1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:01,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they excited. 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 2: Tell me about it. 3 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on. 4 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 2: The price to go out in our diaries, except we 5 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 2: say them aloud. We call them blogs. 6 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 3: Paulina, Yes, thank you so much to your blog. I 7 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 3: need everybody's opinion on something that I have been thinking 8 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 3: about and it's been heavy in my heart because I 9 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 3: feel like I do this okay. And it's not because 10 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 3: oh yeah, I'm cheap sometimes, but it's not because I'm 11 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 3: cheap or because I'm not thoughtful. But if I receive 12 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 3: a gift or a present or something and I don't 13 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 3: meanything meaningful like I receive like my you know, like grandmother's, 14 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 3: I don't know, like. 15 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 4: Something you know meaningful. I'm not talking about that. 16 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 3: I'm talking about just like a gift from like the 17 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 3: dollar store or something or something very small. And if 18 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 3: I don't necessarily want it because I maybe don't see 19 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,319 Speaker 3: me using it or being in my home, is it 20 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 3: inappropriate or tacky to like regift it? 21 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 2: Do someone give you something ugly and you don't and 22 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 2: so well you just said I don't want it in 23 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 2: my home? That makes you think show well, I'm a. 24 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 4: I can't say a minimalist animal minimalist. 25 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: You did say it, and I'm not. 26 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 3: I'm minimal I don't like a lot of things. I 27 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 3: don't have anything on my walls, like I'm not there yet. 28 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 3: I only have a kitchen table. Guys like you, guys 29 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,119 Speaker 3: know where I'm at, Like mentally, I'm not there. So 30 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 3: I feel like I'm not going to just put like 31 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 3: a random photo frame or a candle or something just 32 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 3: randomly sitting in a random place. 33 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 4: We're trying to. 34 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 5: Keep in general very okay, all right, because I was 35 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 5: about to. 36 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 3: See so this gift I received was very thoughtfull, very 37 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,479 Speaker 3: kind from a very nice person. I tried to give 38 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 3: it to everybody in this room, and everybody said, no thing. 39 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: It's also a very specific gift. 40 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 4: Specific, right, and it should be meaningful, yes. 41 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 2: So I can't say what it is. No, I would 42 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 2: rather know it's a very specific thing. You would have 43 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 2: to own this thing product to use the you have 44 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: to own one of these to use it. And we 45 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 2: tried to hand it to everyone in the room, but 46 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 2: I don't happen to have one of these things, so 47 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 2: it really wouldn't be appropriate for me. So it's a 48 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 2: it's a really narrow, narrow audience for this particular. 49 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 4: Name engraved on it. 50 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 2: It's things from right, it might as well be it's 51 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 2: a lot of that says I love you. She wants 52 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 2: me to wear that. 53 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 3: Guys, Okay, it is specific, correct, but I feel like 54 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 3: you could really make use of it if if you're 55 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 3: into certain brains or just certain things. Sorry, we're trying 56 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 3: to keep in general, my bad, my bad, a certain 57 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 3: certain animal. 58 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: I don't care. 59 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 2: It says it's a frame, and it says best French 60 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 2: bulldog ever, and she's trying to give it to me, 61 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 2: and I don't have a dog. 62 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 1: I don't have that product. I was trying to be vague. 63 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 4: Okay, she's the one who took it there. 64 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 2: And now you're trying to pass this thing out to everybody. 65 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 2: It's a very nice gift. I agree, you just there's 66 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 2: just no use for it. You don't know what you're gonna. 67 00:02:58,040 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 3: Do with it. 68 00:02:58,360 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: You love that in your eye. 69 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 4: I do think I know where I can send this. 70 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: To French Bulldog Rescue. 71 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 4: Well, they would love it. 72 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 3: And yes, I actually have a friend who just had 73 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 3: to put her friend sheet down unfortunately last week. 74 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 4: So I was like, you know what, this is a 75 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 4: really good time. 76 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 1: I don't know it's meaningful. You can't used to be the. 77 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 4: Best French can just cross it out. 78 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: You know, I don't like it. 79 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 2: I don't think it's nice that your dog just died 80 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 2: and you're sending a frame that's reminding him how great 81 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: the dog. 82 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: I mean, maybe I don't know. 83 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,519 Speaker 3: That was meaningful, Like Kayle and your dog passed away unfortunately, 84 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 3: Like if I gave you a framed picture of your dog, 85 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 3: would you be. 86 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: Like, but with the title best ever on the top. 87 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 4: Of Okay, maybe I'll rethink that. I know. 88 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 5: I'm not into judging like it kind of gives people 89 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 5: give me so I hear what you're doing. But I 90 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 5: think it's meaningful for you, and you should put your 91 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 5: best friend Scheet in there. 92 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 4: Guys, I don't got room to put this in my home. 93 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 4: You know what, I need to. 94 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 5: Advocate for Benzo because getting any attention over. 95 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 3: There, he's really lost a lot of Yeah, he has. 96 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 4: To see a photo of him. 97 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 5: He needs to see a photo of himself in your 98 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 5: home so he knows he still belongs. 99 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 4: Like nobody is more loved than my dog. I'll you 100 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 4: know what I mean. But yeah, that's the priorities Yeah. 101 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 3: In the words of Jason Brown, he thrives in chaos, 102 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 3: and he's had to thrive really hard the past two years. 103 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 2: I think regifting is nicer than you know, obviously throwing 104 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 2: away or wasting or not using. You just have to 105 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 2: be very careful about it because it has to be 106 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: in a completely different circle. And that's again pretty narrow 107 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 2: our audience there. You have to have the product. 108 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, you put a. 109 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 2: Picture of your snouzer in that one. You know it's 110 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 2: not gonna work. But me and my kid, No, you 111 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 2: could do with someone in the office. Did my my friend. 112 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 2: I have a friend who owns a candle company. I 113 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 2: don't get paid for this, enlightened candles, and she does 114 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 2: a great job out of Arizona. They're in Whole Foods regionally. 115 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 2: I'll have you know friend that I know, yeah, who 116 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 2: also does the readings. She's a therapist. Yeah, she's great. 117 00:04:56,480 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 2: But she she made special candles for my mom. My 118 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 2: mom has a like a I guess a fragrance she 119 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 2: likes or something, and she labeled them and the labels are, 120 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 2: you know, Amy's candles, and so there's a bunch of them, 121 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 2: and my mom came to town and gifted to a 122 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 2: former colleague of ours and Amy's candle, and my mom's 123 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 2: very proud of these, because we're not proud of it. 124 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 2: She didn't make it, but like she likes them a lot, 125 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 2: and she gives them the people she cares about. And 126 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 2: about six months later, not even that month later, I 127 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 2: saw Amy's candle on another coworker's desk and I said, 128 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 2: where did you get that? And I got it from 129 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 2: my birthday from so and so. Somebody literally just handed 130 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 2: it over and I guess they were too dumb to 131 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 2: realize that it's an extremely specific thing. 132 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 5: I hate that someone who also used to gave me 133 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 5: tried to give me something that was sent to the 134 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 5: station as like promo for an artist to me as. 135 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 4: A gift that they purchased. 136 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, gotta be careful. 137 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 5: So I was like, we didn't we just get a 138 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 5: ship with of these, and they were like yeah, yeah, all. 139 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 1: Right, yeah. 140 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 2: But I was like, well, I just saw it on 141 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 2: the desk. I'm like, well, these aren't available publicly. There's 142 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 2: only one place you could have gotten it. It's like, 143 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 2: oh yeah, so and gave it to me as a gift. 144 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 2: Like and the other thing is you're posing that you 145 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 2: went and bought that, Like you're acting so not only 146 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 2: are you regifting something that somebody thought was you know, 147 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 2: nice to give you, but I mean you you're making 148 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 2: it look like you actually went out and chowse that 149 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 2: for the person. 150 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 1: No, you just got rid of it. You can't. 151 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 2: You can't regift in the immediate circle. You've got a 152 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 2: regift outside of five mile radius. That's a great point point. 153 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 3: And just someone who has the product, Yes, you have 154 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 3: the product. 155 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:41,919 Speaker 2: Would anyone like the best French bulldog ever? Frame hit 156 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 2: a Paulina and she'll be happy to share it with you. 157 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 2: It's a very generous gift that she has no room 158 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 2: for it. That's right, you brought this up. Don't look 159 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 2: at me.