1 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your go Cheeky's and you've reached the 2 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you 3 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: advice on anything and everything you need help with. Maybe 4 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with 5 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: your family, or maybe you need help figuring out how 6 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: to balance your checkbook or how to start a business. 7 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: Whatever the cases, I want to hear from you. Remember 8 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,599 Speaker 1: these are my thoughts and opinions. And if you're suffering 9 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: from an issue or hardship, you should seek help from 10 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 1: a qualified professional. All right, now, go ahead and leave 11 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: your question at the sound of the beat. 12 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 2: Hi Cheeky's. My question for you today is I grew 13 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 2: up with an alcoholic father. My parents got a divorced 14 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 2: when I was around ten years old, and he moved 15 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 2: to Mexico. I have not seen him since. He does 16 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:06,400 Speaker 2: reach out to me and we do have conversations over 17 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: the phone. I've tried to bond with him over the phone, 18 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 2: but I just can't seem to bond with him. He 19 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 2: does call me drunk and he what I feel he 20 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 2: does is he takes advantage of the conversation and then 21 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 2: ends up asking me for money, and I just don't 22 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 2: feel comfortable sending him money when I'm aware he's going 23 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 2: to use it on drugs or alcohol. With that being said, 24 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 2: I decided to, you know, cut my ties or just 25 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 2: limit my communication with him. He does call me a lot, 26 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 2: and I just simply don't answer. As an adult. Now, 27 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 2: I'm thirty, and my husband's constantly reminding me that I 28 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 2: do have to, you know, due to religion, we have 29 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 2: to serve our parents and be there for our parents, 30 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 2: and I just don't know. I don't know. I prefer, 31 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 2: you know, my peace of mind. Anyway, I'm planning a 32 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 2: trip to Mexico soon and I don't know if I 33 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 2: want to see him. I know he's gonna be there. 34 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 2: I know my family's gonna ask me if I'm gonna 35 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 2: go down there where they're from, and I just, I 36 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 2: truly don't want to see him. 37 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 3: Is that bad? 38 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 2: Should I not feel this way? Can you please give 39 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 2: me an advice? 40 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: Well, my lovely anonymous listener, this is a toughie because 41 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: you guys know, I'm all about boundaries and whatever it 42 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: is that's gonna make you happy and protect your inner peace. 43 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: Here's the thing with parents. I agree with your man, 44 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 1: because it is important to honor our parents. It is biblical. 45 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: Especially if you have your parents, I mean, do your 46 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: best to have a good relationship with them. Unless you're 47 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: doing something actively to hurt you and harm you you 48 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 1: or your children, then I'm like, okay, hard No. You know, 49 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 1: here's the thing. If you go to Mexico, I do 50 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 1: think if I were you, i'd see him because you 51 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 1: never know if that'll be the last time that you 52 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 1: see him. If he starts asking for money, just say, 53 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: you know, this is why I've limited my communication with you, 54 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: because you ask me for money and I feel like 55 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: you're not going to use it to pay your bills, 56 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: You're going to use it for alcohol, and all these 57 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: years have passed and it just seems like you're stuck. 58 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: Like I would just be very honest with him, very respectful, 59 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: because that's your father. But let him know. Even if 60 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: you want to answer his call and he again asks 61 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: you for money or he's drunk, it's like, you know what, 62 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: I want to speak to you when you are sober. 63 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 1: I want to hear from you just because you want 64 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: to hear from me and see how I'm doing, not 65 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 1: to ask me for money. I think you need to 66 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: communicate that instead of ignoring it. I think you need 67 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: to confront him and confront the situation and be honest. 68 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: But if he's calling you and he's looking for you, 69 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: and you're going to Mexico and you don't go see him, 70 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: I don't want God forbid something bad to happen and 71 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: then you regret it, you know. So that's what my 72 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: heart is telling me to tell you. You're grown and 73 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: I do believe in boundaries and setting limits, but I 74 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: feel like this is a little different. He has you know, 75 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: alcoholism is a disease. You know. I'm not excusing him 76 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: because if he really wanted help, he would look for it. 77 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: But yeah, I agree with you as well. You can't 78 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: just give him money so that you can just support 79 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: his habit, his bad habit. But talk to him, babe. 80 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: It's important for you to be honest with him. That's 81 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 1: all I can tell you. But see him when you 82 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 1: go to Mexico. Okay, thank you for your question. I 83 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 1: hope that helps keep us updated. By the way, all right, 84 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: our next question comes from Adrian. 85 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 4: Hi, geez, So my question is to you is if 86 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 4: you know what song you want to dance with? The 87 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 4: media for your first dance at your wedding. For the 88 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 4: fact being that I've been having multiple dreams that you 89 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 4: say that you want to dance with him on all 90 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 4: your bigodies. The reason I know that, or think I 91 00:04:56,000 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 4: know that, is because I sleep with all these and 92 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 4: I guess my music interview with my dream and I 93 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 4: was like, oh, yeah, your mom said that she likes 94 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 4: that song. I think that's a sign for you to 95 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 4: dance that song with him. So yeah, so what is 96 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 4: your song for your wedding if you don't mind sharing 97 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:16,359 Speaker 4: that with us? Thank you, love you and hope to 98 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 4: see you soon because I've been having many dreams about you, 99 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 4: which is a good, good dream, which is your friend. Not 100 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:25,280 Speaker 4: nothing crazy, but I feel like we were like partners 101 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:28,160 Speaker 4: in a different life, but only God knows when right 102 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:28,799 Speaker 4: Bye bye. 103 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: You're so adorable, Adrian. Yes, we are definitely connected in 104 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 1: some way. So and then you listen to to Deer 105 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 1: Cheeky's and hopefully Cheeky's and Chill as well. So thank you. Well, 106 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: the wedding already happened. And the crazy thing is Emilio 107 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: and I love oldies like Sundays we always say are 108 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 1: for oldies. Anyways, we did not dance too. We didn't 109 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: actually don't have a first dance because it was just 110 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: kind of like a smaller wedding. We were at a restaurant. 111 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 1: The reception was at a restaurant. But it's also funny 112 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 1: that you bring up my mom because the song that 113 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: I walked down the aisle two was a song that 114 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 1: my mom I felt, had dedicated me from heaven and 115 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: also Immedio dedicated me that song, So it was kind 116 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 1: of like I'm walking down to a song that he 117 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 1: dedicated that means a lot to me. It was just 118 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 1: so awesome. It's by Shade by your Side, and it 119 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: was it was amazing, So that was that's like our song. 120 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 1: And also me really Hion. We listened to it like 121 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 1: right now ever since the wedding every single day. Really 122 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 1: Jon They it is me rely Jion, that's what it's called. 123 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: By Manna. It's another good one. So there you have it, 124 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 1: mister Adriann, keep dreaming beautiful things about me, just great stuff, hopefully, 125 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: Thank you so much the man. Okay, guys, our next 126 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 1: question comes from Viridana. 127 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:55,559 Speaker 3: Hey, Cheeky's so I am going through a breakup right now? 128 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:59,839 Speaker 3: I was in this relationship for two years with this man, 129 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 3: and I want to admit it was honestly a toxic relationship. 130 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 3: Both of us played our part. 131 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 5: But recently I was diagnosed with bipolar to disorder, and 132 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 5: it's just a mental disorder where you have you know, 133 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 5: very high highs and low loads. So I was really 134 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 5: irritable at this time, hormonal. I would cry and then 135 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 5: the next second I would be fine. So my feelings, 136 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 5: my mood would fluctuate, and this kind of scared him, 137 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 5: and I didn't know the answers, and I don't know now. 138 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 5: I am undergoing treatment. I am undergoing you know, therapy 139 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 5: and talking with the psychiatrist, but I just can't help 140 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 5: but feel so guilty. I feel like I sabotaged my 141 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 5: relationship with him because of this mental health disorder, and 142 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 5: I guess I just want advice on how to move 143 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 5: past this. You know, he blames it all on me. 144 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 5: He had his part too, but he blames the downfall 145 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 5: of the relationship on me, and I just need some 146 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 5: help and clarity because I am a good person. I'm 147 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 5: going through this treatment and he just doesn't want to 148 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 5: see that. So I would appreciate any help. 149 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: Ah Mamasita. First of all, it is in no way 150 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: all of your faults. A relationship is a two way street. 151 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 1: Each person has to carry their weight, and he also 152 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 1: needs to take responsibility for his actions or maybe his reactions, 153 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: And I think if you want some closure for the 154 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 1: sake of your heart and emotional stability, I would suggest 155 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: that if you can't have a conversation with him over 156 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: the phone, write him an email, text him, send him 157 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 1: a letter to his house explaining if you feel it 158 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: in your heart to apologize for your part without expecting 159 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: him to apologize, knowing your heart that you know what. Yes, 160 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 1: you did not know all the answers, and you were 161 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: just recently diagnosed and now a lot of things are 162 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: going to make sense and you're going to feel more 163 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 1: balanced because you're going to give you the medication that 164 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: you need, and you're going to find someone that's going 165 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: to understand that now that you understand what you're going through. 166 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,439 Speaker 1: Unfortunately you weren't aware of it then when you were 167 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: with him. But again, that's not all your fault, and 168 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: you can't keep carrying that. Don't let him get into 169 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 1: your head because it's not going to let you move 170 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:30,839 Speaker 1: forward and heal from this. So if part of your 171 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:35,320 Speaker 1: healing is to get closure, then I definitely suggest that 172 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: you express this feeling. And if you do feel guilty 173 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: and you say I want to apologize for this, that 174 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:45,839 Speaker 1: without expecting him to apologize or even respond, as long 175 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: as you let it out, that's going to help you 176 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 1: so much. You leave it on that letter or in 177 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 1: that text or in that email, and you close that 178 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: door and you have to forget about it and move 179 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 1: on with your life. You can't live with this guilt. 180 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 1: It's not going to allow you to move forward in 181 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: any way. But apologizing and doing your part is definitely 182 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 1: part of your closure and your healing journey. So absolutely 183 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 1: do it, and don't let him get in your head, okay, 184 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: because he also needs to take accountability and responsibility for 185 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: what he did. There's no way in the world it's 186 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 1: just your fault. No, that goes to tell me he 187 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,719 Speaker 1: wasn't the right guy for you. Just saying all right, 188 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: I hope that helps VIDIA. I'm sending you a big, big, 189 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:31,439 Speaker 1: big Okay, guys. Our last question comes from Liseth. 190 00:10:31,920 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 6: On the Tikis podcast Medicando medic Persona, Narcissa, the MIAs 191 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 6: and the mantratos. A problema is economicals on the media, 192 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 6: economia um momento caravajoo jose. 193 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 3: You know. 194 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 6: So corsia topzo you know in quadrona solution. 195 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 3: Are perfect al? 196 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: Yes, really said is let's splikaki alos listeners, Hey sola 197 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 1: me teki astantlas. So Basically, Li said is asking for 198 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: advice because she's been with her partner for twelve years 199 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 1: now and she's realizing after the listening to the podcast 200 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 1: that he is a narcissist and she knows that she 201 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: wants to leave him, but she is staying because financially 202 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:11,719 Speaker 1: she doesn't feel that she can do it herself, and 203 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 1: he feels very confident in that. So she's asking what 204 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: what my advice to her is, well, no lisaid is 205 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:45,599 Speaker 1: specials a la as cecialmente and economic amente. Noepas this 206 00:12:48,280 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 1: solamente special maltra, noias o and contral you know, familiar 207 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 1: manna plao para que t le pis al mahino algin 208 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: into familiar into some st the po that you are 209 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:26,080 Speaker 1: in Felice in els valises confido, Let's casas when os 210 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:35,199 Speaker 1: are pereo your second fasil is movie f relation Jolo 211 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: Perot tennis heir to the tennis tennis can control a 212 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 1: manera l k. 213 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 3: A c. 214 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:58,439 Speaker 1: As over time, tempore pia much internet perog to that 215 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 1: you are so basically you, guys. I totally said that 216 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:04,559 Speaker 1: she needs to get a job. If she doesn't have 217 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 1: a job, or if she already has a job, start 218 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: doing overtime, or get a second job so that she 219 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: can go ahead and save money to leave this relationship, 220 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 1: or ask a family member or friend somewhere where she 221 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 1: could just couch her for a little bit, stay with someone, 222 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:19,120 Speaker 1: but for her to just put her pride to the 223 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 1: side and ask for help, because if you really want 224 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: to where there is a will, there's a way, I 225 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 1: told her, because she can't stay in this relationship if 226 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: he's mistreating her and not giving her what she needs 227 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 1: as a woman and she's unhappy. She can't stay there 228 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 1: just because financially she's afraid to leave. So I told 229 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 1: her to just find a way, because there is a way, 230 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: we just have to look for it and be willing 231 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 1: to ask for help. So, yes, you guys, that concludes 232 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 1: our episode. Okay, okay, you guys, thank you so much 233 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: for listening to this episode of Dear Cheeky's. I love 234 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: listening to all of your questions, and I really hope that, 235 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 1: even if it's not your question that I'm answering, I'm 236 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 1: helping you in some way, because that's what I'm here 237 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 1: on Earth force to help in any way that I 238 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 1: possibly can. It is what makes me happy. And if 239 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: you haven't left me a voicemail yet with a question, 240 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 1: please do so. I'd love to hear from you. It 241 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: could be about anything and everything. At speakpipe dot com, 242 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 1: slash Cheekys and Chow podcast you guys, see you on 243 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:24,600 Speaker 1: the next one. 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