ever clearly state I think this. 116 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 3: Is a date and like you know, she's single. 117 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 7: Yeah, you talk about anything romantic, and I never we 118 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 7: never brought anything up where I thought we were having fun. 119 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, But Brooke, it still doesn't change the fact that 120 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 6: she's acting cold towards him now at the office, because 121 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 6: it seemed like for the most part they were getting along. 122 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 1: You don't think that that's just because she got freaked out. 123 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:03,040 Speaker 1: He thought it was a friend situation. And then there 124 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: was a moment maybe it was with the corn dogs 125 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 1: where she's like, oh, whoa, this guy thinks that. 126 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 3: We need to be dating far down the corn dogs. 127 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, his idea was the corn dog arm interlocked. 128 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 4: He brought that up. 129 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 7: It kind of just happened. 130 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 4: I don't how does that just happen? I love it 131 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 4: just seems so unnatural. 132 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 7: Well, for the record, we toasted the corn dogs and then. 133 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 6: Oh no, you touched corn dogs that could be unsand 134 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 6: because they. 135 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 4: Touched hims and then they interlocked. I love this. I 136 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 4: want to do this with somebody. 137 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: So is there any awkward moments that stand out to 138 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:38,039 Speaker 1: where you're like, whoa, Maybe we're not on the same page. 139 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 7: Not in my mind, I thought we were having fun. 140 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 7: I thought we had a good time. 141 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 6: It was a natural, genuine I will say I did 142 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,359 Speaker 6: buy coffee mugs for some of my friends here at 143 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 6: the office, and I have been reamed endlessly about how 144 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 6: horrible the logshog. 145 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 2: Started a fire in my home. 146 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 4: I can't wash it. 147 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,919 Speaker 6: But the thought behind it that was pretty nice. And 148 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,159 Speaker 6: yet you are all obsessed with oh and I'm. 149 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 4: Infernal. 150 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: You stood at an ABC wall of mugs and then 151 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: picked on our first initiative, the first that. 152 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 6: I remembered what your names start with? Should say wonders 153 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 6: about how much I care about each. 154 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 2: And every morning in the anthropology to buy those that. 155 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 1: Okay, wait, wait, I want to know is there any 156 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 1: office gossip that you've heard of, because somebody's got to 157 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: be talking like, oh, did you hear the new guy 158 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 1: went out to dinner? 159 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 7: I mean, I'm not a gossip myself. I try to 160 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 7: focus on my work and I'm still friendly with people. 161 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 7: But I haven't heard any nastiness. No one's tried to 162 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 7: like pull a prank on mere or anything. And maybe 163 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 7: should I be looking over my shoulder. I don't know. 164 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 4: I just she doesn't know anybody yet to hear the tea, 165 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:40,479 Speaker 4: That's what I realized. 166 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 6: I mean, in the few minutes that we've spoken to, 167 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 6: you seem like a really nice, pleasant guy. But who knows, 168 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 6: we could be totally wrong and you might be a 169 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 6: total nightmare. So let's find out you might be the 170 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 6: worst person we've ever spoken to. 171 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 3: So wait, we're going to call someone that's in his 172 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 3: office with him. 173 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 4: I mean, is that what you want here? 174 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 7: I would like to find some answers why she's being 175 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 7: cold to man now? Because I was nothing but a gentleman, 176 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 7: I thought so extension. 177 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 6: Yeah, we'll figure it out when reach out to Anna, 178 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 6: hopefully find out if you're the best or the worst 179 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 6: guy to work with when we come back and do 180 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 6: your second date update right after this. 181 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 7: Thank you. 182 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, we will help you. 183 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 4: We'll try hold on. 184 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 5: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates. 185 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 6: We've had definitely like tense second date calls before where 186 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 6: things get surly between people, but this could be a 187 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 6: first where we're calling a woman who went out with 188 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 6: a guy from the same office. Our listener, a guy 189 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 6: named Eric, and our producer has asked Eric if he 190 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 6: would stand up above his cubicle and look across the 191 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 6: office down into the cubicle as we make this phone, 192 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 6: just to make it even more juicy and traumatic, and 193 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 6: Eric has selfishly. 194 00:07:55,200 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 4: Refused to do. Not much of a team playing are there. 195 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 7: It would be a little weird and I might get 196 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 7: fired or something like that. 197 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I thought you'd want to alienate everyone in 198 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 1: your office space before you know you really got to 199 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: know them. 200 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, is that not how it works? 201 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 6: I mean it works for us on our show. I 202 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 6: don't know if it would work for him in his career. 203 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 6: But just to recap real quick, Eric just moved to 204 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 6: a brand new city. He was liking the vibe he 205 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 6: was getting from his coworker Anna while they were working together. 206 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 3: There's even presence exchange. Yes, well not exchange. He gave 207 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 3: one way. 208 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 6: For her birthday, so he took her out to dinner. 209 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 6: They toasted corn dogs, interlocked arms while eating them. 210 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 4: And now all of a sudden, it's weird. Not sure 211 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 4: how that's possible. What you mean is they were having fun, 212 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 4: Like he thought. 213 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 6: It was a genuine thing. We've worked together for over 214 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 6: ten years. Has any of it been fun? 215 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 4: No? No, that's why this is so strange. 216 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 3: We actually have a lot of fun when you were 217 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 3: in the other room. 218 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 4: Yeah, when I'm doing all the work. Yes, you guys. 219 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 4: Let's continue to do. 220 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 6: Our work and call Anna here. Hopefully she picks up 221 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 6: the phone and we can get some answers. 222 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 4: This is your fun. Huh yeah, this is the only fun. 223 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 4: Is all I get? All right, I'm gonna die. Anna, 224 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 4: maybe she could be my friend. Here we go. Hello, Hi, 225 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 4: we're looking to speak with. 226 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 8: Anna mass who's calling. 227 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 4: Yes, you may you're so polite. 228 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 3: It's a business call. 229 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 4: Jeff, Oh, yeah, I forgot. 230 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 6: We're a morning radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey 231 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 6: in the Morning. 232 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 4: Okay, let's keep a. 233 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 6: Casual over here and do a segment, you know, not 234 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 6: the business stuff. 235 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:53,839 Speaker 4: Sorry, so weird. 236 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 3: This is why we don't let him out of his room. 237 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 6: Okay, I'm just saying, sorry to interrupt your day, but 238 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 6: we're doing something. It's called a second Date update, and 239 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 6: we're trying to help out one of our listeners that 240 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 6: you went out to dinner with recently, a guy named 241 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 6: Eric that you work with. 242 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 8: Yeah, no, thanks, I wish I hadn't gone out with 243 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 8: that guy. 244 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 3: Oh wait, okay, so there's a regret there. 245 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, that's a. 246 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 6: Little bit unexpected, honestly, because we talked to Eric and 247 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 6: from what we heard about your hangout, it sounded like 248 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 6: it was a really fun time. 249 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 8: I mean it's kind of awkward. Yeah, but yeah, this 250 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 8: guy Eric, he puts out this like really nice guy energy. 251 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 8: But he's involved with a lot of other people that 252 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 8: I didn't know about. 253 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 3: Wait wait, wait, wait, what do you mean Like you're 254 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 3: saying he has other girlfriends? 255 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,679 Speaker 8: Well, I know he has one girlfriend? 256 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:57,680 Speaker 4: Oh oh wait just one? 257 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 3: Wait? How you know that? Like I thought he was 258 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 3: brand new to the city. How could he already. 259 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 8: Well, for one, like one of the girls in my office, 260 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 8: he flirts with her all the time. 261 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, are you sure he's not just being friendly? 262 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 8: No, he asked her out too. Oh, he asked her out. Yeah, 263 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 8: and luckily she didn't go out with him. But we 264 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 8: looked into this guy. We did some research on him, 265 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:27,080 Speaker 8: and we found out that he has an actual girlfriend 266 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 8: that's not someone in our office. 267 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 3: Wait. 268 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:34,679 Speaker 1: Really, so he's asking out multiple women in your office 269 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:36,679 Speaker 1: while being in a relationship like a. 270 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 3: Distance relationship, mayby or something distance. 271 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 8: No, I mean, I don't know if it's long distance 272 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:42,679 Speaker 8: or what it is. 273 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 3: Well kind of, I'm sorry. 274 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:46,439 Speaker 1: It's just so weird always to have like a cheater 275 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 1: like that call in to a very public radio station 276 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 1: and okay, risked outing himself, like what. 277 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 4: A alleged cheater? Well, that's what I don't know. 278 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:56,080 Speaker 6: Like, what. 279 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 1: What did you see? Did you see something online? He said, 280 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: I have a girlfriend. 281 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 8: Yeah. I found his Instagram and trust me, it just 282 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 8: shows everything. 283 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:10,079 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, people can say anything on Instagram. It doesn't 284 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 4: mean it's true. It could put about themselves on their own. 285 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, it might just be like you know, for cloud 286 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 6: for looks, it might not be real. 287 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 3: He doesn't get Yeah, but I should say this. 288 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: A better argument would be it could be old photos 289 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: from an x right, like maybe he hasn't taken that 290 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: stuff down. 291 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 8: The last one that he posted was like three or 292 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 8: four days ago together. 293 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 3: Isn't that like the same timeframe of when you to dinner? 294 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 8: Yeah, I went out with him like five days ago. 295 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: Oh wow, this is going to be awkward for not 296 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 1: the reasons I thought. 297 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:54,439 Speaker 6: Yeah, so clearly you're not into guys who already have girlfriends, 298 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 6: which goods. 299 00:12:57,600 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 4: I'm saying, good, good for her. 300 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 6: But we didn't know about a girlfriend or anything like 301 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 6: that when we talked to Eric. And you should probably 302 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 6: talk to him too, because he's on the other line 303 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 6: right now waiting to. 304 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 4: Speak to you. He's probably actually across the office too. 305 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 4: But it'd be more fun if we could hear the 306 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 4: phone conversation. 307 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 7: I'm confused because I don't understand what the issue is here. 308 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 8: I you don't see the issue Eric, you already have 309 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 8: a girlfriend. 310 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 7: I never said that I didn't have a girl. 311 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 8: Oh you took me on a date. 312 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 7: No, it was not a date. It was dinner so 313 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 7: that you would actual become better friends. 314 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 4: Now you're backtracking way, It was totally a date. 315 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 3: This is a second date updates. 316 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:45,839 Speaker 7: You call it that. I didn't call it a date. 317 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:46,680 Speaker 7: It was a dinner. 318 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 3: So what were you wanting to do? Just be friends 319 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:49,959 Speaker 3: with her? 320 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 8: Like? 321 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: This whole thing is a big misunderstanding. Is that what 322 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 1: you're trying to claim. 323 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 7: Look, here's what happened. My girlfriend and I were talking 324 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 7: about how my new job, I don't know anyone, and 325 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,720 Speaker 7: so she suggested. My girlfriend suggests that you try and 326 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 7: make more friends, and she's supportive of that. So then 327 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 7: I go to work after our hangout and You've been 328 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 7: treating me so cold. I've been just doing what my 329 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 7: girlfriend gold to do, is to make friends. 330 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 4: Wow. 331 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 8: Yeah, Well, I mean, Eric, I'm treating you cold because 332 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 8: you're also hitting on another coworker and flirting with everybody, And. 333 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 7: That's a little suspicious flirting with anybody. I'm being nice, 334 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 7: not hitting on anybody. I'm just being friendly and playful. 335 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 1: Well, you're only being friendly to the attractive single women 336 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 1: in the office. 337 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 7: Those are the people I vibe the best with, Truman. 338 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 4: They are friendly and fun. 339 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 6: So you say that your girlfriend is supportive of you 340 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 6: meeting new people and making new friendships at work. Does 341 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 6: she know the full extent that you're like asking these 342 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 6: women out to dinner with you? 343 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 7: She knows that I'm going out with people from work. 344 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 7: She doesn't need to know specifically how they look, or 345 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 7: they're attractedness level, or what we with our foods. 346 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 3: Does she go, you're writing into radio stations for dating, 347 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 3: said you have a girlfriend at all? 348 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 4: He says he's not. 349 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 6: He's not. 350 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:07,239 Speaker 4: After that, I guess. 351 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 8: I think that Eric is just trying to completely spin 352 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 8: this because he was definitely into me. 353 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm sorry. I think you're flattering yourself a little bit. 354 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 4: So now you can play though I have a. 355 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 7: Yeah, she wasn't even my type anyway. 356 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 6: Well that should be reassuring Anna. He's not attracted you. 357 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 6: Even if you wanted him, you couldn't. 358 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, this is a new work environment for you. 359 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 3: What are you doing? 360 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 7: Well, I'm sorry you got the wrong impression. That's what 361 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 7: I will. 362 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 4: I will say. 363 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 6: Brook tries to buy me dinner all the time, and 364 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 6: it is a huge turn off to me. 365 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 4: She's always like, Jeff, can I get you lunch? Jeff, 366 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 4: can I buy you meals erect. 367 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 5: She says, I'm attracted to you, Jeff, I know the 368 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 5: only turnoff. 369 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 3: The only turnoff is when I asked you to pay 370 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 3: me back. 371 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so you want this to be a date, 372 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 4: then you want to go Everybody saying brook your husband 373 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 4: listens to this? 374 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 8: Will you? 375 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 7: Guys sound just as dysfunctional as this situation has been. 376 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 7: You're really making it worse. And I want you to 377 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 7: know that I do still like you as a friend 378 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 7: and if you are interested, I would hang out with 379 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 7: you again in a non romantic way. 380 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 8: So this whole time, all you wanted to do was 381 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 8: to be friends with me. 382 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 7: Yes, I mean it's something around the corner. Maybe we 383 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 7: can go bikini shopping sometime, right my tree joke? 384 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 4: Are you joking? 385 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 3: But for his bikini? 386 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 4: Well that's better. 387 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 7: I'm being serious. That's what friends do. They go shopping together, 388 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 7: they have laughed, they give each other their opinions on 389 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 7: their bikinis on. 390 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 6: I was skeptical at first, but I'm fully come around 391 00:16:57,160 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 6: on Eric and his desire deep passionate friendship with you, Anna, 392 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:04,440 Speaker 6: And if you agree to see him one more time, 393 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 6: we would pay for your hangouts, your non romantic bikini hangouts. 394 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 3: I'm starting to understand why Eric had to move cities. 395 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:15,920 Speaker 6: You don't know that, Anna, What do you think about 396 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 6: giving Eric one more shot? 397 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 8: I think I'm going to pass on Eric at the office. 398 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I just say, try not to get yourself 399 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 3: reported over there. 400 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 7: Eric, exactly, that's the last time I make friends in 401 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 7: the office. 402 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 4: Is going to be so disappointed. 403 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 5: Reok and Jeffrey in the morning. 404 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 6: I had no idea that the number one friendship test 405 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:45,879 Speaker 6: to gauge how close you are as friends involved trying 406 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 6: on bikinis and raiding each other's looks in a totally platonic, 407 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 6: non sexual way. 408 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's so reassured. 409 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 3: That's normal. 410 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 1: I don't even want to try on bikinis with my girlfriends. 411 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 6: You must not like him very much, do no, Brook, 412 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 6: That's just what normal male and female friends do. 413 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 4: Do you have any friends, then you haven't done this. 414 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 3: I can't stand that guy. 415 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 4: I know for trying to find friendship at work. 416 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 3: Boom, screw you. He was not trying to find friendship 417 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 3: on the floor. 418 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm sorry, but his girlfriend would not be 419 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:24,640 Speaker 1: okay with him bikini shopping with other sing Come on. 420 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 4: You don't know. Relationships look different to everybody. 421 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 3: You keep defending them. 422 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 6: I think for our annual show camping trip, we need 423 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 6: to scrap that. Do an annual show shopping trip to 424 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:37,399 Speaker 6: the Pacific Sun. Get all matching swimwear. 425 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 3: I'm somehow that's still better than camping. 426 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 6: Yes, right, we're all going bikini shopping this summer day 427 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 6: because we're friends. But honestly, America is being serious and 428 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 6: he's looking for friendship. 429 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 4: He probably should change his approach drastically. Dude, Wait to 430 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 4: set the tone in a new city too, plays environment 431 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:57,399 Speaker 4: for him. 432 00:18:57,440 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 3: When that gets out, Dude, serious, I think it's out. 433 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, she's going to be moving cities again. Very short. 434 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 4: Yeah money, good news, I'm moving back. 435 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 6: But we're in cities all over the country. So no 436 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 6: matter where you need help in your dating life, you 437 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 6: can always email the show. We'll call that person who's 438 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 6: not calling you back.