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Speaker 1: My boyfriend discovered how much money I make. He says,

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Speaker 1: I make him feel like less of a man. You'll

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Speaker 1: never be less of a man in my eyes, John

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Speaker 1: Big d will never make you feel like less of

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Speaker 1: a man, especially now that I'm here full time. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome Dakota to the team. It's official, full time. Give

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Speaker 1: it up from the check guys, guys, go crazy, go crazy.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, thank you. I had to wear

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Speaker 2: a suit as kandaddy.

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Speaker 1: Dude official official d I didn't do anything he did

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Speaker 1: af guys. Welcome to the team. Let's get into the story.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: So, I need a gut check if I'm the Ahle

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Speaker 1: or not. I make a good deal of money, which

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Speaker 1: I know people will say I'm the a whole already lol.

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Speaker 1: But I live a very modest lifestyle. My monthly budget

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Speaker 1: is four K a month, and most months I profit

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Speaker 1: thirty grand wow, big old.

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Speaker 2: Geez, thirty of them.

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Speaker 1: I'm self employed, so sometimes it's more. Sometimes it's less.

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Speaker 1: Next month minor flex because I'm anonymous and I can

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Speaker 1: be it'll be around.

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Speaker 2: Eighty thousand dollars pre tax.

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Speaker 1: Wow woo hoo.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's indeed what business? Who got some big business

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Speaker 2: going down.

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Speaker 1: We need to Can you come on the show and

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Speaker 1: tell us what new show or what new business we

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Speaker 1: need to start? My goodness, by the way, this comes

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Speaker 1: from Green works for me? It sure does on the

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Speaker 1: r Slaze. Okay, storytime, stopbread it.

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Speaker 2: So.

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Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend and we've been dating for five months.

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Speaker 1: He's a good guy, but more traditional than I've ever dated.

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Speaker 1: He works as an assistant manager in a farming shop,

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Speaker 1: paying fifteen dollars an hour. From fifteen dollars an hour

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Speaker 1: to eighty grand a month. Yeah, that's a widespread. That's

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Speaker 1: a widespread.

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Speaker 3: I'll take us numbers.

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Speaker 2: Got both ends the spectrum there, kids.

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Speaker 1: Like count me in.

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Speaker 3: I need that right now.

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Speaker 1: Guys, baby, put in your applications. Lady, I only moved

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Speaker 1: here to be close to my niece and my nephew.

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Speaker 1: Now he doesn't know what I make. We've only been

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Speaker 1: dating a few months, and I'm private about how much

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Speaker 1: I'm squirreling away. I drive an older key. I bought

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Speaker 1: a standard three bed, two bath house last year, but

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Speaker 1: have it almost paid off. The issue is he saw

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Speaker 1: on one of my invoices to a vendor pop up

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Speaker 1: on my notifications. The bill was five grands. Uh oh

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Speaker 1: uh oh saw a little saw a little sneak peek

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Speaker 1: of the moulah yeah right, and it's a sneak peak

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Speaker 1: of how much she's paying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah too.

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Speaker 1: So it's like, what's worse seeing how much he's paying

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Speaker 1: or seeing how much because paying is almost like what

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Speaker 1: are you doing with your money? But then earning is like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I guess you know, really nobody should

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Speaker 2: have seen that except j P.

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Speaker 1: But the Bend says, there's nothing.

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Speaker 2: You say you can afford five thousand?

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Speaker 1: What else can you afford? I feel like like if

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Speaker 1: I'm in a in the boyfriend shoes, I'd be like,

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Speaker 1: you're spending that much? Like like, what's going on? Are

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Speaker 1: you just like dumping? Are you lighting all your cash

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Speaker 1: on fire?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? You know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Anyways, so I told him it was the cost

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Speaker 1: of doing business, and he was like, must be nice

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Speaker 1: to drop twice what a normal person and makes a

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Speaker 1: month on business. Dang, must be nice. I'm sorry, but

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Speaker 1: he works at a truck farm shop, Like, I mean, guys,

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Speaker 1: what else am I supposed to do? I'm usually a

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Speaker 1: comes to conflict. So I told him it would be

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Speaker 1: nice if I didn't have to pay that bill.

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Speaker 2: She's like, you don't be even better. Somebody didn't even

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Speaker 2: have to pay that hey. Yo.

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Speaker 1: He dropped it, but I was getting a vibe from

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Speaker 1: him over the last few days. He seemed distant. I

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Speaker 1: visited at his place and.

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Speaker 2: Asked him what was wrong?

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Speaker 1: And I guess seeing me pay five thousand set him

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Speaker 1: on a complete spiral. He's trying to figure out how

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Speaker 1: much he can be a man when I'm off paying

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Speaker 1: other men more than he makes.

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Speaker 2: I's paying other men, what do you mean? Like she's

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Speaker 2: at Chippendale's brother brother, Like, what do you mean by that?

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Speaker 2: I'm paying this man for business his business, just for business.

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Speaker 1: For business. I do not like the implications of that,

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Speaker 1: like I'm a street worker or something, And asked him

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Speaker 1: if he freaks out on farmers who drop thousands on equipment.

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Speaker 1: He said it was much different, and asked how much

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Speaker 1: I make? Real quick? A is that an a whole

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Speaker 1: move to ask specifically asking how much you make?

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Speaker 2: I think it depends on like the context of how

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Speaker 2: long they've been together, like or how close you are

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Speaker 2: the period, like how close you are to a person.

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Speaker 1: That's a that's a a big question. So unless it's like.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it feels like it's kind of an

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Speaker 2: a whole thing right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, cause it's like.

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Speaker 2: It's like you're you're just trying to dig Wait, am

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Speaker 2: I am I on the flip side of this? Am

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Speaker 2: I on the wrong?

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Speaker 1: On whatever side you want to be? I think here,

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Speaker 1: here's here's my quick take. You should never have to

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Speaker 1: ask because it comes up naturally at the right organic moment. Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Me and my partner, like we we have a a

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Speaker 1: shared credit card, we we we split the rent, We

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Speaker 1: like have all these things, so we know a ton

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Speaker 1: about each other's finances just that have naturally have conversation,

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Speaker 1: you know, like it's just kind of I feel like

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Speaker 1: it happens naturally, Yeah, versus like tell me what it is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, right exactly, trying to

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Speaker 2: press the issue. It's like, you gotta be You've had

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Speaker 2: to have been with someone for a long time before

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Speaker 2: you start acting like that.

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Speaker 1: Exactly one hundred percent. So I'm gonna say a whole move. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna agree.

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Speaker 2: There we go.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, say hi to Charlie in the chat Dakota.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, hi, Charlie. Charlie taught me how to tie

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Speaker 2: this tie. Hey, so I think I saw Josephine defending me.

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Speaker 2: Don't worry, he's like, he's a hoot. Tie tie. Oh

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Speaker 2: I know how to tie tie because Charlie taught me.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Charlie, big shout out. So OPI goes

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Speaker 1: on to say, he hasn't asked me that before. How

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Speaker 1: much Eran's which was a little on me because I

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Speaker 1: always gave the impression that I wasn't uh that what

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Speaker 1: but let's keep going. I had a bad feeling, so

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Speaker 1: I lied and told him one hundred and twenty K,

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Speaker 1: know what s corps are, you have an idea of

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Speaker 1: what I mean. So basically like Op, because OP has

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Speaker 1: so many expenses and like other things, accounting wise, she's

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Speaker 1: making one hundred and twenty grand a year when in reality,

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Speaker 1: the whole business and like the profit is much larger

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Speaker 2: An undisclosed number that the IRS will not be privy

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Speaker 2: to thanks to this stream.

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Speaker 1: I earn redacted number. Anyways, he burst into tears. Now

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Speaker 1: that is not fragile masculinity.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's uh just a crying man. So self

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Speaker 1: I think I think if I was nicer, I think

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Speaker 1: if I was nicer, I should have consulted him or something.

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Speaker 1: I know he's feeling like a loser, which is not.

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Speaker 1: He has a cool job, in my opinion, and he's

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Speaker 2: But poor, No, I'm just kidding who. I think it's

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Speaker 1: But he was upset that I see more money on

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Speaker 1: OPI is earning in a month more than he's making

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Speaker 1: in a year. Most months, it seems they're like almost

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Speaker 1: on average every month. I may have dropped the ball

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Speaker 1: and then just got out of his house. I just

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It's easy, it's it's easy to think of.

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Speaker 1: These things afterwards. Yeah, my guess is it's some early

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Speaker 1: resent that it's coming at my expense. That because I'm

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Speaker 1: That's a hymn problem. Quote unquote, Obi says, I'm still

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Speaker 1: kind of pissed about that. I don't know. I'm coming

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Speaker 1: I don't care about what people say. That does change you?

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Speaker 1: So am I the a hale here? Also what do

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Speaker 2: You think I don't think this is a case of

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Speaker 2: like privilege of like not being able to pay bills.

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Speaker 2: I think this is entirely like the boyfriend's own he's

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Speaker 2: you know, burying him in this these feelings of like

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Speaker 1: None of that that's ohpi's fault zero.

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Speaker 2: So you know, it's really like this guy needs therapy

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Speaker 2: to work through his self worth issues, yes, or he

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Speaker 2: needs to figure out a little side hustle to start

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Speaker 2: making some money. But it's weird that he's you can't

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Speaker 1: We can't have this inverse relationship of the more successful

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Speaker 1: op is he feels worse, therefore she feels worse. It's

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Speaker 1: just like very like fed up thing. But here, here's

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Speaker 1: one thing I will say, people just hold on with me. Here,

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Speaker 1: guys hope, just just click click in new your sea

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Speaker 1: feel like there's kind of note right or wrong meaning.

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Speaker 1: Another example would be like some people be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: if you don't text me, back in like twenty four hours.

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Speaker 1: That's absolute insanity. Other people are like, oh, I'm a

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Speaker 1: So it's like it's hard to like have these like

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Speaker 1: it seems the approach that Opie's kind of taking is like, hey, look,

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Speaker 1: Update. Long story short, my boyfriend of five months, who

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Speaker 3: Good job, guys.

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Speaker 1: Wow, we call that one healthy conversation. Dakota and Kean,

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Speaker 1: The next step is to throw out insanely wild conspiracy

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Speaker 2: I nailed the conspiracy theory that nobody else thought was

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Speaker 1: And have we gotten a crazy one yet? I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, dude, why is issue? I would be so enthralled, like,

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Speaker 1: By the way, if you ever freak out, you could

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Speaker 3: Just one text every day, John, you need to tell

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Speaker 2: Hold the bags so bags hard. But yeah, just just

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Speaker 2: just be like you're up. Well, I'm up, We're all up.

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Speaker 3: Enough.

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Speaker 2: No suck. He's programmed're pre programmed to be unable to

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Speaker 1: It definitely sucks. His suck sucks sucks. Speaking of sucks

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's get it all right, I'll do THATB Well,

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Speaker 2: All right, we got from Alyssa Munday, thank you for

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Speaker 2: the five dollars. Wow, alright, read one read on Kean

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Speaker 2: Josephine still needs your shoe size, and Dakota stell and

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Speaker 1: And Hi John, I love you.

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Speaker 2: Hello. Also for all the back for all the people

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Speaker 3: Okay, cool, cool, let's.

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Speaker 2: Go h Carol, Carolinsky, thanks for the twenty five bucks.

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Speaker 2: Saw your videos on the Book of Face and really

440
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Speaker 2: enjoyed them. Then started listening in podcast form while working.

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Speaker 2: First time live listening. Love the show. You're great, Hey,

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Speaker 2: thanks Carolynskey, You're great.

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Speaker 1: I cannot express with words how I love it. How

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Speaker 1: some it's like, oh, I started watching watching on Facebook whatever.

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Speaker 1: Then I went and I and I listened to all

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Speaker 1: of the episodes while I'm like driving to work and

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Speaker 1: now I'm here on the live stream.

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Speaker 2: I love it. We we love hang out with us everywhere. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: why not?

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Speaker 1: That's all we're saying.

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Speaker 2: We're available to consume the file. Thank you for that, Carolinski.

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Speaker 2: Let's see who we got. Kitty Kat, thank you for

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Speaker 2: the five Canadian dollars. Longtime lurker here finished every other video,

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Speaker 2: so I finally became a member. Listening to y'all while

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Speaker 2: working mixed my day go by quickly. Love you Hey, thanks,

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Speaker 2: Kitty Kat, we love you too. Uh oh what does

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Speaker 2: that say? Eight months and one day? Yeah, a few

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Speaker 2: months burnout now trying to catch up. Y'all really are

459
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Speaker 2: my favorite. I really love this channel and you my

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Speaker 2: kings and queens. Well we love you too, Dan to

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Speaker 2: day day and and and Dan.

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Speaker 3: We love Dan Nah yes you, but also the anime. Yes,

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Speaker 3: but mostly you, but all of you. Mm hmm, all right.

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Speaker 2: And Josephine, thank you for the twenty seven Speedish coroner.

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Speaker 2: Zaddi keon, may I please have some cakes? And then

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Speaker 2: a little Josephine.

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Speaker 3: It's not my days today today, it's his day.

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Speaker 2: It's my day. Oh wait, wait, wait.

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Speaker 3: Wait, let's se if the's anymore. Oh, let's all them.

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Speaker 2: There are more, there are more. Danielle Saint Pierre, thank

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Speaker 2: you for the five Canadian dollars from Canada. I love

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Speaker 2: the live streams. You all seem to have such good

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Speaker 2: hearts and it restores my faith in human and humans

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Speaker 2: a little bit every time I listen. Thanks Danielle for

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Speaker 2: restoring faith in humanity. John, look at us, go all right.

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Speaker 2: And then we have who gifted ten Okay vix Mix.

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Speaker 2: There you go, vix Mix with the ten Okay Storytime

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Speaker 2: memberships gifted to uh the stream ten new little babies.

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Speaker 2: We love it. Thank you, vix Mix. And we also

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Speaker 2: just got a donation from Hannah for twenty five dollars.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Hannah in the tip in the tip link.

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Speaker 3: No less, thank you, all right, you're all the best.

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Speaker 3: All right, here we go again. No no cakes from

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Speaker 3: me today, guys. I don't want to take the attention

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Speaker 3: that the attention from the main man of this.

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Speaker 1: That's right, that's right. Oh his cakes are here. We

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Speaker 1: go check it out. Uh oh, whoa, whoa, he's got

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Speaker 1: the e vents.

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Speaker 2: Okay, be careful, be careful.

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Speaker 3: Breakings okay, okaysh they can't Okay, let's get some I

491
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Speaker 3: don't know ties in the chat.

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Speaker 1: Give me some ties and.

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Speaker 3: I get some Can I get some chainsaws in the chat?

494
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Speaker 2: I take the jacket off.

495
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 1: Oh oh that's maybe later.

496
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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe if we hit the jacket off. Jacket yeah,

497
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Speaker 3: we hit it, we hit goals. Yeah, keep the jet

498
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Speaker 3: we stop. Stop stop stop, I know what you're doing.

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Speaker 2: Keep the jacket on.

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00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, stop stop saying that I know what you're doing.

501
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 2: You're not doing anything.

502
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Speaker 3: I know.

503
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 2: It's exactly absolutely nothing. Okay nothing, I've never done anything.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: It's something I would love to see you do. Read

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Speaker 1: this next story.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, seas each other's whoop whoop sentences.

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Speaker 1: I think it's right, but maybe double check with keon

509
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Speaker 1: my boyfriend's girl yes, my boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Okay, guys, let me just hit that. That's good. Now

511
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Speaker 3: we're recording.

512
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Speaker 2: Give you like five seconds, but five seconds. Nimeiria says,

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Speaker 2: I prefer a thick tie, but looking fancy. Thank you.

514
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Speaker 1: I got the thinnest tie they had in the store.

515
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I so I like.

516
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Speaker 1: I like the skinny tie. What can call me a millennial?

517
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Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't care. I literally don't care.

518
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Speaker 3: I was very close to wearing a bow tie, but

519
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,120
Speaker 3: I was like, that's that's too much.

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00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: That would have been great.

521
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 1: It's cute, you look adorable and about and a boat tie.

522
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Speaker 2: I just want to put you in my pocket and

523
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Speaker 2: save you for later. Right, Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Sarah Nichols, thanks for coming, Thanks for Welcome to the night,

525
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Speaker 1: Sarah Nichols.

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Speaker 3: The little ch shinghing All right, all right, are we say?

527
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Speaker 3: Are you are ready?

528
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:06,919
Speaker 1: Let's get him.

529
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Speaker 2: My boyfriend and his girl best friend are way too close,

530
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Speaker 2: so I asked him to stop being friends with her.

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Speaker 2: Bye is say a bye bye, a bye bye. Okay,

532
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna be straight up. I don't like my

533
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Speaker 2: boyfriend's girl best friend.

534
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Speaker 3: Straight to the point.

535
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Speaker 2: I love that You're great to it.

536
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Speaker 3: No fluff, just straight to it. Let's let's see what

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Speaker 3: we got here.

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Speaker 2: So for a bit of backstory, I've known my boyfriend

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Speaker 2: for going on three years. We only recently started dating

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Speaker 2: in June, so when all the events that I'm about

541
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Speaker 2: to talk about go down, the relationship was still very

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Speaker 2: new and very fresh. And I will say I'm very

543
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Speaker 2: insecure and a very jealous person, but I've also been

544
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Speaker 2: cheated on, so I feel like I do have a

545
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Speaker 2: little bit of reason to feel the way that I do.

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Speaker 1: I would agree.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. By the way, this comes from user uh Kadakiwi

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Speaker 2: on the r slash Okay story times. So, so I

549
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 2: will say I've only met this girl once and that

550
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 2: was at our graduation back in May. And when I

551
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 2: met her, I was really nice to her and I

552
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 2: really did want to be her friend because I thought

553
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Speaker 2: she was pretty and cool. Hey, sense I want to

554
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 2: be friends with pretty and cool people. Uh. And I've

555
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: heard a lot about her in the past three years

556
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Speaker 2: that I've known my boyfriend because they've been best friends

557
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Speaker 2: since they were young, but they've never done anything romantically

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Speaker 2: and it's strictly just a friendship.

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Speaker 1: That's what I've been told by him and by others

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Speaker 1: they say she's just a friend. They say he's just

561
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Speaker 1: a friend, and they say she's just a friend.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Uh so to what happened? You know those little

563
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 2: send it things? No, what like a post it note?

564
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Speaker 2: Like a what's to send it? And what is that?

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00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 2: Maybe it's like a little thing. Okay, so you know

566
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 2: those little send it things? Yeah, I posted one of

567
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Speaker 2: those to my story on my sister's birthday.

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Speaker 1: My sister is debt rest in peace.

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Speaker 2: Uh, I'm confused. Maybe a lot here, I'm out of touch.

570
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Speaker 1: Passed away, and she posted on her story about her sister.

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming that to send it is like something that

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Speaker 2: you want to send to somebody or would send to somebody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybecause that's why send it. Yeah, let us know what.

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00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 2: I'm assuming that this is a message to her sister,

575
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Speaker 2: who has passed a snapchat on her story. Yeah, some

576
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 2: kind of story. Okay, Okay, we'll keep going anyway. So, naturally,

577
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 2: it was already kind of a rough day for me

578
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 2: because it was her sister's birthday. Yeah, I just wanted

579
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 2: to talk to people in a way. By the way,

580
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 2: at the time, me and my boyfriend were long distance,

581
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 2: so it wasn't like he could come see me or

582
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Speaker 2: even come comfort me and tell me that it's okay. Well,

583
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 2: that same day, my boyfriend went to hang out with

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Speaker 2: her because it was her little brother birthday and he's

585
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 2: friends with her little brother as well her being the

586
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 2: best friend. As the day went on and his party

587
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 2: started to end, my boyfriend and her got high.

588
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 1: Oh got a little.

589
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 2: My boyfriend and her got a little, maybe a little

590
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 2: smoked a little bit of the Devil's lettuce ye together,

591
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 2: which I don't care that they did it. It's what

592
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 2: she did after that upsets me. She posted on my

593
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 2: story that your pooky is my pooky. Oh no, she

594
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 2: did not. She said your pooky not my pooky. And

595
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 2: at first, that's my I just felt it and said

596
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 2: pooky for nothing. Dude.

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Speaker 1: You know you don't just throw a pooky in there

598
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: like that is sacred. You tell you trying to take

599
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Speaker 1: my pooky today?

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Speaker 2: I don't think so, honey.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 2: At first, at first I thought it was a joke

603
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 2: from another one of our friends, and I was like, Aha,

604
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 2: that's kind of fun. And I said the friend's name,

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00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 2: and I thought it was gonna be the end of it, Well,

606
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 2: I was wrong. She then decided to swipe up on

607
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 2: my story again, saying that no, it wasn't said friend

608
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 2: and to guess who, and that she's with Slash hanging

609
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 2: out with my man. I really didn't like this who,

610
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 2: And that's when it clicked to me on who it was,

611
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 2: and like, my mood was literally ruined. And before you start,

612
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 2: I know that's childish of me, but my day was

613
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 2: already rough and that was kind of like the cherry

614
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Speaker 2: on top. I mean, I'm not gonna even start with

615
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 2: you about anything. Another woman is telling you that she's

616
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Speaker 2: gonna steal your man.

617
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: No your man, actually not my man.

618
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 2: She said that she already stole your man. No, no, no, no, no,

619
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Speaker 2: that's you don't do that.

620
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Speaker 1: And then a third party is like, oh, yeah, no,

621
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Speaker 1: it's happening right now. It's not a joke, like this

622
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: is this is real life. Oh, this is real life.

623
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 1: Let's let's let's keep keep going.

624
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Speaker 2: Like I said, I've only met this girl once, so

625
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: I don't know how she jokes.

626
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 1: How was I supposed to know this was a joke?

627
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 2: She said then, and still to this day, defends herself

628
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 2: by saying it was just a joke, and I tell

629
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 2: my boyfriend, Hey, this is kind of upsetting me. She

630
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 2: was really instigating with me, and I've been told by

631
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 2: several people, including my boyfriend, that that's what she was doing.

632
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 2: And something about my boyfriend is that when he smokes

633
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 2: the devil's lettuce, he doesn't want to deal with anything

634
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 2: or anyone and has told me that he'd deal with

635
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 2: it tomorrow. And I was upset. I've wanted to tell

636
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 2: him that you need to deal with this today. But

637
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 2: in the end we got into a little argument about it,

638
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 2: and when the argument was over, I said I love

639
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 2: you to him and he left me on red, which

640
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: kind of hurt me. What And then we didn't talk for.

641
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: Three days, and on the third day I was really.

642
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 2: About to block him, and one of our mutual friends

643
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 2: knew this and told him like, hey, if you don't

644
00:31:55,200 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 2: talk to her, you're about to f up your entire relationship. Yeah,

645
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:04,959
Speaker 2: So we ended up talking, and in my opinion, I

646
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 2: think we moved past what happened too fast, because it

647
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 2: really did upset me. Yes, But anyways, fast forward, I

648
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 2: moved in with him recently. Whoa whoa? We just really

649
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 2: fast forward. WHOA You're like, we're about to break up.

650
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 2: You won't talk to me for three days, I'm gonna

651
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 2: block him, and then we talked, anyway, can we live together? No,

652
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 2: it would just signed like a three year least. It's

653
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 2: no big deal. Yeah, girl, I don't know if that

654
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 2: was the right move. Of course, great, But anyways, we're

655
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 2: chugging along here. I moved in with him recently, and

656
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 2: he tells me that she's been talking crap about me

657
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 2: at their workplace because they work together, and because of this,

658
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 2: a lot of their coworkers think I'm crazy or they

659
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 2: don't even really like me, which makes me feel like

660
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 2: crap because this move was supposed to be a new

661
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 2: start for me and I already have people not liking me. Go,

662
00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 2: your boyfriend sucks, dude, he absolutely.

663
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 1: I don't understand. Why is he angry?

664
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 2: I don't know why he's he's he's smoking the devil's

665
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 2: leves and being like this, maybe she should be my

666
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 2: pooky because you know she is poky. Oh, let's go.

667
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 1: He's mad because now he can't have his cake and

668
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: eat it too. He was cheating and hooking up with

669
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 1: his chick, but now that she's like outed it and

670
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: made it like highly more suspicious. He's like, oh, now

671
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: I can't like roll around and cheat on you old

672
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 1: tome like look.

673
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 2: Could be, could be. I'm just saying that's the conspiracy. Conspiracy, okay, uh,

674
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 2: but it's kind of quieted down. At least my boyfriend

675
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 2: thought so really fast. I will say that he has

676
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 2: defended me. Okay, so he's at least defending you.

677
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: Thank god.

678
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's not like he's just letting her talk crap,

679
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 2: but that won't and can't stop her from doing it

680
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 2: when he's not around, you know. But anyways, they had

681
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 2: a work dinner a couple days ago and she started

682
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 2: trying to talk crap about me again to a new

683
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 2: friend that I just made, and they work with them,

684
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 2: and my friend shut them down. Let's go. Uh. And

685
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:13,879
Speaker 2: that was how it was summed up to me, basically, like, Hey,

686
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,720
Speaker 2: I'm a friend and I don't like how you're talking

687
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 2: about her. Your side of the story makes no sense.

688
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 2: You were literally instigating her when she didn't even know

689
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 2: that it was. She didn't even know you that well,

690
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 2: someone with actual logic, Yeah, in hearts, A level headed

691
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 2: take from a just normal individual. That's that's pretty cool,

692
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 2: and it sounds like from the sound of that, it

693
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 2: sounds like she's telling the same story about It's like, yeah,

694
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 2: I told her that I was gonna take her man,

695
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 2: like I was totally kidding, and she got totally crazy

696
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 2: defensive about it. It's like, meanwhile, she doesn't even know

697
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 2: your last name. She met you one time, Like you're

698
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 2: not close enough to joke about that yet.

699
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, not at all, dude. Anyway, all, at least she's

700
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: got a good friend.

701
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 2: She's found one so far.

702
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 3: All it takes is one.

703
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 2: All it takes one, guys, big d Anyways, it just

704
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 2: really upsets me because of the fact that my boyfriend

705
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 2: has even said to me that he thinks the beef

706
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 2: between me and her is one sided and it's on

707
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 2: my side. But it's clearly not. Yo, this boyfriend sucks.

708
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 2: I thought he was defending you.

709
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 1: That's sounds like.

710
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 2: He's literally throwing you under the bus. That's he's not

711
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 2: defending anyone.

712
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,760
Speaker 1: If that's his defense, then if this were a football game,

713
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,320
Speaker 1: he'd just be running away while op he's getting tackled

714
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: like that.

715
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, how was he saying this is a one sided

716
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 2: beef when all of the instigation is happening from his friend.

717
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 2: Oh dude, Yeah, that's weird. So I tried talking to

718
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:47,760
Speaker 2: him about it a couple nights ago, and to summon

719
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:51,360
Speaker 2: up it went like this, Hey, blank told me what

720
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 2: your girl best friend said at the work dinner, and

721
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 2: it really does upset me. He says, I don't know

722
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 2: what you want me to do. I aparely even talk

723
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 2: to you anymore. I don't know how I can. Oh,

724
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 2: and after that he just kind of shut down from

725
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 2: the conversation and started going to sleep. I think, I

726
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 2: don't know what do you mean? You don't know what

727
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:10,479
Speaker 2: do you what's going on? Do you live with this guy?

728
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 2: So I'm so confused. Oh pie, do you know what

729
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 2: it is when people do things like he's not defending you,

730
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 2: he's throwing you under the bus, He's is he going

731
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 2: to sleep?

732
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 1: He's in your house that you live.

733
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 2: With him in. Oh hey, I will say this. You

734
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 2: know what I'll say right now this man does not

735
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:32,840
Speaker 2: deserve to be your pooky facts facts. I'll say that.

736
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 2: I'll stand on that anyways. So I don't know if

737
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 2: he was really going to sleep, and this really made

738
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:40,399
Speaker 2: me kind of mad.

739
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 1: So I rolled over and was gonna go to try it.

740
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 2: You were in the same bed.

741
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 1: Wait, what course going on?

742
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 2: He was going to sleep here laying next to him, Okay,

743
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,879
Speaker 2: before I have a stroke, I'm gonna keep going. Uh

744
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 2: So this really made me kind of bad. So I

745
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 2: rolled over and I was gonna try to go to sleep,

746
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 2: but I couldn't. And he asked me if I was

747
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 2: mad at him, and I just said no, And then

748
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 2: he fell asleep, and then I got up and went

749
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:10,919
Speaker 2: outside for a little bit and talked on humans. If

750
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 2: you know, you know, I don't know, and I'm gonna

751
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 2: keep going.

752
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 1: I don't there you go.

753
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,280
Speaker 2: Then I sat in the living room and just stayed

754
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 2: up all night because I couldn't sleep, And in the morning,

755
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:21,800
Speaker 2: when he went to work, we kind of just didn't

756
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 2: say anything about what happened later that night. I just

757
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 2: feel crazy and I don't know how to go about this.

758
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 2: I just don't want him being friends with her anymore.

759
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 2: I feel selfish and childish. But at the same time,

760
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 2: I think she's taking it all too far, and I

761
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:41,279
Speaker 2: want to tell him to please stop being friends with her. Yes,

762
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 2: and before he'll start to bash my boyfriend. Sorry, I've

763
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:48,439
Speaker 2: already been on that train. He's the best man I've

764
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 2: ever been with. He's been there to back me up

765
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 2: every time I need it, and in the three years

766
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 2: I've known him, he tries to gift slash buy me

767
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 2: things regularly, and I try to stop him because it

768
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 2: feels weird to receive things due to past trauma. He

769
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,919
Speaker 2: knows my past and still cares for me. He helps

770
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:07,839
Speaker 2: me remember to take my meds, and if I'm sick,

771
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 2: he babes me the best that he can. I've only

772
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 2: bought food once because he doesn't like me paying and

773
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 2: he knows I have a loan to pay off. I

774
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 2: could continue to go on, but I feel like I

775
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 2: should wrap this up. Lol. And if you read this

776
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 2: and you're like that kind of sounds like, Hey, that's

777
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 2: my situation, and that's what I do to my friend's girlfriend,

778
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,359
Speaker 2: and it resonates a little too much with you. Please, Kate,

779
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 2: keep my name out your mouth. Yeah. I don't talk

780
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 2: crap about you, even though I could, because of what

781
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 2: happened with you and your boyfriend.

782
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,760
Speaker 1: So just please leave me alone, because I'm.

783
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 2: Pretty sure you're on this app and on the rare

784
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 2: occasion you do see this, what you're going to do

785
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 2: is it not right?

786
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: Your joke wasn't funny?

787
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,800
Speaker 2: And telling people that I'm crazy because you were instigating

788
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 2: me and I got upset is a step too far.

789
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 2: We do have an update ooh, but first, let's try

790
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:58,879
Speaker 2: to dig through all the weeds. There's a lot here. Uh,

791
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 2: I mean so far? What would you what do you

792
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 2: have to say about this dynamic between Op and her

793
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 2: boyfriend and the situation with the best friend. Yeah.

794
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 1: Who By the way, he said, I'm not even really friends.

795
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:11,800
Speaker 2: Are there anymore? Dude?

796
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't even understand why he likes It's

797
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 1: so obvious why he should be like, oh, yeah, no,

798
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 1: she's being crazy. She can't say that.

799
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 2: Let me cut off.

800
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 1: You're feeling uncomfortable. This is awful. I'm gonna tell her

801
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 1: to stop. I'm gonna stop hanging out with her. It

802
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: seems like when he says like, oh, I'm not even friends,

803
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 1: it seems it's more of him like not taking the

804
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 1: issue seriously yeah, than him like actually like oh, like

805
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 1: let me like cut her off, let me like block

806
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 1: her number, like whatever whatever the case.

807
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,280
Speaker 2: Like, tell her like, stop tell her breading rumors about

808
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 2: my girlfriend.

809
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: One thousand percent. Yeah, I and like, yeah, but it's

810
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:51,399
Speaker 1: so classic, like every time in these stories, like they're

811
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 1: the best person ever. They literally like they paint the

812
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 1: sky with pink cotton kidney clouds for me. But and

813
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: then the butt is like the worst thing you've ever

814
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,439
Speaker 1: like what So I'm just like, I don't care about

815
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,760
Speaker 1: those other redeeming qualities. If this is this is literally

816
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,720
Speaker 1: driving OPI and saying this is this is driving you insane,

817
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 1: This is driving me insane, This is we're not even

818
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: in story.

819
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 2: My brain's like a scrambled egg right now. I know

820
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 2: what to think about this other than clearly he doesn't

821
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 2: deserve you, pooky all. And I think maybe if this

822
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:22,799
Speaker 2: is the best guy you've been with, boil boyd, doh,

823
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 2: I have a treat for you, because there's a bunch

824
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 2: of better guys out there too. Wait, you know this

825
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,359
Speaker 2: one might be the best one you've had. There's better

826
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 2: out there. And their name is Ryan with Kokoda and

827
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 2: and and John.

828
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: I'm John. I have a girlfriend. But I don't know

829
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 1: what you're talking about.

830
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 2: I spelled that. Oh that's right, that's right because of

831
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 2: the guy's named fran Frons. Okay, anyway, let's just get

832
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 2: into this updated my brain falls out of my ears.

833
00:40:56,640 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 2: So today was rough and I've cried a lot O.

834
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 2: The morning was going well. My boyfriend woke me up

835
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:05,400
Speaker 2: gently and asked if I wanted anything from the store.

836
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 2: I was half asleep and was like, I don't know,

837
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 2: get chips. I guess, uh, terrible, I don't know, I

838
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 2: don't know, get them jips. Me and him and a

839
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 2: friend went on a ride for like an hour and

840
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 2: came home. Well, I don't really remember what brought up Ali,

841
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,959
Speaker 2: that's what I'm gonna call her now, but I said

842
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,359
Speaker 2: something along the lines of wouldn't you know she's still

843
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 2: your bestie after all? And he snapped at me, saying

844
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 2: that she wasn't his bestie. I was kind of shocked

845
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 2: but the small outburst and just said sorry and trunk

846
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 2: into my seat.

847
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 1: I could see that instantly.

848
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 2: He looked regretful, and he tried to apologize, but I

849
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 2: just kind of shut down. Well, our friend went home

850
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 2: a little while later and we both went to our

851
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 2: bedroom to try to take a nap. Mind You, this

852
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 2: whole time he had been trying to tell. Mind You,

853
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 2: this whole time, he had been trying to get me

854
00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 2: to open up and tell him why I was upset. Well,

855
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 2: eventually he rolled away from me at the exact time

856
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:07,960
Speaker 2: I was about to spill how I feel no a

857
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 2: little movie moment. Well, I laid there for a while

858
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 2: before getting up and going to the living room. He

859
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 2: shortly followed after me, and he again snapped at me

860
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 2: about how he couldn't help if I won't tell him. Oh,

861
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 2: I honestly just started to cry. He quickly got up

862
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 2: and sat in front of me as I turned away

863
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 2: from him crying. But in the end, I just broke

864
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 2: down to him about how much I don't like I

865
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 2: don't like her, how what she did hurt me, and

866
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:39,240
Speaker 2: how he hurt me, that she makes me feel crazy

867
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 2: and insecure, just everything. I told him how I don't

868
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 2: like their friendship and truthfully wished he would basically drop her.

869
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 2: We talked a lot, and he reassured me in a

870
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 2: lot of things. He even told me he'll limit any

871
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,840
Speaker 2: and almost all contact with her. This honestly made me

872
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 2: feel better, and he basically promised that he wouldn't go

873
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 2: to the concert was supposed to go to her, that

874
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 2: he wouldn't go to the concert he was supposed to

875
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 2: go to with her, it was planned months ago when

876
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 2: they were still closer, I guess, and this really relieved

877
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 2: me a bit, because I honestly really didn't want him

878
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 2: going in the first place, just because she would be there.

879
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 2: Another friend was supposed to go, but still, in my eyes,

880
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,839
Speaker 2: it feels like a date with my boyfriend and her

881
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 2: with a third wheel. But he held me and told

882
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 2: me that he wished he would have known sooner how

883
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 2: I felt, because he never wants me to be this

884
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 2: set upset about something this much. We ended up calming

885
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 2: down and watched a movie together and then later played

886
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:40,279
Speaker 2: a one shot with our neighbor and his girlfriend. I

887
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 2: love them both so much, so hopefully this is the

888
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 2: end of this drama. But yeah, thanks thanks for all

889
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 2: the advice and to everyone suggesting we break up, I'm

890
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 2: sorry we didn't, I guess, but all's well, that ends well,

891
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 2: or whatever they say. And what I say is that

892
00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 2: you can join us live on YouTube every week at

893
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 2: three pm just tap.

894
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 1: On our profile. I say, that's great.

895
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 2: So I mean, no breakup, which is honestly a surprise

896
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 2: to me. Yeah, but it sounds like maybe this was

897
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 2: just a case of really poor communication.

898
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 1: I think, I mean, I will say Op, and like

899
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:27,800
Speaker 1: I get it, but uh, Op should have communicated more earlier,

900
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: because it seems like this this just bumbling ogre just

901
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 1: doesn't get it, just just absolute neander fall can't get

902
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 1: it through his his thick primordial cranium. What is happening?

903
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it just feels pretty.

904
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 1: Obvious on the surface that this is like terrible, like

905
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,919
Speaker 1: why would you why would you not support your your

906
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 1: your girlfriend when this person is like clearly wants you,

907
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 1: you know, and trying to take you away like vindictively

908
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: try like like not only trying to take you away,

909
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 1: but trying to make Op like feel the sting of it.

910
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, in the knife, she's trying to be funny about it,

911
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 2: but like underneath that little layer of like this is

912
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 2: a joke, is like somebody who's known you for your

913
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 2: whole life and is probably like, yeah, why can't I

914
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 2: be his girlfriend? Dude? It's that's our guest, and we

915
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 2: also we don't know that, but he can assume. Maybe

916
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 2: you don't go around down talking someone's girlfriend repeatedly if

917
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 2: you're not low key trying to mess that dynamic up.

918
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:32,239
Speaker 1: And it's crazy how like she was able to down

919
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 1: talk her and tell everyone when she was the one

920
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:37,359
Speaker 1: that did the ft up thing, Like she was repeating like,

921
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I do this f up thing, and they're like,

922
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: oh wow, like we're totally on your side, like you're

923
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: like the best.

924
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Op's boyfriend should have immediately been able to take

925
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 2: her side on that exactly.

926
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 1: So, yeah, she didn't communicate.

927
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 2: But come on.

928
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 3: What I don't like about this, my friend, is that

929
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 3: it took Op to cry and break down on the bed,

930
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 3: like and he's like, oh, oh that you're hurting. This

931
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 3: is when I should talk to you about everything, not prior.

932
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 3: It's so baffling. Yeah.

933
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think, you know, maybe this is a

934
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 2: new you know, this is new territory. Maybe for both

935
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 2: of them knew the fresh, new young relationship. And we

936
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 2: did certainly have quite a jump a cut to there

937
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 2: being like we almost broke up and I was gonna

938
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 2: cut him off and now we live together. Yeah, It's

939
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 2: like there's a lot that's probably happened that we're not

940
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 2: aware of. Yeah, it hasn't been told, but I think

941
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 2: it all boils down to I guess Opie says that

942
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:38,359
Speaker 2: this guy is great, and maybe he just truly did

943
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 2: not understand how affected OPI was by it because she

944
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,399
Speaker 2: had it maybe it was bottled up a little bit.

945
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 2: She was just trying to take it in stride, right.

946
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 2: He just wasn't tapped into oh because he's like, oh,

947
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 2: that she's an idiot. You're taking her seriously, that girl's stupid. No, okay,

948
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. That's the only thing I can think of

949
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 2: without him being like a dumb ogre.

950
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly.

951
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:05,839
Speaker 2: It was more just like, oh, you're taking the dumb

952
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 2: idiot seriously. Okay, I'm so sorry. Like, yeah, I'll be

953
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,439
Speaker 2: there for you right now, right now.

954
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:11,839
Speaker 1: But but but what do.

955
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 2: You really feel toa gooda What do you really I

956
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 2: probably feel like there's better fishing to see out there

957
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 2: for you, op. Not gonna lie, Yeah, not gonna lie.

958
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 1: That's I think. I that's what seems to be that

959
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 1: it's your relationship. You know, maybe there's it feels like

960
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:28,879
Speaker 1: it's just a young relationship where it's like he's hurting.

961
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 1: He he doesn't know how to navigate it. Yeah, not

962
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: a fan.

963
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:36,760
Speaker 3: But sometimes do you people are dumb? But yeah, it

964
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 3: people are dumb.

965
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:41,399
Speaker 2: People. People do be dumb sometimes. I'll let you know

966
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 2: I'm one of them. Oh, but let's get into this

967
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 2: next update. We've got a second one. Oh wow, okay,

968
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:52,320
Speaker 2: let's go. Well, I guess I was wrong about that concert.

969
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 2: I know it's stupid to be upset over, but I

970
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 2: don't know. I just feel upset. I guess. So what

971
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 2: had happened is we did the uh we So what

972
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,920
Speaker 2: had happened is we did the do if you know

973
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 2: you know? Okay, Well, I'm t I go this is

974
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 2: this is some interesting narration here. Well after I go, well,

975
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 2: after I go to clean up.

976
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 5: And pins very very class did just what what do

977
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 5: you mean you did the.

978
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 2: If you know you know what had happened? Anyways, Afterwards,

979
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 2: I go clean up and piss.

980
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 1: Uh so, hey, we don't.

981
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 2: Right, okay, and you know, you know you do it

982
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 2: so that you don't get a uti, you know. So anyway,

983
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 2: when I come back, he's on his phone, which net

984
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,760
Speaker 2: I don't know, but his expression was just weird. I guess.

985
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 2: I jokingly ask who was he texting? When he put

986
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 2: his phone down and looked at me, he looked at

987
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 2: me that he was gonna go, uh oh sorry. When

988
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,479
Speaker 2: he looked at he put his phone down and looked

989
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 2: at me, he told me that he was going to

990
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 2: go to the concert later this week. I asked why

991
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 2: because clearly, just earlier he told me that he wasn't

992
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 2: going to go, and he explained that he would be

993
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:24,319
Speaker 2: the only way. Uh, and he that he wasn't going

994
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 2: to go, and he explained that he would be the

995
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 2: only way, oh Jacob, to go see it. Oh, so

996
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 2: he was the driver, Okay, here we go, it's not

997
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 2: the only way. He wasn't going to go, and explain

998
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 2: that he was the only way that they would get

999
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,799
Speaker 2: into the city to see it. And personally, my first

1000
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 2: thought is, why can't they just borrow her mom's car?

1001
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 2: She still lives with her family. But anyway, I just

1002
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 2: stood there and was like, yeah, okay, you know what, whatever,

1003
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 2: I don't care. Obviously I do care, or I wouldn't

1004
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 2: be riding this, but I just got in bed and

1005
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 2: rolled over so really quickly. I'm just gonna point out

1006
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:01,959
Speaker 2: that I think I was so dead on the money

1007
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:06,879
Speaker 2: about the very bad communication point. Yes, these two don't

1008
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:11,600
Speaker 2: know how to talk to each other, and low, Ki, I.

1009
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:14,320
Speaker 1: Think the boyfriend might be cheating or wanting to cheat

1010
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:15,759
Speaker 1: by this point, I think.

1011
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,360
Speaker 2: So he asked me if I was upset, and I

1012
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 2: said it's fine, and I left it at that. He

1013
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 2: went to sleep, and here I am on the porch

1014
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:26,439
Speaker 2: typing this. I don't know how to feel. He tells

1015
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 2: me one thing this, and then one thing that he

1016
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:35,800
Speaker 2: feels used by her because, for example, he says he

1017
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 2: feels used by her because in a way she used

1018
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 2: him in a way to get over her ex or

1019
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 2: current boyfriend.

1020
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 1: Those are two different things, Opie.

1021
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 2: You can't have an X and current Okay, By the way,

1022
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,320
Speaker 2: that just kind of made me more upset and uncomfortable

1023
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 2: in a way. Oh but you're making me upset and

1024
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 2: uncomfortable too. And then, uh uh, I just don't know anymore.

1025
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,919
Speaker 2: I might update this again later if anything happens worth

1026
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 2: updating about, but to be honest, I might just delete

1027
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,880
Speaker 2: this as a whole. I feel like a fool and

1028
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,240
Speaker 2: that is the end of that story. Are you serious?

1029
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:14,879
Speaker 2: Op Okay, here we go. Oh look at you, Look

1030
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:19,359
Speaker 2: at me, op break up with this man. You and

1031
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 2: this guy are not meant to be together forever. Break

1032
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 2: up with him, find the next guy, or you know what,

1033
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 2: find yourself and then the next guy will find you

1034
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 2: and it will work. But you don't need this guy. No,

1035
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:39,439
Speaker 2: you don't need any of this in your life.

1036
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 1: You don't need this situation, bro, Like honestly, like, yeah,

1037
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 1: we do have to put say like listen, Op, if

1038
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 1: you do feel hurt, then say that I love how

1039
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 1: OPI was literally like I said, I don't care. Of

1040
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,879
Speaker 1: course I actually care. It's like, well, then say that

1041
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 1: multiple times.

1042
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 6: You know.

1043
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you're you're you're shooting Yes, does your

1044
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 1: boyfriend suck? Yes, he's terrible, but like you're shooting yourself

1045
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 1: in the foot here in these yeah moments.

1046
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 2: You know you're loading, Uh, you're like preloading the drama.

1047
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 2: Yeah by or like the the you're making people do this,

1048
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:22,800
Speaker 2: men and women do this.

1049
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 1: Weople do this.

1050
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 2: And I will tell you exactly what it is. It's

1051
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 2: like movie plot syndrome, where it's like every decision they

1052
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 2: have to make in the relationship or like they're they

1053
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 2: always are doing like the movie script thing, which is

1054
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 2: like totally being like yeah, I know it's fine, don't

1055
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:39,280
Speaker 2: even worry about it, and then in the movie script

1056
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 2: like he goes, no, I can tell something's wrong, what's wrong?

1057
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,799
Speaker 2: And then she goes, no, it's it's fine, and then

1058
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 2: he digs through and digs through. Don't just don't do

1059
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 2: the movie plot.

1060
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 1: Don't do it.

1061
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 2: Don't do the movie plot. Just be a human being.

1062
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 2: Say what you feel, say what you think.

1063
00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:56,520
Speaker 1: And they just sound just sound young and immature, Like

1064
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 1: that's what he definitely sounds like a very to me.

1065
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: I'm a super I just don't care, but like I

1066
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: really do care.

1067
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, and then I love the part where she

1068
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 2: explained how she felt and then immediately was like, I

1069
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 2: just don't know how I feel. It's like, well, maybe

1070
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 2: how you do that? Yeah? Yeah, I think you're you're young,

1071
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 2: and you'll find a better guy and this is not

1072
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 2: meant to be.

1073
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 1: And he's definitely the bigger a hole here. Yeah, I

1074
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 1: think learn how to navigate relationships.

1075
00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 2: Yeah all that. Yeah, I wouldn't say you're an a hole,

1076
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 2: but I would say that you're like maybe idealizing this

1077
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 2: guy a little too much.

1078
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: He's just probably just a guy.

1079
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 2: Yep. But anyways, that's the end of that story, I

1080
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:39,279
Speaker 2: say to that story, which I'm gonna pass this to John,

1081
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna read some of these donations because of

1082
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,880
Speaker 2: my goodness, it looks like we've got a lot of them.

1083
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 1: We got a few few, so.

1084
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 2: Thank you, Nicole Lynn. Thank you for the twenty dollars

1085
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:51,760
Speaker 2: my contribution to get us more time. I love you guys.

1086
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 2: I have you on every TV in my apartment right

1087
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 2: now as I'm cleaning, so I don't miss anything. Yes,

1088
00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 2: thank you. That's the hit move, Nicole.

1089
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 3: You're hearing voices all over your house, ye.

1090
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 2: Walls there in my wall. We are in your walls.

1091
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:14,280
Speaker 2: Oh whoa, I'm also welcome to the full time Dakota.

1092
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 2: Glad to have you. Thanks, thank you very much, appreciate it.

1093
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 2: New Jersey Lady Biker, thank you for the ten dollars.

1094
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 2: Happy Election Day to us. Yeah, it's not election day

1095
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 2: in here, in here, it's just Tuesday.

1096
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 3: That's right.

1097
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 2: That's right. And would you look at that? Whoa? Chris

1098
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:36,240
Speaker 2: tinfoil hat with the five gifted suck Go just pushed

1099
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 2: us over the line and we got more time.

1100
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 1: And MJ grow right behind her.

1101
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 2: Hey, five more goodness membership, baby, Let's love its Thanks y'all.

1102
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 1: We got ten bucks from Nicki Ferrell.

1103
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:52,879
Speaker 2: Thank you for the ten dollars hitting my eighth eight

1104
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:57,200
Speaker 2: month Okay storytime anniversary tomorrow. Oh, let's go looking.

1105
00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:58,719
Speaker 1: Real good Dakota.

1106
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:03,120
Speaker 2: Hey, thanks Nick and Wingles, thanks for the five dollars.

1107
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 2: Welcome to Coda, but lots of love to Daddy Orange

1108
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:09,480
Speaker 2: and Keon. Can all the boys do a little spin? No,

1109
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, yes, today, today is today?

1110
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:19,360
Speaker 1: Sorry, we've we we had the key on cake stream.

1111
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry, we had it.

1112
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 1: Oh let's go all right, here we go one, there

1113
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:31,800
Speaker 1: we go, a little too, a little chin action, Oh yeah,

1114
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 1: want oh yeah, there we go. That's all you get, guys, guys,

1115
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 1: it's not it's it's not today, not today, guys.

1116
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:42,839
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. It's not every boy in the room looking.

1117
00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:45,839
Speaker 3: He dressed up. He dressed to impress. I did so.

1118
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 3: I cannot take away from that. Dressed to impress, and

1119
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:52,479
Speaker 3: well I dress again, which is not gonna happen anytime soon.

1120
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 1: Maybe we gotta keep it.

1121
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 2: I just want to say, though, Merkle McDougall, dunk said,

1122
00:55:57,760 --> 00:55:58,760
Speaker 2: it's John Day.

1123
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:02,879
Speaker 1: It's not John Day. It's never John Dakota loves that name.

1124
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 2: I guarantee you.

1125
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 1: He's like, I love that name. That is an amazing.

1126
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you guys are going crazy. He's like,

1127
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 2: thank you, thank you for the five gifted memberships.

1128
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 3: All right, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, okay, okay,

1129
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 3: we just want to.

1130
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:19,439
Speaker 2: Make sure we're caught up on the tip link. I think,

1131
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, cut up on the tip link. Now,

1132
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 2: let's get these all right, let's start from the podcasts. Sorry,

1133
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:31,840
Speaker 2: thank you for the five gifted memberships, five new babies

1134
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 2: in the chat. Thank you, Uh, Sarah, thank you for

1135
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 2: the ten dollars and for your first super on the

1136
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:43,439
Speaker 2: live stream. Oh, let's go and Sarah goes Sarah, Uh Josephine,

1137
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 2: thank you for the twenty samn speedish groner keon give

1138
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:49,080
Speaker 2: cake for donu guys.

1139
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:50,760
Speaker 1: No, it's we can't do not today?

1140
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 3: We can should I just do it once?

1141
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:52,719
Speaker 2: No?

1142
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:57,759
Speaker 3: I can't. It's Dakota's day. Yeah, Dakota want wait.

1143
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:00,520
Speaker 2: I give you permission to cake the stream.

1144
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 1: But if it's like if every day the only it

1145
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 1: is the only time, guy me, I demand that you

1146
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:08,320
Speaker 1: cake the stream.

1147
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:11,920
Speaker 2: So Jesus Christ, get us get up.

1148
00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 7: Yes, whoa, my god, no, look how much volume it has?

1149
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god, be me?

1150
00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:34,480
Speaker 2: Okay, my goodness, all right, all right, thank you, Kean,

1151
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 2: thank you ke That was for I don't know who.

1152
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 2: That was for me. That was for me everything I do,

1153
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:48,720
Speaker 2: I do for the chat for you, the people, m

1154
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 2: J Grow and Kristin Foy had. Thanks again for those

1155
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 2: five gifted subs from each of you. Uh what's above that?

1156
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 2: Oh austy girl in an art shop. Thanks for the

1157
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:02,280
Speaker 2: fire I've gifted memberships. We love it.

1158
00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 3: Send Tim, Tams and Miley babies. I mean no free sponsors.

1159
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god, how we're almost at the next Dono milestone. Jeez,

1160
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, oh mg, thanks for the five euros.

1161
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 2: So excited to be able to watch the live. It's

1162
00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 2: nearly twelve am in the UK and I usually miss

1163
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 2: it because I'm sleeping. Happy to be here. Hey, we're

1164
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 2: happy that you're here too, Yeah, wake up, Yeah and

1165
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:27,520
Speaker 2: shout shout out to our friend Alex who's also in

1166
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:30,439
Speaker 2: the UK where it's twelve am. We love you, buddy,

1167
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 2: we miss you. That was from me and keyon and

1168
00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:36,400
Speaker 2: thank you again. Omg or om eg there we go,

1169
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 2: got it right? Uh Jaws rules fifty nine to ninety one.

1170
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 2: Welcome to the Nights U and who's next?

1171
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 3: Do we get?

1172
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 2: I think we No, we did not, alyssa money. Thank

1173
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 2: you for the five gifted memberships. Alicia, y uh huh.

1174
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:55,320
Speaker 3: I think we just got a new one.

1175
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 2: Thank you for the sixty five sweet Kroner, Josephine. Thanks

1176
00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 2: Zaddi keon making me less gay every stream.

1177
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:06,680
Speaker 1: And that's our slogan.

1178
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:10,760
Speaker 2: Yees keon single handedly decimating the gay community.

1179
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:15,000
Speaker 3: I'm ruining the gay agenda. I'm not trying to do it, guys,

1180
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

1181
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 2: Also, I think Alyssa Monday just gave us two dollars

1182
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 2: to say every day is John Day. Yes, hooray.

1183
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 1: Also I had to say this just because it came

1184
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 1: up to my brain. We're replacing the gay agenda with

1185
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:30,240
Speaker 1: the cake agenda. Yeah, we got the cake agenda in here.

1186
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 2: And then also christiph wallhat you absolute mad lad. Thank

1187
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:41,720
Speaker 2: you for the thank you gifted memberships wowsers back to.

1188
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 1: Back, back to back.

1189
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 2: And I think there's one more above that one, Kean,

1190
00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 2: I think there was, but I think, wait, go back

1191
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 2: all the way up. I think there was one that

1192
00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:57,480
Speaker 2: we missed. Oh really yeah, I went up, up, up,

1193
00:59:57,800 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 2: up up.

1194
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 3: I think that one. Nice.

1195
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 2: Yes, Sarah Nichols, welcome to the Night's Kusheine Kashing Lisa Marie,

1196
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:08,320
Speaker 2: thank you for the five Australian dollars I've started watching

1197
01:00:08,360 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 2: all your videos from the beginning till now, but I

1198
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 2: pause every day for lives.

1199
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 1: Well, you can't miss the lives. You can't do it.

1200
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 2: You got Yeah, you're just gonna give yourself more work.

1201
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 1: Anyone who watches guys, when you watch our entire catalog,

1202
01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 1: I'm just like, wow, Yes.

1203
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 2: That's true dedication. We love it. You guys are going

1204
01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 2: crazy right now. It's like I don't know where we're

1205
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:32,400
Speaker 2: at all right, Oh, we got pigeon, pigeon royale, Eli

1206
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 2: like that. Thank you for being a member for six months.

1207
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 2: Last week was my b day, so was mine, And

1208
01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 2: yesterday I graduated university with a Bachelors of Arts with

1209
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 2: honors while dealing with cancer and had the best steak ever.

1210
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:49,720
Speaker 1: W's hold on. W's filled the chat with and.

1211
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 2: We're going, oh my god, let's go.

1212
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 3: Nice okay, Okay, so much going on?

1213
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, let's go let's get this last one. Okay,

1214
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 2: so we're all of money. And then did we have

1215
01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:13,919
Speaker 2: one above that one too? I don't want to miss

1216
01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 2: anyone's dons.

1217
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 3: We were good on that. Okay, let's keep going down.

1218
01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:18,040
Speaker 3: We're solid, We're going down there.

1219
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:18,440
Speaker 2: You've done it.

1220
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:19,479
Speaker 3: Going down the train.

1221
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Thank you for the five dollars.

1222
01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:30,000
Speaker 2: Caitlin van Campen, have you heard have you heard, guys

1223
01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 2: heard of terror Reid. I'm going to see him this

1224
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 2: month and cannot wait. I love you guys so much.

1225
01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 2: I have not heard of terror. Read I've heard of

1226
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:43,880
Speaker 2: terror read yeah from American pipe from the Big Lebowski.

1227
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:47,440
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, and that's fun.

1228
01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:50,400
Speaker 2: Of course, we have to say thank you to Brianna

1229
01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 2: from Australia for this seventy five dollars through the tip

1230
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:58,200
Speaker 2: Lanky Sanity tax. Thanks for helping me keep saying through

1231
01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 2: the journey of life. You're welcome, Rihanna, You're welcome and

1232
01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:03,560
Speaker 2: thank you. Thank you for being here, my god, thank

1233
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:04,800
Speaker 2: you for being on the ride with us.

1234
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: Let's go.

1235
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 2: Wow. All right, Wow, I think that's it.

1236
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:10,919
Speaker 1: Did we get this one?

1237
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:12,000
Speaker 3: You get this one?

1238
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:14,480
Speaker 2: We did? Wait? No, we did not? Oh no, we

1239
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:18,200
Speaker 2: did it. Nicole ln thank you for another ten dollars.

1240
01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:20,920
Speaker 2: All right, Dakota, you're gonna have to stop being so

1241
01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:22,840
Speaker 2: cute because you're way too young for me. And that

1242
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:26,400
Speaker 2: spin made me do a second look x D really

1243
01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:30,640
Speaker 2: donating because I want more time though, sure, Hey, Donny,

1244
01:02:30,920 --> 01:02:34,120
Speaker 2: more crazy Dakota time. And thank you Heather for the

1245
01:02:34,160 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 2: twenty five dollars. Been listening NonStop on Spotify, but finally

1246
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 2: caught a live stream. I'm so excited. Let's go, and

1247
01:02:40,240 --> 01:02:42,480
Speaker 2: we're excited for you. Heather, thank you for being here.

1248
01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 2: And Mama Ellie, thank you for the ten dollars. I

1249
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 2: really love that. It's just another Tuesday here, exactly what

1250
01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 2: I needed. Whoa, And that's all we try to give y'all.

1251
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:53,880
Speaker 2: We just try to give y'all exactly what you need.

1252
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:56,040
Speaker 3: We did it. Oh my goodness, you guys did it.

1253
01:02:56,080 --> 01:02:57,600
Speaker 2: Whoa? We did it.

1254
01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 3: You guys are wild. That was it.

1255
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:04,800
Speaker 1: That was what a run? I called my girlfriend? Is

1256
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:08,840
Speaker 1: that the next one we got? It's we're checking it out.

1257
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 2: Call my girlfriend. Absolutely, I called my girlfriend.

1258
01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, the Queen of the.

1259
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:17,640
Speaker 3: Moon my girlfriend. I'm gonna get.

1260
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 2: There, guys. Canonically, my girlfriend is Queen of the Moon.

1261
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 2: Her name is Moon, Queen Moon Queen. Uh.

1262
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:25,920
Speaker 3: At least as we missed at least one on the

1263
01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 3: other tipling did did.

1264
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 2: We read this one? All?

1265
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:29,200
Speaker 1: Right?

1266
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:30,160
Speaker 2: Well we read that one.

1267
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:32,160
Speaker 3: It's so you guys keep going.

1268
01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:33,640
Speaker 2: It's crazy buckethead.

1269
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:36,439
Speaker 1: Thanks in the five Bucks aka Caitlyn Chris Well missed

1270
01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 1: part of the stream yesterday, but your Aussie snacks have

1271
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:44,200
Speaker 1: been posted and should be there soon. Yes, and your

1272
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:47,880
Speaker 1: customized bucket hats are in progress as we speak.

1273
01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 2: Oh wow, Well, shout out to you, shout out.

1274
01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 1: We love getting this stuff through through thee It's so great.

1275
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 2: Is great, Lady Biker.

1276
01:04:02,320 --> 01:04:03,080
Speaker 3: I think we got that.

1277
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:05,200
Speaker 2: We got that that one, that one.

1278
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:06,600
Speaker 3: Well, make sure, may make sure, want to make sure we

1279
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:10,560
Speaker 3: didn't miss anyone that. No, I think that's it. I

1280
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:11,320
Speaker 3: think that's it.

1281
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 1: If we missed guys, if you could just paste it

1282
01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:16,240
Speaker 1: in the chat of the chat and spam it and

1283
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 1: then we will read it.

1284
01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:20,000
Speaker 3: It gets when you guys start going a little wild.

1285
01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:22,520
Speaker 3: It's hard to track because it's all over the place. Yeah,

1286
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:23,840
Speaker 3: but we'll we'll get to trust me.

1287
01:04:24,120 --> 01:04:29,080
Speaker 2: But I know that is who Hello, Hello, Hello, it's

1288
01:04:29,080 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 2: my god. She says, that's how they talk on the moon.

1289
01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 3: Oh. I don't know how we can. I'll talk to

1290
01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:37,120
Speaker 3: Rally about that.

1291
01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:37,400
Speaker 2: Cool.

1292
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 1: We shall, but guys, more stories for you, guys. We

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Speaker 1: already right, uh, we're ready, We're ready, We're ready, right, right,

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Speaker 1: let's go. I called my girlfriend out for bowling her

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Speaker 1: half sister. For I called my girlfriend out for bowling

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Speaker 1: your half sister. Now she's furious with me.

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Speaker 2: Oh, but if it's your half sister, it's only half bullying.

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Speaker 2: Don't you know how that works?

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Speaker 1: There we go, So, I five male and my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: twenty five female, let's call her Alexa, have been together

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Speaker 1: for three years. A few days ago it was her

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Speaker 1: brother's Georgie's wedding and we attended. By the way, this

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Speaker 1: comes from reasonable Ad eleven thirty five on the r

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Speaker 1: slash Okay Storytime celebrend So us and a few of

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Speaker 1: our friends were at the same table. Later at the venue,

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Speaker 1: turns out my girlfriend's half sister, twenty six female, let's

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Speaker 1: call her Rachel, Rachel Rachel was invited and was assigned

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Speaker 1: at the same table as me and my girlfriend. I

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Speaker 1: have to note that Rachel is my mother in law's daughter,

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01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:38,680
Speaker 1: so many ways of relations we're trying to keep track.

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Speaker 1: She had a right before or I'll read that again.

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01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 1: I have to note that Rachel is my mother in

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01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:49,040
Speaker 1: law's daughter. She had right before she had Alexa and

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Speaker 1: then completely abandoned Rachel with her dad to live her

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Speaker 1: life with Alexa's dad. So, yeah, can you break it

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Speaker 1: down for me what's happening.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's like she's basically was she would be the

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Speaker 2: sister in law, except she was because I was like,

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Speaker 2: when you're just saying that's that's just a really roundabout

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01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:10,320
Speaker 2: way of saying your sister in law. But she was

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01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:13,920
Speaker 2: like a neglected by the mother, So I think doesn't

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Speaker 2: really consider herself the daughter.

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Speaker 1: Rachel's like the redhead step child.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she was like the she was exiled to the

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Speaker 2: basement through whatever, which is not right. Yeah, even if

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Speaker 2: no matter what, no matter who.

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Speaker 1: They are now, they hadn't found out about Rachel's existence

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Speaker 1: until mother in law confess to George that she had

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Speaker 1: a daughter before them. Oh whoa whoa like s not

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01:06:40,040 --> 01:06:44,520
Speaker 1: even just a full secret child, as jinx Angel says,

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Speaker 1: So mother in law is trash. That's that's basically.

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Speaker 2: What we're reading here, trash mother in law.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: So George reached out uh the brother and found Rachel

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Speaker 1: and she was happy to maintain a relationship with them,

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Speaker 1: but Alexel was completely against it and didn't even want

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Speaker 1: to meet her. That's why Rachel and Alexa don't get along.

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Speaker 1: That was four years back. I also have to say

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Speaker 1: that I have met Rachel and we do get along.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so pause really quick, just to absolutely clarify this

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Speaker 2: situation in I think a way everyone will understand. Alexa

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Speaker 2: put this in a Harry Potter term HM talked, right,

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Speaker 2: Rachel is Harry Potter living under the stairs, and then

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Speaker 2: Alexa is Dudsley bro who is like being like, eh,

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Speaker 2: Harry Potter, you're so gross. I don't want anything to

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Speaker 2: do with you. I'm gonna catch your stink. And that's

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Speaker 2: the dynamic we have going on.

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Speaker 1: That's the dynamic.

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Speaker 2: From what I can tell, that's the dynamic.

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01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 1: And Alexa is like, oh, PE's friend, right, yeah, I believe.

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Speaker 1: I believe. So Rachel and Alexa have a beef and

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Speaker 1: op oh sorry, that's that's oh Pie's girlfriend. Oh he's girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: His girlfriend is a is Alexa, so he's dating Dudley,

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01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:02,160
Speaker 2: and then her sister is Harry Potter.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, there we go. I think we have the whiteboard.

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Speaker 1: I think I think I'm up to meet.

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Speaker 3: So we've got it, okay, okay, okay. I just want

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01:08:14,560 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 3: to make sure everyone knows what's going on, because now

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Speaker 3: it's just like connecting the dots. But we're good.

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Speaker 1: So since Rachel didn't know anyone else at the wedding,

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Speaker 1: George put her at the same table as me, uh

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Speaker 1: as me and Alexa and our friends. The second Alexa

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Speaker 1: saw her.

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Speaker 2: Her mood changed.

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Speaker 1: She kept throwing little, innocent insults at her and then

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Speaker 1: said she was just joking. Rachel didn't really seem to

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Speaker 1: mind until Alexa said, so, Rachel, how's your dad? I

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Speaker 1: almost lost it. Then, Rachel's dad passed away when she

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Speaker 1: was fifteen years old, and everyone knows it.

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Speaker 2: Why you gotta do this? Why you gotta do this, Alexa?

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Speaker 1: Dude, why you gotta do this?

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Speaker 2: Why? Opie? Why are you in a relate relationship? Are

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01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:05,160
Speaker 2: we sure? Are we sure? Op He's in a relationship?

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01:09:05,200 --> 01:09:07,679
Speaker 1: This girl, I double checked, double check me too, keon,

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01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:13,000
Speaker 1: But like I'm this girl sucks. It's true, It's true.

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Speaker 3: Let's see.

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Speaker 1: But keep going, Alexa said, so, I already said that.

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Speaker 1: Rachel didn't say anything, but just looked at her with

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Speaker 1: almost a pitiful look. She then excused herself and went

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Speaker 1: for a drink.

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Speaker 2: Oh god.

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01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:29,400
Speaker 1: I turned to Alexa and I told her that if

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Speaker 1: she doesn't stop being a bee and apologize.

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Speaker 2: I will leave her right then and there. Whoa, whoa

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01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:38,759
Speaker 2: look at that. It's almost like, this is a guy

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01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:43,200
Speaker 2: who's got real values and is a normal, well adjusted

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Speaker 2: human being.

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Speaker 1: Impossible. Oh my god, it's impossible. Everyone has to be

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Speaker 1: a maniac. Yeah, that's that's how the world works.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I don't even think you give her the ultimatum.

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Speaker 2: I think you just break up with her. I would

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01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:55,880
Speaker 2: break up with somebody who said that. I guess this

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01:09:56,040 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 2: is like the final the final chance. I mean, sure,

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01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:02,240
Speaker 2: but it's already been said. It's like, oh, so you're

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01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:04,360
Speaker 2: a monster cold, I'm leaving you.

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Speaker 1: So Alexa got defensive, saying that I'm defending Rachel because

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Speaker 1: I'm attracted to her, and that I want to give

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Speaker 1: her a pity f because she's the poor orphan.

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Speaker 3: This story, What is going on?

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01:10:19,760 --> 01:10:24,920
Speaker 2: What is going on? Because she's the poor orphan?

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01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:28,320
Speaker 3: What the actual hell is going on?

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01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 1: Who says that this is.

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01:10:30,400 --> 01:10:34,200
Speaker 2: Dudsley on steroids? Wro what? What the hell?

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01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:38,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm mixed Dudley with Karen and this is

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01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 1: what you get. Oh my god, aren N, that's funny.

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01:10:42,920 --> 01:10:48,880
Speaker 1: She said all of that in front of everyone. God, wow, dude,

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01:10:49,040 --> 01:10:53,559
Speaker 1: what is this? This is what the hell? Just pure insanity? Yeah,

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01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 1: this is.

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Speaker 2: Uh, this person needs to get thrown into not even

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01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:00,600
Speaker 2: the sun. So we yeah, I don't know if you

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01:11:00,600 --> 01:11:02,680
Speaker 2: guys are familiar with the tear list, but we have

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01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:05,519
Speaker 2: They go to the moon to like learn their lesson

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01:11:05,520 --> 01:11:07,120
Speaker 2: and come back. They go to the sun. If we

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01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 2: want them to just like burn to a crisp, we

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01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:10,720
Speaker 2: send them into the orc cloud if we want them

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01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:18,400
Speaker 2: to suffer the unyielding and unknowable mysteries and the fathomless

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01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 2: depth of the universe. And we throw them in a

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01:11:20,360 --> 01:11:22,560
Speaker 2: black hole if we want them to turn into spaghetti

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01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:26,479
Speaker 2: and no longer exist. Wow, so everyone's got up now,

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01:11:26,680 --> 01:11:28,640
Speaker 2: I'm sorry for derailing the story. Let's get back in here.

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01:11:28,800 --> 01:11:29,320
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: So I ignored her for the rest of the night,

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01:11:31,520 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 1: and when it was time to leave, I left her

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Speaker 1: at home and went to sleep.

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01:11:34,280 --> 01:11:34,840
Speaker 2: At my house.

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01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:39,559
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? We have relevant comments? Yeah,

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01:11:39,600 --> 01:11:42,439
Speaker 1: let's get into them. But yeah, is Opie the a hole?

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01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 2: For uh?

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01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:46,720
Speaker 1: Like he basically dropped her off at her house and

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01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:47,160
Speaker 1: then went back.

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01:11:47,439 --> 01:11:49,240
Speaker 2: Of course, not, dude, you should have dropped her off

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01:11:49,280 --> 01:11:54,200
Speaker 2: in the sewer because she's literally a waste byproduct, right, like,

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01:11:54,360 --> 01:11:57,600
Speaker 2: just get rid of her, dude, this person is complete

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01:11:59,080 --> 01:12:04,639
Speaker 2: suing suage. Yeah dude, So yeah, what so you're in

1435
01:12:04,680 --> 01:12:09,080
Speaker 2: this scenario? How do you how do you react?

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01:12:09,160 --> 01:12:09,240
Speaker 4: Like?

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01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 2: What is it? She said?

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01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 1: She says that line about oh how's your dad? When

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01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:13,599
Speaker 1: dad passed away?

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01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, I think, okay, realistically, Like I take her

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01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:21,439
Speaker 2: off to the side and I'm like, so, what the

1442
01:12:21,479 --> 01:12:24,360
Speaker 2: hell's going on here? Like what are you doing? Why

1443
01:12:24,400 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 2: would you say that to her? If I already know

1444
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:28,479
Speaker 2: everything I know? It's like, why are you doing this?

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01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:31,599
Speaker 2: And if she can't give me a ironclad reason why,

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01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:34,920
Speaker 2: I'm probably breaking up with her. Maybe not immediately, but

1447
01:12:35,040 --> 01:12:37,360
Speaker 2: it's like that has now that was the decision.

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01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:39,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is gonna end soon.

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01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:43,320
Speaker 2: Yes, maybe not in that exact moment, but like in

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01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:44,960
Speaker 2: a couple of days it's over.

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01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:48,720
Speaker 1: Cause it's just I don't know, like it is like

1452
01:12:49,200 --> 01:12:52,080
Speaker 1: whoa what will possess you? How do you walk back?

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01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:52,439
Speaker 3: Look?

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01:12:52,520 --> 01:12:56,720
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know, maybe maybe just unless Rachel did

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01:12:56,760 --> 01:12:59,599
Speaker 1: something to her that's like and that even then it's

1456
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:02,719
Speaker 1: it's nowhere near an excuse, but at least it's like, Okay,

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01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:05,840
Speaker 1: this is how you got here, bro, Just everything she

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01:13:05,960 --> 01:13:07,800
Speaker 1: said and then she kept getting worse.

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01:13:07,960 --> 01:13:09,479
Speaker 2: The only thing that makes that makes sense is if

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01:13:09,520 --> 01:13:13,080
Speaker 2: it's some kind of revenge thing. But like, there's no revenge.

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01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:16,120
Speaker 2: She's just like jealous that she's upset at her existence,

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01:13:16,160 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 2: because I don't know. There's a lot of complexes going

1463
01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:20,960
Speaker 2: on there. Yes, but I didn't expect her to actually

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01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:25,519
Speaker 2: be Dudsley from Harry Potter. It's relentlessly bullying the less

1465
01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:29,679
Speaker 2: fortunate member of your family. Yeah, for no good reason.

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01:13:29,800 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 1: It's terrible. It's terrible.

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01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:33,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we do have some relevant commas.

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01:13:33,360 --> 01:13:37,960
Speaker 1: So, h was Alexa, George and Rachel's mom at the wedding?

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01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:41,519
Speaker 1: Was there any sort of reconciliation ever between mom and Rachel?

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01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:46,640
Speaker 1: Obie respond Yes, she was, but George made sure she

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01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:50,120
Speaker 1: was sat at a table far from ours, so she

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01:13:50,280 --> 01:13:53,439
Speaker 1: was out of Rachel's sight. She didn't even acknowledge the

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01:13:53,439 --> 01:13:57,200
Speaker 1: fact that Rachel was there. And I don't think Rachel

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01:13:57,280 --> 01:14:01,080
Speaker 1: came for reconciliation, but only for George's wedding, since they

1475
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:04,080
Speaker 1: have been hanging out a lot as siblings. I mean,

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01:14:04,120 --> 01:14:07,320
Speaker 1: the apple doesn't fall from the fall, farm doesn't fall

1477
01:14:07,360 --> 01:14:10,960
Speaker 1: far from the trait, the evil mother in law, she's

1478
01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:14,879
Speaker 1: it's the Alexa's mom. The real mystery is how Opie

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01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:17,680
Speaker 1: ever got with Alexa. That's the only thing that is

1480
01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:21,719
Speaker 1: like confusing. We know why Alexa, How Alexa became terrible,

1481
01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:25,559
Speaker 1: her evil mother in law who refused to acknowledge her

1482
01:14:25,640 --> 01:14:27,240
Speaker 1: daughter's existence.

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01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:30,360
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, it's like if that's if that's the woman

1484
01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:33,040
Speaker 2: raising you, it makes sense that Alexa is kind of

1485
01:14:33,080 --> 01:14:37,640
Speaker 2: a nightmare monster person. Dude, God, Like, I guess not.

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01:14:37,760 --> 01:14:40,400
Speaker 1: It's unfortunate, but yeah, she did not break the cycle.

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01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:40,840
Speaker 2: Nope.

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01:14:41,360 --> 01:14:44,000
Speaker 1: Uh did you say anything to Rachel afterwards? At one

1489
01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:45,800
Speaker 1: point we were left alone at the table, and I

1490
01:14:45,840 --> 01:14:48,559
Speaker 1: apologize for what Alexa said. She told me that I

1491
01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 1: don't have to apologize for other people's actions.

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01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:51,639
Speaker 2: Dude.

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01:14:51,840 --> 01:14:55,000
Speaker 1: Rachel is also just like I feel like, so kind

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01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:59,400
Speaker 1: and so sweet, but also like has I don't know

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01:14:59,439 --> 01:15:01,439
Speaker 1: what you would a lot of complex or whatever of

1496
01:15:01,520 --> 01:15:03,800
Speaker 1: like she's just used to being beaten down.

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01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:06,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, where it's like she's so sad, she's not fighting back,

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01:15:07,680 --> 01:15:10,280
Speaker 2: and it's like half being like the bigger person and

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01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:13,080
Speaker 2: then the other half of just being like comfortable with that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's probably so used to it.

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01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 2: Which I'm I'm personally, I'm always on the side of

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01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:22,360
Speaker 2: just being a bigger person, like, yeah, if you can,

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01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:24,080
Speaker 2: if you know someone's just trying to get at you,

1504
01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:28,200
Speaker 2: I almost just let them. Yeah, Like I don't like

1505
01:15:28,560 --> 01:15:30,200
Speaker 2: if people get a fast one on me, then that's

1506
01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:32,160
Speaker 2: another story. But if you're aware of it, it's just

1507
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:34,960
Speaker 2: let him go. And it's almost like a like a

1508
01:15:35,000 --> 01:15:37,439
Speaker 2: little science experiment. I'm like, how mean of a person

1509
01:15:37,439 --> 01:15:37,840
Speaker 2: are you? Really?

1510
01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:39,640
Speaker 1: Let's see, Yeah, let's see a mean you try to

1511
01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:41,679
Speaker 1: be to me? Be a duck. Pour all the water

1512
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:43,160
Speaker 1: on my back and just watch it roll on.

1513
01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:44,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, shout out to the ducks.

1514
01:15:46,280 --> 01:15:48,720
Speaker 1: Uh, you need to leave her completely. A commenter says

1515
01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:50,599
Speaker 1: you need to leave her completely, not just leave her

1516
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:53,400
Speaker 1: at the venue. Opie says, I didn't want to cause

1517
01:15:53,400 --> 01:15:55,760
Speaker 1: a scene at my friend's wedding, which I think is

1518
01:15:55,760 --> 01:15:57,479
Speaker 1: a very fair point. You can break up with it

1519
01:15:57,560 --> 01:15:59,479
Speaker 1: a month, you know, Yeah, you just make the decision

1520
01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:03,000
Speaker 1: in your head. Yes it's over. The incident was already enough,

1521
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:05,799
Speaker 1: I think, But yes, I will break up and update

1522
01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:10,519
Speaker 1: you all. And Opie was voted not the a hole,

1523
01:16:10,680 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 1: to which I think we all What a shocker. What

1524
01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:19,680
Speaker 1: a shocker. Shocker, Yeah, I mean this Alexa chick is

1525
01:16:19,760 --> 01:16:22,320
Speaker 1: just I hope we get some backstory onto, like how

1526
01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:25,519
Speaker 1: Opie came to be in a relationship. Opie's been in a

1527
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:28,920
Speaker 1: relationship with Alexa for three years. I forgot that that part.

1528
01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:30,719
Speaker 2: Oh, I assumed it was not that long.

1529
01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:33,599
Speaker 1: How are you in a relationship with her for three years?

1530
01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:36,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, maybe she's really great except for this one

1531
01:16:37,200 --> 01:16:42,200
Speaker 2: fatal flaw complex she has, which is relentlessly putting down

1532
01:16:42,280 --> 01:16:43,040
Speaker 2: her half sister.

1533
01:16:43,240 --> 01:16:50,040
Speaker 1: Maybe she's really great in this and really not great in.

1534
01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:54,439
Speaker 2: For all the people listening, John's implying that she's hot

1535
01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:56,080
Speaker 2: and has a black hole for a heart.

1536
01:16:56,120 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 1: No, no, visual, I forgot even though we did a

1537
01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:01,720
Speaker 1: sentire her stream dressed up.

1538
01:17:02,200 --> 01:17:05,840
Speaker 2: It's okay, I shouldn't remember. I should have remembered. But guys,

1539
01:17:05,880 --> 01:17:07,519
Speaker 2: that's why. Hey, that's why I'm.

1540
01:17:07,439 --> 01:17:10,000
Speaker 1: Here, That's why he's here. We do have the update

1541
01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:14,320
Speaker 1: the next very next day. I remember what op promised

1542
01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:16,840
Speaker 1: us a breakup would happen. I think it's gonna happen.

1543
01:17:17,160 --> 01:17:20,280
Speaker 1: It's definitely gonna happen. Well, first of all, I want

1544
01:17:20,320 --> 01:17:21,679
Speaker 1: to thank everyone for their advice.

1545
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:23,200
Speaker 2: I was going to break up with her.

1546
01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:25,280
Speaker 1: I was going to break with her anyways, but it's

1547
01:17:25,360 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 1: nice to know that people here agree with me.

1548
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:28,599
Speaker 2: Thank god. I thought he was about to go. I

1549
01:17:28,680 --> 01:17:30,000
Speaker 2: was gonna break up with her, but.

1550
01:17:31,920 --> 01:17:34,920
Speaker 1: No. So here's how it went down the tea. I

1551
01:17:34,960 --> 01:17:37,559
Speaker 1: haven't talked to Alexa. I hadn't talked to Alexa much

1552
01:17:37,600 --> 01:17:39,640
Speaker 1: after the wedding because I was still very mad at

1553
01:17:39,680 --> 01:17:42,000
Speaker 1: her for her behavior. I stayed at my house and

1554
01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:44,800
Speaker 1: avoided her calls and attempts to contact me in any way.

1555
01:17:45,760 --> 01:17:45,880
Speaker 2: Uh.

1556
01:17:46,439 --> 01:17:48,559
Speaker 1: She came to my house twice, but I didn't answer

1557
01:17:48,600 --> 01:17:50,880
Speaker 1: the door. I wanted to think, and I made the

1558
01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:53,960
Speaker 1: post yesterday because I started doubting if I was right.

1559
01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:56,960
Speaker 1: I now realize I am.

1560
01:17:57,640 --> 01:17:58,040
Speaker 2: That's right.

1561
01:17:58,560 --> 01:17:59,960
Speaker 1: I went to your house this morning and asked her

1562
01:18:00,080 --> 01:18:03,599
Speaker 1: to talk. She started apologizing to me for what she said,

1563
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:05,880
Speaker 1: but I told her that I'm not the one that

1564
01:18:05,920 --> 01:18:08,800
Speaker 1: she should be apologizing to. She realized what I meant

1565
01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:12,240
Speaker 1: and just stopped talking. I kept going, and I told

1566
01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:14,559
Speaker 1: her that it's over between us and to never call

1567
01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:15,120
Speaker 1: me again.

1568
01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 2: Dot him Mike dropped, got your hateful You just gotta go? Eh.

1569
01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:35,920
Speaker 1: So she started freaking out and said that she would

1570
01:18:35,920 --> 01:18:38,559
Speaker 1: apologize to Rachel if it meant I wouldn't break up

1571
01:18:38,560 --> 01:18:43,960
Speaker 1: with her, and I agreed, knowing that I would leave,

1572
01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:47,120
Speaker 1: knowing that I would leave her even if she apologized,

1573
01:18:47,160 --> 01:18:50,360
Speaker 1: because she's only doing so. I stay, okay, I thought we.

1574
01:18:50,280 --> 01:18:54,120
Speaker 2: Were about to get the old was about to lose.

1575
01:18:56,600 --> 01:18:59,960
Speaker 1: Still, I wanted to hear her apologizing because it was

1576
01:19:00,200 --> 01:19:03,400
Speaker 1: fair to Rachel. She called Rachel right then and there,

1577
01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:06,400
Speaker 1: and after a while Rachel picked up. Alexi started telling

1578
01:19:06,439 --> 01:19:08,519
Speaker 1: her how she's sorry for what she said and that

1579
01:19:08,640 --> 01:19:10,519
Speaker 1: has been eating her up for the past few days,

1580
01:19:10,520 --> 01:19:12,519
Speaker 1: and then she can't sleep, et cetera, et cetera.

1581
01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:13,759
Speaker 3: Lies.

1582
01:19:14,040 --> 01:19:18,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, Opie says that the biggest lie I've ever heard yet.

1583
01:19:18,320 --> 01:19:21,000
Speaker 1: And from what I saw, Rachel knew she was lying

1584
01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:23,519
Speaker 1: as well. I don't think Rachel even cared to hear

1585
01:19:23,560 --> 01:19:26,920
Speaker 1: an apology since she said it's simple okay and hung up.

1586
01:19:27,560 --> 01:19:31,200
Speaker 1: Alexa now turns towards me and asks, are you happy now?

1587
01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:39,840
Speaker 8: Are you like satisfied with you? I'm like, dang everything

1588
01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:42,960
Speaker 8: I can. I'm like being the best person I know

1589
01:19:43,840 --> 01:19:44,439
Speaker 8: right now.

1590
01:19:45,600 --> 01:19:48,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, Alexa is just lumpy space princess from Adventure Time.

1591
01:19:51,040 --> 01:19:52,400
Speaker 2: That and that's I'm just gonna leave it that.

1592
01:19:52,360 --> 01:19:53,240
Speaker 1: And we're gonna leave it at that.

1593
01:19:54,000 --> 01:19:54,760
Speaker 2: Uh.

1594
01:19:55,120 --> 01:19:58,200
Speaker 1: I have to quickly shout out. I don't know if

1595
01:19:58,240 --> 01:20:03,360
Speaker 1: you guys know, King Frederick, King Frederick, the King Frederick

1596
01:20:03,479 --> 01:20:08,280
Speaker 1: Latnik has just donated ten ten gifted members in the chat.

1597
01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:12,000
Speaker 1: King Frederick, you have risen. It's been a it's been

1598
01:20:12,400 --> 01:20:17,400
Speaker 1: it's been a second. It's been a second. Guys, welcome

1599
01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:21,080
Speaker 1: the return of King Frederick. Please please roll out your

1600
01:20:21,640 --> 01:20:25,600
Speaker 1: red carpets. You're you're we might be in for a

1601
01:20:25,640 --> 01:20:26,160
Speaker 1: treat today.

1602
01:20:26,880 --> 01:20:29,600
Speaker 2: We shall see the red carpet King Frederick, Lord to

1603
01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:36,960
Speaker 2: the Throne of Gondor, Rightful King of the Lords of Men. Girls.

1604
01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:42,479
Speaker 1: Okay, anyways, so Obie says, uh oh uh.

1605
01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:44,000
Speaker 2: So she asked me, are you happy now?

1606
01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:46,720
Speaker 1: I wasn't, and I told her I turned to leave

1607
01:20:46,840 --> 01:20:48,800
Speaker 1: and tell her that I'll come pick up my stuff

1608
01:20:48,800 --> 01:20:51,439
Speaker 1: while she's at work. She started freaking out and screaming

1609
01:20:51,439 --> 01:20:56,640
Speaker 1: at me. How I tricked her into apologizing to a

1610
01:20:56,640 --> 01:21:00,599
Speaker 1: person who wasn't born to their parents on snow.

1611
01:21:01,560 --> 01:21:03,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1612
01:21:03,080 --> 01:21:04,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, good one, good one, dude.

1613
01:21:04,479 --> 01:21:08,120
Speaker 2: Come on, I mean like which, by the way, idiot,

1614
01:21:08,640 --> 01:21:13,120
Speaker 2: she was born to your mother. Yeah, she abandoned her

1615
01:21:13,160 --> 01:21:14,560
Speaker 2: mom sucks.

1616
01:21:14,360 --> 01:21:17,000
Speaker 1: Huh, and that it's not her fault her mother went

1617
01:21:17,040 --> 01:21:20,960
Speaker 1: around making mistakes before she had her And how there's

1618
01:21:21,000 --> 01:21:22,280
Speaker 1: a reason Rachel.

1619
01:21:22,040 --> 01:21:26,799
Speaker 2: Was left by her mother? Did did? Did? This stupid

1620
01:21:26,840 --> 01:21:31,080
Speaker 2: ass idiot really just blame a baby for existing, being Like,

1621
01:21:31,160 --> 01:21:35,200
Speaker 2: there's a reason that she left her infant daughter, and

1622
01:21:35,240 --> 01:21:38,400
Speaker 2: it's because she looked at her wrong. She told me all.

1623
01:21:38,240 --> 01:21:40,840
Speaker 3: About it, She cried, Dude.

1624
01:21:41,280 --> 01:21:43,360
Speaker 2: This girl I want her to be this is black

1625
01:21:43,400 --> 01:21:45,400
Speaker 2: hole level. I want her to be thrown into the

1626
01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:47,719
Speaker 2: black hole, turn into spaghetti and no longer exist.

1627
01:21:48,439 --> 01:21:53,479
Speaker 1: Insanity. Yeah, at the moment, I knew. At the moment,

1628
01:21:53,520 --> 01:21:55,679
Speaker 1: I knew that whoever was in front of me isn't

1629
01:21:55,720 --> 01:21:58,880
Speaker 1: the same person I fell in love with boom. By

1630
01:21:58,920 --> 01:22:01,160
Speaker 1: the way, you can fall in love with us every

1631
01:22:01,200 --> 01:22:03,559
Speaker 1: single weekday three p m p s T by just

1632
01:22:03,560 --> 01:22:06,360
Speaker 1: tapping her profile. All take except for me, John, I

1633
01:22:06,400 --> 01:22:09,559
Speaker 1: have a girlfriend, Fry, but everyone else is up for grabs.

1634
01:22:10,720 --> 01:22:16,679
Speaker 2: Platonic love, great friends, will be great friends, John, platonic love.

1635
01:22:17,880 --> 01:22:18,240
Speaker 1: That's me.

1636
01:22:19,040 --> 01:22:22,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, that does again. That's your middle name, John, that's crazy.

1637
01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:27,639
Speaker 1: That is my middle name. And also Christin Foyle hat

1638
01:22:27,680 --> 01:22:31,760
Speaker 1: is Christian Foyle Hat's name and Christine Foyle Hat just

1639
01:22:31,800 --> 01:22:34,400
Speaker 1: donated twenty gifted membership.

1640
01:22:34,040 --> 01:22:38,759
Speaker 2: Twenty more members, twenty more babies. I'm not gonna lie.

1641
01:22:39,479 --> 01:22:41,960
Speaker 2: I'm afraid it's gonna be, is it?

1642
01:22:42,240 --> 01:22:43,000
Speaker 3: What are we afraid of?

1643
01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:45,760
Speaker 2: I had plans to go rock climbing tonight, but I

1644
01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:48,680
Speaker 2: don't know how early or late I'm gonna be to that.

1645
01:22:49,000 --> 01:22:51,320
Speaker 1: It might be might get a little nutty.

1646
01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:54,719
Speaker 2: We're gonna see this might be a blank hour stream.

1647
01:22:54,880 --> 01:22:56,920
Speaker 2: We don't we don't know, we will. I can't even

1648
01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:58,160
Speaker 2: say it. I can't even say.

1649
01:22:58,240 --> 01:22:59,360
Speaker 1: We won't even say the words.

1650
01:22:59,720 --> 01:23:02,960
Speaker 3: But you know the words, and so do I.

1651
01:23:03,640 --> 01:23:10,320
Speaker 1: The stream that must not be named Camore stream? All right,

1652
01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:14,000
Speaker 1: But Opie says, I just left. She's been calling me

1653
01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:16,679
Speaker 1: for hours now, but I blocked her. Rachel called to

1654
01:23:16,680 --> 01:23:19,400
Speaker 1: to ask if I'm still alive, since she learned from

1655
01:23:19,439 --> 01:23:23,439
Speaker 1: George that I broke up with Alexa. I told her

1656
01:23:23,560 --> 01:23:26,439
Speaker 1: that it's good riddance and apologized again for the wedding incident.

1657
01:23:27,240 --> 01:23:31,600
Speaker 1: Conspiracy theory they end up together? Conspiracy theory? What that

1658
01:23:32,280 --> 01:23:33,599
Speaker 1: op and Rachel end up together?

1659
01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:36,679
Speaker 2: Okay, which would be kind of cool, just to stick

1660
01:23:36,720 --> 01:23:39,200
Speaker 2: it to Alexa. Yeah, justin that would be cool.

1661
01:23:39,600 --> 01:23:41,719
Speaker 1: She once again told me that it's not my fault,

1662
01:23:41,760 --> 01:23:44,000
Speaker 1: so I didn't have to apologize. So that's it. I'm

1663
01:23:44,080 --> 01:23:46,559
Speaker 1: quite happy, to be honest, and it's not like I'll

1664
01:23:46,560 --> 01:23:53,040
Speaker 1: miss the toxicity. Thank you everyone for your comments, the toxicity.

1665
01:23:54,200 --> 01:23:58,479
Speaker 2: Of our city. Okay, I won't do the rest of

1666
01:23:58,520 --> 01:24:05,640
Speaker 2: that song, but yeah, no, Alexa, Alexa's that really sucked. Yeah,

1667
01:24:05,840 --> 01:24:09,040
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, and OPM sorry that you had uh sort

1668
01:24:09,040 --> 01:24:12,280
Speaker 2: of that. That must have been a crazy moment of realization,

1669
01:24:12,880 --> 01:24:17,280
Speaker 2: like you know, this girl that you love is saying

1670
01:24:17,360 --> 01:24:19,639
Speaker 2: this these horrible things.

1671
01:24:19,840 --> 01:24:27,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, thirty more minutes, we got him, got him, We

1672
01:24:27,760 --> 01:24:31,000
Speaker 6: did it, We did it for we did goodness.

1673
01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:37,000
Speaker 2: I'm just really caught up. I'm wanting black hole. There's

1674
01:24:37,000 --> 01:24:40,360
Speaker 2: no redemption. I don't even think Alexa is so stupid

1675
01:24:40,360 --> 01:24:42,800
Speaker 2: that she probably won't even be able to reflect on

1676
01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:45,720
Speaker 2: how awful her actions were. There's even if we did

1677
01:24:45,720 --> 01:24:48,000
Speaker 2: send her into deep space. So yeah, black hole, black

1678
01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:50,720
Speaker 2: hole spaghetti and gone forever, stretched out, be stretched out

1679
01:24:50,760 --> 01:24:52,839
Speaker 2: into quantum spaghetti. Like it's just it's.

1680
01:24:53,240 --> 01:24:57,320
Speaker 1: When you're that, when you're that like twisted at evil

1681
01:24:57,400 --> 01:25:02,680
Speaker 1: on that side, there's no point in trying to like

1682
01:25:03,000 --> 01:25:06,439
Speaker 1: recon reconcile or like, Okay, let's work out, Like no,

1683
01:25:06,520 --> 01:25:11,000
Speaker 1: it's so, it's so could she change now we've seen

1684
01:25:11,040 --> 01:25:15,400
Speaker 1: it happen in these stories, But no, Op doesn't need

1685
01:25:15,439 --> 01:25:17,800
Speaker 1: to stay in the relationship to see that. Absolutely not.

1686
01:25:18,360 --> 01:25:21,280
Speaker 2: That's it. He does. That's it. Uh. The fact that

1687
01:25:21,479 --> 01:25:24,120
Speaker 2: after you tricked her into doing the apology and then

1688
01:25:24,160 --> 01:25:26,519
Speaker 2: she was like, I can't believe you did this. You

1689
01:25:26,600 --> 01:25:31,919
Speaker 2: tricked me into apologizing, It's like, yeah, you stupid idiot,

1690
01:25:33,000 --> 01:25:36,040
Speaker 2: I did because you're a monster and she deserved an

1691
01:25:36,080 --> 01:25:39,719
Speaker 2: apology from you, you comic book villain.

1692
01:25:40,000 --> 01:25:44,040
Speaker 1: I have to trick you into being a almost decent human.

1693
01:25:44,240 --> 01:25:47,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then lied in the apology one, lied in

1694
01:25:47,560 --> 01:25:50,719
Speaker 3: the apology. Two like was like even after the apology,

1695
01:25:50,880 --> 01:25:52,360
Speaker 3: like I still hate her.

1696
01:25:52,960 --> 01:25:57,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's harder on her, Like that was a

1697
01:25:57,880 --> 01:26:00,240
Speaker 2: fake apology that you tricked me into do it. I

1698
01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:04,400
Speaker 2: hate this. We all hate you, Alexa.

1699
01:26:04,600 --> 01:26:06,920
Speaker 1: Alexa power off.

1700
01:26:07,280 --> 01:26:11,000
Speaker 3: Sorry if Alexis in the chat, we love you, but

1701
01:26:11,040 --> 01:26:11,799
Speaker 3: not this Alex.

1702
01:26:11,680 --> 01:26:13,560
Speaker 2: Unless you're this Alexa, in which case.

1703
01:26:15,160 --> 01:26:17,599
Speaker 1: This is so bad. All Alexis might have to catch

1704
01:26:17,600 --> 01:26:19,400
Speaker 1: as straight from this one. That's how bad this is

1705
01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:21,559
Speaker 1: but but that that's the end of the story. We'll

1706
01:26:21,640 --> 01:26:25,200
Speaker 1: we'll lay Alexa to rest Dakota, why don't you pull

1707
01:26:25,240 --> 01:26:25,920
Speaker 1: us up this next one?

1708
01:26:25,920 --> 01:26:26,559
Speaker 2: And I'll read so.

1709
01:26:28,000 --> 01:26:31,040
Speaker 1: Do nos Kelsey Haff Thanks for the ten bucks usd

1710
01:26:31,280 --> 01:26:34,759
Speaker 1: all caps. I fing love Dakota's reaction to the story.

1711
01:26:34,920 --> 01:26:37,439
Speaker 1: I feel like hitting her. But sending her and her

1712
01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:40,719
Speaker 1: and her pathetic butt mom to the Bermuda triangle sounds

1713
01:26:40,760 --> 01:26:44,040
Speaker 1: like fun. Oh yeah, yes, absolutely me refresh because it's

1714
01:26:44,080 --> 01:26:47,160
Speaker 1: going crazy. Oh yeah, I love to go crazy crazy.

1715
01:26:49,400 --> 01:26:53,920
Speaker 1: They're going crazy. Let's go to super chat because it's

1716
01:26:54,000 --> 01:26:54,599
Speaker 1: jetting bananas.

1717
01:26:55,000 --> 01:26:55,559
Speaker 3: Get this over here.

1718
01:26:55,640 --> 01:26:55,880
Speaker 2: Hit me.

1719
01:26:55,880 --> 01:26:57,840
Speaker 1: It's a fresh big dog.

1720
01:26:58,160 --> 01:26:59,639
Speaker 2: And we're on a new episode, right.

1721
01:27:00,240 --> 01:27:03,120
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna just keep that ready. But all means guys,

1722
01:27:03,200 --> 01:27:04,080
Speaker 3: got you go for it.

1723
01:27:04,160 --> 01:27:07,680
Speaker 1: Tina M. Thanks for the twenty gifted memberships. Oh do

1724
01:27:07,720 --> 01:27:08,320
Speaker 1: you know how to find it?

1725
01:27:08,320 --> 01:27:08,840
Speaker 2: By that? I do?

1726
01:27:09,200 --> 01:27:12,800
Speaker 1: I think I do the recording to yes, right, correct.

1727
01:27:13,160 --> 01:27:17,400
Speaker 9: It's to though, make sure there we go correct, But Tina,

1728
01:27:17,920 --> 01:27:23,519
Speaker 9: twenty gifted memberships like preposterous levels of Gifted memberships are

1729
01:27:23,560 --> 01:27:24,400
Speaker 9: being donated today.

1730
01:27:24,280 --> 01:27:26,720
Speaker 2: So gosterrois so many babies.

1731
01:27:27,160 --> 01:27:29,679
Speaker 1: Amber Logins, thanks for to ten bucks. Here's the thirty

1732
01:27:29,920 --> 01:27:32,840
Speaker 1: thirty more minutes. Gosh darn it, we did it. Kimberly

1733
01:27:33,360 --> 01:27:38,480
Speaker 1: Kimberly Holly, thanks for sharing one gifted membership as well.

1734
01:27:38,920 --> 01:27:40,360
Speaker 2: We're gonna get there. We're gonna get there.

1735
01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:45,360
Speaker 1: Here we go unlessa Monday. Thanks for five gifted memberships.

1736
01:27:45,360 --> 01:27:45,880
Speaker 2: Insane.

1737
01:27:46,200 --> 01:27:49,280
Speaker 1: MJ grow celebrating eight months of membership. Happy eight months

1738
01:27:49,320 --> 01:27:53,160
Speaker 1: to me. Let's freaking go axes in the chat. Justpine Madala,

1739
01:27:53,240 --> 01:27:55,440
Speaker 1: thanks for the twenty seven sweetest croners.

1740
01:27:55,720 --> 01:27:57,320
Speaker 2: My actual middle name.

1741
01:27:57,240 --> 01:28:00,400
Speaker 1: Is Cola, like the soda, no joke, good to know

1742
01:28:00,680 --> 01:28:03,080
Speaker 1: old yeah, and then could you give me a pluck

1743
01:28:03,120 --> 01:28:06,960
Speaker 1: comand plus on that bad boy for my destroyed beady eyes.

1744
01:28:07,280 --> 01:28:10,519
Speaker 1: I think it's varnamous varnamaus. Thanks for the twenty bucks

1745
01:28:10,560 --> 01:28:11,519
Speaker 1: and thirty more minutes.

1746
01:28:11,880 --> 01:28:12,479
Speaker 2: We got it.

1747
01:28:13,120 --> 01:28:16,639
Speaker 1: MJ grow, thanks for gifting five memberships, and then another

1748
01:28:16,720 --> 01:28:21,680
Speaker 1: five memberships, and then Kristen Foyle hat for gifting twenty memberships,

1749
01:28:22,120 --> 01:28:26,240
Speaker 1: and then Frederick Lyner gifting ten memberships on top of that.

1750
01:28:26,439 --> 01:28:30,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, omg, thanks for the two pounds. Loving

1751
01:28:30,400 --> 01:28:32,479
Speaker 1: the stream. But throw Alexa in the.

1752
01:28:32,560 --> 01:28:35,400
Speaker 2: Bin, Yeah, in the bin. Throw in the bin.

1753
01:28:35,600 --> 01:28:39,040
Speaker 1: Get in there in the bean crow queen, thanks for

1754
01:28:39,080 --> 01:28:42,599
Speaker 1: being a member for seven seven months. Happy to coda gay?

1755
01:28:42,760 --> 01:28:48,880
Speaker 1: How happy to code day to the sharp dressed man.

1756
01:28:49,360 --> 01:28:54,000
Speaker 1: John's pushing the gay agenda. Oh yes, I am yeah.

1757
01:28:54,560 --> 01:28:58,920
Speaker 1: Oh goodness, gracious a it's Dsha, says, celebrating six months

1758
01:28:58,920 --> 01:29:02,680
Speaker 1: of membership. Dakota's makes me happy. So glad you're here

1759
01:29:02,720 --> 01:29:05,680
Speaker 1: full time now. Congrats all love for John and key

1760
01:29:05,760 --> 01:29:07,639
Speaker 1: on two. Sorry if I butchered the spelling.

1761
01:29:07,720 --> 01:29:10,360
Speaker 3: Hey, you were so close, and you know what, that's okay.

1762
01:29:10,800 --> 01:29:12,240
Speaker 3: I love you.

1763
01:29:12,280 --> 01:29:15,240
Speaker 2: Actually, that is super close, right, and that that makes me.

1764
01:29:15,320 --> 01:29:17,759
Speaker 2: That made me really happy seeing that my smile makes

1765
01:29:17,800 --> 01:29:18,160
Speaker 2: you have.

1766
01:29:18,600 --> 01:29:21,519
Speaker 1: My smile makes people have chat. That's that's the beauty

1767
01:29:21,560 --> 01:29:25,280
Speaker 1: of chat man. Jenna Lye Rose, I believe last name

1768
01:29:25,280 --> 01:29:32,840
Speaker 1: cut off. I am watching, Oh my god, whoa, I'm

1769
01:29:32,920 --> 01:29:36,160
Speaker 1: watching the polls, the polls. Just wanted to check in

1770
01:29:36,240 --> 01:29:38,479
Speaker 1: and show some love. Will watch the live stream when

1771
01:29:38,479 --> 01:29:43,639
Speaker 1: I go to bed. Jenna uh Rossauson, Jenna Rosson, thank you.

1772
01:29:43,640 --> 01:29:45,439
Speaker 1: You know what it got cut off and then you

1773
01:29:45,439 --> 01:29:48,479
Speaker 1: put it at the end, so it's perfect. Jenna Lee Ross.

1774
01:29:48,400 --> 01:29:49,519
Speaker 3: Make it a little bit thicker for you.

1775
01:29:49,600 --> 01:29:53,960
Speaker 2: Joe I really, I really want to pronounce it. I

1776
01:29:54,240 --> 01:29:54,599
Speaker 2: want to.

1777
01:29:54,520 --> 01:30:00,840
Speaker 1: Pronoun it, but I pronounced it Rawson and then Sin

1778
01:30:00,920 --> 01:30:04,240
Speaker 1: in Wonderland thanks for being a member for six months.

1779
01:30:04,240 --> 01:30:08,600
Speaker 1: My name literally means moon queen work.

1780
01:30:08,720 --> 01:30:11,759
Speaker 2: And they said, were you calling me? Were you calling me? Yeah,

1781
01:30:11,800 --> 01:30:15,439
Speaker 2: because I said that my girlfriend that doesn't exist is

1782
01:30:15,600 --> 01:30:19,360
Speaker 2: on the moon, which does exist despite what people will

1783
01:30:19,360 --> 01:30:19,680
Speaker 2: tell you.

1784
01:30:20,600 --> 01:30:21,360
Speaker 1: Hardness agreed.

1785
01:30:23,720 --> 01:30:27,440
Speaker 2: And then let's see so many memberships.

1786
01:30:27,560 --> 01:30:31,160
Speaker 1: I don't know where we are everything, King Frederick, thanks

1787
01:30:31,160 --> 01:30:34,640
Speaker 1: for the ten gifted memberships. Kimberly Holly, thanks for the

1788
01:30:34,640 --> 01:30:37,320
Speaker 1: one gifted membership, Kristin fall Hat, thanks for the five

1789
01:30:37,360 --> 01:30:41,080
Speaker 1: gifted memberships, Aussie in an art Shop, thanks for the

1790
01:30:41,560 --> 01:30:44,799
Speaker 1: five months of memberships. Can everyone please like the stream

1791
01:30:44,840 --> 01:30:47,759
Speaker 1: because I want all you guys.

1792
01:30:47,760 --> 01:30:50,439
Speaker 2: We literally wanted to seven hundred and eight people in here.

1793
01:30:50,439 --> 01:30:53,040
Speaker 1: We only need five hundred likes. You do the math.

1794
01:30:53,080 --> 01:30:53,840
Speaker 1: That's all I'm gonna hapend.

1795
01:30:53,920 --> 01:30:56,920
Speaker 2: We only need one twenty four now one twenty three.

1796
01:30:57,040 --> 01:31:01,720
Speaker 1: Come on, King Frederick again again again with ten gifted memberships,

1797
01:31:01,760 --> 01:31:05,559
Speaker 1: and Alyssa Monday with the two bucks. Like the stream, guys,

1798
01:31:06,160 --> 01:31:09,880
Speaker 1: you know what to do. That's all the donos Dakota.

1799
01:31:10,360 --> 01:31:12,040
Speaker 1: Are we sure that's all the donoes?

1800
01:31:12,120 --> 01:31:12,439
Speaker 2: We're not.

1801
01:31:12,520 --> 01:31:13,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna check.

1802
01:31:13,120 --> 01:31:15,240
Speaker 2: We're gonna check, We're gonna refresh, let us know if

1803
01:31:15,280 --> 01:31:17,519
Speaker 2: we missed any because there were a lot.

1804
01:31:17,600 --> 01:31:19,040
Speaker 3: There were a lot. I think that's it. But I

1805
01:31:19,080 --> 01:31:20,559
Speaker 3: do have to use the little Sam's room.

1806
01:31:20,840 --> 01:31:22,639
Speaker 1: Oh a little SAMs room. I'm gonna use a little

1807
01:31:22,640 --> 01:31:25,160
Speaker 1: sam room. Hit him on the story and we'll yeah,

1808
01:31:25,200 --> 01:31:28,880
Speaker 1: get rolling. Okay, you're a title, and then piece out.

1809
01:31:29,080 --> 01:31:31,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll do there. I just trying to make sure

1810
01:31:31,920 --> 01:31:33,040
Speaker 3: it's a I laughed at my.

1811
01:31:33,439 --> 01:31:35,880
Speaker 1: Yes, I lived at my cool on.

1812
01:31:35,920 --> 01:31:39,760
Speaker 2: Actually, I need to go to the reblink. Okay, and

1813
01:31:39,920 --> 01:31:40,439
Speaker 2: here we go.

1814
01:31:40,520 --> 01:31:41,120
Speaker 3: You get all right?

1815
01:31:41,160 --> 01:31:42,040
Speaker 2: I am good to go.

1816
01:31:42,160 --> 01:31:44,040
Speaker 3: You got this for a little bit for like, just

1817
01:31:44,080 --> 01:31:46,280
Speaker 3: read a little bit and a little bit.

1818
01:31:46,320 --> 01:31:47,800
Speaker 1: I'll hop in there when you leave cool.

1819
01:31:49,200 --> 01:31:52,560
Speaker 2: I laughed at my husband when he got food poisoning.

1820
01:31:53,040 --> 01:31:57,760
Speaker 2: I warned him and he refused to listen. Oh boy,

1821
01:31:57,800 --> 01:32:01,080
Speaker 2: we got a little somebody knew that the food was

1822
01:32:01,120 --> 01:32:03,960
Speaker 2: no good. How did you know that? Though? How did

1823
01:32:03,960 --> 01:32:08,440
Speaker 2: you know? My boyfriend, who will call Jake, and I

1824
01:32:08,479 --> 01:32:11,280
Speaker 2: met at our workplace. We hit it off and started

1825
01:32:11,360 --> 01:32:13,519
Speaker 2: dating soon after. He was twenty six and I was

1826
01:32:13,560 --> 01:32:15,720
Speaker 2: twenty three at the time. We had been dating for

1827
01:32:15,800 --> 01:32:18,439
Speaker 2: months and he had taken me on some nice dates.

1828
01:32:19,800 --> 01:32:22,400
Speaker 2: Some dates were expensive, but some were cheap. And by

1829
01:32:22,400 --> 01:32:25,200
Speaker 2: the way, this comes from user night Child twenty five

1830
01:32:25,240 --> 01:32:28,200
Speaker 2: on the ark r slash Okay storytime sot I reread

1831
01:32:28,240 --> 01:32:31,840
Speaker 2: it so I am not the type of woman who

1832
01:32:31,880 --> 01:32:34,760
Speaker 2: insists on a man taking out alone. To take me out,

1833
01:32:35,320 --> 01:32:39,040
Speaker 2: I've gone to high end four and five star restaurants McDonald's,

1834
01:32:39,400 --> 01:32:42,120
Speaker 2: and even gone to barbecues and eaten home cooked meals.

1835
01:32:42,560 --> 01:32:46,839
Speaker 2: It's the company for me, not the location. I agree.

1836
01:32:47,520 --> 01:32:51,640
Speaker 2: It's all about who you're with, not where you're at.

1837
01:32:52,040 --> 01:32:54,840
Speaker 2: Jake asked me out, not telling me where we were going,

1838
01:32:55,040 --> 01:32:58,080
Speaker 2: just telling me to dress casually. Everything was fine until

1839
01:32:58,080 --> 01:33:02,200
Speaker 2: he pulled into the parking lot of a dull, dilapidated building.

1840
01:33:04,600 --> 01:33:05,600
Speaker 1: The best suspicious.

1841
01:33:05,720 --> 01:33:10,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe not. Is this a restaurant? Uh? The place

1842
01:33:10,479 --> 01:33:12,639
Speaker 2: looked like the roof was caving in and it should

1843
01:33:12,680 --> 01:33:15,640
Speaker 2: have been condemned perfect Uh Is he taking you to

1844
01:33:15,720 --> 01:33:20,840
Speaker 2: like a secret warehouse party? I couldn't believe Jake was

1845
01:33:20,880 --> 01:33:23,680
Speaker 2: taking me to such an unsafe looking place just to

1846
01:33:23,760 --> 01:33:26,880
Speaker 2: let you know I'm not exaggerating. The place actually was

1847
01:33:27,040 --> 01:33:33,240
Speaker 2: condemned a week after our date. Okay, so Opie is

1848
01:33:33,280 --> 01:33:35,200
Speaker 2: a reliable narrator.

1849
01:33:35,040 --> 01:33:36,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right.

1850
01:33:36,680 --> 01:33:42,639
Speaker 2: Uh, this place just looked nasty. Jake was excited because

1851
01:33:42,680 --> 01:33:45,360
Speaker 2: it was a ninety nine cent twin movie theater and

1852
01:33:45,439 --> 01:33:47,640
Speaker 2: it was a historical landmark.

1853
01:33:48,520 --> 01:33:48,640
Speaker 6: Uh.

1854
01:33:48,800 --> 01:33:51,760
Speaker 2: I'm sure the disgust probably showed on my face because

1855
01:33:51,800 --> 01:33:54,559
Speaker 2: he started getting snippy, asking if I thought I was

1856
01:33:54,760 --> 01:33:58,040
Speaker 2: too good for this place. I have no idea where

1857
01:33:58,040 --> 01:34:00,120
Speaker 2: that attitude was coming from. I had never said a

1858
01:34:00,160 --> 01:34:02,360
Speaker 2: word about any of the places he took me. This

1859
01:34:02,400 --> 01:34:06,160
Speaker 2: place just looked unsafe. I told him it wasn't a

1860
01:34:06,200 --> 01:34:08,360
Speaker 2: matter of being too good for the place, but being

1861
01:34:08,400 --> 01:34:11,280
Speaker 2: afraid the roof was going to collapse on us. You know,

1862
01:34:12,160 --> 01:34:16,400
Speaker 2: it's got character, It's got Oh so you don't like

1863
01:34:16,439 --> 01:34:18,680
Speaker 2: a little bit of grime. Hi, everything's got to be

1864
01:34:18,760 --> 01:34:23,040
Speaker 2: spotless for you. Gotta be pristine. He's like, no, Actually,

1865
01:34:23,080 --> 01:34:25,920
Speaker 2: I can see the roof literally about to fall down.

1866
01:34:26,479 --> 01:34:31,400
Speaker 2: So that's character. We character? What a little danger? Never

1867
01:34:31,479 --> 01:34:32,640
Speaker 2: heard anybody.

1868
01:34:32,240 --> 01:34:33,400
Speaker 3: There's a little stink to it?

1869
01:34:33,640 --> 01:34:35,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, put some stink.

1870
01:34:37,280 --> 01:34:37,400
Speaker 3: Uh.

1871
01:34:39,240 --> 01:34:42,400
Speaker 1: I love Keon laughing at his own reactions.

1872
01:34:43,200 --> 01:34:49,240
Speaker 2: Hi, funny little boy. Quick camera back to keon what

1873
01:34:49,439 --> 01:34:51,200
Speaker 2: all right? Now? Back to me? Thank you?

1874
01:34:52,320 --> 01:34:54,160
Speaker 3: Look at your man, now look at me. I'm on

1875
01:34:54,240 --> 01:34:54,920
Speaker 3: a horse.

1876
01:34:57,240 --> 01:34:59,800
Speaker 2: I told him I really appreciated him wanting to take

1877
01:34:59,800 --> 01:35:02,680
Speaker 2: me out, but I just felt we would be unsafe,

1878
01:35:02,720 --> 01:35:04,439
Speaker 2: and I told him that I'd rather go to a

1879
01:35:04,479 --> 01:35:07,640
Speaker 2: safer theater. I said, I didn't mind paying for us

1880
01:35:07,680 --> 01:35:09,599
Speaker 2: to go to the new movie theater in the local mall.

1881
01:35:10,200 --> 01:35:14,520
Speaker 2: He refused and said I had insulted him. I apologized

1882
01:35:14,520 --> 01:35:17,880
Speaker 2: and begrudgingly agreed to go inside. He caused a scene

1883
01:35:17,920 --> 01:35:20,040
Speaker 2: at the box office. The movie was rated R and

1884
01:35:20,160 --> 01:35:22,719
Speaker 2: Jake has a babyface. The lady at the box office

1885
01:35:22,760 --> 01:35:25,719
Speaker 2: asked for his ID, and Jake was just being a jerk,

1886
01:35:26,160 --> 01:35:29,439
Speaker 2: shouting and refusing to get out his ID. Dude, What

1887
01:35:29,600 --> 01:35:33,800
Speaker 2: a lame dude, as someone who is chronically id'd for

1888
01:35:33,880 --> 01:35:35,799
Speaker 2: thinking that he's a little baby boy.

1889
01:35:36,320 --> 01:35:37,519
Speaker 1: Just smile and laugh.

1890
01:35:37,800 --> 01:35:38,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, do it.

1891
01:35:38,680 --> 01:35:41,519
Speaker 2: It's a fun time. It's great, He say, Oh, I

1892
01:35:41,560 --> 01:35:43,360
Speaker 2: get this all the time. That's all it takes. And

1893
01:35:43,360 --> 01:35:47,040
Speaker 2: then you're moving on and it's over. You're uh. We

1894
01:35:47,120 --> 01:35:49,639
Speaker 2: both worked in retail. He knew this lady was only

1895
01:35:49,680 --> 01:35:52,120
Speaker 2: doing her job. I was already in a mood from

1896
01:35:52,120 --> 01:35:54,880
Speaker 2: our argument, and he wasn't helping things. Jake was not

1897
01:35:54,960 --> 01:35:58,519
Speaker 2: going to show his id idiot, so I dug it

1898
01:35:58,560 --> 01:35:59,960
Speaker 2: out of his pocket and gave it to the lake,

1899
01:36:00,479 --> 01:36:05,720
Speaker 2: which started a brand new argument, Brian spanking is the

1900
01:36:05,840 --> 01:36:09,880
Speaker 2: argument that he's a little dumb baby, because that would

1901
01:36:09,920 --> 01:36:10,559
Speaker 2: be my argument.

1902
01:36:10,640 --> 01:36:14,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, I wish I had just stayed home.

1903
01:36:14,640 --> 01:36:16,720
Speaker 2: After a period of back and forth, we took our

1904
01:36:16,760 --> 01:36:19,439
Speaker 2: tickets and entered the movie theater. The first thing I

1905
01:36:19,479 --> 01:36:23,040
Speaker 2: noticed was the smacking noise that accompanied my shoes sticking

1906
01:36:23,080 --> 01:36:29,559
Speaker 2: on the nasty floor. Ooh oh they got lizard floors

1907
01:36:29,560 --> 01:36:31,160
Speaker 2: in this place because your feet stick to it.

1908
01:36:31,160 --> 01:36:34,200
Speaker 3: In course, Oh my god, Oh oh, don't do that.

1909
01:36:35,880 --> 01:36:39,639
Speaker 2: I told Jake, Hey, the floor's disgusting, and I wasn't

1910
01:36:39,680 --> 01:36:42,200
Speaker 2: trying to insult him, but please, could we just go

1911
01:36:42,360 --> 01:36:43,520
Speaker 2: somewhere else.

1912
01:36:43,640 --> 01:36:47,200
Speaker 1: Until we get astos poisoning? We are staying in this establishment.

1913
01:36:47,360 --> 01:36:50,040
Speaker 2: I don't want to leave until the black mold fully

1914
01:36:50,120 --> 01:36:52,000
Speaker 2: penetrates my lungs membrane.

1915
01:36:52,080 --> 01:36:54,640
Speaker 3: Do you know how much I spent here? How much

1916
01:36:54,680 --> 01:36:57,920
Speaker 3: I spent on these tickets?

1917
01:36:57,920 --> 01:37:04,600
Speaker 2: Two? I'm fine, Jake, told me that he bought the

1918
01:37:04,600 --> 01:37:11,920
Speaker 2: tickets and we were no, h he bought the ninety

1919
01:37:12,000 --> 01:37:15,240
Speaker 2: nine said tickets, We're not going anywhere. You know how

1920
01:37:15,280 --> 01:37:17,240
Speaker 2: many MC nuggets I could have gotten for that? He

1921
01:37:17,360 --> 01:37:22,880
Speaker 2: spent like fifteen bucksh. So he said I should just

1922
01:37:22,920 --> 01:37:25,000
Speaker 2: shut up and let him buy us popcorn and a

1923
01:37:25,000 --> 01:37:32,000
Speaker 2: soft drink to split. So so he's what he's trying

1924
01:37:32,000 --> 01:37:35,200
Speaker 2: to provide, Guys, can't you see he's just trying to

1925
01:37:35,240 --> 01:37:36,920
Speaker 2: be a high quality.

1926
01:37:37,280 --> 01:37:39,479
Speaker 1: This guy's a role mode. I'm taking notes. Yeah, you

1927
01:37:39,520 --> 01:37:41,280
Speaker 1: wouldn't understand a sigma like me.

1928
01:37:41,720 --> 01:37:44,120
Speaker 2: Everybody take notes on how to be a real man

1929
01:37:44,280 --> 01:37:49,160
Speaker 2: from this idiot. Uh So when it comes to splitting

1930
01:37:49,160 --> 01:37:52,240
Speaker 2: the food, that's a hard no. Even if I didn't

1931
01:37:52,280 --> 01:37:54,680
Speaker 2: mind sharing, which I don't, there was no way I

1932
01:37:54,720 --> 01:37:58,120
Speaker 2: wanted food from a place with a floor that nasty.

1933
01:37:59,200 --> 01:38:03,719
Speaker 2: My stomach churned at the thought. Jake made another scene,

1934
01:38:03,760 --> 01:38:06,200
Speaker 2: shouting at me about how rude I was being, even

1935
01:38:06,200 --> 01:38:08,320
Speaker 2: after I pointed out that the popcorn machine was so

1936
01:38:08,439 --> 01:38:12,639
Speaker 2: dirty that you couldn't actually see the popcorn through the nasty,

1937
01:38:12,720 --> 01:38:17,679
Speaker 2: greasy yellow sludge on the glass. I've used the theater

1938
01:38:17,800 --> 01:38:20,720
Speaker 2: popcorn machines and it takes a lot of neglect for

1939
01:38:20,760 --> 01:38:22,360
Speaker 2: them to end up looking like that.

1940
01:38:22,479 --> 01:38:26,960
Speaker 10: Oh come on, son, Wow that's crazy. Wow, that's crazy, dude.

1941
01:38:27,080 --> 01:38:31,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, this is just a gross, dilapidated, condemned building

1942
01:38:31,880 --> 01:38:33,040
Speaker 2: run by goblins.

1943
01:38:33,360 --> 01:38:36,360
Speaker 1: Super quick question, is Opie and ahole? She just like

1944
01:38:36,720 --> 01:38:37,680
Speaker 1: walked out?

1945
01:38:38,400 --> 01:38:43,200
Speaker 2: No? No, when when you can hear the floor, you

1946
01:38:43,200 --> 01:38:44,840
Speaker 2: are allowed to leave whenever you want.

1947
01:38:44,960 --> 01:38:47,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's like it's I think it's like, listen,

1948
01:38:47,680 --> 01:38:50,200
Speaker 1: this is just too much like I would love to

1949
01:38:50,240 --> 01:38:52,720
Speaker 1: go spend time with you somewhere else, but like I'm not,

1950
01:38:53,280 --> 01:38:54,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to do this.

1951
01:38:54,200 --> 01:38:56,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think you just you're like, I've made my

1952
01:38:56,240 --> 01:38:58,479
Speaker 2: position clear. I'm getting out of here. Yeah, you can

1953
01:38:58,479 --> 01:39:00,360
Speaker 2: watch the movie. I'm a way outside because I really

1954
01:39:00,360 --> 01:39:02,559
Speaker 2: feel like the roof's gonna cave in on us. And

1955
01:39:02,680 --> 01:39:06,799
Speaker 2: also the floors are audible, I hear them.

1956
01:39:06,920 --> 01:39:10,479
Speaker 1: What if the roof does cave in, he's still gonna

1957
01:39:10,520 --> 01:39:13,040
Speaker 1: be like I pay I paid fifty months. No, he's

1958
01:39:13,040 --> 01:39:16,880
Speaker 1: gonna crawl out of the movies. It's gonna go one

1959
01:39:16,920 --> 01:39:19,600
Speaker 1: of once in a lifetime experience. That was all for

1960
01:39:19,720 --> 01:39:24,479
Speaker 1: ninety nine cents. Wow, Rambow, really the forty effects on

1961
01:39:24,520 --> 01:39:25,160
Speaker 1: that you.

1962
01:39:25,160 --> 01:39:27,200
Speaker 4: You never felt alive until you were in a near

1963
01:39:27,280 --> 01:39:30,519
Speaker 4: death experience at the ninety nine cent theater where the

1964
01:39:30,640 --> 01:39:32,599
Speaker 4: roof caves in on you while you're trying to watch

1965
01:39:33,600 --> 01:39:36,920
Speaker 4: I don't know Guardians of the Galaxy Volume three shout.

1966
01:39:36,760 --> 01:39:38,120
Speaker 2: Out to the theater though.

1967
01:39:38,520 --> 01:39:38,760
Speaker 3: Rip.

1968
01:39:40,240 --> 01:39:44,920
Speaker 2: Anyways, Okay, okay, getting back into it. I've used theater

1969
01:39:44,960 --> 01:39:48,400
Speaker 2: popcorn machines, and it takes a lot of neglect for that.

1970
01:39:48,520 --> 01:39:49,720
Speaker 1: Amount of nastiness.

1971
01:39:50,240 --> 01:39:52,880
Speaker 2: I told Jake I wasn't eating or drinking anything that

1972
01:39:52,960 --> 01:39:56,360
Speaker 2: wasn't prepackaged and factory sealed, and that neither should he.

1973
01:39:57,040 --> 01:39:59,920
Speaker 2: My parents owned a restaurant. I knew health violations when

1974
01:40:00,080 --> 01:40:02,559
Speaker 2: I saw them. And you probably think you know where

1975
01:40:02,560 --> 01:40:05,240
Speaker 2: this is going, but I promise you you don't. It's

1976
01:40:05,479 --> 01:40:11,000
Speaker 2: so much worse. Oh well, we kind of predicted like

1977
01:40:11,080 --> 01:40:13,639
Speaker 2: a cave in, so pretty, i'd be let's see where

1978
01:40:13,680 --> 01:40:17,320
Speaker 2: it goes. Jake grumpily ordered a popcorn and a fountain drink,

1979
01:40:17,360 --> 01:40:19,880
Speaker 2: while I bought my own bottled drink and box of

1980
01:40:19,960 --> 01:40:22,960
Speaker 2: Junior mintce. Jake had refused to pay for my items

1981
01:40:22,960 --> 01:40:25,880
Speaker 2: since I felt I was too good for the popcorn whatever.

1982
01:40:26,400 --> 01:40:28,360
Speaker 1: When we got into the theater. My jaw dropped.

1983
01:40:28,520 --> 01:40:31,759
Speaker 2: It was a mess, with a caved in ceiling, ruined seats,

1984
01:40:32,000 --> 01:40:34,120
Speaker 2: and an awful smell of mildew.

1985
01:40:34,320 --> 01:40:36,000
Speaker 3: I told you stay for the smell. This is part

1986
01:40:36,040 --> 01:40:38,360
Speaker 3: of the experience, bait. This mill was my date night,

1987
01:40:38,400 --> 01:40:39,599
Speaker 3: and uh, do what I want.

1988
01:40:39,640 --> 01:40:42,720
Speaker 1: Guys, We're like ten for ten on these predictions. By

1989
01:40:42,720 --> 01:40:45,080
Speaker 1: the way, I told you there's gonna be a stink.

1990
01:40:45,240 --> 01:40:50,200
Speaker 2: A little crazy that smelly smell. It took us way

1991
01:40:50,200 --> 01:40:53,200
Speaker 2: too long to find the two seats together that weren't

1992
01:40:53,200 --> 01:40:57,599
Speaker 2: in the floor or had exposed springs or seats stuffing. Oh,

1993
01:40:57,680 --> 01:41:01,960
Speaker 2: this place is just dilapidated. This place is like not real.

1994
01:41:02,240 --> 01:41:04,960
Speaker 2: This is yeah, this is a building that closed down

1995
01:41:05,080 --> 01:41:08,240
Speaker 2: and a group of vagrants started their own side hustle

1996
01:41:08,640 --> 01:41:10,880
Speaker 2: where they like have a projector set up and they

1997
01:41:10,960 --> 01:41:12,080
Speaker 2: just use the screens.

1998
01:41:12,160 --> 01:41:14,640
Speaker 3: A group of New York City rats were like, this

1999
01:41:14,720 --> 01:41:15,200
Speaker 3: is our home.

2000
01:41:15,600 --> 01:41:23,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, literally like yeah, okay, yeah yeah. They were

2001
01:41:24,000 --> 01:41:26,439
Speaker 2: next to a wall that was an inch deep with dust,

2002
01:41:26,680 --> 01:41:30,599
Speaker 2: suckers and gum. I swallowed down my complaints and forced

2003
01:41:30,600 --> 01:41:32,400
Speaker 2: a smile. I was just trying to make the best

2004
01:41:32,400 --> 01:41:35,080
Speaker 2: of things. But now Jake was huffy and not talking,

2005
01:41:35,360 --> 01:41:38,040
Speaker 2: which is probably good because if he was talking, he'd

2006
01:41:38,080 --> 01:41:40,880
Speaker 2: just be breathing in all of the asbestos, dust and

2007
01:41:40,960 --> 01:41:45,400
Speaker 2: black mold and mildew that would be killing him. It

2008
01:41:45,520 --> 01:41:49,439
Speaker 2: was hot, it was a hot August and Alabama, and

2009
01:41:49,479 --> 01:41:52,840
Speaker 2: the theater's air conditioning went out, making the smell all

2010
01:41:52,840 --> 01:41:53,439
Speaker 2: that much worse.

2011
01:41:53,479 --> 01:41:56,840
Speaker 1: I'm leaving at that point. I'm sorry, I leave. I'm gone.

2012
01:41:56,920 --> 01:42:00,719
Speaker 2: If the AC's done and it's gross and the are broken,

2013
01:42:00,800 --> 01:42:05,200
Speaker 2: I'm out. I am out. I spent the majority of

2014
01:42:05,240 --> 01:42:08,880
Speaker 2: the time with a perfumed tissue under my nose. Before

2015
01:42:08,920 --> 01:42:11,639
Speaker 2: our movie could begin, and Usher came in to announce

2016
01:42:12,120 --> 01:42:16,519
Speaker 2: they had not sold enough tickets to show the movie.

2017
01:42:17,120 --> 01:42:20,439
Speaker 2: What is this place? This is not a real movie theater.

2018
01:42:20,880 --> 01:42:23,200
Speaker 2: These are this is just a place where we're like, ah, yeah,

2019
01:42:23,200 --> 01:42:26,360
Speaker 2: we didn't. We didn't sell enough tickets to show the movie.

2020
01:42:26,400 --> 01:42:30,800
Speaker 2: We can't pay for our like weird like bootleg. We

2021
01:42:30,800 --> 01:42:33,800
Speaker 2: couldn't afford the bootleg blu ray disc we were gonna

2022
01:42:33,800 --> 01:42:37,719
Speaker 2: buy around the corner, so we can't show the movie.

2023
01:42:37,840 --> 01:42:42,280
Speaker 3: We can't show you Cosablanca. Sorry, yeah, go outside. Uh.

2024
01:42:42,400 --> 01:42:44,760
Speaker 2: They said we could either get a refund or go

2025
01:42:44,840 --> 01:42:48,920
Speaker 2: next door and watch a horror movie about snakes. I

2026
01:42:49,040 --> 01:42:52,280
Speaker 2: thought that was my salvation, but no, Jake insisted on

2027
01:42:52,400 --> 01:42:55,479
Speaker 2: going to see the other movie. What is up with

2028
01:42:55,600 --> 01:42:59,240
Speaker 2: Jake's infatuation with this terrible place? Brother?

2029
01:43:00,000 --> 01:43:02,080
Speaker 1: Ah, I got no words for Jake.

2030
01:43:03,320 --> 01:43:05,320
Speaker 2: We had to search for seats all over again, and

2031
01:43:05,360 --> 01:43:08,120
Speaker 2: this time both of our seats were ripped. The movie

2032
01:43:08,120 --> 01:43:11,679
Speaker 2: started and Jake steadily ate his popcorn. A few minutes later,

2033
01:43:11,720 --> 01:43:14,519
Speaker 2: the film broke. We waited in the heat for it

2034
01:43:14,520 --> 01:43:18,840
Speaker 2: to be repaired, and he finished his popcorn. A few

2035
01:43:18,880 --> 01:43:21,920
Speaker 2: minutes later, the film began rolling again and a woman

2036
01:43:22,040 --> 01:43:25,519
Speaker 2: started screaming, Oh my god, there's a fry rat in

2037
01:43:25,560 --> 01:43:28,000
Speaker 2: my popcorn. Oh my god, the New York City rat

2038
01:43:28,080 --> 01:43:32,240
Speaker 2: for real of fried So one of the employees got

2039
01:43:32,400 --> 01:43:37,920
Speaker 2: fried in the popcorn. Oh god, dude, you leave at

2040
01:43:37,920 --> 01:43:42,560
Speaker 2: this point, you leave, and also to get all the popcorn.

2041
01:43:42,600 --> 01:43:44,840
Speaker 2: You just ate the fried rat popcorn.

2042
01:43:44,920 --> 01:43:46,040
Speaker 1: You just inhaled.

2043
01:43:46,720 --> 01:43:48,679
Speaker 2: You gotta get that out of your body now, dude.

2044
01:43:48,800 --> 01:43:50,759
Speaker 1: Honestly, that's that's that's a hymn problem.

2045
01:43:50,880 --> 01:43:54,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, which is oh yeah, it's a hymn problem. He's

2046
01:43:54,200 --> 01:44:01,320
Speaker 2: the one who chowed down dude. Okay, So for popcorn,

2047
01:44:01,400 --> 01:44:07,200
Speaker 2: lady is flinging popcorn everywhere. And by the way, we

2048
01:44:07,240 --> 01:44:12,000
Speaker 2: don't want you flinging anywhere except right here. Every weekday

2049
01:44:12,240 --> 01:44:14,600
Speaker 2: when we go live on YouTube at three pm ps T,

2050
01:44:14,880 --> 01:44:16,720
Speaker 2: just tap our profile and you're in.

2051
01:44:17,880 --> 01:44:20,479
Speaker 1: So let's see how much how much we got left here.

2052
01:44:20,920 --> 01:44:22,640
Speaker 1: You can see a little bit.

2053
01:44:22,640 --> 01:44:26,040
Speaker 2: We got a little bit. Okay, let's let's just I

2054
01:44:26,040 --> 01:44:27,880
Speaker 2: feel like we talk discussion.

2055
01:44:28,000 --> 01:44:29,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's call me talk about this.

2056
01:44:29,479 --> 01:44:33,240
Speaker 2: Let's let's let's bring the levels down and let's talk

2057
01:44:33,240 --> 01:44:36,200
Speaker 2: about why is Jake such an idiot?

2058
01:44:37,040 --> 01:44:39,679
Speaker 1: Like the level of you need to run as fast

2059
01:44:39,720 --> 01:44:42,000
Speaker 1: as you can can. But I think OPI understands that.

2060
01:44:42,400 --> 01:44:46,280
Speaker 1: But like, start now, let's get ahead. Start now.

2061
01:44:46,800 --> 01:44:49,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna frame this in the most positive light possible.

2062
01:44:49,439 --> 01:44:50,639
Speaker 1: Please a challenge.

2063
01:44:50,720 --> 01:44:53,479
Speaker 2: I assume Jake, this is an Alabama So I assume

2064
01:44:53,520 --> 01:44:54,800
Speaker 2: Jake maybe an Alabama boy.

2065
01:44:55,040 --> 01:44:55,280
Speaker 3: Maybe.

2066
01:44:55,680 --> 01:44:58,000
Speaker 2: Now, There's one thing I know about people from the

2067
01:44:58,040 --> 01:45:02,559
Speaker 2: South is that they have a stick intuitiveness that cannot

2068
01:45:02,600 --> 01:45:05,240
Speaker 2: be overstated. And I think that Jake is a shining

2069
01:45:05,280 --> 01:45:08,000
Speaker 2: example of that. We said Nope, my plan was to

2070
01:45:08,040 --> 01:45:11,200
Speaker 2: see this movie. I bought the tickets and we're gonna

2071
01:45:11,200 --> 01:45:14,680
Speaker 2: see a freakin movie here, because that's just what I

2072
01:45:14,720 --> 01:45:17,960
Speaker 2: wanted to do. Even if the universe is screaming at

2073
01:45:17,960 --> 01:45:20,679
Speaker 2: the top of its lungs to me that I need

2074
01:45:20,720 --> 01:45:24,080
Speaker 2: to leave this place, I won't do it because I

2075
01:45:24,160 --> 01:45:27,559
Speaker 2: had an idea and I'm gonna do that idea, dude.

2076
01:45:28,479 --> 01:45:31,559
Speaker 2: And uh, you know that that can be a really

2077
01:45:31,600 --> 01:45:35,920
Speaker 2: positive personality trait in certain contexts, not in the context

2078
01:45:36,040 --> 01:45:39,960
Speaker 2: of going to the dilapidated black mold movie theater with

2079
01:45:40,080 --> 01:45:43,639
Speaker 2: the caveden ceiling and dust so thick that you could

2080
01:45:43,640 --> 01:45:45,160
Speaker 2: like build a structure out of it.

2081
01:45:45,840 --> 01:45:47,240
Speaker 3: Don't forget the fried rat.

2082
01:45:47,880 --> 01:45:51,040
Speaker 2: Oh I didn't even talk about the rat who fried

2083
01:45:51,120 --> 01:45:51,839
Speaker 2: a rat?

2084
01:45:52,120 --> 01:45:53,360
Speaker 3: Like, oh, how that get in there?

2085
01:45:54,320 --> 01:45:55,439
Speaker 2: What are we talking about?

2086
01:45:55,600 --> 01:45:56,639
Speaker 3: I wanted to go for a swim.

2087
01:45:57,360 --> 01:45:59,160
Speaker 1: I thought Terry was just on his lunch break.

2088
01:45:59,240 --> 01:46:01,799
Speaker 2: Turns out he got fried in the popcorn machine because

2089
01:46:01,880 --> 01:46:04,040
Speaker 2: this place is ran by Rodents.

2090
01:46:05,920 --> 01:46:10,160
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, we're caught up. We're caught up. We're

2091
01:46:10,160 --> 01:46:12,559
Speaker 1: caught Let's see where it goes.

2092
01:46:12,680 --> 01:46:15,600
Speaker 2: I mean, I think he's gonna get violently ill to

2093
01:46:15,640 --> 01:46:20,000
Speaker 2: the point of maybe hospitalization. But let's see, let's see it,

2094
01:46:20,040 --> 01:46:23,559
Speaker 2: let's see it. So this is right after the rat

2095
01:46:23,600 --> 01:46:28,360
Speaker 2: popcorn incident, Jake turned a sickly shade of green and

2096
01:46:28,400 --> 01:46:29,639
Speaker 2: made a break for the bathroom.

2097
01:46:29,720 --> 01:46:34,280
Speaker 10: Dude, yo, wow, y'all are on fire today. Y'all are

2098
01:46:34,320 --> 01:46:35,320
Speaker 10: on fire today.

2099
01:46:35,800 --> 01:46:38,720
Speaker 2: Let's see. M mm hmm. That's just what you do

2100
01:46:38,760 --> 01:46:42,320
Speaker 2: when you realize you've been eating fried rat popcorn. Yep uh.

2101
01:46:42,600 --> 01:46:45,960
Speaker 2: I watched most of the movie before he returned. When

2102
01:46:46,040 --> 01:46:48,840
Speaker 2: Jake finally made it back, he was shaking, pale and

2103
01:46:48,880 --> 01:46:52,400
Speaker 2: still had a green tinge around his mouth. I tried

2104
01:46:52,400 --> 01:46:54,400
Speaker 2: to ask if he was all right, but he cut

2105
01:46:54,479 --> 01:47:02,280
Speaker 2: me off. Not one word, Not one dude, Jake bellowed

2106
01:47:02,320 --> 01:47:06,160
Speaker 2: at my concern. I don't know where it went, because

2107
01:47:06,200 --> 01:47:09,720
Speaker 2: I just started laughing and laughing. I couldn't stop. I

2108
01:47:09,720 --> 01:47:12,920
Speaker 2: think it was just his reaction. When he returned, Jake

2109
01:47:13,080 --> 01:47:15,400
Speaker 2: called me an a hole and powdered. For the rest

2110
01:47:15,439 --> 01:47:18,120
Speaker 2: of the movie. Our ride home was silent, except for

2111
01:47:18,160 --> 01:47:23,800
Speaker 2: a few rapidly smothered giggles every time he glared at me. No,

2112
01:47:24,120 --> 01:47:26,320
Speaker 2: if anyone's the a hole, it's Jake.

2113
01:47:26,800 --> 01:47:27,240
Speaker 3: Dude.

2114
01:47:28,000 --> 01:47:31,040
Speaker 2: Of course, I had to tell him he wouldn't have

2115
01:47:31,120 --> 01:47:34,880
Speaker 2: gotten popcorn if he had just listened to me, so

2116
01:47:35,000 --> 01:47:38,720
Speaker 2: he may have been right. I probably should have kept

2117
01:47:38,760 --> 01:47:45,360
Speaker 2: my mouth shut. Am I the a hole? I think? Look, look, Noah,

2118
01:47:45,400 --> 01:47:48,960
Speaker 2: you're not the a hole. If anything you tried, you

2119
01:47:49,120 --> 01:47:52,920
Speaker 2: tried harder than most people would try to have Jake

2120
01:47:53,000 --> 01:47:56,519
Speaker 2: see the light of Hey, the floor makes noise when

2121
01:47:56,560 --> 01:47:59,400
Speaker 2: we walk on it. Yeah, the popcorn machine, you can't

2122
01:47:59,400 --> 01:48:01,880
Speaker 2: even see what Maybe if they cleaned it, they would

2123
01:48:01,920 --> 01:48:05,000
Speaker 2: have noticed there was a rat in the popcorn machine. Yeah,

2124
01:48:05,040 --> 01:48:09,400
Speaker 2: the ceiling is caving in, the seats are ruined. Let's

2125
01:48:09,439 --> 01:48:12,639
Speaker 2: go do anything else anywhere else. I don't even care

2126
01:48:12,680 --> 01:48:17,960
Speaker 2: what it is. Let's go look at the cars driving by,

2127
01:48:18,080 --> 01:48:21,320
Speaker 2: because it'll be better than sitting in this death trap

2128
01:48:21,439 --> 01:48:24,879
Speaker 2: movie theater. And he said no, And what's so insane

2129
01:48:24,880 --> 01:48:25,080
Speaker 2: to me?

2130
01:48:25,200 --> 01:48:28,240
Speaker 1: You could have had a nice like park, you know,

2131
01:48:28,280 --> 01:48:30,840
Speaker 1: go to a park like walk around. You could have

2132
01:48:31,200 --> 01:48:33,760
Speaker 1: did a at home movie and just just spend that

2133
01:48:33,880 --> 01:48:37,280
Speaker 1: money on save money and just get some popcorn and

2134
01:48:37,320 --> 01:48:40,759
Speaker 1: some snacks out at the grocery store. Yet you insist

2135
01:48:40,920 --> 01:48:45,720
Speaker 1: on going to this like living I feel like they

2136
01:48:45,760 --> 01:48:48,080
Speaker 1: were like inside of a rat or something like that.

2137
01:48:48,120 --> 01:48:51,600
Speaker 1: It was like the the the the rotted intestines of

2138
01:48:52,000 --> 01:48:56,040
Speaker 1: a of a movie rat creature that could show show

2139
01:48:56,520 --> 01:48:57,919
Speaker 1: films in its intestine.

2140
01:48:57,960 --> 01:49:02,599
Speaker 2: They only play flushed away to a Yes, exactly, yeah,

2141
01:49:02,640 --> 01:49:05,439
Speaker 2: And I have to I have to point something out here,

2142
01:49:05,520 --> 01:49:08,360
Speaker 2: of course. Oh not the a hole, ye, not the

2143
01:49:08,360 --> 01:49:11,639
Speaker 2: a hole hole. And that was a sitcom esque funny

2144
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Speaker 2: thing that he leaves and comes back and he goes

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01:49:14,040 --> 01:49:15,320
Speaker 2: don't even not one word.

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Speaker 1: That's hilarious.

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01:49:17,080 --> 01:49:20,639
Speaker 2: That's hilarious. That's super funny. But somebody said in the comments,

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01:49:20,640 --> 01:49:21,720
Speaker 2: and you don't have to go up and find it.

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01:49:21,760 --> 01:49:25,200
Speaker 2: But somebody asked, and you're like, that happened, and they

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01:49:25,479 --> 01:49:28,960
Speaker 2: he stayed after like throwing up, And I have my

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01:49:29,000 --> 01:49:32,439
Speaker 2: own okay story time about that, because I gotta say

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01:49:32,479 --> 01:49:34,760
Speaker 2: it is crazy for him to stay after throwing up

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01:49:34,760 --> 01:49:36,800
Speaker 2: at the movie theater, because I threw up at the

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Speaker 2: movie theater.

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Speaker 1: And I had to go home. Were you on a date?

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01:49:41,080 --> 01:49:44,479
Speaker 2: I was not. No, I was seeing uh Dune two

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01:49:44,560 --> 01:49:47,439
Speaker 2: for the fourth time. I was gonna say no, So

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01:49:48,160 --> 01:49:53,040
Speaker 2: the opposite of a yeah, not a date. I was

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01:49:53,080 --> 01:49:55,519
Speaker 2: with friends, but I was. I was not on a date.

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Speaker 3: And the Dune popcord bucket, Yeah, yes.

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01:49:59,240 --> 01:50:04,000
Speaker 2: It was being the du popcorn bucket. We're having a date. Yeah,

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01:50:04,040 --> 01:50:07,000
Speaker 2: for reasons I won't get into. I ended up violently

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01:50:07,080 --> 01:50:10,880
Speaker 2: throwing up, and I told myself at the end of

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01:50:10,920 --> 01:50:13,800
Speaker 2: the episode, I was like, all right, okay, I'm back.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna sit down. And then I sat down and

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01:50:16,240 --> 01:50:20,559
Speaker 2: I could just still. I couldn't shake that. No, I

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01:50:20,640 --> 01:50:23,479
Speaker 2: just threw up. I gotta go home. I threw up.

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01:50:23,560 --> 01:50:24,559
Speaker 2: I gotta go home now.

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01:50:24,720 --> 01:50:27,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, when it's your fourth time, it's like, I can

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Speaker 1: sit this one out.

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01:50:28,040 --> 01:50:31,160
Speaker 2: I threw up. I gotta go home. It wasn't even

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01:50:31,160 --> 01:50:33,680
Speaker 2: about I wanted to stay. Yeah, yeah, but it was

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01:50:33,680 --> 01:50:37,360
Speaker 2: more just like I can still. Like it's I gotta

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01:50:37,600 --> 01:50:39,920
Speaker 2: I gotta take a shower, dude, I gotta like, I

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01:50:39,960 --> 01:50:42,679
Speaker 2: gotta get this out of me, off of me. Yeah,

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01:50:42,800 --> 01:50:46,080
Speaker 2: I gotta forget this happened. And I was very very

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01:50:47,160 --> 01:50:51,400
Speaker 2: concentrated on it sitting down in that seat. Uh anyway, Yeah,

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01:50:51,600 --> 01:50:53,680
Speaker 2: so you leave the movie after you throw leave you

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01:50:53,680 --> 01:50:56,200
Speaker 2: should have left. If you eat rat popcorn, you go home.

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01:50:56,960 --> 01:50:59,400
Speaker 2: You don't stay at the place that gave you rat pop.

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01:50:59,280 --> 01:51:01,360
Speaker 1: There's nothing more you can do. You have to leave.

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01:51:01,640 --> 01:51:04,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, get the Honestly, this guy's so stubborn. I might

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01:51:04,520 --> 01:51:06,479
Speaker 2: that that's probably a bit of a red flag.

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01:51:07,439 --> 01:51:09,519
Speaker 1: Yeah we should. We should break up with him. Yeah,

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01:51:10,080 --> 01:51:12,280
Speaker 1: this is it's it's too he's gonna literally put you

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01:51:12,320 --> 01:51:17,519
Speaker 1: in danger. Yeah he did in danger. Physical safety is

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01:51:17,960 --> 01:51:21,800
Speaker 1: currently at a great risk. Yeah yeah so wow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah his story, Uh, his ego made him stay.

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01:51:26,240 --> 01:51:29,960
Speaker 2: The ego stubbornness, you want to call it.

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01:51:29,960 --> 01:51:33,559
Speaker 1: Grossest, like like location story we've ever had on the show.

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01:51:33,880 --> 01:51:35,439
Speaker 2: I would fried rat popcorn.

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01:51:36,000 --> 01:51:37,040
Speaker 1: I never heard of that before.

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01:51:37,439 --> 01:51:40,280
Speaker 2: I'm on down to the Alabama ninety nine cent dilapidated,

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01:51:40,320 --> 01:51:41,280
Speaker 2: caved in movie theater.

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01:51:41,320 --> 01:51:44,519
Speaker 1: We got rat popcorn. Uh no, thank you?

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01:51:44,600 --> 01:51:45,080
Speaker 2: Are you sure?

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01:51:45,479 --> 01:51:46,519
Speaker 1: Tickets for real reason?

2198
01:51:48,360 --> 01:51:49,320
Speaker 3: Beyond reasonable?

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01:51:50,560 --> 01:51:53,439
Speaker 1: Now you're going, we'll pay you to go there. Oh

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01:51:53,520 --> 01:51:56,400
Speaker 1: my god, but that's on that story. Let's let's hit

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01:51:56,479 --> 01:51:58,839
Speaker 1: some Dakota. Can you need some donuts?

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01:51:59,000 --> 01:52:01,880
Speaker 2: Let's get some donut. And also, we are only what

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01:52:02,520 --> 01:52:06,320
Speaker 2: sixty five likes away from a wheelspo and I need

2204
01:52:06,320 --> 01:52:09,080
Speaker 2: to spin that wheel because I like the way it sounds.

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01:52:09,840 --> 01:52:12,719
Speaker 2: H thank you Pinky to Slayer for the five dollars.

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01:52:13,000 --> 01:52:15,880
Speaker 2: Dakota is giving me life today. Those dimples that smile,

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01:52:16,000 --> 01:52:21,519
Speaker 2: the VIBESO chef's kiss. Oh thanks, thanks Pinky to Slayer

2208
01:52:22,640 --> 01:52:24,840
Speaker 2: uh and wes Lean, thanks for the five bucks. Hi

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01:52:25,000 --> 01:52:28,559
Speaker 2: everyone sending love to anyone feeling the election scaries today.

2210
01:52:28,840 --> 01:52:31,519
Speaker 2: Seeing my faves on stream eases the anxiety. Thank you,

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01:52:31,760 --> 01:52:36,120
Speaker 2: Love lies and hit with a little emoji, a little

2212
01:52:36,680 --> 01:52:40,880
Speaker 2: emoji E thank you, wes Lean. There is no election

2213
01:52:40,960 --> 01:52:45,360
Speaker 2: at the Okay Storytime podcast stream. It's just Tuesday here.

2214
01:52:45,479 --> 01:52:48,799
Speaker 2: That's right, it's just Tuesday's Tuesday. It's just Tuesday. Lucy

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01:52:48,800 --> 01:52:51,040
Speaker 2: fort ninety one, thanks for the five bucks. I'm stressing

2216
01:52:51,080 --> 01:52:53,240
Speaker 2: to hear about my blood test result after my first

2217
01:52:53,280 --> 01:52:55,640
Speaker 2: round of chemo. You guys are helping me cope. You

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01:52:55,720 --> 01:52:57,840
Speaker 2: got it, Lucy, Lucy, you got it. You're gonna have

2219
01:52:57,920 --> 01:52:59,960
Speaker 2: great numbers on that first blood test.

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01:53:00,240 --> 01:53:03,160
Speaker 1: Chat I want to see. I want to see so

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01:53:03,280 --> 01:53:05,920
Speaker 1: many hearts that my head is spinning. I want to

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01:53:05,920 --> 01:53:09,160
Speaker 1: see the chat absolute tsunami.

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01:53:09,240 --> 01:53:11,160
Speaker 2: I want to see it's spin. I want to see

2224
01:53:11,160 --> 01:53:15,559
Speaker 2: it's spin. Absolute for shout out to Lucy. You got this,

2225
01:53:15,560 --> 01:53:17,920
Speaker 2: say we're here. What the time my mom went through

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01:53:18,400 --> 01:53:21,680
Speaker 2: breast cancer and it was real scary and she crushed it.

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01:53:21,680 --> 01:53:24,000
Speaker 1: And you're gonna crush it too, Lucy. That's what I'm

2228
01:53:24,000 --> 01:53:27,240
Speaker 1: talking about. That's what I'm talking about we read that one.

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01:53:27,080 --> 01:53:30,240
Speaker 2: So oh we got oh. Violet Sky, thank you for

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01:53:30,280 --> 01:53:32,519
Speaker 2: the ten dollars. Listened on Spotify for a while, but

2231
01:53:32,520 --> 01:53:34,800
Speaker 2: the first time I joined a stream, y'all look very

2232
01:53:34,800 --> 01:53:38,599
Speaker 2: different than I thought in a good way. You saved

2233
01:53:38,600 --> 01:53:41,639
Speaker 2: yourself by saying in a good way, I love y'all,

2234
01:53:41,640 --> 01:53:44,080
Speaker 2: though I can't sleep without the podcast on.

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01:53:44,120 --> 01:53:45,920
Speaker 1: What We Love you. Violetce Guy, thank you for the

2236
01:53:46,479 --> 01:53:47,719
Speaker 1: thanks for the kind words.

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01:53:48,320 --> 01:53:50,000
Speaker 3: All right, let's get to this one.

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01:53:50,320 --> 01:53:50,960
Speaker 1: Let's do it.

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01:53:51,160 --> 01:53:53,760
Speaker 2: Jessica Chavez, thank you for the nine dollars, for the

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Speaker 2: five dollars, and for being an okay storytime member. Alyssa Munday,

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01:53:59,760 --> 01:54:01,920
Speaker 2: thank you for the two dollars. Like the stream guys,

2242
01:54:02,000 --> 01:54:03,960
Speaker 2: and is that oh wait there we yeah, we're got up.

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01:54:03,960 --> 01:54:04,479
Speaker 2: We're got up.

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01:54:05,000 --> 01:54:06,920
Speaker 3: Heart, We're getting so many hearts, John.

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01:54:08,280 --> 01:54:11,320
Speaker 2: Look at all those hearts. That's my head spinning.

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01:54:12,960 --> 01:54:18,600
Speaker 1: All right, already ready for this next Scarby, I'm ready,

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01:54:19,080 --> 01:54:20,639
Speaker 1: I'm ready, ready.

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01:54:20,720 --> 01:54:20,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:54:21,000 --> 01:54:24,839
Speaker 1: My girlfriend can't stop gambling. Oh goodness, she's.

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01:54:24,680 --> 01:54:25,679
Speaker 2: A gambling lady.

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01:54:26,479 --> 01:54:31,080
Speaker 1: She's a gambling gal with my heart. Hey, sure we

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01:54:31,160 --> 01:54:34,040
Speaker 1: are good, all right, let's do it. My girlfriend can't

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01:54:34,040 --> 01:54:37,360
Speaker 1: stop gambling. She's thirty two thousand dollars in debt and

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01:54:37,440 --> 01:54:40,200
Speaker 1: it's getting worse. That's light work. Don't stop here, we

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01:54:40,240 --> 01:54:43,760
Speaker 1: go commit. I'm thirty five and my girlfriend is thirty.

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01:54:43,960 --> 01:54:46,520
Speaker 1: We moved in together two years ago. We decided to

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01:54:46,520 --> 01:54:50,040
Speaker 1: combine our incomes, foreshadowing as we are in a serious

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01:54:50,080 --> 01:54:53,640
Speaker 1: relationship and considering marriage, but wanted to know each other

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01:54:53,800 --> 01:54:56,560
Speaker 1: in our natural environment first. By the way, this comes

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01:54:56,560 --> 01:54:57,840
Speaker 1: from Difficult Meat two o.

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01:54:57,920 --> 01:55:00,560
Speaker 2: Four on the r slash Okay storytimes so it so.

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01:55:01,040 --> 01:55:03,000
Speaker 1: After a year of living together, she told me that

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01:55:03,040 --> 01:55:06,000
Speaker 1: she had thirty two thousand dollars of debt and explained

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01:55:06,040 --> 01:55:09,360
Speaker 1: how her mother had pawned some fairly air looms due

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01:55:09,360 --> 01:55:14,000
Speaker 1: to a family emergency. Okay, okay, that's just what happens.

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01:55:14,040 --> 01:55:15,080
Speaker 1: Sometimes that's what happened.

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01:55:15,120 --> 01:55:15,600
Speaker 2: Sometimes.

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01:55:15,800 --> 01:55:17,800
Speaker 1: She took out a loan to help her mother recover

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01:55:17,920 --> 01:55:21,760
Speaker 1: the jewelry, but never fully recovered financially. She didn't mention

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01:55:21,800 --> 01:55:24,200
Speaker 1: it earlier because she was afraid I wouldn't move in

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01:55:24,240 --> 01:55:26,880
Speaker 1: with her and combine finances without knowing about it. I

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01:55:26,880 --> 01:55:30,400
Speaker 1: will say super quick, just so far. That's that's more

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01:55:30,440 --> 01:55:33,080
Speaker 1: than fun, you know, like like, yeah, it's tough. You know,

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01:55:33,200 --> 01:55:34,640
Speaker 1: thirty two thousand isn't nothing, but.

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01:55:34,640 --> 01:55:40,280
Speaker 2: You know she's doing it for for mom. Seems relatively reasonable,

2276
01:55:40,440 --> 01:55:41,480
Speaker 2: but hope.

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01:55:41,480 --> 01:55:44,280
Speaker 1: He goes on to say, if I had known, I

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01:55:44,320 --> 01:55:47,720
Speaker 1: wouldn't have until she paid off her debt. Interesting chat,

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01:55:48,000 --> 01:55:51,200
Speaker 1: let's talk about that. She also admitted that during the

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01:55:51,240 --> 01:55:54,360
Speaker 1: time we lived together, she hadn't made any payments as

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01:55:54,400 --> 01:55:57,320
Speaker 1: she didn't want me to notice she was taking money.

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01:55:57,920 --> 01:56:01,280
Speaker 1: Her credit card had accrued significant pay payments and interest.

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01:56:01,600 --> 01:56:03,600
Speaker 1: I felt really bad about this and thanked her for

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01:56:03,600 --> 01:56:06,400
Speaker 1: trusting me. Reassured her that we are a team and.

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01:56:06,320 --> 01:56:07,960
Speaker 2: Told her that we would solve this together.

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01:56:08,960 --> 01:56:11,560
Speaker 1: So I took out a loan to pay off her

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01:56:11,600 --> 01:56:13,600
Speaker 1: debt and secure more manageable payments.

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01:56:14,080 --> 01:56:15,680
Speaker 3: Wow, that's it's.

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01:56:15,520 --> 01:56:17,880
Speaker 2: A big move. Big move. I don't know, it's you know,

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01:56:17,920 --> 01:56:19,720
Speaker 2: it's really fishy to me. It's like I didn't want

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01:56:19,720 --> 01:56:24,040
Speaker 2: you to know, so I wasn't paying my bills. It's like, yeah,

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01:56:24,080 --> 01:56:27,120
Speaker 2: you know, your bills got bigger, right, Yeah, they don't

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01:56:27,160 --> 01:56:27,920
Speaker 2: stop coming.

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01:56:28,640 --> 01:56:31,040
Speaker 1: She told me she didn't qualify for any other loans

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01:56:31,080 --> 01:56:32,600
Speaker 1: as her income isn't that great.

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01:56:32,960 --> 01:56:34,160
Speaker 2: We continued living.

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01:56:33,920 --> 01:56:37,760
Speaker 1: As usual, making more manageable payments in November, we moved

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01:56:37,800 --> 01:56:43,440
Speaker 1: into a bigger and more expensive house. Okay, we wanted

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01:56:45,000 --> 01:56:48,360
Speaker 1: reserving judgment for now. We wanted to live more comfortably

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01:56:48,480 --> 01:56:53,320
Speaker 1: and considering buying. Uh and we're considering buying my dream dog,

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01:56:53,440 --> 01:56:55,880
Speaker 1: a Great Dane Okay.

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Speaker 3: During this.

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01:56:58,520 --> 01:57:01,160
Speaker 1: During this time, she had mentioned there had been a

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01:57:01,200 --> 01:57:05,400
Speaker 1: mistake with her payment and accounting paid someone else instead

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01:57:05,400 --> 01:57:08,640
Speaker 1: of her. One of her coworkers has the same name.

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01:57:09,400 --> 01:57:11,840
Speaker 1: At the time, I didn't pay much attention to it,

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01:57:11,880 --> 01:57:15,320
Speaker 1: as she mentioned it wouldn't be fixed. As as she

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01:57:15,440 --> 01:57:19,480
Speaker 1: mentioned it would be fixed in the following weeks. There

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01:57:19,520 --> 01:57:24,160
Speaker 1: are so many red flags going up. This is crazy.

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01:57:25,320 --> 01:57:35,680
Speaker 1: In our second week, she told me she's pregnant. Oh okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

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01:57:36,040 --> 01:57:38,480
Speaker 2: That's why they call it okay, story time. Okay. All

2312
01:57:38,520 --> 01:57:40,480
Speaker 2: we got to say is okay.

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01:57:40,600 --> 01:57:44,320
Speaker 1: It's I'm having a hard time containing it all offin it. Okay, guys,

2314
01:57:44,320 --> 01:57:45,840
Speaker 1: but I'm trying so hard.

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01:57:46,360 --> 01:57:47,160
Speaker 2: I was over the moon.

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01:57:48,000 --> 01:57:53,320
Speaker 1: We're happy, hey, okay, okay, okay, okay, But.

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01:57:53,360 --> 01:57:57,960
Speaker 2: She was sad. What okay, okay, okay, not okay.

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01:57:58,640 --> 01:58:02,040
Speaker 1: She confessed to me that she had a gambling addiction

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01:58:02,520 --> 01:58:06,200
Speaker 1: and had used my emergency credit card, which I never

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01:58:06,400 --> 01:58:10,880
Speaker 1: used or checked the balance of to gamble, and she

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01:58:11,080 --> 01:58:13,840
Speaker 1: had other loans as well.

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01:58:14,960 --> 01:58:16,720
Speaker 3: Not okay, so not all.

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01:58:16,560 --> 01:58:19,200
Speaker 2: Of the loans were for gambling from the very beginning.

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01:58:19,520 --> 01:58:23,040
Speaker 2: That's we don't know that for sure. I'm gonna go

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01:58:23,080 --> 01:58:24,560
Speaker 2: out and say that that's what's happening.

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01:58:24,560 --> 01:58:26,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna, we're gonna guess. We're gonna guess.

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01:58:26,040 --> 01:58:27,680
Speaker 3: Do you know if there's an update, ke on, I'll

2328
01:58:27,760 --> 01:58:28,400
Speaker 3: check on it right now.

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01:58:28,440 --> 01:58:28,960
Speaker 2: We're gonna check.

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01:58:29,000 --> 01:58:34,160
Speaker 1: We're gonna check now. It turned out that she had

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01:58:34,400 --> 01:58:39,879
Speaker 1: maxed out my card and the total debts was about

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01:58:39,920 --> 01:58:42,480
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollars.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know, maybe be better at gambling if you're

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01:58:46,200 --> 01:58:52,240
Speaker 2: gonna do that. I don't know, man, whoa I'm I'm

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01:58:53,320 --> 01:58:54,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go. Yeah.

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01:58:54,680 --> 01:58:56,200
Speaker 1: Let's take a quick pause right here. Let's take a

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01:58:56,240 --> 01:59:05,000
Speaker 1: quick pause right here. So do Dakota, do we basically

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01:59:05,040 --> 01:59:07,880
Speaker 1: break up? Decide at least in our minds to break

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01:59:07,960 --> 01:59:09,840
Speaker 1: up now or not? I want to pull break up

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01:59:09,880 --> 01:59:14,160
Speaker 1: or nah, yes, we're gonna pull. Yeah, the people vote

2341
01:59:14,400 --> 01:59:17,720
Speaker 1: in the stream. But Dakota, what do you feel like?

2342
01:59:18,480 --> 01:59:19,120
Speaker 3: Just break up or not?

2343
01:59:19,160 --> 01:59:19,760
Speaker 2: Break up? Break up?

2344
01:59:19,800 --> 01:59:21,520
Speaker 1: A break up or not break up, breakup.

2345
01:59:21,640 --> 01:59:22,360
Speaker 2: The pregnancy.

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01:59:24,760 --> 01:59:26,720
Speaker 1: I literally forgot about the pregnancy.

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01:59:26,920 --> 01:59:29,560
Speaker 2: I literally forgot about the pregnancy. Oh god, what do

2348
01:59:29,560 --> 01:59:31,960
Speaker 2: we think? Are we gonna? Clearly she has a problem.

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01:59:32,240 --> 01:59:34,200
Speaker 2: She has a problem. Yeah, and she's gotten to the

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01:59:34,240 --> 01:59:39,560
Speaker 2: point where now she's at least confided in Well, no, really,

2351
01:59:39,600 --> 01:59:42,640
Speaker 2: she's not confiding. She's she's gonna get caught. She she

2352
01:59:42,760 --> 01:59:44,840
Speaker 2: ran up one hundred thousand dollars in debt and is

2353
01:59:44,840 --> 01:59:47,480
Speaker 2: gonna is trying to get in front of it. She

2354
01:59:47,520 --> 01:59:49,240
Speaker 2: clearly needs a lot of help. I don't think i'd

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01:59:49,280 --> 01:59:51,520
Speaker 2: ever be able to trust anybody who who did this

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01:59:51,560 --> 01:59:55,680
Speaker 2: to me. Yeah, so I would say, we're not together,

2357
01:59:55,840 --> 02:00:01,000
Speaker 2: we're gonna co parent, you need help. Yeah, I'm certainly

2358
02:00:01,760 --> 02:00:04,120
Speaker 2: not going to be around when you get it, because

2359
02:00:04,480 --> 02:00:08,240
Speaker 2: you just ruined my life or could could be ruining

2360
02:00:08,240 --> 02:00:08,640
Speaker 2: my life.

2361
02:00:08,720 --> 02:00:10,720
Speaker 1: Yes, our life and our child's life.

2362
02:00:10,800 --> 02:00:14,680
Speaker 2: Yes. So I don't want anything to do with you regardless.

2363
02:00:14,880 --> 02:00:15,600
Speaker 1: You have a problem.

2364
02:00:16,000 --> 02:00:17,880
Speaker 2: You need to get it addressed, you need to fix it,

2365
02:00:19,160 --> 02:00:21,800
Speaker 2: and then maybe we can go back and talk about that.

2366
02:00:22,600 --> 02:00:26,040
Speaker 1: Yeaybe, maybe we can circle back after like like you

2367
02:00:26,240 --> 02:00:29,440
Speaker 1: legitimately go to rehab, like prove that you've turned your

2368
02:00:29,480 --> 02:00:31,800
Speaker 1: life learned, because it's so much trust is broken right now.

2369
02:00:31,920 --> 02:00:35,760
Speaker 1: And to Sofia Collen's comment, call the cops, she's literally

2370
02:00:35,880 --> 02:00:39,040
Speaker 1: stolen from you. And I would try to, I don't know,

2371
02:00:39,120 --> 02:00:41,960
Speaker 1: like call the credit card company, see if you can,

2372
02:00:42,320 --> 02:00:45,480
Speaker 1: like I don't know what, try to figure out something.

2373
02:00:45,480 --> 02:00:48,520
Speaker 1: I mean, she's literally got a gambling addiction, so I

2374
02:00:48,560 --> 02:00:50,720
Speaker 1: don't know what, but like try to figure out what

2375
02:00:51,200 --> 02:00:51,920
Speaker 1: names on the card.

2376
02:00:52,520 --> 02:00:55,320
Speaker 2: I figure. I wonder if because it's an emergency card,

2377
02:00:55,680 --> 02:00:57,920
Speaker 2: I wonder if she had authorization on it.

2378
02:00:59,840 --> 02:01:03,600
Speaker 1: I think, and it could be wrong. My interpretation of

2379
02:01:03,640 --> 02:01:08,080
Speaker 1: the situation was that Op has his own emergency card

2380
02:01:08,160 --> 02:01:12,120
Speaker 1: in his name, but you know, he has his wallet.

2381
02:01:12,120 --> 02:01:14,280
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe she has access to it for for for

2382
02:01:14,360 --> 02:01:17,480
Speaker 1: like emergencies, so she just used his card that she

2383
02:01:17,720 --> 02:01:21,440
Speaker 1: was not authorized on to your point, if she is authorized,

2384
02:01:21,440 --> 02:01:23,800
Speaker 1: that probably makes it a lot harder. But if she's

2385
02:01:24,000 --> 02:01:28,040
Speaker 1: not authorized, you could you might be able to either

2386
02:01:28,080 --> 02:01:30,360
Speaker 1: the credit card refunding it or who knows.

2387
02:01:30,520 --> 02:01:33,600
Speaker 2: It's such a gross situation, so then you have to

2388
02:01:33,840 --> 02:01:37,600
Speaker 2: sue your daughter, the mother of your child child, for

2389
02:01:38,520 --> 02:01:43,520
Speaker 2: like very criminal amounts of fraud. Oh yes, like oh, yes,

2390
02:01:43,600 --> 02:01:46,800
Speaker 2: going to jail for a long, long time amount of frauds.

2391
02:01:46,920 --> 02:01:48,400
Speaker 3: A lot of a lot of people are saying do

2392
02:01:48,440 --> 02:01:49,680
Speaker 3: a DNA test as well.

2393
02:01:49,920 --> 02:01:53,720
Speaker 1: Ooh that part, yeah, I think I think I think

2394
02:01:53,760 --> 02:01:56,360
Speaker 1: you should do that. We don't know how much of

2395
02:01:56,400 --> 02:02:01,400
Speaker 1: the hundred k was spent on this credit card yet, but.

2396
02:02:03,320 --> 02:02:04,320
Speaker 2: Absolutely crazy.

2397
02:02:04,800 --> 02:02:12,280
Speaker 1: Yeah uh sonia witzak cops, lawyer up, paternity tests, split like,

2398
02:02:12,600 --> 02:02:15,200
Speaker 1: all of that, all of that figure out co parenting

2399
02:02:15,240 --> 02:02:16,640
Speaker 1: long term.

2400
02:02:16,160 --> 02:02:21,640
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, clearly no longer ever allowed near my finances

2401
02:02:22,080 --> 02:02:24,320
Speaker 2: even when we if we do theoretically get back together,

2402
02:02:24,960 --> 02:02:27,960
Speaker 2: when you have addressed your addiction, yeah, that's gone.

2403
02:02:27,760 --> 02:02:31,560
Speaker 1: Forever, dude, Just okay, are you ready to get back

2404
02:02:31,600 --> 02:02:32,440
Speaker 1: to this story here?

2405
02:02:32,520 --> 02:02:34,640
Speaker 3: I keep doing it. I'll okay, looking for an update.

2406
02:02:34,680 --> 02:02:36,920
Speaker 3: I don't think i'll find one, but I'll keep looking, okay,

2407
02:02:37,360 --> 02:02:38,080
Speaker 3: which is fine.

2408
02:02:38,400 --> 02:02:40,120
Speaker 1: And it looks like ninety eight percent of people are

2409
02:02:40,160 --> 02:02:41,560
Speaker 1: saying breakup one percent?

2410
02:02:41,560 --> 02:02:47,360
Speaker 2: Who are you who? It's the first? And gambling it's yeah, yeah,

2411
02:02:47,480 --> 02:02:48,240
Speaker 2: it's so easy.

2412
02:02:48,080 --> 02:02:48,720
Speaker 3: Off for all I got.

2413
02:02:48,800 --> 02:02:52,400
Speaker 1: So she said that she didn't want to have a baby.

2414
02:02:52,480 --> 02:02:53,280
Speaker 1: We couldn't afford.

2415
02:02:53,800 --> 02:02:54,680
Speaker 2: I was crushed.

2416
02:02:55,040 --> 02:02:58,160
Speaker 1: I was expecting a baby, but definitely wanted to start

2417
02:02:58,160 --> 02:03:00,640
Speaker 1: a family with or. I wasn't expecting a baby, but

2418
02:03:00,680 --> 02:03:02,360
Speaker 1: definitely wanted to start a family.

2419
02:03:02,120 --> 02:03:05,360
Speaker 2: With her, And at first the baby seemed like a blessing.

2420
02:03:05,680 --> 02:03:09,720
Speaker 1: Oh However, upon learning about the debt, I realized that

2421
02:03:09,800 --> 02:03:12,320
Speaker 1: we couldn't afford a baby. We decided to terminate the

2422
02:03:12,360 --> 02:03:16,040
Speaker 1: pregnancy in eight weeks because of her gambling problem problems

2423
02:03:16,080 --> 02:03:18,760
Speaker 1: and the debts, and then again just the complexity of

2424
02:03:18,800 --> 02:03:22,200
Speaker 1: like there's just there's just so many layers of you

2425
02:03:22,200 --> 02:03:25,320
Speaker 1: know that that would would be uh, there would be

2426
02:03:25,360 --> 02:03:27,520
Speaker 1: a lot of tough stuff to go through going through that.

2427
02:03:29,040 --> 02:03:30,960
Speaker 1: The next couple of months were a struggle with the

2428
02:03:31,040 --> 02:03:33,200
Speaker 1: trust I had in my partner and the debt I

2429
02:03:33,280 --> 02:03:35,800
Speaker 1: had incurred, and I.

2430
02:03:35,560 --> 02:03:38,920
Speaker 2: Entered into survival mode. I'm not a religious man, but

2431
02:03:39,000 --> 02:03:40,720
Speaker 2: I was raised Catholic, so we.

2432
02:03:40,680 --> 02:03:45,080
Speaker 1: Turned to God for strengths. Big Guy upstairs help me out.

2433
02:03:45,560 --> 02:03:49,040
Speaker 1: During this time, she promised me our little bee, oh.

2434
02:03:49,000 --> 02:03:51,560
Speaker 2: That baby's nickname. Oh, I wouldn't hell man, that's tough.

2435
02:03:52,440 --> 02:03:54,000
Speaker 2: That she would quit gambling.

2436
02:03:54,040 --> 02:03:59,600
Speaker 1: Oh wait, that she would quit gambling because she realized

2437
02:03:59,640 --> 02:04:02,400
Speaker 1: it had taken away both her and my happiness. And

2438
02:04:02,440 --> 02:04:05,960
Speaker 1: we paid the gambling price with our own child. That

2439
02:04:06,080 --> 02:04:07,680
Speaker 1: is the most tragic way to look at it.

2440
02:04:07,720 --> 02:04:08,040
Speaker 2: My God.

2441
02:04:08,440 --> 02:04:11,520
Speaker 1: She said she was only getting help, that she just

2442
02:04:11,640 --> 02:04:15,120
Speaker 1: joined a group that helped people with their addiction, and

2443
02:04:15,640 --> 02:04:18,520
Speaker 1: just a few weeks ago life started to feel worth

2444
02:04:18,520 --> 02:04:21,160
Speaker 1: living again, and I was able to feel some help.

2445
02:04:22,360 --> 02:04:26,160
Speaker 2: Goodness, gracious, you definitely needed some after all that.

2446
02:04:26,840 --> 02:04:28,200
Speaker 1: Nothing's gonna go wrong from here.

2447
02:04:28,360 --> 02:04:31,760
Speaker 3: I like how she's put we like, like op spent

2448
02:04:31,840 --> 02:04:34,080
Speaker 3: money on you know, the gambling addiction.

2449
02:04:34,600 --> 02:04:37,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was his card.

2450
02:04:37,440 --> 02:04:40,720
Speaker 3: This is the price we're gonna pay because it was

2451
02:04:40,800 --> 02:04:42,080
Speaker 3: your card, dude.

2452
02:04:42,600 --> 02:04:42,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2453
02:04:42,800 --> 02:04:44,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like it was your name on it. It's

2454
02:04:44,720 --> 02:04:48,680
Speaker 1: like sorry, but like it's something my name on it. Yeah,

2455
02:04:48,760 --> 02:04:53,480
Speaker 1: that's our problem, not a me problem, like.

2456
02:04:53,440 --> 02:04:55,520
Speaker 3: An issue, not an issue me.

2457
02:04:57,080 --> 02:05:01,920
Speaker 2: Nice. Well a week ago, oh, it turned out she

2458
02:05:02,000 --> 02:05:02,800
Speaker 2: never put gambling.

2459
02:05:03,400 --> 02:05:04,960
Speaker 1: She never quit.

2460
02:05:05,200 --> 02:05:07,680
Speaker 2: So that's what happens when you're addicted to gambling.

2461
02:05:07,760 --> 02:05:08,600
Speaker 1: She didn't quit.

2462
02:05:09,120 --> 02:05:11,520
Speaker 2: She managed to get a new credit card.

2463
02:05:11,840 --> 02:05:14,880
Speaker 1: I do not know how. I know how because banks

2464
02:05:14,920 --> 02:05:19,080
Speaker 1: are evil. There we go, and she spent a month's

2465
02:05:19,320 --> 02:05:23,160
Speaker 1: payment already. I broke down and had a panic attack.

2466
02:05:23,360 --> 02:05:26,600
Speaker 1: I started sobbing and hitting myself until I lost all

2467
02:05:26,600 --> 02:05:30,080
Speaker 1: my strength. I was furious because she had promised our baby,

2468
02:05:30,680 --> 02:05:33,720
Speaker 1: on our baby, to never do this again. I wanted

2469
02:05:33,720 --> 02:05:35,960
Speaker 1: to take my things at leave, But at the same time,

2470
02:05:36,160 --> 02:05:38,360
Speaker 1: it felt like she was a victim of herself too,

2471
02:05:38,800 --> 02:05:41,400
Speaker 1: and I could see the pain she was feeling. This

2472
02:05:41,560 --> 02:05:46,520
Speaker 1: is true, yes, real quick, I think, But that doesn't

2473
02:05:46,520 --> 02:05:48,800
Speaker 1: mean that you have to suffer through it. That doesn't

2474
02:05:48,800 --> 02:05:51,800
Speaker 1: mean you have to helping her and supporting her in

2475
02:05:52,120 --> 02:05:54,640
Speaker 1: you know ways that you can. But that doesn't mean

2476
02:05:54,680 --> 02:05:58,800
Speaker 1: that you have to bear the burden and the consequences,

2477
02:05:58,880 --> 02:06:03,720
Speaker 1: the shrapnel of being in that in the position, living

2478
02:06:03,720 --> 02:06:04,800
Speaker 1: with our being her partner.

2479
02:06:04,600 --> 02:06:08,360
Speaker 2: Et cetera. Yeah, all all people struggling with addiction are

2480
02:06:08,440 --> 02:06:12,480
Speaker 2: victims of themselves, yes, and that is not a addiction

2481
02:06:12,640 --> 02:06:15,640
Speaker 2: is not a personal flaw. Addiction is a disease, yes,

2482
02:06:16,080 --> 02:06:20,000
Speaker 2: but you are not. That doesn't mean you have to

2483
02:06:20,120 --> 02:06:24,000
Speaker 2: suffer through it if you're being an active victim of

2484
02:06:24,040 --> 02:06:24,640
Speaker 2: like this is it.

2485
02:06:24,720 --> 02:06:25,760
Speaker 1: This goes beyond her addiction.

2486
02:06:25,840 --> 02:06:27,880
Speaker 2: It's like this would be like if if someone was

2487
02:06:27,920 --> 02:06:29,920
Speaker 2: addicted to drugs, and then maybe you do the drugs

2488
02:06:30,280 --> 02:06:33,480
Speaker 2: because she's taking all this money out of your account,

2489
02:06:34,120 --> 02:06:38,200
Speaker 2: so it's like you are a direct You're directly influenced

2490
02:06:38,200 --> 02:06:42,160
Speaker 2: by her decisions and behavior, So not fair.

2491
02:06:41,960 --> 02:06:44,800
Speaker 1: To you, Big d with the analogies today, lady, sorry

2492
02:06:45,280 --> 02:06:45,840
Speaker 1: sorry that.

2493
02:06:48,520 --> 02:06:53,360
Speaker 2: Don't apologize for greatness, never mind apologize now.

2494
02:06:53,880 --> 02:06:56,520
Speaker 1: I asked her for everything. I wanted her to show

2495
02:06:56,560 --> 02:07:00,400
Speaker 1: me all the banks, bank statements, all the bets, just everything.

2496
02:07:00,640 --> 02:07:02,880
Speaker 1: She didn't want to, but I gave her an ultimatum.

2497
02:07:03,360 --> 02:07:06,760
Speaker 1: She played daily, sometimes with small amounts, sometimes with big amounts.

2498
02:07:06,960 --> 02:07:09,280
Speaker 1: A day after with the law, a day after we

2499
02:07:09,400 --> 02:07:10,400
Speaker 1: lost the baby.

2500
02:07:10,440 --> 02:07:11,280
Speaker 2: She was gambling.

2501
02:07:12,560 --> 02:07:18,160
Speaker 1: The current situation is she has self excluded herself from

2502
02:07:18,160 --> 02:07:22,120
Speaker 1: the gambling platforms. She is going to gambler's anonymous GA.

2503
02:07:22,480 --> 02:07:25,240
Speaker 1: Today will be her first week. I asked for her

2504
02:07:25,240 --> 02:07:27,760
Speaker 1: control of her credit. I asked for control of her

2505
02:07:27,760 --> 02:07:29,680
Speaker 1: debit card, but she refused to give it to me

2506
02:07:30,040 --> 02:07:30,800
Speaker 1: and offer.

2507
02:07:30,640 --> 02:07:32,800
Speaker 2: To talk about it in GA.

2508
02:07:33,320 --> 02:07:35,320
Speaker 1: I spoke with her brother and mother about it and

2509
02:07:35,440 --> 02:07:38,040
Speaker 1: asked them to not give her any money. It turns

2510
02:07:38,040 --> 02:07:40,720
Speaker 1: out that they had loaned her some small amounts during

2511
02:07:40,760 --> 02:07:43,600
Speaker 1: the past year. Her family told me that she had

2512
02:07:43,640 --> 02:07:46,280
Speaker 1: this problem when she was younger, but she had been

2513
02:07:46,360 --> 02:07:49,120
Speaker 1: clean for several years. They asked me if I wanted

2514
02:07:49,120 --> 02:07:51,800
Speaker 1: them to have an intervention, but I declined, fearing that

2515
02:07:51,920 --> 02:07:55,040
Speaker 1: she might start lying again. Her brother reaches out to

2516
02:07:55,080 --> 02:07:58,120
Speaker 1: me daily to check on how we're doing. I feel broken.

2517
02:07:58,360 --> 02:08:01,280
Speaker 1: I no longer trust her. I am considering moving to

2518
02:08:01,320 --> 02:08:03,760
Speaker 1: another room. But at the same time, she was my

2519
02:08:03,880 --> 02:08:06,240
Speaker 1: best friend and I still love her and want to

2520
02:08:06,240 --> 02:08:09,560
Speaker 1: support her. For her to support me, By the way,

2521
02:08:09,680 --> 02:08:13,320
Speaker 1: you can always support us by tapping our profile and

2522
02:08:13,440 --> 02:08:17,080
Speaker 1: joining the live streams every single weekday at three pm PSD.

2523
02:08:17,280 --> 02:08:20,960
Speaker 1: You don't have to gamble with your entertainment. We're right

2524
02:08:21,000 --> 02:08:24,720
Speaker 1: here every weekday. But let's talk real quick before we

2525
02:08:24,760 --> 02:08:30,160
Speaker 1: get back to the story. Yeah, what do you feel?

2526
02:08:30,320 --> 02:08:34,080
Speaker 2: Hard one? But it's like this problem has followed around

2527
02:08:34,080 --> 02:08:38,440
Speaker 2: for a long time. Yes, she's gonna have to do

2528
02:08:38,480 --> 02:08:45,560
Speaker 2: the work herself, and it feels like she's kind of

2529
02:08:45,960 --> 02:08:51,720
Speaker 2: drowning you in the process. Yes, of working through her

2530
02:08:51,800 --> 02:08:53,560
Speaker 2: own addiction.

2531
02:08:54,400 --> 02:08:55,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, And like.

2532
02:08:57,400 --> 02:09:00,760
Speaker 2: I think you gotta leave and give her the space

2533
02:09:00,840 --> 02:09:07,000
Speaker 2: to get better without another source of guilt for her. Yes,

2534
02:09:07,120 --> 02:09:08,880
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying this is Oh, he's not doing

2535
02:09:08,880 --> 02:09:09,840
Speaker 2: anything wrong there, but.

2536
02:09:10,200 --> 02:09:12,320
Speaker 1: Of course he's trying to help.

2537
02:09:12,720 --> 02:09:15,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. Right. Addictions are usually like based on triggers, and

2538
02:09:15,440 --> 02:09:18,200
Speaker 2: a huge trigger for addictive behavior is guilt. And if

2539
02:09:18,200 --> 02:09:21,560
Speaker 2: you're stealing money from your partner, you're gonna feel guilty

2540
02:09:21,600 --> 02:09:21,880
Speaker 2: about it.

2541
02:09:22,720 --> 02:09:25,680
Speaker 1: So don't give her a chance. That's such a great point.

2542
02:09:25,840 --> 02:09:26,840
Speaker 1: That's such a great point.

2543
02:09:27,120 --> 02:09:27,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, like.

2544
02:09:29,400 --> 02:09:31,800
Speaker 1: Hard situation, like have her live with the parents, you know,

2545
02:09:31,960 --> 02:09:34,520
Speaker 1: just like get yourself and and you know what if

2546
02:09:34,560 --> 02:09:36,920
Speaker 1: you really want to stay and try with the relationship,

2547
02:09:36,960 --> 02:09:39,800
Speaker 1: you know, obviously ultimately it's Opie's decision, but yeah, do that,

2548
02:09:39,920 --> 02:09:43,440
Speaker 1: but like I think you do need some some space,

2549
02:09:43,600 --> 02:09:46,720
Speaker 1: and like, hey, don't just you know, cause then it's

2550
02:09:46,720 --> 02:09:48,280
Speaker 1: like the credit cards are right there. I don't know,

2551
02:09:48,320 --> 02:09:50,960
Speaker 1: it's just it just seems like op he is putting

2552
02:09:51,040 --> 02:09:55,400
Speaker 1: himself through more than he needs to. And it's always

2553
02:09:55,440 --> 02:09:57,720
Speaker 1: like a very nuanced situation. But it feels to me

2554
02:09:57,840 --> 02:10:00,720
Speaker 1: like the line has been the tipping points been reached

2555
02:10:01,200 --> 02:10:03,840
Speaker 1: in where it's like you don't have to stay in

2556
02:10:03,880 --> 02:10:07,160
Speaker 1: the relationship or live with her with you know, your

2557
02:10:07,280 --> 02:10:11,280
Speaker 1: cards and stuff easily accessible at this point from from

2558
02:10:11,400 --> 02:10:14,080
Speaker 1: what he's had to go through, Go give yourself some

2559
02:10:14,160 --> 02:10:17,720
Speaker 1: space to breathe while also still supporting her in her

2560
02:10:17,760 --> 02:10:23,480
Speaker 1: in her journey and her recovery. That's that's my thoughts.

2561
02:10:23,560 --> 02:10:24,200
Speaker 1: That's my thoughts.

2562
02:10:24,200 --> 02:10:26,360
Speaker 3: I didn't want to interrupt you guys, but we just

2563
02:10:26,400 --> 02:10:29,840
Speaker 3: got thirty more minutes. Thank you to Heather for the

2564
02:10:29,880 --> 02:10:30,320
Speaker 3: ten us.

2565
02:10:30,400 --> 02:10:36,040
Speaker 2: Do I appreciate you? Yeah? I didn't.

2566
02:10:36,080 --> 02:10:37,680
Speaker 3: Sorry, you guys were really deep there. I didn't want

2567
02:10:37,680 --> 02:10:38,680
Speaker 3: to stop you guys.

2568
02:10:39,800 --> 02:10:42,680
Speaker 2: Thanks, We appreciate you. Dude, here's the best.

2569
02:10:43,320 --> 02:10:46,840
Speaker 3: You're the best, John, You're the best.

2570
02:10:48,840 --> 02:10:49,680
Speaker 2: What are we?

2571
02:10:49,680 --> 02:10:51,360
Speaker 3: We're like the Golden Goblins or like.

2572
02:10:51,320 --> 02:10:54,120
Speaker 2: The gold Oh yeah, this is the old man's stream.

2573
02:10:54,200 --> 02:10:55,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we're all old men.

2574
02:10:55,600 --> 02:10:57,040
Speaker 2: We're the old man in the stream.

2575
02:10:57,960 --> 02:11:01,320
Speaker 1: I love it. Just just a couple of just unkt

2576
02:11:01,320 --> 02:11:05,200
Speaker 1: it up, just straight unkint it up. Anyways, let's close

2577
02:11:05,200 --> 02:11:08,000
Speaker 1: out the story, y'all. So I am waiting her for

2578
02:11:08,040 --> 02:11:10,240
Speaker 1: her to come back from Gamble's Anonymous, and I don't

2579
02:11:10,280 --> 02:11:12,760
Speaker 1: know what to do. We have been together for four years,

2580
02:11:12,800 --> 02:11:14,920
Speaker 1: and just a few months ago I was sure she

2581
02:11:15,120 --> 02:11:17,280
Speaker 1: was the one. I wanted to marry her and live

2582
02:11:17,320 --> 02:11:19,160
Speaker 1: the rest of my life with her. But it's just

2583
02:11:19,200 --> 02:11:22,480
Speaker 1: worth saving. Can it be saved? I am fully in

2584
02:11:22,600 --> 02:11:25,320
Speaker 1: survival mode and feel alone. I can't talk to my

2585
02:11:25,360 --> 02:11:28,480
Speaker 1: family because they asked me to leave her. Wow, so

2586
02:11:28,480 --> 02:11:31,320
Speaker 1: Opie's effectively caught off from his family too.

2587
02:11:31,640 --> 02:11:35,520
Speaker 2: Dude, I think that's you're not just you're just not

2588
02:11:35,560 --> 02:11:38,320
Speaker 2: liking the answer that you got. Your family's telling you

2589
02:11:38,320 --> 02:11:39,560
Speaker 2: to leave her. That might be what you have to

2590
02:11:39,560 --> 02:11:45,480
Speaker 2: do yep, yep, or separate maybe not like whatever, like yeah,

2591
02:11:45,520 --> 02:11:49,480
Speaker 2: she needs space to figure her stuff out, absolutely, Like

2592
02:11:49,800 --> 02:11:53,640
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know. That is what I'm thinking.

2593
02:11:54,120 --> 02:11:58,600
Speaker 1: Hair in the mouth, the clot keon anyways, don't give

2594
02:11:58,640 --> 02:11:59,080
Speaker 1: me the power.

2595
02:11:59,400 --> 02:11:59,680
Speaker 3: True.

2596
02:12:00,160 --> 02:12:02,320
Speaker 1: I can't talk to my friends. They will always judge

2597
02:12:02,320 --> 02:12:04,400
Speaker 1: me about this. I am living day by day and

2598
02:12:04,440 --> 02:12:06,280
Speaker 1: I know this is hard for two, but I'm and

2599
02:12:06,560 --> 02:12:09,480
Speaker 1: I'm at my lowest. Any advice on what to do

2600
02:12:09,560 --> 02:12:13,480
Speaker 1: now and super quickly everything we just said you just

2601
02:12:13,520 --> 02:12:16,040
Speaker 1: need space to figure out? Yeah, pretty much everything that's

2602
02:12:16,080 --> 02:12:22,040
Speaker 1: it out. The baby babies no baby, no baby, baby,

2603
02:12:22,600 --> 02:12:26,960
Speaker 1: no baby, baby is no baby probably probably why the

2604
02:12:27,080 --> 02:12:31,600
Speaker 1: decision yeah yes, yeah, yeah, didn't sound like.

2605
02:12:31,600 --> 02:12:34,240
Speaker 2: This was at hell all the situation. Baby would have

2606
02:12:34,240 --> 02:12:39,520
Speaker 2: had a yeah, positive impact exact anywhere.

2607
02:12:39,840 --> 02:12:41,800
Speaker 3: So let's let's see the voting pool.

2608
02:12:41,840 --> 02:12:46,080
Speaker 1: I We'll see let's see another person another person said,

2609
02:12:46,120 --> 02:12:49,600
Speaker 1: don't break up, which you know again like like Dakota,

2610
02:12:49,640 --> 02:12:52,400
Speaker 1: I think I think you uh posed a good scenario.

2611
02:12:52,440 --> 02:12:56,000
Speaker 1: It's like you're separated and still supporting her and like

2612
02:12:56,720 --> 02:13:00,560
Speaker 1: essentially like going through her recovery, supporting at a distance,

2613
02:13:00,600 --> 02:13:03,080
Speaker 1: and then if enough time passes, if the trust is

2614
02:13:03,120 --> 02:13:06,520
Speaker 1: earned back after the right period of time, then it's like, okay,

2615
02:13:06,560 --> 02:13:09,320
Speaker 1: we can remove back in together and slowly start like

2616
02:13:09,360 --> 02:13:12,880
Speaker 1: reintegrating our lives. Like that's you know, that's that's totally fine.

2617
02:13:12,920 --> 02:13:18,320
Speaker 1: But again, at this point, like you're just hurting yourself unnecessarily.

2618
02:13:18,360 --> 02:13:21,080
Speaker 1: I feel like at this point and hard thing to realize,

2619
02:13:21,120 --> 02:13:24,640
Speaker 1: but give give yourself some space to heal to. It's

2620
02:13:24,640 --> 02:13:26,480
Speaker 1: not your fault, like you didn't you didn't do anything,

2621
02:13:26,520 --> 02:13:28,760
Speaker 1: and you might you might just also need to move

2622
02:13:28,800 --> 02:13:29,080
Speaker 1: on too.

2623
02:13:29,240 --> 02:13:32,000
Speaker 2: Like it. I think that the sunk cost fallacy of

2624
02:13:32,120 --> 02:13:33,920
Speaker 2: like oh I thought I was going to marry this person.

2625
02:13:34,000 --> 02:13:35,000
Speaker 1: I was with her for four years.

2626
02:13:35,000 --> 02:13:39,000
Speaker 2: It's like, well, and now you found out that she's

2627
02:13:39,000 --> 02:13:40,920
Speaker 2: a gambling at it and she's still one hundred thousand dollars.

2628
02:13:41,040 --> 02:13:44,480
Speaker 1: You so not great. Might have to not do that.

2629
02:13:44,560 --> 02:13:44,960
Speaker 2: Not great.

2630
02:13:45,120 --> 02:13:47,520
Speaker 1: By the way, we don't know if it was one

2631
02:13:47,560 --> 02:13:51,080
Speaker 1: hundred thousand. Uh, we don't know how much of that

2632
02:13:51,360 --> 02:13:53,640
Speaker 1: was what she took from his credit card. It was

2633
02:13:53,680 --> 02:13:55,960
Speaker 1: she was one hundred k in debt total when when

2634
02:13:56,040 --> 02:13:58,080
Speaker 1: we thought she was thirty two k in debt total.

2635
02:13:58,720 --> 02:14:01,040
Speaker 1: Oh okay, but he's she's will stole his credit card

2636
02:14:01,120 --> 02:14:02,760
Speaker 1: and like max it out, I'm.

2637
02:14:02,600 --> 02:14:05,480
Speaker 2: Gonna keep spreading misinformation and say that she stole a

2638
02:14:05,640 --> 02:14:06,600
Speaker 2: hundred thousand times.

2639
02:14:07,720 --> 02:14:12,360
Speaker 1: I love misinformation, it's so great. Anyways, I'm not talking

2640
02:14:12,360 --> 02:14:12,960
Speaker 1: about the election.

2641
02:14:13,040 --> 02:14:15,080
Speaker 2: We can have a little bit of misinformation as a treat,

2642
02:14:15,680 --> 02:14:16,240
Speaker 2: a treat.

2643
02:14:18,440 --> 02:14:22,000
Speaker 1: I love that. Anyways, that's that's the end of that story.