WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Trust Fails (#5)

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<v Speaker 1>If you didn't know, we've been counting down our top

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<v Speaker 1>ten second date updates.

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<v Speaker 2>Good, it's so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Appreciate all the feedback, and we have seen your requests.

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<v Speaker 1>We do apologize that Alexis is not in the thumbnail

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<v Speaker 1>photo for our second date.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in the studio that day too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, someone requested that you not appear in these photos specifically.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's just like there's only room for one blonde. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like when there's two blondes, it kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>puts people off, you know what I mean. But we

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<v Speaker 2>could go off who is more natural?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe not?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, a lot of losers happening, especially in the

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<v Speaker 1>dating world. Like in today's number five top ten second

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<v Speaker 1>date update countdown. This one is titled trust Fails, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>second date Update. We haven't been to a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>offsite team bonding events at our radio station, but I've.

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<v Speaker 2>Heard that say, thankfully, we don't want to give management

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<v Speaker 2>any ideas, Jeff, But I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what you're I have heard that other companies do

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<v Speaker 1>that they do okay, And one of the big events

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<v Speaker 1>that they do is the trust fall, where you stand

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<v Speaker 1>with your arms crossed, either on top of a desk

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<v Speaker 1>or on a tree stump out in the woods, and

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<v Speaker 1>you fall back and just trust that your team likes

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<v Speaker 1>you enough to catch you.

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<v Speaker 2>There is no way I would trust any of you

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<v Speaker 2>to catch me.

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<v Speaker 1>The only good part of that is the part where

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<v Speaker 1>you get to close your eyes for a second. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, I do know the one person in

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<v Speaker 1>this room that I would accidentally let slip through my fingers.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess you'll just have to fall and see.

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<v Speaker 1>It all comes down to trust, and unfortunately, our listener

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<v Speaker 1>Kevin recently asked his date to just trust him.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>That, but it was possibly the worst thing that could

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<v Speaker 1>have happened when she said yes, No, Kevin, you came

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<v Speaker 1>to the right place because we were just voted the

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<v Speaker 1>least trusted morning show in North America.

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<v Speaker 3>So welcome brother.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it's congratulations on met a word everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like from jess description that you should be

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<v Speaker 2>part of our show sounds very untrustworthy, sir.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, it's not my fault, but I still feel

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<v Speaker 5>terrible about what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Never is never.

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<v Speaker 3>I trust you already. Let's start at the beginning. Tell

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<v Speaker 3>us about the girl that you met and how you.

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<v Speaker 5>Met her all right, So her name is Purtney met

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<v Speaker 5>her online and it's obviously online, so I generally go

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<v Speaker 5>off the pictures. But in the pictures, you know, she

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<v Speaker 5>had a great smile, and she was sport and bangs,

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<v Speaker 5>which to me is usually a red flag, but she

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<v Speaker 5>brought them.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, now you're not trustworthy and I'm offended?

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<v Speaker 4>Is not?

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<v Speaker 2>What don't you like about bangs? Why is that a

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<v Speaker 2>red flag?

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<v Speaker 5>Bangs look good on certain people. It looked good on her.

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<v Speaker 5>It's that usually when a girl decides to get bangs,

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<v Speaker 5>that's after something traumatic happened in their life.

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<v Speaker 2>Got married, and then right away that part kind of

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<v Speaker 2>checked out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, what did you and Courtney decide to do

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<v Speaker 1>for your date?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, we were talking a little bit and

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<v Speaker 5>you know, it seemed like we were getting along sign

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<v Speaker 5>and she said, I get to pick where we go

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<v Speaker 5>on the first date. We decided to do dinner. I

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<v Speaker 5>love Wayes. That's my favorite food.

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<v Speaker 2>It give me a questionable first date food though, because

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<v Speaker 2>it's so messy.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but here's the thing, that's actually why I love

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<v Speaker 5>wings on a first date because it is messy. You

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<v Speaker 5>like put your guard down, like you could tell a

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<v Speaker 5>lot about someone about.

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<v Speaker 3>How they eat their way.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, yeah, so she tells me she doesn't normally eat ways,

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<v Speaker 5>but I told her about this place I love, and

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<v Speaker 5>she said she trusted me, which I did. I feel

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<v Speaker 5>really bad that she did trust me.

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<v Speaker 3>But why what I mean? What happened?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, we we sit down, we start look

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<v Speaker 5>at the menu, and she admits to me that she's

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<v Speaker 5>never had bone in Waynes before. She's only ever eat

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<v Speaker 5>meatless way.

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<v Speaker 2>I married a man who doesn't want to know that

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<v Speaker 2>animals have bones for some reason. I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 4>Better.

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<v Speaker 2>For sure, you're just eating chicken nuggets though, perfect?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So did you want to end the date right there?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you keep going?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 5>Because he's like I said, that was like red flag

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<v Speaker 5>number two for me.

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<v Speaker 2>A red flag for you it should be. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it shows that she's adventurous and that she's

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<v Speaker 2>open to try new things, like she's never tried it before,

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<v Speaker 2>but she's there, she's ready to do it.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, that's what I liked about her. Though. She said

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<v Speaker 5>that she's never had boneless wings, and I said, tell

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<v Speaker 5>you what, why don't you order some and you can

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<v Speaker 5>have some of my bone in wings. I can sort

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<v Speaker 5>of show you how to eat them.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Oh, that's a green flag instead of a red flag.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I think it flag not only one red flag,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's also showing he does compromise. Right, she's ordering

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<v Speaker 2>bone free.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a yellow flag.

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<v Speaker 1>So now we have we have a green flag, two

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<v Speaker 1>red flags, and a yellow flag, which I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think means we're at purple.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, we have a rainbow flag, which we love

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<v Speaker 3>as well. Yeah, it's all kinds of color.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we approve bottom line so far, Kevin. What

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<v Speaker 1>happens next?

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<v Speaker 5>So the food gets there and I did her one

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<v Speaker 5>of my bone in wings and she, honestly, I thought

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<v Speaker 5>it was adorable. She like genuinely did not even know

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<v Speaker 5>how to approach the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I think people can see that one. Okay, how was it?

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<v Speaker 5>She loved it. She was like, oh my god, this

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<v Speaker 5>is so much better.

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<v Speaker 2>And I said, I know, it does taste so much better.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, So I did her a couple of my bone

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<v Speaker 5>in wings. I take some of her chicken nuggets and legit.

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<v Speaker 5>The third wings she bites into. She actually just bit

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<v Speaker 5>into it. I don't know if like she forgot that

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<v Speaker 5>the bone was in there or something but she yes,

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<v Speaker 5>straight up chipped her front tooth. Oh, front tooth embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 5>She sees on my face that I'm freaking out, and

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<v Speaker 5>she starts to now she likely I had to leave.

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<v Speaker 1>I try that and bangs together.

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<v Speaker 3>You imagine, just horrible.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, here's the thing. There's like something of a

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<v Speaker 5>happy end in here. I told her a friend of

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<v Speaker 5>the family is like a dentist, and I hauled them up,

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<v Speaker 5>and she said that she could see her right now.

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<v Speaker 5>So we jumped in a uber. We went over there

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<v Speaker 5>like it was after hours, so she opened up just

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<v Speaker 5>to see her and actually fixed it up like you

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<v Speaker 5>really couldn't tell that anything did even happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, you are a problem solver, she throws at you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you just.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe she's not calling you back because you got

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<v Speaker 2>the dentist bill.

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<v Speaker 3>Four thousand dollars. Is that true? Did you have to

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<v Speaker 3>pay for it?

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<v Speaker 5>No? No, my friend said it was free of charge.

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<v Speaker 3>You're coming off actually looking really good here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and he found the one nice dentist in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>So is that where the date ended. I'm assuming you

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<v Speaker 1>said goodbye after that.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, if you want to call it a date,

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like we were on a date for about

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<v Speaker 5>twenty something minutes and another like two to three hours together.

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<v Speaker 5>But we're more on a medical emergency exactly. And I've

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<v Speaker 5>been in contact with her, you know, it's like we

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<v Speaker 5>still talk, but whenever I asked, like if she's busy

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<v Speaker 5>or if she wants to hang out again, that's when

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<v Speaker 5>she doesn't respond.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting, We're going to hit her down and make her answer.

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<v Speaker 1>We're at an orange flag with her right now. We've

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<v Speaker 1>got to get to the green again. So we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to play a song, come back and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date up date right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, all right, thanks, all right, hold one.

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<v Speaker 1>You know there's that famous saying, ain't no saying but

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<v Speaker 1>a chicken wing, Yes saying. Turns out chicken wings are

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<v Speaker 1>a little more dangerous than we originally thought. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, Kevin, encouraged his date, Courtney, to

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<v Speaker 1>taste a bone in chicken wing for the very first

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<v Speaker 1>time her life, which was great except for the part

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<v Speaker 1>where she chipped her front tooth on the bum.

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<v Speaker 2>Not worth it, I could. I mean, she was eating

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<v Speaker 2>boneless and bone in at the same time, so I

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<v Speaker 2>could see her and when she bit down, she just

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>Get a look confused, And luckily Kevin had a family

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<v Speaker 1>connection with the dentist and got it fixed for her

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<v Speaker 1>that night free of charge.

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<v Speaker 2>That's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Still though she's been acting a little bit different, he said.

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<v Speaker 1>Still cordial between them, but not much else going on,

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants to redo.

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<v Speaker 2>Kevin, the one thing I didn't ask you, was she

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<v Speaker 2>like super grateful for the dentist or was she kind

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<v Speaker 2>of blaming you for having to go get her tooth fixed.

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<v Speaker 5>No, she was super duper nice about it. She said,

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<v Speaker 5>I can't believe I did that, So thank you God.

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<v Speaker 5>You do someone get help. So she seemed like she

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<v Speaker 5>was in good spirits.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's hard for me to believe no one's in

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<v Speaker 1>good spirits after visiting the dentists.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care how nice they are.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I got laughing at she had.

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<v Speaker 3>H Yeah, she was high for sure. Well let's just

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<v Speaker 3>call her.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we'll see if she even picks up, But

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully she does and we can.

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<v Speaker 3>Get a little bit more of an explanation from her.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, yeah, okay, hopefully she's not like whistling through

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<v Speaker 1>her toot.

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<v Speaker 3>Out her number. Right now here we go, Hello, Hey

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<v Speaker 3>is this Courtney? Yeah speaking, Hey Courtney. My name is

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<v Speaker 3>Jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't gager, just.

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<v Speaker 2>Say hi, just continue the conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi him, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is Jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning, as per mentioned previously.

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<v Speaker 2>And we're all here too.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm okay. It's like a conference call kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're all in a radio studio just calling you.

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<v Speaker 4>Got it?

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<v Speaker 1>Why because one of our listeners went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with you recently and afterwards things have cooled down

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<v Speaker 1>between the two of you. He's hoping that it could

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<v Speaker 1>heap back up.

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<v Speaker 3>It's weird. What like a chicken wing? He did?

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<v Speaker 2>You know we were talking about after he said chicken wing?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, we're talking about Kevin.

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<v Speaker 2>Just to be clear, he sounds darling. I mean when

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<v Speaker 2>we talked to him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no's she's a nice person.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 4>Just that whole date was just like pretty much like

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<v Speaker 4>the worst date of my life. But not his fault,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I tho we assume that he agrees.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it was out of his control.

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<v Speaker 1>But obviously getting rush to the dentist is not like

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<v Speaker 1>your dream date.

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<v Speaker 4>No. No, And I don't really know exactly what you

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<v Speaker 4>told you guys, but yeah, it just didn't leave me,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, feeling too comfortable about Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I can fill you in on the parts that we

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<v Speaker 1>do know, which is that you guys went to a

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<v Speaker 1>chicken wing place. He encouraged you to try a bone

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<v Speaker 1>and chicken for the first time, which caused you to

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<v Speaker 1>chip your tooth. But then he said he had a

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<v Speaker 1>family connection.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well that part was really wonderful and he was

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<v Speaker 4>really awesome to do that, But there was like a

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<v Speaker 4>whole situation at the dentist.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you not like the doctor?

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<v Speaker 4>No, she was really sweet. It's just it felt like

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<v Speaker 4>it took longer than it should have.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's a chip tooth. I couldn't believe. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't believe they could even just fix it in

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<v Speaker 2>one visit.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, they were this one. I was like, I

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<v Speaker 4>think her name is like Claire. She was really nice,

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<v Speaker 4>that's not the issue. And I don't know if he

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<v Speaker 4>told you, but like she's really beautiful hot. Okay, that's

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<v Speaker 4>just she's a really hot dentist.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a bad Is it a bad thing?

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<v Speaker 4>No, except for the fact that Kevin was just openly

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<v Speaker 4>flirting with her the whole time, like in front of me,

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<v Speaker 4>just like saying like all the he didn't me too,

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<v Speaker 4>how nice she looks, how she's so sweet and all

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<v Speaker 4>this like family from who knows when, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>That she was doing him a favor, right, like so stanely.

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<v Speaker 2>He's probably just trying to compliment her.

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<v Speaker 4>I was there, I know what it was. She's flirting back,

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<v Speaker 4>and there was a lot of chemistry and don't get

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<v Speaker 4>me wrong, this chemistry between me and him too.

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<v Speaker 2>But but you're just sitting there with a broken frontier.

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<v Speaker 4>Seriously, like I couldn't even open my mouth, I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>forget about talking, and he's over there talking about how

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<v Speaker 4>great she looks.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, is that why you say that it took so

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<v Speaker 1>long that he was just flirting with her the whole time?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes? Yes, really literally, she would stop and they would

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<v Speaker 4>talk and laugh and then she's like, oh ha, let

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<v Speaker 4>me change my gloves and blah blah blah, and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just there, you know, like you went to get her coffee.

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<v Speaker 4>They drank it.

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<v Speaker 2>She did get drink coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like you kind of felt like you were watching

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<v Speaker 1>another date happen on your.

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<v Speaker 4>Exactly right, That is exactly right.

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<v Speaker 2>They came in with Martine. Where do you get those from?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you remembering this correctly?

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<v Speaker 1>Were you on any anesthesia or anything?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you no, I didn't have any anesthesia. No, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>just no.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you sure you didn't hallucinate?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, obviously, she's really cool and it was great that

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<v Speaker 4>she did this, but I just felt like maybe they

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<v Speaker 4>have some emotions there that they need to kind of

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<v Speaker 4>figure out.

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<v Speaker 2>You're making a lot of assumptions like it. To me,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just like it's a family friend. I would assume

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<v Speaker 2>she's hard because she is not.

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<v Speaker 4>Older, she's not she is his age, and he couldn't

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<v Speaker 4>like keep his eyes or his attention off of her,

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<v Speaker 4>like he literally did talk to me until we were leaving.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, I mean I can I can understand why

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<v Speaker 1>you may have felt that way that night, but I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to hear how Kevin actually felt, because he's

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening right now and wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Unless I don't know, he's on a second call with Claire.

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<v Speaker 4>You're joking I'm not Kevin.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, hey, sorry to surprise you. Is it okay?

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<v Speaker 5>If I asked you a few things about this, well, sure,

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<v Speaker 5>what do you want to ask me? I just I

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<v Speaker 5>don't even know where to begin, Like this is just

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<v Speaker 5>very weird to me. That's how you saw it. I

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<v Speaker 5>just want to let you know the bad story with me. Player.

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<v Speaker 5>She's literally my mom's best friend's daughter, so she's like

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<v Speaker 5>my god sister essentially.

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<v Speaker 2>That doesn't make it really, But here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Like we were literally just catching up.

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<v Speaker 4>I hadn't seen her well, but I get that, but

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<v Speaker 4>like catching up about how you have the most amazing eyes.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh and that smile. It's like when you complimented her

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<v Speaker 4>smile and I literally wasn't sure if I was gonna

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<v Speaker 4>have a fun too. It just wasn't the right time,

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<v Speaker 4>you know.

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<v Speaker 5>Look, I didn't mean to be in considerate. It's just

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<v Speaker 5>like she is beautiful, you know, like she has literally

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<v Speaker 5>complete established Okay, but like I feel like, just because

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<v Speaker 5>she's beautiful, you can't hold that against me. I feel

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<v Speaker 5>like that's you.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it wasn't how she looked. No, it wasn't how

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<v Speaker 4>she looks. It's how you gave her so much attention

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<v Speaker 4>during a really difficult moment for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I just ask Kevin, what why would you compliment

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<v Speaker 2>her eyes? You know, like I could even say smile

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<v Speaker 2>Because she's a dentist, I could maybe see that.

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<v Speaker 1>But like that, you ever sat in one of those

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<v Speaker 1>dentist chairs with those bright lights shining on you, It

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<v Speaker 1>makes your eyes pop.

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<v Speaker 2>She wasn't sitting in the chair.

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<v Speaker 3>The whole room, the whole room, everybody in the room

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<v Speaker 3>is instantly gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 2>That's that's not like a friendly compliment. It's a flirty

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<v Speaker 2>compliment exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>To ask this question, Kevin, have you ever hooked up

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<v Speaker 1>with Claire before?

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<v Speaker 2>But do I want this answer? I don't know that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we do.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll tell you straight up, no, we never have. And look,

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<v Speaker 5>yes we have like some sort of like vibe or

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<v Speaker 5>chemistry or whatever. But here's the thing, like I heard

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<v Speaker 5>you asked you didn't know if she was single. She

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<v Speaker 5>is single, She's been single for a while. I just

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<v Speaker 5>never wanted to go down that road with her because,

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<v Speaker 5>like I said, I see her almost like a family member,

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<v Speaker 5>but not really.

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<v Speaker 2>This is so hard. I can understand both their points,

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<v Speaker 2>I really can.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, Courtney, I don't want to invalidate your feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>But they've known each other going way way back. There's

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<v Speaker 1>already like just an established friendship there, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's fair to have a beauty.

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<v Speaker 3>Contest in the middle of your oral exam.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that's it. I think it's about the

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<v Speaker 2>way he made her feel.

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<v Speaker 1>He promises to call you beautiful at least one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>times on your next date that he will send you

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<v Speaker 1>on and pay for if you're still up for it.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think, Corney.

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<v Speaker 4>Guys, I'm just enjoying my new tooth.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I like it new tooth life.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a gorgeous tooth. By the way, yeah, see his tooth,

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<v Speaker 3>I've ever seen good job?

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff Kevin, would you like to throw in some compliments

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<v Speaker 1>about her pretty teeth?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I literally said, I thought you had a

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<v Speaker 5>great smile when they asked me about you, and he

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<v Speaker 5>did still do. I'm happy about that. I'm just disappointed

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<v Speaker 5>that if we're not going to go out again, what

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<v Speaker 5>you'll learn.

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<v Speaker 3>Never be friends with women? I feel you, man, I support.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually broke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the part of the second date that I

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<v Speaker 1>just can't wrap my head around is like, I get

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<v Speaker 1>she felt a little ignored, you know, but what is

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<v Speaker 1>a guy supposed to say to a girl who's propped

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<v Speaker 1>up in a dentist chair for two hours.

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<v Speaker 2>To make her feel anything but complimenting another girl? I mean, honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>he could find memes, He could find YouTube videos to

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<v Speaker 2>show her. You get on TikTok and be like, look

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<v Speaker 2>at this, this is funny. Like he actually doesn't even

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<v Speaker 2>have to say anything. He just has to feign interest

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<v Speaker 2>in her. That was good.

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<v Speaker 1>Just sit there and shut up for two hours while

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<v Speaker 1>you comp this.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, are you serious that you would actually compliment

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<v Speaker 2>a family friend by telling her she has beautiful eyes

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<v Speaker 2>if they looked beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>I think people like complimenting.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's not a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's I don't think it's fair, Like if you went

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere you wouldn't be allowed to talk to a family

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<v Speaker 1>friend in front of your husband.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, he admitted they had a thing, like they

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<v Speaker 2>had a vibe right the dentist. It's just he hadn't

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<v Speaker 2>acted on it. I mean I could see his side.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand why he wants a date and he's still

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<v Speaker 2>interested in Courtney.

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<v Speaker 3>M dont you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can both sides again? Yeah, you know, I can put

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<v Speaker 2>he put effort into going out with Courtney again. I

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<v Speaker 2>think she should have said yet, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Think he said to too many compliments. Okay, too many.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I was gonna tell Brooke when I thought about

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<v Speaker 1>her eyes, but forget it.

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<v Speaker 2>You cannot see him behind these glasses.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, never mind, then I won't say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just say if you ever want to get a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, email the show.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back Brook

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<v Speaker 2>And Jeffrey in the morning