1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: First of all, you don't know me. Were all about 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: that high school drama, Girl drama, Girl, all about them 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:09,479 Speaker 1: high school queens. We'll take you for a rod in 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: our comic girl sharing for the drama Queen's Go Up 5 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:17,240 Speaker 1: Girl Fashion, But you'll tough, girl. You can sit with 6 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:21,240 Speaker 1: us Girl Drama, Queens Drama, Queen's Drama, Queen's Drama, Drama, 7 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: Queen's Drama, Queen's Cool. Hello, Hello, Hello, you were back. 8 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: You might as well be strangers. Girls, You're not strange. 9 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: J K. That's the name of the episode. This aired 10 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 1: October and four after dare Knight, resulted in new arrangements, 11 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: new arrangements, I don't know what, new couplings, new couplings. 12 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: Here we go. A midnight meteor shower finds Lucas sharing 13 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: a romantic night with Anna, who is inexplicably afraid of 14 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: her brother's approval of disaval. Good One and Andy surprises 15 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: Karen with a dinner date, and Keith cooks for jewels 16 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: on their first date. Brook finds herself for me a 17 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: mutually beneficial relationship with Felix, and Peyton sets out to 18 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: find an opening act for our club, and we name Trick. 19 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 1: This was directed by Sandford Bookstaver, who we all raved about. 20 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: We never got him back ever, Why didn't he ever? 21 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: Comes like he was great because he was on fire, 22 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: Like we were so lucky to have him. And I 23 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 1: think you all mentioned in this episode his camera shots 24 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: are beautiful. He looked that techno crane so beautifully, those 25 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: big widening shots that we get tall and leave people 26 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: in these little zones. I mean, he he was so 27 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: talented and so young, and yeah, you're right, his career 28 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: just took off. That's a good point, Sophia. This episode 29 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: was full of it felt like a bird's eye view. 30 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: It was lots of little in yet and he did 31 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: use that crane shot a lot, which gave me the 32 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: feeling that I was constantly seeing things from a just 33 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 1: from a bigger perspective, especially that last shot where it's 34 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 1: like we're in all the drama, We're in the scenes, 35 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 1: were in all the emotions, but it's that last shot 36 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: of the episode was a reminder that it's just small 37 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 1: town America at the end of the day, you know, 38 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: just a mom and her son sitting on the porch 39 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: going through the mail the long lens and he did something, Yeah, 40 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: he did those beautiful long lens shots, you know, of 41 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: all of us in the classroom, where you'd see through 42 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: people in the foreground characters. And then I got the 43 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: sense to he wove a metaphor. So well, we had 44 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 1: a lot of metaphors on our show, right, but this episode, 45 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: this is the big meteor shower. Also the only time 46 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 1: we ever saw that fabulous science teacher. Why we didn't 47 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: have him back all the time, but you know, he 48 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: was explaining a meteor shower. Also, he made a comet reference, 49 00:02:56,440 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: which I'm sure the hardcore fans noticed. Um and and 50 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: all of Sandy shots would start on two people and 51 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 1: then widen out or someone you know, hathen Hathen Hathan 52 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: started on my brain, just scrambled nearly in a knock 53 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: cute way, so Nathan a Harry on their porch, and 54 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: then it would pull back Brooke coming out and sitting alone, 55 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: and you saw this little girl in front of this 56 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 1: big house, and then you panned over to Felix alone, 57 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: you know, Karen and Lucas on the porch. All of 58 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: these shots that would pull out and in a way 59 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: you you pulled away from them, just like in the 60 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: science class. We started on these stars and then pulled 61 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: back and realized how far apart they were. It was 62 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: really metaphorical filmmaking, and I thought it was gorgeous. That 63 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 1: just blew my mind. We see how far apart they are. 64 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: He he elevated it. And you know, as as much 65 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: as I felt like the the on the paper material 66 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: of this episode was kind of boring, like there, I 67 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: don't know that, we did a lot of moving forward. 68 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: Joy did say that in the episode, She's like, this 69 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: one's boring. I'm sorry, you can always count on me 70 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: to spive my mind. I just I thought it was 71 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 1: kind of boring. But what he did, but what he 72 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 1: did as a director in taking this material and taking 73 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 1: this sort of I don't know, catching the audience up 74 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 1: on stuff and just slowly moving different storylines forward. This 75 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 1: was kind of an interim episode of just filler space filler, 76 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: But um, he did a lot of really cool stuff 77 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: with it and made it feel bigger and better than 78 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 1: probably what he was given on the page. So that 79 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 1: was I mean, that's that's a director's job, right, like 80 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 1: to make it even bigger and better. So well done. 81 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: It's so funny that you say that, because I I 82 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: was just saying um. I was talking to my friend 83 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 1: Jenny and she was like, God, season two. I was 84 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:54,159 Speaker 1: telling her whatever that we were on. She was like, 85 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 1: it was such a good season. And we were laughing, 86 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 1: and I was saying that one of the things I 87 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: miss a TV now, I miss when we could just 88 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: go slow in episodes. Not every yeah, not every scene 89 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: had to be some major event. You could really let 90 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 1: people smooth through things and discover things, and so it's funny. 91 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: You're like, God, it's boring, and I'm like, thank god, 92 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:22,359 Speaker 1: someone is slowing down. No. I like when things slow down. 93 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: It's just that I don't think that I don't in 94 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: this particular episode, I don't think the writing was good 95 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: enough to be slow and and really draw you in. Like, 96 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: in order to slow down, there has to be subtlety. 97 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 1: There has to be um oh nuance. That's what I'm saying. 98 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: My favorite part of the rewatch is you too doing 99 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: the predictive dialogue, like anticipating Lucas is going to say 100 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: my favorite No, You're both like wait, wait, wait, there 101 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 1: it is, and there're gonna say this. I love it. 102 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 1: It's like we do, guys, when we watch this show. 103 00:05:56,880 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: It's like mad libs we're just I will say I 104 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: was very proud of myself. I nailed a Nathan line 105 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: today too. I knew it was coming. It was sweet. 106 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: He said, my future is with Haley. That of course 107 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: he did, Sweet Little Bunny, delicious. So let's rewind to 108 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: the beginning beginning where we see hot Dan and hot Deb. 109 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: This is like empty nester syndrome, perhaps at like a 110 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: very young age, Like imagine empty nester syndrome in your thirties. 111 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 1: That would be crazy. Yeah, I mean, I guess I 112 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 1: have friends that had kids either like senior year in 113 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: high school or right out of high school, and they're 114 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: in it and they are always like on boats and 115 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: like doing fun show. And we're still in our thirties 116 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, you know, they figured this out 117 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 1: and I'm still changing pull ups. Um, it's gonna I'll 118 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: be in men of pause by the time I hit 119 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 1: empty nest. And I'm okay with it. But I can 120 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: see we're hot Dan and hot Deb really make the 121 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: hard self for just like getting it out of the 122 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: way early. They sure, dude, I mean Dan on that treadmill. 123 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 1: I let Paul any excuse for Paul to get hit 124 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: the gym, he always takes it, so I love that 125 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: he was like, Dan's getting better. Here I go, you 126 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: got a hair cut at a haircut, tan muscles at 127 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 1: all and Barbara looked like just so young and fresh 128 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 1: and cute, and I loved. I loved watching them in 129 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: this episode. Are either of you guys rooting for Dan 130 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: and deb at this point? Now? Sort of it's really 131 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: hard because it's like, what will change a person if 132 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: not in your death experience? And you can see him trying. 133 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 1: He wants to do something romantic for her. He's saying, 134 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: you know, he's got the second chance he didn't ever 135 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: think he was going to get. But every time he 136 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: does something sweet, whether it's with her or with Nathan, 137 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: right when you're like, oh, wow, is he changing, then 138 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 1: he says something gross and you're like, I don't know, 139 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: and it can't help him. See's hard, yeah, yeah, but 140 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: he's so goodly rooting for him, I'm no, so like 141 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: I like watching them together, and I think their chemistry 142 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:32,199 Speaker 1: is so strong, even when it's combative and so as 143 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: like a voyeuristic viewer who is not invested in anyone's 144 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: emotional well being, I'm like yeah, and like, go to 145 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: the beach house. Guess that sounds great, But like, as 146 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:50,839 Speaker 1: a woman who cares about feelings and toxic relationships, I'm like, deep, babe, 147 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 1: you have been a martyr called Keith. See what Keith 148 00:08:54,200 --> 00:09:00,200 Speaker 1: is doing. It's a date a date. Keep is on 149 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: a date with hot Jewels. Also, can we just talk 150 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:07,720 Speaker 1: about one of my favorite hilarious devices of television is 151 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: because you know, you can't give out a phone number, 152 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: people will call it and ruins. You can't give out 153 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: an address because people will go there and terrify whoever 154 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:19,719 Speaker 1: really lives somewhere. So when Keith, you know, in the 155 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 1: last episode, looks at Jewels phone number, it's a five 156 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 1: five five, because that's always what you have to do 157 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 1: on TV. And then in this episode he calls her. 158 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 1: They have a very cute scene. So she says, oh, 159 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,199 Speaker 1: you know, he waited a week to call me, and 160 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 1: then he came up with this lame survey thing. It 161 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: was like so flirty and cute. And then he asks 162 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:39,199 Speaker 1: her on a date and goes, how about a cookie 163 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 1: dinner tomorrow? She goes, great, and then he just slams 164 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: that little flip phone show girl, Mac, So, so you 165 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: didn't set a time, and you don't know where the 166 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 1: woman lives. What are you gonna do? Find her? Like 167 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 1: a homing pigeon? White pages? Remember when we had white pages, 168 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 1: like an actual book in a drawer where we would 169 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 1: look people. Um, maybe she put it on in the 170 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: paperwork when she first came in to test drive the car. 171 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe they're gonna text in T nine 172 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 1: on those little footballs, hey friends. When we texted back then, 173 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:19,200 Speaker 1: you would literally have to hit like each button three 174 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 1: times to get it to the right letter you wanted. Yeah, 175 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: select the letter. It took full keyboard. Last. People are 176 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: never going to have the patience. Well, we also had 177 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: Tyler Hilton in this episode, the introduction of our fabulous 178 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 1: love Tyler, who I'm so glad stood the test of 179 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: time with our show and just stuck around forever and 180 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:46,839 Speaker 1: never because he brings so much life and fun and 181 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 1: he's so smart and so free on camera and improvisational 182 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: and it's just like energy. As soon as he's on screen, 183 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: you just feel the energy. And so that was super fun. 184 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 1: I love seeing him when that production is great too. 185 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: Because Gravity Records in downtown Wilmington's was a hangout for 186 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: all of us. I literally, Gus wanted our record player, 187 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: and so he's got the record player up here, and 188 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: I pulled out a Creative records and they're all like 189 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: records that I bought in Gravity Records. There's like the 190 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 1: Outcast album. There's some there's some like really depressing Emo 191 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,839 Speaker 1: in there, you know, like tat Power is in there, 192 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: um forever Jenny Lewis, that was such a great hangout, 193 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 1: and so it felt cool to be able to come 194 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 1: in there and shoot. And Tyler was a child when 195 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:43,559 Speaker 1: we met him. He was a baby. He was He 196 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: was only a little bit older than James, right, wasn't 197 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: he Like No, I think he was younger. I think 198 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:51,559 Speaker 1: he might have been even younger. Yeah, I don't know. 199 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 1: He's just graduated high school or something. He was a kid, really, Tyler. 200 00:11:56,200 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: Tyler came in with major kid brother energy, which so fun, 201 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 1: and he was so spunky and he really committed. And 202 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:06,559 Speaker 1: we were saying when we were watching the episode, how 203 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 1: much fun it was to watch the two of you 204 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 1: spar and how funny it is you know that they 205 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 1: put Peyton an Emo shirt. Tyler, by the way, star 206 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 1: predictive energy, you know, who knew what we didn't even 207 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 1: know about ourselves and our eventual advocacy then was just 208 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 1: casually standing there in a vote or die teacher, and 209 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: I was like, hell, yes, yeah, it may be so happy. 210 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 1: Chris Keller did something really right in that first episode, 211 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: and it was encouraging civic engagement. It always helps when 212 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 1: that kid brother energy comes in. And it's also very 213 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: pretty because he had just come off a plane Elvis 214 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 1: and walk the line, and so we were just like, 215 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: you're fun to look at, You're fun to talk to, 216 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:49,320 Speaker 1: Like this is the total package. Um, and now he's 217 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 1: like a dream dad. He's like a girl dad. So 218 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 1: he brings that same like fun cute boy energy to 219 00:12:55,760 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: parenting and what a delight. We'll get Tyler on super soon. Um, 220 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: yes we will. We got some good guests in season two. 221 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 1: We did. We totally did. Um. And let's talk about 222 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: Danielle a little bit more too, because why why was 223 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: she so concerned with Felix? Like every conversation she had 224 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 1: is obsessing over her brother, and it's her whole arc. Yeah, 225 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 1: her whole arc is I I don't want my brother 226 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 1: to find out I like a boy. But weirdly, Lucas 227 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:31,719 Speaker 1: goes along with it, and I just can't figure out 228 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: why the writers wrote this stuff for him, because it's 229 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: not like Lucas and Felix were friends. That's what I'm saying. Day, 230 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: it doesn't make any sense. Guys. I have the three brothers, 231 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: the three brothers, I have never consulted any of them 232 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 1: on who to kiss ever in the whole life. And 233 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: we were also very close in age, so you know gross. 234 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: The thing that was so weird to me is it 235 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:06,320 Speaker 1: felt like I mean, you guys, we were laughing watching 236 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 1: these scenes, going like, well, what's up is Felix? Like 237 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 1: are we in the sixteen fifties? Is Felix responsible for 238 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 1: this woman's dowry? Like goats? Like what is this weird? 239 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: I can't be around you if your brother doesn't know, 240 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 1: I'm caughting. Likes also like, you know what fair enough 241 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: if you want to explore some sort of cultural, uh tradition, 242 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 1: let's explore it. But what are we just like it's 243 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 1: just so arbitrary and he's such a douche anyway, Felix 244 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: that why is she? You know? I just I can't 245 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 1: I don't understand it, know, the only person like doing 246 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 1: like proper dating our Karen and sweet Andy and Keith 247 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 1: and our fabulous guest today, ladies, shall we bring her in? 248 00:14:55,200 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: Let's bring her in? Just there? You a okay, right, 249 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: let's do it. I mean to give you you need 250 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: a proper intro. Guys, Our our guest right now is 251 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: an American entertainment reporter, television personality, professional, wrestler, actress, author, businesswoman. 252 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,840 Speaker 1: She's a journalist. That's that's conducted the only interview with 253 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 1: the entire Obama family. She's interviewed every sitting president since 254 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 1: Bill Clinton one on one. She's she is an allegend 255 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 1: in her own right and has been through so many 256 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 1: amazing things in life and has held a torch for 257 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 1: so many leading so many people in incredible avenues of 258 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 1: philanthropy and um just learning and growth personal growth. She's 259 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 1: got her own podcast right now. So we are so 260 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 1: so so happy to introduce Maria Manudos high ladys. Oh 261 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: my god, it's so nice to hear your voice not 262 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: just on TV, but like directed at us. It feels 263 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 1: so good. I am so excited to view with you today. 264 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 1: I'm so excited to catch up. I mean, my god, 265 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: it's been so long and um yeah, it's been way long. Yeah, 266 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 1: but you haven't aged a day. Yeah, you've gotten younger, 267 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: which seems like you neither have any of you. I'm 268 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 1: like just dealing with COVID right now, by the way, 269 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 1: So this is my COVID tried killing together for you guys, Babe. 270 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: How are you feeling? Are you okay? You? I'm actually good, 271 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: thank god. The first day was pretty um and I 272 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: had a fever, but then after that it was it 273 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 1: was pretty good. I mean, it wasn't that bad. Well, 274 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 1: you worked like twenty jobs, so I hope it's an 275 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 1: opportunity for you to just like chill out for a minute. 276 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: I think you've found that. Um. Did you guys both 277 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 1: meet Marian for the first time on One Tree Hill? 278 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 1: Was that y'all's first meeting because we met at MTV. 279 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if you remember this, but we met. 280 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 1: I remember meeting you in the hallway and being like, 281 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 1: oh my god, she's so pretty. It's like that green 282 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:06,200 Speaker 1: room hallway right outside the control room. Were you Did 283 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 1: you work in MTV? Did you host? Um? I was 284 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 1: doing a show at that time called e T on MTV, right, 285 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:16,679 Speaker 1: that's what, But we weren't filming it there, so I 286 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:19,159 Speaker 1: might have just been there, like making an appearance or 287 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 1: something on some show. Yeah, gosh, and that's when I remember, gosh, Marian, 288 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 1: I weirdly did you and I need like I knew 289 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: you because of your dad. Yeah. By the way, guys, 290 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 1: I have absolutely no memory being my husband. And my 291 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 1: first assistant was with me for years there my USB drive, 292 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 1: so I usually have to ask them for everything did 293 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:45,400 Speaker 1: I give me? And I don't remember anything in life, 294 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 1: but I do remember your dad took my first head 295 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 1: shots here in l A, being in a place called 296 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 1: Channel one and Charles Bush I'll never forget. And um, 297 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 1: and I knew you because of your dad, and then 298 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 1: you met somehow before the show. I don't remember how. 299 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 1: I think it was an ET thing because I remember 300 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 1: how crazy it was, you know, my Yeah, my dad 301 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: was a photographer. I had to like work for him 302 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 1: during the summer, and I was a petulant teenager who 303 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:20,160 Speaker 1: didn't pay attention to anything because I was like mad, 304 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 1: I wasn't at the Glendale Galleria with all my friends 305 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 1: and and then suddenly we're all doing this TV show 306 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 1: and I have no idea what's going on. And it 307 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 1: was one of those I don't know what. It was, 308 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 1: some press thing we did, like at the end of 309 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:38,119 Speaker 1: season one, and I remember seeing you and being like, 310 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 1: I wonder if she remembers me, because I know her 311 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: and this feels safe. Everything is overwhelming here, and you 312 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 1: were just like, oh my god, your show. It was 313 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: so so sweet and lovely, Maria. How did you get started? 314 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:54,639 Speaker 1: How did I get started? Um? Well, you, as you 315 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 1: all know, it's like a series of baby steps, right, 316 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 1: It's like little thing after a little thing. It's saying 317 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 1: yes to the things and then you get there. But um, 318 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 1: kind of like the big moment that led to the 319 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:09,879 Speaker 1: big moment was, um, my now husband was um working 320 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 1: at MTV at the time, came back to Boston to 321 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 1: make a movie. I was so unconnected, guys, my parents 322 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 1: were janitors, Like this was not that kind of story. 323 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 1: But my cousin went to high school with him randomly 324 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:26,919 Speaker 1: and he said, Hey, that buddy I've been telling you 325 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 1: about he was coming back to make a movie. You 326 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 1: should work on it. And he had been telling you 327 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 1: since I was thirteen that he had this buddy at 328 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: it in l A and not like whatever, and he's like, 329 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:39,119 Speaker 1: it's coming back to make a movie. And I was 330 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: working um at Lord and Taylor in Copley Square doing 331 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:48,119 Speaker 1: makeovers for chel Huh. I did make up and I 332 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 1: basically quit my job started working on the movie. And 333 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:53,879 Speaker 1: then a producer named Mark Finney who was working on 334 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 1: our movie, went back to l A after re wrapped 335 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 1: and was peeing at a place called Channel one News. 336 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:01,919 Speaker 1: So he called one day because they were looking for 337 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:04,959 Speaker 1: new TV anchors and he knew I was studying journalism 338 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:08,199 Speaker 1: at Emerson, so he said, you should put in a tape. 339 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:11,919 Speaker 1: So Kevin and I got the only two videos I 340 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:14,159 Speaker 1: had of myself because I was like not that person 341 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:18,120 Speaker 1: that was like so psycho focused on like I gotta 342 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 1: put my real together, I getta do all this. I 343 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:22,840 Speaker 1: was just kind of like going with the flow, and 344 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 1: we put a real together. I ended up getting a 345 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 1: job moving to l A. And then from there I 346 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 1: went to entertainment tonight across the street, and so um 347 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 1: that was it. From there it was like history. And 348 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 1: then I was with you guys, Yeah, how did you 349 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: end up on one Stree Hill? What? What did you? 350 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 1: Was in a random audition or did you know somebody? 351 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 1: Like how did it come out? So? Um, I remember 352 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:49,639 Speaker 1: my attorney, Kevin Yourn repped Mark Schwan at the time, 353 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:53,399 Speaker 1: and I had told my attorney that I wanted to 354 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 1: do some acting, and so he spoke with him, and 355 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 1: then there was some audition and I broke my toe 356 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:02,959 Speaker 1: just for the audition, you know. And then Mark at 357 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: the time was like, that's so Jewels, and so he 358 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: was like, this is so Joel's side. Did the part, 359 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,400 Speaker 1: but it was only supposed to be like an episode 360 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 1: or two, I think, and then it just kept growing 361 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:19,239 Speaker 1: from there because your good collection is thank you, thank you. 362 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 1: I did watch back and I wasn't embarrassed. No, you're 363 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: so cute. You're like the perfect guys girl totally. And 364 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:31,160 Speaker 1: Enjoyce said it, there's that scene in this episode because 365 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 1: you know, we meet you in the last one, and 366 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 1: then in this one we were talking about how cute 367 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:38,160 Speaker 1: you were kind of riving Craig about how he calls 368 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 1: you with this total BS like survey excuse. But Joyce 369 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,199 Speaker 1: said it, when you're sitting in that cue purple T 370 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 1: shirt on the phone, you're throwing out such strong, charming 371 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:54,120 Speaker 1: like Alicia Silverstone vibes. It's so it's like such an 372 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:58,040 Speaker 1: iconic energy of an of an era and you tapped 373 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 1: into it so beautifully, and I feel like that's why 374 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 1: week after week everyone was like, how do we keep 375 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 1: her here? What do we do? You know, how do 376 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 1: we have more Jewels? No way? I don't know what 377 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 1: happened behind the scenes. I don't know how it all 378 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 1: happened or worked out, because I was in a storm 379 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:18,880 Speaker 1: working um crazy crazy and it was like forty out 380 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: a fifty two weekends, seven days straight a week, and 381 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,880 Speaker 1: then I was flying to Wilmington's to do this. And 382 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:26,880 Speaker 1: every time I got to go to Wilmington's, I could 383 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 1: take a breath and I could breathe, and I felt 384 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 1: like I was in safe, good hands, Like I just 385 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: felt so good that I remember when we wrapped, I 386 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 1: was balling, like I don't want to go anywhere. I 387 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 1: wish we could have kept you. Where do we think 388 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 1: Jewels is today? What do we think Jewels is doing? 389 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 1: I think she probably stayed with um Keith because I 390 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 1: felt bad in the end, right, like I had a 391 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:54,920 Speaker 1: like deep dive and remember what was going on because 392 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 1: I'm watching it, I'm like, didn't I pull a fast 393 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 1: one here? And then I saw it. I was like, okay, 394 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: so obviously evil band put me up to all this, 395 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 1: But now I really like him. So I would like 396 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 1: to think, because a lot of people hate me for 397 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: breaking Keith's heart, I hate me for breaking Keith's heart. 398 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 1: I would like to think that we made it work somehow, 399 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 1: that we like got back together again and lived happily 400 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 1: ever after they had little Craigs. I don't want to 401 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:29,640 Speaker 1: ruin it for you. He's dead. Yeah, I know, it's 402 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 1: so sad. It's so sad. Maybe she just got like 403 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 1: a huge Keith tattoo and she's just like he die 404 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 1: because I tribute like season five, season three, season three. Yeah, 405 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,360 Speaker 1: it was season three because I had a short haircut. 406 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:50,239 Speaker 1: That's how I know what. And it was it was 407 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 1: the big school shooting episode. Oh I thought I had 408 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 1: had time to get back together with him. I guess not. No, baby, 409 00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: it was like it was a strong one to punch. 410 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 1: They were we're gonna break his heart and then break 411 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 1: his body. Yeah. He's so good though. He's really so 412 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:12,160 Speaker 1: lovely and so um so helpful and kind with me. 413 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 1: I really appreciated him. Have you acted growing up? Have 414 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: you done theater and stuff? No? No, I used to 415 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: clean nightclubs, praying someday that I would get to like perform, 416 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 1: So we would go. I would go up on stage 417 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 1: and like the B fifty two s would leave there 418 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,719 Speaker 1: like their gear, like there are drums and their guitars, 419 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:34,679 Speaker 1: and I would just go up there and pretend I 420 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,879 Speaker 1: was performing, and like my parents wouldn't pay attention to 421 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 1: me because they were of course cleaning and we were 422 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,439 Speaker 1: trying to get the forge out of there. But um no, 423 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,640 Speaker 1: I never danced. I never did acting classes. I never 424 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,240 Speaker 1: did any of that. And then in college I started 425 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: kind of dipping my toe and acting in some student 426 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 1: films and things like that. Was it a hard transition 427 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 1: going from being a reporter into acting? Was that? How 428 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 1: was that for you? Did it feel like a strategy 429 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:05,120 Speaker 1: to feel like a new adventure. Well, it's funny because 430 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 1: back then people weren't multi hyphen It's right, exactly. Everybody 431 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 1: was a very particular box. Yeah, and they were really 432 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:18,120 Speaker 1: really against it, Like everybody was like, she can't act, 433 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 1: she's a reporter. And I have to give my husband 434 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,399 Speaker 1: credit because he was the one who was like why not, 435 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,399 Speaker 1: why can't you do everything? He was there, He was 436 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,160 Speaker 1: there with you, wasn't he He did. He came down 437 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 1: at some point. Um, I remember we had a ship 438 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: one of my dogs to my parents. I will never 439 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,920 Speaker 1: forget they go money. Don't tell anybody that we baby 440 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 1: sitting in the dog. They're gonna think we're crazy. But 441 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:48,359 Speaker 1: yeah we um. He pushed me and I just you know, 442 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 1: I wanted to do so many different things. I was 443 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,160 Speaker 1: so curious, and I always had the kind of mindset 444 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 1: of like, we only live once, why would we just 445 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 1: stick to one thing? Why wouldn't we explore and try things? 446 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,440 Speaker 1: And so I loved it. I had so much fun. 447 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 1: In fact, throughout the years after, you know, because I 448 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 1: did some other acting. I did, you know, Fantastic four, 449 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 1: and I did um this other movie called Kicking at 450 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 1: Old School with Jamie Kennedy and Trumpic Thunder and stuff. 451 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 1: What I realized about myself is I was always happiest 452 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:25,440 Speaker 1: on a movie center, a TV set, not necessarily because 453 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 1: I really wanted to be an actor per se, but 454 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 1: because I really liked focusing on one thing. And it's 455 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 1: funny how different things in your life will teach you 456 00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:40,440 Speaker 1: things about yourself. Like I was so overstretched and doing 457 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:43,880 Speaker 1: so many things at some point that I was like well, 458 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 1: when when am I happiest? And I'm like, oh, it's 459 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 1: when I'm on a set because I'm so no good 460 00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 1: at it that I have to focus really hard, right, 461 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,880 Speaker 1: yes you are or not like or maybe I shouldn't 462 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:56,919 Speaker 1: be like negative. But the point is it wasn't my 463 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 1: strong suit. My strong suit's hosting right, that was, like 464 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 1: I think, Um, I had never been trained, so I 465 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 1: had to really give it everything I had. And I 466 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,200 Speaker 1: loved that energy of being able to focus someone things. 467 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:09,719 Speaker 1: So there are so many times in my life as 468 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:11,920 Speaker 1: I continue to be a multi hyperniteddu way too many 469 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 1: things where I'm like, how do I gravitate back to that? 470 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:19,439 Speaker 1: Just one thing? So okay, if you could pick, like 471 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:23,200 Speaker 1: your perfect movie or perfect TV show to do, what 472 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 1: would you like? What's your dream gig? Currently? Um? You 473 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 1: know it's it's such a tough landscape. I feel like 474 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 1: the world has changed so much, not just because of 475 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 1: the pandemic, but I'm sure, I mean, gosh, I have 476 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:41,720 Speaker 1: to have you ladies on my show at some point 477 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,520 Speaker 1: so we can talk about this because I don't want 478 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 1: to take up your show. Make my baby give it, 479 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 1: give it. The acting world has changed so much and 480 00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,240 Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear from you guys on it 481 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 1: because it's so splinter The whole business is splintered, hosting, acting, 482 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 1: everything is splintered. It's like you get you a little 483 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 1: fief to them and stay with your fiefdom and then 484 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 1: that's it. Um. I have to say I've been doing 485 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,400 Speaker 1: a little bit more acting randomly. I did a holiday 486 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: movie I think Bethany I saw you in one recently, right, Yes, yes, 487 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 1: I was. I saw you. I was like, oh my god, 488 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 1: she looks so beautiful and she's still exact same. Oh 489 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 1: my god, So I like you and I loved it. 490 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:28,080 Speaker 1: Oh no, you did it with um Janna. Yeah, yes, 491 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,359 Speaker 1: I saw Jane posting like beautiful pictures on a wharf 492 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:34,679 Speaker 1: for something with you, and I'm like, I know, we 493 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 1: had such a good time and it's so funny because 494 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 1: you know we're all just here right now. But um, 495 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,880 Speaker 1: but yeah. And then I have another um Netflix series 496 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 1: coming out I think in April with a very famous 497 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:51,480 Speaker 1: comedian where I get to be something. So my scene 498 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 1: now is just my podcast. I really am trying to 499 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 1: build that kind of like health wellness, life improvement space 500 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 1: for people to come where they don't have to fight 501 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 1: about politics and they don't have to think about all 502 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 1: the dreary, horrible things. It's like, how do we how 503 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 1: do we roll with the punches, how do we live 504 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 1: better lives? How do we live happier and healthier? And 505 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,320 Speaker 1: take everything that I've gone through in the last few 506 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: years and teach people what I've learned. Being your own 507 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 1: boss as a woman is the most empowering thing. And 508 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 1: you know, we all kind of came up in the 509 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 1: business at the same time where we were at the 510 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 1: mercy of a lot of dudes, and so to see 511 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 1: so many women take the reins is exciting. Yeah, the 512 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 1: fact that you came up during a time when they're 513 00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:40,880 Speaker 1: everything was so segregated, you couldn't sort of be outside 514 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:42,960 Speaker 1: of your box, and the fact that you did break 515 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 1: the mold in so many ways is a huge testament 516 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 1: to not only your gifts and abilities, but who you 517 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 1: are as a person. That you just could see through 518 00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:54,719 Speaker 1: the barriers, these sort of arbitrary barriers that have been 519 00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:57,080 Speaker 1: put up and decided to just do your own thing. 520 00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 1: I mean, it's just so bad ass, Maria, and I 521 00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:05,959 Speaker 1: think it's I think it's so inspiring too, because to 522 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 1: the point of what we're talking about. You know, for 523 00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 1: folks listening at home, it might seem weird to think 524 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,640 Speaker 1: about now, but when our show launched, you know, Mario, 525 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 1: when you were beginning your hosting career, you were really 526 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 1: told that you could only do one thing. So if 527 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 1: you were a TV host, you were a TV host. 528 00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 1: If you did television, you could not do movies. If 529 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 1: you did movies, you wouldn't dare to go on a 530 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 1: TV show, if you know journalists or journalists. Everything was 531 00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 1: so specific. Even the idea that singers might act was 532 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 1: a shock to anyone. And now we we think it's 533 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 1: so funny because if you're creative, you're creative. If you're 534 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: a storyteller, whether you write music or articles, or film 535 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:51,400 Speaker 1: and TV, whatever, it's all of this is a creative medium. 536 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 1: And so it's almost crazy now to consider that we 537 00:30:55,520 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 1: all make film, television, movies, We work in journalism, political spaces. 538 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,880 Speaker 1: We you know, some people on this show make music, 539 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 1: and you know, not just albums, but write musicals. I mean, 540 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 1: like Joy, you do eighty seven things in music alone. 541 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 1: And it's like, isn't it wild that there was an era, 542 00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 1: especially when we were all being sort of born as artists, 543 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,280 Speaker 1: where other people were telling us what we could and 544 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 1: could not do. It's it is crazy now because with 545 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 1: the advent of new tech, like anyone can do anything 546 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 1: even from home. It's it's surreal. And you really did 547 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:38,240 Speaker 1: set examples for a lot of people, us included I 548 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 1: want to dig into your personal life. Well you have 549 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: been to watch this episode. I did, Yeah, I watched 550 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 1: it last night. So right before we my husband, I 551 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 1: was like so excited, like I'm not an americment Oh no, 552 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 1: you right. So many years later you're like, oh, I 553 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 1: definitely happen. There's no way I didn't suck. That was 554 00:31:54,600 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 1: like the first time. So you're so cute. So we're 555 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 1: lamenting Danielle Alonso's character caring so much about her brother's 556 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: opinion about who she's dating. But you're telling us that, 557 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:17,480 Speaker 1: like your cousins set you up with your husband? Did they? 558 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 1: Did he mean to set you up? Or was this 559 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:23,000 Speaker 1: supposed to be a business thing but the career set up? 560 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 1: But when I met Kevin, I was like, Oh, he's 561 00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 1: the one. He doesn't know it yet, so I'm just 562 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 1: gonna have to force him to fall in love with me. 563 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 1: I love it good. I'm glad he didn't know. No, 564 00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 1: I was like a chubby nineteen year old guy coming 565 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,880 Speaker 1: in from I was forty ground seven or than I 566 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 1: am now. Of course I was. It was so cute. Yeah, 567 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,800 Speaker 1: I mean listen, I was tall, so I wore it 568 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:50,400 Speaker 1: pretty well. But I was just this kid and he 569 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:54,560 Speaker 1: was like this, you know, filmmaker guy from Hollywood or whatever, 570 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 1: and so yeah, he had no idea that I was like, no, 571 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 1: it's you. How long have you guys went together at 572 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: this point twenty four years in April. It's amazing, especially 573 00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,240 Speaker 1: in our industry, you know what I mean, Like you're 574 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 1: I mean, you work so so much. I love how 575 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 1: rounded you are with your family, um and with your 576 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 1: relationships and the fact that you can just like pick 577 00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,680 Speaker 1: up with people like the last time you saw them 578 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: was yesterday and it's been what fifteen years. It's I 579 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,239 Speaker 1: also remember being so struck then and I and I 580 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,400 Speaker 1: still am so impressed by it and love to kind 581 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,880 Speaker 1: of witness it as a person who adores you, as 582 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 1: we all do. I remember being young, and you know, 583 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 1: having this sort of first experience and definitely realizing that 584 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:50,960 Speaker 1: there's a lot of men in the world who are 585 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:54,320 Speaker 1: very threatened by successful women. And you came on our 586 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 1: show with this husband who you know is what is 587 00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:01,400 Speaker 1: he like at least ten years older than you, and 588 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 1: you're you're coming into act and you've got this hosting 589 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:08,319 Speaker 1: career and you're running from you know, a war zone 590 00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 1: here to the oscars there and going to MTV and 591 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,920 Speaker 1: going to eat and coming to work with us. And 592 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:18,319 Speaker 1: he was walking around with you, holding one of the 593 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:23,520 Speaker 1: dogs and just beaming watching you and the way he 594 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 1: talked about you. And you'd like, go to shoot a scene, 595 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 1: you know, we'd all be down on the river um 596 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:31,359 Speaker 1: and two of us wouldn't be on camera, so we'd 597 00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:33,080 Speaker 1: be at video village and he was at video village 598 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:34,879 Speaker 1: and he's like, God, just look at her. She's good 599 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:39,359 Speaker 1: at everything. And he was so proud of you, and 600 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:44,279 Speaker 1: it it really it set such an example for me 601 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:49,480 Speaker 1: in in what I would not tolerate less of in 602 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:52,799 Speaker 1: my relationships moving forward as I became an adult, I 603 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:54,640 Speaker 1: was like, oh, no, no, there are people who will 604 00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:58,479 Speaker 1: love your success and be proud of if they're not. Yeah, 605 00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 1: if they're threatened, that's there and it's not your responsibility. 606 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:03,680 Speaker 1: And I just got I just think about him all 607 00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 1: the time, standing there with that cute little baseball app 608 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,959 Speaker 1: just watching you and like being so in love with 609 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:15,720 Speaker 1: you being the best version of yourself. It was very cool. 610 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you guys are so so beautiful. Thank 611 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:24,240 Speaker 1: you for that, because you're gonna make me cry. Um, 612 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,319 Speaker 1: I'm gonna make sure he listens to this, because you 613 00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,799 Speaker 1: know it is it is hard, I know for so 614 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 1: many people to find somebody that is going to root 615 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 1: for them, and he really has, I mean so rooted 616 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 1: for me every second of every day for almost twenty 617 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,800 Speaker 1: four years, and you're reminding me of how much I 618 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 1: should appreciate him even more. I wanted to ask what 619 00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,960 Speaker 1: you remember about Wilmington's. You know you said you came in. 620 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 1: I've had a big breath of fresh air every time 621 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,160 Speaker 1: you got there because your life was so such a blur. 622 00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:59,360 Speaker 1: What do you remember what? What did you love about 623 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:02,160 Speaker 1: that town? What do you remember about your filming experience too? 624 00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: I loved every second of all of it. Um. I 625 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:12,720 Speaker 1: think getting to have fun, you know, for me, because 626 00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,560 Speaker 1: I grew up cleaning nightclubs, I didn't get to go 627 00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,600 Speaker 1: do all the things that kids got to do and 628 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:19,760 Speaker 1: have fun. So when I look back at my career, 629 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,919 Speaker 1: it was seems like One Tree Hill. Even Fantastic four, 630 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 1: I had like two scenes. But we were there for months, 631 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,200 Speaker 1: so I got to have like almost like a college 632 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 1: experience where we would just like go out and party 633 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:34,880 Speaker 1: every summer camp or Dancing with the Stars where I 634 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,840 Speaker 1: got to have my dance recitals. But as an adult, 635 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,640 Speaker 1: my parents come see my dancer cital, and so I 636 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,840 Speaker 1: look back at those moments where I'm like, wow, okay, 637 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:46,720 Speaker 1: I got my fun in kind of like a hyper 638 00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:52,160 Speaker 1: insane way. Wilmington's was gorgeous. I remember loving it there. 639 00:36:52,160 --> 00:37:01,920 Speaker 1: And there was that ice cream shop. Remember what's it called? Yes, uh, 640 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,759 Speaker 1: what was your flavor? What did you go get? I'm 641 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,200 Speaker 1: always like a cookie dough person, or was a cookie 642 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:12,359 Speaker 1: dough person then very much now, but I was die 643 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:17,279 Speaker 1: hard cookie dough. Yeah, that's awesome. Cookie dough on a waffre. 644 00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,600 Speaker 1: Did you stay? Were you at the Riverview Sweets or 645 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:21,600 Speaker 1: were you Did you get an apartment while you were there? 646 00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 1: I was that's the Hilton right the river we were 647 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 1: in there. Yeah, it was so nice. It was just 648 00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:32,800 Speaker 1: like I could breathe. I feel like it was so great. 649 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,520 Speaker 1: And you guys were all so loving and warm and fun. 650 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:42,000 Speaker 1: And I remember all your dogs, Sophia, a little rescue 651 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,919 Speaker 1: troop always. How many do you have now? Just one? 652 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:49,759 Speaker 1: Can you believe it? I know I'm gonna do so, 653 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god, look at us. At what point do 654 00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 1: you direct? Like, at what point, after conquering all of 655 00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 1: this stuff do you say, Okay, I'm in the boss chair, 656 00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:07,960 Speaker 1: this is my time. That's funny. Um, I directed a 657 00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:12,000 Speaker 1: little I did a short film, um years ago. I 658 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:15,960 Speaker 1: think that one went to so Fire tried Doka. I 659 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:17,920 Speaker 1: don't remember. We did a couple of different movies that 660 00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,680 Speaker 1: Kevin directed, and then I directed a short. I really 661 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 1: like directing a lot. It's funny you say that. I like, 662 00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:26,760 Speaker 1: I have always looked at everything in life like a shot, 663 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:30,960 Speaker 1: which is so weird. I don't know why, but um, 664 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:33,400 Speaker 1: but then, of course now it's like a whole other life, 665 00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 1: right because now with iPhones everything is a shot. But 666 00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,880 Speaker 1: preceding iPhones, everything was a shot in my head. And 667 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:43,399 Speaker 1: I love I love working with actors and I love 668 00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:46,360 Speaker 1: all of that. So I don't know, it just seems 669 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:49,319 Speaker 1: like it seems like so much work now. I think 670 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,840 Speaker 1: I'm like retired into old but I am going to 671 00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:58,080 Speaker 1: direct a documentary. Um, Joe Burlinger is going to mentor 672 00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 1: me through directing a documentary on my brain tumor journey 673 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:06,840 Speaker 1: and my mom's and kind of the parallels I'm seeing 674 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:11,520 Speaker 1: in women today and and basically pointing out some of 675 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,719 Speaker 1: that to everybody. So um, so I'm working on that 676 00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:20,960 Speaker 1: right now. He's literally like the best. I'm so excited 677 00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:24,680 Speaker 1: for you to move into that space. Thank you do 678 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:27,719 Speaker 1: you find because one of the things that I think 679 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,759 Speaker 1: is really interesting about you know, all of us in 680 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,719 Speaker 1: the way that, like you said, we pick up exactly 681 00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:35,840 Speaker 1: where we left off, and we talk a lot on 682 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 1: this show about how we're all at a point in 683 00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,359 Speaker 1: our life. We're really nothing's off limits, you know, like, 684 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:45,000 Speaker 1: let's share the lessons, let's get let's get into the stuff, 685 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:48,720 Speaker 1: whether we agree or disagree or we're processing something. And 686 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 1: you know, on your podcast on Better Together, you open 687 00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:58,320 Speaker 1: up so much about all of this major life events stuff, 688 00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,000 Speaker 1: and like you said, you do it in a way 689 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:05,920 Speaker 1: where it's about wellness and growth and and you're talking about, 690 00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,600 Speaker 1: you know, what you went through with your brain tumor, 691 00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,799 Speaker 1: what your mother went through with her cancer. This is 692 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:15,000 Speaker 1: big life stuff that a lot of people go through, 693 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:18,600 Speaker 1: but a lot of people don't often feel like they 694 00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:22,279 Speaker 1: can talk about. Do you do you feel like all 695 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,200 Speaker 1: the years where you've been a storyteller, where you've built 696 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:29,120 Speaker 1: these connections with audiences and people, do you do you 697 00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:32,759 Speaker 1: feel like you want to heal out loud so that 698 00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 1: other people can do that with you. That's an interesting 699 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,600 Speaker 1: way to put it, actually, to heal out loud. I 700 00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 1: think I was healing out loud when I started the 701 00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:47,400 Speaker 1: show because it was partly I wanted to financers to 702 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,319 Speaker 1: help my mom through her cancer journey, and I knew 703 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,800 Speaker 1: I had access to people. I knew I had access 704 00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:56,919 Speaker 1: to the best of the best, and I knew that 705 00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,799 Speaker 1: I would be able to help others have that access. 706 00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 1: And then at the same time, UM be able to 707 00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:06,920 Speaker 1: help my mom and myself really my mom, But you 708 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 1: never know, there were always some nuggets for me there too. 709 00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:14,000 Speaker 1: But I think, um, you know, I just love helping people. 710 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 1: That's always been something that's been in my heart and 711 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 1: what I loved and admired so much about watching an 712 00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,520 Speaker 1: Oprah in life right, she loved helping with people, and 713 00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:25,680 Speaker 1: that was something I loved about her. I love about 714 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:29,120 Speaker 1: Tony Robbins. I love about so many people, so I 715 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:33,040 Speaker 1: love helping people. And I think that's kind of why, 716 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:36,759 Speaker 1: because I know if I'm open and vulnerable, someone else 717 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:40,160 Speaker 1: will be able to be open and vulnerable, and someone 718 00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:42,440 Speaker 1: else will share something that might help us all kind 719 00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:44,520 Speaker 1: of unlock something. Right. That's why I always say we're 720 00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 1: better together. Yeah, So yeah, what what inspired you? Just so? 721 00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,040 Speaker 1: When did you start the podcast? Was it initially you 722 00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,879 Speaker 1: started specifically because of what your mom was going through 723 00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,160 Speaker 1: or did you Is it something that was ruminating for 724 00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,000 Speaker 1: a long time. I think I shifted it shifted the 725 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:05,759 Speaker 1: title to that I started doing the podcast. It was 726 00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:10,839 Speaker 1: funny Kevin Um. One day I came home from e 727 00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 1: then he had blown out our garage and I'm like, 728 00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:16,920 Speaker 1: what are you doing you psycho? He's like, this is 729 00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:19,720 Speaker 1: your future and I go what? And he was building 730 00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:22,520 Speaker 1: a podcast studio in the garage and he goes, this 731 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:26,840 Speaker 1: is your future. Ire me talking about this weirdo. This 732 00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:28,759 Speaker 1: has literally been twenty four years and me calling a 733 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,160 Speaker 1: long yard and not understanding. But he has such a vision, 734 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:35,160 Speaker 1: so he built the studio. Soon after, I get a 735 00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 1: brain tumor, my mom got to brain tom I get 736 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:41,799 Speaker 1: a brain tumor and I had surgery, and so I 737 00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:44,680 Speaker 1: had like no balance and you know, affected some nerves. 738 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,960 Speaker 1: So all I could do was use my walker and 739 00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:51,479 Speaker 1: get into the studio and and do my show there. 740 00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:56,000 Speaker 1: So it ended up being, you know, where I kind 741 00:42:56,000 --> 00:43:00,000 Speaker 1: of started my podcasting, and and then at some point, 742 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:04,360 Speaker 1: like the show um shifted into such health and wellness 743 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:08,759 Speaker 1: out of necessity because of my mom. Yeah, so it 744 00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:10,799 Speaker 1: was organic. It just kind of happened. It was what 745 00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,520 Speaker 1: I was already interested in. I've always been interested in 746 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:17,520 Speaker 1: life improvement, self improvement and health and wellness, but then 747 00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:21,799 Speaker 1: it became very very important and very tough of mind. So, 748 00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:25,120 Speaker 1: and what are the things that keep you staying positive 749 00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:27,920 Speaker 1: and motivated when you're going through tough times and you know, 750 00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:30,120 Speaker 1: as you process the things that you're talking about on 751 00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,480 Speaker 1: your show. Well, I was talking about this recently, Like 752 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,719 Speaker 1: I think life is like a roller coaster, right, I 753 00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:38,359 Speaker 1: love roller coasters. Do you guys like roller coasters? I do? 754 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,520 Speaker 1: So why do we love roller coasters? Because we're gonna 755 00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:43,080 Speaker 1: scare the s out of us and then we're gonna 756 00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:44,719 Speaker 1: get to the other side, right, So it's like we 757 00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:47,680 Speaker 1: know we're going to be okay. I'm locked in. Yeah, Like, 758 00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:51,400 Speaker 1: no matter what, we're always going to be okay. So 759 00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:54,240 Speaker 1: I love I love the analogy of a roller coaster 760 00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:57,200 Speaker 1: because it's highs and lows. We're gonna have them. It's inevitable. 761 00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:58,880 Speaker 1: Life isn't supposed to be fair, it's not going to 762 00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:02,160 Speaker 1: be perfect. It's how we choose to go through it. 763 00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,480 Speaker 1: And so I made a conscious decision. It took me 764 00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:07,279 Speaker 1: a second. I had to gather myself because when you 765 00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,120 Speaker 1: hear your mom as stage four brain cancer, it is 766 00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 1: the most paralyzing, worst moment of your life. Yeah, but 767 00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,879 Speaker 1: I said, okay, we're going to go through this with 768 00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:19,600 Speaker 1: like faith and with um, with you know, as much 769 00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:23,000 Speaker 1: laughter and comedy as possible. And the same thing. When 770 00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:25,280 Speaker 1: I was diagnosed, I was like, okay, now it's pure comedy. 771 00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 1: I mean I was crashing jokes with the surgeon the 772 00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:29,600 Speaker 1: second I walked in there, I go, hey, so you 773 00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 1: see this mother daughter tumor thing often And he was 774 00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:40,400 Speaker 1: like God, and I'm like, okay, then serious here, Okay. 775 00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:43,120 Speaker 1: To the point where I had I had promised him 776 00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:46,200 Speaker 1: I would go to this charity event where they were 777 00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:50,360 Speaker 1: honoring him. It was June seven, I get diagnosed like sometimes. 778 00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:53,520 Speaker 1: I think it was like in April or something, and 779 00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:57,000 Speaker 1: he's like, well, I can operate on the eighth of June. 780 00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:59,600 Speaker 1: I said, well, that's my birthday. It's perfect. It's a rebirth. 781 00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,040 Speaker 1: And he goes, well, obviously you're not going to make 782 00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:03,600 Speaker 1: it on the seventh and I go, no, I'll be 783 00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 1: there and he's like what. And so I show up 784 00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:09,320 Speaker 1: to this charity and then you guys, and it's at 785 00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 1: the Stave Bonds house. The Save Bonds are these like 786 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:17,120 Speaker 1: oper wealthy family whatever in Beverly Hills, and I see 787 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:20,239 Speaker 1: Dr Black and I'm like, hey, to drink minimum. You're 788 00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:23,520 Speaker 1: in my brain tomorrow morning. I'm watching you. And so 789 00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,800 Speaker 1: then they're showing brain surgeries that he's operated on on 790 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:28,759 Speaker 1: the screens and I'm looking around. I see like Ted 791 00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:30,920 Speaker 1: Surranda's from Netflix there and all these people. I'm like, 792 00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:33,000 Speaker 1: no one has a clue, but this man is going 793 00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,279 Speaker 1: to be cutting my skull open and removing it to 794 00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:39,040 Speaker 1: murder tomorrow. We this is insane, but yeah, I mean, 795 00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,239 Speaker 1: I definitely am someone who honors my commitments. So I 796 00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:48,000 Speaker 1: went and it's bananas, but you know, life is gonna 797 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:50,640 Speaker 1: have throw it's purballs. That's why I love Rocky so much. 798 00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,400 Speaker 1: She says, It's not about how hard you hit, It's 799 00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:54,760 Speaker 1: about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward, 800 00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:57,520 Speaker 1: how much you can take and keep moving forward. And 801 00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:59,759 Speaker 1: so I think we all have choices how we want 802 00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:02,759 Speaker 1: to go through things. And I know that the decision 803 00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,520 Speaker 1: to use comedy and to to make it as light 804 00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:10,840 Speaker 1: as possible made our journey easier, and so I highly 805 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:14,279 Speaker 1: encourage it because having your pity party, we can all 806 00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:16,439 Speaker 1: have our pitty party for a minute. I had one 807 00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,600 Speaker 1: the other day on you know when I'm like, oh 808 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,279 Speaker 1: Christmas is ruined. Kevin and I both have COVID. This 809 00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:25,040 Speaker 1: is great, Okay, go on our trip. But that took 810 00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:26,360 Speaker 1: a minute, and then I was like, okay, this is 811 00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:28,319 Speaker 1: probably happening for a reason, Well what is it? Then 812 00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:30,720 Speaker 1: you did again, You're like, well, I need a rest, 813 00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:33,520 Speaker 1: and I think God is just forcing arrest. And I 814 00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:36,880 Speaker 1: think that's you know, there's always a reason behind things. 815 00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:46,560 Speaker 1: It's so important. I think this is such a valuable 816 00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:49,279 Speaker 1: outlook because it seems like a very it's a very 817 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:52,480 Speaker 1: common theme right now in our modern Western society. The 818 00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:57,920 Speaker 1: entitlement to not suffer the entitlement to this idea that, um, 819 00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:02,920 Speaker 1: I shouldn't be inconvenienced, I shouldn't be suffering, I shouldn't 820 00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:06,120 Speaker 1: be going through anything. I have a right to my 821 00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:10,880 Speaker 1: perfect life. Um. And it shows up in so many ways, 822 00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:16,279 Speaker 1: and um, it is so hard to I don't know. 823 00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:17,560 Speaker 1: I feel like I don't know if it's just this 824 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:21,760 Speaker 1: new generation or just what's happening with culturally in our 825 00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,879 Speaker 1: in our society right now. But I think it's what 826 00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:27,719 Speaker 1: you're talking about as a message that's really important for 827 00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:31,399 Speaker 1: people to listen to and to reevaluate where we are 828 00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:34,759 Speaker 1: in life. Yeah, you know, it's so interesting that you 829 00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,520 Speaker 1: freeze it that way. Joy part of what I've really 830 00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:39,920 Speaker 1: been wondering a lot about, which I know is a 831 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:43,439 Speaker 1: bit ironic considering we're all connecting via devices from four 832 00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:48,120 Speaker 1: different places around the country. But I think there's like 833 00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:52,960 Speaker 1: a dissonance happening because so many people are on devices 834 00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:56,439 Speaker 1: so much of the day, and what people share out 835 00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,680 Speaker 1: in the digital world is their highlight reel so sub 836 00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:04,440 Speaker 1: anxiously or even consciously. Now we all think everyone's out 837 00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:09,759 Speaker 1: there having this Instagram perfect life, and suddenly we go, well, 838 00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:11,640 Speaker 1: why am I the only person having a hard day, 839 00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:13,960 Speaker 1: and it's like, well, everyone's having a hard day, they're 840 00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:17,920 Speaker 1: just not posting about it. And I really wonder how 841 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:20,840 Speaker 1: well that's by the way, it feeds the mentality that 842 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:24,839 Speaker 1: I'm talking about that entitlements like I should something wrong 843 00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:28,839 Speaker 1: with me. Yes, yeah, that's what I mean. And that's why, 844 00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:33,160 Speaker 1: to bring it full circle, I think a show like yours, 845 00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:37,359 Speaker 1: Maria is so important because when you let people get 846 00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:41,319 Speaker 1: real about what's going on, when you let people in. 847 00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:43,799 Speaker 1: I mean, it's why I started my podcast, That's why, 848 00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,560 Speaker 1: it's why I launched Work in Progress to have like long, 849 00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:51,640 Speaker 1: deep talks but are honest and funny and hard. It's 850 00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:54,560 Speaker 1: why when we launched this show, we were like, well, 851 00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:57,960 Speaker 1: let's talk about let's talk about let's get into it. 852 00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:01,120 Speaker 1: Let's talk about the weird misogyny. Let's talk about what 853 00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,920 Speaker 1: was really stup culturally back then. Let's talk about what 854 00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:07,480 Speaker 1: we've all learned. Let's talk about what was hilarious. Like 855 00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:11,160 Speaker 1: when you when you can be your whole self in 856 00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:15,120 Speaker 1: a space, I think you do give other people permission 857 00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,279 Speaker 1: to do the same. And it is like kind of 858 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,640 Speaker 1: an out of body experience that I know I'm having 859 00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:22,439 Speaker 1: as the four of us talk about this right now 860 00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,520 Speaker 1: because I realized I don't think I could have consciously 861 00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:31,319 Speaker 1: articulated this at three. But you showed up for us 862 00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:35,560 Speaker 1: when we were twenty three, and you were an example 863 00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:39,520 Speaker 1: of this living out loud then, and we didn't have, 864 00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:45,920 Speaker 1: you know, women really too to set examples for us, 865 00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:49,200 Speaker 1: who were producers and hosts, all the people in power 866 00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:52,359 Speaker 1: on our show. We're men, and you showed up and 867 00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,880 Speaker 1: you were like, oh, I'm in power. I have five companies. 868 00:49:54,920 --> 00:50:00,640 Speaker 1: And we were like, that's that's allowed. Oh we should 869 00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:03,080 Speaker 1: all we should try to be like Maria. I'm like, God, 870 00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:05,400 Speaker 1: I let that on a T shirt. I want to 871 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,960 Speaker 1: be like Maria on a T shirt. Be like Maria. 872 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,600 Speaker 1: You had that energy where all the boys wanted to 873 00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:16,280 Speaker 1: flirt with you, but you demanded respect and used humor 874 00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:21,520 Speaker 1: in a way that they never from from an outside observer. 875 00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,799 Speaker 1: They didn't trivialize you the way some other girls got trivialized, 876 00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:28,360 Speaker 1: like you were well respected on our set. Are like 877 00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:31,520 Speaker 1: grips and electrics were like that, Maria, she's a dame, 878 00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:36,360 Speaker 1: you know. Like it's so funny how people perceive you 879 00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:38,680 Speaker 1: like you don't even know what they think. Of you like, sure, 880 00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:42,840 Speaker 1: that's so interesting. I appreciate that feedback. There is nothing 881 00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:47,240 Speaker 1: like a dame. I hope it was a good experience 882 00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:49,920 Speaker 1: because I know the Jewels storyline is like, you know, 883 00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,760 Speaker 1: it's a fun storyline, and I wish I had gotten 884 00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 1: more Jewels. I'm glad that we got more than the 885 00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:56,960 Speaker 1: one or two episodes you thought it was going to be. 886 00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:00,960 Speaker 1: I know, we too. We Too was literally such an 887 00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:03,120 Speaker 1: amazing experience. Oh, we know, what was gonna say, I 888 00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:05,960 Speaker 1: just remembered it. Um, what I was gonna say is 889 00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:09,319 Speaker 1: so you talk about kind of like showing up and 890 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:11,840 Speaker 1: doing all this stuff. And first of all, it was 891 00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:17,239 Speaker 1: really really hard because I you know, again, nobody wants 892 00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:20,879 Speaker 1: you to do anything other than the one thing you're doing, 893 00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:22,839 Speaker 1: and so we had to fight and fight and fight. 894 00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:24,319 Speaker 1: Can we do this? Can we do that? Can we 895 00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:28,200 Speaker 1: do this? And by the way, my male co stars 896 00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:32,200 Speaker 1: historically could do the exact same thing I asked for, 897 00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:38,040 Speaker 1: but I couldn't. Right, I literally think, oh my god, 898 00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:41,320 Speaker 1: the examples are so horrendous and evil and bad. But anyway, 899 00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:46,480 Speaker 1: he thought, and I'll never forget, Kevin actually threw the 900 00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:49,120 Speaker 1: gauntlet down for me to do one tree Hill really 901 00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:52,600 Speaker 1: called the executive and said she's doing it. I think 902 00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:55,160 Speaker 1: he said something like she's doing it. And I remember 903 00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:57,680 Speaker 1: being in an airport shaking because I'm like, this is 904 00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:01,520 Speaker 1: the right thing to do. Oh my god. We just 905 00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:04,439 Speaker 1: bought a house and I'm like, how are we gonna 906 00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 1: pay for things? And I get fired and all this stuff, 907 00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,960 Speaker 1: and he just grew down. He's like, listen for weekends. 908 00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:12,719 Speaker 1: You know, she's she's working for you guys, seven days 909 00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:15,960 Speaker 1: a week or whatever. She's gonna do this and that's it. 910 00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,799 Speaker 1: There's just like so we like fired the shot, and 911 00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:24,399 Speaker 1: we really but I'm so grateful because I would never 912 00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:27,600 Speaker 1: have had that experience and you know, they would have 913 00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:29,920 Speaker 1: chewed me up and spit me out at some point anyway. 914 00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,080 Speaker 1: So now I got to have all these really amazing 915 00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:35,160 Speaker 1: experiences with great people and great friendships that I've built 916 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:38,879 Speaker 1: throughout the years. So well, we have to have an 917 00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:44,239 Speaker 1: in real life reunion once you get better. Please, um 918 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:48,200 Speaker 1: you guys located? Are you guys only cal No? I'm 919 00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:51,360 Speaker 1: in New York. Okay, I'm in California right now, and 920 00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,160 Speaker 1: so Sophia, but she's also in Toronto, So where are you? 921 00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:58,640 Speaker 1: I'm in l A. Okay. Where did you grow up? 922 00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:02,880 Speaker 1: By the way, Austin, Okay, that's why the Lord and Taylor. 923 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:08,040 Speaker 1: I was like, are you jersy? So maybe that's what 924 00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:13,200 Speaker 1: we'll do. Yeah, let's have it get together. Oh my god. Fun. 925 00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:16,440 Speaker 1: We'll kidnap Hillary and we'll have a little get together. 926 00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:20,880 Speaker 1: Just come to the ranch. Oh, yes, we'll go to 927 00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:26,360 Speaker 1: the ranch. Yeah, I've got I'm becoming an adult life change. 928 00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:30,800 Speaker 1: Covid reassess was getting a ranch up in wine country 929 00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:34,239 Speaker 1: in California. So we can drive here and and ban 930 00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:37,319 Speaker 1: we can. We love the men, Kevin included, but we'll 931 00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:40,400 Speaker 1: just ban them for the weekend that we road trip. 932 00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:44,759 Speaker 1: Oh my god, a road trip with Jules. She's a 933 00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:47,640 Speaker 1: bad driver, remember, Oh my god? Should we take a 934 00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:53,000 Speaker 1: convertible Mustang from Dan Scott votors? Hey, do we have 935 00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:56,600 Speaker 1: any fan questions that Maria can answer with us? Oh? Yeah, 936 00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:59,640 Speaker 1: fan questions? And then we spin a wheel for our 937 00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:05,759 Speaker 1: Our superlatives are most likely to um, I'm looking at 938 00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:09,359 Speaker 1: I can't believe Keith dying that I have no recollection. 939 00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:13,160 Speaker 1: I'm so crazy. I hadn't even remember how evil I was. 940 00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:16,240 Speaker 1: I didn't even remember my own storyline. To be honest, 941 00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:17,759 Speaker 1: I had to go back and watching a little bit 942 00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:21,120 Speaker 1: last night. Maria. I didn't remember that you were evil 943 00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:24,239 Speaker 1: until we read the prep duc for you coming on 944 00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:27,520 Speaker 1: this episode. I'm so enamored with jewels that I forgot. 945 00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:32,239 Speaker 1: I definitely pulled us all friends. We have a we 946 00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:35,840 Speaker 1: have a wheel. It has been spun the superlative this week. 947 00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:41,719 Speaker 1: Most likely to win an Olympic gold medal, Maria, we 948 00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:44,799 Speaker 1: pick a cast member like a real life person but 949 00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,960 Speaker 1: also a character on the show. So who do we 950 00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:51,480 Speaker 1: think is most likely to win an Olympic gold medal? 951 00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:59,040 Speaker 1: I mean, didn't I guess it would have been, Yeah, 952 00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:02,239 Speaker 1: you've probably would have write like you were such a 953 00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:06,960 Speaker 1: like focus go get her or like perfect Yeah, whatever 954 00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,839 Speaker 1: Sophia put her mind to, she would have so would 955 00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:12,239 Speaker 1: win in like archery, you know what I mean, Like 956 00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:15,959 Speaker 1: you would take like you know, I'll take it. Yeah, 957 00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:19,040 Speaker 1: I would. I need I could. I when you guys, 958 00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:20,920 Speaker 1: when the Hunger Games came out, I was like, oh, 959 00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:24,160 Speaker 1: I could really get Catinus up in this if things 960 00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:28,600 Speaker 1: got I love that plan, So I'll take that. Compliment 961 00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:34,520 Speaker 1: wasn't and my crazy wasn't. Paul on Canada he was 962 00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:37,200 Speaker 1: actually so falls. The answer for that, for sure is 963 00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:39,879 Speaker 1: really the answer. But honestly, I love the thank you 964 00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:43,960 Speaker 1: um which character from the show? I mean, poor Nathan 965 00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:48,360 Speaker 1: and his high flyers situation. It could have been a contender. 966 00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,279 Speaker 1: I feel like it would have been Quentin if it 967 00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:54,280 Speaker 1: hadn't gone south for him. Oh Quinton, Yeah, that's another 968 00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,160 Speaker 1: person that dies, Maria. We have a whole slew of 969 00:55:57,239 --> 00:56:00,879 Speaker 1: them so much. There was a lot of law Centrey Hill, 970 00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:06,000 Speaker 1: Good god, it's a game of thrones around here. Well, 971 00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:10,080 Speaker 1: Jules is thriving out there somewhere. I just know. I 972 00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:11,759 Speaker 1: feel like Jewels should have come back and got a 973 00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:14,560 Speaker 1: bartending job at Trick. That would have been the ticket 974 00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:19,120 Speaker 1: bartend on the show at one. I feel like, yes, 975 00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:23,440 Speaker 1: I think I did. I didn't I remember working like 976 00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:28,480 Speaker 1: I remember working there for some reason, weird. I guess 977 00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:30,839 Speaker 1: we're gonna find out. We're just going to plow through 978 00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:34,759 Speaker 1: all these episodes. What's your drink, Maria? This is where 979 00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:40,920 Speaker 1: I throw my brain tumor car down. I'm like, alright, folks, 980 00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:43,439 Speaker 1: well we're all going to get together at some point, 981 00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:47,520 Speaker 1: hopefully very soon in two and we want everyone to 982 00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:50,000 Speaker 1: listen to your podcast when does it? What days does 983 00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:54,960 Speaker 1: it drop? We are a daily show actually, so amazing. 984 00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:58,080 Speaker 1: How do you have the energy? Yeah? I gone off 985 00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:01,400 Speaker 1: the board. Actually we went daily and COVID so co 986 00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:04,720 Speaker 1: I was a weaker and I felt like I needed 987 00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:06,600 Speaker 1: to be with everybody. So I was like, Okay, we'll 988 00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:08,560 Speaker 1: do this every day and it'll probably last like two weeks. 989 00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:13,800 Speaker 1: And so here we are amazing better together with Mariam 990 00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:17,000 Speaker 1: the Ness on YouTube and up podcasts, and then I 991 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:22,560 Speaker 1: launching a website companion for the show. Um mid January. Amazing. 992 00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:30,320 Speaker 1: We're so happy to see you. Yeah you girl, You 993 00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:36,720 Speaker 1: love you. My friends, we love Mariam the New knows 994 00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:39,640 Speaker 1: we love you. 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