1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,759 Speaker 1: Building the Good Life with John Hope Bryant is brought 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: to you by Credential Financial. You know, for me, self 3 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: confidence comes from just trying. I knew I wasn't gonna 4 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: be the best basketball players only school with camerallon Dollar, 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: you know, Camera, I knew cal I'm gonna win to 6 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: chill when we were ten, I knew I wanted gonna 7 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 1: play baseball or like my cousin who were doing seventy 8 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 1: seven mile an hour thirteen years old. You know. So 9 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:22,479 Speaker 1: I had to find what I was good at, you know, 10 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 1: and the things I was good at was art, talking, debate, 11 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:27,319 Speaker 1: you know those things. So I embraced the things I 12 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: was good I built pride around those things. And I 13 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 1: had a group of friends around me where my talents 14 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: and needed are called upon. You know, they called me 15 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: up when the police stopped us. Michael, you're talking. You know. 16 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:39,599 Speaker 1: So I knew I was good at. So my confidence 17 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: grew out of knowing what I was good at and 18 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 1: doing those things, not out of envying and not out 19 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 1: of wanting to be something other than myself. And then 20 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: when Kim Watson told me I was cute, it was 21 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: she told me that third grade it was a rap 22 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: Michael Santiago, better known by his stage name, He's an 23 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: American rap actor and an activist. But that does not 24 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: tell the whole story. I'll get back to that in 25 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 1: a minute. Mike made his debut on Outcasts two thousand 26 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:13,199 Speaker 1: LP Stankoni and later appeared on their Grammy winning single 27 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: The Whole World from their Greatest Hits album in two 28 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: thousand and one. He has since released five full length 29 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 1: albums as a solo artist. He is the founder of 30 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: Ground Grind Time Official Records, which he did in partnership 31 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: with SMC and Fontana Distribution. In December two thousand and eight, 32 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: he cut a deal with our friend, the Atlanta rappers 33 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: t I the Grand Hustle Records. Since that time, he 34 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: has exploded in relevancy. He's known as a social and 35 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: political activist, focusing on subjects including the social inequality, police brutality, 36 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 1: and systemic racism. In addition to addressing these themes of 37 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: racism and police brutality in his music, he has also 38 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: delivered several lectures. That's right, He's a lectured the colleges 39 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: and universities. He's written about social justice, appeared on business shows, 40 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: engaged in the political stage. He was born in Adamsville 41 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: neighborhood of Atlanta, Georgia, a very notably. His father was 42 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: a policeman. His mother was a florist, very much like 43 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: me and my wife reminds me of butterflies and eagle. 44 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: His grandparents helped to raise him. Paul are Heights neighborhood 45 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 1: and something else we have in common. He went to 46 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: Frederick Douglas High School and the man who ran the 47 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 1: Freedman's Bank that I'm so passionate about. What's Frederick Douglas? 48 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: That bank was started to teach free slaves about money 49 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 1: in the eighteen sixty five. Now I said there was 50 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: more about him that I did not mention. Well, that 51 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: really means that the bio did not mention it. Uh, 52 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: he's hiding in plain sight, as Jay Z would say. 53 00:02:55,320 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: He's not a businessman. I'm a business man. He also 54 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 1: is a partner in Greenwood Bank or Bank Greenwood. It's 55 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: not an FBI C in short banking or talking a 56 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: little bit about that. I know he's dabbling in some 57 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 1: real estate and music publishing and to do singing the 58 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: backside of the business industry. Will the music industry. He 59 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 1: has a barber shop swag, which I'm sure he's gonna 60 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: talk about. Uh. Also, uh, he is a bad brother. 61 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: He's making smart sexy. He's a builder, he's my brother, 62 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: he's my friend. Keller, Mike, how you doing. It's all good. 63 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: It's good to see you, good to be seen, better 64 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: seen in viewed. So this is a conversation about building. 65 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: You know, we can say building for what building wind, 66 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: but let me let me be provocative and suggest that 67 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: there's never been a more important time to be a 68 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: builder in general. But certainly if we're saying that that 69 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: this is a moment in history, and history does not 70 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: feel historic when you're sitting you know that you're a 71 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: historian too, But that doesn't mean that moment is not 72 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: in fact historic. Dr King walked this whole same city 73 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: where in Atlanta for thirteen years and went to Para 74 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: teacher Knight and you know, the grocery store whatever. I'm 75 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: your people, So it's Dr King. But it wasn't like 76 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:19,280 Speaker 1: every date moment was dramatic. And we've we're talking about 77 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:22,239 Speaker 1: now moving that's more in the suites in the streets, 78 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: more about civil rights than civil rights. Social justice through 79 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 1: an economic lens so once you push back on me 80 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 1: if I say that, do you agree or do you 81 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: challenge me? That this is now social justice through an 82 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: economic lens and new agenda is at least in part 83 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: wealth creation and business. Well, I can't disagree with you 84 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: because I'm a product of wealth creation. For you know 85 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: that what I found is that I don't marry to 86 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: any extreme I've been in my time, you know, a 87 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 1: fist pumping, shouting radical that yelled you know, we should 88 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 1: lean heavy into socialism and the proletariat should have no rights. 89 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: And did you say socialism? Yeah? Eve, In some forms 90 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: of democratic socialism, public school is is a socialist concept 91 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 1: if you arguably be it. I happen to have went 92 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 1: to an unbelievably good so Um public school and call 93 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: your Heights Elementary School and later Frederick Guga's High School. 94 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:22,039 Speaker 1: So he benefited yea, you know, Um, do I want 95 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 1: my money um regulated by government? And do I want 96 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 1: you know, I currently pay about thirty cent tax on 97 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: a dollar? You know, do I want to do? I 98 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: always like that? No, what I liked for the ten 99 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 1: cent extra that they'd like to add to be advocated, 100 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 1: I've seen it, yes, So but what I've seen is 101 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: and what I say, I'm a product of what wealth is. 102 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: My great grandparents, whether children of people who were enslaved, 103 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: their first I thought should have been of themselves in 104 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: their own happiness and enjoyment. My great grandmother, my great grandfather, 105 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: um n h black men and Truzella black men. They 106 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: could have just enjoyed themselves. They could have enjoyed not perpeed, 107 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: living in servitude. But what they did was they worked 108 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: the sharecroppers. They worked their butts off, their fingers to 109 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 1: the ball. They bought over forty something acres in Alabama, 110 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 1: of which some some the state had to buy back 111 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 1: because of the mem and it domain because of the 112 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: creation of a highway. And they made sure that each 113 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:18,919 Speaker 1: of their nine children had an opportunity to own land 114 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: and to have a start through education. Because my grand 115 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: grandparents on the farm, they could sell the stores, including 116 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 1: white stores. Those stores would then pay them their profit 117 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: that was paid allout my grandparents to go to a 118 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:32,839 Speaker 1: Methodist school to my grandmother. My grandfather, on the other hand, 119 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 1: his mother left, I mean his father left when he 120 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: was ten. He had to work in a sawmill in 121 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: a lumber yard. Didn't not leave him anything, So he 122 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 1: had to work and um take part in bootlegging to 123 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 1: make sure he's a young man that he had something 124 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: to give us. My great grandparents farm is still in 125 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: my family's name. My family still received money every chy 126 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 1: and where herself from a lumber company and owns it. 127 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 1: So all the Tusky, Alabama, the same place that college 128 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 1: students use red clay to make the bricks to build 129 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: Tuskey Institute. My grand mother wanted nothing more for me 130 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 1: than to go to Duskey. I ended up going to 131 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 1: more House instead. I was like, I just can't go 132 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: back there. That was too bored Grandma. That was before 133 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: I realized how lit their homecoming was. But I m 134 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: so I had to understand it at some point. People 135 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: generations before me made an investment in me, and my 136 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: grandparents then were not only owners of the house, they 137 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 1: were in their owned additional house. That house was used 138 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 1: to create um a vacation funds savings fund from me 139 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: and my sisters. They bought us stocks and bonds when 140 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 1: we were really young. So I had to realize a 141 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: lot of the things that I thought I was fighting 142 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 1: against as a child, or what gave me the ability 143 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 1: to fight against it because I was a product of it. 144 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: And what I had to understand was older Black Juleman 145 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 1: telling one time, you're either gonna be you know, you said, 146 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 1: you were born in America. You can't help that. You 147 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: want to be a participant in the capitalist system or 148 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: victim of it. And since I was cutting grass at 149 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: about twelve years old, and I thought that, man, if 150 00:07:57,600 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: I can get three more of the kids to cut 151 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: grass with me, I could probably pay them at this rate. 152 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: Since I buy the gas, I got the lant Moore 153 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: to pay myself this rate. I had figured out that 154 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: it's good to be an owner. My wife and I 155 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 1: were having a discussion today when she was like, it's 156 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: good that you no longer tell people what you make. 157 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 1: She said, because sometimes when you tell people what you make, 158 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: they tend to think you know the man. I said, yeah, 159 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 1: I say, but I'm not cut like that's how I 160 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 1: sat next to people. I'm telling they got forty fifty 161 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 1: million other deals I never envied wanted that. She said, yeah, 162 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: but you've never viewed yourself as an employee, she said, 163 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 1: so you don't have time to worry about her. She says, 164 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 1: you hear it and you get inspired by it, and 165 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: then you say, if then my friend can do it, 166 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: I can do it too. I remember sitting next to 167 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 1: one of my dear friends when he got a forty 168 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 1: million ollar deal. You don't think I was happy for him. 169 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: After he left the room, everybody else crumbled and complained 170 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 1: and talked about what they should have gotten it, And 171 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 1: I realized that she's right. Like, I've never viewed myself 172 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 1: as simply an employee. I've always viewed myself as someone 173 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 1: who can, who must too will. So I can't, you know, 174 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: argue with how people you know their point of view 175 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:54,679 Speaker 1: of me. But I know as I'm a product of 176 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: two black people in the very deep and rule South 177 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: from Tuskegee that decided they were going to make sure 178 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 1: they're children had it a little easier and their children's 179 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: children had greater opportunity through being able to be educated 180 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: and having something. So he just dropped like some intellectual 181 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: financial literacy genius from from from like the west side 182 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 1: of Atlanta. And and just to clarify, he mentioned the 183 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 1: words socialism. What do you really My interpret of that 184 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: is he means the public good. And I agree with 185 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: him on the part that we have a responsibility to 186 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: socialize our our assets for I mean, why is education 187 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: we should be a public good now a private asset? Right? 188 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 1: Education should be for everybody. Uh. Summer On sham On 189 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 1: Paris told me I was in Jordan. Wants that people 190 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: are gonna have a problem my work and criticize it. 191 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: And he said, Mike, he said, when they say that, John, 192 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: you tell them even if you wanted to strive with 193 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 1: the money like a socialist, you have the first collected 194 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: like a capitalist. Yeah. Tell me, man, how did you 195 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,199 Speaker 1: get so dang a smart? I mean, I mean I've 196 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: heard I heard only set this up. I first heard 197 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: you rip rap or financial literacy rap. I don't mean 198 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 1: music rap, financial literacy rap business rap without a script, 199 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: without them with without with no notes. Really three times 200 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: one in my whole global form. You just you just 201 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: went in there with Tip t I and few others 202 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: and you just laid it out and you cleared the floor. 203 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 1: I mean, you knew exactly what you were talking about, 204 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: Like is if you're coming out of a busines school 205 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 1: number two. Y're on CNBC and you laid it out 206 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: and I read some other business publication. There was an 207 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: interview and you couldn't tell that you were not a 208 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: captain of industry. But you're completely down with your community. 209 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 1: You're like, you don't you don't switch up. You are 210 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 1: the same dude. How did you get so dang gone 211 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 1: smart and down the earth at the same time. Well, 212 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: I don't, I don't. I don't consider myself smart. I 213 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:49,959 Speaker 1: consider myself a willing student in every situation though. I 214 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: just sat with a younger brother who's young and I 215 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 1: went to more house for a year, and then I 216 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: left to pursue music. I went to a brother who 217 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,679 Speaker 1: graduated who now is a banker, had a meeting with 218 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:00,079 Speaker 1: him a few hours ago, brother Ben, and and I 219 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: told himself, I'm sitting down as a student. Doesn't matter 220 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: from older than you, doesn't matter if I've seen more 221 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: to or none of that matters. What matters is that 222 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,839 Speaker 1: you know more about financing industry, and I do, so 223 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: I am not only someone who's about to do business 224 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: with you. I also I'm a student. So anything that 225 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 1: I can learn, I'm gonna learn. And I've always been 226 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 1: like that, like I'm here to show up for my 227 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 1: ears open. You know, as much as I talk, I 228 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: listened a lot more my grandparents, Like I said, they talked, 229 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:27,599 Speaker 1: They never hid the truth. For my sisters, and my 230 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:30,959 Speaker 1: younger sister, Lashonda, he was raised by my grandparents with me, 231 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: they said, me loving Lashonda down. My grandmother showed us 232 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:36,439 Speaker 1: how to balance the check books. They taught us you 233 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: know why you buy should buy stock or barn, why 234 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: you should save money. My younger sister got it so 235 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: well she went down to dealer, became an accountant. Now 236 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: she makes sure people and companies don't go bro I 237 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 1: wish I would have listen more. So I have to 238 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:50,959 Speaker 1: get my grandparents, Um William Betty a lot of credit 239 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: because they told us by the time we were born, 240 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 1: there was too all the waste time and they didn't 241 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 1: have time to talk to us like children. They talked 242 00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: to us like we were equal, like we were a 243 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:02,080 Speaker 1: little here and beings. So I gotta give big credit 244 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:05,079 Speaker 1: to them, and I gotta give credit to the institutions 245 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: that paid the big part. From Harrington Daycare centerments. Harrington 246 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: sent me into kindergarten reading whether it was Mr Twiggs, 247 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 1: the principle of my elementary school, all the numerous teachers, 248 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 1: many of whom who went to historically black college and universities. 249 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: Their life's mission was to make sure that we went 250 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: into the world prepared. Um. One of my favorite teachers 251 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:23,839 Speaker 1: in high school, the Federals High Schools, a man named 252 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:26,439 Speaker 1: Bill Murray's Cohen or Murray Brothers funeral home. And I 253 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: tell people that class was art. I was in the 254 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: art magnetism, not art, but the art talents in a program. 255 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 1: I knew how to draw, knew how to sketch, knew 256 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 1: how to paint. But I say he taught us how 257 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:37,959 Speaker 1: to be entrepreneurs. You know. He was the first person 258 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: to tell us you should be trying to buy, dilapidate 259 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 1: the houses and the blood so you can knock it down, 260 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 1: just make a parking lot while the falcons play until 261 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 1: change happens. He's seventy two years old. Now change happening. 262 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 1: So what I did was paid attention, and I believe. 263 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 1: And then, you know, I remember neighborhood now, yeah, absolutely 264 00:12:57,440 --> 00:12:59,599 Speaker 1: it is. And we own stuff there, changing up, me 265 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 1: and my wife. Yeah, but I remember, you know, I remember, 266 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 1: just I remember just seeing people because I grew up 267 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: in the car your heights, so working class people and 268 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 1: they were like my grandparents, middle class people were there. Um, 269 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: I remember Dr Zuela well, Dr Harris, who Zuela Harris 270 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 1: his mother who was a psyche professor over at Georgia Tech. 271 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:20,959 Speaker 1: They lived in our neighborhood, Rah and Bea, who I 272 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: think now is Deing of Technology over at Tech. It 273 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 1: grew up in my neighbor so I grew up around 274 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 1: a lot of kids who were smart. So it was 275 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: cool to be smart. It was cool to learn and 276 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: and being smart's really just about me and willing to learn. 277 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:34,679 Speaker 1: So you know, I can't say that was a magic moment. 278 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: I could just say every step of the way, I 279 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:38,199 Speaker 1: wanted to learn a little more. I wanted to know 280 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: a little more. I want to understand how Herman Russell 281 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 1: was rich, because if it wouldn't have been for her 282 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 1: and Russell, if you don't know Herman Russell was was 283 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 1: the wealthiest black men in America, at least in the 284 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:51,319 Speaker 1: real estate, and to this Day's Russell Company is the 285 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 1: largest black owned company and at least in real estate 286 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 1: in the country. Google Google, Google some of the names 287 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 1: that were saying, so whether it was Herman Russell's house, 288 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 1: did I arrived bound my bike as a kid and 289 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 1: look and say, how did you get a basketball courting 290 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: the tennis court you know, and later have the opportunity 291 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 1: to buy and an indoor pool. Yeah, pool, Like, how 292 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:09,959 Speaker 1: are you? How do you do that too? Now? You know? 293 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 1: God bless your dead. Just a few weeks ago, having 294 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:15,559 Speaker 1: buried Noel Khalil, who founded the Columbia Company, and I 295 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 1: also real estate developed who first worked for Herman Russell. 296 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 1: Took a sixty thollar pay cut to work for Herman 297 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 1: Russell and say he learned more making less money and 298 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 1: was able to build something on his own. So I've 299 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: always just been a willing student. Quincy Jones says, it 300 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 1: takes twenty years to change the culture. In the last 301 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 1: twenty years, I think we've made dumb sexy. We've dumbed 302 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 1: down and celebrated it. But now people are starting to 303 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 1: make smart sexy again. But here's the here's the interesting thing. 304 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 1: You said. Growing up, you already around you always were 305 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 1: trying to be around smart people. Okay, cool, got that. 306 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: I understand that generation right after the Civil Rights movement, 307 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 1: that that holds that hold piece when you get away 308 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 1: with it. Today was I find interesting two things people 309 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: make assumptions about you. They see you coming in with 310 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 1: some some some chilled out genet. You got your nikes on, 311 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 1: you got your T shirt on. You know you got 312 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 1: you got a little bit of a little bit of blame. 313 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 1: Not too much, right, it's all, but but people not 314 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 1: looking at closely, people making assumptions right about well, particularly 315 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 1: if you're not from our community, and I would never 316 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 1: I don't think they would ever assume or presumed that 317 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 1: you that all this intellect is inside of you. You 318 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 1: don't care because you're not gonna answer. Your self esteem 319 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: depends on somebody's acceptance of you. So that self esteem, 320 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: not just confidence. I want to know where that came from. 321 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: The other side of this piece, though, is you're in 322 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: the music business principally where I would think I would 323 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 1: love to say I'm wrong here. This sort of high minded, 324 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: high frequency conversation with right now may not be all 325 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 1: that shined upon, but you're accepted as one of the crew. 326 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 1: How did you negotiate all these worlds? I can remember 327 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 1: being in elementary school and sitting in class him as 328 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: prior as class, and I'm surrounded by like kids who 329 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 1: I know they're going to college. They know I'm going 330 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: to college because people like Asha Jackson are pushing us, 331 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 1: and she's now chief Chief judged Um out in Decab County. 332 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 1: But as young as eleven, I shall tell us we 333 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 1: were going to college college, and she's like, we're going 334 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 1: to college. But I remember being an elementary school class 335 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 1: even though I wasn't in that school. She just would 336 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: encourage it. But like with tar Shell, people's now Dr 337 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 1: tarshall Um and my friends sleeping, he was far more 338 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 1: intelligent me in the streets sleeping with was who didn't 339 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: even go to my school, was on the court like 340 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 1: fat Way, fat Way, and I was just I wouldn't look. 341 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 1: I would just I'm not gonna get introll. He was like, 342 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 1: I see you out the school. But before school he'd 343 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 1: be telling me you go to school. He said, we 344 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 1: might not go to school there, but you're going to school. 345 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: So my friends encouraged me because they saw it early 346 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 1: and they didn't discourage it. But and I went to 347 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 1: school with the highly intelligent group of kids. But in 348 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: different things. Cameron Dollar n a champion at U c 349 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 1: l A. His father coach Donald Dollar, coach Frederick Douglas. 350 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:05,359 Speaker 1: Cameron was smarter on a basketball court and probably anybody 351 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 1: ever seen. And it was smart off the court too, 352 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 1: we got slid grat but on the court he was 353 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:15,399 Speaker 1: fiercely intelligent, so I knew intelligence mattered in sports. Zuela Harris, 354 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 1: whose mom again was a psychologist. Zeuela was fiercely intelligent 355 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 1: in class. So if I knew if I want to 356 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,399 Speaker 1: do well in class sitting next to Zula, because the 357 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: competitiveness and me was gonna make me the same way 358 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 1: I wanted to compete with cam on a on a 359 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 1: basketball court. So I saw the competition, the friendly competition 360 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 1: of my friends, because I knew my friends weren't dumb. 361 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 1: And I always liked reading. For some reason, I was attracted. 362 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 1: I'm dyslexic, but I was always attracted to reading. But 363 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 1: because of dyslexi, you have two reading to three five 364 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 1: time people are dyslexic, and a lot of folks in 365 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 1: the music business interesting. Quincy's dyslexia in baste Young is 366 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 1: a little dysilection me so, but it forces you to focus. 367 00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 1: So now you're not only reading your memory because you're 368 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 1: having to read stuff. So by the time your master 369 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:04,119 Speaker 1: reading stuff once and twice, you learn how to lock 370 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:06,560 Speaker 1: stuff in. So it's just a it's just a condition 371 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:10,359 Speaker 1: of circumstance and who you choose and who you choose 372 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: to involve yourself with. I knew very young that dumb 373 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:17,199 Speaker 1: people um or people who pretended or acted dumb did 374 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:20,440 Speaker 1: not get treated well. WHOA WHOA say that one more time. 375 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 1: People who acted or pretended to be dumb did not 376 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: get treated well. And I was not into being treated badly. 377 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 1: So I presented myself intelligently, you know, and and I 378 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 1: and I realized that the results came from it. So 379 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 1: I valued intelligence, you know. And I come from a 380 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 1: family that welcomes and values intelligence too, So I'm lucky 381 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 1: to have been an environment that was very um It 382 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 1: cultivated that. And I try to do the same thing 383 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:47,119 Speaker 1: with my children and other children that from my nieces 384 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,200 Speaker 1: and nephews, the kids that are just family and friends. 385 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 1: I try to encourage that because there's nothing that beats 386 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,120 Speaker 1: a mind that wants to learn. There's nothing that beats 387 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 1: a curious mind. If you're in Europe, you gotta be multilingual, 388 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:02,959 Speaker 1: bilingual to translate you walk in these different worlds. How 389 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 1: do you translate and still keep that core of you 390 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 1: and keep the respect from you? I think you let 391 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 1: people know who you are from the start, like, you know, 392 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,440 Speaker 1: like I went to Douglas, but I'm not gonna, you know, 393 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 1: being being in Frederick Douglas. You I knew everybody. I 394 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 1: knew everybody said, Um, I knew that I knew the 395 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 1: preachers and the thugs like I knew. I knew. I 396 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 1: knew everybody, and I wanted to. I wanted to know everybody. 397 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 1: Everybody didn't move between groups of friends and different culturally 398 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:33,359 Speaker 1: different groups. I did because I instantly understood them. And 399 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 1: I like, some of my friends were thugging it and 400 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 1: some of my friends were plugging away academically, and I 401 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 1: had no problem being with either of them because I 402 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 1: was comfortable at who I was already, Like you know, 403 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:48,640 Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't. I wasn't um, I wasn't ashamed 404 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 1: to be smart, and I wasn't. I wasn't ashamed of 405 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 1: my friends who was just like, hey man, we're gonna 406 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:56,159 Speaker 1: stay and thugging because they were my friends too. But 407 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 1: what I didn't do was succumbed to other people's wants 408 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 1: who wishes for me? What I did was decide what 409 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 1: I wanted for myself. When I when I heard people 410 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 1: like Osha talk about college It made me know, Okay, 411 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 1: you gotta go to college too. You know. When I 412 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 1: heard Mr Murray talk about entrepreneurship, it made me say, okay, 413 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:15,040 Speaker 1: I can do this too. Why am I not doing this? 414 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,440 Speaker 1: You know? So for me it was I've just never 415 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: had I've never questioned it. I just did it because 416 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 1: you're comfortable with it. You're saying your your your peers 417 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:26,159 Speaker 1: in the music business who made speak only one language 418 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:30,399 Speaker 1: there there they respect you because you're authentic. Yeah, okay, 419 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 1: And what do you think that they admire it? I 420 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 1: never thought about it. I just knew that they accept 421 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 1: me for who I am. I accepting for who they 422 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:39,679 Speaker 1: are because I don't think these guys dumb at all. 423 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,160 Speaker 1: If they choose not to, you know, if they choose 424 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,160 Speaker 1: not to use the King's English like I do, that's fine. 425 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 1: They're intelligent. They're intelligent enough to buy property to intelligent 426 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:52,160 Speaker 1: enough to employ people. You know, I've met some, I've 427 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 1: met hit talking folks in North Florida, South Georgia. They 428 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 1: have a lot more money than me, and a lot 429 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 1: of rappers. But you know their their family is on 430 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 1: five acres and grown for the government for the last 431 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 1: hundred years. You know what I mean. So for me, 432 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 1: it's a it's a matter of you. To me, you 433 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:12,120 Speaker 1: show yourself unintelligent when you don't save, when you don't 434 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: live below your means, when you don't know how to 435 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 1: operate in a room that feels strange to you by 436 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:21,159 Speaker 1: simply being your most humble and honest self, that's a 437 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 1: sign of low intelligence to me. Like t I use 438 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 1: a lot more you know, big words that how I do. 439 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:27,959 Speaker 1: And you know he was the one that dropped out 440 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 1: of Douglas, you know he but but he got a 441 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 1: he got a firm hold of encabulary. I'll tell about 442 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 1: time like you talking like our principle, like Dr Hill. 443 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 1: So he you can't assume that man unintelligent. That man 444 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:40,439 Speaker 1: has read at the sars and knows more SnO ms 445 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 1: than any of us. And that brother is fiercely intelligent 446 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 1: business perspective, it's a lot of real estate around here 447 00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 1: and and has no doubt on it, No, absolutely got 448 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:50,920 Speaker 1: he bought it straight out. So for me, I look 449 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: for intelligence not only in how you sound, but like 450 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 1: what are the sound movement you're making? What's the common sense? Yeah, 451 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 1: you know that's that's that's truly intel, just to me. 452 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 1: My grandparents taught me about living below my meanings. They 453 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 1: taught me about doing things that freed you up. Everyone 454 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 1: wants money and everyone, you know, if intelligence equal money, 455 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 1: every college professor be a millionaire. Oh as wisdom there. 456 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:19,479 Speaker 1: If intelligence people they're getting intelligence equal money, every college 457 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: you know professor will be a millionaire. That's right, you know. 458 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,200 Speaker 1: And you gotta be a pH d and a pH 459 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 1: d two, yeah, do something. And that's not criticizing and 460 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 1: college professor, right, but but it's just saying it's simply 461 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 1: being smart. It's not enough. It's not enough, right, all right. 462 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,120 Speaker 1: This is John Hopebriyant and The Building a Good Life 463 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 1: podcast is brought to you by Prudential. For over one 464 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 1: hundred and forty five years, millions of people have Counada 465 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: and Prudential to help solve for life's most important financial needs. 466 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:48,439 Speaker 1: Because at Preudential, they lived their purpose to make lives 467 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,719 Speaker 1: better by solving the most pressing financial challenges of our 468 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 1: changing world. Pridential will continue to focus on financial literacy, 469 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 1: nancial education, business development, and opportunities to provide financial products 470 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 1: and serve those dispupportionately impacted tear and around the world. 471 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,440 Speaker 1: This is doing well, like doing good, and I'm John 472 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,920 Speaker 1: Hoope right. I want you know, if you want to, 473 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 1: I want to cover a lot of ground up on 474 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:15,160 Speaker 1: our session together so people leave better when I'm gonna 475 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:18,359 Speaker 1: leave this podcast better. But I want you to talk 476 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,440 Speaker 1: about how do you built self esteem? You've talked around it. 477 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 1: I think it had a lot to do with your grandparents, 478 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 1: people like in bass, around your young and others. But 479 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 1: how did you build self esteem? You have another question 480 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:30,560 Speaker 1: for you? Um I remember, man, I got called to 481 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 1: play on the you know you play shirts and Skins 482 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,880 Speaker 1: basketball already got count the camp council grand and put 483 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 1: me on the Skins team. Man. By middle of the game, 484 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:40,159 Speaker 1: I thought I was the man. I thought he was 485 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,159 Speaker 1: tearing from on the sideline, so a couple I was 486 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:46,400 Speaker 1: laughing at me barely flopping there. Well, but we won 487 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 1: the game, and after that I was our Skins every game. 488 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 1: I had to be because I was playing with the 489 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 1: best players on skin. I just had to get the ball, 490 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,360 Speaker 1: pretended to pay to kick it back out to my man, 491 00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 1: who thought he was Steph Curb before that time. So 492 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,200 Speaker 1: you know, once I understood that, my purpose, you know, 493 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:05,200 Speaker 1: my daughter just started playing j V ball. Not a 494 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 1: shooter yet because she just started playing ball. And I said, well, 495 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 1: they can't stop you from being a great defender. Put 496 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: your hands up, put your arms out, don't give them 497 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 1: an easy shot, you know, give them some trouble on 498 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 1: the way up right. And then and then even the 499 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 1: games they lost, they lost by two to three points. 500 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: There they were, you know, they're winning games. So you know, 501 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:25,440 Speaker 1: for me what I what I'm When she learned something, yeah, absolutely, 502 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 1: And if you learn, you're not losing. So you know, 503 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 1: for me, um, self confidence comes from just trying. I 504 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 1: knew I wasn't gonna be the best basketball players only 505 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 1: school with camera and dollar, you know, like camera. I 506 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 1: knew cal I'm gonna win a cheffy chill when we 507 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,159 Speaker 1: were ten. I knew I wasn't gonna play baseball or 508 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 1: like my cousins who were throwing seventy seven mill an 509 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,760 Speaker 1: hour thirteen years old, you know. So I had to 510 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 1: find what I was good at, you know. And the 511 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 1: things I was good at was art, talking, debate, you 512 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 1: know those things. So I embraced the things I was 513 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 1: good I built pride around those things, and I had 514 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,919 Speaker 1: a group of friends around me where my talents are 515 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: needed are called upon. You know, they called me up 516 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 1: when the police stopped us. Michael, you're talking. You know, 517 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,160 Speaker 1: so I knew I was good at. So my confidence 518 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:04,960 Speaker 1: grew out of knowing what I was good at and 519 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 1: doing those things, not out of envying and not out 520 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,399 Speaker 1: of wanting to be something other than myself. And then 521 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,159 Speaker 1: with Kim Watson told me I was cute. It was 522 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 1: it was that third grade. It was a wrap. I'm like, 523 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:22,159 Speaker 1: I'm good exactly. Um. You know I'm sitting here listening 524 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:23,879 Speaker 1: to you and looking at you with so much pride. Man, 525 00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 1: thank you. I see you and t I and others 526 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 1: in your ILK as like professional athletes of the voice 527 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,240 Speaker 1: and of creativity and of the and of of the 528 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,639 Speaker 1: creative space. I'm a pro athlete. I think of the mind. Uh. 529 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:40,160 Speaker 1: You know, it's just like at the top of your game, 530 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 1: hopefully in your chosen space, and using that skill and 531 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 1: that talent to now create, you know, rippled influence in 532 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 1: other places, which your your activism and your community involvement. 533 00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 1: You you were walking through the airport in l a X. 534 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:59,440 Speaker 1: When you're public, When you're public person, your friends don't 535 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 1: need to hit you up on text. They just look 536 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 1: at TMZ and you're a TMZ hit you and said 537 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: and and you said something, tell them what I'll tell 538 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 1: you because you spout so much. You you're asking you 539 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 1: basically about you know, the crime in l A. Yeah, 540 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 1: and that's how do we what we're gonna do about 541 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:21,160 Speaker 1: this crime? And you said something really prophetic. You said, basically, 542 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,399 Speaker 1: if you want to stop crime in in l A 543 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 1: or anyplace else, you need to have jobs, business and 544 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 1: the home ownership. The same things that stabilized to grow 545 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 1: and grow everyone else everywhere else should stabilize and grow us. 546 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,400 Speaker 1: You agree with that absolutely. If you got home ownership, 547 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 1: you don't have people living essentially like gypsies. And you 548 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 1: know when when you're when when you're living like a jumpy, 549 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 1: you might not care about the home you're inning. You 550 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 1: might not care about the place we are because you 551 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,160 Speaker 1: don't feel you wanna be there the rest of your life. 552 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 1: The difference in the neighborhood like the one me and 553 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:51,640 Speaker 1: t I grew up in any time we were growing 554 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,639 Speaker 1: up in, it's that people all on their home, so 555 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 1: people cut their grass. People make sure their neighbors grass 556 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 1: was cut. If a roof was messed up, people got 557 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: together and help with that roof. They help one another 558 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 1: there because there was a certain pride in being there. Um, 559 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 1: if you can't make sure people are prideful, then you 560 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,639 Speaker 1: get neighborhoods that are dilapidated. Well, how do people assess pride? 561 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 1: Men assess pride by what they can do, what they 562 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 1: can protect, what they can provide for If our young 563 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,520 Speaker 1: men in particular had trade skills to be able to 564 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:19,400 Speaker 1: build themselves, to be able to be hired by contractors 565 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 1: that are building scotscrapers, you know, as well as the 566 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 1: houses that are around, there's a sense of pride that 567 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,719 Speaker 1: comes with that. For our kids that are using their 568 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,200 Speaker 1: mind or have an opportunity to come out of college 569 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 1: without the riddon, without the the the burden of debt, 570 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 1: then we can have those minds free to think a 571 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,760 Speaker 1: new in innovative ways to be making money. If you 572 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,359 Speaker 1: create that space and you create that opportunity. And he 573 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 1: told me there's nothing that happened for yeah, yeah, so um, 574 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 1: there's no There's there's nothing that happens politically that we're 575 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 1: not aware of twenty years ahead that can be that 576 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,239 Speaker 1: that's gonna happen. So we know that the conditions at 577 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:56,200 Speaker 1: the end of the last century were ones that would 578 00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,679 Speaker 1: lead to certain places we are now, and we can 579 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:00,639 Speaker 1: start to self correct those too. If you take the 580 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 1: average eighth grader now, if we start teaching the eighth 581 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,680 Speaker 1: grade of financial literacy now UM like my man Um, 582 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 1: Tony Rechler is into your into Um, Randall Solomon is 583 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 1: into Robert um Smith is into. If we start doing 584 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: those things right now, then that eighth grader, by the 585 00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:20,679 Speaker 1: time and graduates high school, it's ready to function financially 586 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:22,800 Speaker 1: as an adult in the way the eighth graders aren't. 587 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 1: If we start bringing bad trades to high schools, book 588 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 1: Washington UM High School here not only offered academics UM 589 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 1: thirty years ago, it offered trades, whether it was out 590 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 1: of body mechanics, airplane mechanics. At George High School, one 591 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,640 Speaker 1: of my favorite English teachers at my rival high school 592 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 1: actually learned how to poster chairs at books you watched 593 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 1: in high school. Then you get people who, while they're 594 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 1: pursuing a higher education at your more House, your Clark's, 595 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 1: your Morris Round Spellman's, can still go out on weekends 596 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 1: and do more than help with habit had for humanity, 597 00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 1: but build their own houses to sell on lots that 598 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 1: their parents may have bought, and you start to fix 599 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 1: the bigger problem because people who are prideful don't need 600 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 1: to be running in the stores grabbing stuff out taking 601 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,040 Speaker 1: it because they're able to buy it there. I called 602 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 1: my my wife called a contractor um on the property 603 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 1: I bought her for a birthday a few years back, 604 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: and she sent me a picture of him, and she said, 605 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 1: you stop up, stop slow, stop the press and stop everything. Slow, 606 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,000 Speaker 1: slow the heck up. You're a rapper, you're a singer, 607 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 1: you're you're you're a TV personality, or you're an artist, 608 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 1: you're creative, genius, you you you, you know. You got 609 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,960 Speaker 1: blinged up one side down and the way we're back up. 610 00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 1: Tell me what you said. You bought your wife for 611 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,400 Speaker 1: her birthday. Bought the house that her grandmother bought. Her 612 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 1: grandmother worked as a janitor and the housing projects and 613 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 1: owned h M a liquor house. The shot house is 614 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 1: what they would call the black community where you buy 615 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:44,840 Speaker 1: because you used to couldn't buy. Look on Sundays in 616 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 1: Georgia and her grandma would sell shot to liquor and 617 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 1: she saved up that money and bought her house on 618 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,160 Speaker 1: Norton Street. I bought that house back from the owner 619 00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 1: from um who are momed so too? After remember the 620 00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 1: dad I bought it for for a birthday and I 621 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 1: was making smart sexy baby. And that's what I'm talking only, 622 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,600 Speaker 1: I think maybe the only piece we don't altogether, that's 623 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 1: just her house, right. So she sent me a picture 624 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 1: of the contractor who had been a deep way back 625 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,720 Speaker 1: in the eighties and he still had his dope, jury 626 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 1: still had on a big run. Okay, this might not 627 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 1: be cheap, you know, but but you think about it. 628 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,160 Speaker 1: You're a little boy, you're coming out on the driveway 629 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 1: in the nineties and you see him. He's not a 630 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: drug dealer. He's a contractor. There's a contractor here called 631 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 1: the Modern Crafts. When you guys go check him out. 632 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 1: VJ he um, he just did that beautiful modern modern 633 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 1: crasping in. Yeah, yeah, it's right on. But that brother 634 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 1: is on, the brother who did um TIA's bedroom and 635 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,240 Speaker 1: he put up and and that beautiful lights and sofa. 636 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 1: See he looks like a club and soil in the bathroom. Yeah, 637 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 1: divine for me. By the stand up, going on, look 638 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 1: at check it out to your design. I asked that 639 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 1: brother that, I said, where, what what? What made you 640 00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 1: want to be a contractor? He grew up in Chicago, 641 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,440 Speaker 1: he said, I come out, he said, this one guy 642 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,520 Speaker 1: man who had beautiful cars. Closer, he say, but it 643 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 1: was a van. He was a contractor. He owned this van. 644 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,760 Speaker 1: He was contract And he said that made me want 645 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,880 Speaker 1: to do that because he saw that example of success. 646 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 1: He saw, Yeah, I don't have to be a pimp, 647 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 1: a player, or a gangster in order to have a 648 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 1: nice car, in order for women to a door like me, 649 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,440 Speaker 1: in order to have a nice house, I just have 650 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 1: to use my mind in my hands. And that's what 651 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:22,800 Speaker 1: he did. And brothers one of the best contractors. I mean, 652 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 1: he ain't. He ain't building low class houses. This brother's 653 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 1: man I'm talking about. I had him do my basement. 654 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 1: I think, Lord have mercy. Well, I'm so glad he 655 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 1: was finished. I pay him. I'm gonna put some kids 656 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 1: through college. But um, but for for me, it's just 657 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 1: about putting the examples. I gotta think it was the 658 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 1: white teacher name Mr Jim Burton when I say that, 659 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 1: because I grew up in an area where they I 660 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 1: just I didn't experience white teachers. I had exactly so 661 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 1: growing up in Atlanta. Because the man name Mr. Jim Burton, 662 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 1: I'll never forget. He drove up to my summer school. 663 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,520 Speaker 1: It made and he says, um, I gotta, I gotta 664 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 1: being dyslexic, I didn't want to do math all year, 665 00:31:57,920 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 1: so I go to summer school. I figured out going 666 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,200 Speaker 1: to some school, I get my credits in summer school, 667 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: and that I could just do an extra art course 668 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,240 Speaker 1: in the falling winter. And Mr Burtell said, how'd you 669 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 1: like to learn how to fly? And I was like, 670 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:10,880 Speaker 1: I love, Let's do it. What do we need to do? 671 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,240 Speaker 1: And he paid me and Slim from one twelve and 672 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 1: about twelve other students aviation mechanics and aviation. And that's 673 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 1: when I started learning using your mind. And my father 674 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,080 Speaker 1: would say, who was a blue collar? Work? And my 675 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 1: father would say, you know, think work smarter, not harder. 676 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 1: And I just said, man, this is what it's about. 677 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 1: It's about figuring out beyond base education, what else can 678 00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:33,600 Speaker 1: I learn while I'm here? How are the products and 679 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:35,959 Speaker 1: that I could think of, how the services I can 680 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,720 Speaker 1: think of, how they're valuable in the bigger marketplace in 681 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,640 Speaker 1: the world, and what could I do? And I just 682 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 1: I've been sewing it out my whole life. I don't 683 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 1: have it all figured out, but I'm figured that. I 684 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 1: was like, Oh, like you saw on the barbershop, we 685 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 1: actually on three well on the original barbershop on Roosevelt Highway, 686 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:52,960 Speaker 1: we on um one end that the swack shop, the 687 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:57,720 Speaker 1: shave washing groom shop. Um. If you look at corporations 688 00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 1: like Floyd, like Rudy's, like Super Great Clips, traditionally these 689 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:04,400 Speaker 1: are white owned establishments. He's a white thought of Um 690 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 1: there for black barbershops to have such a dominant force 691 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,239 Speaker 1: in our community. There can be eight barbershops on one 692 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 1: block like over now on models came out of old pascals, 693 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 1: no remember closed now. So there's obviously a great business 694 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 1: in that, but no one has ever thought, let me 695 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 1: build a brand around Barbara and a lifestyle brand at 696 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,880 Speaker 1: mass Craze is a barbershop, and let me grow this 697 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 1: a lifestyle brand that masquerais is a barbershop. That's what 698 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 1: my wife and I are doing with the swag shop. 699 00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 1: Where what would you say again, your wife and you 700 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 1: are doing You know, I'm the co owner. I always 701 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 1: let people on the car on her. So you're doing 702 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 1: this with your with your wife as a business woman. Yeah, absolutely, 703 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 1: absolutely absolutely, She's sharpened me on business. So I listened 704 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:41,920 Speaker 1: to her a lot. I know there was another time. 705 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:43,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, gonna tell your business, but I know there's 706 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,720 Speaker 1: another time. For her birthday. You gave her some money 707 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 1: put in an investment account or whatever for her birthday. Yeah, 708 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:51,200 Speaker 1: So I want you guys to think about this now. 709 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:53,000 Speaker 1: You know you you know, you can go get the 710 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,320 Speaker 1: purse or whatever you want, But those are depreciating assets. 711 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 1: My man is investing in his woman. Who is which 712 00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 1: is an appreciating asset. Yeah, she's she's an investing in 713 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 1: appreciative Yeah. She still gets some of adult girls stuff too, 714 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 1: Like she got the Gucci boost in the purse. I 715 00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,560 Speaker 1: think I bought her like thirty grand and stock that year, 716 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:10,200 Speaker 1: and then another year I gave her like a Hunter 717 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 1: grant and for investment. So I just I want because 718 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 1: I know she's smart, turns in me many things, and 719 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,839 Speaker 1: I don't ever want her to feel as though she's 720 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:22,319 Speaker 1: only my wife. She's a fully functioning human being. She's 721 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 1: my partner and I honored that, but I sing it 722 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 1: like she She's fine to tell him, she said, make 723 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 1: sure you tell people I see it. I sing a 724 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:29,719 Speaker 1: dance for folks for a living. You know, That's what 725 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 1: I do. But we ain't singing and dance. And once 726 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,399 Speaker 1: I'm off that stage, we're doing business. My wife is since, 727 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:39,480 Speaker 1: as you know, singlarly similarly smart. Yeah, she owns real 728 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:43,480 Speaker 1: estate and uh Harlem one a few blacks owned property 729 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:47,520 Speaker 1: and still in Harlem, uh in in Miami and in Chicago. 730 00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:49,320 Speaker 1: I tried to buy her property in Chicago. She's like, no, 731 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 1: you're not getting my nugget. This is my little nugget. 732 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:54,920 Speaker 1: This is my nugget. I just asked her to day 733 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:58,520 Speaker 1: to co chair the Family Foundation together and she's like, 734 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 1: you mean you mean Coley. So so look, you said 735 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 1: something earlier that reminds me of something Dr King's, I mean, 736 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:08,640 Speaker 1: Ambassador Andrew Young said the same thing. By the way, 737 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,440 Speaker 1: it's Dr Dr King's right arm in the civil rights 738 00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:15,920 Speaker 1: movement was Dr was Ambassador Andrew Young. He said about 739 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 1: a decade ago, John, if African Americans and minorities lose 740 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,759 Speaker 1: political power and civil rights protections, we need the work 741 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,400 Speaker 1: You're gonna be doing because because all will have his economics. 742 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 1: And he said, I don't think we're gonna get to 743 00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,480 Speaker 1: this point. I think it's gonna get that bad, but 744 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:36,200 Speaker 1: but just make sure you stay focused. And now, unfortunately 745 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 1: we're at this moment, this inflection point where it looks 746 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 1: like this is actually, you know, if everything is sort 747 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:43,800 Speaker 1: of at risk and we do need to be about economics. 748 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 1: You said something to me. I don't know if you 749 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:47,840 Speaker 1: know how much I listened to you. I was in 750 00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 1: the car. I know exactly where I was is four 751 00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 1: o'clock in the afternoon. I was going around the corner 752 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,719 Speaker 1: at the airport on the freeway, and you said to me, 753 00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 1: John Black, people need an outsize business success story, an 754 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:01,360 Speaker 1: outside business image of itself that's not just limited to 755 00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:03,960 Speaker 1: entertainment in sports. What do you mean by that that 756 00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:07,360 Speaker 1: we have to understand that the Robert Smith's to Michael V. Roberts, 757 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 1: to John Hope Bryant's, the Herman Russell's have existed, and 758 00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,840 Speaker 1: we have to understand that they're still in creation and existing. 759 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:18,880 Speaker 1: Now we have to see ourselves as owners and we 760 00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,239 Speaker 1: and I don't mean in an imaginary place like to 761 00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:24,279 Speaker 1: see ownership Tony Rechler is the majority owners of HAGS, 762 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:29,239 Speaker 1: A minority owner is Grand Hill business partner. And in 763 00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,960 Speaker 1: one and one day they're going to have majority owners 764 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:35,000 Speaker 1: that look exactly, I'm gonna have more Magic Johnson's than not. 765 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:39,320 Speaker 1: So the question becomes, why aren't we talking about that 766 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 1: as much as we're talking about the people who singing dancing, 767 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,000 Speaker 1: the people that run bass very important to singing dance. 768 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 1: But when I hear about a player again the forty 769 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 1: and a hundred million dollar contract, my question becomes, who 770 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 1: can afford to pay it? So so when as you know, 771 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:57,800 Speaker 1: Tony Resler pays that with this petty cash, absolutely the 772 00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,200 Speaker 1: billionaires showing up in a in a non script car, 773 00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:03,399 Speaker 1: sitting in the tenth row, he owns, the owns the team, 774 00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,120 Speaker 1: He writes the check, they cash it right, and the 775 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,279 Speaker 1: ball is a running around with chains on and least 776 00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,600 Speaker 1: Ferrari's stuff. And it's all good. But I don't I 777 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 1: don't have I don't have with it. But just just 778 00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:18,760 Speaker 1: from Jamal mash Burnett, Shaquille O'Neil it, you know, Magic Johnston. 779 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,840 Speaker 1: Figure out a way to make sure that your image 780 00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 1: and what you're doing can make you and money in 781 00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,160 Speaker 1: the same way it makes money for others and understanding 782 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:31,239 Speaker 1: the difference between making money and building wealth. Absolutely, you 783 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:34,560 Speaker 1: can be you can have lifestyle riches, uh, but you'll 784 00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:36,920 Speaker 1: still go broke. You've got to build wealth, and you 785 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 1: build wealth in your sleep. Let's let's I don't want 786 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,000 Speaker 1: us to run out of time. If we get to. 787 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,240 Speaker 1: I want to get to one of your mini ventures, 788 00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 1: which is Bank Greenwood. But Uh, the larger issue for 789 00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 1: me is I'm gonna come back to this tsue of 790 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:53,400 Speaker 1: of this moment in time post George Floyd got blesses 791 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,799 Speaker 1: and got rest his soul. Uh. He gave his life 792 00:37:56,840 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 1: so we might have light. Um, we're in this inflection point, man, 793 00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,319 Speaker 1: and I don't know if this is gonna come around again, 794 00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: but you know, I think we have ten years and 795 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:08,440 Speaker 1: what I call a third reconstruction period, uh to get 796 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 1: this right and again social justice to an economic lens. 797 00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:13,320 Speaker 1: How I frame it, you may frame it completely differently. 798 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,239 Speaker 1: What why are you doing what you're doing? What are 799 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,200 Speaker 1: some of the things that you're doing the audience needs 800 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,319 Speaker 1: to know about how can they support it? Uh? Let's 801 00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 1: get into your vision for uh society right now? And 802 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:30,440 Speaker 1: what's the opportunity for not just Black America, but all 803 00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:32,799 Speaker 1: of America. Well, let me tell all of America one thing. 804 00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,759 Speaker 1: When the black economy and the Black community is strong 805 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 1: and stable, the wider community is more strong and more stable. Boom, 806 00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:44,520 Speaker 1: all right, So when black families are strong, the greater 807 00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:48,640 Speaker 1: community is strong. When Black economics is strong, the greater 808 00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 1: communities economics is strong. Right, That's just what it is. 809 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:56,239 Speaker 1: So there's an there should be an interest in strengthening 810 00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 1: the black communities from from a financial standpoint, because by 811 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:03,279 Speaker 1: see the wider community get stronger, thanks get more um 812 00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,879 Speaker 1: loans given, those loans get paid back on time, those 813 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:10,640 Speaker 1: neighborhoods stabilized, they create better schools because better tax neighborhoods 814 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:13,759 Speaker 1: create better schools, creates better people in the workforce. Right, 815 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,320 Speaker 1: if you don't have a strong Black community, and what 816 00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:19,440 Speaker 1: you're doing as achilles healing one of the greatest potential 817 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:22,120 Speaker 1: economic driving forces in the world. So we need to 818 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:26,799 Speaker 1: end the the the Achilles tending tear by finally making 819 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:28,799 Speaker 1: good on what this country has promised us, and that's 820 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:32,160 Speaker 1: equal opportunity for all. We have not had the equal opportunity. 821 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:33,640 Speaker 1: I know a lot of my white brothers and sisters 822 00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:37,480 Speaker 1: listen to the radio on conservative stations and they hear 823 00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:39,759 Speaker 1: that things aren't fair. You had to get it out 824 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:41,880 Speaker 1: the mud for Yeah, you know, you hear that stuff. 825 00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 1: But you weren't red lined out of housing for eighty years. 826 00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:51,960 Speaker 1: You were. And that's not blaming pointing at you. That's 827 00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 1: just saying that your great grandparents, your grandparents, and your 828 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:58,360 Speaker 1: parents had an opportunity to build things like equity that 829 00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:01,680 Speaker 1: paid for education in a different way, even even an 830 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:06,560 Speaker 1: educating educating students by you being under educated. When I 831 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,480 Speaker 1: say Frederick Douglass to you, you just say, well, wow, 832 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 1: that's a piece of black history. You don't understand. That's 833 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,480 Speaker 1: the most photographed person of the nineteenth century. He was 834 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,600 Speaker 1: not only an advice of the President's and and and kings. 835 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:20,600 Speaker 1: He was the person that was would have if clinking 836 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:22,880 Speaker 1: and I've been assassinated, helped Lincoln set this country on 837 00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:25,239 Speaker 1: a path of true equity for people. It was a 838 00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:28,520 Speaker 1: doctor Martina King Jr. And Nelson Mandela of the eight hundred, 839 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 1: all wrapped in the one you know, and absolutely and 840 00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:36,120 Speaker 1: had the Freedman's Bank been successful and not been sabotaged 841 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,560 Speaker 1: and really had been able to see this country would 842 00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:41,760 Speaker 1: be stronger economically now because it wouldn't have been walking 843 00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,520 Speaker 1: on an Achilles Hill because Jim crow last Is allowed 844 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:47,480 Speaker 1: part of it to be kept eighty years behind so 845 00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:51,040 Speaker 1: that the real estate in Baltimore, Maryland after rented it 846 00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 1: out the working class blacks, which gave him the financial 847 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:54,879 Speaker 1: freedom to be a civil rights leader and a social 848 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,440 Speaker 1: justice leader. Back to you, absolutely. So for me, what 849 00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,200 Speaker 1: I want for myself and for my wife is to 850 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,920 Speaker 1: build our individual wealth because my grandparents told me take 851 00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 1: care of yourself first. That individual wealth will help us 852 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,120 Speaker 1: take care of, educate, and take care of not only 853 00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:10,440 Speaker 1: our family, but our friends and families in our direct 854 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 1: community around us. The stronger our community is, the more 855 00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,000 Speaker 1: we become a prototype for other communities to do the same. 856 00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,000 Speaker 1: That's why I want Atlanta to win. That's why I 857 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:19,799 Speaker 1: want City of South full Toon to win. I want 858 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,040 Speaker 1: the Calf County to win. I want Douglas Field to win. 859 00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 1: I want newly elected people in Cobb County to win 860 00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,320 Speaker 1: that look like me, because if that happens, then this 861 00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:31,800 Speaker 1: state becomes an economic example for what's possible in Florida 862 00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,960 Speaker 1: and North Florida. What's possible in Laura and eastern Alabama's 863 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 1: possible in the Carolina's you have of African Americans living 864 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 1: in the South. Imagine if the South once again, you know, 865 00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:44,080 Speaker 1: past the King of the king Cotton days, where you 866 00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:46,280 Speaker 1: had the planner class who use a poor white class 867 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,760 Speaker 1: as a buffer between them and those people that were slaved. 868 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:53,320 Speaker 1: You could, finally in South Georgia have equality amongst working 869 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,360 Speaker 1: class men because they're both making equal wages. At the 870 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,080 Speaker 1: time the Civil rights movement was happening, the most the 871 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,960 Speaker 1: big a group of people against unionizing in Civil rights 872 00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:06,360 Speaker 1: were poor white men in Mississippi who are being underpaid 873 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,960 Speaker 1: by factories used by master class who looked just like them, 874 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,520 Speaker 1: and then pitted against working class men whose fight for 875 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:16,920 Speaker 1: unions made it better for everyone. That's the that's the 876 00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 1: that's the pit we have to stop falling into. What 877 00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,239 Speaker 1: I would like to see for this country is for 878 00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,960 Speaker 1: this country to rise to James Baldwin's challenge and realize 879 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:27,560 Speaker 1: that we're not going to pack up and go back 880 00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:30,680 Speaker 1: to Europe. We're not going to pack up and go 881 00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:33,480 Speaker 1: back to Africa. What we what we can do is 882 00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:37,759 Speaker 1: figure out a cooperative living here, a cooperative push for 883 00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:40,680 Speaker 1: one America in a way that one America does not 884 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:43,440 Speaker 1: have to be ruled by one class of Americans, not 885 00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:46,239 Speaker 1: by one color, not by one creed that we could 886 00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:49,480 Speaker 1: finally take the best of George Washington Carver, with the 887 00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,359 Speaker 1: best of Franklin Devil de Leonore Roosevelt. We can take 888 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,840 Speaker 1: the best of Frederick Douglas with the best policies that 889 00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:59,000 Speaker 1: were signed, even though reluctantly by the Baines Johnson, and 890 00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 1: we could create some thing that's new and something that 891 00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:04,279 Speaker 1: delivers on the promise of equality and equity for all. 892 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,400 Speaker 1: If we could do that, if we were willing to 893 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,040 Speaker 1: put our egos to the side, this could possibly be 894 00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:12,320 Speaker 1: the greatest country that every came man. And when Madam C. J. Walker, 895 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:17,200 Speaker 1: the first black manaire one her white suppliers, one absolutely 896 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:21,720 Speaker 1: when when uh when uh doctor Dorothy Hight, who counseled 897 00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:25,360 Speaker 1: twelve presidents National Council of Negro Women, when she advised 898 00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:30,080 Speaker 1: Eleanor Roosevelt, a white, the white the female wife of 899 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:33,879 Speaker 1: the president, the whole nation was h that the day. 900 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,759 Speaker 1: The color is not white, black, red, brown, and yellow. 901 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:40,000 Speaker 1: The colors green. That's right, It's not red or blue 902 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,360 Speaker 1: as in political parties say it's always been green. We 903 00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:45,080 Speaker 1: just never we just didn't have it this ever had 904 00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:47,600 Speaker 1: this straight conversation. I want people listening to this, and 905 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:51,440 Speaker 1: please tell everybody you know to listen to this podcast 906 00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:53,400 Speaker 1: and pass it on. I want people to listen to 907 00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:56,040 Speaker 1: this when we need to make things like this go viral. 908 00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 1: This has been a wonderful conversation. I want people to 909 00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,160 Speaker 1: listen to this who are afraid of black progress US. 910 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:03,200 Speaker 1: I want them to understand. This is about, to quote 911 00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:05,839 Speaker 1: my friend Stephanie Rule, this is about expanding the table 912 00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,399 Speaker 1: and adding a seat. This is not about a serial 913 00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:11,520 Speaker 1: some game of we win and you lose. There's four 914 00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,680 Speaker 1: things that never gone backwards, Mike, in all the world history, 915 00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:19,839 Speaker 1: American history. Real estate values, they've gone up, gone down. 916 00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,800 Speaker 1: Uh took we then unfortunately we've We've sold on the 917 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,520 Speaker 1: dip when it went down, went back up, corrected above 918 00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,160 Speaker 1: the line, came down again, corrected above the line, went 919 00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:31,359 Speaker 1: back up. Stock market values the same thing went up, 920 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,040 Speaker 1: crash went down. We sold in the dip because we 921 00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:37,759 Speaker 1: were afraid correct the financially literacy corrected above the line, 922 00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:40,960 Speaker 1: kept g d P gross domestic product are income for 923 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,279 Speaker 1: this country never gone down, and the prospects of a 924 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:46,520 Speaker 1: fifty five year old college educated white man has never 925 00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:49,520 Speaker 1: gone backwards in the history of this country. There's nothing 926 00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:51,840 Speaker 1: for from our white brother and sisters to worry about, 927 00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:55,920 Speaker 1: because when we win, they win. When we succeed, they succeed. 928 00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:59,759 Speaker 1: Because all boats rise, GDP increases, the economy expands. I 929 00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:03,440 Speaker 1: want that that message to be heard loud and clear, 930 00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,960 Speaker 1: that that either we succeed together as brothers and sisters, 931 00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,040 Speaker 1: or we will die together as fools. You can take 932 00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:10,600 Speaker 1: no pleasure from the fact it's a hole in my 933 00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:13,719 Speaker 1: end of our boat. And that's why I love for 934 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:15,920 Speaker 1: a guy like you, who've got so much social currency, 935 00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 1: who's so bilingual. I love seeing you go from Wall 936 00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:23,320 Speaker 1: Street to Main Street, from the Black Street to the 937 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,320 Speaker 1: Latino Street. I love I love it that you started 938 00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:30,319 Speaker 1: you that your music crosses all racial barriers. By the way, 939 00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,319 Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about your music. On one 940 00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:34,520 Speaker 1: half of a rap group called Runner Jewels, It's me 941 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,800 Speaker 1: and a white guy from Brooklyn, Me and Jamie Mullene 942 00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,680 Speaker 1: better known as LP the Creative Death Chucks Records, formerly 943 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,839 Speaker 1: a member of company Flow to me, the greatest rapper 944 00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,280 Speaker 1: producer in the world because he writes his own wraps. 945 00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:48,240 Speaker 1: I sit there and watch him do it. He produces 946 00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,400 Speaker 1: his own beats. I sit there and watch him do it. 947 00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,800 Speaker 1: I UM, it took me ten years becoming overnight success. 948 00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:58,800 Speaker 1: You know, I tried along, and I pushed along and 949 00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:02,560 Speaker 1: had moderate success, had a lot of critical um, you know, 950 00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:04,680 Speaker 1: a lot of critical clapping. But what I didn't have 951 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,520 Speaker 1: for the I had a one goal record, but I 952 00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:11,879 Speaker 1: didn't have a hugely successful singles career like my say 953 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:13,640 Speaker 1: good friend to ya tea. I can make a hit 954 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,400 Speaker 1: record and sleep, wake up, do it again after that. UM, 955 00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:19,040 Speaker 1: what I have is one of the most successful touring 956 00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:21,080 Speaker 1: groups in the world. When LP and I started working together, 957 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:23,080 Speaker 1: in the first three hours, I called it guy to 958 00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:24,840 Speaker 1: put it together, like we're supposed to be making. This 959 00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,600 Speaker 1: is like Bomb Squad and Ice Cub together. UM. Since 960 00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:29,839 Speaker 1: then in the last ten years, ten years next year 961 00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:32,120 Speaker 1: will be the anniversary of rap music. On first solo 962 00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,839 Speaker 1: record he produced UM that came right out of Williams Street, 963 00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,279 Speaker 1: right overall, not not too far from here. And then 964 00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,279 Speaker 1: we formed a group. And there's something about cooperation and 965 00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:45,399 Speaker 1: collaboration that makes it unstoppable. And he and I have cooperated, collaborated. 966 00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:47,239 Speaker 1: He's one of my best friends in the world. We 967 00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:48,600 Speaker 1: make some of the best rap music in the world. 968 00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:50,080 Speaker 1: We get some of the best shows. And next year, 969 00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:53,000 Speaker 1: come March, will be opening for Rage against the Machine 970 00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,520 Speaker 1: um for for the full year. I was gonna be 971 00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,200 Speaker 1: out there, you know, and I'm gonna I'm gonna my 972 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,000 Speaker 1: wife saries'ly gonna go make a lot of money. Were 973 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:02,200 Speaker 1: going to invest in Bury and we'll visit in twenty years, 974 00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,960 Speaker 1: you know. So you're not just doing this for you 975 00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:08,839 Speaker 1: every time you say something it's a week. Yeah, yeah, 976 00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:10,840 Speaker 1: you know there was. You're trying to grow something for 977 00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,560 Speaker 1: your family. Yeah, leg I see your family, generational wealth 978 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:16,399 Speaker 1: for your community. Got to do it. So so you're 979 00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:19,000 Speaker 1: better that if you believe that we're better together, yeah 980 00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:20,560 Speaker 1: we are. I mean what are we? You know? What? 981 00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:24,399 Speaker 1: What what can you? You know? If everyone does a little, 982 00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,640 Speaker 1: nobody has to do a lot. I truly believe that 983 00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:29,880 Speaker 1: if all of us do our little part, no one 984 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,480 Speaker 1: has to do a lot. If there's one house on 985 00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,839 Speaker 1: the block whose yard is constantly unkept, if we as 986 00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,439 Speaker 1: neighbors agree to meet there on Saturday, we could spend 987 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,960 Speaker 1: two hours in the yard has kept all us, you know. 988 00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:44,200 Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that because that's the philosophy. I'm 989 00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,360 Speaker 1: saying that because that's what we did in my neighborhood. 990 00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:49,400 Speaker 1: I remember cut miss Ruby Yard and my grandmother getting 991 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:51,200 Speaker 1: twenty bucks one time. I thought I got twenty bucks 992 00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:53,320 Speaker 1: every time coming and she was like, no, you're not 993 00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,040 Speaker 1: gonna charge her. I was like, why is it? Because 994 00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:57,399 Speaker 1: she lived here before you did. She kicked up stuff 995 00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,759 Speaker 1: off the street for you, you know. And what I 996 00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 1: and I understood and when whether it was there or 997 00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,160 Speaker 1: us going to say they made nursing home to help 998 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,759 Speaker 1: people on Sundays, is that you owed something to the 999 00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:09,400 Speaker 1: people who had laid the foundation before you. And the 1000 00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:12,959 Speaker 1: owen was was actual sweat. The owen was your little 1001 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,439 Speaker 1: bit of of a piece of your income going into 1002 00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,320 Speaker 1: the pot that made sure that groceries you know, got around. 1003 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:20,799 Speaker 1: You know. So I owe So I say we, because 1004 00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,320 Speaker 1: it is truly we. I can't do the ship myself. 1005 00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:27,719 Speaker 1: You know, I'm married. I married. I married the woman 1006 00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:30,560 Speaker 1: I married because you know, she's beautiful. Girl, got got 1007 00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,719 Speaker 1: great bumpers, you know, top and bottom. But with that said, 1008 00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:41,279 Speaker 1: man her mentality, her mentality bumpers. Yeah, you know, she's 1009 00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:46,759 Speaker 1: felt like a Ferrari man sexy lines. But it's her mind. Absolutely, 1010 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,319 Speaker 1: it's it's her mind. I knew that as an artist, 1011 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,600 Speaker 1: I could get frivolous, I could get dreamy and flighty. 1012 00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:54,160 Speaker 1: She wants to know the numbers, you know, and that 1013 00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:56,799 Speaker 1: that's important that you have that balanced. Proverbs thirty one 1014 00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:59,360 Speaker 1: ten through thirty one talks about that talks about the 1015 00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:02,000 Speaker 1: type of woman. I'm not even I was raised in church, 1016 00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:04,760 Speaker 1: but I'm not the most religious guy. But the lessons 1017 00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:07,719 Speaker 1: and the moral lessons that you learned where I've I've 1018 00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:09,600 Speaker 1: kept for most of my life. And I appreciate my 1019 00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:11,920 Speaker 1: grandmother for in posing the money. I was talking to 1020 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:14,120 Speaker 1: shape my shade you this morning that where my shade 1021 00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:19,000 Speaker 1: loves your shape yea, And yeah, I was talking about Uh. 1022 00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,440 Speaker 1: They hung out so late one night I had to 1023 00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:23,040 Speaker 1: go home and come back and get pick her him later. 1024 00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:26,160 Speaker 1: But uh, I was talking to her this morning about 1025 00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:28,600 Speaker 1: the donation that we're gonna make and I want to 1026 00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:30,080 Speaker 1: check it with her, make sure she was cool with 1027 00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:33,120 Speaker 1: it from a transaction I'm doing. And she's like, this 1028 00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:35,040 Speaker 1: is cool, John's really nice. You're doing it. What are 1029 00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:37,920 Speaker 1: you getting. She's like, I don't see anything in here 1030 00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:39,799 Speaker 1: about what you're getting. Like, you know you're not gonna 1031 00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:41,759 Speaker 1: spend all this time building up this company whatever, and 1032 00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,000 Speaker 1: then you don't get anything now that that dog don't hunt, 1033 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,160 Speaker 1: charity starts at home. She wanted to make sure that 1034 00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:49,359 Speaker 1: that her man was Okay, you need you need something. 1035 00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:51,480 Speaker 1: You need something other than just arm candy, just something 1036 00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:55,520 Speaker 1: other than que Look, when you go the folks, young people, 1037 00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,960 Speaker 1: there's some young young people watching. Listen to this podcast. 1038 00:49:58,000 --> 00:49:59,759 Speaker 1: I want you to do something. When you go to 1039 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,759 Speaker 1: COVID friendly vaccinated club. By the way, I got the 1040 00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,280 Speaker 1: Blushers shop and just walk right through some COVID stuff 1041 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,600 Speaker 1: last week without being touched. I'm telling the shot works. 1042 00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:11,120 Speaker 1: But you're going to you you go to the vaccinated 1043 00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:13,919 Speaker 1: club or whatever, and you in there and you see 1044 00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:17,080 Speaker 1: somebody attractive, good guy. You see a fine woman. Ladies, 1045 00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:19,719 Speaker 1: you see a handsome man. He said, oh baby, you're 1046 00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,799 Speaker 1: so fine, you're so gad. That's cool. Wait, what's your name? 1047 00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 1: Okay cool? What's your credit score? Yeah, with the credit score, 1048 00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:31,800 Speaker 1: what are you passionate about? What's your purpose? Are we 1049 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:35,359 Speaker 1: better together? Because two plus two equals six or eight? Uh, 1050 00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,520 Speaker 1: you know, can you raise children? Can you? Can you 1051 00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:40,440 Speaker 1: run a household? If I build a house, can you 1052 00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:43,040 Speaker 1: can you turn into a home? You know what? What's 1053 00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 1: your vision? We're gonna build something that we just were 1054 00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:47,960 Speaker 1: we have. This is your partner, this is your business partner, 1055 00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:52,480 Speaker 1: your life partner. It's serious, absolutely absolutely absolutely absolutely absolutely 1056 00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,279 Speaker 1: so somebody, let's let's let's let you drop the mic 1057 00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:57,440 Speaker 1: here as we wrap this thing up. Man if if 1058 00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:00,560 Speaker 1: this all is about building, right, this about building the 1059 00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:03,120 Speaker 1: good life? And I don't tell people what good life 1060 00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:05,640 Speaker 1: they should want to just talking about building, building self esteem, 1061 00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,960 Speaker 1: building your community, building spirituality, building net worth, build your 1062 00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:12,680 Speaker 1: financial literacy. What's your building? As we wrap this thing up? 1063 00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:16,000 Speaker 1: What is your building advice that you have for the listeners? What? 1064 00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 1: What vision do you have you want to leave these 1065 00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,480 Speaker 1: folks with? And by the way, when you finish, how 1066 00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:23,040 Speaker 1: can they reach you? How can they support you? But 1067 00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:25,560 Speaker 1: what's your And we didn't tell me talking about Greenwood? Uh, 1068 00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:27,719 Speaker 1: you can conclude that if you're like, but what what 1069 00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:31,920 Speaker 1: what is before we get out of here? What's your building? 1070 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:36,800 Speaker 1: Perl of wisdom? Well, follow at bank Greenwood and follow 1071 00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 1: at Killer Mike and you can learn more about Greenwood 1072 00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:42,320 Speaker 1: going to be talking about. That's the fintech company focused 1073 00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:45,560 Speaker 1: on the black and Latin UM Latin X community. UM 1074 00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:48,520 Speaker 1: focused on building wealth, focused on making sure we are 1075 00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:52,640 Speaker 1: banking and not just simply check cashing places prevailors UM. 1076 00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:55,200 Speaker 1: In terms of what's my personal philosophy and building, I 1077 00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:56,960 Speaker 1: don't know if it applies to you, but what I 1078 00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,440 Speaker 1: do know what has helped me is in dreaming far 1079 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,840 Speaker 1: bigger than that currently dream. That means, whatever my biggest 1080 00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:05,920 Speaker 1: dream is, now, force yourself to dream bigger. I wanted 1081 00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:09,440 Speaker 1: to own um my uncle's garage. You own. He was 1082 00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:12,120 Speaker 1: the first business owner that that. I just admired it. 1083 00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:15,000 Speaker 1: My wife says, now that you've gotten a building to 1084 00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:16,839 Speaker 1: do your office, I'm gonna take this and we're gonna 1085 00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:19,160 Speaker 1: go four flows up. We're gonna build apartments. I never 1086 00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:21,560 Speaker 1: thought of that. She thought of that. You know, So 1087 00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:24,080 Speaker 1: be with someone that thinks of dreams bigger than you. 1088 00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:29,320 Speaker 1: If you're not live less than people suspect um, you know, 1089 00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:31,520 Speaker 1: live below your means. If you can get the million 1090 00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:33,160 Speaker 1: on at home, get the half a million on at home, 1091 00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:35,279 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? You don't, you don't have 1092 00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,360 Speaker 1: to show everything. I always tell people, you know, be 1093 00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:44,520 Speaker 1: cool at lane, being rich, play broke. You know, those 1094 00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:46,239 Speaker 1: are the things, and this is all things I just 1095 00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:48,320 Speaker 1: learned from old people, you know what I mean. So 1096 00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:52,800 Speaker 1: be modest um, like for the jury I have on 1097 00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:55,239 Speaker 1: the day, I have lots more jury. I warned my 1098 00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,920 Speaker 1: mother and my grandmother just watch. I bought off a 1099 00:52:57,960 --> 00:52:59,800 Speaker 1: widow who just had you know, she didn't want to 1100 00:52:59,880 --> 00:53:02,160 Speaker 1: keep for husband's watched. She didn't want someone to have 1101 00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:03,960 Speaker 1: it who wouldn't care about it. So I bought it off. 1102 00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:06,040 Speaker 1: You know I didn't. I never would have bought a 1103 00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:09,880 Speaker 1: Rolex with diamonds um, but if it would help a 1104 00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:11,800 Speaker 1: friend out and then keep it around and she do 1105 00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:13,520 Speaker 1: not take care of it, I did it because my 1106 00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:16,239 Speaker 1: favorite Rolex is a submariner. My wife bought me for 1107 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:18,960 Speaker 1: my birthday with no jewels in it. It's just beautiful 1108 00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:21,279 Speaker 1: blue and gold. I had always wanted a submarine. I 1109 00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:23,880 Speaker 1: didn't need to watch after that, so I tried my 1110 00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:26,240 Speaker 1: very best to live like my grandfather fifty. I'll probably 1111 00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:28,719 Speaker 1: just start wearing overalls and work boots like him, you know, 1112 00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:31,440 Speaker 1: So you know, be cool egg Lane. You know what 1113 00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:34,040 Speaker 1: I'm saying, be rich, play broke, you know, just just 1114 00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:37,280 Speaker 1: be be modest. Be My friend Bear told me Barlow 1115 00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:39,880 Speaker 1: a bear strong shouts out to them. They just collected 1116 00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:42,719 Speaker 1: a bunch of money and stuff um for kids who 1117 00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:46,200 Speaker 1: don't have Christmas and essentials like you know, the underwear, 1118 00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:48,480 Speaker 1: socks and winter coats, stuff like that. And we're gonna 1119 00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:50,560 Speaker 1: go to four seasons. I think that Sunday and gives 1120 00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:52,680 Speaker 1: them stuff away. But Bear says, you know, when you 1121 00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:55,080 Speaker 1: hear the meek schelling hair dirth, you often think the weak, 1122 00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:58,000 Speaker 1: weak meek people aren't weak. A meek man don't have 1123 00:53:58,040 --> 00:53:59,759 Speaker 1: a sword and have the ability to kill you. But 1124 00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:03,200 Speaker 1: simply because he knows you're a fool, won't you know? 1125 00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:06,880 Speaker 1: He says, so the intelligent will, those that are prepared 1126 00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,439 Speaker 1: for war but don't have to engage in it, Those 1127 00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:11,800 Speaker 1: are going to be the inheritance because they're using their mind. 1128 00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:13,960 Speaker 1: You know, if you read the article or it talks 1129 00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:16,959 Speaker 1: about the ultimate form of war, being able to solve 1130 00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,160 Speaker 1: the problem with your mind. Talks about the brother whose 1131 00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:21,319 Speaker 1: name is no not not even outside the house, because 1132 00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:24,200 Speaker 1: he can see sickness before whatever forms and correct behaviors 1133 00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:26,759 Speaker 1: that start sickness. So just try to be that, try 1134 00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:29,400 Speaker 1: to use your mind on a daily basis. You know, 1135 00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:32,360 Speaker 1: think it's nothing, it's nothing shameful about making a mistake. 1136 00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,520 Speaker 1: Make the mistake, learn from the mistake, adjust and try 1137 00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,600 Speaker 1: it again. You know, give yourself some time and give 1138 00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:42,520 Speaker 1: yourself a break. Don't beat yourself up for failing. You know, um, 1139 00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 1: I would almost say expect failure, don't expect failure, and 1140 00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:48,560 Speaker 1: just later and say I failed, but expect something not 1141 00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:51,520 Speaker 1: to go perfect. So when it doesn't, you learn from 1142 00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:53,840 Speaker 1: the imperfections and you're starting to appreciate the skills you 1143 00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,920 Speaker 1: developed as a result of it. That's how. And accept correction. 1144 00:54:57,440 --> 00:54:59,880 Speaker 1: You've had to call me and correct me. And you 1145 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,279 Speaker 1: when you have to accept correction, you know, but but 1146 00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:05,880 Speaker 1: but but absolutely it was done in love, and you 1147 00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:07,759 Speaker 1: wouldn't have corrected me some people, you know, and people 1148 00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:09,360 Speaker 1: don't love you to help. Just watch you fail and 1149 00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,120 Speaker 1: watch it be a fool, but accept correction. You know. 1150 00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:14,759 Speaker 1: I know people used to hearing sexyr stuff. But but 1151 00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:19,040 Speaker 1: you know, very very plainly, very very simple stuff, very 1152 00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:23,040 Speaker 1: very um using common sense, you know, trusting your intuition 1153 00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:25,440 Speaker 1: when something sounds too good to be true, you know, 1154 00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,879 Speaker 1: doing your homework, really doing your due diligence. That type 1155 00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:31,279 Speaker 1: of stuff comes into play, you know, And I think 1156 00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:34,359 Speaker 1: you'll be okay and realize that much like my great 1157 00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:39,360 Speaker 1: grandparents realized we are the cornerstone for something greater. I 1158 00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:42,279 Speaker 1: know my great grandmother I knew so she was I 1159 00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,800 Speaker 1: was ten years old, I think when she died, for 1160 00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:47,399 Speaker 1: I was the sickly child. They sent us to the farm. 1161 00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:49,760 Speaker 1: I got als and I can't do much. I'm scared 1162 00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:52,520 Speaker 1: of everything. You know what I'm saying. I'll never forget 1163 00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:55,000 Speaker 1: a dog out at a chicken. And I went in 1164 00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,560 Speaker 1: and said dogs that the chicken. She came out, pulled 1165 00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:59,520 Speaker 1: a twenty two, like out of an apron po pop 1166 00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:01,680 Speaker 1: the dog like a wild dog, right in the thigh. 1167 00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:03,959 Speaker 1: It's getting out of there. She picked up the chicken, 1168 00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:06,839 Speaker 1: rain the neck, the chicken hands in her the chicken 1169 00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,280 Speaker 1: heads in her hand. The chicken I was just playing 1170 00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:12,160 Speaker 1: with his running around headless. She looks at me and says, 1171 00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:14,800 Speaker 1: go fetch me some water. So I run out of 1172 00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:16,719 Speaker 1: the back door all the way to the lake. And 1173 00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:18,720 Speaker 1: I tell my cousins like big moms who went crazy. 1174 00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:20,480 Speaker 1: She killed the dogs to kill the chicken. You're gonna 1175 00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:23,359 Speaker 1: kill us all. And they laughed at me. They brought 1176 00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:25,840 Speaker 1: the girls throughout the water back and water was boiling. 1177 00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:27,479 Speaker 1: That chicken was plucked. The chicken was on the table 1178 00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:29,719 Speaker 1: at three or thirty because she wasn't gonna waste that chicken, 1179 00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,080 Speaker 1: even if the dog at it. But she took me 1180 00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:34,200 Speaker 1: behind the house later on family some ice cream and 1181 00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,880 Speaker 1: just kind of sat and had a moment with me 1182 00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:40,480 Speaker 1: because what she understood is that I was afraid. I 1183 00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:44,960 Speaker 1: was scared, but I wasn't above learning. I had to 1184 00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 1: understand where food really came from. I had to understand 1185 00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,680 Speaker 1: in the process to learn not to waste, and I 1186 00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:54,800 Speaker 1: had to learn to not let fear consume me. And 1187 00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:57,399 Speaker 1: after that moment, I was never the same. After that moment, 1188 00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:59,439 Speaker 1: I was much stronger on that farm. After that moment, 1189 00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:01,920 Speaker 1: I was much more a brave, much more adventurous. But 1190 00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:04,640 Speaker 1: it took her having to show me this is the 1191 00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:07,719 Speaker 1: world is hard, the world is not fair, but you're 1192 00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:09,640 Speaker 1: built for it, your child, You're mostly made a water. 1193 00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:11,840 Speaker 1: You follow, You'll get back up, wipe y'all. You know, 1194 00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:13,760 Speaker 1: I'll never forget one time I pete in my pants 1195 00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:15,320 Speaker 1: on the farm. She just put me in front of 1196 00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:17,560 Speaker 1: the fire, let me draw out, send me back outside. 1197 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:21,480 Speaker 1: I mean so and and I have been blessed to 1198 00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:25,480 Speaker 1: have been around people that did not protect me from struggle. 1199 00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:32,400 Speaker 1: Run into the fight that rainbows after storm. Absolutely so, 1200 00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,600 Speaker 1: here we go with another master class, my man killing 1201 00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:40,560 Speaker 1: Mike A Michael Render. It's proven that you can be 1202 00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,919 Speaker 1: high tech and high touch. You can go from your 1203 00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:47,280 Speaker 1: street to Main Street to Wall Street and back. You 1204 00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:51,160 Speaker 1: can be authentic. You can speak to King's English and 1205 00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:54,560 Speaker 1: translate into job as you want to and retain your dignity, 1206 00:57:55,200 --> 00:58:00,280 Speaker 1: your authenticity, and your and show your intelligence all the 1207 00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:04,160 Speaker 1: same breath. He tells you to run into the fight, 1208 00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:08,000 Speaker 1: don't don't run away from it. He tells you that 1209 00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:12,520 Speaker 1: the calmest place in the hurricane is a center. He 1210 00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:15,920 Speaker 1: tells you that we may want to be locked into 1211 00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:18,720 Speaker 1: fear and I talked about in love leadership, or we 1212 00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:24,240 Speaker 1: want to embrace struggle as what happens when you're just 1213 00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:27,320 Speaker 1: dealing with drama all the time. Then you get a 1214 00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:30,440 Speaker 1: surviving mentality. He tells you to rise above that and 1215 00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:34,600 Speaker 1: find the light and gain a thriving mentality and then 1216 00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:39,240 Speaker 1: a winning mentality, because winners of buildings. Everybody who's a 1217 00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:41,800 Speaker 1: winner believed they are a winner before they ever wanted anything. 1218 00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:46,240 Speaker 1: And going back to every segment of Michael's story, even 1219 00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:48,760 Speaker 1: though he wasn't really raised by his mom and his dad, 1220 00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:50,600 Speaker 1: he was raised by his grandparents. He had all he 1221 00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:54,160 Speaker 1: raised so called poor. He was raising underserved areas he had. 1222 00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:56,160 Speaker 1: He did not the advantages, but he made his own 1223 00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:58,760 Speaker 1: advantage over the round it, through it, he just got 1224 00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:00,880 Speaker 1: to it. He decided he was going to build his 1225 00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:03,720 Speaker 1: life as he was going to live his life to 1226 00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:07,080 Speaker 1: a maximum potential. Reminds me of Dr King said, if 1227 00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:08,760 Speaker 1: you are going to be a trash collector, to be 1228 00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:11,920 Speaker 1: the best trash collector of the world's ever seen. Whatever 1229 00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:14,080 Speaker 1: you do, do it with excellence, do it with your 1230 00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:19,240 Speaker 1: whole life, leaning it with and run into the fight. 1231 00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:23,480 Speaker 1: This is John Hope bryan and this has been building 1232 00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:28,960 Speaker 1: the good life. Building the good Life with John Hope 1233 00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:31,240 Speaker 1: Bryant is brought to you by Predentials Financial