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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and I Heart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, it is Friday. We have a little special

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Speaker 1: scrubbing in today because Tanya is going on the road.

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Speaker 1: I'm just going on tour. Dam I told you that

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Speaker 1: if you needed to do it on Monday, sorry, that

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Speaker 1: you could have a guest fill in for me. Um,

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Speaker 1: but we're here on a Friday. I chose you, you chose.

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Speaker 1: I've chosen early prerecorded Tanya over guest. I appreciate that,

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Speaker 1: you know why, because you are a loyal friend and

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Speaker 1: you are a modern woman that has nothing to do

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Speaker 1: with that. Should we do our little thing before we

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Speaker 1: get into the update? Y? Yeah, Eastan has it up

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Speaker 1: on the board. Yeah, right, here we go paging Dr

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Speaker 1: Tilly and Dr Red. It's so good, right wow, I

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Speaker 1: got chills. Right Yeah, that was exciting. So that's what's

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Speaker 1: That's what time it is. So that's when we're gonna

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Speaker 1: Now we're going to share our life updates exactly, and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna work with Miles to maybe make some more

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Speaker 1: if like you want to spice it up, you know,

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Speaker 1: whole suite. Yeah, um, wait, who are can you talk

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Speaker 1: about what you're like? What you're doing. I just want

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Speaker 1: to let you know, going on tour this weekend isn't normal,

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Speaker 1: Like this is you're you're used to this, but I

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Speaker 1: think this is very fascinating what you're doing, and personally

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Speaker 1: sounds like something awful to me having the buses. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so explain what you're doing. Um, So I'm going on tour.

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Speaker 1: Hayley Steinfeld and Charlie Pouth are on tour together, and

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Speaker 1: they're two both of them are really good friends of mine, So, um,

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Speaker 1: I obviously wanted to go on more than just go

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Speaker 1: on more than like one show. So I'm going down

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Speaker 1: to the tulibus to show and then bussing with them

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Speaker 1: too Arizona show and then potentially Texas. But the best

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Speaker 1: part about all this stuff is that like people, I

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Speaker 1: don't think like anybody realizes when you're like on a

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Speaker 1: bus that you don't have like space, right, Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: like you have a box like everybody has like bunks,

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Speaker 1: and then like you have your suitcase all underneath the bus.

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Speaker 1: So like when I want to change out of my pajamas,

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Speaker 1: I have to like get walk out of the bus,

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Speaker 1: get my bag out, open it on the ground, pull

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Speaker 1: my stuff out, and then put it back in and

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Speaker 1: it's really crazy. Like I remember I did it last

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Speaker 1: summer with Charlie when Charlie was on tour and we

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Speaker 1: um like we got up in the morning, we went

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Speaker 1: to go work out, so like every other people are

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Speaker 1: like sleeping on the bus, we have to get out,

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Speaker 1: pull out your workout clothes, put back in the bus,

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Speaker 1: go do I workout class, come back, pull out my clothes,

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Speaker 1: go shower in the venue because there's no shower in there.

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Speaker 1: It's very it's very interesting personally. I stayed on the

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Speaker 1: bus and I went and visited um Haley at one

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Speaker 1: point for one of her shows, and I stayed on

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Speaker 1: the bus and I didn't realize, you can't there's not

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Speaker 1: a shower and you can't. This is t M I,

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Speaker 1: but you can't go number two and so not that

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Speaker 1: I had to, but I was like, I kind of

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Speaker 1: got anxious. Happen when you can't do it? That's like

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Speaker 1: all you think about. And I asked her, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: so what happens if someone like, like, what happens if

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Speaker 1: someone's like I have to go, She's like, the bus

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Speaker 1: has to pull over. I'm like, I'd feel so mortified

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Speaker 1: if everyone had to stop because of me, Like, oh,

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Speaker 1: Becca had to go into the truck stop. But that's why,

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Speaker 1: Like when you stopped at the venues, you can like

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Speaker 1: really get things done done. And a lot of it

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Speaker 1: happens at night, like you're traveling at night, so you're

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Speaker 1: sleeping anyway exactly like you basically finished the show and

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Speaker 1: then everybody like showers gets on and you're basically sleeping

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Speaker 1: where's your bunk, Like are you sleeping with like the

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Speaker 1: crew or like what do you know yet? Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be on Haley's bus, so I sleep. I

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Speaker 1: mean wherever there's an extra bunk, to be honest, but

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Speaker 1: I'm usually they're all the same, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: like top, bottom, middle, they're all like the same amount,

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Speaker 1: like size wise, they're all coffin size. And I made

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Speaker 1: the mistake last year. I got into the wrong way.

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Speaker 1: So your feet are supposed to be like facing the

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Speaker 1: like i'd sleep on my right side. There's no way

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Speaker 1: like no, that would be like if your bed was

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Speaker 1: up against your all what No, it makes sense? Wait,

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Speaker 1: you're on the bus, I don't know. Yeah, your feet

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Speaker 1: have to face the driver, you know. But one of

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Speaker 1: the thing isn't wouldn't you naturally assume like, oh, I

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Speaker 1: want to be facing where the direction I'm going in?

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Speaker 1: So I normally sleep. I normally sleep on my right side,

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Speaker 1: like on my right side, and to me, I wanted

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Speaker 1: to have my back. I don't like having my face

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Speaker 1: where the curtain is so people can just like look

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Speaker 1: and see my face. Does that makes sense? Like they

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Speaker 1: open the curtain and then there's ton of space, So

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Speaker 1: now they open the curtain, there's ton is back. That

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Speaker 1: makes sense. No one should be open in your curtain, disrespectful.

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Speaker 1: Oh I opened the curtains to see which one I'm

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Speaker 1: going to get in inspection of each's. Wow, would it

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Speaker 1: would be like six am, She's like singing, world, Like

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Speaker 1: shut up. I would want my face to the curtain

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Speaker 1: so I could keep an eye on who's Poe get out? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I'm excited. A super said so last summer I

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Speaker 1: be on Haley's. Yeah, you had a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: I remember, like much fun. And Charlie's bed was like

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Speaker 1: literally we would like stay in there and like how

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Speaker 1: like you know, like girl chocolate um, and his bed

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Speaker 1: But you also, we were talking about this on the

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Speaker 1: don't fully sleep all I have to add my pillow

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Speaker 1: So I get anxious when I feel like I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: be like in my head, i'd be like I'm going

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Speaker 1: important things. So I'm going actually today I'm going home

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Speaker 1: and then on top of that, like I'm not going

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Speaker 1: your vacation time. Yeah, so it's all kinds of craye

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Speaker 1: if anyone can handle it and make the most of

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Speaker 1: it though, you're the girl yea. Next Yeah, we'll have

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Speaker 1: a full update on our next podcast because this will

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Speaker 1: be interesting to hear about. Oh, I wanted to talk

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Speaker 1: about the Music Summit, oh really quickly because so I

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Speaker 1: there for the it's called that I heard rating Music Summit,

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Speaker 1: and I literally, when I tell you, I used to

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Speaker 1: beg to go to this thing, Like I used to

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Speaker 1: beg Eastern Remembers like six years ago, like very openly

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Speaker 1: what is it? What is the summit? Um? It basically

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Speaker 1: these artists, uh, these labels come and they like um

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Speaker 1: present their music for the next six months. Yeah. So

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Speaker 1: basically just like a sneak peak of like what music

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Speaker 1: And it's like it was like a life moment, you

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Speaker 1: like keep pushing, keep moving forward, because just because you

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Speaker 1: see like Superarpent is so cool too, She's she's amazing

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Speaker 1: the best. But yeah, thank you, because it was like

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Speaker 1: making the rounds. People interested, very interested, people liking it,

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Speaker 1: people liking it. Um, yeah, I mean it's really I think,

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Speaker 1: and so it's really cool, Like I just like each

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Speaker 1: or you're presenting, or you're doing something with my heart.

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Speaker 1: That's it's really awesome. It's thank you, and I think

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Speaker 1: Facebook group, there's so many people and they're like, I

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Speaker 1: don't really know what I want to do with my life,

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Speaker 1: and or I feel discouraged, like I'm not. I think

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Speaker 1: it's very encouraging to see like you have those moments

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Speaker 1: Thank you. There's this book in front of me, which

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Speaker 1: is this yours. Yeah, but they sent it to me.

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Speaker 1: How to be as happy as you look on social media? Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was like, it's a sign something. Um, that's interesting.

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Speaker 1: Have you read it? No? Oh, have you looked at

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Speaker 1: any of like skinned it or anything. I'm curious you

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Speaker 1: Let me just tell you that I agree it's not

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Speaker 1: good day. Thanks for calling in. The saying is sometimes

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Speaker 1: someone and really hit it off, like you know how

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00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: hard it is to really hit it off with someone,

427
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,399
Speaker 1: so you know, it's hard to think like, oh, you

428
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,879
Speaker 1: just either run or be okay with it, Like it

429
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 1: would be a conversation and you have to think about it.

430
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 1: But I don't think it's I personally don't know if

431
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 1: it would be a deal breaker if I, like really

432
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 1: really hit it off with someone and like someone, Oh,

433
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 1: Erica knows someone who's going through this. I have a

434
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:13,639
Speaker 1: friend who has herbes, And honestly, it's like one of

435
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 1: those things where you have to be very careful about

436
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 1: managing it, I think. But she has said, like it

437
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:25,159
Speaker 1: doesn't ultimately affect your relationships because you obviously have to

438
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,679
Speaker 1: tell them, but you can also be very careful and

439
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 1: not spread it. So really it's actually like you can

440
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 1: have sex and not spread it. Really, that's interesting. So

441
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 1: it's not the end of the world. It's not ideal,

442
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 1: but it's not the correct It's like trying to think,

443
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 1: what else is an ideal? Having two left feet you

444
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:52,679
Speaker 1: have to buy like four pairs of shoes. Yeah, I

445
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:54,920
Speaker 1: don't know. That was not like a comparison. I don't know.

446
00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 1: That's really off of that suggestion. That's really interesting, Erica,

447
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:05,679
Speaker 1: It's very interesting. I mean I don't know all the

448
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 1: details but I know she said it hasn't ruined her life,

449
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,120
Speaker 1: so that's a good outlook on it. It shouldn't ruin

450
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 1: your life. Um, are we have another asking a guy question?

451
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,439
Speaker 1: Do you have our next? Ask a guy? I have

452
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 1: our our next ask a guy? I'll Texas number to Erica. Okay, sorry,

453
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:25,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm suffering from allergies and I haven't really

454
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: ever had allergies like this. This is the one. Remember last.

455
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 1: We don't talk about your allergies. I'm talking about I'm sniffling.

456
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 1: But anyways, go ahead, I'm done. I'm done the sniffles.

457
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: Please tell us about your allergies. I just said I

458
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 1: have them. That's why I'm sniffling. Go We're done. Don't

459
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:55,400
Speaker 1: get any moment of getting sympathy, Offer dessert, tech nothing.

460
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 1: You've been talking about these allergies for the past week.

461
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 1: I don't on the podcast. No, why don't you take

462
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:06,119
Speaker 1: any medication? I do? It doesn't go away? No, well

463
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:11,439
Speaker 1: I didn't take one this morning. We actual thank you.

464
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 1: Easton was looking for maybe Dr Pinvil Popper might know

465
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 1: when you have allergies. Do you have to take the

466
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 1: allergy medication every day? I mean, I think so until

467
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 1: indefinitely until what whatever? Yeah, it sounds like a pain. Yeah. Thanks,

468
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: that's the sympathy I was looking for, now that we've

469
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,919
Speaker 1: discussed it thoroughly. Anyways, who do you have for us?

470
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 1: Was he on? He's on? Okay? Uh um. This is

471
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 1: from last week when we decided we wanted to bring

472
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: back Ask a Guy. We said we were going to

473
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: do the question of if you're friends with a guy,

474
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 1: how do you flip it from friend zone to end zone?

475
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: How to tell the guy is interested? And like, how

476
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 1: to how to? And she yeah, so on the phone,

477
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:09,239
Speaker 1: on the phone we have the pain. Then though, I'm like,

478
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: are we calling him deep Pain? What if we had

479
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:17,360
Speaker 1: a nickname for him? Deep Pain? Hey? Then how are you?

480
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: I'm good? I'm good. Um, just so y'all know this

481
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 1: has been Patton. This is the Ben Patton actually, the

482
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,159
Speaker 1: one on the one and only. Um, A lot of

483
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,880
Speaker 1: people like, you know, we have a lot of our

484
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: Facebook group, They're like, girls, what are y'all waiting for

485
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: JoJo's brother? Yeah, we have a lot of a lot

486
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 1: of fans. Been yeah, a lot of fans. That's nice

487
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 1: of him, that's nice to him. So what I get

488
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,199
Speaker 1: the impression this question here I need to answer for

489
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: all the men in America or something. Yea, all the

490
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 1: men in America. But this is the thing. This is

491
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 1: not so much for the men. This is for the ladies,

492
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,439
Speaker 1: because you know, Tony and I give our advice, but

493
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: sometimes it's like we need a guy who's kind of

494
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 1: in the dating world and has that perspective on things.

495
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: So I mean, obviously you know us, but like for me,

496
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,439
Speaker 1: I'm like the hopeless romantic. So when I'm giving advice,

497
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, just hold out. It's gonna be all right,

498
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 1: it's all gonna work out the way it's supposed to do.

499
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 1: And sometimes I feel like sometimes sometimes I have to

500
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:24,360
Speaker 1: be like Tanya, it's just it's not gonna it's that's

501
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:29,159
Speaker 1: not it. He's not the one. Yeah, yeah, I'm happy

502
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: to answer question. We need honesty, We need the real,

503
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: honest truth. Don't hold back. Um, Tony, do you want

504
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 1: to ask the I kind of told him what it was,

505
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 1: but you can give a little more detail. But basically,

506
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 1: what we want to know from a guy's perspective. If

507
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: you a lot of girls all right in and say

508
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 1: I have this guy friend, but I want it to

509
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: be more how do I know if he wants it

510
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 1: to be more like, what are signs that can pick

511
00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 1: up on? Is this something like basically taking it from

512
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: friends the end zone? Got it? This is a tricky

513
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: one because there's not it's not going to be like

514
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: every single situation is going to be the thing. What

515
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 1: I will say is that this goes both ways. The

516
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: way I'm responding to it. This is the same thing

517
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 1: I tell a guy if you wanted to get out

518
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 1: of the friend zone with a girl, that's good. Um.

519
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: First and foremost is you have got to get social,

520
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: like I don't know, like you gotta get the walls

521
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: dropped down, right. So if you basically get this person

522
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 1: and they're in the group setting, they're gonna sit into

523
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: their friend zone. They're gonna stay where it's safe in

524
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 1: the friends zone because they have people watching them might

525
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: be uncomfortable. You've got to get him to a point

526
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: where it's a little bit more warm one. So doing

527
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: a group you gotta pull him aside from the group

528
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: or kind of talk to him in a corner because

529
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: around their friends just they're always going to go to

530
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: their stafe spots. Second, you gotta have a little bit

531
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: of alcohol liquid. And I'm not trying to say like

532
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 1: get the person drunk, but people, all right, when you're flirting,

533
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: as you get a little bit more intoxicated, and you

534
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 1: know that liquid courage kind of kicks them. You can

535
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: push flirting a little bit further, but you're kind of

536
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 1: nervous to flirt aggressively if you don't feel like it's

537
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 1: landing well. You know, like if it's you kind of

538
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 1: flirt and say something and they're sober, then you're like, oh,

539
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 1: well now I'm gonna stay and excuse me. I cut that.

540
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 1: You gotta be able to keep pushing that flirt further

541
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: and further. And it's hard if the person dead sober,

542
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 1: because they're like, I'm trying to be all flirty, but

543
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: I feel like they're very rigid, right, So you give

544
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 1: them a little bit, you know, a little bit buzzed,

545
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: and then they start to maybe flirt back, and that's

546
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: your it's your positive feedback loop, right. So once you

547
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: start getting a little bit flirtation back, that tells you, okay,

548
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 1: I can flirt a little bit more. And then they

549
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: flirt a little bit more, and then you flirt a

550
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 1: little bit more, and so I think, what you start with,

551
00:30:56,320 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: is get him an opportunity him or her, an opportunity

552
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 1: where you can kind of have fun and talk to

553
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: them kind of in a secluded kind of space. So

554
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 1: if you go to like drink some group of friends

555
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: and all the friends are all they watching, this isn't

556
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: gonna fly and you're gonna constantly think, well, he just

557
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 1: doesn't like me, when it might just be like he's

558
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: just sitting in his safe spot, in his safe spot

559
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: as friends though, or maybe there's another girl in the

560
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: group and you know, he might be interested in that girl,

561
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: which doesn't mean he won't explore things with you, but

562
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to necessarily be pushing the agenda with

563
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 1: you in front of somebody else who he might have

564
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 1: had an interest in, you know. So there's awkwardnesses that

565
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: can come in a group. You just gotta isolated, right,

566
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: you get him isolated and you have, you know, some

567
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 1: drink or you're in calis, you guys might smoke instead.

568
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: But the point is that what if you don't drink

569
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 1: or smoke, Like, what if you don't look if you're

570
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 1: if you're one of these people that don't drink or

571
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 1: don't smoke, you can still do this, But you're just

572
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: gonna have to have more natural courage. You're gonna have

573
00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: to like recognize, yeah, you guts say, man, this isn't

574
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: coming from me having my inhibitions lower. This is going

575
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: straight up courage. You gotta have. Natural courage is like

576
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: super legit. You don't need that, you don't need to

577
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: have all that. Oh, there's nothing better than natural courage.

578
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: I'm not saying this either, think that's just it's a

579
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 1: higher appe he's saying. He's saying, if you if if

580
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: you're struggling to have that natural courage and you are

581
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 1: okay with drinking, why not? Why not? Yeah? And truthfully,

582
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: if the other person really it's more you want them

583
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 1: to be drinking. So when you've flirt, they give you

584
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: more feedback because if somebody's sober, is like sometimes they're

585
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 1: more emotionally closed off. Right, when your inhibitions are lowered,

586
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:44,719
Speaker 1: you're a little bit more reactive and responsive rather than

587
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: closed off. And that's what you're trying to get. You're

588
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: trying to like flirt or say something flirty or something

589
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 1: and have them say something that's kind of also flirty. Well,

590
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: now you're things are moving along the lines of that

591
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 1: flirting stuff and the next thing, you know, things to

592
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: get really super floating for the end of the night,

593
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 1: you guys might end up, you know, having a moment

594
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: or something. But if you don't, that's okay because what

595
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 1: you've done now is you put it in his mind

596
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: and that that chemistry now is going to start working

597
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: on a tax. But he might go home that night

598
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:15,959
Speaker 1: and think, dude, I had a lot of fun and

599
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 1: she was really flirty, like something can definitely happen here,

600
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 1: and then he'll just like that'll kind of fit in

601
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 1: his mind and kind of that feed will take root.

602
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: He doesn't have to be like the first night, but

603
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: you have to be able to start with something that's small,

604
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 1: like a little bit of a flirt, and push that

605
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: and just keep pushing the flirting a little bit more aggressively,

606
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 1: a little more aggressively if they're giving you the fee

607
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: that if they're not, you may be stuck in friends zone.

608
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean you're not an awesome person, but that's

609
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 1: your answer. What it is, that's your answer. You're trying

610
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: to see if it is possible if you keep trying

611
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: to flirt with someone and then not giving you feedback move.

612
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: Then there's your answer. It's just not possible because they

613
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: don't see it. But most of the time people will

614
00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 1: reciprocate flirting with more flirting. You know, it's good. This

615
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:04,200
Speaker 1: is this is like, um, you got to get the

616
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: right place and the right the right but get alone. Yeah,

617
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 1: have some alone time. Two solid takeaways. I'd say, I

618
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,359
Speaker 1: think we keep Ben as like our ask a guy

619
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: go to. Yeah, Ben, do you mind if we keep

620
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 1: you in the hopper? No, this is this is actually,

621
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 1: you know, helpful because I like to hear questions women

622
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 1: are wondering about. We got a show for both of us,

623
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 1: and we got a whole stack of him right here. Well,

624
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: we are keeping you as our go to. We're helping

625
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 1: you on the hopper speedal thank you so much. Ben.

626
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 1: We miss you, miss you so much. Miss you guys.

627
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 1: Have a great time. Alright, bye. Okay, So this next

628
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 1: time I hang out with him, if I'm like, hey,

629
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 1: you want to go, yeah, you're going to going to

630
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 1: use his own moves on him. That's that Thing's more, Tanya.

631
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: If I love that, please do it. I totally want

632
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: to report back like everything that he told you to do.

633
00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: Do it. See if he even notices been so cute.

634
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 1: He's so sweet. Um, you know we might be able

635
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Speaker 1: love bowling Branch, so I'm happy to talk about it.

639
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Speaker 1: And your transition wasn't great. Bowling branches great. You go

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Speaker 1: from shopping for sheets to be in It's actually really funny.

641
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Speaker 1: So I was posting these videos. I was in my

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Speaker 1: bed last night listening to Ariana Grande's new album and

643
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Speaker 1: somebody messaged me and was like, I love everything about

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Speaker 1: this Ariana's album and you're rolling around your bowling branch.

645
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Speaker 1: That was a loyalistener right there. Um. Yeah, I just

646
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647
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Speaker 1: and that's why I do. But I always have like

648
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Speaker 1: an extra pair, like my sheets, you know, always have

649
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Speaker 1: a clean set ready to go. And I was laying

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Speaker 1: in bed last night, I had just taken a shower,

651
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Speaker 1: shaved my legs, and I was like, is there a

652
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Speaker 1: better feeling than soft, clean sheets shaved legs? And I

653
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Speaker 1: don't think so. Um, Bowling branch makes the softest most

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Speaker 1: comfortable organic cotton sheets that you'll ever sleep on. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: when they only sell to you online at Bowling Branch

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Speaker 1: dot com. So their sheets cost less than half of

657
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658
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Speaker 1: like I said, they're made from pure organic cotton. They

659
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Speaker 1: start basically what that's saying is that they start off

660
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Speaker 1: soft when you get them. It's not like you have

661
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Speaker 1: They start soft and then they just get softer as

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Speaker 1: you wash them and sleep on them. I feel like

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666
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Speaker 1: Branch dot com promo code Becca. That was beautiful we

675
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Speaker 1: really came back with a strong So Becca would like

676
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Speaker 1: to give a warning before our next Yes, we have

677
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 1: a guest here. It's Dr pimple Popper and she does

678
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 1: some extreme pimple popping sister removal things that you won't

679
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 1: want to hear if you're eating. So, if you're eating

680
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: or um sensitive to things such as this, I'm not sensitive,

681
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 1: So listen to his Yeah, she watches our videos. Um,

682
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: but I was just I wanted to give a fair

683
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 1: warning that it might be sensitive if you're eating, So

684
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 1: stop now, or stop eating or stop listening. I don't

685
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:59,919
Speaker 1: stop listening. I mean for later after you eat. That's

686
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:04,320
Speaker 1: that's all, okay. So we have uh Dr pimple Popper

687
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:10,359
Speaker 1: on the podcast today. She is on the phone. Hi, Hello, Hi,

688
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: it's actually hi Hi. UM. We have we are very

689
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:20,240
Speaker 1: excited to have you on. Um. I personally this is Becca.

690
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 1: I am um terrified of what you do to be

691
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 1: and I this is Tanya. I am obsessed with you.

692
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 1: I can get sucked into a hole watching your videos

693
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 1: for probably a solid like three hours. That's awesome. We

694
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: need to convert her. We'll work. I'll help you work

695
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: on her, slowly, work on slowly am so intrigued by it.

696
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:45,359
Speaker 1: I will literally get to the point where like I

697
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:52,720
Speaker 1: am like gagging watching, but I can't stop. Okay, not alone.

698
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm not the videos. I think that that pull people in.

699
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: I don't know how. I don't know what power I

700
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 1: have on it, but I wish I could just bottle

701
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 1: it sometimes. Actually, I want you to talk about this

702
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 1: because when did you start posting these videos on Instagram?

703
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 1: This like probably about three and a half almost four

704
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:13,240
Speaker 1: years ago, like October or so, two thousand fourteen, and

705
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,879
Speaker 1: and then it just like blew Like there's a there's

706
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: like a like a uh, what's the word? I'm looking

707
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: for a community of people that are obsessed with this

708
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 1: and you are our queen. Yeah, it is like a

709
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: I think what will really happen? Was it blew up

710
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 1: so quickly and efficiently? Really, because I think the way

711
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 1: that algorithms work on social media that if you have

712
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 1: a topic that's sort of popolarizing, you know, I think

713
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:44,399
Speaker 1: it creates a big reaction, whether it's discussed or obsession,

714
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,959
Speaker 1: and either way, people want to share it with their friends.

715
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 1: And I think that's really how it grew because people

716
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: would share it, engage in the photo and then you

717
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: just see you know, other people would see it, more

718
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 1: people would see it. I tried to watch last night

719
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:01,879
Speaker 1: because I was, you know, really trying to invest myself,

720
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:06,439
Speaker 1: and I was with my friends and I just saw

721
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: like the thumbnail of the video and I started getting

722
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: I started gagging and said then I clicked on it

723
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 1: and showed it to them, and they love it and

724
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: they started gagging within They were like, show us another one.

725
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 1: And I'm like, this is so interesting to me, because

726
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 1: right it is. It's funny because it's fastening to me too. Yeah,

727
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 1: I don't get it in a way like I get it,

728
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't because I am myself. I'm

729
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 1: I'm not apopoholic. I don't have to see like I

730
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 1: can't watch other things that are similar like that somebody else.

731
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 1: I can't watch it. Somebody else has done it. I

732
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 1: can't watch it. It's just like it's disgusting to me,

733
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 1: and I think it has something to do with me.

734
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 1: Maybe it's I have control and I know that I'm

735
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 1: doing it, and I know that I the person that

736
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:55,760
Speaker 1: they're not in pain and it's done and you're helping

737
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 1: their all manner and things like that I don't know,

738
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: like Dr Lee, I almost feel like I am kind

739
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,840
Speaker 1: of like you because I when I was in a relationship,

740
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,319
Speaker 1: my boyfriend used to save his pimples for me, Like

741
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: when I would I mean that I meant so much

742
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 1: to you. I had a girlfriend asked me to do

743
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 1: the same thing because he would like save them because

744
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: I lived, like I just enjoyed popping them so much

745
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:22,240
Speaker 1: that he would save them for me. So I don't

746
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,760
Speaker 1: even know what to say right now. But it's interesting

747
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 1: because some people will say, you know, like how you

748
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 1: feel you felt Tanya, that that you know people like Tanya,

749
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 1: you're the one that likes it. Yes, yes, and and

750
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:36,799
Speaker 1: but you can watch it too. Some people can't even

751
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: watch it, they can only do it, you know. So

752
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: it's weird how people have different preferences within it. But

753
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: it's so awesome because so basically you started out, you

754
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 1: started doing this on YouTube, Instagram, and now you have

755
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 1: your own television show. Yes, is that not? It's so insane,

756
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 1: but it's so awesome, Like I think it's I want

757
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 1: you to talk a little bit about that because I

758
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 1: think there's a lot of people out there in the

759
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 1: world who like, have you know, I mean your a dermatologist,

760
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 1: you know, you have like but you found this little

761
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: niche that was an undiscovered niche and you made it

762
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: your platform. And it's really I mean, it's crazy. You

763
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 1: have a television show on til Wednesday's at ten pm.

764
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: It's the number one ranked renewed for a second season.

765
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 1: Like you talk about like kind of how that experience

766
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 1: was kind of where you felt like you maybe had

767
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: something that was yeah, like it. It's outdone itself in

768
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: so many different ways. In the beginning, you know, I

769
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: found something that I realized. I recognized that there was

770
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 1: people that were interested in this, and at one point

771
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 1: I was, you know, I was just completely you know,

772
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 1: blown over the fact that they were fifty people in

773
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 1: this group you know on the internet. I thought, oh

774
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 1: my gosh, I can't believe there's all these people that

775
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 1: watch it. But now obviously there's so much more. And

776
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 1: I think that there's part of it as an interest,

777
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 1: you know, like fascination with the human body. Um. And

778
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 1: then there's those of us that watch these that like

779
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: because they relax them, you know, they they make them

780
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:02,720
Speaker 1: less feel less panicked or there it's their bedtime stories

781
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:04,839
Speaker 1: that helps put them, helps them to sleep at night.

782
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 1: And it's just like every time it's outdone itself, Like

783
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 1: I think, okay, well we have this YouTube channel, we

784
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: have these people who follow follow me. Here are they

785
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 1: really going to follow me on TV? And it is

786
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,799
Speaker 1: it's still you know, we're finding more people that are

787
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 1: interested in this, and you know, I think that what

788
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:26,879
Speaker 1: has made the TV show so nice is the fact that,

789
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,320
Speaker 1: you know, it shows so much more than just what

790
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: what we do. It's not for gruesome or shocking reasons.

791
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 1: It's like we're really helping people. And that's what I

792
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 1: think makes people people say that they watch it, you know,

793
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:40,280
Speaker 1: feel because you know, in this day and age, reality

794
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 1: shows are really about creating dissension or or making people

795
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 1: who are normal crazy looking, and that's why you watch it.

796
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: But here it's like the opposite. We're taking things that

797
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 1: many people would consider crazy looking and making them normals

798
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: like the opposite, and I think people just feel good

799
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: about that, They feel better about humankind. Maybe after after

800
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,760
Speaker 1: this show, I had a quick question if people want

801
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 1: to do home popping, do you not recommend that or

802
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,359
Speaker 1: is there like a way to of course I don't

803
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,479
Speaker 1: recommend it. Yeah, I mean well, I think that's one show.

804
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:14,720
Speaker 1: Was one episode, the fifth episode that somebody actually removed

805
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 1: his own like Poma and his garage, you know, which

806
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:19,359
Speaker 1: I don't recommend, but you know, if you're talking about

807
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: pimples in general, I don't recommend. Just like any other demotolgist,

808
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 1: I'm not going to recommend that you pop your own pimples,

809
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: but I know people are going to try to do

810
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 1: that anyway. I mean, I'm the same way you can't

811
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 1: keep your hands on Yeah, I think it's just the

812
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 1: right way to do it. You know. The closest thing

813
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 1: I get to any of this that where I'm like

814
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 1: fascinated is when I use like the poor strips and

815
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,040
Speaker 1: pull that off and I look, I like, hold it

816
00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 1: in the sun and look at what I've done for

817
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 1: myself at it. Right. Yeah, I'm like it is. And

818
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: I also feel like people probably watch and I mean

819
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 1: what you're doing obviously there's something that I don't understand,

820
00:44:54,480 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: but a fascination with you know, watching something um yeah, yeah, yeah,

821
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:04,799
Speaker 1: like something to heal, Like you're watching something heal like

822
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:08,319
Speaker 1: right in front of you. But yeah, well I mean

823
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: like a volcano. Yeah. Yes, there's people who like fix

824
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: foot because I think it gives you a rush of endor.

825
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 1: It's like writing a scary watching a scary movie. It's

826
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 1: going to come out, you never know. It's very unexpected,

827
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:23,719
Speaker 1: it's going to come on the corner and scary. Is

828
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 1: that kind of thing. Um are rundown with like all

829
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 1: the information about you that are lovely, Tory wrote, I

830
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,800
Speaker 1: was reading it and it says you wear a splash mask.

831
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:39,880
Speaker 1: Absolutely ste well, you don't want to get splash with anything.

832
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,399
Speaker 1: I mean, if you get splash with something, even though

833
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:45,720
Speaker 1: there's no smell or it doesn't hurt you, it literally

834
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 1: feels like acid on your arm. You know, keep on

835
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 1: your mind. You're like, get this thing, you know. That's

836
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 1: that's that's the way it is. Just like if you

837
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 1: got poop or something blast on you, you'd be like,

838
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 1: get this thing off of me, you know. Right, It's

839
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 1: like that's not supposed to be there. Someone helped to

840
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: be there. Now, um okay, and then we love um

841
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,720
Speaker 1: love and good stories here of you know, love and romance.

842
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: And your husband is your partner your practice as well. Right,

843
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 1: he's the other germantologists here in the office. We met

844
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 1: a medical school. We met him at quite romantic. He

845
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:27,399
Speaker 1: when we were in gross anatomy, you know, first year

846
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 1: medical school, we all have our own cadavers that you know,

847
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 1: like there's five people in a group, and I was

848
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 1: like at one corner of the room and he was

849
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 1: in the other, and he was interested in me. So

850
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: every day, once a week with me at gross anatomy,

851
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: he would make his way over to my table and

852
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 1: be really interested in what we were doing and say, oh,

853
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 1: you know, did you find your call and we found ours?

854
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: Do you want me to show you where? You're like

855
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: very helpful. You guys were like a real life. Wasn't

856
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 1: that like a love story? Yeah, I mean, you know,

857
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: everyone has their own version of a love story. But

858
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: that's more of that's more of what I like to

859
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: hear as opposed to watching I really did. I tried

860
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: last night. I was like, I'm gonna just sit here

861
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 1: and try to watch these videos. And now it's just well,

862
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 1: you know, you have to start off easy. There are

863
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: there are soft pops and there are hard pops, and

864
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 1: you want to start with a soft pop because that's

865
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 1: not gonna have any blood. There's no anesthesia that's needed,

866
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: there's no needles, there's no you know, cutting or surgery,

867
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 1: and that's when it can be quite like amazing. I

868
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 1: mean that's when I've been sucked in myself to just

869
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: going wow. That's like, you know, I can see why

870
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 1: this is hypnotizing some to some people, because it's just

871
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 1: like wow, look at what's you know, just like it's

872
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 1: almost like a little like it should be played with

873
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 1: with elevator beauties or something. It's just soothing. I think

874
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 1: Eastern fainted. I mean, I'm into it. I totally get it. Yeah, yeah,

875
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,320
Speaker 1: you gotta look up, have him look up. There's a

876
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: there's a few of them. I god, I gotta find

877
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 1: out the name of one of them. Is your is

878
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 1: your practice in Los Angeles? It is outside of Los Angeles.

879
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 1: I'm like between l A and pomp Springs. That's a

880
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 1: town called Upland. Oh yeah, Claremont Pomona. You should go

881
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 1: have a day. We could scrub in if I ever

882
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:18,879
Speaker 1: if I think someone would faint, I know I would faint.

883
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,359
Speaker 1: I would need a chair and like a like some

884
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: water and a juice box or something. If I ever

885
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 1: have a cist, I literally want to come to you

886
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 1: and of course we'll take care of you because I

887
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 1: want to watch it. Yeah, of course a lot of

888
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 1: people watch their own. They might not watch it while

889
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: we're doing it, but I definitely can show them right after.

890
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: Or I definitely let people hold whatever was removed. They

891
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,479
Speaker 1: have like a moment alone with it. They can talk

892
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 1: to it if they want to stay there. Goodbye. I

893
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 1: am just. I've got your video up the afflete named

894
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: Blackhead Field of Dreams, and I love that you have

895
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: a dr pimple popper branded like extraction tool whatever that is.

896
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 1: I have to have some sense, you guys. Have you

897
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: seen my socks? My stocks are my favorite thing. The

898
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,800
Speaker 1: socks are like, um, when you put your feet in

899
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 1: the socks, they look like hands with the thumbs pointing

900
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 1: at the big toe and then people until you put

901
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:12,960
Speaker 1: your feet up in there and you pop like pimples

902
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:20,360
Speaker 1: like they're amazing. We'll have to send your yeah, we would.

903
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: I just I really I really enjoy and not just

904
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 1: the fact that I really enjoy watching all your videos.

905
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: I enjoy the it's just kind of a really cool

906
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: story of finding something that hasn't been done and just

907
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,319
Speaker 1: kind of writing it out and watching it grow and

908
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 1: just being persistent, and it's like who I mean ten

909
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 1: years ago when you were no. I think that the

910
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 1: key is at that point, just for you follow you know,

911
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: people who are younger than I am, and especially for

912
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 1: you women too. I think you know, I'm a very

913
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: girl power kind of woman that you know. I think

914
00:49:55,800 --> 00:50:00,200
Speaker 1: the trick is to like recognize an opportunity and then

915
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 1: seize upon it. And it still takes hard work. Things

916
00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 1: are not going to be given to you have to.

917
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:08,840
Speaker 1: I was working at this, like, I was posting every day,

918
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 1: finding something to post every day just because I saw

919
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: this little spark of something. What is this like literally

920
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 1: throwing another log on the fire, trying to see what

921
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 1: we can make of this? And and that's I mean,

922
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,839
Speaker 1: it's shocking to me too that it's come this far.

923
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 1: I mean, we have a we have a TV show,

924
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 1: I have a book coming out, we have a game. Now,

925
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 1: we've seen Pimple Pete. You can get it on Amazon.

926
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 1: Now it's going to be in a Walmart and a Target.

927
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: And yeah, and I think that the only way that

928
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 1: this is sustaining itself to is the fact that, um,

929
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 1: it's making people happy, which is the weirdest thing. You

930
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: know that that's something that a lot of people think

931
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 1: is gruesome or grotesque, but it's actually making people happy.

932
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:52,800
Speaker 1: That's the only reason why it's sustaining itself. We're helping

933
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: people and the people who like to watch it in

934
00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,839
Speaker 1: general and makes them more joyful. I mean, you've made

935
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:01,839
Speaker 1: me very happy. Yeah, that makes people happy. Makes you. Oh,

936
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 1: I'm ready to attack the rest of my afternoon. I

937
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,920
Speaker 1: watched a good pumping video. Well, maybe I need to

938
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 1: really just like allow myself missing out on something. Well, no,

939
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:13,920
Speaker 1: I don't want to, you know, I think that it's

940
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 1: just the feeling. It's just like this feeling of exhilaration

941
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 1: almost that people get. You know what I'm gonna do.

942
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to make sure I find like one of

943
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:24,840
Speaker 1: the basic the video that really got me way in

944
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:28,720
Speaker 1: early on, and it's a very basic, simple, simple video.

945
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: And just see what you think about that. I don't

946
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 1: think it's going to gross you out. I don't think

947
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: it will, okay, but you just see what you think

948
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:37,359
Speaker 1: about it. I'll try to make sure I I send

949
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:40,839
Speaker 1: that to you, Okay. So thank you seriously thanking the time,

950
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 1: thank you for being popaholic, and I enjoy I look

951
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 1: forward to you guys wearing my stock at least if

952
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 1: you can't pop anything, Becca, maybe you will to pop

953
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:53,719
Speaker 1: Tanga's head with your stock. Thank you, I'll do that

954
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:58,720
Speaker 1: for a photo. Okay, thank you. Have a great day, guys.

955
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 1: My favorite part about that was that she was talking

956
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 1: about like, um, all the how win things fly at

957
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: her and it feels like acid. It's kind of poop

958
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 1: you and I just see tiny reach over to a tray.

959
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,680
Speaker 1: I'm expect well, I'm getting hungry. I wasn't even phased

960
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: by it like I was. I'm about to vomit. Asan

961
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: and I are both like our eyes are rolling back.

962
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, loozy about to fall into my chair? How

963
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: are you? Like? We're in the o R. You guys

964
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 1: need to buck up. There's something I don't know, something

965
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 1: about like someone cutting someone open and doing surgery versus

966
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: that doesn't sound that doesn't sound as bad as like

967
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 1: what it's I tried one time, removing somebody's cis like okay,

968
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:40,560
Speaker 1: I'm literally I might actually start guying. I really don't

969
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:43,439
Speaker 1: want to. Um. That was a lot. I do feel

970
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: hope for myself. Maybe I'll get into it because people

971
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,200
Speaker 1: are into it, are really into it. Yeah, it's kind

972
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 1: of like I used to watch videos of cutting soap.

973
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 1: That's also like a big fat on the internet. But

974
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 1: that's fine. That's not watching some weird Yeah, yeah, that's

975
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 1: not a butt. I'm just watching somebody cut soap. Yeah,

976
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: there's like those oddly satisfy. I mean, there's a lot

977
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 1: of things like that. But something about the human body

978
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:11,279
Speaker 1: makes you you know, so I'm a little sensitive to it.

979
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 1: That's it. Maybe I gotta build it up, not sure, um,

980
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: but it just made me want to. I wanted to,

981
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 1: like shower brush my teeth, just get clean. Speaking of

982
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:24,959
Speaker 1: brushing your teeth, tell me about it. Let's talk about

983
00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:28,279
Speaker 1: let's talk about Quip. Most of us are brushing our

984
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 1: teeth wrong because we're not doing it for long enough.

985
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:33,400
Speaker 1: We forget to change our brusheads all the time, and

986
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 1: that's because most brands focus on selling like the flashy

987
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 1: gimmicks rather than just brushing. But not with Quip. Yeah.

988
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 1: So it's an electric toothbrush. It's a fraction of the

989
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 1: cost of the bulkier brushes, and it has just the

990
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,839
Speaker 1: right amount of vibrations to help clean your teeth, make

991
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 1: your mouth feel like you know, when you brush your

992
00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 1: teeth after a long day and you're like, my mouth

993
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:57,839
Speaker 1: just feels so clean. Now I'm ready for bad. Yeah,

994
00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: except I brush my teeth like yeah, but it feels

995
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 1: good each time to satisfying UM. So quip has a

996
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 1: built in time or that helps you clean. For the

997
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 1: dentists recommended two minutes with guiding pulses that reminds you

998
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:14,759
Speaker 1: when to switch sides, which is really nice because if

999
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:17,399
Speaker 1: I'm just brushing my teeth with a regular toothbrush, I'm

1000
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:19,839
Speaker 1: not doing it for two minutes. And sometimes you think

1001
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 1: you're doing it, like they say, like you sing Happy

1002
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 1: Birthday twice, but it's like who's really doing that? And

1003
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 1: how slow do you sing it? Or how fast do

1004
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 1: you sing we need help exactly? Oh and uh, you guys,

1005
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 1: you know how much obsessing with Oprah. Quip was on

1006
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 1: Oprah's OH List, named one of Time's Best Inventions, and

1007
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 1: is the first subscription electric toothbrush accepted by the American

1008
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 1: Dental Association. They don't just accept anything either, They have

1009
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:48,800
Speaker 1: a very rigorous process. List is like pretty major. Yeah,

1010
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 1: it's like the Tesla of toothbrushes. That's what people are

1011
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 1: calling it. UM and they're backed by a network of

1012
00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:01,319
Speaker 1: over dentists in hygienis that in hundreds of thousands of

1013
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:04,240
Speaker 1: happy brushers who use equip every day. I've had people

1014
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 1: message me and tell me that they got it and

1015
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:08,719
Speaker 1: love it. That's great. Well, the clip starts at just

1016
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:11,240
Speaker 1: do and if you go to get quip dot com

1017
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 1: slash Becca right now, you'll get your first refil pack

1018
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:18,920
Speaker 1: free with Equip Electric toothbrush. Yeah, that's your first refill

1019
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:23,400
Speaker 1: pack free. I get quip dot com slash Becca spelled

1020
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 1: g et q u i p dot com slash Becca. Okay,

1021
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 1: it's like we were born to do that, you know.

1022
00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 1: After it all right, um email, I feel like we

1023
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 1: might want to get Ben back on email, Ben Ben Ben.

1024
00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: At first I was saying that people were going to

1025
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 1: think it was Ben Higgins. I was like, we gotta

1026
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: oh yeah, a lot of cute Ben's in the world.

1027
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 1: You know, Ben in the world. That is a really

1028
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 1: cute name. Do you think of gonna marry a Ben?

1029
00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:59,879
Speaker 1: I can see with it Ben with the Ben too,

1030
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 1: B and tep um Wait. I wanted to talk about this.

1031
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:10,719
Speaker 1: Did you see the article about Sarah Drew? I read

1032
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 1: like a part of it, but there was this quote

1033
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 1: in it and she said it was in the afternoon,

1034
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:16,799
Speaker 1: and I went back to my trailer and I did

1035
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 1: my crying and called my people. A whole bunch of

1036
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 1: people came into my trailer to give me hugs and

1037
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,719
Speaker 1: cry with me and tell me they were so sad

1038
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: I was leaving. I'm a I'm a believer in things happening,

1039
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 1: in things happening for a reason, finding beauty in the

1040
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: midst of grief. So it sounded like I kind of

1041
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,879
Speaker 1: read basically that there just wasn't enough room. Like, Yeah,

1042
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 1: I guess they were saying there's too many characters, and

1043
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 1: I still feel like she should not have been the

1044
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:44,120
Speaker 1: one guy. I know, I don't understand, but they were

1045
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 1: saying that there was too many, like major characters that

1046
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:49,160
Speaker 1: they weren't like giving them the storylines that they wanted

1047
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:52,759
Speaker 1: because there was too many, so they had to cut some. Yeah,

1048
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:55,960
Speaker 1: I guess I mean to cut though. No, no, no,

1049
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 1: no, no no, I'm still not over it. Yeah, I know,

1050
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 1: I got all fired up reading it again. Um, okay,

1051
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 1: let's do some speaking of pop culture. What Ariana Grande

1052
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 1: album is I love? Is it imagen, heap or imagin

1053
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 1: I think it's Imagine. The good night and Go. It's

1054
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: a good night and go. It's literally the fact that

1055
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 1: she readid it Bananas on repeat? I think we'll both

1056
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: did you have it on your story last night? Yeah,

1057
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:27,360
Speaker 1: it'll be on for the next two weeks. We'll have

1058
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:31,040
Speaker 1: cess with it, like beyond Um, okay, there's a lot

1059
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 1: of these of emails, yeah, that I enjoy right, Like, oh,

1060
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 1: also Eastern. I read the ask a guy email and

1061
00:57:39,880 --> 00:57:42,439
Speaker 1: I was like breathless, and halfway through I'm like, why

1062
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 1: am I doing this? I need Eastern to do this?

1063
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:49,480
Speaker 1: So I'm not reading that anymore. Yeah, I honestly no,

1064
00:57:49,600 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't do well reading long. If I

1065
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 1: have to read something for a long period of time,

1066
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 1: my voice gets like shaking and I like lose breath.

1067
00:57:57,440 --> 00:57:59,439
Speaker 1: That's why I've never done while speaking in front of people.

1068
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:01,280
Speaker 1: I thought you did a really good job though. Thanks.

1069
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 1: I was just like about to die because I couldn't breathe.

1070
00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 1: But I'm glad I sounded okay, he sounded pretty good. Great. Um,

1071
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 1: should we start? Where do you want to start? Tanya?

1072
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: Which ones do you like? I mean so many like

1073
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:15,600
Speaker 1: Dempsey fact is kind of fun. Okay, let's start. Let's

1074
00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 1: just read them. I think we can. Yeah, let's do it.

1075
00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 1: This is from Megan. I just found out a fun

1076
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 1: fact about Patrick Dempsey. I'm probably super late, but I

1077
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 1: had to share it with y'all. He's been married before

1078
00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:27,720
Speaker 1: his current marriage, and when he got married, he was

1079
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 1: twenty one and she was forty seven. I thought i'd

1080
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:32,480
Speaker 1: share with you a because age gap is always a topic.

1081
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 1: So I wonder what you had to say about that one.

1082
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 1: As always loved the podcast and especially Eastern Sincerely interesting

1083
00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 1: something thrown in there. Um, I love this. I was

1084
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:46,760
Speaker 1: a fun fact. I didn't know that, wasn't it like

1085
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:51,480
Speaker 1: his public It was something like seven that she was

1086
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:54,080
Speaker 1: a major. Yeah, see if you can find who she was,

1087
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:57,120
Speaker 1: I want to say she was a manager, publicist or something.

1088
00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 1: I think I'm a big person. I'm I'm I feel

1089
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 1: like I've said this a lot where age doesn't matter

1090
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:04,000
Speaker 1: to me as long as you're attracted to the person.

1091
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 1: So I've dated way older than me, but I find

1092
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:10,400
Speaker 1: them physically attractive, So I think, like to me, when

1093
00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 1: it starts looking um yeah, I mean I think that

1094
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:15,320
Speaker 1: has something to do with it. But I also think

1095
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 1: that a lot of and we've talked about this. I

1096
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 1: think on the show that there's so many like you've

1097
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:26,440
Speaker 1: had different life experiences. His mother's best friends. She's no

1098
00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 1: longer with us. Um, she was his manager for a

1099
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 1: short period of time. Okay, yeah, I thought I read something. Uh.

1100
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:40,600
Speaker 1: They're married for seven years and that's a long time.

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00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:44,520
Speaker 1: Seven years. That is a long time. Uh. When interviewed

1102
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 1: by Barbara Walters about the marriage, he said, I think

1103
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 1: I needed a mother. Hm. I don't know how to

1104
00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:55,800
Speaker 1: feel about that, but that's intense. Tanya say something I

1105
00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 1: hate when you get quiet, and I'm left feel staff

1106
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 1: from the hated him mother? What was his what he

1107
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: didn't have me? He probably don't have a good relationship

1108
01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: with her into that. But it's interesting because I feel

1109
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:11,560
Speaker 1: like a lot of women, UM will say like, oh

1110
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:14,080
Speaker 1: she has daddy issues and that's why they have these

1111
01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:19,720
Speaker 1: like messed up they go for whatever. Speaking of I

1112
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 1: didn't mention this. I got in the elevator last week.

1113
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:27,240
Speaker 1: I get in this elevator and this attractive older man says, Um,

1114
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:30,439
Speaker 1: you're you're very beautiful, and I was like, thank you,

1115
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:33,240
Speaker 1: and then he says, do you have sugar, daddy? All

1116
01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:38,160
Speaker 1: beautiful girls have sugar? Daddies and I go, no, I don't,

1117
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: and he's like why not. I was like I didn't

1118
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 1: know what to say. I was like I don't know,

1119
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know anyone. And he was

1120
01:00:47,600 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: would you like me to be your sugar daddy? And

1121
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 1: I literally looked at him and I go, had this

1122
01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 1: man just said you're so beautiful, I'd love to take

1123
01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:57,720
Speaker 1: you to dinner, I probably would have gone. He was

1124
01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 1: a very attractive man, Like it wasn't. I totally would

1125
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 1: have gone. The fact that he approached it the way

1126
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:04,720
Speaker 1: he did, saying do you would you like me to

1127
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:09,920
Speaker 1: be your sugar daddy? I was like, no, who that

1128
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:14,080
Speaker 1: is wild? It's wild, right, it's so bold, like like

1129
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 1: it's that is just but it clearly works, That's why

1130
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:19,680
Speaker 1: he does it. You don't mean like it's clearly worked before.

1131
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:22,960
Speaker 1: It's like Mr Wilsher totally. But I was like so

1132
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:27,080
Speaker 1: bummed because I'm like, at this, molle, he wanted to

1133
01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:31,439
Speaker 1: be with my sugar daddy. Sugar daddy, Well, some people

1134
01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:33,840
Speaker 1: might don't. Yeah, I know, it's like a it's a

1135
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 1: totally normal, consensual type of relationship that people are in.

1136
01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:39,760
Speaker 1: But to me, like hearing that are off the bat.

1137
01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:41,920
Speaker 1: It is kind of insane. Can I pay you to

1138
01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: have sex with me? That's I know, there's a lot

1139
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:47,800
Speaker 1: of intricacies and things subtleties that go along with that

1140
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:50,240
Speaker 1: type of relationship, but that's just a weird thing to

1141
01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:52,480
Speaker 1: approach someone about in person on an elevator. You would

1142
01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 1: think that he would try to be a little more

1143
01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:57,360
Speaker 1: charming about it, you know, a little more subtle, but maybe,

1144
01:01:57,480 --> 01:01:59,080
Speaker 1: like you said, it works for him and he just

1145
01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 1: goes straight to the point. It was crazy. I've never

1146
01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 1: experienced anything. It's so I always wanted to share. Probably

1147
01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:13,520
Speaker 1: I want to do a big birthday. Could you be

1148
01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:19,920
Speaker 1: a temporary sugar maybe? Yeah, sugar lady, sugar all. I've

1149
01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:22,640
Speaker 1: never known anyone that has had that. But like, I mean,

1150
01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 1: how often does he say do you have a sugar dad?

1151
01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 1: And I actually yes, yes, honestly though I feel like

1152
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:35,440
Speaker 1: it out here probably we have this topic on the

1153
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:38,800
Speaker 1: morning show like kind of fairly recently, and we got

1154
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 1: so many people calling in saying that, like they have

1155
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 1: that this type of relationship and how yeah, I mean

1156
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:49,160
Speaker 1: I was friends who like have like had it for

1157
01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 1: a little bit of like having this thing with like friends,

1158
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 1: and when I was in San Diego, it was like

1159
01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:58,280
Speaker 1: my past life. Don't you worry about it. I'm just kidding.

1160
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:05,000
Speaker 1: That was pretty bad, sugar daddy. You kidding. I used

1161
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: to live in these kind of bad apartments in Burbank

1162
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:10,120
Speaker 1: And there is a young lady who lived in the

1163
01:03:10,160 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 1: apartment next to mine, and she she was attractive and

1164
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 1: she drove a really really nice BMW, but the apartment

1165
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:16,320
Speaker 1: building was not nice. And I came up with I

1166
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:19,040
Speaker 1: never talked to her bad backstory that she had a

1167
01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 1: mid level sugar daddy where he could like buy her

1168
01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 1: the nice car, but you couldn't put her up in

1169
01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:25,400
Speaker 1: a nice place yet kids one or the other. Yeah,

1170
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 1: And I mean, who knows what was actually going on,

1171
01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:30,320
Speaker 1: But that's the fantasy I made up for I love

1172
01:03:30,360 --> 01:03:32,600
Speaker 1: that you did that for her. That was so nice. Yeah,

1173
01:03:33,480 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 1: mid level sugar daddy, not what you want. Everyone's got

1174
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 1: to start somewhere, you know. Yeah. Anyway, Patrick Dempsey crazy

1175
01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:45,160
Speaker 1: first marriage and now he's married to his makeup artist

1176
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,600
Speaker 1: or a makeup artis his sorry? Yeah, she I think

1177
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:51,520
Speaker 1: she does. I think she she does. She's a celebrity

1178
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 1: makeup artist and I think helps him when needed. But yeah, yeah,

1179
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:58,360
Speaker 1: they actually separated for a little bit and then I know,

1180
01:03:58,440 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 1: I try to stop in there and Randon, did you

1181
01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:03,400
Speaker 1: send him a d M? No, I shouldn't know. Oh

1182
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 1: my gosh, that'd actually be a great story which you had.

1183
01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 1: I was talking to Brad about the guy that I

1184
01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 1: rekindled with, you know, or not rekindled, but the one

1185
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:16,120
Speaker 1: I reached out to um from college. And so Brad's like,

1186
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 1: so where did you leave it? And I said, well,

1187
01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:20,320
Speaker 1: I want him to ask me out? And he was like,

1188
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 1: sit up there and you preach it your modern woman,

1189
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 1: why don't you just ask him out? And I was like,

1190
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 1: I walked him up to the door. I literally walked

1191
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:29,080
Speaker 1: him up to the doorstep. I just need him to

1192
01:04:29,120 --> 01:04:32,440
Speaker 1: ring it, ring the doorbell. Yeah, I can't make him

1193
01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:36,360
Speaker 1: and walk him to the door. You're so like going

1194
01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:38,840
Speaker 1: back and forth between being a modern woman and being

1195
01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 1: a traditional I think you're still a modern Him to

1196
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:46,320
Speaker 1: go ten is still being a thank you, thank you,

1197
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:49,800
Speaker 1: not going what did you say? What? What? How did

1198
01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:51,760
Speaker 1: you walk him up to the door? I was like,

1199
01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:56,080
Speaker 1: are you single? Ask all these questions like what asking

1200
01:04:56,120 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 1: our girls name? Do you like taking girl's name? Tanya?

1201
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 1: To dinner. Is that actually is not a bad ideas,

1202
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 1: not ad idea at all. I'll have you read the

1203
01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:11,760
Speaker 1: exchange and look, okay, okay, um okay, let's read hot

1204
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 1: Uber driver all right. This is from anonymous love these

1205
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:17,840
Speaker 1: so five oh's. I went to l A last month

1206
01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:19,960
Speaker 1: by myself for a job interview. Didn't get it, sadly,

1207
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:21,960
Speaker 1: and I used Uber to go everywhere. When I was

1208
01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:24,560
Speaker 1: out there, one of my drivers was really attractive, and

1209
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 1: being in l A, we sat in traffic for thirty minutes.

1210
01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:29,600
Speaker 1: That's not bad. I struck up a good conversation about life,

1211
01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 1: where he was from, what brought him out here, and

1212
01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:33,600
Speaker 1: why I was here. He wished me luck when I

1213
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:35,240
Speaker 1: was getting out of the car and said, hopefully you

1214
01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:36,920
Speaker 1: get the job, and when we come out here we

1215
01:05:36,960 --> 01:05:39,120
Speaker 1: will run into each other again. I went on my

1216
01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 1: way and never asked for his number, but I found

1217
01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:43,200
Speaker 1: his Instagram and Twitter because he told me he did acting,

1218
01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 1: and obviously I had his name, so he wasn't hard

1219
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:48,360
Speaker 1: to find. Good sleeping. I followed him on Instagram and

1220
01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:50,800
Speaker 1: when he did and he did that question thing and

1221
01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:52,960
Speaker 1: someone asked what his love like love life was like,

1222
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:55,760
Speaker 1: and he said non existent. He's a good following over

1223
01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 1: fift k uh. Do I send him a d M

1224
01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:00,640
Speaker 1: on instant and be like, hey, you're my uber driver

1225
01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:03,720
Speaker 1: last month, we're asking a random question on his story.

1226
01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:05,720
Speaker 1: Do I just leave it all alone? Because I literally

1227
01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 1: live all the way across the country and it's been

1228
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:08,960
Speaker 1: a month since I was there. Thank you for the

1229
01:06:08,960 --> 01:06:10,800
Speaker 1: podcast every week. You all are amazing. Keep up the

1230
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:15,120
Speaker 1: good work. This is cute. Yeah, it is cute. What

1231
01:06:15,160 --> 01:06:19,400
Speaker 1: do you think, I mean, why don't I'm kind of like,

1232
01:06:19,600 --> 01:06:22,440
Speaker 1: you live across the country. What do you have to lose?

1233
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 1: Damning him reaching out honestly like, either he doesn't respond,

1234
01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:31,400
Speaker 1: which whatever, it's like you tried. That's not the best

1235
01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:32,960
Speaker 1: way to think about things. I think it's like, what

1236
01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:34,840
Speaker 1: do you literally have to lose? They don't respond, and

1237
01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 1: then you're just back in your same situation. Not a

1238
01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:47,120
Speaker 1: mean shorter shorter um. I think that there is the

1239
01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:51,360
Speaker 1: sense of we set ourselves up and get hopeful, and

1240
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:53,680
Speaker 1: then if it doesn't go the way that we hope,

1241
01:06:53,960 --> 01:06:56,640
Speaker 1: there's a feeling of rejection, and I think that's the

1242
01:06:56,800 --> 01:07:00,200
Speaker 1: one thing that you have to take into consideration, shin.

1243
01:07:00,560 --> 01:07:04,480
Speaker 1: But in this situation, it's like, why not. It's not

1244
01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:07,320
Speaker 1: like you might run into him, like totally. At least

1245
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 1: you're gonna have a Yeah, you don't work for him.

1246
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:12,680
Speaker 1: You could have a good conversation and you know, chat

1247
01:07:12,720 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 1: and see what what happens. I think so too. I mean,

1248
01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:20,840
Speaker 1: I think like the microphone, gross, you have nothing to

1249
01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 1: lose and you should just be open to the possibility

1250
01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:26,560
Speaker 1: but not attached to the outcome so you don't get

1251
01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:32,400
Speaker 1: your feelings. That was very sound advice for that email. Sometimes,

1252
01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:35,760
Speaker 1: you know, you like, what is it called when you

1253
01:07:35,800 --> 01:07:38,040
Speaker 1: have a basketball term? You allied me up and I

1254
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:40,960
Speaker 1: looped you. Oh no, no, it's U called an alley.

1255
01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:43,720
Speaker 1: You set me up and I alley did in Sure?

1256
01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:49,720
Speaker 1: Yeah that makes sense. Yeah, yeah, you gotta work on

1257
01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:55,160
Speaker 1: your basketball lingo. If you're gonna be dating basketball players,

1258
01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:58,720
Speaker 1: will not be ready for that analogy. You won't know

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Speaker 1: what he would like, though, I know what he would like.

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Speaker 1: Home cooked meal, Home cooked meal. Yeah. Um. We love

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Speaker 1: Hello Fresh. Yes. Hello Fresh is a meal kit delivery

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Speaker 1: step recipes and pre measured ingredients so that you just cook,

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Speaker 1: eat and enjoy. I cooked you a Hello Fresh meal

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Speaker 1: and you ate no, you ate a it was gone

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Speaker 1: off your plate. I didn't eat the potatoes all of them.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure your plate was empty. I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 1: I didn't eat all the potatoes. Will agree to disagree. Um,

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Speaker 1: there's something for everyone with Hello Freshest selection. So each

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Speaker 1: week there's a twenty minute meal on the classic menu

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Speaker 1: for when you really don't have time for more than that.

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Speaker 1: And I really think it's fun. Like I've never been

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Speaker 1: a cook, but it is fun to be moving around

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Speaker 1: in the kitchen and getting things done to rush. It is,

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Speaker 1: but it's also I think it's really convenient for people

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Speaker 1: that want home cooked meals but they don't have the

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Speaker 1: energy in the time to like do all the work,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like people that have families

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Speaker 1: and I have to cook for a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: I think it's really nice to have everything kind of

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Speaker 1: portioned out for you and kind of I mean it

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Speaker 1: takes a little bit of the mind work out of

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Speaker 1: it and it's delivered to you, like you don't have

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Speaker 1: to go to the store and search the aisles for

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Speaker 1: your ingredients. It's all done for you. And that's kind

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Speaker 1: of Hello Fresh believes that cooking should be simple and convenient,

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Speaker 1: so that's they don't want it to be a chore,

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Speaker 1: and that's sometimes what it feels like. It's delivered right

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Speaker 1: to your door in recyclable insulated packaging, which I love

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Speaker 1: that it's recyclable. Don't get me started on that. And

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Speaker 1: there are many benefits to subscribing, so you can keep

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Speaker 1: sixty dollars off, that's twenty off your first three boxes,

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Speaker 1: so it's Hello Fresh dot com sl Rebecca T six

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Speaker 1: zero and intercode Becca T zero at checkout, Um, do

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Speaker 1: we try to do a promo code? Okay, Hello Fresh

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Speaker 1: dot com slash Becca T sixty. It's pretty good. There's

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Speaker 1: something I keep every time I keep thinking about something

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01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:23,880
Speaker 1: and then it leaves me, Oh well, I would like

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01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:25,760
Speaker 1: to go through just a couple of the naming the

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01:10:25,800 --> 01:10:30,080
Speaker 1: segments ideas that they gave. Oh okay, because did people

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Speaker 1: know that that was a thing when we did the

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Speaker 1: sound effect earlier, the paging doctor, doctor tillion, doctor rad

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Speaker 1: did we talk about that. We talked about wanting to

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Speaker 1: name the stuff last week. Okay, so this this is

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Speaker 1: where it came from. Y Um. So this listener Casey

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01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: said that they loved the idea of naming the segments,

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Speaker 1: and so they I don't know if it's a guy

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01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 1: or girl. Um, Casey can go either way, but I

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01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:54,920
Speaker 1: like some of these ideas. So can we get a

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Speaker 1: consult for when you have guests give advice you the

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Speaker 1: professional or personal? So like that's really good. You can

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01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:01,920
Speaker 1: have a little sounder before we do like ask a

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01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:06,240
Speaker 1: guy or something and like have it, say, like, can

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01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:13,960
Speaker 1: we get a consult? That was so good? Yes, pre

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Speaker 1: op is for the emails. Post Op is follow up

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Speaker 1: on any like of the advice that we've given, which

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Speaker 1: I think is a good idea. Time for rounds. I

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Speaker 1: like that you guys came up with this. So that's

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Speaker 1: what we just did. Um and that's that's all we

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01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:33,160
Speaker 1: got so far. But that's pretty good. I think it's fun. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean I'm really impressed with your like intercom. I

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01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:42,040
Speaker 1: don't think there was some like medical sounds in there,

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01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:45,600
Speaker 1: ambulance maybe in the background. My friend Noah I was

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01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:47,800
Speaker 1: talking about the Music Summit and he was talking about

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01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:50,200
Speaker 1: the podcast. His wife listens or something, somebody listens and

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01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:51,560
Speaker 1: he's like, I don't listen. I was like, well, what

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01:11:51,680 --> 01:11:53,320
Speaker 1: are you listening. He's like, I wanna watch grays Nonatomy

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01:11:53,360 --> 01:11:58,240
Speaker 1: and I'm like, we talked about Graysnatomy like, and he

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01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:00,200
Speaker 1: was like, well, you need to let people know that.

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Speaker 1: That's a good point, letting people know it's not just

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01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:05,599
Speaker 1: about grayze anatomy. Well, the people listening know this. We're

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01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:07,960
Speaker 1: gonna get the word out on the one because it

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01:12:08,000 --> 01:12:09,200
Speaker 1: was like I thought it was just like I thought,

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01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:11,040
Speaker 1: if I didn't want Grayze anaom, I wouldn't be able to. Like,

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01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:16,120
Speaker 1: we rewrote the description of the podcast to be more

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01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:19,160
Speaker 1: about what it's actually about, not just a grazymy recap,

1342
01:12:19,560 --> 01:12:21,800
Speaker 1: because we don't want people confused like that. So read

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Speaker 1: that description again. Noah's friend or Noah no a sheer

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Speaker 1: a sheer Yeah, what's his address? Um, Tanya, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: miss you this weekend. Okay. On the way here, I

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01:12:35,320 --> 01:12:36,960
Speaker 1: asked Tanya, I was like, oh, when do you what

1347
01:12:37,080 --> 01:12:39,240
Speaker 1: I asked, when do you leave or when you going back?

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01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:42,519
Speaker 1: She was like told me whenever she comes back. She's like,

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Speaker 1: you're just asking because you're curious, not because you're gonna

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01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:48,639
Speaker 1: miss me, right, And I'm like, I was just asking.

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01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:51,760
Speaker 1: I didn't have like a just I was curious because

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01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 1: when Becca goes out of town. I put it in

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01:12:53,560 --> 01:12:56,200
Speaker 1: my calendar because I need to like to know because

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01:12:56,240 --> 01:12:57,800
Speaker 1: I missed her when she's gone, so I like to

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01:12:57,840 --> 01:13:00,200
Speaker 1: know when she's going to move back. Gone? Was just

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01:13:00,280 --> 01:13:05,320
Speaker 1: Becca gone? Becca leave? Becca back? Yeah, but I'm gonna

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01:13:05,360 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 1: miss you. Are you gonna put that in your calendar?

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01:13:08,880 --> 01:13:11,840
Speaker 1: I barely put anything in my calendar, but I will

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01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:15,200
Speaker 1: put that in my calendar. I know, though, I can

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01:13:15,240 --> 01:13:17,800
Speaker 1: just remember, and I know that I can talk to

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01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:21,400
Speaker 1: you while you're still gone. You act like we see

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01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:24,800
Speaker 1: each other every day. We do, for the most part,

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01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:30,080
Speaker 1: at least FaceTime. What you based on every day? She

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01:13:30,200 --> 01:13:35,360
Speaker 1: would try, sometimes that's a little one sided. I try.

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01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 1: I've been better, for sure, but you know, um, what

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01:13:39,080 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 1: else do we have to cover? We were, Oh, we're

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01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:48,000
Speaker 1: gonna talk about Dean's Instagram. Shoot, we can briefly talk

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01:13:48,040 --> 01:13:50,559
Speaker 1: about it. I feel like Dean posted a photo with

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01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:53,519
Speaker 1: um one of his guy, like one of his best

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01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:56,880
Speaker 1: friends at a festival or something, and they're like sitting there,

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01:13:56,920 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 1: you know, just casual sitting on the grass, and UM,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what sparked. I don't know if it's

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01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:05,880
Speaker 1: because they're like his friend's leg was like touching his

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01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:11,280
Speaker 1: leg or something. But all the comments were like, oh, like, um,

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01:14:11,400 --> 01:14:14,599
Speaker 1: does Dean like boys now or blah blah blah, and it.

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01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:18,479
Speaker 1: Dean and I had a conversation about it being that

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01:14:18,640 --> 01:14:20,920
Speaker 1: being the reason why people have such a hard time

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01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:23,639
Speaker 1: being open, Like he's not even he's not even gay,

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01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 1: or he's interested in girls, he's not bisexual, he's not gay.

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01:14:26,680 --> 01:14:28,600
Speaker 1: And he still was like, go, I see where this

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01:14:28,640 --> 01:14:30,719
Speaker 1: would be like such a struggle for people to feel

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01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 1: comfortable doing this because there's so much like scrutiny and

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01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:38,439
Speaker 1: like criticism, and all he did was supposed to photo

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01:14:38,439 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 1: with his friend. I think, so there's this um, as

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01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:49,160
Speaker 1: far as we've come in terms of like progression and acceptance,

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01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:51,800
Speaker 1: and UM, I think we've come such a long way,

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01:14:51,840 --> 01:14:55,120
Speaker 1: but I think that there's still a long road ahead,

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01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:58,559
Speaker 1: and I think it makes people very uncomfortable and it's

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01:14:58,680 --> 01:15:03,280
Speaker 1: it's super unfortunate because I think it makes people feel

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01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:07,040
Speaker 1: like they can't they can't be themselves, and I think

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01:15:07,080 --> 01:15:10,680
Speaker 1: that creates such a battle internally for people that they

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01:15:10,680 --> 01:15:13,040
Speaker 1: shouldn't have to deal with. You know, everybody should feel

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01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:17,320
Speaker 1: comfortable and and um comfortable enough to just be who

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01:15:17,320 --> 01:15:20,320
Speaker 1: they are and not have to worry about what anybody

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01:15:20,320 --> 01:15:23,960
Speaker 1: else thinks. I think that it made me realize aside

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01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:27,679
Speaker 1: from that specific topic whatever, but the comments that you post,

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01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 1: as innocent as it is. If you tag your friend

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01:15:31,240 --> 01:15:33,640
Speaker 1: and say something and you think this person is never

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01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:36,240
Speaker 1: going to see my comment, people see your comments. So

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01:15:36,320 --> 01:15:40,400
Speaker 1: like when you're this is just to everyone in general,

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01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:44,720
Speaker 1: like myself included. If you're commenting on someone's photo, make

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01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:46,920
Speaker 1: sure that it's like they're gonna see it. There's a

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01:15:47,040 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 1: chance that they'll see it, no matter how big of

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01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:51,680
Speaker 1: a celebrity you might think they are, and it can

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01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:55,080
Speaker 1: affect people, So like, be very careful with your words

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01:15:55,120 --> 01:15:58,559
Speaker 1: and how you're talking to people and about people, and

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01:15:58,880 --> 01:16:02,800
Speaker 1: how you're handling situation ations, whether you agree, whether you disagree,

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01:16:02,880 --> 01:16:05,920
Speaker 1: Like I think it's just like be aware of being kind.

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01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:10,120
Speaker 1: So anyways that I just was like fired up about

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01:16:10,120 --> 01:16:12,360
Speaker 1: it last week because we were he and I were

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01:16:12,360 --> 01:16:14,760
Speaker 1: talking about it and it was like, this is so

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01:16:14,800 --> 01:16:18,120
Speaker 1: crazy that, yeah, he keep posted a photo with his

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01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:21,519
Speaker 1: friend and that was the reaction. Imagine if dem were gay,

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01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:24,280
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, he would be like, oh my gosh,

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01:16:24,360 --> 01:16:28,960
Speaker 1: this is horrible and I can't I you know, I

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01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:32,559
Speaker 1: don't feel safe or comfortable at all. So basically, just

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01:16:32,600 --> 01:16:35,320
Speaker 1: be aware of what you're saying to people, how you're talking,

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01:16:35,760 --> 01:16:38,800
Speaker 1: what you're commenting. Then it's I mean, it's been said

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01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:40,519
Speaker 1: a million times. Like the Internet's kind of like you know,

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01:16:40,520 --> 01:16:43,640
Speaker 1: when you're in the car and someone uh and you

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01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:45,439
Speaker 1: cut someone off and you just start flipping out inside

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01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:47,800
Speaker 1: their car and you know they they're they'd say things

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01:16:48,040 --> 01:16:50,320
Speaker 1: that they would normally see your face because they're not

1424
01:16:50,439 --> 01:16:54,080
Speaker 1: in front of you. Internet's like that everywhere because you

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01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:56,240
Speaker 1: say whatever you want and you don't expect the other

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01:16:56,240 --> 01:16:58,040
Speaker 1: person even hear it. That's the time. But now that

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01:16:58,280 --> 01:17:00,240
Speaker 1: people read it and it affects them, Yeah, I know,

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01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:01,800
Speaker 1: and it's really sad because it's like you want to

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01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:04,920
Speaker 1: try so hard. I mean, like I like, thank god

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01:17:05,160 --> 01:17:07,960
Speaker 1: I get really nice comments. Like I'd say, the majority

1431
01:17:07,960 --> 01:17:09,439
Speaker 1: of the time. I get really a lot of like

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01:17:09,560 --> 01:17:11,920
Speaker 1: love on social media, but I'll never forget. There was

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01:17:12,000 --> 01:17:14,360
Speaker 1: one time someone said to me, like about my weight.

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01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:16,200
Speaker 1: It was like maybe you want to do some squats

1435
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:19,120
Speaker 1: or like something about like just me going to the gym,

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01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:21,120
Speaker 1: and it's like, I'll never forget. I like literally know

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Speaker 1: the person's handle because it affected me that much. And

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01:17:24,280 --> 01:17:27,559
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's so sad. That And I try really

1439
01:17:27,560 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 1: hard to practice the like, um, not taking things to

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01:17:31,640 --> 01:17:34,360
Speaker 1: heart in terms of people people's comments and things. Right,

1441
01:17:34,560 --> 01:17:37,360
Speaker 1: it's hard. It's super hard, even when you're like mindful

1442
01:17:37,400 --> 01:17:39,639
Speaker 1: of it, Like I really tried to be mind even

1443
01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:41,400
Speaker 1: when they're positive. It's like you don't want it to

1444
01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:43,400
Speaker 1: like send you in a you know what I mean.

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01:17:44,040 --> 01:17:48,160
Speaker 1: But it is weird how you how we focus on

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01:17:48,200 --> 01:17:50,639
Speaker 1: those things. But there That's why I read a quote

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01:17:50,640 --> 01:17:52,320
Speaker 1: the other day and it was like from Joel Osteen

1448
01:17:52,439 --> 01:17:55,040
Speaker 1: and he said it's like anger is something that God

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01:17:55,120 --> 01:17:57,280
Speaker 1: like built into us, Like that's an emotion that God

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01:17:57,280 --> 01:18:00,360
Speaker 1: built into us. But how we handle it in words?

1451
01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:03,880
Speaker 1: We say like we can't let our anger allow us

1452
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:07,200
Speaker 1: to say things that can ruin relationships or you know,

1453
01:18:07,240 --> 01:18:10,200
Speaker 1: affect people because we're you can't take it back. It's

1454
01:18:10,200 --> 01:18:12,600
Speaker 1: like toothpaste. Once it's out, I can't get it back in.

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01:18:13,080 --> 01:18:16,120
Speaker 1: And people will always forget. What does it People forget,

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01:18:16,280 --> 01:18:17,960
Speaker 1: I forget what you say, but they'll never forget how

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01:18:17,960 --> 01:18:24,000
Speaker 1: it made them feel. Yes truth Anyways, UM, I wanted

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Speaker 1: And thank you Sandra Lee, Dr pimple Popper. That was

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Speaker 1: incredibly um informative and thank you too our what was

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Speaker 1: our first bren and you Hot Brennan from our Facebook group,

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Speaker 1: and thank you Hot Ben Patton uh to hot boys

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Speaker 1: a UM, and thank you to everyone for listening. We

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Speaker 1: love you guys so much. We love you know. I

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Speaker 1: know you had an emotional moment and got on Facebook

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Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of there's a lot of

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Speaker 1: this is so encouraging and it it's really uplifting, and

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Speaker 1: I hope that we keep it that way. Agreed, It's

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Speaker 1: very special. Um. Anyways, have a great time on tour.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I can't wait to see you guys.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna miss you. I know. We want a full

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Speaker 1: report next next week for sure. Yeah, we'll get it. Um.

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Speaker 1: We love you guys. Thank you for listening. Tony, you

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